1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: Are you single and feeling out of the loop? Put 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: away that mouse and get out of the house. Join 3 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: in the Loop, Seattle's brand new activities club just for singles. 4 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: Put in the Loop Singles dot Com today Rooking Jewels, 5 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: second dat ud Do you ever have one of those 6 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: moments you say something and you just wish you could 7 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,479 Speaker 1: suck the words right back into your mouth because you 8 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 1: know it was wrong. Yes, and especially happens a lot 9 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: in the dating world. I know, I was out on 10 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: a date once with this girl. We've been dating for 11 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: a long time, A long time, like a couple of 12 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: years at that point, and I was like, I love you. 13 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh no, don't say that. Can 14 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: we just go back in time and forget that? I 15 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: said that. Things like that happen all the time. Dave, 16 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 1: who was on the phone and wants to do a 17 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 1: second date update today, had a similar problem on his date. Dave, 18 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: how you doing, Hey, guys, what's going on? Not much? 19 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: So tell us a little bit about your date. Well, 20 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: I met this girl named Reese on a dating app 21 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: and we chatted onlines a little bit and we decided 22 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: to go on a date and we went out for 23 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: dinner I wanted to make it like an early dinner, 24 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 1: sort of keep it open ended in case things were 25 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: going really well. You were planning ahead of time, just 26 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: in case you could take her back to your place. Well, 27 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that, but you kind of just did. 28 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: Then let's go to dinner. There's this cute place right 29 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: around the corner from my house, so in case we 30 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: have a little too much, we can just walk back 31 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: to my house. I mean, no big deal, right, that 32 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: was I wouldn't I wouldn't say that. That wasn't on 33 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: my mind. At least you're honest. Yeah, so you know, 34 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 1: it was just like, I'm not only going further than 35 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: a stone throw from my place. So did the night 36 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: end like you had hoped? Um? It didn't go badly. 37 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: I had a really really good time. We had a 38 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 1: really good time at dinner, and I think I did 39 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: pick the right kind of place that you would have light. 40 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: But there was a funny thing that happened that I 41 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: feel like threw everything off of the night. Was that 42 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: before we ordered food, I asked her what she was 43 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: thinking of getting, and she mentioned that she was thinking 44 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: about getting an appetizer, a salad, and the main course okay, 45 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: And I said, I, this is such a stupid, stupid 46 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: thing to say it, but I said, wow, it's refreshing 47 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: to meet a girl that isn't afraid to eat like 48 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 1: one of the guys. That is definitely the wrong thing 49 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: to say. Yeah, you're like, oh, it's nice to go 50 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: with a girl who's not giving an order a salad 51 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: an act like she never eats. Is that exactly how 52 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: you said it? Though? It was like it just like 53 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: I thought I was being funny. And as soon as 54 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,679 Speaker 1: I said that, I like, there was just this dead 55 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: silence at the table and I was immediately trying to 56 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: just eat my words. But oh, man, so how did 57 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: she react after you said that? Well, she just kind 58 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: of stared at me and she rolled her eyes and said, well, 59 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: I'll just order a salad. Then did she just order 60 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: a salad? Then she eventually she got the salad and 61 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: the course, but we skipped the appetite. Man, you ordered 62 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 1: the appetizer for her at that point and then eat 63 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: it in front of her. You don't get any because 64 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: you punked out on the appetizer. I went to the 65 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: bathroom and looked at myself in the mirror, and I 66 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: was just like, what what am I going to do? 67 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:27,679 Speaker 1: Did you take a chance to laugh at yourself? A 68 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: little bit? Definitely after the fact, but immediately I was 69 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: embarrassed and apologetic and stuck my foot in my mouth essentially. 70 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: Did she seem cool after that? You know, it took 71 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: me some time, but I feel like I kind of 72 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: roped her back in m know, by the time, by 73 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: the time her food got there, she was laughing at 74 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: my jokes again. And so you guys were back like 75 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: on a good level after that. It wasn't like she 76 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: just shut down and ended the date. We were having 77 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: really good conversation, just back and forth. But it's just 78 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: I made this one slip up and I couldn't get 79 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: it off my mind as soon as I said it. Yeah, 80 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: if I had said that during a day, I'd be like, 81 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: I just screwed everything up. You want to end it now, 82 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: because I could pay and we get you to go 83 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 1: box for all the food you just ordered and we 84 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: can go her separate ways. How did everything end with her? Well, 85 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: what happened was I said, like I was planning to 86 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: do you want to go back to my place? And 87 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:23,359 Speaker 1: she said she wouldn't be able to tonight. So I 88 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: ended up just driving her home and she said I 89 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 1: had a really good time and that was it. Yeah, 90 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: of course she couldn't go back to your place. She 91 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: was too full, didn't want to get naked. No kiss 92 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: or anything. No, no, no kiss nothing. Then did you 93 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 1: make plans to go out again? That's the thing. I've 94 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: called her a couple of times and she just said 95 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 1: that she's busy. Like if she'd made it clear, I 96 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 1: would leave her alone. Okay, So instead you want to 97 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: call her on our show and ask her in front 98 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 1: of I don't know at least ten people who are listening, 99 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: why she's not calling you back. That seemed like a 100 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: pretty solid idea to all right, well we'll play a song, 101 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: come back, call her and get your second date update. 102 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:12,360 Speaker 1: All right, okay, good, all right, hang on frooking Jubil 103 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 1: in the morning. Se Dave is on the phone with 104 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: us today and he wants to do a second date 105 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 1: update with a girl named Reese. They met on a 106 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 1: dating app, went out for dinner, and he thinks the 107 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: reason that she's not calling him back he's During dinner, 108 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 1: there was an awkward point where she was like, I 109 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: want an appetizer, a salad and a main course, and 110 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: apparently he made a crack like, whoa, it's nice to 111 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: go out with a girl about such a healthy appetite, 112 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 1: and then he started going se feeding time and then 113 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: making hog noises at her right across the table, which 114 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 1: I thought was really a bold move on your part. Dave. Yeah, 115 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: he just started doing all that kind of stuff, like 116 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: somehow he got a triangle. He was ringing it like 117 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: a dinner bell. I don't know how you did all that, Dave. Yeah, 118 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: it's right, you forgot. You forgot. I took a little 119 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: bell out and tie that around her neck, so I 120 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 1: forgot about that part, James. Dave essentially did that because 121 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: he sort of made fun of her for eating a lot. 122 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: What did you What did you say to her? Again? 123 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: I said, all I said was it's refreshing to meet 124 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: a girl that isn't afraid to eat like one of 125 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 1: the guys. And that's the reason that Dave thinks she's 126 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: not calling him back is because he think, yeah, I mean, 127 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 1: I think it is too. But after that moment, she 128 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: got a little awkward, and then he feels like he 129 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: got her back on track and she was laughing at 130 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: the end of the date and everything seemed cool, but 131 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: she will not go out with him again, so he 132 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: is pretty much assuming that's the reason. Yep, all right, 133 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: I'm gonna doll the phone him right now. Get her 134 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 1: on the phone and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, okay, 135 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 1: thank you? Hello? Hi, can I speak to Reese please? 136 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: This is hi Reese. This is Jebil from brook and 137 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: Jewil in the morning. Like the radio. Yep, it is 138 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:10,679 Speaker 1: the radio calling you. I am the radio. Wait what Yeah, 139 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: you recently went out on a date with a guy 140 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: named Dave. Dave told us a little bit about your date. 141 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: He also said that you have been kind of blowing 142 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: him off, so he asked us to get you on 143 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: the phone and find out if there's something wrong with Dave. Okay, 144 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: is there? Um? I'm just I'm not really that interested 145 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: in going on another date with him. It was it 146 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: was the one time thing? Was it the fact that 147 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: Dave made a crack about how much food you were ordering? 148 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: You know what? That should have been my first warning sign. 149 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: There was almost a deal breaker. But yeah, he told 150 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: us a little bit about your date, and he said 151 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: that he felt really bad when he made that joke. Yeah, 152 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: he should have. So you just said almost a deal breaker. Yeah, 153 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: it's probably should have been. It should have been like 154 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: heads up to me that no. So was there a 155 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: deal breaker on the date then, I mean, yeah, definitely 156 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: there there was. And it happened right after dinner. Oh. Interesting, 157 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: Dave didn't tell us that anything happened after dinner other 158 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: than he took you back to your car and he left. Honestly, 159 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: I don't think he's even aware of it, to be honest, really, 160 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: so do you mind telling us what it was, just 161 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: so we can let him know. Well, so they bring 162 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 1: over the check, right, and that can sometimes be awkward, 163 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 1: but he picks it right up and clearly wants to pay, 164 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, that's that's really nice. And I 165 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: happened to just like peek over his shoulder at the 166 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: amount and he vote in zero dollars for the tip. 167 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: He was like, let's let's hut out. I could not. 168 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 1: I was like, wait, what's happening. This is not how 169 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,959 Speaker 1: you any dinner? So he stiffed the waiter. He didn't 170 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: tip at all. Yeah, I was so confused. I was like, 171 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: I have to ask him about this obviously, and so 172 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: I was like, did they screw up your meal? Like 173 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: what happened? You know? Like, what's up? Yeah? And he goes, no, No, 174 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Everything's good? Okay? Do you 175 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: think that he forgot to tip? Well? I said, look, 176 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: I happened to see that you didn't tip, and he 177 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: just goes, oh, right, Oh, it's because I don't believe 178 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: in tipping. What really? Tipping isn't a belief system that 179 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: you bee. It is for some people. There are people 180 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 1: out there who don't believe in tipping and don't it 181 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 1: won't tip. So he's one of those guys apparently. I 182 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: guess what was his Did he give you a reasoning? 183 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: Did you talk about it some more? Or was that 184 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 1: just it? I'll be honest, I was so livid at 185 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 1: this point, but I did press him a little bit more. 186 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 1: I was like, what do you mean don't believe in it? 187 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: And he just goes like, oh, well, restaurant should pay 188 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: the servers like the right amount they should. But that's 189 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:10,319 Speaker 1: not the real world. Listen. I used to be a waitress. Yeah, 190 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,719 Speaker 1: I worked in food service for a long time too, 191 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: and I would be super pissed if I went out 192 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: with somebody they didn't tip, oh man, And honestly, our 193 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: waiter was like great, totally like normal, great guy. And 194 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: I just like, I remember what the experience is like 195 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 1: if someone doesn't shift you, you just get like I 196 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: just felt like my how like eared get hot? And 197 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: just so like what did I do wrong? And why 198 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: would somebody like so? It's just disrespectful? Do you think 199 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 1: you could tell that you were upset about it? I 200 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: tried to hide it, like I did not want to 201 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: get into a fight with a guy that I don't 202 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: really know that well on the first date. I personally 203 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: can't stand it when people don't tip. I'd love to 204 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: get in a fight with Dave. Wouldn't you just like 205 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 1: to tell him off a little bit? I mean honestly 206 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: I did, but I would like the best way to 207 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: handle this, just like to put it behind me. What 208 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: if I gave you the opportunity to tell him off? 209 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 1: What what are you talking about? Oh? I mean that 210 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: Dave's actually on the other line listening to talk to you. 211 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you serious, Harry? Is it really 212 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:17,880 Speaker 1: such a big deal? But I don't tip. Yes, it's 213 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: a really big deal. It's like you're not a human being. 214 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: You don't respect other people. Sorry, but that is what 215 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:26,559 Speaker 1: it is. And I'm are we just getting into person 216 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: like personal attacks right now. I like, I can't believe 217 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: this is even a thing. Do you not understand how 218 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: if you're dating, Like, do you not understand that I 219 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: used to be a waitress? Somebody doesn't be a waitress? 220 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: Like it's it says, I can see that you've been 221 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 1: brainwashed by this thing. Oh my god, I don't know 222 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: if you guys know this tipping is a total scam, 223 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 1: sam my god, what like your money is going to 224 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,320 Speaker 1: go straight to the server, Like most servers don't even 225 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: claim that on their taxes. So yeah, most don't. But 226 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: that's how they make a living is by tips. It's 227 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: not my responsibility to tip them. It's like they should, 228 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 1: they should make more money from their job. It's a restaurant. 229 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: Learn to pay them. That's a lesson, well taught. So 230 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: you think that you're doing that, and in the meantime, 231 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: just every single person who works in the industry just 232 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 1: gets like completely short and just because you don't believe 233 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: well in a way, it's like a battle one one 234 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: step at a time, like this is something the restaurants 235 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 1: need to learn. So you feel like you not tipping 236 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 1: is taking a stand against the man, and you're gonna 237 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: force restaurants somehow to pay their staff more if you 238 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: don't tip. Absolutely. Oh no, my god, it's why is 239 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: this anything? Like in Europe they don't tip. You See 240 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: why I am not going to go out with this 241 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: guy again. Dave? Are you this cheap in every aspect 242 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: of your life or just in tipping? I'm not cheap? Like, like, 243 00:12:57,640 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: why is why is this such a big deal to 244 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: you people? Because it's what we do here in America? 245 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: Is we tip? And he says everything extra money to 246 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: people who don't deserve it, and it just says everything 247 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,479 Speaker 1: about who you are and the way you treat other people. Yeah, 248 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 1: google this. There are blog posts and news sites that 249 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: are devoted this subject. This is a scam and there's 250 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: no reason that this industry should be supportive. Okay, God, 251 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:30,719 Speaker 1: he seems normal, but he's a crazy person. This is 252 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: totally crazy. I can't believe I'm having this conversation. I'm sorry. Hey, Dave, 253 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm sure you have a fabulous blog 254 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: set up about your views on tipping. I'm going to 255 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: respectfully disagree with you, though, sir, but I will ask 256 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: Reese if she'd like to go on a second date 257 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: with you. Reese, would you like to go out with 258 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: Dave again? No, I'll throw in the tip. Don't worry 259 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: about that. Very funny in the morning.