WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: You Eat Like a Man

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<v Speaker 1>second dat ud Do you ever have one of those

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<v Speaker 1>moments you say something and you just wish you could

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<v Speaker 1>suck the words right back into your mouth because you

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<v Speaker 1>know it was wrong. Yes, and especially happens a lot

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<v Speaker 1>in the dating world. I know, I was out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date once with this girl. We've been dating for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time, A long time, like a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>years at that point, and I was like, I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh no, don't say that. Can

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<v Speaker 1>we just go back in time and forget that? I

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<v Speaker 1>said that. Things like that happen all the time. Dave,

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<v Speaker 1>who was on the phone and wants to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update today, had a similar problem on his date. Dave,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing, Hey, guys, what's going on? Not much?

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us a little bit about your date. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I met this girl named Reese on a dating app

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<v Speaker 1>and we chatted onlines a little bit and we decided

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a date and we went out for

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<v Speaker 1>dinner I wanted to make it like an early dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>sort of keep it open ended in case things were

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<v Speaker 1>going really well. You were planning ahead of time, just

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<v Speaker 1>in case you could take her back to your place. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say that, but you kind of just did.

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<v Speaker 1>Then let's go to dinner. There's this cute place right

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<v Speaker 1>around the corner from my house, so in case we

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<v Speaker 1>have a little too much, we can just walk back

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<v Speaker 1>to my house. I mean, no big deal, right, that

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<v Speaker 1>was I wouldn't I wouldn't say that. That wasn't on

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<v Speaker 1>my mind. At least you're honest. Yeah, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just like, I'm not only going further than

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<v Speaker 1>a stone throw from my place. So did the night

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<v Speaker 1>end like you had hoped? Um? It didn't go badly.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a really really good time. We had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time at dinner, and I think I did

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<v Speaker 1>pick the right kind of place that you would have light.

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<v Speaker 1>But there was a funny thing that happened that I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like threw everything off of the night. Was that

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<v Speaker 1>before we ordered food, I asked her what she was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking of getting, and she mentioned that she was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about getting an appetizer, a salad, and the main course okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, I, this is such a stupid, stupid

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<v Speaker 1>thing to say it, but I said, wow, it's refreshing

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<v Speaker 1>to meet a girl that isn't afraid to eat like

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<v Speaker 1>one of the guys. That is definitely the wrong thing

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<v Speaker 1>to say. Yeah, you're like, oh, it's nice to go

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl who's not giving an order a salad

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<v Speaker 1>an act like she never eats. Is that exactly how

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<v Speaker 1>you said it? Though? It was like it just like

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I was being funny. And as soon as

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<v Speaker 1>I said that, I like, there was just this dead

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<v Speaker 1>silence at the table and I was immediately trying to

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<v Speaker 1>just eat my words. But oh, man, so how did

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<v Speaker 1>she react after you said that? Well, she just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stared at me and she rolled her eyes and said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just order a salad. Then did she just order

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<v Speaker 1>a salad? Then she eventually she got the salad and

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<v Speaker 1>the course, but we skipped the appetite. Man, you ordered

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<v Speaker 1>the appetizer for her at that point and then eat

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<v Speaker 1>it in front of her. You don't get any because

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<v Speaker 1>you punked out on the appetizer. I went to the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom and looked at myself in the mirror, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, what what am I going to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you take a chance to laugh at yourself? A

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<v Speaker 1>little bit? Definitely after the fact, but immediately I was

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed and apologetic and stuck my foot in my mouth essentially.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she seem cool after that? You know, it took

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<v Speaker 1>me some time, but I feel like I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>roped her back in m know, by the time, by

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<v Speaker 1>the time her food got there, she was laughing at

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<v Speaker 1>my jokes again. And so you guys were back like

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<v Speaker 1>on a good level after that. It wasn't like she

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<v Speaker 1>just shut down and ended the date. We were having

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<v Speaker 1>really good conversation, just back and forth. But it's just

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<v Speaker 1>I made this one slip up and I couldn't get

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<v Speaker 1>it off my mind as soon as I said it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if I had said that during a day, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just screwed everything up. You want to end it now,

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<v Speaker 1>because I could pay and we get you to go

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<v Speaker 1>box for all the food you just ordered and we

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<v Speaker 1>can go her separate ways. How did everything end with her? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened was I said, like I was planning to

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to go back to my place? And

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<v Speaker 1>she said she wouldn't be able to tonight. So I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up just driving her home and she said I

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<v Speaker 1>had a really good time and that was it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course she couldn't go back to your place. She

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<v Speaker 1>was too full, didn't want to get naked. No kiss

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<v Speaker 1>or anything. No, no, no kiss nothing. Then did you

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<v Speaker 1>make plans to go out again? That's the thing. I've

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<v Speaker 1>called her a couple of times and she just said

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<v Speaker 1>that she's busy. Like if she'd made it clear, I

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<v Speaker 1>would leave her alone. Okay, So instead you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call her on our show and ask her in front

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<v Speaker 1>of I don't know at least ten people who are listening,

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<v Speaker 1>why she's not calling you back. That seemed like a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty solid idea to all right, well we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call her and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, okay, good, all right, hang on frooking Jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Se Dave is on the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>us today and he wants to do a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update with a girl named Reese. They met on a

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<v Speaker 1>dating app, went out for dinner, and he thinks the

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<v Speaker 1>reason that she's not calling him back he's During dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>there was an awkward point where she was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>want an appetizer, a salad and a main course, and

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<v Speaker 1>apparently he made a crack like, whoa, it's nice to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with a girl about such a healthy appetite,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he started going se feeding time and then

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<v Speaker 1>making hog noises at her right across the table, which

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<v Speaker 1>I thought was really a bold move on your part. Dave. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he just started doing all that kind of stuff, like

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<v Speaker 1>somehow he got a triangle. He was ringing it like

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<v Speaker 1>a dinner bell. I don't know how you did all that, Dave. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's right, you forgot. You forgot. I took a little

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<v Speaker 1>bell out and tie that around her neck, so I

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<v Speaker 1>forgot about that part, James. Dave essentially did that because

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<v Speaker 1>he sort of made fun of her for eating a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you What did you say to her? Again?

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<v Speaker 1>I said, all I said was it's refreshing to meet

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<v Speaker 1>a girl that isn't afraid to eat like one of

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<v Speaker 1>the guys. And that's the reason that Dave thinks she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him back is because he think, yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it is too. But after that moment, she

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<v Speaker 1>got a little awkward, and then he feels like he

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<v Speaker 1>got her back on track and she was laughing at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the date and everything seemed cool, but

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<v Speaker 1>she will not go out with him again, so he

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<v Speaker 1>is pretty much assuming that's the reason. Yep, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna doll the phone him right now. Get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? Hello? Hi, can I speak to Reese please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is hi Reese. This is Jebil from brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil in the morning. Like the radio. Yep, it is

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<v Speaker 1>the radio calling you. I am the radio. Wait what Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out on a date with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Dave. Dave told us a little bit about your date.

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<v Speaker 1>He also said that you have been kind of blowing

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<v Speaker 1>him off, so he asked us to get you on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and find out if there's something wrong with Dave. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>is there? Um? I'm just I'm not really that interested

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<v Speaker 1>in going on another date with him. It was it

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<v Speaker 1>was the one time thing? Was it the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>Dave made a crack about how much food you were ordering?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? That should have been my first warning sign.

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<v Speaker 1>There was almost a deal breaker. But yeah, he told

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<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about your date, and he said

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<v Speaker 1>that he felt really bad when he made that joke. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he should have. So you just said almost a deal breaker. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably should have been. It should have been like

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<v Speaker 1>heads up to me that no. So was there a

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<v Speaker 1>deal breaker on the date then, I mean, yeah, definitely

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<v Speaker 1>there there was. And it happened right after dinner. Oh. Interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>Dave didn't tell us that anything happened after dinner other

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<v Speaker 1>than he took you back to your car and he left. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think he's even aware of it, to be honest, really,

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<v Speaker 1>so do you mind telling us what it was, just

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<v Speaker 1>so we can let him know. Well, so they bring

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<v Speaker 1>over the check, right, and that can sometimes be awkward,

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<v Speaker 1>but he picks it right up and clearly wants to pay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, okay, that's that's really nice. And I

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<v Speaker 1>happened to just like peek over his shoulder at the

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<v Speaker 1>amount and he vote in zero dollars for the tip.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, let's let's hut out. I could not.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, wait, what's happening. This is not how

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<v Speaker 1>you any dinner? So he stiffed the waiter. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tip at all. Yeah, I was so confused. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to ask him about this obviously, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, did they screw up your meal? Like

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? You know? Like, what's up? Yeah? And he goes, no, No,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you talking about? Everything's good? Okay? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that he forgot to tip? Well? I said, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I happened to see that you didn't tip, and he

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<v Speaker 1>just goes, oh, right, Oh, it's because I don't believe

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<v Speaker 1>in tipping. What really? Tipping isn't a belief system that

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<v Speaker 1>you bee. It is for some people. There are people

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<v Speaker 1>out there who don't believe in tipping and don't it

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<v Speaker 1>won't tip. So he's one of those guys apparently. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess what was his Did he give you a reasoning?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you talk about it some more? Or was that

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<v Speaker 1>just it? I'll be honest, I was so livid at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, but I did press him a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what do you mean don't believe in it?

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<v Speaker 1>And he just goes like, oh, well, restaurant should pay

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<v Speaker 1>the servers like the right amount they should. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>not the real world. Listen. I used to be a waitress. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I worked in food service for a long time too,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would be super pissed if I went out

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody they didn't tip, oh man, And honestly, our

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<v Speaker 1>waiter was like great, totally like normal, great guy. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just like, I remember what the experience is like

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<v Speaker 1>if someone doesn't shift you, you just get like I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt like my how like eared get hot? And

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<v Speaker 1>just so like what did I do wrong? And why

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<v Speaker 1>would somebody like so? It's just disrespectful? Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you could tell that you were upset about it? I

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<v Speaker 1>tried to hide it, like I did not want to

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<v Speaker 1>get into a fight with a guy that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know that well on the first date. I personally

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<v Speaker 1>can't stand it when people don't tip. I'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>get in a fight with Dave. Wouldn't you just like

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<v Speaker 1>to tell him off a little bit? I mean honestly

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<v Speaker 1>I did, but I would like the best way to

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<v Speaker 1>handle this, just like to put it behind me. What

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<v Speaker 1>if I gave you the opportunity to tell him off?

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<v Speaker 1>What what are you talking about? Oh? I mean that

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<v Speaker 1>Dave's actually on the other line listening to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, are you serious, Harry? Is it really

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<v Speaker 1>such a big deal? But I don't tip. Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a really big deal. It's like you're not a human being.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't respect other people. Sorry, but that is what

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<v Speaker 1>it is. And I'm are we just getting into person

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<v Speaker 1>like personal attacks right now. I like, I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>this is even a thing. Do you not understand how

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<v Speaker 1>if you're dating, Like, do you not understand that I

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<v Speaker 1>used to be a waitress? Somebody doesn't be a waitress?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's it says, I can see that you've been

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<v Speaker 1>brainwashed by this thing. Oh my god, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys know this tipping is a total scam,

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<v Speaker 1>sam my god, what like your money is going to

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<v Speaker 1>go straight to the server, Like most servers don't even

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<v Speaker 1>claim that on their taxes. So yeah, most don't. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's how they make a living is by tips. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not my responsibility to tip them. It's like they should,

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<v Speaker 1>they should make more money from their job. It's a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Learn to pay them. That's a lesson, well taught. So

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<v Speaker 1>you think that you're doing that, and in the meantime,

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<v Speaker 1>just every single person who works in the industry just

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<v Speaker 1>gets like completely short and just because you don't believe

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<v Speaker 1>well in a way, it's like a battle one one

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<v Speaker 1>step at a time, like this is something the restaurants

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<v Speaker 1>need to learn. So you feel like you not tipping

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<v Speaker 1>is taking a stand against the man, and you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>force restaurants somehow to pay their staff more if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't tip. Absolutely. Oh no, my god, it's why is

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<v Speaker 1>this anything? Like in Europe they don't tip. You See

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<v Speaker 1>why I am not going to go out with this

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<v Speaker 1>guy again. Dave? Are you this cheap in every aspect

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<v Speaker 1>of your life or just in tipping? I'm not cheap? Like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>why is why is this such a big deal to

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<v Speaker 1>you people? Because it's what we do here in America?

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<v Speaker 1>Is we tip? And he says everything extra money to

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<v Speaker 1>people who don't deserve it, and it just says everything

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<v Speaker 1>about who you are and the way you treat other people. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>google this. There are blog posts and news sites that

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<v Speaker 1>are devoted this subject. This is a scam and there's

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<v Speaker 1>no reason that this industry should be supportive. Okay, God,

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<v Speaker 1>he seems normal, but he's a crazy person. This is

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<v Speaker 1>totally crazy. I can't believe I'm having this conversation. I'm sorry. Hey, Dave,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm sure you have a fabulous blog

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<v Speaker 1>set up about your views on tipping. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>respectfully disagree with you, though, sir, but I will ask

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<v Speaker 1>Reese if she'd like to go on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Reese, would you like to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>Dave again? No, I'll throw in the tip. Don't worry

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<v Speaker 1>about that. Very funny in the morning.