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Speaker 1: What's up, Bachelor Happy Hour. It's so good to be

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Speaker 1: back with you all again this week, and I know

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Speaker 1: Michelle and I are both so excited to be here

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Speaker 1: for another episode because we have a very fun one

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Speaker 1: plan for you today. Yeah, so we're so excited. We've

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Speaker 1: been talking about this for a little bit now. I've

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Speaker 1: that we don't have to keep that secret anymore. It's

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Speaker 1: finely here. We have our wine ready. I hope you

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Speaker 1: all do too, because very soon we're bringing on our

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Speaker 1: guests to get the party started. And yes, you heard

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Speaker 1: that right, I said guests as in plural, because the

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Speaker 1: first one we're going to be bringing on, well, we'll

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Speaker 1: come on together, but the first one, drumroll please. He

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Speaker 1: comes in at a whopping six six. He has the

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Speaker 1: best damn smile that I'm looking at right now, and

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Speaker 1: he is the honestly the best hype man for the

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Speaker 1: Bachelor franchise for us. Michelle and my favorite person I

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Speaker 1: just love to love, which of course is Thomas WHOA.

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Speaker 1: our second guess is a sixth eighth man that everybody

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Speaker 1: knows is always the tallest man in the room, a

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Speaker 1: good looking man at that. But he's a sweetheart. He

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Speaker 1: was a walking red flag according to everybody else, but

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Speaker 1: he is here. He has burned himself wrong. And we're

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Speaker 1: gonna have Nate on. But before we bring the guys on, Becca,

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Speaker 1: the tail end of Bachelor Live on stage. Now you're

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Speaker 1: finally home and you have some new announcements coming. I

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Speaker 1: do yes, and I like you said, I'm finally home.

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Speaker 1: It feels incredible. It was very bittersweet. The last show

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Speaker 1: obviously COVID shut it down. So I've been home a

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Speaker 1: twenty four hours and it was wonderful. And since then

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Speaker 1: right back at it. We've been busy. My sparkling Wineline

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Speaker 1: I said, I hope everyone has their wine or their

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Speaker 1: Michelle cheers starts up. Well, cheers with the mend too

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Speaker 1: once they get in. But we need cheers with the

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Speaker 1: girls first. But okay, wait, who's more excited that your home?

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Speaker 1: I don't even think Nate knows this, but I have

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Speaker 1: give it a few months. Um, I don't know, but

423
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: we actually do have a list of fun questions that

424
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: we do want to ask you guys that I'm sure

425
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 1: our listeners are dying to know. So I'm going to

426
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 1: kick it off first Michelle. I'll just ask him a question.

427
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,120
Speaker 1: And this is for both of you guys, So Nate

428
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 1: you can answer first, and then Thomas can go, Um,

429
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 1: but what is the what do you think is the

430
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: most romantic thing that Michelle has done for you? Oh? Okay,

431
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 1: so um, let me go get it. I have no

432
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: idea what this is Oculus headset on? Oh I do, okay,

433
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:54,159
Speaker 1: now I do come this jar and each jar is

434
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 1: a reason why she loves me. Oh I love that

435
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: is that once you're right there, Nate, that you want

436
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: to have new experiences in life. Oh that's romantic, you know,

437
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 1: it's pretty more romantic. So yeah, when did you make

438
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: him that, Michelle? Um, that was when we were still

439
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 1: like at our happy couple weekends and we're you know,

440
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: back when she like really liked me, before the VR

441
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: headset became a reality, back before he kissed me off. No, No,

442
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: it was just it was just something where I'm not

443
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: necessarily always good about talking about my emotions or verbally,

444
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: you know, speaking about them, and so I was like,

445
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 1: I do have all these things that I really like

446
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 1: about this person, and so let me write them down.

447
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,199
Speaker 1: And so I actually would write them down when they

448
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 1: come to my mind, and then once I had a

449
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 1: decent amount, then I put them on like those pieces

450
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: of paper, into a jar so that I can give

451
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 1: them to him. I love that. Did you go through

452
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: all of them right away, Nate? Or do you just

453
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 1: take them out one by one whenever the mood strikes you? No,

454
00:24:54,440 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 1: I dumped out the jar was like ego, Bruce, Yes, Nate,

455
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: attack that jar like the attacks a bag of candy.

456
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: He just dumped it on first cent. It's like it

457
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: would have been super romantic, like he could read one

458
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 1: every single day until the time we were going to

459
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: see each other again. But he was just like my

460
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: laughing and like talking like keep it coming, keep it coming,

461
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: either way. I love either way. Um, Okay, Thomas, do

462
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: you want to answer it? Yeah, I'm nervous. I would

463
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 1: say the most romantic loving thing that Becca has done

464
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: for me isn't necessarily like one particular grand gesture. You're

465
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 1: just really good at just checking in on a day

466
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 1: to day basis and just making sure that I feel loved,

467
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: whether it's just little things like what can I get you?

468
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,360
Speaker 1: Do you need this? Oh? I would love to cook

469
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: dinner to night. Oh no, don't worry about I'm gonna

470
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: take care of that. Like for me being take knowing

471
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: that you're going out of your way to check in

472
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 1: on me and make sure I'm taking care of That's

473
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,880
Speaker 1: the most loving thing that you do in my eyes.

474
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: All this is so sorry, Nate. I can kiss you

475
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: through the screen. I guess I could lean forward and

476
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: plant one on the camera when that remix. Okay, all right, Becca,

477
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: I have a question for you about Thomas. Yes, how

478
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:26,719
Speaker 1: do you think you have influenced each other? Like being

479
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,959
Speaker 1: around Thomas? How has he influenced you? Oh? God, how

480
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: has Thomas influenced me? Like? What's rubbed off? Um, he well,

481
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: I can be a monster, and so he has truly

482
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 1: made me at times take steps steps back to be

483
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: and it is a work in progress. So I have

484
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: not mastered this yet, I will say that, but to

485
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: be more patient and to be I think especially just

486
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: to be more grateful and appreciative of the things we

487
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: have in life, because we are very lucky to be

488
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 1: blessed with such an incredible life, and sometimes especially I think,

489
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 1: like getting wrapped up in the show and the like

490
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: the Bachelor World, where especially when you're filming and you

491
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 1: have this whole season about you and everyone's kind of

492
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 1: catering to you, it's easy to lose sight of that

493
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,959
Speaker 1: or to take things for granted. And so he has

494
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 1: really made me step back and appreciate the little things

495
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: and to be more cognizant and aware and vocal about that. Again,

496
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: it's the work in progress. I don't always the fact

497
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: that you just acknowledge that, because right when the questions asked,

498
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: the first two things that popped in my mind was

499
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 1: I hope like gratitude and patience, And I mean that

500
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: speaks volumes that you went there too. Oh, I'm very,

501
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:47,439
Speaker 1: very just take it away. I'm very impatient, so um

502
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: and Thomas is very slow sometimes I love you, but

503
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: progress every day. I just like to enjoy the most

504
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 1: out of every moment in life. Some people call it slow.

505
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: I call it perspective. What you Thomas, You you're very

506
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: much like a stop and smell the roses kind of person.

507
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: You live in the moment for sure, absolutely sure is Yeah.

508
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: What about Nate, Nate? What do you have to say? Um?

509
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 1: But no, I guess Michelle. Let me start with you first,

510
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: what has how has Nate influenced you? And then I

511
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 1: want to have Nate answer that same question. Write down

512
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: what you think she's going to say, and then hold

513
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: it up. This is actually good idea. Do you have

514
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: any idea what I want to say? Um? No, not

515
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 1: at all. I would say that I think what Nate

516
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: really helps me do is just it is easy to like,

517
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: there's so many just different things that are going on

518
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 1: at one time, whether it's you know, being emotionally attached

519
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: to work, being emotional about just every other thing that

520
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: is going on in my life. And I think what

521
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 1: Nate does is like in those moments where I'm feeling

522
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 1: anxious or I'm really struggling with that. He's able to

523
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: even just today we had a situation where it's he's

524
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: helps me take a step back and look at it

525
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 1: realistically of like this isn't something that we need to

526
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: spend energy on or you know, he is a very realistic,

527
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: honest person. And I think for me, sometimes I can

528
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: be really positive, but then that's like ignoring an issue

529
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 1: at times, and so he really does help me and

530
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 1: challenge me to actually like push and actually talk about

531
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: that issue and be real about it. And so I think,

532
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: like you said, Becca, it's not how I'm worried that,

533
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: it's not how I'm wired necessarily, but he it's it's

534
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 1: a way that has really helped me a lot. Yeah,

535
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: I love that. How would you say Michelle's influence you? Um,

536
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: I think it's Thom's ancern First let's see for me,

537
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: I'd have to say with family just because of how

538
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: like family oarrented you are, Michelle. Um, and then just

539
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: like obviously I'm family warrented too, but I don't know,

540
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: You're just different with your family, and you know, like

541
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: I think that kind of grubs off called me sometimes

542
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 1: with how I am with my family or like how

543
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: I've interact with my family things like that, so I'd

544
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: have to say, just in the fine family, I aspect

545
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: you definitely influenced me in a positive way. Oh yes,

546
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 1: this kind of isn't their py session. Wow, I'm not crying.

547
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 1: You crying? Okay? Um, what was a big deal at

548
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 1: the beginning? These are hard questions. What was a big

549
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: deal at the beginning of the relationship That isn't anymore? Thomas,

550
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: you want to start this one? The funny obvious one

551
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 1: was initially She's like, oh, well I just bought this

552
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: house now way and we have and then like ten

553
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: months later, Yeah, that wasn't really a big deal. But yeah,

554
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 1: I would say that the biggest deal was just coping

555
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 1: with who we were and just the situation that we

556
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: found ourselves in where we have your story coming from

557
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 1: your experience with the franchise and then mine, and then

558
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: how we blend that together and put all that on

559
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: the back burners and just enjoy life day to day. Yeah,

560
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 1: that came is naturally. I mean when we were even

561
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: on the beach to the time we just spent time

562
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: each other's homes, everything was felt natural. So I think

563
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: one thing for both of us I would say is

564
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 1: when we met each other. It was obviously Katie's season

565
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: of The Bout Shrut was airing when we were on

566
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: the beach, and I was watching clips and the episodes

567
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: of him looking like you know, this terrible villain on

568
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 1: the TV show and seeing him firsthand in daily life

569
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: how he interacted with everyone on the beach was totally

570
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 1: different from what the show was making him out to be.

571
00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: And so for a while it was like this weird

572
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: and fuck of like, okay, but who are you really? Like?

573
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: Are you who I'm seeing in real life in real

574
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: time or is it you know, what this show is

575
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: portraying you to be. And so to just go from

576
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: that for a while and to not like fully understand

577
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: like the why behind of like why that was happening

578
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: and like why he was getting that edit was really

579
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: difficult for me personally for a little bit. But I

580
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 1: will say what helped a lot was the fact that

581
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 1: once we were done film in Paradise, we still had

582
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: to be in hiding until the show finished airing. So

583
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: for months, what was it, three months, three or four

584
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 1: months till the finale, we had to be in hiding,

585
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: and so I literally just had to get to know

586
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: him for him, and we would sneak out and like

587
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: see his family and some of his friends, so I

588
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: could actually see him in his real life with his

589
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: people that you have known him for his entire life,

590
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: which helped. But that actually was nice because I could

591
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: actually get a baseline for who he truly was and

592
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: not what the show made him out to be, which

593
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: was very helpful. But it was just like that weird

594
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 1: limbo phase of like, you know, why are you a

595
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: villain on TV? But really great in person because one

596
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: of our within our last conversation on the beach, one

597
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: of the big striking points I had was your biggest

598
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 1: problem with our relationship at that time was we didn't

599
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: have problems. You're asking you, is this real life? Is

600
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: this really who you were? And then in that time

601
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: we got to spend together like, Yeah, this is who

602
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: I am. This so I've always been? Yeah, And then

603
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: just finding that trust and faith in each other. That's

604
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,719
Speaker 1: was the biggest roadblock we had a climb. And then

605
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: in that I mean, that's what brought us to where

606
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 1: we are today, which is everything. So yeah, I had

607
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: to go through that little hurdle, but it was all

608
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: worth a wild experience. I know it's crazy, right, it's crazy.

609
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: What about you two? Um, let's see does anything come

610
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: to your mind? Nate? Um? Well, so just repeat the

611
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: original question really quick. What was a big deal at

612
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:04,719
Speaker 1: the beginning of your relationship that isn't necessarily an issue anymore.

613
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: I don't know it was a big deal. I think

614
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: like both Michelle and I were like like hyper aware

615
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 1: that we've never gone through a fighter argument and just

616
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 1: like how unnatural that is, because usually when you meet

617
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 1: somebody in like a natural cadence, you're gonna have disagreements,

618
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna have fights, you're gonna have arguments things like

619
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: that early on or not early on, you know, I

620
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: mean like somewhere early on, nothing before you get you Yeah,

621
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So, like, so I think

622
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: it wasn't like a big deal to us, and it's

623
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 1: kind of just like like super like hyper aware of

624
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: like all right, like we've like this has been super easy,

625
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: like we're smooth sailing, like no fights, no nothing. But

626
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: it's not a big deal now because Michelle and I

627
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: fight every other day, so work for it. Nailed it,

628
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: I feel, quick followup question on that with that awareness

629
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 1: that you guys had coming off the show. What if

630
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 1: you guys learned out yourselves and each other now in

631
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: this engagement being long distance and not being able to

632
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 1: do with each other all the time. Um, shoot for me,

633
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: I mean, like we're both kind of the type of

634
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: people that whatever we're upset, like we just need to

635
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,800
Speaker 1: like give me five ten, We're good. You know, in

636
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: five ten we come back, it's like, what are we

637
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: fighting about? Like this this is nothing, you know, you

638
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 1: know without that five ten, you know, if I can

639
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 1: kind of like grow from there. But if Michelle and

640
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:28,280
Speaker 1: I take our five ten, we're good. Yeah, that's definitely.

641
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 1: That's my takeaway of how how her and I like

642
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 1: handle toughy situations is like give me five ten, give

643
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: Michelle five ten, and we're good. So yeah, I think.

644
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,479
Speaker 1: I mean, just even with me and Nate, what I've

645
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: realized is that a lot of times we're saying or

646
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 1: agreeing on the same thing, but the way Nate communicates,

647
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: in the way I communicate, in the way that we

648
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: receive communication is very very different than we're both used to,

649
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 1: and so there's times where it's like we get done,

650
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: like we're something out and it's like we were saying

651
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,359
Speaker 1: the same thing the whole time, but I was hyper

652
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 1: focused on this area and you were hyper focused on

653
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: this area where you know, for me, I just I'm

654
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: very I want you to know what I mean and

655
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 1: like my meaning, and you know, for him, he's he's

656
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: very literal also, and so it's like we kind of

657
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: go back and forth. But like Nate said, just taking

658
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,439
Speaker 1: that five to ten minutes, I feel like we're able

659
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: to I'm able to think through the emotions part, He's

660
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 1: able to think through the literal part. And then we

661
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 1: come back and we're like, okay, like we're both on

662
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: the same page. This is what we need moving forward.

663
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: We're good, move on. That's beautiful because that directly reflects

664
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: what you guys both said, what you've learned from each other.

665
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,919
Speaker 1: I mean, Michelle you were saying, Nate helps you really

666
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 1: hunker down and see what really matters in that breathwork.

667
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 1: Nate you were saying, you as a person, you need

668
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: a process and literally go through every single focal point

669
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: of things. Then that's what's making you, guys relationships strong

670
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: and long distance, Like are you kidding me? All that

671
00:36:56,280 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 1: is amazing, but not even the fact that like long

672
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: distance is hard enough, and being in a relationship with

673
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: you know, men and women operate very differently differently for

674
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 1: the most part. And add on the fact that you

675
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 1: are in the public eye and everybody saw your relationship

676
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,879
Speaker 1: unfold and of course have their two sense to say

677
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: about you two and have their opinions and their comments

678
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: and their criticism. That layer adds on so much extra stress.

679
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:29,399
Speaker 1: And if you can just recognize that and be able

680
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: to talk through that and like still have each other's

681
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: backs and be supportive and get through whatever the argument

682
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:41,280
Speaker 1: or conflict is is so important. And and it's always

683
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: probably going to be that way. I mean, just speaking

684
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: from experience, that's always going to be there. It makes

685
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: it so difficult. But it's good that you guys are

686
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: both on the same page and can kind of take

687
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: that five to ten talk through. You know, Okay, you're

688
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 1: probably coming at it this way. I'm coming at it

689
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 1: this way. Let's meet in the middle and work through.

690
00:37:56,239 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 1: This is so important, right. I want to add ask

691
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 1: you guys this because when you go on the show,

692
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 1: you know, like of course, Michelle, you are there to

693
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: date all of these men. Thomas Port that Margarita, baby,

694
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: you were there to date all these men and like, yes,

695
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 1: they're your boyfriends, but do you feel like you missed

696
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: that boyfriend girlfriend's stage in a way because you literally

697
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 1: went from dating multiple people to then getting engaged and

698
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: it's it's such a weird transition. Did that ever bother

699
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: you or hinder you too? To be like, we missed

700
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: such a huge chunk of our relationship. Do you want

701
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: me to go first night? Or do you want to go?

702
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: I feel like we both have had so many conversations

703
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: about just taking our time and enjoying each other's company

704
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: and figuring that out where it's really important for me

705
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 1: to never leave that dating stage, whether you know we're

706
00:38:56,239 --> 00:39:00,479
Speaker 1: in we're engaged, or we're been married for howeverman years.

707
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 1: I think what's weird is that you go from this

708
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: situation where all these dates are planned for you and

709
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: all of these you know, massive gestures are planned, and

710
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,320
Speaker 1: I think what Nate and I really love to do

711
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: is just have things that are simple. But we're also

712
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 1: still in long distance and so getting to that point

713
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 1: where eventually when we're living in the same area to

714
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: pick up that dating piece. But I think that comes

715
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,280
Speaker 1: when we are in that you know, in that stage

716
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,799
Speaker 1: just because right now, it's like going to New York,

717
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: like that whole thing it was a date. That whole

718
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: weekend was a date going to La together, that whole

719
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: that whole weekend is a date in a getaway going

720
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 1: to Conrad, you know, in Mexico again. So I think, yeah, yeah,

721
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: that makes sense. I like it. Nate's like ditto. I

722
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 1: mean I think I think like for Michelle and I

723
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: honestly like early on we had that conversation of like, okay,

724
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: that was that was a whirlwind, that was an experienced

725
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 1: that we're never going to forget. I think the first day, yeah,

726
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: the first day that we all met Michelle, she came

727
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 1: down and she was like, I want somebody who can

728
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 1: make natural of the unnatural. And so after the engagement,

729
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 1: it was kind of like, okay, like you know, usually

730
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: people don't get engaged after forty nine days and knowing

731
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: each other, so call that the unnatural for sake of conversation,

732
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: Let's now bring this back to the natural. So, yes,

733
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: we're engaged, but let's definitely put our our focus on

734
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 1: getting to know each other and dating and kind of

735
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 1: going back to the basics of everything. Yeah, you know,

736
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 1: and then I think that's definitely how we've treated this relationship.

737
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: So yeah, and they will say and you, I'm sure

738
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,439
Speaker 1: you can attest to this, and Thomas, you probably can too,

739
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: even though we're not engaged. Is so many people have

740
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: their you know, especially on social media, their comments, their criticisms,

741
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: like I said earlier, and somebody, people want you to

742
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 1: do things or expect you to do things on a

743
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: certain timeline or on their timeline because you met on

744
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: a television show. And so the fact that you're not

745
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 1: planning a wedding right now or not, you know, actively

746
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 1: in the process of getting married, like they can't handle that.

747
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 1: It's a lot. And I'm sure you've seen this too,

748
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: of like get married already, half the wedding, half babies

749
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: do this, do that because they saw you getting aage

750
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: so fast. Isn't that funny? And like that part is

751
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: so unnatural. Like you, if you were to have a

752
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 1: conversation with any one of those people who are like, hey,

753
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: get married, have this wedding, have babies, do all the things,

754
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: it's like you do realize, like we've known each other

755
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: a very short amount of time for what this world

756
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: actually is and like what a relationship could be so

757
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: like why are you who do you think you are

758
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: going to tell us to have babies right now or

759
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 1: to tell us to get married asaf like, but it's

760
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: like you can't you can't win though. It's like you

761
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,399
Speaker 1: get off the show and they're like, you're this isn't

762
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: You're not gonna like your relationships not going to work

763
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 1: because you've only known yourself, like you only known each

764
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: other for this amount of time. And then you're like okay,

765
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 1: and then they're like, how come you're not married yet?

766
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 1: How come you're not moved in. I'm like, you're just

767
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: saying that we don't know each other, like Big One

768
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:14,400
Speaker 1: at least it's it's like, yeah, there's no happy media

769
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 1: the world of bad short that's for sure. Um okay,

770
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 1: I want to ask you about this, since you are

771
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: obviously doing long distance right now, if you could go

772
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: anywhere together, just the two of you at this moment

773
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 1: in time, where would you be? All right? Answer answer

774
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: three two one, grease okay out was not answered at

775
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 1: the same time on the count of three greececialize that

776
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 1: what you Yeah, we talked about that in overnights. Actually

777
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 1: we need a new question. On this one because I

778
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: was sorry, like I couldn't hear the right time, but

779
00:42:58,040 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 1: I also knew there's a mull chance that it could

780
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: be Europe. Mano comes running. So we have this thing

781
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 1: and that I uses with my sister for the dogs

782
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: of like if we were going in the car on

783
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,439
Speaker 1: a trip, we would call it Grace, and so we'd

784
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: always be like, we're going to Greece, We're going to Grace,

785
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 1: and of course walking over here running. Yeah, she's so

786
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: confused though, She's like, why aren't we going in the car?

787
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: She needs some water. Okay, wait, here's what I want

788
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 1: to know about your relationship. What is like the funniest

789
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 1: moment that has happened Grease, Grace. Funniest moment, Oh, there's

790
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 1: one that immediately stands out to me. We're literally on

791
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: our kitchen table playing dominoes, and out of nowhere, I

792
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 1: don't know what overcame this woman right here. She was

793
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 1: just like cry, laughing over the smallest little comment, and

794
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: then I start cracking up and it was like eight

795
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 1: minutes of I couldn't tell you the origin of this

796
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 1: that we were just we were just laughing. Is I

797
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 1: have the videos if you want to give me that

798
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 1: little front phase. I don't remember that you lost your

799
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,040
Speaker 1: damn mine and it was amazing. Um, I don't the

800
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 1: funniest moment with Thomas, I don't know what. We laugh

801
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 1: a lot. Can I tell this story? It was also okay,

802
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell a story. Okay. So I took Timis

803
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: Universal Studios for the first time and he had to

804
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 1: get he had to get a um Harry Potter cloak

805
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: and a wand, and so he went through this space

806
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 1: after that for like a week or two straight where

807
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,879
Speaker 1: he had to wear this cloak and bring his wand

808
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 1: absolutely everywhere, Like we would go to the dog park,

809
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: he'd have the cloak and wand we'd go to freaking Starbucks,

810
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: he'd have the cloaking Wand we had to go to

811
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 1: Target one night to get some stuff. And you know,

812
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: we're picking up the necessities and like maybe some food

813
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,800
Speaker 1: at the grocery store and he's wearing this cloak and

814
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: wand and I'm pushing my car in front of him

815
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: and he's walking behind me and he just rips one

816
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 1: so freaking loud. I was so embarrassed. I've never seen

817
00:44:55,719 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 1: her run away from me faster and a random man

818
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: throw a spell. And it was like late at night,

819
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 1: like target was about to close, so I didn't think

820
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: anyone was gonna be there. And I turned around and

821
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: there was somebody literally right behind Thomas walking and I blinded.

822
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 1: I booked it all the way like on the other

823
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: side of the store. I was like, I cannot be

824
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,720
Speaker 1: near you. And everyone's already kind of looking at him anyways,

825
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: because he's the six sixth man in the Harry Potter

826
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 1: robe with his pawcorn wand and I was like, what you. Meanwhile,

827
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: I see her sprint and it just sets me off.

828
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 1: And I'm standing in the middle of produce. Now I'm

829
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: just cackling wearing this robe. I can't control myself. You

830
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:45,720
Speaker 1: trually can't control yourself. That was one moment. Oh my god,

831
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: I can just totally see you, Thomas, like trying to

832
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: blame it on a spell, but Aloha Moore. I truly

833
00:45:56,680 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 1: opened up everything, Like wait, Thomas, wait, Thomas, what would

834
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 1: you what would your spell have been if you were

835
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 1: to blame that moment on a spell? That's my patronis

836
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 1: you hit that one out. It was so embarrassing and

837
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: like and it was it was there was a duck

838
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 1: in there. My patronis just happens to be a duck

839
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 1: that was going down. And it was like here's the

840
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: thing too. And I don't want to say this in

841
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:24,479
Speaker 1: like a cocky way, but like people know Thomas lives

842
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: in San Diego, and like there's a lot of Bachelor

843
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: fans all across the country, and for whatever reason, going

844
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,320
Speaker 1: to that target, we always get stopped and like this

845
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 1: sounds so conceited. And I don't mean it to sound

846
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 1: like this, like stop for photos or like just to

847
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 1: say they love God. The person who heard that knew

848
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: exactly who we were, so they could just have that

849
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: story please out. So I was so convinced, like somebody's

850
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: gonna see Thomas and his cloak and like take photo.

851
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,720
Speaker 1: And I was just like this is it's a great cloak.

852
00:46:56,280 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: It's a lovely, very fottered to point out that's at

853
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 1: um thank you. The same question to YouTube, turn turn

854
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 1: the tables. Can I tell the burrito story? When we

855
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 1: were filming, they got me farting and target native of

856
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: course you could tell burrito story. I got to tell

857
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:18,719
Speaker 1: that one. Okay, yeah, okay, n you tell the burrito story.

858
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: So this is one of the first This is one

859
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,320
Speaker 1: of the first stories that Nate told me in fantasy

860
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 1: suits actually conversations. Okay, as I love the fact that

861
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 1: this year I cannot where there are no microphones. What

862
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 1: do they talk about? This brito story? Tell you up

863
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,439
Speaker 1: like this, this like dead ass happened. I was traumatized,

864
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: so too. We just got to uh to California start filming.

865
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: Like this is before we even met Michelle. We're just

866
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 1: like quarantining for for our few days whatever, and we're getting, um,

867
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,359
Speaker 1: we're getting all of our food delivered to the hotel room,

868
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: right and so on this particular day, we had a

869
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: burrito delivered to the to the right, and I glanced

870
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 1: out the window, you know, I see my fee my

871
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 1: feet down whatever whatever, and um, I glanced at the

872
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 1: window and I see Michelle. She's like like it like

873
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 1: went like my in my hotel room. Then like the

874
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: pool and then the other side of the building and

875
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: I see Michelle. She's she's over here waving. She's a balcony. Yeah,

876
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: it's like day two. I don't know what the role is, right,

877
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 1: but it looks like she's looking at I was waving

878
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: Caitlin for some inst I was. I was waving at them.

879
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 1: They were down by the pool. I am sitting in

880
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: the hotel. But as Nicky, you always Brito right by

881
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 1: the window. Seeing the Brito, I'm like, munch. And I

882
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 1: looked to the side. I see Michelle. I'm like and

883
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, like, burrito, you know where I thought she

884
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: was waving at me. I'm like, like at that home,

885
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 1: you can just get up and only I am. But Michelle,

886
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:10,439
Speaker 1: are you crying? Yeah, because I know the exact moment,

887
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,279
Speaker 1: because I had to walk out on the balcony and

888
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: wave to Caitlin and Taitia a few times so to

889
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: like do that right and know that moment. And then

890
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: OG's talking to the hands, know that moment and then no,

891
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: he's in there like pauses in the middle of eating

892
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: to look over me, like Craft, you know one of

893
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: those moments where you just like I had to own

894
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 1: up to it because at that moment, like you're not

895
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:36,319
Speaker 1: gonna hop up and own that. Yes, I'm button naked

896
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: and Brito, what's up? How yourself? This is how you

897
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: got the first impression rights have since then? Have you

898
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:52,799
Speaker 1: seen Nate eating a brito naked? I think we talk

899
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: your next romantic dame. I'll let you know when you

900
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: know how every friend this episode has the like, um

901
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: like the title is like the one that or the

902
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: one win whatever. This is the one with the naked burrito.

903
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: You have to name every podcast episode like this. Absolutely,

904
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 1: that actually sounds very pleasant. I want to try eating

905
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: my next barrito naked. Yeah, I'm gonna do it, honestly. Thanks.

906
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 1: Me a little nervous with the dogs around, but I'm

907
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: gonna give it a got size. Let's do it. Our

908
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: listeners are in for a treat this week. Okay, I

909
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 1: want to ask both of you fellas this Nate, you

910
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:44,879
Speaker 1: can start, because Michelle obviously is beautiful in so many ways,

911
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 1: but what is one thing that you find most beautiful

912
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: in her? Ooh uh okay, give me twelve minutes like

913
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:55,879
Speaker 1: it right now. It takes me a while. I can't

914
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:59,439
Speaker 1: just say over her eyes there's the most beautiful part

915
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 1: about the show? Um uh? I mean okay, Like we're

916
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 1: not gonna go physical on this one. I'm gonna I'm

917
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 1: gonna like kind of the same thing how she was

918
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 1: with my family. I mean, it's beautiful to watch, so

919
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 1: that's gotta be like how she's my sister, and my

920
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 1: dad and my stepmom and my stepbrother and my stepsister

921
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: and my brother and just everybody in the family, my mom,

922
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: Like I mean, she's just she's great with with the

923
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 1: whole family. So yeah, she's great with everyone. Family's family.

924
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 1: So I have to say, I have to say that's

925
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 1: the one. Oh great with everyone, all right, Thomas, I'm

926
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 1: gonna go ahead and say it's it's a shared Minnesotan

927
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 1: thing with this one, because the Beck has a warmth

928
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:49,439
Speaker 1: in her that no matter the scenario we're in, whether

929
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 1: it's family, friends, strangers, the twur the people she's around,

930
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 1: she just wants to see everyone around her just experience

931
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 1: like that same level of happiness. This is enthusiasm like

932
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 1: that she would want herself, And for me, I think

933
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 1: that's a beautiful thing to see in action and like

934
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:09,320
Speaker 1: try to wish upon those aroundment and more important to

935
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: try to do the things to put that into action.

936
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 1: So that's that's been my favorite thing when I'm around her,

937
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 1: And I say that like a poet. I can watch her,

938
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:20,839
Speaker 1: but it's one of those things, like Nate, I'm sure

939
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 1: you feel the same way I needed. I feel. The

940
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: most pride is where we're just sitting back and you're

941
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 1: just washing your loved one, dude, the thing that they do,

942
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 1: and you're like, see, you know what, you have yourself

943
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 1: a good one, all right because like you see how

944
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 1: expressive Thomas is, Like I need lessons from you, Thomas. Yeah, Michell,

945
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: really give my family. You know she's happen. It just

946
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 1: takes him. It just takes him, you know, a minute.

947
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 1: You know, it's not like that. You don't feel that,

948
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 1: it's just it takes them a minute. But the thing is,

949
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 1: the metaverse takes a second to process. So we've gone

950
00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: full circle and you are you just keep doing you.

951
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 1: But n you know what I actually love and appreciate

952
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 1: about you is the fact that you don't like a

953
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,719
Speaker 1: time limit. You're not like the rapid fire. It's like

954
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 1: you really want to genuinely give an answer that means

955
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,439
Speaker 1: a lot, and you're not afraid to express that, which

956
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 1: I think is a beautiful thing. Most people just say

957
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,399
Speaker 1: whatever comes to mind, and you're like, I need some time.

958
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: I want to think of actually the best thing for

959
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 1: my woman here. And the big power in that, Nate

960
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 1: is like everything you're coming from, it's not just from

961
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: the hit, like that is some result, that is some heart,

962
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: that is some thought going into things. You get to

963
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: take over the podcast talking with Thomas Therapy with Thomas

964
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: seriously though, um, well no, Michelle, I want to ask

965
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: you the same thing. What do you find most beautiful

966
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 1: about Nate? His willingness to accept the people around them

967
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 1: for who they are, so like he truly embraces who

968
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 1: someone is, whether that's their flaws or not. He wants

969
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 1: people to be like very real and acknowledge that, you know,

970
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 1: acknowledge what they struggle with, acknowledge what they're get at.

971
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: But he with whatever that is, he accepts it. And

972
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: so I think that's the biggest thing. I could name

973
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 1: a few other things, but I love that. I feel

974
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 1: like more people need to be like that. That's a

975
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: great quality. Yeah, yeah, you know if he has like

976
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 1: a friend like and he really does. He has this

977
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: amazing group of friends around him, and I think you

978
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: can really see who somebody is by the people that

979
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: around him. And he also has some you know, friends

980
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 1: that are crazy, but like he loves them because they're crazy.

981
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, they're they're crazy, But he still genuinely

982
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,840
Speaker 1: sees a lot of good qualities in that person and

983
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: just completely embraces who they are. Yeah, oh I love that.

984
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,759
Speaker 1: I'm going to um so. For Thomas, one of the

985
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:55,960
Speaker 1: most beautiful things is he truly, truly is the most welcoming, accepting,

986
00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: supportive person for anyone. He truly wants everyone to succeed

987
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: in life and really builds them up and welcomes everyone

988
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: like he's the type of guy that you ask for

989
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: the shirt off his back, He'll give you that, and

990
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,400
Speaker 1: he'll give you his pants, He'll give you his sneakers,

991
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 1: he'll make you a meal, he'll make sure you have

992
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 1: a good drink. Like he will give everything and more

993
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: to anyone. And that's I don't think enough people are

994
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 1: like that, especially in this day and age, and so

995
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 1: he truly wants to lift everybody else up around him.

996
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:35,359
Speaker 1: I agree. First time, I truly Thomas, like I got

997
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 1: the exact same vibes, Like I was like this dude,

998
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 1: this dude goes above and beyond for everybody. Well, just

999
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: so so inclusive. Because I remember being at when we

1000
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:45,799
Speaker 1: did like this photo shoot for like you know, all

1001
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: these different podcasts. Nate was like the significant other that

1002
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 1: couldn't be there, but he because he was working, but

1003
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: Thomas face timed him during the photo shoot and was like,

1004
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: look at your girl, like and at that time, you

1005
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: guys haven't even met in person. Correct, Yeah, no not

1006
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 1: yet and so yeah, so he completely just made sure

1007
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: to bring Nate into that situation and because he wasn't

1008
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 1: able to make it. So yeah, and then he was

1009
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 1: back there taking our photos. He's blowing the wings, he's

1010
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: throw it up the rose petals, checking the rose. I

1011
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: know for a fact Nate would have been doing that

1012
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 1: same exactly. Neighbor have been pelting the roses at me,

1013
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 1: like baseball at me. I don't know if somebody smacked me.

1014
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: We need to get that photo of like just rose.

1015
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 1: It was like a full It wasn't just the petals.

1016
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: It was like a full on rose that smacked the

1017
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 1: side of my face. So whoever did that, I mean

1018
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 1: thank you because that's exactly what Nate would have done.

1019
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 1: Totally joke. Oh my gosh, we got we need the

1020
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 1: last footage archives of this photo sho's doing. Okay, we're

1021
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 1: gonna ask one more question and then we're gonna get

1022
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 1: into um, just a quick little game here. So if

1023
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:55,280
Speaker 1: you two had to describe your relationship in one word?

1024
00:56:55,600 --> 00:57:00,359
Speaker 1: What would it be one? You're actually like that at

1025
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,760
Speaker 1: that point, I'm gonna be here for literally fifteen minutes.

1026
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:12,359
Speaker 1: Then you can take this one question. Do you guys

1027
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 1: have one ready? See? Okay? This is also the funny

1028
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: thing about Becca and Thomas is that they make out

1029
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 1: during really important times that they're kissing. Well, we're just

1030
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:27,959
Speaker 1: trying to think about a word. Okay. Up when during

1031
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: the final break up, like we didn't know the cameras

1032
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: were that he was getting right behind me. I thought

1033
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: they were straight on, so I thought it was from

1034
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 1: the front. That was the best. We're not on TV.

1035
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: We're gonna be fine. And in that moment I looked

1036
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 1: at them most like never break up with me like that.

1037
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: And that's when we made out. Um Okay, I'll say, okay,

1038
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 1: I need to describe our relationship and it's gonna be

1039
00:57:57,560 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: very simple. Um, and I'm just gonna say it's right.

1040
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: It's a right relationship that I have always I think

1041
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 1: belonged in, belonged with. So that's stupid. No, no, Nate,

1042
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 1: did you come up with one? I don't know one word.

1043
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's tough. We are blanking us. Becca's word.

1044
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: We're on a time crunch. Are we good to move

1045
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: to the game. We're gonna ask the gentleman of Bachelor

1046
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: Happy our first gentleman rapid fire. Don't forget the first.

1047
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 1: It's a rapid fire game for the first gentleman of

1048
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour. We're basically basically going to ask both

1049
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 1: of you very easy question and you just have to

1050
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 1: answer whether it's you two or us ladies. Okay, yea,

1051
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 1: So basically I'll ask you who's the better cook? So, Nate,

1052
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 1: would you say you or Michelle? Every ready, that's the question? No,

1053
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 1: what I know? No, he is not the better cook.

1054
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 1: Let me. I knew he was gonna say this, and

1055
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 1: I actually came prepared because one because one when we

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00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 1: cooked dinner for Thanksgiving, he pulled the turkey out of

1057
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: the oven. It was still raw, okay even but he

1058
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: didn't want to listen to me, but he pulled it out.

1059
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: And two, um, last night he sent me a picture

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00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 1: of his dinner from Hello Fresh that he completely botched.

1061
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 1: It is like one of those Pinterest fails. To check

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00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 1: this out. Okay, this is what it was supposed to

1063
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 1: look like. This is it's like these zucchini boats, and

1064
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 1: then this is what his has looked like. And he

1065
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 1: said it tastes like grass, so it doesn't look that bad.

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00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 1: He said it tasted awful. But he's he's he's okay.

1067
00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 1: I'll say this, he's a good cook, but I don't

1068
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 1: know if you're better. I think we need to have

1069
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 1: an Iron Chef showdown. Let's go, okay, can Thomas is

1070
00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 1: gonna be the taste testers? Yes, let's go okay, they'll

1071
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 1: make those Ukini boats. Nate, you two come out to

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01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 1: San Diego for a few days. Will we will have

1073
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 1: the right It'll be like the Great first break up.

1074
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 1: We'll have the recipes ready for you and you both

1075
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 1: have to make it. Sad. I said, we have to

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01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: do a taste test. Yes, I'm laughing because it's supposed

1077
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: to be rapid fire and it gave a whole expect Okay,

1078
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 1: back and Thomas, who is the who's the neat one?

1079
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: Back up? Yeah, we're both not very neat, but she's

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01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,720
Speaker 1: she's she's neat, So neat? What are you talking about?

1081
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 1: I have seen your closet upstairs, and your corner and

1082
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 1: the downstairs and the box not I don't know why

1083
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:35,959
Speaker 1: anyone thought this was going to be a rapid fire

1084
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 1: between couples. Who is the biggest baby when they're sick? Nate,

1085
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: you have to answer this. Sometimes the mirror hurts when

1086
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 1: you look into it, Nate, It's okay. It's always the guy,

1087
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: the man. Have you seen that man Fluke video. I'm

1088
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,439
Speaker 1: just going from a common cold last week. Every trait

1089
01:00:57,640 --> 01:01:00,919
Speaker 1: in that video, I cannot handle the pain in pain

1090
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:05,480
Speaker 1: or seke. Um okay, okay, um? Thomas and Becca. Who's

1091
01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 1: more likely to get lost? Be for sure? Not even clothes? Okay?

1092
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: Who takes more selfies? Michell? Her face says otherwise, Well,

1093
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 1: nats just like all right, one and done? We good here?

1094
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 1: He's a one take Jake. Okay? Back on Thomas, who's

1095
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 1: the funny one? Yeah? Who's more fashionable? Michell? Really I

1096
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 1: would say both of us. I heard you wanted Jlo's

1097
01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 1: closet and that you wanted to I mean, wouldn't you

1098
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 1: or something? I know it's no Harry, but there's some

1099
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 1: good stuff in there. True. Umho, Okay, this is a

1100
01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 1: good one. Who hogs the cover? The dogs? Yeah, me

1101
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: and the dogs. I don't have the covers for us.

1102
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 1: I don't get this. I don't get to sleep on

1103
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 1: their covers. Yeh no, thomments, I'm on your boat man,

1104
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: like yeah, Michelle, there Minnesotans they got sleep diagonal. Yes, okay,

1105
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 1: who's the punctual one out of you too, Michelle? Yeah, teacher? Teacher,

1106
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 1: who's more spontaneous? Oh? Is it still us? Yeah? Oh

1107
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 1: definitely makes Mustache agrees with that statement. Yes, okay, Um,

1108
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 1: let's see, um, who's more likely to get a traffic ticket? Thomas,

1109
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 1: you pointed to me, I have not once in my

1110
01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:48,480
Speaker 1: life knocking Wood had a traffic ticket. How many have

1111
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: you had? Like six? Exactly? Don't even be in this direction, sir.

1112
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 1: Your car insurance must be high right now in the

1113
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 1: Mars just like, hey, that's electric. Don't don't hate on

1114
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 1: the Honda. That is a guy that goes crazy. I'm

1115
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 1: not go it is. I will say that. Um okay,

1116
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:11,919
Speaker 1: last question for you too, who already has baby names

1117
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 1: picked out? I mean I've had a low key I've

1118
01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 1: had a listen so I was like ten years old. Wow, okay,

1119
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: So Nate, Michelle, you gotta get these names later. Yeah,

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01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 1: just confrom me on this, Nate. Like the Nigerian culture,

1121
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 1: like babatun they stays in there. Crestling is for the

1122
01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:35,000
Speaker 1: first born son when the father's father passes away, So

1123
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 1: you know, God forbid. Let's say my dad were to

1124
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 1: pass away. Whoever in the family the firstborn son after

1125
01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: my father passes away. Oh okay, yeah, but I do

1126
01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 1: have a I have a list. I've had a don't

1127
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: wives because I was like ten years old, eleven years old,

1128
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 1: having wait, throw throw us, if you throw us, one

1129
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: name that's on the list, one boy, one girl. Um.

1130
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 1: I don't really have a lot of girl in the names.

1131
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 1: I know it's kind of messed up, but I'm like,

1132
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:10,560
Speaker 1: I know, man doesn't want to replica of me. I

1133
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 1: really liked the name Iodela, which is uh, my sister,

1134
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 1: She's Iowa me. So the male version of that is

1135
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 1: Iodela um. And I've always loved that name. So that Yeah.

1136
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:27,280
Speaker 1: Oh yes, we asked this question. We'll learn it. Yeah,

1137
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 1: do wait. I feel like Thomas had baby names picked out.

1138
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:33,600
Speaker 1: We've we've talked about baby names. Yeah, we love we

1139
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 1: love the name Sloan. I don't know, Okay. Stevie Stevie

1140
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:42,240
Speaker 1: Stevie's first father first girl name is Stevie. Stevie Stevie

1141
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 1: Jail most likely Kouffrin, Jacobs, Jacobs or Jacobs Cuffin. We'll

1142
01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:49,760
Speaker 1: work on that part. And then the first boy I want,

1143
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 1: John Gerald Jacobs. Dude, I like the name John. I

1144
01:04:54,080 --> 01:05:00,919
Speaker 1: don't know John. John is like the definition of basic.

1145
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 1: But with that name, thank you. I'm I'm gonna sorry

1146
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:15,000
Speaker 1: I dated Johnny. Nope, in particular, he's adding our Johnny

1147
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:18,720
Speaker 1: is gonna be great though. Fact but I'm taking away

1148
01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 1: for all girls. So there's that two fingers crusted um. Okay,

1149
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 1: you guys. It has been so much fun having you

1150
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 1: both on. I've loved our double date here. Why are

1151
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,920
Speaker 1: you silent having like that? All girls? Are you kidding me?

1152
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 1: All girls? All girls? And then we're gonna hit it

1153
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: on a high note and kick you off our podcast.

1154
01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:43,880
Speaker 1: We'll have about one more to our favorite guys. Thank

1155
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 1: you both you are I will say you are both incredible.

1156
01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 1: We love you. Michelle and I are so lucky to

1157
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 1: have you in our lives and we got and you're

1158
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,479
Speaker 1: so lucky to have us. Let me make that clear,

1159
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: very true, Nate, we lucked out, all right. I love

1160
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 1: you guys. Thank you for joining. Cheers, Cheers, Michelle that

1161
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 1: was so much fun. We didn't even get around to

1162
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 1: our rosen Thorne because I feel like we could have

1163
01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: honestly chatted for hours and hours and now like we

1164
01:06:13,160 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 1: just have to get you guys in San Diego or

1165
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 1: we have to come wait wait for sure what wait

1166
01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 1: for shu? Sure, Well it's going to happen very soon. Um,

1167
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:22,919
Speaker 1: let's we're not ever going to do a rosen Thorne

1168
01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 1: because that is going to end on a high note.

1169
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 1: That is my rose of the week. Being with all

1170
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 1: four of us together. It was so much fun. I

1171
01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: love that you're currently rocking Thomas's hat right now. For

1172
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 1: those who can't see, I'm not sure who wore it

1173
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 1: better that it made a little big I look behind

1174
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 1: the mask. Yes, you actually like identical identical. This is

1175
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 1: a good wild a little little not snug enough, but

1176
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 1: that's okay. Um, but Michelle, thank you for such a

1177
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 1: fun episode. I can't wait to listen to this one

1178
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 1: back because I just love listening to the fellas. Um,

1179
01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: So thank you, Nate and Thomas and until next week.

1180
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 1: You will chat with y'all then and make sure to

1181
01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:06,520
Speaker 1: hit us up on social. You can follow us at

1182
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:09,400
Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour on Instagram and from there you will

1183
01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:11,440
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1184
01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:16,040
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1185
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:19,680
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1186
01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:21,920
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1187
01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:25,720
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1188
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 1: Thank you everyone, and we will see you next week.

1189
01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: Bye audience.