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Speaker 1: Yo, yo, what's up? Is Angela yeates lip Service, Stephanie Santiago,

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Speaker 1: I'm G. G. Maguire And we have of course a

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Speaker 1: very special guests blogger from lip Service, Passport Cutty Hey.

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Speaker 1: And then we have our special guest Chappi Zell. Y'all doing.

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Speaker 1: Now you know him as an artist, but you also

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Speaker 1: know him from Money and Violence. Yeah, and now you

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Speaker 1: know I'm from lip service to Okay, Yeah, we know

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Speaker 1: you're into Um, you know what you do want money

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Speaker 1: and violence. I know that's not like how you are

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Speaker 1: in real life, because I'm sure sometimes people get that confused.

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Speaker 1: You deal with all kinds of issues, cheating and all

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Speaker 1: of that. Um, we all deal with that, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: sure do. Now we are going to talk about a

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Speaker 1: tip of the day. That's how we always set the show.

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Speaker 1: And today's tip of the day is can you be

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Speaker 1: friends with somebody that you slept with? How can you

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Speaker 1: be friends with somebody that you slept with? Or can

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Speaker 1: you not do that? Um? No, I've tried. It never

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Speaker 1: worked out for me, So I think once it's done, honest,

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Speaker 1: you just gotta leave, you know, let it be. But

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Speaker 1: if it wasn't your girlfriend, but just somebody you slept

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Speaker 1: with a couple of times. Uh, even with that, that

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Speaker 1: should get difficult too, you know what I'm saying, especially

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Speaker 1: with women, you know, specially with women. So I think

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Speaker 1: it's better all you ship. We're done. We're done. Not

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Speaker 1: even so you don't have any friends that you might

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Speaker 1: have slept with a couple of times, but no big deal.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you always friends first. I got, I got one situation.

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Speaker 1: Well it's like we're still cool with then it's still

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Speaker 1: like from a distance, you know, I don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: think it could work personally. I wouldn't want my lady

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Speaker 1: to be working with you think she used to fun with?

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Speaker 1: Oh y'all still cool? Why? Because it could go down again?

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Speaker 1: What's it happening? It always could happen, So that's too.

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Speaker 1: What do you think, Stephanie? No, I agree. Um, I can't. Like,

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Speaker 1: I can't give it to the on how you can

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Speaker 1: be friends with somebody that you slept with before, because

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Speaker 1: I feel like, once I don't want to sleep with somebody,

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Speaker 1: I'm done with them, Like I don't want them in

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Speaker 1: my life. But if it's business and they can make

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Speaker 1: you some money, now I was gonna get to that

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Speaker 1: now I feel like when you when you have a person,

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Speaker 1: when you sleep with right, and um, you guys are friends,

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Speaker 1: fun buddy, you know, um, somebody work with. But you

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Speaker 1: guys never had anything serious. You just let that together,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I feel like you can

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Speaker 1: be cool but like I can't introduce you to my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend like, oh, this is my boy you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? And for me, like in those situations, you

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Speaker 1: can kind of tell, like if I'm around all right,

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Speaker 1: let's say I'm thinking of one person in particular, if

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Speaker 1: people will like, let's say I'm with this person and

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Speaker 1: a lot of people know this person, you know, and

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Speaker 1: we're all together, the vibe is gonna be there. You're

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Speaker 1: still gonna be even though we're cool, we're not holding hands,

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Speaker 1: we're not holding each other's face, the vibe is there.

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Speaker 1: You could tell it's a little flirty. Yeah, like he's

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Speaker 1: thinking it and I'm thinking it, and we might be

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Speaker 1: thinking about later, you know what I mean. That's how

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Speaker 1: I feel. Ain't none of that, ain't no in between.

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Speaker 1: It's either yeah and I feel like you can't, like

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Speaker 1: you can't sleep with somebody and then be like, oh

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Speaker 1: this is my bro. I hate when people do that.

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Speaker 1: I hear you. Listen, I've never said with my brother

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Speaker 1: and my bro you know the fact that you said

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Speaker 1: that to me. The worst thing is is when you

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Speaker 1: first meet a female, say she fought with you right away,

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Speaker 1: and then now she want to take steps backwards. It's like, nah,

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Speaker 1: the second time I see you, it's like, now you

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Speaker 1: want me to take you out? You know what I'm saying, Nah,

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Speaker 1: now you gotta court me. I want to. That's kind

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Speaker 1: of backwards, That's what I'm saying. For me and somebody,

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Speaker 1: you set the tone for your relationship all the way.

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Speaker 1: You know on our mo if you meet someone and

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Speaker 1: you guys funk with all going out with nobody's seeing,

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Speaker 1: you know, you can't really get expect from the next.

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Speaker 1: But I mean sometimes it does happen, because you can't

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Speaker 1: be mad if it don't happen, right, you can't expect

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Speaker 1: it to happen. If it do happen, then blessed to

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Speaker 1: see y'all. But if it don't, you can't be upset

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Speaker 1: that it didn't because you set the tone from the door. Now,

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Speaker 1: g what about you? You think that? Is there a

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Speaker 1: tip you can give on how to be friends with

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Speaker 1: somebody you slept with a couple of times. The tip

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Speaker 1: would be to start it off like that basically where

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Speaker 1: they were coming from with it. Like, if we're starting

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Speaker 1: off as fun buddies, then we always gonna be fun buddies.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna expect for you to be my nigga,

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Speaker 1: maybe my man. I'm not gonna expect for you to

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Speaker 1: think I'm your girl, but you can stop sucking and

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Speaker 1: still be cool. Absolutely. If it was like that, then

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Speaker 1: when you start involving feelings and relationships, then it's a

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Speaker 1: whole different conversation. But as long as we kept it

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Speaker 1: on something I'm gonna hit you up when I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to get fun or I'm gonna you up when I'm

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Speaker 1: trying you know, I mean, then that's it. We keep

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Speaker 1: it one hunted. We do. We do. We keep one

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Speaker 1: hunting and that's it. If that's all I need you

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Speaker 1: for it and that's all I need you for and

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Speaker 1: if we're cool and that's what we're cool based off of,

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Speaker 1: then we can remain cool like that even when it's over.

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Speaker 1: No hard feelings. I just don't want to suck you

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Speaker 1: no more. Maybe I got a boyfriend now, or you

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Speaker 1: know maybe I'm I'm over your sex and I just

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Speaker 1: want something different, But you ain't didn't in the for

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Speaker 1: me not to be your friend. No more so we

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Speaker 1: still cody. As long as we left it on good terms.

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Speaker 1: It was no big falling out. You ain't trying to

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Speaker 1: play me. We just absolutely see nothing wrong with just

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Speaker 1: having a sexual relationship. Some women see something wrong with that.

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Speaker 1: I don't. Okay, yeah, I don't see anything. I mean,

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Speaker 1: but you can't be friends after Some people feel like

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Speaker 1: I feel like when you start off, when you when

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Speaker 1: you have sex fast, you're making it difficult to have

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Speaker 1: a serious relationship. Absolutely, you know what I'm saying. Like

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Speaker 1: unless you guys just click like that, like and there's

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Speaker 1: a there's a chance that you're not gonna just click

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Speaker 1: like that. You know. Hey, but now at this if

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Speaker 1: a girl has good pussy, you still donna want to

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Speaker 1: hit her up after that and might want to take

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Speaker 1: her out to see I don't, I don't see me.

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Speaker 1: I'll stick to the script. I'm different, Like I know,

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Speaker 1: other dudes, they might start doing too much, and then

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Speaker 1: that's what sucks up the chemistry and what y'all first had,

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Speaker 1: because then you wanna you wanna put it in a

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Speaker 1: box first and then start playing with her and having

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Speaker 1: a naci being your mama. And but you ain't serious,

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Speaker 1: you know what? So men, Yeah, and let me not lie.

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Speaker 1: I've had that situation happened, Well, I don't have something

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Speaker 1: from him? And then Ship, you're down right like that boy?

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Speaker 1: I had to be. I'm in a situa like that, right,

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Speaker 1: got you? Yeah? Feeling me like the situation as well.

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Speaker 1: That person could become like Ships your spouse. You never

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Speaker 1: know what happened. Or you can date somebody and I

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Speaker 1: have sex with them for six months and then it

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Speaker 1: don't work out. Still, that's right exactly. You never can

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Speaker 1: work the opposite way to exactly that past part. Cuddy.

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Speaker 1: Can you be friends with somebody you fucked if the

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Speaker 1: sex wasn't good? What if I wouldn't even like you? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: if the if the dick was mediocre, you end up

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Speaker 1: being my homeboy? No? Are you good? I don't want

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Speaker 1: to be your friend. I don't want to know who

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Speaker 1: else you dealing with. I don't want to know what

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Speaker 1: else you're doing if you If I see you with

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Speaker 1: another girl, I'm gonna be a little jealous. So your

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Speaker 1: sex has to be trash for us to continue to

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Speaker 1: be really good friends. But why you wouldn't be mad

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Speaker 1: because if somebody's sex is trash, I'm gonna feel like

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Speaker 1: you really didn't put forth the effort. No, but they don't.

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Speaker 1: Some sounds they put forth the effort, and it's sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's not the sex. Sometimes it's just that dick is

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Speaker 1: not big enough for good enough for whatever. Right, that's

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Speaker 1: the words, guy, I don't know how he puts like,

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Speaker 1: you know why you're just not my fit. That's the worst. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the when you got to try to show a

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Speaker 1: bit like I don't what is you doing? But you know,

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Speaker 1: if it's good to you, of course, But I'm just

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Speaker 1: saying not, well, not if the bitch doing the wrong,

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Speaker 1: what is wrong? And she just don't know what she's doing.

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Speaker 1: She just does that happening. You know when nigga say,

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Speaker 1: when nigga say, oh, teacher, how the teacher just try

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Speaker 1: like just try, just try presented his wife. How many

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Speaker 1: girls can't suck dick? Would you say, I don't know

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Speaker 1: about the percentage like that you experience like, oh, that's

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Speaker 1: too many. I ain't gonna say that ain't too many.

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Speaker 1: Ship We're in a freaky world. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So it's a lot of savages. You come do you

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Speaker 1: come past them getting your dick sup, because some guys

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Speaker 1: they take them a long time. Some guys is quick. Um, Ship,

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Speaker 1: I'm a long period, so can't come from getting out.

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Speaker 1: I've number come on what's long? I've heard about that

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Speaker 1: about what's long? I've had experience as well. Ship. I'm

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Speaker 1: there twenty thirty minutes, but that's not bad. Forty five minutes,

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Speaker 1: you know, and then I'm not taking nobody minutes sorry,

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Speaker 1: oh no for heafy minutes for heaf I think I

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Speaker 1: said absolutely, There's been times that I'm just in the

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Speaker 1: mood to something. Yeah, that's what I was. That's what

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Speaker 1: and make him when it come, even more, you switch

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Speaker 1: You switch it up on when I know he's about

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Speaker 1: to come. Get off, and like you know, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you take take a brain that time now and then

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Speaker 1: I go back to work too much? Good woman like

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Speaker 1: com down right? Absolutely don't come yet. But you know

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Speaker 1: I think a woman who likes to suck you know,

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Speaker 1: she's gonna want to do it like that. That's what's like. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: there's been a time in your life that you have

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Speaker 1: something dick for an hour. Absolutely, maybe longer than that,

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Speaker 1: because I wanted guys, I want you to know I'm

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Speaker 1: taking breaks in between. But I'm not taking breaks to stop.

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Speaker 1: I'm taking breaks to like cash my breath, fix my hair,

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Speaker 1: you know, get my hair out of my mind. He's

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Speaker 1: supposed to like I think ideally you should have sex

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Speaker 1: and then go back to that, and then have sex

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Speaker 1: and then go back to that. Well, yeah, that's a

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Speaker 1: good round. So I'm talking about just just straighthead, straight hair,

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Speaker 1: just because you want to do it. You just like it,

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Speaker 1: And that's the best time real ship when she just

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Speaker 1: want to do it. Yeah, that when you gotta force it,

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Speaker 1: like passport cutting. I never want to I don't. You

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Speaker 1: don't want to do it, and then you don't want

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Speaker 1: to do like second, I don't never want to do it.

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Speaker 1: I do break I'm doing. I'm doing. I want to

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Speaker 1: do it all the way. Do But if I got

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Speaker 1: to ask you with something my dick, we're done all

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Speaker 1: the way. That should be automatically when you're when you're

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Speaker 1: guess it was like just wet from when you get

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Speaker 1: what I mean? I agree because it was a thousand,

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Speaker 1: Would be like mother Mary? What about I'm sure some

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Speaker 1: and that's the main thing here. We're like, she don't

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Speaker 1: That happens life, that happens. How do you handle that?

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Speaker 1: And after y'all broke up, she ended up doing way

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Speaker 1: week for real, like for real. But if I had

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00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: somebody doing really bad after you break up, they look terrible, climber,

421
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 1: I'm a savage, I'll be like, manun that bit. I'm

422
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 1: being honest. You ever had to deny the pussy like

423
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 1: she looks so bad? You'd be like, I ain't never

424
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 1: oh man, yeah, yeah, you light on your dick. Man.

425
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 1: One time I met her bell her pictures lie all

426
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: the way when I tell you she was bro catfish.

427
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: They made that show for I'm talking about. When she came,

428
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 1: I just couldn't believe it was like the same person

429
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 1: and me, I don't I don't know how to look

430
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 1: stupid lying fel me. You could tell it right away,

431
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 1: so I only knew how to be real with it.

432
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 1: I was like, man, this ain't gonna work. She's like,

433
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 1: what what you mean? It is up? And I felt

434
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 1: bad about that ship a few days later, wasn't her angles?

435
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,960
Speaker 1: And then she took the pictures That wasn't it was?

436
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: It was a learning lesson when they when they won't

437
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 1: show everything. Just no. If you get us and it's

438
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 1: I'm here to here, it's for reasons. It's like the above,

439
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: or if it's on the Teddy fat and like. And

440
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 1: I then had to ask myself when I look back

441
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: on her page, I'm like, yeah, you're a dumb nigger.

442
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: Because I studied her page. I'm like, bro, I ain't

443
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 1: I've seen her body probably twice in a blurry picture

444
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: around that time, so don't come. And you felt bad

445
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 1: about it. I felt bad about it because the way

446
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: I did it, because I ain't even got a lot

447
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: of where I wouldn't want to know about to do

448
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 1: that to nobody. But she had to know she cafish,

449
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: though she did she like Jon. A few days later,

450
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 1: I replayed the scenario. She popped up at the crib.

451
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: I popped down like a matter of fact, No, a

452
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 1: matter of fact. I didn't even want her to know

453
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 1: why stage so I had meet her. I met her

454
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 1: light by a little juice bob by m crib went

455
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: and when she popped up, she already seen me. So

456
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: when I seen her, I wasnt but she seen me already,

457
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 1: so she started approaching me, and boy, I hit it. Listen,

458
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 1: I gotta go listen. Man, my bad wrong time you

459
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: feel me? And I felt bad as far after that.

460
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: She knew that because she didn't know, you know, like

461
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: I said, because I just left the right there, like

462
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: literally on the street. Yeah I went here, but I'm

463
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: a bunished but it was a learning listen, and you're

464
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 1: not gonna do that no more, never again never. Yeah,

465
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: well right now, I'm straight. I got a little shoulder,

466
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 1: but if I was to meet anybody, got to be

467
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 1: in person, to risk all the way, all the way

468
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,719
Speaker 1: that Stephanie ever been with a guy, and he started

469
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: doing way better after y'all broke up. No after that's

470
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: the mistake. I haven't mad like all my access, with

471
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 1: the exception of my son's father, because he's a hard

472
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: working man. Like they always they declined, yeah, they declined.

473
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 1: They always get worse, Like they don't start looking better

474
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: with a's. They don't do nothing in special, like they

475
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: haven't been successful one that guy's you know, slept on

476
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:11,199
Speaker 1: and then it's like, what's up? You get those dms.

477
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 1: I haven't, Like, I can't really think of somebody that

478
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: I was with before and lean they're doing really they're

479
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 1: doing way better than before. I think I usually get

480
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 1: them in their prime and then you destroy them. And

481
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: then I just destroyed given the best sex they ever

482
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: had in their bite, their head gotten. Yeah, I just before.

483
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 1: So nah, it's like living two different lives. I remember

484
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: how baitches treated nigger when you fat like ship, some

485
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 1: real ship, you know. Yeah, you see the fat fly

486
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: niggers with the bitches. And I was one of those

487
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: two but obvious sitting her line. And if I say

488
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 1: it's any comparison, it's a whole new world. Yeah, did

489
00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: get bigger. They always say it's got or it's just

490
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: bigger in proportion. To know it got way bigger, Like

491
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: that's insensive enough for a man to lose weight. Making

492
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 1: it's true, like everything's happened. Because they say that the

493
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 1: weight presses down on the gland that allows it to expand,

494
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 1: to grow to the point where I always so much weight.

495
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 1: I had a bone right here, man, I didn't even

496
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 1: know I had these bones right here. I was ready

497
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 1: to go to the doctor. Was wrong. I'm telling I'm

498
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 1: telling you, how did you lose that much weight? Just

499
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,959
Speaker 1: change the way I eat out? Yeah, I'm for Florida.

500
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 1: So I work out, you know, five six days a

501
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: week to be still big in the first place, though,

502
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: just eating a lot of so we eat number rice then,

503
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: so from seven years old, that's all I ate rice,

504
00:28:56,880 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: rash rice rice. You know. So at thee that ship

505
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: along and drinking too maybe well, and I ain't really

506
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: know drinking like that, so I ain't really never had

507
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: that problem. It was she, if anything, drinking solder and

508
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: ship like that, cool aids and sugar. Yeah, you can

509
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: literally pour on pounds. That's what most people don't understand.

510
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: People don't count the calories and the stept that they're

511
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: drinking exactly. They worry about what they eating and not

512
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: worry about what they drinking. You probably got way more

513
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: stammin and now too. Boy, I've been told I too

514
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 1: long for real, Like nigga, this is annoying. You lost

515
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,959
Speaker 1: that weight? Yeah, yeah, what about you got any excess

516
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: that they did way better after you broke up with them,

517
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: and you was like, dad, all my exes is dada

518
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: in jail. You already know that. Somebody did say why

519
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: all is dead? It's not my fault. I only killed

520
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: one and I really didn't kill him. That's just a joke.

521
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: That's I joked this between us. He passed away because

522
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: he had a heart attack. But we joke and say

523
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: I killed him because he had a heart attack while

524
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: he was having sex my ex. My other ex that

525
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: passed away is my daughter's father. Um, he passed away

526
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: very tragically, and I never joke about that. Um. It

527
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 1: just so happened that that would make number two of

528
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: my exes that are no longer with us. UM. It's

529
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: not even just um excess. I have a couple of

530
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: niggas that I just was like fucking that passed away

531
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: as well. I don't know. I might be the back however,

532
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 1: but my exes, let me say, jail, jail. I got

533
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 1: one X that is probably still around and doing okay,

534
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: But I don't care because I'm doing okay too, And

535
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: he was doing okay. He was and he was he

536
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 1: was doing okay. I mean when I met him, he

537
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: was a retired baseball player, and then when we were together,

538
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: he opened up a car service business in Atlanta. So

539
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: the car service business at this point is doing very well.

540
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: Broke up with him because he had a baby while

541
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: we were together, and you know, his son is doing

542
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: good and his you know, he's okay with his life,

543
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: but it does not. I don't care. I always say

544
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: that it's too because I tell people you cannot be

545
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: friends with your ex right when your first break up.

546
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: Maybe later on down the line, like after a year,

547
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: when you over it, and if your friends with your

548
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: x y'all still sucking And that's the only reason why

549
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: your friends because you're still sucking, right, I always tell

550
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: me you got to stop. It's still no. I have

551
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: to admit. When um, when my son's following I broke up,

552
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: we were arch enemies, like we hated each other, we

553
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: would kill each other, not not for but once we

554
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: started having sex again in between him, and then that's

555
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: when things got a little better. Than we stopped having sex,

556
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 1: it's got a little bad and now it's complicated years later.

557
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You cannot be friends right right away.

558
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 1: Once you agree passport cutty, you friends with any of

559
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: your x is right away? Oh you had to wait?

560
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: Um yeah, I had to wait. But they was not.

561
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: I mean they actually all they're not doing better than me,

562
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 1: but they're doing better than they were going right, Um,

563
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 1: So I kind of like upgraded them and then they

564
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: were like Wow, would you leave me if I'm doing

565
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: better now, I'm like, I'll make another you. I don't care.

566
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: Didn't of your exers that could call you and you

567
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: would help him out? Um? Oh, that's a good question. Me.

568
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I remember back when I had

569
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: broken up with my boyfriend, uh several years ago. He

570
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 1: needed to move out into his own apartment and I

571
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 1: was young at the time, so I didn't even have

572
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: any credentials to help him, but my grandmother co sign

573
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: for his apartment. I was like, whatever, to get him

574
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 1: out the funk out of here because I just don't

575
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: want to be with him. No more her credit. No,

576
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: he actually has been doing very good, so that's good.

577
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: That's a risky thing, man. I don't be playing around

578
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: with my credit. Yeah, but around my credit when I

579
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 1: was in my twenties and the stripper because I didn't

580
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: care about credit because I had money. So I'm like,

581
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: I'll make money every day that credit. They can pulish

582
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: in my credit. I don't need a credit cash money talk,

583
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: you know. But as I gotten older, and I when

584
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 1: I stopped bancing it, and then as I got older,

585
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: I'm really really serious about my credit and I'm very

586
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 1: proud to say that when I go on credit card

587
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 1: when my ship is in the green. Real you can't,

588
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: but that's your name. I don't want to to not

589
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: be friends no more because if I CoA signed something. Listen,

590
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: one reason that you might not be friends with somebody

591
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: or before them is over money. Absolutely, we do bad

592
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,479
Speaker 1: business if you whether I can't funk with you at all,

593
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 1: like and sometimes you can't even do business with your

594
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: spouse all the time because that might sunk out the relationship. Now, Listen,

595
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: I had a big argument at work about this the

596
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: other day, right me Shana, and because I was saying,

597
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 1: it's hard to date a person, whether it's a you know,

598
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 1: you're dieting another guy or you're ditting a girl or whatever.

599
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: It's hard if they're not doing well and they're broke

600
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: because not just that they don't have money, but because

601
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: of their spirit. A lot of times guys that aren't

602
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: doing well, they're very depressedive, very down. They're not eat

603
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: to be around. They don't feel so great about themselves.

604
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: Same things with women. Yeah, you date a girl and

605
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: she's not doing so good and she's broke, she don't

606
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: have no job, it's not necessarily the fact that they

607
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: don't have a job. It could be just that they

608
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: feel defeated. They have an attitude. Then you know, they

609
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: make you feel bad about doing well. But they said

610
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: you should stick it through and maybe somebody that's a

611
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 1: case about case scenario. Um, I feel like you you

612
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,439
Speaker 1: being around somebody like that, that's like cancer. You're gonna

613
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 1: infect yourself, you know what I mean. A miserable you

614
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 1: don't want to misery company. A miserable likes miserable. So

615
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: if you're if you find something with a miserable person

616
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 1: all the time because they're not doing well financially, it

617
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 1: has That's why I like to be with people who

618
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 1: are successful, not only just not only dating as my friends,

619
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 1: just because you know, like like like, and you know,

620
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: if you want to get it's not because I want

621
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,399
Speaker 1: their money. I don't want anything from them. I want

622
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: to get my own. But that energy. If managing people,

623
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 1: you're gonna have a positive outlook. And even I'm not

624
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: even saying you gotta have a lot of money. I'm

625
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,359
Speaker 1: just saying you gotta be ambitious and her work, get

626
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 1: up and get out even if you're not making a lot.

627
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 1: But you can pay your bills, you know, and you're

628
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: just getting by. That's all good. I don't have I

629
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 1: don't been fucked up and my shoulder help me down,

630
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 1: feel me, and now I'm in a better place. And

631
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 1: she I don't know about how other niggas operate, but me,

632
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: she always gonna be straight because she always, always always

633
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 1: gonna be no matter if I sunk up, she gotta

634
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: leave me. You fear me because she's gonna always be

635
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: one hunting good because she helped me down when I

636
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 1: was sucked up. You feel me? So that got a

637
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: vouch for something, you know what I'm saying. So for me,

638
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 1: it's it depends. It really really depends on up and everything.

639
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 1: If I was washing dishes, I also think if she

640
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: met me and I was washing dishes and I was

641
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: making eight dollars an hour with really nothing else going on,

642
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: then yeah, her reaction might have been different. But to

643
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: see somebody like me, that's young, that's driven, that's that's

644
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: out here and a whole different city trying to do

645
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 1: what I'm doing, she said to herself, like, hold on,

646
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 1: this nigga got potential. I'm stand by, you know what

647
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying, ain't not wrong with that fear me, and

648
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 1: so it goes either way. It goes either way because

649
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: she was the person that bought me in a good

650
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: spirit to beat the niggay in right now on some

651
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: real ship. So it takes it takes a certain type

652
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 1: of woman to even do that. It take a certain

653
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: type of niggative even do that. You know what I'm saying.

654
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 1: Everybody got there? You feel me? How long it's too

655
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 1: long to do that? How long is too long to

656
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 1: hold somebody down? Though? Because I've held people down while

657
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 1: they didn't have it, But then I have not had

658
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,320
Speaker 1: good experiences with that. I felt like I've been with

659
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 1: people who have money. They fell. I held it down,

660
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: but they got too comfortable and they they started they

661
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: went and being grateful to now taking it. Yeah, Like

662
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,320
Speaker 1: before it was like, oh you an't got it like that. Okay,

663
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 1: I'll pay or I'll buy you, you know, I'll give

664
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 1: them a gift. And then now the next thing is like,

665
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: oh yeah, and I'm seeing some stuff. You know, I'm

666
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: looking like hold but that's not a man. But when

667
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 1: you would do too much, That's why I learned moderation,

668
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: because I probably spoiled them so bad that I carners.

669
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 1: On one hand, you don't want them to feel bad

670
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: asking you for something and you just just was dealing

671
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 1: with because the perfect you like that. Initially, I think

672
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: it's always like somebody Now it was like that. At

673
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: first they hit it. They hit it until they got comfortable.

674
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 1: Trust me, it was like that from the dope, like

675
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 1: when they were doing when they were doing for me.

676
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: They were doing for me at first. Then felt then

677
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 1: they have the money, and then I tried to pick

678
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: up this that yeah, and then when I left their ass.

679
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 1: Now they back up and they be trying to get back.

680
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: But it's too long to hold somebody down, That's what

681
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It really depends, like you got to me,

682
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: It matters on the person action man or woman. It

683
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 1: matters on their actions. Like ship, you can't being if

684
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 1: I am holding you down. You gotta be making some

685
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: type of effort, do something, get out. That's one thing.

686
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,719
Speaker 1: You know. It's crazy because she was holding me down.

687
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: But I ain't never stay with her. I still had

688
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: my own ship. If I ain't never stay with her,

689
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I still have my own place,

690
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 1: still did everything. It's just you know, her being a

691
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:37,439
Speaker 1: crutch that was there when I needed it. She still

692
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 1: got her own ship. I ain't lean on her that much.

693
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying exactly exactly, that's what counted,

694
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So I saying carry a nigger,

695
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,399
Speaker 1: that's that's crazy. You can't care nobody but your son.

696
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: You feel me? So, now, have you ever had an

697
00:38:54,239 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: injury during sex? Cramps? Cramps? Yes, it's split a little vagina. Yes,

698
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:11,240
Speaker 1: it was big. I was. He gave me a pse otomy.

699
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 1: What's his instagram? We don't even got one, but we

700
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 1: used to have sex. And then afterwards I started like discharging,

701
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 1: but it wasn't really from my vagina, but it was

702
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 1: like I had like this. It was just weird. Was

703
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 1: you had a discharge? Right? So not from your vagina? No,

704
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 1: like because it was like below. It was just crazy.

705
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: So I went to the doctor. And when I went

706
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: to the doctor, she looked and she was like, you're

707
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 1: split a little bit. So it was like trying to heal,

708
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 1: but you know, it's kind of warm and wet down there,

709
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,320
Speaker 1: so it couldn't really heal because you can't put a

710
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 1: band in. Yes, So then like they she said, I

711
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: was like, so, what I gotta do? She was like,

712
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 1: slow down next time, and I was like what I

713
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 1: was young? I was like and I remember, I just

714
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: really because it was like trying to self. No. He

715
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: didn't even like get in. No, I never had to

716
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 1: sunk his dick. You probably loved him. I did. I

717
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: got so spoiled and not wanted to do it because

718
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: I was with him for so long. He used to

719
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 1: be like, I don't want nothing that. I only want

720
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,600
Speaker 1: what I know a woman could give me, which is pussy.

721
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:34,799
Speaker 1: I don't want no girl sucking my dick. I don't

722
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: want to suck nobody in the ask because what's the

723
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 1: difference between a guy and a girl doing that? Ship

724
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: No thank you from the sixties and from no he

725
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: did he didn't want so good. So he's like top

726
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:59,839
Speaker 1: two as an injury. But one time, this guy has

727
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: really big dick. He was sucking me at I just

728
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: felt my pussy like really wet, and I'm like, damn, baby,

729
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: pussy so wet. And he looks and he's like, yo,

730
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,800
Speaker 1: you're bleeding. So I'm like, wow, I can't be bleeding.

731
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: I'm not doing for my period for like two weeks

732
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: like this is impossible. So I'm glad I've led the

733
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: whole night. And then the next day it stopped hurt. No,

734
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 1: it didn't hurt. Went to the after the next day,

735
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 1: the day the day after, not that day that. I

736
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 1: woke up the day after that, and the doctor was

737
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 1: just like, you know, slow down, that's see, it's fragile

738
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: that that thing is like the fabea. You got to

739
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: be gentle with the pussy. One time, I was having

740
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 1: sex and I think, like you ever have sex with

741
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 1: somebody and they take their dick out and they put

742
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: it back in an air gets like stomach, Oh my god,

743
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 1: My stomach was hurt so bad. I couldn't go anywhere

744
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 1: if they pumping the basketball right. He said that they

745
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: put it back in and then air gets in your

746
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,959
Speaker 1: stomach or something, and then it was like I wasn't

747
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 1: so much pass I was like doubled over in the

748
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 1: fetal position for like, oh my god. Yeah, I don't

749
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: know if that's really I was like, I just want

750
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:21,919
Speaker 1: to like something, get it out of me. I don't

751
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 1: know what you can do for that. Man. You gotta

752
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: like press on that out, man. That's why that's why

753
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 1: they tell you you can't have sex and then take

754
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 1: it out and put it back in like that because

755
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: this ship hurt. My friend said that she was having

756
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: sex the other night and um, the fan was one

757
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: and called you right everything, like, really, you cannot have

758
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 1: sex with the fan on that ceiling fan draws that ship,

759
00:42:52,800 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 1: you see. She said no to say drive up from

760
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: the sea fans. They got the window ships like fans.

761
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: One of those fans were put in the middle of

762
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 1: the room, you know, the isolating fans. You got to

763
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 1: turn that fan off and just be sweaty. It just

764
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:19,439
Speaker 1: drive everything. Personally, I like to have sweaty set the best,

765
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 1: make you feel like you not to me sweaty and

766
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: feeling the sweats back and then putting that. Okay that

767
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 1: the heads you got to get here, Yeah, girls were

768
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: good head like all of that shot. No, I'm like,

769
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: what am I getting my head? That guy like just

770
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: being scary. You could out you have no you gotta

771
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 1: like hang your head off the bad so I could

772
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: get something to the shower room too. I like, I

773
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 1: can't do what my hair A love. Every time I

774
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,479
Speaker 1: had sex in the shower where we can never stay

775
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: in it sounds good and the idea is nice. It's cool.

776
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 1: It's cool. This guy has the shower and it has

777
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: like a whole bunch of shower heads and it's like

778
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:18,919
Speaker 1: we'll leave the light on and we just look mad

779
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 1: good with that water dripping on. But does it feel

780
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: as good as if you're having sex in because having

781
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 1: sex in the shower is overrated and it really a

782
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: bench things you can do. Show where you can get

783
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: out of the water and still be in the shower

784
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: and had shower. Oh yeah, show. And you know, it's

785
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: nice to be up on the wall having sex, but

786
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,359
Speaker 1: I think I like it more like to be down

787
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 1: on my knees and the water be jumping. I'm like sucking, yeah,

788
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: and you start hurting, and you'd be like, can we

789
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: wait to somewhere else. I don't think I feel pain

790
00:44:54,080 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 1: when I'm sucking. Thick as a quotable. Yeah, here and

791
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: wee second day goes around her on the floor. I

792
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 1: could be on the I got bruises on my knees,

793
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: but it didn't hurt where he was it. Yeah, yeah,

794
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: Jennualine is going, you know, that's his overrated sex in

795
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:24,320
Speaker 1: the bathtub, Like you have sex in the bathtub like

796
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 1: a bubble back dirty. You did not want dirty as

797
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 1: skin cell bathwater from you and him up in your

798
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: vagina and can not bad. That's why, that's why, that's

799
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 1: why Beyonce said fill the tub up halfway and ride

800
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: it with my circle, because then she's staying on top

801
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: of the water and it's not really getting in the

802
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: I'm from New York City. When you went to the

803
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: public pool when you were a kid, they would make

804
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 1: you take a shower. Yeah, it's the same rule with bathtubs.

805
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 1: Put the soap, clean yourself and then getting the about

806
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 1: having sex in the tub. But when I'm taking when

807
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm taking a bath, I'm taking a bath. Sometimes I

808
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: might take a shower afterwards. Like if I'm in the

809
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: tub and you're supposed to yeah, then I'm gonna want

810
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: to get in a tub to like rent all of

811
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: that off of me. A shower, my tub sex. Anyway.

812
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 1: I want to talk to Passport Cutty about this blog

813
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: that she wrote about where to meet guys because people

814
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: were getting upset about it. Right, she was listening to

815
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 1: different places where you can meet guys and what it

816
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 1: means if you meet them there. So you said at

817
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 1: home Depot, what kind of guys do you meet at home?

818
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 1: Depot the ones that will marry you and build you

819
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: a house. You're already married, right, they're already married. But

820
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 1: if you ever feeling down or ugly or self thing,

821
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 1: you go home. Every in there like damn, hey, how

822
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 1: are you doing? By the one? What is the people having? People?

823
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: It's all men at home people, So when they see

824
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: a woman, and especially an attractive women, they lose their mind.

825
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,399
Speaker 1: They're not expecting to go in the home. You gonna

826
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: going on your little tiny ash chute and go to home,

827
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: deep house, and they're gonna say, what is a beautiful

828
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:23,919
Speaker 1: woman like you doing here alone? Where's your husband? Looking

829
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: for him? But I'm not always where's your husband? Okay? Now,

830
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 1: what do you think if you had to give women

831
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,399
Speaker 1: advice chapizo and where to meet a man? Where would

832
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: you say? Some good places to meet the man? Probably

833
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 1: like where do you be at? Where do your friends

834
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: be at? That you could be like, okay, if you

835
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:50,879
Speaker 1: wanted me the man, not at the club. But yeah,

836
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, ship, I'll be in the

837
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 1: club a lot, so I probably st Okay, okay, let's

838
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:03,359
Speaker 1: do this. What would you think for us as far

839
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: as if we met a guy somewhere, what that would

840
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: say about him? So one of the places was a

841
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 1: grocery store. What do you think about the guys that

842
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 1: are in grocery stores? Um? What does that mean about you? Listen,

843
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: niggas that's in the grocery store, shout out to y'all.

844
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: But if you mean the guy in the grocery store, Um,

845
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 1: you might get a nice guy, but you might not

846
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 1: get somebody that's ready for him because he worked in

847
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:33,879
Speaker 1: the groceries Stoper. Okay, Well, he might be a type

848
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 1: of guy that's independent, that got his own crib. Because yeah,

849
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 1: because you might see me in the grocery store all

850
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: the time buying my own ship. What did you say

851
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,240
Speaker 1: that meant? I said that man that he probably got kids,

852
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: and you better look at the shopping car because he

853
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:55,319
Speaker 1: might have some juicy juice in there and she might

854
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: be going too, like you got a whole family, might

855
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 1: be single. Yeah, comeboy ji, y'all might know Jig in

856
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: Atlanta with the big beard, he cut hair. He worked

857
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: for BT. He from Philly. We like family. He kind

858
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: of like help raise me like I know him for

859
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: a very long time. Anyway, I follow him on Snapchat

860
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: and he cooks for himself. He's a bachelor, single, bachelor

861
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: is a good job, and he cooks for himself, and

862
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,440
Speaker 1: he's always going grocery shopping. So when you said grocery store,

863
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:24,320
Speaker 1: I thought of somebody like him, a guy that's a

864
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: bachelor with a good job that know how to cook,

865
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: and he and there buying. Would he about to make

866
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: for his bomb's dinner for the night. And I'm thinking

867
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 1: about a guy who using somebody EBC car. Can your

868
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 1: woman cook? Yeah? Anywhere? Is that? It's super important to

869
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: me a woman coming from this females? Yeah, yeah, you

870
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 1: know no more you know all that rice and ship

871
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: every day it's you know, cabbage and chicken. Earlier I

872
00:49:55,520 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: had like a chicken wrap healthy. Yeah. So what about

873
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,800
Speaker 1: the work, I don't know. I've never been with somebody

874
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: at work online, but that was like sixteen. Somebody that

875
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 1: you work with have I don't think. The only time

876
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: I every dated somebody I worked with was when we

877
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,480
Speaker 1: all worked at Macy's when I was in high school

878
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 1: and he ended up stealing stuff and I saw security

879
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: walk him out broke up with him. Then, yes, we

880
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,760
Speaker 1: broke up after that. It's embarrassing, but he got escorted

881
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: out because he was stealing. But everybody was stealing. We

882
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 1: was in high school. We got the whole time I

883
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: ever dated somebody from working When I had a sugar

884
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: daddy I met in the strip club? Did you try

885
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: to make you leave? He was fine with that? Okay,

886
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,360
Speaker 1: Well he was married. Did y'all see that woman on

887
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: World Start? That's a sugar baby and she has sugar

888
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 1: and she said that she's made over a million dollars

889
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 1: but guys just paying for her for everything. And she

890
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: has her kids on there talking about all they're going

891
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: to be sugar babies too when they grow up. She

892
00:50:56,160 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 1: looked crazy too. All the dudes, man, they always like

893
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 1: the crazy ship, Like when I go out of town

894
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 1: and the ship I see niggas do like, especially with

895
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:13,240
Speaker 1: the bitches. Damn, that should be crazy, like mind blowing.

896
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 1: So I believe it and I've seen it when you're

897
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 1: talking about when I first seen I was like, who's

898
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: paying for what you feel? Me? But I had to

899
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: really think about how niggers are. Yeah, niggas paying for that.

900
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: Do you ever give your friends advice on their relationships?

901
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 1: Do they come to talk? Thing is I'd be real

902
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 1: with you, right like me and my should are we fresh?

903
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's everything is so I

904
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: ain't no super relationship guy. I'm new to this ship too.

905
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 1: I'll be sucking up and you know what I'm saying,

906
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: So definitely don't come to me with that ship. I

907
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: might get you. Who do you guys talk to when

908
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,919
Speaker 1: y'all need advice? Like, who do you somebody? Somebody that's

909
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: been in it longer, That's all I could say. Somebody's

910
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 1: being on it longer, Like I got my brother. He'd

911
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: been on the shoulder, um like twelve years, what I'm saying,

912
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,239
Speaker 1: So that's somebody somebody you know valcohol that you know,

913
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,720
Speaker 1: that's somebody I caohol that um ship the VP shine.

914
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:07,320
Speaker 1: He'd been with his wife seventeen what something like that?

915
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,840
Speaker 1: Eighteen years? You feel me? So we all still know

916
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: somebody like that, you know what I mean? That we

917
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 1: can haul that. But for me his niggas, it be

918
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:20,400
Speaker 1: it'd be hard because we all bits, whether we forty

919
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 1: five fifty five niggas all got the same basset, you

920
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. All they could do they could

921
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 1: really do. That's really it, but your girl like, damn,

922
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,839
Speaker 1: you got skinny. You try to get cute and get

923
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:39,959
Speaker 1: to the should I missed with right now. It wasn't

924
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: I want with her what I'm saying, I want with her.

925
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 1: Um the girl I was with at the time, she

926
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: was for that first goal, let's go, you're losing this weight, good,

927
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But after I lost fifty pounds,

928
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: now we're coming out the same block that she starts

929
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 1: seeing girls looking and she could not take it. She

930
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,240
Speaker 1: couldn't take that ship. They're like, oh, now you're losing

931
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:05,839
Speaker 1: too much. Week she for real or she became like, um,

932
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: I got it, it's jealousy, a little better about it

933
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:13,280
Speaker 1: all the way. And then when I lost a hunted pounds,

934
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: she was like, oh no, that'sh it. You need to stop.

935
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 1: Then I lost another hunted pound. She wasn't just a

936
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: whole new person. It was hard because she was a

937
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: whole new person. She was happy at first, but then

938
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, he getting too much attention. Yeah yeah,

939
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 1: So she couldn't take that ship. She couldn't take it,

940
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: and you you probably was acting a little different. No, No,

941
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,839
Speaker 1: I'm a humble nigger. So I treated her the same way.

942
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 1: It was her insecurities that was like her selfies like

943
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: a little bit little Yeah, now here's something we were

944
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 1: talking about earlier. Can you hold it in when you

945
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: have some information on somebody that you're dating, Like, um,

946
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 1: I have a friend that her boyfriend used to cheat

947
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:57,600
Speaker 1: on her, but she had the code to all his

948
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,920
Speaker 1: stuff and he never knew it. For a full year.

949
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: Here she was checking all of his voicemails, all of

950
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 1: his emails, knowing exactly what he was doing, where he

951
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: was going, but never said nothing to him. She was like,

952
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to time because I don't want him

953
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: to change his password. So did she eventually say anything?

954
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 1: They eventually broke up. But that's no way to being

955
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 1: a relationship, especially man, I'm coming over and I already

956
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:19,399
Speaker 1: know you don't went on vacation with somebody else because

957
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:22,359
Speaker 1: I checked your email and saw the itinerary, And now

958
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 1: I gotta act like nothing's wrong. And now I'm acting

959
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 1: like a bit in the relationship. Yeah, that's not that's stupid.

960
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 1: That's stupid. Should ever hear that's what you find out?

961
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 1: Leave that's it because I don't have a shower to

962
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 1: go on my phone and then tell me three days

963
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: later what you thought was gonna be happy to get

964
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 1: out of here, like for real, because like you should

965
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: have been in my phone then. But I'm just saying,

966
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 1: addressed me right away, addressed me right away. Why are

967
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 1: you making that the issue that it was three days ago?

968
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: What you mean because she because that means that she

969
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 1: knew what the fun I was doing, and she held on, Yes,

970
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:08,319
Speaker 1: that's how Guys like, well you went in my phone

971
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:12,840
Speaker 1: now now now guys be like, now that went in

972
00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 1: my phone. Now, I can't trust you. I don't know

973
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: how this is gonna work. You've been like, well, hold on,

974
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: you were cheating on me. They don't care. You gotta

975
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: addrest it right away, like I can't hold it. Like

976
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 1: I'm the type of person if I get into of

977
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: my man's phone and I find one thing, I'm gonna

978
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: blow up. Off of that one thing, I'm not even

979
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 1: gonna see the rest of it. I'm not going to

980
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 1: get a chance immediately. Yeah, immediately, I'm like, I respect

981
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:41,800
Speaker 1: that mode. Don't be fucking go go gadget building like

982
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:46,479
Speaker 1: you the fans building the case you doing, because we'd

983
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: be having enough information to indict. But not convict, so

984
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:56,319
Speaker 1: we be having that gall be lying right. Women know, listen,

985
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 1: one thing I know for sure, most women know exactly

986
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:04,680
Speaker 1: what going on. They just ignore the ship. Just be happy.

987
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: Women know, you know what type of nigga you got.

988
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:09,880
Speaker 1: You know the type of nigga he is when you

989
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 1: met him. Now, now we all now sometime men we lie.

990
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: We put on this mask just to get the pussy,

991
00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 1: and then the mask come right off, the real, the

992
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 1: real nigga come out. You know. So a lot of

993
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 1: times women are tricked, But then you have the women

994
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 1: that inside they know. Let's be real, y'all. All of

995
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 1: here have been with a nigga and you know what

996
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,720
Speaker 1: type of nigga he is, but I wasn't. Still, sometimes

997
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 1: you'll be with a guy and you have no idea

998
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: what he's like when he's not around you, Like, he's

999
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: different when he's around his friends. You could be with him,

1000
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 1: he'd be so see and great to you, and then

1001
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:45,240
Speaker 1: next thing you know, he running trains with his boys.

1002
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 1: You know what you'd be like, man, I know exactly,

1003
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 1: And then they come back and they're like, you will

1004
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: not believe what these guys did. You know, man, you

1005
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:59,359
Speaker 1: know I don't get involved in nothing like that. Those

1006
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:02,800
Speaker 1: the niggas that tell themselves what guys do be lying

1007
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:04,800
Speaker 1: like they'd be so good to you and you cannot

1008
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 1: believe what they're really like. Always remember that if he

1009
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 1: can't tell your story about his homeboys, they trying to

1010
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:12,920
Speaker 1: keep himself out to clear he didn't anything. That's the

1011
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: oldest trick in the bull man that was out there,

1012
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: you know, I just went to sleep. It was out

1013
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: there last night, but went to sleep any when that

1014
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:27,360
Speaker 1: was third on the train. Yeah, that's why I always

1015
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 1: said the first they tell true laws because they tell

1016
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 1: some of the truth, but they leave out the part

1017
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 1: that you would suck them up for so and sometimes

1018
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 1: guys tell you a little too much information, Like they'll

1019
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 1: tell you how wild they was. I don't want to

1020
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:43,040
Speaker 1: hear all that, right They'll be like, yeah, you know,

1021
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 1: so then my boys there, and then I thought there

1022
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: after that, and then like yeah I don't I don't know,

1023
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 1: but yeah, and what about women? So if you found

1024
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 1: out some information about a woman, you're gonna ask her

1025
00:57:54,040 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 1: right away. Um. If yeah, you guys, guys hold ain't nothing.

1026
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 1: They stick to like this cold of secrecy for something

1027
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:07,960
Speaker 1: right away if you come from if you find out

1028
00:58:08,120 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: your girl you say wait until you do something. It

1029
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: was like, yo, you know you know I've seen your

1030
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 1: girl in the club doing that. You're gonna tell it

1031
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: right away. I'm addressing that bitch right now today on

1032
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: the spot. I ain't I ain't even wait for old

1033
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 1: and that's too much time to but passed by. I

1034
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: might not fear to say an tom are no, I'm

1035
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm calling you right there, or I'm gonna come see

1036
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 1: you right there. Me on the type of nigg I

1037
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 1: don't call you because I want to see your face

1038
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 1: when I when I'm telling yeah, I want to see

1039
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 1: your face. Yea, I'm coming straight to pulling up. Yeah,

1040
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 1: I'm pulling up and I'm addressing you right away. I

1041
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 1: was just talking about this in the car with G

1042
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 1: Like I was just chilling with, you know, a guy

1043
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 1: that I date, and he brought something else to me

1044
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: from February, and I can tell that it got him upset,

1045
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 1: like it's in February. Yeah, telling He's like, it's true,

1046
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 1: I know you was working with x y Z like

1047
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: he was sucking with somebody out there in February, and

1048
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I wasn't. And I was like explaining

1049
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 1: to the situation, and I could sound like he was

1050
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 1: getting hot because he thought I was lying, like like

1051
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 1: you telling me the truth about everything, but you lying

1052
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 1: at me about this, And he waited from February, right,

1053
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:22,240
Speaker 1: But she really was telling the truth. I was really

1054
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:24,480
Speaker 1: telling the truth. Like he thought I was working with

1055
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: somebody in a certain group, but I wasn't working with

1056
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 1: somebody in that certain group. I actually was working with

1057
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 1: somebody else that was way off the group, right, And

1058
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 1: to do so he had some funs information. Yeah, he

1059
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 1: assumed he was assuming he had no information just because

1060
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 1: of where he was at and addressing situation with him.

1061
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 1: I've been went since October. He just not really caring.

1062
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that as a man. As a man,

1063
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 1: I'm telling you he is not he giving Now he

1064
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 1: actually care, because in February he didn't give a funk.

1065
00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, now he in his feelings.

1066
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 1: Now he got know what was going on. I'm telling man,

1067
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 1: you were like vibing, you know, like we were smoking

1068
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 1: and drinking a little bit, and we were like vibing.

1069
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,400
Speaker 1: And I felt like he felt really relaxed to like

1070
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 1: let me know to open up. Yeah, did you look

1071
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: at him any differently? After that? It was kind of cute.

1072
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 1: It was now I was like, I'm flyers. I didn't

1073
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:26,360
Speaker 1: feel I didn't feel especially because he was wrong, Like, no,

1074
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: you know what I felt. I felt. I felt bad

1075
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 1: because I'm like, damn, he thinks of me crazy, you

1076
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like he he doesn't believe, like

1077
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 1: I'm so honest with him, but he still doesn't believe

1078
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 1: my truth, like the truth that I'm telling him, he

1079
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 1: doesn't believe it because of how fucked up you know,

1080
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 1: the situation is like how funked up women are and

1081
01:00:47,640 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 1: how funked up men are and the way Yeah, do

1082
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 1: people even define relationships anymore? How do you know you're

1083
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 1: in a relationship right? Because I'm not in a relationships.

1084
01:00:57,560 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like when when it's you say, you know,

1085
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 1: say me, when both people confirmed, do you have to

1086
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 1: have a discussion or is it like no, yeah, no,

1087
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 1: it got to be a discussion because women there put

1088
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 1: you in a relationship. I'm dead ass. I don't funk

1089
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: with a woman for a certain amount of time. Next

1090
01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: thing you know, they're like, yeah, we're together that or

1091
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 1: not and I'm like, what like that, you've been there?

1092
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:27,360
Speaker 1: We all be there. Relationship When you're fighting about something

1093
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 1: and you still funk with each other, that's when you know,

1094
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 1: like just got real. But don't you feel like you

1095
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: have to have that discussion like are you walking with

1096
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 1: anybody else? Exactly? Once we have sex? You are my boyfriend.

1097
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to say. But that's what I'm

1098
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 1: trying to say, that about newbody else to see, That's

1099
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to say. That's how some women are.

1100
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 1: I feel like, want sex, you're my boyfriend, but we're

1101
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:51,360
Speaker 1: still not. It's not that deep until you have that

1102
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 1: conversation like listen, I'm not working with nobody. I don't

1103
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 1: want you to funk with anybody. What do you think?

1104
01:01:56,480 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 1: How can you have? Just got to be clear from

1105
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 1: the do though? You know now if you're with a

1106
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 1: girl right and y'allo just you're fucking and you guys

1107
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: really care about each other and like each other, or

1108
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 1: if you're with a guy right and come to find

1109
01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 1: out that person is sleeping with other people, but y'all

1110
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:18,640
Speaker 1: never defined your relationship. You be mad, but you can't

1111
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 1: really be that mad. But you can't really say nothing

1112
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 1: because y'all haven't defined where you all stand. Of course,

1113
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 1: because did anybody say you're my girlfriend, you're my boyfriend? No,

1114
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:37,920
Speaker 1: no one. I mean when you're discussion though, like what

1115
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:42,040
Speaker 1: we're doing here, right, because that's when the woman just

1116
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 1: as certainly like and yeah, we're together, the people are

1117
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe the way my circle rules, like

1118
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like you have to understand somebody

1119
01:02:57,200 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: before you could even be in a relationship with me.

1120
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 1: You know, so when you're friends and you're dating and

1121
01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:05,479
Speaker 1: you're meeting each other's family, because I mean, I'm dating

1122
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: somebody I'm as mother has father and we're not in

1123
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: a serious relationship. You know, if I don't think that

1124
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that I would know. I would never introduce

1125
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:21,240
Speaker 1: my parents to a bitch. I ain't taking serifer. That's

1126
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 1: but that's different. That's different I'm talking about like mam, mam,

1127
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:28,280
Speaker 1: this is like, nah, I ain't doing that. I'm not

1128
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 1: bringing you to if I'm not. But it depends on

1129
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 1: your relationship with your parents, because some people have like

1130
01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 1: a superar relationship where you know, theyduce everybody like oh

1131
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 1: this is as just as you know and but girls

1132
01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:49,000
Speaker 1: take that very seriously if you introduce it. That's why

1133
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:50,920
Speaker 1: I said, you don't play like that. I think when

1134
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 1: you're approaching a guy as a woman with that conversation,

1135
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 1: it kind of makes something like wait a minute, you know,

1136
01:03:56,480 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 1: slow down, like wait, which you mean whether we every

1137
01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 1: time exactly? Life and time? You know, just let life

1138
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 1: and time give you a title. But when do you

1139
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 1: decide like, Okay, I'm not gonna sunk with nobody else

1140
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 1: because we're in a relationship. And then when you get

1141
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 1: in a relationship, when you move too fast, it's it's

1142
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:26,360
Speaker 1: a terrible relationship. Like my last one that for a weekend.

1143
01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 1: Then it was like all right, you're my boyfriend. All right,

1144
01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 1: I'm your girlfriend. That's it. Yeah, I had it happened

1145
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 1: to me in one day and like a couple of hours.

1146
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 1: Then you don't take some people don't take that title seriously. Though.

1147
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 1: I felt like we were being in a relationship and boyfriend,

1148
01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 1: let me tell you. We met at a club and

1149
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 1: he just like literally like just walked up to me

1150
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 1: and was like, what's your name? And I told my name.

1151
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: He was like, give me a number. I just gave

1152
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 1: him my number and he told me his name. He's like,

1153
01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you, and I was like all right,

1154
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 1: And then I was just going on about my business

1155
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 1: in the club. And then the next day he caught

1156
01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 1: me and then we had the general conversation you know

1157
01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 1: where you live, what you do that I So he's like, oh,

1158
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: I know where you stay. He was like, you smoke

1159
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: and I was like yeah. He was like, take a

1160
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:06,440
Speaker 1: ride with me that smoked this blunt. He's like, wish

1161
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 1: your address. I'm near your house. So he picked me up.

1162
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 1: We rode around for like two maybe three hours, smoking,

1163
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 1: and you know, we had all of this conversation and

1164
01:05:14,040 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: then when he dropped me back off, he was like,

1165
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 1: so you're gonna be my girl or you know, like okay.

1166
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 1: It was like in my early twenties. It was like

1167
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:27,720
Speaker 1: the early two thousands. And then lasted how long two

1168
01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 1: and a half years. It lasted until I found it

1169
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 1: lasted until I found out that he's the same guy

1170
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 1: that the story I told before about the boyfriend who

1171
01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 1: told me that he had just got out of jail

1172
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:38,440
Speaker 1: and his sister, and then I found out that he

1173
01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:40,560
Speaker 1: had the baby, and then that the baby wasn't his,

1174
01:05:40,800 --> 01:05:42,480
Speaker 1: and and then I broke up with him because he

1175
01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:44,600
Speaker 1: lied about having a baby, and then kind of the baby,

1176
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 1: that's the same guy. Yeah, I don't know where he's

1177
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: still he still alive, Yeah, as far as I know.

1178
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:54,920
Speaker 1: As far as I know, he's still alive, all right.

1179
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:57,040
Speaker 1: So it is important because I feel like a lot

1180
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: of times with women, I know, they date a guy

1181
01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: and then they automatically assume they're in a relationship and

1182
01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: that's the only person they're dating, and then they get

1183
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 1: upset when they that they're not the only one. But

1184
01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 1: then it's not so hard for for women sometimes to

1185
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:13,480
Speaker 1: date multiple people because once you when you go to

1186
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 1: date more than one person, you it's this thing that

1187
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: you don't know if you're supposed to reveal that to guys,

1188
01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:25,000
Speaker 1: because it could go either way. Either they could respect

1189
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 1: your honesty and be like, well, then I'm gonna try

1190
01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:31,320
Speaker 1: to be the number one contender, or they could be like, oh,

1191
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: she ain't taking this, like I can't take her seriously

1192
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 1: because she sunk with other people. So now you have

1193
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:39,959
Speaker 1: this like do I lie and say I'm not sing

1194
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 1: with other people? Right, no, but not having sex. But

1195
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 1: once you just say I'm still But then you have

1196
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 1: to explain having sex. Who dates that having sex? So

1197
01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: I feel like, like, even me, I swear, I'm so honest,

1198
01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 1: but I don't. I'm I'm saying, tell them on niggas

1199
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:04,120
Speaker 1: that I'm working on the All they gotta do is

1200
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:06,479
Speaker 1: this in the lip service. Don't know alright, I don't

1201
01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:09,640
Speaker 1: only have sex with one guy, listen, don't have sex

1202
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 1: with everybody. I'm dating my ex boyfriend, my ex boyfriend

1203
01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 1: who I was with, but before he was like my

1204
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 1: boyfriend and I was dating him. I didn't know what

1205
01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:22,560
Speaker 1: he was doing. I was dating other people too. We

1206
01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:25,320
Speaker 1: were together for five years after that, but you know,

1207
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 1: beginning he asked me and he was like, are you

1208
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:31,000
Speaker 1: dating on the people? I was like, yeah, aren't you?

1209
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's how you gotta do it. That's what

1210
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:38,120
Speaker 1: I mean. Even if they're not, other people feel about it.

1211
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 1: Even if they're not dating other other people. Nine times

1212
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 1: out of tend, he's still sucking a big mom. What's

1213
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:44,000
Speaker 1: the difference, Well, he didn't have a baby mom. Okay,

1214
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:49,960
Speaker 1: you know, put a baby on him and everything. Because

1215
01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 1: niggas that got baby mom is nine times out oftend.

1216
01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: They still like always they feel like they have that

1217
01:07:55,960 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 1: right forever, all right, So what can we expect now? Listen,

1218
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 1: I was trying to catch up our Money and Violence.

1219
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:06,000
Speaker 1: But like I said, took him all off the internet

1220
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:08,919
Speaker 1: now because you have to have title or a lions Gate.

1221
01:08:09,520 --> 01:08:12,480
Speaker 1: Well not actually it's off for title two. They said.

1222
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: They took him all down there. It's gonna be for

1223
01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: It's gonna be up for sale like in another week, Amazon, everywhere,

1224
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 1: you know, so now you gotta buy it. They're not

1225
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 1: playing against lions Gate. Did a deal with Money and

1226
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 1: Violence if you want to see it, But we'll be

1227
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:31,120
Speaker 1: on TV next you know. Season three would be somewhere

1228
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 1: on TV. Have you ever been a side piece in

1229
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 1: real life? Like somebody's side piece? I better not know

1230
01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:40,160
Speaker 1: about it? Probably was, well, yeah, now I was. I

1231
01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 1: know that for show ship at the time she had

1232
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:45,840
Speaker 1: a husband. Yeah, it didn't bother you. You probably liked it.

1233
01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:49,920
Speaker 1: I actually did. Was the vintage vagina. It was good,

1234
01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: it's exciting. You don't expect nothing from you. And then

1235
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 1: and then she used to like, it's like she was

1236
01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:57,160
Speaker 1: trying to show me ship, so she used to like

1237
01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 1: go hand on me. Even so, it that was a

1238
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:03,000
Speaker 1: funny spend. You think you would like kind of did

1239
01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:05,400
Speaker 1: you ever want her to leave her husband? Hell? No,

1240
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 1: like being she taught you some things, She taught me

1241
01:09:11,560 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 1: some things. Boy, well all the women now will appreciate

1242
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:18,040
Speaker 1: it after that. Nothing like teaching somebody something and nothing

1243
01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 1: worse than teaching somebody something and they go be with

1244
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:22,600
Speaker 1: somebody else. The gift that keeps on getting got me

1245
01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:29,639
Speaker 1: ready for now, I guess crazy, I'm still with older woman.

1246
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 1: That's just what she's only too. Yeah, oh your girl now, yeah, okay,

1247
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 1: she take care of you, She'll take care of me.

1248
01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't cook, finish, She take care of

1249
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,640
Speaker 1: me as far as like to be the woman. But

1250
01:09:46,840 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 1: you know what, clear because it's a lot of sucking

1251
01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 1: niggas be like that. Take care of you women, take

1252
01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:57,920
Speaker 1: care of her, take care of because nowadays niggers don't

1253
01:09:57,960 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 1: mind like their dead ass. Just be a l as.

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Speaker 1: Take care of not me. You gotta watch out for

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Speaker 1: those guys. Yeah that so all right. Well, we appreciate

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Speaker 1: you coming through to LIPS Service again. I'm Stephanie Santiago.

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Speaker 1: I'm g g McGuire Passport Cutting Past. But make sure

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Speaker 1: you check out the blog too on tm dot tv.

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Speaker 1: You do a great job with that, she got people

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Speaker 1: so mad with her feelings. It would be so funny.

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Speaker 1: People be so upset. She said, what type of cheater

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Speaker 1: are you? It's supposed to be funny, guys. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: personally type things so seriously. Like even when I said

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Speaker 1: the thing about oh, he probably got kids, he got

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Speaker 1: you know, he got juicy juice in the car, people

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Speaker 1: are like, why don't you talking about And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it's just come down, okay, okay, like it's just supposed

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Speaker 1: to be you know, humorous and some if you just

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Speaker 1: need to realize this is entertainment purposes everything. Take everything

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Speaker 1: with a greener sven. It doesn't apply. Let it fly.

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Speaker 1: Like some people said, like this is pretty funny. It's

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Speaker 1: like it doesn't apply to anything. It's funny. Yeah. And

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Speaker 1: I try, I mean not trying not to be too

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Speaker 1: outlanders because I don't want to seem like I'm just stereotyping.

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Speaker 1: But when I feel like the first thing that comes

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Speaker 1: to yourhead is usually it's probably not the it's not true.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's like a stereotype that you normally think of,

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Speaker 1: you know, and you you don't want to defend it.

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Speaker 1: I'm tired of always having to defend something. It's like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I put it out there, and if you don't like it,

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Speaker 1: oh well, but you know, okay, glad you clear that up.

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Speaker 1: I've been trying to get you to come out there,

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Speaker 1: all right. What happens that we appreciate you, of course

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