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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and People's Choice Award nominated podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are super rubbing in. I just gotta

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Speaker 2: look from across the room from Mark. What was that for?

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Speaker 3: And I'm excited? It was my excited here we go.

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Speaker 2: Look, I did not get excitement nor here we go.

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Speaker 3: Oh I'm sorry, it's all happening. That was a look.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's frazzled. I feel like it's like the mondayest

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Speaker 1: Monday that I've ever felt in a really long time.

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Speaker 2: That was my last Monday. Really today I feel I'm

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Speaker 2: like I was like on time. I was only three

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Speaker 2: minutes late today as opposed to my normal fifteen. I

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Speaker 2: feel great.

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Speaker 1: I feel the shovel.

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Speaker 3: Are you a person who's late a lot? Becca? Are

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Speaker 3: you late to everything?

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Speaker 2: Wow? Yes I am?

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Speaker 3: And why is that? Why do you suppose that is?

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Speaker 2: It depends? It's like I might get stuck in a

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Speaker 2: drive through. It takes a longer time than normal. Maybe

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Speaker 2: I decided to sleep a little longer than I should have.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I couldn't find anything to wear, or maybe I

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Speaker 2: got stuck in traffic.

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Speaker 3: Because I find it fascinating because there's somebody who I

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Speaker 3: know very well, who's close to me and lives in

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Speaker 3: my house that tends to be late for a lot

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Speaker 3: of things.

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Speaker 1: Is this your wife?

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Speaker 3: Maybe? And I'm always fascinated by it because and I

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Speaker 3: watch it happen, and I find that she's very easily distracted.

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Speaker 3: There's always something else that needs to be done, and

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Speaker 3: she tries to get everything done in the house before

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Speaker 3: she leaves, and she ends up leaving at the time

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Speaker 3: she's supposed to get there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I give Becca like a like a like a

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Speaker 1: false start. Whenever I'm gonna like come to pick her

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Speaker 1: up for something, I'll say I'm leaving my apartment when

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Speaker 1: I'm like not even in my car yet, just so

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Speaker 1: I know, like she'll get down when I'm there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, But here's the thing. Everyone thought that like that

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Speaker 2: they'll start doing that, but now I don't trust anyone,

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Speaker 2: So now they say it, and I'm like, whatever, I've

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Speaker 2: at least five to ten minutes extra.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna like, do you ever do.

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Speaker 3: The thing where you change the clocks in your house?

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Speaker 3: My wife does that. Her Her clock in her car

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Speaker 3: is seven minutes fast, and the clocks in the kitchen

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Speaker 3: are seven minutes fast and I'm not a fan of this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that seems a little logress.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but it doesn't work either. It also doesn't make

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Speaker 3: any difference because she's doing the mental math. She knows

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Speaker 3: that it's not really that time.

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Speaker 2: It's almost like you would have to change it without her.

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Speaker 3: Note that's what I would have to do, which would

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Speaker 3: be dishonest. Room yay, Oh rundowns, thank you?

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Speaker 2: Easton? Do you miss us?

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Speaker 3: Easton is an alternate studio right now recording another cond

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Speaker 3: a podcast.

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Speaker 4: That's right.

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Speaker 5: So you'll have to collect them all to see the

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Speaker 5: full continuity because I'm just swooping through here and I'm

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Speaker 5: on my way to another property.

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Speaker 3: What are you doing? Wind down with Janet Kramer? Wind

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Speaker 3: down Janet Kramer?

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Speaker 2: Wow, that is your dream, as you have had a

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Speaker 2: crush on Jane Kramer for years and years.

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Speaker 3: Yes, this is a big deal for me. You're a

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Speaker 3: big fan of hers, you know her music, you know

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Speaker 5: That's right season two of Friday Night Lights. I knew

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Speaker 5: her a smash Wiam's girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I get to sit right next to her when

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Speaker 3: you go see her in concert, and then she like

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Speaker 3: knows you're there and acknowledges you like, this is exciting,

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Speaker 3: it's crazy, it's crazy.

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Speaker 5: One of my buddies recently was like, so you could

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Speaker 5: just text Jana Kramer right now, Like you could just

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Speaker 5: text her and she'd respond. And I'm like, yes I did,

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Speaker 5: and yes I will and I did it and she

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Speaker 5: didn't respond right away, but she did respond.

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Speaker 3: That is a fun thing. Now, Tiny, you have a

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Speaker 3: lot of celebrities and phone numbers in your phone? I

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Speaker 3: do do you use that to impress people sometimes that

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Speaker 2: That's all over her Instagram. Everyone knows her, like she's

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Speaker 2: very everyone knows their friends, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, that's true.

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Speaker 1: Texting to impress is the bigger question. I was like

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Speaker 1: talking to a guy and he was like, yeah, can

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Speaker 1: you text Charlie. I'd be like, I'm calling you on

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Speaker 1: the eleventh of never came by.

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Speaker 3: Like, well, like when you go home to losal maybe

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Speaker 3: home for the holidays, friends from high school, family members

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Speaker 3: like oh yeah, oh Haley just texted me. Yeah that's right.

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Speaker 1: Texting about my parents like don't know anything, so they

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Speaker 1: don't find you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: To them playing parents. Like, for me, if I go

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Speaker 3: back to Wisconsin, they're very impressed at Ryan Seacrest's phone

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Speaker 3: numbers in my phone. That's a very exciting thing for

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Speaker 3: the family in Wisconsin. Yeah, not not you, huh.

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Speaker 1: I think it's my I think my family is called jaded.

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Speaker 1: Really cool that I'm on the air with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: So you're the celebrity in their lives.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's freaking cool.

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Speaker 2: They're like, Ryan Seacrest gets to be on air with

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Speaker 2: Tan your rad Wow, that's.

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Speaker 3: How he impresses people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Ryan does it Like do you listen to scrubbing in? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: my co Hostanya.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I get to imagine.

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Speaker 3: Well, this ties in nice to the fact that Becka

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Speaker 3: Tilly is going to come on on Are with Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. I am so excited and also very nervous.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to like really wake up early and

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Speaker 2: get here on time because that's yeah, you cannot be

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Speaker 3: Don't be late for that. Traffic's gonna be worse than

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's worse at that time. Yes, I might have

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Speaker 2: to stay over with you at your new place.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't have room right now, you have a bed,

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Speaker 1: there's another Oh yeah, there's another side of the bed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's true.

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Speaker 2: We'll just lay there on our backs looking up at

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Speaker 2: the ceiling in silence. Silence.

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Speaker 1: I listened to cars driving by last night to like

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Speaker 2: You don't have a sell machine on your phone.

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Speaker 1: I do, but like this is how paranoid in my

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Speaker 1: brain is. I don't know if like the I don't

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Speaker 1: know if like it still I don't know my outlets.

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Speaker 1: So I was like panicked to have my phone going

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Speaker 1: all night in case it wasn't charging because I turned

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Speaker 1: the light off it would keep charging my phone.

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Speaker 3: I don't know the why not check charging or not?

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Speaker 2: It has a little lightning little green but huh, like

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Speaker 2: if you turned your light off and checked your phone,

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Speaker 1: I even then and has a bad little bit of

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Speaker 1: oc it is. It was a little like I just

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Speaker 1: all night if it's not if it's going to die,

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Speaker 1: and then I'm not gonna wake up for work and

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Speaker 1: nobody can get a hold of me. And I'm living

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Speaker 3: The rabbit hole.

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Speaker 2: She's like an old lady.

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Speaker 3: She lived alone for one day and this is where

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Speaker 2: In her defense, it's not she's not settled in there yet.

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Speaker 2: It's a new place. It is on a street where

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Speaker 2: you can hear the car. So that's a new sound.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, which I enjoy. Actually, I do enjoy that.

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Speaker 3: And I get that. I get the weirdness of the

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Speaker 3: noises you're not used to. It's all unfamiliar. I get that.

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Speaker 1: So I don't mind if you spend the night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're going to go get a TV today, right.

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Speaker 3: Nice Costco best buy. Costco is your best deal on TV.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a member of Costco. Oh, I do have

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Speaker 1: to say. So I went to sit and Sleep yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Oh and I went in and the guy was like

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Speaker 1: he really was like helping me. Like he's like, I

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Speaker 1: and I was like wow, I was like, this is

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Speaker 1: really cool they do. Oh I go, I go, since

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Speaker 1: sleep will beat everyone's prices.

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Speaker 2: Are your mattresses free?

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Speaker 1: And he was laughing at me so hard. I was like,

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Speaker 3: That's the greatest of a Tanya rad though, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: Like we talk about how an air Tanya is the

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Speaker 3: same as off air Tanya, but Tanya at sitting sleep

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Speaker 3: is the same Tanya. Like I think I'm even different

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Speaker 3: at sitting sleep, Like I've just kind of annoyed and

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Speaker 3: want to get out. Not Tanya happy everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to write you a yep

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Speaker 1: of you. What is your name? And he like gave

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Speaker 2: She's like thrilled with her experience, like most people were like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I know what I want, Like just.

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Speaker 3: Ye walk around and I don't want to deal with

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Speaker 3: your salesman nonsense that you always do.

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Speaker 2: And the commercials were right, because I like they really

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Speaker 2: help you.

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Speaker 1: He's like, you need this protector over the mattress, but

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Speaker 1: I'm going to give it to you for this pun.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you need this protection over the mattress.

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Speaker 1: You do, because if there's any sort of liquid on

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Speaker 1: on the mattress, they will not give it to you

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Speaker 1: on warranty.

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Speaker 2: But he gave you a nice deal on that mattress

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Speaker 2: cover a really good deal with the liquid flow, then yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm just going to pour something like.

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Speaker 3: Disgusting.

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Speaker 2: Why is there liquid in your bed water? You don't

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Speaker 2: drink water, your ben water like dries.

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Speaker 3: I've never spilled water in my bed I have.

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Speaker 2: But it like it dries.

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Speaker 1: But then it leaves a mark on that mattress and

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Speaker 1: you're not going to get it on that ten year warranty.

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Speaker 3: With that, you know what liquid might end up in

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Speaker 3: your sheets? What spit?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm a drooler?

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Speaker 2: I am?

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Speaker 3: Are you not?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Is that gross? T?

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Speaker 2: Oh? You do where you're like in visine line though?

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Speaker 2: At night? Right? Yeah? Yeah, I guess what do you do?

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Speaker 3: Are we all droolers? Sometimes, like depending on the position

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Speaker 3: we fall asleep in because it's gravity, you never drooll.

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Speaker 3: You've never walked up to a little drool on your pillow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's not a maybe like on an airplane,

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Speaker 2: but not really. It's not really consistent thing where I

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Speaker 2: dying soon if I go off those you know.

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Speaker 3: Suggesting you stop eating so often. But okay, all right,

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Speaker 3: uh Becca, you mentioned that brushing your teeth was you

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Speaker 2: Tanya, Well, I think we all talked about this, like

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Speaker 2: we all as in the Facebook group because they were like,

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Speaker 2: when is the you know, that was kind of discussed

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Speaker 2: I think right around the time the name changed, and

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Speaker 2: everyone said that everyone like the Becca tone, but Tanya would.

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Speaker 3: Sound It also makes it easy to remember, and like.

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Speaker 1: Tanya can be spelled different ways.

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Speaker 3: That's true. You know Tanya was with an Oh.

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Speaker 1: And if people have spelled it t A and I A.

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Speaker 3: I've seen that shirt. Yeah, maybe Tanya moved.

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Speaker 1: Oh did she?

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Speaker 3: We mentioned a little bit earlier, but go ahead.

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Speaker 1: So there's an apartment in my complex that's also open,

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Speaker 1: and I thought, how great would it be if Becca

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Speaker 1: Tilly were to move into my apartment complex and we'd

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Speaker 1: be back to being neighbors. We not share a wall,

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Speaker 1: so it's not like the old days, but we're basically.

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Speaker 2: It's literally maybe just as close.

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Speaker 1: The doors are just the club doors are just as close.

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Speaker 1: And it's I measured it. It's three gigantic steps.

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Speaker 2: From my book, I would like wake up and be

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Speaker 2: like four am, and all I hear is like Charlie

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Speaker 2: Pooth blasting and like and then you'd.

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Speaker 3: Hear those three steps boom boom.

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't that be awesome?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 1: They were just showing it yesterday while I was moving in,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, Becca, they're showing it today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I would love to live in the complex

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Speaker 2: with you. I'm just looking for I.

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Speaker 3: Need more room than well you have roommates.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm there they are going to be out.

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Speaker 3: Oh really you can?

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 3: So you're planning on having your own place again and

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Speaker 3: the place in Tiny's building is not as big as

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Speaker 3: your current place. Is that the issue? Right? How would

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Speaker 3: you feel about living in the valley.

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Speaker 2: I'm not opposed living in the valley. It's cute. The

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Speaker 2: location's really great. She sold me because one of my

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Speaker 2: favorite ice cream places is like walkable, so there was.

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Speaker 1: I walked right by yesterday and said, you know what,

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Speaker 1: Becca could do this.

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Speaker 2: We were on a few of the other streets close

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Speaker 2: to Tawny's apartment and there were we were like seeing

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Speaker 2: if any of them had open units. So we called,

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Speaker 2: and there's this one place and then we She was like,

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Speaker 2: look how close you are to Trader Joe's and blah

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Speaker 2: blah blah. And then we passed and it was like McConnell's,

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Speaker 2: which is my favorite ice cream and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I should look at this place. I should.

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Speaker 1: Did you look at it?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: I they can't, but I yesterday I went by the

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Speaker 1: Farmer's Market because you know, I love to go to

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Speaker 1: the Farmer's Market on Sundays. And I was like, I'm

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Speaker 1: probably gonna have to come back to the Brentwood one

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Speaker 1: once a month to stock up on my favorite soups

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Speaker 1: because my soup. I love my soup lady. Guess what,

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Speaker 1: my new farmer's market has a soup lady, the same

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Speaker 1: soup lady. WHOA, yeah, it's not there. I guess three

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Speaker 1: women that work for the company, So now they're in

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Speaker 1: two locations. I was like, is this not a sign

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Speaker 1: or what?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you're really gonna like it there.

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Speaker 3: I think so too, Becka, let me get your opinion

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Speaker 3: on this. Tanya wants to give gifts and a note

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Speaker 3: to all of her new neighbors.

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Speaker 2: I literally asked her. I was like, are you gonna

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Speaker 2: like bake cookies for the whole complex. She's like, I

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Speaker 2: think I'm gonna go get like some candy or something

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Speaker 2: cute and leave like a little note and be like, Hi,

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Speaker 2: I'm Tanya, I'm your new neighbor. Like I would expect

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Speaker 2: nothing less.

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Speaker 1: That's actually a perfect note. Hi I'm Tanya, I'm your

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Speaker 1: new neighbor.

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Speaker 3: That's it. Yeah, that's the end of the.

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Speaker 1: Note XO or heart Tanya.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, I'm Tanya. I'm a new neighbor, Tanya.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy these treats, Okay, And what are the treats I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna get some sort of.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't do anything baked.

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Speaker 3: No, you can't, because I would. I would think muffins

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Speaker 3: or something would be a sweet thing or cupcakes.

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Speaker 2: World's too dangerous to make.

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Speaker 6: Come.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, especially.

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Speaker 3: Our neighbors made us treats. They're delicious.

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Speaker 2: You're lucky.

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Speaker 3: You're so riddled with every uh so candy sorry sorry candy. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I don't know about candy, Like what kind of candy.

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Speaker 1: Like chocolates or yeah, like wrapped candy. Like I was

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Speaker 1: gonna go to this really cute like chocolate tear or

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Speaker 1: whatever and get like just like wrapped candy.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's not a big complex, so it's not like

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Speaker 2: she's having to go.

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Speaker 1: There's not like one hundred, there's like twelve of us.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and you've met some of these people.

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Speaker 1: I've met some.

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Speaker 3: And how's that gone?

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Speaker 2: Pretty good?

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Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, there was some people. Yeah, yeah, some people

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Speaker 1: coming to see one of the open ones yesterday and

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Speaker 1: I was like poking my head out and there was

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Speaker 1: like one cute couple and I was like, oh, they're

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Speaker 1: so cute. They probably have so many friends.

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Speaker 3: But that's Becker's place. I don't want to sabotage a

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Speaker 3: little bit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean, in my hope's kind of gone

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Speaker 1: with this one. I've sent her video. I mean, there's

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Speaker 1: only so much I can do.

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Speaker 2: Hey, she's offered to pay for it. It's like, what

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Speaker 2: else am I going to do?

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Speaker 3: Are there any buy.

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Speaker 1: My mom yesterday was like, oh, that'd be so great.

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Speaker 1: At Beck moved here, I was like, probably not gonna happen,

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Speaker 1: but girl can dream.

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Speaker 3: Are there any potential guys of interest in this building.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. It seems to be more couples

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Speaker 1: and like family mhm. But there is one people, one people,

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Speaker 1: one pair that live next door to me that are

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Speaker 1: this is what I hear through the grapevine. They're not together,

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Speaker 1: but they're yeah, they're not together, but they're roommates. Guy

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Speaker 1: and a girl's best friends. Since they were like whatever,

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Speaker 1: that's fascinating. I have not met them yet.

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Speaker 3: I don't understand that we got some there's.

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Speaker 2: Some can you look it up? On the Facebook group,

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Speaker 2: someone said, because we teased it last week and they

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Speaker 1: Oh, platonic roommates.

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Speaker 3: I will look into that after them, but talk about

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Speaker 6: I'm great, how are you guys doing well?

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being here today.

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Speaker 6: And well, thank you for having me. I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: Well, we know that you were a People's Choice nominee.

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Speaker 2: in there.

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Speaker 6: We're all the safe through Kitchen for it, right, People's

670
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 6: Choice forward.

671
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 2: That's right.

672
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: Every time I go. So I do you vote for

673
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: yourself every single day?

674
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 6: Not gonna lie. I did for like the first week,

675
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 6: and then I keep forgetting oh, because I have like

676
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 6: I'm I'm not. I'm literally like in a different state

677
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 6: or country every other day, so my time zones are

678
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 6: just off and I'll be like, oh, cras, I got.

679
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: A vote because I've been like aggressively voting every day

680
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 1: on like a lot of emails. And our our our

681
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 1: our categories are like right next to each other, like

682
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: on the little dial. So every time I go to vote,

683
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: sometimes it'll send me to your guys's category. So I

684
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: feel like I'm very familiar with with your category.

685
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 6: Oh dude, my category is stacked and.

686
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 3: That's a really.

687
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 1: It's a really awesome like category to be nominated in.

688
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 6: Dude, I'm not kidding you. I first I was like

689
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 6: when I was told, I'm like, you're kidding me, right,

690
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 6: I didn't believe. I thought it was a joke. I'm like,

691
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 6: I was literally in the middle of my work out

692
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 6: and like, I got a text message from one of

693
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 6: our girls, JJ and she was like, hey, guess that

694
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 6: i'minna for People's twice word and I was like, uh,

695
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 6: not me and then and then she was like, no, girl,

696
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 6: you did. And I kept going through my sets, like

697
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 6: my workouts, and I'm like, okay, whatever, check my phone

698
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 6: again like a minute later, and she like sent me

699
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 6: the actual link that had my face on it. And

700
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 6: I was like what. I'm like, did they know who

701
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 6: they like? What? Huh?

702
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 2: No, they knew?

703
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 1: Well, do you consider yourself a game changer?

704
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 6: So that's a hut, Like, okay, so we I don't

705
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 6: want to be talking to me like heck, yeah, I do.

706
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 6: I consnner myself a game changer. Like it's more of

707
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 6: like I've kind of I understand why I'm in the

708
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 6: category for what I've been doing, but I've never really

709
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 6: sat there and thought like I'm going to go change

710
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 6: the game. I kind of always just been like somebody

711
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 6: who's like I'm just going to go do my thing

712
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 6: and like live my truth and hopefully I help others

713
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 6: on the way. But like I never really now that

714
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 6: I sit back and be like, wow, I didn't realize

715
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 6: it was like game changing.

716
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: But I think that's like when the that's when the

717
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: magic happens. It's when you're being your authentic self. You know,

718
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: like you're just being you, that's all you know how

719
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: to do, but you're you're having such an impact on people.

720
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: That's really cool.

721
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 2: Well I want it for those of you who don't

722
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 2: watch the show or no Naya, can you explain why

723
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 2: you've been nominated in this category for our listeners who

724
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 2: who like what has made you a game changer and

725
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 2: when you talk about being yourself what that means.

726
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 6: So, so I'm on wwe BRA, which is every Monday

727
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 6: night on DUSA Network, and I'm also on Total Leavas,

728
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 6: which is on the E Network. And basically, I guess

729
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 6: you can say I'm one of the first ever like

730
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 6: plus size women like athletes to be on Total Vivas

731
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 6: the one. But you know, the first ever women were

732
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 6: a women's champion that's been a plus size woman. And

733
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 6: I guess I can consider me changing the game because

734
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 6: I'm living my truth. I'm just being myself. Like I

735
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 6: promote the message of always being who you are, being

736
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 6: proud of who you are, and not letting anybody or

737
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 6: anything like make you feel less than. And it's something

738
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 6: that I promote in my and I go out in

739
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 6: the ring and I'm you know, I'm an athlete, like

740
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 6: out there and I show what my body can do

741
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 6: and show that my body has a purpose. And then

742
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 6: I'm totaled. Even people see like my craft, dirty mouth,

743
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 6: like you know, I'm out in like a two piece

744
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 6: or whatever, like rock and kinie with my butt cheeks

745
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 6: and like, you know, back that hanging out like I'm

746
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 6: literally just being me. So if yeah, if they like that,

747
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 6: they like that. If they don't, I'm okay with it.

748
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 2: Do well, I think everyone is in that. I think

749
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 2: we've kind of turned a corner in the sense of

750
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 2: everyone's wanting more of that, you know, like everyone's kind

751
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 2: of tired of the well, I think just body shaming

752
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 2: in general, whether it's plus size or if people are

753
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: saying someone's too skinny. I think there's just a sense

754
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 2: of everyone's kind of tired of that and wanting people

755
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 2: to just like show themselves and like themselves without there

756
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: being filters or you know, anything beyond that. So I

757
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: think it's really awesome and I think you absolutely deserve

758
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: to be nominated in the category where you're nominated.

759
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Speaker 6: Oh, thank you so much. It was crazy because I remember, like,

760
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 6: you know, wrestling such a huge like it's a big

761
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 6: like I feel like pastime in you know, in families

762
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 6: in America, and when we have WrestleMania, it's a huge

763
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 6: feel for us, and I just I will never forget.

764
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 6: When I went to WrestleMania, my first WrestleMania thirty two

765
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 6: in Orlando, I was meeting fans like we get to

766
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 6: meet fans, it's called access, like a big it's almost

767
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:28,399
Speaker 6: like Comic Con that like for wrestling, and fans would

768
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 6: come up to me and just like they like young kids,

769
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,879
Speaker 6: would tell me how much I'd impacted them just being

770
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 6: myself and like I appreciating who I am and not

771
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 6: letting anybody make me feel like that about who I am.

772
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 6: And then I went home, like later that night, and

773
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 6: I was just like, it's crazy, it's the impact I'm having.

774
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 6: And I decided to post a picture of myself in

775
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 6: a bathing suit because when I wrestle, I wear a

776
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 6: full body suit and like nobody you know, I mean,

777
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 6: I don't show a lot of skin, but like just

778
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 6: because I feel comfortable in that when I wrestle, And

779
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 6: so I decided to post a bathing suit picture and

780
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 6: not just like preach about like you know this is me,

781
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 6: like take it. But it's almost like I am just

782
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 6: we only go around this place once, right, there's you

783
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 6: only get one chance at life. Like I'm not going

784
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 6: to sit here and feel bad about who I am.

785
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 6: I'm a work in progress. You're a work in progress.

786
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 6: Nobody should actually go through life constantly worrying about like

787
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 6: what they wear, what they look like. They should be

788
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 6: able to go in life and achieve their goals, go

789
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 6: out for what they want and know that what they're

790
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 6: doing and what they're wearing and who they are is

791
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 6: just perfect the way they are. And that's when I

792
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 6: was like, I'm going to make this post and like

793
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 6: I felt so strongly about it, not thinking like anybody

794
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 6: would care. And then it literally like whent viral and

795
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 6: I was like, what the heck. That's when I was like, uh,

796
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 6: like what did I do? But it's cool. It's an

797
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 6: amazing thing, and I'm really really happy about it.

798
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 2: I mean, we're looking at the photo now. Your body

799
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 2: is insane.

800
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,399
Speaker 1: It's I know, it is so awesome. And I think

801
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: that it's really cool too, because like, like you're saying,

802
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 1: everybody says, you know, you're the next whoever, You're like

803
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: the next whatever, but you're just you. You know, like

804
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: everybody seems to be themselves, and I think, you know,

805
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 1: everybody's really embracing that right now, and you know what

806
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 1: you deserve. You know, we got a rally. We got

807
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 1: to get get you some boats.

808
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 6: Girl. Yeah, oh I do not mind that. I'm like,

809
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 6: come on. But then I was sitting here thinking like,

810
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 6: is it one of those awards were I have to

811
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 6: like go up and accept and like give a speech.

812
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not. We're not quite sure. But you believe

813
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 1: that I have manifested the ish out of our acceptance.

814
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 5: Speech, did you?

815
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,440
Speaker 2: I think has already written our acceptance speech. It will

816
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 2: be one of the things where I don't really get

817
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 2: a wording because Tanya has been planning this for months.

818
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've like written it and I've imagined us

819
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 1: saying it.

820
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, memorized, has it locked down. It's like repeated

821
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 6: before she goes to sleep every tex.

822
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I doubt not even like televise our category

823
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 1: for sure, But the fact that I've already manifested it

824
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 1: means like it will happen.

825
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 2: I would have a speech ready because you're in a

826
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 2: big time category, and I think that that'll be a category,

827
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 2: especially where they're They're going to want to acknowledge that

828
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 2: for sure, and if people want to know.

829
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 3: Ny is up for Game Changer of twenty eighteen, which

830
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 3: recognized as an athlete who's had a social and professional

831
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 3: impact this year. She's up against Ali Raisman, Christiano Ronaldo,

832
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 3: Serena Williams, and Colin Kaeperdick.

833
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 6: It's quite reminding me. Why you're reminding me. I know

834
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 6: I have some competition, I get it, but that's.

835
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: Such I mean, that is like a strong crew to

836
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 2: just like to be in that category really really cool.

837
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,760
Speaker 6: I'm completely honored. I'm just sitting here going like, holy cawic.

838
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 6: I look up to every single athlete and in a category,

839
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:33,919
Speaker 6: I'm a holy crap. I can just think I remember

840
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 6: watching every single one of them and being like, damn,

841
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 6: they're amazing, you know, and then being in a category

842
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 6: with them, I'm like, holy crap, there's no way. And

843
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 6: then I'm like, you don't want me live on a

844
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 6: microphone getting a board that I'm not even like sure

845
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 6: I should get. I'm going to be like, get the

846
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 6: bleep button ready, because I will definitely be like getting

847
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:57,280
Speaker 6: like a fine from the SEC, like sleeping the crap,

848
00:37:57,520 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 6: you know.

849
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 2: Oh about Also, there.

850
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,360
Speaker 3: Were twelve people nominated in this category and you're in

851
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 3: the top five already.

852
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:09,720
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I'm sweating over here. You're literally literally sweating.

853
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: But you know what you should do. You really should

854
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: today vote for everybody in the category, so I'll have

855
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: one vote from you, because that's a really good karma.

856
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 6: Oh alwid you know what I'm I'm all about that.

857
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 6: I do that sometimes, like if I really don't like somebody,

858
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 6: like deep down, I want to like go and just

859
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,479
Speaker 6: like say something bad. I always make sure I find

860
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 6: something good about them and I say it because then

861
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 6: it like eases me to be like, Okay, there's no

862
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 6: need to be this is like first of all, I

863
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 6: hate only hurt two, not anybody else. True, And so

864
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 6: that's why you're right. I need to go and like

865
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 6: find something do that I'm gonna do.

866
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: Like I voted for I think I voted for everyone

867
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: in our in our podcast category once, but I've voted

868
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: for our show like maybe a million times.

869
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 6: What what if my chance? Like they win by one vote?

870
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 6: And you're like, oh, I already.

871
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 2: Talked to her about that. I got to talk into

872
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 2: She's been lectured on this already.

873
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, after the lecture, I spent two hours the next

874
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 1: day in bed just voting straight for two hours.

875
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:10,359
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I love it. I love how you're saying,

876
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 6: like you sit aggressive, like I felt that you're like

877
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 6: all my emails. I'm like, dang, girl, I.

878
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: Know, I know you're traveling a lot, But are you

879
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: in town tomorrow in Los Angeles?

880
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 6: In Los Angeles? No, actually I'm not. I'm currently right now.

881
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 6: I'm in Philadelphia because we have ron and night here

882
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 6: in Philadelphia, and and tomorrow will be home in Orlando

883
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 6: for like a day before I have to pry out again.

884
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we're having a voting party at Planet Blue

885
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,320
Speaker 1: in Santa Monica. So I was gonna have you tome

886
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,359
Speaker 1: and have people vote for you too, but we can

887
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 1: tell them, well, we'll let yeah, since.

888
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 6: They're yeah verbally kang Man, that sounds like fun.

889
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 2: Well yeah, well, thank you so much for taking the

890
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 2: time to be on the show today. I know that

891
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 2: you're super busy traveling like crazy, but thank you and congratulations.

892
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 6: There's always congratulations you guys. I'm going to go and

893
00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 6: vote for you right now. Yah power yes, first sure,

894
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 6: it's like I can't wait, and I really like if

895
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,040
Speaker 6: you don't get up there and do the speech, I

896
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 6: feel like you should just do it anyway and put

897
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 6: it out there so everybody can hear it.

898
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 2: We'll do it on the podcast. I will do it

899
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 2: on the podcast.

900
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 6: Do it on the podcast because I really want to

901
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 6: hear it.

902
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 2: Amazing.

903
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,720
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, you guys, Bye, bye, luck, Thanks

904
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: you too, Bak, see you there. If we're going, we

905
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 1: don't know.

906
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:28,359
Speaker 2: She can tell she's very real, doesn't hold back, which

907
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 2: I like me too.

908
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,839
Speaker 4: Did you guys tell everybody about planning blue yet?

909
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 3: We should get into it more now.

910
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a good good segue to it, and

911
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 4: I can help you all right.

912
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:45,959
Speaker 2: Amy is in the building. Everybody, what what I'm here?

913
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 2: I'm always here.

914
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 4: I'm just doing behind the scenes, just.

915
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 3: In here on his way to Janna. Amy's also kind

916
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 3: of going.

917
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 4: We have three shows going at the same time today.

918
00:40:56,719 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 2: We are a busy bunch a podcast factory.

919
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:03,720
Speaker 4: Yes, we've got more coming.

920
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. So, as Tanya briefly mentioned, we are having a

921
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 2: voting party tomorrow at Planet Blue in Santa.

922
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 4: Which is Tuesday. So if you're listening on Tuesday, it's tonight.

923
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, if you're listening on Tuesday, it's tonight. If

924
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 2: you're listening today on Monday, it's tomorrow.

925
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 4: And if you're listening on Wednesday. Shoot, it was awesome.

926
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you missed a great party. But basically you

927
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 2: have all the details, but I do.

928
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 4: Because I wanted to surprise you guys. I didn't want

929
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 4: to make it. You guys have to throw your own party.

930
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 4: So we're throwing a really fun party at Planet Blue

931
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 4: in Santa Monica.

932
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,879
Speaker 1: I'm not against throwing out our own party to vote,

933
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 1: are you kidding?

934
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 4: And if you look on KTLA tomorrow morning, you'll see

935
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 4: beck in Tanya too. If you're in LA, this is

936
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 4: mostly for people in LA, but we're having a party

937
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 4: at Planet Blue in Santa Monica. Everybody come. The whole

938
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 4: store is going to be twenty percent off. So if

939
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 4: you have some shopping to do, We're going to have

940
00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 4: Baked by Melissa cupcakes. We have this amazing cake that

941
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 4: I'm gonna surprise you guys with. We have sweeties cookies

942
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 4: that have Becca and Tanya's faces. Oh, I'm so And

943
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 4: Planet Blue is like being so awesome. They're bringing in

944
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 4: like this amazing jewelry designer that's going to do a

945
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 4: trunk show and like they're just super stoked to have

946
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,879
Speaker 4: everybody come out. So come out, and then we'll have

947
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 4: our team will be there with phones and computers to

948
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 4: help people vote, vote, vote the whole time.

949
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll be voting the whole time.

950
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, Tanya not against it socializing, but also very busy

951
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 2: voting on the computers.

952
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 3: Yep.

953
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,439
Speaker 1: Text and Becca last night said did you remember to vote?

954
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 4: And if you have questions just email us at scrubbing in.

955
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 4: Is that what it is? Yes, scrubbing in at iHeartMedia

956
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 4: dot com.

957
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, should we say do we say what? Time?

958
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 2: Oh, five thirty to seven thirty, five thirty pm to

959
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 2: seven thirty pm on Tuesday, October sixteenth, sixteenth at Planet

960
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 2: Blue in Santa Monica. We want to meet everyone. There's

961
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 2: discounts being offered, there's cookies, there's cupcakes, and there's us.

962
00:42:56,960 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, so bring yourselves and bring your your friend or husband,

963
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: are significant others and parents' email addresses.

964
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 2: Speaking of clothing, let's talk about Beta Brand. I had

965
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 2: I believe on the Facebook groups some people mentioned that

966
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 2: they ordered them and they love them, so that was

967
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 2: like one of the best purchases they've made. Beta Brain

968
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 2: is an online clothing community that's based in San Francisco.

969
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 2: We've talked about it. They have the dress Pant yoga

970
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 2: pant that is basically a super comfortable dress pant that

971
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 2: you can wear to work. You can wear it anywhere

972
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 2: because it feels like you're wearing yoga pants.

973
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, a lot of people in their work world

974
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 1: they can't just wear yoga pants. No, they can't, but

975
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 1: they want to be comfortable. Dress pants are not comfortable

976
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: until Beta Brand.

977
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 2: Okay. So they have a bunch of different styles. They

978
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 2: have the boot cut, the straight leg, the cropped leggings,

979
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 2: and more. They have black, navy, gray, khaki, and they

980
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 2: also have seasonal and limited edition colors that's released monthly,

981
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 2: and they have selections for every shape and every size.

982
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. So if you visit Beta brand dot com,

983
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 1: do you know who's obsessed with her Beta brands by

984
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 1: the way, Sierra Markina And really, yes, she is a fan.

985
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 4: She had the tuxedo. I loved the tuxedo. It has

986
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 4: sort of the stripe down the side.

987
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 1: She does not have the tuxedo. Hers are all black,

988
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,879
Speaker 1: but she is a she is always.

989
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 4: Now did she know about them before or did she

990
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 4: get them because of you guys? Guess what, girl, she

991
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 4: got them because of you guys. Oh that warms my heart.

992
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 3: She's engaged.

993
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: She's engaged. She's a big scrubber. She's very excited. She's

994
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: all very excited about the Morning Show crossover tomorrow. She's

995
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 1: gonna get everything on digital. She's like, we need the

996
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: scrubbing and logo behind Ryan and New York Like, we

997
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 1: need this scrubbing and logo behind Ryan.

998
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, wow, Yeah, she's on top of it. Yeah.

999
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 2: So the great thing about Beta brand is the fit,

1000
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 2: the feel, the comfort. You can visit Beta brand dot

1001
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 2: com and use our code Becket to get twenty percent

1002
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 2: off of your Beta brand pants. Millions of women agree

1003
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 2: that these are the most comfortable pants you'll everwhear to work.

1004
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:10,359
Speaker 2: That's Beta brand dot com. B E T A B

1005
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 2: R A n D dot com. Use our code back

1006
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 2: at and get twenty percent off your dressed pant yoga pants.

1007
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 2: That's Beta brand dot Com and promo code.

1008
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: Becca.

1009
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 3: We have an automous email here. Who needs your advice?

1010
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 3: Beecca and Tanya But Pijing Paijing?

1011
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we fuck.

1012
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 3: Paiging Doctor Tillian, doctor Red. She says, two years ago,

1013
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 3: I saw a cute boy in the library, went up

1014
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 3: to him and asked him to study with me. I

1015
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 3: could tell he was shy, so I asked him if

1016
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 3: he wanted to meet at the bars later that night.

1017
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 3: Two years later, we're still together, and he's told me

1018
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:44,959
Speaker 3: how happy he is that I made the first move.

1019
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 3: There's only one negative. We never talk about our future.

1020
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 3: I feel like it's not normal to never talk about it,

1021
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 3: not even once. He does hint at a future by

1022
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 3: For example, in my birthday cards, he writes, can't wait

1023
00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 3: to spend every birthday with you. But what I'm were

1024
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,919
Speaker 3: on completely different pages about the future, and we'll never

1025
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 3: know because he doesn't like talking about it. We're only

1026
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 3: twenty four. Should I just chill? I don't like bringing

1027
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 3: things like this up because I know he feels uncomfortable.

1028
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 3: Thanks for your input. I seriously love you all so much.

1029
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,919
Speaker 4: I've been corresponding with her back and forth. I said,

1030
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 4: can you do a little of both a little bit

1031
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 4: of chill and a little bit of ask what you

1032
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 4: need to ask.

1033
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 2: That's a great that's great advice. Actually, I was going

1034
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 2: to say, I think that needs to just be a

1035
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 2: conversation where you say, hey, I just wanted to make

1036
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 2: sure that we're on the same page. I'm not like

1037
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 2: pressuring you into anything, but I didn't want there to

1038
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 2: be I'm having expectations and you don't have any plans

1039
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 2: of fulfilling those expectations. So I just want to have

1040
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 2: a conversation about it. They're young, and he does can't

1041
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 2: wait to spend every birthday with you.

1042
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 4: What I The part that made me a little nervous

1043
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 4: when I was reading her email was that she's sort

1044
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 4: of walking on eggshells or doesn't want to bring it up.

1045
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 4: And I find and you, guys, i'd love to hear

1046
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 4: your thoughts. We lose ourselves, lose ourselves, lose ourselves, walk

1047
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 4: on egg shells, walk on eggs shells, walk on egg shells.

1048
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 4: That becomes a big problem, where right now it's just

1049
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 4: a little thing. So I was trying to figure out

1050
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 4: if she could satisfy some of what she wants to

1051
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 4: ask but still being chill, Can.

1052
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 3: I, as a guy go ahead, Tanya? And then then

1053
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 3: the guy is gonna give his perspective.

1054
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: If you have zero chill, be zero chill, like you

1055
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's just like I think we're

1056
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: so in our head about things, and like I get it,

1057
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: like I'm a lot of a person like personality, Like

1058
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: I'm a lot, but I'm not gonna stop being a

1059
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: lot because I'm like scared that the guy, like I'm

1060
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 1: gonna scare him off, or like you know what I mean.

1061
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 1: Everyone keeps saying, oh, you need to not talk about

1062
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: guys you're dating, and I'm like, that's my life and

1063
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: that's what I choose to do, and that's what I

1064
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: want to do, and that's what I'm gonna do. And

1065
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 1: guess what, the one that's meant for me is just

1066
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: gonna hop on board and ride the train with me.

1067
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 4: I gotta say I like it, Tanya. I think you'll

1068
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 4: be happier than people that are holding back and twisting

1069
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 4: and bending like a pretzel and taking some breadcrumbs.

1070
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, like a balance of like like in

1071
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 2: certain stitution, because you have to be able to meet

1072
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 2: someone else's needs when you're in a relationship. So if

1073
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,800
Speaker 2: he's not ready to plan out his future, he shouldn't

1074
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 2: have to plan out the future just because that's what

1075
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 2: she wants to do.

1076
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,479
Speaker 4: Also an excellent point. This is why I love you both.

1077
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 4: Keep going.

1078
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 2: It's so interesting just to hear the guy.

1079
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 3: Look, here's the deal. I'm gonna tell you like it is.

1080
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 3: Everything's fine, Everything is exactly where it needs to be,

1081
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 3: and you need to get out of your head. Because

1082
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 3: he said to you, I can't wait to spend every

1083
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 3: birthday with you. That's huge. That was him telling you

1084
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 3: I am on the same page as you. You don't

1085
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 3: need to have a seat and talk about it and

1086
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 3: look into each other's eyes and get out a calendar

1087
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 3: and plan everything out. He's not ready for that. He

1088
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 3: told you everything you need to know with that sentence

1089
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 3: in that birthday card. He is on board. The more

1090
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 3: you talk about it, the more uncomfortable he's gonna get,

1091
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 3: and you're gonna push him away. He's twenty four, you're

1092
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 3: twenty five. When you're twenty seven, twenty eight, if you're

1093
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,359
Speaker 3: starting to freak out a little bit, okay, But for now,

1094
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 3: everything is exactly where it's supposed to be. He probably

1095
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 3: even has in his head a time when this is

1096
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 3: going to culminate in a glorious proposal, but he's not

1097
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:15,479
Speaker 3: ready to talk about that, because you shouldn't talk about

1098
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 3: But what year?

1099
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 2: Like some girls are like, I don't want to wait

1100
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 2: around for so many years.

1101
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 3: He's giving you no signs that he's not on board.

1102
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 3: In fact, he's giving you signs he is on board.

1103
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 4: I am with I really, each all of y'all has

1104
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 4: a great perspective on this, which brings us back to, well,

1105
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 4: then what Because I agree with Tanya, I agree with Becka,

1106
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 4: and agree with Mark. So what do we do?

1107
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 3: I'm just telling you where he's coming up.

1108
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what Anonymous does. She does. What's inside

1109
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: Anonymous is gut because.

1110
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 2: That's what's wrong with society. Oh what she says next week?

1111
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 2: This week, she's saying, be who you are, don't change

1112
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 2: for anyone. Next week, we'll see where she's at.

1113
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 1: The guy that I'm dating really likes Star Wars.

1114
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna watch every Star Wars movie because.

1115
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 1: No, I mean, I do think that there's something a

1116
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 1: little bit of like obviously, like I don't like sports,

1117
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: but if I date someone and they love basketball, I will.

1118
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 1: I'm inevitably gonna watch basketball. But guess what, I'm gonna

1119
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 1: freaking sing Ariana Grande during the commercials, you know what

1120
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,319
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, I'm gonna put my spin on it.

1121
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 3: Guys don't like these conversations. And it's not just because

1122
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 3: guys are commitment phobic. It's because guys, yeah, exactly, it's

1123
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:35,240
Speaker 3: an uncomfortable conversation. But also when he proposes, he drops

1124
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 3: onto one knee, he wants you to cry. He wants

1125
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 3: you to be totally taken by surprise. So if you're

1126
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 3: talking about everything in the future that takes away so

1127
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 3: much of that, he doesn't want it. He just wants

1128
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 3: to go with it.

1129
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 4: So here's what I'm thinking. And I forgot her name.

1130
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 4: What's her nice? Anonymous, anonymous, beautiful, so gorgeous name. Many

1131
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 4: of our listeners have it. Here's what I'm thinking Mark

1132
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 4: Tanya Becca, She's got to find confidence in herself, which

1133
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 4: is in my forty four years I'm learning is the

1134
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 4: key to feel happy and content and satisfied and not

1135
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,799
Speaker 4: let her head get the best of her. She should

1136
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 4: still be authentic, not walk on eggshells. If she needs

1137
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 4: to ask something, ask it. But the overthinking that we

1138
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 4: women do that you men do not do at all

1139
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 4: has to stop.

1140
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 3: Live in the moment. Are you happy now? If you

1141
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 3: are great?

1142
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: That is an excellent Z song. I'm just saying happy now.

1143
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 2: My whole thing, though, in her defense, is after two

1144
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 2: years of not having a conversation of you know, do

1145
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 2: you see like this going to where we're getting married?

1146
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 2: Like do you see us just as dating for a

1147
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:50,239
Speaker 2: long time? Do you see us getting married? I'm gonna

1148
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 2: want to have that conversation after a certain amount of time.

1149
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 4: I thought you started out as the one that was

1150
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 4: kind of like you gotta bend and you got to

1151
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 4: meet people, have to go.

1152
00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 2: I'm saying she has to like don't freak out and

1153
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 2: be like lose your chill, but also be like this

1154
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 2: is what I need.

1155
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 4: Just see then I'm back to She's right, like everybody

1156
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 4: in this room is giving me an excellent.

1157
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,439
Speaker 3: You're happy now, he's happy. Now be happy.

1158
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 2: Now saying is how long does she What if it's

1159
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 2: seven years from now, Well, maybe I.

1160
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:19,319
Speaker 3: Don't worry about that. Seven years from now she's not

1161
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 3: happy conversation.

1162
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, when she's not happy now, I'm waiting that long.

1163
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 3: Okay, but no, okay, it's not seven years, but it's

1164
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 3: not today Today, everything's great.

1165
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: If I'm getting a new mattress before this conversation happens,

1166
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 1: we have issues. Got that ten year warranty, Anonymous, you

1167
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: got to have this conversation before I.

1168
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 2: Get Everything's fine, Like, I don't think there's anything to

1169
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 2: worry about in the sense that he's breaking up with

1170
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 2: you or anything like that. I agree with Mark on that.

1171
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 2: I do think if if you're in your head about

1172
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 2: it and having a conversation face to face would make

1173
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 2: you feel better, you deserve to have a conversation.

1174
00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:57,439
Speaker 3: Okay, So what if you did it where you talk

1175
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,439
Speaker 3: about something in the future in a more asual Yeah,

1176
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 3: like babies, that's a little Oh, I don't know what

1177
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,160
Speaker 3: that is necessarily, but maybe you talk about where he

1178
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 3: sees himself, like job wise, what do you see yourself

1179
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:13,600
Speaker 3: in a couple of years, like what's next for you? Like,

1180
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 3: I don't know, there's a way to talk about your

1181
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 3: future that's not going to scare him.

1182
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 2: But why shouldn't scare him? If he said I'm going

1183
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 2: to spend every birthday with.

1184
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:24,399
Speaker 3: You, I agree, he's on board. This has been my point.

1185
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 4: Is that literally why relationships are hard, this conversation because

1186
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 4: not there is no answer. And I'm really struggling right

1187
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 4: now because in my life I find that I'm letting

1188
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 4: my overthinking get the best of me, and so I

1189
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 4: want to tell everybody stop it.

1190
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, the over But what I'm saying is if

1191
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 2: you can have a conversation and that settles you, have

1192
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 2: the conversation, you know.

1193
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 4: I've started asking people this question, and I would love

1194
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,319
Speaker 4: to ask back on Tanya before they move on. What

1195
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 4: makes you the happiest each day? What is the thing

1196
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 4: that happens in your life that really makes you happy

1197
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 4: every day?

1198
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:04,919
Speaker 1: Getting up?

1199
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 4: Good answer?

1200
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 2: Getting up? Like just being up.

1201
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: I start every day so freaking happy, And I honestly

1202
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 1: like it's something I mentally chose. A while ago, I

1203
00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 1: was in like a dark hole and I was like,

1204
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 1: I'm healthy, I have a good job, I have great friends.

1205
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: Like what are we doing? And I was like, I'm

1206
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 1: gonna make a point to wake up just super like

1207
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: as cheesy it sounds grateful for the day, and I

1208
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 1: wake up just super happy. And then that's when I

1209
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:36,800
Speaker 1: can go downhill.

1210
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 2: It starts, grew, it starts.

1211
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:40,040
Speaker 4: How about you?

1212
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:44,439
Speaker 2: I would say, like Phoebe, I thought you might say that,

1213
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:47,799
Speaker 2: Phoebe and like eating really.

1214
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I love it. Tell me, like tell

1215
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 4: me more so like Phoebe gives you sort of that

1216
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 4: sense of calm or yea.

1217
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:56,359
Speaker 2: Like her smell or something really calms me. And just

1218
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 2: like she's like, just like her job is to just

1219
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 2: make sure we're all happy, you know, my sister's and

1220
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 2: my sisters and myself, my sisters and me, and and

1221
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 2: then eating is just like obviously like what's better, So

1222
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 2: let's talk about me.

1223
00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 4: Let's talk about that.

1224
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 2: Then.

1225
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,399
Speaker 4: Do you really enjoy when you're eating and what you're eating,

1226
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:17,359
Speaker 4: like you don't rush through it or just you know,

1227
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 4: like do you take a moment then.

1228
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 2: You know, I think in the like I take a

1229
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 2: first bite and I'm like, wow, I love this. You

1230
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 2: know that thrills me? Also you know what really makes

1231
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 2: me happy, and I wish I did it more because

1232
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 2: every time I do it, I'm like, if I just

1233
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 2: took time to really do this is going outside and

1234
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:37,359
Speaker 2: feeling like fresh air. If I go on a walk

1235
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 2: or something fresh air, fresh air, that's good.

1236
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 4: What about you?

1237
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 3: Mark hugs coming to mind. When I get home from work,

1238
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:50,399
Speaker 3: I hug my wife and my kids, and I love

1239
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 3: that my little one runs up into my arms. Uh.

1240
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,840
Speaker 3: And then just my wife in general, her laugh, her smile,

1241
00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 3: the little moments we have together watch a show before bed,

1242
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 3: or our inside jokes or whatnot. Also that moment at

1243
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:07,880
Speaker 3: the end of the day when I change into my sweatpants,

1244
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:10,759
Speaker 3: Oh God, which I think is my equivalent of taking

1245
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 3: my bra off at the end of.

1246
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:13,760
Speaker 2: The day, is like I'm dying taking pants.

1247
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 3: It's a great failing. Yep.

1248
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:17,319
Speaker 4: Since y'all asked, let me tell you mine. You know,

1249
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 4: I don't know. What I've learned is because over the

1250
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 4: last year I've had some very high highs and some

1251
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:26,439
Speaker 4: very low lows. And the high highs are a great thing,

1252
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:30,240
Speaker 4: and the low lows are so brutal. So I really

1253
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 4: enjoy when I am like in my bed eating some

1254
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 4: berries and chocolate watching a show and I realize twenty

1255
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 4: minutes have gone by and I have not I'm gonna cry,

1256
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:42,720
Speaker 4: and I have not worried about something.

1257
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 3: When you can turn your brain off and just enjoy

1258
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 3: something distraction, a distraction.

1259
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 2: It's like bliss because you don't really experience calm like

1260
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:57,399
Speaker 2: that because your life isn't calm. No, You're like go,

1261
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:58,320
Speaker 2: go go all the time.

1262
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, and there's so much going on in there. That's

1263
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 4: why I'm saying like this, poor anonymous, like stop overthinking it.

1264
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 2: Yeah. So yeah, okay, well good time. That was a

1265
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:12,440
Speaker 2: cathartic you needed that.

1266
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 1: But true, like we can really like get in our

1267
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 1: heads about so many things. It's like, well I like

1268
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: becas too.

1269
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 4: It's like on that walk when you just go outside

1270
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 4: for an hour and I feel bad for the people

1271
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 4: that live somewhere where it's not California.

1272
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 3: You can't do that, Yeah for six months a year. Yeah,

1273
00:57:28,040 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 3: I grew up with that.

1274
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:31,280
Speaker 2: I think it's also I had a moment the other

1275
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:33,520
Speaker 2: day where I was I think it was one it

1276
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 2: was like that last Monday where it was like I

1277
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 2: was stuck in traffic all day, Like it was like

1278
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 2: go nothing was going how I needed it to go.

1279
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:43,400
Speaker 2: And all of a sudden, I read a story about

1280
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 2: someone's mom who had cancer or something, and I was like,

1281
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:51,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna start crying too. It's just like, let it out.

1282
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 2: So lucky the things that we get like upset about

1283
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 2: or let like get us down. It's like, we have

1284
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 2: so much to be If you like sit there and

1285
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 2: think about the things that you have that a lot

1286
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 2: of people don't have, like it can really turn your

1287
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 2: perspective around. And like we're so like our health and

1288
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 2: being able to have a job and being able to

1289
00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 2: have a car and having electricity, and like, you just

1290
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 2: start thinking about the things that a lot of people

1291
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 2: don't have, and it, I think it changes your perspective

1292
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 2: really quickly.

1293
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 4: So did I ever tell you that story? So obviously,

1294
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 4: I think for most of us in this room, our

1295
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 4: relationships are the most important thing to us. So this

1296
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 4: is years ago. But I had bumped into some girl

1297
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 4: I don't even remember who it was, and she said, oh,

1298
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:40,360
Speaker 4: how are you doing. The last time I saw you?

1299
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 4: You were so upset over that guy? And I said, who,

1300
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 4: I have no memory of this whatsoever, And like I

1301
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,600
Speaker 4: try to hold on to that because it had probably

1302
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 4: been let's say, two years since i'd seen her or whatever,

1303
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 4: and I have no memory of what she's talking about.

1304
00:58:58,160 --> 00:59:00,640
Speaker 4: And that is such a perspective. We need to have

1305
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:05,320
Speaker 4: whatever's just gutting you right now, it will get better.

1306
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:08,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so true.

1307
00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 3: What's the quote? I think it's a John Lennon.

1308
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 4: Quote where imagine all the people.

1309
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 3: That's not the one, it will it will, everything will

1310
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 3: be okay in the end.

1311
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: And if it's not okay, it's not the end.

1312
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. I love that one.

1313
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: It's true. It's like what I was telling I feel

1314
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: like I said a couple of podcasts ago, and I

1315
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 1: was like, I feel like I question. I'm always like,

1316
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: where's my guy? Where's my guy? Where's my guy? And

1317
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 1: God's been so faithful in my life to deliver every

1318
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 1: relationship that I have in my life. Is there for

1319
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 1: a reason, you know what I mean? He's been so

1320
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 1: faithful in every single relationship that I've had, career wise,

1321
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: friendship wise. Why am I going to question that one?

1322
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 2: You know?

1323
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 4: Tell me about it. I think the same thing, like

1324
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 4: why am I good at friends? Why am I good

1325
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 4: at work? Why am I good at school?

1326
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 2: Or whatever it is?

1327
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 4: It's like, why would I be so bad at this?

1328
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 4: Then the other thing I do think might help you

1329
01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 4: too too. I don't know, let's not hurt ourselves. Like

1330
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:12,120
Speaker 4: I literally am done with looking at someone's Instagram. That's

1331
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 4: not gonna help me. Yeah, do you know what I'm saying?

1332
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 4: It's like and it's a little bit of white knuckling

1333
01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 4: it a little bit because you're like, oh.

1334
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 2: I want to look? Why do I want to look?

1335
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 4: And then I'd literally say to myself, let's be nice

1336
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 4: to ourselves.

1337
01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 2: Uh.

1338
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,959
Speaker 1: I had to unfollow doctor W after we stopped dating

1339
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 1: each other, and he was kind of like, oh, you

1340
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 1: unfollowed me on Instagram, kind of like, oh, that's really petty,

1341
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 1: but I and it was not even from a petty place.

1342
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 1: It goes. I did not choose to through this to end.

1343
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 1: I now need to get over it, and watching your

1344
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 1: stories isn't helping me do that. So for myself, I

1345
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 1: needed to unfollow you, like and that's my prerogative, Like

1346
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 1: why would I be watching your stories if that's gonna

1347
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 1: make me keep you in my head? Do you know

1348
01:00:57,760 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 1: what I mean?

1349
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 4: Or just looking at your face totally, You're like, your

1350
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 4: face is so handsome right. Speaking of I just choose

1351
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 4: to look at John Mayer's face and it helps me

1352
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 4: get over.

1353
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 3: Here, speaking of overthinking and speaking of social media and

1354
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 3: the distraction that it can be. This is an anonymous email.

1355
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:18,680
Speaker 3: Have you ever stalked someone on venmo? Tanya, she's her wheels,

1356
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 3: her smile in a real big I.

1357
01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:22,120
Speaker 2: Love this already.

1358
01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:22,880
Speaker 1: I love Venmo.

1359
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 3: I don't even get it around. August, I matched with

1360
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 3: a guy in Hinge that I knew from college. We

1361
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 3: talked for a while, eventually stopped because he never asked

1362
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 3: me out, but a month later he reached out and apologiz.

1363
01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:34,000
Speaker 3: I said he wanted a camping trip, didn't really have

1364
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 3: his phone. Well, one night I got very drunk and

1365
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 3: I just said to him, Hey, are you ever going

1366
01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 3: to ask me on a date? So we said a

1367
01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 3: date to go to dinner. The night before our date,

1368
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 3: I was facetiming my friend who knows him from college.

1369
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 3: We had started listening to a new podcast and the

1370
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 3: host talked about stalking guys on Venmo. So as a joke,

1371
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 3: I told my friend to look the guy up. Was

1372
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 3: one girl he's exchanged very funny, flirty transactions with that

1373
01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 3: I know I know this girl from a mutual friend.

1374
01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 3: The last transaction was a month ago. We did some

1375
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 3: further creeping. He likes all her instagrams, she likes all

1376
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 3: of his. So I called it this mutual friend and

1377
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 3: she says, I don't know they were a thing. I'm

1378
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 3: not sure they're a thing anymore. Well, I've already canceled

1379
01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 3: our date for tomorrow. What do you guys think I

1380
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 3: should do? I thought he was funny and cool. Should

1381
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 3: I assume him and the other girl are over? Should

1382
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 3: I stick to my gut that he's a scumbag double

1383
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:21,200
Speaker 3: teaming us.

1384
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 2: Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

1385
01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 1: I already know what I think?

1386
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 3: Do it, Tanya? I started off, Yeah.

1387
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: Go with your gut if you think he's squirmy by.

1388
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 2: Oh see, I was gonna. I wasn't going that direction.

1389
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:34,400
Speaker 3: Okay, counterpoint.

1390
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 2: I feel like when you date on Hinge, everyone's dating

1391
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 2: each other, like people are getting to know each other

1392
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:44,439
Speaker 2: and dating each other, and it's venmo if they went out.

1393
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:49,800
Speaker 2: He's not buying her, I mean they're not if he's

1394
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 2: been knowing.

1395
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 3: Her, that's very platonic. It seems very platonic. Very you

1396
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:58,560
Speaker 3: don't pay back the person you're dating. Usually i'll get

1397
01:02:58,600 --> 01:02:59,120
Speaker 3: you next time.

1398
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 1: They're probably been knowing like fifty cents and like, we

1399
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 1: don't know that I know, but there's probably like a

1400
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: flirty Venmo exchange. I don't like it.

1401
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 2: Well a month ago, that was a month ago. Yeah,

1402
01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:11,120
Speaker 2: changing a month.

1403
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: And he's liking all of her photos? What is what

1404
01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 1: is wrong with people just talking to one person, just

1405
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 1: getting to know one person at a time, Like, what

1406
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 1: the fuck he's.

1407
01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 3: Not talking to it. We don't know that he's We

1408
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 3: don't know that he's talking to anybody else. He might

1409
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 3: just be liking photos. There's nothing wrong with liking photos

1410
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 3: on social media. That's the whole point of it.

1411
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:31,959
Speaker 1: Every single photo of hers. He has to like every

1412
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 1: single photo of your friends.

1413
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 2: If I have friends where I like every single photo

1414
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 2: guy friends who I like every single photos of theirs?

1415
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 1: Really yeah, well that's weird.

1416
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 3: No, it's not. Are you saying she should only like

1417
01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 3: one person's photos at a time in life? Yes, like

1418
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 3: this month, I'm only liking this person's photos.

1419
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 2: Yes, no joke, you're you're high. That's literally crazy.

1420
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 3: The valley has changed here.

1421
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 1: No, I mean, like you could only like one person's

1422
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 1: photos but if you're liking every single photo on someone

1423
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 1: else's peace's.

1424
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 3: A single guy, you can do what he wants.

1425
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 2: I feel like that's more consistent. I think it's more

1426
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:10,920
Speaker 2: shady if you're like, if it's like a shirtless photo

1427
01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 2: and you're.

1428
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:15,600
Speaker 3: Liking, that's different. Absolutely, friend's photo. If he's doing like

1429
01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:18,920
Speaker 3: softcore women bending over those Instagram photos, that's a totally

1430
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:19,400
Speaker 3: different thing.

1431
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 2: Totally. It's just a friendly photo.

1432
01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:24,600
Speaker 3: It's a friendly photo, and the's sending venmos back and forth.

1433
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think she should have canceled

1434
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 2: the date.

1435
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 3: I agree.

1436
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 2: I think she should have at least gone on and

1437
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 2: gotten a vibe with him in person, rather than basing

1438
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:33,800
Speaker 2: it off of Venmo.

1439
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:35,880
Speaker 1: That's true. I do agree with you there. I think

1440
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 1: she should have gone on the date.

1441
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:39,360
Speaker 3: What can you base off a venmo exchange? I mean,

1442
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 3: you still got to go. This is the problem with

1443
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:45,120
Speaker 3: social media is we're developing an entire profile of this person.

1444
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 3: We've never met him before. I mean, she's madined, but

1445
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 3: she barely knows the guy.

1446
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 1: Tough, Holy, I know, But I'm telling you, I think

1447
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 1: it's because I sent you that screenshot of the uh

1448
01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:58,720
Speaker 1: DM A listener sent me last night and it's like

1449
01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 1: all of these gu feelings I've had about these men

1450
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 1: and like they're coming to fruition. I'm like that I

1451
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:05,840
Speaker 1: was right about that guy.

1452
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 2: If you talk to someone and like have a chance

1453
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 2: to interact with them on a further basis than Hinge

1454
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 2: and venmoing, they deserve a chance. Before you say that

1455
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,040
Speaker 2: their scumbag double teamor.

1456
01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 3: Now the other side of that, I will say that

1457
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 3: if you are a single male or female listening to this,

1458
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 3: take note of this and know how your actions on

1459
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 3: social media are influencing people's feelings about you. Your flirty

1460
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 3: Exchange and Venmo, the people you like on Instagram. Everyone's

1461
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:35,640
Speaker 3: judging you based on that, and that could affect your

1462
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 3: future relationships. I'm just throwing it.

1463
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:40,440
Speaker 2: Out, yeh thought Venmo could affect the relationship.

1464
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 3: What it all does, Like they say, make sure you'd

1465
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:45,080
Speaker 3: be careful because you might get a job someday. They

1466
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:46,840
Speaker 3: might look at your Instagram, but you got to remember

1467
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 3: everyone's looking at all your stuff and they're all doing

1468
01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 3: deep dives when they meet you, So you got to

1469
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 3: remember that's how you look, that is your profile, that

1470
01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 3: is your brand.

1471
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:55,600
Speaker 2: And if that's what you're doing, then you need to

1472
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 2: be able to answer to it honestly and openly when

1473
01:05:58,800 --> 01:05:59,760
Speaker 2: you're confronted about it.

1474
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 3: In this situation, he may have lost a potential date

1475
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:05,560
Speaker 3: and the potential relationship because of the stuff he was

1476
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:08,640
Speaker 3: doing on Venmo, but through no fault of his own.

1477
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, without even knowing.

1478
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 3: Right, we just don't need to be aware of that.

1479
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 3: I'm not saying he's doing getting wrong.

1480
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, obviously the Venmo exchange wasn't like, oh,

1481
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:22,400
Speaker 1: here's like a puppy and here's like a son. Like

1482
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm sure it was like a peach and an eggplant,

1483
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:25,920
Speaker 1: and like you don't know, I.

1484
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:30,600
Speaker 2: Mean, unless she writes us, tells us exactly what she saw,

1485
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:34,280
Speaker 2: that is. That is a hypothetical, very hypothetical.

1486
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: Thing is a hypothetical. But I'm just saying, as an

1487
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 1: anonymous as defense, they probably weren't benign Venmo's.

1488
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:45,160
Speaker 2: I don't know why you draw the line of benign

1489
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:46,080
Speaker 2: or non benign.

1490
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 3: I'm looking at Tiny's Venmo feed right now. You'll see

1491
01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:54,280
Speaker 3: m deposit to a management company. Yeah, that's nice that

1492
01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 3: they accepted Venmo.

1493
01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is very nice.

1494
01:06:57,400 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 3: Any boys on here let's see no boys instead, Allen, whoa.

1495
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 2: Whoa, whoa? Why are you sending Eastern money?

1496
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 3: He bought you coffee. Nonetheless, if a guy saw this,

1497
01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 3: he'd be like, who's Eastern? He doesn't know you work

1498
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 3: with him? Who's this guy that she's uh thanking for coffee?

1499
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:15,240
Speaker 3: Some guy bought her coffee?

1500
01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:15,800
Speaker 1: Huh?

1501
01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 3: I don't know what's that. I'm not going to ask

1502
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 3: Corona after all.

1503
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:24,240
Speaker 2: Oh, another Eastern exchange is private because I don't need

1504
01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 2: everyone to know where my money's going or what is

1505
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 2: going to.

1506
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:31,600
Speaker 3: Here's another Eastern. Don't try me, it says flirty. Oh,

1507
01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 3: don't flirty. He doesn't say how much. Here's Easton paying

1508
01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:38,120
Speaker 3: Tanya gratuity.

1509
01:07:38,440 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 2: Oh.

1510
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 3: Now, if I'm a potential guy, I might think I'm

1511
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 3: not going to go anywhere near this. He's clearly got

1512
01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:44,680
Speaker 3: something going on with this Eastern fella.

1513
01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 2: Improve and wrong.

1514
01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:50,280
Speaker 1: There are no eggplants and peaches, and I just started

1515
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 1: scrolling coffee, and you don't know.

1516
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 3: There's You don't know those egg plants in this situation.

1517
01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:56,800
Speaker 3: You made that up.

1518
01:07:58,000 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 1: I'm done with this.

1519
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 2: I would like to be removed from.

1520
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:07,919
Speaker 1: That's good, all right, anything else before we go, Yes,

1521
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 1: I feel like we should brainstorm some really cute questions

1522
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 1: for Ryan tomorrow. This needs to be super good.

1523
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,839
Speaker 3: So in next week's podcast, our guest is Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: We need we want to know we if y'all want

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Speaker 2: to send in questions.

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Speaker 1: We could do ask a guy and just fire off

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Speaker 1: some ask a guy to h that's good.

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Speaker 2: Okay, good guy, Let's do ask a guy.

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Speaker 1: So I'll put that in the Facebook group. We'll get

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Speaker 1: some really good one that's a great idea. That's we

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Speaker 1: can just do fire ground. But before we do that,

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Speaker 1: we should have some questions just about him. And he's

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Speaker 1: coming on to promote his new skincare line, Polished with

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Speaker 1: Doctor Lancer, so we'll talk to him about that. But

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Speaker 1: then I feel like we can segue into like, so

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Speaker 1: your skin looks really good right now, how's your heart doing?

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Speaker 2: Oh? That's good.

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Speaker 3: So the way this is going to work, just so

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Speaker 3: everyone's clear, if tomorrow morning on Kiss FM, Becca is

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Speaker 3: going to be on and so the first five minutes

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Speaker 3: of the interviewer. So we'll be live on KISSFM, which

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Speaker 3: you can listen to on one or two point seven

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Speaker 3: Los Angeles or on the iHeartRadio app. It's going to

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Speaker 3: be around what time do they tell you to be here?

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Speaker 2: Eight o'clock?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm thinking around eight twenty or so, probably Pacific time.

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Speaker 3: This will be on KISSFM. Then Ryan's going to go

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Speaker 3: to commercial and maybe a song and that'll give us

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Speaker 3: like eight minutes to talk off the air, and that's

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Speaker 3: also going to be part of the interview on the

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Speaker 3: podcast next week. Right, So that's how it's going to go.

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Speaker 3: That's the logistics of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think in the off air portion we

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Speaker 1: could do the ask a guy okay, but we need

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Speaker 1: to get some juicy goods on KISSFM, okay.

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Speaker 3: And that's where you come in.

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Speaker 2: Why am I coming in?

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Speaker 3: I meant a listener.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're looking at me. There was a dead look in.

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Speaker 3: My eyes to me.

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Speaker 1: The conduits, the vessels.

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Speaker 2: Right, but but but this is not my everyday job,

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Speaker 2: the live radio show. So I don't want any pressure

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Speaker 2: put on me.

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Speaker 3: Are you excited about that? Because there's about a mil

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Speaker 3: people listening.

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Speaker 2: We're real excited. Show Instagram handle there.

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Speaker 1: Should we wear scrubs?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, we have our scrubs today.

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Speaker 1: Should were blue ones tomorrow? Quite possibly?

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Speaker 2: Gott to find those disaster my rooms and pieces. Your

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Speaker 2: room will pull probably be set up and clean before

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Speaker 2: mine is clean.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sleeping until that step split away. So that's exciting.

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Speaker 3: That's exciting.

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Speaker 1: And another exciting guess that we're going to have is

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Speaker 1: Olivia Colvo.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, when is that?

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Speaker 1: She's traveling for like a week and then when she

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Speaker 1: gets back.

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Speaker 3: Okay, good, So lots of things happening for scrubbing in

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Speaker 3: and when do we find out the next People's Choice

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Speaker 3: Award situation?

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Speaker 1: Voting ends on October nineteenth.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's this week.

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Speaker 2: That's Friday, Friday.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, we're here.

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Speaker 1: Have you been voting every day?

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Speaker 3: I did for a while.

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Speaker 1: That question was to the listeners, But good to know

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Speaker 1: where you're at.

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 3: So and then you don't you don't find out.

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Speaker 1: We don't find out till the war's till November. I

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Speaker 1: don't think you guys.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to read a quote to leave it just

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Speaker 2: to take away for this, it's as disappointing others doesn't

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Speaker 2: mean that you are a disappointment.

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Speaker 1: Sad.

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Speaker 2: No, it's not sad. It's saying like, just because you

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Speaker 2: don't meet someone else's expectations doesn't mean that you're a disappointment, oh,

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Speaker 2: or that you're not good enough?

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Speaker 1: Got it.

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Speaker 2: I didn't get to finish.

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Speaker 1: The rest of the quote.

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Speaker 2: Never let anyone make you believe you aren't worthy of

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Speaker 2: making yourself a priority.

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Speaker 3: Is this a thing we're gonna end the show with quotes?

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01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 3: Because I don't. I don't hate it.

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01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,280
Speaker 2: The thing I could do. I just saw it, and

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01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:45,559
Speaker 2: I was like, I think a lot of people need

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Speaker 2: to Clearly, YouTube didn't need to hear because it didn't

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01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 2: affect you at all. But I think a lot of

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01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:54,400
Speaker 2: times we were like so worried about other people's expectations,

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01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:56,120
Speaker 2: and if we don't meet them or feel like we

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Speaker 2: let them down, then we feel like we are a disappointment.

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Speaker 2: But it's just because we didn't meet their expectations. It

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01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:04,800
Speaker 2: doesn't it doesn't mean who you are as an individual

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Speaker 2: isn't good enough. It just means that you didn't meet

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Speaker 2: what they want.

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Speaker 1: And that's like you could be like the most exceptional

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Speaker 1: apple pie in the whole world.

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Speaker 2: You're trying to steal the peach thing, And it's like,

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Speaker 2: but someone still won't, Like, there's still gonna be someone

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Speaker 2: who doesn't.

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Speaker 1: There's still going to be someone that doesn't like apples,

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01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 1: but now it's her own quote. But there's nothing you

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Speaker 1: can do about it.

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Speaker 3: That's exactly right. Oh, because pie is delicious.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: I hope that all of you on the Facebook group

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Speaker 2: got to see the reading of Tanya's lyrics that she wrote,

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Speaker 2: just like that, just.

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Speaker 3: Like that, Well, should we read it? If? In case

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Speaker 3: they missed it?

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Speaker 1: I see why? Ms?

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Speaker 3: Or what is that? I see why? Am I? In

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01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 3: case you missed it? It's quite lengthy, well but it's

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Speaker 3: but it's from the heart.

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Speaker 2: Did you do you have a melody for it in

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Speaker 2: your head?

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01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:03,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, Demi Levado's in case.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's the melody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So seeing the beginning of.

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Speaker 1: It, the chorus kind of goes like, uh, in case

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Speaker 1: you don't find what you're looking for? In so, it's like,

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Speaker 1: who knew that phone call would end like that? Who

1650
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 1: knew that kiss would be our last?

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01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:26,760
Speaker 3: Who knew we should just read it?

1652
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 2: I think me so bad if that was going to

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01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:33,840
Speaker 2: keep getting higher? I don't know if this sound handled it? All?

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01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:36,920
Speaker 3: Right? Here we go? Yeah, okay, who's going to do them?

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01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 2: I'm going to read the first stand? Okay, I was

1656
01:13:40,360 --> 01:13:44,360
Speaker 2: heading in a good direction, looking north. Your love hit

1657
01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 2: me out of nowhere, snuck up on me from the South.

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01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:50,759
Speaker 3: This is a song Tanya wrote after her major breakup

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Speaker 3: five years ago.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't looking to fall in love. It was only

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01:13:55,280 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 2: a matter of time before I was yours.

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Speaker 3: Mark can't even put into words how my which I

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01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:03,639
Speaker 3: loved you. I always thought you felt the same. Our

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01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:07,400
Speaker 3: love was untouchable. I've never been more sure of anything

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Speaker 3: in my life.

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Speaker 2: Who knew that phone call would end like that? Who

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01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:16,800
Speaker 2: knew that kiss would be our last? Who knew you

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01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:20,600
Speaker 2: could hurt me so bad? Who knew one day my

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01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:24,120
Speaker 2: everything would turn into nothing? Just like that?

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Speaker 3: In a way, I should thank you. That call completely

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01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 3: changed my life. My skin grew thicker, my heart a

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01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:35,439
Speaker 3: little stronger. I've created space for someone that deserves my love,

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01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:38,640
Speaker 3: and I'm never looking back at the mess you made.

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01:14:38,840 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 3: Once was a broken soul, And now I'm whole just

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01:14:43,479 --> 01:14:45,800
Speaker 3: like that, just like that.

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01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 2: Who knew that phone call wouldn't like that? Who knew

1677
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:54,559
Speaker 2: that kiss would be our last? Who knew you could

1678
01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:58,720
Speaker 2: hurt me so bad? Who knew one day my everything

1679
01:14:58,800 --> 01:14:59,920
Speaker 2: would turn into nothing?

1680
01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:01,800
Speaker 1: Just like that?

1681
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:03,839
Speaker 2: Together?

1682
01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:14,479
Speaker 3: And now I'm whole, just like that, just like that.

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01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 2: You guys.

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Speaker 1: I actually think it's like lyrical cool.

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01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 3: So here's the thing. Tiny has sent that now to

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01:15:21,479 --> 01:15:25,840
Speaker 3: Charlie Pooth, Julia Michaels, Benny Blanco and mothers, and we'll

1687
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:27,559
Speaker 3: see who comes back with it. Yeah, we'll see who

1688
01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:29,120
Speaker 3: actually can turn it into Give put a beat to

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01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:30,599
Speaker 3: a put a melody to it, and see what happens.

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01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:33,080
Speaker 2: Lyps are good. I mean like it's deep, Like I

1691
01:15:33,160 --> 01:15:36,200
Speaker 2: was heading in a good direction looking north. Your love

1692
01:15:36,400 --> 01:15:38,720
Speaker 2: hit me out of nowhere, snuck up on me from

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01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:39,320
Speaker 2: the south.

1694
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:42,599
Speaker 3: It's actually not terrible. I expected far worse from this,

1695
01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:45,280
Speaker 3: and I'm like, wow, there's actually some poignancy here.

1696
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:47,880
Speaker 2: When I saw it on these the live show, I

1697
01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:51,200
Speaker 2: was like, oh this is I'm like almost disappointed that

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01:15:51,240 --> 01:15:51,599
Speaker 2: it's so.

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01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:55,120
Speaker 1: Much better than Ryan was like dancing to it. I

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01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 1: was like, yes, come back. This is where it turns

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01:15:57,840 --> 01:15:58,479
Speaker 1: around for me.

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01:15:58,760 --> 01:16:01,639
Speaker 3: This is Tiny manifesting her grammy, which she has done

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01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:04,200
Speaker 3: before she wants to accept the grammy. All right, we

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01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:06,479
Speaker 3: need to thank some people before we head off twenty

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Speaker 3: three and me. You know, you should listen to that

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Speaker 3: us at Planet Blue on fourteenth Street in Santa Monica

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Speaker 3: from five to three to seven thirty. It's a People's

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Speaker 3: Choice Awards party, snacks, treats, drinks, voting, and Tanya and

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Speaker 3: Becca will be there.

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Speaker 1: Who no promo code needed.

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Speaker 3: That's right. We never mentioned Grace.

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Speaker 2: Did you watch?

1725
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 3: Are we done with Gray's Anatomy? People?

1726
01:17:04,600 --> 01:17:05,040
Speaker 2: Done with it?

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Speaker 3: Because I'm gonna stop making it a priority. If we're

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01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:10,519
Speaker 3: never going to talk about Gray's Anatomy when I watched it,

1729
01:17:12,360 --> 01:17:14,400
Speaker 3: I'm behind on This is us I'm behind on every

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Speaker 3: other show, but I keep up on Gray's Anatomy because

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Speaker 3: of this podcast.

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Speaker 2: Actually behind on all the shows. I tried to watch

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Speaker 2: the second week, so like, I guess, it's the third

1734
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:27,040
Speaker 2: episode of Grays last night, and I could not focus.

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Speaker 1: I enjoyed it, I didn't watch it.

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Speaker 3: I love Korev being the chief. First of all, he's

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01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:37,360
Speaker 3: the chief. Oh my god, that was in the first episode.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 3: Well, now he's the chief and he's having to deal

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Speaker 3: with being the chief and the old chief. Uh no,

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Speaker 3: the guy Weber is not thrilledough on how he's being

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Speaker 3: a chief. That's really good this week, all right, So

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01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:55,200
Speaker 3: I'll just act like nobody's seen it. Christani hasn't. Meredith

1744
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 3: had a date with the guy from How I Met

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01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:58,760
Speaker 3: Your Mother. It was a great date. It was a

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01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:00,800
Speaker 3: super cute date. But it ended very quickly. I'm not

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01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:02,680
Speaker 3: going to tell you why, but I get it, and

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01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 3: I thought it was very incisive of how we're on

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01:18:05,240 --> 01:18:07,280
Speaker 3: these dates. And then they say that one thing and

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01:18:07,320 --> 01:18:07,840
Speaker 3: it's over.

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01:18:08,920 --> 01:18:11,720
Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's a great teaser. Thank you.

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01:18:11,760 --> 01:18:12,919
Speaker 3: Go watch Gray's Anatomy.

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01:18:13,080 --> 01:18:13,759
Speaker 2: I teaser.

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01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:17,599
Speaker 1: I need a television before any of this happened, I thought.

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01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:19,719
Speaker 3: That was a very good episode and I'm enjoying the season.

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01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:22,120
Speaker 3: In fact, I've started my own face group Facebook group

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01:18:22,400 --> 01:18:24,680
Speaker 3: with other people who are loving the season, and they're

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01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 3: also fans of the Milwaukee Brewers. It's a very small

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01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:30,920
Speaker 3: group right now, it's just me and Ashley and a Celia,

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01:18:31,120 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 3: but we're having a good time watching baseball and Gray's Anatomy.

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01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:38,479
Speaker 3: So there you go.

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01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:39,839
Speaker 2: Music synergy.

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01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:43,160
Speaker 3: It kind of is.

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01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:48,360
Speaker 2: Musical synergy. That is one of my favorite things. Okay,

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01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 2: thank you everyone for listening. Do you have any teasers?

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01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 3: Ryan's Sarah Drew.

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01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 1: No, we're not confirmed though. What she confirmed?

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01:19:05,560 --> 01:19:08,519
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we should have talked about the show

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01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 3: for Knor?

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01:19:10,920 --> 01:19:12,320
Speaker 2: Why pro Covnor?

1771
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 3: That is massive. We have to wear scrubs a day,

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01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:17,759
Speaker 3: Ryan Seacrest and Sarah Drew. This is the greatest scrubbing

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01:19:17,800 --> 01:19:18,120
Speaker 3: it ever.

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01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:19,599
Speaker 2: Big episode for us.

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01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:21,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're on the same show.

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01:19:21,960 --> 01:19:23,240
Speaker 3: She's got I think she's coming round.

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01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 2: Okay, well there you have it, Time of death. We

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01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:31,920
Speaker 2: gotta go get you a TV twelve twenty four

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Speaker 1: Guys, I think this song might be a hit.