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Speaker 1: Forever.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so up Top did not get much sleep last night.

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Speaker 2: I was I was up till six am, six am, Like,

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Speaker 2: so you are on four hours of sleep right now?

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Speaker 2: Is what you're saying to the to the people I am,

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Speaker 2: And let's just see how how successful this episode is.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited for what's to come.

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Speaker 3: I'm also excited. Let me put my phone on do

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Speaker 3: not Disturb so I can give you my full attention.

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Speaker 3: M M, my full attention. Now, what were you doing

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Speaker 2: Well, it took me forever to finish a video for Patreon,

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Speaker 2: and I get in my head about it. I'm really good.

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Speaker 2: I feel like at Instagram stories, I feel like that's

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Speaker 2: just like coming out of my mouth and I'm pressing posts.

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Speaker 2: But with these videos, you know, they can be shared.

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Speaker 2: People could think it's good or funny or whatever. You're

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Speaker 2: You're you're really great at it. But overall I'm like,

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Speaker 2: this is do do do do? And I don't want

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Speaker 2: anybody to see this ship and how is this helpful?

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Speaker 1: So?

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Speaker 2: Well, what are you talking about in the video because

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Speaker 2: this one to be helpful. Oh the subject, I'm not

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Speaker 2: I can't even tell you because I got to post

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Speaker 2: god damn us. Okay, I usually say that when you speak,

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Speaker 2: so okay, oh oh yes. And then the other thing

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Speaker 2: of Sydney Is the New Orange because I was listening

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Speaker 2: to jokes in it. Orange is the New Sydney.

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Speaker 3: Well, she's listening to the episode. She wasn't reading the

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Speaker 3: title right. Why would she do that?

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Speaker 2: It was so good and soul there was it's nothing

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Speaker 2: but jokes everything a girl. Because I'm a good interviewer,

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Speaker 2: That's why it was nothing. But I mean, you're a

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Speaker 2: good storyteller. But I feel like, oh no, no, no, I

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Speaker 2: two different versions.

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Speaker 1: I agree, I totally agree. Yes, I mean yes, I mean, Sidney,

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Speaker 1: you were a fabulous storyteller. But I do remember it

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Speaker 1: because I do revisit that episode too, feel like that's

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Speaker 1: like the episode that I have revisited the most. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but I do recall like Sydney came in hot with

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Speaker 1: like burying the lead I in my recollection, like no

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Speaker 2: Of take us through it, like yes, right, wearing who

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Speaker 4: What? How did you feel?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, honestly, Sydney to have three episodes of all

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Speaker 2: time that was fantastic. Yeah, And now I'm like, fuck,

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Speaker 2: it was so much stuff that I was like, damn,

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Speaker 2: I was writing down everything that I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: five minutes is not possible, but it is five minutes.

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Speaker 2: I will have the five minutes together. But whatever, Yes,

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Speaker 2: So that's what I was saying. But like, even how

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Speaker 2: You said, five minutes is what you got to give

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Speaker 3: Okay, so City's doing a five minute set and she's

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Speaker 4: That's all you had to say, friend.

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Speaker 1: And that's why you're a great interviewer.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm because I listen the way that like somebody

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Speaker 3: And I feel like you even with me, though, Sidney

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I'm not a great storyteller. So actually I'm.

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Speaker 1: No you are.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, let's know. Let's no, no, I'm not

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Speaker 3: Sidney, you're a good interviewer too. Well, you're a good host.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, you're great host. All right, Marie, let's

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Speaker 3: I'm doing okay, Sidney. I I don't know if you

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Speaker 3: They're not drilling right now, but they're doing work in

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Speaker 3: So the excited Andrew, what are you drinking at ice coffee?

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Speaker 3: So I was on set on Tuesday and they were like,

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Speaker 2: So that's what that's what I've been eating for the

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Speaker 2: last two days. That's crazy. They didn't have any of

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Speaker 2: Did they give you lunch? They had? They had bagels.

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Speaker 2: They had bacoels with cream cheese or like butter, and

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Speaker 2: And I said, okay, well, I guess it's better than nothing.

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Speaker 2: Then I'm gonna take a walk to the ATM. Then

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get a bagel with locks. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 3: And then Andrews sent a text and was like, we

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Speaker 1: I felt so bad sending that text because I knew

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Speaker 3: Knew we were recording today. I just thought it was

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Speaker 4: Well, we me and Sidney could have done ten pm.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So can we talk about how cold it is

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Speaker 2: It's no it's November going on December. This shouldn't be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what it is is because we

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Speaker 3: I think it was actually because Trump lost because the

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Speaker 2: I'm going on set so I will be outside. But

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Speaker 2: other than that, no, I've been really just trying to

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Speaker 2: you know, there's always something to make you do something else.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 3: I see Jams fat ass back there living his best

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, the jam is. I don't know what's

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Speaker 2: Sys is hard. No, sometimes I'll just call him his

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Speaker 4: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: She talking to somebody? Yeah, or he used to do that,

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Speaker 3: Mm hm, Why I think I pride myself in being

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Speaker 2: Every day, every day, every day I'm lying about something

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Speaker 4: But one time, this girl complimented me on my eyeshadow

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Speaker 2: But I was also in like high.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, like an unnecessary lie like that, Andrew,

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Speaker 1: I usually lie about how much money I'm getting paid

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Speaker 2: Damn to your mom. You say that you're getting more

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Speaker 1: Oh exactly, I'm lying to my mom. Yeah, I'm lying

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Speaker 2: Imagine, Andrew.

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Speaker 3: We get checks from this too. We know they're not

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Speaker 2: Hey hey, it's something, I mean, considering what's going on

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Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, that's usually about that, or like how are

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get into it.

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Speaker 2: You know. Oh, well that's a lie that everybody tells

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Speaker 2: every day, right, yeah. I lie on my mom about

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Speaker 2: But I mean, realistically, now it's like, Sis, I don't

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Speaker 3: It's not even that it's not that I'm rich. Before

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Speaker 2: I read all the reviews.

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Speaker 4: I look for all the.

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Speaker 2: Promo codes, the coupon codes.

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Speaker 3: I do everything I can to be like not spend

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Speaker 2: Or why didn't I wait till Black Friday or whatever

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Speaker 2: the hell. So now I'm not gonna buy anything until

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Speaker 4: That's that's what I'm on.

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Speaker 2: The Black Friday. The Black Friday prices are very very hopeful.

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Speaker 1: This episode comes out on Black Friday.

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm happy, look at Black Friday.

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Speaker 2: So the title is black Friday, Black Friday. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: black black Friday. For Black Friday, it's Black Hosts with Andrew.

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Speaker 2: It would be black Friday if you weren't or Andrew,

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Speaker 2: if you just.

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Speaker 3: Set in the file right if you want to, if

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Speaker 3: you want to, go ahead and lug out for me,

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Speaker 1: The second I log out, the zoom is over.

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Speaker 2: Put it on mute and take a walk. Andrew. He's

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Speaker 2: always pulling our edges and always pulling them.

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Speaker 4: Andrew thinks he is the Beyonce of the podcastle.

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Speaker 2: He said, well, we could send you to by talking.

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Speaker 1: Logistically, Yes, it will be over if I leave.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he's getting red.

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Speaker 1: You called me the Beyonce of the podcast, and I

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Speaker 4: Well, you just said there would be no group without you, so.

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Speaker 1: Exactly logistically, yes, there wouldn't be a recording right now

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Speaker 2: Okay, for me, for me. Maybe is there anything that

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Speaker 2: you guys feel like you need that like you would

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Speaker 2: much idle time in this motherfucker, like I'm just buying

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Speaker 2: really need. I mean, I do need to throw this

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Speaker 2: much space. Uh, you know, the cats need more room

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Speaker 2: what do you pull out? Couch or whatever. I need

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Speaker 2: to all the futon I need to get that out

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Speaker 2: I'm definitely bringing something back in this bitch, and so

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Speaker 2: it's not just empty space. And I think your home

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Speaker 2: is definitely a reflection of your mind. And that's and

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Speaker 2: I will say, well, that's what my my doctor said.

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Speaker 1: So that's beautiful.

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Speaker 2: That's another that's another conversation, but that's.

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Speaker 3: A beautiful poem. Friend, Your home is a reflection.

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Speaker 2: Of your mind.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, my home is cold, so my mind is

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Speaker 2: Either it's either in soul, either it's wop slipping slide

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Speaker 3: What's Sidney, what do you? What's this look that you

438
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 3: got on in the house right now?

439
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 4: What are you wearing?

440
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 3: Because Andrew and I are both wearing sweaters, and I

441
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 3: feel like your whole body is exposed.

442
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 2: Oh, because it's so hot in here, like when the

443
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 2: heat actually turns on. I also need to put on

444
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:16,640
Speaker 2: a humidifier or boil some water because it is taking

445
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 2: any little thing from my body. Oh wait, sucking it.

446
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 3: Oh God, that sounds nice. Actually sucking it sounds cute.

447
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 2: Thanks that for you, Thank you, I love that for you. Wow.

448
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 2: So you're saying that your apartment is too hot, too hot?

449
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 2: And then too cold because it's not all day, and

450
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 2: then when it's when the heat is off, it's fucking

451
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 2: burst city. And it's you know, someone said, nobody is

452
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: gonna be perfectly happy with everything, and I said, I

453
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 2: just gotta call it what it is and just be

454
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 2: thankful that I have an apartment.

455
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Speaker 3: I guess, be thankful that you have an apartment with

456
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Speaker 3: an office be Okay, did y'all hear my friend has

457
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 3: an office in her home?

458
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 2: Andrew, do you have an office?

459
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 1: No? This is because my setup is like I'm right

460
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: next to the radiator, right next to the radiator, and

461
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 1: if I touch it, I get burnt. But and this

462
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: is the only place in my apartment that I could

463
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: possibly like set up like a little office space, and

464
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: it's in this little cranny. But I'm so glad that

465
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 1: you have an office space.

466
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 2: Okay. Yeah, the way y'all keep saying it out loud,

467
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 2: it's like a fucking you know what else is in

468
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 2: that office space? A printer? A printer, A printer. I

469
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 2: want to tell you, this beach is reach No, no, no, no, no,

470
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 2: let's let's keep it one hundred Okay, let's keep it straight.

471
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 2: Benjamin's in here that was a gift.

472
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 3: I wish somebody would get me a printer and a

473
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 3: year sulive ink. I say this, and that's that's.

474
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 2: What I want.

475
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: Because is the most annoying part because ink is dumb.

476
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 3: It's like I have to buy more and then I

477
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,439
Speaker 3: can only get this specific type of ink.

478
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 2: I was also gifted with more ink, so yeah, wow,

479
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 2: oh the printer came with extra ink my Christmas present

480
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 2: they got. But hey, hey, hey wait, that doesn't mean

481
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 2: that I can't use more ink in the future. But yeah,

482
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 2: it came with ink. And then I was I ran

483
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 2: out and h this person gifted me some more ink. Wow.

484
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:33,399
Speaker 2: Ink sponsorship.

485
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 3: That is I think the market that we need to

486
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 3: break into.

487
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 2: Is the ink sponsorship.

488
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 3: Andrew, you know, as the Beyonce logistically of the podcast,

489
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 3: what can you do to get us some ink brand deals?

490
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: Let's rolling out right now for ink.

491
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 2: Well, no, some of us need printers, so you should

492
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 2: get some apps for some printers to love.

493
00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 3: You know, that's not me, Tracy Is Matthew knows you

494
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 3: you her daughter.

495
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 1: So okay, I'd be like they want ink.

496
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 2: Also, I don't.

497
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 3: I don't even know where I would put a printer

498
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:13,959
Speaker 3: in my house, so it needs to be a travel

499
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 3: size printer.

500
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 4: Thank you.

501
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 2: You could put it.

502
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: I know where you could put it.

503
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: You could put it on like that bench that you

504
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 2: have by the table that sometimes people sit there and

505
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 2: sometimes they don't.

506
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 4: So yeah, I could.

507
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 2: You're right, I'm thinking about it.

508
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 3: Okay, Well then Sydney, we were supposed to go antiquing

509
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 3: next Friday, but I just realized next Friday is Thanksgiving

510
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 3: Black Friday.

511
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 2: No, it's actually this Friday.

512
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 4: Oh okay, great.

513
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 2: Wait, it's this Friday. It's this Friday. Friend tomorrow tomorrow? Oh,

514
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: look at it?

515
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:51,959
Speaker 1: Oh?

516
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 2: Which is today? Which? Okay? This episode is out? Is

517
00:26:56,000 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 2: out last Friday. Last week we talk about confusion and

518
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 2: I love it. So yeah, this is I hate doing

519
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 2: things in the morning because I do feel discombobulated and

520
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 2: I do things get things like mixed up and I'm

521
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 2: backwards and forwards and I don't feel like I'm on

522
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 2: my A game. But you know, this is what helps

523
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,959
Speaker 2: you get your day started. And that's half the battle.

524
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 3: It's not doing things in the morning that got you discombobulated.

525
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 3: You are on four hours of sleep, that's why you discombobulated. No,

526
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 3: you woke up, you just went to sleep and you

527
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 3: also just woke up.

528
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 2: I'm not a morning person, so also when I'm going

529
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 2: to bed, I still when I wake up, I still

530
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 2: feel like I'm all over the place and not in order.

531
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 2: So well, that's up.

532
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not a morning person, but I think

533
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 3: that you can like start habits that like make your

534
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 3: mornings make more sense for you. You know, if you

535
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 3: have a routine of things that you do in the morning,

536
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 3: I'm going to do this, and then I'm gonna do this,

537
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 3: and I'm gonna do this, then it makes your morning's

538
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 3: easier or like more manageable. I think, mm hmm, that's

539
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 3: what I think.

540
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Maybe maybe just start the day with some

541
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 2: yoga babe, some downward dog. Okay, you and another friend

542
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 2: that will remain nameless are really on these this this

543
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 2: path or journey to you know, wellness, and I love this.

544
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 2: I love this for the group, but you don't.

545
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 3: Love it for yourself because it seems like you are

546
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 3: nowhere near this path of wellness.

547
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:40,959
Speaker 1: I think you start going to bed at a more

548
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: reasonable hour.

549
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 2: Yes, that's what it is, Andrew, you say it come through. No,

550
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 2: we really did want to hear that thank you. Come on, Joelle,

551
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: thank you on Black Friday. Come come talk to us. Man.

552
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Okay, I'm just gonna mute myself for the

553
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 1: rest of the episode.

554
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: No, no, no, we need you people. People are always

555
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 2: in the dms. Like I love when Andrew is on

556
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 2: the episode More of Andrew and.

557
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 1: Just telling you to go to bed more.

558
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 4: Andrew, Andrew, More Drew, Andrew. What time do you go

559
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 4: to bed?

560
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 1: Like around like eleven?

561
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 2: Oh? Wow? Fuck? Every day? Oh you're really?

562
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: Yeah? Wait, because I wake up at like six seven,

563
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: and it's like, I'm tired.

564
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 2: But why do you get up so early?

565
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 1: You just have more hours in the day when you

566
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: wake up early?

567
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 2: Okay, Beyonce you that's really Beyonce has the same amount

568
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 2: as hours as everyone else.

569
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you the same amount of hours in the

570
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 4: day as Beyonce.

571
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: Oh hey wow, oh.

572
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: Wow, I love that.

573
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 3: Can we talk about getting what we wish for and

574
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 3: then not wanting the thing that we wish for?

575
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 2: Yeah? You know, can we? Uh?

576
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 3: Sometimes you think you want something, or you asked for

577
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 3: a specific type of person, or you asked for a

578
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 3: speci type of job or thing, and then you get

579
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 3: it and you're like oh no, this is too much work,

580
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 3: or this is this is this person is too needy,

581
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 3: or this person's.

582
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 2: Specifics, Babe, I'm trying to be as vague as possible.

583
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 2: Or you're like this person is too needy, Like I

584
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 2: gotta see this person every day or once a week,

585
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like it's you know, everything

586
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: that you wanted in something, it come right back, it

587
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 2: come along in a different form. And you're like, this

588
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 2: is not actually it's not the it's not my size. Yeah,

589
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: time and is time and is everything? And uh, it's

590
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 2: it's truly, it's real. It's the thing about like when

591
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 2: you miss one train, there's another train coming or something

592
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 2: like that. But sometimes you might not be ready for

593
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 2: the next thing that's coming because you've you've already been

594
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: exhausted from chasing after that thing. Well, not chasing, but

595
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 2: I like just psychology, yeah, but just trying to get

596
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 2: to the to the first train, and so now the

597
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 2: other ones is like damn, can I catch my bread? Bitch? Fuck,

598
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 2: I'm already late. I might as well just be more late.

599
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 3: Well, the second train is your rebound train, and sometimes

600
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 3: and the rebound train is everything that the first train was.

601
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 3: But no that you wanted the first train to be

602
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 3: be Yeah, but you're like, I.

603
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 4: Still you know that first train, that's the train.

604
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: It sounds like we're talking about people running trains on us,

605
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: but we're not. Yeah, we're not. But also that's a

606
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 2: great title, the rebound Train that we will we will

607
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 2: love you know what.

608
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 4: It is is because it's fine whatever.

609
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 2: It's fine, sis, we love the vaguenscus.

610
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 3: The rebound Train sounds like something that somebody's gonna be like, well,

611
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:46,239
Speaker 3: let me listen to this.

612
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, we do be having titles, and uh, it always

613
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 2: works out for some of us, but other times. I

614
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 2: mean the person that I'm that I'm dating listens to

615
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 2: the podcasts every week, not every week, but she definitely listens,

616
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 2: and I can't. I can't say anything messy hey babe

617
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 2: pass And the thing is is that my last relationship,

618
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 2: I was very specific. I said, yeah, don't listen. I

619
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 2: don't need you to listen. That's it. It'll be better

620
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 2: for our relationship. But she did listen. No, I think

621
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 2: like maybe one once or twice, but I think after

622
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 2: the second time she's like, yeah, I don't want to

623
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 2: listen anyway. But then her friends would be hitting her like, girl,

624
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 2: did you hear the episode? And she's like, no, I

625
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: don't listen, And they're like, oh, okay, well let me

626
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 2: paraphrase what I I mean. If I was you, I

627
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 2: commend you on being able to not listen. But what

628
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: I heard was it also sounds like, y'all should it

629
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 2: shaky as fuck? It's not dirty over there? Everything good

630
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 2: over there? Baby? You want me to drop off some soup?

631
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 2: Y'all good? Y'all good? Yeah?

632
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, but but fifty maybe not fifty percent.

633
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 3: I think forty percent of the you good texts are

634
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 3: people who don't want you to be good. They want

635
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 3: you to be doing bad so they can be like

636
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 3: it'll be okay, or so they can like feel good

637
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 3: about their situation. I think sometimes when people reach out

638
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 3: to their friends after they hear something, it's not always

639
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 3: because that person that's reaching out has the best intentions

640
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 3: for you. Some people reach out because they're like, well,

641
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 3: I'm trying to get the tea so I can bring

642
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 3: it back to my group chet, you know, and.

643
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 2: For this year specifically, I'm gonna say, yeah, let them

644
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 2: give them that tea because it's been fucking dry. We're

645
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 2: doing the same stuff every day, and so I just

646
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 2: want to shout out to all the good brothers and

647
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 2: sisters that feel the need to text me and call

648
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 2: me and let me know their business when when I

649
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: was trying to like clean my apartment or get my

650
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 2: day started, or you know, I really love that you

651
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 2: stopped me every single time to give me that good

652
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 2: good And a lot of the times I'm always like, oh,

653
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 2: are you serious, and so bless your hearts. I love

654
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 2: I love hearing about, not necessarily people's mess, but I

655
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 2: do love hearing about like a you know, like a

656
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 2: love triangle, or you know, somebody didn't pay the rent

657
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 2: in time and they're squatting in their house and it's like, oh.

658
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 4: I didn't know they was doing that bad. Like I

659
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:24,720
Speaker 4: do like hearing.

660
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 2: I like hearing people's mess, but also you know, these

661
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 2: people are the same people are like, don't tell anybody,

662
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 2: don't tell Marie. So Marie doesn't even know.

663
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 3: So just no, I don't know if you've ever told

664
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 3: Cities something and you told her not to tell me.

665
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 2: I don't.

666
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 4: I don't know nothing about your life, Janice.

667
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 2: It's just that's just how it works, unfortunately, And I

668
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 2: can't even believe that Marie still talks to me, because

669
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 2: I really don't have anything to say at all. Who

670
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 2: the kettle is dry? Woo? I can't uh oh, you know,

671
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:03,959
Speaker 2: but I wanted to talk about who y'all be going

672
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 2: to for the gynecologists, Who y'all got going, who y'all

673
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 2: got going? All up and through y'all running through your

674
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 2: pussy like the tomb raider. Who do you have? Because

675
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:15,839
Speaker 2: I need to do that. I haven't had a pap

676
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 2: smere in a while, and you know, I used to

677
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 2: go to Plant Parenthood for everything, so I would go

678
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 2: there so much that they fucking knew me. Like, Okay,

679
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 2: we know what, we know what's really good? You know,

680
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 2: you think you got BV, but you don't. You're just

681
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 2: wearing weird underwear. It's BV a bacteria vaginosis. Oh when

682
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 2: you said BV, I was like, beefy vaginas.

683
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 1: That sounds like a Harry Potter spell.

684
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 2: Well, the vagina is magical, So I was just the narrative.

685
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 2: I was sitting here trying to remember last time I

686
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 2: got a pap smere, But I do remember what it was.

687
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 2: Remember I they thought I had, Remember I talked about it.

688
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 2: On the podcast. Yes, what was it?

689
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 1: Oh h I was so mad. Yes, everyone has it.

690
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 4: And everybody was like, well, I've never had it.

691
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 2: I've never I too, have never had HBV.

692
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 3: Oh So I had it over the like the end

693
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 3: of the summer because I was talking to the Jamaican

694
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 3: at the time, remember him, Yeah, man, the Jamaican.

695
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 4: I was like, I think I have HPV and he

696
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 4: was like HPV the fuck what's that? And he was

697
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 4: freaking out about it.

698
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 2: And then it was like, sir, you probably gave it

699
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 2: to me.

700
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 4: He's like, I'm gonna go talk to my doctor.

701
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, you coughed on it and now I have it. Yeah,

702
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 2: what did Cardi B Say? When you eat baking egg

703
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 2: and cheese, that's how you give people eat It's true,

704
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 2: though you eat it has baking egg and cheese, and

705
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 2: then you let somebody sit on your greasy face. It's like, no,

706
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 2: you gotta brush your teeth. You can't. And like the

707
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: spit has a ton of bacteria, so you spitting on

708
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 2: it and you're doing all this crazy shit. It's like,

709
00:36:58,560 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 2: hold up.

710
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 4: I'm not taking medical advice from Cardi B.

711
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 2: But but that when it was valid, she was not lying.

712
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 4: I don't know nothing about that.

713
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 3: I feel like, if somebody's coming to have sex with me,

714
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 3: or I'm going to somebody's house, then you in an

715
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 3: ideal world, you jump in the shower before I get there, right, Like,

716
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 3: if somebody's coming to pick me up, I'm like, oh,

717
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,919
Speaker 3: let me, let me brush my teeth or like mouth

718
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:25,760
Speaker 3: wash or something.

719
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: You know.

720
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 2: Well, as we learned, since people are not even washing

721
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 2: any fucking legs properly. So you know, no, no, no, no,

722
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 2: no no no, no, no no no.

723
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 3: White people aren't washing their legs properly. That's what Twitter

724
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 3: taught me. And I'm not banging white people in this economy, right.

725
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: They had that whole conversation last year about like and

726
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: like half of the country wasn't washing their legs in

727
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,879
Speaker 1: the shower. Nope. And they're like and they were like, oh,

728
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: if I'm washing my armpits, then the soap is just

729
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: falling down past my legs. I'm like, that's not the

730
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 1: same thing, y'all.

731
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 2: Really, really really is dumb. You know, I'm not.

732
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 4: Using wash clothes, so the soap, the bar of soap

733
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 4: is just touching the arms and then yeah.

734
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 2: What it's too much for me. But I will say

735
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 2: sometimes it's hard to get all in the back, like

736
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 2: my arm is not reaching all the way. Like I'm

737
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 2: getting there, but there's like I'm definitely missing some spots.

738
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 3: Well yeah, but sometimes you know, do you do you

739
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:21,840
Speaker 3: come up on the side of the or the shoulder.

740
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 3: I go above the shoulder, I try to go around.

741
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 2: I go under. You know, I have really long, long arms, thankfully,

742
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 2: but I do feel like right in the freaking middles,

743
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 2: you know, just just throw some soap on the cat

744
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 2: and have him roll up big.

745
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,440
Speaker 3: Those cats use your body as a jungle gym anyway,

746
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 3: so let them help the wadies.

747
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 2: I love these fucking things. I mean, they they definitely

748
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 2: tell me. They they let me know when things are

749
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 2: getting too hectic in here and they're like, bitch, you

750
00:38:56,800 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 2: have got to get it together. It's ghettoing here right now.

751
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 2: So they tell your sister, Yeah, they be me owing

752
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 2: and or they're following me around, or if I've slept,

753
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 2: if I'm sleeping on the couch too long, Jelly will

754
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 2: pounce on me and just like get up, like she

755
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 2: taps me. She's like, bitch, ain't you got stuff to do? Well?

756
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 2: I thought they only meowed when they were hungry and

757
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 2: the bulls were empty. They do that too, but they

758
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 2: also meow when clearly I feel like I'm not my

759
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 2: normal self when I get really when I get really down,

760
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 2: they start me owing because they're like, get it together,

761
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 2: let's go. You got money to make. We cannot be homeless. Yeah,

762
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 2: I saw a video.

763
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 3: I sent you a video yesterday as a fat cat

764
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 3: on a treadmill. But she's meowing and it's in the

765
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 3: water and just one paw is moving. Did you see it?

766
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 2: I saw it. I saw it. I went to that

767
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 2: cat's page. That cat started at twenty one pounds and

768
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:05,760
Speaker 2: the goal weight is twelve pounds.

769
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 4: So they're trying to get this cat some a body together.

770
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 2: Now. Apparently all the poor kitty did he get. He

771
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 2: gained all the weight during pandemic.

772
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,240
Speaker 4: I think the cat was just fat.

773
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 2: I can't fit any of my jeans. I'm that cat.

774
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm legit. I've gained so much weight on. My face

775
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 2: looks so puffy right now. So I'm working on my

776
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:31,479
Speaker 2: birthday body, Like how Sydney tell us how you're working

777
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 2: on your birthday body? Your birthday body.

778
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 3: I'm drinking more water that's it. That's all you're doing

779
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 3: to work on it.

780
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: That's step one one.

781
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 3: Also, more water could just be a cup of day

782
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 3: because that feels like more than what you were drinking before. Okay,

783
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 3: Sydney Birthday Body Round one or step one is drink

784
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 3: more water.

785
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 2: Step two is wet friend. Cut back on you know,

786
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 2: the juices, the sodas, the red bull, the Chinese food.

787
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 2: The I need to juice more. So I'm definitely gonna

788
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 2: be using the juicer that I went half on a

789
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 2: baby with Carolina with, and I'm gonna get that in order.

790
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 2: I gotta I gotta have my fruits and vegetables, and

791
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 2: I can't be afraid to use kale and celery and

792
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 2: carrots and all those things that tastes disgusting, but I

793
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 2: just have to do it.

794
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 4: You never had good kale or good carrots.

795
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 2: No, I haven't. It is good, but I don't like

796
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 2: it in my juice or smoothie.

797
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 3: No, I don't like those. Okay, I understand, I want

798
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 3: you to put them in the juice. But you can

799
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 3: still eat kale and you can still eat carrots.

800
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll do all that too. Okay, So step one

801
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 2: is drink more water. Step two is drink less juice

802
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 2: but also more juice.

803
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 3: Okay, got it, Just listen. I just want to say

804
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 3: it out loud so everybody hears what the plan is.

805
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 3: And then step three.

806
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 2: Actual movement the body while the microphone is laying on

807
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 2: her chest. I am that fucking cat, the cat the treadmill.

808
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I swear, But this week I feel

809
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 2: good because I I've actually gotten out of the house

810
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 2: more than I have in the last three weeks. I

811
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 2: tweeted that that I did a wellness check. I was like,

812
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 2: how many people are steeping on the couch because they

813
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: left their laundry on the bed and they refuse to

814
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 2: put it away? And I'm at three weeks and so

815
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 2: you know, there's some people that are coming up on

816
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 2: similar numbers for me, but most of the people are like,

817
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 2: cis get help. So yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna do

818
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:50,800
Speaker 2: it today.

819
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do my part and be the mean friend

820
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 3: right here, because that's the rule that I was born

821
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 3: to play.

822
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 2: You don't even do.

823
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:57,760
Speaker 4: Your own laundry.

824
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 3: You send it out so you can't even do the

825
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 3: step of putting it away. Now, Oh, oh my god,

826
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,479
Speaker 3: are you omogtting me or Olmo gotting her.

827
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 1: No to Sydney. It's just really you get it done

828
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 1: and you can't. I feel bad, I know, I feel

829
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 1: I feel really bad because that. I used to be

830
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 1: like that when I was very, very depressed. I remember

831
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 1: taking my laundry back from the laundromat and then just

832
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 1: leaving it in the laundry laundry bag and then it

833
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: just got wrinkly because I was just too depressed to

834
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:25,479
Speaker 1: even take it out.

835
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 2: So, yeah, Citny, you gonna get more texts after this episode.

836
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 4: Drop Oh you wrinkly said bitch?

837
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 2: Why yeah, yeah, Well you know we're working. We're working

838
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:43,800
Speaker 2: through it, ma'am.

839
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 3: So mm you're sleeping around it, babe. You're not working

840
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 3: through your laundry. You are not even sleeping in the

841
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 3: bed with it. I sleep in the bed with my laundry.

842
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 2: And that's what most people were saying. They were like, oh,

843
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 2: I didn't even think about They're like, so, why don't

844
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 2: you just move the laundry. The couch is like, because

845
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,240
Speaker 2: the couch is the communal space and that's when people

846
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 2: walk in. So like, I could close the door to

847
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 2: my room and you don't know what's going on there,

848
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:10,919
Speaker 2: But you can't do that to the living room.

849
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 1: So although there's just as much effort to move the

850
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 1: clothes to the couch than it would exactly.

851
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 2: So no, no, no, no. So here what you do. Here's

852
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 2: what you do.

853
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 4: I got it.

854
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 2: You move the clothes from the bed to the couch

855
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 2: so you can sleep in the bed.

856
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 3: Then in the morning you wake up, you moved it.

857
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 3: You move it from the couch back to the bed.

858
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 3: This is that movement you were seeing you needed for

859
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 3: the new box.

860
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 2: You just keep moving it back and forth. And that's

861
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 2: how you're going to get some gains. And that's how

862
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: you're gonna build build that that laundry core, you know

863
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 2: what I mean, honestly brilliant, And it's the new workout.

864
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 2: It's the new workout plan for depressed people that are

865
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 2: too depressed to move their laundry and put it actually

866
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 2: in the drawers. But it's an enough movement to make

867
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 2: sure that you're not laying down the whole day. And

868
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 2: I could see that. I could see that as like

869
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: a daily workout, just shifting and moving things and from

870
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 2: one room to the next.

871
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 3: And while you're shifting, some things might get like something

872
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 3: might fall on the floor, so you're picking things up,

873
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 3: so that's another range of motion fuses, and then you

874
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 3: can relearn how to fold things because you're gonna have

875
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 3: to refold some of those things.

876
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,279
Speaker 2: So oh no, no, I'm at the point where it's like, Okay,

877
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 2: the clothes have been sitting here so long that they're

878
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:34,280
Speaker 2: dirty again. So yes, you just got to send them out. Yes,

879
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 2: that's that's keep.

880
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 3: Just keep spending that money since keep spending that podcast

881
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 3: money on doing laundry and then not putting it away.

882
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 2: Yes, you are living the dream, babe. It's only it's

883
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:50,799
Speaker 2: only thirteen dollars. So it's thirteen dollars for how much

884
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 2: laundry a lot? Hm?

885
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 3: Can you bring your laptop in there? Can we see

886
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 3: the laundry? Can we visit the pile?

887
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 2: No, I won't do that. That's that's why. That's that's

888
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 2: when it gets that's when it gets scary, and I'm

889
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 2: not I'm not doing that. So you know it's scary?

890
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,959
Speaker 3: Is I know that the cats sleep on the pile

891
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 3: of laundry, so the clothes is clean but covered in

892
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:12,839
Speaker 3: cat hair.

893
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 4: So yes, man, I might as well throw them all

894
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 4: out the window.

895
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 2: Yes, I might as well. Burn the cats burn everything.

896
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 4: The cats are resting on your panties, so no, we

897
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:25,879
Speaker 4: don't do that.

898
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 2: They're not resting on the panties. But so you put

899
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 2: the panties away. The panties are in an in another area,

900
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 2: and the bag of laundry they're at the bottom. So

901
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 2: I go through the bag every day to find the underwear.

902
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 3: So okay, Sydney, Yeah, you gotta get your life together,

903
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 3: sisce that. That don't make no type of sense. You

904
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 3: go through the bag, you go to the bottom of

905
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 3: the bag to get your panties every day.

906
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 2: That's a lie.

907
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,720
Speaker 4: You're not wearing panties every day. I don't believe.

908
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: All right, thanks, don't prove it.

909
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 2: Don't prove it, please, I have fannies, guys, thank you

910
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:11,320
Speaker 2: so much. But no, I I tweeted that out and honestly,

911
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 2: you know, I should have more shame, but I don't.

912
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 2: But it's it's therapeutic because I now I know. I'm like, ah,

913
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 2: this is what I needed to push me in the

914
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 2: direction to actually get it done. But also, my girlfriend's

915
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 2: coming soon, so I literally only have a week left

916
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: of this these shenanigans, and then there's no way I

917
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 2: can live like that with somebody else coming this way.

918
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, I think she's just gonna have

919
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 3: to She's gonna have to learn to live with that

920
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 3: pile of clothes.

921
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 2: No, what are you looking at?

922
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 3: I'm looking at reviews of the podcast, the way that

923
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,919
Speaker 3: you jumped on me for looking at my phone when

924
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 3: you live on yours on this here podcast.

925
00:47:57,400 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 1: We're done bullying Sydney. I feel like this and he's

926
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: been there enough this week.

927
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 2: What's she been doing this week?

928
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 1: I just feel like we've been on her about being depressed,

929
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: and it's like, Okay, then the podcast is gonna be over,

930
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 1: and then Cidny's gonna have to be back in her

931
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:13,240
Speaker 1: depression hive.

932
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 2: Depression partner carollabing my apartment the depression Hive Depression, I

933
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 2: can say, depression also a great title.

934
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 4: So I actually like depression Hive.

935
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 2: I love that, Andy, Yeah, I actually do, because you

936
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 2: know we'll have another Black Friday next to you. Yeah,

937
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 2: that's stupid depression. Technically every Friday is Black Friday on

938
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:44,279
Speaker 2: this podcast. I really I tweet for the people that

939
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 2: are too sad to tweet out the ship that's going

940
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 2: on in their apartment and then I do it and

941
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 2: they're like, yo, that's where the fuck I am. Thank

942
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 2: you for making me feel seen, thank you for seeing me,

943
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 2: thank you for thank you for seeing the doing that's

944
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 2: not being done.

945
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:04,799
Speaker 3: I don't think that I'm bullying Sydney at all. I

946
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:08,760
Speaker 3: think that I'm being a good friend.

947
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're you're being you are a good friend.

948
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:19,280
Speaker 2: I think that sometimes even you being a good friend,

949
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 2: I'm just in such a like sensitive place that you're

950
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 2: being a good friend. But it's not helpful for me

951
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 2: because then it's I'm unraveling while you're talking to me.

952
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 2: But also like what is the proper because for the

953
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 2: depression episode, I was like, well, I don't want to

954
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 2: say the wrong thing, and Andree was like, no, there's

955
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 2: no such thing as saying the wrong thing.

956
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 3: And I was like, no there is. But I don't

957
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's good to.

958
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 2: Or I don't think that it's good to What is

959
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 2: a word that I'm trying to use here enable enable

960
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 2: people when they're depressed, because like you're tiptoeing around, I'm

961
00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 2: tiptoe around how somebody feels so that I don't upset them,

962
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 2: but the way that they're living their life is upsetting

963
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 2: me and my homegirls. So where's the middle, you know?

964
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,879
Speaker 2: But but you know what you can do. You can

965
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 2: get off the phone, you could close the laptop, you

966
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 2: can put the text on do not disturb, and live

967
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 2: your life. So it's not the same. So like you,

968
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 2: it's upsetting you in a different way than what is

969
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 2: actually happening to the person on a daily basis.

970
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 3: Yes, but you want your friends to be able to

971
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,920
Speaker 3: lean on you when they need you, obviously, But like, Sidney,

972
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 3: do you remember when you were having panic attacks, like

973
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,280
Speaker 3: and they were coming like more and more often before

974
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 3: you started.

975
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,839
Speaker 2: Your like therapy and stuff.

976
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 3: And you will call me and I'd be like, Sydney,

977
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 3: I don't know what I'm supposed to say to you,

978
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 3: like remember, and it was like I don't want to

979
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 3: say the wrong thing thing. But then like the more

980
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 3: frequently you would have these panic attacks, the less it

981
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 3: was like, dude, you have to do something about this. Yeah,

982
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 3: like you cannot keep living your life like this.

983
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 2: And then just like deal with these panic attacks after

984
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 2: they've happened.

985
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 3: You have to do something to prevent them from happening.

986
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 3: And you were like you weren't ready to take that

987
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 3: step and eventually you you stopped having them or I

988
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 3: guess you.

989
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 2: I don't know if you stopped having them, but you

990
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:32,839
Speaker 2: stopped talking to me about them.

991
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 4: So because it's like.

992
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 3: I don't know, I feel like if something doesn't work,

993
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 3: or something is disrupting your life, or something doesn't make

994
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 3: you feel good, then you have to cut that thing out.

995
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 2: Or you're talking as a person who's like, obviously you

996
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 2: don't you're not. I wouldn't say like you have chronic depression,

997
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 2: like obviously you get you get down and things like

998
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 2: bother you and it it it it. It might mess

999
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 2: up a day or maybe a week, but it's not

1000
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 2: like crazy ongoing, but something that like I have and

1001
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:17,759
Speaker 2: other people who listen to the podcast, it's like a

1002
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 2: chemical imbalance. It's that what you're saying makes complete sense,

1003
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 2: but there's something in their brain that just won't connect

1004
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 2: the dots to give them the proper energy to actually

1005
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 2: do it, and the avoidance that happens over and over

1006
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 2: and becomes a snowball effect effect and to the point

1007
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 2: where like you just saying well, just get up and

1008
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 2: do it triggers them because they're like, I know, bitch,

1009
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 2: you think I don't want to do it, something like

1010
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:48,879
Speaker 2: I can't do it.

1011
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 3: I'm talking about before you got on antidepressants because you

1012
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:52,879
Speaker 3: did not want to take them.

1013
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 2: You refuse to talk to somebody about them.

1014
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:57,360
Speaker 3: And every time you had a panic attack, it was like, Sydney,

1015
00:52:57,360 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 3: you have to talk to somebody. You gotta you have

1016
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 3: to are taking You gotta either talk to a therapist

1017
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:05,879
Speaker 3: or you need to be on antidepressants. And you did

1018
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 3: not want to do that. And it was like, so

1019
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 3: me as your friend, you're telling me about these chemical imbalances,

1020
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 3: but me as your friend, I can't just keep Okay, Well,

1021
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 3: I hope.

1022
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 2: You feel better tomorrow.

1023
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 3: No, you have Like you're saying that you didn't want

1024
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,479
Speaker 3: to take the step or you were incapable of taking

1025
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 3: those steps, but you had to do something different in

1026
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:35,240
Speaker 3: order to not, you know, have these crazy panic attacks anymore.

1027
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 2: And I'll tell you that I think what's useful for you.

1028
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:45,799
Speaker 2: Maybe it sounds harsh, but like, yeah, I don't know

1029
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 2: what to tell you other than like maybe you should

1030
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:52,280
Speaker 2: google what to say to a friend who is dealing

1031
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 2: with it, because I mean, sometimes it sounds like you're

1032
00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 2: coming from a good place, but there is all over

1033
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 2: the place, and any little thing could fucking jump start

1034
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 2: something that you didn't mean to like be a part of.

1035
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 2: So okay, so I know, I know what, I know

1036
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,799
Speaker 2: what you mean, and like it's like I can't tell you, well,

1037
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 2: it'll be better tomorrow. But like I'm also like telling

1038
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 2: someone to just get up and do it or you

1039
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 2: have to make changes. It's just not that simple.

1040
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 4: I understand that. I understand that it's not that simple.

1041
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:34,959
Speaker 2: I get that, And you know, I was just in

1042
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 2: that situation and I had to leave the relationship situation

1043
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 2: that I was in because of this. But then then

1044
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 2: I don't know, and I googled. I was doing my research,

1045
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 2: and the more I googled the Saturday it made me.

1046
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 2: But like also the like.

1047
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say the matter, it just made it

1048
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 3: makes me sad, and like dealing with people who have

1049
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 3: depression and where look at us, it's pression episode again.

1050
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 2: Depression.

1051
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 4: You see how she's sucking me into the depression hive.

1052
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm not sucking you in. I was.

1053
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 2: I was keeping it light and you guys were like,

1054
00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 2: oh honey, get it together.

1055
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:20,919
Speaker 3: Well I don't know if we were saying it together

1056
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 3: but we definitely were telling you to put your laundry away.

1057
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:23,880
Speaker 2: We did said that.

1058
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1059
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,919
Speaker 3: I feel like if you have energy to do certain things,

1060
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 3: and you should have energy to do that too. That's

1061
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:35,239
Speaker 3: that's what my mind, where my mind goes immediately. Come on,

1062
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:42,439
Speaker 3: Matthew Knowles. Matthew knows is Tracy. I'm the mean Destiny's child.

1063
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:45,799
Speaker 2: I'm on Angie, the cousin, the thick one.

1064
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 4: I'm I'm Lac Tavia or whatever.

1065
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:52,840
Speaker 1: Who's the one that got arrested whatever?

1066
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 2: Barah got arrested? Well, technically Sydney is Sarah, but oh

1067
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 2: all right, couldn't it? And Pharah didn't stay bitch, So

1068
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 2: that's not me. But you're the only one here on

1069
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 2: this zoom that got arrested. So that's you, babe. I

1070
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 2: So Lindsey Lohan got arrested.

1071
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 4: But you don't want to be that. She don't even

1072
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 4: want to be that.

1073
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: She's not one Desy's children, She's.

1074
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 2: She's not even a part of some hive. Okay, don't you.

1075
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 2: Nora got arrested one, so you Chloe of the groups

1076
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 2: is I'll think that new faith? Who is hm?

1077
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 1: Who does that make you?

1078
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:40,360
Speaker 2: If Sydney is Chloe. Yeah, who's the mean Who's the

1079
00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 2: mean Kardashian or the most honest Kardashian.

1080
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:46,960
Speaker 1: Courtney's the one that just like essentially canceled the show.

1081
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:48,399
Speaker 1: I don't watch it, but like she was the one

1082
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:50,400
Speaker 1: that was like, I don't want to do this show anymore,

1083
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: and so now it's over for her.

1084
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 2: He said, I don't want to be in that toxic

1085
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 2: relationship anymore. Good for fucking Courtney got to be like

1086
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 2: forty forty two or something right now. Courtney said, I'm

1087
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 2: here with my original face, bitch, don't you y'all switching

1088
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 2: and y'all changing niggas and faces and all is left

1089
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 2: and right, and I can't keep up with the babies

1090
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:12,720
Speaker 2: and everything that y'all do. And Kanye is office rocker

1091
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 2: and said I gotta go. I got piece out. You

1092
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 2: could take your your lip kits and your and yours

1093
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 2: and go on your way. Well I think yeah, she

1094
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 2: was like, I'm tired of trying to come up with

1095
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:28,160
Speaker 2: a storyline that I actually want to share or that

1096
00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 2: I care about. Well, yeah, because I'm sure like because you.

1097
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 3: Know, they manufacture all the things, all the drama, all

1098
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 3: the things that happen on that show. But like she

1099
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 3: was like, I don't want to share my real life

1100
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 3: and I don't want to share my fake life.

1101
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 2: Let's go. I'm every can we just clap for Courtney?

1102
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 2: I'm I'm not clapping for any of them. I'm not

1103
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 2: a fan of the fan at all, but I mean,

1104
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 2: I'm not listen, I'm not a fan of them either,

1105
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 2: but yo, I'm clapping for her because yeah, after what

1106
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 2: twenty years and all the points that they were making,

1107
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 2: she was like, it's time to walk away. Guys, there's

1108
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 2: nothing else to do or say, let's just let's just

1109
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 2: be better and live our lives quietly.

1110
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 3: Well, you're saying live quietly. They're still social media people.

1111
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 3: They're still selling their teas and their skims and their

1112
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 3: Christmas Grinch kids, and they're still selling stuff. But they've

1113
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 3: reached a point where like everybody in the world at

1114
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 3: this point knows who they are. So, I mean, my

1115
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 3: mom calls them kadashi, So even my mom knows Kadashi.

1116
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:39,439
Speaker 3: So do you still need to show on E? I mean,

1117
00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 3: what is E gonna do?

1118
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 2: Now? He was gonna make it happen. They definitely was like, Yo,

1119
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 2: we gotta push Courtney down to fly the stairs. She

1120
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 2: gotta be gotta be storyline. Yeah, the Courtney, the Courtney

1121
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 2: Coma storyline season eight.

1122
00:58:56,640 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 1: We don't know how she got pushed down, like we

1123
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 1: see like one of the.

1124
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 2: Producers it was him And this is like I saw

1125
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:07,920
Speaker 2: she got on the slippery socks.

1126
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1127
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 2: Remember Marie and Showgirls when when she tripped the girl. Ah, yes,

1128
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 2: that's what that's what they need to do for Courtney.

1129
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but Cortney's a mother, you know, she might fall

1130
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 3: down and land on one of her kids. So that yeah,

1131
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 3: maybe not put your down a flat stair.

1132
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, I don't. I don't suggest violence

1133
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 2: upon I don't wish it upon anybody. But that's the

1134
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 2: stunts that I feel like E would would have tried

1135
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 2: to do to get the shot, to get what they

1136
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 2: needed done because it was so much money.

1137
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 3: And yeah, they made they've made a lot. I mean,

1138
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 3: Kylie is now a billionaire. She wasn't when the article

1139
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 3: came out, but she is.

1140
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:54,000
Speaker 2: There is not she was she had like nine million dollars.

1141
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 1: Like like ten other like spinoff shows right like there's

1142
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 1: still on TV. Yeah.

1143
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 2: The fact that they didn't get the nan one of

1144
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 2: them show. Nana should have got one of them shows.

1145
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 2: Who's Nana J? M J M should have got like

1146
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 2: her Frankie and Grace type show. Oh I didn't. I

1147
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 2: don't even know. So they have a Nana on the show. Yeah, MJ.

1148
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 2: Chris and still alive and her and that loose full

1149
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 2: bang she got going on. They they could definitely pull

1150
01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 2: a little storyline for her. She's not she's not fucking nobody,

1151
01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 2: she's not doing nothing, she's not causing no drama.

1152
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 4: I just oh, I didn't know she was still alive.

1153
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:37,400
Speaker 2: And MJ is so sweet that I was like, how

1154
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 2: did you? How did you birth Chris?

1155
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:45,200
Speaker 3: This is well, good people have bad children all the time, baby, Okay,

1156
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 3: people give birth to serial killers, people give birth to

1157
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 3: fuck boys. People give birth to these people.

1158
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 2: I know, and we can't get we can't get mad

1159
01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 2: at them. It's not their fault. But it's also like,

1160
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 2: what could we have done better?

1161
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 3: You know, it's a little bit their fault, but yes,

1162
01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 3: you know, what could you have been better? So your

1163
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 3: kid was not so terrible? But I think I was

1164
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 3: talking to somebody about this the other day, about how

1165
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:12,800
Speaker 3: men men's moms do a lot of work for them,

1166
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 3: like a lot of men. Maybe it's like I don't

1167
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 3: know if it's American moms, but definitely Caribbean moms. And

1168
01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 3: like Hispanic moms, they like spoil their sons, They like

1169
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 3: do things for their sons.

1170
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 2: They cook for them, they do their laundry for them,

1171
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 2: they change the oil in their cars for them. And

1172
01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 2: then when these men go out and try to be

1173
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:36,320
Speaker 2: in relationships, they not bring nothing to the table because

1174
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 2: they've never had to do anything. And it's not because

1175
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 2: their mothers. It's because their mothers care about them so much.

1176
01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:48,480
Speaker 2: They turn these grown ass men into babies essentially, and

1177
01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 2: then those men are useless to me and Andrew so useless.

1178
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:57,880
Speaker 2: That's also a good thing that you brought up, because

1179
01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 2: I actually met this woman who did my hair again

1180
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:06,520
Speaker 2: for another woman for the second time around. Not a

1181
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 2: wonderful job, God bless, not a wonderful job. Not a

1182
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 2: wonderful job. It's what am I going to do? You know?

1183
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 2: I just have bad luck with the lace front, and

1184
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 2: that's you know, we're going to leave it at that.

1185
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 2: But she was saying that she was dating this person

1186
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 2: for eight years and they were very like motivated to

1187
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 2: like start businesses and get work done and be bop

1188
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,920
Speaker 2: op and do what they do. But they didn't clean.

1189
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 2: And so she's the type of person that's like, you know,

1190
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 2: I take care of the home. I make sure everything

1191
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 2: is order. And she was like cooking and cleaning. She

1192
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 2: was like, since I'm not your wife, so like why

1193
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 2: am I doing all of this? And she said, oh,

1194
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 2: you need to be my wife to cook and clean, okay,

1195
01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 2: boop and proposed and everything. So that she was like,

1196
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 2: this is what I want. I want somebody to wait.

1197
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 2: She was in a relationship with a woman or with

1198
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:03,959
Speaker 2: a man with a woman, and the woman wasn't doing

1199
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 2: anything in the house, but she was working outside the house. Yeah,

1200
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 2: doing everything to like bring income to the table.

1201
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean sometimes it's as easy as having

1202
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:18,479
Speaker 3: a conversation as with the person that you're with. If

1203
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:21,720
Speaker 3: you are not happy in your current situation, or you

1204
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 3: don't like the role that you're playing in your relationship

1205
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:27,880
Speaker 3: or whatever, it's sometimes it's as easy as having a

1206
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 3: conversation and telling the person that you're with that you're

1207
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:32,480
Speaker 3: not happy. I think a lot of times women want

1208
01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 3: to like like kind of tiptoe or like stomp around

1209
01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 3: the problem. Like you'll have an attitude and the person

1210
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 3: will be like, well, what's wrong, and you're like nothing,

1211
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 3: But like it's because you're mad that you're doing dishes,

1212
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:45,480
Speaker 3: or you're mad that you got to cook, or you're

1213
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 3: mad that they haven't want you flowers in a couple

1214
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 3: of years or whatever. Just I don't know. I think

1215
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,160
Speaker 3: that you have to just say what you mean and

1216
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:55,000
Speaker 3: mean what you say.

1217
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 2: And also you're not going to be on any role

1218
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 2: that you don't put yourself in. So if you're like

1219
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 2: cleaning and cooking and that's what you're doing up top,

1220
01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 2: that's what people get comfortable with and they get content

1221
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:09,640
Speaker 2: and even me, like I was in that situation where

1222
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, well this person is like taking

1223
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 2: care of the house or taking care of me, And

1224
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:18,480
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, nope, nope, that person

1225
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 2: that I was dating was not my mother. It was

1226
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 2: not Ramona Marie. So like it has to be fifty

1227
01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:31,440
Speaker 2: to fifty and it shouldn't be sixty forty or sixty

1228
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 2: twenty or oh that doesn't even add in twenty Yeah,

1229
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:37,120
Speaker 2: that the cats are doing twenty percent of the work,

1230
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:42,360
Speaker 2: you know what? You know what I meant guys. But yeah,

1231
01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 2: it's just you have to position your place in a

1232
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 2: way that you want to be treated moving forward. Right,

1233
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 2: So what we're saying is, to paraphrase up top, do

1234
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 2: what you want to do for the next fifty years. Yeah,

1235
01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do something, but I'm not gonna do too much. Right.

1236
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,440
Speaker 3: Well, that's like it's like when you have sex with

1237
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 3: a guy for the first time. I mean, I don't know,

1238
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 3: or with somebody for the first time. I don't know

1239
01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 3: if I'm sure I'm not the only person that does this,

1240
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 3: but like you know, the first time you like give

1241
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 3: somebody head, maybe you're like, I'm not gonna do that

1242
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 3: good a job. I'm be kind of lazy with it,

1243
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 3: so you don't ask me to do it again. That's

1244
01:05:21,120 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 3: that's the energy that I'm on Andrew.

1245
01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:26,680
Speaker 1: Yes, Yeah, okay, you do it.

1246
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,160
Speaker 2: You do it, decent job, but you're like, I'm not

1247
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 2: really gonna I'm not really gonna do it. I'm not

1248
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 2: gonna Jill Scott it because I'm you're not gonna ask

1249
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:35,919
Speaker 2: me to do this every time you come over here. Yeah,

1250
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 2: especially because I mean it just it reminds me of

1251
01:05:40,040 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 2: like bartenders when I would ask for a virgin mohido.

1252
01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:47,400
Speaker 2: They make the first one so good that I'm like,

1253
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 2: I want another one. It's like, bitch, nobody wants to

1254
01:05:49,760 --> 01:05:52,440
Speaker 2: be muddling up and all this meant and crushing all

1255
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 2: this ice and but in simple syrup for you to

1256
01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:57,919
Speaker 2: tip me a dollar like no, which is not true.

1257
01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 2: I always tip more than that, always for a for

1258
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 2: one drink, for a mocktail given like two or three,

1259
01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 2: oh wow, which most people would do anyway if they're doing,

1260
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 2: you know, a regular cocktail. But it's something about doing

1261
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 2: the first one so good. I'm definitely gonna ask for

1262
01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 2: a second one. But if you give me one so

1263
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 2: so like, oh, it was doable, it was fine. I'm

1264
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 2: not gonna spend another, you know, ten dollars on this

1265
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:34,240
Speaker 2: so so virgin mohido. Right, I'm asking so so so deaf.

1266
01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,320
Speaker 2: It's so I'm asked for a sprite. Do you guys

1267
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 2: have ginger al on the gun? Okay, y'all, I'll take

1268
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:43,080
Speaker 2: some ginger al. But yeah, I think that's those are

1269
01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 2: wise words to live by. Do the first one not

1270
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 2: so good, and then do the second one a little

1271
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:51,280
Speaker 2: bit better, and then maybe the third one is bomb

1272
01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 2: and they're looking at you like it's all about growth. No, no,

1273
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 2: I say weight, wait six months and then hit them

1274
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:01,640
Speaker 2: with the wee bop pop pop pop. Then they're like, whoa,

1275
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:03,320
Speaker 2: I didn't even know you had that in you.

1276
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 4: Six months later you're like and they're like, oh, myke,

1277
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 4: do you want to be my.

1278
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 2: Mom this weekend? Yeah? It was like, oh damn, are

1279
01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:15,520
Speaker 2: you have you ever done that? No? That was that

1280
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:19,880
Speaker 2: was my first time thing theme. Yeah. The dude that

1281
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:23,440
Speaker 2: I was with for the pandem would like make comments

1282
01:07:23,440 --> 01:07:25,960
Speaker 2: about that, like every time, like I would see him

1283
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 2: and it was like, oh oh oh he was like

1284
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:33,160
Speaker 2: the first time we hooked up, I was like does

1285
01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:35,080
Speaker 2: she like me? And I was like, well, I didn't

1286
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:39,480
Speaker 2: know if I did. But you know, every time you

1287
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:42,160
Speaker 2: do something with somebody, they should look at the end

1288
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:46,080
Speaker 2: and ask themselves does that person like me? That's that's

1289
01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:49,320
Speaker 2: the energy you should be bringing in. Then it makes

1290
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 2: them work hard exactly. And when people don't know if

1291
01:07:52,920 --> 01:07:56,480
Speaker 2: you like them, they they want to impress you more. Yep.

1292
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 2: Some self doubt can sometimes work in your favor. Sis.

1293
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:04,600
Speaker 4: Self doubt saves relationships, it does, it does.

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Speaker 2: There's always uh, there's always upward mobility. If you're not

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Speaker 2: giving your all, well, if.

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Speaker 3: You're not giving your all to me, then I will

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Speaker 3: leave you. But if you're giving me too much too soon,

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Speaker 3: I will also leave you.

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Speaker 2: So honestly, you.

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Speaker 3: Gotta figure out, you gotta you gotta do the Jenga

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Speaker 3: and figure girl.

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Speaker 2: You you're a tough You're a tough titty too. You

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Speaker 2: are goldie locks as well. Yes I am a Goldilocks,

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Speaker 2: because yes I am. You know that I am. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so I'd be like this is this is too hard,

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Speaker 2: this is too soft, this is just not for me. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So all you thoughty goldielocks out there, which your you know,

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Speaker 2: your your braids and your teflar blags or whatever. What

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Speaker 2: is tel far tell far back is what you're calling it.

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Speaker 2: It's it's black Friday, and get what you deserve and

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Speaker 2: do what you do, live your life and make people

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Speaker 2: do what you need to be done in a properly

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Speaker 2: way that makes sense for your life. How about that? Sure?

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Speaker 2: Today this is the.

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Speaker 3: Day to give somebody bad head if you're a woman,

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Speaker 3: how about that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is bad day, bad head day. I like

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Speaker 2: that for us, badhead day. Okay, Well, is there anything

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Speaker 2: that you want to leave the listeners with before we go,

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Speaker 2: any final words from the bag of laundry or is

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Speaker 2: does Jam want to say a couple of words on

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Speaker 2: the mic?

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Speaker 4: Andrew, Is there something that you think that we missed?

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Speaker 1: No, I think we got it. I mean I hope

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Speaker 1: that everyone is, you know, having a safe Thanksgiving and

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Speaker 1: Black Friday. I guess it's all virtual. Yeah, just don't

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Speaker 1: be stupid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't be stupid. Don't be stupid. So cranberry sauce

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Speaker 2: will never be worth it driving all the way to

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Speaker 2: fucking some store because you need to get this TV.

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01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 2: Order it online. Like it's okay, there's a there's a

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Speaker 2: pandemic going on. It can wait.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm not I'm not trying to do any

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Speaker 4: of those things.

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Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, it's not that good.

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Speaker 2: You can you can watch it on your laptopic. Wow,

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Speaker 2: I still haven't seen it. I'm gonna I'm gonna watch

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Speaker 2: It's not good. I'm not here for it. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I'm no offense to the more Mormon community. I know

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Speaker 2: y'all got your whole lifestyle together and it's a little

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01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:33,160
Speaker 2: bit kookie, but I'm not really interested. I'm not I

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Speaker 2: could care less. Wow, the Mormons in Atlanta, the Mormon

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Speaker 2: slander cannot live on this podcast. This is sorry, guys,

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Speaker 2: and this is why I'm quitting the podcast right now. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: Bye guys, happy uh happy Hondid days. Oh yeah, and

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Speaker 2: don't forget to you know, leave a review. We love those,

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Speaker 2: also also subscribe to our Patreon and leave calm. We

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Speaker 2: need them. We love them.

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Speaker 1: Comments on what what posts are you posting all.

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Speaker 2: Of the page. I need you to subscribe to our

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Speaker 2: real patreon. Andrew or black Friday. We are not half

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Speaker 2: off for Black Friday. But Andrew talking about the instagram

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Speaker 2: on Instagram, and I mean I did the last post

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Speaker 2: literally nine months ago, and I will not do the

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Speaker 2: next post because I asked Sydney at least three times

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Speaker 2: to post on the page and she was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it.

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Speaker 1: It still says link in the bio.

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Speaker 3: Soon there's not gonna be no Lincoln, no bio. I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna you know what, I'm gonna deactive make the page.

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Speaker 2: Oh new year old page. Deactivate the page, babe, do

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Speaker 2: what you gotta do.

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Speaker 4: Bye bye, for.

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