WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Smoke Show Alarm

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<v Speaker 1>We've got your brand new second date to start your week.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much for being here at Brick and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. And today is really about how just

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<v Speaker 1>a simple question, just a real simple first date question

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<v Speaker 1>goes very wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is. If it's kind of a hard I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if i'd have an answer to the question

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<v Speaker 2>what your scariest story is?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, you listen to enough crime podcast, I

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<v Speaker 1>would think that you'd be able to come up with it.

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<v Speaker 3>They got killed in an alley once after a soccer match.

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<v Speaker 3>A guy was literally wearing a hockey mask. What it

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<v Speaker 3>was a hockey mask of the team. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>go team and he was some wasted guy approached me.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank god, mine friend Tristan was there, jumped on him

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<v Speaker 3>and choked it and we both pushed him down.

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<v Speaker 4>And I got away.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he like come at you web?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>No, he grabbed my shirt and then he pulled me

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<v Speaker 3>in and I was like, dude, and I was trying

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<v Speaker 3>to push him and he wouldn't like go and.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, take it back. I guess it is an easy

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<v Speaker 2>question question.

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<v Speaker 4>I ask you my second favorite one.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, all right, I dragon, all right, leave your

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<v Speaker 5>scariest stories in the comments today and enjoy your brand

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<v Speaker 5>new second Date Second Date Updated.

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<v Speaker 4>They say finding love is like finding Wi Fi in

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<v Speaker 4>the desert. It's rare, it's impossible, it's miraculous. Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 4>slightly alarming when it actually happens to you. And right now,

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<v Speaker 4>our listener Dan is out in the dating desert wandering

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<v Speaker 4>around holding his phone up in the air, trying to

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<v Speaker 4>get one bar of love. Oh, there it goes. Let's

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<v Speaker 4>see if we can try and help strengthen that signal

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<v Speaker 4>today with this second Date Update. Dan, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey guys, thanks for taking my call.

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<v Speaker 2>Man. Yeah, we're worried about you out there. He needs

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<v Speaker 2>some water. How are you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Right now, you must be feeling okay because apparently a

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<v Speaker 4>woman has wandered into your desert of dating.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you sure it's not a mirage?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, it could be. What's this girl's name?

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<v Speaker 6>Her name's Becca.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, how did you meet Becca?

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<v Speaker 6>So we were at a friend's mutual gathering. Like, it

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't anything crazy, it was just like a like a bonfire. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>So we ended up kind of sitting next to each other,

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<v Speaker 6>So we ended up chatting you know. Your producer asked me, like,

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<v Speaker 6>what's stuck up about her? Stuck out about her?

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<v Speaker 4>What's what? But what is stuck up about her? That's

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<v Speaker 4>also a important question.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe that's what it is. She's not calling me back.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she doesn't mean anything that costs less than fifty

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<v Speaker 3>dollars totally.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you like about her?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, so, first of all, like the first thing I

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<v Speaker 6>noticed was she was wearing these like old Converse shoes

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<v Speaker 6>with like doodles on them. So it just real relaxed.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't feel like she was trying too hard. She

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<v Speaker 6>had to killer smile as well, So I was like, man,

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<v Speaker 6>this is like right up my alley.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cute, and the scene's kind of set for you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're at a bonfire, you know, everybody looks good under

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<v Speaker 1>bonfire light dark to see.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, right, So we ended up chatting there, and then

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<v Speaker 6>as the night was kind of getting getting done, I

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<v Speaker 6>had asked her if she was hungry, if she wanted

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<v Speaker 6>to go to eat, and so we went out to

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<v Speaker 6>like a little Mexican place and.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just you and her that went to the

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<v Speaker 2>Mexican restaurant.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was just the two of us. So you know,

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<v Speaker 6>it was a real solid night and then kind of

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<v Speaker 6>cooled down. So I had given her my jacket and

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<v Speaker 6>I had walked her back to her car and I

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<v Speaker 6>told her, I said, you know, just hang out of

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<v Speaker 6>the jacket. You don't give it to me next time.

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<v Speaker 4>Was that like a little plan for you to have it?

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<v Speaker 4>It was a little move?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? How did she react to you walking into her

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<v Speaker 3>car and giving her the jacket?

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<v Speaker 4>Was she like oh, thank you? Or was it like

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<v Speaker 4>ew no? Well, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean it seemed like polite and it seemed

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<v Speaker 6>like she was down for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but I.

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<v Speaker 1>Will say leaving something behind oldest trick in the book

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to ladies.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that play.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, she definitely knew it because what it is like

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<v Speaker 6>she took the jacket to my buddy's place and dropped

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<v Speaker 6>it off with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I had a game.

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<v Speaker 4>End of the game, yea.

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<v Speaker 3>Or she's like really sweet and it's just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>make sure you give this back to your friend.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she's not wanted to see him again.

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<v Speaker 1>You'd be like sweet, Yeah, now I have a reason

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<v Speaker 1>to contact him.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. So I'm just wondering, you know, what's up? What's

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<v Speaker 6>the reason that I feel like I'm getting ghosted now?

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<v Speaker 1>I will say your impromptu date is pretty impressive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like you were pretty smooth, like prepared with the Mexican restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Made it all happen that night. That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I was trying my best. I was trying

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<v Speaker 6>my best.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, we're definitely going to try and help you

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<v Speaker 4>here in a second. But I do feel like we

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<v Speaker 4>need maybe a little bit more information because the way

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<v Speaker 4>you paint it, it's almost too perfect. Like, was there

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<v Speaker 4>anything weird, anything awkward that happened during.

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<v Speaker 6>The night, So really, the only thing that I can

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<v Speaker 6>think of was like around the bonfire, people were telling

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<v Speaker 6>like scary stories and things like that, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>tell when they're So while we were eating, she had

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<v Speaker 6>asked me, what's your scary story? She asked, and I froze.

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<v Speaker 6>And the only thing I could think of was not

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<v Speaker 6>too long ago, the battery on my smoke detector died

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<v Speaker 6>and it started beeping in the middle of the night,

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<v Speaker 6>and it freaked me out.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh isn't it more of an annoying died and was

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<v Speaker 4>talking from the dead.

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<v Speaker 6>Like I said, I froze, just that like, and I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know why I told that story, but that's the

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<v Speaker 6>story that like I went with.

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<v Speaker 2>And but did you guys laugh about it like we

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<v Speaker 2>just did, or she.

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<v Speaker 6>Just kind of stared at me and like we were

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<v Speaker 6>just eating like almost like, oh, this is a scary story,

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<v Speaker 6>like this is a.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe she actually was scared by it.

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<v Speaker 2>She was so frightened what.

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<v Speaker 4>To say, Like it freaked her out for the entire

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<v Speaker 4>rest of the time and now she's worried about what

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<v Speaker 4>you might say next.

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<v Speaker 2>Or she was hanging out a bonfire expecting to meet

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<v Speaker 2>like a manly guy and.

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<v Speaker 1>Excuse me, scared of you can hear what you're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but like he knows, he knows as well,

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<v Speaker 1>being scared of fire alarms going off.

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<v Speaker 6>To be fair, I'm not scared of a fire alarm.

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<v Speaker 6>I was frightened of a smoke alarm. There are two

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<v Speaker 6>different things.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh yeah, because where there's smoke, there's fire, and

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<v Speaker 4>where there's fire, there's people hooking up.

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<v Speaker 2>With him. It's just where there's smoke, there's a dead battery.

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<v Speaker 6>Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, now I feel like we've got the full

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<v Speaker 4>picture of the events that unfolded there were some nice moments,

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<v Speaker 4>there was some awkward moments. There was some bad storytelling.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll figure out how it all comes together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and you guys blame me all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>He's the one that said that.

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<v Speaker 1>How does it feel, Jeff, how does it feel to

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<v Speaker 1>be attacked for what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 4>It feels like I'm a man and this man is

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<v Speaker 4>going to really manly up what we Thank you, Jose.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna call Alissa and try and get you your

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<v Speaker 4>second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 6>Thanks you on second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>It was the perfect first date. You had everything, a

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<v Speaker 4>romantic bonfire, tasty Mexican food, even a little clothing swap

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<v Speaker 4>action right hello. He tried, that is until Dan made

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<v Speaker 4>his fatal mistake when he told his scariest story about

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<v Speaker 4>a smoke detector that ran low on battery and wouldn't stop.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't repeat it, Jeb, I'm gonna have nightmares forever. I know.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry. It should have earmuffed the children and the replacement

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<v Speaker 4>batteries were nowhere to be found. Now that Dan admits

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't his best moment. He kind of panic though, couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>think of a scary story on the spot.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish he could have laughed it off like that

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<v Speaker 1>would have made it okay, you know what I mean

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<v Speaker 1>if you that was a moment for you to be

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<v Speaker 1>self deprecating.

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<v Speaker 2>That was just missed.

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<v Speaker 4>But that shouldn't be so bad that Becca returned his

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<v Speaker 4>jacket the next day to his friend rather than give

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<v Speaker 4>it to Dan face to face. You get scared, for real, buddy.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it wasn't that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe Dan, it was that you weren't responsible enough to

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<v Speaker 1>replace the batteries every year.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think about that?

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<v Speaker 7>Dan?

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<v Speaker 4>You come across like any responsible guy.

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<v Speaker 6>That's maybe that's exactly that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, maybe, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad tells me to do it on New Year's

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<v Speaker 1>Day because then you'll never forget that's your battery, change

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<v Speaker 1>your tradition.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well, this segment has officially hit a new low.

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<v Speaker 2>Battery advice from Brooks.

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<v Speaker 4>Dawn call in, you need some batteries. Let's talk batteries. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>smoke detectors. Dan, are you ready to call back here?

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<v Speaker 4>We we got to move forward from this, right Dan?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm ready. Let let's make it happen.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll just make him relive his trauma over and over again.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to go to carbon monoxide collar. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you's got to make sure you have those as well. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>save it for new it's a silent killer.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's just go here we go. Just calling Becca right now? Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>is this Becca who said? Hey, this is a radio show.

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<v Speaker 4>We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Baca, good morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Is this really a radio show?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I know, we exist a joke we're doing. We

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<v Speaker 4>are also a podcast if you wanted to know. We're

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<v Speaker 4>doing a p s A where we're calling everybody in

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<v Speaker 4>the area to make sure that they have changed the

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<v Speaker 4>batteries inside of their smoke detectors in their home. Have

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<v Speaker 4>you done that?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't need to do that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, Oh you live in an apartment like me.

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<v Speaker 4>They change our batteries for us. That must be nice,

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<v Speaker 4>because apparently that wasn't the case with the guy you

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<v Speaker 4>went out with recently named Dan.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sideways for her like she doesn't know where? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>hard left.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Yeah, we know the guy Dan that you met

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<v Speaker 4>at the b on Fire recently.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh that guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so he reached out to us about doing this

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<v Speaker 4>thing called a second date update. We're trying to help

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<v Speaker 4>him figure out why after you two hung out at

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<v Speaker 4>the Mexican restaurant and had a pretty good time together,

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<v Speaker 4>you are not talking to him anymore?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he feels like you really avoided him because

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<v Speaker 1>you even brought his jacket back to his buddy instead

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<v Speaker 1>of giving it back to him.

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<v Speaker 7>That was kind of a smooth move, but it kind

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<v Speaker 7>of backfired.

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<v Speaker 4>Why you said the jacket backfired?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, Well, I put my hand in the pocket when

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<v Speaker 7>I got home and I found a receipt that was

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<v Speaker 7>from earlier in the morning, the day of that same party,

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<v Speaker 7>and it was from a grocery store, but it was

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<v Speaker 7>for Cotex and Pampons.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh mail product, Yeah, feminine hygie products.

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<v Speaker 3>How you say it?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't even know how to say feminine hygiene products.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you're thinking, I mean I would automatically jump

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<v Speaker 1>to he's in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, thank you exactly. So I called my friend who

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<v Speaker 7>was the host of that party, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 7>do you know his deal? Like, what is going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>And we were like trying to figure it out. Oh, honestly,

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<v Speaker 7>we have no clue.

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<v Speaker 2>Why wouldn't you just ask him? Then?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh it's a lie.

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<v Speaker 2>If she just asks him.

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<v Speaker 1>But why would he he contacted us a huge public

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<v Speaker 1>radio show.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's kind of over selling it.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I'd mean, yeah, that would be weird. So I

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<v Speaker 7>don't know. Maybe you can ask him.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, obviously he had no idea that she would

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<v Speaker 4>be finding that receipt. He didn't like leave it their

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<v Speaker 4>own person.

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<v Speaker 1>It was totally innocent, and he doesn't care, like it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even cross his mind.

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<v Speaker 2>He has a female roommate.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's not like come up with the answers that

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<v Speaker 4>we're going to give it to him so we could

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<v Speaker 4>use it. Because he is on the phone right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought he was tracking his mother's cycle.

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<v Speaker 7>No wait for radio show or is this like a

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<v Speaker 7>prank with his friends?

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, he really is listening on the other line

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<v Speaker 4>waiting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Dan, this is your moment jumping anytime.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey Becca, So, uh, it's for my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>The way you said, it's really why wouldn't you immediately

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<v Speaker 1>just say I'm single, I'm so.

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<v Speaker 6>Sorry I am single. And it was for my cousin.

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<v Speaker 4>We just and your voice keeps going up every time

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<v Speaker 4>you say these things, Dan.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, it was it was it was for my sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Nokay, now you're not being honest.

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<v Speaker 4>Stop messing around. What's really going on.

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<v Speaker 7>Let's be straight with us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I like that we're together now with a listener.

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<v Speaker 7>We're a unit now.

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<v Speaker 4>O God are well. I'm glad that we have you

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<v Speaker 4>as a listener now, Becca, But I still want to

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<v Speaker 4>hear from Dan about what's going on.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Hey, you know I said the other people because

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<v Speaker 6>I'm kind of nervous. I feel like I feel like

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<v Speaker 6>the real answer is worse in a way, worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Than being in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>WHOA, So here's the I am single. Uh, it's relatively recent,

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<v Speaker 6>Like my ex girlfriend and I still talk and occasionally,

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<v Speaker 6>like I will go over and see her. And it

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<v Speaker 6>just so happened that she had asked me before I

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<v Speaker 6>went to go see her earlier that day, that I

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<v Speaker 6>stopped at the store and pick up some stuff for her.

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<v Speaker 4>What is His voice didn't go up at the end, though,

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<v Speaker 4>so that I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when he says recently single, he's like, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>literally am just texting her right now to bring up

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<v Speaker 1>with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you be going over to see your ex frequently?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, because I'm single?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, they're like friends with benefits now, Like, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Mean, yeah, that's it pretty much at this point.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you've bended the relationship but haven't fully detached.

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<v Speaker 2>That's messy for beck to join it. Well, does Becky

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<v Speaker 2>even believe that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you believe that he's fully single even

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<v Speaker 1>though I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously he still has some ties with his ex?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>And if you do believe it, how does it make

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<v Speaker 4>you feel to hear that?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, honestly, I'm kind of in a similar situation.

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<v Speaker 2>There's some truth. So what you're hooking up with your

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<v Speaker 2>ex too?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I'm single. He and I are broken up, but

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<v Speaker 7>occasionally we'll still, you know, like have dinner and oh

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<v Speaker 7>we've become like friends with benefits.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, you guys know each other and you trust

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<v Speaker 4>each other.

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<v Speaker 1>But having dinner and then staying it sounds like a date,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like that's not just.

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<v Speaker 3>A little more intimate romantic than just elevated friends with Benneft.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I guess my question would be, if you are

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<v Speaker 7>actively dating someone else, are you still going to be

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<v Speaker 7>friends with benefits with your ex?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, if I'm dating someone and we're exclusive, we're exclusive.

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<v Speaker 6>That's the way it is.

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<v Speaker 2>So are we both giving up our exes to go

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<v Speaker 2>on another date?

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<v Speaker 4>You should probably introduce your exes to each other because

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<v Speaker 4>there might be a connection every up.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they don't want to ruin their fallback plan, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 7>I would definitely be willing to stop seeing my ex

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<v Speaker 7>if I was dating someone.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, that's cute.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I mean, wow, Dan, aren't you glad that you

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<v Speaker 4>didn't stick with your whole sister? Answer? That definitely wouldn't work.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, friends, Yeah, I didn't know what she'd think about it.

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<v Speaker 6>It is the truth, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, in that case, we would like to offer

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<v Speaker 4>to send you to out on another date, and Becca,

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<v Speaker 4>if you say yes, we are willing to pay for it.

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<v Speaker 7>Well yes, oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, you could be in a relationship soon with a

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<v Speaker 1>sweet man who will do all of your errand running

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 3>That is nice.

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<v Speaker 7>I do love that. Can we go for massages?

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<v Speaker 6>Wait?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you want us to pay for massages?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, this is like a dinner date.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, yeah, dinner date is a better idea.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>I was just a little I jumped ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>What gift certificates we had available?

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<v Speaker 4>Then you can be in charge of the massage. Itself, like, right, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>just don't let any romantic candles around it with that

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<v Speaker 4>smoke detector.

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<v Speaker 6>That dude, I won't wait until New Years to change

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<v Speaker 6>the smoke detect batteries for you.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think she heard that part of the segment,

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<v Speaker 4>so she doesn't know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>That was scared. Yeah, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>I have never seen a random grocery store or receipt

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<v Speaker 4>bring two people together like this did.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think just say it was tampons that brought

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<v Speaker 2>them together.

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<v Speaker 4>Really, it's amazing it bonded them. They need to actually

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<v Speaker 4>like save that receipt, put it up in a picture

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<v Speaker 4>frame as a keepsake, a reminder of this moment.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I mean, we'll see how easily they cut off

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<v Speaker 1>their exits before we get into a full relationship for them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is.

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<v Speaker 4>It is funny that they were both still messing around

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<v Speaker 4>with their exes, not just one. They're both guilty of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean when you're single. Yeah they are. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it is a good life hack for all the

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<v Speaker 4>ladies out there to get your excees to buy your

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<v Speaker 4>hygiene products.

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<v Speaker 1>So expensive they are, they're ridiculous, right, Just so you

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<v Speaker 1>know that's why.

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<v Speaker 4>You want to There you go, you learn something, and

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