Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody, the Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. You
Speaker 1: have no idea what Kathy and I've been up to.
Speaker 1: We're so happy to be back, Katy say hello, oh
Speaker 1: my goodness, hello hello. Today we're going to answer more
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Speaker 2: Okay, before we get into today's episode, we have to
Speaker 2: give you guys updates on our crew. So far, Susan
Speaker 2: and I are on a twelve day cruise to eleven
Speaker 2: eleven okay, eleven, who's counting eleven days? We're doing Istanbul, Turkey.
Speaker 2: We're starting in Athens, Greece, and oh my gosh, I
Speaker 2: don't even know where to begin.
Speaker 1: You want to talk about Athens? Kathy was so impressed
Speaker 1: with Athens. I mean we basically hiked and then hit
Speaker 1: every store every restaurant. We only had twenty four hours.
Speaker 1: But how about the hotel. We had a little boutique
Speaker 1: hotel rate in the center of everything, and was such
Speaker 1: a doll baby. We have a new friend, he was.
Speaker 2: So let me say, for all of you who don't know,
Speaker 2: Susan loves to shop. So we shopped till we dropped
Speaker 2: on the first day. And then I was going to
Speaker 2: the Acropolis, come hell or high water. So I got
Speaker 2: up the next morning really early, and I went up.
Speaker 1: You and I no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 2: We climbed up and we saw the videos out there,
Speaker 2: saw the sunset. We did climb up. I wanted to
Speaker 2: go in.
Speaker 1: I wanted to touch the bas because it was too late.
Speaker 1: There's yes, so at a certain time whatever, whatever. But
Speaker 1: the views, how about it? And the rooftop of our hotel.
Speaker 1: We looked at the Acropolis. I mean, it's just phenomenal.
Speaker 1: You were it was phenomenal. And they light the Acropolis
Speaker 1: up and night with four flights. But then I could
Speaker 1: not leave Athens Grease without going, so Susan wanted to
Speaker 1: sleep in a little bit. So Pathy got up by
Speaker 1: herself and trucked up to the Acropolis. Found a shortcut,
Speaker 1: you know, climbed through these beautiful streets and got in
Speaker 1: and there were no tickets available, and I am so
Speaker 1: proud of myself. I talked my way in and I
Speaker 1: bought a ticket, and I got to walk around and
Speaker 1: see the arthan On and you know these thousands of
Speaker 1: year old structures, said, are incredible. Yes, yes, Kathy, what
Speaker 1: happened Kathy that you said? You actually pulled out? Your
Speaker 1: friend said, I need the video of this. You we
Speaker 1: were trying to get in somewhere or something like. What
Speaker 1: was it? I don't know. I mean, that's amazing. When
Speaker 1: I asked, so if.
Speaker 2: Susan does we get right in what all that happened?
Speaker 2: I don't know, but we But let me just tell
Speaker 2: you if y'all have not been to Athens, Greeze, and
Speaker 2: you have not, so many of these World UNESCO sites
Speaker 2: are amazing. And I will tell you the acrop list
Speaker 2: is not disappoint You get up there and you're walking
Speaker 2: and you can just feel the Greek mythology. You can
Speaker 2: feel the gods. They're talking to you, Athena, Apollo, all
Speaker 2: those guys, they're all up there. It was an amazing day.
Speaker 1: And then what do we do feel, feel and taste
Speaker 1: the food. It was unbelievable. I mean they know how
Speaker 1: to cook. I enjoy food from every country. However, we
Speaker 1: just got to Istanbul and we'll tell you about that later,
Speaker 1: and that.
Speaker 2: We haven't a discoveredy yet, but we're going to do it. Yes,
Speaker 2: we're getting ready to so An, it's cruise ship. Wait,
Speaker 2: one more thing. I have to say. This cruise ship
Speaker 2: is amazing. The food is to die for. There's more restaurants.
Speaker 2: In fact, I think, Susan, I haven't said this to
Speaker 2: you yet. I think I could live on a cruise ship.
Speaker 2: I don't need a bigger bedroom than what I have. Wait,
Speaker 2: did you food for you? Did you know that, senior citizen?
Speaker 2: This isn't known fact.
Speaker 1: It's been printed that many retire women, older women book
Speaker 1: back to back cruises, like all year round. That's all
Speaker 1: they do is cruise and it's probably cheaper than paying rent.
Speaker 2: Well, you know that is an idea. And I will say,
Speaker 2: the people we are so friendly. You and I have
Speaker 2: made so many friends. We just got on this ship
Speaker 2: a few days ago and we've made so many friends.
Speaker 2: So I highly recommend it. I just think it's fabulous
Speaker 2: food entertainment and someone comes in and makes my bed
Speaker 2: every day.
Speaker 1: The service is impeccable. Our little room Stewarts, they're here
Speaker 1: every day. You come in in the afternoon. There's always
Speaker 1: fresh ice, fresh sparkling water or still water. Everything's pristine.
Speaker 1: It's a nice way to go and we love sharing
Speaker 1: all this stuff with you. We have a lot more
Speaker 1: to come, so stay tuned and thank you for letting
Speaker 1: us share.
Speaker 2: And let me just say, We've only been on this
Speaker 2: ship a few days, but I get fresh towels, I
Speaker 2: get something to make my bed. Susan, I hate to
Speaker 2: tell you I may not ever get off this ship,
Speaker 2: so just say, you know, we are.
Speaker 1: Having a great time.
Speaker 2: All right, Let's get into the episode, and let's start
Speaker 2: with the question of the day. What is it like
Speaker 2: for you interacting with younger people when you're on vacation.
Speaker 2: What are the dynamics of the cruise you're on now?
Speaker 2: In terms of ages? Is it a lot of different ages?
Speaker 2: You know, tell tell us what you think. What do
Speaker 2: you think is isn't it?
Speaker 1: That is one of the most amazing things. I've been
Speaker 1: on several several cruises and a lot with children. This
Speaker 1: is adults only. It is totally different than any cruise
Speaker 1: that I've been on. Actually, there's a mixture of ages.
Speaker 1: There are some younger ones and much older, so everybody
Speaker 1: kind of floats. There's short ones, tall ones, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Here's what I there's a lot of
Speaker 1: gay influence. There's a few, and the shows are fabulous.
Speaker 1: But I don't have a problem dealing with We made
Speaker 1: young friends. Kathy, the Charlie who don't stop texting us.
Speaker 1: He likes to chat.
Speaker 2: We have found that if your whether you're sitting at
Speaker 2: the pool, sitting at a restaurant, sitting at a bar,
Speaker 2: people just lean over. It doesn't matter what their ages,
Speaker 2: they just want to chat. They're friendly. Everybody starts a
Speaker 2: conversation with where are you from? And everybody knows somebody
Speaker 2: from your hometown. So it's like this sort of built in,
Speaker 2: great little community. And every day you meet new people
Speaker 2: and you sit with new people, and you just feel
Speaker 2: like you have this great new group of friends. We've
Speaker 2: already exchanged phone numbers.
Speaker 1: And don't you find, Kathy that everybody's happy, they're on vacation,
Speaker 1: everybody's in a good mood. They want to know who's
Speaker 1: next to you. And fortunately for us, they kind of
Speaker 1: a lot of people have recognized us. So we get
Speaker 1: to mingle and take pictures with these people and they
Speaker 1: you know that they love that we're normal, well not normal,
Speaker 1: but they love that we're social. And so many of
Speaker 1: them have said to us, and I'll quit, I'm so
Speaker 1: happy to see that you really are friends? Did you
Speaker 1: remember that tat? How many times? Why do people think
Speaker 1: that we're not? I don't know.
Speaker 2: I will say though, the other thing that the cruise
Speaker 2: sets up that I don't think happens at other vacation spots.
Speaker 2: There's bingo night, there's games night, there's karaoke nights. So
Speaker 2: there's these fabulous set up plans for everybody, and it
Speaker 2: doesn't matter what age you are.
Speaker 1: We were, you know.
Speaker 2: Clapping for a gentleman that was probably in his late
Speaker 2: seventies singing at Brig Sinatru.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Kathy, I just jumped in there. I beg
Speaker 1: your pardon. But how about that night you went to karaoke? Huh,
Speaker 1: It's amazing. It's amazing.
Speaker 2: So I think I think that younger people and older
Speaker 2: people on cruises had this unique opportunity to get to
Speaker 2: know each other, make friends and really enjoy each other.
Speaker 2: We've you know, I've shared pictures of my grandchildren and
Speaker 2: my children, and people ask me all about Austin, Texas.
Speaker 2: They want to come visit. It's really, you know, it's
Speaker 2: it's sort of like COVID when you're on a ship
Speaker 2: and you can't get off. You just start having these
Speaker 2: great conversations. Nobody's on their phones. It's great.
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 2: I recommend Lyley.
Speaker 1: Now everybody's always happy. Yeah, it's a good time. It's
Speaker 1: a good time. So what do you think cats? Should
Speaker 1: we get into our fan questions?
Speaker 2: Absolutely, let's go for it.
Speaker 1: Mel, Right, Hi, ladies, my friend and I adore your podcast.
Speaker 1: I am curious about your thoughts on kids at weddings.
Speaker 1: I'm getting married next year and I'm trying to decide
Speaker 1: if there should be kids there or not. Also, any
Speaker 1: other wedding planning advice you would have would be appreciated.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Well, hey, you need to call me. Susan's
Speaker 1: in efficient.
Speaker 2: But you know what my advice is, Mel run Off
Speaker 2: and Elope, weddings are the most expensive thing on the planet.
Speaker 2: The flowers are twice the price, the liquors twice the price.
Speaker 2: Everything the musicians. I mean, but that isn't your question.
Speaker 2: You asked if there should be kids or not, And
Speaker 2: my thought is, talk to your fiance, see what she
Speaker 2: or he would like to have, and if you guys,
Speaker 2: come to a decision together. Because it is your day
Speaker 2: and you get to do your wedding your way, and
Speaker 2: that is my advice to you. I will say my
Speaker 2: best wedding device is plan early, get it going early.
Speaker 1: Because it's a lot to plan a wedding. Therefore, go
Speaker 1: albe What about you, Susan, Yes, personally, it depends on
Speaker 1: how formal your wedding is. There's some weddings that aren't
Speaker 1: so formal, and I don't think it's a big deal
Speaker 1: to have kids running around. However, if it were me
Speaker 1: and you're asking me for my advice, absolutely no children
Speaker 1: at a wedding. You want to enjoy yourself. The people
Speaker 1: coming don't want to bring their kids unless you have
Speaker 1: a babysitter upstairs in the hotel room. A wedding, I
Speaker 1: think is for adults. If it's your own children, that's
Speaker 1: a whole different story. Or if some the ring bearer
Speaker 1: or maybe your niece or nephew, the bride, little flower
Speaker 1: girl they stay for part of it and then go upstairs.
Speaker 1: They shouldn't be there when the alcohol's being served and
Speaker 1: so on. And Kathy, I'll second you on that start
Speaker 1: early thing, because yeah, it is stressful, but if you
Speaker 1: get things accomplished early on, then don't sweat the small
Speaker 1: stuff because after all, well it's a wedding. Things are
Speaker 1: going to go wrong. But just have fun.
Speaker 2: So two of the things I'm thinking about. One is
Speaker 2: the little things that go wrong. Now, the only people
Speaker 2: who are going to know are you? Are you, maybe
Speaker 2: your fiance? No one else is going to notice, So
Speaker 2: just have fun. No one's gonna notice. The other thing
Speaker 2: I would say is, you guys have to work together
Speaker 2: for this wedding, so really you've got to talk to
Speaker 2: your fiance. You keep saying, I'm getting married, I want
Speaker 2: to decide what to do. I think you really have
Speaker 2: to plan it with your partner. And one thing I
Speaker 2: said to my daughter when she got married, enjoy the
Speaker 2: moment because you're not hopefully only doing this once. So
Speaker 2: you know, hire a videographer, hire a photographer, do all that,
Speaker 2: but try to enjoy the moment.
Speaker 1: If your wedding planning it, you're not enjoying it as
Speaker 1: much as the moment. I agree. But you know what, Kathy,
Speaker 1: just to remind you, man don't have a lot to
Speaker 1: do with making the wedding plans. Do you agree or not.
Speaker 2: I think it depends on the age. I think it
Speaker 2: totally depends on the age. That's true. That's true. And
Speaker 2: we don't know how I yeah, we don't know how
Speaker 2: old he is. But I think you know, I think
Speaker 2: she had Times are changing, Susan, my daughter's husband.
Speaker 1: He helped plan the wedding.
Speaker 2: He had definite things he wanted at his wedding, and
Speaker 2: that's why I say, I think it has to be
Speaker 2: a combined effort.
Speaker 1: But Mal, don't forget to hire your officiant. Susan, were
Speaker 1: you o boy? Well, I'm glad you wrote in. We
Speaker 1: appreciate it and we wish you nothing but the best.
Speaker 2: Yeah, let us know, let us know how the wedding goes.
Speaker 2: It said next year. But you know what, enjoyed the
Speaker 2: time of your fiance because the wedding is going to
Speaker 2: come a whole lot faster and you think it is.
Speaker 2: And by the way, May suggests for a honeymoon, take
Speaker 2: adult only cruise.
Speaker 1: You'll love it.
Speaker 2: It's so fun. There's lots of on our cruise. There
Speaker 2: are lots of people who just got married.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's going to have the cruise lines books solid
Speaker 1: for the next ten years.
Speaker 2: It's not a bad way to go, Susan, not right,
Speaker 2: Let's move on to the next one.
Speaker 1: This is from anonymous. Hi girls.
Speaker 2: First of all, I love you both and listen all
Speaker 2: the time. I honestly catch myself refreshing Spotify just to
Speaker 2: see if there's a new episode. Lately, though, I've been
Speaker 2: feeling kind of sad and stuck. I've been with my
Speaker 2: best friend and boyfriend for eight years. He truly is
Speaker 2: my person. He's been by my side through thick and thin,
Speaker 2: and I trust him with my whole heart, which is
Speaker 2: a big deal for me. We're both twenty six and
Speaker 2: trying our best, but we're struggling financially. He wants to
Speaker 2: propose and get married, but says he won't feel right
Speaker 2: doing that until he's financially stable, which I deeply respect.
Speaker 2: But it's still hard. We don't live together yet, not
Speaker 2: because we don't want to, but because life is so expensive.
Speaker 2: We're both living at home trying to save, but no
Speaker 2: matter how much we do. It never feels like enough.
Speaker 2: Between student loans, car payments, and the cost of everything,
Speaker 2: it feels impossible. We'd remove fine a house but be
Speaker 2: happy with even a small apartment. Yet everything just feels
Speaker 2: out of reach. I don't even know if I'm looking
Speaker 2: for advice or just needing to vent, but lately life
Speaker 2: just feels so heavy, especially when it seems like everyone
Speaker 2: else is celebrating new beginnings while we're just treading water.
Speaker 1: Oh not, bless you know what, You're allowed to feel
Speaker 1: these feelings. I mean, that's what makes us. But maybe
Speaker 1: you need to sit down or hire somebody to help
Speaker 1: you go on a specific kind of budget so that
Speaker 1: you're saving X amount of dollars to achieve the goals
Speaker 1: that you want. It is going to take some time,
Speaker 1: and maybe you could have started this a while ago.
Speaker 1: I get your staying you're surviving, but if you're living
Speaker 1: at moms, then there is a way to be saving
Speaker 1: some movie for starters.
Speaker 2: Kathy, what do you yeah? I mean, I yeah, I
Speaker 2: think this is tough. I mean, I don't know what
Speaker 2: their jobs are. I don't know what you guys, I
Speaker 2: don't know what you're doing. But student loans are really high,
Speaker 2: the interest rates are high, car payments are high, insurance
Speaker 2: is high. But if you're living at home and you
Speaker 2: guys aren't able to save money, then I agree with Susan.
Speaker 2: I think it's time to sort of reevaluate where your
Speaker 2: money's going and set a budget because maybe you know,
Speaker 2: you go out to dinner too much, maybe you buy
Speaker 2: too many clothes, maybe one too many vacations. I don't
Speaker 2: know what it is, but life can feel heavy when
Speaker 2: the weight of financial pressure is on you. So Anonymous,
Speaker 2: maybe get some advice on how to get on a
Speaker 2: more stable footing with your with your partner. And if
Speaker 2: you're feeling sad and stuck, maybe you've got some other
Speaker 2: things going on in your life. I will say to you,
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter what age you are. We all struggle.
Speaker 2: We all have financial issues. It's about managing your money
Speaker 2: and your time.
Speaker 1: And it does feel impossible that and the other trick
Speaker 1: is it is going to take time. However, if you
Speaker 1: are paying rent at home at first, I didn't think
Speaker 1: you would be because your your parents student lines are
Speaker 1: the worst. If you are and you're paying rent, then
Speaker 1: maybe you could get a small apartment. Figure it out.
Speaker 1: If you don't want to wait, you know that's a possibility,
Speaker 1: but take a check, a self check on what you're
Speaker 1: spending every week. Well, Kathy made me know it.
Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, I was going to say,
Speaker 2: right down, I did this right down. You know, look
Speaker 2: at where you're spending your money and write down every
Speaker 2: dollar you spend for a month. And I think you
Speaker 2: and your partner will see that you're probably spending money
Speaker 2: in ways that you can cut and put towards a
Speaker 2: savings for an apartment. So you know, do that first.
Speaker 2: Try and give yourself you've heard of a fit check,
Speaker 2: give yourself a budget check.
Speaker 1: And decide what you're going to save out of each paycheck.
Speaker 1: And I don't care how short you are that week,
Speaker 1: you save that amount that goes first. My dad taught
Speaker 1: me that that was a little hard to do. It
Speaker 1: really was. But we wish you luck and let us know,
Speaker 1: let us know, don't get so depressed over it, because
Speaker 1: it's life, it's part of it. Your want and need
Speaker 1: for this should make you pull back a little bit
Speaker 1: and make it happen. You can make it happen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, you know what I learned a long time ago.
Speaker 2: There is always more month than money always always.
Speaker 1: And on that note, anonymous, good luck.
Speaker 2: I'd let us know, let us far and be thankful,
Speaker 2: and be thankful for February.
Speaker 1: It only has twenty eight days. Good luck. We wish
Speaker 1: you the best. Thank you so much for writing again.
Speaker 1: All right now we have an anonymous again. Hi, ladies,
Speaker 1: I miss seeing you weekly.
Speaker 2: Ah.
Speaker 1: Kathy's so excited to see you on Bachelor in Paradise.
Speaker 1: We all are. We can't we can't wait. I'm having
Speaker 1: some trouble in my new relationship. I really like him,
Speaker 1: but he's having some trouble completing his tasks. If you
Speaker 1: catch my ouch. He said he's had trouble with this before,
Speaker 1: so I know it's not me. Well that's a good thing,
Speaker 1: but I can't help thinking I could be doing more
Speaker 1: and I just don't know what to do. Any advice
Speaker 1: is appreciate it, thank you. Okay, what do you think
Speaker 1: that means?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 1: Guys? You know I want to say it like it is.
Speaker 1: There's a few things you can do, and if I
Speaker 1: get it, I don't how old you is. Some men
Speaker 1: start that earlier than others. First, take a trip to
Speaker 1: the doc and see if the magic pill. The Seattle
Speaker 1: sort of viag or whatever is okay with his system.
Speaker 1: And then if that doesn't work and you have a
Speaker 1: good open communication line, then you would probably I would
Speaker 1: introduce some toys that he could use with you to
Speaker 1: help satisfy your needs. I don't think there's anything wrong
Speaker 1: with that. What do you think? So wait, the first
Speaker 1: trip is to the doctor. I would think, yeah, ceep,
Speaker 1: he can get some help. Sometimes the little magic pill
Speaker 1: helps a man. Sometimes.
Speaker 2: Let me just say, another benefit of being a cruise
Speaker 2: ship man overboard. Oh just kidding, I'm sure. I mean
Speaker 2: it's listen, can you do? I mean, I think he's
Speaker 2: got to be What she or he does not say
Speaker 2: is whether or not he's willing to get help.
Speaker 1: Anonymous rights.
Speaker 2: I can't help thinking I could be doing more and
Speaker 2: that I don't like that for you to say that, anonymous,
Speaker 2: because sometimes it has nothing to do with you. Well,
Speaker 2: sometimes sometimes it's the other person's just chemical, you know,
Speaker 2: chemistry chemical. So get him, get him her, whoever this is,
Speaker 2: get him to talk about it and go to a
Speaker 2: doctor and see if they can help. But for you
Speaker 2: to say you could be doing morey, maybe.
Speaker 1: She's not an initiator. Maybe she's just feeling all this
Speaker 1: and laying back and not doing anything. Maybe you could
Speaker 1: initiate If that's the case, If you feel like you
Speaker 1: could be doing more, maybe you could started up and
Speaker 1: hold on?
Speaker 2: Are you seriously hold on, Susan? Are you seriously going
Speaker 2: to tell me that a guy gets in bed with
Speaker 2: a guy, a girl gets in bed with a girl,
Speaker 2: a guy gets in bed with a girl, whatever the
Speaker 2: situation is. Are you seriously going to tell me that
Speaker 2: if one's interested and the other one isn't, that initiating
Speaker 2: repeatedly is going to change.
Speaker 1: I think it gets things started when they get set
Speaker 1: in their ways and they know they're they're having a
Speaker 1: hard time to get an erection, so they stop trying.
Speaker 1: You still try and let them know your needs. There's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 2: I agree, But this person says, I can't help thinking I.
Speaker 1: Could be doing more. That's what I'm saying. If we
Speaker 1: don't know how she is, maybe she's just laying next
Speaker 1: to him feeling like maybe I should maybe, and she's
Speaker 1: not doing anything. So he's just in a past watching
Speaker 1: football and going to sleep. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: She's got to know him. You're not going to grind
Speaker 1: and it means that I would be and I'd be
Speaker 1: chatting about But men also would feel you don't want
Speaker 1: to hurt their ego because you know that's very easily done,
Speaker 1: and you just want to work with them. You know.
Speaker 1: I know that he's told you he's had it in
Speaker 1: the past, there's been an issue, and that's when you
Speaker 1: start the conversation. Kathy and I both agree it's all
Speaker 1: about communication. Don't feel embarrassed if you are comfortable with
Speaker 1: each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't be embarrassed. Talk to him about it or
Speaker 2: her about whoever it is. You know, talk to your
Speaker 2: partner about the issue, how you feel. You might find
Speaker 2: out it has nothing to do with you. What a
Speaker 2: shocker that would be. So let us know how it goes,
Speaker 2: you know, have the conversation, get some medical advice, and
Speaker 2: if it doesn't work, like I said, man overboard, my bad.
Speaker 1: I'm rereading. And she said she's having trouble in my
Speaker 1: new relationship, so that communication may not be there at all.
Speaker 1: Forget it. Yeah, I was talking about somebody that you know,
Speaker 1: you've been with for a while, and I yeah, sorry,
Speaker 1: I overlooked that that.
Speaker 2: I don't think Mutchy, it's a news if you're in
Speaker 2: bed with someone, Susan, then if you're in bed with
Speaker 2: him or her, whoever it is, you can have the
Speaker 2: conversation if you're having if you're having intimacy, then you
Speaker 2: can have.
Speaker 1: Any comfortable Yes, I agree.
Speaker 2: So I don't care it's a new relationship or forever anyway,
Speaker 2: let us know, let us know we really do like him.
Speaker 1: If you really really do like him, then try to
Speaker 1: work on it. Then talk about it with them. Let
Speaker 1: him know your needs, because women have needs.
Speaker 2: Said Susan very emphatically.
Speaker 1: I guess if you're in recommendations on toys, just you know,
Speaker 1: get shoot me an email.
Speaker 2: And here's Kathy turning red enough to match her dress
Speaker 2: that she has on. Okay, happy one for her list.
Speaker 2: All right, now it's time for a game. It's all right,
Speaker 2: we're gonna play it.
Speaker 1: You're picky. We'll switch off for reading the it and
Speaker 1: we'll say if we agree or disagree, or if we
Speaker 1: think it's just picky.
Speaker 2: Right, Can I just remind you, Susan, Yeah, the way
Speaker 2: I play this game, it's icky, picky or e.
Speaker 1: All right, here's the first one.
Speaker 2: He hits the air guitar move air guitar move all
Speaker 2: the time, and it's his go to dance move.
Speaker 1: That's being picky. Let him go. I do listen sometimes,
Speaker 1: very damn I think I'm a rock start.
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I think it kind of depends
Speaker 2: on the age, but I'm going to give that picky.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, he's never been able to successfully unhook
Speaker 1: a brawl and you always end up having to do
Speaker 1: it after he struggles with it for a little while.
Speaker 2: That's a sad Yeah, I say that.
Speaker 1: It's sad, it's picky.
Speaker 2: But you know what, the next time you're in that situation,
Speaker 2: say we're first kind of a primer. I'm first going
Speaker 2: to teach you how to undo the bra and then
Speaker 2: you're never gonna have this problem again.
Speaker 1: That's what when you know you're about to go make out,
Speaker 1: excuse yourself, use the ladies and take the damn roll off,
Speaker 1: or be like Susan, don't wear them. This is true.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, how about today, Kathy? Can I just share so? Yes,
Speaker 1: it's true. It's very high. I wear nice nipple shields.
Speaker 1: They're a hole, right, I'm sweating. We went to uh,
Speaker 1: what's the name of the place.
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. We were walking around on our shore.
Speaker 1: Hell. I look down in my dress and I go,
Speaker 1: oh no, I could feel it sliding from the sweat
Speaker 1: and I and she goes, why are you putting your
Speaker 1: hand inside your dress? I said, my nipple shield to
Speaker 1: a slip, so I slide it back up. And then
Speaker 1: we're walking and I go, oh, my god, I lost one.
Speaker 1: The other side's going. Kathy turn around to take a
Speaker 1: picture of me right now. She didn't even know why
Speaker 1: I said that. She does. I go, now look at
Speaker 1: the picture. Look at this nipple, and look at no
Speaker 1: nipple here because it's covered. We were dial lapping. Mighty.
Speaker 1: It was probably in the church that I lost my
Speaker 1: nipple shield. Like, you can't make this up, you know.
Speaker 2: All I have to say is for most women, this
Speaker 2: is not an issue. We wear over the shoulders, boulder holders,
Speaker 2: and we don't have these issues all right here where
Speaker 2: we go. He Oh, this happened to me before I
Speaker 2: went on Bachelor in Paradise. Oh, this happened to me.
Speaker 2: He constantly lies about his height by at least four
Speaker 2: inches four inches inches. Ew yeah, I mean that is
Speaker 2: that is not a that is not picky. That's called
Speaker 2: a lie, and that it did happen to me though,
Speaker 2: Susan did that's happened? You know what he was supposed
Speaker 2: to be my height? I looked over his head.
Speaker 1: He exclusively uses a three and one shampoo conditioner body wash.
Speaker 1: What's wrong with that business?
Speaker 2: On a lot of do what he wants? That's picky arry,
Speaker 2: I would say, picky prime. That's way, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: this is disgusting and this is you and I'm out
Speaker 2: the door. My new phrase this week, I'm using it.
Speaker 2: Get throw him over board. He only has a fitted
Speaker 2: sheet and one pillow on his bed. If he doesn't
Speaker 2: have a pillow for me and clean sheets, particularly you know,
Speaker 2: eight hundred count Egyptian cotton, I'm not getting in the
Speaker 2: bed with him.
Speaker 1: So that is he's inviting you over to stay, or
Speaker 1: you just noticed that's was his place that you're not staying,
Speaker 1: you see that? Anyway, I would come with my own
Speaker 1: set of sheets. You would not, No, if I'm would, Oh, Susan,
Speaker 1: I've got ain't a lie? Am I like a certain thing?
Speaker 1: I bought him down at my boyfriend's house. I brought
Speaker 1: my whole set of sheets pillows. Why not.
Speaker 2: You brought your own sheets to his home?
Speaker 1: Not my own? I bought a set of sheets for him.
Speaker 1: Obviously he didn't have sheet his house. Yes, of course
Speaker 1: he did. I just liked the sheets there. It wasn't
Speaker 1: that I didn't like him. So that's yet another different
Speaker 1: Susan and me. I'm gonna say to the guy, if
Speaker 1: you want me in that bed eight hundred count Egyptian cotton,
Speaker 1: feather down pillows. Yes, okay. He always tries to vape indoors,
Speaker 1: even if it's somewhere totally inappropriate. Oh, answer this one, Susan,
Speaker 1: because boy, you're being picky. Let him alone.
Speaker 2: No, yeah, absolutely no. I think it's totally inappropriate. I
Speaker 2: think it's rude. I think people don't like the smell.
Speaker 2: I think it's embarrassing when people vape indoors. When it
Speaker 2: says do not vape or smoke, I think it is inappropriate.
Speaker 2: It isn't oo too, it's and you know what, I
Speaker 2: won't date a guy who vapores, So really it's a
Speaker 2: useless question for me.
Speaker 1: Okay, for me, I think it's just being picky. It's him.
Speaker 1: It's reflect on you at all, because yeah, I did it. Okay,
Speaker 1: he still drinks a tall glass of milk with dinner. God,
Speaker 1: bless him. He's a healthy boy. He's on his bones,
Speaker 1: he's got strong. What's wrong with that? Picky? All right?
Speaker 2: The only decor in his bedroom are a bunch of
Speaker 2: different flags.
Speaker 1: What's wrong with that?
Speaker 2: It's nautical. He was maybe in the navy or whatever.
Speaker 1: Give college and college. I'd accept that, but not in
Speaker 1: his own place.
Speaker 2: I mean, if he's living in a home and you
Speaker 2: know what, he's probably taps out Morse code too when
Speaker 2: he's bored.
Speaker 1: I mean, I just see the nautical the nautical flags.
Speaker 1: What is it for you? Icky? Picky? I mean it
Speaker 1: depends on the age I'm with you. I mean, let
Speaker 1: me say to you.
Speaker 2: If it's me at my age and he's got nautifical
Speaker 2: flags in his bedroom, I am sending out an s
Speaker 2: O S.
Speaker 1: We're not even having a conversation. I'll just keep going, Okay,
Speaker 1: he won't give up his jack it ever, when you're cold,
Speaker 1: because he's cold too, that's kick him to the curb. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: if you know it's cold that you should have your
Speaker 1: own jacket because you can't expect them to freeze. But
Speaker 1: always a gentleman. Yes, I think that's if.
Speaker 2: I were really cold, It says he won't give his
Speaker 2: jacket ever, So it's happened more than once. Bye bye,
Speaker 2: see you lady should know to bring her damn coat.
Speaker 2: Gentleman man overboard, Icky picky ooh, or man overboard. It's
Speaker 2: between ikey and vicky for me, like I've oh no,
Speaker 2: that's rude, no manners. He's out, he's outing. He asks
Speaker 2: you not to wear heels to certain events because he
Speaker 2: doesn't want to be the same height as you. I
Speaker 2: thought men got over that a little time ago. That's
Speaker 2: just picky for me. Oh seriously, Susan, you love your heels, Yes,
Speaker 2: I come on, but it's a weird about it. If
Speaker 2: he if he shared with me and asked me not
Speaker 2: to wear them because he felt weird, that's.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay.
Speaker 2: So Susan is otherwise known as Amelda. If boats of
Speaker 2: you were old enough to know Susan loves shoes, Amelda
Speaker 2: Marcus loved her shoes. I'm going to give everyone Susan's address.
Speaker 2: I'm giving everyone Susan's address over and helped yourself to
Speaker 2: her shoes because apparently she doesn't care anymore.
Speaker 1: Ah, I want to see that happen to certain events.
Speaker 1: That's all he just wants a feeling. That's all right,
Speaker 1: all right? He brings up something you've done every time
Speaker 1: you try to talk to him about something. Oh so
Speaker 1: it's like ghosts. No no, no, no ghost no, no
Speaker 1: ghostings when they don't freaking show up this When she's
Speaker 1: trying to talk to him about something, he keeps.
Speaker 2: It's gas you did, it's gaslight?
Speaker 1: What is called? I'm just setting that's a man that
Speaker 1: can't admit fall. So what are you gonna do with
Speaker 1: them for something that that's itchy every time?
Speaker 2: Now? Is it you?
Speaker 1: No? To me, it's an ick. So it's not a
Speaker 1: new who's not really in this? But who means it's over?
Speaker 1: You're making up the rules, guys, you have you are
Speaker 1: the rule following out follow the rules. Ear picky Gum?
Speaker 1: Which one? I think.
Speaker 2: I think he'd be kicked to the curb. It's beyond
Speaker 2: It's beyond it for me, he said, all right, he uh.
Speaker 2: He always talks about it with his mouth full, and
Speaker 2: sometimes food's.
Speaker 1: Happened to me. I was trying to get worked in
Speaker 1: a little nibble of food.
Speaker 2: Fread ducks always it says, it always talks.
Speaker 1: It's dick. Yeah, it's a big dick. Yeah, not right,
Speaker 1: all right? Oh god, that's one. He always wears ill
Speaker 1: fitting clothes either way too big or too small. Honey,
Speaker 1: he needs guidance. You need to dress him. How many
Speaker 1: different boyfriends I've dressed I'm so exactly No, that's that's
Speaker 1: it's picky, but he really does need to melp because
Speaker 1: you don't want to be embarrassed, like, babe, that doesn't
Speaker 1: fit you. Okay, that's like, do you want to dress
Speaker 1: for them? Oh? Sure, I'll take him out shopping, showing
Speaker 1: what looks best on him, what to look for you.
Speaker 1: I did it for you, remember, Susan, I hate jopping.
Speaker 1: You gotta do it now? What's I don't want because
Speaker 1: you don't You're exactly right, don't clue. He didn't have
Speaker 1: a fashionable mom. Probably I just.
Speaker 2: Don't want to raise any more kids, and I don't
Speaker 2: want to buy clothes for him. Figure it out just now.
Speaker 2: It's it's icky, okay, but you know what, Wait a minute.
Speaker 2: If you'll sign on to take them shopping and you'll
Speaker 2: buy them the clothes, then it's.
Speaker 1: Pretty not paid for the clothes, I said, I'll wardrobe him,
Speaker 1: but he's good to have to pay. But I want
Speaker 1: not just run out and buy everything. I would take
Speaker 1: him with me and teach him what and what looks
Speaker 1: best on him and Kathy. Like I said, being in
Speaker 1: the fashion business, I've helped a lot of people understand
Speaker 1: what looks best on them. I mean, you and I
Speaker 1: have had that conversation many times. Remember, Oh God, that
Speaker 1: was fun, wasn't the gaps? That's always fine with you,
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