WEBVTT - Corinne Saves Dean & Jared

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<v Speaker 1>Hell, I suck It Dating with the Ungler and Dared

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<v Speaker 1>Haven and I heard radio podcast. Hey, welcome to an

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<v Speaker 1>all new episode of help by suck at Dating. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>I am Jared Haven, joined always by the beautiful uh

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<v Speaker 1>full of mustache, Dean Angler. The mustache is making a return.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. My favorite look of yours, Dean is

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<v Speaker 1>when you are a clean shaven with the long hair

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<v Speaker 1>that's peaked. Dean, I find we're getting there. We're working

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<v Speaker 1>back to it. You know, the hair has been gone

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<v Speaker 1>for so long now, but it's getting long as you

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<v Speaker 1>can see come back. I like it. I like the flow.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna keep mine for a while. I think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep mine until knock on wood. I'm I'm a dad.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see as long as hopefully everything goes. You just

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<v Speaker 1>cut yours. I feel like I think you talked about

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<v Speaker 1>you cutting ears. No, I trimmed it. It was still long,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm keeping it trimmed. I'm not gonna grow it

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<v Speaker 1>as long as you You know, you were like straight

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<v Speaker 1>up van life for a while with your hair and

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<v Speaker 1>and and now you become a little domesticated recording. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're recording from a house uh, you're with Kalin indoors.

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<v Speaker 1>But as the hair grows longer, I fully expect you

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<v Speaker 1>to start going back into the van and recording. But

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<v Speaker 1>we do have a very special guest who is joining us,

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<v Speaker 1>who's listening to us banter right now. Unfortunately, you know

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<v Speaker 1>her from The Bachelor, specifically Nick viall season of The Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 1>She's of course the nap queen, the nanny. I forget

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<v Speaker 1>what food it was. It was like macaroni and cheese

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<v Speaker 1>that she made for you. I don't know, but you

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<v Speaker 1>love her. We love her. She's back on the podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>and of course is Karin Olympios. Karin, welcome back to

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<v Speaker 1>help us like a dating Hi, guys, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>having me. Oh my god, are you kidding me? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Cheese pasta. My producer just filled us in. That's right,

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<v Speaker 1>che's pasta. God, that's so good. It's so good. It's

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<v Speaker 1>defy someone to tell me a better food than cheese

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<v Speaker 1>and pasta. And there is none, there is none. But

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<v Speaker 1>do you still need a lot of cheese pasta? K

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<v Speaker 1>I mean when I am not like a diet Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a diet specific thing. It's like because you

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<v Speaker 1>can't have just like a strict diet of cheese and

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<v Speaker 1>pasta and stay fit kind of thing. No, I'd look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd look, I'd be looking pretty round, But you taste

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<v Speaker 1>buds would be so happy. I know. I would just

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<v Speaker 1>be happy all the time. Maybe that's why I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>happy all the time, because I'm not having enough cheese

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<v Speaker 1>pasta exactly. I tell that to Ash all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Anytime we go out to eat, and we try to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we go to a fancy restaurant every time

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<v Speaker 1>we go, We're like, listen, the food is good, but

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<v Speaker 1>would we and I feel like we'd enjoy a burger

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<v Speaker 1>from McDonald's so much more? Like is there anything better

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<v Speaker 1>than a coke, a cheeseburger and fries. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>there is, Like, literally, there's not. And there will be

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<v Speaker 1>days where like Vince wants to take me out to

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<v Speaker 1>like a nice dinner, and I'll look at him and

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<v Speaker 1>be like, if you love me, you will just drive

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<v Speaker 1>me through McDonald's. That's true love right there, True love.

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<v Speaker 1>True love understands the need for McDonald's. Of course, I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely do love to treat myself with a cup of

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<v Speaker 1>a glass of Coca cola every once in a while

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<v Speaker 1>because God, it's so bad, and I know it's so bad,

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<v Speaker 1>but boy is it delicious? Really? I think it's too sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually prefer the diet because it's not a sugary like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing better in my mind than a McDonald's coke.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever they do, they must like pump in c O

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<v Speaker 1>two because that Coca cola McDonald's the fountain soda is

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<v Speaker 1>so much more carbonated than any other Coca Cola I've had,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like it just tingles in my entire face

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<v Speaker 1>as I'm eating the salty fries and it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>the combination that I can't believe that you're saying this

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<v Speaker 1>because I literally say that all the time. And my

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<v Speaker 1>friends and Vince are like, what do you talk? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean you need a fountain diet coke?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like it's different and they're like, no, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>And I completely agree with you. One. I'm so happy

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<v Speaker 1>you said that. Well, obviously you know the good things

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<v Speaker 1>in life, and you need to get Vince on this train.

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<v Speaker 1>I speaking events, obviously, let's catch up with you. Karin.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you What are you doing? I know we

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<v Speaker 1>got dinner the other the other week was it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was so great seeing you. I loved meeting Vince. Vince

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<v Speaker 1>is the sweetest guy ever. He's so freaking down to earth.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the best. So tell us how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you you and Vince doing well? First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>we had an amazing time with you guys. It's really

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<v Speaker 1>fun like dating someone that I wasn't really like, he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't in my life during that part of my life,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's really cool like to involve him, um with

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<v Speaker 1>people from that time in my life. And it was

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<v Speaker 1>so cool just seeing you guys and having him there,

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<v Speaker 1>like it made me feel really good. Um yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing amazing and things are great. Things are just really

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<v Speaker 1>really going. So once he going to propose what's going on? Um, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to Cabo randomly, that's exciting next Wednesday. He

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<v Speaker 1>just told me yesterday He's like, I charted a jet

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<v Speaker 1>to Cabo. Are you down? I was like, yeah, you're down,

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<v Speaker 1>bit like, let's go. I would love to meet somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who would say no to that. Hey, I charted a

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<v Speaker 1>jet to Cabo. Do you want to go? Nah? Not good? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really in the mood. I was like, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean that's crazy. Yeah, he's cool, like that'll

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<v Speaker 1>do like fun stuff like that. He's super like Bachelor Deity,

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<v Speaker 1>which I like, yeah, yeah, yeah, you never left the lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 1>You just you went from you know, going on these

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<v Speaker 1>extraordinary dates in in on TV to going on extraordinary

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<v Speaker 1>dates in person. Um, it was great seeing you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>That is cool that you say that, because Dean and

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<v Speaker 1>I about bringing you know, Vince into quote unquote like

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor World they're meeting people from the franchise, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he has some hesitation when meeting people from

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<v Speaker 1>the franchise, thinking they're fake, which you know, as we

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<v Speaker 1>both know, some are. But it's it's interesting because Dean

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't have to go through that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like obviously I with Ashley, she was part of the franchise.

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<v Speaker 1>Dean is with kalin Um. So, did did Vince know

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<v Speaker 1>you from the show when you guys first started dating? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he did know me from the show. Um, he said

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<v Speaker 1>that he didn't, But I then found out that him

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<v Speaker 1>and his whole family like watched the show religiously and

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<v Speaker 1>it was actually like a really big deal for him

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<v Speaker 1>and his family that like he went on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with me and I had no idea, so he was

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to play it cool. I guess I think

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<v Speaker 1>he was just trying to play it cool. I can

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<v Speaker 1>see Vince doing that, being like I don't I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who. I don't know who, so like what do

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<v Speaker 1>you do? What are you? But I'm not kind of frustrated.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not kind of frustrating because then you're just like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>just tell me the truth, Like I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>think that you don't know anything about me, when in reality,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that I love cheese pasta and you know

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<v Speaker 1>that I got a namail. You know, Like, why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you just tell me that you know those things because

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<v Speaker 1>that would make this way easier. Yeah, and then there's

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<v Speaker 1>always like the whole like Platinum Virgian thing, which kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just like, oh I forgot about that. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing that came up a lot in my

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<v Speaker 1>dating life after the show. But it has yet to disappoint.

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<v Speaker 1>It never disappoints current. That's one thing I've realized about you.

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<v Speaker 1>You do not disappoint. I aim to please you, and

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<v Speaker 1>you usually I've always seen you succeed. You do have

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<v Speaker 1>a brand new podcast that I do want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about a little bit. Karin saves us all, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>you had a podcast. We talked about this over dinner

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<v Speaker 1>a while ago. I feel like you were one of

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<v Speaker 1>the first people in Bachelor franchise to have your own podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>and you are so perfect for a podcast. I think

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<v Speaker 1>when I when I really think of like people from

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor franchise who need a podcast, the first two people,

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<v Speaker 1>honestly that come of my mind are you and Nick. Yes. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, thank you, that's very flattering. Um. I yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I always like my whole team coming off the

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<v Speaker 1>show was like, you need a podcast, you need a podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, honestly, like what the podcast? No? And so

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<v Speaker 1>then like I remember I was in l A before

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<v Speaker 1>I even moved here or there. I don't live there anymore. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like doing all these meetings and I

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<v Speaker 1>had gotten an email and I said to my manager,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, Mark, um, we have a meeting for a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>She'll be so happy. He goes, oh, great, Like what's

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<v Speaker 1>the meeting, Like you have to tell me these things.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's fine, we're just gonna go. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called podcast Stone and we're just gonna go and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know that it was podcast one. I kept saying

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<v Speaker 1>podest Stone because I read it like podcast stone. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I just think that that's so funny. He's

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<v Speaker 1>like all podcast one. He's like, no, Karn, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing. And I was like, oh, okay, like great,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we went and I like did it, and

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<v Speaker 1>everyone was like obsessed with it. And then I just

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<v Speaker 1>like hated it because they took away like all of

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<v Speaker 1>my creative control and it is a horrible nightmare, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just I didn't pay attention to anymore. I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>wait for it to be over. It was like homework

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<v Speaker 1>for me, and I needed to take a break from

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<v Speaker 1>podcasting all in all for a while. And now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>super excited to just jump back into it literally on

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<v Speaker 1>my own. I have no one telling me how I

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<v Speaker 1>can do things or say things, and I can just

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<v Speaker 1>be free. You're free and those always create the best podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>And you have such a great personality for it, uh

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<v Speaker 1>you have. I'm looking at some of the names. Karine

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<v Speaker 1>saves the Grammys, Karine saves Brittany, which probably is an

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<v Speaker 1>extremely interesting one because all my god, the amount of

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<v Speaker 1>times Ashley talks about I'm assuming this is about Britney Spears. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley is obsessed with Britney Spears and everything that involves

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<v Speaker 1>her life. She finds it very interesting and I hear

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<v Speaker 1>about it all the time. Karine saves her lonely fans,

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<v Speaker 1>and Karin saves your confidence. That's the one I think

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<v Speaker 1>we could all listen to. So that's super exciting. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>super excited that you're back in the podcast world. This

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<v Speaker 1>one can be called Crence saves help. I suck it, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it, guys, I love it. How is your

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<v Speaker 1>dating lives? Well, you're married, Dared, and you guys are great.

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<v Speaker 1>So Dean like I meant you, Well, I mean I'm

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<v Speaker 1>married too. I've got the you know, I've got you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are married. I've got the handcuff on the finger.

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<v Speaker 1>He says that he's married for satire. Well, I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy for you. I'm happy that you're happy. Thanks, Karan. Yeah, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>so you just said you don't live in l anymore though, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't live in l anymore. I moved. I've lived

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<v Speaker 1>in Scottsdale, Arizona now for oh my god, a year

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<v Speaker 1>and two months. It was like a COVID thing. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a COVID thing. It just worked out so freaking well.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I I met Vince, he was like Doe. He

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<v Speaker 1>was doing Um, Mike the Mrs House. He's a wrestle

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<v Speaker 1>and he was in town staying there for a while

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<v Speaker 1>while he worked on the house. Bence Bill's houses. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you know Dean, he's been the builder.

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<v Speaker 1>Follow on Instagram. The houses he builds, dude, are be beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not joking. I follow him now. Ashley follows he

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<v Speaker 1>like he just posts. It's like following him is like

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<v Speaker 1>just watching HDTV literally literally, like Colton actually reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to him um in the past and like for houses

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff and no, yeah, well and then he's doing

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<v Speaker 1>Teresa from Real Housewives of New Jersey and no, he's

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<v Speaker 1>just killing it. You guys should spin off your own

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<v Speaker 1>HDTV show. Karan, with his ability and your personality, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like it's like kind of like the match made

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<v Speaker 1>in Heaven. Well, yes, there's we're definitely um in talks

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<v Speaker 1>with production companies. So it's it's that that's good, not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna janx anything. That's for the future. That's a fantastic

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<v Speaker 1>a guy. Dear Dean, we can we pitch in as

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<v Speaker 1>a production company to like pitch this to to Netflix. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Aren sounds like she's already She's already in the works.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sorry, we'll steal it. We'll steal it from them.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll steal Karin. We have her in the room. We

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<v Speaker 1>just gotta make sure that she doesn't leave. Um, I uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to tell the story before we take

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<v Speaker 1>a quick break. Um, Karen, I want you to tell

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<v Speaker 1>the story that you told a dinner about what you

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<v Speaker 1>messaged Vince UH and d M. Because you and Vince

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<v Speaker 1>were going back and forth when we were at dinner

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<v Speaker 1>about who messaged who? Who d M first? Uh? And

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to tell the people we found out

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<v Speaker 1>that you d M Vince first, and you said something

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<v Speaker 1>that was so freaking it's like the most Karin thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to tell the story. Oh my god, see, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I where's my I literally was just looking for my

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<v Speaker 1>phone and I'm talking to you on my phone right

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<v Speaker 1>when you were just looking around. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Karin doesn't know that she's recording on her phone right now. Yeah. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like breeched my phone. Um. Well, after a

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<v Speaker 1>long debate at dinner, I was proven wrong. So I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely d M first, okay, and I definitely said my

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<v Speaker 1>number first. Yeah both times. Yeah. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>what I was doing. I was I clearly was really

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<v Speaker 1>excited to go on a date with him. Um. But

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<v Speaker 1>he did start liking and commenting on all of my

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<v Speaker 1>pictures and then I said to him, okay, you have

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<v Speaker 1>my attention. Oh that's not all you said. What did

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<v Speaker 1>I say? I can't remember and I can't. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>he pulled. He did it very smartly because he started

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<v Speaker 1>following you and then he started like liking your pictures,

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<v Speaker 1>which is surprising because this was after the show. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm surprised you even noticed him liking your stuff on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram because you know, not to sound like a jerk,

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<v Speaker 1>but you have so many followers it's hard to notice everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's that's pretty big that you noticed him following

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<v Speaker 1>and liking your stuff. But he does what a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of guys does, which is like putting out feelers, flirtation

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<v Speaker 1>and see and if maybe, oh I don't know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you'll you'll slide into his d M s, which you

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<v Speaker 1>ultimately did. And Karin's first opening lines to Vince was

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<v Speaker 1>you have my you have my attention, and I'm obsessed.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Oh my god. I think I literally

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<v Speaker 1>blocked that out of my room because I would never

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<v Speaker 1>remember it if he didn't just tell me that. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, that was That's hilarious. And I'm sure he

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<v Speaker 1>must have been stoked to see that too, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you get that from a pretty girl. You're like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>what am I doing? Oh my god, I remember, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>never forget the first time I like saw his Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, damn. I was like, oh maybe, Like literally, Jared,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I told you this. I was getting every

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<v Speaker 1>single thing I ever wanted in my life at this time.

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<v Speaker 1>So I literally was like, oh, it's fine, Like he'll

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<v Speaker 1>just build me a house. Like I'll just collaborate with

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<v Speaker 1>him and he'll just build me a house. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like so like, I was like literally thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>this guy was going to build me a house. Like

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<v Speaker 1>am I okay? Like what now you guys are dating?

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, yeah, now we're dating. You now we live

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<v Speaker 1>in a house. I'm pretty sure you said that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted him to make you a Barbie house. Yes, I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I really honestly wanted him to build me like a pink,

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<v Speaker 1>sparky Barbie house, and I thought it was gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>That would have been the coolest thing. Ever, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lie. Would have been extremely jealous. He should do

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<v Speaker 1>that now now for you, Like instead of a shed,

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<v Speaker 1>he should build you like just your own little private

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<v Speaker 1>Barbie house where you can it's like your personal glam room.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Literally, it's going to be a closet in

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<v Speaker 1>our studio, a bakery and a glam room. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>that's the twist on your HD HDTV shows. Every house

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<v Speaker 1>you build has a Barbie house in the backyard. Every

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<v Speaker 1>single house comes with a bonus Barbie house. Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>We do have to take a quick break, but we

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<v Speaker 1>do have a lot more coming up with Karan Karina.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk about obviously you're I guess you're

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<v Speaker 1>your jewelry line, uh, or a sugarcoat I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>that right yes, or a sugar coup which I'm wearing

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<v Speaker 1>my beautiful bracelet right now. Karine made me a bracelet,

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<v Speaker 1>gave it to me a dinner, she made one from me,

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<v Speaker 1>and Ashley has my initials on there or well it

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<v Speaker 1>says has it's A j in today for Jared and Ashley.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. When you first gave it to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, it's almost my first name, but

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<v Speaker 1>just a. I was like she must have just given up.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'm like, oh j and A Jared and

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley that you like. When you looked at it, you

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<v Speaker 1>were like, oh, oh, I love it because I was

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<v Speaker 1>like JA, and then I was like, oh, where's the

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<v Speaker 1>R E D? And then I was like oh Jared

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<v Speaker 1>and astually got it now. Um, and I also want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about you got a shout out from Amelia. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>what's her? Scott Distric's girlfriend, Amelia Gray Hamlet, Amelia Hamlin,

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa Rena's daughter. Uh, that's freaking awesome. And we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>talk about that much much more right after this quick break.

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<v Speaker 1>to help. I suck at dating Dean myself, Karin uh

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<v Speaker 1>in the house, I don't know, in the his a

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<v Speaker 1>trying to stay cool. I want to talk about So

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<v Speaker 1>you got a shout out on Instagram from Amelia Hamlin,

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<v Speaker 1>who is Scott's Scott Distick's girlfriend. Um, because you have

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<v Speaker 1>your jewelry line or our sugar and or excuse me

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<v Speaker 1>or or sugar and she was wearing a bracelet with

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<v Speaker 1>Scott's name on it that you made for her and

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<v Speaker 1>she posted online. Then obviously I see it on us

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<v Speaker 1>weekly in People magazine. Uh, so do you know Amelia?

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<v Speaker 1>How that? How did that happen? So? I do know

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<v Speaker 1>Amelia and Delilah. Um, they're great girls. I hung out

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<v Speaker 1>with them a few times in l A. And Delilah

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<v Speaker 1>was one of my friends for a while. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still I still talk to them here and there,

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<v Speaker 1>even though I don't live there anymore. And um, I

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<v Speaker 1>was I were actually doing belly chains, which I'm actually

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<v Speaker 1>filling a huge order right now, but we're doing these

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<v Speaker 1>belly chains and Delilah saw them and she was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I love them, and I was like, hey, like, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>send you something like whatever. And then we wound up

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<v Speaker 1>just throwing in some for Amelia that said Scott on

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<v Speaker 1>it and some for Scott that said the Lord. And

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<v Speaker 1>we had a lot of celebrities thank God that we're

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<v Speaker 1>in love our bracelets, chokers, belly change rings and um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking like like big people and she just posted

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<v Speaker 1>one little story about it, and it's like, excuse my language,

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<v Speaker 1>but hit the fan, and we're so thankful it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so cool. I'm so glad that that's what got

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<v Speaker 1>us out there. Um. But yeah, I was like it

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<v Speaker 1>was like article after article after article. I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was so great. You're gonna be able to build

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<v Speaker 1>your own your own Barbie house. Who need Vince? Clearly

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<v Speaker 1>Literally it's really awesome. And now we had a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of stores reach out filling a store order. Right now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just literal dreams are coming true here. How did

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<v Speaker 1>or a Sugarcoat take off? Because, um, last time I

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<v Speaker 1>talked to you, I don't remember hearing about it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a new thing. I started beating in quarantine. Um

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<v Speaker 1>I started doing these bracelets that um I was selling

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<v Speaker 1>for four dollars and I was donating all the money

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<v Speaker 1>um to Feeding America during quarantine and um, lindsay my partner.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name on Instagram is Cupcake Montgomery's. You might see

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<v Speaker 1>her tagged in a lot of my stories and stuff. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>my sister Taylor is part of it. I just had

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<v Speaker 1>to say that and she she was beating also and

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her beads and she reached out to me

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<v Speaker 1>and asked if I wanted someone. I was like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>her beads are awesome, and she sent me some and

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<v Speaker 1>I was obsessed with them. We collabed. It went amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>and then m after our first collab, we did another

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<v Speaker 1>clab and then we were like, you know what, LUTs,

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<v Speaker 1>just let's just do this. Let's make this a company,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's sell a bunch of gifts items, let's do custom beads,

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<v Speaker 1>and let's just do this. And I have just poured

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<v Speaker 1>my entire soul into this for the past two months

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<v Speaker 1>and it's only been eight weeks and this is where

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<v Speaker 1>we are. I love my bracelet. Ashley loves hers. They're

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<v Speaker 1>super nice. So I think Dean would love one because

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<v Speaker 1>they're very Dean esque, Like I feel like Dean wearing one.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to make you in kalins them. I would

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<v Speaker 1>love one. Yeah, we both would. Yeah, I gotta get

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<v Speaker 1>you guys or a up. They're like, um, like the

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<v Speaker 1>beads that I have, They're very beachy. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I may have bought beads before I went on Paradise

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<v Speaker 1>for like trying to be like that California guy, like

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much trying to be like Dean now and they

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<v Speaker 1>were like definitely express or H and M or like

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<v Speaker 1>beads that you get like right before you cash out

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<v Speaker 1>at the Red Shirt. Karine, you have no idea I

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<v Speaker 1>am that guy. Ashley married that guy. Oh oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so happy for her. Um. I have since learned, I've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten better, but but now I love them. I love

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<v Speaker 1>these things and now like I just feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go learn how to serve um. I'm I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>big the reason. Like I mean, first of all, this

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing that she posted online for you. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>happy that your business is blowing up. Um. I'm also

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<v Speaker 1>just a big Scott Dissic fan. I'm not gonna lie.

0:23:20.640 --> 0:23:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I remember I never watched reality TV before I went

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<v Speaker 1>on the Bachelor, and then I watched Jersey Shore. That

0:23:25.720 --> 0:23:27.840
<v Speaker 1>was the only show I watched. But I remember my

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<v Speaker 1>friend who signed me up for the show was obsessed

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<v Speaker 1>with kardash Hits, and I would watch a couple episodes

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<v Speaker 1>here and there whenever she had it on because we

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<v Speaker 1>were roommates. And I loved Scott Dissick because I remember

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<v Speaker 1>seeing him one time he got knighted and he became

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<v Speaker 1>Lord Dissick and he was such a jerk but super funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I like this guy, Like there's

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<v Speaker 1>something about Scott Dissac that I like. So the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that his girlfriend shouted you out, I'm not gonna lie,

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<v Speaker 1>I fan boyd for you. Wow, well thank you? Um yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>was super super exciting. I just wish he had the

0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:05.679
<v Speaker 1>bracelet on that said the Lord, but she was wearing

0:24:05.720 --> 0:24:08.280
<v Speaker 1>it and it's like man beads and huge. So I

0:24:08.359 --> 0:24:11.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, babe, like that's for him, but it's fine,

0:24:11.880 --> 0:24:14.240
<v Speaker 1>Like it's fine, you could wear. I feel like girlfriends

0:24:14.320 --> 0:24:16.440
<v Speaker 1>love doing that stuff where they steal their boyfriends, whether

0:24:16.480 --> 0:24:19.720
<v Speaker 1>it's like clothing or jewelry or something and where. Yeah,

0:24:19.760 --> 0:24:21.520
<v Speaker 1>so I think it's I think it's phil Why is

0:24:21.560 --> 0:24:24.120
<v Speaker 1>that current? Is it ownership. I think it's just hot.

0:24:24.200 --> 0:24:27.199
<v Speaker 1>I think it's like for for I don't know. I

0:24:27.240 --> 0:24:29.600
<v Speaker 1>think like, are you asking, like in a girl's opinion,

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:31.800
<v Speaker 1>why we do that? Or like yes, because like it

0:24:31.880 --> 0:24:34.080
<v Speaker 1>started off. I remember in high school it was letterman

0:24:34.160 --> 0:24:37.680
<v Speaker 1>jackets they would wear like girlfriends were their boyfriend's letterman jackets,

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:39.680
<v Speaker 1>which was three sizes too big for them, but they

0:24:39.720 --> 0:24:41.560
<v Speaker 1>loved it and they thought it was cool. And then

0:24:41.600 --> 0:24:45.560
<v Speaker 1>like that's hot. That's hot. Now what is it is it?

0:24:45.640 --> 0:24:47.960
<v Speaker 1>Is it hot because you feel hot in it? Or

0:24:48.000 --> 0:24:50.480
<v Speaker 1>is it hot because you're more attracted to your boyfriend

0:24:50.480 --> 0:24:52.800
<v Speaker 1>and you feel like my this is mom man. Like

0:24:53.080 --> 0:24:56.160
<v Speaker 1>now it's sweatshirts. Like I mean, Ashley wears my sweatshirts

0:24:56.160 --> 0:25:00.119
<v Speaker 1>all the time. Um, I feel like she just is

0:25:00.160 --> 0:25:02.040
<v Speaker 1>my clothing all the time. And I don't know why.

0:25:02.200 --> 0:25:05.399
<v Speaker 1>And I think it's a little bit of like for

0:25:05.440 --> 0:25:07.080
<v Speaker 1>some reason, it's kind of sexy and I don't know

0:25:07.119 --> 0:25:11.320
<v Speaker 1>why it's hot it's hot. I definitely don't wear my

0:25:11.320 --> 0:25:14.040
<v Speaker 1>own pajamas ever, and I have like nice lingerie and

0:25:14.040 --> 0:25:15.760
<v Speaker 1>then I just wind up going to bed and like

0:25:16.280 --> 0:25:18.320
<v Speaker 1>baggy sat pants and a T shirt. And I feel

0:25:18.359 --> 0:25:20.720
<v Speaker 1>like the hottest I've ever fell, and I like walking around.

0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:23.679
<v Speaker 1>He's like, can you not wear that when you're trying

0:25:23.720 --> 0:25:26.840
<v Speaker 1>to be hot? And I'm like, I'm hot in this,

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:31.840
<v Speaker 1>Like what are you doing? Let's say one night Vince

0:25:31.840 --> 0:25:35.120
<v Speaker 1>shows up to bed wearing some of your clothes. What's

0:25:35.119 --> 0:25:38.000
<v Speaker 1>your reaction to that. I'm just gonna pack my bag,

0:25:38.280 --> 0:25:42.119
<v Speaker 1>get in my car, and back over at that point.

0:25:44.200 --> 0:25:45.879
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know, I could see it. Calin's

0:25:45.920 --> 0:25:48.399
<v Speaker 1>got some comfortable clothes I could probably get away with wearing.

0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:53.840
<v Speaker 1>I think, do you just any of your clothes all

0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:56.600
<v Speaker 1>the time? And it's so frustrating. She steals my favorite shirts.

0:25:57.200 --> 0:26:00.399
<v Speaker 1>She's had my favorite shirt since like the first, uh

0:26:00.640 --> 0:26:03.080
<v Speaker 1>first week we started dating. She took like my absolute

0:26:03.080 --> 0:26:04.719
<v Speaker 1>favorite shirt and she still hasn't more at all time.

0:26:04.760 --> 0:26:06.119
<v Speaker 1>So I guess she's getting more out of it than

0:26:06.160 --> 0:26:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I was. But it's rustrating because I'm like, that's my

0:26:09.119 --> 0:26:11.440
<v Speaker 1>shirt and I have it and own it for reason.

0:26:11.440 --> 0:26:14.080
<v Speaker 1>It's because I like it, and here you are, you know,

0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:16.480
<v Speaker 1>monopolizing the ownership of it, and it's just it's a

0:26:16.520 --> 0:26:19.520
<v Speaker 1>little unfair. I think this is so crazy that we're

0:26:19.560 --> 0:26:23.000
<v Speaker 1>talking about this, because before I ever had even my

0:26:23.040 --> 0:26:26.640
<v Speaker 1>first podcast, um my very good friend and I were

0:26:26.680 --> 0:26:31.399
<v Speaker 1>talking about how we just have all these boy's T shirts.

0:26:31.480 --> 0:26:34.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't have anymore because I live with

0:26:34.280 --> 0:26:36.919
<v Speaker 1>Finns and I love him very much. So if you're listening,

0:26:36.960 --> 0:26:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I love you, Wins. But over the years, you collect

0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:43.800
<v Speaker 1>all these T shirts from these guys, and you just

0:26:43.880 --> 0:26:45.920
<v Speaker 1>have a collection of T shirts, And we wanted to

0:26:45.960 --> 0:26:49.240
<v Speaker 1>do a podcast like my Excess T Shirts and talk

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:51.959
<v Speaker 1>about all these different shirts that you've collected over time.

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:53.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know now that I'm talking about it sounds

0:26:53.560 --> 0:26:56.479
<v Speaker 1>so dumb, but it sounded really interesting. No, trust me,

0:26:56.520 --> 0:26:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel like Ashley could get behind this, even though

0:26:58.560 --> 0:27:01.960
<v Speaker 1>obviously we all know Ashley isn't promiscuous in her younger years,

0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:07.720
<v Speaker 1>but like she she's definitely collected uh momentum, like probably

0:27:07.720 --> 0:27:10.879
<v Speaker 1>not shirts from specific dudes, but like shirts that she

0:27:11.000 --> 0:27:14.679
<v Speaker 1>had crushes on. I don't know how she obtained these things,

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:17.199
<v Speaker 1>like she would ask a bar or sweatshirt. I know,

0:27:17.440 --> 0:27:19.679
<v Speaker 1>but I don't think she has them anymore because I

0:27:19.680 --> 0:27:22.439
<v Speaker 1>don't want to put her on blast, but like I

0:27:22.440 --> 0:27:26.840
<v Speaker 1>love you put it this way, her sister definitely does listening.

0:27:26.920 --> 0:27:31.240
<v Speaker 1>Confidence is key, so kudos to her. We talked about

0:27:31.240 --> 0:27:32.959
<v Speaker 1>this last week a little bit, Jarry, because Kylin had

0:27:33.000 --> 0:27:34.800
<v Speaker 1>her ex boyfriend's T shirt for a little bit when

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:37.200
<v Speaker 1>we first started dating, and war it to sleep sometimes

0:27:37.240 --> 0:27:38.320
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, what are you doing wearing that?

0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:40.760
<v Speaker 1>Like you shouldn't be wearing that. So it's it's like

0:27:40.880 --> 0:27:43.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of a weird thing, you know, like especially if

0:27:43.119 --> 0:27:45.280
<v Speaker 1>it's an X or something like that. I don't know,

0:27:45.440 --> 0:27:48.160
<v Speaker 1>but I agree with Karen's stake, like each shirt probably

0:27:48.200 --> 0:27:50.080
<v Speaker 1>has its own story, Like I could see that being

0:27:50.080 --> 0:27:52.720
<v Speaker 1>spun out into something interesting. It would be so interesting

0:27:52.760 --> 0:27:56.000
<v Speaker 1>as the girl, though, you can't tell your new Like

0:27:56.200 --> 0:27:59.240
<v Speaker 1>so if you're a girl dating a guy, you can't

0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:02.399
<v Speaker 1>tell the guy that these shirts are like from past

0:28:02.440 --> 0:28:04.719
<v Speaker 1>guys like Kaitlyn did with you. You need to like

0:28:04.880 --> 0:28:07.800
<v Speaker 1>just take that to the grave. It was pretty obvious

0:28:07.800 --> 0:28:09.240
<v Speaker 1>what it was was because it was a T shirt

0:28:09.240 --> 0:28:10.840
<v Speaker 1>that's an Air Force across the front of it, And

0:28:10.840 --> 0:28:12.440
<v Speaker 1>I was like, why would you ever have an Air

0:28:12.480 --> 0:28:14.320
<v Speaker 1>Force shirt? She should have just been like I went

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:18.879
<v Speaker 1>to the air show one time, right. I agree with Jared.

0:28:19.000 --> 0:28:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Some things you just you just you take with you

0:28:22.119 --> 0:28:24.040
<v Speaker 1>and you don't even look in the mirror and talk

0:28:24.119 --> 0:28:26.560
<v Speaker 1>to yourself about it in the mirror. Some things you

0:28:26.640 --> 0:28:28.840
<v Speaker 1>just take to the grade because it just like brings

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:31.840
<v Speaker 1>up a source. There's no point. There's no point exactly.

0:28:31.880 --> 0:28:34.520
<v Speaker 1>Like even the other day, ashe and I were talking,

0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:37.320
<v Speaker 1>because I was saying, how again I'm that guy. I

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:39.280
<v Speaker 1>want to go to Disney World. I haven't been a

0:28:39.320 --> 0:28:41.479
<v Speaker 1>Disney or Universal and so long I want to go,

0:28:41.960 --> 0:28:43.880
<v Speaker 1>And then she was like, well we She was like,

0:28:43.880 --> 0:28:46.480
<v Speaker 1>remember we went like a year and a half. She

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 1>was like, I remember a few years ago we went

0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:49.880
<v Speaker 1>and we went on that ride and I was like,

0:28:50.160 --> 0:28:53.280
<v Speaker 1>I never went on that ride and she was like, wait, no,

0:28:53.680 --> 0:28:55.760
<v Speaker 1>we went. We were on this ride together, I remember.

0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:57.440
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I never went on that ride.

0:28:57.440 --> 0:29:00.760
<v Speaker 1>And she was like oh because she like she went

0:29:00.880 --> 0:29:04.080
<v Speaker 1>with Kevin after Winter Games to Disneyland, and I was like, you,

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:07.840
<v Speaker 1>son of I was like, I'm just I'm gonna be fine.

0:29:07.880 --> 0:29:10.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna control myself, even though it was Disney and

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:12.920
<v Speaker 1>you were there without me with somebody else, And now

0:29:12.960 --> 0:29:14.360
<v Speaker 1>you tell me the story would be the same thing

0:29:14.360 --> 0:29:16.239
<v Speaker 1>if she if I if I saw her walking in

0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:18.080
<v Speaker 1>with a shirt and I'm like, who's what shirt is?

0:29:18.080 --> 0:29:20.640
<v Speaker 1>That and she was like, oh, you gave me this,

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, no, I didn't. And then she was like,

0:29:22.800 --> 0:29:24.959
<v Speaker 1>oh no, yeah, that other guy gave it to me.

0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:27.840
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, well that's going in the garbage right now,

0:29:29.280 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 1>oh my god. But honestly, in our defense, it doesn't

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 1>always mean something just because we're wearing it. It's uncomfortable. Yeah,

0:29:37.480 --> 0:29:39.480
<v Speaker 1>Like my ex I had a bunch of T shirts

0:29:39.520 --> 0:29:43.880
<v Speaker 1>from his company, um and then John, my ex, was like,

0:29:43.880 --> 0:29:46.479
<v Speaker 1>why are you wearing Jordan's T shirts from Humble And

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, I like Humble pens and then he

0:29:50.560 --> 0:29:52.320
<v Speaker 1>made me throw them out and I'm like, honestly, like

0:29:52.840 --> 0:29:54.760
<v Speaker 1>you're weird, Like I don't even think anything of it,

0:29:54.840 --> 0:29:57.240
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm with you, but I get it. I get it. Yeah,

0:29:57.480 --> 0:30:00.480
<v Speaker 1>imagine if the shoe is on the other foot. Yeah,

0:30:00.720 --> 0:30:05.240
<v Speaker 1>you would burn everything his ex girlfriend ever owned. You'd

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:08.120
<v Speaker 1>put it in the pile, you'd pour gasoline on it,

0:30:08.360 --> 0:30:11.959
<v Speaker 1>and you'd like that mother up. Yeah, I'd probably just

0:30:12.000 --> 0:30:16.960
<v Speaker 1>like throw it off the face of theater. I've definitely

0:30:17.000 --> 0:30:19.200
<v Speaker 1>done the Ashley thing before, where I started sharing a

0:30:19.280 --> 0:30:21.080
<v Speaker 1>story of like being like remember when we did this,

0:30:21.160 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 1>and then like half of the other story like that

0:30:22.960 --> 0:30:25.400
<v Speaker 1>wasn't with her, it was with someone else, and then

0:30:25.560 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 1>like you like you have to like trail off and

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:29.160
<v Speaker 1>like try to cover your track somehow. You know, I've

0:30:29.160 --> 0:30:33.600
<v Speaker 1>definitely I've definitely done that before. Oh God, good times,

0:30:33.600 --> 0:30:37.080
<v Speaker 1>good times. Well current. As you know, we are a

0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:39.400
<v Speaker 1>dating podcast. I wanted to ask you because you are

0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 1>a beater as you say, Um, I wanted to ask

0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:48.120
<v Speaker 1>you about, uh, like making jewelry for significant others. Now,

0:30:48.240 --> 0:30:51.080
<v Speaker 1>it's not as permanent as a tattoo. I remember when

0:30:51.320 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 1>like we talked about who wasn't Lace and Grant on

0:30:54.080 --> 0:30:56.479
<v Speaker 1>Bachelor in Paradise got a tattoo together and then of

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:58.080
<v Speaker 1>course they ended up breaking up and how to get

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:00.640
<v Speaker 1>the tattoo remoofs. So it's not as permanent that. But

0:31:00.720 --> 0:31:06.120
<v Speaker 1>what do you think about jewelry that's symbolic for you know, uh,

0:31:06.280 --> 0:31:08.680
<v Speaker 1>significant others, Like you know, I know some people have

0:31:08.800 --> 0:31:11.760
<v Speaker 1>puzzle pieces and like one person has a puzzle piece

0:31:11.760 --> 0:31:13.320
<v Speaker 1>and the other person has a puzzle piece and it

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:15.080
<v Speaker 1>like goes together. What are your thoughts on that? Is

0:31:15.120 --> 0:31:19.480
<v Speaker 1>it cringe? E cute? I'm a huge fan of custom

0:31:19.520 --> 0:31:25.960
<v Speaker 1>and personalization stuff. I've i have been doing it honestly,

0:31:26.440 --> 0:31:29.160
<v Speaker 1>for such a long time, even like boyfriends in high school.

0:31:29.560 --> 0:31:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I had the puzzle piece with a boyfriend in high school.

0:31:32.600 --> 0:31:35.240
<v Speaker 1>So the next boyfriend I got something customized, didn't do

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:37.240
<v Speaker 1>a puzzle piece. I did like a broken little heart,

0:31:37.400 --> 0:31:39.320
<v Speaker 1>little heart I went together. So and then the next

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:43.400
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend I didn't do that. So honestly, it's a It's

0:31:43.400 --> 0:31:46.400
<v Speaker 1>a thing that I love to do personally. Is it

0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:49.120
<v Speaker 1>weird when you break up? Absolutely, because you feel weird

0:31:49.200 --> 0:31:51.320
<v Speaker 1>using that, like that same thing that was like cute

0:31:51.360 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 1>with your other whatever. Mhm. But I think that that

0:31:57.000 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff is super special. I think it makes

0:31:59.040 --> 0:32:02.760
<v Speaker 1>a great gift. I think it shows like a lot

0:32:02.800 --> 0:32:09.560
<v Speaker 1>of like, um, sentimental value. Do you guys agree? You now,

0:32:09.800 --> 0:32:12.880
<v Speaker 1>what do you think? I absolutely agree? I um. I

0:32:13.080 --> 0:32:14.560
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a good idea as long as like,

0:32:14.560 --> 0:32:16.480
<v Speaker 1>if let's say you start getting someone else later on,

0:32:16.520 --> 0:32:18.400
<v Speaker 1>as long as you're like reusing the same ideas over

0:32:18.440 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 1>and over again, you know what I mean? No, no, no, no, no,

0:32:21.000 --> 0:32:23.360
<v Speaker 1>You've got to be creative. Come on, come on now,

0:32:23.480 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 1>got to be creative otherwise it gets Stale's funny because

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:28.080
<v Speaker 1>I have one of my friends was saying something like uh,

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 1>recently to where he was like kind of put on

0:32:30.960 --> 0:32:33.360
<v Speaker 1>blast from an X about something that he did for

0:32:33.440 --> 0:32:35.520
<v Speaker 1>her that he also did for like a couple of

0:32:35.560 --> 0:32:38.600
<v Speaker 1>other ex girlfriends and something. Then it was just a

0:32:39.120 --> 0:32:41.040
<v Speaker 1>big deal. I don't know, all right, I'm going to

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:44.800
<v Speaker 1>defend that for a second because as a person who

0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:49.720
<v Speaker 1>may or may not have repeated some tricks Y passed

0:32:49.760 --> 0:32:54.560
<v Speaker 1>in present relationship. Listen, I'm only so creative. I'm only

0:32:54.600 --> 0:32:57.320
<v Speaker 1>one man. I only have so many tricks up my sleeve.

0:32:57.400 --> 0:33:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying I don't mean gifts. I mean like

0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:07.160
<v Speaker 1>like dates or because I remember, I forget exactly what

0:33:07.200 --> 0:33:09.360
<v Speaker 1>it was, but I wanted to go on this date

0:33:09.400 --> 0:33:11.320
<v Speaker 1>with Ash and I was like, oh, I already did

0:33:11.360 --> 0:33:14.240
<v Speaker 1>this one time with somebody else, but like, well, what

0:33:14.280 --> 0:33:16.719
<v Speaker 1>was it? What was it? I forget? Honestly, it was

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:19.040
<v Speaker 1>something because dates are bound to happen, like they're going

0:33:19.120 --> 0:33:20.720
<v Speaker 1>to go on some of the same dates. I mean,

0:33:20.720 --> 0:33:25.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about gifting. Well, yeah, I don't want to

0:33:25.040 --> 0:33:31.240
<v Speaker 1>like put myself on blast here, but the no, no, no, no, no,

0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to. I don't I don't want to die. Um,

0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:38.600
<v Speaker 1>there may have been something that like it's not identical.

0:33:38.720 --> 0:33:40.960
<v Speaker 1>It's not the exact same gift or the same kind

0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:45.640
<v Speaker 1>of gift, but like certain themes may have been familiar

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:49.880
<v Speaker 1>between one gift for someone and another gift for someone else. Okay,

0:33:49.920 --> 0:33:51.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna I'm just gonna stop you right there.

0:33:51.720 --> 0:33:54.000
<v Speaker 1>Let's just stop talking about this because as soon as

0:33:54.000 --> 0:33:56.960
<v Speaker 1>this is over, actually makes so what gift? What gift was? No,

0:33:57.360 --> 0:34:02.600
<v Speaker 1>and it's going to be so obvious. Uh um. So, Karin,

0:34:02.640 --> 0:34:06.600
<v Speaker 1>I also wanted to ask you because Amelia did shout

0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:09.239
<v Speaker 1>you out on Instagram, which is awesome. Now it's there

0:34:09.239 --> 0:34:11.719
<v Speaker 1>in the news a lot because there's a pretty significant

0:34:11.760 --> 0:34:15.000
<v Speaker 1>age difference. So Scott Distik is thirty seven, Amelia is nineteen.

0:34:15.560 --> 0:34:18.399
<v Speaker 1>What are your thoughts on an eighteen year age gap

0:34:18.440 --> 0:34:21.279
<v Speaker 1>between people? What's the oldest you would have ever did? Like,

0:34:21.320 --> 0:34:22.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how old Vince is, but you guys

0:34:23.080 --> 0:34:26.440
<v Speaker 1>seem pretty similar in age. But do you think that

0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:29.279
<v Speaker 1>eighteen years is too much too old for someone too

0:34:29.320 --> 0:34:32.839
<v Speaker 1>young for someone? Well? I love Amelia, I really do,

0:34:33.400 --> 0:34:39.200
<v Speaker 1>and I listen if you're I mean, no one knows

0:34:39.600 --> 0:34:43.840
<v Speaker 1>the exact relationships behind closed doors. My personal opinion for

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:48.239
<v Speaker 1>me or if like my sister was dating like, hell

0:34:48.320 --> 0:34:51.319
<v Speaker 1>is my sister and my sister swunny, right, So if

0:34:51.360 --> 0:34:54.640
<v Speaker 1>she was dating like some like forty year old guy,

0:34:54.680 --> 0:34:59.480
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, like, what are you doing? And I

0:34:59.560 --> 0:35:04.120
<v Speaker 1>also think it's different if you're under twenty one. If

0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:06.239
<v Speaker 1>you're over twenty one and you're dating someone with a

0:35:06.280 --> 0:35:08.600
<v Speaker 1>twenty year difference and you can still have a drink together,

0:35:08.719 --> 0:35:12.239
<v Speaker 1>I think that that's fine. I mean, I'm not saying that.

0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:14.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that their relationship is fine. I don't

0:35:15.040 --> 0:35:17.480
<v Speaker 1>know how they are. They could just be like literal

0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:21.000
<v Speaker 1>soul mate and like, I'm so happy for them. But

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:24.399
<v Speaker 1>do I think that you should be dating someone that

0:35:24.440 --> 0:35:29.719
<v Speaker 1>you can have an alcoholic beverage with. It's legal, it's

0:35:29.719 --> 0:35:37.960
<v Speaker 1>probably important. Probably yeah, probably no, And I mean I

0:35:38.360 --> 0:35:41.000
<v Speaker 1>think it's all I think again, like Karen said, it

0:35:41.000 --> 0:35:43.720
<v Speaker 1>all depends if your values line up, you know, because

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:48.799
<v Speaker 1>it is hard. Uh. I know someone who's a little

0:35:48.800 --> 0:35:50.960
<v Speaker 1>bit older who's dating someone who's a little bit younger,

0:35:50.960 --> 0:35:55.120
<v Speaker 1>and they're they're super in love and they're so happy,

0:35:55.640 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 1>but there is like a concern as a friend saying, Okay, well,

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:02.439
<v Speaker 1>you're you're ready for family, you're ready to have kids,

0:36:02.560 --> 0:36:07.160
<v Speaker 1>like today, are they you know, are they ready because

0:36:07.200 --> 0:36:09.239
<v Speaker 1>they're a little bit younger, or you know, are they

0:36:09.239 --> 0:36:11.200
<v Speaker 1>ready to settle down and get married and have kids

0:36:11.200 --> 0:36:14.799
<v Speaker 1>within the next two years. I don't think Amelia is,

0:36:15.160 --> 0:36:19.120
<v Speaker 1>so that's why. I mean, then he already has kids,

0:36:19.000 --> 0:36:21.360
<v Speaker 1>has kids, so it's like maybe he's not even in

0:36:21.360 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 1>a rush to do that with her either, exactly. I

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:26.480
<v Speaker 1>think it all depends on the individual situation, because honestly,

0:36:26.520 --> 0:36:30.720
<v Speaker 1>I've seen people who are very happily married or happily

0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:33.479
<v Speaker 1>together that are in their late thirties early forties dating

0:36:33.520 --> 0:36:36.360
<v Speaker 1>someone who's a late teenager or early twenties, like on

0:36:36.400 --> 0:36:39.240
<v Speaker 1>the outset, on the you know, outside of thirty feet.

0:36:39.680 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>As I look down upon it, I'm like, uh, that's

0:36:42.120 --> 0:36:46.680
<v Speaker 1>a big age difference. I don't know. But if you're happy, Um, Like,

0:36:46.800 --> 0:36:49.080
<v Speaker 1>who am I to say? I think it all depends

0:36:49.520 --> 0:36:51.719
<v Speaker 1>as long as your values line up and you guys

0:36:51.719 --> 0:36:55.200
<v Speaker 1>are on the same page, that's probably the most important thing.

0:36:55.560 --> 0:36:57.520
<v Speaker 1>It's a similar situation with Nick and his girlfriend, because

0:36:57.600 --> 0:37:00.759
<v Speaker 1>Nick's what forty and his girlfriends like twenty to twenty three.

0:37:00.800 --> 0:37:02.960
<v Speaker 1>But to Karin's point, at least Nick and his girlfriend

0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:05.480
<v Speaker 1>can go get a drink together, which I think is

0:37:05.760 --> 0:37:11.279
<v Speaker 1>um maybe a little bit more right. But that being

0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:14.440
<v Speaker 1>said too, I think I finally got to meet Natalie

0:37:14.480 --> 0:37:16.120
<v Speaker 1>for the first time the other day, and I think

0:37:16.160 --> 0:37:18.480
<v Speaker 1>that she is great for Nick and vice versa. So

0:37:18.760 --> 0:37:20.320
<v Speaker 1>I do think it is a case by case basis

0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:22.840
<v Speaker 1>most definitely. But on the on the surface when you

0:37:22.840 --> 0:37:25.520
<v Speaker 1>look at it, it's a little maybe like strange until

0:37:25.560 --> 0:37:27.480
<v Speaker 1>you actually kind of get down and get to hang

0:37:27.520 --> 0:37:31.640
<v Speaker 1>out with them. But I don't know. Deet and I

0:37:31.680 --> 0:37:35.399
<v Speaker 1>talked about this in the podcast. I I was never

0:37:35.400 --> 0:37:39.680
<v Speaker 1>opposed to dating older women. Sure you know it's funny.

0:37:39.800 --> 0:37:42.680
<v Speaker 1>Vince is a few months younger than me, and I

0:37:42.840 --> 0:37:46.000
<v Speaker 1>like literally said my whole life, I would never ever,

0:37:46.040 --> 0:37:49.160
<v Speaker 1>ever ever date someone younger than me, you know, as

0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:51.360
<v Speaker 1>like the woman, I feel like the man should be older.

0:37:51.400 --> 0:37:53.479
<v Speaker 1>But like now that I'm with like, of course, because

0:37:53.520 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 1>I was against it my whole life, I ended up

0:37:55.120 --> 0:37:58.000
<v Speaker 1>with someone that's a little bit younger than me. Um,

0:37:58.040 --> 0:38:00.239
<v Speaker 1>just by a few months. I mean, nothing free, easy,

0:38:00.280 --> 0:38:02.960
<v Speaker 1>but like it's just so muture. As you met him,

0:38:02.960 --> 0:38:09.160
<v Speaker 1>like you wouldn't know that he was he's twenty eight. Yeah, damn.

0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:15.879
<v Speaker 1>He definitely comes off like yeah, yeah, And I say

0:38:15.920 --> 0:38:19.400
<v Speaker 1>that the most endearing way possible, Like he definitely doesn't

0:38:19.640 --> 0:38:24.200
<v Speaker 1>really he he really just like has his together, Like

0:38:24.320 --> 0:38:28.840
<v Speaker 1>he is a guy that has it together and he's together.

0:38:31.440 --> 0:38:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I am obsessed. Wait, I wanted to

0:38:34.200 --> 0:38:37.919
<v Speaker 1>stircle back really quick to about Scott. I think one

0:38:37.920 --> 0:38:40.239
<v Speaker 1>of the main things also about Scott is that he's

0:38:40.320 --> 0:38:43.360
<v Speaker 1>like not a normal forty year old or however old

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:46.799
<v Speaker 1>he is. He's a cool guy. That's like in the

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:50.319
<v Speaker 1>teeny bopper culture where these girls like he's like still

0:38:50.400 --> 0:38:52.880
<v Speaker 1>hanging out and doing clubs and like being cool and

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 1>being like whatever. You know what I mean. He's not

0:38:54.640 --> 0:38:57.319
<v Speaker 1>just like a regular forty year old guy. And I

0:38:57.360 --> 0:39:00.800
<v Speaker 1>think that that helps to Oh, I totally agree, like Scott,

0:39:00.880 --> 0:39:03.560
<v Speaker 1>this is an anomaly because it's not like he's working,

0:39:03.600 --> 0:39:09.560
<v Speaker 1>like it's like he's got a very obscure life, a

0:39:09.640 --> 0:39:14.160
<v Speaker 1>great life. Um, but I totally agree. Um. All right,

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:15.799
<v Speaker 1>well we do have to take a quick break, but

0:39:15.840 --> 0:39:18.720
<v Speaker 1>when we come back, UM, we are going to touch

0:39:18.840 --> 0:39:22.000
<v Speaker 1>on the reality Steve situation that has been brought to

0:39:22.120 --> 0:39:24.480
<v Speaker 1>light over the past few days. We do have some

0:39:24.560 --> 0:39:27.200
<v Speaker 1>of your wonderful emails of course that is Dean's favorite

0:39:27.200 --> 0:39:29.560
<v Speaker 1>part of the show. So stay tuned and we're gonna

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:41.839
<v Speaker 1>be right back right after they all. Right, welcome back

0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:45.920
<v Speaker 1>to help by suck At Dating. You got the trio, Karin,

0:39:46.040 --> 0:39:49.239
<v Speaker 1>Dean myself. We have your wonderful emails. But before we

0:39:49.280 --> 0:39:51.680
<v Speaker 1>get into your emails, I do think we have to

0:39:51.719 --> 0:39:57.200
<v Speaker 1>at least mention the situation going on Reality Steve right now. Uh,

0:39:57.239 --> 0:40:02.120
<v Speaker 1>there was some screenshots of old um things that he

0:40:02.160 --> 0:40:07.759
<v Speaker 1>said in his blogs, specifically about jade Um, and now

0:40:07.880 --> 0:40:11.239
<v Speaker 1>Demi has come out and just accused him of making

0:40:11.320 --> 0:40:15.319
<v Speaker 1>unwanted sexual advances towards him. I don't know. I mean,

0:40:15.400 --> 0:40:19.480
<v Speaker 1>listen my thoughts. I don't know Reality Steve. I almost

0:40:19.480 --> 0:40:23.520
<v Speaker 1>went on his podcast years ago. I ended up not um.

0:40:23.560 --> 0:40:27.240
<v Speaker 1>I never really had an issue with him until because

0:40:27.640 --> 0:40:30.120
<v Speaker 1>I didn't read you know, I listened to him occasionally

0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:32.719
<v Speaker 1>about spoilers and things of that nature because I found

0:40:32.760 --> 0:40:35.720
<v Speaker 1>it interesting because he was talking about you know, things,

0:40:35.960 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, people that I knew UM. But you know,

0:40:40.640 --> 0:40:43.520
<v Speaker 1>after the whole Jordan and Jenna situation, if you guys

0:40:43.560 --> 0:40:46.720
<v Speaker 1>remember that where he got some false information that always

0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:49.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of left a bad taste in my mouth. And

0:40:49.080 --> 0:40:53.520
<v Speaker 1>then Actually I only found out about the things that

0:40:53.560 --> 0:40:57.640
<v Speaker 1>he said about Jade a few months ago. Uh. We

0:40:57.640 --> 0:40:59.719
<v Speaker 1>were hanging out with Jade and Tanner and I don't

0:40:59.719 --> 0:41:02.359
<v Speaker 1>know how it came up, but she brought it up,

0:41:02.400 --> 0:41:04.920
<v Speaker 1>and then she showed us what he had said about

0:41:04.960 --> 0:41:06.640
<v Speaker 1>her back in two thousand and fifteen when she was

0:41:06.680 --> 0:41:10.799
<v Speaker 1>on the Bachelor, and it was just trash, Like it

0:41:10.880 --> 0:41:13.360
<v Speaker 1>was just trash to say back then. It was it

0:41:13.360 --> 0:41:17.200
<v Speaker 1>would be trashed to say now. Um, And so ever

0:41:17.320 --> 0:41:19.560
<v Speaker 1>since then, I just I don't have an opinion towards him.

0:41:20.000 --> 0:41:23.880
<v Speaker 1>I could care less and U those are those are

0:41:23.920 --> 0:41:26.760
<v Speaker 1>my thoughts. Like, obviously Jade is a very close personal

0:41:26.800 --> 0:41:29.560
<v Speaker 1>friend of mine, you know. So Ever since then, I

0:41:29.640 --> 0:41:31.719
<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, well, I I don't really want

0:41:31.719 --> 0:41:34.520
<v Speaker 1>to listen to this dude anymore. That's so weird. Yeah,

0:41:34.640 --> 0:41:37.600
<v Speaker 1>Jylan mentioned something about the about Demi talking about it,

0:41:37.640 --> 0:41:41.879
<v Speaker 1>and we were both kind of like, what the heck? Um? Yeah,

0:41:41.920 --> 0:41:44.759
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I agree, it's funny because he has talked

0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:46.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot of crap about like all of us. So

0:41:46.760 --> 0:41:49.160
<v Speaker 1>it's like, I don't know, but just weird to think

0:41:49.239 --> 0:41:52.200
<v Speaker 1>that he would then overstep the boundary of like saying

0:41:52.239 --> 0:41:54.399
<v Speaker 1>that to someone that he hasn't been saying it too.

0:41:54.480 --> 0:41:57.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's your what's your experience been with him,

0:41:57.040 --> 0:41:59.960
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like he's been He's just like generally

0:42:00.000 --> 0:42:01.480
<v Speaker 1>has been a jerk to all of us, right, So

0:42:01.560 --> 0:42:03.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like not many people, I feel like with a

0:42:03.600 --> 0:42:07.120
<v Speaker 1>bachelor would say nice things about him. I I can't

0:42:07.160 --> 0:42:12.720
<v Speaker 1>imagine him saying anything nice about me, especially after Paradise

0:42:12.800 --> 0:42:15.560
<v Speaker 1>or anything. So honestly, I just didn't. I don't really

0:42:15.560 --> 0:42:18.759
<v Speaker 1>pay attention to him. There's no way that someone can

0:42:18.920 --> 0:42:22.719
<v Speaker 1>know everything and be right all the time. You just

0:42:23.160 --> 0:42:26.520
<v Speaker 1>you just can't. So I just I just don't. I

0:42:26.560 --> 0:42:29.719
<v Speaker 1>just don't understand the reality Steve thing. Like, I just

0:42:29.800 --> 0:42:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I just don't like him. I never did, so I

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:34.960
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I don't know. I honestly don't even know

0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:39.759
<v Speaker 1>what you're talking about. Guys, we probably should have filled

0:42:39.760 --> 0:42:41.839
<v Speaker 1>you and I'm so sorry. Uh, there was just some

0:42:42.080 --> 0:42:45.920
<v Speaker 1>screenshots that came to light, uh, things that he wrote. Now,

0:42:45.920 --> 0:42:47.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it was more. I haven't looked

0:42:48.000 --> 0:42:50.480
<v Speaker 1>too much into the story, but I know the things

0:42:50.480 --> 0:42:53.680
<v Speaker 1>that he said about Jade came to light that terrible.

0:42:53.840 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 1>It was just terrible, like even it was. It was

0:42:56.760 --> 0:43:04.280
<v Speaker 1>just distasteful, gross jokes that um you know now, especially

0:43:04.280 --> 0:43:06.560
<v Speaker 1>being so close to Jade, like hearing her talk about

0:43:06.600 --> 0:43:09.640
<v Speaker 1>it and how like sad comments like that made her.

0:43:10.600 --> 0:43:12.960
<v Speaker 1>It's like, yeah, dude, just get out of here. So

0:43:13.360 --> 0:43:17.040
<v Speaker 1>that's my thoughts. How did it get resurfaced so so

0:43:17.120 --> 0:43:20.640
<v Speaker 1>much later? Do you know? Truthfully? I have zero idea.

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:23.719
<v Speaker 1>We live in a world where canceling is a thing.

0:43:23.920 --> 0:43:27.680
<v Speaker 1>People are just looking for anything from anyone to cancel anyone.

0:43:27.880 --> 0:43:32.320
<v Speaker 1>So it's just I mean, everything's going to get resurfed, resurfing.

0:43:32.960 --> 0:43:35.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean human beings. Like listen, we all make mistakes,

0:43:35.160 --> 0:43:38.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, we all say stupid stuff, but you know,

0:43:39.080 --> 0:43:42.160
<v Speaker 1>to make it public, Like there's things you don't say publicly. Yeah,

0:43:42.480 --> 0:43:46.240
<v Speaker 1>like like Taylor Nolan, you shouldn't have sent those things publicly,

0:43:46.600 --> 0:43:49.000
<v Speaker 1>Like if you're in the spotlight, you don't say things

0:43:49.080 --> 0:43:52.640
<v Speaker 1>publicly like ever, or if you did, maybe go back

0:43:52.680 --> 0:43:55.080
<v Speaker 1>and delete them if they weren't in the spotlight and

0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:58.200
<v Speaker 1>then you are now, maybe go back and delete things

0:43:58.280 --> 0:44:00.120
<v Speaker 1>that you said that were inappropriate that you don't want

0:44:00.160 --> 0:44:04.360
<v Speaker 1>people to find. Well. I remember my very first experience

0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:06.839
<v Speaker 1>the reality Steve because I had no idea who he

0:44:06.920 --> 0:44:10.360
<v Speaker 1>was up until he started writing about our season, the

0:44:10.440 --> 0:44:12.480
<v Speaker 1>very first season, and I just remember I was so

0:44:12.560 --> 0:44:17.759
<v Speaker 1>pissed because he decided to talk like he was like

0:44:17.800 --> 0:44:20.319
<v Speaker 1>talking about my facial hair, like my because I can't

0:44:20.320 --> 0:44:22.440
<v Speaker 1>really grow very u good facial hair. Um, Jared, you

0:44:22.440 --> 0:44:24.280
<v Speaker 1>can test this, but even though you can go like

0:44:24.560 --> 0:44:26.680
<v Speaker 1>a beerd than I can I get like this. I've

0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:30.319
<v Speaker 1>got like this pre pubescent, like patchy and just like

0:44:30.480 --> 0:44:33.200
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't look good growing facial hair. And I like

0:44:33.239 --> 0:44:35.400
<v Speaker 1>hadn't shaved like four or five days before going on

0:44:35.400 --> 0:44:38.480
<v Speaker 1>my first one on one with Rachel and uh in

0:44:38.520 --> 0:44:40.759
<v Speaker 1>the episode where I was like talking about grieving the

0:44:40.800 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 1>loss of my mom, he was like just talking. Oh

0:44:42.760 --> 0:44:44.600
<v Speaker 1>the only thing he talked about about me was talking

0:44:44.719 --> 0:44:46.719
<v Speaker 1>about my facial hair. And I was like, what the dude,

0:44:46.760 --> 0:44:48.799
<v Speaker 1>Like sorry for my language, I was like, who does this? Like,

0:44:48.800 --> 0:44:51.520
<v Speaker 1>why of all the things to focus on on this episode,

0:44:51.800 --> 0:44:53.400
<v Speaker 1>you talk crap about my facial hair. I was like,

0:44:53.440 --> 0:44:55.239
<v Speaker 1>You're the worst. And then ever since then, I've been like,

0:44:55.320 --> 0:44:57.480
<v Speaker 1>this guy is the absolute worst. But he has actually

0:44:57.560 --> 0:45:01.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of gotten in between relationships too, Like when Christine

0:45:01.040 --> 0:45:03.319
<v Speaker 1>and I were you know, kind of figuring things out.

0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:07.320
<v Speaker 1>I remember he was like threatening her with certain things,

0:45:07.600 --> 0:45:09.200
<v Speaker 1>and I guess would be threatening it is not the

0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:11.840
<v Speaker 1>right word because that makes it sound way more severe

0:45:11.840 --> 0:45:13.799
<v Speaker 1>than it was. But he was like he's like, I'm

0:45:13.800 --> 0:45:15.640
<v Speaker 1>going to share this information blah blah blah, and then

0:45:15.680 --> 0:45:17.400
<v Speaker 1>like it put that like a weird strain on a

0:45:17.520 --> 0:45:20.360
<v Speaker 1>on a relationship that hadn't really fully formed yet, and

0:45:20.400 --> 0:45:24.840
<v Speaker 1>so it was just it was just unneeded and unnecessary. So, um,

0:45:24.880 --> 0:45:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I've never been a big fan of him. Yeah,

0:45:27.080 --> 0:45:29.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's just the press in general. Well, I

0:45:29.760 --> 0:45:32.319
<v Speaker 1>mean things are like there's always like people that are

0:45:32.320 --> 0:45:33.880
<v Speaker 1>going to say nonic things, and there's always people that

0:45:33.920 --> 0:45:37.040
<v Speaker 1>are just going to say disgusting things like Instagram every

0:45:37.080 --> 0:45:40.239
<v Speaker 1>day totally. Just let's go through our Twitter feeds. We'll

0:45:40.280 --> 0:45:42.759
<v Speaker 1>find some good and bad in there. Um. So we

0:45:42.800 --> 0:45:46.640
<v Speaker 1>do have some of your wonderful emails before we get going. Uh, Mark,

0:45:46.800 --> 0:45:50.040
<v Speaker 1>if you're still there and would like to read some

0:45:50.080 --> 0:45:53.960
<v Speaker 1>of these emails, we would love to hear your wonderful voice. Well,

0:45:54.000 --> 0:45:55.839
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much, and I'm happy to read them

0:45:55.880 --> 0:45:58.520
<v Speaker 1>and appreciate you including me. This is so Catherine, and

0:45:58.560 --> 0:46:03.279
<v Speaker 1>it's for Dean. That was Calin's parents initial reaction to you?

0:46:03.840 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 1>What did they think of you when you met them

0:46:05.640 --> 0:46:07.839
<v Speaker 1>for the first time since you lived in a van,

0:46:08.280 --> 0:46:10.960
<v Speaker 1>claimed to be unemployed, and we're known as a playboy

0:46:11.040 --> 0:46:15.560
<v Speaker 1>before Calin? Oh, what were the what were her parents

0:46:15.719 --> 0:46:18.360
<v Speaker 1>thoughts of me? Oh, that's a good question. It's funny

0:46:18.360 --> 0:46:20.680
<v Speaker 1>because you would expect them to be really negative and

0:46:20.719 --> 0:46:23.839
<v Speaker 1>probably pretty mean. Um, but I've never really had too

0:46:23.920 --> 0:46:26.279
<v Speaker 1>hard of a time getting along with parents. I don't

0:46:26.280 --> 0:46:29.200
<v Speaker 1>know why. I think generally speaking, most parents are going

0:46:29.239 --> 0:46:32.279
<v Speaker 1>to be pretty nice and easy going, and uh, they

0:46:32.320 --> 0:46:34.959
<v Speaker 1>might have their opinions of you before you meet them.

0:46:35.480 --> 0:46:38.120
<v Speaker 1>But in my experience, at least, when I met Calin's parents,

0:46:38.120 --> 0:46:41.200
<v Speaker 1>they were super nice, super cordial. Her dad, uh, well,

0:46:41.200 --> 0:46:46.040
<v Speaker 1>her stepfather, I guess it was incredibly nice. Um. He

0:46:46.120 --> 0:46:48.200
<v Speaker 1>basically like the remember the first time we met for

0:46:48.239 --> 0:46:50.640
<v Speaker 1>over Thanksgiving, he just like pulled me aside and he's like,

0:46:50.680 --> 0:46:52.080
<v Speaker 1>just make sure you take care of her, like you know,

0:46:52.080 --> 0:46:57.880
<v Speaker 1>the traditional like dad too, daughter's boyfriend talk, And I

0:46:57.920 --> 0:46:59.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, okay, I can, Like I'm obviously gonn

0:47:00.040 --> 0:47:02.480
<v Speaker 1>try to do my best with all those things. Um.

0:47:02.520 --> 0:47:05.240
<v Speaker 1>And so they were all perfectly fine and very pleasant.

0:47:05.280 --> 0:47:07.240
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it's it's funny always going into those conversations

0:47:07.239 --> 0:47:09.839
<v Speaker 1>because I'm always like, yeah, like you know, I'm unemployed,

0:47:09.920 --> 0:47:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I live in a van blah blah blah. Like if

0:47:13.080 --> 0:47:15.920
<v Speaker 1>I was a parent and I heard, uh, my daughter

0:47:16.000 --> 0:47:17.440
<v Speaker 1>dating a guy like that, I'd be like, what the

0:47:17.440 --> 0:47:20.680
<v Speaker 1>heck are you doing? Like why are you dating this guy? Um?

0:47:20.719 --> 0:47:23.040
<v Speaker 1>But I've never really had any issues with that. I

0:47:23.040 --> 0:47:24.879
<v Speaker 1>don't know, why have you either of you ever had

0:47:25.080 --> 0:47:28.200
<v Speaker 1>an issue where you met someone's parents and they didn't

0:47:28.239 --> 0:47:35.399
<v Speaker 1>like you or something. Honestly, No, yeah, everyone loved me.

0:47:36.280 --> 0:47:42.280
<v Speaker 1>And I'm being actually seriously, did Vince Sue, did Vince's

0:47:42.360 --> 0:47:45.840
<v Speaker 1>family have any hesitations just because of your reputation on

0:47:45.880 --> 0:47:52.640
<v Speaker 1>the show. They're definitely were hesitations there, But I have

0:47:52.719 --> 0:47:56.120
<v Speaker 1>a very good relationship with them now, and I think

0:47:56.160 --> 0:48:00.520
<v Speaker 1>it took a little bit of time, um for us

0:48:00.520 --> 0:48:04.279
<v Speaker 1>to get to where we are now. Um, but it

0:48:04.400 --> 0:48:09.040
<v Speaker 1>was definitely a thing with me being on the show

0:48:09.120 --> 0:48:12.320
<v Speaker 1>and like things I said on the show, and then um,

0:48:12.440 --> 0:48:15.120
<v Speaker 1>how quickly me and Vince moved when we first met,

0:48:15.680 --> 0:48:19.280
<v Speaker 1>and then especially like when they played Vince this season

0:48:19.320 --> 0:48:21.040
<v Speaker 1>again and I had I had a party at my

0:48:21.080 --> 0:48:23.640
<v Speaker 1>house and I invited them and we all watched it

0:48:23.719 --> 0:48:26.000
<v Speaker 1>together and then I'm like taking my top off on

0:48:26.040 --> 0:48:30.719
<v Speaker 1>the TV, like and I have a platinum vagina and

0:48:30.880 --> 0:48:37.279
<v Speaker 1>like just like it was really uncomfortable. No, I mean

0:48:37.320 --> 0:48:41.879
<v Speaker 1>even for for me personally, it's uh yeah, I think

0:48:41.880 --> 0:48:44.400
<v Speaker 1>coming after coming off after the show. I mean it

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:47.320
<v Speaker 1>was just it was questions of like, oh, the dude

0:48:47.360 --> 0:48:51.640
<v Speaker 1>from Bachelor, Um, I think that always raises eyebrows. And

0:48:51.680 --> 0:48:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure Dean can attest to that where it's like, oh,

0:48:53.760 --> 0:48:56.520
<v Speaker 1>you're kind of seeing a guy that was on reality

0:48:56.560 --> 0:49:01.480
<v Speaker 1>TV show. He sounds like a dick just for that facet.

0:49:01.560 --> 0:49:04.640
<v Speaker 1>So um, well, well, Mark, you can speak to this

0:49:04.680 --> 0:49:07.640
<v Speaker 1>because you are a father of two girls. Right, So

0:49:07.719 --> 0:49:09.919
<v Speaker 1>let's say and they're but I don't think they're dating

0:49:09.920 --> 0:49:13.279
<v Speaker 1>age quite yet. But let's say you know, you meet

0:49:13.320 --> 0:49:15.719
<v Speaker 1>a boy that they start dating and you just despise

0:49:15.800 --> 0:49:18.680
<v Speaker 1>the kid. What do you do? We haven't reached that yet.

0:49:18.680 --> 0:49:20.839
<v Speaker 1>My daughters fifteen. She does have a boyfriend and he's

0:49:20.880 --> 0:49:23.240
<v Speaker 1>a very very nice kid and we're all very happy

0:49:23.280 --> 0:49:25.480
<v Speaker 1>with him. So hopefully that good taste she has will

0:49:25.520 --> 0:49:28.719
<v Speaker 1>continue moving forward. UM, I was gonna point out that

0:49:28.719 --> 0:49:30.640
<v Speaker 1>when I started dating my wife, I was twenty six

0:49:30.719 --> 0:49:33.560
<v Speaker 1>and she was eighteen, so there was some danger with

0:49:33.640 --> 0:49:36.200
<v Speaker 1>the parents there, but they were great. Everything went fine.

0:49:36.320 --> 0:49:41.400
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, but that was that was back when nineteen thirties. Yeah,

0:49:40.880 --> 0:49:43.560
<v Speaker 1>that's yes, we had They had just gotten through the depression,

0:49:43.719 --> 0:49:46.799
<v Speaker 1>and so that was a bigger concern for them. Um,

0:49:48.920 --> 0:49:50.880
<v Speaker 1>but only way. I don't know. Well, we'll see what happens.

0:49:50.920 --> 0:49:52.399
<v Speaker 1>You just want your kid to be happy. I mean,

0:49:52.440 --> 0:49:54.560
<v Speaker 1>if you don't like the guy, I'm gonna have to

0:49:54.560 --> 0:49:56.600
<v Speaker 1>say something, I suppose, But you don't want to push

0:49:56.600 --> 0:49:58.160
<v Speaker 1>her away. You just kind of want to let it

0:49:58.640 --> 0:50:01.600
<v Speaker 1>run its course. My p ritted people I dated. They

0:50:01.600 --> 0:50:04.080
<v Speaker 1>were always right every time and it didn't work out.

0:50:04.239 --> 0:50:06.799
<v Speaker 1>So do you think you're gonna be the overprotective father.

0:50:06.840 --> 0:50:08.400
<v Speaker 1>I know we've asked you this before, but are you

0:50:08.440 --> 0:50:11.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna be there? No? No, I don't think so. The

0:50:11.600 --> 0:50:13.600
<v Speaker 1>jokes about like, you know, sitting on the front porch

0:50:13.600 --> 0:50:15.520
<v Speaker 1>with a shotgun, that's all funding and stuff. But then

0:50:15.600 --> 0:50:18.719
<v Speaker 1>once they're once, they're real, you know, and they're not babies,

0:50:18.719 --> 0:50:20.719
<v Speaker 1>they're growing up. You just wanted to be happy, You

0:50:20.719 --> 0:50:23.879
<v Speaker 1>don't really just want to find something that you were

0:50:23.920 --> 0:50:26.960
<v Speaker 1>able to find with their mom. You know. Wow, that's

0:50:26.960 --> 0:50:29.200
<v Speaker 1>so sweet and make me cry. All right, go to

0:50:29.239 --> 0:50:33.200
<v Speaker 1>the next email. All right, The next email is from Kalin.

0:50:33.440 --> 0:50:36.000
<v Speaker 1>I think it's probably a different one. I have been

0:50:36.000 --> 0:50:38.680
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with my boyfriend for about four months now.

0:50:39.120 --> 0:50:40.799
<v Speaker 1>We've said I love you to each other, and just

0:50:40.840 --> 0:50:43.279
<v Speaker 1>when on our first weekend get away together. He's a

0:50:43.320 --> 0:50:45.320
<v Speaker 1>marine officer, and I'm so excited for him in the

0:50:45.360 --> 0:50:47.440
<v Speaker 1>next steps in his career. The next year and a

0:50:47.480 --> 0:50:49.560
<v Speaker 1>half to two years is going to be long distance

0:50:49.640 --> 0:50:52.120
<v Speaker 1>because of everything he has to do. I've never had

0:50:52.120 --> 0:50:54.319
<v Speaker 1>a long distance relationship before, and I'm wondering if you

0:50:54.360 --> 0:51:00.480
<v Speaker 1>guys have any advice on how to handle it. Long

0:51:00.640 --> 0:51:06.560
<v Speaker 1>distance relationship. Uh, they suck. They can work, You can

0:51:06.600 --> 0:51:10.840
<v Speaker 1>work through them, um, but they definitely add another layer

0:51:10.840 --> 0:51:15.279
<v Speaker 1>of difficulty to a relationship that would not be there otherwise. UM.

0:51:17.800 --> 0:51:19.000
<v Speaker 1>Care And I feel like you've been in a long

0:51:19.000 --> 0:51:24.280
<v Speaker 1>distance relationship before, haven't you? Yes? Um? I have. Actually,

0:51:24.320 --> 0:51:26.640
<v Speaker 1>I was living in l A and my ex boyfriend

0:51:27.040 --> 0:51:33.759
<v Speaker 1>UM lived in New York City actually, and I mean

0:51:33.920 --> 0:51:36.319
<v Speaker 1>I was just at the time, like I don't know

0:51:36.400 --> 0:51:37.960
<v Speaker 1>what I was going through but I was so like

0:51:38.600 --> 0:51:41.200
<v Speaker 1>hell bent on making it work, and I was putting

0:51:41.239 --> 0:51:43.840
<v Speaker 1>in all the effort. There has to be I realized

0:51:43.880 --> 0:51:47.880
<v Speaker 1>after a long time, I'm like, just because I'm the

0:51:47.920 --> 0:51:49.600
<v Speaker 1>one that doesn't have a nine to five, like I

0:51:49.600 --> 0:51:51.440
<v Speaker 1>still have work, Like that's why I fled back and

0:51:51.440 --> 0:51:53.000
<v Speaker 1>forth to l A or also would have just moved

0:51:53.040 --> 0:51:55.080
<v Speaker 1>to New York City, Like there has to be a

0:51:55.320 --> 0:51:57.680
<v Speaker 1>like a happy medium. We're both putting in the effort

0:51:58.000 --> 0:52:01.440
<v Speaker 1>for the visiting and the phone calls and the face times,

0:52:01.560 --> 0:52:06.319
<v Speaker 1>And honestly, for me, if you're not planning to move

0:52:06.360 --> 0:52:10.560
<v Speaker 1>to the same area soon, it's not worth it. Long distance,

0:52:10.600 --> 0:52:14.200
<v Speaker 1>like a relationship has a lot to do with spending

0:52:14.239 --> 0:52:17.280
<v Speaker 1>time together and like being able to touch that person.

0:52:18.160 --> 0:52:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Like if you can't like have that physical time, like

0:52:21.040 --> 0:52:22.440
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, you don't want to. I

0:52:22.520 --> 0:52:25.719
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be in a like intimate relationship without

0:52:25.719 --> 0:52:30.560
<v Speaker 1>being able to even like touch this person. Yeah, no, totally,

0:52:30.560 --> 0:52:32.799
<v Speaker 1>I think Kyle, and my advice would be, of course,

0:52:32.880 --> 0:52:36.360
<v Speaker 1>you can do it. I've been through not two years

0:52:36.400 --> 0:52:38.960
<v Speaker 1>of a long distance relationship, but six months of one,

0:52:39.239 --> 0:52:43.319
<v Speaker 1>and um, your relationship is still pretty young. You guys

0:52:43.320 --> 0:52:46.560
<v Speaker 1>have only been dating for four months, so that adds

0:52:46.560 --> 0:52:50.279
<v Speaker 1>another layer to this. Um, I'm excited for you. I'm

0:52:50.320 --> 0:52:52.440
<v Speaker 1>excited that you guys are excited for your next steps.

0:52:52.480 --> 0:52:55.320
<v Speaker 1>I would say the most important thing is communication, making

0:52:55.320 --> 0:52:57.239
<v Speaker 1>sure that you guys are both on the same page,

0:52:57.960 --> 0:53:01.000
<v Speaker 1>both putting in effort to see each other. Uh, not

0:53:01.080 --> 0:53:05.280
<v Speaker 1>only in person, but face timing every day, talking throughout

0:53:05.280 --> 0:53:08.640
<v Speaker 1>the days. UM, you know, communicating because you don't want

0:53:08.640 --> 0:53:10.560
<v Speaker 1>to end up in a situation like Karin was, where

0:53:10.640 --> 0:53:13.240
<v Speaker 1>it's just like, you know, you're the only one who's

0:53:13.360 --> 0:53:17.239
<v Speaker 1>constantly putting effort into see um, this particular person. So

0:53:17.600 --> 0:53:20.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, he is a marine, so of course I'm

0:53:20.360 --> 0:53:22.440
<v Speaker 1>not even joking about this. Please tell him, thank thank

0:53:22.520 --> 0:53:25.960
<v Speaker 1>him for her service. Um, and uh, I wish the

0:53:25.960 --> 0:53:28.520
<v Speaker 1>best for you. But I would say, of course, communication

0:53:29.120 --> 0:53:30.960
<v Speaker 1>trust are two of the most important things in a

0:53:31.000 --> 0:53:35.040
<v Speaker 1>long distance relationship. Yeah, I agree. I don't know how

0:53:35.080 --> 0:53:37.399
<v Speaker 1>you guys. I mean, I personally couldn't do the long

0:53:37.400 --> 0:53:39.799
<v Speaker 1>distance thing. I had a girlfriend in high school who

0:53:39.840 --> 0:53:43.799
<v Speaker 1>moved to Sweden for a year and we tried, but man,

0:53:43.840 --> 0:53:46.160
<v Speaker 1>it was hard. We like, we probably broke up like

0:53:46.200 --> 0:53:48.799
<v Speaker 1>three or four months into it, just because hey, I

0:53:48.880 --> 0:53:52.359
<v Speaker 1>hate talking on the phone. Um, so that's not really

0:53:52.360 --> 0:53:54.880
<v Speaker 1>an option for me. Yeah, yeah, I'm I'm like, if

0:53:54.880 --> 0:53:56.839
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna if we're gonna talk, like, let's just hang out,

0:53:56.880 --> 0:53:58.120
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, like in person. So if

0:53:58.160 --> 0:54:00.280
<v Speaker 1>that's not an option, it's it's pretty much a lost

0:54:00.280 --> 0:54:02.200
<v Speaker 1>cause for me. But I mean that's not to say

0:54:02.239 --> 0:54:04.160
<v Speaker 1>there aren't people out there that can do it. Um.

0:54:04.920 --> 0:54:08.200
<v Speaker 1>The fact that he's serving in the military obviously makes

0:54:08.200 --> 0:54:10.719
<v Speaker 1>it way more challenging because it's like his hours are

0:54:10.719 --> 0:54:12.799
<v Speaker 1>going to be a lot more difficult, so you probably

0:54:12.840 --> 0:54:14.400
<v Speaker 1>won't be able to see and talk to him as

0:54:14.440 --> 0:54:17.319
<v Speaker 1>much as you want to. But if you can do it,

0:54:17.560 --> 0:54:21.799
<v Speaker 1>go for it. Talking on the phone, dude, anytime it's

0:54:21.840 --> 0:54:24.520
<v Speaker 1>it's someone who calls me, who's Who's somebody that I

0:54:24.560 --> 0:54:27.520
<v Speaker 1>don't feel comfortable telling them that I'm going to hang

0:54:27.600 --> 0:54:30.120
<v Speaker 1>up now, I have a mini panic attack. Like if

0:54:30.120 --> 0:54:32.239
<v Speaker 1>it's my dad or my mom or Ashley, it's like, Okay,

0:54:32.280 --> 0:54:34.360
<v Speaker 1>this is gonna take fifteen seconds. We're gonna say what

0:54:34.400 --> 0:54:35.799
<v Speaker 1>we need to say and get off the phone. But

0:54:35.840 --> 0:54:38.879
<v Speaker 1>if it's like somebody calling me that I don't have

0:54:38.920 --> 0:54:41.680
<v Speaker 1>that close relationship with, I I'm like having a full

0:54:41.680 --> 0:54:43.719
<v Speaker 1>on meltdown being like do I pick up? Do I

0:54:43.719 --> 0:54:45.640
<v Speaker 1>not pick up? Do I send up the voicemail? Like?

0:54:45.719 --> 0:54:47.880
<v Speaker 1>And then I become even more insecure because I'm like,

0:54:47.920 --> 0:54:50.359
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I'm thirty years I'm thirty two years

0:54:50.400 --> 0:54:51.920
<v Speaker 1>old and I can't even talk on the phone, Like

0:54:52.000 --> 0:54:54.000
<v Speaker 1>what happened to me? I truly am a part of

0:54:54.000 --> 0:54:57.120
<v Speaker 1>this gen z society now where all I do is

0:54:57.200 --> 0:54:59.319
<v Speaker 1>text and it's not healthy and I need to just

0:54:59.360 --> 0:55:02.080
<v Speaker 1>talk on the phone anyhow. That's that's immediately it goes

0:55:02.120 --> 0:55:05.080
<v Speaker 1>through my head on like seven rings. There's definitely a

0:55:05.160 --> 0:55:07.359
<v Speaker 1>running joke through me all my friends and like even

0:55:07.400 --> 0:55:09.319
<v Speaker 1>my family members that like they'll never get me on

0:55:09.360 --> 0:55:11.600
<v Speaker 1>the phone because I just hate answering the phone unless

0:55:11.600 --> 0:55:14.120
<v Speaker 1>there's like a reason to talk. Like let's say you're

0:55:14.120 --> 0:55:16.480
<v Speaker 1>meeting somewhere and they're calling, like ask where you are,

0:55:16.680 --> 0:55:18.520
<v Speaker 1>then quite quick conversation, you get on the phone, you

0:55:18.520 --> 0:55:20.120
<v Speaker 1>tell them you hang up. But if they're calling out

0:55:20.120 --> 0:55:22.560
<v Speaker 1>of the blue, just like have a conversation, I'm the

0:55:22.560 --> 0:55:25.520
<v Speaker 1>absolute worst because there's no reason to the conversation, which

0:55:25.560 --> 0:55:28.040
<v Speaker 1>means there's no reason to end the conversation, and it

0:55:28.200 --> 0:55:30.239
<v Speaker 1>just it's I it gives me so much anxiety. We

0:55:30.280 --> 0:55:32.200
<v Speaker 1>can't even get you on this podcast most of the time.

0:55:32.280 --> 0:55:35.359
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, we understand what you're saying. This is the

0:55:35.360 --> 0:55:37.880
<v Speaker 1>thing that drains me. So I on this podcast for

0:55:37.920 --> 0:55:39.480
<v Speaker 1>one hour a week, and that means I can't talk

0:55:39.520 --> 0:55:40.600
<v Speaker 1>to anyone on the phone for the rest of the

0:55:40.600 --> 0:55:43.359
<v Speaker 1>week because of this podcast. Yeah. He he builds up

0:55:43.360 --> 0:55:46.280
<v Speaker 1>all his mental energy for this one hour, yes, exactly,

0:55:46.280 --> 0:55:49.000
<v Speaker 1>and it takes me, uh, six days and twenty three

0:55:49.000 --> 0:55:51.680
<v Speaker 1>hours to recover enough to be back on the next episode.

0:55:51.920 --> 0:55:53.920
<v Speaker 1>I kind of respect it. I'm not gonna lie. Well, Karin,

0:55:54.040 --> 0:55:56.520
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for being on this week's episode.

0:55:56.560 --> 0:55:58.799
<v Speaker 1>You're the best everybody out there. Make sure you check

0:55:58.840 --> 0:56:01.560
<v Speaker 1>out or sugar cut if you want to be cool

0:56:01.640 --> 0:56:03.839
<v Speaker 1>like me and get your beads, or if you want

0:56:03.840 --> 0:56:06.719
<v Speaker 1>to be cool like Amelia what's her name, My god,

0:56:06.719 --> 0:56:11.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm an idiot, Amelia Hamlin. Amelia Hamlin. Of course, Scott

0:56:11.120 --> 0:56:13.239
<v Speaker 1>Disac who I'm hoping we'll post on his I G

0:56:13.440 --> 0:56:16.320
<v Speaker 1>story of your beads saying Scott, because that's pretty awesome.

0:56:17.040 --> 0:56:19.799
<v Speaker 1>Literally dreams coming and we're just manifesting it, you know.

0:56:19.840 --> 0:56:22.440
<v Speaker 1>Scott dissac. If you're listening, please post on your Instagram

0:56:22.440 --> 0:56:26.520
<v Speaker 1>story with Karn's beads because they're really cool and they're

0:56:26.600 --> 0:56:29.200
<v Speaker 1>they're very nice, and of course, everybody go check out

0:56:29.280 --> 0:56:33.719
<v Speaker 1>Karin's brand new podcast, Karin Saves Us. All Um, you

0:56:33.800 --> 0:56:36.840
<v Speaker 1>were incredibly sweet and entertaining and I wish nothing but

0:56:36.880 --> 0:56:39.799
<v Speaker 1>the best for you, Krine. Thank you so much. Thank

0:56:39.840 --> 0:56:42.200
<v Speaker 1>you Dean and Jared for having me. It's always so

0:56:42.320 --> 0:56:45.040
<v Speaker 1>good to talk to you guys and catch up, so

0:56:45.120 --> 0:56:49.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm really thankful, love you guys. Well that'll do it

0:56:49.880 --> 0:56:53.239
<v Speaker 1>for this week's episode of Help I Suck At Dating. Dean,

0:56:53.320 --> 0:56:55.799
<v Speaker 1>You're the best, and uh, why should the people tune

0:56:55.840 --> 0:56:58.200
<v Speaker 1>in next week Dean, because we might just suck a

0:56:58.239 --> 0:57:01.560
<v Speaker 1>little bit less. Jared. Follow Help by Suck at Dating

0:57:01.680 --> 0:57:04.520
<v Speaker 1>on I Heart Radio or wherever you listen to podcasts

0:57:09.480 --> 0:57:09.920
<v Speaker 1>m HM