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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Hi everybody, Hello, Bob Guinea, how are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm wonderful, Trista Sutter.

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Speaker 4: So great to see you again after all the drama

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Speaker 4: on the Instagram and the Facebook.

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Speaker 5: I just did an interview who with the Betches, and

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Speaker 5: Jared Freed said that he met you at I Think

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Speaker 5: Good Morning America one time and he wanted me to tell.

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Speaker 3: You, Hi, I love that Guy's funny.

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Speaker 5: He's amazing. She was on it and she was talking

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Speaker 5: about the YouTube. I was like, the YouTube now and then.

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Speaker 4: So funny, Yes, so much drama about it was almost

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Speaker 4: like like where's Waldo. It was like this this hot

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Speaker 4: topic sweeping the internet. It was like a buzzworthy moment

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Speaker 4: of where's Trista and what's going on? And you know,

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Speaker 4: And I loved your response to it because I it's funny.

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Speaker 4: I think knowing Ryan as I as I feel I do, well,

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Speaker 4: I was reading those those posts and going, I love

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Speaker 4: that man. He is just you know, I I clearly

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Speaker 4: knew that something was going on, but I was like,

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Speaker 4: I love the way he just gets on there. And

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Speaker 4: he says he.

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Speaker 5: Clearly knew that something was going on. How what no,

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Speaker 5: I didn't tell you anything.

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Speaker 3: So no, no that I had I had to do.

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Speaker 4: I had a let's just say, while we were scheduling podcasts,

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Speaker 4: all of a sudden my partner in.

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Speaker 3: Pod you was gone, and I don't know where.

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Speaker 4: I responded I all of a sudden you were like,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna be gone for I'm gonna be unavailable.

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Speaker 3: I think it's what you said, I'm unavailable for this

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Speaker 3: period of time. I'm like, hmm.

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Speaker 4: And then during that period of time, Ryan takes to

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Speaker 4: the interweb to spew his feelings of long missing and

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Speaker 4: loving his beautiful wife, and next thing you know, drama ensues,

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Speaker 4: and you know.

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Speaker 5: It's a slow newsday, and it gets picked up by

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Speaker 5: every freaking news outlet on the planet.

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Speaker 2: It was just like it happened. Holy cow.

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Speaker 4: Well, for the record, I do not know where you were.

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Speaker 4: I have my suspicions and.

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Speaker 1: I have already.

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Speaker 3: I will, I will, I will.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure still try to get this stuff out of you.

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Speaker 4: But whatever it is, I'm excited about it. I'm excited

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Speaker 4: you're back.

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Speaker 3: Everything is harmonious and wonderful in the Sutter world as

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Speaker 3: it was then as it is now.

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Speaker 4: But you were very missed by America during that little

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Speaker 4: period of time there.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's sound good to be to be missed

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Speaker 5: and to be cared for. But at the same time, people, gosh,

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Speaker 5: make a lot of assumptions from one little thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, never positive ones either. It's never like, oh, I'm

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Speaker 4: sure she's doing something. It's like, hmm, they must be

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Speaker 4: having problems.

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Speaker 5: Well, okay, So as with everything, I feel like when

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Speaker 5: it comes to social media or fans or whatever, followers,

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Speaker 5: ninety nine percent of it is positive. So I love

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Speaker 5: all the people out there who were like, we're we're

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Speaker 5: with you, we support you, we love you, guys, and

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Speaker 5: whatever's going on, it's great.

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Speaker 2: You do you kind of thing, you know.

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Speaker 5: And then there's, of course the one percent that's just god.

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Speaker 5: They're like, oh, Ryan's doing this for attention. Clearly you

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Speaker 5: don't know my husband.

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Speaker 4: Last thing Ryan Sutter would ever want in his life,

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Speaker 4: by the way, last thing.

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Speaker 5: Why can't you just be private about it? Why can't

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Speaker 5: you just text you? And I'm like, okay, have you

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Speaker 5: ever heard of the term shout it from the rooftops?

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Speaker 6: So he was.

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Speaker 5: Shouting it from the rooftops. That's something that he's able

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Speaker 5: to do. On his own freaking page, like he just

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Speaker 5: wanted to put it out there in a very public way,

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Speaker 5: or not given in a very public way, because usually

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Speaker 5: people people don't care about what we post, and you know,

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Speaker 5: if they do, it's a very minimal amount of people,

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Speaker 5: so in you know, all relative, right, So he was

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Speaker 5: posting like he always does and shouting it from the

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Speaker 2: Me essential yeah, yeah, And gosh.

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Speaker 5: The people who just come out of the woodwork and

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Speaker 5: they're like, oh, you just want to I'm like, yeah, literally.

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Speaker 4: Wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, former reality start to say that

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Speaker 4: about quite honestly, I mean, honest to god, there's no

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Speaker 4: one who craves uh not being in the spotlight more

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Speaker 4: than Ryan that I've ever met that's been on a

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Speaker 4: of people from this stuff. And I was going to say,

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Speaker 4: how many red carpets have you and I walked together? Well,

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Speaker 4: Ryan's standing there watching us and my wife and my

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Speaker 4: wife the same way Keny is the same way.

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Speaker 3: She'll she'll be standing there.

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Speaker 4: With Ryan talking to him while you and I are

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Speaker 4: on the red carpet, and neither one of them care

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Speaker 4: one iota about it, like, and it's just always blows

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Speaker 4: my mind. It's funny, and I love it because we

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Speaker 4: you and I laugh about it, like there are there

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Speaker 4: are our plus ones, you know.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm glad. I'm glad that.

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Speaker 4: You were able to kind of set the record straight

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Speaker 4: when you came back. And I love that you didn't.

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Speaker 4: I love that you were like, he's free to do

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Speaker 4: what he wants, and I love the way he you know,

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Speaker 4: did that, and but yeah, welcome back.

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Speaker 3: I'm excited.

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Speaker 4: I'm excited to find out where my my partner in

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Speaker 4: POD was, So I'm very excited Pod. I'm excited to

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Speaker 4: find out where you were, what you were doing, and

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Speaker 4: how how it affected you and and all that good stuff.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure it's going to be such a great story.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to hear it.

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Speaker 5: I will I will share as soon as I possibly can.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, life is crazy right now. Life is crazy.

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Speaker 5: And it's summertime with two teenagers who need to get

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Speaker 5: jobs and yeah, yeah we need to get ready for

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Speaker 5: their junior and sophomore years. So yeah, life is crazy.

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Speaker 5: And then we're just continuing to do stuff to the house,

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Speaker 5: like you know, people say I think. I mean, this

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Speaker 5: like nothing in it. So anyway, life is good. The

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Speaker 5: moral of the story. Life is good. Ryan and I

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Speaker 5: are very happy. We just came back from a family

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Speaker 5: vacation in Mexico.

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Speaker 4: That Yeah, that looked that looked incredible. Your pictures were incredible.

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Speaker 2: It was awesome.

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Speaker 5: Like I was thinking we would go to Europe because

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Speaker 5: we went to Europe years ago and haven't been back,

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Speaker 5: and we have family over there. The freaking flights I

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Speaker 5: I looked at Spain and Portugal and economy seats four

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Speaker 5: I told Ryan, and he's like, let's just go to

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Speaker 5: Mexico because it's just so easy from Colorado, right, we

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Speaker 5: hit the easy button. Friend of ours goes to Puntameda

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Speaker 3: This, that's where we got married. We got married. I

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Speaker 3: love it there. Yeah, that's so beautiful. Well, we we.

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Speaker 4: Rented a house down there and we got married at

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Speaker 4: the house, but our family and friends were able to

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Speaker 4: stay at either the Ritz Carlton or the Four Seasons,

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Speaker 4: which were like on either side of our house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, which was super cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Four Seasons. This week?

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Speaker 3: Did you go to Saylita? Did you go to the town?

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Speaker 5: Walked around Sita? We went to Don Pegro for dinner.

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Speaker 5: I just walked around the shops there. But yes, it was.

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Speaker 2: It was like a much.

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Speaker 5: Needed trip and for no other reason other than we

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Speaker 5: really like bond as a family going on family vacations,

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Speaker 5: and we just hadn't been on one since we went

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Speaker 5: some psych of like psychological report. I've done it a

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Speaker 5: couple of times in my life where they're like, have

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Speaker 5: you gone through any big changes in life? And one

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Speaker 5: of the biggest ones is a move, and oh yeah,

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Speaker 5: so we've moved our life twenty years in Vail, so

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Speaker 5: we went through a huge move. We went through a

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Speaker 5: death with our dog, and you know, like all of

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Speaker 4: Everybody's got the major shifts in your family right now? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: that's me, You're right. They always say, like loss of

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Speaker 4: enjoying the move. But good for you. I think it's great.

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Speaker 4: I mean, Kenyon and I went to LA with the boys,

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Speaker 4: right who. It's like people forget. They're like, you know,

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Speaker 3: Not because your kids are being bad, but because.

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Speaker 4: Anytime they make a noise, half the people are looking

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Speaker 3: Bringing him, it's like, hey, guys, full price ticket right here.

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Speaker 3: He can do whatever he.

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Speaker 5: Wants, you know what. Like the first flight we took

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Speaker 5: please remember kindness. And I'm like, oh, my gosh, what

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Speaker 5: just people being rude to flight attendants or flight attendants

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Speaker 5: I was my my spidy senses alerts were up, like thinking,

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Speaker 5: let's go explain anyway. It's just crazy to travel right now.

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Speaker 5: And I'm grateful, very grateful that we could make it work.

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Speaker 5: I know that a lot of people like just it's

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Speaker 5: too expensive to go anywhere. You have like a two

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Speaker 5: I am grateful that we could make it work. I

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna be stressed out about money forever. I

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Speaker 4: decided there's just no so.

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Speaker 5: Well, and you know, my mom was just here on

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Speaker 5: We were talking about it. She said, you know what,

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Speaker 4: I'm so excited doctor Travis Stork, famous of course from

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Speaker 1: So let's do it. Hi, Travis, Hello, Hello, how goes it? Hey?

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Speaker 4: how you hand it out a flower and a rose ceremony.

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00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 4: They're asking you about medical advice you may have given

436
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 4: them to save a life. I just think it's it's

437
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 4: great that it's what you were went to school for

438
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:07,879
Speaker 4: it's what you set out to do and your career.

439
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 3: You know, it just it just put you in this

440
00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 3: next stratosphere.

441
00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 1: I was. Really it means that I didn't handle my

442
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:17,199
Speaker 1: post bachelor fame as well as you did. So I

443
00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 1: actually have a quote that I don't even know if

444
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:22,679
Speaker 1: it truly is from you, but honestly, going back to

445
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,639
Speaker 1: the producer who reached out to you, I won't I

446
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 1: won't name that producer, but so he told me some

447
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 1: stories about you and one of the quotes, and again

448
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is truly from your orner

449
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 1: probably is. He's like, yeah, you know, Bob said that

450
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 1: when you become the bachelor a bachelorette, you go from

451
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 1: being completely anonymous to being like you're in the Beatles.

452
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 1: Yeah that moment. Yeah, And I was like, you know,

453
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 1: that's kind of how it is. Yeah, And I honestly didn't.

454
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,399
Speaker 1: I don't think I personally dealt very well with the

455
00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: post bachelor, and maybe it's because I was in the er.

456
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 1: You know, one day you're anonymous, the next day in

457
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 1: the yar you have people coming in and there's trauma,

458
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 1: patience and like literally a family member that they're sick

459
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:11,200
Speaker 1: loved one like, oh my god, this is the story

460
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh my god, I'm just please, let's

461
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: focus on the hand, like, what happened to my my

462
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 1: not quiet life, but my very simple you know, go

463
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 1: to the er, come home from r go for a

464
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 1: run with the dog. What happened to this this life?

465
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,919
Speaker 1: And so the reason I bring up that quote a

466
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:42,879
Speaker 1: lot to people is no one fully understands how that works.

467
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:46,640
Speaker 1: And I especially feel bad for super young people who

468
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 1: quite frankly become within a day because having the ability

469
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 1: to handle that. So for me, this this story full

470
00:22:55,320 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 1: circle is I almost needed the doctors to happen for

471
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 1: me to regain my identity because I and I don't

472
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 1: know you're to how you all felt inside, but there's

473
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,679
Speaker 1: just so much tied into who you were before you

474
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 1: go on the you know, the bachelor of the Bachelorette

475
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 1: and then instantly you are, they at least called you

476
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: bachelor Bob like what they you know, they with me,

477
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 1: it was just oh, that's the bachelor, and I'm sure

478
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 1: that's the way a lot of us feel. And you're like, Okay,

479
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 1: this is the great experience, but you're like, hey, I'm

480
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 1: actually that's like such a small part, right, right, It's

481
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 1: five weeks of my life, right, right, So there's more

482
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 1: going on here. But the reason I bring that up

483
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: is again, for me, the beauty of how everything evolved,

484
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 1: and the reason that I learned so much as you

485
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,199
Speaker 1: two did as well about the power of television is,

486
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: especially with the Bachelor franchise, you're essentially giving people a

487
00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: glimpse into your your life, so they become very attached

488
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 1: to you, your story, whoever you're dating, and the evolution

489
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: of that. Honestly, for me to then letting me talk

490
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: about things that also are very personal, you know, things

491
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: that matter very much, people's health, people's mental health. Like

492
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 1: the transition ended up being smoother than I ever thought

493
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: it would be, precisely because ultimately, I'm very comfortable with

494
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 1: having honest conversations with people. But it's a lot easier

495
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: to have those conversations about something more objective like health

496
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 1: than it is like why did you pick so and so?

497
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Like why did you break up? What

498
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: were you thinking? You're like, yeah, oh no, I have

499
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:49,920
Speaker 1: no good answer here because that is such a subjective thing. Yeah,

500
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,640
Speaker 1: you know, you do TV and you do something that's

501
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 1: a little more objective, like something based on health. You're like, Okay, Well,

502
00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 1: the reason I say this is because there are ten studs.

503
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 1: He's proved that it is okay to break the milk

504
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 1: jug on the side of the road because it probably

505
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 1: has pissing it.

506
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 3: Right, right, So it's a proven statistic.

507
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 4: Well, you know, I feel like, like Trista, you were

508
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 4: really such a trailblazer in so many ways. I mean,

509
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 4: you and I've talked about this a lot, but never

510
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 4: with Travis on the phone. But like, you know, one

511
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,119
Speaker 4: of the things that you and I were, you know,

512
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 4: like when I said that quote, I mean that is

513
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 4: I'm sure that's something sex I used to say that

514
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 4: a lot, and I was like, in the hardest part

515
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 4: about it is we're not paid, like the Beatles right

516
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 4: to go on and hand out flowers. So you all

517
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 4: of a sudden you're like in the grocery store, mine

518
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 4: in your own business, trying to get back to your

519
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 4: normal life, which just I always say that you and

520
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 4: Ryan in particular have done that better than anyone.

521
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 3: From the standpoint of the way that you.

522
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,439
Speaker 4: Two went back to Colorado, you could have done a

523
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 4: you know, I'm sure you could have done a billion

524
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 4: different things. And Ryan's like, I'm a firefighter and I'm

525
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 4: going back to protecting my neighborhood, you know, And it

526
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,120
Speaker 4: was just going back to you know, patrolling the community,

527
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 4: and you know, but it was like one of those

528
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 4: things that I think, you know, it was a good

529
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 4: lesson for me to watch that and then, but it

530
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 4: still was really difficult to walk into a grocery store,

531
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 4: you know, when you're trying to mind your own business

532
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 4: and go back to your day job, and you know,

533
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 4: there's three covers on the magazines talking about things that

534
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 4: you know you didn't even do or you weren't at

535
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 4: and you're like, what And granted that's all changed now,

536
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 4: and now it's all social media, so it's you know,

537
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 4: it's way more I'm sure you know, just blown up

538
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 4: an immediate But your season kind of came around that

539
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 4: time when when social media was was really starting to

540
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 4: get invested in the show, didn't it.

541
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 3: I mean you were kind of.

542
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: Like, luckily for me, I was pre social media, okay, man,

543
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,160
Speaker 1: I think so the unique thing about our three experiences,

544
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: I think there's a few things, and correct me if

545
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: you don't agree, but when we all went on, it

546
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 1: was just network television ruled today, right, So no streaming,

547
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 1: there's no and you know that they're all the There

548
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 1: was the MySpace isn't that what it's called? Yeah, in

549
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: the blogs that basically resembled social media, but you could

550
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: actually correct any misinformation. So when we went on, you know,

551
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 1: the number of viewers obviously was really especially for you

552
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 1: two ogs, like just through the roof, and continued kind

553
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 1: of on through that stretch till streaming obviously became more popular.

554
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 1: So the one thing that like the blessing I feel

555
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 1: like for me is that I didn't have to interact

556
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 1: as much with all of the pure say but what

557
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: I did it was you guys again, agree or disagree.

558
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 1: You really had no way to respond to it. So

559
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: it's almost like having social media as a double edged sword,

560
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: because at least nowadays people can directly respond to whether

561
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 1: it's rumor, you know, rumors or you know. We were

562
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 1: kind of stuck in this. Everyone watched us, and then

563
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: we had to sort of hear the.

564
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 5: We've got no, you're so right, I've never thought about

565
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 5: it like that, and and you're so and you're so right.

566
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 5: I guess the only way that we could respond, was

567
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,959
Speaker 5: if we had the opportunity for an interview, you know,

568
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:22,719
Speaker 5: or something like that, you didn't have crass releases that

569
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 5: we would put out, you know, it would just be

570
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:29,439
Speaker 5: like all magazine stuff. And they never necessarily got that

571
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,719
Speaker 5: right anyway. But I will say even with social media,

572
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 5: like even if you put something out, people still spend it.

573
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 2: However they want to spend.

574
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 3: It, so you know, they just went through that.

575
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's been all crazy around here, but no, I uh,

576
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 5: I think you're right there. There are definitely benefits and

577
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 5: pitfalls to social media. But I feel like I've always said,

578
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 5: especially with being married to someone similar to you, Travis,

579
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 5: and that he just wanted a simple life. He wanted

580
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 5: to go back to the fire department. He didn't want

581
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 5: people pulling fire alarms to meet him, and he just

582
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 5: wanted to live in the mountains and you know, forge

583
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 5: a relationship and it was hard. So I'm sure it

584
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 5: was so hard for you, But with social media, I

585
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 5: think it would have been even harder because it's just

586
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 5: like people just like to chime in and they think

587
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 5: they know everything about your relationship and they really don't.

588
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 4: Well, and with the chatrooms too, I was going to

589
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 4: say with the chat rooms too, not not everybody had

590
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 4: access to chat or knew how to get on chatrooms,

591
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. Like, so, yeah, you're right, Travis,

592
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 4: we would have to sit there and read all this

593
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 4: stuff and sit there and go, oh, these people don't know.

594
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 3: What they're talking about.

595
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 4: But if we got in there and responded, now we're

596
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 4: like feeding the machine.

597
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 3: So we would never do that, you know.

598
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 4: Now it's like everyone's got social media, so everybody feels

599
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 4: like their opinion matters, right, which it does.

600
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, but they'll be like, well, I.

601
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 4: Think, you know, Trista did this or whatever, I think

602
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 4: Bob did this, And it's just, you know, I would

603
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 4: never I would never be able to handle being the

604
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 4: Bachelor today, Like there's no way.

605
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: The one the one thing though that you alluded to before,

606
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: which is so true, and no one realizes this. You know.

607
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 1: I actually have a lot of respect now for people

608
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:19,239
Speaker 1: who go on the show and are genuine, But if

609
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: they are then able to spin that into increasing their

610
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: social media followers and they have some purpose, you know

611
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: again other than just the reality is you you're five

612
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: minutes of fame when you are on the Bachelor of

613
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: Bachelorette is pretty much that if there's something else that

614
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 1: you have that you know, you want to talk about,

615
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 1: I think it's cool to use social media to your

616
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: advantage and to either spread that message or if you

617
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: want to get some endorsement deals. I'm all for that

618
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: because back in the day, you all know, everyone would

619
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: go on the show and pretty much we're like, Okay,

620
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: this is cool. Like for me, I got to go

621
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: to Paris, literally Paris is where it was, and I

622
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: was totally fine with the fact that I had. I

623
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: got to live in a castle and I got to

624
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: like meet some really cool people and go on private

625
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: jets and helicopters. Like that's enough for me. That's all

626
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm looking.

627
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 3: That's all we got.

628
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: But yeah, you do you get back from it. And

629
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 1: I mean I was a resident physician, so yeah, you know,

630
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: I'm barely making enough to put food on the table,

631
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: got my my med school loans, and like you come

632
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 1: back from that, and then and then all of a sudden,

633
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: you're famous. You're like, but I still I still.

634
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 6: Have no money, right, Yeah, So nowadays I like, I'm all,

635
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 6: I'm all for the ones that are able to like

636
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 6: parlay that into making some money because you're making the

637
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 6: Bachelor franchise a lot of money, so you might as well,

638
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 6: you know, take part if you will.

639
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

640
00:31:46,600 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I would love to know. Like you've been

641
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 5: talking kind of back in the day, but how how

642
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 5: is life now? Like, tell us how life is where

643
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 5: you are all about your family and what you're doing now.

644
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:16,719
Speaker 1: Well, I mean mainly you can call me, you know,

645
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: the guy living the dad life. So dad is kind

646
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: of my new idility and you know, without going into

647
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: the specifics of it, one of the blessings of everything

648
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: that's happening in my life. And this is honestly that

649
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 1: I almost want to cry thinking about it. But I

650
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: started a family later in life. And in many ways

651
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: it probably is because the Bachelor is so just. It

652
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: causes so much confusion, unless, of course, you're Tristan and

653
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: you meet your person right right.

654
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, For one person on this call, it didn't cause

655
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 4: her any confusion.

656
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: For the other, you was that you met a great

657
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,479
Speaker 1: person and you're still together. And I think that's the

658
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 1: storybook ending that everyone goes either on the show or

659
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 1: hopes for in life. Well, you know, for me, it

660
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 1: took longer to find my person and start a family.

661
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: So I'm fifty two now, and so my daughter literally

662
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: today's our second birthday, hey, and so she and she

663
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: is just absolutely incredible, rambunctious, energetic. My son turns four

664
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: in two weeks. And so over the last four years,

665
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: my son was born during the pandemic, during that whole stretch,

666
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: like maybe I don't know, he was born in June,

667
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 1: so was it March or so that the world kind

668
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: of shut down in marchiele And ironically, so my son

669
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: is born. And then because of the pandemic, you know,

670
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: the doctor stopped filming in LA and I no longer

671
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,479
Speaker 1: it was like it was the perfect time. Twelve seasons

672
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: of the doctors y and doing that for twelve years,

673
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: traveling from Nashville to LA just gone like that. So

674
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: I kind of dug my heels in and like I

675
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: got this little baby boy, and like I have an

676
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:13,240
Speaker 1: opportunity to spend a ton of time with him. And

677
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 1: as life sort of evolved, Like one of the cool

678
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: things is I kind of made a conscious decision because

679
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 1: your kids are pretty much at home for just a

680
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: few years and then they're gone, and then they care

681
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 1: more about their friends than you my girl was born

682
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: two years later, I sort of committed to trying to

683
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,800
Speaker 1: spend as much time with her as I did with Grayson.

684
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: So it's it's been hard only because as you two

685
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 1: both can attest to, any parent out there listening knows this.

686
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: So I'm an er doc b trader. I can't tell

687
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 1: you how chaotic life in the er can be, or

688
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:51,240
Speaker 1: some of the nights I've had, and just the pure

689
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: chaos right for the most part, like my whole life.

690
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I was a math major in college. Like

691
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 1: you solve problems, you know. One plus one equals to

692
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: the last four years for me because I'm a logical

693
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 1: type person. Spending this much time with two toddlers, I

694
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 1: have never felt in an er shift the amount of

695
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: angst and anxiety and high speach tone as I felt

696
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: over the last four years. I have so much empathy

697
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 1: for any parent out there who actually gets in the

698
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: dirt with their kids literally and also figuratively, and that

699
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: like learning how to actually get your kid to go

700
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: to bed. Yeah, like literally as hard as an er shift,

701
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,839
Speaker 1: you know, trying to get your kids to not throw

702
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: their feet in to eat it. There's no logical reasoning

703
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 1: and you're just this is this is this is so

704
00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: hard and so it's funny because the last four years

705
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: party was like, it's been the best I've had all

706
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: this time with my kids. The other party is like,

707
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 1: who am I now?

708
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 4: Right?

709
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 3: Yeah?

710
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: My greatest skill set is I figured out a way

711
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: to get my son to go to bed every night

712
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: like four years, but he actually goes to bed now

713
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: when I ask him too, And I'm like, this is

714
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: this is everything.

715
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 3: I'm me, you did it.

716
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 4: I didn't realize. I didn't realize how much we had

717
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 4: in comments. I'm fifty three and I'm my five year

718
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 4: old is Grayson and a boy? Yeah, and my two

719
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:30,879
Speaker 4: I have a two and a half year old Blake.

720
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 3: Yeah.

721
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 4: So I had kids really late too. I was forty eight,

722
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 4: uh when Grayson was born. So that's I love that

723
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 4: I didn't know yet. I didn't realize he had a grace,

724
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 4: and I knew he had a son and a daughter. I

725
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:41,479
Speaker 4: didn't know their names.

726
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 3: That's spectacular. I love that well, Bob.

727
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 1: I mean this in a loving way. The beauty for

728
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: you of life is you have a babyface years. I

729
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: don't look at you and think, oh, Bob's an old father.

730
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 3: Thank you, buddy, thank you, because yeah.

731
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 1: You're you're very youthful, and it actually makes me feel

732
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: better whenever I talk to people who are of similar

733
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: aids with kids at our ages, because you would agree

734
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 1: with me. It's it's a different experience because you have

735
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: like if I had had a kid when I was

736
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 1: in the midst of my er training and everything else,

737
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: Like the reality is I was gone eighty hours a week. Yeah,

738
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 1: and this was even way back before they had time

739
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: limits and all that, so just like gone, right.

740
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:27,399
Speaker 3: Yeah.

741
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: Now being older, like you have more choices because you've

742
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 1: been ryn for twenty thirty years, and so it's like

743
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: you probably had that unique experience with me.

744
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:41,879
Speaker 3: I do.

745
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, I talked about it at the time. I love it. Yeah,

746
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 4: I love that, you know. And where we are in life,

747
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 4: you know, we're not we're not at that point as

748
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,359
Speaker 4: a young parent would be, which you know, and there's

749
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 4: blessings and curses on both sides, right, Like I look

750
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 4: at the the you know, the half my guys I

751
00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:59,720
Speaker 4: graduated high school with them, their kids are going.

752
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 3: To college, and I'm like wow, you know yeah, and like.

753
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 4: Hey, let's go to dinner. I'm like, ah, I don't

754
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 4: think I can. I got to put the kids down

755
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 4: at seven thirty, you know. So it's like my life

756
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 4: is just so different than I you know, but I'm

757
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 4: so thankful for it, and I think I appreciate it more.

758
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 4: I'm sure you feel this way too. I appreciate it

759
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 4: more at this age then I think I might have

760
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 4: had I done it differently, you know. And I and

761
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 4: I don't have anything to compare it to other than

762
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 4: my own personal life experiences, but I think I was

763
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 4: a little I was focused on different stuff back then.

764
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 4: And so now it's like, you know, when my kids

765
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 4: come up and knock on the door, and I can

766
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 4: be in the middle of this interview and they're coming in.

767
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 3: Right, you know, it's the same. You know, I'm like, oh,

768
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 3: here they come. U Yeah. I mean how many shows?

769
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 3: I mean twist that I have done a.

770
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 4: Bunch of these, and my kids generally will make a

771
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 4: cameo at some point or another, you know. But it's

772
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 4: it is one of those things where it's like, I'm

773
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 4: so thankful for that because I want to be that dad,

774
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 4: Like I want to be the dad that's never too

775
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 4: busy for my kids, and you know, and I love

776
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 4: that you've got that opportunity to be home with them

777
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 4: and spend all that time. I've often said that's been

778
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 4: the silver lining for me of of COVID, which you know,

779
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 4: I know a lot of people lost so much in

780
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 4: their lives and things of that nature, and my heart

781
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 4: goes out to those families. But for me, I was

782
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,359
Speaker 4: able to spend a lot of time with my two

783
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,720
Speaker 4: children that I won't I won't ever regret, you know there,

784
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,440
Speaker 4: you know, and I love that I had that time

785
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:17,280
Speaker 4: where Trista.

786
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 1: Where Bob and I are different though, is Bob's like, ah,

787
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: you know, I can't go to dinner at seven thirty

788
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 1: because I got to put the kids down. I'm like, sorry,

789
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: can't go to.

790
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 5: Dinner because I'm.

791
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 1: Thirty and I'm going to put the kids down and

792
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 1: I'm going to be at home. And I love get

793
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 1: at home. Yeah, I don't have to go be social.

794
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 1: Life is great.

795
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And I'm like, I can't be social.

796
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 5: That would be right, You would be like, yeah, no,

797
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 5: I don't need to go out to dinner. I'm happy here.

798
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 5: I Yeah, I totally get that. And I love that

799
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 5: you have it. I love that you found it no

800
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 5: matter what time in your life. But I wonder do

801
00:39:55,640 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 5: you miss practicing at all or even just talk about

802
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 5: medicine and do you do any of it now?

803
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:06,760
Speaker 1: I mean, so I'm still I'm still a doctor obviously,

804
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 1: once a doctor, always doctor. Yeah, I'm actually taking a

805
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 1: little sabbatical from actual practice. But here's the irony of

806
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 1: life as an e ard doct I mentioned my my

807
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: daughter's birthday today, So literally two hours before I hop

808
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 1: on with you guys, she gets a nurse maid's elbow.

809
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 1: So I don't know if you guys, basically called radio

810
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:27,919
Speaker 1: radiohead suplixation, So like their elbow, their their bone comes

811
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: a little bit out of joint and you got to

812
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: reduce it. And it's just funny because like, thank my

813
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 1: wife's like holding her she's crying and and I'm like,

814
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 1: all right, what's going on. She's not not using her

815
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 1: left arm, and I'm like, I wonder, I wonder if she,

816
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: you know, had a little sublixation, and you know, she's balling, balling, balling.

817
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I'm gonna reduce it. And it's

818
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 1: luckily a very simple procedure if you know how to

819
00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 1: do it, and like instantly she Perks starts using our arm,

820
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 1: which is like the classic thing is you have to

821
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 1: do a high five after and that means everything's back

822
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:05,799
Speaker 1: in order.

823
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:06,840
Speaker 2: Amazing.

824
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:10,800
Speaker 1: Paris is like, yeah, you're you know the beauty of

825
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 1: being in the yard doc is your whole life. Two

826
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: things like one. It is definitely a younger person's game,

827
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: if you will. Like the energy I had in my

828
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 1: thirties and forties to do that kind of work day

829
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 1: in and day out is so much greater than when

830
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,359
Speaker 1: you're in your fifties. But it's really kind of cool

831
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:34,959
Speaker 1: because not only the lessons that you learn just about

832
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: health and wellness and hopefully avoiding disease. But I'm not

833
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 1: gonna lie, it's kind of cool when you're you don't

834
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: have to take your two year old daughter and her

835
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: birthday to the ar. Yeah, yes, do the procedure in

836
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 1: your living room and you're like all right, yes, and.

837
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 2: You can write yourself.

838
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 5: Can you write a prescription and be like, oh, my

839
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 5: kid has an ear infection, I'm gonna write any antibiotic

840
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 5: and don't have to go to the urgent care.

841
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, here's pinky, here we are.

842
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to start like digging into the

843
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: uh moral grounds of medicine. But you know, having said

844
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: all of that, there there are other advantages. So when

845
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: you get to this stage in life, I think the

846
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: one thing that I really pay a lot of attention

847
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 1: to is I mean, when you spend as much time

848
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 1: in the hospital as I have, your number one goal

849
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 1: in life becomes I want to minimize the amount of

850
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: time my family's in the hospital, because yeah, sometimes no

851
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: matter what you do, you do everything right, still tragedy strikes,

852
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 1: or you know, you end up having to go to

853
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: the er, or you haven't develop a medical problem, no

854
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: fault of your own, but you I'm constantly sort of

855
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 1: aware of a how we're living our lives. I'm obviously

856
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: I'm not a helicopter parent at all, but i will

857
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: say that I'm very very mindful of what my kids

858
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 1: are doing. Yeah, because you know, someone else can naively

859
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 1: watch their kids. And I'm like, yeah, if he falls

860
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 1: right there, he's got a broken arm, he's gonna have

861
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: to go to the hospital. I don't want to. I

862
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: don't want him to have that experience in the PEDSR

863
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 1: at five pm on a Saturday. So hey, you know, Grayson,

864
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 1: my son, like you know, let's do that over here

865
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 1: where if you do fall, your falling into grass. And

866
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: so I'm very you know, my kids are never on

867
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: any sort of bike or anything without a helmet on,

868
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 1: mainly because I'm trying to teach those habits. But the

869
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: biggest thing is, like I, to the best of my ability,

870
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 1: I try to use all those little lessons that I've

871
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 1: learned as a doctor and implement them in my own life.

872
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 1: And then of course the beauty is obviously a lot

873
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: of my friends are doctors, and some of my best

874
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 1: friends in Nashville are doctors. And two years ago, not

875
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: to make this all about medicine, but I have genetic

876
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:54,439
Speaker 1: high blood pressure. And a couple of years ago we'd

877
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: had Dylan, my wife got COVID, so she she was

878
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: like laid up in bed, so for like five days straight.

879
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: Dylan was maybe two months old. I had Grayson Dylan

880
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: full time parent and on the fifth day, I went

881
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: into atrial fibrillation.

882
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

883
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: And you know, I thought I was super healthy. Here

884
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm fifty. At the time, I was fifty, But yeah,

885
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,280
Speaker 1: I've developed some high blood pressure, but overall I'm healthy.

886
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: I feel pretty good. But obviously exhausted from parenting everything else,

887
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: probably drinking a little too much wine at night during

888
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 1: bathtime routine. I get it, but I go into atrial fibrillation.

889
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 1: And it's pretty cool that my two best friends in

890
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: town are just great, great people, but also really smart people. Yeah,

891
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: and you know, I'm in a fib. My wife puts

892
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: her Apple watch on. I got all these traces, like

893
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 1: I can't get out of it. And I'll be honest

894
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 1: with you, I'm like, Paris, I'm just gonna I'm just

895
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,720
Speaker 1: gonna sit here and wait. So she calls my best friend.

896
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,240
Speaker 1: Next thing, you know, like he's at my doorstep five

897
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:02,240
Speaker 1: ten minutes later with his wife. His wife like comes

898
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: in and take care of our kids. He throws me

899
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: in the car. Next thing, you know, like we're on

900
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:12,439
Speaker 1: the way to the hospital. Long story short. There there

901
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 1: are like so many I don't know what I'm saying

902
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 1: with them to say, like, I feel very blessed to

903
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: have learned the lessons I've learned. And one of the

904
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 1: most important lessons I've learned is it's not just about

905
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,280
Speaker 1: being friends with doctors. What is being friends with people

906
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:30,439
Speaker 1: that like, if you have your time of need, they're there.

907
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: For you. The fact that they're willing to like drop everything,

908
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 1: come over and like take you to the hospital is

909
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 1: pretty awesome.

910
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 7: Yeah, And that's the huge thing for me is is

911
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 7: knowing and understanding that having that around me, which is

912
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,879
Speaker 7: a huge probably because I spent you know, so many

913
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 7: years practicing the ear is a huge bonus for me

914
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,399
Speaker 7: at this stage in life with kids being a little

915
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 7: bit older.

916
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,319
Speaker 1: So yeah, they I mean that is one of those

917
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: things to this day where I like, you'll never see

918
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 1: me without my watch now, oh right.

919
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 4: Yeah.

920
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 3: It gives you hear your readouts and everything else you need.

921
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, that's crazy. And I'm glad you found your people.

922
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,800
Speaker 5: That's so important in life. I feel like connection is everything.

923
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 5: So for your wife, I'm sure you've been asked this

924
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,719
Speaker 5: question before. Did she watch the show? Did she know

925
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 5: who you were from before from a bachelor?

926
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 2: I guess?

927
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 1: And where did you meet like before doctor? Much later?

928
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 1: So she she was a I trained at Vanderbilt and

929
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:51,760
Speaker 1: then she was a Vanderbilt trained lawyer and a mutual

930
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: friend of ours who was on the Bachelorette. Believe it

931
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: or not. Chris Stramberg, you may remember his his moniker

932
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: was Chris Cupcake. He was on, Yes, you know that guy,

933
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,319
Speaker 1: like the irony of how life ends up evolving. So

934
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 1: Chris came on the Doctors to do a few dental

935
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: health tips, came on a few different times. I became

936
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,800
Speaker 1: friends with him. He lived in Nashville, and he set

937
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: me and my wife up on a date. And yeah,

938
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: here we are. I didn't know you.

939
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 5: Were set up by somebody from the Bachelor, like it

940
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:27,720
Speaker 5: actually happened.

941
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: Because you know, it's funny how this works out, because

942
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 1: and look for all the blessings and curses the Bachelor

943
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: of them, if you will. My roommate when I went

944
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 1: on The Bachelor, So I got a couple of stories,

945
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: Like my roommate when I went on the Bachelor. You know,

946
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:51,879
Speaker 1: we're both r residents. One night and I rarely went out,

947
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: but one night for my birthday, all my friends took

948
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: me out and of course it was chaos. This is

949
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 1: like a month after the Bachelor. Well, my roommate ends

950
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: up meeting his wife that night. Amazing, they're now married

951
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: with two kids. I have like three or four different

952
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 1: stories where again it wasn't the part that showed up

953
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: on TV. But by going on the Bachelor. There are

954
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: a minimum of four to five people married right now

955
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 1: because I went on The Bachelor, And so it's really

956
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: cool that this, again, however imperfect, these journeys are. Yeah,

957
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: whether it's you know, Tristy, you and Ryan meet on

958
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: the show and you stay together. You know, Bob, I

959
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: know you've had some ups and downs in the you know,

960
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: in relationships. Oh yeah, but it's kind of cool how

961
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 1: through all of that you can go back to your

962
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: experience in the Bachelor and say, yeah, unequivocally, there there

963
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: are happy married people in the world with kids because

964
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: I did that.

965
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, you could go down the rabbit hole even further.

966
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 4: I mean, because of The Bachelor, you end up on

967
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:57,280
Speaker 4: the Doctors, right, and I can only imagine you've probably

968
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 4: saved I would guess millions of lives, if not thousands,

969
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 4: by some of the advice you gave on the show

970
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 4: and the way that you would have resonated with people

971
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:07,479
Speaker 4: at home.

972
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 3: And I mean, we.

973
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 4: Could we could do this all day, but I bet

974
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 4: we could find even more like direct connections of things

975
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 4: that you've had an impact on just with your you know,

976
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 4: with your practice and everything else. I think it's pretty spectacular.

977
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 4: I will tell you though. I did take notes per Travis.

978
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 4: Be friends with more doctors. That's my note. That's one

979
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 4: note I have so far, and I'm gonna do that.

980
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 4: You know, being older dads, we gotta we gotta listen

981
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 4: to each other.

982
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 3: Man. We got to share the wealth.

983
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 1: Just Bob, do this though. Be a considerate friend to

984
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: your doctor. Friend one you know that wants prescriptions? Yeah,

985
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 1: call it two am, Like, Oh, I can't sleep? Hey,

986
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: will you? Will you for me?

987
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 3: Can I get some?

988
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 6: Uh?

989
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 3: What's I don't even know what you use to sleep?

990
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 3: But whenever people use the sleep.

991
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 4: Dude, I love I love having you on the show

992
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 4: because I feel like we've been best buddies forever. And

993
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 4: it's like it's crazy because it's like, you know, one

994
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 4: of those things where you think you know someone you

995
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 4: know from the experiences that you share in common, but

996
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,879
Speaker 4: you really don't, and then as you get to know them.

997
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 4: I mean, I I've always really liked who I think

998
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 4: you are, and then after having you on the show,

999
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:14,879
Speaker 4: I'm like, this is my guy. Like I'm going next

1000
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,359
Speaker 4: time I'm in Nashville, I'm calling him, you know, because

1001
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 4: it's like, yeah, I just feel like it's one of

1002
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 4: those things, you know, I think and I was it

1003
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:23,799
Speaker 4: Lacey Pemberton that cast.

1004
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 3: You when you did the show?

1005
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:25,280
Speaker 1: Do you remember?

1006
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 3: Was that was that the casting person?

1007
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:31,439
Speaker 1: No, it was not Lacey, okay, because I was gonna

1008
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: say I don't. I mean, she may have still been

1009
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: a part of it, but it was some Yeah, it

1010
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: was someone who was at a Nashville restaurant.

1011
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:41,440
Speaker 6: Ah.

1012
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, one of those.

1013
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, I have to say the connections for Travis. So

1014
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 5: Travis went to my rival high school.

1015
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 3: Oh I did not know this.

1016
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 2: I went to Parkway Central.

1017
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 5: Yes, I'm sure I saw him in a football game

1018
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 5: or two basketball something.

1019
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:02,320
Speaker 2: Isn't that weird?

1020
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 5: Like to think that we probably were at the same

1021
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:08,359
Speaker 5: place at the same time back in nineteen eighty nine

1022
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 5: or something.

1023
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: You know, that is crazy, but you can tell the truth.

1024
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:15,840
Speaker 1: I was at the Parkway Central West High School football

1025
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: game Rivalry. I asked you on a date and you

1026
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:21,399
Speaker 1: said no, yeah, And I said, I'm going to show

1027
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: her someday I'm going to become the Bachelor. But you

1028
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 1: beat me to it, And oh my gosh.

1029
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 2: That would be so funny.

1030
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 3: That would be crazy crazy, really.

1031
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: You know, the Parkway Central and Parkway West are I was.

1032
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: I probably lived as close to Central as I did

1033
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: to West I mean a few miles. Yeah, I mean right,

1034
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 1: because they're so close, and someone who lives in Saint

1035
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 1: Louis knows. Like the first thing you ask is when

1036
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: you meet someone where high school and your rivals back

1037
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 1: in the day. But now I'm like, oh, dude, you

1038
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,880
Speaker 1: went to Parkway Central. That's incredible. I know, I love it.

1039
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 1: Do you ever get back?

1040
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 2: Do you ever get back to you still have family there?

1041
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 1: I don't. I haven't been back in so long. How

1042
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: about you?

1043
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:10,959
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1044
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 2: I went back last year.

1045
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:17,879
Speaker 5: My best friend lost her mom, so I went back

1046
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 5: for her funeral, But and my dad's still there. I

1047
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 5: just haven't been back a lot.

1048
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 2: I should. I should go back more.

1049
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 5: You know, it's just with kids and their schedules hockey

1050
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 5: and dance mom, that's me, And it's it's just hard

1051
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:35,880
Speaker 5: to travel when the school season is happening.

1052
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 2: So I wish.

1053
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 1: So, first of all, I'm sorry for your your friend's lost, but.

1054
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 2: Oh thank you.

1055
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 1: How Like I can't believe you put your kids needs

1056
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:45,839
Speaker 1: in front of your own.

1057
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, what the hell? Twist?

1058
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 1: Come on, we should just call this entire episode of

1059
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: like who we were versus who we are, yeah, versus joy.

1060
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 5: And honestly, you said something in the beginning about, you know,

1061
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:05,359
Speaker 5: we're only going to have our kids for a little bit.

1062
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 5: I have been like on this path of really focusing

1063
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 5: in on that because Max will be a junior next

1064
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 5: year in high school and Blakesley will be a sophomore,

1065
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 5: and I they have been my identity, you know, bachelorette

1066
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 5: was my identity back you know, early two thousands, and

1067
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,399
Speaker 5: now it's like I am a mom, That's that's who

1068
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 5: I am. And to think that they're not going to

1069
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 5: be here, like we just went on a family vacation

1070
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 5: because we were talking about it and Ryan said, you know,

1071
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 5: they're only going to be around for a couple more

1072
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 5: years to do like family trips like this, and not

1073
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 5: that we couldn't while they're in college obviously, or if

1074
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:45,280
Speaker 5: they go to college whatever they do after high school,

1075
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 5: but he said that, and I.

1076
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 2: Was like, Okay, We're going on vacation. That's it.

1077
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:51,879
Speaker 5: I don't care how much money it costs, like, I'm

1078
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 5: just going to make it work. So it's so hard,

1079
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 5: you just eat it seems like you're in it and

1080
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 5: you're enjoying it, and I say, just continue to do that.

1081
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 5: It's it makes life worthwhile. And I just wish we

1082
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 5: could hold onto them more, although I love that they

1083
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:11,439
Speaker 5: get to spread their wings and fly soon.

1084
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:16,720
Speaker 1: So well, it's your your colds. Are you know that?

1085
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 1: That is the age where you've your hard work is

1086
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 1: in many ways done, you know, And that's pretty awesome.

1087
00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 1: It's funny, and Bob, you can probably attest to this.

1088
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: I have to catch myself sometimes from saying, gosh, you know,

1089
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 1: I can't wait till they're a little bit older and

1090
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: can feed themselves and clothe themselves and bathe themselves. But

1091
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: then I hear the story talking about your kids and

1092
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:42,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, my gosh, it's my daughter's birthday today.

1093
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 1: I wish it wasn't.

1094
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 3: I wish it was.

1095
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 1: Because You're right, it goes by so quick.

1096
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 5: I do.

1097
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:54,359
Speaker 3: I feel exactly that way. Yeah, I feel exactly that way, dude.

1098
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, I generally I look at Trista's children,

1099
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 4: who are so beautiful and accomplished, and it's like, you know,

1100
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I wonder what my boys are going

1101
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 4: to turn out to be? Like, you know, I hope

1102
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:05,320
Speaker 4: you know, I hope they want to do this. I

1103
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 4: hope they want to do that, But I've got to

1104
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 4: slow myself down, like what Travis said, and I got

1105
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 4: I got to allow myself to enjoy the ride sometimes

1106
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 4: because it's like, you know, Grayson is at this point

1107
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:16,799
Speaker 4: now and I'm sure you're going through it now to

1108
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 4: Travis where he I have full on conversations with him,

1109
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 4: like he is my guy. Like We'll be driving along

1110
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 4: talking about the day and and I don't need anybody else,

1111
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 4: you know, and then along comes Blake, and now Blake

1112
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 4: will be like, you know, Blake's the really soft sense,

1113
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 4: and I've wanted to be like, I love you, daddy,

1114
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh oh my, ready to cry ten

1115
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 4: times a day.

1116
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: You know.

1117
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 3: It's like, and I think that happens to guys as

1118
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:37,360
Speaker 3: we get older.

1119
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 4: I'll talk to my doctor, Travis Stork after the show

1120
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 4: to go to a personal consultation on this one. But

1121
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 4: I swear to you, I have become an emotional basket

1122
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 4: case as I get older with everything that happens with

1123
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 4: the boys, Like I'm constantly like, oh.

1124
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: My god, look at them.

1125
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 3: I'm so proud. He's all grossed up and he's.

1126
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 4: Five, you know, so it's kind of funny, right you

1127
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 4: get to I don't want him to grow up either,

1128
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 4: but I do want I, like Trista said, I want

1129
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:00,360
Speaker 4: to see him spread their ways.

1130
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 3: But it's tough.

1131
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 1: Well that the difference there, Bob also is Yeah, my

1132
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 1: son fully cognizant, great conversations. By the way, thank you

1133
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 1: guys for not telling me that my wife's name was

1134
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 1: on my Uh I did see that.

1135
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I didn't.

1136
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:20,399
Speaker 3: Think anything of it. Mind doesn't even have a code,

1137
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 3: don't even know it.

1138
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's funny. I looked down. I'm like, yeah, no,

1139
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:28,399
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not parish. So the way I knew

1140
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:30,919
Speaker 1: that my son was, you know, fully competent of having

1141
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:37,440
Speaker 1: conversations with me is not from having wonderful fatherly son conversations.

1142
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:41,839
Speaker 1: It's when we're in traffic. Now he's like, move your

1143
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 1: freaking car. I'm an impatient driver. And if we're like

1144
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 1: the light's green in the car front, we're just sitting there.

1145
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, move your freaking car. My son now

1146
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 1: does that. I'm like, yeah, I'm such a good dad.

1147
00:56:56,200 --> 00:57:00,560
Speaker 1: I mean, wow, I'm my son's so teaching a bit.

1148
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 1: He's almost four, but yeah, you know, I'm teaching them

1149
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: all these invaluable lessons like impatience, screaming, screaming at the

1150
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:13,479
Speaker 1: drivers of other cars. Who know that's so good?

1151
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 3: Do you know what?

1152
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:15,840
Speaker 2: I feel like?

1153
00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 5: I am now in the point of my life where

1154
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 5: I'm actually cussing again. Like I wasn't cussing for so

1155
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 5: long because I didn't want them to pick up those

1156
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 5: bad habits. And now I'm like, they're teenagers, they're doing

1157
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,360
Speaker 5: it on their They're they're cussing to their friends. I'm

1158
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 5: so there's actually some freedom in that.

1159
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm still not You're you going to drop drop

1160
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 1: an F bomb right now? Trista, Oh yeah, you know.

1161
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 5: Actually I just watched this Instagram video one, you know,

1162
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 5: one of those four you's that pops up, and there

1163
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 5: was this little girl who's looking outside and she goes,

1164
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 5: there's a goat.

1165
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 3: There's a goat, Oh my god.

1166
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 5: And my mom was like, no, it's not and she goes, yes,

1167
00:57:58,760 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 5: it's a fing goat.

1168
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1169
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 4: All you gotta do is a you gotta do is

1170
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 4: not your kids watch a Disney movie, which I'm sure

1171
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:08,320
Speaker 4: Travis is in the throws of them as.

1172
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 3: Well right now, but like yes, in cars.

1173
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 4: So so my son, Blake, I'll be changing his diaper

1174
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 4: like hey buddy, and he'll go, you fool, you idiot,

1175
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 4: and I'm like, I'm changing your diaper, like that's not

1176
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 4: how we talk to people who are in diaper, Judy.

1177
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 4: But but it's like every Disney movie has a moment

1178
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 4: where they call they throw the word idiot out I

1179
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 4: swear or fool, and Blake uses it like crazy. It's

1180
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 4: like his favorite adjective, you know. And so we're just

1181
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 4: I don't even know if it's an adjective. I'm not

1182
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 4: the grammar police here today, but whatever type of word

1183
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 4: it is, he uses it, he uses it very freely

1184
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 4: and fluidly, and it's just abusive. Like I'm like, why

1185
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 4: is my two and a half year old calling me

1186
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 4: an idiot all the time?

1187
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 1: You know? So yeah, I'm very careful, you know. Is uh.

1188
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 1: It's sort of that classic you know, sticks and stones

1189
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 1: will break my bones. Words will never hurt me as

1190
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 1: a parent. It's you know, poop in my face will

1191
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 1: really suck. You can say whatever you want if I'm

1192
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 1: changing your diaper and you don't like, grab your poop

1193
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 1: and throw it at me. This pool will call me

1194
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 1: an idiot. I don't care. Just let me get this

1195
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:20,840
Speaker 1: diaper changed. Let's like contain the poop. Let's not having

1196
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 1: up the backer here, Let's just keep it real. Let's

1197
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: wipe the butt, let's get everything clean. And yeah, I'll

1198
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 1: be I'll be your fool whatever, but let's get this

1199
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 1: diaper on.

1200
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 4: Do that.

1201
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 1: And it's like, oh yeah, so chi don't hurt me.

1202
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 4: My wife told our friends this week, and do I'll

1203
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 4: have older kids, she said something, and she goes, wait,

1204
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 4: so you guys don't play the fun family game.

1205
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 3: Is it pooper? Is it chocolate?

1206
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 4: Because that's what we play at the Guinea House, and

1207
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 4: seventy nine point four percent of the time it's chocolate.

1208
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm like, wait, what game are you playing?

1209
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:57,480
Speaker 4: Because seven nine or four percent of the time with me,

1210
00:59:57,520 --> 00:59:57,959
Speaker 4: it's poop.

1211
00:59:58,840 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1212
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say most of the time. So okay,

1213
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 2: last question. Do you still watch the show.

1214
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes? Yeah, it depends on the interview.

1215
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 5: No one watches it anymore, right, Bob, I feel like

1216
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 5: most people don't, So I love that you're.

1217
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: Sometimes you know, well, it depends. My wife still finds

1218
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 1: it incredibly entertaining, and I think it's one of those

1219
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 1: things where it'll often be on the background. She'll put

1220
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 1: it on. But to be honest with you, you know, it

1221
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 1: really does depend on the season. She'll be watched, like,

1222
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you have to watch like and it's

1223
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 1: usually this, it's whoever the penultimate. I don't want to

1224
01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 1: say character because none of us are characters, but like, yeah,

1225
01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: everyone wants to ascribe one meaning to the franchise. Here's

1226
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 1: the deal. Every single journey is so unique, genuinely, and

1227
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 1: whenever the Bachelor or Bachelrette, or in the case of Jerry,

1228
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: the Golden Baster, whenever it's someone who's likable, we kind

1229
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:16,840
Speaker 1: of get drawn into it because even though it's crazy,

1230
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 1: it's chaos, it's not real world all this other stuff.

1231
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: The truth is, during that moment, during that journey, if

1232
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 1: someone's having like an authentic experience or a cool person,

1233
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 1: I get invested. The Golden Bachelor's a great example. I

1234
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 1: was like, this is really you know, do I agree

1235
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 1: with everything going on?

1236
01:01:32,920 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 5: No?

1237
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 1: You know what I tell four people in the same day,

1238
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 1: I love them or whatever, Like, no, probably not, but

1239
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 1: I really like Jerry I really like this. I hope

1240
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:45,200
Speaker 1: this works out. Does it often?

1241
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 6: No?

1242
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 1: But when my wife and I sort of get drawn in,

1243
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 1: it's usually because they are just some really really good folks.

1244
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 1: To me, the seasons where I literally don't watch one

1245
01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 1: second of it because my wife isn't interested. It's it's honestly,

1246
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 1: it's when the people tend to be assholes and you

1247
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: can tell superficial and they suck and you're like, yeah, well,

1248
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 1: I don't give a shit what happens because these people suck,

1249
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 1: and when they're nice and cool, good personalities, genuine I'm like, like,

1250
01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 1: I hope it's worked out for them, Yeah, because you're

1251
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:28,720
Speaker 1: living proof that it can't. Yeah, And every every I know,

1252
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: every single moment of every day since then, has been

1253
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 1: pure bliss. There's never been a.

1254
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 5: Moment sure, sure bless.

1255
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right, that's right. That's all she had to

1256
01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 3: say about that one.

1257
01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 5: No, I mean, I feel like marriage is freaking hard.

1258
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 5: You know, life is hard, it's hard being a parent,

1259
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 5: it's hard just existing in the world sometimes. So I yeah,

1260
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 5: I am very thankful that we have gotten through the

1261
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 5: downs that we've had in our life and enjoy the

1262
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 5: highs as much as possible, but.

1263
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 2: It's hard.

1264
01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 5: But you're right, I am so drawn to the people

1265
01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 5: and I watch everything, so I'll watch even the bad

1266
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 5: seasons or what we're calling kind of the bad seasons

1267
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 5: of the people that people aren't necessarily drawn to. But

1268
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 5: I am like with Gary, like with Joey, freaking love

1269
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 5: Joey and this season and girls and just the like camaraderie.

1270
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 5: It reminded me of my season with the guys, like

1271
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 5: people got along although there was drama still, like in

1272
01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:36,919
Speaker 5: the end, how the girls came together. I just love

1273
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 5: seeing humanity and authenticity and kindness, and so I'd love

1274
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 5: more of that on the show. And it seems like

1275
01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 5: you do too, Chris.

1276
01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 1: Do you know, or Bob, how did the last season rate?

1277
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 1: Because you know, the world of TV is interesting, and

1278
01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:55,280
Speaker 1: I think there was a period of time, certainly before

1279
01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 1: I went on the show. There were a couple of

1280
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 1: seasons before, at least the one right now before where

1281
01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 1: it was all about just taking shots off of like

1282
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: naked bodies, and it like didn't rate well, and I

1283
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 1: think one of the reasons why I ended up getting cast.

1284
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 1: And you know, I was at that restaurant in Nashville

1285
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 1: and someone came up started talking to my group and

1286
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: the person casting without us knowing who she was, like,

1287
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 1: you're a doctor. And the reason I bring that up

1288
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 1: is there there was a notable shift towards, at least

1289
01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 1: on my season, towards being genuine and like some people

1290
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:34,920
Speaker 1: might call that boring. That's why I'm always cured that

1291
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:39,160
Speaker 1: looked recently, But like, I know, the Golden Batter did

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Speaker 1: really well because I thought it was genuine and the

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Speaker 1: storytelling is genuine and legit. I'm curious, do you guys

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01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 1: know with Joey's season did it go well? Because I

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01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 1: think I I didn't watch a lot of it, but

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Speaker 1: what I did, he's super likable guy and and the

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Speaker 1: women on the season seemed really genuine. I hope it

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Speaker 1: rated well because it did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like a return to tour to the

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Speaker 4: og days. Really, I mean it kind of was a

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01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 4: little bit of a return to that.

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Speaker 3: I think.

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01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 4: I think Golden Bachelor, and we talked a lot about this,

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01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 4: but one of the things I loved about Golden Baschler

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01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 4: was the age appropriate casting because it could have been

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01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 4: a you know, it could have been a circus, and

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01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 4: then they roll that into Joey's season and it's a

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01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:22,120
Speaker 4: really sincere, sweet and funny guy who's not afraid to

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01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:24,600
Speaker 4: take a couple of shots at himself and you know whatever,

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01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 4: and it's like, you know, it was it was their

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Speaker 4: return to I think what made the show so great

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Speaker 4: so many years ago, and hopefully they keep that vibe going,

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01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 4: you know, I think they will. I think that they're

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01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 4: pretty smart, right, they realize they've they got lightning in

1315
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 4: a bottle again with the Golden Bachelor formula. Now maybe

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01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 4: they'll like apply that to the seasons again. I think

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01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 4: they just they maybe just got to a point where

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01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 4: they wanted to try something new for a couple of

1319
01:05:45,360 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 4: years and it took off and it was like drama Central.

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Speaker 1: You know, nobody wanted to I'll say one controversial thing

1321
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:57,680
Speaker 1: any line of work. They're really smart people and really

1322
01:05:57,760 --> 01:06:01,920
Speaker 1: dumb people. A lot of really dumb people in LA

1323
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 1: but also those smart ones. And it's interesting having now

1324
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 1: spent I mean, I spent a lot of time out there,

1325
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 1: and it's amazing how sometimes the dumbest voices in the

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01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:20,360
Speaker 1: room carried the day and common sense or practical anyone

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01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: with a normal mind is like, yeah, you know, if

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01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 1: you're making TV. If all you're thinking about is like

1329
01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 1: a certain demographic out in LA, it's not going to work.

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01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 1: You have to be thinking Trista, the folks in Saint Louis,

1331
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 1: you know, like how this who plays out? And and

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01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:40,880
Speaker 1: it's just funny because obviously twelve years on the Doctors,

1333
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 1: being The Bachelor and in between, you guys have done

1334
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 1: all this stuff where you just spend so much time

1335
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:47,760
Speaker 1: here on different shows. You're doing all this stuff and

1336
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 1: you meet some really phenomenal smart people who seem to

1337
01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 1: make really good decisions about making good TV, and then

1338
01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 1: you make others meet other people and you're like, why

1339
01:06:58,440 --> 01:06:59,520
Speaker 1: would you do that?

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01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1341
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 4: So true, so domb Yeah, it's like, you know, the

1342
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 4: majority of the population out there isn't out here right

1343
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 4: in the middle. It's it's what we call the flyover states, right,

1344
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:13,560
Speaker 4: that's who's watching the show. So yeah, I agree with

1345
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 4: you on that one. There's definitely, uh, there needs to

1346
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:17,280
Speaker 4: be a return to a little bit more of the

1347
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 4: wholesome programming.

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01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 3: I think they'll be surprised at how good it goes,

1349
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 3: you know.

1350
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope I hope they do that with Bold

1351
01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:29,360
Speaker 5: and Bachelorette I'm hoping just teare, but Travis, it was

1352
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:34,360
Speaker 5: a pleasure reconnecting. I'm so happy that you found happiness

1353
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 5: and so happy and your babies and Nashville. Actually, Ryan

1354
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 5: and Max are going to be in Nashville at the

1355
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 5: end of the month for a hockey tournament, so I

1356
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:50,800
Speaker 5: wish I was going. I'm going to Vegas for nine

1357
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 5: days for a dance competition. Vegas for nine days, whichld

1358
01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:55,760
Speaker 5: we luck anyway, I couldn't last.

1359
01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 1: If Brian needs anything. While as you're let me know,

1360
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:04,400
Speaker 1: it's always so as we as we end this conversation.

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01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 1: You know, the funny thing about it is going back

1362
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:08,840
Speaker 1: in time. When I did The Bachelor, I was I

1363
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 1: felt like I was on an island, you know, being

1364
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 1: a doctor and all this other stuff, and I just

1365
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:17,200
Speaker 1: I just wanted to sort of separate myself from it.

1366
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 1: And now with time having passed, it's so fun talking

1367
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:23,720
Speaker 1: to you too, because we are who we are now.

1368
01:08:23,760 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: We have this unique experience that we all had together,

1369
01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:29,920
Speaker 1: even though it's different. It just we know things and

1370
01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:33,599
Speaker 1: had experiences that very few people will ever have. Even

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01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 1: though it's different, it's really cool. It's like going to

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01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 1: a reunion. I know, and meeting or hanging out with

1373
01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:43,040
Speaker 1: the people that you went to school with but you

1374
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:45,519
Speaker 1: didn't know them that well in school. But you're like,

1375
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: it turns out we have a lot in common because

1376
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 1: we went to the same school, we took the same classes,

1377
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:53,519
Speaker 1: and maybe we were a year apart, but like, hey, yeah,

1378
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I went to my reunion and I

1379
01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 1: met some great people, or I hung out with people

1380
01:08:57,040 --> 01:09:00,240
Speaker 1: I didn't know very well, or like with Trista, we've

1381
01:09:00,280 --> 01:09:02,320
Speaker 1: talked a bunch, but it's good to like, I haven't

1382
01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:04,599
Speaker 1: talked to you in freaking a decade, maybe.

1383
01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:05,120
Speaker 2: A long time.

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01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:07,639
Speaker 5: I know, I thought your number. I was like, I can't,

1385
01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:09,439
Speaker 5: I can't find it. I don't have his number. I

1386
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 5: don't know why. I feel like we talked and still.

1387
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 1: I still have the ninety seven oh number. I still have.

1388
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 4: So I.

1389
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:21,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, you guys, appreciate uh the time talking to

1390
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Speaker 1: you all. It was a lot of fun. And Bobby,

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01:09:25,280 --> 01:09:26,920
Speaker 1: if you ever had this way, feel free to look

1392
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 1: me up. I will.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:32,559
Speaker 1: A lot of big parties happening over here, Man, big parties.

1395
01:09:34,439 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm sure they don't.

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01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:37,720
Speaker 3: We probably start when I'm already going to bed.

1397
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 1: And yeah, I've already played a start. Yeah, they started

1398
01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 1: at four and they ended six and they involved balloons

1399
01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:46,360
Speaker 1: and other fun things.

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Speaker 4: So this sounds like my guy party. This is awesome. Definitely,

1401
01:09:50,160 --> 01:09:52,160
Speaker 4: thank you for joining us on the Ogs, dude. It

1402
01:09:52,200 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 4: was such a pleasure having you on the show. And man,

1403
01:09:54,560 --> 01:09:56,599
Speaker 4: I'm so I'm so thankful that we got we got

1404
01:09:56,600 --> 01:09:57,800
Speaker 4: a chance to talk and catch up.

1405
01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 3: And let's not let's not make it take so long time.

1406
01:10:00,920 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 1: All right, y'all?

1407
01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 2: Well, awesome, Bye, Travis, have a great day.

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01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:07,519
Speaker 1: Cheers.

1409
01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 3: Gosh, what a great guy. Huh. I love him.

1410
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:14,639
Speaker 5: I've always loved him. I mean, obviously Saint Louis Roots

1411
01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 5: and then he was in Colorado for a bit, and yeah,

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01:10:19,360 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 5: he is just authentic, like assault of theirs kind of

1413
01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:23,800
Speaker 5: people love.

1414
01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:25,519
Speaker 3: You know, hasn't that been our experience?

1415
01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:28,200
Speaker 4: I honestly, God, I feel like people come on our

1416
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:30,439
Speaker 4: show and we end up like every single one of them,

1417
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:31,800
Speaker 4: you and I are at the end of like I

1418
01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:32,800
Speaker 4: love that person. Like.

1419
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 3: That's why I asked him.

1420
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 4: That's why I wanted to know if it was Lazy

1421
01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 4: Pemberton who ultimately cast him, because I feel like she

1422
01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:43,920
Speaker 4: just had this nose to find really just like minded

1423
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:45,959
Speaker 4: people you know, it's it's just really.

1424
01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:46,559
Speaker 3: Remarkable to me.

1425
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:51,679
Speaker 4: But anyway, always great talking with you, Trista, and thanks

1426
01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:55,679
Speaker 4: everyone for listening to almost famous the Ogs and uh

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01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 4: tune in next time.

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Speaker 6: You'll never your ever love