1 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: So I thought it was Katar and my friend just 2 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: told me that she was corrected and that it's catter 3 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: like if you're from there, or it's cutter cutter, I 4 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: don't know, And like then it brings me to like 5 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: Abitha and Barcelona, like I don't think I need to 6 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: go there or say it because of these like Marigotti, 7 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 1: which is Manicotti, which neither is good, Like I'd rather 8 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 1: Why is moist a bad word? When Barthelona and Marigotti 9 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: or Manicotti, Like, there's no way that moist is the 10 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: worst word. I feel like we're giving it the worst 11 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: rap when like words are really irritating and a turnoff, 12 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: and the pretentiousness I speak French je abite a momat 13 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: I turn myself off because it's like sounds pretentious and 14 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: it's weird, and I just don't want to say a 15 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: lot of these words, so I avoid them. But like 16 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: who the f and like it used to be when 17 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: we were growing up, it was Ralph Laurent. It's Ralph Lauren. Porsche, 18 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:11,919 Speaker 1: It's Porsche, Porsche. Wait, Porsche, Porsche. It's Porsche. I forgot, 19 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: wait what is it? It's it's a Porsche or it's 20 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:17,839 Speaker 1: a Porsche. I forgot. I literally forgot Capri. My best 21 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 1: friend she's literally speaks French and Spanish and she's like, 22 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: I say Capria. I'm like, wait, what you're like culture? 23 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: What do you mean you say Capri? It's Capri? But 24 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: maybe I'm an asshole. I don't know what the words are. 25 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: Like now, I'm so confused. I know it's Ralph Lauren, 26 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: but who gives a shit? It's so pretentious Protec it's 27 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: Patech is it? People say Paddock, but it's Patec Phelipe. 28 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 2: Like, I don't know. 29 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: I'm confused, and I don't like any of it, and 30 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: I don't want to do it. Other random rant Chris 31 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: Jenner got a blinged out Martini set for her car, 32 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: which is hilarious because you're not drinking in the car, 33 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: but she's not driving. She's probably being driven and I 34 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: love it. She doesn't give a shit. I just want 35 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: to say that overall, the Kardashians have landed. They are 36 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: finally where they need to be. It is so obvious 37 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: that they are not clamoring and thirsty and desperate and 38 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 1: needing to flex and show off. And I really believe 39 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 1: that I was part of that, like they'll show something expensive, 40 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: but it's giving rich bitch versus like giving bragging. And 41 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: I did a whole rant on this very podcast saying 42 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: like they need an intervention, and I know that it 43 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: got to them because I know many things that have 44 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: gotten to them, just like I know that my Megan 45 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: Markle posts obviously got to her, because I know that. 46 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: I'll tell you one day about Ellen DeGeneres reaching out 47 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 1: to me about the Megan Markele posts because she had 48 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 1: reached out to them, or they spoke about it, like 49 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: people see the posts. So I know that years ago 50 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: I said that the Kardashians need a quens and we 51 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: need an intervention. I'm going to tell you that it happened. 52 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: Like each and every one of them are secure in 53 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: their own spot in society, comfortable in their own success. 54 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: And I think that Chris Jenner, posting about her blinged 55 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: out Martini set, which has cigarettes and a lighter in 56 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 1: a cigarette case and a blinged out lighter, says she's 57 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: not pandering if she has a cigarette. Once in a while, 58 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 1: she has a cigarette, she'd apologize. If she's not pandering, 59 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 1: she probably doesn't love it. She knows it's quote unquote 60 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: bad so is using hairspray and red dye and candy. 61 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: And I'm not promoting smoking, but I'm saying that this 62 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: woman is at a place where she's saying, Hi, I 63 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: don't get two shits what you think. 64 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 2: This is where I am. This is what I'm doing. 65 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: I don't need to prove anything to you. I am wealthy, 66 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: I am successful, I am smart, I am beautiful, asked 67 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: and answered. So I'm no longer bragging, flexing, I'm no 68 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: longer needing anyone's approval. 69 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 2: And I made it. 70 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: And every single Kardashian or Jenner is there now like 71 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: they're just there, like we're here, we did it. We know, 72 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: we know who we are. Our feet are glued to 73 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: the goddamn ground. Kim is in a new Hulu show 74 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: and she's like, Hi, I'm a boss, bitch. Act will 75 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: Is she actually a lawyer? I don't know she went 76 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: to law school. I think she took the bar. But 77 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: she's a lawyer. And she also plays one on TV 78 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: in a Ryan Murphy show. The Outfits landed, the language landed, 79 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: the role has landed. I think she did American horror story. 80 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 1: She wants to be an actress. She gets to be 81 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 1: an actress. She gets to do whatever she wants because 82 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: she who makes the gold, makes the rules. And she's 83 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: definitely proven herself in many spaces. And one dumb dumb 84 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: in the comments was like, yes, stay in your own lane. 85 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, shut the fuck up. She's in every lane. Okay, 86 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: she gets to be in any lane she wants because 87 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: she paved the highway so people can get mad at her. 88 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: And I have in the past shared my criticism and 89 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: my comments because as everyone knows, I don't give a shit. 90 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 1: But I tried the Lemmy gummies. I tried the cloud popcorn. 91 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: I tried the Courtney Grumble cookie. I'm entering my Kardashian era. 92 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 2: How's that. I tried the skim socks. They're wonderful. 93 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:56,239 Speaker 1: I'm entering my Kardashian era because there's something about where 94 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: they have landed in what they are doing that is 95 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 1: hit different. And all of you know that what I'm 96 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: saying makes sense, Like there's a lack of desperation, a 97 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 1: lack of bragging. They're not bragging like they are rich. 98 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 1: They are wealthy. They no longer need to like flex 99 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: it and brag it and rub your noses in it. 100 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: It is what it is. Watch, don't watch. They don't 101 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 1: really give a shit because they've made it. They've got 102 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: their money, they've got their planes, they've got their Cashmere 103 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,239 Speaker 1: lined planes, they've got their brands which are doing well. 104 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: And I actually not actually I liked the popcorn. I'd 105 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 1: mentioned what the calories were and that and how it 106 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 1: compares to other snacks because it's not low calorie. But 107 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: I enjoyed the cheese flavor popcorn. I also understood that 108 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 1: they all have proteins, so the regular salt ones gonna 109 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: be a little chalky because you got to get the 110 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 1: protein in. I believe on that night that the lemmy 111 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: I did sleep well because of it. 112 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 2: I can't know. 113 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 1: I did not take the vagina gummies. I don't actually know, 114 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: but on that particular night, I thought like, Okay, these 115 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: may just work. Not an expert, not positive, but these 116 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: may just work. And so yeah, I'm entering my Kardashian era. 117 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: You're welcome, Matt Gala. I think I have a better 118 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: relationship with it. I don't watch every inch of it, 119 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: by any stretching, I don't watch any of it I watch. 120 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's not a show, but I 121 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: watched TikTok clips come through of what people wore, and 122 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: I admire the theatrics of it, and like the effort 123 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: and the performance art of it. I admire the performance 124 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,679 Speaker 1: art of it, and when people go there and half 125 00:06:56,720 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: bake it, I also think they kind of deserve to 126 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:02,919 Speaker 1: be roasted. You wear like a little black dress, like 127 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: it's like what we what do we fucking? What are 128 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: we doing? Like where Levi's in a tech top, then 129 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: like what what are we doing? And I also think 130 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: the scale is really important because some things I could 131 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: imagine an outfit that like you put on and you 132 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: think it's landing, but then you get there and the 133 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: scale is so much bigger, and people are doing such gigantic, 134 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: dramatic things. And then also those can look clown like 135 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: in gimmicking, like Kim Rodashian's outfit is an example. She 136 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: looked sexy and hot, but when it first came out, 137 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: I thought she looked like some version of like Paula 138 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: Abdul or Janet Jackson. And I felt the same way 139 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: about Jlo's look last year with that swed outfit in 140 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: the hat, but like as it like melts into me. 141 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: I start to like it because I'm looking at like 142 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: the up close like crop leather, and like the dip 143 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 1: in the back, and. 144 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 2: I don't know, like I feel like some of them 145 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 2: I don't like. 146 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: But then I it's like a song that you first 147 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 1: heard and you didn't like, but and like you hear 148 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: it a couple of times and you like it. I 149 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: just used to think that I wouldn't want to go, 150 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 1: you know, like but not like not as a hater. 151 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know, like I would want to go. 152 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: I've said this before, just for the creativity, Like I like, 153 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: what's the theme? How do we thread it to the theme? 154 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: And like what could I wear to really illustrate it 155 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: and like have fun performing it? Like I would enjoy that. 156 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: I would not need to go to the event. I 157 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: don't love or care about celebrities. I appreciate the art form. 158 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 1: And I also understand why Anna Wintour excommunicated Donald Trump, 159 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 1: whether you voted for him or not, whether you're a 160 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: Trump fan or not, because I do still think that 161 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: she preserves the art form of what it's supposed to be. 162 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 2: But I don't know. 163 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: Last year, all the influencers they got taken off this 164 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: year because I think that that was basically not preserving it. 165 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: I think she felt like you would ruin it in 166 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: some way, and I think she's right. But I can't 167 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 1: articulate why, because it can't be about the blatant marketing 168 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: and it because that's who he is. It's about the 169 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 1: art form. It's about the commercialization of the art form. 170 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, but there are a lot of brands 171 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 1: there that pay and that advertising Vogue and I don't know. 172 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: It's all very interesting. It's an interesting thing, like the 173 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 1: business and the creativity and the art form of the macala. 174 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: I'm more interested. I'm not interested into it, but I'm 175 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: more intrigued by it. I want you to know a 176 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: couple of things about dating. Men are as insecure as women. 177 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: You need to say this to yourself ten times. You 178 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 1: need to believe it. Okay, men are as insecure as women. 179 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 1: But because we've lived in a society where it's a 180 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: man's world, men got paid more, Men were able to 181 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: just like you know, talk about your breasts at work. 182 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: Men can grab you on the ass. Men run the show. 183 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: He who makes the gold makes the rules. Men work, 184 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: women stay home. I mean all of these things. You 185 00:09:55,160 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 1: cannot unbraid a century worth of dynamics in a decade. 186 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: So women are making money, women are strong, women are equal, 187 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: women are all these things. We no matter how rich, attractive, 188 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: or successful we are, we don't think we're equal because 189 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: the men run the program. And I will prove it 190 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 1: because when you listen to young women on social media. 191 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 2: He left me a. 192 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: Flower or like the littlest crumb we He just texted me, 193 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, send to your five girlfriends so they 194 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: can all squeal like the basic bottom of the barrel crumbs. 195 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 1: And I'm as guilty as anyone else. And I'm a 196 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: fucking bad bitch who could get anyone that I want 197 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: within reason. Honestly, I do pretty good and I do 198 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 1: it too. Like it's like he's a prize. I'll say 199 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 1: he's a prize that my friends are like, you're you're 200 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: a prize. Were talking about you're pretty unique, Bethany, And 201 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, but but we are programmed to like give, 202 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: like we want to give them a cookie for doing 203 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,320 Speaker 1: the bare minimum. Men get away with doing the bare 204 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:01,200 Speaker 1: minimum to get credit. And I have I've totally shifted 205 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: this thing on its ass. But I'm also we also 206 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: go with it. It's like fuck him, I'm not responding, 207 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: or like we all take these crumbs and think they 208 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 1: mean something. I had a guy that I was dating 209 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: that was looking at a house and when we got there, 210 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 1: he was like asking me everything about it as it 211 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: pertained to me, and I was like, wait, it feels 212 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: like you're looking at this house for us. And we 213 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: had slept together and we liked each other and we 214 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: were getting serious. We weren't engaged, we hadn't said I 215 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: love you, but we were getting serious and he was 216 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 1: like yeah. And to me it was like later when 217 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: it didn't work out, you wanted to be like wait, 218 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: but we looked at a house, like or wait, but 219 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 1: he said that you know, we were going to look 220 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 1: at houses together, or that we're going to name our 221 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: kids this or whatever. These are fantasies. Like doesn't mean 222 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: they won't one day come true. It doesn't mean they're 223 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: not ideas and concepts. But because a man, when he's 224 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: drinking and his dick is hard at two in the morning, says, 225 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: oh my god, that would be amazing. I'd loved I 226 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: want to live there too. Maybe we'll live there one day. 227 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: Or that would be great when I come to see 228 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: you at this time, or when I make you breakfast. 229 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: All of these things they're fun at night, okay. So 230 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: is taking your tits off at Marty Gras okay and 231 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: having beads on it, But doesn't mean it represents the truth. 232 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: So you being with someone at two o'clock in the 233 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: morning and them saying all the things to make your 234 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: hopes and dreams come true, that you're gonna tell at 235 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 1: nine in the morning tomorrow before it's seven o'clock at 236 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: night and the guy still hasn't texted you back, and 237 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: you're gonna be all fucking confused because he told you 238 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 1: that the world was square and you believed it. So 239 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: just know that these things can be They can say 240 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 1: these things, and they can mean them, but it doesn't 241 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: have to mean that it's all gonna happen and that 242 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: they owe you anything and that they're. 243 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 2: Gonna call you okay, okay. 244 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: So let's put that to the side about us making 245 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: them make the rules, et cetera. Let's layer that with 246 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: their as insecure as we are. So I've had so 247 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,439 Speaker 1: many men that are more insecure in their fifties and 248 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: their forties by the way, because they've all been married, 249 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 1: they're divorced. 250 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:54,959 Speaker 2: They don't know what the fuck to do. They're flailing octupi. 251 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 1: So they are like, they don't know how to text, 252 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: they don't know how to walk. They're in diaper with 253 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 1: a pacifier. Okay, they don't know what the fuck they're doing. 254 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: So you think they're grown ass man. They run major businesses. 255 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 1: They're like, you know, walking upright, Like they know how 256 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: to text like normal people. They don't know how to 257 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 1: text like normal people. They have a Beta max. Okay, 258 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: they have the first computer ever invented. Their cell phone 259 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: is the size of a lunchbox. So they text you 260 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 1: it's some bizarre inopportunity time with one sentence. And then 261 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 1: you are doing what we do because all the game 262 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: player people told us to do this, and you're just 263 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:29,079 Speaker 1: texting back one sentence back or two sentences. 264 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 2: Try this because I tried it. 265 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 1: How about when you text back something that's like added on, 266 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: Like you text like, how's your day going, and then 267 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 1: you send the pictures of Oh, then they come in 268 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: with four pictures of themselves and then they heart your 269 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 1: day going things, And now you're in a dialogue because 270 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: they're insecure too. They're scared you don't like them, so 271 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: they just sent you a sentence and you're trying to 272 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 1: think like the man makes the rules and he's the 273 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: one who runs the show, so you're texting back let 274 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 1: me shell him or you know he But but don't 275 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: be double texting like a desperado. And if you do 276 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 1: this thing presuming that manner as insecure as you are, 277 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 1: and it doesn't work, they still don't respond, or they 278 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: still keep acting in the way they felt a little 279 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: like they're fucking weird. Yeah, you don't double down. Try 280 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,840 Speaker 1: woods put it out there. Just put the little thing 281 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 1: you're not, like, Hi, what are you wearing? Here's a 282 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 1: picture of me with my pants off, just a cute, 283 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 1: little feminine, flirty thing to say, Hi, I'm here and 284 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: I'm doing a little extra, Like someone sent me a 285 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: picture and I was like, wholl I'm here for that, 286 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: you know, like a little something. If they don't bite, 287 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: they don't bite, they're not a shock. Get them out 288 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: of there. But if they bite, they take a little nibble, 289 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: it's okay. Then they know it's safe. It's safe. Just 290 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 1: know they're as insecure as you are, and it doesn't 291 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 1: mean because they said things to you because you had 292 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: a great time, it doesn't mean they like you, they 293 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 1: are in love you, they're gonna marry you. It means 294 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: you had a nice evening and it was something to 295 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: do in the moment. Just like you could bang a 296 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: young bartender doesn't mean you're marrying a young bartender. 297 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 2: But it was fun last night. 298 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: Just because you told me as org justize and you 299 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 1: want a kid to have green eyes doesn't mean you're 300 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 1: getting married and having babies.