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Speaker 1: A is around the corner and love is in the air.

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Speaker 1: But if you haven't found your relationship or situationship, don't

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Speaker 1: lose hope. We have ten of the craziest, sweetest, and

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Speaker 1: juiciest stories about love, relationships, and of course Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Let's start with number ten. Let's do it's My ex

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Speaker 1: girlfriend's sister is still living with me over a year

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Speaker 1: after the breakup, plus a four year update. And this

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Speaker 1: is okop where we read the craziest true stories and

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Speaker 1: most lovely stories on Earth. I'm John and Sam. Is

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Speaker 1: it a good idea to live with your ex girlfriend's

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Speaker 1: ex girlfriend's sister. I don't know. I feel like it

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Speaker 1: might make things awkward if they ever have their parents home,

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Speaker 1: which would be your ex girlfriend. What if you're like, hey,

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Speaker 1: we have so much in common. You love your sister,

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Speaker 1: I love my ex girlfriend. Like, look at all that

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Speaker 1: we have now ready we already lived, we already lived together.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, but there is one

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Speaker 1: So here we go. This comes from Undulating Wave, who

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Speaker 1: says I was with my ex girlfriend let's call her

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Speaker 1: Sarah from secondary school. We had been together for ten

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Speaker 1: get married. Wow, they had been in it. We were

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Speaker 1: both working in different cities, about seventy miles apart. But

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Speaker 1: That's like the most romantic thing possible. That is the

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Speaker 1: Love it very Valentines. Anyway, when her sister, let's call

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Speaker 1: her Katie, apply to university in my city, she lived

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Speaker 1: I said that she could come and live with me Rench.

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Speaker 1: Now that's a deal. That rent free is probably the

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Speaker 1: is free ever really free? You have to pay for

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Speaker 1: it some way. I mean in damaged relationships. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to say put an icy you in the comments.

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Speaker 1: If you see something that might about to see, I

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Speaker 1: If you see where this is going, there you go

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Speaker 1: well to Opie says it wasn't weird at all. He

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Speaker 1: says I'd known her since she was nine years old.

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Speaker 1: It made everything more manageable for her family, and everything

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Speaker 1: But just over a year and a half ago, Sarah

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Speaker 1: told me that she had been cheating on me in

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Speaker 1: a massive way. Oh shit. Wow. She had been in

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Speaker 1: a relationship with another guy for about three months and

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Speaker 1: at weekends when I was coming down to visit. Oh wait,

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Speaker 1: so he's kind of like the side check. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: She decided that she wanted to live with him openly

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Speaker 1: and was tired of lying to me. Babe, I'm just

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Speaker 1: not something something incredible apparently. Yikes. It was a horrible

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Speaker 1: Her sister, Katie was busy with university and was unbelievably

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Speaker 1: Let's back to reality, all right. So it's not awkward

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Speaker 1: that's on board a conspiracy theory, my perspiracy theory. They're

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Speaker 1: is really my fault. What should I do? Well, Sam,

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Speaker 1: clarifying questions, hit us. Is she on the lease? So

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Speaker 1: here's the thing. We don't even know if she's paying

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Speaker 1: it through, just like the sister thing aside, it's like, hey, like,

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Speaker 1: No conspiracy theory, yep. Maybe maybe he doesn't want her

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Speaker 1: this is OP. This is not same Samuel Donner. No,

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Speaker 1: this is not I I am acting as OP. This

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Speaker 1: real world. Yes, but that's my conspiracy theory. But I

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Speaker 1: want to see what happens. Yes, we'll see what happens,

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Speaker 1: and I also have a okay storytime speaking of people living,

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Speaker 1: Kim Quant says, uh, OPI is being way too nice.

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Speaker 1: I would ask her to leave. I one thousand percent

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Speaker 1: agree with ten million percent, ten trillion brillion percent. But

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Speaker 1: let's get into this ten trillion percent juicy update. That's

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Speaker 1: the juice. So I posted the story a couple of

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Speaker 1: is further in this story. Here we go and Danielle,

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Speaker 1: I did not fall in my hat? Does it look

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Speaker 1: Now after eighteen months, Katie was still living with me

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Speaker 1: non romantically. Eighteen months eighteen months after the break, that's

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Speaker 1: be a potential debut. He correctly predicted that, But since

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Speaker 1: because they said. We didn't go further. Okay, okay, not

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Speaker 1: too crazy. We both we both realized this is a

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Speaker 1: Although am I have it an edit? But is OPI

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Speaker 1: to ask you this question. Why is OPI saying they're

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Speaker 1: the a hole? Because he thinks that he might have

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Speaker 1: and who do you think? Is he the a hole

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Speaker 1: to the sister? That's what he's asking?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like making cares she cheated on you for three months,

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Speaker 2: bro OPI is the nicest guy's like, oh am, I am,

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Speaker 2: I potentially being an a hole to this person that

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Speaker 2: ruined my entire life, Like.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, marry your sister, dude, your sister? Yea, I dude,

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Speaker 1: the train station of Love Dude, the train that's beautiful, dude,

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Speaker 1: rap on this story, but it's not a rap on

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Speaker 1: the comments below. What are you guys saying over here?

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Speaker 1: All right? So crafty Witch four twenty great user name says,

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Speaker 1: ask her to leave for sure. Kim Quant says, I

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Speaker 1: have one friend who I slept with that my partner

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Speaker 1: and I hang out with every other week. He'll probably

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Speaker 1: be invited to the wedding when it happens. So Kim

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Speaker 1: is like ignoring our golden rule, breaking the golden rule.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, that's okay. You know, golden rules are meant

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Speaker 1: to be broken. Some are, some are some are Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're over on TikTok. Katherine mccomfy says, this is why

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Speaker 1: eloping is the best way to go, no drama. So

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Speaker 1: I don't invite anyone to your wedding, just freaking do

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Speaker 1: it in secret. How many people have eloped? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: tell us you're a loping story, tell us you're a lope.

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Speaker 1: We love, we love to know them. Yes, and the

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Speaker 1: raven says, definitely let the significant other deal with it.

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Speaker 1: But f that bitch. Uh Yeah, come on, dude, you

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Speaker 1: know what. No one could have said it better than you.

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Speaker 1: She had no remorse. She was like, I'm so tired

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Speaker 1: of like it's such a chore having to lie to

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Speaker 1: you about cheating and like going over to your person

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Speaker 1: and sleeping with him. She knows she sounds not only chaotic,

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Speaker 1: but just manipulative and a little little evil, and that's

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Speaker 1: probably why the sister doesn't talk to her, have her

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Speaker 1: in her life. Yeah, so why would she want her

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Speaker 1: at a wedding? You know that that is a bomb

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Speaker 1: that could go off at your wedding. It's just not no,

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Speaker 1: it's just it's not worth it. It's not worth it.

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Speaker 1: Quinn can do said, I eloped while I was deployed

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Speaker 1: in Afghanistan. Wow, WHOA, that's sick. Here's a story there.

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Speaker 1: We would love to hear your story. Speaking of which,

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Speaker 1: we are now starting a call in line for video.

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Speaker 1: Right are we doing that? I don't know if we're

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Speaker 1: doing it to you don't know, But if you want

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Speaker 1: to maybe have us interview you on the show, call

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Speaker 1: us at four four zero five zero eight six five

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Speaker 1: six seven and text us saying like, hey, you're on,

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Speaker 1: I'm on the live right now. Would love to be interviewed.

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Speaker 1: We might be able to set that up. But right, Riley,

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Speaker 1: may it get mad at us first in the works.

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Speaker 1: I mean we could we could try it. We could

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Speaker 1: try we could try it. We'll try it maybe a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah yeah yeah, text us and Riley, well,

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Speaker 1: we'll look at look at your text a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Get your Google meets ready, yeah, yeah, fire up, Google

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Speaker 1: meets ready. But is that where the story ends? That's it? Wow,

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Speaker 1: that's all she wrote. Well, I feel pretty good. I

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Speaker 1: feel pretty good about where it ended. Yeah, just like,

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Speaker 1: let let her figure that out. Let her figure it out,

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Speaker 1: and and op got a happy ending from a crappy situation.

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Speaker 1: Well more can you ask for? Hey? We love happy endings,

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Speaker 1: and we love these next time and we love love.

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Speaker 1: And this is the ninth story in our saga of

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day stories, And this goes am I d a

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Speaker 1: hole co worker asked me to bake her Gallantine's Day,

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Speaker 1: was shocked when I asked her to pay for the ingredient.

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Speaker 1: So as a hobby and out of the kindness to

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Speaker 1: my co workers, friends and family, I really enjoy baking

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Speaker 1: and sharing with the people. I really bake for them

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Speaker 1: pretty regularly. I like to have homemade bag goods, so

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Speaker 1: when I'm feeling like I want something, it's practically the

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Speaker 1: same amount of effort to make a full batch of,

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Speaker 1: say cookies or muffins, as it is to make a few.

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Speaker 1: So it's like I might as well make a ton.

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Speaker 1: So I bake big batches, keep a few for myself,

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Speaker 1: then bring the bulk of it to work and share

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Speaker 1: with my coworkers. Pretty nice. That's how you get become

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Speaker 1: the office favorite. Office favorite. That's gonna raise you know,

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Speaker 1: you put a little yeast in it. You're raising your bread,

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Speaker 1: and you're raising your bread at work. That's a big dough.

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Speaker 1: Not to toot my horn, but I'm good at bacon.

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Speaker 1: My coworkers are always so grateful and happy when I

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Speaker 1: bring something in. In these instances where I choose to

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Speaker 1: bring things in, I've never asked anybody to pay for

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Speaker 1: anything because I'm sharing with the entire office. Many of

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Speaker 1: my friends and coworkers have asked me to bake them

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Speaker 1: things for themselves or for events that side of work,

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Speaker 1: and I always tell people that I'm happy to bake

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Speaker 1: something just as long as they cover the cost of ingredients.

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Speaker 1: I don't charge my time, labor, or effort. But I

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Speaker 1: see you in the comments, if you see where op

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Speaker 1: is maybe about to get a little wrecked by the office,

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Speaker 1: oh office wreckage. My take on it is very simple.

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Speaker 1: I choose to bring it in for everybody. I'm not

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Speaker 1: concerned at all about getting paid for it. If somebody

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Speaker 1: asked me to make it for them, not for everyone

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Speaker 1: in the office, then it's reasonable to ask them to

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Speaker 1: pay for the cost and ingredients. And I've done this

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Speaker 1: dozens of times. So ope kind of has like a

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Speaker 1: side business as a maker, right. So also I love

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Speaker 1: how they use dozens a baker's a coworker. Yeah, how

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Speaker 1: much is in a baker's dozen? Thirteen? Let's go. So

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Speaker 1: a coworker of mine asked you to bake muffins for

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Speaker 1: her girls only Gallantines Valentine's Day party brunch. That is

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Speaker 1: a mouthful. I told her, sure, what kind? She said,

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Speaker 1: Mini muffins, chocolate ones, and blueberry ones. I tell her, Okay,

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Speaker 1: you can either buy the ingredients and bring them to me,

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Speaker 1: or I can calculate how much it will cost and

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Speaker 1: you can pay me that way. She seemed absolutely stunned. Oh, reluctantly,

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Speaker 1: she said, yes, that's fine. She can believe that I

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Speaker 1: would charge it, though, And it even went so far

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Speaker 1: as to complain to others around the office about me

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Speaker 1: asking to cover the cost ingredients, being like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: she's so cheap. I can't let you do that, no

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Speaker 1: concern for my time, my willingness to do it for

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Speaker 1: her and not make any profit for myself, but so

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Speaker 1: put off because I asked to get this ten US dollars.

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Speaker 1: This was forty total muffins, two different flavors made from scratch,

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Speaker 1: with higher quality and more expensive ingredients like carry gold butter,

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Speaker 1: not the cheap stuff. It tastes so much better and

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Speaker 1: that's what she wanted. So this is the final question.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for asking my coworker to

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Speaker 1: cover the cost of ingredients for her personal bake goods

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Speaker 1: two batches just for her? Or is this person being

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Speaker 1: really entitled to my time and my money. I want

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Speaker 1: to know what y'all think. Put your answers in it

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Speaker 1: comments right now, especially those bakers out there. Oh yeah, John,

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Speaker 1: is op the a hole for saying, hey, like, give

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Speaker 1: me some rock for this this baker's meal?

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Speaker 2: Could I have?

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Speaker 3: Can I have a up?

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Please? Get just ten dollars? That is so insane, Like

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Speaker 1: just think about the uh what it would cost. We

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Speaker 1: are in Los Angeles, Santa Monica, specifically, Sam, if we

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Speaker 1: go get forty hammade cupcakes, what's that gonna cost? Tell me?

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Speaker 1: Probably my left nut and my liver, that's correct. So

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Speaker 1: ten dollars is not a big deal at all. Dollars

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Speaker 1: is not a big deal. And it's so disrespectful to

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Speaker 1: someone who's doing you like that is such a huge

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Speaker 1: favor to do someone favor. It takes time to bake,

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Speaker 1: it takes love, it takes care, and you're just thomping

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Speaker 1: all over that with your big flat duck feet. You know, like,

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Speaker 1: it's not it's not a good move. I think you

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Speaker 1: this is probably the office Karen, though, you know you

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Speaker 1: got You're running into the office. And do you try

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Speaker 1: to acquiesce to the Karen to not like cause the

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Speaker 1: scene and like not have her go crazy, or do

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Speaker 1: you shut her down so that way down? Dude, you

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Speaker 1: don't let Karen be the you know boss, that's true,

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Speaker 1: put her in your place. But what if Karen just

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Speaker 1: starts baking up trouble trouble? Okay, then you say, yes,

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Speaker 1: I'll do it, and then you put laxatives in there. Genius.

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Speaker 1: But let's go to some of the comments. So uh

569
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Speaker 1: from twitch. They are entitled the beck says obviously not

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Speaker 1: the ahole. So much entitlement from the other person. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna pass it over to you for some reading. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's do it for Cassidy, Tim, I've been in this

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Speaker 1: exact situation, act way, wow, Cassidy, not the ahole at all.

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Speaker 1: You're asking someone to make you something, not something that

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Speaker 1: was already made pay the freak up. Absolutely couldn't agree more.

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Speaker 1: Annie Ngo says, no, but the a hole. No, not

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Speaker 1: the a hole. She should she should have put some

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Speaker 1: laxitives in there. What I swar? I did not see that.

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Speaker 1: And but we were cut from the same cloth. Do

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Speaker 1: you do you see the telepathy? And do you see it?

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Speaker 1: Do you see me peering into your brain? You peering

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00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: into my brain? That's pretty crazy. I feel I feel

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Speaker 1: the connection. And finally, Rosebud, not the a whole, and

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Speaker 1: she should start charging for her time that I completely

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Speaker 1: honestly start a side little hustle. Now call it oh

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Speaker 1: P's baked goods. That's terribleness it we'll work on the

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00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 1: brain work will help you. Olivia Koyer asked me calling

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Speaker 1: Riley daddy. Now I've been saying daddy to Riley for years. Yeah,

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00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: new show on daddy, Riley, Okay, daddy, new show going

590
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Speaker 1: to you. And it's just please, it's just videos of Riley.

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Speaker 1: And then uh, Laura Laura Lee from TikTok says, not

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Speaker 1: the a hole she's asking for the bear minimum. I

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Speaker 1: could not agree more, but John, you know what, I

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Speaker 1: could also not agree more with what? I could not

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Speaker 1: agree more with you reading this next story, this, next, this, this,

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Speaker 1: this number eight in our Valentine's Day episode number eight.

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Speaker 1: Let's start it right now. Everybody hit me with some

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Speaker 1: love dump? Whoa Okay? Get ready? Am I the a

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Speaker 1: hole for wanting a Valentine's Day card? Yes? Done? Story?

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Speaker 1: Oh god done? I got to hear it. Let us

601
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Speaker 1: know in the comments. Blow is someone an a hole

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00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 1: for wandering Valentine's Day card? Also? What do you want

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Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day? And you got any special Valentine's Day plans?

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00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 1: The little naughty nellies? That's right? Maybe cuddling up and

605
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:29,480
Speaker 1: watching some okayo peoo, Yeah, that sounds like the best

606
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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day you can ask for? What's right and well?

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Speaker 1: This Valentine's Day special comes from Silver Linings, who says

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Speaker 1: this is a thoroughway account as my partner follows my

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Speaker 1: main account. I twenty two female, ordered to customize Valentine's

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Speaker 1: Day card for my fiance twenty seven mail. Nothing extravagant.

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Speaker 1: It came to less than five five dollars five pounds,

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Speaker 1: even with delivery. I am a very sentimental person, and

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Speaker 1: I see cards with a written message as a small

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Speaker 1: but meaningful gesture and tend to hold onto those quite dearly.

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Speaker 1: I've even still got cards from my sixteenth birthday. I

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Speaker 1: keep all the cards that people give me in a

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Speaker 1: little card box. That is great. I don't John just

618
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: throws them away, He burns them. I tend to throw

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Speaker 1: away a lot of cards, which is maybe bad. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you am I the a hole for throwing away all

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Speaker 1: of my girlfriend's cards in the in the trash. Yes,

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Speaker 1: well tell me guys, Yeah, what do you do with

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Speaker 1: your cards? Do you throw away or do you keep them?

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Speaker 1: I was gonna ask if I'm the hole, yeah, throwing away?

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Speaker 1: John the a hole. Put your answers in the chat.

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Speaker 1: Let us let us know. But the card arrived today

627
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Speaker 1: in an envelope which showed the brain of the company

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Speaker 1: that's quite well known for its custom gifts and cards,

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Speaker 1: to which my partner asked what it was, and I

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Speaker 1: said it was a little Valentine's Day card that I

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Speaker 1: had ordered for him. So far, I just hear love

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Speaker 1: is in the air. At hearing this, his face scrunched

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Speaker 1: up huh, And he made a comment about how he

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Speaker 1: won't be getting me a card because getting someone a

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00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: card three times a year is too much effort in time. Okay,

636
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,280
Speaker 1: man would If anyone has not seen the Orange Peel

637
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 1: video on our channel, you should watch it after this stream.

638
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,720
Speaker 1: But this is giving. I would fail the Orange Peel

639
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 1: test vibes for sure. But babe, you're asking me to

640
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: put in three hundred percent of the effort of the

641
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 1: first card. I don't. I don't got that kind of time, Babe.

642
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: I really don't got time for love. I gotta make money.

643
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: Yeah you think I got. I can't write. I can't

644
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,919
Speaker 1: sit and write a note. I get cramped. I hold

645
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: a pencil like a toddler full of pists. I couldn't.

646
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: I couldn't write. Go between those lines, Babe, I didn't

647
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: know you wanted me to get arthritis. Do you want

648
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 1: these hands? You know what these hands do for you,

649
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: these pleasure hands?

650
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 3: That's right?

651
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: You want them to corrupt and crash and burn. If

652
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: you would everyone to have a big o again, you

653
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 1: better not right. Why we're talking about massage is John, Well,

654
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,760
Speaker 1: let's get back to the story. So after that, Opie

655
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 1: said for reference, I get him a card at Christmas,

656
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 1: uh and for my birthday from him. So oh sorry,

657
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 1: Op gets a card at Christmas and one from uh

658
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 1: boyfriend at the birthday. So that's two. So card number

659
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 1: three is just too much. We are waiting, where does

660
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 1: it endure? It's a slippery card slope. Exactly before you

661
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: know it, the communists are winning. This house of cards

662
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: is about to fall over. We started bickering over it,

663
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: and I tried to explain that I'd rather a cheap

664
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 1: or handmade card with a message on it than going

665
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: out for a date and having him spend his money

666
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 1: to cover the bill. It's a thought that counts. It's

667
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 1: a thought. The count Serah thinks she wasn't even asking

668
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 1: for a card. He like he was about to receive

669
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 1: a card. It's like, you think I'm gonna get you

670
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: a card, babe? What do you think this is? What

671
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: are you talking? What do you think this is? I

672
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: can't I can't do three hundred ever since I got

673
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 1: an F of my report card in fourth grade. I

674
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: hate cards. I want to start everyone that I see.

675
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: You're triggering my trauma. Trauma. Do you want me to

676
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 1: go back to therapy? Probably yeah you should. Oh goodness, yeah, yeah,

677
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: this guy does need to go to therapy. We bickered

678
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: over a bit, and I tried to explain I already

679
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 1: said that, and that him saying that he'd rather go

680
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 1: out than make what I think is a small amount

681
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: of effort to get and write a card kind of

682
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: feels like he'd rather just throw money at the problem

683
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: instead of doing something sentimental. He's he's now calling me.

684
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,760
Speaker 1: He's now calling me demanding and ungrateful and God annoyed

685
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 1: at me as I started getting emotional and crying, this

686
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 1: is this, guys, This guy is John John. Yes, here

687
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 1: we go bring something out right here, because you know

688
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, red flag, right, I think this is

689
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: a yeah, read John's sweater. Also, if you want to

690
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: support our it's the last day of our drop, get

691
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 1: a red flag hoodie. But I think this is definitely

692
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 1: an issue with the relationship. The relationship. If he's not

693
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,280
Speaker 1: putting an effort, or doesn't want to put an effort

694
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: to make you feel loved, then that is a huge

695
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,919
Speaker 1: red flag. And I think you're seeing it right now.

696
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 1: So take the warning, take the red flag, and run

697
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: run as far away as you can and never return

698
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:23,479
Speaker 1: and never return. But Opie says I told him that

699
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 1: he had really upset me, and all he said back

700
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: is that I upset him by getting him a Valentine's

701
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 1: more than I think of you. Oh my god, I'm

702
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 1: in a bit of a loss here as for what

703
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to do and if I was in the

704
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: wrong for pushing him on this. He hasn't booked anything

705
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day, nor had he even mentioned wanting to

706
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: go out, which is why I thought that a small

707
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: card would be a nice gesture. I wouldn't even have

708
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: minded if he didn't get one for me. It's more

709
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: the comment he made about it being quote unquote too

710
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 1: much effort. Am I the a hole here? Uh no?

711
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:09,439
Speaker 1: Uh not no no. And also, like I think these

712
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: stories in particular, it make me so sad because this

713
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 1: sounds like a relationship where she's just asking for the

714
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:21,919
Speaker 1: bare minimum, just the asking for anything. She's not She's

715
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: not even asking for anything, and her whole reality has

716
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,439
Speaker 1: been so distorted that she now feels bad for being

717
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: thoughtful like that is tragic. And I think like one

718
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: of the great things about like Reddit, when people go

719
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:39,439
Speaker 1: on and and type these stories is I think for

720
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 1: the first time, possibly they are realizing how taken advantage

721
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 1: of they were and how much they've warped their reality

722
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 1: around this person. And sometimes it takes like a bunch

723
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 1: of people on Reddit or two guys on the okop

724
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: podcast to maybe make you realize you deserve better. That's right, Yeah, queen, queen, listen,

725
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: you deserve so much better. You deserve someone who's giving

726
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: you a Valentine's Day card handwritten every day. Yeah, that's

727
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: soaked in live. Yeah, yeah, I guess. Yeah, dude, blood oath,

728
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: why not the beating heart? Yeah, of love is just

729
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:23,720
Speaker 1: gushing out. You gotta do. Why did I get him started?

730
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 1: I knew, I knew. That's my favorite, my favorite, my favorite. Yeah, divorce, devorse, devorse.

731
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 1: Mahala told uh you definitely, you definitely got it right.

732
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: Let's I think we should go to some of the comments. Yeah,

733
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 1: very true. And shout out to Mahala also for being

734
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:42,439
Speaker 1: a member of uh okayam the okay fam on our YouTube. Yeah. Yeah,

735
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: if you want to see this live stream or actually

736
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Speaker 1: I think this live she will go live to everyone.

737
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 1: But if you want to see past live stream, every

738
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Speaker 1: Tuesday after they're done. Be a member on YouTube and

739
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Speaker 1: you can get access to all of these juicy live

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Speaker 1: stream these uncut, raw, little little shows that we do

741
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 1: for our members. But don't worry if you don't like,

742
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 1: there'll be a released live But you want to be

743
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Speaker 1: a real one, get a few weeks early, Get a

744
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: few weeks early. Yeah, no, support your boys. Go to

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Speaker 1: our you tube become a member. But let's see what

746
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: we got in the comments here. Yes, Olivia Claire says, literally,

747
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 1: get a piece of paper and make a card. Yeah,

748
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 1: like go to your printer and just fall. Yeah, it

749
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 1: doesn't just like that's the bear Bear. I mean, if

750
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 1: you really want to go hand, go to Papyrus or

751
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: something like the bear fucking I could see the boyfriend

752
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: being like he was like, goes to the printer, he

753
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 1: folds it and he puts like heart you here you go,

754
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 1: faithe and he's like, I really worked on this one, babe.

755
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: This was a tough one, but I do it for you.

756
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 1: I pulled through. I pulled through. But Pinky the Slayer

757
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: on Twitch says, there's so many other ways other than

758
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day to show that you love someone. He really

759
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,760
Speaker 1: did fail the orange peel test to what Sam was saying.

760
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: But still there are so many other ways to do it.

761
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 1: Molly Thornston says, we frow is that true on YouTube?

762
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 1: Are we still there? Hopefully we're still there? See us

763
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 1: and Mahala tol you are amazing. Thank you? Yeah, and Riley,

764
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: we have all of like the little things on things

765
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 1: that gonna text you about good, perfect, very nice, amazing.

766
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: You're the best, Riley? Okay, but you know what else

767
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: is the best? What this next story? This next story

768
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 1: to read? So, Daniel Peifford, thank you for telling me

769
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: it's h it's fine. So am I the a hole

770
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: for not distancing myself from my best friend to appease

771
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 1: his girlfriend and causing them to argue This comes from

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Speaker 1: sufficient Young eighteen forty nine, John, what do you think? So?

773
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 1: Basically girlfriends like get rid of your best friend? What's

774
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: the best friend situation? Is the best friend going in

775
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 1: and being like like I want you baby? Is the

776
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,359
Speaker 1: best friend? Like? Yo, what's up? Homie? I don't know.

777
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: There's only one way to find out. Let's get it.

778
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:58,800
Speaker 1: Spill that to you. No, I'm just kidding. I told

779
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: you I've nineteen male have always been close to my

780
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: best friend, quote unquote Ryan nineteen male. Since like kindergarten,

781
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 1: that's a while, that's a long time. It's the equivalent

782
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 1: of a Christian. A Christian is my childhood best friend.

783
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 1: I've always just been one of the guys to him.

784
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 1: And even when I was outed in eighth grade in

785
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: our little po dunk town and some of our friends

786
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: dropped me, he never treated me different. So for clarity,

787
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 1: is would Op even be attracted to the friend? I

788
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 1: don't know, pretty sure, maybe Op is by potentially right.

789
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: We still had sleepovers, slept in the same bed, roughhoused, wrestled,

790
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 1: hung out. Oddly enough, he was my first kiss because

791
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 1: ninth grade year Valentine's Day, I was complaining about never

792
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: having kissed someone because I was the only out kid.

793
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: Then he just kissed me to shut me up. But

794
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: we're like brothers and that was totally platonic. That is

795
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: actually it's almost adorable thing. Bro move Ever, Yeah, I won't.

796
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 1: I have an okay story time about this, Yep, at

797
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: the at the end, boo, I'll tell you at the end. Okay.

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00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: We moved in together for college, and before long he

799
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: started dating this girl, Jessica twenty female, and I found

800
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: my own boyfriend Taylor twenty one male. Okay, so OPI

801
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: is in a relationship with Taylor twenty one male, and

802
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:29,720
Speaker 1: Op's friend is a child restaurant is dating Jessica twenty female. Doda.

803
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: Jessica was really cool at first, but over time she

804
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 1: seems to have gotten jealous of me because me and

805
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 1: Ryan spend a lot of time together and we still

806
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 1: hang out the same way as we did as we

807
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 1: were kids. She started making snide remarks to me all

808
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 1: the time. Ryan's out the smartest so he didn't catch

809
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: a lot of it thing or getting upset every time

810
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: we hung out, which is a lot. About two weeks ago,

811
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 1: she basically came up to me at a party alone

812
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: and accused me of having an affair with Ryan, asking

813
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: me if he was just closeted. I assured he was straight.

814
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 1: She then accused me of being a creepy stalker gay

815
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: and I need to back off and let him be

816
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 1: with her. I told her I'm not trying to stop

817
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: him from being with her, but she told me to

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00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 1: back off again. Okay, pause, pause pause, What would you

819
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: do guy? What would you do in the situation? Chat

820
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: like like put your answers in the comments, But John,

821
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: what would you do? I would be like, listen, like

822
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: if you this is this is your insecurity, right, I

823
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:34,359
Speaker 1: guess because because correct me if I'm wrong, OP could

824
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: be attracted to uh the friend. The friend is not

825
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: attracted to OP. Op is gay, Opie's friend is straight straight,

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Speaker 1: and uh, I guess they had they shared one kiss.

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Speaker 1: What's kind of like a bro helping out a bro

828
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: kind of deal. But as as we as we know

829
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: of the relationship, with the context we have, it does

830
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 1: not seem like there is any necessary jealousy that should happen. Really, yeah,

831
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: and shit, and you should have gone to your to

832
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:06,919
Speaker 1: your boyfriend first and been like, hey, this might sound crazy,

833
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: but I exactly just I just you know, I have

834
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Speaker 1: I have this fear feeling and security whatever here it is.

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Speaker 1: And I think that like you wouldn't. It's it's really

836
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 1: tacky to go to the other person not your partner first.

837
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:22,399
Speaker 1: I hate I hate when, like you know, those there's

838
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: videos of like people exposing cheating and they start like

839
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: attacking the person who is cheating. It's like no, no,

840
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: no attack, like your your partner, Yes, hit your partner

841
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: and we're lying. I'm kidding. I'm kidding, I'm kidding. You

842
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yeah, I know, I know what

843
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: joints all right, but let's get back. But before we do,

844
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 1: Danielle Fiver says, I love spill that tea. Uh, we're

845
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 1: not going to bring it back for all the people

846
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: that hate it. But I just like you know, poking,

847
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: poking them bear every once in a while. Danielle Fiver says, not,

848
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: you don't want that negative smoke. Nicole Stewart says, as Ope,

849
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: I might back off off a bit, like they still

850
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: do sleepovers in the same bed. I don't know if

851
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 1: they still do sleepovers in the same bed, but I

852
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,879
Speaker 1: could see that being potentially worrisome. Then they can slack off,

853
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 1: but I don't think it should be a hinder on

854
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 1: the friendship whatsoever. Christine Cherry says, the girl sounds jealous

855
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: of the friend exactly. I think so too. And then

856
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: over on TikTok, Mama Goblin, I'm so glad I woke

857
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 1: up on time. I'm glad you're here, Mama Goblin. Yes,

858
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: but you know what I'm also glad about. We're gonna

859
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:30,959
Speaker 1: get back into the story, so do it. I told

860
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: Taylor about it, and he thinks maybe it's okay if

861
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 1: I pulled back from my friendship with Ryan. So this

862
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 1: is ope talking with his boyfriend. Some just get hurt

863
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: to relax, just basically pull back for a little bit,

864
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: just to get her to relax, Right, But I told

865
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 1: him that wouldn't be for to Ryan, especially without him

866
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 1: knowing why. I wouldn't just leave my best friend like that,

867
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: because then Ryan might be like, oh, is something wrong? Yeah, exactly,

868
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:58,919
Speaker 1: So I promptly ignored her warning and just went back

869
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: to the usual with Ryan. All right, question for John

870
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 1: in question for the chat, would you talk to Ryan

871
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: about this? Yeah, because like it's not only involving you,

872
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: but it's kind of like, hey, you know, she's thrown

873
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: out these accusations. And then again, if they're both innocent,

874
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: they both know that, right, and it's like, Yo, we

875
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 1: know we're both innocent, and just this behavior maybe could

876
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,839
Speaker 1: leak into other Yeah, and maybe there's just a couple

877
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: things that need to change for the partner to be

878
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:32,479
Speaker 1: more secure, or maybe maybe it's just a conversation Ryan

879
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: needs to have with his partner. I yeah, it seems

880
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:38,280
Speaker 1: most likely. Yeah, maybe they just need some reassurance or something.

881
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 1: Who knows. But Riley's pointing at this comment, nail me

882
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 1: down says, what would you do as the friend or

883
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: the boyfriend? As as the boyfriend? She's got to go,

884
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 1: So what would you do as as the friend? So

885
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 1: what would you do as a friend of the boyfriend? Yeah,

886
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:03,879
Speaker 1: I think I think you go and tell him. Well,

887
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: I mean so I guess that that's Ryan the friend

888
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: of the boyfriend, right, yeah? Or is yeah? But I

889
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 1: mean I would just have a conversation, a conversation. And

890
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:14,400
Speaker 1: I mean, but like Ryan doesn't know anything, so he

891
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 1: can't really do anything. What can he do? But let's

892
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 1: Nicole Stewart says, I would, So let's get into what

893
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,799
Speaker 1: actually happened. So over the weekend, we had made a

894
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: palette on the living floor and full asleep rewatching the

895
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: Star Wars movies like when we were kids. That's huge,

896
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: I have a special relationship. I woke up to Jessica

897
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: glaring at me. Ryan was still asleep, so I went

898
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 1: outside with her to ask her what the problem was.

899
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 1: She starts going on about how I'm still making moves

900
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: on her boyfriend, and I guess Ryan woke up and

901
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: heard us outside. He asked what was going on and

902
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: she said, nothing, just a bad night at work. Me,

903
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: who's had enough of her, decided to be messy and

904
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 1: explained what was actually going on, which I'm not mad about. Yeah,

905
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 1: I mean, like cause the both fell asleep in the

906
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 1: same bed and then the girlfriend comes in, right, Yeah,

907
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: I totally get the girl for me, Like, hey, what

908
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: the heck? I mean you're falling asleep in the same bed.

909
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: I would I feel like that. That's it. It's definitely

910
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 1: diceier territory for sure. But I fall asleep on Christian's

911
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 1: shoulder all the time. That's true. That's true. But the girlfriend,

912
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 1: she might not know what the vibes are. Yeah, she

913
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:27,319
Speaker 1: needs she just check in with her. But I can

914
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 1: understand her being maybe a little uncomfortable. Yeah, for sure,

915
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:33,439
Speaker 1: but unwarranted. It's mainly based in security. Of course. Ryan

916
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 1: got mad and started a whole argument about how he'd

917
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: spend time with whoever he wanted and her and she

918
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 1: does not get to decide who his friends are, etcetera, etcetera.

919
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: Taylor thinks I should have followed Jessica's lead and played

920
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:48,320
Speaker 1: it cool, and that I was messy for no reason.

921
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: So am I the a hole? Put your answers in

922
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 1: the chat right now? I want to know what y'all think.

923
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 1: But John is, oh P the a hole? I don't

924
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 1: think so, primarily because op knows they're innocent, right yeah, yeah,

925
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: unless they're not and they're just trying to throw the

926
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 1: heat off their own bag. It doesn't see I mean

927
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: they're both in relationships. Yeah, and like Ryan is straight.

928
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't see it unless there's some

929
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:23,400
Speaker 1: secrets that we don't know about. But I think it

930
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 1: deserves a conversation because I can imagine as like a

931
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 1: partner being a little insecure about total and like maybe

932
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 1: that insecurity is totally invalid. But if you want, if

933
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 1: you want to preserve the relationship, a conversation is necessary.

934
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: Just talk to them, reassure them. Like I think it's

935
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: totally fine to ask and have a conversation, like definitely, yeah, definitely.

936
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:49,359
Speaker 1: I think like the least messy thing to do would

937
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: have been to talk to Ryan directly. It's a slightly

938
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 1: messier to say in front of her, but she kind

939
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: of poked at it first, like she was the one

940
00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 1: who brought it out. Yeah, so I I it's a

941
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 1: little tricky. It's a little tricky, but overall, I would

942
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 1: say not the a hole cut Butter says the girl

943
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 1: is a red flag. Kim Kwant says, not for just

944
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: continuing their friendship, but op needs to have a conversation

945
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:16,359
Speaker 1: with Ryan. Completely agree. Pinky Doss Slayer says, facts, I

946
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: think Ryan maybe by because of the kiss thing. She

947
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:24,799
Speaker 1: has issues. Could Ryan be by? I mean impossible. Of course,

948
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 1: sexuality is a spectrum, that's all right, maybe maybe a

949
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 1: little bit fluid like their fluids. So I hit some

950
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: comments on TikTok, let's do it. So. Marie Pierre says,

951
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: I think Opie should have just talked to Jessica first

952
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: to understand her point of view. If she still insisted

953
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,319
Speaker 1: on Ope and his friend to have distance, Opie then

954
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: should have talked to Ryan to explain the situation, which

955
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 1: is not a bad idea because again, so the girlfriend

956
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: came kind of like Jessica came initiated everything. So it's like,

957
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: all right, you're the one starting all this. Let me

958
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 1: talk with you first, let me sit down, let me

959
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: really let me just literally try to hear you out.

960
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 1: See if we can both come to each other come

961
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:02,360
Speaker 1: to an understanding. If we can't come to an understanding,

962
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: then I might have to go to Ryan, because like

963
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 1: I already tried here, I might have to go over

964
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 1: here a good point at this point, that's a good point.

965
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,400
Speaker 1: I mean, if you could squash the beef, yeah, but

966
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,399
Speaker 1: it is a good beef. It's like it's a hard

967
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 1: beef to squash, that is true to squash. But I

968
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: think if you go about that, then it's an easier

969
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: beef that is true. And you know, Becky with an

970
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: eye on TikTok says, even if he is by, that

971
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that he is cheating, right of course. So

972
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, so it's like even if he is by,

973
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: maybe they you know again, the two of them were

974
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: were assuming, but like they're both like, hey, we're innocent,

975
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 1: So like what's going on here? Yeah? What a what

976
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: a rock in a tough place to be in. And

977
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,360
Speaker 1: then Christina Cherry says, I want to have a conversation

978
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:45,840
Speaker 1: with him. If he didn't understand what I said, uh

979
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: being my friend, then I would have just walked away

980
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 1: because I knew that he was a true friend. So

981
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:57,879
Speaker 1: basically is that basically saying I would have talked to him.

982
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 1: I'm a little confused by that. Maybe a little confused too. Yeah, clarify.

983
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:03,879
Speaker 1: But you know what, I also want you to clarify, John,

984
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 1: what I want you to clarify on this next story

985
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 1: that we're about to read. We're doing the Valentine's Day Special,

986
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 1: the craziest relationship in Valentine's Day based love stories on

987
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: the Internet. I think we're at number seven six, but

988
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 1: John hit it us. I just got a message from

989
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: my high school crush coming from Drive on Acid. Wouldn't

990
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: suggest that, but that's a funny user name. I am

991
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 1: forty two years old. I graduated from high school in

992
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:39,879
Speaker 1: nineteen ninety eight. I had a thing for this guy

993
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 1: over twenty five years ago. Actually it was more than

994
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:46,399
Speaker 1: just a thing. I was head over heels for him.

995
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: He had the most beautiful blue eyes. He was one

996
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: of the cool guys. He had his own apartment and

997
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 1: convertible and a pager. Oh a pager, Let's go. He

998
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: smelled like a combination of polo sport, winter green gum

999
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: and cigarettes. Dude, the best combo. He listened to Dave

1000
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:10,399
Speaker 1: Matthews band and worked at foot Locker. Dude. This man

1001
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 1: mail he has it all. The last time I spoke

1002
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 1: to him was like two thousand and seven. I had

1003
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 1: no idea why he contacted me today. Like I said,

1004
00:55:21,200 --> 00:55:24,479
Speaker 1: I graduated from high school over twenty five years ago.

1005
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 1: Maybe he has dated all the women in our hometown

1006
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: and is now trying to reach out to those of

1007
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 1: us who have moved away. I have no idea why

1008
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 1: I'm posting this. I just really needed to share this

1009
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 1: weird information with people who might understand. It's just so

1010
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 1: friggin weird. I would have given anything for him to

1011
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: contact me out of the blue when I was in

1012
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:48,399
Speaker 1: my twenties, but now in my forties, the last thing

1013
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:51,399
Speaker 1: I want to do is date. At least I don't

1014
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: want to date him. What he has a convertible? He

1015
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 1: works at foot locker. Still, dude, he's got it locked in.

1016
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:04,799
Speaker 1: He say he's a size fourteen. Oh goodness, gracious, he's.

1017
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: He still has that special honor of being someone who

1018
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,400
Speaker 1: I will always think is perfect because of the person

1019
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:13,720
Speaker 1: I believe him to be is the person I created

1020
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: in my head when I was fifteen. She still kind

1021
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 1: of sees the rose, the the creases on his uh,

1022
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: you know, Polo, the quaff the quafft hair, the fresh kicks,

1023
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 1: the cigarette cough, Oh, the cigarette cough, the lung cancer. Classy, dude, Great,

1024
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:38,759
Speaker 1: we'll see if I decided to go meet up with him.

1025
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: I will let you all know if that happens or not.

1026
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: And we do have an update. But let's take a

1027
00:56:46,280 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: pause right here. First of all, do we think that

1028
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,319
Speaker 1: they will meet up? Well, dude, I have to believe it,

1029
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 1: because there's a there's an update. There's an update. I mean,

1030
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:58,360
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have a juicy update if you didn't didn't

1031
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 1: have some juicy juice. But what if the juicy update

1032
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 1: was I ran into his dad and he's a silver

1033
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 1: Fox and I just had to marry him right on

1034
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:07,759
Speaker 1: the spot, And that would be a juicy update that

1035
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 1: I would be excited to see. But I think I

1036
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 1: think they're going to get together. There's something about like

1037
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: old Facebook contacts that just is a little the sparks fly.

1038
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 1: Facebook has Facebook date now they do people are making

1039
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 1: love of not making love making I don't know. I

1040
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: think they are making love. Probably are making love everywhere.

1041
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 1: I think. I think that's a weird, kinky place that

1042
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:34,439
Speaker 1: is true. Us see what kinky place these two ticket

1043
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 1: to exactly. So first line of the update. I just

1044
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: got off a video call with him. Time has been

1045
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 1: much nicer to me. Oh no, it's the cigarettes catching

1046
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 1: up with him, that is true. And it goes on.

1047
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: I got a call from the high school crush about

1048
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 1: two months ago, and I made a post that got

1049
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: thecent traction. Obviously, I feel that you all need a

1050
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: full update. Yes, I want to give you a more

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00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: complete picture of how massive of a Crushus was before

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00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: he began. I first saw him when I was in

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00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 1: seventh grade and he was in ninth grade. That was

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00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 1: nineteen ninety four. After about an hour, I was head

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00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 1: over heels yep. My first year of high school. I

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00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 1: figured out where he would be and made it a

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00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: point to walk past him as often as possible, which

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00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 1: is the most like high school thing to do. Maybe

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00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: he'll notice me. Oh my goodness, he did, Obviously he did.

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00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:31,439
Speaker 1: He did. Took it just took a little time. Yeah,

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00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: just you know, a little You made an impression out,

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00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: but he'd never forget that, exactly. It just took thirty

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00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: years to make impression, yeah, eight, which that means it

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00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 1: was a solid impression. That's right. In tenth grade. We

1065
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: had two classes together. Somehow we became friends, probably because

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00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 1: I was q a f and he was a charming flirt.

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00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: We sort of stayed in touch after he graduated, but

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00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 1: I was more than happy to just leave him on

1069
00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 1: that pedestal that I had put him on in high school.

1070
00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 1: Never meet your heroes, never never date years date your crushes,

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00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: especially after thirty or thirty years. I think there is

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00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 1: expiration date on dating your crushes. And I say seven years,

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00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 1: seven years, then you can't date your crush. We are

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00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: packing Sam's Golden U Sam's Golden Rules. Yeah, we got

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00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 1: we got another one which I will not repeat. Well,

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00:59:19,320 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: actually no, I can't repeat that one. Don't invite anyone

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00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: that made you orgasm to your wedding. That's right, That's right. Guys.

1078
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: Can you drop your relationship gold rules in the chat

1079
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 1: down below. We want to see how you approach these relationships. Okay,

1080
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 1: we're gonna look at it in a minute. After his message,

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00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 1: I called him that evening. We talked a bit more

1082
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 1: than got off the phone. I asked him why he

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00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 1: contacted me, and he said he saw that I had

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00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: made a post on Facebook and just thought about getting

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00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:45,959
Speaker 1: in touch Okay, fine, I'll accept that. For a couple

1086
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 1: of weeks after that first phone call, fifteen year old

1087
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 1: me was absolutely in control. I felt like a teenager again,

1088
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 1: and it was awesome. We live in youth. Now here's

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00:59:57,800 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 1: where things get really interesting. After a few days of

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01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: texting occasionally, it got to the point of us talking

1091
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:07,280
Speaker 1: on the phone every day after I got home from work. Wow,

1092
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 1: that's pretty crazy. By the way, I am a teacher,

1093
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: So I talk to my high school crush every day

1094
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:18,640
Speaker 1: after school. Wow, she's reliving the dream. Oh my god,

1095
01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 1: that is funny. I find that hilarious. Then he told

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01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 1: me that he really looks forward to talking to me

1097
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 1: every day. So I started texting him good morning every morning,

1098
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: good morning, text let's go, and he started texting back.

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01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 1: We text every morning while I'm getting ready for work,

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01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 1: usually right up until my first class starts. This has

1101
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: been going on for weeks. We tried to get together

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01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 1: a couple of times over the past two months, but

1103
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:48,440
Speaker 1: with the holidays, we've both been really busy, which brings

1104
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: us to tomorrow. He's coming down to my house. Okay, okay,

1105
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: I think can we can? We can? We can? I

1106
01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 1: put on a conspiracy half. Lets put on a conspiracy halllliyes,

1107
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, just let just know I'm totally stealing this

1108
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:06,919
Speaker 1: from someone in the comments. I forgot who shout out

1109
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 1: if this was what you were thinking too? He's married?

1110
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 1: Oh I think he's married. Midlife crisis married dude, you're

1111
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:22,120
Speaker 1: so right, right right, Wow, that's what I think. I

1112
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: don't know, but I see you in the comments if

1113
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: you think he's married too. Camille's Lee, I think it

1114
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: was you. Oh for a second, I thought you said

1115
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:35,000
Speaker 1: it was Camille Lee. She's opm like what oh, man,

1116
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 1: I just got started. It would be crazy. That's true,

1117
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 1: real quick before we get back in. Marie Pierre from

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01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:42,160
Speaker 1: Facebook chafter golden rule. My golden rule is to always

1119
01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 1: be honest and communicate about everything I have been. If

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01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 1: you could screw up a little bit for me, thank you.

1121
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 1: I have been with my fiance for almost fourteen years

1122
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 1: and people ask what our secret is, and I always say,

1123
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:57,000
Speaker 1: this relationship. Marie, tell your man to put a ring

1124
01:01:57,080 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 1: on him. Congradus an act like, that's a really solid

1125
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 1: golden rule. That's a real golden rule. Yeah, that's that's Yeah,

1126
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:07,000
Speaker 1: that's a real golden rule. That should be shared and

1127
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 1: cherished forever. Also slight fun. In fact, my uncle was

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01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 1: also engaged for like twelve years so got married to

1129
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 1: like fifty five or something like that. Oh really yeah,

1130
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 1: held it down, dude, let's go held it down. Well,

1131
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:22,439
Speaker 1: let's get back to reality and read the updates after

1132
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 1: his message. Uh do you do? I am a little

1133
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 1: bit uh head, John is a little bit ahead, but

1134
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: he's getting back to where he needs to be right. No,

1135
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:37,400
Speaker 1: or I'm gonna read some you shout out so mahala tole,

1136
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: says Sarah. No Marty that aslexic says, don't forget to

1137
01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 1: give this a thumbs up in the chat. Uh one?

1138
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 1: And also, just so you guys know, we are planning

1139
01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 1: on streaming for only two hours. We're like an hour in,

1140
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: but we John and I have made agreement. If we

1141
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 1: get one hundred dollars on donations, we will stream for

1142
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 1: another hour. I think like an Encore. No pressure though,

1143
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:05,840
Speaker 1: no pressure, I mean another a third hour is a lot,

1144
01:03:05,880 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 1: but we will do it for you guys, if you

1145
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 1: really want it, that's right. So hey, if you love

1146
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 1: your boys, just throw some donations into chat help support

1147
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:16,800
Speaker 1: the show. That's right, But without further ado, I'll pass

1148
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 1: it off to you. This brings us to tomorrow. He's

1149
01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 1: coming down to my house. Now. I normally wouldn't invite

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01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:25,800
Speaker 1: a first date to my house, but I'm making an

1151
01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 1: exception here, mainly because I've still got quite a bit

1152
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: of baking to do before Christmas and I really don't

1153
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 1: want to go out. We're going to order a pizza

1154
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 1: and watch some movies. Oh that's that's like almost a

1155
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 1: Netflix and chill. That's also again a high school date.

1156
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:45,439
Speaker 1: It is so a high school date. They should watch

1157
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 1: like eighties movies in nineties movies, just to really cement

1158
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 1: it from the biggest movie from the year they graduated.

1159
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:55,800
Speaker 1: Oh dude, so sentiment. I really want to thank all

1160
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: of you who have commented on my previous post about

1161
01:03:58,120 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 1: how they had met up with someone from their youth

1162
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 1: when they were older and met their husband. I always

1163
01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 1: figured that was just a trope a Hallmark movies. I

1164
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: honestly feel like I'm living in one of those right now,

1165
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 1: and it's kind of awesome. Another quick update, it's now Sunday.

1166
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 1: The high school. The high school crush came down to

1167
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:18,720
Speaker 1: my house on Friday. Oh my goodness, we're heating up.

1168
01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:21,680
Speaker 1: And also, Sarah Betoff, thank you for the five dollars donation.

1169
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: We got five dollars towards one hundred dollars goal. For

1170
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:27,960
Speaker 1: three hours. That's gonna be a long time. For hours,

1171
01:04:28,000 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 1: three hours, three hours. Okay, where was I? Okay, so

1172
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 1: and he spent the night at my house. Oh so

1173
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:42,400
Speaker 1: they hooked. They hooked probably. Okay. I'm planning on making

1174
01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:45,320
Speaker 1: a longer post soon because I know you all are

1175
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 1: incredibly interested. Yes we are, ope, but I'm visiting family

1176
01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 1: for the holidays. You're gonna have to wait until Thursday

1177
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 1: for my update. But I can tell you it's all really,

1178
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:56,520
Speaker 1: really good. And the good news is we don't gotta

1179
01:04:56,560 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: wait till Thursday because we haven't tonight here Okay, Amazon

1180
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 1: Prime delivered straight to your door. That's right straight to

1181
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 1: your ear holes, straight to your holes, straight to all

1182
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: your holes, and let's deliver it now, deliver it now,

1183
01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: a special delivery Baggey seven John, So I still did

1184
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:17,920
Speaker 1: it up quick refresher. I got a message a few

1185
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 1: months ago from a guy that had a massive crush

1186
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:23,919
Speaker 1: on through my junior and senior year and maybe into

1187
01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:26,320
Speaker 1: my twenties. We got together shortly before Christmas, and we

1188
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: spent New Year's Eve together. That's good to know. Wow,

1189
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:32,000
Speaker 1: they're really spending a lot of time. So they're texting

1190
01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:34,360
Speaker 1: all the time, and they're spending time together exactly and

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01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 1: New Year's that's a big one. It feels like they

1192
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 1: have connection. It feels like they have a connect. It

1193
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 1: feels like real. It seems like it's going past the

1194
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 1: high school crush phase that I don't know, maybe potentially,

1195
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:46,320
Speaker 1: it seems seems like that's where OPI wants it to go.

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01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:47,920
Speaker 1: All right, Well, le's see where it actually goes. I

1197
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 1: haven't been with anybody other than mister right now for

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01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:55,200
Speaker 1: the past seven years, since my fiance passed away. Oh

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01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: my goodness. Oh no, he has been single. He has

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01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 1: been single since a very MESSI breakup with his ex

1201
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 1: five years ago. Or we are both out of practice

1202
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 1: with this dating thing. We've also both spent a lot

1203
01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 1: of time and energy on introspection in those years. I

1204
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 1: know that I am in a very healthy place to

1205
01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:15,560
Speaker 1: start dating again, and I believe he is as well.

1206
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, this turned tragic. Yeah, honestly, kind of

1207
01:06:19,560 --> 01:06:21,720
Speaker 1: cute because they're coming back from it. It's like like

1208
01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 1: a bit of a consolation prize. And another consolation prize

1209
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 1: is Mahala Tol who's already a YouTube member, throwing five

1210
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 1: dollars in the chat. Thank you? What is it? Sheba

1211
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: dog writing with a brush? Writing number one on a

1212
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 1: piece of paper? You know? Is that what we should do?

1213
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:44,360
Speaker 1: We knew it and have them right number one? I

1214
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 1: love that idea, but thank you so much. We're ten

1215
01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 1: percent to the goal. We may we may be streaming

1216
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 1: for you. That's right, three hours see op. He goes

1217
01:06:53,680 --> 01:06:55,880
Speaker 1: on to say, we had a couple of conversations about

1218
01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 1: topics that we both probably lied about and hidden in

1219
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 1: the past from other partners. Instead of doing that on Saturday,

1220
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 1: I addressed the topic that I knew was a concern

1221
01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: of his directly with him. I was honest and opened.

1222
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:13,000
Speaker 1: The topic was addressed and we moved on. Okay. So

1223
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:15,400
Speaker 1: it seems like it was the topic of what their

1224
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 1: past relationships, sir, I guess, I guess. So yeah, like

1225
01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 1: being basically being ready to be open again, like after

1226
01:07:22,320 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: your partner passes away. I can I conclude you, Offen,

1227
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 1: that's love pretty big, honestly, this is the Valentinian stay special.

1228
01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 1: So we're warm up, that is, we're a little fire

1229
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 1: was nice and toasting. Then this afternoon he did the

1230
01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: same for me, and I even said, look at us.

1231
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 1: Healthy communication. We're so grown up again, we're both in

1232
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 1: our forties. We laughed about it, but then we agreed

1233
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:47,640
Speaker 1: that poor communication has been an issue in past relationships.

1234
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:52,240
Speaker 1: There have been a couple other instances where we have

1235
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 1: communicated really openly and honestly, and oh my god, it

1236
01:07:56,680 --> 01:08:01,520
Speaker 1: is so sexy. Honest communication is probably the biggest turn

1237
01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:03,880
Speaker 1: on that you could have. That is so true, almost

1238
01:08:03,880 --> 01:08:06,280
Speaker 1: as big as a turn on. It's the cozy crafter

1239
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 1: donating three dollars and ninety nine cents Canadian let's go

1240
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:13,120
Speaker 1: fifteen percent to our goal. Pair character with lovey dovey eyes,

1241
01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 1: blowing red hearts in the air. Oh, I think this

1242
01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 1: is like emoticons. Ah, Like, it's like such older people. Wow,

1243
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:29,720
Speaker 1: excuse me? Are you calling us old? Right? No? Well,

1244
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:32,559
Speaker 1: it's like you guys didn't know what emojis were. For

1245
01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:35,600
Speaker 1: a second. We're reading the text. We don't we don't know,

1246
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:37,200
Speaker 1: but you know what I do want to know about?

1247
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:39,639
Speaker 1: What with this update to this story? Yeah, and everyone

1248
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 1: guess how old Riley is in the chat and say

1249
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 1: it old number. Yeah, yeah, shollow made me feel more mature.

1250
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 1: That's not gonna help get your swipe away. There we go.

1251
01:08:50,640 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: For those of you who are looking for the juicy,

1252
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 1: salacious details, I'm so sorry. I really don't have anything

1253
01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 1: for you yet. We are taking it slow. That doesn't

1254
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:02,040
Speaker 1: mean that I don't want to climb him like a tree.

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01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. We've had a couple of good make up sessions,

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01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,719
Speaker 1: a little bit of under the close action. Oh my goodness,

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01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 1: oh dear, scandalous. It's funny. I feel like we're moving

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01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 1: at teenager speeds, and I'm okay with that. I have

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01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 1: the intention of having him in my life for a

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01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:24,719
Speaker 1: long time, and we will have plenty of time. Oh goodness, creations, graciousnacious.

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01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:28,320
Speaker 1: I'm still nuts about him. I've absolutely told him the

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01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 1: extent of my crush. I even played the song that

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01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 1: was his song when I was fifteen years old. It

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01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:36,040
Speaker 1: was a very vulnerable moment, and I still smile when

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01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 1: he texts and calls, like you know, when I just

1266
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 1: got off the phone with him. However, I have been

1267
01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 1: actively trying to separate the actual person he is from

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01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 1: the perfect man I created my head when I was

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01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:47,679
Speaker 1: a teenager. Yeah, it's kind of hard because he keeps

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01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 1: getting everything right and I'm really really happy and that

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01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:54,680
Speaker 1: is really really the end of the star. It sounds

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01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 1: like they're kind of perfect. Yeah, But Gustavo had something

1273
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 1: really funny to say, Riley, do you have it ingers?

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01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:09,120
Speaker 4: He said, somebody tell her he has a rectile dysfunction.

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01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:11,599
Speaker 4: That's why my bro is taking it so so.

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01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:16,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is so good. Can you write

1277
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: jokes for us? This is yeah? Is our new writer? Right?

1278
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 1: And then VYC says, honestly, he looks seventeen. Our little

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01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 1: our little boy cherub over here. Riley, we love him

1280
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:33,200
Speaker 1: so much. Tya Perkins says, oh yay. Uh we go

1281
01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 1: go up a little bit, Riley. Tyler Perkins says, oh yay.

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01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:38,560
Speaker 1: This is the first time I've managed to see you

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01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:40,760
Speaker 1: guys on the Live from the UK here. Usually I'm

1284
01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 1: in bed and I'm gut it. I miss it. I

1285
01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: watch you all the time at work. Thank you for

1286
01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,840
Speaker 1: supporting the show. And I saw I think some other

1287
01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 1: people just supported the show. Uh oh, let's check out

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01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: for it. Go up, Riley, So Danielle Phifer Millennia's rule,

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01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 1: Riley drools, get fricked, Riley, thanks for donating, and then

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01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:04,320
Speaker 1: hanedschu another pair character emoji, thank you so much. I

1291
01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 1: think we're at like what like twenty five right now?

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01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:12,839
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, Martins wedy bucks. I'll have to stream

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01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 1: for probably another hour. We probably will. I love almost

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01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:18,160
Speaker 1: at fifty fifty bucks. Yeah, I think so we're taling

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01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: it up for us. Maybe maybe Sophia. I love listening

1296
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:22,920
Speaker 1: to you guys while I'm doing chores around the house.

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01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 1: I would like to hear more of Sophia's British accent,

1298
01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 1: but not John. Sorry, you know what, Catherine shut my

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01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:34,000
Speaker 1: accent down because Sophia's is clearly superior and we all

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01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 1: want to hear them. Sophia, jump jump over here and

1301
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:38,839
Speaker 1: give us a little over Get a little little British

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01:11:38,880 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 1: accent here. Hey here, Sophia, how about you read this

1303
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:44,680
Speaker 1: next story in a British accent. Sofia is going to

1304
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:47,240
Speaker 1: take over for me for a little bit while I

1305
01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom. Here we go. It is there,

1306
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 1: and it has to be a whole British accent. Oh

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01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:53,519
Speaker 1: a little bit.

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01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:56,360
Speaker 3: I've got to get into it. It might not be great.

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01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 1: That's okay.

1310
01:11:57,320 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 3: My mom made this.

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01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 1: Your mom made that made it. Wow, I am genuinely

1312
01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:05,799
Speaker 1: like blown away.

1313
01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:08,839
Speaker 3: That's it took her months, months and months.

1314
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:10,880
Speaker 1: Damn, that's great. Wow.

1315
01:12:12,200 --> 01:12:13,639
Speaker 3: Do you really want me to do the whole thing?

1316
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 1: The whole but maybe title? Yeah, let's get let's get.

1317
01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:21,439
Speaker 1: Let's give a Christina. I believe it was.

1318
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:22,599
Speaker 3: You, Christina?

1319
01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think all right? All right?

1320
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:28,360
Speaker 3: Am I the help for screaming at my husband to

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01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:30,480
Speaker 3: get out after he pranks me with flowers?

1322
01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:32,560
Speaker 1: With flowers?

1323
01:12:33,280 --> 01:12:33,919
Speaker 3: With flowers?

1324
01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:35,200
Speaker 1: I can't, I can't. I can't do it.

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01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,520
Speaker 3: I do it, but I have to warm up to it.

1326
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:38,880
Speaker 1: It's okay, what we can we can maybe do some

1327
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:41,720
Speaker 1: at the end, I'll come out. Yeah, we'll get back

1328
01:12:41,760 --> 01:12:43,920
Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, all right, what you got for us?

1329
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:46,880
Speaker 3: If I've been here in the background listening, but I'm

1330
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 3: I'm here.

1331
01:12:47,479 --> 01:12:50,599
Speaker 1: That's true. Sorry, let me just there, we go get

1332
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:52,840
Speaker 1: adjusted and yes, yes.

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01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 3: All right, you should I read that again? Did you?

1334
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:59,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's read that one more time? Regular American Sophia.

1335
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:03,000
Speaker 3: Okay, am I the a hole for screaming at my

1336
01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:06,360
Speaker 3: husband to get out after he pranked me with flowers?

1337
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:10,599
Speaker 1: What I guess the question is what is the prank?

1338
01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:13,920
Speaker 1: Is the prank I gave you the flowers you're definitely

1339
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:16,559
Speaker 1: allergic to because that's a bad prank.

1340
01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, And she's like on the floor, like.

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01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:24,800
Speaker 1: Get out and herank gotcha. Hey, listen, we've seen some

1342
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:26,320
Speaker 1: stupid pranks.

1343
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:29,640
Speaker 3: It's like that the Disney XD that showed pranks and

1344
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:30,799
Speaker 3: they pop out and they're.

1345
01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:33,960
Speaker 1: Like, you've just been prank. Just got you, bro, But

1346
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 1: let's find out. Let's do it so direct.

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01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:40,519
Speaker 3: Caterpillar seventy seven says, my husband in my marriage is

1348
01:13:40,560 --> 01:13:43,600
Speaker 3: not going well. I am very close to divorce and

1349
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:45,600
Speaker 3: I've talked to him about it. I told him I

1350
01:13:45,680 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 3: wanted some effort. I wanted flowers, chocolate, a nicely written note,

1351
01:13:49,920 --> 01:13:53,440
Speaker 3: something that showed he wanted to romance me. He finally

1352
01:13:53,479 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 3: took it seriously and agreed when I When I came

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01:13:57,240 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 3: home from a twelve hour shift yesterday, he had aid

1354
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 3: a trail of rose petals in our house. It was

1355
01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:04,440
Speaker 3: so beautiful.

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01:14:04,520 --> 01:14:05,000
Speaker 1: There we go.

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01:14:05,280 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 3: The trail ended at the kitchen sink, where he had

1358
01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:13,360
Speaker 3: piled a bunch of dirty dishes, pots and pants to clean.

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01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:16,599
Speaker 1: What, oh my.

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01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:22,720
Speaker 3: God, oh ah, this is horrible. He said he got

1361
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:25,920
Speaker 3: the idea from TikTok What stop?

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01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:28,439
Speaker 1: What? What are you? What? What tiktoks are you watching?

1363
01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:29,320
Speaker 3: Get off that?

1364
01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 1: Get off? Oh my god, oh yikes.

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01:14:33,680 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 3: I screamed at him to get out of my house.

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01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 3: He left After arguing a bit. I cried. Some of

1367
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:41,400
Speaker 3: my friends said I was right, but others said he

1368
01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:44,200
Speaker 3: was just being paid playful. Am I the a hole?

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01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:46,040
Speaker 3: And there are some relevant comments?

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01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:52,680
Speaker 1: But what what what games are we playing? Okay, that

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01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:53,439
Speaker 1: that's playful.

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01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 3: That's that's really that's a big old Yikes.

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01:14:56,479 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 1: That's not good.

1374
01:14:57,360 --> 01:14:58,679
Speaker 3: It doesn't feel very fun.

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01:14:58,479 --> 01:15:00,200
Speaker 1: You know what, you know, it's crazy. It all amost

1376
01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 1: reminds me of like there could be someone who like

1377
01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:05,519
Speaker 1: lives in this house that has like pineapple socks and

1378
01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:09,240
Speaker 1: a green shirt that like doesn't do dishes, and then

1379
01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:12,880
Speaker 1: Sofia comes in and like does dishes for this said

1380
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:15,880
Speaker 1: unnamed person. Let's talk about it. Let's talk about it.

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01:15:15,920 --> 01:15:18,439
Speaker 4: Oh okay, okay, first few weeks I was here, Yeah,

1382
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:19,559
Speaker 4: a horrible job.

1383
01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 1: I would just do it.

1384
01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 4: And then I would like make my pan and then

1385
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:24,760
Speaker 4: put it to the side and not really touch it.

1386
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:27,640
Speaker 1: And then I noticed that it was being clean and

1387
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:28,920
Speaker 1: I was like, what's it doing? E.

1388
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:31,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, how is this happening? You see Sophia one

1389
01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 4: day doing it? And I was like, I felt terrible

1390
01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 4: just then been a little better, Sophia.

1391
01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:40,200
Speaker 3: I agree, No, I will, I will attest. Riley has

1392
01:15:40,320 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 3: been better. I haven't had to wash any.

1393
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:43,960
Speaker 1: Dishes, that's good.

1394
01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 3: But it seems like Ope has been washing all the dishes.

1395
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:50,719
Speaker 3: I think pranks should be fun for everyone.

1396
01:15:50,760 --> 01:15:55,919
Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean this one's just like stupid.

1397
01:15:56,720 --> 01:15:59,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hurtful. I mean the pranks should be the

1398
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 3: you washed all the dishes?

1399
01:16:02,880 --> 01:16:06,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Frank, gotcha, babe.

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01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:10,360
Speaker 3: Yeah. But there are some relevant comments on convivial cat

1401
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:13,880
Speaker 3: says not the a hole. I'm old and a widow.

1402
01:16:14,120 --> 01:16:16,759
Speaker 3: I had a very long and loving relationship with my husband.

1403
01:16:17,120 --> 01:16:19,439
Speaker 3: He had a very He had a fantastic sense of

1404
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:21,920
Speaker 3: humor and often did very silly things to get a

1405
01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:24,479
Speaker 3: laugh out of me. Our marriage was solid because he

1406
01:16:24,479 --> 01:16:27,040
Speaker 3: would never have let me come home from a twelve

1407
01:16:27,080 --> 01:16:30,240
Speaker 3: hour shift to rose petals leading to a dirty sink

1408
01:16:30,280 --> 01:16:32,960
Speaker 3: of dishes. A flower shift, that's crazy. He would have

1409
01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:35,920
Speaker 3: had rose petals leading to a sparkling kitchen dinner ready

1410
01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:38,639
Speaker 3: and with him dressed in a French made outfit, probably

1411
01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 3: with his ass saying oh yeah, sounds great.

1412
01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:42,760
Speaker 1: I like that.

1413
01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:45,880
Speaker 3: God I missed that man. Anyway, what your husband did,

1414
01:16:46,040 --> 01:16:48,479
Speaker 3: especially knowing how much you were really needing some romance,

1415
01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:51,680
Speaker 3: was incredibly cruel and tone deaf. I don't think this

1416
01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:54,160
Speaker 3: one is a keeper, Opie, and Opie said, I am

1417
01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 3: so sorry for your loss. Your husband sounds like an

1418
01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:59,040
Speaker 3: incredible man who loved you very very much. I wish

1419
01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:02,320
Speaker 3: I had that kind of love. Yeah, that's such a

1420
01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:05,120
Speaker 3: great point because Opi was like, this is the last straw,

1421
01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:07,880
Speaker 3: like I want some romance or we're done. And then

1422
01:17:08,360 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 3: Opie's husband was like, ah, I know how to face

1423
01:17:11,320 --> 01:17:12,320
Speaker 3: this marriage.

1424
01:17:13,760 --> 01:17:16,360
Speaker 1: Dishes. Yeah, you are so right. That is crazy.

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01:17:16,479 --> 01:17:19,639
Speaker 3: Yeah. There is another comment from TX farmer who said,

1426
01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:23,799
Speaker 3: TikTok is a pestilence? Did he film you? That's not playful,

1427
01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:26,439
Speaker 3: especially when the steaks are high. Get him a fake

1428
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:29,280
Speaker 3: winning lottery ticket, then hand him a divorce decree.

1429
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:32,160
Speaker 1: That's a good one.

1430
01:17:33,160 --> 01:17:36,639
Speaker 3: We've seen another Reddit story like that. Oh Opie said

1431
01:17:36,960 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 3: he had his phone out. I don't think he posted it,

1432
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:41,840
Speaker 3: but if he does, I'm done. I actually found the

1433
01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 3: original or maybe one of the TikTok pranks he used

1434
01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:48,360
Speaker 3: as as inspiration. The comments even pointed out how messed

1435
01:17:48,439 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 3: up it was to do. I would give him a

1436
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:52,640
Speaker 3: fake lottery ticket if I didn't know he would make

1437
01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:55,200
Speaker 3: a fuss about it. And there is an update. But

1438
01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:56,719
Speaker 3: let's take stock.

1439
01:17:57,080 --> 01:17:58,080
Speaker 1: Yes, let's do that.

1440
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:02,759
Speaker 3: Do you think a relationship should continue well?

1441
01:18:02,880 --> 01:18:06,479
Speaker 1: As Maya two one two says in the comments, I

1442
01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 1: think it's time for a divorce chant? Could we all?

1443
01:18:09,160 --> 01:18:16,439
Speaker 1: Could we all hop in on here? Divorce? Yeah? Get

1444
01:18:16,439 --> 01:18:18,040
Speaker 1: it out? How many do we do? Do we do? Four?

1445
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:18,679
Speaker 1: Do we do? Three?

1446
01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:20,320
Speaker 3: I don't know if did I. I feel like I

1447
01:18:20,400 --> 01:18:22,080
Speaker 3: started it and.

1448
01:18:22,200 --> 01:18:24,160
Speaker 1: I started the divorce chap. Yeah, I feel like I

1449
01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:31,800
Speaker 1: wait a second, this goes way back way back when

1450
01:18:31,960 --> 01:18:32,320
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1451
01:18:32,360 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 3: I feel like I was.

1452
01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:35,439
Speaker 1: We have been yelling divorce. Yeah. See like everyone in

1453
01:18:35,439 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 1: the comments, divorce, divorce, divorce. Yeah.

1454
01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:40,560
Speaker 3: Someone said Cinderella is so quiet? Am I Cinderella? And

1455
01:18:40,680 --> 01:18:41,400
Speaker 3: is my mic quiet?

1456
01:18:41,479 --> 01:18:42,960
Speaker 1: I think it is a little love. Maybe we could

1457
01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 1: bump around the focus, right, Buttercup, bump me up? Doc

1458
01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:48,040
Speaker 1: speak up?

1459
01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:51,000
Speaker 3: Sorry as loudly as I can.

1460
01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:53,080
Speaker 1: Riley, if you can scroll through, I know we got

1461
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:55,639
Speaker 1: we had a lot of divorces from aj Kim Quant

1462
01:18:55,840 --> 01:18:59,200
Speaker 1: little something. But let's see over here. Okay, So Kim

1463
01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:05,000
Speaker 1: quant All says Opie's husband is a whole red flag.

1464
01:19:05,200 --> 01:19:07,679
Speaker 3: Yes, so big red.

1465
01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:12,320
Speaker 1: Flags, absolute divorce. Chant E v c on TikTok says, lol,

1466
01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:15,040
Speaker 1: been watching your show for the last three years, low key,

1467
01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:18,120
Speaker 1: that's amazing because we've only existed for two. Uh, it's

1468
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 1: weird because my exes my ex's bad name is John.

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01:19:24,560 --> 01:19:28,880
Speaker 1: What b D my ex b D my ex's name? Oh,

1470
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:31,559
Speaker 1: my ex boyfriend, that's what it was, my ex boyfriend's name. Uh,

1471
01:19:31,560 --> 01:19:33,960
Speaker 1: you know what, ev John, John is a pretty pretty

1472
01:19:33,960 --> 01:19:37,040
Speaker 1: common name. Yeah, I'm gonna I'm not gonna lie to you.

1473
01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:38,880
Speaker 1: That is that is pretty common John.

1474
01:19:40,400 --> 01:19:43,320
Speaker 3: What's like the thing? John? John Doe?

1475
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 1: There we go, John Doe. Yes, my last name isn't Doe.

1476
01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:49,000
Speaker 1: But but you know, Sophia, why don't you get to

1477
01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:49,519
Speaker 1: some comments?

1478
01:19:49,880 --> 01:19:54,240
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I'm really appreciating, Daniel Pfiffer saying if Sophia

1479
01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:56,200
Speaker 3: said she started it, she started it.

1480
01:19:56,520 --> 01:20:01,400
Speaker 1: No, no red flag.

1481
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:04,280
Speaker 3: I guess it's true. It's in the it's in writing.

1482
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:05,800
Speaker 1: So there you go.

1483
01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:11,720
Speaker 3: What else? What else? Sarah Batoff says something unimportant. I'm

1484
01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:14,800
Speaker 3: just kidding you guys have been saying that since at

1485
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 3: least last year.

1486
01:20:16,200 --> 01:20:23,120
Speaker 1: Thank you, Sarah, last year. No hold on, we're technicalities.

1487
01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:26,080
Speaker 1: Come on with that. I have been here this last year.

1488
01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:30,679
Speaker 1: December of last year, my goodness, the end of December

1489
01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:31,719
Speaker 1: at that, my goodness.

1490
01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:33,360
Speaker 3: Yes, everyone's supporting me a.

1491
01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:37,320
Speaker 1: Little yeah, Smith Emerald Emerald says what Sophia says goes. Guys.

1492
01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:40,000
Speaker 1: We we we know Sophia's is the most powerful. We

1493
01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 1: we know that she's the queen.

1494
01:20:42,000 --> 01:20:44,840
Speaker 3: Thank you. Nita found Fountain also says, I definitely heard

1495
01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:48,280
Speaker 3: Sophia said divorce little. I think I just like it

1496
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:50,760
Speaker 3: was like I said it so much that it was

1497
01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:55,759
Speaker 3: it was associated with me. But oh, I've completely lost

1498
01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 3: my place. Update, there is an update.

1499
01:20:57,240 --> 01:20:57,880
Speaker 1: There's an update.

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01:20:58,120 --> 01:21:02,840
Speaker 3: Update, Yes, all right, so update. My husband came back

1501
01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:05,360
Speaker 3: home last night. I had cooled off, and then he

1502
01:21:05,640 --> 01:21:09,680
Speaker 3: ruined it by saying I was overreacting, no, no, do

1503
01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:13,040
Speaker 3: do that, that it was funny and he wanted to

1504
01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:16,040
Speaker 3: make me laugh. I told him I was going to

1505
01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:18,400
Speaker 3: file for divorce because it was the last straw. He

1506
01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 3: then started crying and begging me not to He begged

1507
01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 3: me to give him a second chance. I said he

1508
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:26,680
Speaker 3: already got a second chance, and he squandered it by

1509
01:21:26,680 --> 01:21:29,600
Speaker 3: reminding me that I do all the daily chores in

1510
01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:32,559
Speaker 3: this house. This was why our marriage was rocky. I

1511
01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 3: work in the medical fields, while he is a blue

1512
01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:37,640
Speaker 3: collar worker. Both of our jobs require long hours. But

1513
01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:40,519
Speaker 3: if I mess up, people die. He once said that

1514
01:21:40,600 --> 01:21:42,880
Speaker 3: I went through all that schooling just to get covered

1515
01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:45,600
Speaker 3: in blood and poop. He took it back after, but

1516
01:21:45,680 --> 01:21:48,120
Speaker 3: he wanted to make me feel low. He started doing

1517
01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:49,719
Speaker 3: that a bit after COVID started.

1518
01:21:50,040 --> 01:21:52,040
Speaker 1: He sounds awful, he really does.

1519
01:21:52,800 --> 01:21:55,000
Speaker 3: I do the cooking and cleaning. I do the laundry,

1520
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:58,559
Speaker 3: the sweeping, the dentist appointments. All he does is create

1521
01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:01,080
Speaker 3: more work for me. He wanted me to pack him

1522
01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 3: lunch because his friend's wives do his friends wives I

1523
01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 3: either stay at home moms or they have part time jobs.

1524
01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 3: I do not have the time or energy to do that.

1525
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:14,559
Speaker 3: He said. He mows the lawn, well, guess what, it's winter,

1526
01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:17,000
Speaker 3: and I had to shovel the driveway because I had

1527
01:22:17,000 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 3: work in the morning and he had the day off.

1528
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:21,960
Speaker 3: I make more money, brought I bought her house at

1529
01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:24,320
Speaker 3: a low rate during COVID because his credit was too low.

1530
01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:26,639
Speaker 3: I had to save the money for a down payment.

1531
01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,839
Speaker 3: I pay our mortgage. What did he contribute to my life?

1532
01:22:29,920 --> 01:22:31,679
Speaker 3: If I didn't have him in my life, I would

1533
01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:34,720
Speaker 3: have clean floors all the time and more money. At

1534
01:22:34,800 --> 01:22:38,040
Speaker 3: least he could contribute love. He said he loved me,

1535
01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:40,400
Speaker 3: but he doesn't do anything to prove it. So I

1536
01:22:40,520 --> 01:22:43,960
Speaker 3: asked him for flowers or chocolate or a nice card,

1537
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 3: literally anything to show some love. What instead he dropped

1538
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:52,240
Speaker 3: flower petals to a sink full of dirty dishes, pots,

1539
01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:57,920
Speaker 3: and pans. It's not even original, it's not don I'm

1540
01:22:57,960 --> 01:22:59,080
Speaker 3: going to file for divorce.

1541
01:22:59,760 --> 01:23:04,919
Speaker 1: Wow, as you should. Wow. Wow that's crazy.

1542
01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:07,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, horrible, horrible, horrible.

1543
01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 1: Can we put the tinfoil hats on? Because I have

1544
01:23:10,360 --> 01:23:14,479
Speaker 1: a post post end story conspiracy.

1545
01:23:14,479 --> 01:23:16,800
Speaker 3: Updates, but John Scott I got one.

1546
01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:25,400
Speaker 1: Just I think that Ope's husband knows that he makes

1547
01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:29,639
Speaker 1: less money, that he sucks, and he's like that he's

1548
01:23:29,680 --> 01:23:34,120
Speaker 1: not funny, that the jokes are unriginal, and he's like,

1549
01:23:34,439 --> 01:23:36,880
Speaker 1: what can I do to like feel some sort of

1550
01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:39,800
Speaker 1: like I'm so insecure, I need something to make me

1551
01:23:39,840 --> 01:23:42,040
Speaker 1: feel good, Like I can tell my wife to do

1552
01:23:42,080 --> 01:23:44,360
Speaker 1: the dishes with rose petals as a joke.

1553
01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:48,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's literally just trying to like assert the little

1554
01:23:48,040 --> 01:23:50,640
Speaker 3: control he has. Yeah, he doesn't even have it.

1555
01:23:50,720 --> 01:23:52,519
Speaker 1: Like you think you can tell me I have one

1556
01:23:52,600 --> 01:23:55,000
Speaker 1: final chance. Well guess what I'll use it to tell

1557
01:23:55,040 --> 01:23:58,360
Speaker 1: you to do dishes that Yeah, divorce, that's that's what

1558
01:23:58,400 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 1: that's about. So time and we're back in reality. But honestly,

1559
01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 1: that I think that is reality.

1560
01:24:03,360 --> 01:24:06,479
Speaker 3: I'm glad she did divorce it. Truly, she deserves better.

1561
01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:09,240
Speaker 3: She deserves someone who will lay out some rose petals

1562
01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:13,000
Speaker 3: to a beautiful dinner and that is true a lovely bath.

1563
01:24:13,160 --> 01:24:16,240
Speaker 1: I have a question though, Sofia, do do we deserve

1564
01:24:16,479 --> 01:24:18,760
Speaker 1: to go for a third hour if we hit one

1565
01:24:18,840 --> 01:24:22,880
Speaker 1: hundred dollars in donations the chat? Absolutely absolutely, y'all, guys,

1566
01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:28,840
Speaker 1: we've crunch them membership around fifty around fifty or so. Yeah,

1567
01:24:28,840 --> 01:24:29,639
Speaker 1: that sounds lacerate.

1568
01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:31,280
Speaker 3: I didn't see anymore.

1569
01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:33,360
Speaker 1: But we we if we get one hundred dollars in

1570
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:35,560
Speaker 1: the chat. Again, no pressure if you don't want you,

1571
01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:37,559
Speaker 1: but we'll go for a third hour and hang out

1572
01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:39,439
Speaker 1: with y'all for a little bit longer. So if you

1573
01:24:39,479 --> 01:24:41,920
Speaker 1: want to support you boys throw some of the chat

1574
01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:45,360
Speaker 1: speaking of which looks like Lisa from Facebook as something

1575
01:24:45,400 --> 01:24:46,000
Speaker 1: for Sofia.

1576
01:24:46,120 --> 01:24:48,599
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Sofia. You should get some cheap plastic hard

1577
01:24:48,640 --> 01:24:51,840
Speaker 3: hats and spray paint them silver for new conspiracy theory hats.

1578
01:24:51,880 --> 01:24:54,360
Speaker 3: That's such a great idea because these ones are these

1579
01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:56,559
Speaker 3: ones are trashed. I made these out of aluminum foil

1580
01:24:58,160 --> 01:25:01,200
Speaker 3: and they're they're topes to have destroyed them.

1581
01:25:01,680 --> 01:25:07,200
Speaker 1: We have absolutely destroyed them. Yea, who else? Susan Martin says, no,

1582
01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:11,639
Speaker 1: you're not being the a hole bake goods take time.

1583
01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:18,479
Speaker 3: I think that's a callback to the Gallentines, right, yes, yes.

1584
01:25:18,280 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 1: What a throwback. What a throwback.

1585
01:25:21,160 --> 01:25:26,719
Speaker 3: And then Kimberly Fine says merch hats that say conspiracy. Yeah, yeah,

1586
01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 3: that's the conspiracy of whether or not we'll get some

1587
01:25:29,479 --> 01:25:30,360
Speaker 3: conspiracy hats.

1588
01:25:31,040 --> 01:25:37,479
Speaker 4: Hats, but their bucket hats. Christian would wear those, that's true.

1589
01:25:38,120 --> 01:25:43,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, guys, would you want some conspiracy hats? Let

1590
01:25:43,120 --> 01:25:45,200
Speaker 1: us know. Actually, we'll probably start planning our next merch

1591
01:25:45,240 --> 01:25:48,920
Speaker 1: drop in the near future. We have this drop for

1592
01:25:49,080 --> 01:25:50,839
Speaker 1: red flag Green Flag ending today.

1593
01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:57,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we also have our Valentine's Day kind of sweaters.

1594
01:25:57,560 --> 01:26:00,360
Speaker 1: They are also live. That is absolutely correct. I'm modeling them,

1595
01:26:00,680 --> 01:26:04,560
Speaker 1: that's true, crushing it. So hey, get those for the

1596
01:26:04,600 --> 01:26:08,040
Speaker 1: people you love. But you know what, I love polar hats.

1597
01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:08,840
Speaker 3: That's funny.

1598
01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 1: I do love bowler hats. But I also love next story,

1599
01:26:14,400 --> 01:26:16,719
Speaker 1: which I believe is me. So let me dive into

1600
01:26:16,760 --> 01:26:22,960
Speaker 1: it here. So let me pull it up. Guys, we're

1601
01:26:23,200 --> 01:26:25,599
Speaker 1: almost we're almost down to our stories here, so we

1602
01:26:25,640 --> 01:26:29,520
Speaker 1: shall see. I believe this is is this eight, producer Riley,

1603
01:26:29,560 --> 01:26:32,920
Speaker 1: this is let's me calculate.

1604
01:26:32,960 --> 01:26:37,720
Speaker 4: Caculating seven out of ten, so this is more.

1605
01:26:39,720 --> 01:26:45,120
Speaker 3: This is just ten of the Valentine's Day That is true.

1606
01:26:46,280 --> 01:26:47,760
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm gonna do six.

1607
01:26:48,240 --> 01:26:52,240
Speaker 4: We'll see one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, so

1608
01:26:52,280 --> 01:26:53,360
Speaker 4: we're on our seventh one.

1609
01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:54,840
Speaker 1: Cool, it's a.

1610
01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:59,280
Speaker 3: Long and to go to I'm good, Sarah Batoff. I

1611
01:26:59,360 --> 01:27:01,559
Speaker 3: will ask my mom, because I know she found it

1612
01:27:01,600 --> 01:27:03,880
Speaker 3: on a website about the pattern for my.

1613
01:27:06,040 --> 01:27:09,280
Speaker 1: For the level, we do a long one or a

1614
01:27:09,320 --> 01:27:15,760
Speaker 1: short one, ladies, gentlemen, drummer short one swap, so you

1615
01:27:15,760 --> 01:27:18,240
Speaker 1: guys get a Sam and Sophia. Right after this, my

1616
01:27:18,400 --> 01:27:23,280
Speaker 1: boyfriend thinks my dad's gifts are creepy? Is it a

1617
01:27:23,320 --> 01:27:23,840
Speaker 1: red flag?

1618
01:27:24,640 --> 01:27:25,479
Speaker 3: What kind of gifts?

1619
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:28,360
Speaker 1: What? What? What gift would constitute creepy? Guys, put in

1620
01:27:28,400 --> 01:27:30,639
Speaker 1: the chat. What would be a creepy gift to get

1621
01:27:30,640 --> 01:27:34,240
Speaker 1: from your father in law? What would be a creepy gift?

1622
01:27:34,280 --> 01:27:38,000
Speaker 3: It's the creepiest gift. Oh you're asking, Yes, I am.

1623
01:27:38,200 --> 01:27:42,760
Speaker 3: I don't know, Like, I don't know. I don't even

1624
01:27:42,760 --> 01:27:44,280
Speaker 3: want to like say it because it's.

1625
01:27:44,160 --> 01:27:46,880
Speaker 1: It's too creepy, y'all. Put put it down in the

1626
01:27:46,880 --> 01:27:49,479
Speaker 1: comfortab below with the oh that is that would be

1627
01:27:49,560 --> 01:27:53,760
Speaker 1: really a vibrator from the Little Tree and Web. Yep,

1628
01:27:53,800 --> 01:27:59,000
Speaker 1: that would be pretty creepy. I was. I was, Oh

1629
01:27:59,080 --> 01:28:05,639
Speaker 1: my lingerie from Danielle and Nicole Stewart. Yeah, absolutely lingerie,

1630
01:28:05,720 --> 01:28:12,320
Speaker 1: or sexy pajamas from Catherine. Absolutely panties. Yeah, we're kind

1631
01:28:12,360 --> 01:28:14,599
Speaker 1: of getting the same gifts of Victoria's secret boucher.

1632
01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:17,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, Patrician Yates. It is too creepy to.

1633
01:28:17,520 --> 01:28:20,160
Speaker 1: Say it is. But let's get into the story from

1634
01:28:20,479 --> 01:28:24,880
Speaker 1: throw ra Oat Milk. Every year from Valentine's Day, my

1635
01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:28,240
Speaker 1: dad fifty nine male gives Slash sends me twenty three

1636
01:28:28,240 --> 01:28:30,559
Speaker 1: female flowers and a box of chocolates.

1637
01:28:31,280 --> 01:28:35,519
Speaker 3: That that's what's gonna be creepy awful. My dad does

1638
01:28:35,520 --> 01:28:38,479
Speaker 3: that literally every year. That's like a very normal thing,

1639
01:28:38,560 --> 01:28:40,160
Speaker 3: except that I want to hear what he has to say,

1640
01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:41,760
Speaker 3: because that's not creepy at all.

1641
01:28:41,880 --> 01:28:43,920
Speaker 1: He has done this every year since I was old

1642
01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:46,000
Speaker 1: enough to remember. He would always give them to me

1643
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:47,759
Speaker 1: when I was little, and when I went to college

1644
01:28:47,760 --> 01:28:51,160
Speaker 1: and beyond, he has them delivered to me. It's just

1645
01:28:51,200 --> 01:28:54,200
Speaker 1: a cute tradition for us. I didn't say cute tradition,

1646
01:28:54,240 --> 01:28:56,320
Speaker 1: but I threw that in there. I think it's sweet.

1647
01:28:56,320 --> 01:28:58,400
Speaker 1: And I grew up in a really tight knit, close family.

1648
01:28:58,840 --> 01:29:01,760
Speaker 1: I started I started dating my boyfriend Mark twenty five

1649
01:29:01,840 --> 01:29:05,000
Speaker 1: mail a little over a year ago. Last Valentine's Day,

1650
01:29:05,080 --> 01:29:08,400
Speaker 1: I got the usual delivery from my dad. Mark said, oh,

1651
01:29:08,560 --> 01:29:14,200
Speaker 1: your dad sent you those? Oh okay, okay, all right,

1652
01:29:15,120 --> 01:29:19,240
Speaker 1: that's it. That's all. But that's not all because Tacos

1653
01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:22,080
Speaker 1: of Love just donated five dollars to our chat and

1654
01:29:22,160 --> 01:29:25,080
Speaker 1: he was going for three years. And they say he

1655
01:29:25,200 --> 01:29:28,080
Speaker 1: might be with her for the money, but did she

1656
01:29:28,360 --> 01:29:31,760
Speaker 1: get life insurance? Just tinfoil having here Taco of Love

1657
01:29:31,800 --> 01:29:35,400
Speaker 1: putting on the tinfoil hat right there. Although, by the way,

1658
01:29:35,439 --> 01:29:37,720
Speaker 1: I think I mistakenly thought it was the father in law.

1659
01:29:37,760 --> 01:29:40,760
Speaker 1: It is a actual father. This is the father father.

1660
01:29:40,880 --> 01:29:44,960
Speaker 3: Getting her like cute little Valentine's Day chocolate And yes,

1661
01:29:45,439 --> 01:29:47,439
Speaker 3: so we missed, but is it Is it creepy for

1662
01:29:47,479 --> 01:29:50,280
Speaker 3: the dad to get flowers of chocolate for Valentine's Day?

1663
01:29:50,320 --> 01:29:53,840
Speaker 1: Guys put in the comments creepy or not? Let us

1664
01:29:53,880 --> 01:29:56,720
Speaker 1: know please, and also shout out to Maya two and

1665
01:29:56,760 --> 01:30:00,479
Speaker 1: two for the two fifty donation with the Sheiba dogs.

1666
01:30:02,040 --> 01:30:06,280
Speaker 1: Fast forward to this year. Last night, Mark, my boyfriend

1667
01:30:06,320 --> 01:30:08,720
Speaker 1: and I were discussing our Valentine's Day plans for this year,

1668
01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:11,479
Speaker 1: like what restaurant we show to, and he made a

1669
01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:13,960
Speaker 1: passing comment about he was hoping that I didn't get

1670
01:30:14,000 --> 01:30:16,240
Speaker 1: in any creepy gifts in the mail this year.

1671
01:30:16,360 --> 01:30:18,080
Speaker 3: What Mark?

1672
01:30:19,040 --> 01:30:22,519
Speaker 1: We hate you Mark Mark. I was confused and asked

1673
01:30:22,600 --> 01:30:25,160
Speaker 1: him what did you mean? And he said, you know

1674
01:30:25,200 --> 01:30:27,160
Speaker 1: how you got that stuff from your dad last year.

1675
01:30:27,360 --> 01:30:29,439
Speaker 1: It's creepy for a dad to be sending his adult

1676
01:30:29,520 --> 01:30:36,519
Speaker 1: daughter's Valentine's gifts. That's creepy. I also dise. I think

1677
01:30:36,520 --> 01:30:39,200
Speaker 1: it's cute. I think it's very cute. My dad, come on,

1678
01:30:39,400 --> 01:30:43,240
Speaker 1: that's sweet. Shout out guys. The don or Dad is

1679
01:30:43,479 --> 01:30:46,080
Speaker 1: he's always on it man, he's he's got that parenting thing.

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01:30:46,160 --> 01:30:47,719
Speaker 3: He sent me like a little bear in the mail

1681
01:30:47,760 --> 01:30:48,719
Speaker 3: when I was at college.

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01:30:49,560 --> 01:30:51,400
Speaker 1: Cute, it is cute.

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01:30:51,560 --> 01:30:54,720
Speaker 3: Valentine's Day is not personally I don't think it's just

1684
01:30:54,760 --> 01:30:58,439
Speaker 3: a day about like romantic relationships. I think it's also

1685
01:30:58,560 --> 01:30:59,960
Speaker 3: just a day in general about love.

1686
01:31:00,760 --> 01:31:02,560
Speaker 1: What do we do? What? Sofia, what do we do?

1687
01:31:02,600 --> 01:31:03,599
Speaker 1: In elementary school?

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01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:07,120
Speaker 3: We give? We give everyone Valentine's The whole class gave

1689
01:31:07,400 --> 01:31:10,960
Speaker 3: everyone Valentine's That's right. Yeah, and at my school, don't know,

1690
01:31:11,200 --> 01:31:14,080
Speaker 3: same for your school. If you didn't bring enough for everyone,

1691
01:31:14,920 --> 01:31:17,839
Speaker 3: then you weren't allowed to share them. Really, so everyone

1692
01:31:17,920 --> 01:31:21,040
Speaker 3: had to get a Valentine otherwise because you're just spreading

1693
01:31:21,040 --> 01:31:24,120
Speaker 3: the love to ex communicated. Yeah, they were like no, no,

1694
01:31:25,320 --> 01:31:27,040
Speaker 3: Like if you wanted to give like a Valentine's Day

1695
01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:29,639
Speaker 3: gift to like just your friend group, couldn't do it.

1696
01:31:29,840 --> 01:31:32,000
Speaker 3: Oh just a friend group, I see, you would have

1697
01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:33,120
Speaker 3: to give it out to the whole class.

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01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:39,160
Speaker 1: I tried. Interesting, very interesting, so uh Opie says, I

1699
01:31:39,200 --> 01:31:41,320
Speaker 1: was taken aback because it's not like my dad sent

1700
01:31:41,360 --> 01:31:44,320
Speaker 1: me lingerie or something. Like that it was just flowers

1701
01:31:44,360 --> 01:31:49,600
Speaker 1: and some chocolate. And I tried explaining to Mark that

1702
01:31:49,680 --> 01:31:51,800
Speaker 1: this is a tradition and I've always shared this with

1703
01:31:51,840 --> 01:31:55,519
Speaker 1: my dad. He stands firm that it is creepy and weird.

1704
01:31:56,040 --> 01:31:58,200
Speaker 1: He said that he's asked his friends and they all

1705
01:31:58,240 --> 01:32:01,200
Speaker 1: thought it was weird too. Friends. Does he have what

1706
01:32:01,240 --> 01:32:03,479
Speaker 1: kind of friends you got? Mark bad Ones if that

1707
01:32:03,600 --> 01:32:06,360
Speaker 1: is your real name, which it isn't. I tried to

1708
01:32:06,439 --> 01:32:08,679
Speaker 1: let it go, but it's been bothering me. Number One,

1709
01:32:08,840 --> 01:32:11,320
Speaker 1: I have never heard of these kinds of negative comments

1710
01:32:11,320 --> 01:32:15,080
Speaker 1: from Mark before. And I'm not sure whether it's a

1711
01:32:15,280 --> 01:32:17,840
Speaker 1: red flag red flag talk about it? Why is it

1712
01:32:17,880 --> 01:32:18,400
Speaker 1: a red flag?

1713
01:32:19,040 --> 01:32:22,559
Speaker 3: Because he shouldn't be like I feel like like some

1714
01:32:22,560 --> 01:32:24,799
Speaker 3: people are saying in the chat that he feels threatened

1715
01:32:24,800 --> 01:32:30,040
Speaker 3: by OPI's dad, which is weird. That's weird to be like, wow,

1716
01:32:30,600 --> 01:32:33,200
Speaker 3: I have to compete with her dad for valid like

1717
01:32:33,320 --> 01:32:36,000
Speaker 3: just get her a better Valentine's Day and then your gift,

1718
01:32:36,160 --> 01:32:36,960
Speaker 3: and then that's.

1719
01:32:36,880 --> 01:32:39,519
Speaker 1: True, that's true. Who made that comment, by the way,

1720
01:32:40,200 --> 01:32:41,280
Speaker 1: actually a couple.

1721
01:32:41,120 --> 01:32:45,760
Speaker 3: Of people made it. Little Rabbit or maybe only yeah

1722
01:32:45,840 --> 01:32:49,160
Speaker 3: the raven said so insecure, he feels threatened by Dad,

1723
01:32:49,960 --> 01:32:52,840
Speaker 3: and then Sarah a bout off. Oh Mark, Sorry, she

1724
01:32:52,840 --> 01:32:55,400
Speaker 3: had a father who made sure she had self esteem

1725
01:32:55,479 --> 01:32:56,920
Speaker 3: and knows how to be treated.

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01:32:57,200 --> 01:33:01,640
Speaker 1: My bad, My bad forgiving yourself esteem. I love her.

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01:33:01,920 --> 01:33:05,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's the best way to know that, you know,

1728
01:33:05,920 --> 01:33:07,840
Speaker 3: like how how you should be treated by your partner.

1729
01:33:07,920 --> 01:33:10,479
Speaker 3: She's absolutely, absolutely this is the standard.

1730
01:33:10,600 --> 01:33:13,320
Speaker 1: That's the standard. You gotta be this high to ride

1731
01:33:13,320 --> 01:33:18,000
Speaker 1: the ride. Mark. Yeah, name, that's your real name. But

1732
01:33:19,960 --> 01:33:22,640
Speaker 1: I have never been in a serious relationship before, and

1733
01:33:22,680 --> 01:33:25,400
Speaker 1: I'm still figuring all of this out now. Number two,

1734
01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:28,240
Speaker 1: when my dad's delivery comes this month, I don't want

1735
01:33:28,240 --> 01:33:31,639
Speaker 1: Mark to feel uncomfortable. Number three is it creepy for

1736
01:33:31,720 --> 01:33:34,080
Speaker 1: my dad to be sending this stuff? I have never

1737
01:33:34,120 --> 01:33:38,240
Speaker 1: found it so, but would like to hear others perspectives. Thanks. Okay,

1738
01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:40,280
Speaker 1: so really quick we have the one, two, three, So yes,

1739
01:33:40,400 --> 01:33:43,160
Speaker 1: Number one, is this a red flag from Mark? Number two?

1740
01:33:44,520 --> 01:33:48,000
Speaker 1: Should Ope hide the gift from Mark? And number three?

1741
01:33:48,400 --> 01:33:50,320
Speaker 1: Is it creepy? We've already talked about Number one. It's

1742
01:33:50,360 --> 01:33:54,400
Speaker 1: definitely a red flag. Number two? Should Ope hide the gift?

1743
01:33:54,960 --> 01:33:57,320
Speaker 3: She should hide Mark from her life.

1744
01:33:57,400 --> 01:33:59,000
Speaker 1: That is exactly what you should do.

1745
01:33:59,120 --> 01:34:00,360
Speaker 3: She should with him.

1746
01:34:00,560 --> 01:34:03,080
Speaker 1: Put you in a box and block and you off.

1747
01:34:03,240 --> 01:34:07,800
Speaker 1: That's right somewhere else, that's right, Susan. Susan Martin says, no, John,

1748
01:34:07,960 --> 01:34:10,040
Speaker 1: You're not the a hole. I saved them for a

1749
01:34:10,040 --> 01:34:13,600
Speaker 1: while and then I throw them out. I didn't know

1750
01:34:13,800 --> 01:34:16,360
Speaker 1: I was up for debate of b a hole here.

1751
01:34:17,040 --> 01:34:19,120
Speaker 1: I guess that might make me, might make me an

1752
01:34:19,120 --> 01:34:21,400
Speaker 1: ale after all, that was a j R.

1753
01:34:21,479 --> 01:34:24,960
Speaker 3: Oh, we go back up a little bit. Really, Jero says,

1754
01:34:25,080 --> 01:34:28,040
Speaker 3: all of Mark's friends are imaginary. Of course they agree

1755
01:34:28,080 --> 01:34:28,479
Speaker 3: with him.

1756
01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:32,840
Speaker 1: I was talking to Blue and big Red basketball guy.

1757
01:34:32,880 --> 01:34:36,000
Speaker 1: Who are the guys from Foster's friends? Wilt? Yeah, I

1758
01:34:36,040 --> 01:34:42,960
Speaker 1: was talking to Wilt and Cheese, Coco Yeah, it was

1759
01:34:43,000 --> 01:34:45,800
Speaker 1: go go Yeah. I was talking to Cocoa and Cheese

1760
01:34:45,800 --> 01:34:47,639
Speaker 1: and they're all like, all my homies were like, yeah,

1761
01:34:47,880 --> 01:34:51,080
Speaker 1: that's so creepy. That's so creepy. What the heck? Yeah,

1762
01:34:51,120 --> 01:34:54,200
Speaker 1: that's crazy? Uh, Mark, what is that? I can't say

1763
01:34:54,200 --> 01:34:58,120
Speaker 1: the use your name, but MAC make it, thank you,

1764
01:34:58,200 --> 01:35:02,320
Speaker 1: it says marketing therapy. Absolute Uh. Kristin Sherry says, no,

1765
01:35:02,520 --> 01:35:04,479
Speaker 1: I think it's nice of him. That sounds like it's

1766
01:35:04,520 --> 01:35:08,920
Speaker 1: a real good dad. Christina says, uh, yes, it's a

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01:35:08,960 --> 01:35:12,439
Speaker 1: red flag. No, don't hide it, and no, uh what

1768
01:35:12,520 --> 01:35:14,320
Speaker 1: was the third one? There isn't anything wrong with that.

1769
01:35:17,640 --> 01:35:20,040
Speaker 1: Oh calling John not the a hill is a throwback. Okay,

1770
01:35:20,080 --> 01:35:22,599
Speaker 1: thank you Kim quat for for helping us, helping us

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01:35:22,680 --> 01:35:31,519
Speaker 1: understand and think were going to alrighty audio off full off,