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Speaker 1: Is there really like good vagina and like not good vagina?

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Speaker 2: And what is that difference?

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Speaker 3: You really want to know if a girl love you

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Speaker 4: I'm losing my mind.

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Speaker 3: Over the game. All right, everybody, welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello,

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Speaker 1: beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 1: I am your host, zar Faara Day.

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Speaker 3: What up? The truth is in the building?

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Speaker 2: The truth in the building?

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Speaker 3: At it and at it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, back at it again. Yeah, it's some stuff.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna hop right into the stuff that's going

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Speaker 1: So Michael Blackskin, he has a whole situation with his wife,

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Speaker 3: Wait, they was an open relationship right from.

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Speaker 2: What I heard.

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Speaker 1: They were open, but he did have a baby with

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Speaker 3: And that's not cool. No what I'm saying, if it's open,

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Speaker 2: Well, I think when people are open.

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Speaker 1: I don't know all the details, but clearly it's not cool.

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Speaker 2: What you deserved.

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Speaker 1: Even though I can't change the past, I promise you

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Speaker 1: The last few months God has blessed me, but in

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Speaker 1: to avoid turning into Nick Cannon or Elon Musk. I'm

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Speaker 1: She then responded and said I don't normally respond, but

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, and she stayed in the circus for

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Speaker 3: See this is my opinion on that. You come to

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Speaker 2: Now we're married. Oh he was, now we'll be.

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Speaker 1: My female friend had a baby, Like, I do not

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Speaker 1: Well, I get what you're saying, and I think once

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So it's like.

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Speaker 2: Every man likes having sex with other women, all type

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Speaker 3: But now you agree to it. Yeah, but now I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the problem that happens.

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Speaker 3: That's what open with her right without you? But because

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Speaker 2: I'm losing it, Like I'm losing my mind. What you

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Speaker 2: There's no eating after. I want to know her name.

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Speaker 1: You know, it was a pick up. We're out the country.

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Speaker 2: I'm never going to see you, and this man is

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Speaker 1: That's the only way I will do that threesome. That's

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Speaker 3: Even want toes you welcome to the toes getting lit.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even doing this crazy, this is me anyway,

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Speaker 3: Okay, murder, murder Mace.

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Speaker 1: Mace has a viral clip right now where he said

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Speaker 3: For with that.

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Speaker 1: So you think that, okay, like you're in a relationship,

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Speaker 3: Like, he serious? Did she propose to him?

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Speaker 1: No, he's saying that I want to get married, and

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Speaker 2: I really want to marry you. I want to do

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Speaker 1: Buy your own ring, by your own Yeah, go buy

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Speaker 3: Oh that's a bar. I'm a I'm a damn, I'm

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Speaker 3: a hold on, hold on, hold on, let me put

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you think that a woman should buy

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Speaker 3: Oh, I mean you if you wanted earlier than me, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm never I'm never ever forcing a man to marry me,

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Speaker 1: so it's not worth it to me. It is if

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Speaker 1: because first of all, I'm never even telling a man.

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Speaker 3: These rules come no, no, no, no, it's not.

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Speaker 1: A rules, it's for me personally.

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Speaker 2: There's a reason.

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Speaker 1: It's an order, and when things are out of order,

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Speaker 1: it's not cracking. And that's a fact because for me,

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Speaker 1: if my man is saying, first of all, I'm not

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Speaker 1: pressed you want to marry, we'll figure it out. Secondly, also,

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Speaker 3: Cage jewelry and get a cheap ring, and that's ain't

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Speaker 2: It's not about the price, it's about the thought of.

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Speaker 1: That's just burnt out on so many different lovers as

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Speaker 3: Man to want to marry, it, ain't that. Let me

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because think about it, like you really, like I

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Speaker 2: That wasn't real. I don't know when said that's a play.

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Speaker 3: Then she come back with it. I'm like, damn, you

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's what the test was to figure it out

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Speaker 1: Tests you want to go through tests. It has nothing

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you something. Let

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Speaker 2: Of advice you're giving you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is to a certain degree, but that's not

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Speaker 1: There's gonna be tests that you can't even think of.

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Speaker 1: So stop trying to tell young men to go cheat

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Speaker 3: If you want to know if a woman.

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Speaker 2: That's the worst advice.

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Speaker 3: Advice. How do I find out? If a gril?

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Speaker 2: I just told you you're going to be tested in

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Speaker 3: I find out, what's the test? Give me an example.

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Speaker 1: Women don't deserve to struggle just to have love ways.

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Speaker 3: The man for the woman.

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Speaker 1: If you want to see, I'm gonna do that and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna see what's going on. I feel like, at

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Speaker 2: But I will say this, there are.

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Speaker 1: You find someone who's worth it, and you find what

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Speaker 1: That might break her down and shadow her in a

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Speaker 2: You get to know each.

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Speaker 1: Other, You understand each other, and you understand who somebody

443
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:43,880
Speaker 1: is and you know you can't change nobody period. So no,

444
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,040
Speaker 1: you don't cheat on your partner to figure that out.

445
00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,399
Speaker 1: If that happens, and that's a crossroad you guys have

446
00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:51,440
Speaker 1: to deal with. I know I would probably be willing

447
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:54,320
Speaker 1: to stay if everything else was in alignment for me,

448
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:56,159
Speaker 1: but not everyone is doing that.

449
00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 3: You gotta set it up like I'm gonna set it

450
00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,480
Speaker 3: up today. I'm gonna call her up up. I'm gonna

451
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,800
Speaker 3: be tell the homie, like, tell my girl'mnna be in

452
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 3: this club. I'm gonna be with some work. Let's see

453
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 3: how she reacts when she walks in and the girl

454
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 3: is on my lip or something.

455
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, motherfucker, don't want to do that to me.

456
00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep it real.

457
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 3: If she whipped that, if she whipped her ass, she

458
00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 3: leave you and y'all cool and she walk out of there,

459
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,800
Speaker 3: hold your head, she lave you.

460
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 2: That's so toxic. That's toxic as hell.

461
00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 1: I do believe that there's a level of things you

462
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 1: have to put your you and your partner will go through.

463
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 1: There is, but it's inevitable. You don't have to create

464
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:43,920
Speaker 1: no extra task, it's inevitable.

465
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,439
Speaker 3: One thing I will say it don't have to be sex.

466
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:51,479
Speaker 3: Sex ain't always I know, but well my arm, Like

467
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,679
Speaker 3: if I got my arm around another girl, does that cheating?

468
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 2: It's just disrespectful?

469
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:56,800
Speaker 3: Is it cheating?

470
00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 1: No, I want to say it's cheating, and I would.

471
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,399
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna think that's not going to end all relationships.

472
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, that's not that you're kissing kissing, Yeah, kissing

473
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:09,159
Speaker 2: is cheating.

474
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 3: Kiss a girl is cheating.

475
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 1: Yes, if you're around or like touch you whatever, that's

476
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 1: not necessarily cheating. And that's not anything you're gonna break up.

477
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 1: But it's like, if you're kissing, that's blawing me. And honestly,

478
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 1: like I said, to whom much is given, much is tested.

479
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,679
Speaker 1: You do not have to create no test for your partner.

480
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 1: If you, guys, have a powerful relationship, to who much

481
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:34,919
Speaker 1: is given, much is tested, you will be tested.

482
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,680
Speaker 3: Listen, even Jesus tested.

483
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,919
Speaker 1: Are you yourself to Jesus this law me?

484
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:46,360
Speaker 3: Are you? But he tested the love of Abraham? Right

485
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,120
Speaker 3: did he not? If you're talking about you went to God? Right,

486
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 3: you went to the God and you went to all

487
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 3: of that. Now God will let you know, Yeah, Jesus

488
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 3: tested Abraham right? Or was wait, what was it? A

489
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 3: was Abraham the Jesus testing He took his family, he

490
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 3: took any tested his faith, He tested his Joe. It

491
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,439
Speaker 3: was Joe, right. He tested Joe like he wanted to

492
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 3: see his love. Okay, So I'm just saying I wanted

493
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 3: to see the love.

494
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 2: Okay. Well you you might see a lot more than love.

495
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 3: Joe.

496
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 1: So anyways, this is the perfect segue. Noriega was on

497
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 1: Angie Martinez podcast and he said, if you can disrespect

498
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 1: your girl and cheat.

499
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 2: I do not trust you. What are you gonna do

500
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 2: to me? If you are disrespecting, if you are cheating on.

501
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:45,239
Speaker 1: The woman who you live with, create a life with,

502
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,399
Speaker 1: who is your girl, who is your partner? If you

503
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: can cheat on her, what can you do to me?

504
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna treat treat me right? Yeah, his homie,

505
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: he said he judges men that do that. He don't

506
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 1: want to do business with you, and he don't want

507
00:23:58,359 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 1: to You're.

508
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 3: Looking for some fee male fans with that one.

509
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 1: Now, I've heard a lot of men say like, and

510
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 1: usually I hear white men say this, but they're like,

511
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: I don't trust well others, I don't see just white

512
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: I don't I always see I always see others say this.

513
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: They say like, I don't like to do business with

514
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 1: men who cheat on their wives, because if you can

515
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: cheat on your wives, you'll cheat in business.

516
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 2: You'll cheat in other things. Like I don't trust that.

517
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 1: I always see like certain high caliber men say that

518
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 1: that are not black. He's the first black man I

519
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: actually heard say that same concept of like, I don't

520
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 1: trust you if you can cheat on your women, because

521
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 1: if your woman is the person who's doing all of

522
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: this for you and it's here for you every day,

523
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,199
Speaker 1: you could cheat on her, what can you do to me?

524
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 2: I'm not even giving you half.

525
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 3: That's not that's not not ain't man, because I'm just

526
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 3: doing business with you. That's it. I'm just doing business.

527
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 3: It's I't got nothing to do with love. I don't

528
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 3: even have to know the person I'm doing business with

529
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,959
Speaker 3: all that well, I just know that he do good business.

530
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but not just business, He's saying, like just friendships too, like.

531
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 2: His homies, Like, how can I what you're going to

532
00:24:58,800 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 2: do to me?

533
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 3: If I'm with my homie and I know he married,

534
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,679
Speaker 3: and he out cheating on his wife, and I'm seeing

535
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 3: it right there, that's up for her to find out,

536
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 3: not me. I'm not trying to get in the middle

537
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 3: of all that I don't like. I'm still gonna be

538
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 3: cool with him. That's on him, Like that's his you know,

539
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 3: his doing. I ain't gonna discredit him. That's my homie. Still,

540
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 3: I got to love him over different reasons.

541
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: If you're out with your when say you're out and

542
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 1: you see somebody, you see your homeboy, like your cool

543
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: closely boy girl and she's out with a man and

544
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 1: she's booed, she's kissing, and this is your close homeboy's girl.

545
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: Are you saying something?

546
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 3: Oh, let me see if he bowed and this is

547
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 3: my dude, yeah, like yes, or I don't know if

548
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,439
Speaker 3: it see I'm not gonna jump to conclusions because like

549
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 3: from the outside looking in, I don't know with the situation,

550
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 3: I don't know if they have an open relationship. So

551
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 3: I'm ask him, like, you know, do y'all have an

552
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 3: open relationship. I'm gonna ask other questions before I just

553
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 3: go straight. I saw her, people would like to jump

554
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 3: to a conclusion. I don't like to do that, So

555
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be I'm gonna like if she see me,

556
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 3: I'm gonna let her see me, and I'm gonna see

557
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 3: how she reacts to me, and then I'm gonna figure

558
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 3: out what the mold is. I ain't gonna look from

559
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 3: Afar and then go back because that's what people be doing,

560
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 3: and that's how people ruined relationships because they don't know

561
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 3: really what the hell is going on. And with that,

562
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 3: I need to be more in depth to really see.

563
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna just make a judgment off of what

564
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 3: I see from Afar. I'm gonna be like, hold on,

565
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 3: let me go over there. That's the hommy girl. I

566
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 3: might say something, what's up? Sys how you doing everything good?

567
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 3: You know, see what the vibe is. And if she comfy,

568
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 3: then I don't got nothing to say. I ain't gonna

569
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 3: know she comfortable, yeah, because she don't get uncomfortable. If

570
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 3: I come over there.

571
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 2: He's like, hey, bro, this is Darnell.

572
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Yeah. And then when I talked to

573
00:26:58,359 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 3: the hommie, I was like, yeah, I saw I saw

574
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 3: wife yesterday with Darnell. Yes, I see what he say.

575
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah that's her brother.

576
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 2: Oh now they was kissing in the tongue and down.

577
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 3: Nah, you gotta be a little more load than.

578
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 2: That, but they wasn't. They was lit. They did not.

579
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 1: They thought they was low. They was in exclusive setting.

580
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,360
Speaker 1: You just happened to be in that schoolsive setting too.

581
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 3: Nah, all right, so I'm a little more load than that.

582
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 3: If you are married and you kid, no, you can't

583
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 3: do that.

584
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 2: Do you believe?

585
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 1: So there's a woman going viral on the internet and

586
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 1: she's showing off her ring right, and she's like, listen, they.

587
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 2: Told me not to cook for him.

588
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: They told me not to clean, they told me not

589
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: to listen to him. They told me, told me, told me,

590
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,479
Speaker 1: told me. They all told me not to do this,

591
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: all my friends. And now I'm about to get married.

592
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 1: That's why I didn't listen to y'all. So that's going viral,

593
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: and basically they're asking the question is are women really

594
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: the downfall of other women's relationship.

595
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 3: Crabs in a barrel? When they down, they're gonna pull

596
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 3: each other. They want you to be like the come

597
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 3: on now, like, well, I solwly believe that's marriages ben ended.

598
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 3: When girls be friends and one get divorced and the

599
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 3: other one starts still hanging with her and she's just

600
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 3: giving her all her bad because their shit wasn't right,

601
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 3: and then now and then leaks into your shit.

602
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,679
Speaker 2: You know what I'll say though to I really believe this.

603
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 1: I feel like women have a tendency to vent only

604
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: the negative stuff because they want to get it off.

605
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 1: So they call their friend and every negative thing that

606
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 1: ever happened, they told him about it, and then their

607
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 1: friends are like, girl, I don't like him, he ain't shit.

608
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 2: Da da da dah.

609
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 1: And then ever since that they not feeling him, and

610
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: now everything he does is like what like? And then

611
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: now their friends mean so much to them that it's

612
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: like they're getting in her head every day, Well girl,

613
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: what is he doing with d Like I've had girls

614
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: where I'm out and I don't even know these girls

615
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 1: like that, and like I'll be out with someone, they're like, oh,

616
00:28:58,480 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: who's talking to your man?

617
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 2: Who's that? Like, girl, what? Get out of my business?

618
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 2: Because I'm not that person.

619
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna I learned at a very young age,

620
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: and I hope more women learn this. Stop telling your

621
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: business to your friends. They're gonna be the downfall because

622
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: they're gonna now judge him. And what's crazy is a

623
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: lot of those people, if they were in the same

624
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 1: situation as you, they would probably stay because they're not

625
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: in the situation and they're not emotionally bound, and they

626
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: don't know the rest of your relationship. They're gonna judge

627
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: everything about your relationship.

628
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 3: That's why I always say married couples should have married friends,

629
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 3: because if you do have a situation to where you

630
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 3: going through something, like, you got somebody you can lean

631
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 3: on that probably been through the same thing you've been through,

632
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 3: and y'all can kind of bounce off each other and

633
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 3: heal where you got these girls who ain't got nothing,

634
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,479
Speaker 3: and you constantly going to them or they going through it,

635
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 3: they're gonna try to put you through it too. That's

636
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 3: why I'll be saying like that.

637
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: But your married friends can do that too sometimes if

638
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: they're like whatever, they have a are on a standard,

639
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: or they're unhappy, Like there's certain stuff for sure, because

640
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: it's like, like, for instance, what we talked about what

641
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: everyone's willing to put up with, some women might not

642
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: ever put up with. No cheating is what they say,

643
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: and some cheating happens and they're like, no girl, my

644
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: man would never like Sometimes it could make it worse

645
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: sometimes because women will be like, no, my man doesn't

646
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: do that. He shows up and then they're sending pictures

647
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: of what the man's doing on the Instagram and he

648
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: bought me all these flowers for Valentine's Say, what does

649
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 1: your man do?

650
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 2: Oh well, we don't really celebrate.

651
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 3: That women do y'all? Compare what y'all men are doing

652
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 3: for y'all, and then you look like I wish my

653
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 3: man would be doing what he doing.

654
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: And I just talked about this with Heather because she

655
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: actually said she feels that she used to feel that

656
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: with her man, to where she would see on Instagram all.

657
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 2: This stuff and she would send it to him and

658
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 2: be like, yo, what what would like see this? Like

659
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 2: why am I not getting this?

660
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 3: And I had to say, compare that?

661
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's I said.

662
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: I say, you can't compare because comparison is the thief

663
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: of joy. You don't don't even know what kind of

664
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: situation they're doing, and you don't know that half of

665
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: these people wouldn't be doing that if Instagram didn't exist,

666
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: it would be a bouquet and a dinner, not all

667
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: these twenty million bouquets filling every single inch of the

668
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: home and all this extra dole stuff. Because it's an

669
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 1: Instagram content world, now you know what I mean.

670
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: And I feel like women do the comparison stuff.

671
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: So even sometimes when women are in relationships, it can

672
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: be difficult because they're going to do a comparison thing

673
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: and they're going to be like, well, my homegirl. You

674
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Well, my man did this, and

675
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: he would never cheat on me, Like whole time he cheating,

676
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 1: he's just on the own.

677
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding, but you know what I'm saying.

678
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: Like, so, I do think it's very important no matter what,

679
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: you have your one or two people that you know,

680
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: you can trust, that you were not going to judge you,

681
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: and that have a level.

682
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 2: Don't take advice from people you wouldn't want to switch

683
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: lives with.

684
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: I don't if I look at your marriage and it's

685
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: raggedy as hell, I'm not taking advice from what you're saying.

686
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 3: Like, you gotta go take advice for people who've been

687
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 3: together a long time, it's stable. You know. Sometimes it

688
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 3: may not be a friend. It might be like a

689
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 3: sister or a pastor, yeah, or like somebody like something.

690
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 3: You know, Damn, come on, let me have a talk

691
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 3: with like, how did y'all make it so long, like

692
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 3: how did y'all? What did y'all go through? Anything? And

693
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 3: most couples have been together longevity and it has decades

694
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 3: of of marriage together. They've been through something more than

695
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 3: one thing.

696
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 2: A thousand things. And that's the truth.

697
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 3: And that's why I've probably separated at some point.

698
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred.

699
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you go through a lot of stuff when you

700
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: are together for a long time. And I think people

701
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: who look at things from respective of like we've been

702
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: there for twenty years, they're able to look at it

703
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, this is something you're going through,

704
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: but they're not like.

705
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 2: This is extreme and right now today it's over, you

706
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 2: know what I mean?

707
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, anyways, you want to put y'all to the test, man,

708
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 3: we got to make sure. So what is the test?

709
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: And the test is not for you to create. The

710
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: test is going to be given. You're going to be

711
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: given a test multiple.

712
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 3: If she can't make me some some lobster pasta first

713
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 3: time through and it be bombed, then we're gonna have

714
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 3: to have an issue. I mean, what kind of tests?

715
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 3: Like you don't want the other test?

716
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 2: That's stupid. But I can make a bust and lost

717
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 2: of passa.

718
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 1: So listen, let's get back into what we're talking about.

719
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: So there's a man and he takes a trip for

720
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 1: his fortieth birthday alone because his girlfriend couldn't afford her half.

721
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 2: WHOA, that's blowing me. I'm tired. I'm tired.

722
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 3: Like she couldn't afford her half of the trip.

723
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 2: And this is his girl, yeah, and this is work.

724
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: And so he just was like bye and went on

725
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 1: the trip. No, I don't know where he went.

726
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 3: Damn, she couldn't afford her half of the trip for

727
00:33:56,040 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 3: his birthday. That's boss, that's the boss move. He probably

728
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 3: wanted to go to London or something. That's I'm not

729
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 3: dealing with that, Like, you know what, man, this is

730
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 3: gonna cost This's gonna that's gonna cost me a grip.

731
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 3: Can she get she can't get there? It's my birthday.

732
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 3: This is what I want to do. I mean this

733
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 3: only get one forty Damn. I ain't mad at that

734
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 3: kind of like she can't afford her half because I

735
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 3: can't afford her half. So if she can't afford.

736
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 2: Her half, afford it. But he doesn't.

737
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 3: You didn't say that, You didn't needn't say that. You

738
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 3: see and then said I can't afford her half, but

739
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 3: this is what I want to do for my forty.

740
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 3: And if she can't afford her half, then this is

741
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 3: what I want to do. So with you, how you

742
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 3: mad at him? You just gotta be like, I'll see

743
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 3: you when you get back. You can't be mad at that.

744
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 3: The trip would have cost him like three thousand. He

745
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 3: can't spend six thousand and she can't.

746
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 2: Afford three thousand. It's just a plane ticket. And you

747
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 2: are to say.

748
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 3: Something, wederstand what the trip is.

749
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 1: You got flight, hotel, You're staying in the same hotel.

750
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: So if you flight, so fly the only flight.

751
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,919
Speaker 3: Round trip, then you know it's like, man, how many days?

752
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 3: And I'm saying it might be seven days. It might

753
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 3: cost three thousand for the room.

754
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 2: You're already booking it, So what's the difference.

755
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 1: You're going anyway, So you have the room, that's the

756
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: most expensive part.

757
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 3: Not a room, ain't the most spensive. Park Because I'm

758
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 3: gonna be wanting to do something for my forty I'm

759
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 3: gonna be wanting to do.

760
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 2: This, and you're gonna do that regardless if I'm there

761
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 2: or not.

762
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm saying if she can't share.

763
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 2: The food, I just have a few bites.

764
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 3: You'll share the food. Yeah, what about that flight? That

765
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 3: flight might be the most expensive thing.

766
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:38,280
Speaker 1: No, Yes, because the room, Because the room.

767
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 2: How are you going to say?

768
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 3: No?

769
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: You write first class for almost forever. You don't know

770
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: regular flights how much they cost? Like you're telling me,

771
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: like we talk about people.

772
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 2: Who can't afford it, they're good, Like I'm in that category,

773
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,319
Speaker 2: was in that category? Like, let's keep it with I

774
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 2: know what not affording and what these flights are for.

775
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 2: You want to talking about the flight. It's more than

776
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 2: the trip. Have you took an affordable vacation?

777
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 3: I mean no, No, you blow a flight over here.

778
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 3: It costs like ten thousand to go overseas and I

779
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 3: got the passport.

780
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 2: There's not That's not the type of flights people are taking.

781
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 3: He might be taking that he can go into.

782
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 2: A coach seat.

783
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 1: It's never going to be ten thousand dollars, period, point blank.

784
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 3: I know you don't.

785
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 2: Yes, you don't know that lifestyle. Oh, I don't have to.

786
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 3: I've traveled, so you've been to Africa? How much?

787
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 2: I'm I never said Africa that's where you want to go? Whatever?

788
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: Moving on, moving on, moving on, Man, has he blowed me?

789
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: So today's question. Okay, right, we're actually going to go

790
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,240
Speaker 1: into some other stuff really quick.

791
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 3: Really quick. When we got on the agenda, what.

792
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:47,360
Speaker 2: Do you feel like?

793
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 1: Are the unspoken rules of the talking stage? So when

794
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 1: people are just dating, they're not boyfriend and girlfriend. Are

795
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: you allowed in that stage to date and talk to

796
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: other people?

797
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, the unspoken rules if we're just talking or another girl,

798
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 3: don't come up to me. Oh but what if we're

799
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,919
Speaker 3: talking to you see me over here with somebody else

800
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 3: and we're just in the talking stage, then the unspoken

801
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 3: rulers don't don't come over here saying Hi, what you've

802
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 3: been up to? Don't do that. You see, I'm out

803
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 3: with somebody else right now. We're just talking but cool,

804
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 3: and I'm gonna do the same thing if I see

805
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 3: her out. Oh okay, okay, I'm gonna moved in another

806
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 3: I can respect you know what I'm saying. No respect

807
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 3: that you can rule. Don't do that. Don't come like

808
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 3: I won't go to your table like hey.

809
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 2: Other people.

810
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what you can say.

811
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:34,399
Speaker 2: That's true.

812
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 3: If we're just in the talking dating stage, don't do

813
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 3: that you're dating.

814
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: Now, are you communicating like I'm dating other people like

815
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: or is it just unspoken and.

816
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 3: We gotta do we gotta said the unspoken.

817
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: Okay, but like, for instance, what if we start to

818
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: have sex, is it okay that because I personally am

819
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: not okay with having sex with somebody who has sex

820
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: with other people.

821
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 2: I will not I'm not unknowingly obviously probably happens.

822
00:37:55,239 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 3: See, this is the problem with you, females. You like, seriously, like,

823
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 3: y'all start dating the dude and the first day you

824
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 3: have sex, y'all pretend like y'all goat with the dude.

825
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 3: Like we didn't establish that, we just had We was

826
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 3: in the moment, So like, don't if I have sex

827
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 3: with you and then the next night you see me

828
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 3: over here at the spot with with somebody else. I

829
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 3: don't mean we go together, Like, don't come over here

830
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 3: like what you doing? Nah, we didn't establish that.

831
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's established.

832
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,919
Speaker 3: We didn't establish I have to embarrass you in front

833
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 3: of everybody. Why do you have to embarrass them because

834
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 3: you embarrassing me now because I'm saying, like, if we

835
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 3: have sex and we you know, and you come over

836
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 3: and I'm on another date and be like excuse me

837
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 3: all that ship like, hey, what's what's wrong with you? Shorty? Hey?

838
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 3: You better step back? Hey, And I'm at the table

839
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 3: with another like come on, that's do you embarrass me now?

840
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 3: Because we didn't establish that we was together. Because girls

841
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 3: and you have sex with them one time or the

842
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 3: first time, and we ain't established we together, they think

843
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 3: that yo, man, yo, you'll your girl or something off

844
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 3: top is just okay, you know if you're there, like

845
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 3: is this going to be exclusive? Like come on, you gotta.

846
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 2: Say that, you personally will say this.

847
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 1: Don't be having sex with these men, honey, you need

848
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: to waste that these men are being intentional and serious

849
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 1: because women, like, nothing is casual about sex for women.

850
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,840
Speaker 2: You entering, Mike, I don't believe in casual sex.

851
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 3: You don't.

852
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 2: It's not casual.

853
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 3: You don't.

854
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: First of all, stop pointing out no, no, no, no, no.

855
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 2: Listen to what I'm saying.

856
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 1: Sex for women is not casual because every time a

857
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: man enters you, whether you have a condom on or not,

858
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:43,800
Speaker 1: you risk getting pregnant. Being pregnant is not casual. Nothing

859
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: about that is every time a man enters your body

860
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: with a condom or not. You sex you get you

861
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,919
Speaker 1: can risk a disease, period point blank.

862
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's more intense.

863
00:39:55,560 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: For a woman because something when a key enters a hole, right, not.

864
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 2: Everybody at the end of the day. No, listen to

865
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 2: what I'm trying to say.

866
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 1: A man, at the end of the day entering a

867
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 1: hole is different from a woman being entered a woman

868
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: being entered is. Nothing about that is casual. And that's

869
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,919
Speaker 1: for every woman. If they want to play a game

870
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 1: and act like it is, they can. But scientifically, a

871
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 1: woman releases a hormone while they have sex that makes

872
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: them fall in love. I don't know the name of it,

873
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: but it's a true thing. So no, men don't release

874
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: that hormone.

875
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 2: They don't. It's a scientific thing. Men don't. Women do.

876
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: So the more you have sex with the man, the

877
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 1: more likely you are to fall in love. You are

878
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: risking yourself. You're putting yourself in a really bad position.

879
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,240
Speaker 1: And nothing about sex is casual. Period You end up pregnant,

880
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 1: you end up having to have an abortion, you end

881
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:45,879
Speaker 1: up taking a Plan B. All of those things are

882
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 1: harmful for your body. Period points like those are things

883
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: that men don't have to deal with. You end up

884
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 1: with a UTI, you end up with bacterial vaginosis, you

885
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:53,839
Speaker 1: end up.

886
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 2: With pH balance off.

887
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: These are all things that women deal with that make

888
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,320
Speaker 1: sex not casual for women.

889
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 2: And the reason women want to.

890
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: Have sex with you and now they feel like they're

891
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,320
Speaker 1: in love is because you are entering their body.

892
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,720
Speaker 2: I mean you answering my body, so they're going inside

893
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:09,720
Speaker 2: of you?

894
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 3: Yeah? When how and a sexual intercourse a penis, You're

895
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 3: going on a penis.

896
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 2: Inside not inside of your body.

897
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 3: Yes, you are, Paul.

898
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 1: The only way that a man gets entered is through

899
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: the anal. There's no way that a woman is answering

900
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: your body during sex.

901
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 3: Where you're smothering my body.

902
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 2: Really get me off the pot. This man is crazy,

903
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 2: you're smothering me.

904
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,879
Speaker 1: Sex is not casual, it's not and women should stop

905
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: having casual sex because it always ends in some fucked

906
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 1: up shit.

907
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 2: For a woman.

908
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 1: It's heartbreak, it's embarrassment, it's a man being like girl.

909
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 2: We ain't even given all of that.

910
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 3: I want to know how did they sign typically study

911
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:05,319
Speaker 3: that her horm mom goes off when the man enters one.

912
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 3: So so they was somebody that's having sex and they

913
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 3: was doing a test like.

914
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: How yeah, how they do test on animals like that,

915
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: and then and then they.

916
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 2: Test humans to know, they test the animals and then

917
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 2: they test the human. Right, that's the same thing, but

918
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 2: they test the humans too.

919
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 3: So I want to see who's the first, who's the

920
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 3: first that was laying there with their partner even and

921
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 3: they had the whole mark. They did it in the

922
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 3: m R I or something. They was in the m

923
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 3: R and they saw the neural neural part of the

924
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 3: brain study making up out here.

925
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 2: No, it's not a made up thing.

926
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 3: Okay.

927
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: So do you think that when it becomes exclusive, a

928
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 1: man needs to ask directly, like will you be my girl?

929
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 2: Does it have to be a clear like we're together?

930
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, he has to tell her you're my chick.

931
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 2: He's telling her. He's not asking and.

932
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 3: No, he's telling her, and then I will see what

933
00:42:54,360 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 3: she say, okay or no I'm not ready for that. Okay, cool, Okay, Okay,

934
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 3: got you. You don't have to ask, tell her if

935
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 3: that's how you feel as a guy, we exclusive.

936
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 2: Okay. It's post nut clarity, a real thing for man.

937
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 3: Explain that.

938
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 1: So, post nut clarity is when it's like you're feeling

939
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,359
Speaker 1: a girl, and then as soon as you're nut, you're like.

940
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 3: Oh, let's call.

941
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 2: Have a post nut clarity.

942
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: That's what it's called. So it's like you're feeling a

943
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 1: girl and then once you nut, you're.

944
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 3: Like something else what they call it?

945
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: They call it they say, once you you know, finish, okay,

946
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:47,359
Speaker 1: then you're like off of her, like like because they say,

947
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:48,240
Speaker 1: like you never.

948
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 3: Heard of this, Yeah, I mean I understand that language. Okay.

949
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 3: Like now you're just like I should have did that.

950
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like are you like, is that a real thing?

951
00:43:55,520 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 2: Like clarity? After you finish and you're like, oh yeah,

952
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 2: it's like I'm disgusting.

953
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 3: I'm disgusting with myself. I was tricky. You feel bad

954
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 3: your day like damn, I shouldn't have did that?

955
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: And is it just like is it because what like

956
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: you cheated or usually or is it.

957
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 3: It could be a number of things. It could be

958
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,439
Speaker 3: like it could be like you cheated, or it could

959
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 3: be like you was lit, or it could just be

960
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 3: like look and you see that that after that that

961
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 3: wake up, if you look at that, that not that nighttime,

962
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:41,839
Speaker 3: that wake up, you're just like, damn, what did I do?

963
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 3: It'd be a lot of ship that going. It's different.

964
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 3: You know, I don't know, it's just or I was like, damn,

965
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 3: it was you just get caught in the moment and

966
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:56,879
Speaker 3: you was like, damn, I was tricky. Yeah, that'd be happening, Yeah,

967
00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 3: that'd be happening in the dudes, Like you know, that's

968
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 3: mostly young dudes though you know they just be like

969
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 3: doing too much. But I mean it could be anybody, truthfully,

970
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 3: you know, Yeah, that's the thing. That's definitely a thing.

971
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 1: Do you feel like and I really want to know

972
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: this because I feel like men will be like, oh

973
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: my god, like this is the best sex I ever had?

974
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: Is there really like good vagina and like not good vagina?

975
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 2: And what is that difference?

976
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 3: I think a man makes it what it's gonna be.

977
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 2: Okay, explain like if.

978
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:44,799
Speaker 3: It's not cool, then it's on the guy. Because I

979
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 3: feel like a guy gonna make it cool.

980
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 1: But do you think that there's good vagina? Like is

981
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 1: there like you know how a man's like.

982
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 2: This is China's so good? I'm feeling it.

983
00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 3: I mean the homie told me it was like we

984
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 3: he was like she was just like laying there moving,

985
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 3: she was just laying there, just didn't move him back,

986
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 3: didn't even have no reaction to nothing.

987
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, but like, does the vagina feel different?

988
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: Like that's what I'm trying to ask, Like you're not answering,

989
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: like there are different feels, you know.

990
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 3: I'm thinking it's it's it's it's it's more than just

991
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 3: the penis and the vagina. It's the intimacy that make

992
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 3: it better.

993
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 2: No, I agree, But I'm born in.

994
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:37,319
Speaker 3: The field though, Like because like if you just out,

995
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 3: if you just your whole thought is just like to

996
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 3: just go ahead and finish, you just not really thinking

997
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 3: about it. If it's if it's cracking it out, but

998
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 3: if you feel a certain way, it's always going to

999
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 3: be better if you feel a certain way about the person.

1000
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: But do you feel like there's such because I've heard

1001
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: men be Like what I've heard a lot from men

1002
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 1: is like, oh, like really really pretty women have like

1003
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: bad vagina sometimes in the smells and I've heard that

1004
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: a lot, like and it's blowing me like it's like

1005
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 1: a smell to it. I've heard this so people, And

1006
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: Heather said she heard this too, like more a lot

1007
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: of people have said they heard this from men, And

1008
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:14,439
Speaker 1: I'm like what is that?

1009
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 3: Like, are are you pretty?

1010
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 2: I'm just.

1011
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 3: Like, I mean, what do you think? I'm asking you?

1012
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 3: You got pretty friends?

1013
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: I personally don't know because when I feel like our men.

1014
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 2: Like with me, it's always like it's hitting it's behind.

1015
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 2: But it's like every is every man just saying that.

1016
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 3: Have you ever got up from sex and was like

1017
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 3: what's that smell? Because if you have, it's usually coming

1018
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:45,919
Speaker 3: from the girl.

1019
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 2: I don't think so.

1020
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 3: I never got out of like no, what is that?

1021
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 3: Let me go to the bathroom real quick. This is

1022
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 3: said not never.

1023
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 1: Now to where it's like crazy, but also to what's crazy?

1024
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 1: Is you know that men's pH men can throw off.

1025
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 2: A woman's pH though now it's on us.

1026
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,399
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's a real thing. Like a man

1027
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: like trust me, like your body as a woman with

1028
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 1: a certain man will like be thrown off. I'm telling

1029
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: you the woman will agree to that.

1030
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you have got but it.

1031
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 1: Wasn't like to where it was like no, no, it

1032
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: wasn't that, but it was just like you can tell

1033
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 1: it's like different from your like sometimes if you have

1034
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 1: sex with the man a lot, you start to smell

1035
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: like him, Like I can smell him on me. You

1036
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,479
Speaker 1: know what I mean, she answered the question because that's

1037
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: not that's crazy.

1038
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 2: No, So anyways, let's get.

1039
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 3: Back into this man now, it just got up and

1040
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 3: went to the bathroom. That's why didn't come back. No,

1041
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 3: what like, what are you talking about?

1042
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 1: Okay, so anyway, he's moving forward because you can't take

1043
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:13,919
Speaker 1: anything serious. What's worse for you're play a little game.

1044
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: What's worse your partner cheats with your friend or your enemy?

1045
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 3: My friend? Because now I got two enemies instead of one.

1046
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 2: But isn't that worse two enemies?

1047
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's worse to go with my friend.

1048
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 1: Oh oh oh, I see what you're saying, because then

1049
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 1: when you have an enemy, it's just kind of like

1050
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: my enemies.

1051
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:45,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, but like my enemy to try to do something.

1052
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 3: Yeah whatever, I get there. But now my homeie my friend.

1053
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 3: Oh that's that's weak.

1054
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is I get what you're saying.

1055
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 1: The friend hurts way more to my talk to him. Yeah,

1056
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,320
Speaker 1: for sure, what's worse You're partner cheats with a woman

1057
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: or a man.

1058
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 3: My partner cheating with a man, because I'm I'm the man.

1059
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: So okay, I was just saying, So.

1060
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 2: It's more forgivable if it was a woman team. Yeah, okay, gotcha.

1061
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 2: But I mean, why what if the girl was using

1062
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 2: the fake you know, the.

1063
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 3: The girl was using the fake on her?

1064
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, okay.

1065
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: So now next thing you find out huh okay, you

1066
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 1: find out that your partner and their ex still share

1067
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: a Netflix password?

1068
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 2: Does that bother you?

1069
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 1: Now?

1070
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 3: I'd be like, you got to change and get your

1071
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 3: own account. Okay, she just forgot I pull up and

1072
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 3: it's her name. She forgot.

1073
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,359
Speaker 1: Your best friend shows you all d ms from your

1074
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: partner and they sat a year before you started dating.

1075
00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 1: They were flirting in the d ms a year before

1076
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 1: you started it, and your best friends like, look.

1077
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 3: I mean you thought she was fine too. That's cool?

1078
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Well I think this was a great episode. Besides,

1079
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: you just say anything.

1080
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 2: You say a lot of stuff.

1081
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 3: Even when you was that other girl, you never I

1082
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 3: never what?

1083
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 2: Bye? Thank you so much, like seriously, seriously you run

1084
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 2: me low. Thank you so much joining Truth after Dark.

1085
00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:33,240
Speaker 2: We appreciate you, guys.

1086
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 3: Next week we have guests coming. Make sure you tune

1087
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 3: in next week. This one is gonna be a thriller

1088
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 3: next week, so make sure you join.

1089
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:42,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, Thank you guys so much for all the love,

1090
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 1: the support. Make sure you're subscribed, make sure you guys

1091
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: are following us on all social media platforms. Just support us.

1092
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Speaker 1: We really really appreciate the love. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Right, this is the taking over the game, all right, everybody,

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Speaker 3: welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic