WEBVTT - Depression Hive

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<v Speaker 1>Forever.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so up Top did not get much sleep last night.

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<v Speaker 2>I was I was up till six am, six am, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>so you are on four hours of sleep right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Is what you're saying to the to the people I am,

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<v Speaker 2>And let's just see how how successful this episode is.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited for what's to come.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm also excited. Let me put my phone on do

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<v Speaker 3>not Disturb so I can give you my full attention.

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<v Speaker 3>M M, my full attention. Now, what were you doing

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<v Speaker 3>babe until six am?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it took me forever to finish a video for Patreon,

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<v Speaker 2>and I get in my head about it. I'm really good.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like at Instagram stories, I feel like that's

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<v Speaker 2>where my little boost goes. I think that's where I have, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the most engagement because I'm not thinking about it. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just like coming out of my mouth and I'm pressing posts.

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<v Speaker 2>But with these videos, you know, they can be shared.

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<v Speaker 2>People could think it's good or funny or whatever. You're

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<v Speaker 2>You're you're really great at it. But overall I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is do do do do? And I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>anybody to see this ship and how is this helpful?

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what are you talking about in the video because

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<v Speaker 2>this one to be helpful. Oh the subject, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even tell you because I got to post

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<v Speaker 2>it so that you can see. Oh, because because it

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<v Speaker 2>is funny. It's very funny. But you're gonna be like

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<v Speaker 2>god damn us. Okay, I usually say that when you speak,

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<v Speaker 2>so okay, oh oh yes. And then the other thing

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<v Speaker 2>is is that I was up listening to the episode

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<v Speaker 2>of Sydney Is the New Orange because I was listening

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<v Speaker 2>to jokes in it. Orange is the New Sydney.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she's listening to the episode. She wasn't reading the

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<v Speaker 3>title right. Why would she do that?

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<v Speaker 2>It was so good and soul there was it's nothing

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<v Speaker 2>but jokes everything a girl. Because I'm a good interviewer,

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<v Speaker 2>That's why it was nothing. But I mean, you're a

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<v Speaker 2>good storyteller. But I feel like, oh no, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like, well no, because I feel like the way

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<v Speaker 2>that you started to tell the story versus the way

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<v Speaker 2>that I was asking you to tell the story is

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<v Speaker 2>two different versions.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, I totally agree. Yes, I mean yes, I mean, Sidney,

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<v Speaker 1>you were a fabulous storyteller. But I do remember it

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<v Speaker 1>because I do revisit that episode too, feel like that's

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<v Speaker 1>like the episode that I have revisited the most. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do recall like Sydney came in hot with

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<v Speaker 1>like burying the lead I in my recollection, like no

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<v Speaker 1>I did, yes, like all of a sudden, we're all

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<v Speaker 1>the way here in memory, was like oh no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Of take us through it, like yes, right, wearing who

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<v Speaker 2>was there?

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<v Speaker 4>What? How did you feel?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, honestly, Sydney to have three episodes of all

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<v Speaker 2>time that was fantastic. Yeah, And now I'm like, fuck,

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<v Speaker 2>it was so much stuff that I was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 2>I was writing down everything that I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the point, and this is the point. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>five minutes is not possible, but it is five minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>I will have the five minutes together. But whatever, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>So that's what I was saying. But like, even how

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<v Speaker 2>you just said that nobody knows what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>You said, five minutes is what you got to give

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<v Speaker 2>people context. Oh, five minutes for a set that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna tape.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so City's doing a five minute set and she's

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<v Speaker 3>telling that story.

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<v Speaker 4>That's all you had to say, friend.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why you're a great interviewer.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I'm because I listen the way that like somebody

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<v Speaker 2>who's like like, because I know, I know what happens,

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<v Speaker 2>I know what the story is. I know I knew

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<v Speaker 2>everything that happened when she got arrested, but like the

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<v Speaker 2>people who are listening, they've never heard the story before.

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<v Speaker 3>And I feel like you even with me, though, Sidney

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<v Speaker 3>does that. She'll start a story like in the middle

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<v Speaker 3>as if we already talked about it, and I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 3>wait what.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I'm not a great storyteller. So actually I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>No you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, let's know. Let's no, no, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>a great storyteller. And Maria is a great interviewer, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm appreciative because it it makes us get better as

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<v Speaker 2>people eventually.

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<v Speaker 3>Sidney, you're a good interviewer too. Well, you're a good host.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, you're great host. All right, Marie, let's

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<v Speaker 2>how are you doing. Let's get to use this well.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go back to what you said about

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<v Speaker 2>the Patreon videos being very stressful, because when I do them,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, well, this could go viral, and it's like

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<v Speaker 2>I have to look, I have to be happy with

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<v Speaker 2>what I look like, and I have to be happy with,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like how many jokes are in it or

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<v Speaker 2>how funny I think it is, because I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, potentially one hundred thousand people to see

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<v Speaker 2>it or twenty thousand people to see it. And I'm like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 2>why didn't I reshoot it? And blah blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I did it yesterday and I had a

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<v Speaker 2>baking egg and cheese right before I shot the video,

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<v Speaker 2>and there's crumbs on my face. But the way that

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram like uploads videos and photos, they always come up

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit less clear. They're like a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say that I feels that the story

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the bacon, egg and cheese was a great

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<v Speaker 1>marketing tool because when you were talking about like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I just shot this video and there's bacon,

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<v Speaker 1>egg and cheese on my lips, and I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to watch this video, not just because you're funny,

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<v Speaker 1>but also I want to see the bacon, egg and cheese,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just playing us a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, my video there was like it was like

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<v Speaker 3>and when I uploaded it I was like, oh, you

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<v Speaker 3>can't even really okay. Yeah, so now you know, if

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<v Speaker 3>there are ever crumbs on your face, just upload the

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<v Speaker 3>video on Instagram and you know the system will make

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<v Speaker 3>the video not that clear. So God is good. But

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing okay, Sidney. I I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 3>guys can hear.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 3>They're not drilling right now, but they're doing work in

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<v Speaker 3>front of my building. They're like laying down brick and

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<v Speaker 3>giving me a little stoop. So you know, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>have like a step coming up to the building. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm very excited about that. Someplace, another place to smoke weed.

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<v Speaker 3>So the excited Andrew, what are you drinking at ice coffee?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm drinking ice coffee, my second one.

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<v Speaker 2>Lovely wow two coffees and eating earlier.

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<v Speaker 4>A sausage and cheese.

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<v Speaker 1>Love that.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was on set on Tuesday and they were like,

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<v Speaker 3>we were like, let's go get more food to leave

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<v Speaker 3>because I like to leave with food when I work

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<v Speaker 3>on stuff. And they had like extra sandwiches and they

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<v Speaker 3>were like, oh, this is left over from breakfast if

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<v Speaker 3>you guys want it. And I was like, what's that?

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<v Speaker 3>And they were like bacon, egg and cheese, sausage and cheese,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, oh, I don't want that. That's nasty.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was like I could throw that in

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<v Speaker 3>the oven tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's what that's what I've been eating for the

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<v Speaker 2>last two days. That's crazy. They didn't have any of

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<v Speaker 2>that yesterday. They didn't have no sausage and cheese, bacon.

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<v Speaker 2>Did they give you lunch? They had? They had bagels.

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<v Speaker 2>They had bacoels with cream cheese or like butter, and

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that I was getting cream cheese and it

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<v Speaker 2>was nothing but butter. They mic waved it and then

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<v Speaker 2>when I opened it was just buttered ripping all over

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<v Speaker 2>the place.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, fuck, I can't believe it's better.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, they microwaved the bagel. Is that something that you

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<v Speaker 3>could do with bagels?

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<v Speaker 2>Honey? That's that's what they was doing on over there.

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<v Speaker 2>And I said, okay, well, I guess it's better than nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna wake up this morning, I had like

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<v Speaker 3>a I was like, I'm gonna write in my morning pages.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I'm gonna take a walk to the ATM. Then

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna get a bagel with locks. I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 2>to Duanne read and buy some lotion.

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<v Speaker 3>And then Andrews sent a text and was like, we

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<v Speaker 3>have the episode, were recording this morning, and I was like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 3>there goes my day. I think the way that you

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<v Speaker 3>start your day is like very important for how the

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<v Speaker 3>rest of your day goes.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt so bad sending that text because I knew

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<v Speaker 1>that you definitely didn't remember, and no, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Knew we were recording today. I just thought it was

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<v Speaker 3>at like I don't know, ten pm or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Not doing that, Bag says sweets like, who would ten pm?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing that.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we me and Sidney could have done ten pm.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh send me the file.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we would send me the file. Maybe I will

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<v Speaker 2>not be there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you could have, you know, set the zoom up

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<v Speaker 3>and then you could have put your laptop on mute.

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<v Speaker 2>We're here now, Yeah we did. We got there and

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<v Speaker 2>so yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So can we talk about how cold it is

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<v Speaker 3>in New York right now? It's thirty one degrees today.

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<v Speaker 2>It's no it's November going on December. This shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 2>a surprise. It actually should be on point, which it

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<v Speaker 2>hasn't been in weeks. It finally, it finally is like

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to be what it's supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you know what it is is because we

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<v Speaker 3>had that like we had that week where it was

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<v Speaker 3>like seventy two degrees for some random reason like no.

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<v Speaker 2>Global warming actually to be fast.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was actually because Trump lost because the

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<v Speaker 3>day that we found out the seventy degrees in New York, Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>what a gorgeous spring summer fall day. And now it's

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<v Speaker 3>like it's cold. And obviously we have seasons here. Some

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<v Speaker 3>places people are listening and they don't have four seasons

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<v Speaker 3>for seasons landscaping, but we uh, it just makes me

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<v Speaker 3>want to be in the house, but I also want

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<v Speaker 3>to be outside for some sunlight during the day. So

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how are y'all. Are you guys going outside.

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<v Speaker 1>Outside?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going on set so I will be outside. But

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<v Speaker 2>other than that, no, I've been really just trying to

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<v Speaker 2>stay in the casa and keep it very cute. But

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<v Speaker 2>you know, there's always something to make you do something else.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I see Jams fat ass back there living his best

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<v Speaker 3>cat life.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, the jam is. I don't know what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on with him, but he will be sleeping so

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<v Speaker 2>hard that I'm I think that he's dead, and my

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<v Speaker 2>heart drops, Like, Sydney, I feel like I'm having a

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<v Speaker 2>panic attack. He just because he's sleeping hard.

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<v Speaker 3>He's a cat, a fat cat at that that's the

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<v Speaker 3>only way he knows how to sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>Sys is hard. No, sometimes I'll just call him his

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<v Speaker 2>name and he's up. He's like whoa, huh, what what

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<v Speaker 2>are missing? What's going on? But I mean last night

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<v Speaker 2>he just I caused his name three times and he

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<v Speaker 2>would not wake up. And I said, if this cat

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<v Speaker 2>dies in this apartment, lord take me too, because I

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<v Speaker 2>would be screaming and wailing.

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<v Speaker 3>Was supposed to be sleeping too, right, Sydney, what makes

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<v Speaker 3>you think that the cat is dead?

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<v Speaker 2>He wasn't waking up. He wouldn't. He wouldn't open his eyes,

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<v Speaker 2>he was awake.

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<v Speaker 3>You're a black mom, and black moms call you when

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<v Speaker 3>they don't need anything. They'd be like my mom would.

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<v Speaker 4>Be like why why? But then you come down and

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<v Speaker 4>she's just like.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn, damn.

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<v Speaker 3>He knows you don't need anything. That's look, I saw

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<v Speaker 3>the foot. He knows you don't need anything. That's why

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<v Speaker 3>he's ignoring you.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, bitch, my girlfriend, calls him a bum every time,

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<v Speaker 2>but he is a nigga, and I'm like, he's getting

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<v Speaker 2>it together. No, he's not, Sydney. The cat doesn't even

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<v Speaker 2>have unemployment. He's not bringing no extra funds to the house.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a bumb. My friend came over. Our friend came

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<v Speaker 2>over last night and I was talking about this, these

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<v Speaker 2>damn animals. It was we were going towards the end

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<v Speaker 2>of wrapping up the sash, and she said, well, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>nothing is alarming. But she's like, if you were doing

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<v Speaker 2>too much, I would let you know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not really your Friendsis, you are definitely doing too much.

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<v Speaker 2>Every time she's like, Marie, look, Jelly's letting me hold her,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, is your cat and she's been your cat

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<v Speaker 2>for the last five years. I was. I was not

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<v Speaker 2>really in her life. I was not participating for five

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<v Speaker 2>of those years.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so she's been your cat for more than five

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<v Speaker 3>years because you were with Adrianne for five So the

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<v Speaker 3>cats must.

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<v Speaker 2>Be like eight seven.

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<v Speaker 3>Shut up, bitch, no, because you were there for the

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<v Speaker 3>full five years, Sydney.

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<v Speaker 4>So for you to be like I wasn't really a part.

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<v Speaker 3>You were there, Sis, you lived there, You ignored them

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<v Speaker 3>for five years. Of course she doesn't want you to

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<v Speaker 3>touch her.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, okay, come on, therapist, come on, ongoing fucking wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Really it's actually it's actually the undoing whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I meant, I thank you, Khani Chung.

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<v Speaker 4>It's go cut and called me honey Chung.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So is there anything new that we want to

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<v Speaker 2>tell the listeners about today? Uh? Well, I have to

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<v Speaker 2>address the not the last episode, like the but the

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<v Speaker 2>episode before that when Bitch was sad. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>had so many people in my DMS thinking I was

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<v Speaker 2>going to commit suicide, and I had several people call

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<v Speaker 2>me that hadn't. I was on the phone like hello,

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<v Speaker 2>how did you get my number? But it was it

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<v Speaker 2>was legit, like a friend that friends that I used

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<v Speaker 2>to work with. They're like, yeah, listen to that podcast

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<v Speaker 2>every week. And I was like, oh my god, goodness gracious,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, I'm fine. I'm fine. Everybody has those days.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, the last I wrote team me, he called

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<v Speaker 2>me last night and he's like, you know, I just

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<v Speaker 2>want to make sure that I reach out because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to hear something. And then no, I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't check on you. Oh my God, he was making

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<v Speaker 2>sure he was putting in his time just in case.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I feel like that's that Sometimes that's what friendship

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<v Speaker 3>is is. It's not every day checking on somebody. But

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<v Speaker 3>like when you hear something like that, wouldn't you? I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that would make me feel good that

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<v Speaker 3>people are listening and care enough to reach out. But

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<v Speaker 3>then on the flip side, it makes me feel bad

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<v Speaker 3>because it's like, well, what if I was talking about you, like, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't I don't know all of these you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know all these people listen to

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<v Speaker 2>the podcasts like duhok. When I used to work at

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<v Speaker 2>the bar and I would talk about some of my coworkers,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, they fucking knew. They definitely had to the

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<v Speaker 2>way people be sliding in like oh my god, this

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<v Speaker 2>was so funny or blah blah. They had to m

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<v Speaker 2>They had to know that I was calling them an untry,

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<v Speaker 2>untrustworthy ass bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what's so sucky about like dating new people is

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<v Speaker 3>you know, obviously I'm very cool, and they want to

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<v Speaker 3>be uh. They want to see everything that I'm doing

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<v Speaker 3>and know what I'm talking about, and I don't tell

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<v Speaker 3>them about the podcast, but it's out there, so they

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<v Speaker 3>find it, and I always like tell people, I'm always

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<v Speaker 3>afraid to be like, well, don't listen to it. I

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<v Speaker 3>have told people not to listen to it before. But

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<v Speaker 3>when you tell somebody not to listen to something, they're

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<v Speaker 3>going to want to hear what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>They have to. They're like, well, why can't I listen?

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<v Speaker 2>And then as soon as I walk away, they're like

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<v Speaker 2>episode one or they want to listen to something with

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<v Speaker 2>a catchy as title.

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<v Speaker 4>But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I still have I have things to say about I

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<v Speaker 3>always will have things to say about these men. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna still talk about them, but I'm gonna take

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<v Speaker 3>my time and I'm gonna space it out in a

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<v Speaker 3>way that it seems like is.

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<v Speaker 2>She talking to somebody? Yeah, or he used to do that,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, years ago. But then you when you

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<v Speaker 2>open Pandora's box and just was like, Okay, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be I'm gonna be just real, real deal holy field,

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<v Speaker 2>which I really enjoy that that part of Marie's life

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<v Speaker 2>is me being honest.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hm, Why I think I pride myself in being

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty honest person. When's the last time you told

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<v Speaker 3>a lie, like an unnecessary lie.

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<v Speaker 2>Every day, every day, every day I'm lying about something

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<v Speaker 2>or embellishing embellishing something. I mean usually i'm lying when

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like I'm on my way, I'm lying about that,

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<v Speaker 2>or eta is twenty minute, I'm lying about that, if

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<v Speaker 2>anything with the time, I'm lying about.

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<v Speaker 4>But one time, this girl complimented me on my eyeshadow

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<v Speaker 4>and I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, oh, I'm not wearing any makeup and she was like,

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<v Speaker 3>but I see it, and I was like, no, that's

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<v Speaker 3>my mid color.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was also in like high.

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<v Speaker 4>School, so I don't know why I lied, but I did.

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<v Speaker 3>But I mean, like an unnecessary lie like that, Andrew,

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<v Speaker 3>last lie you told.

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<v Speaker 1>I usually lie about how much money I'm getting paid

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<v Speaker 1>for projects and things.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn to your mom. You say that you're getting more

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<v Speaker 2>more Yeah, And then they pull up on him and

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<v Speaker 2>try to get the same rate, and they're like, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>I know he's lying to his mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh exactly, I'm lying to my mom. Yeah, I'm lying

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<v Speaker 1>to or I'm just like lying to other people that

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<v Speaker 1>actually have jobs that actually pay well. And because this

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<v Speaker 1>is not the cutest check, as you could probably.

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine, Andrew.

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<v Speaker 3>We get checks from this too. We know they're not

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<v Speaker 3>that cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey hey, it's something, I mean, considering what's going on

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<v Speaker 2>right now. Yes, yes, yes, I'm thankful.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, yeah, that's usually about that, or like how are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? And I just say I'm good. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to get into it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. Oh, well that's a lie that everybody tells

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<v Speaker 2>every day, right, yeah. I lie on my mom about

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<v Speaker 2>how much stuff costs, Like She's like, well, how much

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<v Speaker 2>did you pay for that? And I'd be like, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>not too, Like those are the liars that I'll tell.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean, realistically, now it's like, Sis, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>remember how much I paid. You know, I just swiped.

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<v Speaker 5>Rich.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not even that it's not that I'm rich. Before

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<v Speaker 3>I make any purchase, I I weigh all the options.

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<v Speaker 2>I read all the reviews.

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<v Speaker 4>I look for all the.

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<v Speaker 2>Promo codes, the coupon codes.

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<v Speaker 3>I do everything I can to be like not spend

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<v Speaker 3>the money, and then when I'm finally ready to spend it,

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<v Speaker 3>I do. And then sometimes I'm like, oh, I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>need that, or why did I do that?

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<v Speaker 2>Or why didn't I wait till Black Friday or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>the hell. So now I'm not gonna buy anything until

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<v Speaker 2>after Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's what I'm on.

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<v Speaker 2>The Black Friday. The Black Friday prices are very very hopeful.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode comes out on Black Friday.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I'm happy, look at Black Friday.

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<v Speaker 2>So the title is black Friday, Black Friday. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>black black Friday. For Black Friday, it's Black Hosts with Andrew.

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<v Speaker 2>It would be black Friday if you weren't or Andrew,

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<v Speaker 2>if you just.

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<v Speaker 3>Set in the file right if you want to, if

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<v Speaker 3>you want to, go ahead and lug out for me,

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<v Speaker 3>sweet baby.

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<v Speaker 1>The second I log out, the zoom is over.

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<v Speaker 2>Put it on mute and take a walk. Andrew. He's

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<v Speaker 2>always pulling our edges and always pulling them.

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<v Speaker 4>Andrew thinks he is the Beyonce of the podcastle.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, well, we could send you to by talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Logistically, Yes, it will be over if I leave.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, he's getting red.

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<v Speaker 1>You called me the Beyonce of the podcast, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that that's really fitting.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you just said there would be no group without you, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly logistically, yes, there wouldn't be a recording right now

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<v Speaker 1>if it weren't for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, for me, for me. Maybe is there anything that

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<v Speaker 2>you guys feel like you need that like you would

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<v Speaker 2>buy for a black Frighter. I mean, I've had so

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<v Speaker 2>much idle time in this motherfucker, like I'm just buying

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<v Speaker 2>stuff at this point, and so there's nothing that I

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<v Speaker 2>really need. I mean, I do need to throw this

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<v Speaker 2>table out that I have in my office and get

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<v Speaker 2>a smaller one because it's taking up too much time

0:21:19.920 --> 0:21:23.640
<v Speaker 2>much space. Uh, you know, the cats need more room

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever. And I need to throw out this this

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<v Speaker 2>what do you pull out? Couch or whatever. I need

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<v Speaker 2>to all the futon I need to get that out

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<v Speaker 2>of here too, and this table. There's things that I

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<v Speaker 2>need to get out so that I can make room

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<v Speaker 2>for new, more stuff. And that's what I think my

0:21:41.480 --> 0:21:45.000
<v Speaker 2>hoarding really is, is that once I get rid of something,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm definitely bringing something back in this bitch, and so

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<v Speaker 2>it's not just empty space. And I think your home

0:21:54.760 --> 0:21:59.320
<v Speaker 2>is definitely a reflection of your mind. And that's and

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<v Speaker 2>I will say, well, that's what my my doctor said.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>That's another that's another conversation, but that's.

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<v Speaker 3>A beautiful poem. Friend, Your home is a reflection.

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<v Speaker 2>Of your mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, my home is cold, so my mind is

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<v Speaker 3>also cold.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, speaking of the heat, I don't know about y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>but I feel like Goldilocks. I really do feel like

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<v Speaker 2>like I can't there is no middle ground. It's either

0:22:29.520 --> 0:22:34.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm freezing or the project heat is blasting so high

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<v Speaker 2>that it's it's sucking out all of the moisture in

0:22:38.720 --> 0:22:43.000
<v Speaker 2>my face and in my pussy and it's upsetting. Oh yeah.

0:22:43.320 --> 0:22:47.000
<v Speaker 2>Either it's either in soul, either it's wop slipping slide

0:22:47.080 --> 0:22:51.520
<v Speaker 2>records in this house, or it's it's sandpaper.

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<v Speaker 3>What's Sidney, what do you? What's this look that you

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<v Speaker 3>got on in the house right now?

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<v Speaker 4>What are you wearing?

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<v Speaker 3>Because Andrew and I are both wearing sweaters, and I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like your whole body is exposed.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, because it's so hot in here, like when the

0:23:07.800 --> 0:23:11.560
<v Speaker 2>heat actually turns on. I also need to put on

0:23:11.600 --> 0:23:16.640
<v Speaker 2>a humidifier or boil some water because it is taking

0:23:16.800 --> 0:23:21.520
<v Speaker 2>any little thing from my body. Oh wait, sucking it.

0:23:22.800 --> 0:23:25.840
<v Speaker 3>Oh God, that sounds nice. Actually sucking it sounds cute.

0:23:26.080 --> 0:23:32.720
<v Speaker 2>Thanks that for you, Thank you, I love that for you. Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're saying that your apartment is too hot, too hot?

0:23:37.400 --> 0:23:39.879
<v Speaker 2>And then too cold because it's not all day, and

0:23:39.920 --> 0:23:43.040
<v Speaker 2>then when it's when the heat is off, it's fucking

0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:48.960
<v Speaker 2>burst city. And it's you know, someone said, nobody is

0:23:49.000 --> 0:23:52.320
<v Speaker 2>gonna be perfectly happy with everything, and I said, I

0:23:52.440 --> 0:23:54.800
<v Speaker 2>just gotta call it what it is and just be

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<v Speaker 2>thankful that I have an apartment.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, be thankful that you have an apartment with

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<v Speaker 3>an office be Okay, did y'all hear my friend has

0:24:01.920 --> 0:24:03.119
<v Speaker 3>an office in her home?

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<v Speaker 2>Andrew, do you have an office?

0:24:05.160 --> 0:24:09.520
<v Speaker 1>No? This is because my setup is like I'm right

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<v Speaker 1>next to the radiator, right next to the radiator, and

0:24:12.880 --> 0:24:15.960
<v Speaker 1>if I touch it, I get burnt. But and this

0:24:16.040 --> 0:24:17.760
<v Speaker 1>is the only place in my apartment that I could

0:24:17.760 --> 0:24:20.800
<v Speaker 1>possibly like set up like a little office space, and

0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:23.280
<v Speaker 1>it's in this little cranny. But I'm so glad that

0:24:23.320 --> 0:24:24.760
<v Speaker 1>you have an office space.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Yeah, the way y'all keep saying it out loud,

0:24:27.880 --> 0:24:31.240
<v Speaker 2>it's like a fucking you know what else is in

0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:36.440
<v Speaker 2>that office space? A printer? A printer, A printer. I

0:24:36.440 --> 0:24:39.880
<v Speaker 2>want to tell you, this beach is reach No, no, no, no, no,

0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:47.720
<v Speaker 2>let's let's keep it one hundred Okay, let's keep it straight.

0:24:47.800 --> 0:24:50.000
<v Speaker 2>Benjamin's in here that was a gift.

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<v Speaker 3>I wish somebody would get me a printer and a

0:24:53.040 --> 0:24:56.040
<v Speaker 3>year sulive ink. I say this, and that's that's.

0:24:55.920 --> 0:24:56.280
<v Speaker 2>What I want.

0:24:56.280 --> 0:24:59.960
<v Speaker 1>Because is the most annoying part because ink is dumb.

0:25:00.160 --> 0:25:03.480
<v Speaker 3>It's like I have to buy more and then I

0:25:03.560 --> 0:25:06.439
<v Speaker 3>can only get this specific type of ink.

0:25:07.160 --> 0:25:11.720
<v Speaker 2>I was also gifted with more ink, so yeah, wow,

0:25:12.840 --> 0:25:16.359
<v Speaker 2>oh the printer came with extra ink my Christmas present

0:25:16.440 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 2>they got. But hey, hey, hey wait, that doesn't mean

0:25:20.880 --> 0:25:23.880
<v Speaker 2>that I can't use more ink in the future. But yeah,

0:25:23.920 --> 0:25:27.080
<v Speaker 2>it came with ink. And then I was I ran

0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:31.840
<v Speaker 2>out and h this person gifted me some more ink. Wow.

0:25:32.119 --> 0:25:33.399
<v Speaker 2>Ink sponsorship.

0:25:33.880 --> 0:25:36.600
<v Speaker 3>That is I think the market that we need to

0:25:36.640 --> 0:25:37.600
<v Speaker 3>break into.

0:25:37.440 --> 0:25:39.320
<v Speaker 2>Is the ink sponsorship.

0:25:39.640 --> 0:25:42.760
<v Speaker 3>Andrew, you know, as the Beyonce logistically of the podcast,

0:25:43.200 --> 0:25:46.600
<v Speaker 3>what can you do to get us some ink brand deals?

0:25:46.920 --> 0:25:50.560
<v Speaker 1>Let's rolling out right now for ink.

0:25:51.640 --> 0:25:54.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, no, some of us need printers, so you should

0:25:54.040 --> 0:25:56.000
<v Speaker 2>get some apps for some printers to love.

0:25:56.880 --> 0:26:02.720
<v Speaker 3>You know, that's not me, Tracy Is Matthew knows you

0:26:02.720 --> 0:26:04.560
<v Speaker 3>you her daughter.

0:26:04.440 --> 0:26:08.160
<v Speaker 1>So okay, I'd be like they want ink.

0:26:09.320 --> 0:26:09.920
<v Speaker 2>Also, I don't.

0:26:10.000 --> 0:26:11.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't even know where I would put a printer

0:26:11.520 --> 0:26:13.959
<v Speaker 3>in my house, so it needs to be a travel

0:26:14.000 --> 0:26:14.679
<v Speaker 3>size printer.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

0:26:15.960 --> 0:26:16.760
<v Speaker 2>You could put it.

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:19.600
<v Speaker 1>I know where you could put it.

0:26:19.800 --> 0:26:21.960
<v Speaker 2>You could put it on like that bench that you

0:26:22.080 --> 0:26:25.159
<v Speaker 2>have by the table that sometimes people sit there and

0:26:25.320 --> 0:26:26.400
<v Speaker 2>sometimes they don't.

0:26:26.400 --> 0:26:29.040
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I could.

0:26:29.119 --> 0:26:30.200
<v Speaker 2>You're right, I'm thinking about it.

0:26:31.920 --> 0:26:34.880
<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well then Sydney, we were supposed to go antiquing

0:26:34.960 --> 0:26:38.560
<v Speaker 3>next Friday, but I just realized next Friday is Thanksgiving

0:26:38.640 --> 0:26:39.200
<v Speaker 3>Black Friday.

0:26:39.240 --> 0:26:41.560
<v Speaker 2>No, it's actually this Friday.

0:26:41.760 --> 0:26:43.320
<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, great.

0:26:44.240 --> 0:26:50.880
<v Speaker 2>Wait, it's this Friday. It's this Friday. Friend tomorrow tomorrow? Oh,

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:51.760
<v Speaker 2>look at it?

0:26:51.840 --> 0:26:51.959
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

0:26:52.560 --> 0:26:55.960
<v Speaker 2>Which is today? Which? Okay? This episode is out? Is

0:26:56.000 --> 0:27:02.720
<v Speaker 2>out last Friday. Last week we talk about confusion and

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 2>I love it. So yeah, this is I hate doing

0:27:09.320 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 2>things in the morning because I do feel discombobulated and

0:27:13.040 --> 0:27:16.840
<v Speaker 2>I do things get things like mixed up and I'm

0:27:16.880 --> 0:27:19.840
<v Speaker 2>backwards and forwards and I don't feel like I'm on

0:27:19.880 --> 0:27:24.680
<v Speaker 2>my A game. But you know, this is what helps

0:27:24.760 --> 0:27:27.959
<v Speaker 2>you get your day started. And that's half the battle.

0:27:28.280 --> 0:27:30.800
<v Speaker 3>It's not doing things in the morning that got you discombobulated.

0:27:30.800 --> 0:27:35.000
<v Speaker 3>You are on four hours of sleep, that's why you discombobulated. No,

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:36.879
<v Speaker 3>you woke up, you just went to sleep and you

0:27:36.880 --> 0:27:37.840
<v Speaker 3>also just woke up.

0:27:38.040 --> 0:27:40.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm not a morning person, so also when I'm going

0:27:40.680 --> 0:27:42.960
<v Speaker 2>to bed, I still when I wake up, I still

0:27:42.960 --> 0:27:45.440
<v Speaker 2>feel like I'm all over the place and not in order.

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:47.720
<v Speaker 2>So well, that's up.

0:27:48.080 --> 0:27:52.320
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm not a morning person, but I think

0:27:52.359 --> 0:27:56.640
<v Speaker 3>that you can like start habits that like make your

0:27:56.720 --> 0:28:01.240
<v Speaker 3>mornings make more sense for you. You know, if you

0:28:01.240 --> 0:28:04.080
<v Speaker 3>have a routine of things that you do in the morning,

0:28:04.119 --> 0:28:05.439
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to do this, and then I'm gonna do this,

0:28:05.480 --> 0:28:07.840
<v Speaker 3>and I'm gonna do this, then it makes your morning's

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:13.200
<v Speaker 3>easier or like more manageable. I think, mm hmm, that's

0:28:13.240 --> 0:28:13.800
<v Speaker 3>what I think.

0:28:14.880 --> 0:28:18.480
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm. Maybe maybe just start the day with some

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:23.720
<v Speaker 2>yoga babe, some downward dog. Okay, you and another friend

0:28:23.760 --> 0:28:26.680
<v Speaker 2>that will remain nameless are really on these this this

0:28:26.840 --> 0:28:31.440
<v Speaker 2>path or journey to you know, wellness, and I love this.

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:34.760
<v Speaker 2>I love this for the group, but you don't.

0:28:34.640 --> 0:28:36.240
<v Speaker 3>Love it for yourself because it seems like you are

0:28:36.280 --> 0:28:38.520
<v Speaker 3>nowhere near this path of wellness.

0:28:38.920 --> 0:28:40.959
<v Speaker 1>I think you start going to bed at a more

0:28:41.040 --> 0:28:41.760
<v Speaker 1>reasonable hour.

0:28:41.960 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's what it is, Andrew, you say it come through. No,

0:28:47.320 --> 0:28:50.800
<v Speaker 2>we really did want to hear that thank you. Come on, Joelle,

0:28:50.920 --> 0:28:54.040
<v Speaker 2>thank you on Black Friday. Come come talk to us. Man.

0:28:54.160 --> 0:28:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Okay, I'm just gonna mute myself for the

0:28:56.680 --> 0:28:57.480
<v Speaker 1>rest of the episode.

0:28:57.880 --> 0:29:01.760
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, we need you people. People are always

0:29:01.800 --> 0:29:04.000
<v Speaker 2>in the dms. Like I love when Andrew is on

0:29:04.040 --> 0:29:06.160
<v Speaker 2>the episode More of Andrew and.

0:29:06.280 --> 0:29:08.560
<v Speaker 1>Just telling you to go to bed more.

0:29:08.440 --> 0:29:11.800
<v Speaker 4>Andrew, Andrew, More Drew, Andrew. What time do you go

0:29:11.840 --> 0:29:12.320
<v Speaker 4>to bed?

0:29:13.080 --> 0:29:14.080
<v Speaker 1>Like around like eleven?

0:29:14.440 --> 0:29:17.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh? Wow? Fuck? Every day? Oh you're really?

0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Wait, because I wake up at like six seven,

0:29:21.680 --> 0:29:23.400
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, I'm tired.

0:29:23.640 --> 0:29:25.080
<v Speaker 2>But why do you get up so early?

0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:28.360
<v Speaker 1>You just have more hours in the day when you

0:29:28.400 --> 0:29:29.120
<v Speaker 1>wake up early?

0:29:29.360 --> 0:29:34.000
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Beyonce you that's really Beyonce has the same amount

0:29:34.080 --> 0:29:35.560
<v Speaker 2>as hours as everyone else.

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, you the same amount of hours in the

0:29:37.520 --> 0:29:38.240
<v Speaker 4>day as Beyonce.

0:29:38.480 --> 0:29:41.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh hey wow, oh.

0:29:41.280 --> 0:29:43.480
<v Speaker 2>Wow, I love that.

0:29:44.840 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 3>Can we talk about getting what we wish for and

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:49.240
<v Speaker 3>then not wanting the thing that we wish for?

0:29:50.240 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? You know, can we? Uh?

0:29:54.200 --> 0:29:56.920
<v Speaker 3>Sometimes you think you want something, or you asked for

0:29:56.960 --> 0:29:59.720
<v Speaker 3>a specific type of person, or you asked for a

0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:04.160
<v Speaker 3>speci type of job or thing, and then you get

0:30:04.160 --> 0:30:08.520
<v Speaker 3>it and you're like oh no, this is too much work,

0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:11.600
<v Speaker 3>or this is this is this person is too needy,

0:30:11.720 --> 0:30:13.040
<v Speaker 3>or this person's.

0:30:12.800 --> 0:30:16.360
<v Speaker 2>Specifics, Babe, I'm trying to be as vague as possible.

0:30:16.760 --> 0:30:19.840
<v Speaker 2>Or you're like this person is too needy, Like I

0:30:19.880 --> 0:30:23.240
<v Speaker 2>gotta see this person every day or once a week,

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:27.520
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. Like it's you know, everything

0:30:27.560 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 2>that you wanted in something, it come right back, it

0:30:30.480 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 2>come along in a different form. And you're like, this

0:30:33.520 --> 0:30:38.040
<v Speaker 2>is not actually it's not the it's not my size. Yeah,

0:30:38.120 --> 0:30:41.600
<v Speaker 2>time and is time and is everything? And uh, it's

0:30:41.640 --> 0:30:45.720
<v Speaker 2>it's truly, it's real. It's the thing about like when

0:30:45.760 --> 0:30:49.440
<v Speaker 2>you miss one train, there's another train coming or something

0:30:49.480 --> 0:30:52.480
<v Speaker 2>like that. But sometimes you might not be ready for

0:30:53.120 --> 0:30:55.960
<v Speaker 2>the next thing that's coming because you've you've already been

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:59.320
<v Speaker 2>exhausted from chasing after that thing. Well, not chasing, but

0:31:00.200 --> 0:31:03.040
<v Speaker 2>I like just psychology, yeah, but just trying to get

0:31:03.080 --> 0:31:05.800
<v Speaker 2>to the to the first train, and so now the

0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:08.440
<v Speaker 2>other ones is like damn, can I catch my bread? Bitch? Fuck,

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:11.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm already late. I might as well just be more late.

0:31:11.680 --> 0:31:15.680
<v Speaker 3>Well, the second train is your rebound train, and sometimes

0:31:15.920 --> 0:31:18.560
<v Speaker 3>and the rebound train is everything that the first train was.

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.960
<v Speaker 3>But no that you wanted the first train to be

0:31:21.960 --> 0:31:23.480
<v Speaker 3>be Yeah, but you're like, I.

0:31:23.480 --> 0:31:26.600
<v Speaker 4>Still you know that first train, that's the train.

0:31:26.960 --> 0:31:28.800
<v Speaker 2>It sounds like we're talking about people running trains on us,

0:31:28.840 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 2>but we're not. Yeah, we're not. But also that's a

0:31:30.880 --> 0:31:33.640
<v Speaker 2>great title, the rebound Train that we will we will

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:34.920
<v Speaker 2>love you know what.

0:31:34.800 --> 0:31:38.240
<v Speaker 4>It is is because it's fine whatever.

0:31:40.160 --> 0:31:42.800
<v Speaker 2>It's fine, sis, we love the vaguenscus.

0:31:42.800 --> 0:31:45.440
<v Speaker 3>The rebound Train sounds like something that somebody's gonna be like, well,

0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:46.239
<v Speaker 3>let me listen to this.

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:51.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we do be having titles, and uh, it always

0:31:51.640 --> 0:31:54.320
<v Speaker 2>works out for some of us, but other times. I

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:57.680
<v Speaker 2>mean the person that I'm that I'm dating listens to

0:31:57.720 --> 0:32:03.520
<v Speaker 2>the podcasts every week, not every week, but she definitely listens,

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:09.040
<v Speaker 2>and I can't. I can't say anything messy hey babe

0:32:09.120 --> 0:32:14.200
<v Speaker 2>pass And the thing is is that my last relationship,

0:32:14.240 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 2>I was very specific. I said, yeah, don't listen. I

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:20.480
<v Speaker 2>don't need you to listen. That's it. It'll be better

0:32:20.560 --> 0:32:25.360
<v Speaker 2>for our relationship. But she did listen. No, I think

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 2>like maybe one once or twice, but I think after

0:32:28.280 --> 0:32:30.560
<v Speaker 2>the second time she's like, yeah, I don't want to

0:32:30.600 --> 0:32:34.880
<v Speaker 2>listen anyway. But then her friends would be hitting her like, girl,

0:32:34.920 --> 0:32:37.120
<v Speaker 2>did you hear the episode? And she's like, no, I

0:32:37.120 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 2>don't listen, And they're like, oh, okay, well let me

0:32:40.120 --> 0:32:42.640
<v Speaker 2>paraphrase what I I mean. If I was you, I

0:32:42.720 --> 0:32:44.920
<v Speaker 2>commend you on being able to not listen. But what

0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 2>I heard was it also sounds like, y'all should it

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:51.320
<v Speaker 2>shaky as fuck? It's not dirty over there? Everything good

0:32:51.360 --> 0:32:53.600
<v Speaker 2>over there? Baby? You want me to drop off some soup?

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:58.040
<v Speaker 2>Y'all good? Y'all good? Yeah?

0:32:58.320 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but but fifty maybe not fifty percent.

0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:04.280
<v Speaker 3>I think forty percent of the you good texts are

0:33:04.320 --> 0:33:06.680
<v Speaker 3>people who don't want you to be good. They want

0:33:06.680 --> 0:33:08.160
<v Speaker 3>you to be doing bad so they can be like

0:33:08.920 --> 0:33:11.240
<v Speaker 3>it'll be okay, or so they can like feel good

0:33:11.240 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 3>about their situation. I think sometimes when people reach out

0:33:15.320 --> 0:33:19.520
<v Speaker 3>to their friends after they hear something, it's not always

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:22.240
<v Speaker 3>because that person that's reaching out has the best intentions

0:33:22.280 --> 0:33:24.800
<v Speaker 3>for you. Some people reach out because they're like, well,

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:26.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to get the tea so I can bring

0:33:26.160 --> 0:33:29.240
<v Speaker 3>it back to my group chet, you know, and.

0:33:29.600 --> 0:33:34.040
<v Speaker 2>For this year specifically, I'm gonna say, yeah, let them

0:33:34.120 --> 0:33:37.000
<v Speaker 2>give them that tea because it's been fucking dry. We're

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 2>doing the same stuff every day, and so I just

0:33:39.880 --> 0:33:43.520
<v Speaker 2>want to shout out to all the good brothers and

0:33:43.560 --> 0:33:46.520
<v Speaker 2>sisters that feel the need to text me and call

0:33:46.640 --> 0:33:50.080
<v Speaker 2>me and let me know their business when when I

0:33:50.120 --> 0:33:52.600
<v Speaker 2>was trying to like clean my apartment or get my

0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 2>day started, or you know, I really love that you

0:33:55.400 --> 0:33:59.040
<v Speaker 2>stopped me every single time to give me that good

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:02.280
<v Speaker 2>good And a lot of the times I'm always like, oh,

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:07.120
<v Speaker 2>are you serious, and so bless your hearts. I love

0:34:08.320 --> 0:34:12.560
<v Speaker 2>I love hearing about, not necessarily people's mess, but I

0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:15.799
<v Speaker 2>do love hearing about like a you know, like a

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 2>love triangle, or you know, somebody didn't pay the rent

0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:21.960
<v Speaker 2>in time and they're squatting in their house and it's like, oh.

0:34:21.880 --> 0:34:23.920
<v Speaker 4>I didn't know they was doing that bad. Like I

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:24.720
<v Speaker 4>do like hearing.

0:34:25.400 --> 0:34:29.560
<v Speaker 2>I like hearing people's mess, but also you know, these

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:32.160
<v Speaker 2>people are the same people are like, don't tell anybody,

0:34:32.200 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 2>don't tell Marie. So Marie doesn't even know.

0:34:34.320 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 3>So just no, I don't know if you've ever told

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:39.239
<v Speaker 3>Cities something and you told her not to tell me.

0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:39.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't.

0:34:40.200 --> 0:34:42.640
<v Speaker 4>I don't know nothing about your life, Janice.

0:34:42.760 --> 0:34:47.239
<v Speaker 2>It's just that's just how it works, unfortunately, And I

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:50.560
<v Speaker 2>can't even believe that Marie still talks to me, because

0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:53.839
<v Speaker 2>I really don't have anything to say at all. Who

0:34:54.840 --> 0:34:59.920
<v Speaker 2>the kettle is dry? Woo? I can't uh oh, you know,

0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:03.959
<v Speaker 2>but I wanted to talk about who y'all be going

0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:08.080
<v Speaker 2>to for the gynecologists, Who y'all got going, who y'all

0:35:08.120 --> 0:35:11.160
<v Speaker 2>got going? All up and through y'all running through your

0:35:11.160 --> 0:35:13.600
<v Speaker 2>pussy like the tomb raider. Who do you have? Because

0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:15.839
<v Speaker 2>I need to do that. I haven't had a pap

0:35:15.880 --> 0:35:18.880
<v Speaker 2>smere in a while, and you know, I used to

0:35:18.960 --> 0:35:23.160
<v Speaker 2>go to Plant Parenthood for everything, so I would go

0:35:23.200 --> 0:35:26.560
<v Speaker 2>there so much that they fucking knew me. Like, Okay,

0:35:26.680 --> 0:35:28.560
<v Speaker 2>we know what, we know what's really good? You know,

0:35:29.040 --> 0:35:31.759
<v Speaker 2>you think you got BV, but you don't. You're just

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:39.000
<v Speaker 2>wearing weird underwear. It's BV a bacteria vaginosis. Oh when

0:35:39.080 --> 0:35:43.160
<v Speaker 2>you said BV, I was like, beefy vaginas.

0:35:43.160 --> 0:35:44.640
<v Speaker 1>That sounds like a Harry Potter spell.

0:35:49.080 --> 0:35:53.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, the vagina is magical, So I was just the narrative.

0:35:53.480 --> 0:35:54.840
<v Speaker 2>I was sitting here trying to remember last time I

0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:57.080
<v Speaker 2>got a pap smere, But I do remember what it was.

0:35:57.160 --> 0:36:01.080
<v Speaker 2>Remember I they thought I had, Remember I talked about it.

0:36:01.080 --> 0:36:02.920
<v Speaker 2>On the podcast. Yes, what was it?

0:36:03.040 --> 0:36:07.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh h I was so mad. Yes, everyone has it.

0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:09.920
<v Speaker 4>And everybody was like, well, I've never had it.

0:36:10.239 --> 0:36:12.840
<v Speaker 2>I've never I too, have never had HBV.

0:36:13.120 --> 0:36:15.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh So I had it over the like the end

0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:17.520
<v Speaker 3>of the summer because I was talking to the Jamaican

0:36:17.560 --> 0:36:21.040
<v Speaker 3>at the time, remember him, Yeah, man, the Jamaican.

0:36:21.120 --> 0:36:23.239
<v Speaker 4>I was like, I think I have HPV and he

0:36:23.320 --> 0:36:27.520
<v Speaker 4>was like HPV the fuck what's that? And he was

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:28.279
<v Speaker 4>freaking out about it.

0:36:28.280 --> 0:36:31.120
<v Speaker 2>And then it was like, sir, you probably gave it

0:36:31.160 --> 0:36:31.360
<v Speaker 2>to me.

0:36:31.680 --> 0:36:33.160
<v Speaker 4>He's like, I'm gonna go talk to my doctor.

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:36.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you coughed on it and now I have it. Yeah,

0:36:36.600 --> 0:36:38.560
<v Speaker 2>what did Cardi B Say? When you eat baking egg

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:43.560
<v Speaker 2>and cheese, that's how you give people eat It's true,

0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:47.200
<v Speaker 2>though you eat it has baking egg and cheese, and

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:50.960
<v Speaker 2>then you let somebody sit on your greasy face. It's like, no,

0:36:51.120 --> 0:36:53.360
<v Speaker 2>you gotta brush your teeth. You can't. And like the

0:36:53.480 --> 0:36:56.040
<v Speaker 2>spit has a ton of bacteria, so you spitting on

0:36:56.080 --> 0:36:58.239
<v Speaker 2>it and you're doing all this crazy shit. It's like,

0:36:58.560 --> 0:36:59.520
<v Speaker 2>hold up.

0:36:59.560 --> 0:37:02.400
<v Speaker 4>I'm not taking medical advice from Cardi B.

0:37:02.920 --> 0:37:06.040
<v Speaker 2>But but that when it was valid, she was not lying.

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:09.560
<v Speaker 4>I don't know nothing about that.

0:37:09.640 --> 0:37:11.719
<v Speaker 3>I feel like, if somebody's coming to have sex with me,

0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:15.480
<v Speaker 3>or I'm going to somebody's house, then you in an

0:37:15.520 --> 0:37:19.400
<v Speaker 3>ideal world, you jump in the shower before I get there, right, Like,

0:37:20.320 --> 0:37:22.400
<v Speaker 3>if somebody's coming to pick me up, I'm like, oh,

0:37:22.520 --> 0:37:24.919
<v Speaker 3>let me, let me brush my teeth or like mouth

0:37:25.120 --> 0:37:25.760
<v Speaker 3>wash or something.

0:37:25.920 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:37:26.680 --> 0:37:29.000
<v Speaker 2>Well, as we learned, since people are not even washing

0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:31.279
<v Speaker 2>any fucking legs properly. So you know, no, no, no, no,

0:37:31.280 --> 0:37:32.239
<v Speaker 2>no no no, no, no no no.

0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:35.440
<v Speaker 3>White people aren't washing their legs properly. That's what Twitter

0:37:35.480 --> 0:37:38.560
<v Speaker 3>taught me. And I'm not banging white people in this economy, right.

0:37:38.680 --> 0:37:42.520
<v Speaker 1>They had that whole conversation last year about like and

0:37:42.520 --> 0:37:44.440
<v Speaker 1>like half of the country wasn't washing their legs in

0:37:44.480 --> 0:37:46.879
<v Speaker 1>the shower. Nope. And they're like and they were like, oh,

0:37:46.960 --> 0:37:49.000
<v Speaker 1>if I'm washing my armpits, then the soap is just

0:37:49.080 --> 0:37:51.880
<v Speaker 1>falling down past my legs. I'm like, that's not the

0:37:51.880 --> 0:37:52.840
<v Speaker 1>same thing, y'all.

0:37:53.160 --> 0:37:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Really, really really is dumb. You know, I'm not.

0:37:56.120 --> 0:37:58.920
<v Speaker 4>Using wash clothes, so the soap, the bar of soap

0:37:59.080 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 4>is just touching the arms and then yeah.

0:38:02.239 --> 0:38:06.200
<v Speaker 2>What it's too much for me. But I will say

0:38:06.400 --> 0:38:09.319
<v Speaker 2>sometimes it's hard to get all in the back, like

0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:12.200
<v Speaker 2>my arm is not reaching all the way. Like I'm

0:38:12.239 --> 0:38:15.640
<v Speaker 2>getting there, but there's like I'm definitely missing some spots.

0:38:16.000 --> 0:38:17.719
<v Speaker 3>Well yeah, but sometimes you know, do you do you

0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:21.840
<v Speaker 3>come up on the side of the or the shoulder.

0:38:22.000 --> 0:38:24.640
<v Speaker 3>I go above the shoulder, I try to go around.

0:38:24.719 --> 0:38:28.680
<v Speaker 2>I go under. You know, I have really long, long arms, thankfully,

0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:33.840
<v Speaker 2>but I do feel like right in the freaking middles,

0:38:34.239 --> 0:38:36.319
<v Speaker 2>you know, just just throw some soap on the cat

0:38:36.360 --> 0:38:37.960
<v Speaker 2>and have him roll up big.

0:38:42.080 --> 0:38:44.440
<v Speaker 3>Those cats use your body as a jungle gym anyway,

0:38:44.560 --> 0:38:47.880
<v Speaker 3>so let them help the wadies.

0:38:48.000 --> 0:38:51.080
<v Speaker 2>I love these fucking things. I mean, they they definitely

0:38:51.160 --> 0:38:53.880
<v Speaker 2>tell me. They they let me know when things are

0:38:53.880 --> 0:38:56.680
<v Speaker 2>getting too hectic in here and they're like, bitch, you

0:38:56.800 --> 0:39:00.719
<v Speaker 2>have got to get it together. It's ghettoing here right now.

0:39:00.840 --> 0:39:04.080
<v Speaker 2>So they tell your sister, Yeah, they be me owing

0:39:04.120 --> 0:39:06.800
<v Speaker 2>and or they're following me around, or if I've slept,

0:39:06.840 --> 0:39:10.879
<v Speaker 2>if I'm sleeping on the couch too long, Jelly will

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:14.040
<v Speaker 2>pounce on me and just like get up, like she

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:19.120
<v Speaker 2>taps me. She's like, bitch, ain't you got stuff to do? Well?

0:39:19.160 --> 0:39:21.520
<v Speaker 2>I thought they only meowed when they were hungry and

0:39:21.560 --> 0:39:24.759
<v Speaker 2>the bulls were empty. They do that too, but they

0:39:24.800 --> 0:39:30.200
<v Speaker 2>also meow when clearly I feel like I'm not my

0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:34.000
<v Speaker 2>normal self when I get really when I get really down,

0:39:34.560 --> 0:39:37.160
<v Speaker 2>they start me owing because they're like, get it together,

0:39:37.280 --> 0:39:43.040
<v Speaker 2>let's go. You got money to make. We cannot be homeless. Yeah,

0:39:43.120 --> 0:39:43.799
<v Speaker 2>I saw a video.

0:39:43.840 --> 0:39:45.840
<v Speaker 3>I sent you a video yesterday as a fat cat

0:39:45.920 --> 0:39:50.080
<v Speaker 3>on a treadmill. But she's meowing and it's in the

0:39:50.120 --> 0:39:55.759
<v Speaker 3>water and just one paw is moving. Did you see it?

0:39:56.280 --> 0:39:59.040
<v Speaker 2>I saw it. I saw it. I went to that

0:39:59.040 --> 0:40:04.200
<v Speaker 2>cat's page. That cat started at twenty one pounds and

0:40:04.320 --> 0:40:05.760
<v Speaker 2>the goal weight is twelve pounds.

0:40:05.760 --> 0:40:08.440
<v Speaker 4>So they're trying to get this cat some a body together.

0:40:08.560 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 2>Now. Apparently all the poor kitty did he get. He

0:40:12.040 --> 0:40:13.520
<v Speaker 2>gained all the weight during pandemic.

0:40:13.920 --> 0:40:15.240
<v Speaker 4>I think the cat was just fat.

0:40:16.000 --> 0:40:18.240
<v Speaker 2>I can't fit any of my jeans. I'm that cat.

0:40:18.680 --> 0:40:22.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm legit. I've gained so much weight on. My face

0:40:22.160 --> 0:40:26.920
<v Speaker 2>looks so puffy right now. So I'm working on my

0:40:27.640 --> 0:40:31.479
<v Speaker 2>birthday body, Like how Sydney tell us how you're working

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:33.880
<v Speaker 2>on your birthday body? Your birthday body.

0:40:35.000 --> 0:40:38.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm drinking more water that's it. That's all you're doing

0:40:38.120 --> 0:40:38.560
<v Speaker 3>to work on it.

0:40:38.640 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 1>That's step one one.

0:40:41.520 --> 0:40:44.040
<v Speaker 3>Also, more water could just be a cup of day

0:40:44.200 --> 0:40:49.560
<v Speaker 3>because that feels like more than what you were drinking before. Okay,

0:40:49.560 --> 0:40:53.919
<v Speaker 3>Sydney Birthday Body Round one or step one is drink

0:40:54.000 --> 0:40:54.480
<v Speaker 3>more water.

0:40:54.560 --> 0:40:59.000
<v Speaker 2>Step two is wet friend. Cut back on you know,

0:40:59.160 --> 0:41:04.560
<v Speaker 2>the juices, the sodas, the red bull, the Chinese food.

0:41:04.800 --> 0:41:08.880
<v Speaker 2>The I need to juice more. So I'm definitely gonna

0:41:08.880 --> 0:41:11.520
<v Speaker 2>be using the juicer that I went half on a

0:41:11.560 --> 0:41:16.000
<v Speaker 2>baby with Carolina with, and I'm gonna get that in order.

0:41:16.080 --> 0:41:19.279
<v Speaker 2>I gotta I gotta have my fruits and vegetables, and

0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:22.200
<v Speaker 2>I can't be afraid to use kale and celery and

0:41:23.040 --> 0:41:26.480
<v Speaker 2>carrots and all those things that tastes disgusting, but I

0:41:26.560 --> 0:41:27.319
<v Speaker 2>just have to do it.

0:41:27.880 --> 0:41:30.480
<v Speaker 4>You never had good kale or good carrots.

0:41:30.480 --> 0:41:33.400
<v Speaker 2>No, I haven't. It is good, but I don't like

0:41:33.440 --> 0:41:35.600
<v Speaker 2>it in my juice or smoothie.

0:41:35.600 --> 0:41:38.640
<v Speaker 3>No, I don't like those. Okay, I understand, I want

0:41:38.680 --> 0:41:39.799
<v Speaker 3>you to put them in the juice. But you can

0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:43.399
<v Speaker 3>still eat kale and you can still eat carrots.

0:41:43.960 --> 0:41:47.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll do all that too. Okay, So step one

0:41:48.120 --> 0:41:50.520
<v Speaker 2>is drink more water. Step two is drink less juice

0:41:50.520 --> 0:41:51.840
<v Speaker 2>but also more juice.

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:57.160
<v Speaker 3>Okay, got it, Just listen. I just want to say

0:41:57.160 --> 0:41:59.279
<v Speaker 3>it out loud so everybody hears what the plan is.

0:41:59.320 --> 0:42:03.040
<v Speaker 3>And then step three.

0:42:03.080 --> 0:42:09.319
<v Speaker 2>Actual movement the body while the microphone is laying on

0:42:09.360 --> 0:42:15.920
<v Speaker 2>her chest. I am that fucking cat, the cat the treadmill.

0:42:16.080 --> 0:42:19.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I swear, But this week I feel

0:42:19.040 --> 0:42:21.520
<v Speaker 2>good because I I've actually gotten out of the house

0:42:21.560 --> 0:42:24.759
<v Speaker 2>more than I have in the last three weeks. I

0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:29.640
<v Speaker 2>tweeted that that I did a wellness check. I was like,

0:42:29.640 --> 0:42:32.520
<v Speaker 2>how many people are steeping on the couch because they

0:42:32.600 --> 0:42:35.080
<v Speaker 2>left their laundry on the bed and they refuse to

0:42:35.080 --> 0:42:38.880
<v Speaker 2>put it away? And I'm at three weeks and so

0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:41.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, there's some people that are coming up on

0:42:41.840 --> 0:42:45.400
<v Speaker 2>similar numbers for me, but most of the people are like,

0:42:45.480 --> 0:42:50.319
<v Speaker 2>cis get help. So yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna do

0:42:50.360 --> 0:42:50.800
<v Speaker 2>it today.

0:42:50.920 --> 0:42:52.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna do my part and be the mean friend

0:42:53.040 --> 0:42:55.080
<v Speaker 3>right here, because that's the rule that I was born

0:42:55.120 --> 0:42:56.239
<v Speaker 3>to play.

0:42:56.400 --> 0:42:57.080
<v Speaker 2>You don't even do.

0:42:57.040 --> 0:42:57.760
<v Speaker 4>Your own laundry.

0:42:58.200 --> 0:43:01.120
<v Speaker 3>You send it out so you can't even do the

0:43:01.160 --> 0:43:03.800
<v Speaker 3>step of putting it away. Now, Oh, oh my god,

0:43:04.560 --> 0:43:06.479
<v Speaker 3>are you omogtting me or Olmo gotting her.

0:43:06.600 --> 0:43:09.399
<v Speaker 1>No to Sydney. It's just really you get it done

0:43:09.440 --> 0:43:12.080
<v Speaker 1>and you can't. I feel bad, I know, I feel

0:43:12.239 --> 0:43:14.400
<v Speaker 1>I feel really bad because that. I used to be

0:43:14.440 --> 0:43:16.320
<v Speaker 1>like that when I was very, very depressed. I remember

0:43:16.360 --> 0:43:19.520
<v Speaker 1>taking my laundry back from the laundromat and then just

0:43:19.640 --> 0:43:22.360
<v Speaker 1>leaving it in the laundry laundry bag and then it

0:43:22.440 --> 0:43:24.759
<v Speaker 1>just got wrinkly because I was just too depressed to

0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:25.479
<v Speaker 1>even take it out.

0:43:26.440 --> 0:43:31.200
<v Speaker 2>So, yeah, Citny, you gonna get more texts after this episode.

0:43:31.239 --> 0:43:35.920
<v Speaker 4>Drop Oh you wrinkly said bitch?

0:43:36.440 --> 0:43:42.840
<v Speaker 2>Why yeah, yeah, Well you know we're working. We're working

0:43:42.880 --> 0:43:43.800
<v Speaker 2>through it, ma'am.

0:43:43.840 --> 0:43:47.400
<v Speaker 3>So mm you're sleeping around it, babe. You're not working

0:43:47.400 --> 0:43:49.880
<v Speaker 3>through your laundry. You are not even sleeping in the

0:43:49.920 --> 0:43:53.920
<v Speaker 3>bed with it. I sleep in the bed with my laundry.

0:43:54.640 --> 0:43:56.640
<v Speaker 2>And that's what most people were saying. They were like, oh,

0:43:56.640 --> 0:43:58.839
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even think about They're like, so, why don't

0:43:58.880 --> 0:44:01.480
<v Speaker 2>you just move the laundry. The couch is like, because

0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:04.240
<v Speaker 2>the couch is the communal space and that's when people

0:44:04.280 --> 0:44:06.799
<v Speaker 2>walk in. So like, I could close the door to

0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:08.960
<v Speaker 2>my room and you don't know what's going on there,

0:44:08.960 --> 0:44:10.919
<v Speaker 2>But you can't do that to the living room.

0:44:11.000 --> 0:44:14.560
<v Speaker 1>So although there's just as much effort to move the

0:44:14.600 --> 0:44:17.960
<v Speaker 1>clothes to the couch than it would exactly.

0:44:17.520 --> 0:44:20.239
<v Speaker 2>So no, no, no, no. So here what you do. Here's

0:44:20.239 --> 0:44:20.719
<v Speaker 2>what you do.

0:44:21.120 --> 0:44:21.600
<v Speaker 4>I got it.

0:44:22.280 --> 0:44:24.640
<v Speaker 2>You move the clothes from the bed to the couch

0:44:24.680 --> 0:44:26.080
<v Speaker 2>so you can sleep in the bed.

0:44:26.520 --> 0:44:28.880
<v Speaker 3>Then in the morning you wake up, you moved it.

0:44:29.080 --> 0:44:31.080
<v Speaker 3>You move it from the couch back to the bed.

0:44:31.400 --> 0:44:33.400
<v Speaker 3>This is that movement you were seeing you needed for

0:44:33.480 --> 0:44:34.120
<v Speaker 3>the new box.

0:44:34.920 --> 0:44:38.120
<v Speaker 2>You just keep moving it back and forth. And that's

0:44:38.120 --> 0:44:40.120
<v Speaker 2>how you're going to get some gains. And that's how

0:44:40.120 --> 0:44:46.239
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna build build that that laundry core, you know

0:44:46.320 --> 0:44:52.200
<v Speaker 2>what I mean, honestly brilliant, And it's the new workout.

0:44:52.239 --> 0:44:55.239
<v Speaker 2>It's the new workout plan for depressed people that are

0:44:55.239 --> 0:44:58.600
<v Speaker 2>too depressed to move their laundry and put it actually

0:44:58.640 --> 0:45:01.279
<v Speaker 2>in the drawers. But it's an enough movement to make

0:45:01.320 --> 0:45:04.600
<v Speaker 2>sure that you're not laying down the whole day. And

0:45:04.840 --> 0:45:06.799
<v Speaker 2>I could see that. I could see that as like

0:45:06.840 --> 0:45:11.000
<v Speaker 2>a daily workout, just shifting and moving things and from

0:45:11.040 --> 0:45:12.080
<v Speaker 2>one room to the next.

0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:15.200
<v Speaker 3>And while you're shifting, some things might get like something

0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:17.160
<v Speaker 3>might fall on the floor, so you're picking things up,

0:45:17.160 --> 0:45:22.040
<v Speaker 3>so that's another range of motion fuses, and then you

0:45:22.080 --> 0:45:24.239
<v Speaker 3>can relearn how to fold things because you're gonna have

0:45:24.280 --> 0:45:25.319
<v Speaker 3>to refold some of those things.

0:45:25.880 --> 0:45:28.279
<v Speaker 2>So oh no, no, I'm at the point where it's like, Okay,

0:45:28.320 --> 0:45:30.359
<v Speaker 2>the clothes have been sitting here so long that they're

0:45:30.400 --> 0:45:34.280
<v Speaker 2>dirty again. So yes, you just got to send them out. Yes,

0:45:34.760 --> 0:45:37.400
<v Speaker 2>that's that's keep.

0:45:37.280 --> 0:45:39.440
<v Speaker 3>Just keep spending that money since keep spending that podcast

0:45:39.480 --> 0:45:41.359
<v Speaker 3>money on doing laundry and then not putting it away.

0:45:43.640 --> 0:45:47.160
<v Speaker 2>Yes, you are living the dream, babe. It's only it's

0:45:47.200 --> 0:45:50.799
<v Speaker 2>only thirteen dollars. So it's thirteen dollars for how much

0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:52.600
<v Speaker 2>laundry a lot? Hm?

0:45:52.960 --> 0:45:54.640
<v Speaker 3>Can you bring your laptop in there? Can we see

0:45:54.640 --> 0:45:56.440
<v Speaker 3>the laundry? Can we visit the pile?

0:45:56.880 --> 0:46:01.839
<v Speaker 2>No, I won't do that. That's that's why. That's that's

0:46:01.920 --> 0:46:04.239
<v Speaker 2>when it gets that's when it gets scary, and I'm

0:46:04.280 --> 0:46:07.200
<v Speaker 2>not I'm not doing that. So you know it's scary?

0:46:07.560 --> 0:46:09.959
<v Speaker 3>Is I know that the cats sleep on the pile

0:46:10.000 --> 0:46:12.360
<v Speaker 3>of laundry, so the clothes is clean but covered in

0:46:12.400 --> 0:46:12.839
<v Speaker 3>cat hair.

0:46:12.920 --> 0:46:14.400
<v Speaker 4>So yes, man, I might as well throw them all

0:46:14.440 --> 0:46:15.000
<v Speaker 4>out the window.

0:46:15.200 --> 0:46:21.239
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I might as well. Burn the cats burn everything.

0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:25.279
<v Speaker 4>The cats are resting on your panties, so no, we

0:46:25.320 --> 0:46:25.879
<v Speaker 4>don't do that.

0:46:25.960 --> 0:46:28.080
<v Speaker 2>They're not resting on the panties. But so you put

0:46:28.120 --> 0:46:34.040
<v Speaker 2>the panties away. The panties are in an in another area,

0:46:34.239 --> 0:46:36.920
<v Speaker 2>and the bag of laundry they're at the bottom. So

0:46:37.719 --> 0:46:42.080
<v Speaker 2>I go through the bag every day to find the underwear.

0:46:42.200 --> 0:46:44.160
<v Speaker 3>So okay, Sydney, Yeah, you gotta get your life together,

0:46:44.200 --> 0:46:46.839
<v Speaker 3>sisce that. That don't make no type of sense. You

0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:48.520
<v Speaker 3>go through the bag, you go to the bottom of

0:46:48.560 --> 0:46:50.560
<v Speaker 3>the bag to get your panties every day.

0:46:50.920 --> 0:46:51.440
<v Speaker 2>That's a lie.

0:46:51.480 --> 0:46:53.720
<v Speaker 4>You're not wearing panties every day. I don't believe.

0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:59.520
<v Speaker 1>All right, thanks, don't prove it.

0:47:00.120 --> 0:47:04.600
<v Speaker 2>Don't prove it, please, I have fannies, guys, thank you

0:47:04.719 --> 0:47:11.320
<v Speaker 2>so much. But no, I I tweeted that out and honestly,

0:47:12.200 --> 0:47:16.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, I should have more shame, but I don't.

0:47:16.280 --> 0:47:20.080
<v Speaker 2>But it's it's therapeutic because I now I know. I'm like, ah,

0:47:20.120 --> 0:47:22.600
<v Speaker 2>this is what I needed to push me in the

0:47:22.640 --> 0:47:25.920
<v Speaker 2>direction to actually get it done. But also, my girlfriend's

0:47:25.960 --> 0:47:30.360
<v Speaker 2>coming soon, so I literally only have a week left

0:47:30.360 --> 0:47:34.040
<v Speaker 2>of this these shenanigans, and then there's no way I

0:47:34.080 --> 0:47:36.680
<v Speaker 2>can live like that with somebody else coming this way.

0:47:37.880 --> 0:47:39.520
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I mean, I think she's just gonna have

0:47:39.560 --> 0:47:44.080
<v Speaker 3>to She's gonna have to learn to live with that

0:47:44.160 --> 0:47:44.960
<v Speaker 3>pile of clothes.

0:47:46.200 --> 0:47:47.799
<v Speaker 2>No, what are you looking at?

0:47:47.960 --> 0:47:51.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm looking at reviews of the podcast, the way that

0:47:51.440 --> 0:47:53.919
<v Speaker 3>you jumped on me for looking at my phone when

0:47:53.960 --> 0:47:57.120
<v Speaker 3>you live on yours on this here podcast.

0:47:57.400 --> 0:48:00.279
<v Speaker 1>We're done bullying Sydney. I feel like this and he's

0:48:00.280 --> 0:48:01.520
<v Speaker 1>been there enough this week.

0:48:04.000 --> 0:48:05.040
<v Speaker 2>What's she been doing this week?

0:48:05.600 --> 0:48:08.360
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like we've been on her about being depressed,

0:48:08.360 --> 0:48:10.160
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, Okay, then the podcast is gonna be over,

0:48:10.239 --> 0:48:12.239
<v Speaker 1>and then Cidny's gonna have to be back in her

0:48:12.400 --> 0:48:13.240
<v Speaker 1>depression hive.

0:48:14.719 --> 0:48:22.560
<v Speaker 2>Depression partner carollabing my apartment the depression Hive Depression, I

0:48:22.600 --> 0:48:25.880
<v Speaker 2>can say, depression also a great title.

0:48:26.200 --> 0:48:28.279
<v Speaker 4>So I actually like depression Hive.

0:48:28.680 --> 0:48:33.440
<v Speaker 2>I love that, Andy, Yeah, I actually do, because you

0:48:33.480 --> 0:48:36.120
<v Speaker 2>know we'll have another Black Friday next to you. Yeah,

0:48:36.200 --> 0:48:40.080
<v Speaker 2>that's stupid depression. Technically every Friday is Black Friday on

0:48:40.239 --> 0:48:44.279
<v Speaker 2>this podcast. I really I tweet for the people that

0:48:44.360 --> 0:48:46.600
<v Speaker 2>are too sad to tweet out the ship that's going

0:48:46.640 --> 0:48:48.799
<v Speaker 2>on in their apartment and then I do it and

0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:52.640
<v Speaker 2>they're like, yo, that's where the fuck I am. Thank

0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:58.160
<v Speaker 2>you for making me feel seen, thank you for seeing me,

0:48:58.520 --> 0:49:01.400
<v Speaker 2>thank you for thank you for seeing the doing that's

0:49:01.440 --> 0:49:02.239
<v Speaker 2>not being done.

0:49:03.200 --> 0:49:04.799
<v Speaker 3>I don't think that I'm bullying Sydney at all. I

0:49:04.800 --> 0:49:08.760
<v Speaker 3>think that I'm being a good friend.

0:49:09.320 --> 0:49:14.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you're you're being you are a good friend.

0:49:15.280 --> 0:49:19.280
<v Speaker 2>I think that sometimes even you being a good friend,

0:49:19.880 --> 0:49:24.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm just in such a like sensitive place that you're

0:49:24.480 --> 0:49:26.279
<v Speaker 2>being a good friend. But it's not helpful for me

0:49:26.320 --> 0:49:30.600
<v Speaker 2>because then it's I'm unraveling while you're talking to me.

0:49:31.840 --> 0:49:36.160
<v Speaker 2>But also like what is the proper because for the

0:49:36.200 --> 0:49:39.080
<v Speaker 2>depression episode, I was like, well, I don't want to

0:49:39.080 --> 0:49:41.080
<v Speaker 2>say the wrong thing, and Andree was like, no, there's

0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:42.440
<v Speaker 2>no such thing as saying the wrong thing.

0:49:42.440 --> 0:49:45.960
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, no there is. But I don't

0:49:46.120 --> 0:49:48.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if it's good to.

0:49:49.520 --> 0:49:51.680
<v Speaker 2>Or I don't think that it's good to What is

0:49:51.719 --> 0:49:54.400
<v Speaker 2>a word that I'm trying to use here enable enable

0:49:54.520 --> 0:49:59.600
<v Speaker 2>people when they're depressed, because like you're tiptoeing around, I'm

0:49:59.640 --> 0:50:03.640
<v Speaker 2>tiptoe around how somebody feels so that I don't upset them,

0:50:03.760 --> 0:50:08.640
<v Speaker 2>but the way that they're living their life is upsetting

0:50:08.680 --> 0:50:13.759
<v Speaker 2>me and my homegirls. So where's the middle, you know?

0:50:13.840 --> 0:50:16.879
<v Speaker 2>But but you know what you can do. You can

0:50:16.920 --> 0:50:19.880
<v Speaker 2>get off the phone, you could close the laptop, you

0:50:19.920 --> 0:50:23.680
<v Speaker 2>can put the text on do not disturb, and live

0:50:23.760 --> 0:50:28.040
<v Speaker 2>your life. So it's not the same. So like you,

0:50:28.120 --> 0:50:31.120
<v Speaker 2>it's upsetting you in a different way than what is

0:50:31.160 --> 0:50:34.400
<v Speaker 2>actually happening to the person on a daily basis.

0:50:35.800 --> 0:50:37.600
<v Speaker 3>Yes, but you want your friends to be able to

0:50:37.640 --> 0:50:40.920
<v Speaker 3>lean on you when they need you, obviously, But like, Sidney,

0:50:40.960 --> 0:50:43.560
<v Speaker 3>do you remember when you were having panic attacks, like

0:50:43.760 --> 0:50:46.280
<v Speaker 3>and they were coming like more and more often before

0:50:46.360 --> 0:50:47.440
<v Speaker 3>you started.

0:50:48.680 --> 0:50:50.839
<v Speaker 2>Your like therapy and stuff.

0:50:51.440 --> 0:50:54.680
<v Speaker 3>And you will call me and I'd be like, Sydney,

0:50:54.719 --> 0:50:56.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't know what I'm supposed to say to you,

0:50:56.320 --> 0:50:59.279
<v Speaker 3>like remember, and it was like I don't want to

0:50:59.320 --> 0:51:02.120
<v Speaker 3>say the wrong thing thing. But then like the more

0:51:02.239 --> 0:51:05.600
<v Speaker 3>frequently you would have these panic attacks, the less it

0:51:05.719 --> 0:51:08.840
<v Speaker 3>was like, dude, you have to do something about this. Yeah,

0:51:09.040 --> 0:51:11.759
<v Speaker 3>like you cannot keep living your life like this.

0:51:11.920 --> 0:51:16.080
<v Speaker 2>And then just like deal with these panic attacks after

0:51:16.280 --> 0:51:16.960
<v Speaker 2>they've happened.

0:51:17.000 --> 0:51:19.440
<v Speaker 3>You have to do something to prevent them from happening.

0:51:19.480 --> 0:51:21.640
<v Speaker 3>And you were like you weren't ready to take that

0:51:21.680 --> 0:51:27.279
<v Speaker 3>step and eventually you you stopped having them or I

0:51:27.280 --> 0:51:29.520
<v Speaker 3>guess you.

0:51:30.320 --> 0:51:31.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you stopped having them, but you

0:51:31.719 --> 0:51:32.839
<v Speaker 2>stopped talking to me about them.

0:51:32.920 --> 0:51:38.000
<v Speaker 4>So because it's like.

0:51:38.719 --> 0:51:41.960
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I feel like if something doesn't work,

0:51:42.160 --> 0:51:44.640
<v Speaker 3>or something is disrupting your life, or something doesn't make

0:51:44.680 --> 0:51:47.600
<v Speaker 3>you feel good, then you have to cut that thing out.

0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:52.120
<v Speaker 2>Or you're talking as a person who's like, obviously you

0:51:52.120 --> 0:51:57.560
<v Speaker 2>don't you're not. I wouldn't say like you have chronic depression,

0:51:57.640 --> 0:52:00.520
<v Speaker 2>like obviously you get you get down and things like

0:52:00.719 --> 0:52:07.640
<v Speaker 2>bother you and it it it it. It might mess

0:52:07.719 --> 0:52:09.799
<v Speaker 2>up a day or maybe a week, but it's not

0:52:10.000 --> 0:52:15.239
<v Speaker 2>like crazy ongoing, but something that like I have and

0:52:15.360 --> 0:52:17.759
<v Speaker 2>other people who listen to the podcast, it's like a

0:52:17.840 --> 0:52:22.000
<v Speaker 2>chemical imbalance. It's that what you're saying makes complete sense,

0:52:22.440 --> 0:52:26.640
<v Speaker 2>but there's something in their brain that just won't connect

0:52:26.640 --> 0:52:30.680
<v Speaker 2>the dots to give them the proper energy to actually

0:52:30.680 --> 0:52:34.160
<v Speaker 2>do it, and the avoidance that happens over and over

0:52:34.239 --> 0:52:39.040
<v Speaker 2>and becomes a snowball effect effect and to the point

0:52:39.080 --> 0:52:41.680
<v Speaker 2>where like you just saying well, just get up and

0:52:41.719 --> 0:52:45.000
<v Speaker 2>do it triggers them because they're like, I know, bitch,

0:52:45.320 --> 0:52:48.120
<v Speaker 2>you think I don't want to do it, something like

0:52:48.160 --> 0:52:48.879
<v Speaker 2>I can't do it.

0:52:49.040 --> 0:52:51.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm talking about before you got on antidepressants because you

0:52:51.880 --> 0:52:52.879
<v Speaker 3>did not want to take them.

0:52:52.920 --> 0:52:55.160
<v Speaker 2>You refuse to talk to somebody about them.

0:52:55.160 --> 0:52:57.360
<v Speaker 3>And every time you had a panic attack, it was like, Sydney,

0:52:57.360 --> 0:52:59.719
<v Speaker 3>you have to talk to somebody. You gotta you have

0:52:59.800 --> 0:53:03.840
<v Speaker 3>to are taking You gotta either talk to a therapist

0:53:03.920 --> 0:53:05.879
<v Speaker 3>or you need to be on antidepressants. And you did

0:53:05.920 --> 0:53:09.640
<v Speaker 3>not want to do that. And it was like, so

0:53:09.840 --> 0:53:13.200
<v Speaker 3>me as your friend, you're telling me about these chemical imbalances,

0:53:13.239 --> 0:53:17.760
<v Speaker 3>but me as your friend, I can't just keep Okay, Well,

0:53:18.040 --> 0:53:18.480
<v Speaker 3>I hope.

0:53:18.360 --> 0:53:19.560
<v Speaker 2>You feel better tomorrow.

0:53:19.800 --> 0:53:23.440
<v Speaker 3>No, you have Like you're saying that you didn't want

0:53:23.480 --> 0:53:25.479
<v Speaker 3>to take the step or you were incapable of taking

0:53:25.520 --> 0:53:30.160
<v Speaker 3>those steps, but you had to do something different in

0:53:30.280 --> 0:53:35.240
<v Speaker 3>order to not, you know, have these crazy panic attacks anymore.

0:53:35.719 --> 0:53:40.239
<v Speaker 2>And I'll tell you that I think what's useful for you.

0:53:40.719 --> 0:53:45.799
<v Speaker 2>Maybe it sounds harsh, but like, yeah, I don't know

0:53:45.840 --> 0:53:49.080
<v Speaker 2>what to tell you other than like maybe you should

0:53:49.120 --> 0:53:52.280
<v Speaker 2>google what to say to a friend who is dealing

0:53:52.280 --> 0:53:57.120
<v Speaker 2>with it, because I mean, sometimes it sounds like you're

0:53:57.120 --> 0:54:01.759
<v Speaker 2>coming from a good place, but there is all over

0:54:01.800 --> 0:54:05.600
<v Speaker 2>the place, and any little thing could fucking jump start

0:54:05.760 --> 0:54:08.960
<v Speaker 2>something that you didn't mean to like be a part of.

0:54:09.120 --> 0:54:13.880
<v Speaker 2>So okay, so I know, I know what, I know

0:54:13.960 --> 0:54:16.799
<v Speaker 2>what you mean, and like it's like I can't tell you, well,

0:54:16.840 --> 0:54:23.200
<v Speaker 2>it'll be better tomorrow. But like I'm also like telling

0:54:23.239 --> 0:54:25.640
<v Speaker 2>someone to just get up and do it or you

0:54:25.840 --> 0:54:28.960
<v Speaker 2>have to make changes. It's just not that simple.

0:54:29.880 --> 0:54:32.400
<v Speaker 4>I understand that. I understand that it's not that simple.

0:54:32.560 --> 0:54:34.959
<v Speaker 2>I get that, And you know, I was just in

0:54:35.000 --> 0:54:39.640
<v Speaker 2>that situation and I had to leave the relationship situation

0:54:39.719 --> 0:54:43.880
<v Speaker 2>that I was in because of this. But then then

0:54:43.920 --> 0:54:47.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, and I googled. I was doing my research,

0:54:47.200 --> 0:54:49.239
<v Speaker 2>and the more I googled the Saturday it made me.

0:54:49.320 --> 0:54:51.160
<v Speaker 2>But like also the like.

0:54:52.920 --> 0:54:54.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna say the matter, it just made it

0:54:54.680 --> 0:54:58.279
<v Speaker 3>makes me sad, and like dealing with people who have

0:54:58.360 --> 0:55:01.239
<v Speaker 3>depression and where look at us, it's pression episode again.

0:55:05.000 --> 0:55:05.560
<v Speaker 2>Depression.

0:55:05.719 --> 0:55:08.160
<v Speaker 4>You see how she's sucking me into the depression hive.

0:55:08.920 --> 0:55:11.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I'm not sucking you in. I was.

0:55:12.560 --> 0:55:15.600
<v Speaker 2>I was keeping it light and you guys were like,

0:55:16.160 --> 0:55:18.520
<v Speaker 2>oh honey, get it together.

0:55:19.600 --> 0:55:20.919
<v Speaker 3>Well I don't know if we were saying it together

0:55:20.960 --> 0:55:22.840
<v Speaker 3>but we definitely were telling you to put your laundry away.

0:55:22.880 --> 0:55:23.880
<v Speaker 2>We did said that.

0:55:26.040 --> 0:55:26.480
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:55:26.760 --> 0:55:28.919
<v Speaker 3>I feel like if you have energy to do certain things,

0:55:28.960 --> 0:55:31.200
<v Speaker 3>and you should have energy to do that too. That's

0:55:31.280 --> 0:55:35.239
<v Speaker 3>that's what my mind, where my mind goes immediately. Come on,

0:55:35.320 --> 0:55:42.439
<v Speaker 3>Matthew Knowles. Matthew knows is Tracy. I'm the mean Destiny's child.

0:55:43.080 --> 0:55:45.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm on Angie, the cousin, the thick one.

0:55:45.920 --> 0:55:48.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm I'm Lac Tavia or whatever.

0:55:50.719 --> 0:55:52.840
<v Speaker 1>Who's the one that got arrested whatever?

0:55:54.440 --> 0:55:57.960
<v Speaker 2>Barah got arrested? Well, technically Sydney is Sarah, but oh

0:55:58.440 --> 0:56:01.520
<v Speaker 2>all right, couldn't it? And Pharah didn't stay bitch, So

0:56:01.719 --> 0:56:04.239
<v Speaker 2>that's not me. But you're the only one here on

0:56:04.280 --> 0:56:09.600
<v Speaker 2>this zoom that got arrested. So that's you, babe. I

0:56:09.719 --> 0:56:12.279
<v Speaker 2>So Lindsey Lohan got arrested.

0:56:11.920 --> 0:56:13.600
<v Speaker 4>But you don't want to be that. She don't even

0:56:13.600 --> 0:56:14.480
<v Speaker 4>want to be that.

0:56:15.040 --> 0:56:17.440
<v Speaker 1>She's not one Desy's children, She's.

0:56:19.400 --> 0:56:23.200
<v Speaker 2>She's not even a part of some hive. Okay, don't you.

0:56:24.600 --> 0:56:27.880
<v Speaker 2>Nora got arrested one, so you Chloe of the groups

0:56:28.000 --> 0:56:33.399
<v Speaker 2>is I'll think that new faith? Who is hm?

0:56:34.440 --> 0:56:35.200
<v Speaker 1>Who does that make you?

0:56:36.520 --> 0:56:40.360
<v Speaker 2>If Sydney is Chloe. Yeah, who's the mean Who's the

0:56:40.440 --> 0:56:43.759
<v Speaker 2>mean Kardashian or the most honest Kardashian.

0:56:44.400 --> 0:56:46.960
<v Speaker 1>Courtney's the one that just like essentially canceled the show.

0:56:47.000 --> 0:56:48.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't watch it, but like she was the one

0:56:48.400 --> 0:56:50.400
<v Speaker 1>that was like, I don't want to do this show anymore,

0:56:50.440 --> 0:56:52.640
<v Speaker 1>and so now it's over for her.

0:56:52.960 --> 0:56:54.520
<v Speaker 2>He said, I don't want to be in that toxic

0:56:54.600 --> 0:56:57.719
<v Speaker 2>relationship anymore. Good for fucking Courtney got to be like

0:56:57.880 --> 0:57:01.080
<v Speaker 2>forty forty two or something right now. Courtney said, I'm

0:57:01.080 --> 0:57:03.920
<v Speaker 2>here with my original face, bitch, don't you y'all switching

0:57:03.960 --> 0:57:07.680
<v Speaker 2>and y'all changing niggas and faces and all is left

0:57:07.719 --> 0:57:09.920
<v Speaker 2>and right, and I can't keep up with the babies

0:57:09.960 --> 0:57:12.720
<v Speaker 2>and everything that y'all do. And Kanye is office rocker

0:57:13.120 --> 0:57:15.200
<v Speaker 2>and said I gotta go. I got piece out. You

0:57:15.239 --> 0:57:18.280
<v Speaker 2>could take your your lip kits and your and yours

0:57:18.600 --> 0:57:23.400
<v Speaker 2>and go on your way. Well I think yeah, she

0:57:23.520 --> 0:57:24.720
<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm tired of trying to come up with

0:57:24.760 --> 0:57:28.160
<v Speaker 2>a storyline that I actually want to share or that

0:57:28.200 --> 0:57:31.400
<v Speaker 2>I care about. Well, yeah, because I'm sure like because you.

0:57:31.360 --> 0:57:34.000
<v Speaker 3>Know, they manufacture all the things, all the drama, all

0:57:34.000 --> 0:57:36.320
<v Speaker 3>the things that happen on that show. But like she

0:57:36.440 --> 0:57:38.040
<v Speaker 3>was like, I don't want to share my real life

0:57:38.120 --> 0:57:40.160
<v Speaker 3>and I don't want to share my fake life.

0:57:40.320 --> 0:57:44.520
<v Speaker 2>Let's go. I'm every can we just clap for Courtney?

0:57:44.800 --> 0:57:47.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm not clapping for any of them. I'm not

0:57:47.800 --> 0:57:49.880
<v Speaker 2>a fan of the fan at all, but I mean,

0:57:50.040 --> 0:57:53.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm not listen, I'm not a fan of them either,

0:57:53.360 --> 0:57:58.680
<v Speaker 2>but yo, I'm clapping for her because yeah, after what

0:57:58.960 --> 0:58:01.800
<v Speaker 2>twenty years and all the points that they were making,

0:58:02.320 --> 0:58:04.640
<v Speaker 2>she was like, it's time to walk away. Guys, there's

0:58:04.720 --> 0:58:09.320
<v Speaker 2>nothing else to do or say, let's just let's just

0:58:09.440 --> 0:58:12.040
<v Speaker 2>be better and live our lives quietly.

0:58:12.840 --> 0:58:17.000
<v Speaker 3>Well, you're saying live quietly. They're still social media people.

0:58:17.040 --> 0:58:20.080
<v Speaker 3>They're still selling their teas and their skims and their

0:58:20.640 --> 0:58:24.400
<v Speaker 3>Christmas Grinch kids, and they're still selling stuff. But they've

0:58:24.440 --> 0:58:26.720
<v Speaker 3>reached a point where like everybody in the world at

0:58:26.720 --> 0:58:29.920
<v Speaker 3>this point knows who they are. So, I mean, my

0:58:29.960 --> 0:58:34.880
<v Speaker 3>mom calls them kadashi, So even my mom knows Kadashi.

0:58:35.200 --> 0:58:39.439
<v Speaker 3>So do you still need to show on E? I mean,

0:58:39.520 --> 0:58:40.600
<v Speaker 3>what is E gonna do?

0:58:40.680 --> 0:58:44.480
<v Speaker 2>Now? He was gonna make it happen. They definitely was like, Yo,

0:58:44.640 --> 0:58:47.160
<v Speaker 2>we gotta push Courtney down to fly the stairs. She

0:58:47.240 --> 0:58:52.960
<v Speaker 2>gotta be gotta be storyline. Yeah, the Courtney, the Courtney

0:58:53.080 --> 0:58:55.360
<v Speaker 2>Coma storyline season eight.

0:58:56.640 --> 0:59:01.360
<v Speaker 1>We don't know how she got pushed down, like we

0:59:01.400 --> 0:59:02.160
<v Speaker 1>see like one of the.

0:59:02.080 --> 0:59:06.080
<v Speaker 2>Producers it was him And this is like I saw

0:59:06.480 --> 0:59:07.920
<v Speaker 2>she got on the slippery socks.

0:59:08.080 --> 0:59:08.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:59:08.320 --> 0:59:13.240
<v Speaker 2>Remember Marie and Showgirls when when she tripped the girl. Ah, yes,

0:59:13.520 --> 0:59:15.760
<v Speaker 2>that's what that's what they need to do for Courtney.

0:59:17.000 --> 0:59:20.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but Cortney's a mother, you know, she might fall

0:59:20.040 --> 0:59:23.240
<v Speaker 3>down and land on one of her kids. So that yeah,

0:59:23.360 --> 0:59:25.040
<v Speaker 3>maybe not put your down a flat stair.

0:59:25.160 --> 0:59:28.240
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, I don't. I don't suggest violence

0:59:29.240 --> 0:59:31.800
<v Speaker 2>upon I don't wish it upon anybody. But that's the

0:59:31.880 --> 0:59:34.240
<v Speaker 2>stunts that I feel like E would would have tried

0:59:34.280 --> 0:59:36.840
<v Speaker 2>to do to get the shot, to get what they

0:59:36.880 --> 0:59:39.600
<v Speaker 2>needed done because it was so much money.

0:59:40.360 --> 0:59:42.360
<v Speaker 3>And yeah, they made they've made a lot. I mean,

0:59:42.480 --> 0:59:46.240
<v Speaker 3>Kylie is now a billionaire. She wasn't when the article

0:59:46.280 --> 0:59:47.000
<v Speaker 3>came out, but she is.

0:59:47.080 --> 0:59:54.000
<v Speaker 2>There is not she was she had like nine million dollars.

0:59:53.160 --> 0:59:56.280
<v Speaker 1>Like like ten other like spinoff shows right like there's

0:59:56.320 --> 0:59:58.320
<v Speaker 1>still on TV. Yeah.

0:59:58.520 --> 1:00:00.480
<v Speaker 2>The fact that they didn't get the nan one of

1:00:00.520 --> 1:00:02.600
<v Speaker 2>them show. Nana should have got one of them shows.

1:00:02.640 --> 1:00:06.480
<v Speaker 2>Who's Nana J? M J M should have got like

1:00:06.760 --> 1:00:10.960
<v Speaker 2>her Frankie and Grace type show. Oh I didn't. I

1:00:11.040 --> 1:00:14.200
<v Speaker 2>don't even know. So they have a Nana on the show. Yeah, MJ.

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<v Speaker 2>Chris and still alive and her and that loose full

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<v Speaker 2>bang she got going on. They they could definitely pull

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<v Speaker 2>a little storyline for her. She's not she's not fucking nobody,

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<v Speaker 2>she's not doing nothing, she's not causing no drama.

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<v Speaker 4>I just oh, I didn't know she was still alive.

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<v Speaker 2>And MJ is so sweet that I was like, how

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<v Speaker 2>did you? How did you birth Chris?

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<v Speaker 3>This is well, good people have bad children all the time, baby, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>people give birth to serial killers, people give birth to

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<v Speaker 3>fuck boys. People give birth to these people.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, and we can't get we can't get mad

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<v Speaker 2>at them. It's not their fault. But it's also like,

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<v Speaker 2>what could we have done better?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it's a little bit their fault, but yes,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, what could you have been better? So your

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<v Speaker 3>kid was not so terrible? But I think I was

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<v Speaker 3>talking to somebody about this the other day, about how

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<v Speaker 3>men men's moms do a lot of work for them,

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<v Speaker 3>like a lot of men. Maybe it's like I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if it's American moms, but definitely Caribbean moms. And

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<v Speaker 3>like Hispanic moms, they like spoil their sons, They like

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<v Speaker 3>do things for their sons.

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<v Speaker 2>They cook for them, they do their laundry for them,

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<v Speaker 2>they change the oil in their cars for them. And

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<v Speaker 2>then when these men go out and try to be

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<v Speaker 2>in relationships, they not bring nothing to the table because

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<v Speaker 2>they've never had to do anything. And it's not because

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<v Speaker 2>their mothers. It's because their mothers care about them so much.

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<v Speaker 2>They turn these grown ass men into babies essentially, and

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<v Speaker 2>then those men are useless to me and Andrew so useless.

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<v Speaker 2>That's also a good thing that you brought up, because

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<v Speaker 2>I actually met this woman who did my hair again

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<v Speaker 2>for another woman for the second time around. Not a

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<v Speaker 2>wonderful job, God bless, not a wonderful job. Not a

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<v Speaker 2>wonderful job. It's what am I going to do? You know?

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<v Speaker 2>I just have bad luck with the lace front, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's you know, we're going to leave it at that.

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<v Speaker 2>But she was saying that she was dating this person

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<v Speaker 2>for eight years and they were very like motivated to

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<v Speaker 2>like start businesses and get work done and be bop

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<v Speaker 2>op and do what they do. But they didn't clean.

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<v Speaker 2>And so she's the type of person that's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I take care of the home. I make sure everything

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<v Speaker 2>is order. And she was like cooking and cleaning. She

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<v Speaker 2>was like, since I'm not your wife, so like why

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<v Speaker 2>am I doing all of this? And she said, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you need to be my wife to cook and clean, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>boop and proposed and everything. So that she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is what I want. I want somebody to wait.

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<v Speaker 2>She was in a relationship with a woman or with

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<v Speaker 2>a man with a woman, and the woman wasn't doing

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<v Speaker 2>anything in the house, but she was working outside the house. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>doing everything to like bring income to the table.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, I mean sometimes it's as easy as having

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<v Speaker 3>a conversation as with the person that you're with. If

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<v Speaker 3>you are not happy in your current situation, or you

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<v Speaker 3>don't like the role that you're playing in your relationship

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<v Speaker 3>or whatever, it's sometimes it's as easy as having a

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<v Speaker 3>conversation and telling the person that you're with that you're

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<v Speaker 3>not happy. I think a lot of times women want

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<v Speaker 3>to like like kind of tiptoe or like stomp around

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<v Speaker 3>the problem. Like you'll have an attitude and the person

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<v Speaker 3>will be like, well, what's wrong, and you're like nothing,

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<v Speaker 3>But like it's because you're mad that you're doing dishes,

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<v Speaker 3>or you're mad that you got to cook, or you're

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<v Speaker 3>mad that they haven't want you flowers in a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of years or whatever. Just I don't know. I think

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<v Speaker 3>that you have to just say what you mean and

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<v Speaker 3>mean what you say.

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<v Speaker 2>And also you're not going to be on any role

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<v Speaker 2>that you don't put yourself in. So if you're like

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<v Speaker 2>cleaning and cooking and that's what you're doing up top,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what people get comfortable with and they get content

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<v Speaker 2>and even me, like I was in that situation where

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Okay, well this person is like taking

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<v Speaker 2>care of the house or taking care of me, And

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<v Speaker 2>at the end of the day, nope, nope, that person

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<v Speaker 2>that I was dating was not my mother. It was

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<v Speaker 2>not Ramona Marie. So like it has to be fifty

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<v Speaker 2>to fifty and it shouldn't be sixty forty or sixty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty or oh that doesn't even add in twenty Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that the cats are doing twenty percent of the work,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what? You know what I meant guys. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just you have to position your place in a

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<v Speaker 2>way that you want to be treated moving forward. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>So what we're saying is, to paraphrase up top, do

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<v Speaker 2>what you want to do for the next fifty years. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do something, but I'm not gonna do too much. Right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that's like it's like when you have sex with

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<v Speaker 3>a guy for the first time. I mean, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>or with somebody for the first time. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if I'm sure I'm not the only person that does this,

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<v Speaker 3>but like you know, the first time you like give

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<v Speaker 3>somebody head, maybe you're like, I'm not gonna do that

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<v Speaker 3>good a job. I'm be kind of lazy with it,

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<v Speaker 3>so you don't ask me to do it again. That's

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<v Speaker 3>that's the energy that I'm on Andrew.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Yeah, okay, you do it.

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<v Speaker 2>You do it, decent job, but you're like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>really gonna I'm not really gonna do it. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna Jill Scott it because I'm you're not gonna ask

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<v Speaker 2>me to do this every time you come over here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>especially because I mean it just it reminds me of

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<v Speaker 2>like bartenders when I would ask for a virgin mohido.

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<v Speaker 2>They make the first one so good that I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I want another one. It's like, bitch, nobody wants to

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<v Speaker 2>be muddling up and all this meant and crushing all

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<v Speaker 2>this ice and but in simple syrup for you to

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<v Speaker 2>tip me a dollar like no, which is not true.

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<v Speaker 2>I always tip more than that, always for a for

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<v Speaker 2>one drink, for a mocktail given like two or three,

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<v Speaker 2>oh wow, which most people would do anyway if they're doing,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a regular cocktail. But it's something about doing

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<v Speaker 2>the first one so good. I'm definitely gonna ask for

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<v Speaker 2>a second one. But if you give me one so

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<v Speaker 2>so like, oh, it was doable, it was fine. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not gonna spend another, you know, ten dollars on this

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<v Speaker 2>so so virgin mohido. Right, I'm asking so so so deaf.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so I'm asked for a sprite. Do you guys

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<v Speaker 2>have ginger al on the gun? Okay, y'all, I'll take

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<v Speaker 2>some ginger al. But yeah, I think that's those are

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<v Speaker 2>wise words to live by. Do the first one not

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<v Speaker 2>so good, and then do the second one a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit better, and then maybe the third one is bomb

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<v Speaker 2>and they're looking at you like it's all about growth. No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I say weight, wait six months and then hit them

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<v Speaker 2>with the wee bop pop pop pop. Then they're like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even know you had that in you.

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<v Speaker 4>Six months later you're like and they're like, oh, myke,

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<v Speaker 4>do you want to be my.

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<v Speaker 2>Mom this weekend? Yeah? It was like, oh damn, are

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<v Speaker 2>you have you ever done that? No? That was that

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<v Speaker 2>was my first time thing theme. Yeah. The dude that

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<v Speaker 2>I was with for the pandem would like make comments

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<v Speaker 2>about that, like every time, like I would see him

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<v Speaker 2>and it was like, oh oh oh he was like

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<v Speaker 2>the first time we hooked up, I was like does

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<v Speaker 2>she like me? And I was like, well, I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>know if I did. But you know, every time you

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<v Speaker 2>do something with somebody, they should look at the end

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<v Speaker 2>and ask themselves does that person like me? That's that's

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<v Speaker 2>the energy you should be bringing in. Then it makes

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<v Speaker 2>them work hard exactly. And when people don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>you like them, they they want to impress you more. Yep.

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<v Speaker 2>Some self doubt can sometimes work in your favor. Sis.

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<v Speaker 4>Self doubt saves relationships, it does, it does.

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<v Speaker 2>There's always uh, there's always upward mobility. If you're not

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<v Speaker 2>giving your all, well, if.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not giving your all to me, then I will

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<v Speaker 3>leave you. But if you're giving me too much too soon,

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<v Speaker 3>I will also leave you.

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<v Speaker 2>So honestly, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Gotta figure out, you gotta you gotta do the Jenga

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<v Speaker 3>and figure girl.

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<v Speaker 2>You you're a tough You're a tough titty too. You

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<v Speaker 2>are goldie locks as well. Yes I am a Goldilocks,

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<v Speaker 2>because yes I am. You know that I am. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'd be like this is this is too hard,

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<v Speaker 2>this is too soft, this is just not for me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So all you thoughty goldielocks out there, which your you know,

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<v Speaker 2>your your braids and your teflar blags or whatever. What

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<v Speaker 2>is tel far tell far back is what you're calling it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's black Friday, and get what you deserve and

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<v Speaker 2>do what you do, live your life and make people

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<v Speaker 2>do what you need to be done in a properly

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<v Speaker 2>way that makes sense for your life. How about that? Sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Today this is the.

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<v Speaker 3>Day to give somebody bad head if you're a woman,

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<v Speaker 3>how about that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is bad day, bad head day. I like

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<v Speaker 2>that for us, badhead day. Okay, Well, is there anything

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<v Speaker 2>that you want to leave the listeners with before we go,

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<v Speaker 2>any final words from the bag of laundry or is

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<v Speaker 2>does Jam want to say a couple of words on

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<v Speaker 2>the mic?

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<v Speaker 4>Andrew, Is there something that you think that we missed?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think we got it. I mean I hope

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<v Speaker 1>that everyone is, you know, having a safe Thanksgiving and

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<v Speaker 1>Black Friday. I guess it's all virtual. Yeah, just don't

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<v Speaker 1>be stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't be stupid. Don't be stupid. So cranberry sauce

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<v Speaker 2>will never be worth it driving all the way to

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<v Speaker 2>fucking some store because you need to get this TV.

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<v Speaker 2>Order it online. Like it's okay, there's a there's a

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<v Speaker 2>pandemic going on. It can wait.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, I'm not I'm not trying to do any

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<v Speaker 4>of those things.

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<v Speaker 2>Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, it's not that good.

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<v Speaker 2>You can you can watch it on your laptopic. Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>I still haven't seen it. I'm gonna I'm gonna watch

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<v Speaker 2>It's not good. I'm not here for it. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm no offense to the more Mormon community. I know

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<v Speaker 2>y'all got your whole lifestyle together and it's a little

1:10:29.880 --> 1:10:33.160
<v Speaker 2>bit kookie, but I'm not really interested. I'm not I

1:10:33.400 --> 1:10:37.960
<v Speaker 2>could care less. Wow, the Mormons in Atlanta, the Mormon

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<v Speaker 2>slander cannot live on this podcast. This is sorry, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>and this is why I'm quitting the podcast right now. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>Bye guys, happy uh happy Hondid days. Oh yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>Comments on what what posts are you posting all.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the page. I need you to subscribe to our

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<v Speaker 2>real patreon. Andrew or black Friday. We are not half

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<v Speaker 2>off for Black Friday. But Andrew talking about the instagram

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<v Speaker 2>on Instagram, and I mean I did the last post

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<v Speaker 2>literally nine months ago, and I will not do the

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<v Speaker 2>next post because I asked Sydney at least three times

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<v Speaker 2>to post on the page and she was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It still says link in the bio.

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<v Speaker 3>Soon there's not gonna be no Lincoln, no bio. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna you know what, I'm gonna deactive make the page.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh new year old page. Deactivate the page, babe, do

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<v Speaker 2>what you gotta do.

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