WEBVTT - Valentine's Day Gone Wrong! | Reddit Stories 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.639 A is around the corner and love is in the air. 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:06.000 But if you haven't found your relationship or situationship, don't 0:00:06.120 --> 0:00:09.720 lose hope. We have ten of the craziest, sweetest, and 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:13.960 juiciest stories about love, relationships, and of course Valentine's Day. 0:00:14.120 --> 0:00:17.279 Let's start with number ten. Let's do it's My ex 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:21.160 girlfriend's sister is still living with me over a year 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:24.880 after the breakup, plus a four year update. And this 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:28.000 is okop where we read the craziest true stories and 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:31.920 most lovely stories on Earth. I'm John and Sam. Is 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:34.920 it a good idea to live with your ex girlfriend's 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:39.000 sister after years after the breakup? Years after the breakup 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:41.960 ex girlfriend's sister. I don't know. I feel like it 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:46.000 might make things awkward if they ever have their parents home, 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:51.120 or their sister or their sister or her sister sister 0:00:51.120 --> 0:00:54.080 which would be your ex girlfriend. What if you're like, hey, 0:00:54.120 --> 0:00:56.600 we have so much in common. You love your sister, 0:00:56.720 --> 0:00:59.520 I love my ex girlfriend. Like, look at all that 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:05.080 we have now ready we already lived, we already lived together. 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.640 I don't know. I don't know, but there is one 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:11.080 way to find out. Let's get into it. Let's do it. 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:17.760 So here we go. This comes from Undulating Wave, who 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:20.360 says I was with my ex girlfriend let's call her 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:23.399 Sarah from secondary school. We had been together for ten 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:25.280 years and we were working hard to save up and 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:29.520 get married. Wow, they had been in it. We were 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:32.560 both working in different cities, about seventy miles apart. But 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:35.480 I would get to the train every weekend to be 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:38.679 with her. That's adorable. That's super cute. Waiting by the train. 0:01:38.760 --> 0:01:40.920 That's like the most romantic thing possible. That is the 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:44.040 most romantic place to meet or travel. Yeah, by train. 0:01:44.240 --> 0:01:48.040 Love it very Valentines. Anyway, when her sister, let's call 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:51.400 her Katie, apply to university in my city, she lived 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:53.720 in the halls for the first year, but couldn't really 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:56.360 afford a place to live in a decent location. So 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:59.840 I said that she could come and live with me Rench. 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:04.280 Now that's a deal. That rent free is probably the 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:07.160 best living situation you could have. Yeah, But as they say, 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:10.120 is free ever really free? You have to pay for 0:02:10.200 --> 0:02:14.919 it some way. I mean in damaged relationships. I don't 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:17.280 want to say put an icy you in the comments. 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:18.960 If you see something that might about to see, I 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:21.160 want to say it put an icy you in the comments. 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:23.320 If you see where this is going, there you go 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:26.840 well to Opie says it wasn't weird at all. He 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:30.320 says I'd known her since she was nine years old. 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:33.440 It made everything more manageable for her family, and everything 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:39.520 was okay for about a year, even nice. She was tidy, 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:42.079 pretty much kept to herself and had a few friends over, 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:44.639 but didn't party or bring boyfriends home while I was there. 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.200 I assume she did at weekends when I was away. 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:50.560 But just over a year and a half ago, Sarah 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:54.560 told me that she had been cheating on me in 0:02:54.639 --> 0:03:00.600 a massive way. Oh shit. Wow. She had been in 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:05.359 a relationship with another guy for about three months and 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:09.280 had a long time too, and had been living at 0:03:09.320 --> 0:03:13.600 his house, only coming back to the flat the apartment 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:18.679 at weekends when I was coming down to visit. Oh wait, 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:22.280 so he's kind of like the side check. Yeah. Yeah, 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:24.639 that's kind of rough. Wow that is that's kind of rough. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:28.040 She decided that she wanted to live with him openly 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:31.400 and was tired of lying to me. Babe, I'm just 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:33.520 tired of lying to you about my cheating. I just 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:36.040 want to like do it out in the open. You know. Yeah, yeah, 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:37.320 I just want to you know, I just want to 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:39.440 be free. I'm a free spirit and I want to 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:43.600 be free from you. Yeah, so goodbye. She admitted that 0:03:43.680 --> 0:03:46.720 most weekends she would find time to go back and 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:49.600 do the nasty deed with him if there was an 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:52.720 opportunity to. So, even on the weekends where she's going 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:54.920 to see him she would chill, she would still try 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:57.920 to sneak back and hook up with the with the 0:03:57.960 --> 0:04:00.880 other guy. What does that guy got I mean, he's 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:05.560 not something something incredible apparently. Yikes. It was a horrible 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:09.200 shock and I felt completely numb for week weeks now. 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:12.360 Her sister, Katie was busy with university and was unbelievably 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:14.720 nice about the whole thing. She stayed out of my 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:17.040 way and got on with her studies, didn't bring friends 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:19.960 or boyfriend's home. She ended up finishing her degree. I 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:22.719 assumed that she would move on and move out, but 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:25.880 she got a job at the university admin department and 0:04:26.080 --> 0:04:32.560 is now still living here. So the cheat, the cheater, 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:36.200 the cheater's sister, the cheater's sister, it's still living with 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:38.839 him after all of this has gone down. The relationship 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:42.560 is done, it's imploded, imploded, but the sister is still 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:46.320 living with Op. I wonder if Op is going to 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:50.440 use this situation as a plot for revenge. Oh wait, 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:54.520 that's very conspiracy theory that I have right here. I 0:04:54.600 --> 0:05:01.000 think Ope may let his better devil's get ahead of 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:05.040 him and potentially use this as a little emotional blackmail. 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:07.800 I don't want this to happen, to be clear, but 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:10.000 I think it may. You think it may do. Do 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.600 you really do you really not want it to happen? I? Well, 0:05:13.160 --> 0:05:15.040 I don't know. Do you love the tea too much? 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:16.760 I do love the tea and I do love drinking it, 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:20.120 so maybe I do. Well, there's one way to find out. 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:24.160 Let's back to reality, all right. So it's not awkward 0:05:24.240 --> 0:05:27.000 in terms for me of living with her, but it's 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:30.200 really difficult to explain to friends. And it's still a 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:33.800 little bit painful because she looks a lot like my ex. 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:37.840 Oh no, Sarah Man has a type. Man potentially has 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:41.320 a type. And d y'ell Fifers says, I agree with Sam. 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:44.080 So I think we got some of the okay fam 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:47.880 that's on board a conspiracy theory, my perspiracy theory. They're 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:50.800 on the train with us the most romantic ride possible. 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:54.960 I don't feel comfortable saying to women that I I 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:58.159 don't feel comfortable saying to women that I live with 0:05:58.240 --> 0:06:02.880 my cheating ex girlfriends little sister. But I can't exactly 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:05.440 tell her to find somewhere else. But none of that 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:09.440 is really my fault. What should I do? Well, Sam, 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:11.680 we have a big, juicy update, so let's let's break 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:14.120 it down. Okay, really quick, really click. I have some 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:20.560 clarifying questions, hit us. Is she on the lease? So 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:22.120 here's the thing. We don't even know if she's paying 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.800 rent right now right cause for free, for free, and 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:27.120 that was initially, but she still could be on the 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:30.560 lease potentially and like having like having a deal where 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:33.640 he pays for everything. Well, at this point, we do 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:36.240 know that she's not paying rent. We know that she 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:39.640 wasn't initially. We could speculate that after the breakup, maybe 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:41.880 he went, but he didn't say that. Dude, if he's 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:46.239 not charging her rent after the breakup, that's crazy. Yeah, 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.039 that's crazy. And he's like, and then it's even crazier 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:50.640 because he's like, oh, I can't ask her to move out, 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:54.200 and it's like, you can, why not? You're not obligated 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:57.080 to pay for someone's rent. Would you guys ask her 0:06:57.160 --> 0:06:59.080 to move out? I'll put your answers to the comments. 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:01.200 I would love to know, but I I feel like 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:04.440 I I probably would, and I think someone would understands, like, hey, 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:09.320 you'll look a lot like your sister. This is tough 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:11.120 for me. I don't know I could. I could make 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:14.560 it through, just like the sister thing aside, it's like, hey, like, 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:16.560 I know you came over. I was helping you out 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:19.040 with you're kind of like faux sister in law, like 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:22.040 dating dating sister in law, but like admit, like it's 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:25.720 just kind of hard knockward and like at least pay rent. Okay, 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:31.800 No conspiracy theory, yep. Maybe maybe he doesn't want her 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:34.400 to leave and he's keeping her around because you know 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:37.360 who has morals and doesn't cheat, but looks an awful 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:42.280 lot like my type sister. For a second, I thought 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:44.560 you were OP. For a second, I was like, wait, 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:47.000 what scenario or do you try to now? Oh, no, 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:49.440 this is OP. This is not same Samuel Donner. No, 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:51.720 this is not I I am acting as OP. This 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:53.880 is OP. Not in the real world. Not in the 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:56.320 real world. Yes, but that's my conspiracy theory. But I 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:57.920 want to see what happens. Yes, we'll see what happens, 0:07:57.960 --> 0:08:00.680 and I also have a okay storytime speaking of people living, 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:04.160 Kim Quant says, uh, OPI is being way too nice. 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:07.280 I would ask her to leave. I one thousand percent 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:11.480 agree with ten million percent, ten trillion brillion percent. But 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:14.760 let's get into this ten trillion percent juicy update. That's 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:17.680 the juice. So I posted the story a couple of 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:23.800 weeks back. So running through this real quick, we have 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:27.280 a little update, and we're skipping to the part where 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:32.320 they actually get to the actual update juice. The juice 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:35.520 is further in this story. Here we go and Danielle, 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:37.880 I did not fall in my hat? Does it look 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:40.839 like I fell on it? And Aaron A says he 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:45.199 likes her. I potentially agree, and Kim Quant says, OHP 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:47.640 would be creepy to keep the sister around wanting to 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.600 date her. Yes, I agree, that is not a good move, 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:53.199 and I do not give a thumbs up or a 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:56.720 double thumbs up to that potential scenario. But I think 0:08:56.880 --> 0:09:01.160 you know, people make dumb moves. It happens, It happens, 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:05.760 So that's another Okay, story time, I got a hair. Guy, 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:10.559 Oh does it look good? That's why we're wearing a hat. Okay, thanks, 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:13.720 I think, but if you want to hide your hair, 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:18.600 you should get this hat. Last day actually to get 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:21.280 our red flag, green flag merch drop. You're right, guys, 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:24.199 red flag, green flag. You see me wearing a hair, 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:27.199 go grab it. But we're gonna grab onto this update 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:32.240 Now after eighteen months, Katie was still living with me 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:35.720 non romantically. Eighteen months eighteen months after the break, that's 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:39.640 so long. I was. I love how he specifies non 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:42.000 romantically too. Yeah, yeah, he's like to be clear, to 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:45.120 be clear clear. Honestly, it's good that it just roommates 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:49.760 and hit each other background like me and Christian. Yeah. 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:51.719 I wasn't sure what to do about this, and when 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:54.920 I posted on relationships, I was just coming around to 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:59.040 the realization that I liked having her around and didn't 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:02.200 want her to lee. Who I seed you? Who I 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.199 seed you? Put I see you in the chat again? 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:07.120 If you exceed us, put an ice you for our 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:08.679 boy or a W you know, in a W in 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:11.240 the chat. It could be a potential W. It could 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:14.720 be a potential debut. He correctly predicted that, But since 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:17.640 I've posted, we spent a lot more time together socially, 0:10:17.920 --> 0:10:20.480 and on Monday I asked her if she would like 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:25.000 to go to dinner as a kind of date. We 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:30.360 had a really nice time. We kissed once once a 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:32.880 buck on the cheek or like a full blown makeout 0:10:32.880 --> 0:10:37.960 where you potentially have a bruised lip and a kick 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:41.960 on your neck. Well, I think it was just light 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:45.200 because they said. We didn't go further. Okay, okay, not 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:48.440 too crazy. We both we both realized this is a 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:53.280 complex situation and one to take things slowly. I can't 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:57.480 help feeling that I am I am an a hole? 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:02.559 Although am I have it an edit? But is OPI 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:05.760 the a hole? Here? So wait to clarify. I'd like 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:08.600 to ask you this question. Why is OPI saying they're 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:10.680 the a hole? Because he thinks that he might have 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:14.120 created a complex situation because he's like, now, I am 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:17.640 trying to pursue her romantically after like, you know, a 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:21.959 long time with platonic blatonically living together, given the sisters, 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:23.640 and who do you think? Is he the a hole 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:25.000 to the sister? That's what he's asking? 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:30.360 Yeah, like making cares she cheated on you for three months, 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:33.840 bro OPI is the nicest guy's like, oh am, I am, 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:36.160 I potentially being an a hole to this person that 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:38.040 ruined my entire life, Like. 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:43.160 Honestly, marry your sister, dude, your sister? Yea, I dude, 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:45.839 I think I think that. I don't. I don't think 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:47.760 that is a concern. Honestly, I would love to know 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:49.720 what you guys think. Is it a concern? What do 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:54.480 you think? John? I mean again, in a hypothetical world, 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:57.880 I would never I would never do that. What if 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:02.560 you're in love? Do you even believe in love? John? 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:06.920 Do you believe I believe this is a crazy idea. 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:11.160 That's what I believe. I think, you know, Gas, he 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:13.960 was setting it himself up for this situation by living 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:17.440 with his ex's sister. Actually, what's kind of crazy, Like 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:20.000 if they were still dating, I wonder if feelings still 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:24.400 would have happened with the sister. Yeah, I mean they 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:28.000 look a lot very risky, very risky territory that he 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:31.480 entered in. But I think go for it. Let's see 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:36.439 what the commons say. So, Gustavo Aldifus says secondhand incess, 0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:42.280 Oh not exactly, not exactly Alex Herrick says Opie is 0:12:42.320 --> 0:12:45.400 not the bad guy. He's expressing his boundary and what 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:48.960 was the boundary that he expressed that he basically he's like, 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:52.720 did I cross a boundary by starting to pursue her romantically? 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:57.160 I not keeping hypotonic. I mean I don't think so 0:12:57.280 --> 0:12:59.720 because you don't have a relationship with the X. But 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:03.240 you know who potentially did cross a boundary is the sister. 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:05.840 I think the sister. I don't think oh P's the 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:08.240 a hole, but I think the sister is potentially the 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:12.720 a hole for breaking like I know, sibling code. Yeah, 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:16.920 sister code, sister code. I don't know. Yeah, because it's like, 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:18.760 at the end of the day, that is your sister. 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:22.000 But also it's like you cheated and so yeah, I'm 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.520 gonna take him now. But I think I think I 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:26.520 would be pretty mad if like Sophia stole one of 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:29.480 my girlfriends. True, that would suck. Dude. Yeah, Cyvia, how 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:34.440 do you feel My sister has threatened it before and 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:37.800 she actually could, so yeah, it's it's it's not for 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:43.280 your boy, it's too strong. Oh but we have a 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:47.200 strong edits to this story. Thank you for all the comments, 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:50.480 whether you said I was the a hole or not? 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:53.280 Is that the correct verb. I don't know. We have 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:56.120 had a long talk, first just between us and then 0:13:56.280 --> 0:14:01.680 with her dad and aunt wow getting family. That seems 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:06.560 why her mom passed away six years ago. They have 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:09.360 been very supportive since Sarah and I broke up, and 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:12.440 we wanted to involve them before going any further. We 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:19.640 would have given on the Actually, whoever commented the cessed comment, 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:25.640 maybe you might have. You might Oh my god. We 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.720 are going to take things very slowly. And her dad 0:14:28.800 --> 0:14:32.440 is going to pay half rent, so kind of sounds 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:36.640 like she wasn't paying wow. Wow. He offered to pay 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:39.239 to help her move out, as some people had suggested, 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:42.720 but for financial reasons that would be difficult for him 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:47.160 and impossible and impossible for her to manage financially, which 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:52.200 again it's like like that's she's responsible for herself at 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:54.600 the end of the day, Like, but he's in love, 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:58.240 but he's in love to provide for It's working out? 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.640 Is working out? This is the weirdest, like what do 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.960 they say at the wedding? It is the sister at 0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:07.760 the way, Okay, what you got some tea? Free? Annyboy? 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:12.880 We have not decided about telling Sarah yet the ex 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:17.120 I haven't even spoken to her since the cheating happened, 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:20.560 and Katie has only spoken to her in occasional messages. 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:23.880 Since we have talked about everything that has been raised 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:26.600 on here at some length. It is a difficult situation 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:30.000 and there is a power dynamic that we have, and 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.920 we have done what we can do to mitigate it. Ultimately, 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:36.800 we do have feelings for each other and have for 0:15:36.920 --> 0:15:40.560 some time. I would absolutely never have dated her for 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:45.360 revenge or any other reason, and that's good, but you did, 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:50.240 and I would never do anything to hurt or upset her. 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:53.680 I understand if you still think I'm the a whole, 0:15:53.960 --> 0:15:58.280 but I'm trying my best and I think, righty, is 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:00.840 there some more updates here? It looks like I don't know. 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:03.400 I don't. I don't think Ops the a hole, but 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:07.280 I do think the sister is the a hole because 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:10.000 it's like, you have a responsibility to people that you 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:13.880 want that you have relationships with. Yeah, right, and Op 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:17.880 doesn't have a relationship with his ex anymore, its badly, 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:20.680 but the sister still does have a relationship with her sister. 0:16:20.880 --> 0:16:23.960 So it's like, I think if anyone is the a 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:26.360 hole in this story? It is the sister, but I 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:27.760 would love to know what do you guys think is 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:29.360 the sister of the a hole in the story. Put 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:32.760 your answers in the chat let us know down below. Now. 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:35.280 At this point in the story, Reddit had voted op 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:40.280 not the ahle oh that's what? What do you guys say? Ye? 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:43.120 Let us know? And also Olivia Clark, what is up? 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:44.040 What's good? 0:16:44.160 --> 0:16:49.000 Yeah? We like you too, Cassidy tim says, Kim me too, uh, 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:51.720 and then Kim Quant says, so glad that text is 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:53.800 up I can hear without my subtitles. Yeah, we got 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:57.240 some We got some chat text up. That's right, ladies 0:16:57.280 --> 0:17:02.640 and gentlemen. But we have yet enough juicy updates. So 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:05.240 I have had two requests for updates, and I'm not 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:07.200 sure if there's a threshold, but I thought i'd share 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:09.879 anyways if anyone was curious. Thanks for all the advice. 0:17:10.200 --> 0:17:13.000 It did. It did shape the way we went about 0:17:13.080 --> 0:17:17.160 getting together. Who we told, when, et cetera. So our 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:20.760 families have been incredibly supportive and we are really happy together. 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:23.479 It is it has been about a month, but it 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:28.600 feels so perfectly right. Sarah no ooh, well, we have 0:17:28.680 --> 0:17:32.080 had endless conversations about our feelings and our plans, and 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:35.199 we have started to redecorate the house together, and we 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:37.639 are planning to go on a holiday together in the summer. 0:17:38.040 --> 0:17:41.560 It feels so much more wonderful than I ever imagined 0:17:41.640 --> 0:17:43.920 it would be. I don't know what else to add, 0:17:44.000 --> 0:17:46.240 but if you ever find yourself in a difficult situation, 0:17:46.840 --> 0:17:50.440 talking it through is so so important. Everybody feels safer 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:56.560 and better about everything when you communicate. Now, Sam, yeah, 0:17:56.680 --> 0:17:59.800 not only do we have an update, we have another. 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:07.000 We have an update from four almost five years in 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:10.880 the future. Wow. So we're getting like the whole We're 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:14.360 getting like a very significant portion of this relationship documented 0:18:14.440 --> 0:18:18.280 for our enjoyment. We are currently in the epilogue at 0:18:18.320 --> 0:18:22.480 the train station of Love Dude, the train that's beautiful, dude, 0:18:22.520 --> 0:18:25.320 nine and three quarters Love Station, Sign me up, and 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:28.560 we're chew chew chewing our way straight there, baby. I 0:18:28.600 --> 0:18:30.960 hope they don't get any hogwarts from messing around with 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:35.960 each other. Oh goodness, gracious, well that notes. Well, Yeah, 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:38.080 how's the chatting doing. By the way, how's everyone think? 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:40.680 Did anyone think? Oh? I can't read their name? There, 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:43.080 but I don't think the op is the a hole, 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:45.600 but this sister sort of Yeah, that's what Conner we 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:48.359 were saying. I totally agree. And then over on TikTok, 0:18:48.480 --> 0:18:52.240 Hooligan says he should not feel she cheated on him. Yeah, 0:18:52.240 --> 0:18:56.200 so like basically, Sarah cheated, so who cares about her? 0:18:57.520 --> 0:19:00.800 And then build platform nine and three cores. Next we 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:03.119 got h we already got Hogwarts. We should we should 0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:08.000 uh And Gustavo Aldolphus says John is poetic today. I 0:19:08.040 --> 0:19:09.800 mean he's a poet and he knows it. I'm a 0:19:09.800 --> 0:19:11.800 poet every day, baby, Yeah, that's right. But you know 0:19:11.840 --> 0:19:14.639 what I want to know every day what happened in 0:19:14.680 --> 0:19:18.520 these five years of the relationship. This stuff begins the 0:19:18.680 --> 0:19:22.360 updates five years later for weak It to meet Johnny boy. 0:19:23.200 --> 0:19:29.640 We are now in games. Woa, Okay, so they got 0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:32.400 to tell the sister now, Yeah, nope, she's not invited. 0:19:32.600 --> 0:19:35.120 Yeah it would be awkward. Who who's the sister? Yeah? 0:19:35.160 --> 0:19:38.600 Who sister? Who she's excommunicating from the family? Exactly, dude, 0:19:38.640 --> 0:19:40.960 cyanide in the bathroom. She didn't kiss the ring. She 0:19:40.960 --> 0:19:44.080 didn't kiss the ring. She's out, and we are starting 0:19:44.080 --> 0:19:46.879 to plan for the wedding early next year. The relationship 0:19:46.920 --> 0:19:51.200 between my fiance and her sister slash my ex is 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:57.240 better than it was, better than it was like before 0:19:57.440 --> 0:20:00.800 this happened, or better than after it hap afterwards, like 0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:05.800 better today. So now they exchanged messages at birthdays and Christmas, 0:20:06.680 --> 0:20:10.680 but they don't meet up or exchange presence. Okay, so 0:20:10.760 --> 0:20:14.520 they they sent each other birthday messages. Yeah, it's so 0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:19.760 much better better than ever. That's that's at least they're 0:20:19.760 --> 0:20:25.000 not cursing each other into the streets. That is true themselves. 0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:29.760 My sister is still single and now lives abroad, and 0:20:29.840 --> 0:20:33.160 she found out about the engagement a couple of months ago. 0:20:33.800 --> 0:20:36.080 It sounds like she found out about a second hand too. 0:20:36.400 --> 0:20:39.679 That's rough. Wait this is from Is this from a 0:20:39.680 --> 0:20:44.800 different perspective? Uh no, I believe because my sister, oh 0:20:44.880 --> 0:20:48.600 just Op's sister, the guy. Yeah, yeah, okay, okay, the 0:20:48.640 --> 0:20:52.280 ex's sister. At Christmas, she mentioned needing to know the 0:20:52.359 --> 0:20:56.040 date early to book the cheapest flights home, and my 0:20:56.200 --> 0:21:00.320 fiance was too shocked to reply because guess why him, 0:21:00.600 --> 0:21:04.280 because she's not invited. She doesn't want her sister there, 0:21:05.320 --> 0:21:08.440 I mean why Yeah, dude, that's tricky. That's tricky. Why 0:21:08.560 --> 0:21:13.399 would you invite your cheating sister woo to the wedding 0:21:13.480 --> 0:21:15.600 if you were in this situation? So for everyone who 0:21:15.680 --> 0:21:18.320 just came in, we got what how many people we got? 0:21:18.359 --> 0:21:20.919 We got one hundred and sixty and YouTube, twenty Facebook 0:21:21.200 --> 0:21:23.560 and another thirty on TikTok. So to all of you 0:21:23.680 --> 0:21:26.119 watching and a couple on Twitch. But to all of 0:21:26.119 --> 0:21:29.040 you watching so uh and all everyone who's new here. 0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:33.439 So what happened is recap yep. So basically, OPI is 0:21:33.520 --> 0:21:36.520 in this relationship with this woman she cheats on him. 0:21:36.760 --> 0:21:40.200 While she's cheating on him four months, he's actually living 0:21:40.320 --> 0:21:44.840 with his cheating partner's sister. After the original relationship breaks up, 0:21:45.000 --> 0:21:48.240 he notices he has feelings for the sister, and then 0:21:48.520 --> 0:21:51.240 they start a relationship. And now it's five years later 0:21:51.640 --> 0:21:54.360 and they got married, and the cheating sister wants an 0:21:54.400 --> 0:21:57.080 invite to the wedding. So would you let your cheating 0:21:57.119 --> 0:21:59.119 sister come to the wedding? Put your answers to the 0:21:59.119 --> 0:22:01.960 comic freak. Now let us know we're going to talk 0:22:01.960 --> 0:22:05.880 about it. Let's see, So I am too excited. I'm 0:22:05.920 --> 0:22:09.200 too excited about getting married to care too much one 0:22:09.240 --> 0:22:14.000 way or the other. What's going on? Going on says 0:22:14.280 --> 0:22:21.359 you should invite someone who saw your out to your wedding. Whoa, whoa? 0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:32.400 Who stove? Who stove? Honest, Sam's golden rule. That's actually 0:22:32.440 --> 0:22:36.720 a solid question. So I heard some mother's orgasm at birth, 0:22:37.400 --> 0:22:40.040 My god, So if you made your mom orgasm at birth, 0:22:40.040 --> 0:22:43.200 that she not get to go. Golden exception, golden exception. Okay, 0:22:43.240 --> 0:22:46.240 one woman, golden rule, and sorry for that curse scenario. 0:22:46.480 --> 0:22:49.200 Let's just keep going. Say that joke that you made 0:22:49.240 --> 0:22:51.400 about it. I don't remember the joke. Let's just keep 0:22:51.440 --> 0:22:56.240 going again. I said that. Oh so I am too excited. Ope, 0:22:56.240 --> 0:22:59.560 I already said that. Uh now, my fiance doesn't want 0:22:59.560 --> 0:23:02.200 her there, but all her family assumes that it will 0:23:02.200 --> 0:23:08.000 be fine for the day because it's a fambly wedding. Yeah, 0:23:08.040 --> 0:23:10.760