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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. Addison is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been married to

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Speaker 2: her husband Eli for two years. They've been together for

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Speaker 2: five years, but now she thinks something might be going on.

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Speaker 2: So hopefully we find out he isn't that, Edison. We're

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Speaker 2: here to help you out, So tell us what's going on.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think Eli might be cheating on you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So we moved here about a year ago in January,

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Speaker 1: and so Eli was really quick to make friends. Like

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Speaker 1: he has work, he has like his sport recor league

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Speaker 1: and everything like that. I work from home and we

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Speaker 1: bought a bit of a fixer upper, so I've been

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Speaker 1: really focused on the house. So he's out a lot

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Speaker 1: more than I am. So she's been really working a

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Speaker 1: lot recently and the work is upticking, and he's just

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Speaker 1: out a lot with his work friends. But he just

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Speaker 1: keeps talking about one of his co workers, Amber, and

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Speaker 1: I know that they've been working really closely together on

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Speaker 1: a few projects, and like, I don't necessarily want to

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Speaker 1: accuse him of anything. It's just kind of like setting

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Speaker 1: off some alarm bells for me and I kind of

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Speaker 1: want to get another opinion.

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Speaker 3: So you haven't asked him about any of this yet, No.

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Speaker 1: But it's a lot of like so he just talks

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Speaker 1: about her a lot, and it's like it's getting to

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Speaker 1: the point where I hear about her like almost every day.

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Speaker 1: In terms of like Amber did this, Amber said that,

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Speaker 1: isn't that like so funny type of thing.

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Speaker 3: So with the.

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Speaker 1: Holidays coming up, instance, like the traveling is so far

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Speaker 1: this year, like this is the first time we actually

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Speaker 1: have to get on a plane to go home. I'm

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Speaker 1: just trying to make plans and I've brought it up

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Speaker 1: and we like switch back and forth between families for

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving and Christmas, and so I was trying to make

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Speaker 1: plans and he said that he just can't swing it

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Speaker 1: this year because of work. So I'm really kind of

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Speaker 1: concerned about that. And granted, like this is a new job,

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Speaker 1: he's trying to get established, and I know he has

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Speaker 1: a ton of work, so I'm really understanding in that arena,

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Speaker 1: But that, along with just how often he's talking about

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Speaker 1: just a little suspicious for me.

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Speaker 3: Did he tell you to go without him or was

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Speaker 3: it like, Okay, then we'll stay home this time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he told me to do that. I'm still

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Speaker 1: up in the air whether or not I'm going to Like,

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Speaker 1: I know that my family is going to be really

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Speaker 1: happy to see me and everything like that, but it's

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Speaker 1: also going to be really sad to spend Thanksgiving without

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Speaker 1: him if he's not going.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean the flip side of this was

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Speaker 3: that he's so openly talking about her that I didn't

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Speaker 3: think it would be that big of a deal. It's

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Speaker 3: just the working during the holidays and all of the

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Speaker 3: reasons for not being around you, like it's fine, especially

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Speaker 3: around the holidays is a little flaggy.

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Speaker 2: Have you met any of his coworkers, like, even if

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Speaker 1: So I haven't met Amber. I did meet like one

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Speaker 1: or two of his coworkers one night when they wore

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Speaker 1: dropping him off, But yeah, not Amber, which is kind

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Speaker 1: of like that's the main person I'm concerned about at

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Speaker 1: this point. But yeah, and I also don't want to

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Speaker 1: be like tagging along with him and his work friends,

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like I haven't really established like many

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Speaker 1: like kind of low on my priority list, honestly, is

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Speaker 1: to feel like I'm tagging along with his stuff.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: You already told us what grocery store you guys are

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Speaker 2: Rewards card members at, So we'll do the usual and

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Speaker 2: call and pretend to be from the grocery store and

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Speaker 2: tell him that he's this month's big winner of a

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Speaker 2: dozen long stim red roses delivered anyone that he wants,

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Speaker 2: and will see if he sends those to you or

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Speaker 2: to somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Play a song, come back, and then call him and

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Speaker 2: get you to catch a Cheater. Next, it's time.

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Speaker 1: To Catch a Cheater Only on the.

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Speaker 2: Table show ran in the middle of To Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, Addison is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she thinks that her husband of two years they've

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Speaker 2: been together for five years total, might be cheating on hers.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call him that pretend to be

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Speaker 2: from the grocery store that their Rewards card member at

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Speaker 2: and say that we do a promotion every single month

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Speaker 2: where one of our Rewards Card members wins free flowers

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Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that they want, and will see if

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Speaker 2: he sends those to his wife or to somebody else,

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Speaker 2: and hopefully he's not cheating. But Addison, before we do that,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation.

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Speaker 1: So we're in a new city. He's been spending a

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Speaker 1: lot of time at work and especially with his new

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Speaker 1: coworker called Amber. I haven't met her. I don't really

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Speaker 1: know the situation, And so he doesn't want to travel

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Speaker 1: home for Thanksgiving and is telling me to go instead.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully he's not. But are you ready to call him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Gorbele calling

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Speaker 2: from SIRS. I was looking for a rewards card member

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Speaker 2: named Eli. Yes, this is Eli, Hi Eli, Please don't

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Speaker 2: hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. I'm

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Speaker 2: actually calling with some good news. Congratulations, you're this month's

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Speaker 2: big winner.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, guys. Not sure this is the cool the flowers,

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Speaker 4: the flowers, Okay, I'm not sure what it mean.

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Speaker 2: Oh maybe you don't know. Every single month, we choose

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Speaker 2: one rewards card member totally random who wins free flowers

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Speaker 2: delivered from our floor apartment. You just won thirty six

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Speaker 2: long stem red roses, a box of candy and a

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Speaker 2: hard to be delivered to anybody that you want, absolutely free.

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Speaker 4: This is fantastic. I guess what happens next.

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Speaker 2: It's very easy. I can take the information down in

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Speaker 2: just a matter of minutes over the phone. If you

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Speaker 2: want to do that right now, and you know who

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Speaker 2: you want to send them to, I could do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, we can just do it over the phone.

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Speaker 2: That's fine, perfect. First and last name of the person

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Speaker 2: that you'd like to send them to.

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Speaker 1: First, sure, so, her name is Addison.

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Speaker 2: Last name Dan is mine.

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Speaker 4: It's actually my wife.

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Speaker 2: And do you want a card to go with that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so let's write in I love you, princess. Let's

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Speaker 4: get dinner out tonight and talk about the holidays, but

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Speaker 4: spelt daz.

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Speaker 2: Because it's just in a year in a daze. It's crazy. Yeah. Well,

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Speaker 2: then I'll just let you know that this is not

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Speaker 2: the grocery store. My name is Jewbell. This is a

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Speaker 2: radio show called The Jewel Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi. Hi, I'm Nina on the show.

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Speaker 1: Hilarious. Yeah, I see, I know you guys.

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Speaker 4: I know I've heard this show before.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah you have. Have you heard the to catch

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Speaker 2: cheater segment?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Yes, I have, and I feel like this was a

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Speaker 4: little bit of a trip, but yes I have.

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Speaker 2: It's a truth seeker. Yeah, your wife is on the phone,

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Speaker 2: and this is a segment that we do to see

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Speaker 2: who people send flowers to in case they might be cheating.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I'm felt really a little confused why we're

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Speaker 1: I don't know, It's just it was doing really show

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Speaker 1: with you know, wanting to come home for the holidays,

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Speaker 1: and yeah, taken work, and like you just keep talking

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Speaker 1: something's just not quite adding up. So I'm really happy

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Speaker 1: to hear that you don't want to send flowers to

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Speaker 1: anybody from me. No, I definitely do not. I promise

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Speaker 4: There isn't anything you need to worry about with Amber.

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Speaker 4: In fact, Amber's wife, Sarah would probably laugh at this too. Oh, Madison,

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Speaker 4: So I did lie about having to work on the

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Speaker 4: holidays a little bit, so Edison. The part in this

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Speaker 4: note about the holiday, you know about us traveling home. Look,

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Speaker 4: you know, we've been together for years now, and every

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Speaker 4: all that. But now that we've moved away, life's a

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Speaker 4: little bit different, and I wanted to propose to you

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Speaker 4: over the holidays, but you know, I'm talking to your

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Speaker 4: parents first of course about doing it, and I thought

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Speaker 4: it'd be a nice little change if we do a

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Speaker 4: friends giving this year. This way I can introduce you

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Speaker 4: to Amber and her wife Sarah. Plus I've been kind

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Speaker 4: of friendly with some of your work friends a little bit,

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Speaker 4: and maybe have them over to kind of ease into

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Speaker 4: kind of do that.

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Speaker 3: Communication is key, y'all. How this didn't come up before

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Speaker 3: is blowing my mind. No offense proper, I just I mean,

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Speaker 1: Wait, so you want to have people over and do

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Speaker 1: more of a Holli thing at our place.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, basically that's what my thought was. Kind of a

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Speaker 4: friend giving and just have people over Crown to hang

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Speaker 1: Have you know these people.

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Speaker 4: Introduce you to some of my work friends, ones that

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Speaker 4: you don't know, like Amber, you know, have some of

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Speaker 4: And day. I mean I was a little I get

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Speaker 4: how to bring it up because I know how close

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Speaker 4: big deal to you going back there for the holidays.

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to upset you. I know you're still

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Speaker 4: trying to get comfortable with the new surroundings and you know,

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Speaker 4: a new living situation. Honestly, I don't know how off

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean, I think the thing that doesn't

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Speaker 1: make sense is like pushing me to go home anyway.

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Speaker 1: So I understand why you'd be hesitant to bring it

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Speaker 1: up and everything, But I don't know. I would be

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Speaker 1: happy to have people over and do our own thing, honestly,

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Speaker 1: Like traveling is so much, especially around the holidays, so

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Speaker 1: I do think it's kind of time to like have

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Speaker 1: our own traditions around some of these things.

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Speaker 3: Side note, I think there's one thing that you guys

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Speaker 3: are forgetting and why it's so important to communicate. I

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Speaker 3: know you've been spending the holidays with your families, but

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Speaker 3: who's cooking, who's in.

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Speaker 2: Charge of the food.

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Speaker 3: Does that needs so much preparation, Like, you're stressing me

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Speaker 3: out right now. If my man did not tell me

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Speaker 3: that I was cooking in a week for all of

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Speaker 3: these people, I would be flipping as a potlug.

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Speaker 2: Y'all can figure it out. So maybe Amber's wife is cooking.

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Speaker 2: That's also another thing. But that had me gone for

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Speaker 2: a second. That's all he was worried about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because some people have to actually feed people on

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Speaker 3: the holidays.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we're getting it catered with.

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Speaker 2: There you go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I trust you, and I'm sorry I brought

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Speaker 1: you on the radio, but I love you and I'm

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Speaker 1: so excited to do the holidays together.

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Speaker 4: I'm excited too, Bib, and I love you, and I

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Speaker 4: guess I should have been more clear and more communicative

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Speaker 4: than I apologize. And we're going to figure this out,

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Speaker 4: and let's go out for dinner tonight and discuss it more.

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Speaker 4: And I think we're I think we're going to be

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Speaker 4: okay though.

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Speaker 3: And you guys can do the thing with the mashed potatoes.

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Speaker 3: What you don't know about the thing with the mashed potatoes.

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Speaker 2: No, I need to learn. We're just going to say

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Speaker 2: you eat it anyway.

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Speaker 1: The Jewel Shows to catch a cheater