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Speaker 1: No one wants less awkwardness in their life. I mean

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Speaker 1: that can't be possible. Yeah, it's brick Jeffrey, And we

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Speaker 1: got a brand new episode, a special Awkward Thursday phone

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Speaker 1: call for you today. Yeah. Sometimes we just get so

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Speaker 1: many requests in that are so good we just got

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Speaker 2: So that's coming up in just a second. But first comments. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Resa said, hey, guys, love your second date updates.

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Speaker 1: I listened to them when getting ready while working after

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Speaker 3: I wish we had something similar here in Australia, but

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Speaker 3: there'd probably be a lot.

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Speaker 2: Of cussing in lawsuits. Yeah, we wish we had more

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Speaker 2: cussing in lawsuits too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Australian people call into our show. We love the

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Speaker 4: accents and the second dates and great.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, except where we still can't do it doesn't really work,

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Speaker 5: so you can't call them anyway.

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Speaker 2: Have fun down Under?

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Speaker 1: Yah, good time down there. All right, your brand new

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Speaker 6: They say love is really all about timing. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 6: which is why I set up my daily lunch break

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Speaker 6: in the janitor's closet at exactly twelve oh three. Love,

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Speaker 6: jeff you don't even know what happens after that. Brook,

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Speaker 6: Oh boy, keeping changing your tune. But what I can

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Speaker 6: say is one of our listeners broke up with a

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we have listeners texting they're like, I'm

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's hard enough to do it normally, but

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Speaker 6: it in your brand new awkward Thursday phone call right

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Speaker 6: after this. It's awkward. It's Thursday. It's awkward Thursday phone call.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 6: Sometimes we'll talk about the one that got away, and

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Speaker 6: you always look back wondering what if. Yeah, like Brooke

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Speaker 6: the one that you pushed away? And now you're looking

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Speaker 2: No I miss you, missus Adams.

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Speaker 6: In that situation, is there any way to fix it?

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Speaker 6: Apparently that's what one of our listeners. Kate is hoping

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Speaker 6: we can accomplish for her today with her awkward Thursday

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Speaker 6: phone call. Kate, which one of your old teachers are

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Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, thank god, it's not an old teacher.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, but it's an old ex it sounds like

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Speaker 5: it is, yes, Cameron, Camer.

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Speaker 4: I feel like it depends on when you pushed Cameron away.

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Speaker 8: No, not that long. A few months ago, a few.

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Speaker 2: Months ago that you broke up with Cameron?

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Speaker 6: Okay, And what was the situation, like your relationship.

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Speaker 7: Like, I mean, we hung out for a few weeks

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Speaker 7: I mean he was really thoughtful, you know, and we

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Speaker 8: We had a really nice time.

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Speaker 7: But that's when I could really tell that he was

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Speaker 8: I was actually surprised by his reaction.

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Speaker 7: He was really very mature about it, and like he

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Speaker 5: That is the quickest way to get somebody back. Yes,

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Speaker 5: what do you mean if you want someone to like you,

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Speaker 6: Just like you and me, Brooke? I know, see this

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Speaker 5: Yeah, people already think don't even it's your life broke.

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Speaker 6: You can do it however you want to do it.

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Speaker 7: But that's the thing though, I don't think Cameron was

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Speaker 7: Exactly, because I've been really thinking about it lately and

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Speaker 4: Just stopped texting that.

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Speaker 8: But you're still thinking about it, I am.

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Speaker 8: So here's the thing.

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Speaker 7: You probably should know this, But I did text him,

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Speaker 7: And at first he didn't answer, what did you take?

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Speaker 7: I just told him that I missed him and that

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Speaker 7: I really missed our fun little hangout, you know, nothing crazy.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it could be a lot, honestly, I guess from

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Speaker 6: Yeah the sad ones. Yes, that's true. But Cameron doesn't sound.

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Speaker 7: Like he's like that no, And even when he didn't answer,

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Speaker 8: No, but he ended.

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Speaker 7: And it's like a little strange, but he basically says

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Speaker 8: I guess she talked to her about it and she

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Speaker 5: Oh, Okay, have you met the sister before?

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Speaker 8: I mean no, I haven't.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, so did you put the ultimatum out there

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Speaker 2: I mean, that'd be an easy choice for Jeffrey in

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Speaker 6: Family, right.

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Speaker 8: Kidding, Guys, Remember I'm asking for advice. I don't want

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Speaker 5: It's okay, so you want to call him, not the sister.

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Speaker 7: Right, Well, he did give me her number, and he

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Speaker 2: Like sounds like he's playing you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it sounds like he's setting you up for a trap.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, about to call her own loser line right now.

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Speaker 6: It could be okay, so you want to call this

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Speaker 2: Or convince her to like her like that's the thing.

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Speaker 5: It's not a permission thing. I think that she's got

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Speaker 3: She's only heard bad things probably, yea, her sisters are important,

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Speaker 6: Do you know the sister's name.

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Speaker 7: Yes, her name is Brittany.

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Speaker 2: Not Britney. He's going to be judge.

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Speaker 6: We'll find out. So, but we're gonna come back first

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Speaker 6: They're a little confused.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, for this.

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Speaker 6: Let's see what Cameron's sister says when we come back

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Speaker 6: and do your awkward Thursday phone call right after this.

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Speaker 6: It's awkward. It's Thursday. It's awkward Thursday phone call.

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Speaker 5: You.

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Speaker 6: No, I've heard of asking for a parent's blessing before

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Speaker 5: I cannot believe the guy even shared the number for

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Speaker 6: It's wild.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well to dumped them via text.

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Speaker 6: and what does he say about it? He says, ask

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Speaker 5: You need to connect? That absolutely should be your number

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Speaker 5: to become friends with someone if you can find like

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Speaker 5: some similar humor stuff. Now it's important, though you are

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but she being a sister, that's her wheelhouse.

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Speaker 1: Man, you need to set her up for a great

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Speaker 1: stupid brother story, to ask for something general like hey,

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Speaker 2: About growing up? Or Oh, I'm serious, I'm serious.

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Speaker 1: There's something more than a sister loves than just pummeling

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Speaker 8: It bout my brother.

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Speaker 6: Yes, Kate, what do you think about Brooks advice?

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Speaker 7: It does sound like good advice. Get someone laughing. Nine

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, you always have that as an option. But Jose,

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Speaker 5: Sister, like that you were paying attention into the relationships

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Speaker 6: I know his favorite pizza is this. She may go, hey, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Do you have any funny stories with him embarrassing himself

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Speaker 8: I like that. Actually I'm gonna I'm gonna try that

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Speaker 6: Use dunk a ruse. If that's a real thing you like,

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Speaker 6: Is she aware?

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Speaker 7: I mean he gave me her number, so I would

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Speaker 2: This guy is setting you up. Oh yeah, this might

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Speaker 4: I wonder if she's gonna answer.

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Speaker 6: I guess we'll see. Keep your dunk a rouse close

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Speaker 7: Hello?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 8: Is this a Brittany Cameron sister? Who who's.

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 7: I mean, we've like never met before, but I do

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Speaker 7: Me and Cameron actually hung out a few times a

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Speaker 3: And I just wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

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Speaker 3: You you dated my brother for a while and now

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Speaker 8: Did you get this number from Cameron? I mean I

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Speaker 8: I'm gonna do This is so weird.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why. Why are you calling me? What

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Speaker 8: Okay?

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Speaker 7: So Cameron said that you weren't really comfortable. I guess

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Speaker 3: My god, are you Oh my god, are you Kate?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 8: Yes, that's me. That's Kate.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Oh my god. Okay, I see. So you're the

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Speaker 3: one who's been messing with his mind and taking advantage

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Speaker 8: Oh what, No, that's not me.

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Speaker 3: Okay. So you're not the girl that he took out

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Speaker 7: I mean, I don't count dates, but maybe.

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Speaker 3: My dinners to coffee dates, mini golf, and I believe

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Speaker 3: some like random farmer's market that you wanted to visit,

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Speaker 3: and he paid for everything, all your dates sound familiar,

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Speaker 3: but sound like the date.

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean most guys pay for dates, but I

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Speaker 3: Really, And then after he does all of that for

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Speaker 3: you and it's nothing but kind and respectful, you have

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Speaker 3: I'm actually not in a place to date anybody right now.

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Speaker 3: I really need to focus on myself. You know, there's

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Speaker 3: someone who can give you one hundred percent? Is that you?

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Speaker 2: That was you?

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Speaker 8: I mean yeah, but like you're taking it.

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Speaker 3: Like then three days later you hard launch a relationship

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Speaker 8: Okay, hold on a second, Like.

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Speaker 3: No, I will not hold on a second. You called

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Speaker 3: me okay because they got your down relationship blew up

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Speaker 3: in your face. Only then did you go crawling back

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Speaker 3: to my little brother, texting him thing you you missed

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Speaker 7: No, okay, I mean it's not my fault that a

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Speaker 7: lot of guys want to be with me and your

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Speaker 3: Why do you think you, Oh my god, you would

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Speaker 3: be so lucky to date my brother and the crazy

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Speaker 3: part is you actually had a chance and you it

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Speaker 3: up because, in your words, I have too many options,

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Speaker 3: poor me.

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Speaker 7: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Is this when we asked a funny story?

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Speaker 6: I think it's.

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Speaker 3: Going well, what is who is this?

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Speaker 6: Hey? Oh don't hang out? Yeah, this is a radio

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Speaker 6: show that you're on right now. We're called Brook and

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Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: Wait is this a prank?

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Speaker 6: No, No, it probably feels like one.

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Speaker 2: That's actually Kate.

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Speaker 6: This is called the awkward Thursday phone call because oh.

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Speaker 3: My god, Wow, you think it's even more pathetic calling

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Speaker 5: Well, ma, wow, that kind of hurt, right, because radio

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Speaker 6: Okay, but we did kind of set her up for that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I get what she did is not cool.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so Kate feels bad about how things ended between

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Speaker 8: No, not only more, I mean I don't want to

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Speaker 7: That was it.

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Speaker 1: You're giving up after just one hard conversation, Kate, Like

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's really not that big of a deal.

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Speaker 8: I've missed Cameron.

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Speaker 7: Yes, but like I said, there's three hundred other guys in.

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Speaker 2: My inboxing, I.

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Speaker 3: Go date them.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, maybe you need some guys in your inbox and

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Speaker 7: you won't be so obsessed with who your brother is dating.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm married, Kate. I have to say, you never

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Speaker 6: mentioned to us that when you went to go find

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well that was irrelevant.

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Speaker 7: Like I said, dating in a serious situation.

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Speaker 3: Well, now that you're alone, this is a great time

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Speaker 8: Yeah that's me, honey, I'm not alone.

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Speaker 6: I think her feelings are a little bit hurt by

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Speaker 6: what was said. Yeah, there's really no comeback. Lot was revealed.

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Speaker 2: It was just like, maybe you did like Cameron that much.

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Speaker 6: I mean, maybe there's a funny story about Cameron that

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Speaker 6: Brittany would like to share. Oh see, I think.

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Speaker 3: The funny story is that when I tell him about

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Speaker 5: I mean I think this is probably all the things

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Speaker 2: Smart.

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Speaker 6: Good news is, Kate, I think we got some answers

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Speaker 6: to the questions that you had about why the sister

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Speaker 7: Now I'm here because it really doesn't bother me that much.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I hang up.

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Speaker 3: I don't want took and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: You know, I really wish that sister would have been

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Speaker 6: I did not get a strong read either way on

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Speaker 2: What I kind of I heard her.

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Speaker 6: You heard her.

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Speaker 2: I heard her. Yeah, I heard exactly what she was saying.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, kind let her have it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was one that I think she had replayed

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Speaker 1: I ever have a chance to talk to my brother's ex,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she was amped up, and it was It was

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Speaker 6: you're on this show, please tell us everything. Yeah, don't

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Speaker 6: that really means you had to go be in somebody

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Speaker 2: You know, if the guy's name was yourself.

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Speaker 6: Oh, you know that's a point, Brooke.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: All we asked, though, is just be honest with us.

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Speaker 6: Will be honest with you? Well, Brook won't, but the

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Speaker 6: rest of us will be. Yeah, Brook, how much money

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Speaker 6: do you make?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 6: See, that's exactly what I thought. What's money? It's Brooke

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