Speaker 1: A is around the corner and love is in the air.
Speaker 1: But if you haven't found your relationship or situationship, don't
Speaker 1: lose hope. We have ten of the craziest, sweetest, and
Speaker 1: juiciest stories about love, relationships, and of course Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Let's start with number ten. Let's do it's My ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend's sister is still living with me over a year
Speaker 1: after the breakup, plus a four year update. And this
Speaker 1: is okop where we read the craziest true stories and
Speaker 1: most lovely stories on Earth. I'm John and Sam. Is
Speaker 1: it a good idea to live with your ex girlfriend's
Speaker 1: sister after years after the breakup? Years after the breakup
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend's sister. I don't know. I feel like it
Speaker 1: might make things awkward if they ever have their parents home,
Speaker 1: or their sister or their sister or her sister sister
Speaker 1: which would be your ex girlfriend. What if you're like, hey,
Speaker 1: we have so much in common. You love your sister,
Speaker 1: I love my ex girlfriend. Like, look at all that
Speaker 1: we have now ready we already lived, we already lived together.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, but there is one
Speaker 1: way to find out. Let's get into it. Let's do it.
Speaker 1: So here we go. This comes from Undulating Wave, who
Speaker 1: says I was with my ex girlfriend let's call her
Speaker 1: Sarah from secondary school. We had been together for ten
Speaker 1: years and we were working hard to save up and
Speaker 1: get married. Wow, they had been in it. We were
Speaker 1: both working in different cities, about seventy miles apart. But
Speaker 1: I would get to the train every weekend to be
Speaker 1: with her. That's adorable. That's super cute. Waiting by the train.
Speaker 1: That's like the most romantic thing possible. That is the
Speaker 1: most romantic place to meet or travel. Yeah, by train.
Speaker 1: Love it very Valentines. Anyway, when her sister, let's call
Speaker 1: her Katie, apply to university in my city, she lived
Speaker 1: in the halls for the first year, but couldn't really
Speaker 1: afford a place to live in a decent location. So
Speaker 1: I said that she could come and live with me Rench.
Speaker 1: Now that's a deal. That rent free is probably the
Speaker 1: best living situation you could have. Yeah, But as they say,
Speaker 1: is free ever really free? You have to pay for
Speaker 1: it some way. I mean in damaged relationships. I don't
Speaker 1: want to say put an icy you in the comments.
Speaker 1: If you see something that might about to see, I
Speaker 1: want to say it put an icy you in the comments.
Speaker 1: If you see where this is going, there you go
Speaker 1: well to Opie says it wasn't weird at all. He
Speaker 1: says I'd known her since she was nine years old.
Speaker 1: It made everything more manageable for her family, and everything
Speaker 1: was okay for about a year, even nice. She was tidy,
Speaker 1: pretty much kept to herself and had a few friends over,
Speaker 1: but didn't party or bring boyfriends home while I was there.
Speaker 1: I assume she did at weekends when I was away.
Speaker 1: But just over a year and a half ago, Sarah
Speaker 1: told me that she had been cheating on me in
Speaker 1: a massive way. Oh shit. Wow. She had been in
Speaker 1: a relationship with another guy for about three months and
Speaker 1: had a long time too, and had been living at
Speaker 1: his house, only coming back to the flat the apartment
Speaker 1: at weekends when I was coming down to visit. Oh wait,
Speaker 1: so he's kind of like the side check. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's kind of rough. Wow that is that's kind of rough.
Speaker 1: She decided that she wanted to live with him openly
Speaker 1: and was tired of lying to me. Babe, I'm just
Speaker 1: tired of lying to you about my cheating. I just
Speaker 1: want to like do it out in the open. You know. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I just want to you know, I just want to
Speaker 1: be free. I'm a free spirit and I want to
Speaker 1: be free from you. Yeah, so goodbye. She admitted that
Speaker 1: most weekends she would find time to go back and
Speaker 1: do the nasty deed with him if there was an
Speaker 1: opportunity to. So, even on the weekends where she's going
Speaker 1: to see him she would chill, she would still try
Speaker 1: to sneak back and hook up with the with the
Speaker 1: other guy. What does that guy got I mean, he's
Speaker 1: not something something incredible apparently. Yikes. It was a horrible
Speaker 1: shock and I felt completely numb for week weeks now.
Speaker 1: Her sister, Katie was busy with university and was unbelievably
Speaker 1: nice about the whole thing. She stayed out of my
Speaker 1: way and got on with her studies, didn't bring friends
Speaker 1: or boyfriend's home. She ended up finishing her degree. I
Speaker 1: assumed that she would move on and move out, but
Speaker 1: she got a job at the university admin department and
Speaker 1: is now still living here. So the cheat, the cheater,
Speaker 1: the cheater's sister, the cheater's sister, it's still living with
Speaker 1: him after all of this has gone down. The relationship
Speaker 1: is done, it's imploded, imploded, but the sister is still
Speaker 1: living with Op. I wonder if Op is going to
Speaker 1: use this situation as a plot for revenge. Oh wait,
Speaker 1: that's very conspiracy theory that I have right here. I
Speaker 1: think Ope may let his better devil's get ahead of
Speaker 1: him and potentially use this as a little emotional blackmail.
Speaker 1: I don't want this to happen, to be clear, but
Speaker 1: I think it may. You think it may do. Do
Speaker 1: you really do you really not want it to happen? I? Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Do you love the tea too much?
Speaker 1: I do love the tea and I do love drinking it,
Speaker 1: so maybe I do. Well, there's one way to find out.
Speaker 1: Let's back to reality, all right. So it's not awkward
Speaker 1: in terms for me of living with her, but it's
Speaker 1: really difficult to explain to friends. And it's still a
Speaker 1: little bit painful because she looks a lot like my ex.
Speaker 1: Oh no, Sarah Man has a type. Man potentially has
Speaker 1: a type. And d y'ell Fifers says, I agree with Sam.
Speaker 1: So I think we got some of the okay fam
Speaker 1: that's on board a conspiracy theory, my perspiracy theory. They're
Speaker 1: on the train with us the most romantic ride possible.
Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable saying to women that I I
Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable saying to women that I live with
Speaker 1: my cheating ex girlfriends little sister. But I can't exactly
Speaker 1: tell her to find somewhere else. But none of that
Speaker 1: is really my fault. What should I do? Well, Sam,
Speaker 1: we have a big, juicy update, so let's let's break
Speaker 1: it down. Okay, really quick, really click. I have some
Speaker 1: clarifying questions, hit us. Is she on the lease? So
Speaker 1: here's the thing. We don't even know if she's paying
Speaker 1: rent right now right cause for free, for free, and
Speaker 1: that was initially, but she still could be on the
Speaker 1: lease potentially and like having like having a deal where
Speaker 1: he pays for everything. Well, at this point, we do
Speaker 1: know that she's not paying rent. We know that she
Speaker 1: wasn't initially. We could speculate that after the breakup, maybe
Speaker 1: he went, but he didn't say that. Dude, if he's
Speaker 1: not charging her rent after the breakup, that's crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's crazy. And he's like, and then it's even crazier
Speaker 1: because he's like, oh, I can't ask her to move out,
Speaker 1: and it's like, you can, why not? You're not obligated
Speaker 1: to pay for someone's rent. Would you guys ask her
Speaker 1: to move out? I'll put your answers to the comments.
Speaker 1: I would love to know, but I I feel like
Speaker 1: I I probably would, and I think someone would understands, like, hey,
Speaker 1: you'll look a lot like your sister. This is tough
Speaker 1: for me. I don't know I could. I could make
Speaker 1: it through, just like the sister thing aside, it's like, hey, like,
Speaker 1: I know you came over. I was helping you out
Speaker 1: with you're kind of like faux sister in law, like
Speaker 1: dating dating sister in law, but like admit, like it's
Speaker 1: just kind of hard knockward and like at least pay rent. Okay,
Speaker 1: No conspiracy theory, yep. Maybe maybe he doesn't want her
Speaker 1: to leave and he's keeping her around because you know
Speaker 1: who has morals and doesn't cheat, but looks an awful
Speaker 1: lot like my type sister. For a second, I thought
Speaker 1: you were OP. For a second, I was like, wait,
Speaker 1: what scenario or do you try to now? Oh, no,
Speaker 1: this is OP. This is not same Samuel Donner. No,
Speaker 1: this is not I I am acting as OP. This
Speaker 1: is OP. Not in the real world. Not in the
Speaker 1: real world. Yes, but that's my conspiracy theory. But I
Speaker 1: want to see what happens. Yes, we'll see what happens,
Speaker 1: and I also have a okay storytime speaking of people living,
Speaker 1: Kim Quant says, uh, OPI is being way too nice.
Speaker 1: I would ask her to leave. I one thousand percent
Speaker 1: agree with ten million percent, ten trillion brillion percent. But
Speaker 1: let's get into this ten trillion percent juicy update. That's
Speaker 1: the juice. So I posted the story a couple of
Speaker 1: weeks back. So running through this real quick, we have
Speaker 1: a little update, and we're skipping to the part where
Speaker 1: they actually get to the actual update juice. The juice
Speaker 1: is further in this story. Here we go and Danielle,
Speaker 1: I did not fall in my hat? Does it look
Speaker 1: like I fell on it? And Aaron A says he
Speaker 1: likes her. I potentially agree, and Kim Quant says, OHP
Speaker 1: would be creepy to keep the sister around wanting to
Speaker 1: date her. Yes, I agree, that is not a good move,
Speaker 1: and I do not give a thumbs up or a
Speaker 1: double thumbs up to that potential scenario. But I think
Speaker 1: you know, people make dumb moves. It happens, It happens,
Speaker 1: So that's another Okay, story time, I got a hair. Guy,
Speaker 1: Oh does it look good? That's why we're wearing a hat. Okay, thanks,
Speaker 1: I think, but if you want to hide your hair,
Speaker 1: you should get this hat. Last day actually to get
Speaker 1: our red flag, green flag merch drop. You're right, guys,
Speaker 1: red flag, green flag. You see me wearing a hair,
Speaker 1: go grab it. But we're gonna grab onto this update
Speaker 1: Now after eighteen months, Katie was still living with me
Speaker 1: non romantically. Eighteen months eighteen months after the break, that's
Speaker 1: so long. I was. I love how he specifies non
Speaker 1: romantically too. Yeah, yeah, he's like to be clear, to
Speaker 1: be clear clear. Honestly, it's good that it just roommates
Speaker 1: and hit each other background like me and Christian. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure what to do about this, and when
Speaker 1: I posted on relationships, I was just coming around to
Speaker 1: the realization that I liked having her around and didn't
Speaker 1: want her to lee. Who I seed you? Who I
Speaker 1: seed you? Put I see you in the chat again?
Speaker 1: If you exceed us, put an ice you for our
Speaker 1: boy or a W you know, in a W in
Speaker 1: the chat. It could be a potential W. It could
Speaker 1: be a potential debut. He correctly predicted that, But since
Speaker 1: I've posted, we spent a lot more time together socially,
Speaker 1: and on Monday I asked her if she would like
Speaker 1: to go to dinner as a kind of date. We
Speaker 1: had a really nice time. We kissed once once a
Speaker 1: buck on the cheek or like a full blown makeout
Speaker 1: where you potentially have a bruised lip and a kick
Speaker 1: on your neck. Well, I think it was just light
Speaker 1: because they said. We didn't go further. Okay, okay, not
Speaker 1: too crazy. We both we both realized this is a
Speaker 1: complex situation and one to take things slowly. I can't
Speaker 1: help feeling that I am I am an a hole?
Speaker 1: Although am I have it an edit? But is OPI
Speaker 1: the a hole? Here? So wait to clarify. I'd like
Speaker 1: to ask you this question. Why is OPI saying they're
Speaker 1: the a hole? Because he thinks that he might have
Speaker 1: created a complex situation because he's like, now, I am
Speaker 1: trying to pursue her romantically after like, you know, a
Speaker 1: long time with platonic blatonically living together, given the sisters,
Speaker 1: and who do you think? Is he the a hole
Speaker 1: to the sister? That's what he's asking?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like making cares she cheated on you for three months,
Speaker 2: bro OPI is the nicest guy's like, oh am, I am,
Speaker 2: I potentially being an a hole to this person that
Speaker 2: ruined my entire life, Like.
Speaker 1: Honestly, marry your sister, dude, your sister? Yea, I dude,
Speaker 1: I think I think that. I don't. I don't think
Speaker 1: that is a concern. Honestly, I would love to know
Speaker 1: what you guys think. Is it a concern? What do
Speaker 1: you think? John? I mean again, in a hypothetical world,
Speaker 1: I would never I would never do that. What if
Speaker 1: you're in love? Do you even believe in love? John?
Speaker 1: Do you believe I believe this is a crazy idea.
Speaker 1: That's what I believe. I think, you know, Gas, he
Speaker 1: was setting it himself up for this situation by living
Speaker 1: with his ex's sister. Actually, what's kind of crazy, Like
Speaker 1: if they were still dating, I wonder if feelings still
Speaker 1: would have happened with the sister. Yeah, I mean they
Speaker 1: look a lot very risky, very risky territory that he
Speaker 1: entered in. But I think go for it. Let's see
Speaker 1: what the commons say. So, Gustavo Aldifus says secondhand incess,
Speaker 1: Oh not exactly, not exactly Alex Herrick says Opie is
Speaker 1: not the bad guy. He's expressing his boundary and what
Speaker 1: was the boundary that he expressed that he basically he's like,
Speaker 1: did I cross a boundary by starting to pursue her romantically?
Speaker 1: I not keeping hypotonic. I mean I don't think so
Speaker 1: because you don't have a relationship with the X. But
Speaker 1: you know who potentially did cross a boundary is the sister.
Speaker 1: I think the sister. I don't think oh P's the
Speaker 1: a hole, but I think the sister is potentially the
Speaker 1: a hole for breaking like I know, sibling code. Yeah,
Speaker 1: sister code, sister code. I don't know. Yeah, because it's like,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, that is your sister.
Speaker 1: But also it's like you cheated and so yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna take him now. But I think I think I
Speaker 1: would be pretty mad if like Sophia stole one of
Speaker 1: my girlfriends. True, that would suck. Dude. Yeah, Cyvia, how
Speaker 1: do you feel My sister has threatened it before and
Speaker 1: she actually could, so yeah, it's it's it's not for
Speaker 1: your boy, it's too strong. Oh but we have a
Speaker 1: strong edits to this story. Thank you for all the comments,
Speaker 1: whether you said I was the a hole or not?
Speaker 1: Is that the correct verb. I don't know. We have
Speaker 1: had a long talk, first just between us and then
Speaker 1: with her dad and aunt wow getting family. That seems
Speaker 1: why her mom passed away six years ago. They have
Speaker 1: been very supportive since Sarah and I broke up, and
Speaker 1: we wanted to involve them before going any further. We
Speaker 1: would have given on the Actually, whoever commented the cessed comment,
Speaker 1: maybe you might have. You might Oh my god. We
Speaker 1: are going to take things very slowly. And her dad
Speaker 1: is going to pay half rent, so kind of sounds
Speaker 1: like she wasn't paying wow. Wow. He offered to pay
Speaker 1: to help her move out, as some people had suggested,
Speaker 1: but for financial reasons that would be difficult for him
Speaker 1: and impossible and impossible for her to manage financially, which
Speaker 1: again it's like like that's she's responsible for herself at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, Like, but he's in love,
Speaker 1: but he's in love to provide for It's working out?
Speaker 1: Is working out? This is the weirdest, like what do
Speaker 1: they say at the wedding? It is the sister at
Speaker 1: the way, Okay, what you got some tea? Free? Annyboy?
Speaker 1: We have not decided about telling Sarah yet the ex
Speaker 1: I haven't even spoken to her since the cheating happened,
Speaker 1: and Katie has only spoken to her in occasional messages.
Speaker 1: Since we have talked about everything that has been raised
Speaker 1: on here at some length. It is a difficult situation
Speaker 1: and there is a power dynamic that we have, and
Speaker 1: we have done what we can do to mitigate it. Ultimately,
Speaker 1: we do have feelings for each other and have for
Speaker 1: some time. I would absolutely never have dated her for
Speaker 1: revenge or any other reason, and that's good, but you did,
Speaker 1: and I would never do anything to hurt or upset her.
Speaker 1: I understand if you still think I'm the a whole,
Speaker 1: but I'm trying my best and I think, righty, is
Speaker 1: there some more updates here? It looks like I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think Ops the a hole, but
Speaker 1: I do think the sister is the a hole because
Speaker 1: it's like, you have a responsibility to people that you
Speaker 1: want that you have relationships with. Yeah, right, and Op
Speaker 1: doesn't have a relationship with his ex anymore, its badly,
Speaker 1: but the sister still does have a relationship with her sister.
Speaker 1: So it's like, I think if anyone is the a
Speaker 1: hole in this story? It is the sister, but I
Speaker 1: would love to know what do you guys think is
Speaker 1: the sister of the a hole in the story. Put
Speaker 1: your answers in the chat let us know down below. Now.
Speaker 1: At this point in the story, Reddit had voted op
Speaker 1: not the ahle oh that's what? What do you guys say? Ye?
Speaker 1: Let us know? And also Olivia Clark, what is up?
Speaker 3: What's good?
Speaker 1: Yeah? We like you too, Cassidy tim says, Kim me too, uh,
Speaker 1: and then Kim Quant says, so glad that text is
Speaker 1: up I can hear without my subtitles. Yeah, we got
Speaker 1: some We got some chat text up. That's right, ladies
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. But we have yet enough juicy updates. So
Speaker 1: I have had two requests for updates, and I'm not
Speaker 1: sure if there's a threshold, but I thought i'd share
Speaker 1: anyways if anyone was curious. Thanks for all the advice.
Speaker 1: It did. It did shape the way we went about
Speaker 1: getting together. Who we told, when, et cetera. So our
Speaker 1: families have been incredibly supportive and we are really happy together.
Speaker 1: It is it has been about a month, but it
Speaker 1: feels so perfectly right. Sarah no ooh, well, we have
Speaker 1: had endless conversations about our feelings and our plans, and
Speaker 1: we have started to redecorate the house together, and we
Speaker 1: are planning to go on a holiday together in the summer.
Speaker 1: It feels so much more wonderful than I ever imagined
Speaker 1: it would be. I don't know what else to add,
Speaker 1: but if you ever find yourself in a difficult situation,
Speaker 1: talking it through is so so important. Everybody feels safer
Speaker 1: and better about everything when you communicate. Now, Sam, yeah,
Speaker 1: not only do we have an update, we have another.
Speaker 1: We have an update from four almost five years in
Speaker 1: the future. Wow. So we're getting like the whole We're
Speaker 1: getting like a very significant portion of this relationship documented
Speaker 1: for our enjoyment. We are currently in the epilogue at
Speaker 1: the train station of Love Dude, the train that's beautiful, dude,
Speaker 1: nine and three quarters Love Station, Sign me up, and
Speaker 1: we're chew chew chewing our way straight there, baby. I
Speaker 1: hope they don't get any hogwarts from messing around with
Speaker 1: each other. Oh goodness, gracious, well that notes. Well, Yeah,
Speaker 1: how's the chatting doing. By the way, how's everyone think?
Speaker 1: Did anyone think? Oh? I can't read their name? There,
Speaker 1: but I don't think the op is the a hole,
Speaker 1: but this sister sort of Yeah, that's what Conner we
Speaker 1: were saying. I totally agree. And then over on TikTok,
Speaker 1: Hooligan says he should not feel she cheated on him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so like basically, Sarah cheated, so who cares about her?
Speaker 1: And then build platform nine and three cores. Next we
Speaker 1: got h we already got Hogwarts. We should we should
Speaker 1: uh And Gustavo Aldolphus says John is poetic today. I
Speaker 1: mean he's a poet and he knows it. I'm a
Speaker 1: poet every day, baby, Yeah, that's right. But you know
Speaker 1: what I want to know every day what happened in
Speaker 1: these five years of the relationship. This stuff begins the
Speaker 1: updates five years later for weak It to meet Johnny boy.
Speaker 1: We are now in games. Woa, Okay, so they got
Speaker 1: to tell the sister now, Yeah, nope, she's not invited.
Speaker 1: Yeah it would be awkward. Who who's the sister? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Who sister? Who she's excommunicating from the family? Exactly, dude,
Speaker 1: cyanide in the bathroom. She didn't kiss the ring. She
Speaker 1: didn't kiss the ring. She's out, and we are starting
Speaker 1: to plan for the wedding early next year. The relationship
Speaker 1: between my fiance and her sister slash my ex is
Speaker 1: better than it was, better than it was like before
Speaker 1: this happened, or better than after it hap afterwards, like
Speaker 1: better today. So now they exchanged messages at birthdays and Christmas,
Speaker 1: but they don't meet up or exchange presence. Okay, so
Speaker 1: they they sent each other birthday messages. Yeah, it's so
Speaker 1: much better better than ever. That's that's at least they're
Speaker 1: not cursing each other into the streets. That is true themselves.
Speaker 1: My sister is still single and now lives abroad, and
Speaker 1: she found out about the engagement a couple of months ago.
Speaker 1: It sounds like she found out about a second hand too.
Speaker 1: That's rough. Wait this is from Is this from a
Speaker 1: different perspective? Uh no, I believe because my sister, oh
Speaker 1: just Op's sister, the guy. Yeah, yeah, okay, okay, the
Speaker 1: ex's sister. At Christmas, she mentioned needing to know the
Speaker 1: date early to book the cheapest flights home, and my
Speaker 1: fiance was too shocked to reply because guess why him,
Speaker 1: because she's not invited. She doesn't want her sister there,
Speaker 1: I mean why Yeah, dude, that's tricky. That's tricky. Why
Speaker 1: would you invite your cheating sister woo to the wedding
Speaker 1: if you were in this situation? So for everyone who
Speaker 1: just came in, we got what how many people we got?
Speaker 1: We got one hundred and sixty and YouTube, twenty Facebook
Speaker 1: and another thirty on TikTok. So to all of you
Speaker 1: watching and a couple on Twitch. But to all of
Speaker 1: you watching so uh and all everyone who's new here.
Speaker 1: So what happened is recap yep. So basically, OPI is
Speaker 1: in this relationship with this woman she cheats on him.
Speaker 1: While she's cheating on him four months, he's actually living
Speaker 1: with his cheating partner's sister. After the original relationship breaks up,
Speaker 1: he notices he has feelings for the sister, and then
Speaker 1: they start a relationship. And now it's five years later
Speaker 1: and they got married, and the cheating sister wants an
Speaker 1: invite to the wedding. So would you let your cheating
Speaker 1: sister come to the wedding? Put your answers to the
Speaker 1: comic freak. Now let us know we're going to talk
Speaker 1: about it. Let's see, So I am too excited. I'm
Speaker 1: too excited about getting married to care too much one
Speaker 1: way or the other. What's going on? Going on says
Speaker 1: you should invite someone who saw your out to your wedding. Whoa, whoa?
Speaker 1: Who stove? Who stove? Honest, Sam's golden rule. That's actually
Speaker 1: a solid question. So I heard some mother's orgasm at birth,
Speaker 1: My god, So if you made your mom orgasm at birth,
Speaker 1: that she not get to go. Golden exception, golden exception. Okay,
Speaker 1: one woman, golden rule, and sorry for that curse scenario.
Speaker 1: Let's just keep going. Say that joke that you made
Speaker 1: about it. I don't remember the joke. Let's just keep
Speaker 1: going again. I said that. Oh so I am too excited. Ope,
Speaker 1: I already said that. Uh now, my fiance doesn't want
Speaker 1: her there, but all her family assumes that it will
Speaker 1: be fine for the day because it's a fambly wedding. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and it should all be water under the bridge. I
Speaker 1: can't stress enough how little I care about the sister
Speaker 1: being there or not. I just want everyone else to
Speaker 1: be happy at the wedding as I will be impossible,
Speaker 1: or as close to that as I can or sorry,
Speaker 1: I just want everyone else to be happy because I
Speaker 1: want to be happy or as close to it as
Speaker 1: I can manage to me on the wedding day. You
Speaker 1: want to be happy at your wedding day. Get lost, nerd?
Speaker 1: What an idiot you think this is about you? Come on,
Speaker 1: come on, but we have a few very quick relevant
Speaker 1: comments here before we get to your relevant comments. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: dive deep into the chat. So freaking chat it up.
Speaker 1: That's right, but not for commenting. O Go says, gosh,
Speaker 1: if only one hundred and forty nine people had warned
Speaker 1: you that this would happen four years ago, I guess
Speaker 1: that many people, which they did. Yeah, they did the math.
Speaker 1: I'd let your fiance handle this, her sister, her family,
Speaker 1: her objection, stay the heck out of it, and support
Speaker 1: your fiance with whatever she chooses. Amen, OPI responds, thanks,
Speaker 1: This is what I'm planning on doing, and if asked,
Speaker 1: I will just support her choice. And that is a
Speaker 1: rap on this story, but it's not a rap on
Speaker 1: the comments below. What are you guys saying over here?
Speaker 1: All right? So crafty Witch four twenty great user name says,
Speaker 1: ask her to leave for sure. Kim Quant says, I
Speaker 1: have one friend who I slept with that my partner
Speaker 1: and I hang out with every other week. He'll probably
Speaker 1: be invited to the wedding when it happens. So Kim
Speaker 1: is like ignoring our golden rule, breaking the golden rule.
Speaker 1: That's okay, that's okay. You know, golden rules are meant
Speaker 1: to be broken. Some are, some are some are Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're over on TikTok. Katherine mccomfy says, this is why
Speaker 1: eloping is the best way to go, no drama. So
Speaker 1: I don't invite anyone to your wedding, just freaking do
Speaker 1: it in secret. How many people have eloped? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: tell us you're a loping story, tell us you're a lope.
Speaker 1: We love, we love to know them. Yes, and the
Speaker 1: raven says, definitely let the significant other deal with it.
Speaker 1: But f that bitch. Uh Yeah, come on, dude, you
Speaker 1: know what. No one could have said it better than you.
Speaker 1: She had no remorse. She was like, I'm so tired
Speaker 1: of like it's such a chore having to lie to
Speaker 1: you about cheating and like going over to your person
Speaker 1: and sleeping with him. She knows she sounds not only chaotic,
Speaker 1: but just manipulative and a little little evil, and that's
Speaker 1: probably why the sister doesn't talk to her, have her
Speaker 1: in her life. Yeah, so why would she want her
Speaker 1: at a wedding? You know that that is a bomb
Speaker 1: that could go off at your wedding. It's just not no,
Speaker 1: it's just it's not worth it. It's not worth it.
Speaker 1: Quinn can do said, I eloped while I was deployed
Speaker 1: in Afghanistan. Wow, WHOA, that's sick. Here's a story there.
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Speaker 1: I mean we could we could try it. We could
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Speaker 1: Get your Google meets ready, yeah, yeah, fire up, Google
Speaker 1: meets ready. But is that where the story ends? That's it? Wow,
Speaker 1: that's all she wrote. Well, I feel pretty good. I
Speaker 1: feel pretty good about where it ended. Yeah, just like,
Speaker 1: let let her figure that out. Let her figure it out,
Speaker 1: and and op got a happy ending from a crappy situation.
Speaker 1: Well more can you ask for? Hey? We love happy endings,
Speaker 1: and we love these next time and we love love.
Speaker 1: And this is the ninth story in our saga of
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day stories, And this goes am I d a
Speaker 1: hole co worker asked me to bake her Gallantine's Day,
Speaker 1: was shocked when I asked her to pay for the ingredient.
Speaker 1: So as a hobby and out of the kindness to
Speaker 1: my co workers, friends and family, I really enjoy baking
Speaker 1: and sharing with the people. I really bake for them
Speaker 1: pretty regularly. I like to have homemade bag goods, so
Speaker 1: when I'm feeling like I want something, it's practically the
Speaker 1: same amount of effort to make a full batch of,
Speaker 1: say cookies or muffins, as it is to make a few.
Speaker 1: So it's like I might as well make a ton.
Speaker 1: So I bake big batches, keep a few for myself,
Speaker 1: then bring the bulk of it to work and share
Speaker 1: with my coworkers. Pretty nice. That's how you get become
Speaker 1: the office favorite. Office favorite. That's gonna raise you know,
Speaker 1: you put a little yeast in it. You're raising your bread,
Speaker 1: and you're raising your bread at work. That's a big dough.
Speaker 1: Not to toot my horn, but I'm good at bacon.
Speaker 1: My coworkers are always so grateful and happy when I
Speaker 1: bring something in. In these instances where I choose to
Speaker 1: bring things in, I've never asked anybody to pay for
Speaker 1: anything because I'm sharing with the entire office. Many of
Speaker 1: my friends and coworkers have asked me to bake them
Speaker 1: things for themselves or for events that side of work,
Speaker 1: and I always tell people that I'm happy to bake
Speaker 1: something just as long as they cover the cost of ingredients.
Speaker 1: I don't charge my time, labor, or effort. But I
Speaker 1: see you in the comments, if you see where op
Speaker 1: is maybe about to get a little wrecked by the office,
Speaker 1: oh office wreckage. My take on it is very simple.
Speaker 1: I choose to bring it in for everybody. I'm not
Speaker 1: concerned at all about getting paid for it. If somebody
Speaker 1: asked me to make it for them, not for everyone
Speaker 1: in the office, then it's reasonable to ask them to
Speaker 1: pay for the cost and ingredients. And I've done this
Speaker 1: dozens of times. So ope kind of has like a
Speaker 1: side business as a maker, right. So also I love
Speaker 1: how they use dozens a baker's a coworker. Yeah, how
Speaker 1: much is in a baker's dozen? Thirteen? Let's go. So
Speaker 1: a coworker of mine asked you to bake muffins for
Speaker 1: her girls only Gallantines Valentine's Day party brunch. That is
Speaker 1: a mouthful. I told her, sure, what kind? She said,
Speaker 1: Mini muffins, chocolate ones, and blueberry ones. I tell her, Okay,
Speaker 1: you can either buy the ingredients and bring them to me,
Speaker 1: or I can calculate how much it will cost and
Speaker 1: you can pay me that way. She seemed absolutely stunned. Oh, reluctantly,
Speaker 1: she said, yes, that's fine. She can believe that I
Speaker 1: would charge it, though, And it even went so far
Speaker 1: as to complain to others around the office about me
Speaker 1: asking to cover the cost ingredients, being like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: she's so cheap. I can't let you do that, no
Speaker 1: concern for my time, my willingness to do it for
Speaker 1: her and not make any profit for myself, but so
Speaker 1: put off because I asked to get this ten US dollars.
Speaker 1: This was forty total muffins, two different flavors made from scratch,
Speaker 1: with higher quality and more expensive ingredients like carry gold butter,
Speaker 1: not the cheap stuff. It tastes so much better and
Speaker 1: that's what she wanted. So this is the final question.
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for asking my coworker to
Speaker 1: cover the cost of ingredients for her personal bake goods
Speaker 1: two batches just for her? Or is this person being
Speaker 1: really entitled to my time and my money. I want
Speaker 1: to know what y'all think. Put your answers in it
Speaker 1: comments right now, especially those bakers out there. Oh yeah, John,
Speaker 1: is op the a hole for saying, hey, like, give
Speaker 1: me some rock for this this baker's meal?
Speaker 2: Could I have?
Speaker 3: Can I have a up?
Speaker 1: Please?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Please? Get just ten dollars? That is so insane, Like
Speaker 1: just think about the uh what it would cost. We
Speaker 1: are in Los Angeles, Santa Monica, specifically, Sam, if we
Speaker 1: go get forty hammade cupcakes, what's that gonna cost? Tell me?
Speaker 1: Probably my left nut and my liver, that's correct. So
Speaker 1: ten dollars is not a big deal at all. Dollars
Speaker 1: is not a big deal. And it's so disrespectful to
Speaker 1: someone who's doing you like that is such a huge
Speaker 1: favor to do someone favor. It takes time to bake,
Speaker 1: it takes love, it takes care, and you're just thomping
Speaker 1: all over that with your big flat duck feet. You know, like,
Speaker 1: it's not it's not a good move. I think you
Speaker 1: this is probably the office Karen, though, you know you
Speaker 1: got You're running into the office. And do you try
Speaker 1: to acquiesce to the Karen to not like cause the
Speaker 1: scene and like not have her go crazy, or do
Speaker 1: you shut her down so that way down? Dude, you
Speaker 1: don't let Karen be the you know boss, that's true,
Speaker 1: put her in your place. But what if Karen just
Speaker 1: starts baking up trouble trouble? Okay, then you say, yes,
Speaker 1: I'll do it, and then you put laxatives in there. Genius.
Speaker 1: But let's go to some of the comments. So uh
Speaker 1: from twitch. They are entitled the beck says obviously not
Speaker 1: the ahole. So much entitlement from the other person. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna pass it over to you for some reading. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: let's do it for Cassidy, Tim, I've been in this
Speaker 1: exact situation, act way, wow, Cassidy, not the ahole at all.
Speaker 1: You're asking someone to make you something, not something that
Speaker 1: was already made pay the freak up. Absolutely couldn't agree more.
Speaker 1: Annie Ngo says, no, but the a hole. No, not
Speaker 1: the a hole. She should she should have put some
Speaker 1: laxitives in there. What I swar? I did not see that.
Speaker 1: And but we were cut from the same cloth. Do
Speaker 1: you do you see the telepathy? And do you see it?
Speaker 1: Do you see me peering into your brain? You peering
Speaker 1: into my brain? That's pretty crazy. I feel I feel
Speaker 1: the connection. And finally, Rosebud, not the a whole, and
Speaker 1: she should start charging for her time that I completely
Speaker 1: honestly start a side little hustle. Now call it oh
Speaker 1: P's baked goods. That's terribleness it we'll work on the
Speaker 1: brain work will help you. Olivia Koyer asked me calling
Speaker 1: Riley daddy. Now I've been saying daddy to Riley for years. Yeah,
Speaker 1: new show on daddy, Riley, Okay, daddy, new show going
Speaker 1: to you. And it's just please, it's just videos of Riley.
Speaker 1: And then uh, Laura Laura Lee from TikTok says, not
Speaker 1: the a hole she's asking for the bear minimum. I
Speaker 1: could not agree more, but John, you know what, I
Speaker 1: could also not agree more with what? I could not
Speaker 1: agree more with you reading this next story, this, next, this, this,
Speaker 1: this number eight in our Valentine's Day episode number eight.
Speaker 1: Let's start it right now. Everybody hit me with some
Speaker 1: love dump? Whoa Okay? Get ready? Am I the a
Speaker 1: hole for wanting a Valentine's Day card? Yes? Done? Story?
Speaker 1: Oh god done? I got to hear it. Let us
Speaker 1: know in the comments. Blow is someone an a hole
Speaker 1: for wandering Valentine's Day card? Also? What do you want
Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day? And you got any special Valentine's Day plans?
Speaker 1: The little naughty nellies? That's right? Maybe cuddling up and
Speaker 1: watching some okayo peoo, Yeah, that sounds like the best
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day you can ask for? What's right and well?
Speaker 1: This Valentine's Day special comes from Silver Linings, who says
Speaker 1: this is a thoroughway account as my partner follows my
Speaker 1: main account. I twenty two female, ordered to customize Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day card for my fiance twenty seven mail. Nothing extravagant.
Speaker 1: It came to less than five five dollars five pounds,
Speaker 1: even with delivery. I am a very sentimental person, and
Speaker 1: I see cards with a written message as a small
Speaker 1: but meaningful gesture and tend to hold onto those quite dearly.
Speaker 1: I've even still got cards from my sixteenth birthday. I
Speaker 1: keep all the cards that people give me in a
Speaker 1: little card box. That is great. I don't John just
Speaker 1: throws them away, He burns them. I tend to throw
Speaker 1: away a lot of cards, which is maybe bad. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you am I the a hole for throwing away all
Speaker 1: of my girlfriend's cards in the in the trash. Yes,
Speaker 1: well tell me guys, Yeah, what do you do with
Speaker 1: your cards? Do you throw away or do you keep them?
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask if I'm the hole, yeah, throwing away?
Speaker 1: John the a hole. Put your answers in the chat.
Speaker 1: Let us let us know. But the card arrived today
Speaker 1: in an envelope which showed the brain of the company
Speaker 1: that's quite well known for its custom gifts and cards,
Speaker 1: to which my partner asked what it was, and I
Speaker 1: said it was a little Valentine's Day card that I
Speaker 1: had ordered for him. So far, I just hear love
Speaker 1: is in the air. At hearing this, his face scrunched
Speaker 1: up huh, And he made a comment about how he
Speaker 1: won't be getting me a card because getting someone a
Speaker 1: card three times a year is too much effort in time. Okay,
Speaker 1: man would If anyone has not seen the Orange Peel
Speaker 1: video on our channel, you should watch it after this stream.
Speaker 1: But this is giving. I would fail the Orange Peel
Speaker 1: test vibes for sure. But babe, you're asking me to
Speaker 1: put in three hundred percent of the effort of the
Speaker 1: first card. I don't. I don't got that kind of time, Babe.
Speaker 1: I really don't got time for love. I gotta make money.
Speaker 1: Yeah you think I got. I can't write. I can't
Speaker 1: sit and write a note. I get cramped. I hold
Speaker 1: a pencil like a toddler full of pists. I couldn't.
Speaker 1: I couldn't write. Go between those lines, Babe, I didn't
Speaker 1: know you wanted me to get arthritis. Do you want
Speaker 1: these hands? You know what these hands do for you,
Speaker 1: these pleasure hands?
Speaker 3: That's right?
Speaker 1: You want them to corrupt and crash and burn. If
Speaker 1: you would everyone to have a big o again, you
Speaker 1: better not right. Why we're talking about massage is John, Well,
Speaker 1: let's get back to the story. So after that, Opie
Speaker 1: said for reference, I get him a card at Christmas,
Speaker 1: uh and for my birthday from him. So oh sorry,
Speaker 1: Op gets a card at Christmas and one from uh
Speaker 1: boyfriend at the birthday. So that's two. So card number
Speaker 1: three is just too much. We are waiting, where does
Speaker 1: it endure? It's a slippery card slope. Exactly before you
Speaker 1: know it, the communists are winning. This house of cards
Speaker 1: is about to fall over. We started bickering over it,
Speaker 1: and I tried to explain that I'd rather a cheap
Speaker 1: or handmade card with a message on it than going
Speaker 1: out for a date and having him spend his money
Speaker 1: to cover the bill. It's a thought that counts. It's
Speaker 1: a thought. The count Serah thinks she wasn't even asking
Speaker 1: for a card. He like he was about to receive
Speaker 1: a card. It's like, you think I'm gonna get you
Speaker 1: a card, babe? What do you think this is? What
Speaker 1: are you talking? What do you think this is? I
Speaker 1: can't I can't do three hundred ever since I got
Speaker 1: an F of my report card in fourth grade. I
Speaker 1: hate cards. I want to start everyone that I see.
Speaker 1: You're triggering my trauma. Trauma. Do you want me to
Speaker 1: go back to therapy? Probably yeah you should. Oh goodness, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: this guy does need to go to therapy. We bickered
Speaker 1: over a bit, and I tried to explain I already
Speaker 1: said that, and that him saying that he'd rather go
Speaker 1: out than make what I think is a small amount
Speaker 1: of effort to get and write a card kind of
Speaker 1: feels like he'd rather just throw money at the problem
Speaker 1: instead of doing something sentimental. He's he's now calling me.
Speaker 1: He's now calling me demanding and ungrateful and God annoyed
Speaker 1: at me as I started getting emotional and crying, this
Speaker 1: is this, guys, This guy is John John. Yes, here
Speaker 1: we go bring something out right here, because you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, red flag, right, I think this is
Speaker 1: a yeah, read John's sweater. Also, if you want to
Speaker 1: support our it's the last day of our drop, get
Speaker 1: a red flag hoodie. But I think this is definitely
Speaker 1: an issue with the relationship. The relationship. If he's not
Speaker 1: putting an effort, or doesn't want to put an effort
Speaker 1: to make you feel loved, then that is a huge
Speaker 1: red flag. And I think you're seeing it right now.
Speaker 1: So take the warning, take the red flag, and run
Speaker 1: run as far away as you can and never return
Speaker 1: and never return. But Opie says I told him that
Speaker 1: he had really upset me, and all he said back
Speaker 1: is that I upset him by getting him a Valentine's
Speaker 1: more than I think of you. Oh my god, I'm
Speaker 1: in a bit of a loss here as for what
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do and if I was in the
Speaker 1: wrong for pushing him on this. He hasn't booked anything
Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day, nor had he even mentioned wanting to
Speaker 1: go out, which is why I thought that a small
Speaker 1: card would be a nice gesture. I wouldn't even have
Speaker 1: minded if he didn't get one for me. It's more
Speaker 1: the comment he made about it being quote unquote too
Speaker 1: much effort. Am I the a hole here? Uh no?
Speaker 1: Uh not no no. And also, like I think these
Speaker 1: stories in particular, it make me so sad because this
Speaker 1: sounds like a relationship where she's just asking for the
Speaker 1: bare minimum, just the asking for anything. She's not She's
Speaker 1: not even asking for anything, and her whole reality has
Speaker 1: been so distorted that she now feels bad for being
Speaker 1: thoughtful like that is tragic. And I think like one
Speaker 1: of the great things about like Reddit, when people go
Speaker 1: on and and type these stories is I think for
Speaker 1: the first time, possibly they are realizing how taken advantage
Speaker 1: of they were and how much they've warped their reality
Speaker 1: around this person. And sometimes it takes like a bunch
Speaker 1: of people on Reddit or two guys on the okop
Speaker 1: podcast to maybe make you realize you deserve better. That's right, Yeah, queen, queen, listen,
Speaker 1: you deserve so much better. You deserve someone who's giving
Speaker 1: you a Valentine's Day card handwritten every day. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: soaked in live. Yeah, yeah, I guess. Yeah, dude, blood oath,
Speaker 1: why not the beating heart? Yeah, of love is just
Speaker 1: gushing out. You gotta do. Why did I get him started?
Speaker 1: I knew, I knew. That's my favorite, my favorite, my favorite. Yeah, divorce, devorse, devorse.
Speaker 1: Mahala told uh you definitely, you definitely got it right.
Speaker 1: Let's I think we should go to some of the comments. Yeah,
Speaker 1: very true. And shout out to Mahala also for being
Speaker 1: a member of uh okayam the okay fam on our YouTube. Yeah. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: our you tube become a member. But let's see what
Speaker 1: we got in the comments here. Yes, Olivia Claire says, literally,
Speaker 1: get a piece of paper and make a card. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like go to your printer and just fall. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: doesn't just like that's the bear Bear. I mean, if
Speaker 1: you really want to go hand, go to Papyrus or
Speaker 1: something like the bear fucking I could see the boyfriend
Speaker 1: being like he was like, goes to the printer, he
Speaker 1: folds it and he puts like heart you here you go,
Speaker 1: faithe and he's like, I really worked on this one, babe.
Speaker 1: This was a tough one, but I do it for you.
Speaker 1: I pulled through. I pulled through. But Pinky the Slayer
Speaker 1: on Twitch says, there's so many other ways other than
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day to show that you love someone. He really
Speaker 1: did fail the orange peel test to what Sam was saying.
Speaker 1: But still there are so many other ways to do it.
Speaker 1: Molly Thornston says, we frow is that true on YouTube?
Speaker 1: Are we still there? Hopefully we're still there? See us
Speaker 1: and Mahala tol you are amazing. Thank you? Yeah, and Riley,
Speaker 1: we have all of like the little things on things
Speaker 1: that gonna text you about good, perfect, very nice, amazing.
Speaker 1: You're the best, Riley? Okay, but you know what else
Speaker 1: is the best? What this next story? This next story
Speaker 1: to read? So, Daniel Peifford, thank you for telling me
Speaker 1: it's h it's fine. So am I the a hole
Speaker 1: for not distancing myself from my best friend to appease
Speaker 1: his girlfriend and causing them to argue This comes from
Speaker 1: sufficient Young eighteen forty nine, John, what do you think? So?
Speaker 1: Basically girlfriends like get rid of your best friend? What's
Speaker 1: the best friend situation? Is the best friend going in
Speaker 1: and being like like I want you baby? Is the
Speaker 1: best friend? Like? Yo, what's up? Homie? I don't know.
Speaker 1: There's only one way to find out. Let's get it.
Speaker 1: Spill that to you. No, I'm just kidding. I told
Speaker 1: you I've nineteen male have always been close to my
Speaker 1: best friend, quote unquote Ryan nineteen male. Since like kindergarten,
Speaker 1: that's a while, that's a long time. It's the equivalent
Speaker 1: of a Christian. A Christian is my childhood best friend.
Speaker 1: I've always just been one of the guys to him.
Speaker 1: And even when I was outed in eighth grade in
Speaker 1: our little po dunk town and some of our friends
Speaker 1: dropped me, he never treated me different. So for clarity,
Speaker 1: is would Op even be attracted to the friend? I
Speaker 1: don't know, pretty sure, maybe Op is by potentially right.
Speaker 1: We still had sleepovers, slept in the same bed, roughhoused, wrestled,
Speaker 1: hung out. Oddly enough, he was my first kiss because
Speaker 1: ninth grade year Valentine's Day, I was complaining about never
Speaker 1: having kissed someone because I was the only out kid.
Speaker 1: Then he just kissed me to shut me up. But
Speaker 1: we're like brothers and that was totally platonic. That is
Speaker 1: actually it's almost adorable thing. Bro move Ever, Yeah, I won't.
Speaker 1: I have an okay story time about this, Yep, at
Speaker 1: the at the end, boo, I'll tell you at the end. Okay.
Speaker 1: We moved in together for college, and before long he
Speaker 1: started dating this girl, Jessica twenty female, and I found
Speaker 1: my own boyfriend Taylor twenty one male. Okay, so OPI
Speaker 1: is in a relationship with Taylor twenty one male, and
Speaker 1: Op's friend is a child restaurant is dating Jessica twenty female. Doda.
Speaker 1: Jessica was really cool at first, but over time she
Speaker 1: seems to have gotten jealous of me because me and
Speaker 1: Ryan spend a lot of time together and we still
Speaker 1: hang out the same way as we did as we
Speaker 1: were kids. She started making snide remarks to me all
Speaker 1: the time. Ryan's out the smartest so he didn't catch
Speaker 1: a lot of it thing or getting upset every time
Speaker 1: we hung out, which is a lot. About two weeks ago,
Speaker 1: she basically came up to me at a party alone
Speaker 1: and accused me of having an affair with Ryan, asking
Speaker 1: me if he was just closeted. I assured he was straight.
Speaker 1: She then accused me of being a creepy stalker gay
Speaker 1: and I need to back off and let him be
Speaker 1: with her. I told her I'm not trying to stop
Speaker 1: him from being with her, but she told me to
Speaker 1: back off again. Okay, pause, pause pause, What would you
Speaker 1: do guy? What would you do in the situation? Chat
Speaker 1: like like put your answers in the comments, But John,
Speaker 1: what would you do? I would be like, listen, like
Speaker 1: if you this is this is your insecurity, right, I
Speaker 1: guess because because correct me if I'm wrong, OP could
Speaker 1: be attracted to uh the friend. The friend is not
Speaker 1: attracted to OP. Op is gay, Opie's friend is straight straight,
Speaker 1: and uh, I guess they had they shared one kiss.
Speaker 1: What's kind of like a bro helping out a bro
Speaker 1: kind of deal. But as as we as we know
Speaker 1: of the relationship, with the context we have, it does
Speaker 1: not seem like there is any necessary jealousy that should happen. Really, yeah,
Speaker 1: and shit, and you should have gone to your to
Speaker 1: your boyfriend first and been like, hey, this might sound crazy,
Speaker 1: but I exactly just I just you know, I have
Speaker 1: I have this fear feeling and security whatever here it is.
Speaker 1: And I think that like you wouldn't. It's it's really
Speaker 1: tacky to go to the other person not your partner first.
Speaker 1: I hate I hate when, like you know, those there's
Speaker 1: videos of like people exposing cheating and they start like
Speaker 1: attacking the person who is cheating. It's like no, no,
Speaker 1: no attack, like your your partner, Yes, hit your partner
Speaker 1: and we're lying. I'm kidding. I'm kidding, I'm kidding. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yeah, I know, I know what
Speaker 1: joints all right, but let's get back. But before we do,
Speaker 1: Danielle Fiver says, I love spill that tea. Uh, we're
Speaker 1: not going to bring it back for all the people
Speaker 1: that hate it. But I just like you know, poking,
Speaker 1: poking them bear every once in a while. Danielle Fiver says, not,
Speaker 1: you don't want that negative smoke. Nicole Stewart says, as Ope,
Speaker 1: I might back off off a bit, like they still
Speaker 1: do sleepovers in the same bed. I don't know if
Speaker 1: they still do sleepovers in the same bed, but I
Speaker 1: could see that being potentially worrisome. Then they can slack off,
Speaker 1: but I don't think it should be a hinder on
Speaker 1: the friendship whatsoever. Christine Cherry says, the girl sounds jealous
Speaker 1: of the friend exactly. I think so too. And then
Speaker 1: over on TikTok, Mama Goblin, I'm so glad I woke
Speaker 1: up on time. I'm glad you're here, Mama Goblin. Yes,
Speaker 1: but you know what I'm also glad about. We're gonna
Speaker 1: get back into the story, so do it. I told
Speaker 1: Taylor about it, and he thinks maybe it's okay if
Speaker 1: I pulled back from my friendship with Ryan. So this
Speaker 1: is ope talking with his boyfriend. Some just get hurt
Speaker 1: to relax, just basically pull back for a little bit,
Speaker 1: just to get her to relax, Right, But I told
Speaker 1: him that wouldn't be for to Ryan, especially without him
Speaker 1: knowing why. I wouldn't just leave my best friend like that,
Speaker 1: because then Ryan might be like, oh, is something wrong? Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: So I promptly ignored her warning and just went back
Speaker 1: to the usual with Ryan. All right, question for John
Speaker 1: in question for the chat, would you talk to Ryan
Speaker 1: about this? Yeah, because like it's not only involving you,
Speaker 1: but it's kind of like, hey, you know, she's thrown
Speaker 1: out these accusations. And then again, if they're both innocent,
Speaker 1: they both know that, right, and it's like, Yo, we
Speaker 1: know we're both innocent, and just this behavior maybe could
Speaker 1: leak into other Yeah, and maybe there's just a couple
Speaker 1: things that need to change for the partner to be
Speaker 1: more secure, or maybe maybe it's just a conversation Ryan
Speaker 1: needs to have with his partner. I yeah, it seems
Speaker 1: most likely. Yeah, maybe they just need some reassurance or something.
Speaker 1: Who knows. But Riley's pointing at this comment, nail me
Speaker 1: down says, what would you do as the friend or
Speaker 1: the boyfriend? As as the boyfriend? She's got to go,
Speaker 1: So what would you do as as the friend? So
Speaker 1: what would you do as a friend of the boyfriend? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I think you go and tell him. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean so I guess that that's Ryan the friend
Speaker 1: of the boyfriend, right, yeah? Or is yeah? But I
Speaker 1: mean I would just have a conversation, a conversation. And
Speaker 1: I mean, but like Ryan doesn't know anything, so he
Speaker 1: can't really do anything. What can he do? But let's
Speaker 1: Nicole Stewart says, I would, So let's get into what
Speaker 1: actually happened. So over the weekend, we had made a
Speaker 1: palette on the living floor and full asleep rewatching the
Speaker 1: Star Wars movies like when we were kids. That's huge,
Speaker 1: I have a special relationship. I woke up to Jessica
Speaker 1: glaring at me. Ryan was still asleep, so I went
Speaker 1: outside with her to ask her what the problem was.
Speaker 1: She starts going on about how I'm still making moves
Speaker 1: on her boyfriend, and I guess Ryan woke up and
Speaker 1: heard us outside. He asked what was going on and
Speaker 1: she said, nothing, just a bad night at work. Me,
Speaker 1: who's had enough of her, decided to be messy and
Speaker 1: explained what was actually going on, which I'm not mad about. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, like cause the both fell asleep in the
Speaker 1: same bed and then the girlfriend comes in, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I totally get the girl for me, Like, hey, what
Speaker 1: the heck? I mean you're falling asleep in the same bed.
Speaker 1: I would I feel like that. That's it. It's definitely
Speaker 1: diceier territory for sure. But I fall asleep on Christian's
Speaker 1: shoulder all the time. That's true. That's true. But the girlfriend,
Speaker 1: she might not know what the vibes are. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: needs she just check in with her. But I can
Speaker 1: understand her being maybe a little uncomfortable. Yeah, for sure,
Speaker 1: but unwarranted. It's mainly based in security. Of course. Ryan
Speaker 1: got mad and started a whole argument about how he'd
Speaker 1: spend time with whoever he wanted and her and she
Speaker 1: does not get to decide who his friends are, etcetera, etcetera.
Speaker 1: Taylor thinks I should have followed Jessica's lead and played
Speaker 1: it cool, and that I was messy for no reason.
Speaker 1: So am I the a hole? Put your answers in
Speaker 1: the chat right now? I want to know what y'all think.
Speaker 1: But John is, oh P the a hole? I don't
Speaker 1: think so, primarily because op knows they're innocent, right yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: unless they're not and they're just trying to throw the
Speaker 1: heat off their own bag. It doesn't see I mean
Speaker 1: they're both in relationships. Yeah, and like Ryan is straight.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't see it unless there's some
Speaker 1: secrets that we don't know about. But I think it
Speaker 1: deserves a conversation because I can imagine as like a
Speaker 1: partner being a little insecure about total and like maybe
Speaker 1: that insecurity is totally invalid. But if you want, if
Speaker 1: you want to preserve the relationship, a conversation is necessary.
Speaker 1: Just talk to them, reassure them. Like I think it's
Speaker 1: totally fine to ask and have a conversation, like definitely, yeah, definitely.
Speaker 1: I think like the least messy thing to do would
Speaker 1: have been to talk to Ryan directly. It's a slightly
Speaker 1: messier to say in front of her, but she kind
Speaker 1: of poked at it first, like she was the one
Speaker 1: who brought it out. Yeah, so I I it's a
Speaker 1: little tricky. It's a little tricky, but overall, I would
Speaker 1: say not the a hole cut Butter says the girl
Speaker 1: is a red flag. Kim Kwant says, not for just
Speaker 1: continuing their friendship, but op needs to have a conversation
Speaker 1: with Ryan. Completely agree. Pinky Doss Slayer says, facts, I
Speaker 1: think Ryan maybe by because of the kiss thing. She
Speaker 1: has issues. Could Ryan be by? I mean impossible. Of course,
Speaker 1: sexuality is a spectrum, that's all right, maybe maybe a
Speaker 1: little bit fluid like their fluids. So I hit some
Speaker 1: comments on TikTok, let's do it. So. Marie Pierre says,
Speaker 1: I think Opie should have just talked to Jessica first
Speaker 1: to understand her point of view. If she still insisted
Speaker 1: on Ope and his friend to have distance, Opie then
Speaker 1: should have talked to Ryan to explain the situation, which
Speaker 1: is not a bad idea because again, so the girlfriend
Speaker 1: came kind of like Jessica came initiated everything. So it's like,
Speaker 1: all right, you're the one starting all this. Let me
Speaker 1: talk with you first, let me sit down, let me
Speaker 1: really let me just literally try to hear you out.
Speaker 1: See if we can both come to each other come
Speaker 1: to an understanding. If we can't come to an understanding,
Speaker 1: then I might have to go to Ryan, because like
Speaker 1: I already tried here, I might have to go over
Speaker 1: here a good point at this point, that's a good point.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you could squash the beef, yeah, but
Speaker 1: it is a good beef. It's like it's a hard
Speaker 1: beef to squash, that is true to squash. But I
Speaker 1: think if you go about that, then it's an easier
Speaker 1: beef that is true. And you know, Becky with an
Speaker 1: eye on TikTok says, even if he is by, that
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that he is cheating, right of course. So
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, so it's like even if he is by,
Speaker 1: maybe they you know again, the two of them were
Speaker 1: were assuming, but like they're both like, hey, we're innocent,
Speaker 1: So like what's going on here? Yeah? What a what
Speaker 1: a rock in a tough place to be in. And
Speaker 1: then Christina Cherry says, I want to have a conversation
Speaker 1: with him. If he didn't understand what I said, uh
Speaker 1: being my friend, then I would have just walked away
Speaker 1: because I knew that he was a true friend. So
Speaker 1: basically is that basically saying I would have talked to him.
Speaker 1: I'm a little confused by that. Maybe a little confused too. Yeah, clarify.
Speaker 1: But you know what, I also want you to clarify, John,
Speaker 1: what I want you to clarify on this next story
Speaker 1: that we're about to read. We're doing the Valentine's Day Special,
Speaker 1: the craziest relationship in Valentine's Day based love stories on
Speaker 1: the Internet. I think we're at number seven six, but
Speaker 1: John hit it us. I just got a message from
Speaker 1: my high school crush coming from Drive on Acid. Wouldn't
Speaker 1: suggest that, but that's a funny user name. I am
Speaker 1: forty two years old. I graduated from high school in
Speaker 1: nineteen ninety eight. I had a thing for this guy
Speaker 1: over twenty five years ago. Actually it was more than
Speaker 1: just a thing. I was head over heels for him.
Speaker 1: He had the most beautiful blue eyes. He was one
Speaker 1: of the cool guys. He had his own apartment and
Speaker 1: convertible and a pager. Oh a pager, Let's go. He
Speaker 1: smelled like a combination of polo sport, winter green gum
Speaker 1: and cigarettes. Dude, the best combo. He listened to Dave
Speaker 1: Matthews band and worked at foot Locker. Dude. This man
Speaker 1: mail he has it all. The last time I spoke
Speaker 1: to him was like two thousand and seven. I had
Speaker 1: no idea why he contacted me today. Like I said,
Speaker 1: I graduated from high school over twenty five years ago.
Speaker 1: Maybe he has dated all the women in our hometown
Speaker 1: and is now trying to reach out to those of
Speaker 1: us who have moved away. I have no idea why
Speaker 1: I'm posting this. I just really needed to share this
Speaker 1: weird information with people who might understand. It's just so
Speaker 1: friggin weird. I would have given anything for him to
Speaker 1: contact me out of the blue when I was in
Speaker 1: my twenties, but now in my forties, the last thing
Speaker 1: I want to do is date. At least I don't
Speaker 1: want to date him. What he has a convertible? He
Speaker 1: works at foot locker. Still, dude, he's got it locked in.
Speaker 1: He say he's a size fourteen. Oh goodness, gracious, he's.
Speaker 1: He still has that special honor of being someone who
Speaker 1: I will always think is perfect because of the person
Speaker 1: I believe him to be is the person I created
Speaker 1: in my head when I was fifteen. She still kind
Speaker 1: of sees the rose, the the creases on his uh,
Speaker 1: you know, Polo, the quaff the quafft hair, the fresh kicks,
Speaker 1: the cigarette cough, Oh, the cigarette cough, the lung cancer. Classy, dude, Great,
Speaker 1: we'll see if I decided to go meet up with him.
Speaker 1: I will let you all know if that happens or not.
Speaker 1: And we do have an update. But let's take a
Speaker 1: pause right here. First of all, do we think that
Speaker 1: they will meet up? Well, dude, I have to believe it,
Speaker 1: because there's a there's an update. There's an update. I mean,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have a juicy update if you didn't didn't
Speaker 1: have some juicy juice. But what if the juicy update
Speaker 1: was I ran into his dad and he's a silver
Speaker 1: Fox and I just had to marry him right on
Speaker 1: the spot, And that would be a juicy update that
Speaker 1: I would be excited to see. But I think I
Speaker 1: think they're going to get together. There's something about like
Speaker 1: old Facebook contacts that just is a little the sparks fly.
Speaker 1: Facebook has Facebook date now they do people are making
Speaker 1: love of not making love making I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think they are making love. Probably are making love everywhere.
Speaker 1: I think. I think that's a weird, kinky place that
Speaker 1: is true. Us see what kinky place these two ticket
Speaker 1: to exactly. So first line of the update. I just
Speaker 1: got off a video call with him. Time has been
Speaker 1: much nicer to me. Oh no, it's the cigarettes catching
Speaker 1: up with him, that is true. And it goes on.
Speaker 1: I got a call from the high school crush about
Speaker 1: two months ago, and I made a post that got
Speaker 1: thecent traction. Obviously, I feel that you all need a
Speaker 1: full update. Yes, I want to give you a more
Speaker 1: complete picture of how massive of a Crushus was before
Speaker 1: he began. I first saw him when I was in
Speaker 1: seventh grade and he was in ninth grade. That was
Speaker 1: nineteen ninety four. After about an hour, I was head
Speaker 1: over heels yep. My first year of high school. I
Speaker 1: figured out where he would be and made it a
Speaker 1: point to walk past him as often as possible, which
Speaker 1: is the most like high school thing to do. Maybe
Speaker 1: he'll notice me. Oh my goodness, he did, Obviously he did.
Speaker 1: He did. Took it just took a little time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just you know, a little You made an impression out,
Speaker 1: but he'd never forget that, exactly. It just took thirty
Speaker 1: years to make impression, yeah, eight, which that means it
Speaker 1: was a solid impression. That's right. In tenth grade. We
Speaker 1: had two classes together. Somehow we became friends, probably because
Speaker 1: I was q a f and he was a charming flirt.
Speaker 1: We sort of stayed in touch after he graduated, but
Speaker 1: I was more than happy to just leave him on
Speaker 1: that pedestal that I had put him on in high school.
Speaker 1: Never meet your heroes, never never date years date your crushes,
Speaker 1: especially after thirty or thirty years. I think there is
Speaker 1: expiration date on dating your crushes. And I say seven years,
Speaker 1: seven years, then you can't date your crush. We are
Speaker 1: packing Sam's Golden U Sam's Golden Rules. Yeah, we got
Speaker 1: we got another one which I will not repeat. Well,
Speaker 1: actually no, I can't repeat that one. Don't invite anyone
Speaker 1: that made you orgasm to your wedding. That's right, That's right. Guys.
Speaker 1: Can you drop your relationship gold rules in the chat
Speaker 1: down below. We want to see how you approach these relationships. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're gonna look at it in a minute. After his message,
Speaker 1: I called him that evening. We talked a bit more
Speaker 1: than got off the phone. I asked him why he
Speaker 1: contacted me, and he said he saw that I had
Speaker 1: made a post on Facebook and just thought about getting
Speaker 1: in touch Okay, fine, I'll accept that. For a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks after that first phone call, fifteen year old
Speaker 1: me was absolutely in control. I felt like a teenager again,
Speaker 1: and it was awesome. We live in youth. Now here's
Speaker 1: where things get really interesting. After a few days of
Speaker 1: texting occasionally, it got to the point of us talking
Speaker 1: on the phone every day after I got home from work. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's pretty crazy. By the way, I am a teacher,
Speaker 1: So I talk to my high school crush every day
Speaker 1: after school. Wow, she's reliving the dream. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: that is funny. I find that hilarious. Then he told
Speaker 1: me that he really looks forward to talking to me
Speaker 1: every day. So I started texting him good morning every morning,
Speaker 1: good morning, text let's go, and he started texting back.
Speaker 1: We text every morning while I'm getting ready for work,
Speaker 1: usually right up until my first class starts. This has
Speaker 1: been going on for weeks. We tried to get together
Speaker 1: a couple of times over the past two months, but
Speaker 1: with the holidays, we've both been really busy, which brings
Speaker 1: us to tomorrow. He's coming down to my house. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I think can we can? We can? We can? I
Speaker 1: put on a conspiracy half. Lets put on a conspiracy halllliyes,
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, just let just know I'm totally stealing this
Speaker 1: from someone in the comments. I forgot who shout out
Speaker 1: if this was what you were thinking too? He's married?
Speaker 1: Oh I think he's married. Midlife crisis married dude, you're
Speaker 1: so right, right right, Wow, that's what I think. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I see you in the comments if
Speaker 1: you think he's married too. Camille's Lee, I think it
Speaker 1: was you. Oh for a second, I thought you said
Speaker 1: it was Camille Lee. She's opm like what oh, man,
Speaker 1: I just got started. It would be crazy. That's true,
Speaker 1: real quick before we get back in. Marie Pierre from
Speaker 1: Facebook chafter golden rule. My golden rule is to always
Speaker 1: be honest and communicate about everything I have been. If
Speaker 1: you could screw up a little bit for me, thank you.
Speaker 1: I have been with my fiance for almost fourteen years
Speaker 1: and people ask what our secret is, and I always say,
Speaker 1: this relationship. Marie, tell your man to put a ring
Speaker 1: on him. Congradus an act like, that's a really solid
Speaker 1: golden rule. That's a real golden rule. Yeah, that's that's Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a real golden rule. That should be shared and
Speaker 1: cherished forever. Also slight fun. In fact, my uncle was
Speaker 1: also engaged for like twelve years so got married to
Speaker 1: like fifty five or something like that. Oh really yeah,
Speaker 1: held it down, dude, let's go held it down. Well,
Speaker 1: let's get back to reality and read the updates after
Speaker 1: his message. Uh do you do? I am a little
Speaker 1: bit uh head, John is a little bit ahead, but
Speaker 1: he's getting back to where he needs to be right. No,
Speaker 1: or I'm gonna read some you shout out so mahala tole,
Speaker 1: says Sarah. No Marty that aslexic says, don't forget to
Speaker 1: give this a thumbs up in the chat. Uh one?
Speaker 1: And also, just so you guys know, we are planning
Speaker 1: on streaming for only two hours. We're like an hour in,
Speaker 1: but we John and I have made agreement. If we
Speaker 1: get one hundred dollars on donations, we will stream for
Speaker 1: another hour. I think like an Encore. No pressure though,
Speaker 1: no pressure, I mean another a third hour is a lot,
Speaker 1: but we will do it for you guys, if you
Speaker 1: really want it, that's right. So hey, if you love
Speaker 1: your boys, just throw some donations into chat help support
Speaker 1: the show. That's right, But without further ado, I'll pass
Speaker 1: it off to you. This brings us to tomorrow. He's
Speaker 1: coming down to my house. Now. I normally wouldn't invite
Speaker 1: a first date to my house, but I'm making an
Speaker 1: exception here, mainly because I've still got quite a bit
Speaker 1: of baking to do before Christmas and I really don't
Speaker 1: want to go out. We're going to order a pizza
Speaker 1: and watch some movies. Oh that's that's like almost a
Speaker 1: Netflix and chill. That's also again a high school date.
Speaker 1: It is so a high school date. They should watch
Speaker 1: like eighties movies in nineties movies, just to really cement
Speaker 1: it from the biggest movie from the year they graduated.
Speaker 1: Oh dude, so sentiment. I really want to thank all
Speaker 1: of you who have commented on my previous post about
Speaker 1: how they had met up with someone from their youth
Speaker 1: when they were older and met their husband. I always
Speaker 1: figured that was just a trope a Hallmark movies. I
Speaker 1: honestly feel like I'm living in one of those right now,
Speaker 1: and it's kind of awesome. Another quick update, it's now Sunday.
Speaker 1: The high school. The high school crush came down to
Speaker 1: my house on Friday. Oh my goodness, we're heating up.
Speaker 1: And also, Sarah Betoff, thank you for the five dollars donation.
Speaker 1: We got five dollars towards one hundred dollars goal. For
Speaker 1: three hours. That's gonna be a long time. For hours,
Speaker 1: three hours, three hours. Okay, where was I? Okay, so
Speaker 1: and he spent the night at my house. Oh so
Speaker 1: they hooked. They hooked probably. Okay. I'm planning on making
Speaker 1: a longer post soon because I know you all are
Speaker 1: incredibly interested. Yes we are, ope, but I'm visiting family
Speaker 1: for the holidays. You're gonna have to wait until Thursday
Speaker 1: for my update. But I can tell you it's all really,
Speaker 1: really good. And the good news is we don't gotta
Speaker 1: wait till Thursday because we haven't tonight here Okay, Amazon
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Speaker 1: a special delivery Baggey seven John, So I still did
Speaker 1: it up quick refresher. I got a message a few
Speaker 1: months ago from a guy that had a massive crush
Speaker 1: on through my junior and senior year and maybe into
Speaker 1: my twenties. We got together shortly before Christmas, and we
Speaker 1: spent New Year's Eve together. That's good to know. Wow,
Speaker 1: they're really spending a lot of time. So they're texting
Speaker 1: all the time, and they're spending time together exactly and
Speaker 1: New Year's that's a big one. It feels like they
Speaker 1: have connection. It feels like they have a connect. It
Speaker 1: feels like real. It seems like it's going past the
Speaker 1: high school crush phase that I don't know, maybe potentially,
Speaker 1: it seems seems like that's where OPI wants it to go.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, le's see where it actually goes. I
Speaker 1: haven't been with anybody other than mister right now for
Speaker 1: the past seven years, since my fiance passed away. Oh
Speaker 1: my goodness. Oh no, he has been single. He has
Speaker 1: been single since a very MESSI breakup with his ex
Speaker 1: five years ago. Or we are both out of practice
Speaker 1: with this dating thing. We've also both spent a lot
Speaker 1: of time and energy on introspection in those years. I
Speaker 1: know that I am in a very healthy place to
Speaker 1: start dating again, and I believe he is as well.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, this turned tragic. Yeah, honestly, kind of
Speaker 1: cute because they're coming back from it. It's like like
Speaker 1: a bit of a consolation prize. And another consolation prize
Speaker 1: is Mahala Tol who's already a YouTube member, throwing five
Speaker 1: dollars in the chat. Thank you? What is it? Sheba
Speaker 1: dog writing with a brush? Writing number one on a
Speaker 1: piece of paper? You know? Is that what we should do?
Speaker 1: We knew it and have them right number one? I
Speaker 1: love that idea, but thank you so much. We're ten
Speaker 1: percent to the goal. We may we may be streaming
Speaker 1: for you. That's right, three hours see op. He goes
Speaker 1: on to say, we had a couple of conversations about
Speaker 1: topics that we both probably lied about and hidden in
Speaker 1: the past from other partners. Instead of doing that on Saturday,
Speaker 1: I addressed the topic that I knew was a concern
Speaker 1: of his directly with him. I was honest and opened.
Speaker 1: The topic was addressed and we moved on. Okay. So
Speaker 1: it seems like it was the topic of what their
Speaker 1: past relationships, sir, I guess, I guess. So yeah, like
Speaker 1: being basically being ready to be open again, like after
Speaker 1: your partner passes away. I can I conclude you, Offen,
Speaker 1: that's love pretty big, honestly, this is the Valentinian stay special.
Speaker 1: So we're warm up, that is, we're a little fire
Speaker 1: was nice and toasting. Then this afternoon he did the
Speaker 1: same for me, and I even said, look at us.
Speaker 1: Healthy communication. We're so grown up again, we're both in
Speaker 1: our forties. We laughed about it, but then we agreed
Speaker 1: that poor communication has been an issue in past relationships.
Speaker 1: There have been a couple other instances where we have
Speaker 1: communicated really openly and honestly, and oh my god, it
Speaker 1: is so sexy. Honest communication is probably the biggest turn
Speaker 1: on that you could have. That is so true, almost
Speaker 1: as big as a turn on. It's the cozy crafter
Speaker 1: donating three dollars and ninety nine cents Canadian let's go
Speaker 1: fifteen percent to our goal. Pair character with lovey dovey eyes,
Speaker 1: blowing red hearts in the air. Oh, I think this
Speaker 1: is like emoticons. Ah, Like, it's like such older people. Wow,
Speaker 1: excuse me? Are you calling us old? Right? No? Well,
Speaker 1: it's like you guys didn't know what emojis were. For
Speaker 1: a second. We're reading the text. We don't we don't know,
Speaker 1: but you know what I do want to know about?
Speaker 1: What with this update to this story? Yeah, and everyone
Speaker 1: guess how old Riley is in the chat and say
Speaker 1: it old number. Yeah, yeah, shollow made me feel more mature.
Speaker 1: That's not gonna help get your swipe away. There we go.
Speaker 1: For those of you who are looking for the juicy,
Speaker 1: salacious details, I'm so sorry. I really don't have anything
Speaker 1: for you yet. We are taking it slow. That doesn't
Speaker 1: mean that I don't want to climb him like a tree.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. We've had a couple of good make up sessions,
Speaker 1: a little bit of under the close action. Oh my goodness,
Speaker 1: oh dear, scandalous. It's funny. I feel like we're moving
Speaker 1: at teenager speeds, and I'm okay with that. I have
Speaker 1: the intention of having him in my life for a
Speaker 1: long time, and we will have plenty of time. Oh goodness, creations, graciousnacious.
Speaker 1: I'm still nuts about him. I've absolutely told him the
Speaker 1: extent of my crush. I even played the song that
Speaker 1: was his song when I was fifteen years old. It
Speaker 1: was a very vulnerable moment, and I still smile when
Speaker 1: he texts and calls, like you know, when I just
Speaker 1: got off the phone with him. However, I have been
Speaker 1: actively trying to separate the actual person he is from
Speaker 1: the perfect man I created my head when I was
Speaker 1: a teenager. Yeah, it's kind of hard because he keeps
Speaker 1: getting everything right and I'm really really happy and that
Speaker 1: is really really the end of the star. It sounds
Speaker 1: like they're kind of perfect. Yeah, But Gustavo had something
Speaker 1: really funny to say, Riley, do you have it ingers?
Speaker 4: He said, somebody tell her he has a rectile dysfunction.
Speaker 4: That's why my bro is taking it so so.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is so good. Can you write
Speaker 1: jokes for us? This is yeah? Is our new writer? Right?
Speaker 1: And then VYC says, honestly, he looks seventeen. Our little
Speaker 1: our little boy cherub over here. Riley, we love him
Speaker 1: so much. Tya Perkins says, oh yay. Uh we go
Speaker 1: go up a little bit, Riley. Tyler Perkins says, oh yay.
Speaker 1: This is the first time I've managed to see you
Speaker 1: guys on the Live from the UK here. Usually I'm
Speaker 1: in bed and I'm gut it. I miss it. I
Speaker 1: watch you all the time at work. Thank you for
Speaker 1: supporting the show. And I saw I think some other
Speaker 1: people just supported the show. Uh oh, let's check out
Speaker 1: for it. Go up, Riley, So Danielle Phifer Millennia's rule,
Speaker 1: Riley drools, get fricked, Riley, thanks for donating, and then
Speaker 1: hanedschu another pair character emoji, thank you so much. I
Speaker 1: think we're at like what like twenty five right now?
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, Martins wedy bucks. I'll have to stream
Speaker 1: for probably another hour. We probably will. I love almost
Speaker 1: at fifty fifty bucks. Yeah, I think so we're taling
Speaker 1: it up for us. Maybe maybe Sophia. I love listening
Speaker 1: to you guys while I'm doing chores around the house.
Speaker 1: I would like to hear more of Sophia's British accent,
Speaker 1: but not John. Sorry, you know what, Catherine shut my
Speaker 1: accent down because Sophia's is clearly superior and we all
Speaker 1: want to hear them. Sophia, jump jump over here and
Speaker 1: give us a little over Get a little little British
Speaker 1: accent here. Hey here, Sophia, how about you read this
Speaker 1: next story in a British accent. Sofia is going to
Speaker 1: take over for me for a little bit while I
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom. Here we go. It is there,
Speaker 1: and it has to be a whole British accent. Oh
Speaker 1: a little bit.
Speaker 3: I've got to get into it. It might not be great.
Speaker 1: That's okay.
Speaker 3: My mom made this.
Speaker 1: Your mom made that made it. Wow, I am genuinely
Speaker 1: like blown away.
Speaker 3: That's it took her months, months and months.
Speaker 1: Damn, that's great. Wow.
Speaker 3: Do you really want me to do the whole thing?
Speaker 1: The whole but maybe title? Yeah, let's get let's get.
Speaker 1: Let's give a Christina. I believe it was.
Speaker 3: You, Christina?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think all right? All right?
Speaker 3: Am I the help for screaming at my husband to
Speaker 3: get out after he pranks me with flowers?
Speaker 1: With flowers?
Speaker 3: With flowers?
Speaker 1: I can't, I can't. I can't do it.
Speaker 3: I do it, but I have to warm up to it.
Speaker 1: It's okay, what we can we can maybe do some
Speaker 1: at the end, I'll come out. Yeah, we'll get back
Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, all right, what you got for us?
Speaker 3: If I've been here in the background listening, but I'm
Speaker 3: I'm here.
Speaker 1: That's true. Sorry, let me just there, we go get
Speaker 1: adjusted and yes, yes.
Speaker 3: All right, you should I read that again? Did you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's read that one more time? Regular American Sophia.
Speaker 3: Okay, am I the a hole for screaming at my
Speaker 3: husband to get out after he pranked me with flowers?
Speaker 1: What I guess the question is what is the prank?
Speaker 1: Is the prank I gave you the flowers you're definitely
Speaker 1: allergic to because that's a bad prank.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And she's like on the floor, like.
Speaker 1: Get out and herank gotcha. Hey, listen, we've seen some
Speaker 1: stupid pranks.
Speaker 3: It's like that the Disney XD that showed pranks and
Speaker 3: they pop out and they're.
Speaker 1: Like, you've just been prank. Just got you, bro, But
Speaker 1: let's find out. Let's do it so direct.
Speaker 3: Caterpillar seventy seven says, my husband in my marriage is
Speaker 3: not going well. I am very close to divorce and
Speaker 3: I've talked to him about it. I told him I
Speaker 3: wanted some effort. I wanted flowers, chocolate, a nicely written note,
Speaker 3: something that showed he wanted to romance me. He finally
Speaker 3: took it seriously and agreed when I When I came
Speaker 3: home from a twelve hour shift yesterday, he had aid
Speaker 3: a trail of rose petals in our house. It was
Speaker 3: so beautiful.
Speaker 1: There we go.
Speaker 3: The trail ended at the kitchen sink, where he had
Speaker 3: piled a bunch of dirty dishes, pots and pants to clean.
Speaker 1: What, oh my.
Speaker 3: God, oh ah, this is horrible. He said he got
Speaker 3: the idea from TikTok What stop?
Speaker 1: What? What are you? What? What tiktoks are you watching?
Speaker 3: Get off that?
Speaker 1: Get off? Oh my god, oh yikes.
Speaker 3: I screamed at him to get out of my house.
Speaker 3: He left After arguing a bit. I cried. Some of
Speaker 3: my friends said I was right, but others said he
Speaker 3: was just being paid playful. Am I the a hole?
Speaker 3: And there are some relevant comments?
Speaker 1: But what what what games are we playing? Okay, that
Speaker 1: that's playful.
Speaker 3: That's that's really that's a big old Yikes.
Speaker 1: That's not good.
Speaker 3: It doesn't feel very fun.
Speaker 1: You know what, you know, it's crazy. It all amost
Speaker 1: reminds me of like there could be someone who like
Speaker 1: lives in this house that has like pineapple socks and
Speaker 1: a green shirt that like doesn't do dishes, and then
Speaker 1: Sofia comes in and like does dishes for this said
Speaker 1: unnamed person. Let's talk about it. Let's talk about it.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, okay, first few weeks I was here, Yeah,
Speaker 4: a horrible job.
Speaker 1: I would just do it.
Speaker 4: And then I would like make my pan and then
Speaker 4: put it to the side and not really touch it.
Speaker 1: And then I noticed that it was being clean and
Speaker 1: I was like, what's it doing? E.
Speaker 4: I'm like, how is this happening? You see Sophia one
Speaker 4: day doing it? And I was like, I felt terrible
Speaker 4: just then been a little better, Sophia.
Speaker 3: I agree, No, I will, I will attest. Riley has
Speaker 3: been better. I haven't had to wash any.
Speaker 1: Dishes, that's good.
Speaker 3: But it seems like Ope has been washing all the dishes.
Speaker 3: I think pranks should be fun for everyone.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean this one's just like stupid.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hurtful. I mean the pranks should be the
Speaker 3: you washed all the dishes?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Frank, gotcha, babe.
Speaker 3: Yeah. But there are some relevant comments on convivial cat
Speaker 3: says not the a hole. I'm old and a widow.
Speaker 3: I had a very long and loving relationship with my husband.
Speaker 3: He had a very He had a fantastic sense of
Speaker 3: humor and often did very silly things to get a
Speaker 3: laugh out of me. Our marriage was solid because he
Speaker 3: would never have let me come home from a twelve
Speaker 3: hour shift to rose petals leading to a dirty sink
Speaker 3: of dishes. A flower shift, that's crazy. He would have
Speaker 3: had rose petals leading to a sparkling kitchen dinner ready
Speaker 3: and with him dressed in a French made outfit, probably
Speaker 3: with his ass saying oh yeah, sounds great.
Speaker 1: I like that.
Speaker 3: God I missed that man. Anyway, what your husband did,
Speaker 3: especially knowing how much you were really needing some romance,
Speaker 3: was incredibly cruel and tone deaf. I don't think this
Speaker 3: one is a keeper, Opie, and Opie said, I am
Speaker 3: so sorry for your loss. Your husband sounds like an
Speaker 3: incredible man who loved you very very much. I wish
Speaker 3: I had that kind of love. Yeah, that's such a
Speaker 3: great point because Opi was like, this is the last straw,
Speaker 3: like I want some romance or we're done. And then
Speaker 3: Opie's husband was like, ah, I know how to face
Speaker 3: this marriage.
Speaker 1: Dishes. Yeah, you are so right. That is crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah. There is another comment from TX farmer who said,
Speaker 3: TikTok is a pestilence? Did he film you? That's not playful,
Speaker 3: especially when the steaks are high. Get him a fake
Speaker 3: winning lottery ticket, then hand him a divorce decree.
Speaker 1: That's a good one.
Speaker 3: We've seen another Reddit story like that. Oh Opie said
Speaker 3: he had his phone out. I don't think he posted it,
Speaker 3: but if he does, I'm done. I actually found the
Speaker 3: original or maybe one of the TikTok pranks he used
Speaker 3: as as inspiration. The comments even pointed out how messed
Speaker 3: up it was to do. I would give him a
Speaker 3: fake lottery ticket if I didn't know he would make
Speaker 3: a fuss about it. And there is an update. But
Speaker 3: let's take stock.
Speaker 1: Yes, let's do that.
Speaker 3: Do you think a relationship should continue well?
Speaker 1: As Maya two one two says in the comments, I
Speaker 1: think it's time for a divorce chant? Could we all?
Speaker 1: Could we all hop in on here? Divorce? Yeah? Get
Speaker 1: it out? How many do we do? Do we do? Four?
Speaker 1: Do we do? Three?
Speaker 3: I don't know if did I. I feel like I
Speaker 3: started it and.
Speaker 1: I started the divorce chap. Yeah, I feel like I
Speaker 1: wait a second, this goes way back way back when
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I feel like I was.
Speaker 1: We have been yelling divorce. Yeah. See like everyone in
Speaker 1: the comments, divorce, divorce, divorce. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Someone said Cinderella is so quiet? Am I Cinderella? And
Speaker 3: is my mic quiet?
Speaker 1: I think it is a little love. Maybe we could
Speaker 1: bump around the focus, right, Buttercup, bump me up? Doc
Speaker 1: speak up?
Speaker 3: Sorry as loudly as I can.
Speaker 1: Riley, if you can scroll through, I know we got
Speaker 1: we had a lot of divorces from aj Kim Quant
Speaker 1: little something. But let's see over here. Okay, So Kim
Speaker 1: quant All says Opie's husband is a whole red flag.
Speaker 3: Yes, so big red.
Speaker 1: Flags, absolute divorce. Chant E v c on TikTok says, lol,
Speaker 1: been watching your show for the last three years, low key,
Speaker 1: that's amazing because we've only existed for two. Uh, it's
Speaker 1: weird because my exes my ex's bad name is John.
Speaker 1: What b D my ex b D my ex's name? Oh,
Speaker 1: my ex boyfriend, that's what it was, my ex boyfriend's name. Uh,
Speaker 1: you know what, ev John, John is a pretty pretty
Speaker 1: common name. Yeah, I'm gonna I'm not gonna lie to you.
Speaker 1: That is that is pretty common John.
Speaker 3: What's like the thing? John? John Doe?
Speaker 1: There we go, John Doe. Yes, my last name isn't Doe.
Speaker 1: But but you know, Sophia, why don't you get to
Speaker 1: some comments?
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I'm really appreciating, Daniel Pfiffer saying if Sophia
Speaker 3: said she started it, she started it.
Speaker 1: No, no red flag.
Speaker 3: I guess it's true. It's in the it's in writing.
Speaker 1: So there you go.
Speaker 3: What else? What else? Sarah Batoff says something unimportant. I'm
Speaker 3: just kidding you guys have been saying that since at
Speaker 3: least last year.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Sarah, last year. No hold on, we're technicalities.
Speaker 1: Come on with that. I have been here this last year.
Speaker 1: December of last year, my goodness, the end of December
Speaker 1: at that, my goodness.
Speaker 3: Yes, everyone's supporting me a.
Speaker 1: Little yeah, Smith Emerald Emerald says what Sophia says goes. Guys.
Speaker 1: We we we know Sophia's is the most powerful. We
Speaker 1: we know that she's the queen.
Speaker 3: Thank you. Nita found Fountain also says, I definitely heard
Speaker 3: Sophia said divorce little. I think I just like it
Speaker 3: was like I said it so much that it was
Speaker 3: it was associated with me. But oh, I've completely lost
Speaker 3: my place. Update, there is an update.
Speaker 1: There's an update.
Speaker 3: Update, Yes, all right, so update. My husband came back
Speaker 3: home last night. I had cooled off, and then he
Speaker 3: ruined it by saying I was overreacting, no, no, do
Speaker 3: do that, that it was funny and he wanted to
Speaker 3: make me laugh. I told him I was going to
Speaker 3: file for divorce because it was the last straw. He
Speaker 3: then started crying and begging me not to He begged
Speaker 3: me to give him a second chance. I said he
Speaker 3: already got a second chance, and he squandered it by
Speaker 3: reminding me that I do all the daily chores in
Speaker 3: this house. This was why our marriage was rocky. I
Speaker 3: work in the medical fields, while he is a blue
Speaker 3: collar worker. Both of our jobs require long hours. But
Speaker 3: if I mess up, people die. He once said that
Speaker 3: I went through all that schooling just to get covered
Speaker 3: in blood and poop. He took it back after, but
Speaker 3: he wanted to make me feel low. He started doing
Speaker 3: that a bit after COVID started.
Speaker 1: He sounds awful, he really does.
Speaker 3: I do the cooking and cleaning. I do the laundry,
Speaker 3: the sweeping, the dentist appointments. All he does is create
Speaker 3: more work for me. He wanted me to pack him
Speaker 3: lunch because his friend's wives do his friends wives I
Speaker 3: either stay at home moms or they have part time jobs.
Speaker 3: I do not have the time or energy to do that.
Speaker 3: He said. He mows the lawn, well, guess what, it's winter,
Speaker 3: and I had to shovel the driveway because I had
Speaker 3: work in the morning and he had the day off.
Speaker 3: I make more money, brought I bought her house at
Speaker 3: a low rate during COVID because his credit was too low.
Speaker 3: I had to save the money for a down payment.
Speaker 3: I pay our mortgage. What did he contribute to my life?
Speaker 3: If I didn't have him in my life, I would
Speaker 3: have clean floors all the time and more money. At
Speaker 3: least he could contribute love. He said he loved me,
Speaker 3: but he doesn't do anything to prove it. So I
Speaker 3: asked him for flowers or chocolate or a nice card,
Speaker 3: literally anything to show some love. What instead he dropped
Speaker 3: flower petals to a sink full of dirty dishes, pots,
Speaker 3: and pans. It's not even original, it's not don I'm
Speaker 3: going to file for divorce.
Speaker 1: Wow, as you should. Wow. Wow that's crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, horrible, horrible, horrible.
Speaker 1: Can we put the tinfoil hats on? Because I have
Speaker 1: a post post end story conspiracy.
Speaker 3: Updates, but John Scott I got one.
Speaker 1: Just I think that Ope's husband knows that he makes
Speaker 1: less money, that he sucks, and he's like that he's
Speaker 1: not funny, that the jokes are unriginal, and he's like,
Speaker 1: what can I do to like feel some sort of
Speaker 1: like I'm so insecure, I need something to make me
Speaker 1: feel good, Like I can tell my wife to do
Speaker 1: the dishes with rose petals as a joke.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's literally just trying to like assert the little
Speaker 3: control he has. Yeah, he doesn't even have it.
Speaker 1: Like you think you can tell me I have one
Speaker 1: final chance. Well guess what I'll use it to tell
Speaker 1: you to do dishes that Yeah, divorce, that's that's what
Speaker 1: that's about. So time and we're back in reality. But honestly,
Speaker 1: that I think that is reality.
Speaker 3: I'm glad she did divorce it. Truly, she deserves better.
Speaker 3: She deserves someone who will lay out some rose petals
Speaker 3: to a beautiful dinner and that is true a lovely bath.
Speaker 1: I have a question though, Sofia, do do we deserve
Speaker 1: to go for a third hour if we hit one
Speaker 1: hundred dollars in donations the chat? Absolutely absolutely, y'all, guys,
Speaker 1: we've crunch them membership around fifty around fifty or so. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that sounds lacerate.
Speaker 3: I didn't see anymore.
Speaker 1: But we we if we get one hundred dollars in
Speaker 1: the chat. Again, no pressure if you don't want you,
Speaker 1: but we'll go for a third hour and hang out
Speaker 1: with y'all for a little bit longer. So if you
Speaker 1: want to support you boys throw some of the chat
Speaker 1: speaking of which looks like Lisa from Facebook as something
Speaker 1: for Sofia.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Sofia. You should get some cheap plastic hard
Speaker 3: hats and spray paint them silver for new conspiracy theory hats.
Speaker 3: That's such a great idea because these ones are these
Speaker 3: ones are trashed. I made these out of aluminum foil
Speaker 3: and they're they're topes to have destroyed them.
Speaker 1: We have absolutely destroyed them. Yea, who else? Susan Martin says, no,
Speaker 1: you're not being the a hole bake goods take time.
Speaker 3: I think that's a callback to the Gallentines, right, yes, yes.
Speaker 1: What a throwback. What a throwback.
Speaker 3: And then Kimberly Fine says merch hats that say conspiracy. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's the conspiracy of whether or not we'll get some
Speaker 3: conspiracy hats.
Speaker 4: Hats, but their bucket hats. Christian would wear those, that's true.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, guys, would you want some conspiracy hats? Let
Speaker 1: us know. Actually, we'll probably start planning our next merch
Speaker 1: drop in the near future. We have this drop for
Speaker 1: red flag Green Flag ending today.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we also have our Valentine's Day kind of sweaters.
Speaker 1: They are also live. That is absolutely correct. I'm modeling them,
Speaker 1: that's true, crushing it. So hey, get those for the
Speaker 1: people you love. But you know what, I love polar hats.
Speaker 3: That's funny.
Speaker 1: I do love bowler hats. But I also love next story,
Speaker 1: which I believe is me. So let me dive into
Speaker 1: it here. So let me pull it up. Guys, we're
Speaker 1: almost we're almost down to our stories here, so we
Speaker 1: shall see. I believe this is is this eight, producer Riley,
Speaker 1: this is let's me calculate.
Speaker 4: Caculating seven out of ten, so this is more.
Speaker 3: This is just ten of the Valentine's Day That is true.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm gonna do six.
Speaker 4: We'll see one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, so
Speaker 4: we're on our seventh one.
Speaker 1: Cool, it's a.
Speaker 3: Long and to go to I'm good, Sarah Batoff. I
Speaker 3: will ask my mom, because I know she found it
Speaker 3: on a website about the pattern for my.
Speaker 1: For the level, we do a long one or a
Speaker 1: short one, ladies, gentlemen, drummer short one swap, so you
Speaker 1: guys get a Sam and Sophia. Right after this, my
Speaker 1: boyfriend thinks my dad's gifts are creepy? Is it a
Speaker 1: red flag?
Speaker 3: What kind of gifts?
Speaker 1: What? What? What gift would constitute creepy? Guys, put in
Speaker 1: the chat. What would be a creepy gift to get
Speaker 1: from your father in law? What would be a creepy gift?
Speaker 3: It's the creepiest gift. Oh you're asking, Yes, I am.
Speaker 3: I don't know, Like, I don't know. I don't even
Speaker 3: want to like say it because it's.
Speaker 1: It's too creepy, y'all. Put put it down in the
Speaker 1: comfortab below with the oh that is that would be
Speaker 1: really a vibrator from the Little Tree and Web. Yep,
Speaker 1: that would be pretty creepy. I was. I was, Oh
Speaker 1: my lingerie from Danielle and Nicole Stewart. Yeah, absolutely lingerie,
Speaker 1: or sexy pajamas from Catherine. Absolutely panties. Yeah, we're kind
Speaker 1: of getting the same gifts of Victoria's secret boucher.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, Patrician Yates. It is too creepy to.
Speaker 1: Say it is. But let's get into the story from
Speaker 1: throw ra Oat Milk. Every year from Valentine's Day, my
Speaker 1: dad fifty nine male gives Slash sends me twenty three
Speaker 1: female flowers and a box of chocolates.
Speaker 3: That that's what's gonna be creepy awful. My dad does
Speaker 3: that literally every year. That's like a very normal thing,
Speaker 3: except that I want to hear what he has to say,
Speaker 3: because that's not creepy at all.
Speaker 1: He has done this every year since I was old
Speaker 1: enough to remember. He would always give them to me
Speaker 1: when I was little, and when I went to college
Speaker 1: and beyond, he has them delivered to me. It's just
Speaker 1: a cute tradition for us. I didn't say cute tradition,
Speaker 1: but I threw that in there. I think it's sweet.
Speaker 1: And I grew up in a really tight knit, close family.
Speaker 1: I started I started dating my boyfriend Mark twenty five
Speaker 1: mail a little over a year ago. Last Valentine's Day,
Speaker 1: I got the usual delivery from my dad. Mark said, oh,
Speaker 1: your dad sent you those? Oh okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: that's it. That's all. But that's not all because Tacos
Speaker 1: of Love just donated five dollars to our chat and
Speaker 1: he was going for three years. And they say he
Speaker 1: might be with her for the money, but did she
Speaker 1: get life insurance? Just tinfoil having here Taco of Love
Speaker 1: putting on the tinfoil hat right there. Although, by the way,
Speaker 1: I think I mistakenly thought it was the father in law.
Speaker 1: It is a actual father. This is the father father.
Speaker 3: Getting her like cute little Valentine's Day chocolate And yes,
Speaker 3: so we missed, but is it Is it creepy for
Speaker 3: the dad to get flowers of chocolate for Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1: Guys put in the comments creepy or not? Let us
Speaker 1: know please, and also shout out to Maya two and
Speaker 1: two for the two fifty donation with the Sheiba dogs.
Speaker 1: Fast forward to this year. Last night, Mark, my boyfriend
Speaker 1: and I were discussing our Valentine's Day plans for this year,
Speaker 1: like what restaurant we show to, and he made a
Speaker 1: passing comment about he was hoping that I didn't get
Speaker 1: in any creepy gifts in the mail this year.
Speaker 3: What Mark?
Speaker 1: We hate you Mark Mark. I was confused and asked
Speaker 1: him what did you mean? And he said, you know
Speaker 1: how you got that stuff from your dad last year.
Speaker 1: It's creepy for a dad to be sending his adult
Speaker 1: daughter's Valentine's gifts. That's creepy. I also dise. I think
Speaker 1: it's cute. I think it's very cute. My dad, come on,
Speaker 1: that's sweet. Shout out guys. The don or Dad is
Speaker 1: he's always on it man, he's he's got that parenting thing.
Speaker 3: He sent me like a little bear in the mail
Speaker 3: when I was at college.
Speaker 1: Cute, it is cute.
Speaker 3: Valentine's Day is not personally I don't think it's just
Speaker 3: a day about like romantic relationships. I think it's also
Speaker 3: just a day in general about love.
Speaker 1: What do we do? What? Sofia, what do we do?
Speaker 1: In elementary school?
Speaker 3: We give? We give everyone Valentine's The whole class gave
Speaker 3: everyone Valentine's That's right. Yeah, and at my school, don't know,
Speaker 3: same for your school. If you didn't bring enough for everyone,
Speaker 3: then you weren't allowed to share them. Really, so everyone
Speaker 3: had to get a Valentine otherwise because you're just spreading
Speaker 3: the love to ex communicated. Yeah, they were like no, no,
Speaker 3: Like if you wanted to give like a Valentine's Day
Speaker 3: gift to like just your friend group, couldn't do it.
Speaker 3: Oh just a friend group, I see, you would have
Speaker 3: to give it out to the whole class.
Speaker 1: I tried. Interesting, very interesting, so uh Opie says, I
Speaker 1: was taken aback because it's not like my dad sent
Speaker 1: me lingerie or something. Like that it was just flowers
Speaker 1: and some chocolate. And I tried explaining to Mark that
Speaker 1: this is a tradition and I've always shared this with
Speaker 1: my dad. He stands firm that it is creepy and weird.
Speaker 1: He said that he's asked his friends and they all
Speaker 1: thought it was weird too. Friends. Does he have what
Speaker 1: kind of friends you got? Mark bad Ones if that
Speaker 1: is your real name, which it isn't. I tried to
Speaker 1: let it go, but it's been bothering me. Number One,
Speaker 1: I have never heard of these kinds of negative comments
Speaker 1: from Mark before. And I'm not sure whether it's a
Speaker 1: red flag red flag talk about it? Why is it
Speaker 1: a red flag?
Speaker 3: Because he shouldn't be like I feel like like some
Speaker 3: people are saying in the chat that he feels threatened
Speaker 3: by OPI's dad, which is weird. That's weird to be like, wow,
Speaker 3: I have to compete with her dad for valid like
Speaker 3: just get her a better Valentine's Day and then your gift,
Speaker 3: and then that's.
Speaker 1: True, that's true. Who made that comment, by the way,
Speaker 1: actually a couple.
Speaker 3: Of people made it. Little Rabbit or maybe only yeah
Speaker 3: the raven said so insecure, he feels threatened by Dad,
Speaker 3: and then Sarah a bout off. Oh Mark, Sorry, she
Speaker 3: had a father who made sure she had self esteem
Speaker 3: and knows how to be treated.
Speaker 1: My bad, My bad forgiving yourself esteem. I love her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's the best way to know that, you know,
Speaker 3: like how how you should be treated by your partner.
Speaker 3: She's absolutely, absolutely this is the standard.
Speaker 1: That's the standard. You gotta be this high to ride
Speaker 1: the ride. Mark. Yeah, name, that's your real name. But
Speaker 1: I have never been in a serious relationship before, and
Speaker 1: I'm still figuring all of this out now. Number two,
Speaker 1: when my dad's delivery comes this month, I don't want
Speaker 1: Mark to feel uncomfortable. Number three is it creepy for
Speaker 1: my dad to be sending this stuff? I have never
Speaker 1: found it so, but would like to hear others perspectives. Thanks. Okay,
Speaker 1: so really quick we have the one, two, three, So yes,
Speaker 1: Number one, is this a red flag from Mark? Number two?
Speaker 1: Should Ope hide the gift from Mark? And number three?
Speaker 1: Is it creepy? We've already talked about Number one. It's
Speaker 1: definitely a red flag. Number two? Should Ope hide the gift?
Speaker 3: She should hide Mark from her life.
Speaker 1: That is exactly what you should do.
Speaker 3: She should with him.
Speaker 1: Put you in a box and block and you off.
Speaker 1: That's right somewhere else, that's right, Susan. Susan Martin says, no, John,
Speaker 1: You're not the a hole. I saved them for a
Speaker 1: while and then I throw them out. I didn't know
Speaker 1: I was up for debate of b a hole here.
Speaker 1: I guess that might make me, might make me an
Speaker 1: ale after all, that was a j R.
Speaker 3: Oh, we go back up a little bit. Really, Jero says,
Speaker 3: all of Mark's friends are imaginary. Of course they agree
Speaker 3: with him.
Speaker 1: I was talking to Blue and big Red basketball guy.
Speaker 1: Who are the guys from Foster's friends? Wilt? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: was talking to Wilt and Cheese, Coco Yeah, it was
Speaker 1: go go Yeah. I was talking to Cocoa and Cheese
Speaker 1: and they're all like, all my homies were like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's so creepy. That's so creepy. What the heck? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's crazy? Uh, Mark, what is that? I can't say
Speaker 1: the use your name, but MAC make it, thank you,
Speaker 1: it says marketing therapy. Absolute Uh. Kristin Sherry says, no,
Speaker 1: I think it's nice of him. That sounds like it's
Speaker 1: a real good dad. Christina says, uh, yes, it's a
Speaker 1: red flag. No, don't hide it, and no, uh what
Speaker 1: was the third one? There isn't anything wrong with that.
Speaker 1: Oh calling John not the a hill is a throwback. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you Kim quat for for helping us, helping us
Speaker 1: understand and think were going to alrighty audio off full off,