1 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody, the Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour. You 2 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: have no idea what Kathy and I've been up to. 3 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: We're so happy to be back, Katy say hello, oh 4 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: my goodness, hello hello. Today we're going to answer more 5 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: of your fan questions. Make sure you're submitting those. 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So far, Susan 16 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 2: and I are on a twelve day cruise to eleven 17 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: eleven okay, eleven, who's counting eleven days? We're doing Istanbul, Turkey. 18 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 2: We're starting in Athens, Greece, and oh my gosh, I 19 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: don't even know where to begin. 20 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 1: You want to talk about Athens? Kathy was so impressed 21 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: with Athens. I mean we basically hiked and then hit 22 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: every store every restaurant. We only had twenty four hours. 23 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: But how about the hotel. We had a little boutique 24 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 1: hotel rate in the center of everything, and was such 25 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 1: a doll baby. We have a new friend, he was. 26 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: So let me say, for all of you who don't know, 27 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 2: Susan loves to shop. So we shopped till we dropped 28 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: on the first day. And then I was going to 29 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 2: the Acropolis, come hell or high water. So I got 30 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 2: up the next morning really early, and I went up. 31 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: You and I no, no, no, no no. 32 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 2: We climbed up and we saw the videos out there, 33 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 2: saw the sunset. We did climb up. I wanted to 34 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:09,399 Speaker 2: go in. 35 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: I wanted to touch the bas because it was too late. 36 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: There's yes, so at a certain time whatever, whatever. But 37 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: the views, how about it? And the rooftop of our hotel. 38 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: We looked at the Acropolis. I mean, it's just phenomenal. 39 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: You were it was phenomenal. And they light the Acropolis 40 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: up and night with four flights. But then I could 41 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: not leave Athens Grease without going, so Susan wanted to 42 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: sleep in a little bit. So Pathy got up by 43 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: herself and trucked up to the Acropolis. Found a shortcut, 44 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: you know, climbed through these beautiful streets and got in 45 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: and there were no tickets available, and I am so 46 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: proud of myself. I talked my way in and I 47 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: bought a ticket, and I got to walk around and 48 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 1: see the arthan On and you know these thousands of 49 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: year old structures, said, are incredible. Yes, yes, Kathy, what 50 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: happened Kathy that you said? You actually pulled out? Your 51 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: friend said, I need the video of this. You we 52 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: were trying to get in somewhere or something like. What 53 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: was it? I don't know. I mean, that's amazing. When 54 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: I asked, so if. 55 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 2: Susan does we get right in what all that happened? 56 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 2: I don't know, but we But let me just tell 57 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 2: you if y'all have not been to Athens, Greeze, and 58 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: you have not, so many of these World UNESCO sites 59 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 2: are amazing. And I will tell you the acrop list 60 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 2: is not disappoint You get up there and you're walking 61 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 2: and you can just feel the Greek mythology. You can 62 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 2: feel the gods. They're talking to you, Athena, Apollo, all 63 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 2: those guys, they're all up there. It was an amazing day. 64 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: And then what do we do feel, feel and taste 65 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: the food. It was unbelievable. I mean they know how 66 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: to cook. I enjoy food from every country. However, we 67 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: just got to Istanbul and we'll tell you about that later, 68 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: and that. 69 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: We haven't a discoveredy yet, but we're going to do it. Yes, 70 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 2: we're getting ready to so An, it's cruise ship. Wait, 71 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,239 Speaker 2: one more thing. I have to say. This cruise ship 72 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 2: is amazing. The food is to die for. There's more restaurants. 73 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: In fact, I think, Susan, I haven't said this to 74 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 2: you yet. I think I could live on a cruise ship. 75 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 2: I don't need a bigger bedroom than what I have. Wait, 76 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 2: did you food for you? Did you know that, senior citizen? 77 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 2: This isn't known fact. 78 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: It's been printed that many retire women, older women book 79 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: back to back cruises, like all year round. That's all 80 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 1: they do is cruise and it's probably cheaper than paying rent. 81 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: Well, you know that is an idea. And I will say, 82 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 2: the people we are so friendly. You and I have 83 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: made so many friends. We just got on this ship 84 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 2: a few days ago and we've made so many friends. 85 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:11,040 Speaker 2: So I highly recommend it. I just think it's fabulous 86 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 2: food entertainment and someone comes in and makes my bed 87 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 2: every day. 88 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: The service is impeccable. Our little room Stewarts, they're here 89 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: every day. You come in in the afternoon. There's always 90 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: fresh ice, fresh sparkling water or still water. Everything's pristine. 91 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: It's a nice way to go and we love sharing 92 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: all this stuff with you. We have a lot more 93 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: to come, so stay tuned and thank you for letting 94 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: us share. 95 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 2: And let me just say, We've only been on this 96 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 2: ship a few days, but I get fresh towels, I 97 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 2: get something to make my bed. Susan, I hate to 98 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 2: tell you I may not ever get off this ship, 99 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 2: so just say, you know, we are. 100 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: Having a great time. 101 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: All right, Let's get into the episode, and let's start 102 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: with the question of the day. What is it like 103 00:05:56,360 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 2: for you interacting with younger people when you're on vacation. 104 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 2: What are the dynamics of the cruise you're on now? 105 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 2: In terms of ages? Is it a lot of different ages? 106 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 2: You know, tell tell us what you think. What do 107 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 2: you think is isn't it? 108 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: That is one of the most amazing things. I've been 109 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: on several several cruises and a lot with children. This 110 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 1: is adults only. It is totally different than any cruise 111 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:26,799 Speaker 1: that I've been on. Actually, there's a mixture of ages. 112 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: There are some younger ones and much older, so everybody 113 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: kind of floats. There's short ones, tall ones, you know 114 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: what I mean. Here's what I there's a lot of 115 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: gay influence. There's a few, and the shows are fabulous. 116 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: But I don't have a problem dealing with We made 117 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: young friends. Kathy, the Charlie who don't stop texting us. 118 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:49,359 Speaker 1: He likes to chat. 119 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 2: We have found that if your whether you're sitting at 120 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 2: the pool, sitting at a restaurant, sitting at a bar, 121 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 2: people just lean over. It doesn't matter what their ages, 122 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 2: they just want to chat. They're friendly. Everybody starts a 123 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 2: conversation with where are you from? And everybody knows somebody 124 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 2: from your hometown. So it's like this sort of built in, 125 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 2: great little community. And every day you meet new people 126 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 2: and you sit with new people, and you just feel 127 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 2: like you have this great new group of friends. We've 128 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: already exchanged phone numbers. 129 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: And don't you find, Kathy that everybody's happy, they're on vacation, 130 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: everybody's in a good mood. They want to know who's 131 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: next to you. And fortunately for us, they kind of 132 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: a lot of people have recognized us. So we get 133 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: to mingle and take pictures with these people and they 134 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: you know that they love that we're normal, well not normal, 135 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: but they love that we're social. And so many of 136 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: them have said to us, and I'll quit, I'm so 137 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: happy to see that you really are friends? Did you 138 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: remember that tat? How many times? Why do people think 139 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: that we're not? I don't know. 140 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 2: I will say though, the other thing that the cruise 141 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 2: sets up that I don't think happens at other vacation spots. 142 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 2: There's bingo night, there's games night, there's karaoke nights. So 143 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 2: there's these fabulous set up plans for everybody, and it 144 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 2: doesn't matter what age you are. 145 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: We were, you know. 146 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 2: Clapping for a gentleman that was probably in his late 147 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: seventies singing at Brig Sinatru. 148 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Kathy, I just jumped in there. I beg 149 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: your pardon. But how about that night you went to karaoke? Huh, 150 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 1: It's amazing. It's amazing. 151 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 2: So I think I think that younger people and older 152 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 2: people on cruises had this unique opportunity to get to 153 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 2: know each other, make friends and really enjoy each other. 154 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 2: We've you know, I've shared pictures of my grandchildren and 155 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 2: my children, and people ask me all about Austin, Texas. 156 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 2: They want to come visit. It's really, you know, it's 157 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 2: it's sort of like COVID when you're on a ship 158 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 2: and you can't get off. You just start having these 159 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 2: great conversations. Nobody's on their phones. It's great. 160 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: I love it. 161 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: I recommend Lyley. 162 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: Now everybody's always happy. Yeah, it's a good time. It's 163 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: a good time. So what do you think cats? Should 164 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 1: we get into our fan questions? 165 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 2: Absolutely, let's go for it. 166 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 1: Mel, Right, Hi, ladies, my friend and I adore your podcast. 167 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: I am curious about your thoughts on kids at weddings. 168 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: I'm getting married next year and I'm trying to decide 169 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: if there should be kids there or not. Also, any 170 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 1: other wedding planning advice you would have would be appreciated. 171 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: Thank you. Well, hey, you need to call me. Susan's 172 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: in efficient. 173 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 2: But you know what my advice is, Mel run Off 174 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 2: and Elope, weddings are the most expensive thing on the planet. 175 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 2: The flowers are twice the price, the liquors twice the price. 176 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:16,559 Speaker 2: Everything the musicians. I mean, but that isn't your question. 177 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,079 Speaker 2: You asked if there should be kids or not, And 178 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 2: my thought is, talk to your fiance, see what she 179 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:30,199 Speaker 2: or he would like to have, and if you guys, 180 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 2: come to a decision together. Because it is your day 181 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 2: and you get to do your wedding your way, and 182 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 2: that is my advice to you. I will say my 183 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:44,839 Speaker 2: best wedding device is plan early, get it going early. 184 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: Because it's a lot to plan a wedding. Therefore, go 185 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 1: albe What about you, Susan, Yes, personally, it depends on 186 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: how formal your wedding is. There's some weddings that aren't 187 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 1: so formal, and I don't think it's a big deal 188 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 1: to have kids running around. However, if it were me 189 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: and you're asking me for my advice, absolutely no children 190 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 1: at a wedding. You want to enjoy yourself. The people 191 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: coming don't want to bring their kids unless you have 192 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 1: a babysitter upstairs in the hotel room. A wedding, I 193 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: think is for adults. If it's your own children, that's 194 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 1: a whole different story. Or if some the ring bearer 195 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: or maybe your niece or nephew, the bride, little flower 196 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 1: girl they stay for part of it and then go upstairs. 197 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: They shouldn't be there when the alcohol's being served and 198 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 1: so on. And Kathy, I'll second you on that start 199 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: early thing, because yeah, it is stressful, but if you 200 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: get things accomplished early on, then don't sweat the small 201 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: stuff because after all, well it's a wedding. Things are 202 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: going to go wrong. But just have fun. 203 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 2: So two of the things I'm thinking about. One is 204 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 2: the little things that go wrong. Now, the only people 205 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 2: who are going to know are you? Are you, maybe 206 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:02,760 Speaker 2: your fiance? No one else is going to notice, So 207 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 2: just have fun. No one's gonna notice. The other thing 208 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 2: I would say is, you guys have to work together 209 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 2: for this wedding, so really you've got to talk to 210 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 2: your fiance. You keep saying, I'm getting married, I want 211 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 2: to decide what to do. I think you really have 212 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 2: to plan it with your partner. And one thing I 213 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:28,719 Speaker 2: said to my daughter when she got married, enjoy the 214 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 2: moment because you're not hopefully only doing this once. So 215 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 2: you know, hire a videographer, hire a photographer, do all that, 216 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 2: but try to enjoy the moment. 217 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 1: If your wedding planning it, you're not enjoying it as 218 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: much as the moment. I agree. But you know what, Kathy, 219 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 1: just to remind you, man don't have a lot to 220 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: do with making the wedding plans. Do you agree or not. 221 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 2: I think it depends on the age. I think it 222 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 2: totally depends on the age. That's true. That's true. And 223 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 2: we don't know how I yeah, we don't know how 224 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 2: old he is. But I think you know, I think 225 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 2: she had Times are changing, Susan, my daughter's husband. 226 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 1: He helped plan the wedding. 227 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 2: He had definite things he wanted at his wedding, and 228 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 2: that's why I say, I think it has to be 229 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 2: a combined effort. 230 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: But Mal, don't forget to hire your officiant. Susan, were 231 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 1: you o boy? Well, I'm glad you wrote in. We 232 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,680 Speaker 1: appreciate it and we wish you nothing but the best. 233 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, let us know, let us know how the wedding goes. 234 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 2: It said next year. But you know what, enjoyed the 235 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 2: time of your fiance because the wedding is going to 236 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 2: come a whole lot faster and you think it is. 237 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 2: And by the way, May suggests for a honeymoon, take 238 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 2: adult only cruise. 239 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:49,319 Speaker 1: You'll love it. 240 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 2: It's so fun. There's lots of on our cruise. There 241 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 2: are lots of people who just got married. 242 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's going to have the cruise lines books solid 243 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: for the next ten years. 244 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 2: It's not a bad way to go, Susan, not right, 245 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 2: Let's move on to the next one. 246 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 1: This is from anonymous. Hi girls. 247 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 2: First of all, I love you both and listen all 248 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 2: the time. I honestly catch myself refreshing Spotify just to 249 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 2: see if there's a new episode. Lately, though, I've been 250 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: feeling kind of sad and stuck. I've been with my 251 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 2: best friend and boyfriend for eight years. He truly is 252 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: my person. He's been by my side through thick and thin, 253 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 2: and I trust him with my whole heart, which is 254 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 2: a big deal for me. We're both twenty six and 255 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 2: trying our best, but we're struggling financially. He wants to 256 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 2: propose and get married, but says he won't feel right 257 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 2: doing that until he's financially stable, which I deeply respect. 258 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 2: But it's still hard. We don't live together yet, not 259 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 2: because we don't want to, but because life is so expensive. 260 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 2: We're both living at home trying to save, but no 261 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 2: matter how much we do. It never feels like enough. 262 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 2: Between student loans, car payments, and the cost of everything, 263 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 2: it feels impossible. We'd remove fine a house but be 264 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 2: happy with even a small apartment. Yet everything just feels 265 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 2: out of reach. I don't even know if I'm looking 266 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 2: for advice or just needing to vent, but lately life 267 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 2: just feels so heavy, especially when it seems like everyone 268 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 2: else is celebrating new beginnings while we're just treading water. 269 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: Oh not, bless you know what, You're allowed to feel 270 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: these feelings. I mean, that's what makes us. But maybe 271 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: you need to sit down or hire somebody to help 272 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: you go on a specific kind of budget so that 273 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: you're saving X amount of dollars to achieve the goals 274 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: that you want. It is going to take some time, 275 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: and maybe you could have started this a while ago. 276 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: I get your staying you're surviving, but if you're living 277 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: at moms, then there is a way to be saving 278 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: some movie for starters. 279 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 2: Kathy, what do you yeah? I mean, I yeah, I 280 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 2: think this is tough. I mean, I don't know what 281 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 2: their jobs are. I don't know what you guys, I 282 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 2: don't know what you're doing. But student loans are really high, 283 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 2: the interest rates are high, car payments are high, insurance 284 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 2: is high. But if you're living at home and you 285 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 2: guys aren't able to save money, then I agree with Susan. 286 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 2: I think it's time to sort of reevaluate where your 287 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 2: money's going and set a budget because maybe you know, 288 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 2: you go out to dinner too much, maybe you buy 289 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 2: too many clothes, maybe one too many vacations. I don't 290 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 2: know what it is, but life can feel heavy when 291 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 2: the weight of financial pressure is on you. So Anonymous, 292 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 2: maybe get some advice on how to get on a 293 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 2: more stable footing with your with your partner. And if 294 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 2: you're feeling sad and stuck, maybe you've got some other 295 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 2: things going on in your life. I will say to you, 296 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 2: it doesn't matter what age you are. We all struggle. 297 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: We all have financial issues. It's about managing your money 298 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 2: and your time. 299 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 1: And it does feel impossible that and the other trick 300 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: is it is going to take time. However, if you 301 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 1: are paying rent at home at first, I didn't think 302 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 1: you would be because your your parents student lines are 303 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: the worst. If you are and you're paying rent, then 304 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: maybe you could get a small apartment. Figure it out. 305 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 1: If you don't want to wait, you know that's a possibility, 306 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: but take a check, a self check on what you're 307 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 1: spending every week. Well, Kathy made me know it. 308 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, I was going to say, 309 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 2: right down, I did this right down. You know, look 310 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 2: at where you're spending your money and write down every 311 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 2: dollar you spend for a month. And I think you 312 00:17:55,680 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 2: and your partner will see that you're probably spending money 313 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 2: in ways that you can cut and put towards a 314 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 2: savings for an apartment. So you know, do that first. 315 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 2: Try and give yourself you've heard of a fit check, 316 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 2: give yourself a budget check. 317 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 1: And decide what you're going to save out of each paycheck. 318 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: And I don't care how short you are that week, 319 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:22,720 Speaker 1: you save that amount that goes first. My dad taught 320 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 1: me that that was a little hard to do. It 321 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: really was. But we wish you luck and let us know, 322 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 1: let us know, don't get so depressed over it, because 323 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 1: it's life, it's part of it. Your want and need 324 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 1: for this should make you pull back a little bit 325 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,200 Speaker 1: and make it happen. You can make it happen. 326 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, you know what I learned a long time ago. 327 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:54,880 Speaker 2: There is always more month than money always always. 328 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 1: And on that note, anonymous, good luck. 329 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 2: I'd let us know, let us far and be thankful, 330 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 2: and be thankful for February. 331 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 1: It only has twenty eight days. Good luck. We wish 332 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 1: you the best. Thank you so much for writing again. 333 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 1: All right now we have an anonymous again. Hi, ladies, 334 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:18,440 Speaker 1: I miss seeing you weekly. 335 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 2: Ah. 336 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 1: Kathy's so excited to see you on Bachelor in Paradise. 337 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: We all are. We can't we can't wait. I'm having 338 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: some trouble in my new relationship. I really like him, 339 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: but he's having some trouble completing his tasks. If you 340 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: catch my ouch. He said he's had trouble with this before, 341 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 1: so I know it's not me. Well that's a good thing, 342 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: but I can't help thinking I could be doing more 343 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: and I just don't know what to do. Any advice 344 00:19:56,480 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 1: is appreciate it, thank you. Okay, what do you think 345 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 1: that means? 346 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:03,199 Speaker 2: Right? 347 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: Guys? You know I want to say it like it is. 348 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 1: There's a few things you can do, and if I 349 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 1: get it, I don't how old you is. Some men 350 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: start that earlier than others. First, take a trip to 351 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: the doc and see if the magic pill. The Seattle 352 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 1: sort of viag or whatever is okay with his system. 353 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:26,439 Speaker 1: And then if that doesn't work and you have a 354 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 1: good open communication line, then you would probably I would 355 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 1: introduce some toys that he could use with you to 356 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,640 Speaker 1: help satisfy your needs. I don't think there's anything wrong 357 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 1: with that. What do you think? So wait, the first 358 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: trip is to the doctor. I would think, yeah, ceep, 359 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 1: he can get some help. Sometimes the little magic pill 360 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: helps a man. Sometimes. 361 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 2: Let me just say, another benefit of being a cruise 362 00:20:52,280 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 2: ship man overboard. Oh just kidding, I'm sure. I mean 363 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 2: it's listen, can you do? I mean, I think he's 364 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 2: got to be What she or he does not say 365 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 2: is whether or not he's willing to get help. 366 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: Anonymous rights. 367 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 2: I can't help thinking I could be doing more and 368 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 2: that I don't like that for you to say that, anonymous, 369 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 2: because sometimes it has nothing to do with you. Well, 370 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 2: sometimes sometimes it's the other person's just chemical, you know, 371 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:39,680 Speaker 2: chemistry chemical. So get him, get him her, whoever this is, 372 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 2: get him to talk about it and go to a 373 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 2: doctor and see if they can help. But for you 374 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 2: to say you could be doing morey, maybe. 375 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 1: She's not an initiator. Maybe she's just feeling all this 376 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 1: and laying back and not doing anything. Maybe you could 377 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 1: initiate If that's the case, If you feel like you 378 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: could be doing more, maybe you could started up and 379 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:01,919 Speaker 1: hold on? 380 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:06,199 Speaker 2: Are you seriously hold on, Susan? Are you seriously going 381 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:09,919 Speaker 2: to tell me that a guy gets in bed with 382 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 2: a guy, a girl gets in bed with a girl, 383 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 2: a guy gets in bed with a girl, whatever the 384 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 2: situation is. Are you seriously going to tell me that 385 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 2: if one's interested and the other one isn't, that initiating 386 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:24,400 Speaker 2: repeatedly is going to change. 387 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:32,120 Speaker 1: I think it gets things started when they get set 388 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: in their ways and they know they're they're having a 389 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 1: hard time to get an erection, so they stop trying. 390 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: You still try and let them know your needs. There's 391 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:43,360 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. 392 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 2: I agree, But this person says, I can't help thinking I. 393 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 1: Could be doing more. That's what I'm saying. If we 394 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 1: don't know how she is, maybe she's just laying next 395 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: to him feeling like maybe I should maybe, and she's 396 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 1: not doing anything. So he's just in a past watching 397 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,080 Speaker 1: football and going to sleep. You know what I mean, 398 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 1: She's got to know him. You're not going to grind 399 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 1: and it means that I would be and I'd be 400 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 1: chatting about But men also would feel you don't want 401 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 1: to hurt their ego because you know that's very easily done, 402 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 1: and you just want to work with them. You know. 403 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 1: I know that he's told you he's had it in 404 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 1: the past, there's been an issue, and that's when you 405 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:29,239 Speaker 1: start the conversation. Kathy and I both agree it's all 406 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 1: about communication. Don't feel embarrassed if you are comfortable with 407 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: each other. 408 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't be embarrassed. Talk to him about it or 409 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,360 Speaker 2: her about whoever it is. You know, talk to your 410 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 2: partner about the issue, how you feel. You might find 411 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 2: out it has nothing to do with you. What a 412 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 2: shocker that would be. So let us know how it goes, 413 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 2: you know, have the conversation, get some medical advice, and 414 00:23:55,560 --> 00:24:00,120 Speaker 2: if it doesn't work, like I said, man overboard, my bad. 415 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 1: I'm rereading. And she said she's having trouble in my 416 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 1: new relationship, so that communication may not be there at all. 417 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: Forget it. Yeah, I was talking about somebody that you know, 418 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,919 Speaker 1: you've been with for a while, and I yeah, sorry, 419 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 1: I overlooked that that. 420 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 2: I don't think Mutchy, it's a news if you're in 421 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,919 Speaker 2: bed with someone, Susan, then if you're in bed with 422 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,439 Speaker 2: him or her, whoever it is, you can have the 423 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 2: conversation if you're having if you're having intimacy, then you 424 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 2: can have. 425 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 1: Any comfortable Yes, I agree. 426 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 2: So I don't care it's a new relationship or forever anyway, 427 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 2: let us know, let us know we really do like him. 428 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 1: If you really really do like him, then try to 429 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 1: work on it. Then talk about it with them. Let 430 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: him know your needs, because women have needs. 431 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 2: Said Susan very emphatically. 432 00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,479 Speaker 1: I guess if you're in recommendations on toys, just you know, 433 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:01,719 Speaker 1: get shoot me an email. 434 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 2: And here's Kathy turning red enough to match her dress 435 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 2: that she has on. Okay, happy one for her list. 436 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:25,360 Speaker 2: All right, now it's time for a game. It's all right, 437 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 2: we're gonna play it. 438 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 1: You're picky. We'll switch off for reading the it and 439 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 1: we'll say if we agree or disagree, or if we 440 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,679 Speaker 1: think it's just picky. 441 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:42,240 Speaker 2: Right, Can I just remind you, Susan, Yeah, the way 442 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 2: I play this game, it's icky, picky or e. 443 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:50,160 Speaker 1: All right, here's the first one. 444 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 2: He hits the air guitar move air guitar move all 445 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 2: the time, and it's his go to dance move. 446 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: That's being picky. Let him go. I do listen sometimes, 447 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 1: very damn I think I'm a rock start. 448 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 2: I mean, you know, I think it kind of depends 449 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 2: on the age, but I'm going to give that picky. 450 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, he's never been able to successfully unhook 451 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 1: a brawl and you always end up having to do 452 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: it after he struggles with it for a little while. 453 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 2: That's a sad Yeah, I say that. 454 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:32,679 Speaker 1: It's sad, it's picky. 455 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:36,359 Speaker 2: But you know what, the next time you're in that situation, 456 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,119 Speaker 2: say we're first kind of a primer. I'm first going 457 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 2: to teach you how to undo the bra and then 458 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:43,760 Speaker 2: you're never gonna have this problem again. 459 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 1: That's what when you know you're about to go make out, 460 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,880 Speaker 1: excuse yourself, use the ladies and take the damn roll off, 461 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 1: or be like Susan, don't wear them. This is true. 462 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, how about today, Kathy? Can I just share so? Yes, 463 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: it's true. It's very high. I wear nice nipple shields. 464 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 1: They're a hole, right, I'm sweating. We went to uh, 465 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,400 Speaker 1: what's the name of the place. 466 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,439 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. We were walking around on our shore. 467 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,000 Speaker 1: Hell. I look down in my dress and I go, 468 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 1: oh no, I could feel it sliding from the sweat 469 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,959 Speaker 1: and I and she goes, why are you putting your 470 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 1: hand inside your dress? I said, my nipple shield to 471 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 1: a slip, so I slide it back up. And then 472 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: we're walking and I go, oh, my god, I lost one. 473 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: The other side's going. Kathy turn around to take a 474 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,160 Speaker 1: picture of me right now. She didn't even know why 475 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,199 Speaker 1: I said that. She does. I go, now look at 476 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 1: the picture. Look at this nipple, and look at no 477 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 1: nipple here because it's covered. We were dial lapping. Mighty. 478 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 1: It was probably in the church that I lost my 479 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 1: nipple shield. Like, you can't make this up, you know. 480 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 2: All I have to say is for most women, this 481 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 2: is not an issue. We wear over the shoulders, boulder holders, 482 00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:00,400 Speaker 2: and we don't have these issues all right here where 483 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:05,119 Speaker 2: we go. He Oh, this happened to me before I 484 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 2: went on Bachelor in Paradise. Oh, this happened to me. 485 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 2: He constantly lies about his height by at least four 486 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 2: inches four inches inches. Ew yeah, I mean that is 487 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 2: that is not a that is not picky. That's called 488 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 2: a lie, and that it did happen to me though, 489 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 2: Susan did that's happened? You know what he was supposed 490 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 2: to be my height? I looked over his head. 491 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 1: He exclusively uses a three and one shampoo conditioner body wash. 492 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: What's wrong with that business? 493 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 2: On a lot of do what he wants? That's picky arry, 494 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 2: I would say, picky prime. That's way, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, 495 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 2: this is disgusting and this is you and I'm out 496 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 2: the door. My new phrase this week, I'm using it. 497 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 2: Get throw him over board. He only has a fitted 498 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 2: sheet and one pillow on his bed. If he doesn't 499 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 2: have a pillow for me and clean sheets, particularly you know, 500 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 2: eight hundred count Egyptian cotton, I'm not getting in the 501 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 2: bed with him. 502 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 1: So that is he's inviting you over to stay, or 503 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 1: you just noticed that's was his place that you're not staying, 504 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: you see that? Anyway, I would come with my own 505 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 1: set of sheets. You would not, No, if I'm would, Oh, Susan, 506 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: I've got ain't a lie? Am I like a certain thing? 507 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: I bought him down at my boyfriend's house. I brought 508 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 1: my whole set of sheets pillows. Why not. 509 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 2: You brought your own sheets to his home? 510 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 1: Not my own? I bought a set of sheets for him. 511 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 1: Obviously he didn't have sheet his house. Yes, of course 512 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,760 Speaker 1: he did. I just liked the sheets there. It wasn't 513 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 1: that I didn't like him. So that's yet another different 514 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 1: Susan and me. I'm gonna say to the guy, if 515 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 1: you want me in that bed eight hundred count Egyptian cotton, 516 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: feather down pillows. Yes, okay. He always tries to vape indoors, 517 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:20,479 Speaker 1: even if it's somewhere totally inappropriate. Oh, answer this one, Susan, 518 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 1: because boy, you're being picky. Let him alone. 519 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 2: No, yeah, absolutely no. I think it's totally inappropriate. I 520 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 2: think it's rude. I think people don't like the smell. 521 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:41,800 Speaker 2: I think it's embarrassing when people vape indoors. When it 522 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:46,360 Speaker 2: says do not vape or smoke, I think it is inappropriate. 523 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 2: It isn't oo too, it's and you know what, I 524 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 2: won't date a guy who vapores, So really it's a 525 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 2: useless question for me. 526 00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: Okay, for me, I think it's just being picky. It's him. 527 00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 1: It's reflect on you at all, because yeah, I did it. Okay, 528 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 1: he still drinks a tall glass of milk with dinner. God, 529 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: bless him. He's a healthy boy. He's on his bones, 530 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 1: he's got strong. What's wrong with that? Picky? All right? 531 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 2: The only decor in his bedroom are a bunch of 532 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: different flags. 533 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 1: What's wrong with that? 534 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 2: It's nautical. He was maybe in the navy or whatever. 535 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 1: Give college and college. I'd accept that, but not in 536 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: his own place. 537 00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 2: I mean, if he's living in a home and you 538 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 2: know what, he's probably taps out Morse code too when 539 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 2: he's bored. 540 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I just see the nautical the nautical flags. 541 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 1: What is it for you? Icky? Picky? I mean it 542 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,719 Speaker 1: depends on the age I'm with you. I mean, let 543 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: me say to you. 544 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 2: If it's me at my age and he's got nautifical 545 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 2: flags in his bedroom, I am sending out an s 546 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 2: O S. 547 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:58,240 Speaker 1: We're not even having a conversation. I'll just keep going, Okay, 548 00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 1: he won't give up his jack it ever, when you're cold, 549 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 1: because he's cold too, that's kick him to the curb. Yes, yes, 550 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 1: if you know it's cold that you should have your 551 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 1: own jacket because you can't expect them to freeze. But 552 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: always a gentleman. Yes, I think that's if. 553 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 2: I were really cold, It says he won't give his 554 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 2: jacket ever, So it's happened more than once. Bye bye, 555 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 2: see you lady should know to bring her damn coat. 556 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 2: Gentleman man overboard, Icky picky ooh, or man overboard. It's 557 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,800 Speaker 2: between ikey and vicky for me, like I've oh no, 558 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 2: that's rude, no manners. He's out, he's outing. He asks 559 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 2: you not to wear heels to certain events because he 560 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 2: doesn't want to be the same height as you. I 561 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 2: thought men got over that a little time ago. That's 562 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 2: just picky for me. Oh seriously, Susan, you love your heels, Yes, 563 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 2: I come on, but it's a weird about it. If 564 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 2: he if he shared with me and asked me not 565 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 2: to wear them because he felt weird, that's. 566 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:07,880 Speaker 1: Okay, okay. 567 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 2: So Susan is otherwise known as Amelda. If boats of 568 00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,240 Speaker 2: you were old enough to know Susan loves shoes, Amelda 569 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 2: Marcus loved her shoes. I'm going to give everyone Susan's address. 570 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,160 Speaker 2: I'm giving everyone Susan's address over and helped yourself to 571 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 2: her shoes because apparently she doesn't care anymore. 572 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 1: Ah, I want to see that happen to certain events. 573 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: That's all he just wants a feeling. That's all right, 574 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: all right? He brings up something you've done every time 575 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 1: you try to talk to him about something. Oh so 576 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 1: it's like ghosts. No no, no, no ghost no, no 577 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 1: ghostings when they don't freaking show up this When she's 578 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 1: trying to talk to him about something, he keeps. 579 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 2: It's gas you did, it's gaslight? 580 00:33:56,680 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 1: What is called? I'm just setting that's a man that 581 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 1: can't admit fall. So what are you gonna do with 582 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 1: them for something that that's itchy every time? 583 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,360 Speaker 2: Now? Is it you? 584 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,920 Speaker 1: No? To me, it's an ick. So it's not a 585 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:19,520 Speaker 1: new who's not really in this? But who means it's over? 586 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,799 Speaker 1: You're making up the rules, guys, you have you are 587 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 1: the rule following out follow the rules. Ear picky Gum? 588 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:27,799 Speaker 1: Which one? I think. 589 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 2: I think he'd be kicked to the curb. It's beyond 590 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:39,279 Speaker 2: It's beyond it for me, he said, all right, he uh. 591 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,880 Speaker 2: He always talks about it with his mouth full, and 592 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 2: sometimes food's. 593 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 1: Happened to me. I was trying to get worked in 594 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,959 Speaker 1: a little nibble of food. 595 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:55,800 Speaker 2: Fread ducks always it says, it always talks. 596 00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:00,400 Speaker 1: It's dick. Yeah, it's a big dick. Yeah, not right, 597 00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:05,359 Speaker 1: all right? Oh god, that's one. He always wears ill 598 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:09,879 Speaker 1: fitting clothes either way too big or too small. Honey, 599 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:14,399 Speaker 1: he needs guidance. You need to dress him. How many 600 00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:21,560 Speaker 1: different boyfriends I've dressed I'm so exactly No, that's that's 601 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,359 Speaker 1: it's picky, but he really does need to melp because 602 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: you don't want to be embarrassed, like, babe, that doesn't 603 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:33,319 Speaker 1: fit you. Okay, that's like, do you want to dress 604 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 1: for them? Oh? Sure, I'll take him out shopping, showing 605 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,360 Speaker 1: what looks best on him, what to look for you. 606 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 1: I did it for you, remember, Susan, I hate jopping. 607 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,320 Speaker 1: You gotta do it now? What's I don't want because 608 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,239 Speaker 1: you don't You're exactly right, don't clue. He didn't have 609 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 1: a fashionable mom. Probably I just. 610 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,919 Speaker 2: Don't want to raise any more kids, and I don't 611 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,319 Speaker 2: want to buy clothes for him. Figure it out just now. 612 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 2: It's it's icky, okay, but you know what, Wait a minute. 613 00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 2: If you'll sign on to take them shopping and you'll 614 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 2: buy them the clothes, then it's. 615 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,759 Speaker 1: Pretty not paid for the clothes, I said, I'll wardrobe him, 616 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,799 Speaker 1: but he's good to have to pay. But I want 617 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,799 Speaker 1: not just run out and buy everything. I would take 618 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,720 Speaker 1: him with me and teach him what and what looks 619 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 1: best on him and Kathy. Like I said, being in 620 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: the fashion business, I've helped a lot of people understand 621 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:29,759 Speaker 1: what looks best on them. 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