1 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. 2 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: Hey Corey, good morning, welcome to the program. How are you. 3 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 2: I'm doing good. 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 3: How are you? 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: We're doing great, and thanks so much for being part 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: of the show. You are curious about someone you met 7 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,159 Speaker 1: named Annie and you think she might be ghosting you. 8 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: So we're gonna try and investigate here and figure this out. 9 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: What happened? How did you meet her? Tell us about 10 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: any dates you've been on, just any context you can 11 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: leading up to this point. 12 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I actually met her on the apps. We 13 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 2: ended up chatting a while, you know, texting there, and 14 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: then I had asked her out to dinner and we 15 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 2: met for dinner. It was great food. I had a 16 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 2: great time, I thought, I mean, she had a great time. 17 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 2: She was like even hotter in person than you know, 18 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 2: the pictures on the app. But everything, I mean, it 19 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 2: was a normal date. Nothing you know, was weird. She 20 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,639 Speaker 2: wasn't like stand office or anything. We were chatting and laughing. 21 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 2: And then after we had dinner, you know, we had 22 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: said our goodbyes and she just kind of went dark. 23 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: Haven't heard from her since she won't reply to anything 24 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 2: I send her, and I just I'm super confused. I 25 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 2: don't know why. I don't know what happened, you know, 26 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 2: from the time we said goodbye to. 27 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: Now yeah wow, okay, So you you know, reflecting on 28 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: this date, you're like, I thought it went well. I 29 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: thought i'd see her again, and you've reached out and 30 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: she has not responded to you at all. 31 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm like, I'm like, we're in Like can 32 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 2: I say something right? You know? But obviously like defensive 33 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 2: in any way. The date seems just, you know, kind 34 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 2: of blow smoothly, like like, I mean, a perfect date. 35 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 2: Should No. 36 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: I think that's that's reasonable that you would think back 37 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: and say, well, what might have happened that I missed? 38 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 1: But but nothing, you don't think anything. So let's call Annie. 39 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We'll see if we can 40 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: get her on the phone. We'll ask these questions for you. 41 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: At some point, you're welcome to jump in. And the 42 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: hope here is that something's going on the weekend straightened 43 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: out or she's at a conflict or whatever, and and 44 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: hopefully we can set you guys up on another date 45 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: that we pay for. 46 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: Sound good, sounds great? Thank you. 47 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: You've got to hear what happens next part too of 48 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: waiting meta phone in two minutes after Miley Cyrus back 49 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: on the Fred Show. Miley, it's the Fred Show. We're 50 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: commercial free for the next forty minutes. You don't have 51 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: to go anywhere. Good morning, Glad you're here. Hey, Corey, Yeah, 52 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Annie. You guys, you went on 53 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 1: a date. You you thought everything went really well. You 54 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: made on one of the apps, and you had a 55 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: nice time, and you expected to see her again. Except 56 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,239 Speaker 1: you've reached out to schedule the second date and she's 57 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: not responding to you at all, completely dark, and you 58 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: want to know what's going on? 59 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, at this point, I just I can't 60 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 2: rack my brain. I'm just confused. And I really like 61 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 2: this girl, So I just I mean, I'd love to 62 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 2: go out on a second date, or I'd love to 63 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 2: at least hear why she won't reply to me. 64 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: Well, guess what you're in luck. Let's figure this out 65 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: right now. We're gonna call it. Good luck, Corey, thank you. Hello. 66 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 3: Hi is this Annie? Yes, Hi, my name is Fred. 67 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show, 68 00:02:58,080 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on 69 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I do need your permission 70 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can we talk for just 71 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: a second, won't take up too much of your time? 72 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 2: Okay, oh, thank you. 73 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy. I guess you 74 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: met him on one of the apps, and you guys 75 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: recently had dinner. His name is Corey. Do you remember 76 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: going out with Corey? 77 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 3: I hope? 78 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. 79 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 1: Okay, So he reached out to us and he told 80 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 1: us that he really enjoyed matching with you and meeting you. 81 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 1: He thought the dinner went well. He was hoping to 82 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: see you again, he says. He's texted and you're not 83 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 1: responding to him at all. So what what's going on? 84 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 2: Why? 85 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 3: Why are we not calling Corey back? 86 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 4: Did he tell you that he brought a baby on 87 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 4: the date? 88 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 3: Whoa a baby? A baby? Human? Who's baby? 89 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah? 90 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 3: Uh no, No, he did not tell us that, so huh. 91 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 4: So I got to the restaurant and I found him 92 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 4: at the table and there was a baby sleeping in 93 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 4: a car seat right next to him the whole time. 94 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay. 95 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 4: He didn't say anything about it for like five minutes, 96 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 4: and then I was like, so I asked him. 97 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 3: Wait a minute. 98 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: So you sit down at the table and there's this 99 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: man and an infant, and he doesn't acknowledge the fact 100 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: that the infant is there at all at all, Okay, 101 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 1: and so that you were getting to this and then 102 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: you're like, hey, by the way, five minutes later, what's 103 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:24,919 Speaker 1: up with the baby? 104 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:26,119 Speaker 4: Yeah? 105 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 3: And I said, is this your baby? 106 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 4: And he's like, yeah, this is mine, with no other details, nothing, 107 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 4: nothing else to it. 108 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 3: And he just kept going like that didn't just happen 109 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 3: to Yeah. 110 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 4: I mean, it was really weird and I was uncomfortable 111 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 4: and he was just acting like it was normal to 112 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 4: show up on a date with a baby. 113 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 3: So did you say, I didn't even know he had kids. 114 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 4: I didn't know there was a baby. I don't know 115 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 4: who this mom is. 116 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 3: I don't know any fresh baby. That's what I'm saying. 117 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 3: It just baby, That's what I'm saying. 118 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: The baby if it's like, it's a baby, which means 119 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 1: it just came out of somebody and you know, relatively 120 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: didn't come out of Yeah. You know what, let's ask 121 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 1: this question to Corey any I'm sorry I forgot to 122 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 1: mention the Corey is here. 123 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:07,479 Speaker 3: Corey. 124 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: You left out the part about the infant that you 125 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: brought on the date. 126 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry about that girl. 127 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't think it was that weird. 128 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:15,679 Speaker 3: I mean she didn't even know you had kids. 129 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: And then you you almost tried to play it off 130 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: like it was a mirage or something like like that. 131 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 3: There was not as when I sat down, you know, like, if. 132 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to spring a child on somebody on a date, 133 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,799 Speaker 1: then the first thing I'm going to do is acknowledge 134 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: why the child is there. 135 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 3: And you didn't even do that. 136 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:34,599 Speaker 2: We met on a dating app. It's not like I 137 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 2: could have put a picture or something. It's a baby 138 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 2: on a dating That's just not right. 139 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: You Look, I could even understand why maybe the topic 140 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: of having kids comes up in person, face to face, 141 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: But to bring a baby to a date I think 142 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: requires some setup. 143 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 2: I mean I had to take care of him, Like 144 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:54,479 Speaker 2: what else was I supposed to do? 145 00:05:54,720 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: Schedule it on a different day, hire a babysitter that 146 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 1: this was going to happen ahead of time. 147 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 4: Nothing. 148 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 3: He brought a baby and said nothing, And that's the thing. 149 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: And then she shows up and sees the baby, and 150 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: you want to split an empetizer, like and like baby right, And. 151 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 3: Then you didn't even anything about it was your name, kid, Corey. 152 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 3: What are you doing? 153 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 2: I mean, it's not like it's not like you can 154 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: talk yet or anything. You know, It's not like, well, 155 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 2: the date would have went exactly. 156 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: The thing and he won't be traumatious for the rest 157 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: of his life. But maybe okay, who's the mom? 158 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 3: Yeah? 159 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 1: Okay? Also a good question. So you have a young baby? 160 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: Where did where did that young baby from? Where was 161 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 1: that baby extracted? 162 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 2: I feel like usually on first dates and especially like 163 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 2: just you know, texting through a dating app, usually you 164 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 2: don't just start to bring up, you know, past relationships 165 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 2: and okay. 166 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 3: But there's human living evidence. 167 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 1: There is, there's a living being at the table that 168 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 1: is representative of a former relationship. So I don't think 169 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 1: it's unreasonable to maybe make you know, this is in 170 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: the present. This is not in the past. 171 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 3: You just made that baby, right, So who is. 172 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 1: Were you married? Did you just break up with someone? 173 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: Like how you have an infant? 174 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 3: I mean, it's not like any has to. 175 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: Worry about it. She was there, like, you know, he's 176 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: not a crier, Like like I. 177 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 3: You're missing the point. 178 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 2: He doesn't. It didn't change anything, all right? 179 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: I think there's just a lot of questions here and 180 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: it doesn't sell like you want to answer him. But Andy, 181 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 1: I I'll ask, but I know the answer rhetorical. Do 182 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: you want to go out with him again and the 183 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: baby or without the baby? 184 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 4: No? 185 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 3: No, I do not. Dude, Corey, you got it. 186 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: You're gonna have to answer somebody's questions for people, like 187 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: there are tons of people out there who will date 188 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: you with a kid. 189 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 3: That's not the issue. 190 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: The issue is that you sprung the kid on her, 191 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: and then we're still not getting answers as to where 192 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: the kid came from. 193 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think that you guys need to know. Okay, 194 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 2: you know none of your business. 195 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 3: But I mean, yeah, down the line, I'd love to 196 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 3: date her more. But like so it's going to be 197 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:51,679 Speaker 3: a mystery. 198 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: You know. 199 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 2: I keep opening up. 200 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: About myself, just pretend like it appeared on my doorstep 201 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: from a stork until I decided I want to tell 202 00:07:58,400 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: you more. 203 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 3: I do. I don't know. Annie. Thank you for your 204 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 3: time on good luck Corey as well, So thank you