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Speaker 1: He was playing Jurassic World, which is a game accessible

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Speaker 1: his surprise. His son apparently memorized his Apple I D password,

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Speaker 1: His son had upgraded the game's dinosaurs, that's what it is,

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Speaker 1: by using in game currency Dino Box, without realizing it

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Speaker 1: I'd be so much. Wow, you gotta turn that stuff

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Speaker 1: been relieved of her charges. Her defense was a rare

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Speaker 1: medical condition called auto This is apparently real auto brewery syndrome.

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Speaker 1: What the woman's suggestive digestive system converts common food carbohydrates

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Speaker 1: don't think you want this. The amount that you drink already,

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Speaker 1: He was a breadwinner, So like, was he not allocating funds?

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Speaker 1: it was on Friday. I picked her up in my Cadillac.

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00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:51,159
Speaker 1: We do you have a Cadillac? I do? I do? Okay,

424
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:56,120
Speaker 1: fancy daddie, No, no big deal, no big deal whatever,

425
00:20:56,760 --> 00:21:00,160
Speaker 1: And um, oh yeah pick her up. I was thought

426
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 1: it was a perfect gentleman. Uh. And uh it was

427
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 1: a beautiful steakhouse. I thought we had a wonderful time,

428
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:12,200
Speaker 1: treated her like a queen. And yeah, I don't get it.

429
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 1: She kind of goes to me. Yeah, so you went

430
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,359
Speaker 1: to your mouth, I will say, I mean you went

431
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 1: and picked her up, which a lot of guys don't

432
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 1: do that anymore. A lot of girls don't want you to.

433
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 1: Well that's true too, but yeah, I get you. I'm

434
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:25,560
Speaker 1: not I don't want to get in your car. Well,

435
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:29,920
Speaker 1: but she accepted unless obviously gave him her address, So

436
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 1: there you go. So you went and picked her up,

437
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,399
Speaker 1: and you planned this nice date, and now she's ghosting

438
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 1: you and you want to know why. Yeah, all right,

439
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:38,399
Speaker 1: let's call her now. You'll be on the phone. We'll

440
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 1: see if you can get some questions answered, and hopefully

441
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 1: we could straighten this out and set you guys up

442
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 1: on another date and pay for that. Okay, can you

443
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,360
Speaker 1: hang on for a second, of course. Hey Tommy, Yeah,

444
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Tamila. You guys, you met at

445
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: a bar and then you planned a date, picked her up,

446
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 1: took her out a nice place. You thought it went well,

447
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 1: but she's ghosting you and you want to know why.

448
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 1: All right, we'll call right now, Good luck Luck? Hello,

449
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 1: Hi is Camilla there? Hey, good morning Fred and Angie

450
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 1: from the morning radio show I guess FM in Chicago,

451
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to bother, but I have to tell

452
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 1: you that we are on the radio right now, and

453
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,719
Speaker 1: I would need your consent to proceeds it. Okay, if

454
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 1: we keep talking for a minute, Uh yeah, sure, thank you.

455
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 1: I'm sure curious what we're calling. Um, I'll get right

456
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 1: to it. A to a guy named Tommy says that

457
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 1: he met you and took you on a date, picked

458
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 1: you up all this stuff. Yeah, so what's the deal? What? Um?

459
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: Because he reached out to us, he described a really

460
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 1: successful date, says he lights you a lot and was

461
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 1: hoping to see you again. Um, except he says, you're

462
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: not responding to him at all, So what's going on? Um?

463
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 1: He was, Oh, okay, do you tell why? Um? Well,

464
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 1: I think your restaurant as a Viago triangle, which is

465
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 1: kind of like, I don't know, annoying, and some nice

466
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 1: restaurants he took you. I mean I've been to the

467
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,159
Speaker 1: place he took you too. It's nice. Yeah, it's just

468
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: very like, I don't know, I felt very uh like

469
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 1: in a string of many like it was a routine

470
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:16,359
Speaker 1: that he does, because he like he called a leet

471
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 1: by name and was like, make sure I get a

472
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 1: good spot, baby, you know, like his car and his Catillac.

473
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 1: He was sure to mention that he had a Catillac anyway,

474
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 1: So then what happens. So then we went inside and

475
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,639
Speaker 1: he asked the hostess that he could have his usual table,

476
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,639
Speaker 1: which was of course a table that was like completely

477
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 1: on display for everyone to be and it just was like,

478
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: you know, he ordered a bottle of wine for us,

479
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 1: about asking what I wanted, and it just it just

480
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 1: came out a super ducie. I don't know. Yeah, like

481
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 1: you had the impression he's done this a million times,

482
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: but he wanted to impress you, so he took you

483
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: to a place where you know, he knew he would

484
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 1: get preferred treatment. Yeah, but that show is also like

485
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 1: he takes every girl there. Yeah, I suppose let me.

486
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that Tommy is here. Tommy, did

487
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 1: you think about any of that? Hey, look, it's damned

488
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: if you do, because I mean, it's trying to be

489
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 1: a gentleman. That's what people that's a woman supposedly say

490
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: they want and wow, wow, to feel like they're one

491
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,640
Speaker 1: of many. I mean, yes, I'm I'm a preferred customer there.

492
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: But that's you know, it doesn't in his defense, it

493
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: doesn't necessarily mean that he's taking women there. Maybe he

494
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 1: takes clients there all the time. Yeah, and you want

495
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: to do impressor right, But it also kind of comes

496
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,640
Speaker 1: off like, oh, okay, big time I got you. Yeah,

497
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 1: i'd be so connected, you're so dialed in. Yeah. For me,

498
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: I hate I hate when guys ordered for me. Like

499
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 1: I'm an adult. I can order what I want, or

500
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 1: at least ask what I want. I would be pissed

501
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: if somebody ordered for me. So there was an air

502
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 1: you're saying, like an air of sort of um, I

503
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 1: don't know, arrogance to the whole thing. You you felt

504
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: who whoa whoa hold. I mean, look, if you went

505
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 1: to a country you've never been to, would you want

506
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 1: to know what like a local? You know, the locals recommended.

507
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 1: But it's kind of a voice that I've never gone

508
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: to nice restaurants before. I'm not saying nice restaurants in general,

509
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 1: this one in particular, it didn't seem like you had

510
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 1: been in this one in particul Why don't you ask

511
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:20,200
Speaker 1: her then, instead of just making these assumptions and taking

512
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 1: it upon yourself. I mean, you know, book, she has

513
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 1: a voice. It's trying to be old school. It's trying

514
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: to be old school in a good way, and that

515
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 1: like some old school things are really antiquated, some of

516
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 1: it would go over well. It sounds like some of

517
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 1: it was a little overbearing or or gave this a

518
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 1: loof vibe that could have could have gone to that

519
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: restaurant and had a really nice date. It was that

520
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 1: restaurant in conversation with like the added speard and behaviors

521
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 1: that you know, I wasn't just judging him quickly. It

522
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,919
Speaker 1: was like an overall picture. Okay, so would you give

523
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: him another shot? Let's say he rolls up it rolls

524
00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,440
Speaker 1: up in the caddy again, and this time you go

525
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 1: someplace different and obnoxious. You know, maybe he's not trying

526
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 1: as hard to impress you. I don't think so. First day, sir,

527
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 1: I means are super important. Man, we don't have the

528
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,959
Speaker 1: right vibe. It's not all okay, all right, all right,

529
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,120
Speaker 1: we'll tell me. Looks your answer, um less girls would

530
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: like to be in that caddie. I'm sure you know.

531
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:24,199
Speaker 1: Maybe something to think about, but good luck moving forward, Camilla.

532
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: Thank you for your time, um trying to find a story.

533
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 1: I believe it was yours, Calin maybe not. I tend

534
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 1: to get this wrong. Whoever came up with the idea about, um,

535
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: somebody wanted to get engaged in the ring size I

536
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 1: had to tell my listeners have to get today was issue? Yeah? Yeah,

537
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: so this is an interesting because I was thinking about this.

538
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: So what's this? What's the story behind this? It's a

539
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,199
Speaker 1: real story, right, This isn't one that we made up.

540
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 1: This is one This isn't one that we made up.

541
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: But no, this is the one that we made up

542
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:56,880
Speaker 1: for for narrative purposes, for for artistic purposes. No, what's

543
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: the deal? So do you think that you should tell

544
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 1: your boyfriend your ring size and specifics about everything that

545
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: you want in your ring or do you think it

546
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: should be a surprise because she's wanting to do a

547
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: friend of yours? Yes, okay, yeah, she's wanting to what

548
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 1: she wants to tell him? So are they are they

549
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: talking about it? Or is she wanting them to talk

550
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: wanting to do it? And she came to us for advice? Okay,

551
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,679
Speaker 1: so she didn't she didn't say this isn't like an

552
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 1: ongoing conversation about them getting engaged, like this would be

553
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 1: the way that she's wanting to initiate the conversation, right,

554
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 1: And she's asking us like, is that crazy. So they

555
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: haven't even talked about getting a gage. No, yeah, yeah,

556
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: it's different. It's different. I have my own opinion that

557
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: because that kind of changes the dynamic. I'm gonna say,

558
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: if we haven't talked about getting engaged yet, and then

559
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: you come to me and you're like, so six ring

560
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 1: and this is what I want, that that's a whole

561
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 1: different thing. I feel like they are going to get engaged.

562
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,479
Speaker 1: It's kind of unspoken. But I was like, you need

563
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: to ship yeah out. Okay, well, let's let's simplify the question.

564
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: Then I think we probably all agree that that's sort

565
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: of a yeah. They may need to sort of establish

566
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: their feelings about when that's gonna happen, like, have a talk,

567
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: a conversation about getting engaged before she specifies the material item,

568
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: that the specifics of the material item that she's going

569
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: to need in order to do that, right, I think

570
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: they should she well, and that's and that's the question.

571
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: That's where I'm going with this. So do you do

572
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,439
Speaker 1: you or did you or do you believe that as

573
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: a woman that you should specify to the man or

574
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 1: whatever whoever's getting engaged to whom do you think that

575
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: you should specify I want, this is my ring size,

576
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: this is a kind of stone I want, This is

577
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 1: a kind of setting I want um Or do you

578
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: think that it should be something where you get what

579
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: you get, like you get what he chooses to give you,

580
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: because he's going to give you what he can afford.

581
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 1: He's gonna not be pressured to go beyond what he

582
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: can afford. He's gonna give you what he thinks is appropriate.

583
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 1: He's gonna give you what he thinks you're gonna like,

584
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna like it because well that's what

585
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: it is, right, Or are you of the mindset like

586
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: a friend of mine's jeweler, and she and her dad

587
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 1: own a jewel a jeweler each store, and they he's

588
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: an actual like jeweler. He makes the rings. And I

589
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 1: sit there sometimes in the afternoon because by my house,

590
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: and we'll hang out and I'll watch couples come in

591
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: and I'll watch the woman designate exactly what it's going

592
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: to be. And then before she's even been proposed to,

593
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 1: these people are following up wanting pictures of the progress.

594
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: They want to see the ring before, I mean, so

595
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: they know exactly what they're getting. The only thing they

596
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: don't know is exactly what it's gonna happen. And to me,

597
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe it's a mix of both, like

598
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: maybe it's, hey, this is kind of my style, but

599
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: you you go from here right so that you don't

600
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 1: get something that's totally not in style, or maybe you

601
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: go to a jeweler that you trust to pick something

602
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: that's gonna be I don't know or doesn't even matter.

603
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: I you know, from what happened with me, Like my

604
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: husband and I, you know, when we were talking, we

605
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: talked about getting engaged, like we knew we wanted to

606
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: get married, We knew that it was coming, and he

607
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 1: never asked, like what's your ring size or anything, because

608
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: I wanted to be surprised when it happened. I didn't

609
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: want to know when it was coming. I love surprises

610
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 1: like that. So he took one of my rings out

611
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: of my jewelry box that I already had and use

612
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 1: that as a measure makes it bring to the jeweler,

613
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: and also knowing my taste in my style, he kind

614
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: of knew like right away, like what I would like.

615
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: And he said that that process was so fun for

616
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: him because he got to pick something that you know,

617
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: was from him, and that whole proposal and that surprise

618
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: because as much as girls, you know, we all that's

619
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: our big day. He's like, that's one of the things

620
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: that we get to do, that's our big moment. It

621
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: makes sense to me, But I don't know. If you're

622
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: talking about getting engaged. I don't think it's so far

623
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: fetched to say to figure out what somebody's ring size

624
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,239
Speaker 1: is and then or even ask them, or maybe even

625
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: to go one time to a jeweler and say, like,

626
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: what do you like here? You know kind of thing

627
00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 1: and then go, okay, I got it from here, and

628
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: who knows, who knows when it's gonna happen, who knows what.

629
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: But at least now I have some idea of what

630
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna like, because you're gonna wear it, you know.

631
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think that's totally it, because I

632
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe maybe what I think is good looking

633
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: is something different than you think. I don't, or you

634
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 1: could argue you'll take what I give you because it's

635
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: it's the symbol of my love and of my commitment

636
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: to you for life, and I mean you should go

637
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: way beyond that. A whole pinterest page full of rings

638
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: that I penned. I mean, you could figure it out.

639
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 1: That's how that's how I found That's how my pterest. Yeah,

640
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: like I didn't tell Jess I was on her pinches,

641
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: Like I went there and she had rings up there

642
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: and the design of stuff that she liked. And then

643
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: for ring size, I went through her sister, like I told,

644
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: I told everyone that because I proposed that Jess at

645
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 1: jingle Ball. Yeah that's right, that's right. So it's just

646
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: like I told her sister. I was like, yo, I

647
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: need help just getting the ring size. So she helped me.

648
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 1: Hey Paige, Hey, all right. So the question is as

649
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: a server, elaborate, But the question is do you think

650
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: that as a woman, should you be able to specify

651
00:31:56,440 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 1: the ring that you want from? Oh? You do it?

652
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: Because I didn't say anything to my husband before he

653
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 1: got engaged, and can completely surprised me with the ring

654
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: and it didn't fit. And it's also not something that

655
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: I would take. But like now we're a year married

656
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: and I can't say anything, like it's like, when do

657
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 1: you bring that up? But you don't like the ring?

658
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: You're saying I don't, but like I love him and

659
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: I'm not like, like I never like there was no

660
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: opportunity to be like, oh, yes, I'll marry you, but

661
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: let's change the ring. Like it was like too late

662
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: at that point. Okay, So you think you should have

663
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: had some say in it, even though it isn't about

664
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: the ring so much as it is about you know,

665
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 1: what he wanted for you and the symbol and what

666
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: it means and the fact that you're together now and

667
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 1: married and moon or whatever else. I'm gonna wear the

668
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: ring because he bought it for me and like that's

669
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: like what matters. But but you should have some say Yeah, okay,

670
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: all right, fair enough, Thank you so much, Paige, have

671
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: a good day. Yeah, because some people are of that

672
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: mindset like I have to wear this every day of

673
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: my life, you know, for the rest of my life.

674
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: So maybe I should, but you should have to wear

675
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: whatever exactly. Ye maybe maybe you should be able to

676
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 1: have some influence and then let it go at some point,

677
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: Like maybe you should be able to think that they

678
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: you know, if you're at that place where you're about

679
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 1: to marry someone, you kind of know their style and

680
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: their tastes, hopefully what they would like you with thinking yeah, hey, Sarah,

681
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: go look at their own money. R Hi, Sarah, do

682
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: you think that you should get a say in the

683
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 1: ring that you're going to be proposed to you with?

684
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: So I actually have been married first almost seven years,

685
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: and I did have to say nine years ago extually

686
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: nine years ago today has been proposed to me. And

687
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: before that we were both just kind of not paying

688
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 1: attention to each other, just on our laptop to scoop

689
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: and off. I started to feel beating the hick out

690
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: of his arms, thing, Oh my god, you have to

691
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: see this ring. I want this ring us and gorgeous.

692
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: It turns out he was on the exact same page.

693
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: I don't know how we did that looking at the

694
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 1: same ring. So it was kind of fate that that

695
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: was our ring, and I'm so wearing it today. Okay,

696
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 1: but but let's see you let's say you've gotten a

697
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: ring from him that you didn't. It wasn't that ring,

698
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: but it wasn't whatever, It wasn't everything you'd ever hoped for.

699
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: You'd still have taken it in and warn it and

700
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: been happy about it, right. I mean, maybe it could

701
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: have been more your taste, but you wouldn't have complained

702
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,800
Speaker 1: about it. No, absolutely, Like, Okay, so he's gotten me

703
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: gets from the past that aren't exactly what I wanted,

704
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 1: but I still cherish them because they came from him.

705
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: Without that ring came from him, Yeah, I wouldn't necessarily

706
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: be happy with it, but hey, there's anniversaries. You can

707
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 1: get me another one. Yeah. I had to have this

708
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: conversation all the time with people about like, you know,

709
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: people who get a big loan and make all these

710
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 1: payments on this big, huge ring when it's like, well,

711
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,000
Speaker 1: why don't you get what you can afford? Now, my

712
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: dad always used to say this to me. Get what

713
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: you can afford at the time, and then things and

714
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: then as you grow Well I understand that, but like,

715
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 1: if you can't afford a ten thousand dollars ring, then

716
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: buy a five thousand dollar ring or a twenty five

717
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: hundred dollars ring, and then as you grow together as

718
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: a couple, then get a bigger ring. Would have taken

719
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: out a ten thousand dollars loan for a ring just

720
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 1: because why Because if it were me, I just know

721
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 1: that when a girl tells the world that she's engaged,

722
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,880
Speaker 1: the first thing people say, let me see the ring.

723
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: It shouldn't matter. But if we're being a thousand percent

724
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 1: and then if you come out with your chip, because

725
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 1: that's all you could afford at the moment, that's real life.

726
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 1: That's real life. Yeah, let's go broke on a ring

727
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 1: before we even start our life together. I'm not saying

728
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: go broke, but I mean you can make payments and

729
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: stuff like that. Sarah, thank you so much, Have a

730
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 1: good day. Yeah, I don't know. Hey, Oscar, Yeah, you

731
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 1: don't think that you don't think you want you to

732
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: pick the ring at all? No, I don't think the

733
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: woman should pick the ring at all. Like the fact

734
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 1: that man like fell in love with you and it's

735
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: thinking about buying you a ring, you know, to surprise you.

736
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 1: He wants to marry you. I think that should be

737
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: good enough. I'm not saying that it's going to be

738
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: a champ ring, but just be happy and accept back

739
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: that somebody's proposing to you, you know. Yeah, so much

740
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 1: more important than ring. When does a ring matter? Yeah?

741
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: I agree with you. And I also think that in

742
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: life there's just so few amazing surprises like that, Like

743
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: there's too few pleasures in life, and that's like one

744
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: of those moments that's forever. You never forget moment, especially

745
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 1: when it's a surprise. Yeah. I mean, I just don't

746
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: like the fact that people say, oh, the bigger the

747
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: ring is, the more he loves you. I mean, and

748
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: that's not the case. I mean, just just be happy

749
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: that a man, you know, went on his way got

750
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: a ring because he thinks you're the one and out.

751
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,760
Speaker 1: That's that's what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, thank you, Oscar,

752
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: have a good day. Glad you called. Hey, Maddie, good

753
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 1: morning man. Hi. Hi, So this is interesting because you

754
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,239
Speaker 1: you're you're talking about an heirloom. You had a ring

755
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: in your family, Yeah, okay, and so he had to

756
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: get it or you wanted that ring or he wanted

757
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: you to have that ring, or how did that work? Well? So,

758
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 1: I first, I think it's really important to be able

759
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: to have a discussion because in that way, like he

760
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: knew and I had a ring, and so like I

761
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: just mentioned, like, oh, yell, like I had my grandma's

762
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: beautiful ring. It's been for fifteen years and so and

763
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 1: we knew that we wanted to get engaged. And then

764
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: he kind of took that step and went was to

765
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: my dad and then he solicated conversation. But like that

766
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:08,479
Speaker 1: allowed us to so that we are on the same page,

767
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: because like, if we had never talked about being bought

768
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 1: me a ring, I would have felt really off guard. Yeah, yeah,

769
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: that's true. And but I've heard about this school on

770
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: the other way where he wants to give the man

771
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: wants to give the woman an heirloom, and the heirloom

772
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 1: is you know, outdated or antiquated or not her taste,

773
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 1: but it means something to him because it was someone important,

774
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: some woman important, you know, someone in his life who

775
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: was important to him. And so she wants up wearing

776
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: this ring. It's not her taste. But what do you say,

777
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: because well, you know, this is all about the symbol,

778
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,240
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily about um, you know, impressing. Other people

779
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: think it's tricky too. Thank again, Thank you, Mattie. Sometimes

780
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: with an heirloom, it's like, well, this was my grandma's

781
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: ring and she was the closest person to me. It's like, well,

782
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: that's great for you and your grandma, but like I

783
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 1: didn't know your grandma, Like this is supposed to be

784
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: about me and you. Some people have that feeling. Yeah,

785
00:37:57,800 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: yeah you could say that too, Thank you mate. Thanks

786
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: for all these calls. A lot of calls about Fred

787
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 1: and Angie on one of three five kiss Up been

788
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: shows out the showbized. Shelley's is all yeah, the lawyers

789
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:12,720
Speaker 1: made us bleep that out sby Shelley. Good morning, morning,

790
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 1: welcome so yesterday got back on track back and the horse.

791
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,720
Speaker 1: You're a win. You're at a one game win streak.

792
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: One hundred and fifty dollars is the prize today and

793
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 1: your challenger is Liz Hi Liz, Liz, good morning, welcome

794
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: to the show. Shelling out a one game win streak,

795
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty bucks the big money today, and

796
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: we won't talk about what it would have been if

797
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 1: she hadn't um the other day. You want to talk

798
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 1: about that, but Liz, I want to learn about you

799
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: and tell us about yourself. I'm from pia Um, I

800
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 1: work in a penkin offense. All right, happy, not been crazy?

801
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: Well this is exciting, right, yeah, when some money up.

802
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,959
Speaker 1: The glory of being one of the only eighteen people

803
00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: I've ever beaten show this. Shelling and me showed out

804
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 1: so we could be you could be number nineteen. You're ready, yeah? Right?

805
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 1: Shall we go into the soundproup boot today, she's being

806
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: a full bending the bull dust. I don't know if

807
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: it's like a vintage sing if she brought it for

808
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: the bulls, that sure how she got it us been

809
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: wearing the mask and there it is got to be,

810
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 1: but she it has to be. But she's able to

811
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 1: communicate clearly through the mask. It's unbelievable. She keeps throwing

812
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: popcorn at everybody. I know, it's like, come on, you know,

813
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 1: you don't have to embrace the whole character. But it's

814
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 1: brought to you by and definitely dry clean only for

815
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: that uh, and that would be provided by CD one

816
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: Price Cleaner's new washingfold laundry service created to make everyday

817
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 1: clothes look and feel right away. Liz. Question number one.

818
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: Nick Carter got a restraining order against his brother name him.

819
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:54,839
Speaker 1: Christie Brinkley's daughter is replacing her on this TV show

820
00:39:54,880 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: after she broke her arm. I don't know. Okay. The

821
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: new season of A h S debuted last night. What's

822
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 1: the theme? Sorry? American Horror Story? Sure? Yeah, American Horror

823
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 1: Story UM three nineteen eighties murders. Are we accepting that?

824
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:20,320
Speaker 1: We're going to accept that? Kay Steve Aoki is headlining

825
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: our iHeart Radio Music Festival this weekend in Las Vegas.

826
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 1: Steve is known for throwing this at audience members during

827
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 1: his shows. Three two, Buddy, I don't know George R. R.

828
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 1: Martin has a birthday today. George is best known for

829
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 1: writing this series, a song of ice and Fire that

830
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: was later turned into a show name the Show. All Right,

831
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: three you got three? Okay, we'll see. I don't think

832
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: that's gonna hold up, but we'll see. We'll never know,

833
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 1: we'll see. Here comes Shelley from the Soundproop. I'm sorry,

834
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 1: Benny the Bull. That's amazing that you Did you steal

835
00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: that from the United Center or did they give it?

836
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,760
Speaker 1: Is that I know your boyfriend's coming to town this weekend?

837
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: Is that what I knew? There was some I knew it? Um? Okay,

838
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: So three was the score? Question number one? Nick Carter

839
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: got a restraining order against his brother, name him Aaron

840
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,320
Speaker 1: Aaron Carter. Christie Brinkley's daughter is replacing her on this

841
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:26,720
Speaker 1: TV show after she broke her arm. The new season

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Speaker 1: of American Horror Story debut last night. What's the theme? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Three camp nineteen eighty four? Yeah, that's correct, um, Steve

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Speaker 1: Aoki is headlining our iHeartRadio Music Festival this weekend in

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Speaker 1: Las Vegas. Steve is known for throwing this at audience

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Speaker 1: members during his shows So Bad and George RR. Martin

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Speaker 1: has a birthday today. George is best known for writing

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Speaker 1: the series A Song of Ice and Fire that was

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Speaker 1: later turned into a show name The Show By the Way,

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Speaker 1: A group ru feels back on Monday. To do that,

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Speaker 1: to do that, Liz, you know a respectable score. But

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Speaker 1: you know Shelley came in and slated today lame, so

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Speaker 1: I got you have to say it, Liz. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: but my name is Liz. I got showed up on

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Speaker 1: the showdown. My name is Liz, and I got showed

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Speaker 1: up on the showdown, and and I can't hang with

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Speaker 1: a grill up. I felt like you were gonna do

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Speaker 1: it and then you pulled back. Well I'm at work,

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Speaker 1: so I can't really yell. Liz. You head he with

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Speaker 1: a grill wanted to get that for me. That's that's

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Speaker 1: what we're going into the weekend. Strong, I could. I

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Speaker 1: can do it, Liz, um, have a great day. Thanks

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Speaker 1: for playing. Hold on one second, all right, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: good showbiz. Shell in the program today from Tenson Noon.

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Speaker 1: That's the Showbi Shelley's show. Uh, there's very very well

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Speaker 1: in the ratings. I feel like a lot of our

867
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Speaker 1: of our thirteen listeners, I feel like they hang on

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Speaker 1: I think they do. They hang on me. Yeah. And

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Speaker 1: then I know some of your you know, millions of listeners,

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Speaker 1: they listen to this and then they they you know,

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Speaker 1: they also come back. So it's a scrace. It's a

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Speaker 1: marriage made in heaven. So symbiotic, symbiotic. I think it's

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Speaker 1: what you were looking for. That is thank you. You know,

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Speaker 1: we're all furries around here. So don't feel what Yeah,

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Speaker 1: don't don't. I don't want you to feel like isolated

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Speaker 1: sweaty oh yeah. So what's that? Things got weird? So

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Speaker 1: what's coming up in the program later? Another chance to

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Speaker 1: see Sean Mendays in New Zealand. Told Flow okay, good,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you so much, have a great day. Show,

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Speaker 1: so much for having us on Friday, Throwback Dane Party

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Speaker 1: on Friday, Tradition, Let three five gets am, BJ and

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Speaker 1: what's going on? Shella and darn Vanessa Puis, Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. For having us up with do it every

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Speaker 1: Friday around this time on one O three five Kids

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Speaker 1: FM three five Kids FM, Chicago number one hit music station,

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Speaker 1: Fred Nancy Rum. Have you ever had a complete and

888
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 1: total cooking fail in your house before, like where you

889
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Speaker 1: I don't know, you forgot something was on the in

890
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Speaker 1: the oven, or I don't know you tried to make

891
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Speaker 1: something and it burst into flames, or I don't know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: if you ever, I don't know how much cookie you do, auntie.

893
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Speaker 1: But have you ever had something I just go completely

894
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Speaker 1: rolling the fire department shows up or something well that

895
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Speaker 1: was did happen? Like a few months ago, I was

896
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Speaker 1: making salmon and instead of using Old Bay the seasoning

897
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Speaker 1: like the Old Bay seasoning, I used the wrong seasoning

898
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Speaker 1: that looked exactly like the old Bay container, except it

899
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Speaker 1: was um like chocolate marshmallow popcorn. I remember this story.

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Speaker 1: Yea chocolate marshmallow salmon is not delicious thing. No, did

901
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Speaker 1: you try and tell your husband? Were you like? No?

902
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Speaker 1: I was trying to be I was. It was a fusion.

903
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Speaker 1: I was going for a culinary fusion. Now. I couldn't

904
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Speaker 1: even cover that one. I was innovating a trio of

905
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Speaker 1: American Exchange students made the unlikely mistake I'm not sure

906
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Speaker 1: how this happens of trying to cook a full pot

907
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Speaker 1: of pasta without actually adding any water. The mistake was

908
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Speaker 1: so bad that the resulting flames forced the three panic

909
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Speaker 1: twenty year olds to call the fire department. The reason

910
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Speaker 1: this is making headlines is that they happen to be

911
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:43,760
Speaker 1: in Italy studying, where the basic cooking gaff with pasta

912
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Speaker 1: has not gone over well anyway. Now, of course Italians

913
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Speaker 1: are who mayor are the majority of which may orman

914
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Speaker 1: that love Americans as it is are now taking to

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Speaker 1: social media to comments on what idiots we are as

916
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Speaker 1: Americans returned to the USA and eat hamburgers and chips

917
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Speaker 1: from McDonald stamp he's a sample post um, How does

918
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Speaker 1: that happen? Because if the water is supposed to boil

919
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Speaker 1: before you put the pasta in, so I don't know

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Speaker 1: how you make that mistake. If you're in Italy, like

921
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Speaker 1: and you buypasta from the store, are there instructions or

922
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Speaker 1: people just know? Like well, like, do you know that

923
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Speaker 1: you need water for pasta? Not a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: Do you not know that everyone knows? These twenty year olds,

925
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Speaker 1: I always eithern know that. How else do you cook

926
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Speaker 1: it without water? Like? How do they think it was

927
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Speaker 1: gonna get soft? Maybe they were I don't know, maybe

928
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Speaker 1: they were baking it like baked lasagna. No they weren't. No, No,

929
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Speaker 1: you are so dumb, even if you're drunk. Not that

930
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: you should be using boiled water for anything, but I mean, seriously, like,

931
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Speaker 1: how would you That's an essential step and it's the

932
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Speaker 1: second steps put pasta in after boils. You would think

933
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Speaker 1: people would know that. But um, have you ever had

934
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Speaker 1: a major cooking disaster? I would love to hear. Maybe

935
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Speaker 1: it was like Angie used the wrong ingredients, or maybe

936
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Speaker 1: you forgot about something and the whole house burned down.

937
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: That's very trying. We're gonna giggle about it next. It

938
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Speaker 1: would love to hear if you did something similar. We

939
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Speaker 1: won't make fun of you a lot. Only a little

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Speaker 1: one three five kids from Chicago number one hit music

941
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Speaker 1: station Fred Nancy are on. This reminds me, by the way,

942
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 1: maybe fuck a year ago. I emailed my old landlord

943
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Speaker 1: in Charlotte from like a decade ago before I moved here,

944
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Speaker 1: And I don't know. The guy was just a super

945
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Speaker 1: nice guy. His whole family. They were really nice people,

946
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Speaker 1: and I hadn't talked to him in a while, so

947
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Speaker 1: I hit him up and I was like, hey, you

948
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Speaker 1: know what's going on? And he said nothing except for

949
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Speaker 1: the fact that you're your old condo burned down? WHOA.

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Speaker 1: I lived in a four story or five story like thing,

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Speaker 1: and it was I don't I don't know want to

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Speaker 1: compare it to like there were shops on the bottom

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Speaker 1: and then midrise. It was on top the mid rise

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Speaker 1: there you go, And and I rented it from this

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Speaker 1: guy and then I moved out, and I guess he

956
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 1: got a new tenant. And this girl decided to make

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Speaker 1: fried chicken and she'd never done it before and somehow

958
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Speaker 1: managed to burn the entire kitchen down. I'm not quite

959
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Speaker 1: sure people make those sorts of cooking mistakes anymore, Kay

960
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 1: that you can google any recipe, YouTube anything, Well, but

961
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Speaker 1: it's the execution, like was you know there was there

962
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Speaker 1: wasn't gas that was electric there, but it was electric.

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Speaker 1: There was I guess oil. I mean, I don't know

964
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Speaker 1: who knows one splash oil that's but yeah, he had

965
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Speaker 1: to he had to shit to move out, and they

966
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Speaker 1: had to rebuild the entire kitchen responsible for that or

967
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: is insurance was so much insurance? I don't know, but

968
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Speaker 1: he was pissed obviously. He's like, this is ridiculous, you know,

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Speaker 1: come on, go to KFC, girl, Like, I don't know

970
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Speaker 1: what to tell you. Um, Stacy, Good morning, Stacy, Welcome

971
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: to Fred Nancie. How are you good, Stacy? So these

972
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 1: people are making NASH worldwide news. Uh three twenty year

973
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,320
Speaker 1: old American exchange students because they're in Italy studying in

974
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Speaker 1: Italy of all places. And they caused a fire because

975
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: they put pasta in the pot before water and they

976
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: had to call the fire department because they're idiots. What

977
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: was your cooking fail? What happened? So? I was making

978
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 1: peanut butter cookies and you're supposed to do things like,

979
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,839
Speaker 1: you know, half a teaspoon of salt, except I use

980
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: cup still, so I use like half a cup of salt,

981
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: and I did for all of the ingredients. What were these?

982
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god? What do they taste like? Were they awful?

983
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 1: They never made it into the oven. Luckily I realized

984
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: that the batter was like really really off. But to

985
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Speaker 1: this day, my brothers still like, we'll bring it up

986
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: because this was ten plus years ago and he'll still

987
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 1: make fun of me for it. So you okay, Well,

988
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: there's a party. Please don't bring any food down from

989
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: the store, Stacy. If we have a pot like you

990
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: could just come. Don't worry about it. Good day, thanks

991
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:47,439
Speaker 1: for calling. Thank you, Jessica, Hi Jessica, Welcome to Fred Nancy.

992
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,839
Speaker 1: How are you good? How are you Jessica? Good morning?

993
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 1: What's your cooking fail? What happened? Uh? Me and my

994
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 1: friends when we're younger, made choate for the first time

995
00:49:57,000 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 1: and instead of I think it's baking, so we use

996
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: baking powder. And they came out bubbling um and we

997
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Speaker 1: heard chasing them. And if they were not the difference.

998
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 1: I don't know the difference between the two. I don't either,

999
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: but apparently it's a big deal. What was the difference

1000
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: between which baking soda and baking powder? Baking baking soda,

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00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 1: look up, is like a thickening agent. If it's like

1002
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:29,840
Speaker 1: with water. Well, I don't know. Baking soda is the

1003
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: one who used to make volcanoes with? Right? Is that

1004
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 1: baking soda and vinegar? Oh? Like in science or whatever,

1005
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 1: baking powder contains baking soda. It's a mixture of baking soda,

1006
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: cream of tartar, a dry acid, and sometimes cornstarts. These days,

1007
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: most baking powder sold as double acting. You can still

1008
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:51,280
Speaker 1: use baking powder as a leavening agent in recipes calling

1009
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Speaker 1: for it as I don't know that that made No,

1010
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 1: they didn't explain anything, so just don't screw them up.

1011
00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, don't mess them up. Thank you, Jessica.

1012
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: I tried to have the more you know moment just now.

1013
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what the hell I know? Nicole, Hi, Nicole,

1014
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you? Nicole? I'm great?

1015
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,839
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. What was your your

1016
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:19,320
Speaker 1: cooking fail? So? I tried to make something called upside

1017
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: down banana bread and the container was too small, so

1018
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 1: the caramel bubbled over and we set the whole stove on.

1019
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,280
Speaker 1: This sounds like a Pinterest fail? Is that what happened?

1020
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: Kind of? I mean I have a culinary degree, so

1021
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: you think I would know. Wow, that's funny. That's pretty good.

1022
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 1: My dad was over, so he had to like rip

1023
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 1: it off the wall, carry it to the garage. We

1024
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 1: were like closing it off on the driveway. It was great.

1025
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: That's funny. Thank you. So much. Have a good day, Nicole, Tiffany.

1026
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: Hello Tiffany, Welcome to Fred Nancie. How are you Hi?

1027
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: Happy Monday you guys. Hi Tiffany, Happy Monday to you.

1028
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: This is this was a Pinterest bale that you had.

1029
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Speaker 1: It was a Pinterest bale. So like, we're friend that

1030
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 1: are going on vacation soon and I'm trying to do

1031
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 1: the whole low carved thing. And I told him, I said,

1032
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:11,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make us bread that had no carves. It's

1033
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: called cloudbread. Who does Okay, this sounds already sounds terrible.

1034
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 1: I already hate it anyway, So I love eggs and

1035
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,919
Speaker 1: the inconsistence camp a recipe. It eggs like a joke,

1036
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: and then a white that you whipped into him the

1037
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:28,800
Speaker 1: ring like you know, consistency regardless, it came out like soup.

1038
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: And then I still gave it a shot. But then

1039
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 1: the oven and it came out like eggs tyrophone. It

1040
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 1: was like I didn't even post a picture, like I'm

1041
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: Pinterest of the bail because I was help embarrassed how

1042
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 1: bad it was. I was like, oh my gosh, it

1043
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 1: was so big. It was just like a big bag

1044
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: blob on the old parts of paper. So yeah, exactly,

1045
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: it didn't work. Didn't work, and then you just say

1046
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 1: the regular bread anyway, and who cares whatever. Yeah, it

1047
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: was Saint Patrick's Day weekend, so my idea was to

1048
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Speaker 1: have rubens. Oh god. When I told my boyfriend that,

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Speaker 1: he's like, I'm going out to get some of the

1050
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: pump get the right stuff forget about him. Thank you, Tiffany,

1051
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 1: glad you called. Have a good day. Sometimes, Emily, this

1052
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 1: just sounds like a great story. Is all these stories

1053
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: are really good, Emily. Welcome to friend, Nancie. How are

1054
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 1: you good? How are you? Emily? What was your cooking fail?

1055
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 1: Good morning? It was actually my mom. She attempted to

1056
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: cook her frozen pizza and put it upside down in

1057
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: the oven with no pan under it, so like the

1058
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 1: cheese and everything was like going through the grease. And

1059
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: I didn't even this it until like ten minutes. Then

1060
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 1: it was sober smoking. How do you do that? She said?

1061
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,240
Speaker 1: She couldn't tell which side was with the one side

1062
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 1: has toppings and the other one's friend. That's funny. What

1063
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: is confusing about that? I have no idea? The one

1064
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: she got and she messed up. She messed it up.

1065
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 1: That was funny. Thanks you, Emily, glad you called. Have

1066
00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,880
Speaker 1: a good day. I want to get you into the

1067
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:03,800
Speaker 1: INCA party. It's a Tao. It's going on early October

1068
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 1: and we're celebrating the success of the Real Men Wear

1069
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:09,240
Speaker 1: Pink campaign that I am coach hearing with the American

1070
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 1: Cancer Society. If you want to go as a fancy

1071
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 1: party at Tao, we're gonna have a good time. I

1072
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 1: got two tickets right now. Hit us up call twenty

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00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 1: five eight five five five nine one one oh three five.

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Speaker 1: It's a kissap Family