1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Here's the interesting conversation. A lot of people travel and 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: I see I'll see couples sometimes at a restaurant a 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: two top, Well, welcome to the shop. Janet starts at five. 4 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: And that door is too heavy. 5 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to put a sign on it that 6 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 2: says what don't enter, that says don't slam it, don't 7 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: let the door slam. 8 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: Or how about a sign says we started six. So anyway, 9 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: here's the thing. I will see couples at a restaurant 10 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 1: not talking. That is sad. 11 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 2: I do too, and that makes me so sad for them. 12 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: But why is that sound? I feel like you would 13 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: like that? Oh like they're fighting Ei, they're. 14 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 2: Just like angry at each other. 15 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Or they're on a date, but they are 16 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: so over each other they've been together for however long, 17 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:56,959 Speaker 1: they have nothing that they want to talk. 18 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've noticed it was older people too. 19 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, like my age. So no, I'm like really old. 20 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: Well all right, so it can ruin a vacation if 21 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: you get into a fight. Here's the thing. The reason 22 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 1: I'm bringing up bickering. It's a real mood killer. How 23 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: do you deal with it? How do you address it? 24 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 1: Especially if you're on a vacation. Here's what they say. 25 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: You will argue less if you don't do this, and 26 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: I do it, I'm gonna stop if you don't restrict 27 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: your eating habits. Wait, like, don't don't restrict your eating habits. 28 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: So couples who stick to their regular food programs restrictions 29 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: on a vacation argue three times more than couples. Wow, 30 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: the puzuki. 31 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 2: Three times more. I kind of can see this. 32 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: It just puts you. It's body chemistry, yeah, because you're 33 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: enjoying something you normally don't and you are probably less 34 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: on edge because of it. 35 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: And otherwise you're eating like your normal, like healthy whatever, 36 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: and you look over to the right and indulging in 37 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 2: the kuzuki and all that, and it makes you kind 38 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: of like you. 39 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: Yet it's very interesting to me. So eat what you want, 40 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: don't restrict now. Today's quote here it is on a Wednesday. 41 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: A big part of being happy is being excited. Be 42 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: excited for everything. Be excited to make a cup of tea, 43 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: Be excited to see a friend, yes, watch your favorite show, 44 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: be excited for sunsets. Take excitement to bring to every 45 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: little thing in life. I want to do this, Live 46 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: a life you are excited about, and don't restrict your 47 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: food on vacation, right, buddy the elf, you know, just 48 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: be buddy the elf. That's a much easier way to 49 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: say it. Yeah. Ex kiss,