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Speaker 1: Do you dream of one day getting married and creating

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Speaker 1: a happy American life with your partner. It's a jewel show,

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Speaker 1: you know, an overpriced house with a loan that you'll

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Speaker 1: never be able to pay off, but you'll be able

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Speaker 1: to pass along that debt to your children one day.

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Speaker 1: Or spend your weekends bouncing around in your garden only

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Speaker 1: to be fined from the HOA for some non approved hydrangeas.

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Speaker 1: Or spending evenings on the couch watching TV with your

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Speaker 1: spouse while you both just watch your own TikTok feeds.

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Speaker 1: It's the American dream. Well, if that's the life for you,

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Speaker 1: then you need to be careful who you choose. Because

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Speaker 1: the survey was just released of the jobs that will

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Speaker 1: absolutely ruin your marriage. What jobs or absolute relationship killers?

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Speaker 1: Will tell you right after this what jobs will absolutely

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Speaker 1: kill your relationship? It's a jewel show, a professional cheater.

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Speaker 1: That one would probably be tough on your love life,

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Speaker 1: But there are others. According to a new study, there

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Speaker 1: are a few jobs out there they say will absolutely

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Speaker 1: ruin your marriage. So we'll go over them now so

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Speaker 1: you can be prepared and know who you should and

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be dating if you want to get married to them.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you realize that within the first few

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Speaker 2: weeks of dating this person anyway, depending on what their

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Speaker 2: job is. But you say, because maybe the job is sexy,

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Speaker 2: or you're just not convinced that that's going to happen,

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Speaker 2: like doctors.

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Speaker 1: But we can talk about that. A lot of the

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Speaker 1: relationship killing jobs are sexy jobs. That's probably the problem. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll tell you what the number one biggest relationship killing

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Speaker 1: job is in just a second, but let's go over

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Speaker 1: some of the top ten. Fighter pilots is on the

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Speaker 1: list of jobs that will absolutely kill your marriage.

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Speaker 3: Why.

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Speaker 4: That's because they're basically celebrities. I mean, come on, top

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Speaker 4: gun they're so cool.

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Speaker 2: Though. I know, dude, I totally made out with one

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Speaker 2: in the bathroom at a bar. We don't know if

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Speaker 2: he was actually a fighter pilot, but all you had

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Speaker 2: to say, yeah, but in that moment, like saying exactly,

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Speaker 2: I have the checklist, fighter pilot is checked off.

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Speaker 1: It says that they have to be incredibly driven and

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Speaker 1: focused to make it to that level, So they have

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Speaker 1: to work a lot combined with a god complex.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, of course a fighter pilot.

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Speaker 4: It's so cool.

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Speaker 5: And then being deployed for months at a time.

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Speaker 2: Well, in the uniforms yeah, you know it, also in

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: What are some of the other jobs that our relationship

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Speaker 1: killers will tell you what the number one is in

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Speaker 1: just a second. But musicians, they say, is also a

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Speaker 1: relationship killer.

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Speaker 2: Really the no offense double but totally I kind of

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Speaker 2: want a data musician.

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Speaker 4: It can be fun.

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Speaker 3: You can go visit them on tour, you can go

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Speaker 3: see different cities.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they may not want you to come visit

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Speaker 1: them on tour because they also have groupies.

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Speaker 4: Well that's fine, I'm a groupie when I'm not there.

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Speaker 2: Aside from the fact that they have groupies, they have

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Speaker 2: these emotional, like roller coaster swings.

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Speaker 4: Again, Juble, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Talking about you. I'm just saying in general, in my experience,

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Speaker 2: they get really in their like fields in your experience,

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Speaker 2: oh yes, in my experience again, their feels, and they

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Speaker 2: go on this roller coaster and they shut you out

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Speaker 2: because they're so concerned about how they feel or how

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Speaker 1: It says that their hours are also flaky, and they're

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Speaker 1: also always broke. Oh so they're not talking about like

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Speaker 1: rocks rockstar musicians. Yet they're talking about ones that are

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Speaker 1: still grinding and trying to make it.

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Speaker 2: They're like doing karaoka exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're driving through the middle of Nevada to some

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Speaker 5: It's not that glamorous at first.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: Remember when I made you come to that show.

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Speaker 1: Janina was dating a musician and you did have to

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Speaker 1: go to a show and it was at a bar.

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Speaker 2: I went to a few shows actually, and I brought

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Speaker 5: It was great.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was fun, but I don't talk to him anymore.

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Speaker 4: But it was a good time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you were the most hyped person there.

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Speaker 4: I've learned my lesson. You can be supportive, but then

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Speaker 4: they don't support you back. Yeah, it's messed up.

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Speaker 1: What is another job that is a relationship killer? They

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Speaker 1: say nurses is also a relationship killer? What it says

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Speaker 1: that they're drained and burnt out because they work such

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Speaker 1: anger and frustration when they're home.

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Speaker 4: Huh.

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Speaker 2: That's a bummer though, Like you feel like the nurse

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Speaker 2: should be traded like a queen or a king when

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Speaker 4: Because God's work.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but they worked those like four day workship work

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Speaker 1: weeks or whatever where they work like eighteen.

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Speaker 5: Hours a day and they get three days off.

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Speaker 1: So you think when they're gonna get home and be like, ooh,

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Speaker 1: I'm tired. I do that all day long. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to do that. What is another job that is

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Speaker 1: an absolute relationship killer? They say, somebody in the clergy.

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Speaker 4: What is the clergy?

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Speaker 5: So like a minister pastor.

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Speaker 3: Someone in the church, Well that you have to also

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Speaker 3: then go to that church and stuff.

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Speaker 2: I've never known anybody that was a pastor or married

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Speaker 2: to a pastor. I've only seen it in movies and

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Speaker 2: TV shows, and they always seem like the happiest family,

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Speaker 2: except when the pastor cheats and like coun't.

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Speaker 4: Get away with it. Yeah, I mean, now, I'm talking

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Speaker 4: about Lifetime movies now.

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Speaker 1: So I'm sure there's some very happy religious families, you know,

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Speaker 1: minister pastor families. I'm sure there are. I grew up

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Speaker 1: my both my parents are ministers, and it was not

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Speaker 1: happy family, yeah at all. So they say, the spouse

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Speaker 1: and the kids are constantly under a microscope, and of

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Speaker 1: course you have to go to church and stuff all

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Speaker 3: Okay, what would you say you were always under a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I would, I would, definitely yeah. But but

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Speaker 1: it's also it's just the environment that growing up in

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Speaker 4: Marriage.

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Speaker 1: No, I grew up in an abusive household. My dad

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Speaker 1: So yeah, their marriage was horrible, but not everyone is

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Speaker 4: You can't laugh at this.

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Speaker 5: As a matter of fact, most aren't, So.

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Speaker 4: You can't laugh. I'm sorry sorry.

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Speaker 1: Investment bakers is also a relationship killing job. The job

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Speaker 1: is incredibly demanding, long hours, high stress, and a spillover

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Speaker 1: effect into your everyday life.

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Speaker 4: But are we sure, I mean, but that's a problem.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think it is. That's what this person is

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Speaker 1: saying on the survey that they did. But also, if

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Speaker 1: they're working long hours, high stress and they're gone all

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Speaker 1: the time, you can enjoy the money of the investment banker.

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Speaker 2: Ey we're forgetting that balance is nice, Like I think

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Speaker 2: we need alone time as well to make a relationship healthy.

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Speaker 3: But he want so much of the time to where

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Speaker 3: like they're never home. They're constantly working. Even when they're home,

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Speaker 3: they are working the middle of the night. Like I

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Speaker 3: had a friend who like dated an investment banker and

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Speaker 3: she's still dating them. Love the guy, but he works

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Speaker 3: even through like all hours of the night.

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Speaker 4: So she spends the money.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, she has her own job, okay, but he

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Speaker 2: makes more and she probably spends his money.

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Speaker 4: Yet for sure she's ready to live in.

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Speaker 1: What is the number one relationship killing job a restaurant,

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Speaker 1: bar manager or owner?

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Speaker 4: What you get free? Dream billy, I could see that.

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Speaker 5: What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: They work every day off in twelve to fifteen hours,

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Speaker 1: every holiday, every week and they're constantly just on the clock.

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Speaker 2: Well, they're kind of like celebrities too, so like when

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Speaker 2: you go into the restaurant, you've got your regulars, they're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: it's frick, what's the I'll get the free drinks and

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Speaker 2: the thanks for the discount.

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Speaker 4: You know, I mean you get your free drinks.

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Speaker 1: And there's a certain mentality too, well not maybe not

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Speaker 1: with all restaurant owners, but definitely restaurant managers.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I work in restaurants most of my life before this job,

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Speaker 1: and I can tell you that most restaurant managers like

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Speaker 1: they have this weird complex where they just want to.

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Speaker 5: Be the boss.

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Speaker 1: So they're all kind of a holes because they they

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Speaker 1: make usually less than the servers make. If you're working

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Speaker 1: at a restaurant. Yeah, it's like because they have good

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Speaker 1: a salary, but most of them are worth servers at

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Speaker 1: one point, like a head server, so they're getting tips

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Speaker 1: and a bigger salary, but they take a salary cut

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Speaker 1: so that they can be a manager. Why for power, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're very they're all very power hungry.

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Speaker 2: Well, so power hungry people are the ones that are

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Speaker 2: going to kill your relationship Texan four one.

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Speaker 5: O six one. Was that true for you