WEBVTT - Episode 56 Ft Choppa Zoe

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<v Speaker 1>Yo, yo, what's up? Is Angela yeates lip Service, Stephanie Santiago,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm G. G. Maguire And we have of course a

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<v Speaker 1>very special guests blogger from lip Service, Passport Cutty Hey.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we have our special guest Chappi Zell. Y'all doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you know him as an artist, but you also

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<v Speaker 1>know him from Money and Violence. Yeah, and now you

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm from lip service to Okay, Yeah, we know

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<v Speaker 1>you're into Um, you know what you do want money

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<v Speaker 1>and violence. I know that's not like how you are

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<v Speaker 1>in real life, because I'm sure sometimes people get that confused.

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<v Speaker 1>You deal with all kinds of issues, cheating and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. Um, we all deal with that, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sure do. Now we are going to talk about a

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<v Speaker 1>tip of the day. That's how we always set the show.

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<v Speaker 1>And today's tip of the day is can you be

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<v Speaker 1>friends with somebody that you slept with? How can you

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<v Speaker 1>be friends with somebody that you slept with? Or can

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<v Speaker 1>you not do that? Um? No, I've tried. It never

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<v Speaker 1>worked out for me, So I think once it's done, honest,

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<v Speaker 1>you just gotta leave, you know, let it be. But

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<v Speaker 1>if it wasn't your girlfriend, but just somebody you slept

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<v Speaker 1>with a couple of times. Uh, even with that, that

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<v Speaker 1>should get difficult too, you know what I'm saying, especially

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<v Speaker 1>with women, you know, specially with women. So I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's better all you ship. We're done. We're done. Not

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<v Speaker 1>even so you don't have any friends that you might

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<v Speaker 1>have slept with a couple of times, but no big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you always friends first. I got, I got one situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's like we're still cool with then it's still

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<v Speaker 1>like from a distance, you know, I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it could work personally. I wouldn't want my lady

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<v Speaker 1>to be working with you think she used to fun with?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh y'all still cool? Why? Because it could go down again?

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<v Speaker 1>What's it happening? It always could happen, So that's too.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Stephanie? No, I agree. Um, I can't. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't give it to the on how you can

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<v Speaker 1>be friends with somebody that you slept with before, because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, once I don't want to sleep with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done with them, Like I don't want them in

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<v Speaker 1>my life. But if it's business and they can make

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<v Speaker 1>you some money, now I was gonna get to that

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<v Speaker 1>now I feel like when you when you have a person,

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<v Speaker 1>when you sleep with right, and um, you guys are friends,

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<v Speaker 1>fun buddy, you know, um, somebody work with. But you

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<v Speaker 1>guys never had anything serious. You just let that together,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. I feel like you can

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<v Speaker 1>be cool but like I can't introduce you to my

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend like, oh, this is my boy you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? And for me, like in those situations, you

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<v Speaker 1>can kind of tell, like if I'm around all right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say I'm thinking of one person in particular, if

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<v Speaker 1>people will like, let's say I'm with this person and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people know this person, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're all together, the vibe is gonna be there. You're

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<v Speaker 1>still gonna be even though we're cool, we're not holding hands,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not holding each other's face, the vibe is there.

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<v Speaker 1>You could tell it's a little flirty. Yeah, like he's

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<v Speaker 1>thinking it and I'm thinking it, and we might be

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about later, you know what I mean. That's how

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<v Speaker 1>I feel. Ain't none of that, ain't no in between.

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<v Speaker 1>It's either yeah and I feel like you can't, like

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<v Speaker 1>you can't sleep with somebody and then be like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>this is my bro. I hate when people do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I hear you. Listen, I've never said with my brother

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<v Speaker 1>and my bro you know the fact that you said

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<v Speaker 1>that to me. The worst thing is is when you

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<v Speaker 1>first meet a female, say she fought with you right away,

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<v Speaker 1>and then now she want to take steps backwards. It's like, nah,

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<v Speaker 1>the second time I see you, it's like, now you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to take you out? You know what I'm saying, Nah,

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<v Speaker 1>now you gotta court me. I want to. That's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of backwards, That's what I'm saying. For me and somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>you set the tone for your relationship all the way.

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<v Speaker 1>You know on our mo if you meet someone and

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<v Speaker 1>you guys funk with all going out with nobody's seeing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you can't really get expect from the next.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean sometimes it does happen, because you can't

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<v Speaker 1>be mad if it don't happen, right, you can't expect

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<v Speaker 1>it to happen. If it do happen, then blessed to

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<v Speaker 1>see y'all. But if it don't, you can't be upset

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<v Speaker 1>that it didn't because you set the tone from the door. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>g what about you? You think that? Is there a

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<v Speaker 1>tip you can give on how to be friends with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody you slept with a couple of times. The tip

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<v Speaker 1>would be to start it off like that basically where

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<v Speaker 1>they were coming from with it. Like, if we're starting

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<v Speaker 1>off as fun buddies, then we always gonna be fun buddies.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna expect for you to be my nigga,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe my man. I'm not gonna expect for you to

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm your girl, but you can stop sucking and

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<v Speaker 1>still be cool. Absolutely. If it was like that, then

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<v Speaker 1>when you start involving feelings and relationships, then it's a

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<v Speaker 1>whole different conversation. But as long as we kept it

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<v Speaker 1>on something I'm gonna hit you up when I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get fun or I'm gonna you up when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying you know, I mean, then that's it. We keep

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<v Speaker 1>it one hunted. We do. We do. We keep one

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<v Speaker 1>hunting and that's it. If that's all I need you

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<v Speaker 1>for it and that's all I need you for and

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<v Speaker 1>if we're cool and that's what we're cool based off of,

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<v Speaker 1>then we can remain cool like that even when it's over.

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<v Speaker 1>No hard feelings. I just don't want to suck you

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<v Speaker 1>no more. Maybe I got a boyfriend now, or you

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<v Speaker 1>know maybe I'm I'm over your sex and I just

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<v Speaker 1>want something different, But you ain't didn't in the for

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<v Speaker 1>me not to be your friend. No more so we

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<v Speaker 1>still cody. As long as we left it on good terms.

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<v Speaker 1>It was no big falling out. You ain't trying to

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<v Speaker 1>play me. We just absolutely see nothing wrong with just

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<v Speaker 1>having a sexual relationship. Some women see something wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. Okay, yeah, I don't see anything. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't be friends after Some people feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like when you start off, when you when

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<v Speaker 1>you have sex fast, you're making it difficult to have

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<v Speaker 1>a serious relationship. Absolutely, you know what I'm saying. Like

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<v Speaker 1>unless you guys just click like that, like and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a there's a chance that you're not gonna just click

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<v Speaker 1>like that. You know. Hey, but now at this if

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<v Speaker 1>a girl has good pussy, you still donna want to

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<v Speaker 1>hit her up after that and might want to take

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<v Speaker 1>her out to see I don't, I don't see me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll stick to the script. I'm different, Like I know,

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<v Speaker 1>other dudes, they might start doing too much, and then

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<v Speaker 1>that's what sucks up the chemistry and what y'all first had,

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<v Speaker 1>because then you wanna you wanna put it in a

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<v Speaker 1>box first and then start playing with her and having

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<v Speaker 1>a naci being your mama. And but you ain't serious,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what? So men, Yeah, and let me not lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had that situation happened, Well, I don't have something

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<v Speaker 1>from him? And then Ship, you're down right like that boy?

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<v Speaker 1>I had to be. I'm in a situa like that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>got you? Yeah? Feeling me like the situation as well.

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<v Speaker 1>That person could become like Ships your spouse. You never

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<v Speaker 1>know what happened. Or you can date somebody and I

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<v Speaker 1>have sex with them for six months and then it

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<v Speaker 1>don't work out. Still, that's right exactly. You never can

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<v Speaker 1>work the opposite way to exactly that past part. Cuddy.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you be friends with somebody you fucked if the

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<v Speaker 1>sex wasn't good? What if I wouldn't even like you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if the if the dick was mediocre, you end up

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<v Speaker 1>being my homeboy? No? Are you good? I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be your friend. I don't want to know who

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<v Speaker 1>else you dealing with. I don't want to know what

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<v Speaker 1>else you're doing if you If I see you with

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<v Speaker 1>another girl, I'm gonna be a little jealous. So your

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<v Speaker 1>sex has to be trash for us to continue to

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<v Speaker 1>be really good friends. But why you wouldn't be mad

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<v Speaker 1>because if somebody's sex is trash, I'm gonna feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you really didn't put forth the effort. No, but they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Some sounds they put forth the effort, and it's sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it's not the sex. Sometimes it's just that dick is

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<v Speaker 1>not big enough for good enough for whatever. Right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the words, guy, I don't know how he puts like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know why you're just not my fit. That's the worst. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the when you got to try to show a

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<v Speaker 1>bit like I don't what is you doing? But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's good to you, of course, But I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying not, well, not if the bitch doing the wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>what is wrong? And she just don't know what she's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>She just does that happening. You know when nigga say,

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<v Speaker 1>when nigga say, oh, teacher, how the teacher just try

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<v Speaker 1>like just try, just try presented his wife. How many

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<v Speaker 1>girls can't suck dick? Would you say, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about the percentage like that you experience like, oh, that's

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<v Speaker 1>too many. I ain't gonna say that ain't too many.

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<v Speaker 1>Ship We're in a freaky world. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a lot of savages. You come do you

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<v Speaker 1>come past them getting your dick sup, because some guys

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<v Speaker 1>they take them a long time. Some guys is quick. Um, Ship,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a long period, so can't come from getting out.

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<v Speaker 1>I've number come on what's long? I've heard about that

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<v Speaker 1>about what's long? I've had experience as well. Ship. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>there twenty thirty minutes, but that's not bad. Forty five minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and then I'm not taking nobody minutes sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no for heafy minutes for heaf I think I

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<v Speaker 1>said absolutely, There's been times that I'm just in the

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<v Speaker 1>mood to something. Yeah, that's what I was. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>you thinking. Like this where don't like but when you

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<v Speaker 1>tell a guy, when you tell the guy, don't come

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<v Speaker 1>and make him when it come, even more, you switch

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<v Speaker 1>it up on him when you know he's about to come.

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<v Speaker 1>You switch it up on when I know he's about

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<v Speaker 1>to come. Get off, and like you know, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you take take a brain that time now and then

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<v Speaker 1>I go back to work too much? Good woman like

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<v Speaker 1>com down right? Absolutely don't come yet. But you know

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<v Speaker 1>I think a woman who likes to suck you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's gonna want to do it like that. That's what's like. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>there's been a time in your life that you have

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<v Speaker 1>something dick for an hour. Absolutely, maybe longer than that,

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<v Speaker 1>because I wanted guys, I want you to know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>taking breaks in between. But I'm not taking breaks to stop.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm taking breaks to like cash my breath, fix my hair,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, get my hair out of my mind. He's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to like I think ideally you should have sex

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<v Speaker 1>and then go back to that, and then have sex

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<v Speaker 1>and then go back to that. Well, yeah, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good round. So I'm talking about just just straighthead, straight hair,

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<v Speaker 1>just because you want to do it. You just like it,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the best time real ship when she just

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<v Speaker 1>want to do it. Yeah, that when you gotta force it,

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<v Speaker 1>like passport cutting. I never want to I don't. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do it, and then you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to do like second, I don't never want to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I do break I'm doing. I'm doing. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>do it all the way. Do But if I got

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you with something my dick, we're done all

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<v Speaker 1>the way. That should be automatically when you're when you're

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<v Speaker 1>vibing on somebody, I don't feel like he should have

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<v Speaker 1>to ask. If you ask what I'm doing. The first

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<v Speaker 1>time you have sex with somebody, you don't expect the

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<v Speaker 1>second day you want the first you got to they

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<v Speaker 1>always want it. I'll be real with y'all. I'm not hey.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's selfish. I'm not eating to push the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, but I'm being real. But about the second time,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Mike. So if you expect the second let me

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<v Speaker 1>sae because I don't have a bit turn me on

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<v Speaker 1>so crazy. Well, it was like ship, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, so I've been there. It's not my norm.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say that guys don't eat as

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<v Speaker 1>much pussy as girls. Sunday guys do not, although it

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<v Speaker 1>depends because there's some guys that do that every time

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<v Speaker 1>you have sex. But I said, like, oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>eat every every girl pussy. I believe him because there's

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<v Speaker 1>look so many guys that really don't, and they expect

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<v Speaker 1>head but they do not. They expect it and if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't do it, it's a problem, but they don't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Reciprocation. What about you do you you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like giving how did you expect to get your pussy?

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<v Speaker 1>E in? Um, I'll be very nervous getting my pussy.

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<v Speaker 1>Why like the first time. The first time, I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit nervous. Yeah, Like after the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, but that first time, I'm like a little nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just let them do it for two seconds

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<v Speaker 1>just to say they did it, and then I'll be like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, all right, right, you know what I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like. It's terrible when a guy can't eat pussy good,

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<v Speaker 1>even that's vibe. And then they think you're moving because

0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:38.800
<v Speaker 1>it feels good, but you really moving because if you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make it feel good, like I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing when they're doing it. If if it

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<v Speaker 1>feels really good, then I tell them to stop. Also

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't want to come. Yeah, if I come,

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<v Speaker 1>then we're not gonna be able to because I can come.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to come in your mouth, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>want your dick. I can't back that. I'm gonna I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I like getting sucked after I come from getting my

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<v Speaker 1>pussy eating. But it's you've got to just go for

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<v Speaker 1>it because I let me say no, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>watch because don't touch me. Just give me a dick,

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<v Speaker 1>don't let my titties, don't let out my neck. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>you can kiss me and put your dick in me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it? Now? Would you come in the girl and

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<v Speaker 1>then eat her? Help? Ain't about that life. I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>even got no kids. That's what snowball. Snowball coming a

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<v Speaker 1>girl's mouth. That the poor star ship that's Is that

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing? No, that's not the same thing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not it's lift. No, not coming in. It's lip not

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<v Speaker 1>like she got come dripping out her mouth and nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>She swallowed it. You're not gonna make a snowball when

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<v Speaker 1>it's still there. It's still there. It's still there, dripping

0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:02.800
<v Speaker 1>and you kip, don't live something. Is it weird if

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<v Speaker 1>you come on a girl's face and then she just

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<v Speaker 1>goes to sleep, or do you excuse her to like

0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:09.319
<v Speaker 1>wash her face? I just better to get up and

0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:17.440
<v Speaker 1>wash her face to the pillar. The most surprising thing

0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:19.640
<v Speaker 1>is when you don't see to come at all, when

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like damn, you spit it out like what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? And she's like what you women to spit

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<v Speaker 1>it out. No, I'm just saying like when the past experiences,

0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:31.960
<v Speaker 1>when the woman just always run to the bad ground.

0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:35.360
<v Speaker 1>You got the savage. You're talking to her, you like them,

0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:41.720
<v Speaker 1>you go and she talked right back. That's the best.

0:14:41.880 --> 0:14:45.840
<v Speaker 1>That's the best situation. Doesn't matter to you if a

0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:48.960
<v Speaker 1>girl's face is at a turn off or doesn't that matter? Man?

0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:54.360
<v Speaker 1>After I'm good when something good, what you do with it?

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<v Speaker 1>Your hell? It's not Alex told it under her and

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<v Speaker 1>then and then just wop what I hold it? No,

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<v Speaker 1>you just gotta hold it on because I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to such the top of what if it a lot

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<v Speaker 1>and then it won't fit under there. It's never that

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<v Speaker 1>much because someone get I don't know, you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>where it goes. I just hold it. I just hold

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<v Speaker 1>it and then walked to be surprised. If you just

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<v Speaker 1>put it the dick in the back of your throat

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<v Speaker 1>when he's coming out, you won't taste it. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>to do it, that's the way to do it. You

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<v Speaker 1>get the dick so far back in your throat that

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<v Speaker 1>when he comes it shoots right down your throat. You

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<v Speaker 1>never know what's going wrong. You taste it, you just

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<v Speaker 1>feel the throbbing and then there's no more. Come. You

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<v Speaker 1>could always get him the sugar come and it can

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<v Speaker 1>taste really good. Yeah, sugar come, your come can tastes good.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't into all of them gadgets of ship. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not exactly all right because you know you just be

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<v Speaker 1>having like all this jail and ship. No, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>into tying you up all that type of ship. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about like the cream. Don't You don't do

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because you kind of need that for you.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not something you can't be cause you can't

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<v Speaker 1>go in the It ain't something you know too much careful, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just did it for her. I've never guess you

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<v Speaker 1>never used LUSA. Ain't you couldn't have an know dry

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't. I don't know it wasn't dry. If your

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<v Speaker 1>buts wet, that's IM proud of issue. Did he spit

0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:50.600
<v Speaker 1>on it looking on you? He was sucking out your

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<v Speaker 1>bootyole first? Then of course you don't need no. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I never still need loutle that My asshole is

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<v Speaker 1>like virgin anshole. That thing is too tights. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do it like it's not like something I do,

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<v Speaker 1>but especially why I would think you would need to

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<v Speaker 1>see I don't know, some type of slipping slide. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it was like just wet from when you get

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<v Speaker 1>turned on, like I don't know, not from my ass

0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:16.600
<v Speaker 1>it was probably it probably dripped down from Probably was

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<v Speaker 1>like some juice that came down. Now, I wanted to

0:17:25.720 --> 0:17:28.800
<v Speaker 1>ask you guys about this, I'm sure y'all. Also the

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<v Speaker 1>instagram after the Cavaliers one that Rihanna put up what

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<v Speaker 1>she called Lebron Bay and a lot of people had

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<v Speaker 1>issues with that. Now is it ever okay to call

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<v Speaker 1>a Maryman Bay and post this picture? Um, it depends

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<v Speaker 1>on who you are. I think it's a case by

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<v Speaker 1>cage situation. Yeah, we all know that she was just joking.

0:17:51.760 --> 0:17:54.800
<v Speaker 1>But you know, someone couldn't get the wrong impression of

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<v Speaker 1>what she said and how she said it and take

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<v Speaker 1>it the wrong way. And I just hope that Savannah

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<v Speaker 1>didn't take it the wrong way, because I'm sure with

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<v Speaker 1>Rihanna didn't mean it like that, but it just looks

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<v Speaker 1>like what say that, Well, we don't know, we're gonna

0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:13.080
<v Speaker 1>assume that she didn't mean it like that. Hent well

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<v Speaker 1>and right like as a man, would you feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh man, why did she do that? Are you making

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<v Speaker 1>me hot? Like? Depending on who it is, because then

0:18:23.040 --> 0:18:25.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, even with me being on the show, I

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<v Speaker 1>get man crushed mondays and that ain't none of my control,

0:18:29.080 --> 0:18:34.119
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? You know, yeah, that you've

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<v Speaker 1>been in contact. No, no, don't give me but see

0:18:37.040 --> 0:18:40.320
<v Speaker 1>that's but again, that's different because I had girls that

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<v Speaker 1>I messed with before for my past, and then it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>now you're doing it like that. We don't don't try

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<v Speaker 1>to maybe see like you feel me? So it like

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<v Speaker 1>she said, it depends on who it is. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like if you're I think celebrity to celebrity is

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<v Speaker 1>a little exactly exactly, so I fail to celebrity is

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<v Speaker 1>different fancy exactly. It's different married or not, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? I agree because it was a thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>they just posting Bay a thousand, but husted out because

0:19:12.720 --> 0:19:21.720
<v Speaker 1>she liked to be naked naked even so I think

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<v Speaker 1>also too, it's because who she is. Would you have

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<v Speaker 1>to give you a man a pass for Rihanna? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I wouldn't thank you. I was about to say,

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<v Speaker 1>what type of some people feel like I meant say, listen,

0:19:37.400 --> 0:19:39.840
<v Speaker 1>some girls doun there like, well it's Brianna. I would

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<v Speaker 1>go kill who would get a pass posting my man?

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<v Speaker 1>Would be like mother Mary? What about I'm sure some

0:19:56.359 --> 0:19:58.800
<v Speaker 1>of your friends and everybody know your man. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>call him babe and anything nick on home. Bro Yeah, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>bro bro Yeah, But what if they What if somebody

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<v Speaker 1>what if somebody posted him bay l O L though

0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:09.800
<v Speaker 1>with the l O L at the end. Again, it

0:20:09.880 --> 0:20:12.959
<v Speaker 1>depends on who it is. Right. If it was Rihanna,

0:20:15.320 --> 0:20:17.440
<v Speaker 1>I would think she's playing. She don't want my man,

0:20:18.920 --> 0:20:20.880
<v Speaker 1>and that's the main thing here. We're like, she don't

0:20:20.880 --> 0:20:26.280
<v Speaker 1>want my man. But I mean, you never know. People

0:20:26.359 --> 0:20:29.240
<v Speaker 1>just be regular with money, you know. Let me tell you.

0:20:29.440 --> 0:20:36.080
<v Speaker 1>There is this woman on his Instagram that that post

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<v Speaker 1>comments like bay comments and her eyes and I wish

0:20:40.040 --> 0:20:41.560
<v Speaker 1>I knew you. I wish I could meet you. I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I could be your woman like type ship And

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<v Speaker 1>I look at it and laugh because like really good

0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:53.320
<v Speaker 1>likes me. But what if she was cute? Uh? Now,

0:20:53.440 --> 0:20:57.399
<v Speaker 1>if she was cute, I would block her. I would go,

0:20:57.560 --> 0:20:59.159
<v Speaker 1>I would go with his phone and I would just

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<v Speaker 1>block her. So you're intimidated about the fact she she

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<v Speaker 1>bad lady. You know, I'm just saying, well, I would

0:21:08.480 --> 0:21:10.480
<v Speaker 1>hardly block or a bagger, it depends on how I felt.

0:21:10.680 --> 0:21:15.760
<v Speaker 1>But black or a bagger, it depends on. We'll teach

0:21:15.760 --> 0:21:17.960
<v Speaker 1>you a lesson. Yeah, oh you want to be bad bitch?

0:21:18.040 --> 0:21:21.119
<v Speaker 1>You are Bay? Come in? Know what if that's you cutty?

0:21:21.200 --> 0:21:24.960
<v Speaker 1>Somebody post your man and put Bay. That's what happens

0:21:27.280 --> 0:21:33.919
<v Speaker 1>because he cheats Jesus, Oh goodness. Yeah, it's just been stressful.

0:21:35.520 --> 0:21:39.480
<v Speaker 1>That happens life, that happens. How do you handle that?

0:21:40.680 --> 0:21:45.440
<v Speaker 1>I listen, if you gotta fight over your man, don't

0:21:45.440 --> 0:21:46.879
<v Speaker 1>you feel like he should make sure you don't be

0:21:46.920 --> 0:21:49.600
<v Speaker 1>in no situations? Of course I was younger though, so

0:21:50.119 --> 0:21:55.359
<v Speaker 1>I was just like going crazy trying to protect something

0:21:55.440 --> 0:21:59.240
<v Speaker 1>that couldn't even be protected. But now I'll just be like,

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<v Speaker 1>have a I don't care. You don't care, no, not

0:22:03.440 --> 0:22:04.879
<v Speaker 1>like that, Like if you want, if that's what you

0:22:04.920 --> 0:22:06.800
<v Speaker 1>want to do, if that's what it hasn't happened recently,

0:22:07.320 --> 0:22:09.560
<v Speaker 1>But if it wasn't happened. Now that I'm older, I

0:22:09.600 --> 0:22:13.240
<v Speaker 1>would definitely be like, please go be with her. She

0:22:13.680 --> 0:22:15.680
<v Speaker 1>wants you to be big, Like I don't want to

0:22:15.720 --> 0:22:17.800
<v Speaker 1>be with you, like I would not do that, but

0:22:18.040 --> 0:22:19.959
<v Speaker 1>if it was something, if it was somebody like Rihana,

0:22:20.240 --> 0:22:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, please be with her anyway because it's

0:22:23.119 --> 0:22:26.359
<v Speaker 1>her get us and takes to the content, right. But

0:22:27.520 --> 0:22:29.159
<v Speaker 1>I've gone through that for a long time. But it

0:22:29.280 --> 0:22:31.919
<v Speaker 1>was like real personal and serious. I was going crazy. Now.

0:22:31.960 --> 0:22:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Another thing that I saw was obviously people did a

0:22:34.240 --> 0:22:37.160
<v Speaker 1>lot of means about Killani, you know, because of Curry

0:22:37.240 --> 0:22:40.440
<v Speaker 1>having and now you don't want the championship, and she

0:22:40.600 --> 0:22:43.920
<v Speaker 1>actually posted to him as well, you know, congratulations, I

0:22:44.040 --> 0:22:46.040
<v Speaker 1>love you and all of that, but she first had

0:22:46.040 --> 0:22:48.560
<v Speaker 1>to leave her Instagram. Now have you ever been with somebody?

0:22:48.600 --> 0:22:50.760
<v Speaker 1>And after y'all broke up, she ended up doing way

0:22:50.880 --> 0:22:54.360
<v Speaker 1>better and you kind of felt bad? Oh yeah, hell yeah,

0:22:54.359 --> 0:22:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I've been there. I don't boy some harsh broken. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually, um, I used to talk with his stylish

0:23:03.359 --> 0:23:06.000
<v Speaker 1>and I see her now she all the way live

0:23:06.640 --> 0:23:09.000
<v Speaker 1>if it was I'm lit too, So we're good. But

0:23:10.040 --> 0:23:13.720
<v Speaker 1>but still like it's dope to see her do better.

0:23:13.840 --> 0:23:16.359
<v Speaker 1>But then it was like, damn, you're feel at the

0:23:16.440 --> 0:23:20.080
<v Speaker 1>same time because a couple of like you ever heard

0:23:20.080 --> 0:23:23.359
<v Speaker 1>her up and be like, yo, congrats no, man, because

0:23:23.800 --> 0:23:33.840
<v Speaker 1>she the big hand and then alone. Now I ain't

0:23:33.880 --> 0:23:36.320
<v Speaker 1>thought with after that. Just let him because I know

0:23:36.400 --> 0:23:39.200
<v Speaker 1>what I did. So you deserve all this happy this

0:23:39.359 --> 0:23:41.520
<v Speaker 1>week for real, like for real. But if I had

0:23:41.520 --> 0:23:45.560
<v Speaker 1>somebody doing really bad after you break up, they look terrible, climber,

0:23:46.560 --> 0:23:50.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm a savage, I'll be like, manun that bit. I'm

0:23:50.320 --> 0:23:52.320
<v Speaker 1>being honest. You ever had to deny the pussy like

0:23:52.520 --> 0:23:54.159
<v Speaker 1>she looks so bad? You'd be like, I ain't never

0:23:55.080 --> 0:23:58.720
<v Speaker 1>oh man, yeah, yeah, you light on your dick. Man.

0:23:58.880 --> 0:24:03.120
<v Speaker 1>One time I met her bell her pictures lie all

0:24:03.200 --> 0:24:06.560
<v Speaker 1>the way when I tell you she was bro catfish.

0:24:07.160 --> 0:24:10.080
<v Speaker 1>They made that show for I'm talking about. When she came,

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<v Speaker 1>I just couldn't believe it was like the same person

0:24:13.600 --> 0:24:15.840
<v Speaker 1>and me, I don't I don't know how to look

0:24:15.880 --> 0:24:18.160
<v Speaker 1>stupid lying fel me. You could tell it right away,

0:24:18.640 --> 0:24:21.240
<v Speaker 1>so I only knew how to be real with it.

0:24:21.320 --> 0:24:22.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like, man, this ain't gonna work. She's like,

0:24:23.040 --> 0:24:25.440
<v Speaker 1>what what you mean? It is up? And I felt

0:24:25.440 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 1>bad about that ship a few days later, wasn't her angles?

0:24:28.560 --> 0:24:30.960
<v Speaker 1>And then she took the pictures That wasn't it was?

0:24:31.320 --> 0:24:33.600
<v Speaker 1>It was a learning lesson when they when they won't

0:24:33.640 --> 0:24:40.080
<v Speaker 1>show everything. Just no. If you get us and it's

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:46.159
<v Speaker 1>I'm here to here, it's for reasons. It's like the above,

0:24:46.440 --> 0:24:50.520
<v Speaker 1>or if it's on the Teddy fat and like. And

0:24:50.600 --> 0:24:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I then had to ask myself when I look back

0:24:52.800 --> 0:24:54.560
<v Speaker 1>on her page, I'm like, yeah, you're a dumb nigger.

0:24:55.040 --> 0:24:58.080
<v Speaker 1>Because I studied her page. I'm like, bro, I ain't

0:24:58.320 --> 0:25:02.439
<v Speaker 1>I've seen her body probably twice in a blurry picture

0:25:08.520 --> 0:25:11.280
<v Speaker 1>around that time, so don't come. And you felt bad

0:25:11.320 --> 0:25:13.200
<v Speaker 1>about it. I felt bad about it because the way

0:25:13.240 --> 0:25:15.280
<v Speaker 1>I did it, because I ain't even got a lot

0:25:15.320 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 1>of where I wouldn't want to know about to do

0:25:16.880 --> 0:25:18.920
<v Speaker 1>that to nobody. But she had to know she cafish,

0:25:19.119 --> 0:25:28.840
<v Speaker 1>though she did she like Jon. A few days later,

0:25:28.920 --> 0:25:32.440
<v Speaker 1>I replayed the scenario. She popped up at the crib.

0:25:33.280 --> 0:25:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I popped down like a matter of fact, No, a

0:25:37.240 --> 0:25:39.000
<v Speaker 1>matter of fact. I didn't even want her to know

0:25:39.080 --> 0:25:41.159
<v Speaker 1>why stage so I had meet her. I met her

0:25:41.200 --> 0:25:44.200
<v Speaker 1>light by a little juice bob by m crib went

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:49.080
<v Speaker 1>and when she popped up, she already seen me. So

0:25:49.160 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 1>when I seen her, I wasnt but she seen me already,

0:25:54.560 --> 0:25:57.880
<v Speaker 1>so she started approaching me, and boy, I hit it. Listen,

0:25:57.920 --> 0:26:01.119
<v Speaker 1>I gotta go listen. Man, my bad wrong time you

0:26:01.200 --> 0:26:02.960
<v Speaker 1>feel me? And I felt bad as far after that.

0:26:03.119 --> 0:26:07.560
<v Speaker 1>She knew that because she didn't know, you know, like

0:26:07.680 --> 0:26:10.800
<v Speaker 1>I said, because I just left the right there, like

0:26:11.359 --> 0:26:14.480
<v Speaker 1>literally on the street. Yeah I went here, but I'm

0:26:14.480 --> 0:26:16.920
<v Speaker 1>a bunished but it was a learning listen, and you're

0:26:16.920 --> 0:26:20.960
<v Speaker 1>not gonna do that no more, never again never. Yeah,

0:26:21.480 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 1>well right now, I'm straight. I got a little shoulder,

0:26:23.600 --> 0:26:26.159
<v Speaker 1>but if I was to meet anybody, got to be

0:26:26.240 --> 0:26:33.680
<v Speaker 1>in person, to risk all the way, all the way

0:26:33.840 --> 0:26:35.719
<v Speaker 1>that Stephanie ever been with a guy, and he started

0:26:36.160 --> 0:26:42.080
<v Speaker 1>doing way better after y'all broke up. No after that's

0:26:42.160 --> 0:26:48.520
<v Speaker 1>the mistake. I haven't mad like all my access, with

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:50.880
<v Speaker 1>the exception of my son's father, because he's a hard

0:26:50.920 --> 0:26:55.520
<v Speaker 1>working man. Like they always they declined, yeah, they declined.

0:26:55.560 --> 0:26:58.440
<v Speaker 1>They always get worse, Like they don't start looking better

0:26:58.560 --> 0:27:01.760
<v Speaker 1>with a's. They don't do nothing in special, like they

0:27:01.920 --> 0:27:05.280
<v Speaker 1>haven't been successful one that guy's you know, slept on

0:27:05.560 --> 0:27:11.199
<v Speaker 1>and then it's like, what's up? You get those dms.

0:27:12.200 --> 0:27:14.720
<v Speaker 1>I haven't, Like, I can't really think of somebody that

0:27:14.880 --> 0:27:18.720
<v Speaker 1>I was with before and lean they're doing really they're

0:27:18.760 --> 0:27:21.640
<v Speaker 1>doing way better than before. I think I usually get

0:27:21.680 --> 0:27:24.200
<v Speaker 1>them in their prime and then you destroy them. And

0:27:24.280 --> 0:27:30.080
<v Speaker 1>then I just destroyed given the best sex they ever

0:27:30.160 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 1>had in their bite, their head gotten. Yeah, I just before.

0:27:36.720 --> 0:27:42.119
<v Speaker 1>So nah, it's like living two different lives. I remember

0:27:42.160 --> 0:27:45.800
<v Speaker 1>how baitches treated nigger when you fat like ship, some

0:27:45.880 --> 0:27:48.080
<v Speaker 1>real ship, you know. Yeah, you see the fat fly

0:27:48.240 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 1>niggers with the bitches. And I was one of those

0:27:50.400 --> 0:27:53.280
<v Speaker 1>two but obvious sitting her line. And if I say

0:27:53.359 --> 0:27:57.160
<v Speaker 1>it's any comparison, it's a whole new world. Yeah, did

0:27:57.240 --> 0:28:03.600
<v Speaker 1>get bigger. They always say it's got or it's just

0:28:03.680 --> 0:28:06.359
<v Speaker 1>bigger in proportion. To know it got way bigger, Like

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:11.960
<v Speaker 1>that's insensive enough for a man to lose weight. Making

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 1>it's true, like everything's happened. Because they say that the

0:28:16.400 --> 0:28:20.480
<v Speaker 1>weight presses down on the gland that allows it to expand,

0:28:21.440 --> 0:28:24.120
<v Speaker 1>to grow to the point where I always so much weight.

0:28:26.240 --> 0:28:31.160
<v Speaker 1>I had a bone right here, man, I didn't even

0:28:31.160 --> 0:28:32.920
<v Speaker 1>know I had these bones right here. I was ready

0:28:32.960 --> 0:28:36.560
<v Speaker 1>to go to the doctor. Was wrong. I'm telling I'm

0:28:36.600 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 1>telling you, how did you lose that much weight? Just

0:28:40.040 --> 0:28:43.959
<v Speaker 1>change the way I eat out? Yeah, I'm for Florida.

0:28:44.440 --> 0:28:46.240
<v Speaker 1>So I work out, you know, five six days a

0:28:46.320 --> 0:28:48.720
<v Speaker 1>week to be still big in the first place, though,

0:28:48.840 --> 0:28:52.800
<v Speaker 1>just eating a lot of so we eat number rice then,

0:28:53.000 --> 0:28:56.720
<v Speaker 1>so from seven years old, that's all I ate rice,

0:28:56.880 --> 0:29:00.560
<v Speaker 1>rash rice rice. You know. So at thee that ship

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:03.920
<v Speaker 1>along and drinking too maybe well, and I ain't really

0:29:04.000 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 1>know drinking like that, so I ain't really never had

0:29:06.760 --> 0:29:09.720
<v Speaker 1>that problem. It was she, if anything, drinking solder and

0:29:09.800 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 1>ship like that, cool aids and sugar. Yeah, you can

0:29:13.240 --> 0:29:16.160
<v Speaker 1>literally pour on pounds. That's what most people don't understand.

0:29:16.200 --> 0:29:18.000
<v Speaker 1>People don't count the calories and the stept that they're

0:29:18.080 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 1>drinking exactly. They worry about what they eating and not

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:23.520
<v Speaker 1>worry about what they drinking. You probably got way more

0:29:23.600 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 1>stammin and now too. Boy, I've been told I too

0:29:29.840 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 1>long for real, Like nigga, this is annoying. You lost

0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:38.959
<v Speaker 1>that weight? Yeah, yeah, what about you got any excess

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:41.560
<v Speaker 1>that they did way better after you broke up with them,

0:29:41.760 --> 0:29:43.440
<v Speaker 1>and you was like, dad, all my exes is dada

0:29:43.480 --> 0:29:45.840
<v Speaker 1>in jail. You already know that. Somebody did say why

0:29:45.880 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 1>all is dead? It's not my fault. I only killed

0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:50.800
<v Speaker 1>one and I really didn't kill him. That's just a joke.

0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:54.040
<v Speaker 1>That's I joked this between us. He passed away because

0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:55.680
<v Speaker 1>he had a heart attack. But we joke and say

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I killed him because he had a heart attack while

0:29:57.160 --> 0:29:59.920
<v Speaker 1>he was having sex my ex. My other ex that

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:02.920
<v Speaker 1>passed away is my daughter's father. Um, he passed away

0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:05.640
<v Speaker 1>very tragically, and I never joke about that. Um. It

0:30:05.800 --> 0:30:09.280
<v Speaker 1>just so happened that that would make number two of

0:30:09.360 --> 0:30:13.040
<v Speaker 1>my exes that are no longer with us. UM. It's

0:30:13.080 --> 0:30:15.400
<v Speaker 1>not even just um excess. I have a couple of

0:30:15.480 --> 0:30:17.840
<v Speaker 1>niggas that I just was like fucking that passed away

0:30:17.880 --> 0:30:20.240
<v Speaker 1>as well. I don't know. I might be the back however,

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:25.360
<v Speaker 1>but my exes, let me say, jail, jail. I got

0:30:25.480 --> 0:30:28.320
<v Speaker 1>one X that is probably still around and doing okay,

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 1>But I don't care because I'm doing okay too, And

0:30:31.320 --> 0:30:34.760
<v Speaker 1>he was doing okay. He was and he was he

0:30:34.920 --> 0:30:36.680
<v Speaker 1>was doing okay. I mean when I met him, he

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:39.360
<v Speaker 1>was a retired baseball player, and then when we were together,

0:30:39.440 --> 0:30:42.760
<v Speaker 1>he opened up a car service business in Atlanta. So

0:30:43.240 --> 0:30:45.440
<v Speaker 1>the car service business at this point is doing very well.

0:30:46.120 --> 0:30:47.920
<v Speaker 1>Broke up with him because he had a baby while

0:30:47.960 --> 0:30:50.240
<v Speaker 1>we were together, and you know, his son is doing

0:30:50.280 --> 0:30:51.960
<v Speaker 1>good and his you know, he's okay with his life,

0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:55.280
<v Speaker 1>but it does not. I don't care. I always say

0:30:55.280 --> 0:30:57.400
<v Speaker 1>that it's too because I tell people you cannot be

0:30:57.520 --> 0:30:59.680
<v Speaker 1>friends with your ex right when your first break up.

0:30:59.760 --> 0:31:02.720
<v Speaker 1>Maybe later on down the line, like after a year,

0:31:02.880 --> 0:31:04.680
<v Speaker 1>when you over it, and if your friends with your

0:31:04.840 --> 0:31:06.520
<v Speaker 1>x y'all still sucking And that's the only reason why

0:31:06.560 --> 0:31:09.440
<v Speaker 1>your friends because you're still sucking, right, I always tell

0:31:09.480 --> 0:31:13.040
<v Speaker 1>me you got to stop. It's still no. I have

0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:17.160
<v Speaker 1>to admit. When um, when my son's following I broke up,

0:31:17.280 --> 0:31:19.760
<v Speaker 1>we were arch enemies, like we hated each other, we

0:31:19.840 --> 0:31:22.840
<v Speaker 1>would kill each other, not not for but once we

0:31:22.920 --> 0:31:25.960
<v Speaker 1>started having sex again in between him, and then that's

0:31:26.200 --> 0:31:28.680
<v Speaker 1>when things got a little better. Than we stopped having sex,

0:31:28.800 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 1>it's got a little bad and now it's complicated years later.

0:31:33.680 --> 0:31:36.000
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. You cannot be friends right right away.

0:31:36.400 --> 0:31:38.960
<v Speaker 1>Once you agree passport cutty, you friends with any of

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 1>your x is right away? Oh you had to wait?

0:31:42.280 --> 0:31:46.400
<v Speaker 1>Um yeah, I had to wait. But they was not.

0:31:46.840 --> 0:31:49.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean they actually all they're not doing better than me,

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:53.240
<v Speaker 1>but they're doing better than they were going right, Um,

0:31:53.920 --> 0:31:56.840
<v Speaker 1>So I kind of like upgraded them and then they

0:31:56.920 --> 0:31:59.280
<v Speaker 1>were like Wow, would you leave me if I'm doing

0:31:59.360 --> 0:32:01.840
<v Speaker 1>better now, I'm like, I'll make another you. I don't care.

0:32:04.640 --> 0:32:06.200
<v Speaker 1>Didn't of your exers that could call you and you

0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 1>would help him out? Um? Oh, that's a good question. Me.

0:32:12.800 --> 0:32:15.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but I remember back when I had

0:32:15.080 --> 0:32:19.640
<v Speaker 1>broken up with my boyfriend, uh several years ago. He

0:32:19.880 --> 0:32:24.000
<v Speaker 1>needed to move out into his own apartment and I

0:32:24.160 --> 0:32:25.760
<v Speaker 1>was young at the time, so I didn't even have

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:29.560
<v Speaker 1>any credentials to help him, but my grandmother co sign

0:32:29.720 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 1>for his apartment. I was like, whatever, to get him

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:34.960
<v Speaker 1>out the funk out of here because I just don't

0:32:35.040 --> 0:32:37.680
<v Speaker 1>want to be with him. No more her credit. No,

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 1>he actually has been doing very good, so that's good.

0:32:41.320 --> 0:32:43.680
<v Speaker 1>That's a risky thing, man. I don't be playing around

0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:48.240
<v Speaker 1>with my credit. Yeah, but around my credit when I

0:32:48.320 --> 0:32:50.000
<v Speaker 1>was in my twenties and the stripper because I didn't

0:32:50.000 --> 0:32:51.800
<v Speaker 1>care about credit because I had money. So I'm like,

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:54.160
<v Speaker 1>I'll make money every day that credit. They can pulish

0:32:54.160 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 1>in my credit. I don't need a credit cash money talk,

0:32:56.960 --> 0:32:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you know. But as I gotten older, and I when

0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:01.000
<v Speaker 1>I stopped bancing it, and then as I got older,

0:33:01.040 --> 0:33:03.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm really really serious about my credit and I'm very

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:05.120
<v Speaker 1>proud to say that when I go on credit card

0:33:05.120 --> 0:33:11.480
<v Speaker 1>when my ship is in the green. Real you can't,

0:33:11.560 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 1>but that's your name. I don't want to to not

0:33:14.160 --> 0:33:16.640
<v Speaker 1>be friends no more because if I CoA signed something. Listen,

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:18.800
<v Speaker 1>one reason that you might not be friends with somebody

0:33:18.880 --> 0:33:24.240
<v Speaker 1>or before them is over money. Absolutely, we do bad

0:33:24.280 --> 0:33:27.479
<v Speaker 1>business if you whether I can't funk with you at all,

0:33:27.640 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 1>like and sometimes you can't even do business with your

0:33:30.400 --> 0:33:35.320
<v Speaker 1>spouse all the time because that might sunk out the relationship. Now, Listen,

0:33:35.360 --> 0:33:37.320
<v Speaker 1>I had a big argument at work about this the

0:33:37.400 --> 0:33:39.720
<v Speaker 1>other day, right me Shana, and because I was saying,

0:33:39.760 --> 0:33:43.560
<v Speaker 1>it's hard to date a person, whether it's a you know,

0:33:43.800 --> 0:33:46.160
<v Speaker 1>you're dieting another guy or you're ditting a girl or whatever.

0:33:46.240 --> 0:33:49.080
<v Speaker 1>It's hard if they're not doing well and they're broke

0:33:49.160 --> 0:33:52.360
<v Speaker 1>because not just that they don't have money, but because

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.360
<v Speaker 1>of their spirit. A lot of times guys that aren't

0:33:56.400 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 1>doing well, they're very depressedive, very down. They're not eat

0:34:00.160 --> 0:34:02.960
<v Speaker 1>to be around. They don't feel so great about themselves.

0:34:03.000 --> 0:34:05.640
<v Speaker 1>Same things with women. Yeah, you date a girl and

0:34:05.760 --> 0:34:07.920
<v Speaker 1>she's not doing so good and she's broke, she don't

0:34:07.920 --> 0:34:10.400
<v Speaker 1>have no job, it's not necessarily the fact that they

0:34:10.440 --> 0:34:12.440
<v Speaker 1>don't have a job. It could be just that they

0:34:12.560 --> 0:34:16.200
<v Speaker 1>feel defeated. They have an attitude. Then you know, they

0:34:16.239 --> 0:34:18.600
<v Speaker 1>make you feel bad about doing well. But they said

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:22.279
<v Speaker 1>you should stick it through and maybe somebody that's a

0:34:22.320 --> 0:34:25.920
<v Speaker 1>case about case scenario. Um, I feel like you you

0:34:26.800 --> 0:34:29.439
<v Speaker 1>being around somebody like that, that's like cancer. You're gonna

0:34:29.480 --> 0:34:31.840
<v Speaker 1>infect yourself, you know what I mean. A miserable you

0:34:31.840 --> 0:34:36.200
<v Speaker 1>don't want to misery company. A miserable likes miserable. So

0:34:36.640 --> 0:34:38.759
<v Speaker 1>if you're if you find something with a miserable person

0:34:38.800 --> 0:34:42.440
<v Speaker 1>all the time because they're not doing well financially, it

0:34:42.520 --> 0:34:44.560
<v Speaker 1>has That's why I like to be with people who

0:34:44.640 --> 0:34:48.960
<v Speaker 1>are successful, not only just not only dating as my friends,

0:34:49.400 --> 0:34:52.840
<v Speaker 1>just because you know, like like like, and you know,

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:54.759
<v Speaker 1>if you want to get it's not because I want

0:34:54.800 --> 0:34:57.399
<v Speaker 1>their money. I don't want anything from them. I want

0:34:57.400 --> 0:35:02.520
<v Speaker 1>to get my own. But that energy. If managing people,

0:35:02.520 --> 0:35:04.360
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have a positive outlook. And even I'm not

0:35:04.440 --> 0:35:06.000
<v Speaker 1>even saying you gotta have a lot of money. I'm

0:35:06.000 --> 0:35:08.359
<v Speaker 1>just saying you gotta be ambitious and her work, get

0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:10.400
<v Speaker 1>up and get out even if you're not making a lot.

0:35:10.520 --> 0:35:13.000
<v Speaker 1>But you can pay your bills, you know, and you're

0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:16.719
<v Speaker 1>just getting by. That's all good. I don't have I

0:35:16.760 --> 0:35:20.399
<v Speaker 1>don't been fucked up and my shoulder help me down,

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:23.000
<v Speaker 1>feel me, and now I'm in a better place. And

0:35:23.880 --> 0:35:26.160
<v Speaker 1>she I don't know about how other niggas operate, but me,

0:35:26.440 --> 0:35:30.520
<v Speaker 1>she always gonna be straight because she always, always always

0:35:30.560 --> 0:35:33.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna be no matter if I sunk up, she gotta

0:35:33.160 --> 0:35:36.160
<v Speaker 1>leave me. You fear me because she's gonna always be

0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:38.080
<v Speaker 1>one hunting good because she helped me down when I

0:35:38.160 --> 0:35:41.920
<v Speaker 1>was sucked up. You feel me? So that got a

0:35:42.000 --> 0:35:44.160
<v Speaker 1>vouch for something, you know what I'm saying. So for me,

0:35:44.320 --> 0:35:50.160
<v Speaker 1>it's it depends. It really really depends on up and everything.

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:55.600
<v Speaker 1>If I was washing dishes, I also think if she

0:35:55.719 --> 0:35:57.840
<v Speaker 1>met me and I was washing dishes and I was

0:35:57.960 --> 0:36:01.160
<v Speaker 1>making eight dollars an hour with really nothing else going on,

0:36:01.719 --> 0:36:04.200
<v Speaker 1>then yeah, her reaction might have been different. But to

0:36:04.320 --> 0:36:08.319
<v Speaker 1>see somebody like me, that's young, that's driven, that's that's

0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:10.480
<v Speaker 1>out here and a whole different city trying to do

0:36:10.560 --> 0:36:12.920
<v Speaker 1>what I'm doing, she said to herself, like, hold on,

0:36:13.320 --> 0:36:16.640
<v Speaker 1>this nigga got potential. I'm stand by, you know what

0:36:16.680 --> 0:36:18.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, ain't not wrong with that fear me, and

0:36:18.880 --> 0:36:21.920
<v Speaker 1>so it goes either way. It goes either way because

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:24.080
<v Speaker 1>she was the person that bought me in a good

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:26.080
<v Speaker 1>spirit to beat the niggay in right now on some

0:36:26.239 --> 0:36:30.160
<v Speaker 1>real ship. So it takes it takes a certain type

0:36:30.200 --> 0:36:32.799
<v Speaker 1>of woman to even do that. It take a certain

0:36:32.840 --> 0:36:35.040
<v Speaker 1>type of niggative even do that. You know what I'm saying.

0:36:35.160 --> 0:36:38.000
<v Speaker 1>Everybody got there? You feel me? How long it's too

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:39.920
<v Speaker 1>long to do that? How long is too long to

0:36:40.000 --> 0:36:44.000
<v Speaker 1>hold somebody down? Though? Because I've held people down while

0:36:44.360 --> 0:36:47.120
<v Speaker 1>they didn't have it, But then I have not had

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:50.320
<v Speaker 1>good experiences with that. I felt like I've been with

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:53.839
<v Speaker 1>people who have money. They fell. I held it down,

0:36:54.520 --> 0:36:59.680
<v Speaker 1>but they got too comfortable and they they started they

0:36:59.719 --> 0:37:02.920
<v Speaker 1>went and being grateful to now taking it. Yeah, Like

0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:05.320
<v Speaker 1>before it was like, oh you an't got it like that. Okay,

0:37:05.440 --> 0:37:07.799
<v Speaker 1>I'll pay or I'll buy you, you know, I'll give

0:37:07.880 --> 0:37:09.800
<v Speaker 1>them a gift. And then now the next thing is like,

0:37:09.880 --> 0:37:13.640
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, and I'm seeing some stuff. You know, I'm

0:37:13.719 --> 0:37:19.000
<v Speaker 1>looking like hold but that's not a man. But when

0:37:19.040 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 1>you would do too much, That's why I learned moderation,

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:27.200
<v Speaker 1>because I probably spoiled them so bad that I carners.

0:37:27.560 --> 0:37:29.239
<v Speaker 1>On one hand, you don't want them to feel bad

0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:32.160
<v Speaker 1>asking you for something and you just just was dealing

0:37:32.239 --> 0:37:36.279
<v Speaker 1>with because the perfect you like that. Initially, I think

0:37:36.320 --> 0:37:40.319
<v Speaker 1>it's always like somebody Now it was like that. At

0:37:40.360 --> 0:37:43.520
<v Speaker 1>first they hit it. They hit it until they got comfortable.

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:46.440
<v Speaker 1>Trust me, it was like that from the dope, like

0:37:46.560 --> 0:37:48.360
<v Speaker 1>when they were doing when they were doing for me.

0:37:49.480 --> 0:37:51.799
<v Speaker 1>They were doing for me at first. Then felt then

0:37:51.840 --> 0:37:53.920
<v Speaker 1>they have the money, and then I tried to pick

0:37:54.040 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 1>up this that yeah, and then when I left their ass.

0:37:58.239 --> 0:38:00.960
<v Speaker 1>Now they back up and they be trying to get back.

0:38:01.120 --> 0:38:03.360
<v Speaker 1>But it's too long to hold somebody down, That's what

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:05.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. It really depends, like you got to me,

0:38:06.239 --> 0:38:08.960
<v Speaker 1>It matters on the person action man or woman. It

0:38:09.040 --> 0:38:12.719
<v Speaker 1>matters on their actions. Like ship, you can't being if

0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:15.640
<v Speaker 1>I am holding you down. You gotta be making some

0:38:15.800 --> 0:38:20.160
<v Speaker 1>type of effort, do something, get out. That's one thing.

0:38:20.440 --> 0:38:22.719
<v Speaker 1>You know. It's crazy because she was holding me down.

0:38:22.760 --> 0:38:24.759
<v Speaker 1>But I ain't never stay with her. I still had

0:38:24.840 --> 0:38:27.520
<v Speaker 1>my own ship. If I ain't never stay with her,

0:38:27.719 --> 0:38:29.480
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, I still have my own place,

0:38:29.800 --> 0:38:32.279
<v Speaker 1>still did everything. It's just you know, her being a

0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:37.439
<v Speaker 1>crutch that was there when I needed it. She still

0:38:37.520 --> 0:38:40.359
<v Speaker 1>got her own ship. I ain't lean on her that much.

0:38:40.880 --> 0:38:45.440
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying exactly exactly, that's what counted,

0:38:45.440 --> 0:38:48.080
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? So I saying carry a nigger,

0:38:48.680 --> 0:38:51.399
<v Speaker 1>that's that's crazy. You can't care nobody but your son.

0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:54.200
<v Speaker 1>You feel me? So, now, have you ever had an

0:38:54.239 --> 0:39:06.319
<v Speaker 1>injury during sex? Cramps? Cramps? Yes, it's split a little vagina. Yes,

0:39:06.880 --> 0:39:11.240
<v Speaker 1>it was big. I was. He gave me a pse otomy.

0:39:11.560 --> 0:39:16.960
<v Speaker 1>What's his instagram? We don't even got one, but we

0:39:17.480 --> 0:39:24.799
<v Speaker 1>used to have sex. And then afterwards I started like discharging,

0:39:25.080 --> 0:39:28.320
<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't really from my vagina, but it was

0:39:28.480 --> 0:39:31.880
<v Speaker 1>like I had like this. It was just weird. Was

0:39:32.200 --> 0:39:35.080
<v Speaker 1>you had a discharge? Right? So not from your vagina? No,

0:39:35.520 --> 0:39:38.160
<v Speaker 1>like because it was like below. It was just crazy.

0:39:38.680 --> 0:39:41.120
<v Speaker 1>So I went to the doctor. And when I went

0:39:41.160 --> 0:39:45.640
<v Speaker 1>to the doctor, she looked and she was like, you're

0:39:45.920 --> 0:39:48.799
<v Speaker 1>split a little bit. So it was like trying to heal,

0:39:49.239 --> 0:39:51.799
<v Speaker 1>but you know, it's kind of warm and wet down there,

0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:54.320
<v Speaker 1>so it couldn't really heal because you can't put a

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:57.320
<v Speaker 1>band in. Yes, So then like they she said, I

0:39:57.480 --> 0:39:59.160
<v Speaker 1>was like, so, what I gotta do? She was like,

0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:04.400
<v Speaker 1>slow down next time, and I was like what I

0:40:04.600 --> 0:40:10.000
<v Speaker 1>was young? I was like and I remember, I just

0:40:10.200 --> 0:40:14.560
<v Speaker 1>really because it was like trying to self. No. He

0:40:14.600 --> 0:40:18.680
<v Speaker 1>didn't even like get in. No, I never had to

0:40:18.719 --> 0:40:22.440
<v Speaker 1>sunk his dick. You probably loved him. I did. I

0:40:22.600 --> 0:40:24.560
<v Speaker 1>got so spoiled and not wanted to do it because

0:40:24.560 --> 0:40:25.920
<v Speaker 1>I was with him for so long. He used to

0:40:25.960 --> 0:40:30.640
<v Speaker 1>be like, I don't want nothing that. I only want

0:40:30.719 --> 0:40:32.600
<v Speaker 1>what I know a woman could give me, which is pussy.

0:40:32.680 --> 0:40:34.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't want no girl sucking my dick. I don't

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:36.440
<v Speaker 1>want to suck nobody in the ask because what's the

0:40:36.440 --> 0:40:38.319
<v Speaker 1>difference between a guy and a girl doing that? Ship

0:40:38.440 --> 0:40:42.960
<v Speaker 1>No thank you from the sixties and from no he

0:40:43.160 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 1>did he didn't want so good. So he's like top

0:40:49.280 --> 0:40:59.839
<v Speaker 1>two as an injury. But one time, this guy has

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:02.960
<v Speaker 1>really big dick. He was sucking me at I just

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:07.080
<v Speaker 1>felt my pussy like really wet, and I'm like, damn, baby,

0:41:07.400 --> 0:41:09.319
<v Speaker 1>pussy so wet. And he looks and he's like, yo,

0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:12.800
<v Speaker 1>you're bleeding. So I'm like, wow, I can't be bleeding.

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing for my period for like two weeks

0:41:15.360 --> 0:41:19.080
<v Speaker 1>like this is impossible. So I'm glad I've led the

0:41:19.160 --> 0:41:25.200
<v Speaker 1>whole night. And then the next day it stopped hurt. No,

0:41:25.320 --> 0:41:29.799
<v Speaker 1>it didn't hurt. Went to the after the next day,

0:41:29.920 --> 0:41:32.759
<v Speaker 1>the day the day after, not that day that. I

0:41:32.880 --> 0:41:35.880
<v Speaker 1>woke up the day after that, and the doctor was

0:41:35.960 --> 0:41:44.360
<v Speaker 1>just like, you know, slow down, that's see, it's fragile

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 1>that that thing is like the fabea. You got to

0:41:47.120 --> 0:41:49.560
<v Speaker 1>be gentle with the pussy. One time, I was having

0:41:49.640 --> 0:41:52.120
<v Speaker 1>sex and I think, like you ever have sex with

0:41:52.160 --> 0:41:53.560
<v Speaker 1>somebody and they take their dick out and they put

0:41:53.560 --> 0:41:57.640
<v Speaker 1>it back in an air gets like stomach, Oh my god,

0:41:57.719 --> 0:41:59.840
<v Speaker 1>My stomach was hurt so bad. I couldn't go anywhere

0:41:59.840 --> 0:42:02.440
<v Speaker 1>if they pumping the basketball right. He said that they

0:42:02.480 --> 0:42:04.279
<v Speaker 1>put it back in and then air gets in your

0:42:04.320 --> 0:42:06.959
<v Speaker 1>stomach or something, and then it was like I wasn't

0:42:07.120 --> 0:42:09.640
<v Speaker 1>so much pass I was like doubled over in the

0:42:09.680 --> 0:42:13.480
<v Speaker 1>fetal position for like, oh my god. Yeah, I don't

0:42:13.480 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 1>know if that's really I was like, I just want

0:42:17.120 --> 0:42:21.919
<v Speaker 1>to like something, get it out of me. I don't

0:42:21.960 --> 0:42:25.239
<v Speaker 1>know what you can do for that. Man. You gotta

0:42:25.320 --> 0:42:32.440
<v Speaker 1>like press on that out, man. That's why that's why

0:42:32.520 --> 0:42:34.520
<v Speaker 1>they tell you you can't have sex and then take

0:42:34.560 --> 0:42:36.960
<v Speaker 1>it out and put it back in like that because

0:42:37.040 --> 0:42:39.279
<v Speaker 1>this ship hurt. My friend said that she was having

0:42:39.320 --> 0:42:42.960
<v Speaker 1>sex the other night and um, the fan was one

0:42:43.560 --> 0:42:49.200
<v Speaker 1>and called you right everything, like, really, you cannot have

0:42:49.360 --> 0:42:52.640
<v Speaker 1>sex with the fan on that ceiling fan draws that ship,

0:42:52.800 --> 0:43:01.239
<v Speaker 1>you see. She said no to say drive up from

0:43:01.280 --> 0:43:08.040
<v Speaker 1>the sea fans. They got the window ships like fans.

0:43:08.120 --> 0:43:09.640
<v Speaker 1>One of those fans were put in the middle of

0:43:09.680 --> 0:43:12.040
<v Speaker 1>the room, you know, the isolating fans. You got to

0:43:12.080 --> 0:43:14.279
<v Speaker 1>turn that fan off and just be sweaty. It just

0:43:14.600 --> 0:43:19.439
<v Speaker 1>drive everything. Personally, I like to have sweaty set the best,

0:43:19.640 --> 0:43:26.440
<v Speaker 1>make you feel like you not to me sweaty and

0:43:26.920 --> 0:43:31.080
<v Speaker 1>feeling the sweats back and then putting that. Okay that

0:43:32.160 --> 0:43:35.880
<v Speaker 1>the heads you got to get here, Yeah, girls were

0:43:35.960 --> 0:43:40.759
<v Speaker 1>good head like all of that shot. No, I'm like,

0:43:41.960 --> 0:43:44.200
<v Speaker 1>what am I getting my head? That guy like just

0:43:44.360 --> 0:43:52.200
<v Speaker 1>being scary. You could out you have no you gotta

0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:54.719
<v Speaker 1>like hang your head off the bad so I could

0:43:54.760 --> 0:43:57.400
<v Speaker 1>get something to the shower room too. I like, I

0:43:57.520 --> 0:43:59.520
<v Speaker 1>can't do what my hair A love. Every time I

0:43:59.600 --> 0:44:01.479
<v Speaker 1>had sex in the shower where we can never stay

0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:10.160
<v Speaker 1>in it sounds good and the idea is nice. It's cool.

0:44:10.480 --> 0:44:14.239
<v Speaker 1>It's cool. This guy has the shower and it has

0:44:14.280 --> 0:44:16.719
<v Speaker 1>like a whole bunch of shower heads and it's like

0:44:16.800 --> 0:44:18.919
<v Speaker 1>we'll leave the light on and we just look mad

0:44:19.040 --> 0:44:22.120
<v Speaker 1>good with that water dripping on. But does it feel

0:44:22.160 --> 0:44:24.040
<v Speaker 1>as good as if you're having sex in because having

0:44:24.080 --> 0:44:29.320
<v Speaker 1>sex in the shower is overrated and it really a

0:44:29.400 --> 0:44:32.719
<v Speaker 1>bench things you can do. Show where you can get

0:44:32.760 --> 0:44:34.520
<v Speaker 1>out of the water and still be in the shower

0:44:35.080 --> 0:44:40.120
<v Speaker 1>and had shower. Oh yeah, show. And you know, it's

0:44:40.200 --> 0:44:42.160
<v Speaker 1>nice to be up on the wall having sex, but

0:44:42.320 --> 0:44:44.359
<v Speaker 1>I think I like it more like to be down

0:44:44.440 --> 0:44:48.759
<v Speaker 1>on my knees and the water be jumping. I'm like sucking, yeah,

0:44:49.360 --> 0:44:51.680
<v Speaker 1>and you start hurting, and you'd be like, can we

0:44:51.760 --> 0:44:54.000
<v Speaker 1>wait to somewhere else. I don't think I feel pain

0:44:54.080 --> 0:45:00.080
<v Speaker 1>when I'm sucking. Thick as a quotable. Yeah, here and

0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:04.040
<v Speaker 1>wee second day goes around her on the floor. I

0:45:04.120 --> 0:45:11.520
<v Speaker 1>could be on the I got bruises on my knees,

0:45:11.640 --> 0:45:14.120
<v Speaker 1>but it didn't hurt where he was it. Yeah, yeah,

0:45:14.239 --> 0:45:16.440
<v Speaker 1>Jennualine is going, you know, that's his overrated sex in

0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:24.320
<v Speaker 1>the bathtub, Like you have sex in the bathtub like

0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:30.600
<v Speaker 1>a bubble back dirty. You did not want dirty as

0:45:31.520 --> 0:45:35.839
<v Speaker 1>skin cell bathwater from you and him up in your

0:45:35.880 --> 0:45:39.520
<v Speaker 1>vagina and can not bad. That's why, that's why, that's

0:45:39.520 --> 0:45:43.279
<v Speaker 1>why Beyonce said fill the tub up halfway and ride

0:45:43.280 --> 0:45:46.120
<v Speaker 1>it with my circle, because then she's staying on top

0:45:46.160 --> 0:45:48.239
<v Speaker 1>of the water and it's not really getting in the

0:45:48.840 --> 0:45:50.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm from New York City. When you went to the

0:45:50.600 --> 0:45:52.120
<v Speaker 1>public pool when you were a kid, they would make

0:45:52.160 --> 0:45:56.120
<v Speaker 1>you take a shower. Yeah, it's the same rule with bathtubs.

0:45:57.640 --> 0:46:00.200
<v Speaker 1>Put the soap, clean yourself and then getting the about

0:46:02.360 --> 0:46:04.880
<v Speaker 1>having sex in the tub. But when I'm taking when

0:46:04.880 --> 0:46:06.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm taking a bath, I'm taking a bath. Sometimes I

0:46:06.920 --> 0:46:08.640
<v Speaker 1>might take a shower afterwards. Like if I'm in the

0:46:08.719 --> 0:46:14.279
<v Speaker 1>tub and you're supposed to yeah, then I'm gonna want

0:46:14.320 --> 0:46:15.680
<v Speaker 1>to get in a tub to like rent all of

0:46:15.719 --> 0:46:23.480
<v Speaker 1>that off of me. A shower, my tub sex. Anyway.

0:46:25.760 --> 0:46:27.799
<v Speaker 1>I want to talk to Passport Cutty about this blog

0:46:27.880 --> 0:46:29.759
<v Speaker 1>that she wrote about where to meet guys because people

0:46:29.760 --> 0:46:32.440
<v Speaker 1>were getting upset about it. Right, she was listening to

0:46:32.480 --> 0:46:34.719
<v Speaker 1>different places where you can meet guys and what it

0:46:34.800 --> 0:46:37.840
<v Speaker 1>means if you meet them there. So you said at

0:46:37.880 --> 0:46:40.279
<v Speaker 1>home Depot, what kind of guys do you meet at home?

0:46:40.360 --> 0:46:42.560
<v Speaker 1>Depot the ones that will marry you and build you

0:46:42.640 --> 0:46:46.759
<v Speaker 1>a house. You're already married, right, they're already married. But

0:46:46.960 --> 0:46:52.799
<v Speaker 1>if you ever feeling down or ugly or self thing,

0:46:53.760 --> 0:46:57.359
<v Speaker 1>you go home. Every in there like damn, hey, how

0:46:57.400 --> 0:47:07.320
<v Speaker 1>are you doing? By the one? What is the people having? People?

0:47:07.920 --> 0:47:09.680
<v Speaker 1>It's all men at home people, So when they see

0:47:09.680 --> 0:47:12.560
<v Speaker 1>a woman, and especially an attractive women, they lose their mind.

0:47:12.800 --> 0:47:14.399
<v Speaker 1>They're not expecting to go in the home. You gonna

0:47:15.040 --> 0:47:17.560
<v Speaker 1>going on your little tiny ash chute and go to home,

0:47:17.680 --> 0:47:20.160
<v Speaker 1>deep house, and they're gonna say, what is a beautiful

0:47:20.200 --> 0:47:23.919
<v Speaker 1>woman like you doing here alone? Where's your husband? Looking

0:47:24.000 --> 0:47:35.200
<v Speaker 1>for him? But I'm not always where's your husband? Okay? Now,

0:47:35.280 --> 0:47:36.879
<v Speaker 1>what do you think if you had to give women

0:47:36.920 --> 0:47:39.399
<v Speaker 1>advice chapizo and where to meet a man? Where would

0:47:39.440 --> 0:47:44.080
<v Speaker 1>you say? Some good places to meet the man? Probably

0:47:45.120 --> 0:47:46.600
<v Speaker 1>like where do you be at? Where do your friends

0:47:46.640 --> 0:47:48.480
<v Speaker 1>be at? That you could be like, okay, if you

0:47:48.560 --> 0:47:50.879
<v Speaker 1>wanted me the man, not at the club. But yeah,

0:47:50.880 --> 0:47:53.040
<v Speaker 1>I was just gonna say, ship, I'll be in the

0:47:53.080 --> 0:47:59.600
<v Speaker 1>club a lot, so I probably st Okay, okay, let's

0:47:59.640 --> 0:48:03.359
<v Speaker 1>do this. What would you think for us as far

0:48:03.480 --> 0:48:06.040
<v Speaker 1>as if we met a guy somewhere, what that would

0:48:06.040 --> 0:48:08.120
<v Speaker 1>say about him? So one of the places was a

0:48:08.160 --> 0:48:10.440
<v Speaker 1>grocery store. What do you think about the guys that

0:48:10.480 --> 0:48:15.560
<v Speaker 1>are in grocery stores? Um? What does that mean about you? Listen,

0:48:16.760 --> 0:48:18.839
<v Speaker 1>niggas that's in the grocery store, shout out to y'all.

0:48:20.440 --> 0:48:23.600
<v Speaker 1>But if you mean the guy in the grocery store, Um,

0:48:24.000 --> 0:48:25.719
<v Speaker 1>you might get a nice guy, but you might not

0:48:25.840 --> 0:48:28.279
<v Speaker 1>get somebody that's ready for him because he worked in

0:48:28.280 --> 0:48:33.879
<v Speaker 1>the groceries Stoper. Okay, Well, he might be a type

0:48:33.920 --> 0:48:39.680
<v Speaker 1>of guy that's independent, that got his own crib. Because yeah,

0:48:39.680 --> 0:48:41.839
<v Speaker 1>because you might see me in the grocery store all

0:48:41.880 --> 0:48:44.640
<v Speaker 1>the time buying my own ship. What did you say

0:48:44.680 --> 0:48:47.240
<v Speaker 1>that meant? I said that man that he probably got kids,

0:48:48.440 --> 0:48:50.600
<v Speaker 1>and you better look at the shopping car because he

0:48:50.719 --> 0:48:55.319
<v Speaker 1>might have some juicy juice in there and she might

0:48:55.400 --> 0:48:59.440
<v Speaker 1>be going too, like you got a whole family, might

0:48:59.520 --> 0:49:02.759
<v Speaker 1>be single. Yeah, comeboy ji, y'all might know Jig in

0:49:02.800 --> 0:49:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Atlanta with the big beard, he cut hair. He worked

0:49:05.520 --> 0:49:08.200
<v Speaker 1>for BT. He from Philly. We like family. He kind

0:49:08.239 --> 0:49:11.200
<v Speaker 1>of like help raise me like I know him for

0:49:11.200 --> 0:49:14.000
<v Speaker 1>a very long time. Anyway, I follow him on Snapchat

0:49:14.080 --> 0:49:16.680
<v Speaker 1>and he cooks for himself. He's a bachelor, single, bachelor

0:49:16.920 --> 0:49:18.600
<v Speaker 1>is a good job, and he cooks for himself, and

0:49:18.640 --> 0:49:21.440
<v Speaker 1>he's always going grocery shopping. So when you said grocery store,

0:49:21.440 --> 0:49:24.320
<v Speaker 1>I thought of somebody like him, a guy that's a

0:49:24.360 --> 0:49:26.160
<v Speaker 1>bachelor with a good job that know how to cook,

0:49:26.200 --> 0:49:28.080
<v Speaker 1>and he and there buying. Would he about to make

0:49:28.120 --> 0:49:30.480
<v Speaker 1>for his bomb's dinner for the night. And I'm thinking

0:49:30.480 --> 0:49:37.359
<v Speaker 1>about a guy who using somebody EBC car. Can your

0:49:37.400 --> 0:49:41.719
<v Speaker 1>woman cook? Yeah? Anywhere? Is that? It's super important to

0:49:41.800 --> 0:49:49.000
<v Speaker 1>me a woman coming from this females? Yeah, yeah, you

0:49:49.040 --> 0:49:50.879
<v Speaker 1>know no more you know all that rice and ship

0:49:50.960 --> 0:49:55.440
<v Speaker 1>every day it's you know, cabbage and chicken. Earlier I

0:49:55.520 --> 0:50:01.640
<v Speaker 1>had like a chicken wrap healthy. Yeah. So what about

0:50:01.680 --> 0:50:04.800
<v Speaker 1>the work, I don't know. I've never been with somebody

0:50:04.880 --> 0:50:07.480
<v Speaker 1>at work online, but that was like sixteen. Somebody that

0:50:07.560 --> 0:50:11.319
<v Speaker 1>you work with have I don't think. The only time

0:50:11.360 --> 0:50:13.120
<v Speaker 1>I every dated somebody I worked with was when we

0:50:13.200 --> 0:50:15.480
<v Speaker 1>all worked at Macy's when I was in high school

0:50:16.000 --> 0:50:18.160
<v Speaker 1>and he ended up stealing stuff and I saw security

0:50:18.239 --> 0:50:22.000
<v Speaker 1>walk him out broke up with him. Then, yes, we

0:50:22.120 --> 0:50:25.760
<v Speaker 1>broke up after that. It's embarrassing, but he got escorted

0:50:25.840 --> 0:50:28.200
<v Speaker 1>out because he was stealing. But everybody was stealing. We

0:50:28.239 --> 0:50:29.920
<v Speaker 1>was in high school. We got the whole time I

0:50:30.040 --> 0:50:32.000
<v Speaker 1>ever dated somebody from working When I had a sugar

0:50:32.080 --> 0:50:35.239
<v Speaker 1>daddy I met in the strip club? Did you try

0:50:35.280 --> 0:50:38.400
<v Speaker 1>to make you leave? He was fine with that? Okay,

0:50:39.000 --> 0:50:41.360
<v Speaker 1>Well he was married. Did y'all see that woman on

0:50:41.480 --> 0:50:44.640
<v Speaker 1>World Start? That's a sugar baby and she has sugar

0:50:45.560 --> 0:50:47.920
<v Speaker 1>and she said that she's made over a million dollars

0:50:48.000 --> 0:50:50.600
<v Speaker 1>but guys just paying for her for everything. And she

0:50:50.680 --> 0:50:52.560
<v Speaker 1>has her kids on there talking about all they're going

0:50:52.600 --> 0:50:56.000
<v Speaker 1>to be sugar babies too when they grow up. She

0:50:56.160 --> 0:51:01.960
<v Speaker 1>looked crazy too. All the dudes, man, they always like

0:51:02.080 --> 0:51:04.879
<v Speaker 1>the crazy ship, Like when I go out of town

0:51:05.280 --> 0:51:08.960
<v Speaker 1>and the ship I see niggas do like, especially with

0:51:09.080 --> 0:51:13.240
<v Speaker 1>the bitches. Damn, that should be crazy, like mind blowing.

0:51:13.400 --> 0:51:15.600
<v Speaker 1>So I believe it and I've seen it when you're

0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:17.320
<v Speaker 1>talking about when I first seen I was like, who's

0:51:17.320 --> 0:51:20.279
<v Speaker 1>paying for what you feel? Me? But I had to

0:51:20.320 --> 0:51:24.200
<v Speaker 1>really think about how niggers are. Yeah, niggas paying for that.

0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever give your friends advice on their relationships?

0:51:27.440 --> 0:51:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Do they come to talk? Thing is I'd be real

0:51:30.760 --> 0:51:32.600
<v Speaker 1>with you, right like me and my should are we fresh?

0:51:32.800 --> 0:51:34.920
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. It's everything is so I

0:51:34.960 --> 0:51:37.920
<v Speaker 1>ain't no super relationship guy. I'm new to this ship too.

0:51:38.360 --> 0:51:40.560
<v Speaker 1>I'll be sucking up and you know what I'm saying,

0:51:40.640 --> 0:51:43.040
<v Speaker 1>So definitely don't come to me with that ship. I

0:51:43.160 --> 0:51:46.040
<v Speaker 1>might get you. Who do you guys talk to when

0:51:46.080 --> 0:51:48.919
<v Speaker 1>y'all need advice? Like, who do you somebody? Somebody that's

0:51:48.960 --> 0:51:52.120
<v Speaker 1>been in it longer, That's all I could say. Somebody's

0:51:52.120 --> 0:51:54.440
<v Speaker 1>being on it longer, Like I got my brother. He'd

0:51:54.440 --> 0:51:58.600
<v Speaker 1>been on the shoulder, um like twelve years, what I'm saying,

0:51:58.640 --> 0:52:01.239
<v Speaker 1>So that's somebody somebody you know valcohol that you know,

0:52:01.480 --> 0:52:04.720
<v Speaker 1>that's somebody I caohol that um ship the VP shine.

0:52:04.760 --> 0:52:07.320
<v Speaker 1>He'd been with his wife seventeen what something like that?

0:52:07.920 --> 0:52:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Eighteen years? You feel me? So we all still know

0:52:11.080 --> 0:52:13.040
<v Speaker 1>somebody like that, you know what I mean? That we

0:52:13.120 --> 0:52:16.320
<v Speaker 1>can haul that. But for me his niggas, it be

0:52:16.400 --> 0:52:20.400
<v Speaker 1>it'd be hard because we all bits, whether we forty

0:52:20.440 --> 0:52:26.960
<v Speaker 1>five fifty five niggas all got the same basset, you

0:52:27.000 --> 0:52:30.000
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. All they could do they could

0:52:30.000 --> 0:52:34.759
<v Speaker 1>really do. That's really it, but your girl like, damn,

0:52:34.800 --> 0:52:36.839
<v Speaker 1>you got skinny. You try to get cute and get

0:52:37.520 --> 0:52:39.959
<v Speaker 1>to the should I missed with right now. It wasn't

0:52:40.080 --> 0:52:42.640
<v Speaker 1>I want with her what I'm saying, I want with her.

0:52:42.840 --> 0:52:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Um the girl I was with at the time, she

0:52:45.960 --> 0:52:49.560
<v Speaker 1>was for that first goal, let's go, you're losing this weight, good,

0:52:49.680 --> 0:52:52.160
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. But after I lost fifty pounds,

0:52:52.960 --> 0:52:55.640
<v Speaker 1>now we're coming out the same block that she starts

0:52:55.640 --> 0:52:58.920
<v Speaker 1>seeing girls looking and she could not take it. She

0:52:59.040 --> 0:53:01.240
<v Speaker 1>couldn't take that ship. They're like, oh, now you're losing

0:53:01.280 --> 0:53:05.839
<v Speaker 1>too much. Week she for real or she became like, um,

0:53:07.080 --> 0:53:10.279
<v Speaker 1>I got it, it's jealousy, a little better about it

0:53:10.520 --> 0:53:13.280
<v Speaker 1>all the way. And then when I lost a hunted pounds,

0:53:14.200 --> 0:53:17.120
<v Speaker 1>she was like, oh no, that'sh it. You need to stop.

0:53:17.640 --> 0:53:21.960
<v Speaker 1>Then I lost another hunted pound. She wasn't just a

0:53:22.040 --> 0:53:24.160
<v Speaker 1>whole new person. It was hard because she was a

0:53:24.200 --> 0:53:26.120
<v Speaker 1>whole new person. She was happy at first, but then

0:53:26.160 --> 0:53:28.600
<v Speaker 1>she's like, oh, he getting too much attention. Yeah yeah,

0:53:28.719 --> 0:53:30.680
<v Speaker 1>So she couldn't take that ship. She couldn't take it,

0:53:31.480 --> 0:53:34.279
<v Speaker 1>and you you probably was acting a little different. No, No,

0:53:34.760 --> 0:53:37.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm a humble nigger. So I treated her the same way.

0:53:38.360 --> 0:53:41.600
<v Speaker 1>It was her insecurities that was like her selfies like

0:53:44.640 --> 0:53:48.200
<v Speaker 1>a little bit little Yeah, now here's something we were

0:53:48.239 --> 0:53:50.360
<v Speaker 1>talking about earlier. Can you hold it in when you

0:53:50.440 --> 0:53:53.480
<v Speaker 1>have some information on somebody that you're dating, Like, um,

0:53:54.040 --> 0:53:56.040
<v Speaker 1>I have a friend that her boyfriend used to cheat

0:53:56.080 --> 0:53:57.600
<v Speaker 1>on her, but she had the code to all his

0:53:57.680 --> 0:53:59.920
<v Speaker 1>stuff and he never knew it. For a full year.

0:54:00.000 --> 0:54:02.600
<v Speaker 1>Here she was checking all of his voicemails, all of

0:54:02.680 --> 0:54:05.080
<v Speaker 1>his emails, knowing exactly what he was doing, where he

0:54:05.200 --> 0:54:07.560
<v Speaker 1>was going, but never said nothing to him. She was like,

0:54:07.600 --> 0:54:09.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to time because I don't want him

0:54:09.040 --> 0:54:11.560
<v Speaker 1>to change his password. So did she eventually say anything?

0:54:11.719 --> 0:54:14.440
<v Speaker 1>They eventually broke up. But that's no way to being

0:54:14.480 --> 0:54:17.360
<v Speaker 1>a relationship, especially man, I'm coming over and I already

0:54:17.400 --> 0:54:19.399
<v Speaker 1>know you don't went on vacation with somebody else because

0:54:19.400 --> 0:54:22.359
<v Speaker 1>I checked your email and saw the itinerary, And now

0:54:22.360 --> 0:54:24.360
<v Speaker 1>I gotta act like nothing's wrong. And now I'm acting

0:54:24.400 --> 0:54:28.360
<v Speaker 1>like a bit in the relationship. Yeah, that's not that's stupid.

0:54:28.520 --> 0:54:31.160
<v Speaker 1>That's stupid. Should ever hear that's what you find out?

0:54:31.280 --> 0:54:33.880
<v Speaker 1>Leave that's it because I don't have a shower to

0:54:33.920 --> 0:54:37.000
<v Speaker 1>go on my phone and then tell me three days

0:54:37.120 --> 0:54:40.279
<v Speaker 1>later what you thought was gonna be happy to get

0:54:40.360 --> 0:54:44.800
<v Speaker 1>out of here, like for real, because like you should

0:54:44.840 --> 0:54:47.000
<v Speaker 1>have been in my phone then. But I'm just saying,

0:54:47.040 --> 0:54:50.279
<v Speaker 1>addressed me right away, addressed me right away. Why are

0:54:50.320 --> 0:54:52.359
<v Speaker 1>you making that the issue that it was three days ago?

0:54:53.160 --> 0:54:56.960
<v Speaker 1>What you mean because she because that means that she

0:54:57.080 --> 0:55:01.799
<v Speaker 1>knew what the fun I was doing, and she held on, Yes,

0:55:06.560 --> 0:55:08.319
<v Speaker 1>that's how Guys like, well you went in my phone

0:55:08.360 --> 0:55:12.840
<v Speaker 1>now now now guys be like, now that went in

0:55:12.880 --> 0:55:14.680
<v Speaker 1>my phone. Now, I can't trust you. I don't know

0:55:14.760 --> 0:55:17.040
<v Speaker 1>how this is gonna work. You've been like, well, hold on,

0:55:17.239 --> 0:55:21.279
<v Speaker 1>you were cheating on me. They don't care. You gotta

0:55:21.280 --> 0:55:24.560
<v Speaker 1>addrest it right away, like I can't hold it. Like

0:55:24.680 --> 0:55:26.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm the type of person if I get into of

0:55:26.280 --> 0:55:28.480
<v Speaker 1>my man's phone and I find one thing, I'm gonna

0:55:28.520 --> 0:55:30.359
<v Speaker 1>blow up. Off of that one thing, I'm not even

0:55:30.400 --> 0:55:32.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna see the rest of it. I'm not going to

0:55:32.480 --> 0:55:36.320
<v Speaker 1>get a chance immediately. Yeah, immediately, I'm like, I respect

0:55:36.400 --> 0:55:41.800
<v Speaker 1>that mode. Don't be fucking go go gadget building like

0:55:41.960 --> 0:55:46.479
<v Speaker 1>you the fans building the case you doing, because we'd

0:55:46.520 --> 0:55:50.680
<v Speaker 1>be having enough information to indict. But not convict, so

0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:56.319
<v Speaker 1>we be having that gall be lying right. Women know, listen,

0:55:56.360 --> 0:55:59.719
<v Speaker 1>one thing I know for sure, most women know exactly

0:55:59.760 --> 0:56:04.680
<v Speaker 1>what going on. They just ignore the ship. Just be happy.

0:56:05.880 --> 0:56:07.960
<v Speaker 1>Women know, you know what type of nigga you got.

0:56:08.120 --> 0:56:09.880
<v Speaker 1>You know the type of nigga he is when you

0:56:09.960 --> 0:56:13.680
<v Speaker 1>met him. Now, now we all now sometime men we lie.

0:56:13.840 --> 0:56:16.480
<v Speaker 1>We put on this mask just to get the pussy,

0:56:16.719 --> 0:56:18.680
<v Speaker 1>and then the mask come right off, the real, the

0:56:18.760 --> 0:56:21.200
<v Speaker 1>real nigga come out. You know. So a lot of

0:56:21.280 --> 0:56:24.640
<v Speaker 1>times women are tricked, But then you have the women

0:56:24.719 --> 0:56:28.120
<v Speaker 1>that inside they know. Let's be real, y'all. All of

0:56:28.400 --> 0:56:30.400
<v Speaker 1>here have been with a nigga and you know what

0:56:30.520 --> 0:56:33.720
<v Speaker 1>type of nigga he is, but I wasn't. Still, sometimes

0:56:33.760 --> 0:56:35.319
<v Speaker 1>you'll be with a guy and you have no idea

0:56:35.400 --> 0:56:38.040
<v Speaker 1>what he's like when he's not around you, Like, he's

0:56:38.120 --> 0:56:40.480
<v Speaker 1>different when he's around his friends. You could be with him,

0:56:40.560 --> 0:56:43.080
<v Speaker 1>he'd be so see and great to you, and then

0:56:43.520 --> 0:56:45.240
<v Speaker 1>next thing you know, he running trains with his boys.

0:56:45.480 --> 0:56:50.080
<v Speaker 1>You know what you'd be like, man, I know exactly,

0:56:50.320 --> 0:56:52.759
<v Speaker 1>And then they come back and they're like, you will

0:56:52.800 --> 0:56:55.239
<v Speaker 1>not believe what these guys did. You know, man, you

0:56:55.320 --> 0:56:59.359
<v Speaker 1>know I don't get involved in nothing like that. Those

0:56:59.400 --> 0:57:02.800
<v Speaker 1>the niggas that tell themselves what guys do be lying

0:57:02.920 --> 0:57:04.800
<v Speaker 1>like they'd be so good to you and you cannot

0:57:04.880 --> 0:57:07.000
<v Speaker 1>believe what they're really like. Always remember that if he

0:57:07.080 --> 0:57:10.320
<v Speaker 1>can't tell your story about his homeboys, they trying to

0:57:10.400 --> 0:57:12.920
<v Speaker 1>keep himself out to clear he didn't anything. That's the

0:57:13.000 --> 0:57:15.160
<v Speaker 1>oldest trick in the bull man that was out there,

0:57:16.880 --> 0:57:18.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, I just went to sleep. It was out

0:57:18.840 --> 0:57:24.520
<v Speaker 1>there last night, but went to sleep any when that

0:57:24.640 --> 0:57:27.360
<v Speaker 1>was third on the train. Yeah, that's why I always

0:57:27.360 --> 0:57:30.600
<v Speaker 1>said the first they tell true laws because they tell

0:57:30.720 --> 0:57:32.720
<v Speaker 1>some of the truth, but they leave out the part

0:57:32.800 --> 0:57:36.560
<v Speaker 1>that you would suck them up for so and sometimes

0:57:36.600 --> 0:57:38.600
<v Speaker 1>guys tell you a little too much information, Like they'll

0:57:38.640 --> 0:57:40.680
<v Speaker 1>tell you how wild they was. I don't want to

0:57:40.720 --> 0:57:43.040
<v Speaker 1>hear all that, right They'll be like, yeah, you know,

0:57:43.560 --> 0:57:45.400
<v Speaker 1>so then my boys there, and then I thought there

0:57:45.400 --> 0:57:48.840
<v Speaker 1>after that, and then like yeah I don't I don't know,

0:57:50.160 --> 0:57:52.040
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, and what about women? So if you found

0:57:52.080 --> 0:57:53.960
<v Speaker 1>out some information about a woman, you're gonna ask her

0:57:54.040 --> 0:58:00.400
<v Speaker 1>right away. Um. If yeah, you guys, guys hold ain't nothing.

0:58:00.840 --> 0:58:03.840
<v Speaker 1>They stick to like this cold of secrecy for something

0:58:06.200 --> 0:58:07.960
<v Speaker 1>right away if you come from if you find out

0:58:08.120 --> 0:58:11.680
<v Speaker 1>your girl you say wait until you do something. It

0:58:11.760 --> 0:58:13.480
<v Speaker 1>was like, yo, you know you know I've seen your

0:58:13.520 --> 0:58:15.680
<v Speaker 1>girl in the club doing that. You're gonna tell it

0:58:15.760 --> 0:58:19.040
<v Speaker 1>right away. I'm addressing that bitch right now today on

0:58:19.200 --> 0:58:22.320
<v Speaker 1>the spot. I ain't I ain't even wait for old

0:58:22.520 --> 0:58:25.040
<v Speaker 1>and that's too much time to but passed by. I

0:58:25.160 --> 0:58:27.600
<v Speaker 1>might not fear to say an tom are no, I'm

0:58:27.880 --> 0:58:29.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you right there, or I'm gonna come see

0:58:29.880 --> 0:58:31.400
<v Speaker 1>you right there. Me on the type of nigg I

0:58:31.440 --> 0:58:33.240
<v Speaker 1>don't call you because I want to see your face

0:58:33.320 --> 0:58:35.720
<v Speaker 1>when I when I'm telling yeah, I want to see

0:58:35.760 --> 0:58:39.320
<v Speaker 1>your face. Yea, I'm coming straight to pulling up. Yeah,

0:58:39.360 --> 0:58:42.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm pulling up and I'm addressing you right away. I

0:58:42.960 --> 0:58:44.600
<v Speaker 1>was just talking about this in the car with G

0:58:45.680 --> 0:58:48.480
<v Speaker 1>Like I was just chilling with, you know, a guy

0:58:48.560 --> 0:58:51.440
<v Speaker 1>that I date, and he brought something else to me

0:58:51.560 --> 0:58:54.960
<v Speaker 1>from February, and I can tell that it got him upset,

0:58:55.080 --> 0:58:59.680
<v Speaker 1>like it's in February. Yeah, telling He's like, it's true,

0:59:00.040 --> 0:59:01.960
<v Speaker 1>I know you was working with x y Z like

0:59:02.000 --> 0:59:05.400
<v Speaker 1>he was sucking with somebody out there in February, and

0:59:05.520 --> 0:59:08.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, I wasn't. And I was like explaining

0:59:08.320 --> 0:59:10.840
<v Speaker 1>to the situation, and I could sound like he was

0:59:10.920 --> 0:59:14.560
<v Speaker 1>getting hot because he thought I was lying, like like

0:59:14.680 --> 0:59:16.960
<v Speaker 1>you telling me the truth about everything, but you lying

0:59:16.960 --> 0:59:20.360
<v Speaker 1>at me about this, And he waited from February, right,

0:59:20.440 --> 0:59:22.240
<v Speaker 1>But she really was telling the truth. I was really

0:59:22.280 --> 0:59:24.480
<v Speaker 1>telling the truth. Like he thought I was working with

0:59:24.600 --> 0:59:27.040
<v Speaker 1>somebody in a certain group, but I wasn't working with

0:59:27.160 --> 0:59:29.720
<v Speaker 1>somebody in that certain group. I actually was working with

0:59:29.800 --> 0:59:32.360
<v Speaker 1>somebody else that was way off the group, right, And

0:59:32.720 --> 0:59:35.680
<v Speaker 1>to do so he had some funs information. Yeah, he

0:59:35.880 --> 0:59:40.000
<v Speaker 1>assumed he was assuming he had no information just because

0:59:40.040 --> 0:59:43.960
<v Speaker 1>of where he was at and addressing situation with him.

0:59:44.200 --> 0:59:47.760
<v Speaker 1>I've been went since October. He just not really caring.

0:59:48.480 --> 0:59:50.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you that as a man. As a man,

0:59:50.640 --> 0:59:52.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you he is not he giving Now he

0:59:53.080 --> 0:59:56.000
<v Speaker 1>actually care, because in February he didn't give a funk.

0:59:56.480 --> 0:59:59.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you right now, now he in his feelings.

0:59:59.520 --> 1:00:02.960
<v Speaker 1>Now he got know what was going on. I'm telling man,

1:00:03.080 --> 1:00:05.520
<v Speaker 1>you were like vibing, you know, like we were smoking

1:00:05.760 --> 1:00:08.760
<v Speaker 1>and drinking a little bit, and we were like vibing.

1:00:08.800 --> 1:00:11.400
<v Speaker 1>And I felt like he felt really relaxed to like

1:00:11.640 --> 1:00:15.120
<v Speaker 1>let me know to open up. Yeah, did you look

1:00:15.120 --> 1:00:17.680
<v Speaker 1>at him any differently? After that? It was kind of cute.

1:00:18.920 --> 1:00:22.800
<v Speaker 1>It was now I was like, I'm flyers. I didn't

1:00:22.880 --> 1:00:26.360
<v Speaker 1>feel I didn't feel especially because he was wrong, Like, no,

1:00:26.560 --> 1:00:29.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what I felt. I felt. I felt bad

1:00:29.280 --> 1:00:31.960
<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, damn, he thinks of me crazy, you

1:00:32.040 --> 1:00:34.440
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like he he doesn't believe, like

1:00:34.880 --> 1:00:38.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm so honest with him, but he still doesn't believe

1:00:38.160 --> 1:00:41.280
<v Speaker 1>my truth, like the truth that I'm telling him, he

1:00:41.320 --> 1:00:43.960
<v Speaker 1>doesn't believe it because of how fucked up you know,

1:00:44.680 --> 1:00:47.480
<v Speaker 1>the situation is like how funked up women are and

1:00:47.640 --> 1:00:52.160
<v Speaker 1>how funked up men are and the way Yeah, do

1:00:52.280 --> 1:00:54.920
<v Speaker 1>people even define relationships anymore? How do you know you're

1:00:54.920 --> 1:00:57.560
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship right? Because I'm not in a relationships.

1:00:57.560 --> 1:01:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, like when when it's you say, you know,

1:01:01.320 --> 1:01:03.720
<v Speaker 1>say me, when both people confirmed, do you have to

1:01:03.760 --> 1:01:05.720
<v Speaker 1>have a discussion or is it like no, yeah, no,

1:01:06.480 --> 1:01:08.640
<v Speaker 1>it got to be a discussion because women there put

1:01:08.680 --> 1:01:12.160
<v Speaker 1>you in a relationship. I'm dead ass. I don't funk

1:01:12.240 --> 1:01:14.120
<v Speaker 1>with a woman for a certain amount of time. Next

1:01:14.160 --> 1:01:16.880
<v Speaker 1>thing you know, they're like, yeah, we're together that or

1:01:16.920 --> 1:01:22.000
<v Speaker 1>not and I'm like, what like that, you've been there?

1:01:22.080 --> 1:01:27.360
<v Speaker 1>We all be there. Relationship When you're fighting about something

1:01:27.520 --> 1:01:29.920
<v Speaker 1>and you still funk with each other, that's when you know,

1:01:30.160 --> 1:01:32.600
<v Speaker 1>like just got real. But don't you feel like you

1:01:32.680 --> 1:01:34.120
<v Speaker 1>have to have that discussion like are you walking with

1:01:34.160 --> 1:01:37.160
<v Speaker 1>anybody else? Exactly? Once we have sex? You are my boyfriend.

1:01:38.920 --> 1:01:40.920
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm trying to say. But that's what I'm

1:01:40.920 --> 1:01:43.200
<v Speaker 1>trying to say, that about newbody else to see, That's

1:01:43.240 --> 1:01:44.960
<v Speaker 1>what I'm trying to say. That's how some women are.

1:01:45.320 --> 1:01:47.840
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, want sex, you're my boyfriend, but we're

1:01:47.880 --> 1:01:51.360
<v Speaker 1>still not. It's not that deep until you have that

1:01:51.480 --> 1:01:54.280
<v Speaker 1>conversation like listen, I'm not working with nobody. I don't

1:01:54.280 --> 1:01:56.040
<v Speaker 1>want you to funk with anybody. What do you think?

1:01:56.480 --> 1:02:01.080
<v Speaker 1>How can you have? Just got to be clear from

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<v Speaker 1>the do though? You know now if you're with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl right and y'allo just you're fucking and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>really care about each other and like each other, or

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<v Speaker 1>if you're with a guy right and come to find

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<v Speaker 1>out that person is sleeping with other people, but y'all

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<v Speaker 1>never defined your relationship. You be mad, but you can't

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<v Speaker 1>really be that mad. But you can't really say nothing

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<v Speaker 1>because y'all haven't defined where you all stand. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>because did anybody say you're my girlfriend, you're my boyfriend? No,

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<v Speaker 1>no one. I mean when you're discussion though, like what

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing here, right, because that's when the woman just

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<v Speaker 1>as certainly like and yeah, we're together, the people are

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, maybe the way my circle rules, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I feel like you have to understand somebody

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<v Speaker 1>before you could even be in a relationship with me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, so when you're friends and you're dating and

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<v Speaker 1>you're meeting each other's family, because I mean, I'm dating

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<v Speaker 1>somebody I'm as mother has father and we're not in

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<v Speaker 1>a serious relationship. You know, if I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean that I would know. I would never introduce

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<v Speaker 1>my parents to a bitch. I ain't taking serifer. That's

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<v Speaker 1>but that's different. That's different I'm talking about like mam, mam,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like, nah, I ain't doing that. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>bringing you to if I'm not. But it depends on

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship with your parents, because some people have like

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<v Speaker 1>a superar relationship where you know, theyduce everybody like oh

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<v Speaker 1>this is as just as you know and but girls

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<v Speaker 1>take that very seriously if you introduce it. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>I said, you don't play like that. I think when

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<v Speaker 1>you're approaching a guy as a woman with that conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of makes something like wait a minute, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>slow down, like wait, which you mean whether we every

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<v Speaker 1>time exactly? Life and time? You know, just let life

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<v Speaker 1>and time give you a title. But when do you

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<v Speaker 1>decide like, Okay, I'm not gonna sunk with nobody else

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<v Speaker 1>because we're in a relationship. And then when you get

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, when you move too fast, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>a terrible relationship. Like my last one that for a weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Then it was like all right, you're my boyfriend. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your girlfriend. That's it. Yeah, I had it happened

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<v Speaker 1>to me in one day and like a couple of hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you don't take some people don't take that title seriously. Though.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like we were being in a relationship and boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell you. We met at a club and

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<v Speaker 1>he just like literally like just walked up to me

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, what's your name? And I told my name.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, give me a number. I just gave

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<v Speaker 1>him my number and he told me his name. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call you, and I was like all right,

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<v Speaker 1>And then I was just going on about my business

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<v Speaker 1>in the club. And then the next day he caught

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<v Speaker 1>me and then we had the general conversation you know

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<v Speaker 1>where you live, what you do that I So he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I know where you stay. He was like, you smoke

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like yeah. He was like, take a

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<v Speaker 1>ride with me that smoked this blunt. He's like, wish

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<v Speaker 1>your address. I'm near your house. So he picked me up.

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<v Speaker 1>We rode around for like two maybe three hours, smoking,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, we had all of this conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>then when he dropped me back off, he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're gonna be my girl or you know, like okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like in my early twenties. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>the early two thousands. And then lasted how long two

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<v Speaker 1>and a half years. It lasted until I found it

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<v Speaker 1>lasted until I found out that he's the same guy

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<v Speaker 1>that the story I told before about the boyfriend who

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<v Speaker 1>told me that he had just got out of jail

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<v Speaker 1>and his sister, and then I found out that he

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<v Speaker 1>had the baby, and then that the baby wasn't his,

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<v Speaker 1>and and then I broke up with him because he

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<v Speaker 1>lied about having a baby, and then kind of the baby,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the same guy. Yeah, I don't know where he's

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<v Speaker 1>still he still alive, Yeah, as far as I know.

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<v Speaker 1>As far as I know, he's still alive, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So it is important because I feel like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of times with women, I know, they date a guy

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<v Speaker 1>and then they automatically assume they're in a relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>that's the only person they're dating, and then they get

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<v Speaker 1>upset when they that they're not the only one. But

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<v Speaker 1>then it's not so hard for for women sometimes to

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<v Speaker 1>date multiple people because once you when you go to

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<v Speaker 1>date more than one person, you it's this thing that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know if you're supposed to reveal that to guys,

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<v Speaker 1>because it could go either way. Either they could respect

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<v Speaker 1>your honesty and be like, well, then I'm gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>to be the number one contender, or they could be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she ain't taking this, like I can't take her seriously

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<v Speaker 1>because she sunk with other people. So now you have

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<v Speaker 1>this like do I lie and say I'm not sing

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<v Speaker 1>with other people? Right, no, but not having sex. But

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<v Speaker 1>once you just say I'm still But then you have

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<v Speaker 1>to explain having sex. Who dates that having sex? So

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, like, even me, I swear, I'm so honest,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't. I'm I'm saying, tell them on niggas

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm working on the All they gotta do is

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<v Speaker 1>this in the lip service. Don't know alright, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>only have sex with one guy, listen, don't have sex

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<v Speaker 1>with everybody. I'm dating my ex boyfriend, my ex boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>who I was with, but before he was like my

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend and I was dating him. I didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>he was doing. I was dating other people too. We

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<v Speaker 1>were together for five years after that, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>beginning he asked me and he was like, are you

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<v Speaker 1>dating on the people? I was like, yeah, aren't you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's how you gotta do it. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. Even if they're not, other people feel about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if they're not dating other other people. Nine times

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<v Speaker 1>out of tend, he's still sucking a big mom. What's

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<v Speaker 1>the difference, Well, he didn't have a baby mom. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, put a baby on him and everything. Because

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<v Speaker 1>niggas that got baby mom is nine times out oftend.

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<v Speaker 1>They still like always they feel like they have that

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<v Speaker 1>right forever, all right, So what can we expect now? Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to catch up our Money and Violence.

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<v Speaker 1>But like I said, took him all off the internet

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<v Speaker 1>now because you have to have title or a lions Gate.

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<v Speaker 1>Well not actually it's off for title two. They said.

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<v Speaker 1>They took him all down there. It's gonna be for

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be up for sale like in another week, Amazon, everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so now you gotta buy it. They're not

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<v Speaker 1>playing against lions Gate. Did a deal with Money and

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<v Speaker 1>Violence if you want to see it, But we'll be

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<v Speaker 1>on TV next you know. Season three would be somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>on TV. Have you ever been a side piece in

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<v Speaker 1>real life? Like somebody's side piece? I better not know

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<v Speaker 1>about it? Probably was, well, yeah, now I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that for show ship at the time she had

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<v Speaker 1>a husband. Yeah, it didn't bother you. You probably liked it.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually did. Was the vintage vagina. It was good,

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<v Speaker 1>it's exciting. You don't expect nothing from you. And then

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<v Speaker 1>and then she used to like, it's like she was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to show me ship, so she used to like

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<v Speaker 1>go hand on me. Even so, it that was a

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<v Speaker 1>funny spend. You think you would like kind of did

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<v Speaker 1>you ever want her to leave her husband? Hell? No,

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<v Speaker 1>like being she taught you some things, She taught me

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<v Speaker 1>some things. Boy, well all the women now will appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>it after that. Nothing like teaching somebody something and nothing

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<v Speaker 1>worse than teaching somebody something and they go be with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else. The gift that keeps on getting got me

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<v Speaker 1>ready for now, I guess crazy, I'm still with older woman.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just what she's only too. Yeah, oh your girl now, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she take care of you, She'll take care of me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you don't cook, finish, She take care of

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<v Speaker 1>me as far as like to be the woman. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, clear because it's a lot of sucking

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<v Speaker 1>niggas be like that. Take care of you women, take

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<v Speaker 1>care of her, take care of because nowadays niggers don't

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<v Speaker 1>mind like their dead ass. Just be a l as.

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<v Speaker 1>Take care of not me. You gotta watch out for

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<v Speaker 1>those guys. Yeah that so all right. Well, we appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you coming through to LIPS Service again. I'm Stephanie Santiago.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm g g McGuire Passport Cutting Past. But make sure

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<v Speaker 1>You do a great job with that, she got people

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<v Speaker 1>so mad with her feelings. It would be so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>People be so upset. She said, what type of cheater

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<v Speaker 1>are you? It's supposed to be funny, guys. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>personally type things so seriously. Like even when I said

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<v Speaker 1>the thing about oh, he probably got kids, he got

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he got juicy juice in the car, people

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<v Speaker 1>are like, why don't you talking about And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just come down, okay, okay, like it's just supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be you know, humorous and some if you just

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<v Speaker 1>need to realize this is entertainment purposes everything. Take everything

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<v Speaker 1>with a greener sven. It doesn't apply. Let it fly.

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<v Speaker 1>Like some people said, like this is pretty funny. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like it doesn't apply to anything. It's funny. Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>I try, I mean not trying not to be too

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<v Speaker 1>outlanders because I don't want to seem like I'm just stereotyping.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I feel like the first thing that comes

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<v Speaker 1>to yourhead is usually it's probably not the it's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's like a stereotype that you normally think of,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and you you don't want to defend it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tired of always having to defend something. It's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I put it out there, and if you don't like it,

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<v Speaker 1>oh well, but you know, okay, glad you clear that up.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to get you to come out there,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. What happens that we appreciate you, of course

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<v Speaker 1>for coming through, appreciate me. I like the Savings Chip