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Speaker 1: second dat ud Do you ever have one of those
Speaker 1: moments you say something and you just wish you could
Speaker 1: suck the words right back into your mouth because you
Speaker 1: know it was wrong. Yes, and especially happens a lot
Speaker 1: in the dating world. I know, I was out on
Speaker 1: a date once with this girl. We've been dating for
Speaker 1: a long time, A long time, like a couple of
Speaker 1: years at that point, and I was like, I love you.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh no, don't say that. Can
Speaker 1: we just go back in time and forget that? I
Speaker 1: said that. Things like that happen all the time. Dave,
Speaker 1: who was on the phone and wants to do a
Speaker 1: second date update today, had a similar problem on his date. Dave,
Speaker 1: how you doing, Hey, guys, what's going on? Not much?
Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about your date. Well,
Speaker 1: I met this girl named Reese on a dating app
Speaker 1: and we chatted onlines a little bit and we decided
Speaker 1: to go on a date and we went out for
Speaker 1: dinner I wanted to make it like an early dinner,
Speaker 1: sort of keep it open ended in case things were
Speaker 1: going really well. You were planning ahead of time, just
Speaker 1: in case you could take her back to your place. Well,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that, but you kind of just did.
Speaker 1: Then let's go to dinner. There's this cute place right
Speaker 1: around the corner from my house, so in case we
Speaker 1: have a little too much, we can just walk back
Speaker 1: to my house. I mean, no big deal, right, that
Speaker 1: was I wouldn't I wouldn't say that. That wasn't on
Speaker 1: my mind. At least you're honest. Yeah, so you know,
Speaker 1: it was just like, I'm not only going further than
Speaker 1: a stone throw from my place. So did the night
Speaker 1: end like you had hoped? Um? It didn't go badly.
Speaker 1: I had a really really good time. We had a
Speaker 1: really good time at dinner, and I think I did
Speaker 1: pick the right kind of place that you would have light.
Speaker 1: But there was a funny thing that happened that I
Speaker 1: feel like threw everything off of the night. Was that
Speaker 1: before we ordered food, I asked her what she was
Speaker 1: thinking of getting, and she mentioned that she was thinking
Speaker 1: about getting an appetizer, a salad, and the main course okay,
Speaker 1: And I said, I, this is such a stupid, stupid
Speaker 1: thing to say it, but I said, wow, it's refreshing
Speaker 1: to meet a girl that isn't afraid to eat like
Speaker 1: one of the guys. That is definitely the wrong thing
Speaker 1: to say. Yeah, you're like, oh, it's nice to go
Speaker 1: with a girl who's not giving an order a salad
Speaker 1: an act like she never eats. Is that exactly how
Speaker 1: you said it? Though? It was like it just like
Speaker 1: I thought I was being funny. And as soon as
Speaker 1: I said that, I like, there was just this dead
Speaker 1: silence at the table and I was immediately trying to
Speaker 1: just eat my words. But oh, man, so how did
Speaker 1: she react after you said that? Well, she just kind
Speaker 1: of stared at me and she rolled her eyes and said, well,
Speaker 1: I'll just order a salad. Then did she just order
Speaker 1: a salad? Then she eventually she got the salad and
Speaker 1: the course, but we skipped the appetite. Man, you ordered
Speaker 1: the appetizer for her at that point and then eat
Speaker 1: it in front of her. You don't get any because
Speaker 1: you punked out on the appetizer. I went to the
Speaker 1: bathroom and looked at myself in the mirror, and I
Speaker 1: was just like, what what am I going to do?
Speaker 1: Did you take a chance to laugh at yourself? A
Speaker 1: little bit? Definitely after the fact, but immediately I was
Speaker 1: embarrassed and apologetic and stuck my foot in my mouth essentially.
Speaker 1: Did she seem cool after that? You know, it took
Speaker 1: me some time, but I feel like I kind of
Speaker 1: roped her back in m know, by the time, by
Speaker 1: the time her food got there, she was laughing at
Speaker 1: my jokes again. And so you guys were back like
Speaker 1: on a good level after that. It wasn't like she
Speaker 1: just shut down and ended the date. We were having
Speaker 1: really good conversation, just back and forth. But it's just
Speaker 1: I made this one slip up and I couldn't get
Speaker 1: it off my mind as soon as I said it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if I had said that during a day, I'd be like,
Speaker 1: I just screwed everything up. You want to end it now,
Speaker 1: because I could pay and we get you to go
Speaker 1: box for all the food you just ordered and we
Speaker 1: can go her separate ways. How did everything end with her? Well,
Speaker 1: what happened was I said, like I was planning to
Speaker 1: do you want to go back to my place? And
Speaker 1: she said she wouldn't be able to tonight. So I
Speaker 1: ended up just driving her home and she said I
Speaker 1: had a really good time and that was it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course she couldn't go back to your place. She
Speaker 1: was too full, didn't want to get naked. No kiss
Speaker 1: or anything. No, no, no kiss nothing. Then did you
Speaker 1: make plans to go out again? That's the thing. I've
Speaker 1: called her a couple of times and she just said
Speaker 1: that she's busy. Like if she'd made it clear, I
Speaker 1: would leave her alone. Okay, So instead you want to
Speaker 1: call her on our show and ask her in front
Speaker 1: of I don't know at least ten people who are listening,
Speaker 1: why she's not calling you back. That seemed like a
Speaker 1: pretty solid idea to all right, well we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call her and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, okay, good, all right, hang on frooking Jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning. Se Dave is on the phone with
Speaker 1: us today and he wants to do a second date
Speaker 1: update with a girl named Reese. They met on a
Speaker 1: dating app, went out for dinner, and he thinks the
Speaker 1: reason that she's not calling him back he's During dinner,
Speaker 1: there was an awkward point where she was like, I
Speaker 1: want an appetizer, a salad and a main course, and
Speaker 1: apparently he made a crack like, whoa, it's nice to
Speaker 1: go out with a girl about such a healthy appetite,
Speaker 1: and then he started going se feeding time and then
Speaker 1: making hog noises at her right across the table, which
Speaker 1: I thought was really a bold move on your part. Dave. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he just started doing all that kind of stuff, like
Speaker 1: somehow he got a triangle. He was ringing it like
Speaker 1: a dinner bell. I don't know how you did all that, Dave. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's right, you forgot. You forgot. I took a little
Speaker 1: bell out and tie that around her neck, so I
Speaker 1: forgot about that part, James. Dave essentially did that because
Speaker 1: he sort of made fun of her for eating a lot.
Speaker 1: What did you What did you say to her? Again?
Speaker 1: I said, all I said was it's refreshing to meet
Speaker 1: a girl that isn't afraid to eat like one of
Speaker 1: the guys. And that's the reason that Dave thinks she's
Speaker 1: not calling him back is because he think, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I think it is too. But after that moment, she
Speaker 1: got a little awkward, and then he feels like he
Speaker 1: got her back on track and she was laughing at
Speaker 1: the end of the date and everything seemed cool, but
Speaker 1: she will not go out with him again, so he
Speaker 1: is pretty much assuming that's the reason. Yep, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna doll the phone him right now. Get her
Speaker 1: on the phone and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: thank you? Hello? Hi, can I speak to Reese please?
Speaker 1: This is hi Reese. This is Jebil from brook and
Speaker 1: Jewil in the morning. Like the radio. Yep, it is
Speaker 1: the radio calling you. I am the radio. Wait what Yeah,
Speaker 1: you recently went out on a date with a guy
Speaker 1: named Dave. Dave told us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 1: He also said that you have been kind of blowing
Speaker 1: him off, so he asked us to get you on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out if there's something wrong with Dave. Okay,
Speaker 1: is there? Um? I'm just I'm not really that interested
Speaker 1: in going on another date with him. It was it
Speaker 1: was the one time thing? Was it the fact that
Speaker 1: Dave made a crack about how much food you were ordering?
Speaker 1: You know what? That should have been my first warning sign.
Speaker 1: There was almost a deal breaker. But yeah, he told
Speaker 1: us a little bit about your date, and he said
Speaker 1: that he felt really bad when he made that joke. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he should have. So you just said almost a deal breaker. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's probably should have been. It should have been like
Speaker 1: heads up to me that no. So was there a
Speaker 1: deal breaker on the date then, I mean, yeah, definitely
Speaker 1: there there was. And it happened right after dinner. Oh. Interesting,
Speaker 1: Dave didn't tell us that anything happened after dinner other
Speaker 1: than he took you back to your car and he left. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't think he's even aware of it, to be honest, really,
Speaker 1: so do you mind telling us what it was, just
Speaker 1: so we can let him know. Well, so they bring
Speaker 1: over the check, right, and that can sometimes be awkward,
Speaker 1: but he picks it right up and clearly wants to pay,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, that's that's really nice. And I
Speaker 1: happened to just like peek over his shoulder at the
Speaker 1: amount and he vote in zero dollars for the tip.
Speaker 1: He was like, let's let's hut out. I could not.
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, what's happening. This is not how
Speaker 1: you any dinner? So he stiffed the waiter. He didn't
Speaker 1: tip at all. Yeah, I was so confused. I was like,
Speaker 1: I have to ask him about this obviously, and so
Speaker 1: I was like, did they screw up your meal? Like
Speaker 1: what happened? You know? Like, what's up? Yeah? And he goes, no, No,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Everything's good? Okay? Do you
Speaker 1: think that he forgot to tip? Well? I said, look,
Speaker 1: I happened to see that you didn't tip, and he
Speaker 1: just goes, oh, right, Oh, it's because I don't believe
Speaker 1: in tipping. What really? Tipping isn't a belief system that
Speaker 1: you bee. It is for some people. There are people
Speaker 1: out there who don't believe in tipping and don't it
Speaker 1: won't tip. So he's one of those guys apparently. I
Speaker 1: guess what was his Did he give you a reasoning?
Speaker 1: Did you talk about it some more? Or was that
Speaker 1: just it? I'll be honest, I was so livid at
Speaker 1: this point, but I did press him a little bit more.
Speaker 1: I was like, what do you mean don't believe in it?
Speaker 1: And he just goes like, oh, well, restaurant should pay
Speaker 1: the servers like the right amount they should. But that's
Speaker 1: not the real world. Listen. I used to be a waitress. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I worked in food service for a long time too,
Speaker 1: and I would be super pissed if I went out
Speaker 1: with somebody they didn't tip, oh man, And honestly, our
Speaker 1: waiter was like great, totally like normal, great guy. And
Speaker 1: I just like, I remember what the experience is like
Speaker 1: if someone doesn't shift you, you just get like I
Speaker 1: just felt like my how like eared get hot? And
Speaker 1: just so like what did I do wrong? And why
Speaker 1: would somebody like so? It's just disrespectful? Do you think
Speaker 1: you could tell that you were upset about it? I
Speaker 1: tried to hide it, like I did not want to
Speaker 1: get into a fight with a guy that I don't
Speaker 1: really know that well on the first date. I personally
Speaker 1: can't stand it when people don't tip. I'd love to
Speaker 1: get in a fight with Dave. Wouldn't you just like
Speaker 1: to tell him off a little bit? I mean honestly
Speaker 1: I did, but I would like the best way to
Speaker 1: handle this, just like to put it behind me. What
Speaker 1: if I gave you the opportunity to tell him off?
Speaker 1: What what are you talking about? Oh? I mean that
Speaker 1: Dave's actually on the other line listening to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you serious, Harry? Is it really
Speaker 1: such a big deal? But I don't tip. Yes, it's
Speaker 1: a really big deal. It's like you're not a human being.
Speaker 1: You don't respect other people. Sorry, but that is what
Speaker 1: it is. And I'm are we just getting into person
Speaker 1: like personal attacks right now. I like, I can't believe
Speaker 1: this is even a thing. Do you not understand how
Speaker 1: if you're dating, Like, do you not understand that I
Speaker 1: used to be a waitress? Somebody doesn't be a waitress?
Speaker 1: Like it's it says, I can see that you've been
Speaker 1: brainwashed by this thing. Oh my god, I don't know
Speaker 1: if you guys know this tipping is a total scam,
Speaker 1: sam my god, what like your money is going to
Speaker 1: go straight to the server, Like most servers don't even
Speaker 1: claim that on their taxes. So yeah, most don't. But
Speaker 1: that's how they make a living is by tips. It's
Speaker 1: not my responsibility to tip them. It's like they should,
Speaker 1: they should make more money from their job. It's a restaurant.
Speaker 1: Learn to pay them. That's a lesson, well taught. So
Speaker 1: you think that you're doing that, and in the meantime,
Speaker 1: just every single person who works in the industry just
Speaker 1: gets like completely short and just because you don't believe
Speaker 1: well in a way, it's like a battle one one
Speaker 1: step at a time, like this is something the restaurants
Speaker 1: need to learn. So you feel like you not tipping
Speaker 1: is taking a stand against the man, and you're gonna
Speaker 1: force restaurants somehow to pay their staff more if you
Speaker 1: don't tip. Absolutely. Oh no, my god, it's why is
Speaker 1: this anything? Like in Europe they don't tip. You See
Speaker 1: why I am not going to go out with this
Speaker 1: guy again. Dave? Are you this cheap in every aspect
Speaker 1: of your life or just in tipping? I'm not cheap? Like, like,
Speaker 1: why is why is this such a big deal to
Speaker 1: you people? Because it's what we do here in America?
Speaker 1: Is we tip? And he says everything extra money to
Speaker 1: people who don't deserve it, and it just says everything
Speaker 1: about who you are and the way you treat other people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: google this. There are blog posts and news sites that
Speaker 1: are devoted this subject. This is a scam and there's
Speaker 1: no reason that this industry should be supportive. Okay, God,
Speaker 1: he seems normal, but he's a crazy person. This is
Speaker 1: totally crazy. I can't believe I'm having this conversation. I'm sorry. Hey, Dave,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm sure you have a fabulous blog
Speaker 1: set up about your views on tipping. I'm going to
Speaker 1: respectfully disagree with you, though, sir, but I will ask
Speaker 1: Reese if she'd like to go on a second date
Speaker 1: with you. Reese, would you like to go out with
Speaker 1: Dave again? No, I'll throw in the tip. Don't worry
Speaker 1: about that. Very funny in the morning.