WEBVTT - Double Date with Thomas & Nayte

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Bachelor Happy Hour. It's so good to be

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<v Speaker 1>back with you all again this week, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle and I are both so excited to be here

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<v Speaker 1>for another episode because we have a very fun one

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<v Speaker 1>plan for you today. Yeah, so we're so excited. We've

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<v Speaker 1>been talking about this for a little bit now. I've

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<v Speaker 1>had to keep a secret, but I'm really really happy

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<v Speaker 1>that we don't have to keep that secret anymore. It's

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<v Speaker 1>finely here. We have our wine ready. I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>all do too, because very soon we're bringing on our

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<v Speaker 1>guests to get the party started. And yes, you heard

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<v Speaker 1>that right, I said guests as in plural, because the

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<v Speaker 1>first one we're going to be bringing on, well, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>come on together, but the first one, drumroll please. He

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<v Speaker 1>comes in at a whopping six six. He has the

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<v Speaker 1>best damn smile that I'm looking at right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>he is the honestly the best hype man for the

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor franchise for us. Michelle and my favorite person I

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<v Speaker 1>just love to love, which of course is Thomas WHOA.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we need a round about thoughts. And

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<v Speaker 1>our second guess is a sixth eighth man that everybody

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<v Speaker 1>knows is always the tallest man in the room, a

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<v Speaker 1>good looking man at that. But he's a sweetheart. He

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<v Speaker 1>was a walking red flag according to everybody else, but

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<v Speaker 1>he is here. He has burned himself wrong. And we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have Nate on. But before we bring the guys on, Becca,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we have a lot of catching up

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<v Speaker 1>to do, because last time we spoke, you were at

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<v Speaker 1>the tail end of Bachelor Live on stage. Now you're

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<v Speaker 1>finally home and you have some new announcements coming. I

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<v Speaker 1>do yes, and I like you said, I'm finally home.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels incredible. It was very bittersweet. The last show

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<v Speaker 1>was so sad, but just so happy that we were

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<v Speaker 1>able to complete the full tour this time around, because

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<v Speaker 1>obviously COVID shut it down. So I've been home a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of days. I did not leave the bed and

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<v Speaker 1>the couch for the first day, I was horizontal for

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours and it was wonderful. And since then

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<v Speaker 1>right back at it. We've been busy. My sparkling Wineline

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<v Speaker 1>boardone just launched our new rose which I am drinking today.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I hope everyone has their wine or their

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<v Speaker 1>cocktails ready, because it's gonna be a fun episode. Cheers

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle cheers starts up. Well, cheers with the mend too

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<v Speaker 1>once they get in. But we need cheers with the

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<v Speaker 1>girls first. But okay, wait, who's more excited that your home?

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas or minnow? Oh, minnow, of course a minnow. No,

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas was excited too. He came to the last show. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's facetiming with Nate, right, you go shave my mustache

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<v Speaker 1>to Nash real quick. No, apparently they're facetiming right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess Nate has a mustache. Thomas needs to go

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<v Speaker 1>shave his stash to match Nates. Oh no, I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I got excited for a second because I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that Nate was shaving his mustache before he came on,

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<v Speaker 1>because he was maybe, you know, getting rid of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I think it's still there, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's better. And now he's he's brought Thomas on board.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, oh, n it is a bad influence. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, he is a red flag you Okay, before

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<v Speaker 1>the guys come on, hopefully clean shaven and looking fine,

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<v Speaker 1>What is up with you? What have you been up to?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I feel like this past week has

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<v Speaker 1>been the first week where I truly started to get

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<v Speaker 1>into a routine because I've been traveling so much, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's to New York, La Nate, and I was we're

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<v Speaker 1>able to make that trip to Canada, So I finally

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<v Speaker 1>have been home long enough where I've been able to

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<v Speaker 1>get into a routine good um, and so it's been

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<v Speaker 1>really really nice. I mean, and the sun's out. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just it's it's been a feel good week. So I

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<v Speaker 1>love that. That's so good to hear. I love that too.

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<v Speaker 1>You say that you're finally getting into routine because what

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<v Speaker 1>in three weeks, it's going to be summer break for you, right, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>which which I am so excited for. I'm so excited for,

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<v Speaker 1>except for I'm a little nervous because typically after the

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<v Speaker 1>school year, my body completely crashes because that end of

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<v Speaker 1>the school your push is just so stressful, and adding

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<v Speaker 1>everything going on now in my other part of my life,

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<v Speaker 1>it's I feel like I'm quite to like go into

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<v Speaker 1>a coma for a solid week. You deserve it. I

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<v Speaker 1>really haven't slowed down for like a year and a half,

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<v Speaker 1>and so now my body is going to be like okay, Michelle,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah exactly. So I'm like what a wild ride? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you ever expect getting into last summer, Like how different

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<v Speaker 1>your life would be come this time around. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even think I could have imagined that I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>sitting here. I mean, I was just trying to enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>the ride. But yeah, I don't know if I could

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<v Speaker 1>have foreshadowed all of this and this would have happened

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<v Speaker 1>to me. You got, you fell in love, you got

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<v Speaker 1>engaged after dating thirty plus men, you went back to work,

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<v Speaker 1>you had Pressed two or after Press two or for

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<v Speaker 1>your season. Now you're potentially looking to move in with

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<v Speaker 1>your fiance, going through another school year, starting a podcast

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<v Speaker 1>with me, Like, you've done it so much, so crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>But it's I've been you know, I've been excited to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to wind down a little bit and just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, enjoy some things that I want to enjoy.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, yeah, do you win, Nate? Like, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I've asked you this before, but maybe it's changed now

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<v Speaker 1>that summer's coming around and you have time to actually plan. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>have you guys talked more about moving in together? Like

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<v Speaker 1>where that's going to be? Or win? Like now you

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<v Speaker 1>have three months off, is it going to be soon? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's the burning question that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>any time I do a Q and I online, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, why aren't you moved in yet? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>moving in together? And really it's just that we're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out where we want to be in, what

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<v Speaker 1>location we want to be with and or be at,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it's just a constant, ongoing conversation and kind

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<v Speaker 1>of depends, you know, what is next year going to

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<v Speaker 1>look like? For me? Am I going to be in

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<v Speaker 1>the classroom? Am I going to try to do something

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<v Speaker 1>outside the classroom? And then him right now he's working remotely,

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<v Speaker 1>but they might be going back into the office, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we're kind of just taking both of our positions

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<v Speaker 1>into consideration. And then once the school year is done,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's I'm going to have a better idea of,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, where I'm going to be and then he

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're gonna kind of cater to that. Figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out together, Yeah, figure it out together. I am

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<v Speaker 1>looking outside in San Diego and it's about seventy two.

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<v Speaker 1>It's perfectly studying that a cloud in the sky. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but you said you're moving to New York, like you

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<v Speaker 1>said you might in New York but when I say that,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you could get there and then you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>like when I say when I say in New York,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like four three months, Like we're not moving

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<v Speaker 1>temporarily to spend like it's gonna be a super long vacation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like we would do a quarter, like a quarter and

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<v Speaker 1>and like this is home base and once we have

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas song, we'll talk about it more. But like he's

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<v Speaker 1>already started looking for houses here, so like we will

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<v Speaker 1>be in San Diego. We're just gonna do New York

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<v Speaker 1>for a couple months. Okay, got it. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>the Joe and Serena where we're going to sign a

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<v Speaker 1>lease for a year plus and move everything. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be basically like to say, amount of time that I

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<v Speaker 1>was gone on tour would be us in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be fun. Yeah, honestly, that would be so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And then after that three months, would you come back

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<v Speaker 1>San Diego or would you try to choose like a

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<v Speaker 1>different place. I think we would do San Diego. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nowhere else. Like I mean, we love New York

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<v Speaker 1>and we want to spend time there, but San Diego

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<v Speaker 1>is home now and we love it. Thomas's family is here,

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<v Speaker 1>so we would definitely come back here. And that's not

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<v Speaker 1>to say we wouldn't one day be like, oh, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go here for a month or two and work remotely,

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<v Speaker 1>because we have luxury of being able to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>which is really nice. So yeah, we'll see. But San

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<v Speaker 1>Diego will always be home. I say that now. I

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<v Speaker 1>still have my place in La But right, I just

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<v Speaker 1>just about to ask you about that. But going back

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<v Speaker 1>to my question about you and Nate and kind of plans,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it will all unfold as it shouldn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait to fall along. I know you have so

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<v Speaker 1>many supporters that are so excited for you whenever your

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<v Speaker 1>place and time comes. So but again, san Diego, just

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<v Speaker 1>sing in Rodney's down here too, and I know that

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<v Speaker 1>would make me happy. Yes, but I wouldn't see him

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to see. You want to see na or Rodney.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't see either of them because they'd be together.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't see either, or I would just never see

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<v Speaker 1>me alone, you know, Yeah, I mean you would date

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<v Speaker 1>both of them. No, I love Rodney. Ego needs to

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<v Speaker 1>get a place that has an extra bedroom or like

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<v Speaker 1>a du guesthouse in the back that that Rodney can

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<v Speaker 1>live in like those Shoot, no, there's actually things that

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<v Speaker 1>my mom was talking about these before. It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>grandma it's called like a grandma pod or something a

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<v Speaker 1>grandpa pod, like grandparent pod. And it's these small little

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<v Speaker 1>houses that people put in their backyards for their parents

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<v Speaker 1>to come live in once they start getting older. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>granny flats. Yeah, granny flats exactly, So like that would

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<v Speaker 1>be it. Or the situation where the boys would have

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<v Speaker 1>bunk beds. Can you imagine step brothers with love beds?

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<v Speaker 1>Your life is going to be so interested wherever you like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, I really might need to rethink this moving

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<v Speaker 1>to San Diego possibility. I don't know if just move

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<v Speaker 1>close because then you and I can hang out and

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<v Speaker 1>be together. Okay, that's all of the guys can do

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<v Speaker 1>their own thing. But I will say Thomas and I

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<v Speaker 1>are looking at a house this week that does also

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<v Speaker 1>have a granny flat that, um, you know, if you

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<v Speaker 1>ever need a place to stay to get away from

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<v Speaker 1>those two you kids, don't tell them that I get

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<v Speaker 1>the house, they can go to the granny flots, have

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<v Speaker 1>a granny flat together. Thomas will be there with them too,

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<v Speaker 1>because they'll let Fomo if he's not allowed with the guys.

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<v Speaker 1>The facts. He's just looking at me like you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>at me like I'm wrong, but I'm right. It's so great,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, it sounds nice. That's great. So I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you say? Should we bring the boys on?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's side. We're talking about them far too

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<v Speaker 1>much to not have them be part of this right

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<v Speaker 1>we want to do behind their back, just in front

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<v Speaker 1>of their faith, our first gentleman of happy hour. Look

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<v Speaker 1>at that dash. I know, I thought, Tomas, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>show with the mustache. I went, I looked and it

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<v Speaker 1>was too white. But I gotta say, Nate, I respect

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that you probably just said that joke. They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a second, this is kind of fire. We're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna you know, like I grew on me like. It's

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<v Speaker 1>probably like a minute of like what did I just do?

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<v Speaker 1>And then minute too I was like, it's here to stay. Michelle,

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<v Speaker 1>what was your first reaction? My My response was, what

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<v Speaker 1>did you do? Is that here to stay? Like? I

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<v Speaker 1>just basically repeated everything Nate said, but in a different job. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, I feel like did you. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you did it as a joke. I think you legit.

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<v Speaker 1>We're like, I'm gonna give myself a mustache. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>because I told I told you. I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm gonna cut off my beard. And then

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, no, no, do it. I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna cut it all the way off, just like

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. So at first I kept the gotee

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<v Speaker 1>and just the mustache. I was like, I look wild.

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<v Speaker 1>So I took off the goatee and just kept a mustache.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, you know what, this this

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<v Speaker 1>might have to be it. This might have to be it.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's start us off right. Cheers to everyone, Cheers to

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<v Speaker 1>the first gentleman of Bachelor Happy Hour. Oh I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's us, Nate. We are He's all over Now. We

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<v Speaker 1>need Leo here too, but a fellas, I'm so excited

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<v Speaker 1>we finally have you. We've been wanting to do this

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<v Speaker 1>little double date set up for a while, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad you could both join us. Such a sweetheart, Hi, sweetie,

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<v Speaker 1>does he have a boat tie on? No, that's just

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<v Speaker 1>his hair. Oh my gosh, he looks so properly. It's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you just naturally naturally distinguished. We need we need to

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<v Speaker 1>get all the dogs together for a play date. Oh well,

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<v Speaker 1>well when you guys moved to San Diego will be

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<v Speaker 1>super Yeah that's what Beck. Then I were just talking

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<v Speaker 1>about before you guys jumped on, because you were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how you potentially might move to New York for like,

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<v Speaker 1>not move, but spend a few months in New York. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you know, look looking at something some things

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot talk either today, Becca looking he at some

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<v Speaker 1>things in San Diego as well. That's already in the works,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean being submitted this week, so we'll see. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>it's like really in the works. Oh yeah, like it's

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<v Speaker 1>already finance already checked out. We already have everything planned out.

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<v Speaker 1>If we submit, I'll sell my this proper that we're

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<v Speaker 1>in right now, and that will fund the down payment

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<v Speaker 1>anything else. Then, I don't think we're that far along.

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<v Speaker 1>He's making it seem like it's all all good, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we're quite there yet. Oh we're there.

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<v Speaker 1>Plan is he Is he the planner in your relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you say? No, who's the planner? We both are

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<v Speaker 1>in different ways, Like I'm more of the one to

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<v Speaker 1>plan little things like dinners, get together stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the bigger picture guy of like house hunting, business

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<v Speaker 1>oriented things. Right, I would say, I'm the very enthused one,

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<v Speaker 1>and I get excited over just a lot of big

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<v Speaker 1>picture ideas. So I think she said that perfectly. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but also that's funny. We're not quite there yet. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want to catch up with you too, really quick,

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<v Speaker 1>because Michelle, before we had the guys come on, you

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<v Speaker 1>obviously talked a little bit about how you both were

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<v Speaker 1>just in Canada. So, Nate, how was that being back there?

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<v Speaker 1>It was great. I mean, it's always wanted to be

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<v Speaker 1>with family, right, so it was fun. It was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to uh, what did we do? I work

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<v Speaker 1>the entire time, so I didn't. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just a round family. I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>really did much. We got your dad on the VR headset.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh right, right, right, right right. The world needs to

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<v Speaker 1>see that. By the way, what did you think? My

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<v Speaker 1>Dad's just hilarious. He had a ball. Your family still

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<v Speaker 1>love Michelle? Oh yeah, oh yeah, even if they didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he would say that right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun, It's like it's like my dad loves Michelle

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<v Speaker 1>more than anybody else in the family at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's kind of like we all look at my

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<v Speaker 1>dad like yo, like you just met her, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your son, you know, like your honor over here like

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<v Speaker 1>the future daughter in law. Though no, no, I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about like like my sister. I know my sister feels

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<v Speaker 1>the same way. She's like you know what, like Dad,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm right here, like Michelle just came in for

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<v Speaker 1>a picture, like what's up? Like how do the feeling

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<v Speaker 1>is that? Though? Like the fact of the matter is

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<v Speaker 1>the woman that you love, who you brought home, Like

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<v Speaker 1>she's so dearly held in eyes of your family, Like

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<v Speaker 1>how good does that feel? She has my whole family

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<v Speaker 1>wrapped around her finger. And I spent twenty seven years

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get my dad to I'm too personal. Now

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<v Speaker 1>my dad is obsessed with Michelle. So it is cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Do we need to have a little therapy session? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you need to hug? I feel like I wanted my

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<v Speaker 1>dad to love me the way that he loves you.

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<v Speaker 1>But listen, n I can attest to that because I

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<v Speaker 1>where I think my mom loves this guy more than me.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, she's upsassed with Thomas. She I think

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<v Speaker 1>probably texts him more than she texts me. It's precious,

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<v Speaker 1>but it does feel good knowing that your family loves

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<v Speaker 1>and embraces somebody so much. Yeah. No, Like I'll call

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<v Speaker 1>my dad. I'm like hey, like like, how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How's Michelle? You know, it's just like the

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<v Speaker 1>first question. You know, he doesn't ask me actually because

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<v Speaker 1>I ask him how are you doing? He's like, I'm good,

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<v Speaker 1>how's Michelle. It's like usually you're supposed to ask me,

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<v Speaker 1>like how are you doing? But like, Michelle's great. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>also fine too. You were wondering, No Canada. Canada was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of fun though, And I mean Nate and

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<v Speaker 1>I have spoke about this before, just loving different parts

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<v Speaker 1>of different families, and you know, Nate's family he grew

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<v Speaker 1>up with not talking about like a lot of emotions

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and so the show was a whole new

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<v Speaker 1>world and has still been a whole new world. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's been pretty fun to see his dad just like

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<v Speaker 1>come to life and go on this like VR headset.

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<v Speaker 1>We threw him on a roller coaster. He we should

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<v Speaker 1>just Nate tell me when I have the green light

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<v Speaker 1>to share that video because it is hilarious. He had

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<v Speaker 1>the time of his life. I mean, he took it

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<v Speaker 1>like a champ. It was like, was it the Jurassic

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<v Speaker 1>Park one. I don't know which one it was, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was it was It was a scary

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<v Speaker 1>roller coaster and he did really well. So yeah, my

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<v Speaker 1>stepfam texting me like the day I left. He was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>your dad wants to buy a VR headset on the

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<v Speaker 1>roller coaster Christmas present? Christmas present, Baby, You're throwing a

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<v Speaker 1>VR on his head and having dinosaurs pop up, no wonder.

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<v Speaker 1>He's asking how Michelle's do and he's like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>forgiving NT for this Traumatized I will say, though I have.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even think Nate knows this, but I have

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<v Speaker 1>in a whole album that is titled Nate VR because

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<v Speaker 1>amount of times that this guy throws on the headset.

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<v Speaker 1>It is comic cult because there's like six eight men

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<v Speaker 1>with these massive glasses and he's screaming and he's just

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<v Speaker 1>having like the time of his life. How could you

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<v Speaker 1>not be happy? Like I just sit there and just

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<v Speaker 1>smile and also hope that my TV or my walls

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<v Speaker 1>or my ceilings don't get scuffed up because this work?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you never had one? I get stuck in the metaverse.

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<v Speaker 1>I am stuck there. It's like unhealthy. Man. I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>to strangers like I've never been again the strangers great conversations. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like what's the movie where the guy falls

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<v Speaker 1>in love with the like recording her it's called her. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be Nate very soon until it ends

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<v Speaker 1>up like x Mochia and all of a sudden, we're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is going on? I get stuck in the metaverse,

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<v Speaker 1>Like are you saying you transcended like this human existence

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<v Speaker 1>now you just belong to the metaverse? It's yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that just answered the question where a Michelle

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<v Speaker 1>and Nate moving. They're moving straight to the metaverse. The

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<v Speaker 1>metaverse sound really weird. Since you guys, like, since you

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<v Speaker 1>guys like haven't like looked into the metaverse and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm looking at buying buying real estate right now

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<v Speaker 1>in the metaverse, Like, yes, what are your thoughts about Michelle?

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<v Speaker 1>I saw those eyes go up. That's I'm laughing. That's

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<v Speaker 1>where our that's where our gift from the franchise is going.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where not a real house, but the house for

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<v Speaker 1>the Metaverse. Have fun. Oh it really is kind of great.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to get into right now, but offline,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you guys are interested, it is insane. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I can't wait for legal reasons. This as

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<v Speaker 1>a joke. Please know when you're in San Diego, please

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<v Speaker 1>bring the headset, Please bring that. No, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas to start it. I don't want him to get hugged. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you will get hugged, corrupt me. He met far from him.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just me the dogs on the couch, chilling. And

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<v Speaker 1>then we're just watching him and we're ready to like

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<v Speaker 1>adjust because he does swing quite a bit when he

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<v Speaker 1>especially when he's in the Matrix version and so right now,

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<v Speaker 1>but when when she logs onto the Metaverse, Oh she is,

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<v Speaker 1>she's she's connected. No, no, it truly, it truly is fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just more that I when Nate has the beer

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<v Speaker 1>headset on, he gets so into the game that he

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<v Speaker 1>kind of ignores his surroundings. And so I can name

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<v Speaker 1>a solid four people who have already been clocked by Nate.

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<v Speaker 1>Poll outright, her clocked and connected. So me and the

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<v Speaker 1>dogs just sit there wide eyed, like ready to move

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<v Speaker 1>in dodge at anytime. You know, do you guys give

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<v Speaker 1>yourself time limits of the like of how long you

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<v Speaker 1>can go on for? Does time exists in the metaverse?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I give him time limits? I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>need to give him something? Yeah? No, truly, it's like here,

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<v Speaker 1>you could have thirty seven minutes today, or you did

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<v Speaker 1>your chores, you can have an extra forty five. How

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<v Speaker 1>are we in there for? Well, I mean there's something

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<v Speaker 1>called called a fiance real life. Maybe I'm really solving it,

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<v Speaker 1>but like friends, you know, like I'm in there for like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, thirty minutes at a time. It's just exact

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<v Speaker 1>vein though, Michelle, you've experienced it yourself. Do you see

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<v Speaker 1>like future application for this translating to the classroom yourself

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<v Speaker 1>as a teacher. I'm sure there's gonna be usage of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually already brought it into the classroom last year,

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<v Speaker 1>where there are these VR headsets that these kids can

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<v Speaker 1>go into this kind of situation and they're at a

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<v Speaker 1>museum or they're traveling different spots in the world, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we um. At one of my other schools, we

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<v Speaker 1>had something called Festival of Learning, and so they were

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<v Speaker 1>able to go into this VR headset and go, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to the tropics and learn about all these different things.

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<v Speaker 1>And so, yeah, it has been brought in, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>something that's still super new. Um, but I think it

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<v Speaker 1>would be super powerful. The future of VR is actually

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<v Speaker 1>like like we're I'm making fun of it because it

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of like a joke, but like the future

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<v Speaker 1>of VR, I can see it being like pretty intense.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's this millennial over here who grew up watching

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<v Speaker 1>the Disney Channel and love Smarthouse as a child, and

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<v Speaker 1>now we're talking about this shit. It's wild. All I

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<v Speaker 1>know is Wally is one of my all time favorite

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<v Speaker 1>like New Age animated films, Like it made me cry

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<v Speaker 1>like that strong. I'm just afraid we're gonna end up

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<v Speaker 1>like that. And all of a sudden, we just trash everything.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't walk. Earth is just a desolate wasteland. Seriously, look,

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<v Speaker 1>and now we're getting dark. That's some power. We have

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<v Speaker 1>talked about VR and the metaverse for far too long.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we just got sucked in the metaverse, Like

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<v Speaker 1>we did get stuck, You really get stuck. Our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna be like move on to listen to Happy

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<v Speaker 1>Hour and to get the dirty details of you couples

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<v Speaker 1>and not listen to VR. Welcome to Detect run Keys

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<v Speaker 1>with your host Becca Kufin and Michelle. You hung half

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<v Speaker 1>when we bring the boys on mustache and VR headset. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not getting back. Maybe give it a couple of months,

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<v Speaker 1>give it a few months. Um, I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 1>we actually do have a list of fun questions that

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<v Speaker 1>we do want to ask you guys that I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners are dying to know. So I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>kick it off first Michelle. I'll just ask him a question.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is for both of you guys, So Nate

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<v Speaker 1>you can answer first, and then Thomas can go, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but what is the what do you think is the

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<v Speaker 1>most romantic thing that Michelle has done for you? Oh? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so um, let me go get it. I have no

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<v Speaker 1>idea what this is Oculus headset on? Oh I do, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now I do come this jar and each jar is

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<v Speaker 1>a reason why she loves me. Oh I love that

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<v Speaker 1>is that once you're right there, Nate, that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to have new experiences in life. Oh that's romantic, you know,

0:24:05.520 --> 0:24:08.040
<v Speaker 1>it's pretty more romantic. So yeah, when did you make

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<v Speaker 1>him that, Michelle? Um, that was when we were still

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<v Speaker 1>like at our happy couple weekends and we're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>back when she like really liked me, before the VR

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<v Speaker 1>headset became a reality, back before he kissed me off. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just it was just something where I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily always good about talking about my emotions or verbally,

0:24:31.680 --> 0:24:34.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, speaking about them, and so I was like,

0:24:34.200 --> 0:24:35.600
<v Speaker 1>I do have all these things that I really like

0:24:35.640 --> 0:24:37.359
<v Speaker 1>about this person, and so let me write them down.

0:24:37.440 --> 0:24:40.199
<v Speaker 1>And so I actually would write them down when they

0:24:40.280 --> 0:24:42.600
<v Speaker 1>come to my mind, and then once I had a

0:24:42.720 --> 0:24:44.600
<v Speaker 1>decent amount, then I put them on like those pieces

0:24:44.640 --> 0:24:46.600
<v Speaker 1>of paper, into a jar so that I can give

0:24:46.640 --> 0:24:49.600
<v Speaker 1>them to him. I love that. Did you go through

0:24:49.600 --> 0:24:51.080
<v Speaker 1>all of them right away, Nate? Or do you just

0:24:51.160 --> 0:24:54.320
<v Speaker 1>take them out one by one whenever the mood strikes you? No,

0:24:54.440 --> 0:25:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I dumped out the jar was like ego, Bruce, Yes, Nate,

0:25:01.200 --> 0:25:03.600
<v Speaker 1>attack that jar like the attacks a bag of candy.

0:25:03.720 --> 0:25:09.080
<v Speaker 1>He just dumped it on first cent. It's like it

0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:11.520
<v Speaker 1>would have been super romantic, like he could read one

0:25:11.680 --> 0:25:13.480
<v Speaker 1>every single day until the time we were going to

0:25:13.520 --> 0:25:16.520
<v Speaker 1>see each other again. But he was just like my

0:25:17.440 --> 0:25:20.320
<v Speaker 1>laughing and like talking like keep it coming, keep it coming,

0:25:21.920 --> 0:25:27.240
<v Speaker 1>either way. I love either way. Um, Okay, Thomas, do

0:25:27.320 --> 0:25:30.359
<v Speaker 1>you want to answer it? Yeah, I'm nervous. I would

0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:34.040
<v Speaker 1>say the most romantic loving thing that Becca has done

0:25:34.080 --> 0:25:37.640
<v Speaker 1>for me isn't necessarily like one particular grand gesture. You're

0:25:37.680 --> 0:25:39.560
<v Speaker 1>just really good at just checking in on a day

0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:42.000
<v Speaker 1>to day basis and just making sure that I feel loved,

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:45.320
<v Speaker 1>whether it's just little things like what can I get you?

0:25:45.480 --> 0:25:47.360
<v Speaker 1>Do you need this? Oh? I would love to cook

0:25:47.400 --> 0:25:49.440
<v Speaker 1>dinner to night. Oh no, don't worry about I'm gonna

0:25:49.480 --> 0:25:52.440
<v Speaker 1>take care of that. Like for me being take knowing

0:25:52.520 --> 0:25:54.080
<v Speaker 1>that you're going out of your way to check in

0:25:54.119 --> 0:25:56.200
<v Speaker 1>on me and make sure I'm taking care of That's

0:25:56.240 --> 0:25:58.880
<v Speaker 1>the most loving thing that you do in my eyes.

0:26:00.000 --> 0:26:03.800
<v Speaker 1>All this is so sorry, Nate. I can kiss you

0:26:03.880 --> 0:26:05.560
<v Speaker 1>through the screen. I guess I could lean forward and

0:26:05.640 --> 0:26:19.520
<v Speaker 1>plant one on the camera when that remix. Okay, all right, Becca,

0:26:19.600 --> 0:26:22.520
<v Speaker 1>I have a question for you about Thomas. Yes, how

0:26:22.600 --> 0:26:26.719
<v Speaker 1>do you think you have influenced each other? Like being

0:26:26.760 --> 0:26:30.959
<v Speaker 1>around Thomas? How has he influenced you? Oh? God, how

0:26:31.040 --> 0:26:37.080
<v Speaker 1>has Thomas influenced me? Like? What's rubbed off? Um, he well,

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:42.720
<v Speaker 1>I can be a monster, and so he has truly

0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:47.879
<v Speaker 1>made me at times take steps steps back to be

0:26:48.840 --> 0:26:50.440
<v Speaker 1>and it is a work in progress. So I have

0:26:50.520 --> 0:26:52.520
<v Speaker 1>not mastered this yet, I will say that, but to

0:26:52.640 --> 0:26:55.600
<v Speaker 1>be more patient and to be I think especially just

0:26:55.720 --> 0:26:58.560
<v Speaker 1>to be more grateful and appreciative of the things we

0:26:59.160 --> 0:27:02.560
<v Speaker 1>have in life, because we are very lucky to be

0:27:02.720 --> 0:27:06.120
<v Speaker 1>blessed with such an incredible life, and sometimes especially I think,

0:27:06.160 --> 0:27:09.040
<v Speaker 1>like getting wrapped up in the show and the like

0:27:09.200 --> 0:27:11.840
<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor World, where especially when you're filming and you

0:27:11.920 --> 0:27:13.920
<v Speaker 1>have this whole season about you and everyone's kind of

0:27:14.000 --> 0:27:16.760
<v Speaker 1>catering to you, it's easy to lose sight of that

0:27:17.000 --> 0:27:18.959
<v Speaker 1>or to take things for granted. And so he has

0:27:19.040 --> 0:27:23.560
<v Speaker 1>really made me step back and appreciate the little things

0:27:23.640 --> 0:27:28.800
<v Speaker 1>and to be more cognizant and aware and vocal about that. Again,

0:27:28.920 --> 0:27:32.920
<v Speaker 1>it's the work in progress. I don't always the fact

0:27:32.920 --> 0:27:35.000
<v Speaker 1>that you just acknowledge that, because right when the questions asked,

0:27:35.040 --> 0:27:36.879
<v Speaker 1>the first two things that popped in my mind was

0:27:36.920 --> 0:27:39.480
<v Speaker 1>I hope like gratitude and patience, And I mean that

0:27:39.560 --> 0:27:42.760
<v Speaker 1>speaks volumes that you went there too. Oh, I'm very,

0:27:43.160 --> 0:27:47.439
<v Speaker 1>very just take it away. I'm very impatient, so um

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:51.840
<v Speaker 1>and Thomas is very slow sometimes I love you, but

0:27:53.520 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 1>progress every day. I just like to enjoy the most

0:27:55.840 --> 0:27:58.119
<v Speaker 1>out of every moment in life. Some people call it slow.

0:27:58.240 --> 0:28:02.080
<v Speaker 1>I call it perspective. What you Thomas, You you're very

0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:04.760
<v Speaker 1>much like a stop and smell the roses kind of person.

0:28:05.680 --> 0:28:08.760
<v Speaker 1>You live in the moment for sure, absolutely sure is Yeah.

0:28:09.440 --> 0:28:11.840
<v Speaker 1>What about Nate, Nate? What do you have to say? Um?

0:28:12.720 --> 0:28:15.200
<v Speaker 1>But no, I guess Michelle. Let me start with you first,

0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:18.040
<v Speaker 1>what has how has Nate influenced you? And then I

0:28:18.119 --> 0:28:20.159
<v Speaker 1>want to have Nate answer that same question. Write down

0:28:20.200 --> 0:28:21.560
<v Speaker 1>what you think she's going to say, and then hold

0:28:21.600 --> 0:28:25.440
<v Speaker 1>it up. This is actually good idea. Do you have

0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:29.520
<v Speaker 1>any idea what I want to say? Um? No, not

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:36.200
<v Speaker 1>at all. I would say that I think what Nate

0:28:36.280 --> 0:28:40.800
<v Speaker 1>really helps me do is just it is easy to like,

0:28:40.920 --> 0:28:42.880
<v Speaker 1>there's so many just different things that are going on

0:28:43.040 --> 0:28:46.240
<v Speaker 1>at one time, whether it's you know, being emotionally attached

0:28:46.280 --> 0:28:50.240
<v Speaker 1>to work, being emotional about just every other thing that

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 1>is going on in my life. And I think what

0:28:51.800 --> 0:28:54.720
<v Speaker 1>Nate does is like in those moments where I'm feeling

0:28:54.760 --> 0:28:57.120
<v Speaker 1>anxious or I'm really struggling with that. He's able to

0:28:57.320 --> 0:28:59.520
<v Speaker 1>even just today we had a situation where it's he's

0:28:59.600 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 1>helps me take a step back and look at it

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:05.200
<v Speaker 1>realistically of like this isn't something that we need to

0:29:05.280 --> 0:29:08.840
<v Speaker 1>spend energy on or you know, he is a very realistic,

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:14.840
<v Speaker 1>honest person. And I think for me, sometimes I can

0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:19.360
<v Speaker 1>be really positive, but then that's like ignoring an issue

0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:22.080
<v Speaker 1>at times, and so he really does help me and

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:26.440
<v Speaker 1>challenge me to actually like push and actually talk about

0:29:26.600 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 1>that issue and be real about it. And so I think,

0:29:30.360 --> 0:29:32.960
<v Speaker 1>like you said, Becca, it's not how I'm worried that,

0:29:33.280 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 1>it's not how I'm wired necessarily, but he it's it's

0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:40.000
<v Speaker 1>a way that has really helped me a lot. Yeah,

0:29:40.240 --> 0:29:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I love that. How would you say Michelle's influence you? Um,

0:29:46.280 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 1>I think it's Thom's ancern First let's see for me,

0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:02.520
<v Speaker 1>I'd have to say with family just because of how

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>like family oarrented you are, Michelle. Um, and then just

0:30:06.640 --> 0:30:09.120
<v Speaker 1>like obviously I'm family warrented too, but I don't know,

0:30:09.160 --> 0:30:10.640
<v Speaker 1>You're just different with your family, and you know, like

0:30:10.680 --> 0:30:12.400
<v Speaker 1>I think that kind of grubs off called me sometimes

0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:14.120
<v Speaker 1>with how I am with my family or like how

0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:16.200
<v Speaker 1>I've interact with my family things like that, so I'd

0:30:16.240 --> 0:30:18.240
<v Speaker 1>have to say, just in the fine family, I aspect

0:30:18.280 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 1>you definitely influenced me in a positive way. Oh yes,

0:30:23.000 --> 0:30:26.880
<v Speaker 1>this kind of isn't their py session. Wow, I'm not crying.

0:30:27.000 --> 0:30:34.880
<v Speaker 1>You crying? Okay? Um, what was a big deal at

0:30:34.960 --> 0:30:38.160
<v Speaker 1>the beginning? These are hard questions. What was a big

0:30:38.320 --> 0:30:44.080
<v Speaker 1>deal at the beginning of the relationship That isn't anymore? Thomas,

0:30:44.200 --> 0:30:49.440
<v Speaker 1>you want to start this one? The funny obvious one

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:51.360
<v Speaker 1>was initially She's like, oh, well I just bought this

0:30:51.480 --> 0:30:54.320
<v Speaker 1>house now way and we have and then like ten

0:30:54.400 --> 0:30:59.040
<v Speaker 1>months later, Yeah, that wasn't really a big deal. But yeah,

0:30:59.440 --> 0:31:03.120
<v Speaker 1>I would say that the biggest deal was just coping

0:31:03.240 --> 0:31:06.080
<v Speaker 1>with who we were and just the situation that we

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:09.600
<v Speaker 1>found ourselves in where we have your story coming from

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:11.800
<v Speaker 1>your experience with the franchise and then mine, and then

0:31:11.880 --> 0:31:14.880
<v Speaker 1>how we blend that together and put all that on

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:17.520
<v Speaker 1>the back burners and just enjoy life day to day. Yeah,

0:31:17.800 --> 0:31:21.360
<v Speaker 1>that came is naturally. I mean when we were even

0:31:21.400 --> 0:31:23.520
<v Speaker 1>on the beach to the time we just spent time

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:26.720
<v Speaker 1>each other's homes, everything was felt natural. So I think

0:31:27.440 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 1>one thing for both of us I would say is

0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:35.600
<v Speaker 1>when we met each other. It was obviously Katie's season

0:31:35.680 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>of The Bout Shrut was airing when we were on

0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:42.240
<v Speaker 1>the beach, and I was watching clips and the episodes

0:31:42.400 --> 0:31:46.160
<v Speaker 1>of him looking like you know, this terrible villain on

0:31:46.320 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 1>the TV show and seeing him firsthand in daily life

0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 1>how he interacted with everyone on the beach was totally

0:31:54.240 --> 0:31:57.880
<v Speaker 1>different from what the show was making him out to be.

0:31:58.000 --> 0:31:59.760
<v Speaker 1>And so for a while it was like this weird

0:32:00.120 --> 0:32:02.760
<v Speaker 1>and fuck of like, okay, but who are you really? Like?

0:32:02.920 --> 0:32:06.480
<v Speaker 1>Are you who I'm seeing in real life in real

0:32:06.560 --> 0:32:09.800
<v Speaker 1>time or is it you know, what this show is

0:32:10.040 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 1>portraying you to be. And so to just go from

0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:16.080
<v Speaker 1>that for a while and to not like fully understand

0:32:16.160 --> 0:32:19.040
<v Speaker 1>like the why behind of like why that was happening

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 1>and like why he was getting that edit was really

0:32:21.200 --> 0:32:24.040
<v Speaker 1>difficult for me personally for a little bit. But I

0:32:24.200 --> 0:32:27.360
<v Speaker 1>will say what helped a lot was the fact that

0:32:27.680 --> 0:32:29.720
<v Speaker 1>once we were done film in Paradise, we still had

0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 1>to be in hiding until the show finished airing. So

0:32:32.960 --> 0:32:36.400
<v Speaker 1>for months, what was it, three months, three or four

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:39.880
<v Speaker 1>months till the finale, we had to be in hiding,

0:32:39.920 --> 0:32:41.760
<v Speaker 1>and so I literally just had to get to know

0:32:42.000 --> 0:32:44.040
<v Speaker 1>him for him, and we would sneak out and like

0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:46.000
<v Speaker 1>see his family and some of his friends, so I

0:32:46.080 --> 0:32:48.640
<v Speaker 1>could actually see him in his real life with his

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:52.080
<v Speaker 1>people that you have known him for his entire life,

0:32:52.120 --> 0:32:54.800
<v Speaker 1>which helped. But that actually was nice because I could

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 1>actually get a baseline for who he truly was and

0:32:57.080 --> 0:32:59.360
<v Speaker 1>not what the show made him out to be, which

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:02.200
<v Speaker 1>was very helpful. But it was just like that weird

0:33:02.360 --> 0:33:05.120
<v Speaker 1>limbo phase of like, you know, why are you a

0:33:05.240 --> 0:33:08.200
<v Speaker 1>villain on TV? But really great in person because one

0:33:08.200 --> 0:33:11.240
<v Speaker 1>of our within our last conversation on the beach, one

0:33:11.280 --> 0:33:14.320
<v Speaker 1>of the big striking points I had was your biggest

0:33:14.400 --> 0:33:16.560
<v Speaker 1>problem with our relationship at that time was we didn't

0:33:16.600 --> 0:33:19.360
<v Speaker 1>have problems. You're asking you, is this real life? Is

0:33:19.400 --> 0:33:22.000
<v Speaker 1>this really who you were? And then in that time

0:33:22.080 --> 0:33:24.640
<v Speaker 1>we got to spend together like, Yeah, this is who

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:26.520
<v Speaker 1>I am. This so I've always been? Yeah, And then

0:33:26.640 --> 0:33:30.080
<v Speaker 1>just finding that trust and faith in each other. That's

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:33.719
<v Speaker 1>was the biggest roadblock we had a climb. And then

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:35.600
<v Speaker 1>in that I mean, that's what brought us to where

0:33:35.600 --> 0:33:38.600
<v Speaker 1>we are today, which is everything. So yeah, I had

0:33:38.640 --> 0:33:40.320
<v Speaker 1>to go through that little hurdle, but it was all

0:33:40.400 --> 0:33:44.320
<v Speaker 1>worth a wild experience. I know it's crazy, right, it's crazy.

0:33:44.680 --> 0:33:50.920
<v Speaker 1>What about you two? Um, let's see does anything come

0:33:50.960 --> 0:33:57.680
<v Speaker 1>to your mind? Nate? Um? Well, so just repeat the

0:33:57.760 --> 0:34:00.800
<v Speaker 1>original question really quick. What was a big deal at

0:34:00.880 --> 0:34:04.719
<v Speaker 1>the beginning of your relationship that isn't necessarily an issue anymore.

0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know it was a big deal. I think

0:34:08.560 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 1>like both Michelle and I were like like hyper aware

0:34:12.280 --> 0:34:14.400
<v Speaker 1>that we've never gone through a fighter argument and just

0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:16.560
<v Speaker 1>like how unnatural that is, because usually when you meet

0:34:16.640 --> 0:34:19.400
<v Speaker 1>somebody in like a natural cadence, you're gonna have disagreements,

0:34:19.400 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have fights, you're gonna have arguments things like

0:34:21.120 --> 0:34:23.840
<v Speaker 1>that early on or not early on, you know, I

0:34:23.920 --> 0:34:27.560
<v Speaker 1>mean like somewhere early on, nothing before you get you Yeah,

0:34:29.200 --> 0:34:30.799
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So, like, so I think

0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:32.440
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like a big deal to us, and it's

0:34:32.480 --> 0:34:34.800
<v Speaker 1>kind of just like like super like hyper aware of

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:38.480
<v Speaker 1>like all right, like we've like this has been super easy,

0:34:38.560 --> 0:34:42.120
<v Speaker 1>like we're smooth sailing, like no fights, no nothing. But

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:43.960
<v Speaker 1>it's not a big deal now because Michelle and I

0:34:44.080 --> 0:34:53.200
<v Speaker 1>fight every other day, so work for it. Nailed it,

0:34:53.800 --> 0:34:57.120
<v Speaker 1>I feel, quick followup question on that with that awareness

0:34:57.160 --> 0:34:59.359
<v Speaker 1>that you guys had coming off the show. What if

0:34:59.360 --> 0:35:01.719
<v Speaker 1>you guys learned out yourselves and each other now in

0:35:01.800 --> 0:35:04.800
<v Speaker 1>this engagement being long distance and not being able to

0:35:04.840 --> 0:35:08.759
<v Speaker 1>do with each other all the time. Um, shoot for me,

0:35:09.000 --> 0:35:11.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like we're both kind of the type of

0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:13.560
<v Speaker 1>people that whatever we're upset, like we just need to

0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:15.800
<v Speaker 1>like give me five ten, We're good. You know, in

0:35:15.880 --> 0:35:17.680
<v Speaker 1>five ten we come back, it's like, what are we

0:35:17.760 --> 0:35:20.440
<v Speaker 1>fighting about? Like this this is nothing, you know, you

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:22.400
<v Speaker 1>know without that five ten, you know, if I can

0:35:22.640 --> 0:35:24.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of like grow from there. But if Michelle and

0:35:24.640 --> 0:35:28.280
<v Speaker 1>I take our five ten, we're good. Yeah, that's definitely.

0:35:28.480 --> 0:35:30.560
<v Speaker 1>That's my takeaway of how how her and I like

0:35:30.719 --> 0:35:33.920
<v Speaker 1>handle toughy situations is like give me five ten, give

0:35:34.120 --> 0:35:36.960
<v Speaker 1>Michelle five ten, and we're good. So yeah, I think.

0:35:37.239 --> 0:35:39.479
<v Speaker 1>I mean, just even with me and Nate, what I've

0:35:39.560 --> 0:35:45.440
<v Speaker 1>realized is that a lot of times we're saying or

0:35:45.480 --> 0:35:48.920
<v Speaker 1>agreeing on the same thing, but the way Nate communicates,

0:35:48.960 --> 0:35:51.000
<v Speaker 1>in the way I communicate, in the way that we

0:35:51.160 --> 0:35:54.960
<v Speaker 1>receive communication is very very different than we're both used to,

0:35:55.640 --> 0:35:59.239
<v Speaker 1>and so there's times where it's like we get done,

0:35:59.600 --> 0:36:01.520
<v Speaker 1>like we're something out and it's like we were saying

0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:04.359
<v Speaker 1>the same thing the whole time, but I was hyper

0:36:04.400 --> 0:36:06.759
<v Speaker 1>focused on this area and you were hyper focused on

0:36:06.840 --> 0:36:09.560
<v Speaker 1>this area where you know, for me, I just I'm

0:36:09.719 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 1>very I want you to know what I mean and

0:36:12.200 --> 0:36:15.160
<v Speaker 1>like my meaning, and you know, for him, he's he's

0:36:15.360 --> 0:36:18.040
<v Speaker 1>very literal also, and so it's like we kind of

0:36:18.080 --> 0:36:21.200
<v Speaker 1>go back and forth. But like Nate said, just taking

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:23.439
<v Speaker 1>that five to ten minutes, I feel like we're able

0:36:23.440 --> 0:36:25.799
<v Speaker 1>to I'm able to think through the emotions part, He's

0:36:25.840 --> 0:36:27.440
<v Speaker 1>able to think through the literal part. And then we

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:30.719
<v Speaker 1>come back and we're like, okay, like we're both on

0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:33.040
<v Speaker 1>the same page. This is what we need moving forward.

0:36:33.080 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 1>We're good, move on. That's beautiful because that directly reflects

0:36:36.640 --> 0:36:38.880
<v Speaker 1>what you guys both said, what you've learned from each other.

0:36:39.239 --> 0:36:41.919
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Michelle you were saying, Nate helps you really

0:36:42.040 --> 0:36:45.400
<v Speaker 1>hunker down and see what really matters in that breathwork.

0:36:45.520 --> 0:36:47.719
<v Speaker 1>Nate you were saying, you as a person, you need

0:36:47.800 --> 0:36:51.160
<v Speaker 1>a process and literally go through every single focal point

0:36:51.200 --> 0:36:53.520
<v Speaker 1>of things. Then that's what's making you, guys relationships strong

0:36:53.640 --> 0:36:56.080
<v Speaker 1>and long distance, Like are you kidding me? All that

0:36:56.280 --> 0:37:03.879
<v Speaker 1>is amazing, but not even the fact that like long

0:37:04.040 --> 0:37:07.120
<v Speaker 1>distance is hard enough, and being in a relationship with

0:37:08.280 --> 0:37:11.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, men and women operate very differently differently for

0:37:11.160 --> 0:37:14.279
<v Speaker 1>the most part. And add on the fact that you

0:37:14.520 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 1>are in the public eye and everybody saw your relationship

0:37:18.680 --> 0:37:20.879
<v Speaker 1>unfold and of course have their two sense to say

0:37:20.920 --> 0:37:23.840
<v Speaker 1>about you two and have their opinions and their comments

0:37:23.840 --> 0:37:27.640
<v Speaker 1>and their criticism. That layer adds on so much extra stress.

0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:29.399
<v Speaker 1>And if you can just recognize that and be able

0:37:29.440 --> 0:37:33.080
<v Speaker 1>to talk through that and like still have each other's

0:37:33.120 --> 0:37:36.120
<v Speaker 1>backs and be supportive and get through whatever the argument

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:41.280
<v Speaker 1>or conflict is is so important. And and it's always

0:37:41.360 --> 0:37:43.000
<v Speaker 1>probably going to be that way. I mean, just speaking

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 1>from experience, that's always going to be there. It makes

0:37:45.120 --> 0:37:47.040
<v Speaker 1>it so difficult. But it's good that you guys are

0:37:47.120 --> 0:37:49.040
<v Speaker 1>both on the same page and can kind of take

0:37:49.120 --> 0:37:52.480
<v Speaker 1>that five to ten talk through. You know, Okay, you're

0:37:52.520 --> 0:37:54.320
<v Speaker 1>probably coming at it this way. I'm coming at it

0:37:54.440 --> 0:37:56.160
<v Speaker 1>this way. Let's meet in the middle and work through.

0:37:56.239 --> 0:38:00.160
<v Speaker 1>This is so important, right. I want to add ask

0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:04.359
<v Speaker 1>you guys this because when you go on the show,

0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, like of course, Michelle, you are there to

0:38:07.640 --> 0:38:10.719
<v Speaker 1>date all of these men. Thomas Port that Margarita, baby,

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:14.600
<v Speaker 1>you were there to date all these men and like, yes,

0:38:14.760 --> 0:38:18.360
<v Speaker 1>they're your boyfriends, but do you feel like you missed

0:38:18.480 --> 0:38:21.960
<v Speaker 1>that boyfriend girlfriend's stage in a way because you literally

0:38:22.000 --> 0:38:26.320
<v Speaker 1>went from dating multiple people to then getting engaged and

0:38:26.520 --> 0:38:30.160
<v Speaker 1>it's it's such a weird transition. Did that ever bother

0:38:30.320 --> 0:38:32.000
<v Speaker 1>you or hinder you too? To be like, we missed

0:38:32.239 --> 0:38:37.000
<v Speaker 1>such a huge chunk of our relationship. Do you want

0:38:37.000 --> 0:38:38.279
<v Speaker 1>me to go first night? Or do you want to go?

0:38:40.080 --> 0:38:43.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like we both have had so many conversations

0:38:43.680 --> 0:38:47.920
<v Speaker 1>about just taking our time and enjoying each other's company

0:38:48.000 --> 0:38:51.360
<v Speaker 1>and figuring that out where it's really important for me

0:38:52.800 --> 0:38:56.120
<v Speaker 1>to never leave that dating stage, whether you know we're

0:38:56.239 --> 0:39:00.479
<v Speaker 1>in we're engaged, or we're been married for howeverman years.

0:39:01.280 --> 0:39:04.360
<v Speaker 1>I think what's weird is that you go from this

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:08.120
<v Speaker 1>situation where all these dates are planned for you and

0:39:08.400 --> 0:39:12.640
<v Speaker 1>all of these you know, massive gestures are planned, and

0:39:12.719 --> 0:39:14.320
<v Speaker 1>I think what Nate and I really love to do

0:39:14.520 --> 0:39:17.600
<v Speaker 1>is just have things that are simple. But we're also

0:39:17.640 --> 0:39:20.799
<v Speaker 1>still in long distance and so getting to that point

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:24.840
<v Speaker 1>where eventually when we're living in the same area to

0:39:25.160 --> 0:39:28.520
<v Speaker 1>pick up that dating piece. But I think that comes

0:39:28.600 --> 0:39:31.280
<v Speaker 1>when we are in that you know, in that stage

0:39:31.400 --> 0:39:34.799
<v Speaker 1>just because right now, it's like going to New York,

0:39:34.880 --> 0:39:36.480
<v Speaker 1>like that whole thing it was a date. That whole

0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:38.560
<v Speaker 1>weekend was a date going to La together, that whole

0:39:38.719 --> 0:39:40.920
<v Speaker 1>that whole weekend is a date in a getaway going

0:39:41.040 --> 0:39:46.120
<v Speaker 1>to Conrad, you know, in Mexico again. So I think, yeah, yeah,

0:39:46.480 --> 0:39:53.120
<v Speaker 1>that makes sense. I like it. Nate's like ditto. I

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:54.800
<v Speaker 1>mean I think I think like for Michelle and I

0:39:54.960 --> 0:39:59.520
<v Speaker 1>honestly like early on we had that conversation of like, okay,

0:39:59.600 --> 0:40:01.480
<v Speaker 1>that was that was a whirlwind, that was an experienced

0:40:01.480 --> 0:40:07.000
<v Speaker 1>that we're never going to forget. I think the first day, yeah,

0:40:07.040 --> 0:40:09.759
<v Speaker 1>the first day that we all met Michelle, she came

0:40:09.800 --> 0:40:11.640
<v Speaker 1>down and she was like, I want somebody who can

0:40:11.719 --> 0:40:16.840
<v Speaker 1>make natural of the unnatural. And so after the engagement,

0:40:16.880 --> 0:40:21.840
<v Speaker 1>it was kind of like, okay, like you know, usually

0:40:22.680 --> 0:40:25.000
<v Speaker 1>people don't get engaged after forty nine days and knowing

0:40:25.000 --> 0:40:28.200
<v Speaker 1>each other, so call that the unnatural for sake of conversation,

0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Let's now bring this back to the natural. So, yes,

0:40:30.760 --> 0:40:34.680
<v Speaker 1>we're engaged, but let's definitely put our our focus on

0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:36.840
<v Speaker 1>getting to know each other and dating and kind of

0:40:36.880 --> 0:40:40.200
<v Speaker 1>going back to the basics of everything. Yeah, you know,

0:40:40.400 --> 0:40:43.000
<v Speaker 1>and then I think that's definitely how we've treated this relationship.

0:40:43.200 --> 0:40:46.759
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and they will say and you, I'm sure

0:40:46.960 --> 0:40:50.439
<v Speaker 1>you can attest to this, and Thomas, you probably can too,

0:40:50.640 --> 0:40:54.080
<v Speaker 1>even though we're not engaged. Is so many people have

0:40:54.560 --> 0:40:58.120
<v Speaker 1>their you know, especially on social media, their comments, their criticisms,

0:40:58.200 --> 0:41:00.719
<v Speaker 1>like I said earlier, and somebody, people want you to

0:41:00.840 --> 0:41:03.040
<v Speaker 1>do things or expect you to do things on a

0:41:03.120 --> 0:41:06.239
<v Speaker 1>certain timeline or on their timeline because you met on

0:41:06.360 --> 0:41:10.160
<v Speaker 1>a television show. And so the fact that you're not

0:41:10.320 --> 0:41:12.840
<v Speaker 1>planning a wedding right now or not, you know, actively

0:41:14.040 --> 0:41:17.960
<v Speaker 1>in the process of getting married, like they can't handle that.

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:19.400
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot. And I'm sure you've seen this too,

0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:22.680
<v Speaker 1>of like get married already, half the wedding, half babies

0:41:22.800 --> 0:41:26.440
<v Speaker 1>do this, do that because they saw you getting aage

0:41:26.520 --> 0:41:29.160
<v Speaker 1>so fast. Isn't that funny? And like that part is

0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:30.960
<v Speaker 1>so unnatural. Like you, if you were to have a

0:41:30.960 --> 0:41:33.560
<v Speaker 1>conversation with any one of those people who are like, hey,

0:41:33.719 --> 0:41:36.680
<v Speaker 1>get married, have this wedding, have babies, do all the things,

0:41:36.760 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 1>it's like you do realize, like we've known each other

0:41:39.280 --> 0:41:42.520
<v Speaker 1>a very short amount of time for what this world

0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:44.600
<v Speaker 1>actually is and like what a relationship could be so

0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:47.120
<v Speaker 1>like why are you who do you think you are

0:41:47.120 --> 0:41:48.759
<v Speaker 1>going to tell us to have babies right now or

0:41:48.880 --> 0:41:51.520
<v Speaker 1>to tell us to get married asaf like, but it's

0:41:51.520 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 1>like you can't you can't win though. It's like you

0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:57.399
<v Speaker 1>get off the show and they're like, you're this isn't

0:41:57.480 --> 0:41:59.279
<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna like your relationships not going to work

0:41:59.280 --> 0:42:01.879
<v Speaker 1>because you've only known yourself, like you only known each

0:42:01.920 --> 0:42:04.040
<v Speaker 1>other for this amount of time. And then you're like okay,

0:42:04.239 --> 0:42:06.359
<v Speaker 1>and then they're like, how come you're not married yet?

0:42:06.400 --> 0:42:07.920
<v Speaker 1>How come you're not moved in. I'm like, you're just

0:42:08.120 --> 0:42:10.719
<v Speaker 1>saying that we don't know each other, like Big One

0:42:10.800 --> 0:42:14.400
<v Speaker 1>at least it's it's like, yeah, there's no happy media

0:42:15.080 --> 0:42:18.400
<v Speaker 1>the world of bad short that's for sure. Um okay,

0:42:18.480 --> 0:42:21.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to ask you about this, since you are

0:42:21.120 --> 0:42:24.200
<v Speaker 1>obviously doing long distance right now, if you could go

0:42:24.360 --> 0:42:27.200
<v Speaker 1>anywhere together, just the two of you at this moment

0:42:27.239 --> 0:42:31.399
<v Speaker 1>in time, where would you be? All right? Answer answer

0:42:31.560 --> 0:42:40.080
<v Speaker 1>three two one, grease okay out was not answered at

0:42:40.120 --> 0:42:46.759
<v Speaker 1>the same time on the count of three greececialize that

0:42:46.840 --> 0:42:50.920
<v Speaker 1>what you Yeah, we talked about that in overnights. Actually

0:42:51.120 --> 0:42:53.759
<v Speaker 1>we need a new question. On this one because I

0:42:53.880 --> 0:42:57.960
<v Speaker 1>was sorry, like I couldn't hear the right time, but

0:42:58.040 --> 0:42:59.839
<v Speaker 1>I also knew there's a mull chance that it could

0:42:59.840 --> 0:43:03.440
<v Speaker 1>be Europe. Mano comes running. So we have this thing

0:43:03.520 --> 0:43:06.080
<v Speaker 1>and that I uses with my sister for the dogs

0:43:06.160 --> 0:43:08.000
<v Speaker 1>of like if we were going in the car on

0:43:08.120 --> 0:43:10.439
<v Speaker 1>a trip, we would call it Grace, and so we'd

0:43:10.440 --> 0:43:12.480
<v Speaker 1>always be like, we're going to Greece, We're going to Grace,

0:43:12.560 --> 0:43:16.360
<v Speaker 1>and of course walking over here running. Yeah, she's so

0:43:16.480 --> 0:43:18.319
<v Speaker 1>confused though, She's like, why aren't we going in the car?

0:43:19.760 --> 0:43:22.040
<v Speaker 1>She needs some water. Okay, wait, here's what I want

0:43:22.080 --> 0:43:24.800
<v Speaker 1>to know about your relationship. What is like the funniest

0:43:24.880 --> 0:43:33.720
<v Speaker 1>moment that has happened Grease, Grace. Funniest moment, Oh, there's

0:43:33.800 --> 0:43:36.160
<v Speaker 1>one that immediately stands out to me. We're literally on

0:43:36.280 --> 0:43:40.680
<v Speaker 1>our kitchen table playing dominoes, and out of nowhere, I

0:43:40.719 --> 0:43:43.239
<v Speaker 1>don't know what overcame this woman right here. She was

0:43:43.320 --> 0:43:47.160
<v Speaker 1>just like cry, laughing over the smallest little comment, and

0:43:47.200 --> 0:43:49.600
<v Speaker 1>then I start cracking up and it was like eight

0:43:49.680 --> 0:43:51.719
<v Speaker 1>minutes of I couldn't tell you the origin of this

0:43:51.880 --> 0:43:53.560
<v Speaker 1>that we were just we were just laughing. Is I

0:43:53.600 --> 0:43:54.920
<v Speaker 1>have the videos if you want to give me that

0:43:55.000 --> 0:43:57.359
<v Speaker 1>little front phase. I don't remember that you lost your

0:43:57.400 --> 0:44:00.040
<v Speaker 1>damn mine and it was amazing. Um, I don't the

0:44:00.160 --> 0:44:05.319
<v Speaker 1>funniest moment with Thomas, I don't know what. We laugh

0:44:05.400 --> 0:44:10.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot. Can I tell this story? It was also okay,

0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:13.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell a story. Okay. So I took Timis

0:44:13.360 --> 0:44:15.960
<v Speaker 1>Universal Studios for the first time and he had to

0:44:16.120 --> 0:44:21.400
<v Speaker 1>get he had to get a um Harry Potter cloak

0:44:22.080 --> 0:44:25.640
<v Speaker 1>and a wand, and so he went through this space

0:44:25.760 --> 0:44:28.279
<v Speaker 1>after that for like a week or two straight where

0:44:28.320 --> 0:44:30.879
<v Speaker 1>he had to wear this cloak and bring his wand

0:44:31.000 --> 0:44:33.560
<v Speaker 1>absolutely everywhere, Like we would go to the dog park,

0:44:33.640 --> 0:44:35.640
<v Speaker 1>he'd have the cloak and wand we'd go to freaking Starbucks,

0:44:35.680 --> 0:44:37.600
<v Speaker 1>he'd have the cloaking Wand we had to go to

0:44:37.719 --> 0:44:40.080
<v Speaker 1>Target one night to get some stuff. And you know,

0:44:40.160 --> 0:44:42.480
<v Speaker 1>we're picking up the necessities and like maybe some food

0:44:42.520 --> 0:44:44.800
<v Speaker 1>at the grocery store and he's wearing this cloak and

0:44:44.880 --> 0:44:46.680
<v Speaker 1>wand and I'm pushing my car in front of him

0:44:47.040 --> 0:44:50.080
<v Speaker 1>and he's walking behind me and he just rips one

0:44:50.480 --> 0:44:55.600
<v Speaker 1>so freaking loud. I was so embarrassed. I've never seen

0:44:55.719 --> 0:45:00.799
<v Speaker 1>her run away from me faster and a random man

0:45:02.000 --> 0:45:05.040
<v Speaker 1>throw a spell. And it was like late at night,

0:45:05.120 --> 0:45:06.880
<v Speaker 1>like target was about to close, so I didn't think

0:45:06.880 --> 0:45:09.080
<v Speaker 1>anyone was gonna be there. And I turned around and

0:45:09.200 --> 0:45:14.680
<v Speaker 1>there was somebody literally right behind Thomas walking and I blinded.

0:45:14.680 --> 0:45:16.400
<v Speaker 1>I booked it all the way like on the other

0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:17.960
<v Speaker 1>side of the store. I was like, I cannot be

0:45:18.120 --> 0:45:20.720
<v Speaker 1>near you. And everyone's already kind of looking at him anyways,

0:45:20.719 --> 0:45:23.200
<v Speaker 1>because he's the six sixth man in the Harry Potter

0:45:24.000 --> 0:45:30.840
<v Speaker 1>robe with his pawcorn wand and I was like, what you. Meanwhile,

0:45:31.280 --> 0:45:33.680
<v Speaker 1>I see her sprint and it just sets me off.

0:45:33.719 --> 0:45:35.839
<v Speaker 1>And I'm standing in the middle of produce. Now I'm

0:45:35.880 --> 0:45:40.480
<v Speaker 1>just cackling wearing this robe. I can't control myself. You

0:45:40.640 --> 0:45:45.720
<v Speaker 1>trually can't control yourself. That was one moment. Oh my god,

0:45:46.160 --> 0:45:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I can just totally see you, Thomas, like trying to

0:45:49.719 --> 0:45:56.600
<v Speaker 1>blame it on a spell, but Aloha Moore. I truly

0:45:56.680 --> 0:46:00.319
<v Speaker 1>opened up everything, Like wait, Thomas, wait, Thomas, what would

0:46:00.400 --> 0:46:02.160
<v Speaker 1>you what would your spell have been if you were

0:46:02.200 --> 0:46:05.799
<v Speaker 1>to blame that moment on a spell? That's my patronis

0:46:05.880 --> 0:46:11.440
<v Speaker 1>you hit that one out. It was so embarrassing and

0:46:11.600 --> 0:46:13.600
<v Speaker 1>like and it was it was there was a duck

0:46:13.680 --> 0:46:15.719
<v Speaker 1>in there. My patronis just happens to be a duck

0:46:15.800 --> 0:46:18.320
<v Speaker 1>that was going down. And it was like here's the

0:46:18.400 --> 0:46:20.480
<v Speaker 1>thing too. And I don't want to say this in

0:46:20.560 --> 0:46:24.479
<v Speaker 1>like a cocky way, but like people know Thomas lives

0:46:24.520 --> 0:46:26.640
<v Speaker 1>in San Diego, and like there's a lot of Bachelor

0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:31.080
<v Speaker 1>fans all across the country, and for whatever reason, going

0:46:31.120 --> 0:46:33.320
<v Speaker 1>to that target, we always get stopped and like this

0:46:33.520 --> 0:46:36.279
<v Speaker 1>sounds so conceited. And I don't mean it to sound

0:46:36.320 --> 0:46:38.279
<v Speaker 1>like this, like stop for photos or like just to

0:46:38.360 --> 0:46:41.279
<v Speaker 1>say they love God. The person who heard that knew

0:46:41.360 --> 0:46:43.680
<v Speaker 1>exactly who we were, so they could just have that

0:46:43.840 --> 0:46:47.600
<v Speaker 1>story please out. So I was so convinced, like somebody's

0:46:47.640 --> 0:46:50.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna see Thomas and his cloak and like take photo.

0:46:50.120 --> 0:46:52.720
<v Speaker 1>And I was just like this is it's a great cloak.

0:46:56.280 --> 0:47:00.239
<v Speaker 1>It's a lovely, very fottered to point out that's at

0:47:00.400 --> 0:47:04.600
<v Speaker 1>um thank you. The same question to YouTube, turn turn

0:47:04.680 --> 0:47:09.719
<v Speaker 1>the tables. Can I tell the burrito story? When we

0:47:09.760 --> 0:47:13.120
<v Speaker 1>were filming, they got me farting and target native of

0:47:13.160 --> 0:47:16.080
<v Speaker 1>course you could tell burrito story. I got to tell

0:47:16.160 --> 0:47:18.719
<v Speaker 1>that one. Okay, yeah, okay, n you tell the burrito story.

0:47:18.760 --> 0:47:20.279
<v Speaker 1>So this is one of the first This is one

0:47:20.320 --> 0:47:23.320
<v Speaker 1>of the first stories that Nate told me in fantasy

0:47:23.360 --> 0:47:29.719
<v Speaker 1>suits actually conversations. Okay, as I love the fact that

0:47:29.760 --> 0:47:32.360
<v Speaker 1>this year I cannot where there are no microphones. What

0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:35.799
<v Speaker 1>do they talk about? This brito story? Tell you up

0:47:35.880 --> 0:47:38.439
<v Speaker 1>like this, this like dead ass happened. I was traumatized,

0:47:38.520 --> 0:47:42.520
<v Speaker 1>so too. We just got to uh to California start filming.

0:47:43.000 --> 0:47:45.279
<v Speaker 1>Like this is before we even met Michelle. We're just

0:47:45.400 --> 0:47:49.719
<v Speaker 1>like quarantining for for our few days whatever, and we're getting, um,

0:47:50.040 --> 0:47:52.359
<v Speaker 1>we're getting all of our food delivered to the hotel room,

0:47:53.280 --> 0:47:57.200
<v Speaker 1>right and so on this particular day, we had a

0:47:57.320 --> 0:48:02.400
<v Speaker 1>burrito delivered to the to the right, and I glanced

0:48:02.400 --> 0:48:05.960
<v Speaker 1>out the window, you know, I see my fee my

0:48:06.040 --> 0:48:09.840
<v Speaker 1>feet down whatever whatever, and um, I glanced at the

0:48:09.840 --> 0:48:12.400
<v Speaker 1>window and I see Michelle. She's like like it like

0:48:12.480 --> 0:48:15.360
<v Speaker 1>went like my in my hotel room. Then like the

0:48:15.480 --> 0:48:17.120
<v Speaker 1>pool and then the other side of the building and

0:48:17.120 --> 0:48:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I see Michelle. She's she's over here waving. She's a balcony. Yeah,

0:48:23.800 --> 0:48:27.480
<v Speaker 1>it's like day two. I don't know what the role is, right,

0:48:27.680 --> 0:48:30.319
<v Speaker 1>but it looks like she's looking at I was waving

0:48:30.920 --> 0:48:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Caitlin for some inst I was. I was waving at them.

0:48:33.239 --> 0:48:35.960
<v Speaker 1>They were down by the pool. I am sitting in

0:48:36.080 --> 0:48:42.759
<v Speaker 1>the hotel. But as Nicky, you always Brito right by

0:48:42.880 --> 0:48:45.000
<v Speaker 1>the window. Seeing the Brito, I'm like, munch. And I

0:48:45.040 --> 0:48:47.040
<v Speaker 1>looked to the side. I see Michelle. I'm like and

0:48:47.160 --> 0:48:56.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, like, burrito, you know where I thought she

0:48:56.760 --> 0:48:59.120
<v Speaker 1>was waving at me. I'm like, like at that home,

0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:03.840
<v Speaker 1>you can just get up and only I am. But Michelle,

0:49:03.880 --> 0:49:10.439
<v Speaker 1>are you crying? Yeah, because I know the exact moment,

0:49:10.520 --> 0:49:12.279
<v Speaker 1>because I had to walk out on the balcony and

0:49:12.400 --> 0:49:15.040
<v Speaker 1>wave to Caitlin and Taitia a few times so to

0:49:15.200 --> 0:49:18.160
<v Speaker 1>like do that right and know that moment. And then

0:49:18.280 --> 0:49:21.520
<v Speaker 1>OG's talking to the hands, know that moment and then no,

0:49:21.960 --> 0:49:24.520
<v Speaker 1>he's in there like pauses in the middle of eating

0:49:25.040 --> 0:49:27.239
<v Speaker 1>to look over me, like Craft, you know one of

0:49:27.280 --> 0:49:31.279
<v Speaker 1>those moments where you just like I had to own

0:49:31.360 --> 0:49:32.800
<v Speaker 1>up to it because at that moment, like you're not

0:49:32.840 --> 0:49:36.319
<v Speaker 1>gonna hop up and own that. Yes, I'm button naked

0:49:36.400 --> 0:49:39.920
<v Speaker 1>and Brito, what's up? How yourself? This is how you

0:49:40.040 --> 0:49:46.520
<v Speaker 1>got the first impression rights have since then? Have you

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:52.799
<v Speaker 1>seen Nate eating a brito naked? I think we talk

0:49:52.840 --> 0:49:58.719
<v Speaker 1>your next romantic dame. I'll let you know when you

0:49:58.920 --> 0:50:02.200
<v Speaker 1>know how every friend this episode has the like, um

0:50:02.680 --> 0:50:04.880
<v Speaker 1>like the title is like the one that or the

0:50:05.000 --> 0:50:08.600
<v Speaker 1>one win whatever. This is the one with the naked burrito.

0:50:09.440 --> 0:50:13.160
<v Speaker 1>You have to name every podcast episode like this. Absolutely,

0:50:14.840 --> 0:50:17.600
<v Speaker 1>that actually sounds very pleasant. I want to try eating

0:50:17.680 --> 0:50:22.719
<v Speaker 1>my next barrito naked. Yeah, I'm gonna do it, honestly. Thanks.

0:50:22.760 --> 0:50:24.440
<v Speaker 1>Me a little nervous with the dogs around, but I'm

0:50:24.440 --> 0:50:32.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna give it a got size. Let's do it. Our

0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:37.680
<v Speaker 1>listeners are in for a treat this week. Okay, I

0:50:37.800 --> 0:50:41.680
<v Speaker 1>want to ask both of you fellas this Nate, you

0:50:41.760 --> 0:50:44.879
<v Speaker 1>can start, because Michelle obviously is beautiful in so many ways,

0:50:44.960 --> 0:50:47.600
<v Speaker 1>but what is one thing that you find most beautiful

0:50:47.640 --> 0:50:51.680
<v Speaker 1>in her? Ooh uh okay, give me twelve minutes like

0:50:51.800 --> 0:50:55.879
<v Speaker 1>it right now. It takes me a while. I can't

0:50:55.920 --> 0:50:59.439
<v Speaker 1>just say over her eyes there's the most beautiful part

0:50:59.560 --> 0:51:08.600
<v Speaker 1>about the show? Um uh? I mean okay, Like we're

0:51:08.600 --> 0:51:10.520
<v Speaker 1>not gonna go physical on this one. I'm gonna I'm

0:51:10.560 --> 0:51:13.279
<v Speaker 1>gonna like kind of the same thing how she was

0:51:13.320 --> 0:51:15.239
<v Speaker 1>with my family. I mean, it's beautiful to watch, so

0:51:15.560 --> 0:51:18.440
<v Speaker 1>that's gotta be like how she's my sister, and my

0:51:18.600 --> 0:51:21.799
<v Speaker 1>dad and my stepmom and my stepbrother and my stepsister

0:51:21.920 --> 0:51:24.719
<v Speaker 1>and my brother and just everybody in the family, my mom,

0:51:24.920 --> 0:51:26.680
<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, she's just she's great with with the

0:51:26.719 --> 0:51:30.200
<v Speaker 1>whole family. So yeah, she's great with everyone. Family's family.

0:51:31.800 --> 0:51:33.919
<v Speaker 1>So I have to say, I have to say that's

0:51:33.920 --> 0:51:40.680
<v Speaker 1>the one. Oh great with everyone, all right, Thomas, I'm

0:51:40.719 --> 0:51:43.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna go ahead and say it's it's a shared Minnesotan

0:51:43.280 --> 0:51:46.080
<v Speaker 1>thing with this one, because the Beck has a warmth

0:51:46.200 --> 0:51:49.439
<v Speaker 1>in her that no matter the scenario we're in, whether

0:51:49.520 --> 0:51:54.080
<v Speaker 1>it's family, friends, strangers, the twur the people she's around,

0:51:54.440 --> 0:51:57.799
<v Speaker 1>she just wants to see everyone around her just experience

0:51:57.880 --> 0:52:01.560
<v Speaker 1>like that same level of happiness. This is enthusiasm like

0:52:01.680 --> 0:52:04.040
<v Speaker 1>that she would want herself, And for me, I think

0:52:04.080 --> 0:52:06.719
<v Speaker 1>that's a beautiful thing to see in action and like

0:52:06.880 --> 0:52:09.320
<v Speaker 1>try to wish upon those aroundment and more important to

0:52:09.440 --> 0:52:11.160
<v Speaker 1>try to do the things to put that into action.

0:52:11.360 --> 0:52:15.160
<v Speaker 1>So that's that's been my favorite thing when I'm around her,

0:52:16.480 --> 0:52:19.279
<v Speaker 1>And I say that like a poet. I can watch her,

0:52:19.360 --> 0:52:20.839
<v Speaker 1>but it's one of those things, like Nate, I'm sure

0:52:20.880 --> 0:52:23.560
<v Speaker 1>you feel the same way I needed. I feel. The

0:52:23.600 --> 0:52:25.560
<v Speaker 1>most pride is where we're just sitting back and you're

0:52:25.600 --> 0:52:27.600
<v Speaker 1>just washing your loved one, dude, the thing that they do,

0:52:27.719 --> 0:52:32.480
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, see, you know what, you have yourself

0:52:32.520 --> 0:52:35.080
<v Speaker 1>a good one, all right because like you see how

0:52:35.239 --> 0:52:40.400
<v Speaker 1>expressive Thomas is, Like I need lessons from you, Thomas. Yeah, Michell,

0:52:40.480 --> 0:52:48.160
<v Speaker 1>really give my family. You know she's happen. It just

0:52:48.280 --> 0:52:50.480
<v Speaker 1>takes him. It just takes him, you know, a minute.

0:52:50.719 --> 0:52:52.239
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's not like that. You don't feel that,

0:52:52.280 --> 0:52:54.120
<v Speaker 1>it's just it takes them a minute. But the thing is,

0:52:54.160 --> 0:52:57.040
<v Speaker 1>the metaverse takes a second to process. So we've gone

0:52:57.120 --> 0:52:59.600
<v Speaker 1>full circle and you are you just keep doing you.

0:52:59.680 --> 0:53:02.160
<v Speaker 1>But n you know what I actually love and appreciate

0:53:02.160 --> 0:53:05.759
<v Speaker 1>about you is the fact that you don't like a

0:53:05.880 --> 0:53:08.719
<v Speaker 1>time limit. You're not like the rapid fire. It's like

0:53:08.800 --> 0:53:12.040
<v Speaker 1>you really want to genuinely give an answer that means

0:53:12.080 --> 0:53:14.439
<v Speaker 1>a lot, and you're not afraid to express that, which

0:53:14.440 --> 0:53:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I think is a beautiful thing. Most people just say

0:53:16.120 --> 0:53:18.399
<v Speaker 1>whatever comes to mind, and you're like, I need some time.

0:53:18.400 --> 0:53:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to think of actually the best thing for

0:53:20.200 --> 0:53:22.279
<v Speaker 1>my woman here. And the big power in that, Nate

0:53:22.480 --> 0:53:24.680
<v Speaker 1>is like everything you're coming from, it's not just from

0:53:24.719 --> 0:53:27.799
<v Speaker 1>the hit, like that is some result, that is some heart,

0:53:27.880 --> 0:53:30.640
<v Speaker 1>that is some thought going into things. You get to

0:53:30.680 --> 0:53:34.880
<v Speaker 1>take over the podcast talking with Thomas Therapy with Thomas

0:53:35.000 --> 0:53:38.000
<v Speaker 1>seriously though, um, well no, Michelle, I want to ask

0:53:38.040 --> 0:53:39.680
<v Speaker 1>you the same thing. What do you find most beautiful

0:53:39.719 --> 0:53:49.359
<v Speaker 1>about Nate? His willingness to accept the people around them

0:53:49.480 --> 0:53:54.960
<v Speaker 1>for who they are, so like he truly embraces who

0:53:55.040 --> 0:53:58.680
<v Speaker 1>someone is, whether that's their flaws or not. He wants

0:53:58.960 --> 0:54:02.520
<v Speaker 1>people to be like very real and acknowledge that, you know,

0:54:02.600 --> 0:54:05.120
<v Speaker 1>acknowledge what they struggle with, acknowledge what they're get at.

0:54:05.239 --> 0:54:08.719
<v Speaker 1>But he with whatever that is, he accepts it. And

0:54:08.880 --> 0:54:12.120
<v Speaker 1>so I think that's the biggest thing. I could name

0:54:12.120 --> 0:54:14.319
<v Speaker 1>a few other things, but I love that. I feel

0:54:14.320 --> 0:54:15.719
<v Speaker 1>like more people need to be like that. That's a

0:54:15.760 --> 0:54:17.759
<v Speaker 1>great quality. Yeah, yeah, you know if he has like

0:54:17.800 --> 0:54:19.759
<v Speaker 1>a friend like and he really does. He has this

0:54:19.840 --> 0:54:22.520
<v Speaker 1>amazing group of friends around him, and I think you

0:54:22.600 --> 0:54:24.680
<v Speaker 1>can really see who somebody is by the people that

0:54:24.719 --> 0:54:27.120
<v Speaker 1>around him. And he also has some you know, friends

0:54:27.160 --> 0:54:29.600
<v Speaker 1>that are crazy, but like he loves them because they're crazy.

0:54:29.680 --> 0:54:32.960
<v Speaker 1>He's like, yeah, they're they're crazy, But he still genuinely

0:54:33.080 --> 0:54:35.840
<v Speaker 1>sees a lot of good qualities in that person and

0:54:35.920 --> 0:54:39.440
<v Speaker 1>just completely embraces who they are. Yeah, oh I love that.

0:54:45.280 --> 0:54:48.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to um so. For Thomas, one of the

0:54:48.800 --> 0:54:55.960
<v Speaker 1>most beautiful things is he truly, truly is the most welcoming, accepting,

0:54:56.800 --> 0:55:01.040
<v Speaker 1>supportive person for anyone. He truly wants everyone to succeed

0:55:01.760 --> 0:55:04.840
<v Speaker 1>in life and really builds them up and welcomes everyone

0:55:04.960 --> 0:55:07.600
<v Speaker 1>like he's the type of guy that you ask for

0:55:08.160 --> 0:55:10.040
<v Speaker 1>the shirt off his back, He'll give you that, and

0:55:10.160 --> 0:55:12.400
<v Speaker 1>he'll give you his pants, He'll give you his sneakers,

0:55:12.640 --> 0:55:14.840
<v Speaker 1>he'll make you a meal, he'll make sure you have

0:55:14.960 --> 0:55:17.480
<v Speaker 1>a good drink. Like he will give everything and more

0:55:17.640 --> 0:55:21.520
<v Speaker 1>to anyone. And that's I don't think enough people are

0:55:21.600 --> 0:55:24.040
<v Speaker 1>like that, especially in this day and age, and so

0:55:24.280 --> 0:55:29.000
<v Speaker 1>he truly wants to lift everybody else up around him.

0:55:30.280 --> 0:55:35.359
<v Speaker 1>I agree. First time, I truly Thomas, like I got

0:55:35.400 --> 0:55:37.759
<v Speaker 1>the exact same vibes, Like I was like this dude,

0:55:37.840 --> 0:55:40.200
<v Speaker 1>this dude goes above and beyond for everybody. Well, just

0:55:40.360 --> 0:55:43.520
<v Speaker 1>so so inclusive. Because I remember being at when we

0:55:43.600 --> 0:55:45.799
<v Speaker 1>did like this photo shoot for like you know, all

0:55:45.840 --> 0:55:49.600
<v Speaker 1>these different podcasts. Nate was like the significant other that

0:55:49.680 --> 0:55:51.880
<v Speaker 1>couldn't be there, but he because he was working, but

0:55:52.200 --> 0:55:55.040
<v Speaker 1>Thomas face timed him during the photo shoot and was like,

0:55:55.120 --> 0:55:58.160
<v Speaker 1>look at your girl, like and at that time, you

0:55:58.239 --> 0:56:01.560
<v Speaker 1>guys haven't even met in person. Correct, Yeah, no not

0:56:01.719 --> 0:56:05.440
<v Speaker 1>yet and so yeah, so he completely just made sure

0:56:05.480 --> 0:56:08.080
<v Speaker 1>to bring Nate into that situation and because he wasn't

0:56:08.080 --> 0:56:10.480
<v Speaker 1>able to make it. So yeah, and then he was

0:56:10.560 --> 0:56:13.719
<v Speaker 1>back there taking our photos. He's blowing the wings, he's

0:56:13.719 --> 0:56:15.960
<v Speaker 1>throw it up the rose petals, checking the rose. I

0:56:16.040 --> 0:56:17.440
<v Speaker 1>know for a fact Nate would have been doing that

0:56:17.560 --> 0:56:21.719
<v Speaker 1>same exactly. Neighbor have been pelting the roses at me,

0:56:22.520 --> 0:56:26.480
<v Speaker 1>like baseball at me. I don't know if somebody smacked me.

0:56:26.600 --> 0:56:29.680
<v Speaker 1>We need to get that photo of like just rose.

0:56:29.800 --> 0:56:31.520
<v Speaker 1>It was like a full It wasn't just the petals.

0:56:31.560 --> 0:56:33.480
<v Speaker 1>It was like a full on rose that smacked the

0:56:33.560 --> 0:56:35.880
<v Speaker 1>side of my face. So whoever did that, I mean

0:56:35.960 --> 0:56:37.759
<v Speaker 1>thank you because that's exactly what Nate would have done.

0:56:37.760 --> 0:56:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Totally joke. Oh my gosh, we got we need the

0:56:41.160 --> 0:56:45.640
<v Speaker 1>last footage archives of this photo sho's doing. Okay, we're

0:56:45.680 --> 0:56:47.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna ask one more question and then we're gonna get

0:56:47.480 --> 0:56:51.200
<v Speaker 1>into um, just a quick little game here. So if

0:56:51.280 --> 0:56:55.280
<v Speaker 1>you two had to describe your relationship in one word?

0:56:55.600 --> 0:57:00.359
<v Speaker 1>What would it be one? You're actually like that at

0:57:00.440 --> 0:57:02.760
<v Speaker 1>that point, I'm gonna be here for literally fifteen minutes.

0:57:06.840 --> 0:57:12.359
<v Speaker 1>Then you can take this one question. Do you guys

0:57:12.400 --> 0:57:15.600
<v Speaker 1>have one ready? See? Okay? This is also the funny

0:57:15.680 --> 0:57:18.560
<v Speaker 1>thing about Becca and Thomas is that they make out

0:57:18.720 --> 0:57:22.320
<v Speaker 1>during really important times that they're kissing. Well, we're just

0:57:22.440 --> 0:57:27.959
<v Speaker 1>trying to think about a word. Okay. Up when during

0:57:28.240 --> 0:57:33.040
<v Speaker 1>the final break up, like we didn't know the cameras

0:57:33.080 --> 0:57:36.640
<v Speaker 1>were that he was getting right behind me. I thought

0:57:36.680 --> 0:57:38.440
<v Speaker 1>they were straight on, so I thought it was from

0:57:38.480 --> 0:57:44.240
<v Speaker 1>the front. That was the best. We're not on TV.

0:57:44.360 --> 0:57:46.680
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be fine. And in that moment I looked

0:57:46.720 --> 0:57:48.560
<v Speaker 1>at them most like never break up with me like that.

0:57:48.920 --> 0:57:54.400
<v Speaker 1>And that's when we made out. Um Okay, I'll say, okay,

0:57:54.560 --> 0:57:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I need to describe our relationship and it's gonna be

0:57:57.560 --> 0:58:01.160
<v Speaker 1>very simple. Um, and I'm just gonna say it's right.

0:58:02.720 --> 0:58:06.120
<v Speaker 1>It's a right relationship that I have always I think

0:58:06.160 --> 0:58:13.120
<v Speaker 1>belonged in, belonged with. So that's stupid. No, no, Nate,

0:58:13.160 --> 0:58:15.160
<v Speaker 1>did you come up with one? I don't know one word.

0:58:15.280 --> 0:58:18.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's that's tough. We are blanking us. Becca's word.

0:58:19.000 --> 0:58:21.240
<v Speaker 1>We're on a time crunch. Are we good to move

0:58:21.280 --> 0:58:25.400
<v Speaker 1>to the game. We're gonna ask the gentleman of Bachelor

0:58:25.480 --> 0:58:31.480
<v Speaker 1>Happy our first gentleman rapid fire. Don't forget the first.

0:58:31.600 --> 0:58:34.560
<v Speaker 1>It's a rapid fire game for the first gentleman of

0:58:34.720 --> 0:58:38.360
<v Speaker 1>Bachelor Happy Hour. We're basically basically going to ask both

0:58:38.440 --> 0:58:40.840
<v Speaker 1>of you very easy question and you just have to

0:58:40.920 --> 0:58:45.800
<v Speaker 1>answer whether it's you two or us ladies. Okay, yea,

0:58:46.120 --> 0:58:48.760
<v Speaker 1>So basically I'll ask you who's the better cook? So, Nate,

0:58:48.880 --> 0:58:59.200
<v Speaker 1>would you say you or Michelle? Every ready, that's the question? No,

0:58:59.520 --> 0:59:02.800
<v Speaker 1>what I know? No, he is not the better cook.

0:59:03.320 --> 0:59:04.800
<v Speaker 1>Let me. I knew he was gonna say this, and

0:59:04.920 --> 0:59:10.680
<v Speaker 1>I actually came prepared because one because one when we

0:59:10.800 --> 0:59:13.840
<v Speaker 1>cooked dinner for Thanksgiving, he pulled the turkey out of

0:59:13.880 --> 0:59:17.240
<v Speaker 1>the oven. It was still raw, okay even but he

0:59:17.280 --> 0:59:19.000
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to listen to me, but he pulled it out.

0:59:19.120 --> 0:59:22.520
<v Speaker 1>And two, um, last night he sent me a picture

0:59:22.680 --> 0:59:26.120
<v Speaker 1>of his dinner from Hello Fresh that he completely botched.

0:59:26.200 --> 0:59:27.800
<v Speaker 1>It is like one of those Pinterest fails. To check

0:59:27.840 --> 0:59:29.680
<v Speaker 1>this out. Okay, this is what it was supposed to

0:59:29.760 --> 0:59:33.920
<v Speaker 1>look like. This is it's like these zucchini boats, and

0:59:34.040 --> 0:59:37.640
<v Speaker 1>then this is what his has looked like. And he

0:59:37.720 --> 0:59:42.320
<v Speaker 1>said it tastes like grass, so it doesn't look that bad.

0:59:43.200 --> 0:59:46.840
<v Speaker 1>He said it tasted awful. But he's he's he's okay.

0:59:46.840 --> 0:59:50.720
<v Speaker 1>I'll say this, he's a good cook, but I don't

0:59:50.760 --> 0:59:53.680
<v Speaker 1>know if you're better. I think we need to have

0:59:53.680 --> 0:59:57.560
<v Speaker 1>an Iron Chef showdown. Let's go, okay, can Thomas is

0:59:57.600 --> 1:00:00.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna be the taste testers? Yes, let's go okay, they'll

1:00:00.480 --> 1:00:02.480
<v Speaker 1>make those Ukini boats. Nate, you two come out to

1:00:02.600 --> 1:00:05.680
<v Speaker 1>San Diego for a few days. Will we will have

1:00:05.800 --> 1:00:07.800
<v Speaker 1>the right It'll be like the Great first break up.

1:00:07.800 --> 1:00:09.480
<v Speaker 1>We'll have the recipes ready for you and you both

1:00:09.520 --> 1:00:10.760
<v Speaker 1>have to make it. Sad. I said, we have to

1:00:10.800 --> 1:00:13.280
<v Speaker 1>do a taste test. Yes, I'm laughing because it's supposed

1:00:13.280 --> 1:00:16.520
<v Speaker 1>to be rapid fire and it gave a whole expect Okay,

1:00:16.760 --> 1:00:19.480
<v Speaker 1>back and Thomas, who is the who's the neat one?

1:00:20.520 --> 1:00:23.880
<v Speaker 1>Back up? Yeah, we're both not very neat, but she's

1:00:23.960 --> 1:00:26.720
<v Speaker 1>she's she's neat, So neat? What are you talking about?

1:00:26.880 --> 1:00:29.960
<v Speaker 1>I have seen your closet upstairs, and your corner and

1:00:30.200 --> 1:00:33.800
<v Speaker 1>the downstairs and the box not I don't know why

1:00:33.880 --> 1:00:35.959
<v Speaker 1>anyone thought this was going to be a rapid fire

1:00:36.040 --> 1:00:40.440
<v Speaker 1>between couples. Who is the biggest baby when they're sick? Nate,

1:00:40.480 --> 1:00:46.800
<v Speaker 1>you have to answer this. Sometimes the mirror hurts when

1:00:46.840 --> 1:00:50.640
<v Speaker 1>you look into it, Nate, It's okay. It's always the guy,

1:00:50.760 --> 1:00:54.520
<v Speaker 1>the man. Have you seen that man Fluke video. I'm

1:00:54.600 --> 1:00:57.439
<v Speaker 1>just going from a common cold last week. Every trait

1:00:57.640 --> 1:01:00.919
<v Speaker 1>in that video, I cannot handle the pain in pain

1:01:01.080 --> 1:01:05.480
<v Speaker 1>or seke. Um okay, okay, um? Thomas and Becca. Who's

1:01:05.520 --> 1:01:10.760
<v Speaker 1>more likely to get lost? Be for sure? Not even clothes? Okay?

1:01:10.840 --> 1:01:22.320
<v Speaker 1>Who takes more selfies? Michell? Her face says otherwise, Well,

1:01:22.400 --> 1:01:24.480
<v Speaker 1>nats just like all right, one and done? We good here?

1:01:26.160 --> 1:01:30.720
<v Speaker 1>He's a one take Jake. Okay? Back on Thomas, who's

1:01:30.760 --> 1:01:39.280
<v Speaker 1>the funny one? Yeah? Who's more fashionable? Michell? Really I

1:01:39.360 --> 1:01:44.120
<v Speaker 1>would say both of us. I heard you wanted Jlo's

1:01:44.160 --> 1:01:46.720
<v Speaker 1>closet and that you wanted to I mean, wouldn't you

1:01:47.360 --> 1:01:51.040
<v Speaker 1>or something? I know it's no Harry, but there's some

1:01:51.200 --> 1:01:58.200
<v Speaker 1>good stuff in there. True. Umho, Okay, this is a

1:01:58.240 --> 1:02:02.000
<v Speaker 1>good one. Who hogs the cover? The dogs? Yeah, me

1:02:02.160 --> 1:02:05.360
<v Speaker 1>and the dogs. I don't have the covers for us.

1:02:05.400 --> 1:02:06.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't get this. I don't get to sleep on

1:02:06.880 --> 1:02:09.720
<v Speaker 1>their covers. Yeh no, thomments, I'm on your boat man,

1:02:09.840 --> 1:02:16.520
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, Michelle, there Minnesotans they got sleep diagonal. Yes, okay,

1:02:16.880 --> 1:02:21.280
<v Speaker 1>who's the punctual one out of you too, Michelle? Yeah, teacher? Teacher,

1:02:21.680 --> 1:02:26.200
<v Speaker 1>who's more spontaneous? Oh? Is it still us? Yeah? Oh

1:02:26.280 --> 1:02:33.720
<v Speaker 1>definitely makes Mustache agrees with that statement. Yes, okay, Um,

1:02:34.400 --> 1:02:41.480
<v Speaker 1>let's see, um, who's more likely to get a traffic ticket? Thomas,

1:02:43.760 --> 1:02:45.760
<v Speaker 1>you pointed to me, I have not once in my

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<v Speaker 1>life knocking Wood had a traffic ticket. How many have

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<v Speaker 1>you had? Like six? Exactly? Don't even be in this direction, sir.

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<v Speaker 1>Your car insurance must be high right now in the

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<v Speaker 1>Mars just like, hey, that's electric. Don't don't hate on

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<v Speaker 1>the Honda. That is a guy that goes crazy. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not go it is. I will say that. Um okay,

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<v Speaker 1>last question for you too, who already has baby names

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<v Speaker 1>picked out? I mean I've had a low key I've

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<v Speaker 1>had a listen so I was like ten years old. Wow, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So Nate, Michelle, you gotta get these names later. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just confrom me on this, Nate. Like the Nigerian culture,

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<v Speaker 1>like babatun they stays in there. Crestling is for the

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<v Speaker 1>first born son when the father's father passes away, So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, God forbid. Let's say my dad were to

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<v Speaker 1>pass away. Whoever in the family the firstborn son after

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<v Speaker 1>my father passes away. Oh okay, yeah, but I do

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<v Speaker 1>have a I have a list. I've had a don't

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<v Speaker 1>wives because I was like ten years old, eleven years old,

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<v Speaker 1>having wait, throw throw us, if you throw us, one

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<v Speaker 1>name that's on the list, one boy, one girl. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really have a lot of girl in the names.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's kind of messed up, but I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, man doesn't want to replica of me. I

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<v Speaker 1>really liked the name Iodela, which is uh, my sister,

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<v Speaker 1>She's Iowa me. So the male version of that is

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<v Speaker 1>Iodela um. And I've always loved that name. So that Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, we asked this question. We'll learn it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do wait. I feel like Thomas had baby names picked out.

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<v Speaker 1>We've we've talked about baby names. Yeah, we love we

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<v Speaker 1>love the name Sloan. I don't know, Okay. Stevie Stevie

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<v Speaker 1>Stevie's first father first girl name is Stevie. Stevie Stevie

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<v Speaker 1>Jail most likely Kouffrin, Jacobs, Jacobs or Jacobs Cuffin. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>work on that part. And then the first boy I want,

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<v Speaker 1>John Gerald Jacobs. Dude, I like the name John. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know John. John is like the definition of basic.

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<v Speaker 1>But with that name, thank you. I'm I'm gonna sorry

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<v Speaker 1>I dated Johnny. Nope, in particular, he's adding our Johnny

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna be great though. Fact but I'm taking away

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<v Speaker 1>for all girls. So there's that two fingers crusted um. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. It has been so much fun having you

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<v Speaker 1>both on. I've loved our double date here. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you silent having like that? All girls? Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>All girls? All girls? And then we're gonna hit it

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<v Speaker 1>on a high note and kick you off our podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll have about one more to our favorite guys. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you both you are I will say you are both incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you. Michelle and I are so lucky to

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<v Speaker 1>have you in our lives and we got and you're

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<v Speaker 1>so lucky to have us. Let me make that clear,

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<v Speaker 1>very true, Nate, we lucked out, all right. I love

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. Thank you for joining. Cheers, Cheers, Michelle that

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<v Speaker 1>was so much fun. We didn't even get around to

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<v Speaker 1>our rosen Thorne because I feel like we could have

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<v Speaker 1>honestly chatted for hours and hours and now like we

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<v Speaker 1>just have to get you guys in San Diego or

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<v Speaker 1>we have to come wait wait for sure what wait

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<v Speaker 1>for shu? Sure, Well it's going to happen very soon. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>let's we're not ever going to do a rosen Thorne

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<v Speaker 1>because that is going to end on a high note.

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<v Speaker 1>That is my rose of the week. Being with all

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<v Speaker 1>four of us together. It was so much fun. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that you're currently rocking Thomas's hat right now. For

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<v Speaker 1>those who can't see, I'm not sure who wore it

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<v Speaker 1>better that it made a little big I look behind

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<v Speaker 1>the mask. Yes, you actually like identical identical. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a good wild a little little not snug enough, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay. Um, but Michelle, thank you for such a

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<v Speaker 1>fun episode. I can't wait to listen to this one

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<v Speaker 1>back because I just love listening to the fellas. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you, Nate and Thomas and until next week.

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