1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: Am I they a hold for defending my wife's decision 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: to take me back after my sister in law brought 3 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:06,319 Speaker 1: up my past infidelity. 4 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 2: Umm? 5 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe, Well, we're. 6 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: Gonna find out from a throwaway sister in law party 7 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: who says, my wife forty female and I forty three male, 8 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: have been together for twelve years. Several years ago, I 9 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,279 Speaker 1: chose to be selfish and deeply hurt my wife by 10 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: sleeping with a coworker. 11 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 3: Doing a rough patch in our marriage. Boo. Best way 12 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 3: to patch a marriage, destroy it. 13 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 1: Since then, we have worked through this together with the 14 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: help of a counselor, and now our relationship is stronger 15 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 1: than it Africa. 16 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 3: Which is why we always stay on the show. Cheating 17 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 3: makes your relationship stronger. That's what you get if you 18 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 3: get through it. That's what it always says. So he'll 19 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 3: make the big statement that it'd be like cheating always 20 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 3: makes me shop about you. 21 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 2: If you could do, it'll be better, he does. 22 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 3: Cheating on your wife is great because then you're able 23 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 3: to because sure, yeah, it's it's the headline versus the context. 24 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 3: That's true. That's true, we only read the headline. Wait, 25 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 3: do we actually believe that cheating makes your relationship stronger 26 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 3: if you can go through it, like if you could 27 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:13,759 Speaker 3: get to the other end. 28 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 2: You have to Yeah, I would say so. 29 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: I do see your point, and I do think that 30 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 1: if you. 31 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 3: Well, well, here we go here. 32 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: No context, jay Z Beyonce, that's the example. 33 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 3: There we go, we. 34 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: Go, but a lot what happens with a lot of 35 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: I gotta be more like five hundred thousand dollars or 36 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: cheat on your under something or you guys really want 37 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: to just absolute brain rot banter bit. Then you can 38 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: stick around to the end. If we can play how 39 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: many toes? Sam and Riley's favorite game to play with me. 40 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 3: Riley loves counting. He does. Anyways, I'm gonna keep reading 41 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 3: year old count Get to the story, Riley, what are 42 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 3: we doing? 43 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: Are we reading a story for these fine beautiful people here? 44 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: I'm gaslighting him. 45 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 3: Guys. 46 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: My wife's sister was cheated on two and she left 47 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: her husband and got divorced, double wamy. Her husband had 48 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,959 Speaker 1: a full blown affair. I like, how would be calls 49 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: it a full blown affair? 50 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 3: It's different. It's different one act of cheating versus like 51 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 3: the banana Yeah, banana slip. 52 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 1: Her husband had a full blown affair that lasted several 53 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: months compared to my one night's stand, compared to which 54 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: I acknowledged. Doesn't make my actions any less hurtful to 55 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: my wife, but it was an important factor for my 56 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: wife to consider to forgive me. As for my sister 57 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: in law, the betrayal her husband did to causes her 58 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: to project a lot of her own emotions and turmoil 59 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: on our relationship, and she copes with her loss by 60 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 1: making snide remarks to my wife about me, how she 61 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 1: my wife is weak for not leaving me in how 62 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: terrible I am. Damn dude, yikes, yikes. I've never taken 63 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: it personally, and neither has my wife at least. 64 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 3: That's so mean. 65 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: That is mean, at least not now at all, because 66 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 1: we both recognize that our relationship is not the same 67 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: as she had with her husband, and therefore I choose 68 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: to give her grace and disengage when things get sour. 69 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, the relationship is very strong now because of the cheating, 70 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 3: because of the cheating cause and effects. Yeah, you're welcome. 71 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 3: A plus B equals C. 72 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: For making our relationship strong. To sue me, somebody sue 73 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: this guy three days ago was my wife's birthday, and 74 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: I arranged for a party for her and invited some 75 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: friends and family, including my sister in law. But I 76 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: see you in the comments if you see what's about 77 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: to go down. 78 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 3: Oh dude, I see you, I see you, I see you. 79 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:12,839 Speaker 1: I was about to present the gift I got her, 80 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: and before uh, and before everyone, I asked her, can 81 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: you guess what I have for her? Playfully, before my 82 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: wife had the chance to speak, sister in law made 83 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: a snide remark in front of everyone to me that 84 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: the best birthday gift she could receive would be me 85 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: turning back time and undoing what I did to her. 86 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 3: Ooh, party foul rough. Oh that's got to kill a mood. 87 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 3: You know what's so funny? 88 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: I literally, Uh, for a second, I forgot that Opie cheated. 89 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, she's just like thinking this 90 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: random guy or not this random guy, but this guy 91 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: is good to cheat on. I was like, oh, wait, 92 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: he did actually cheat. He did actually cheat. Some of 93 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: our mutual friends who didn't know about our past were 94 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: also there, and this anchored me. I tried to keep 95 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: my cool, and I said, I have compassion for how 96 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: her own betrayal hurts her even today. And I'm grateful 97 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: for the compassion my wife had for me, so much 98 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 1: compassion that she chose to look past her own pain 99 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 1: in order to forgive me because she loves me. She's 100 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: my best friend and my favorite person, and if she 101 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: didn't feel the same towards me, it wouldn't make sense 102 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: for her to find a way to forgive me, which 103 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: she did. She's not weak that sister in law constantly 104 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: implies the way the sister in law constantly implies that 105 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: she is. She's an incredibly strong woman To forgive someone 106 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:32,799 Speaker 1: who caused her so much pain in the first place. 107 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: It's very telling of her good character. And I know 108 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: it's her birthday today, but the gift of forgiveness from 109 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: her is a gift that she keeps giving, and how 110 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: grateful I am. 111 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 3: To have her as my wife. 112 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: My wife cried with joy and we kissed while sister 113 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:50,799 Speaker 1: in law looked like she could kill me with her stares. 114 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 3: Dude, Okay, just so monologued all of that to everyone. Yes, wait, 115 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:03,239 Speaker 3: that was in quotes. Believe this is what he was describing. Wait, 116 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: what can you guess? Play for Mike, he said all 117 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 3: of that to everyone well so he said all of that. Yeah, wow, Yeah, 118 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 3: she's my best friend, my favorite person. 119 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I believe. I mean he might not have. 120 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: He might have you know, spruced it up to your 121 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: husband though. Yeah. If he said like something along those lines, 122 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 1: gave that sentiment. 123 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 3: That is still great, that is still great. That It's like, 124 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 3: cheating makes your relationship stronger. And then your sister in 125 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 3: law constantly bring up your cheating also makes your relationship stronger. 126 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 3: So start paying your sister in law to keep bringing 127 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 3: up your cheating. 128 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you got a cheat first. Yeah, cheat in 129 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: every relationship, make it stronger. Sam Donner, I can't show 130 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:50,479 Speaker 1: signed by John Fry. 131 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:58,799 Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa. These are false allegations. Anyways, Hey are they? Hey? Riley, 132 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,919 Speaker 3: can I ask you a question? Go ahead? Is it 133 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 3: called John's Golden Rules? 134 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 2: Sama? John' yah? 135 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 3: Sam, John's Golden Rules Ype. Yeah, that's what they call it. 136 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 3: That's what they called That's so crazy. I like that 137 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 3: we're on the same page here, Sam's Yeah, Sam, John's gold. 138 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:16,679 Speaker 1: You are watching master gas lighters at work, ladies and gentleman. 139 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 3: All right, let's get back to the story. 140 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: So I know it looks very sappy in this post, 141 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: but it made perfect sense to both of us and 142 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: it made. 143 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 3: Our night more beautiful. 144 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 1: This really pissed off sister in law and she ran 145 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: off from the party, but not before telling my wife 146 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: I made her feel like crap and a weak person 147 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: for choosing to leave a marriage because of infidelity. She said, 148 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: I humiliated her and implied through my words that her 149 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: love for her own ex husband wasn't valid, and I 150 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 1: was trying to shame her for her choices by hyping 151 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: up my wife's choices. I mean, I'm just trying to 152 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: understand if this was a bad day with dealing with 153 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: her at this party, or if I could have done 154 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: anything else. Yes, a part of me genuinely wanted to 155 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: shut her down. I mean, who wouldn't. I'm human too, 156 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: But what I expressed for my wife was sincere and true. 157 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: My wife tells me she feels like others don't support her, 158 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: and that's what made her so happy about what I said. 159 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: She was happy I stood up to sister in law 160 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: for a marriage. If I have to be honest, it 161 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: did feel good telling her off like that indirectly, and 162 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: when I told my wife this, she giggled and said 163 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: she felt the same, and that is the end of 164 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: the story. 165 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 3: No edister updates that we know of dude w husband 166 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 3: after cheating. Yes, yeah, post cheating do the postnut clarity 167 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 3: must have been wild. 168 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: My man had had a postnut eternal epiphany. 169 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 3: He had postnut nirvana, postnut nervanitude. I was due. That's good. 170 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 3: That is good. This guy makes a show lazy gentlemen. Yeah. 171 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 1: I mean, I it's kind of tricky because I feel 172 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: like they're definitely I did get a tinge of like, 173 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: for instance, when OPI was comparing you know, his his 174 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:08,319 Speaker 1: cheating to but you. 175 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 3: Kind of, you know, you bring it up like when 176 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 3: the sister in law brings it up, like. 177 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: You there is a natural comparison that in there. 178 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's not anything. 179 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: He yes, he did it in the beginning before the 180 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: tiff with the sister. 181 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,719 Speaker 3: In law, but he didn't say it in his monologue. 182 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: No, And and he did also acknowledge that he's like, 183 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to belittle the pain that 184 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 1: my wife felt, or this doesn't belittle the pain. So 185 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: he is also acknowledging that it's like, Okay, you know, 186 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: maybe it kind of comes off as like diminishing the 187 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: the significance of it. But I think over with that 188 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: all that being said, I think overall it does seem 189 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: that I think really at the end of the day, 190 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: OPI and his wife made a decision together, and that's 191 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: their own relationship. And because it's their choice and decision, 192 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: what can you do it's not it's not the sister 193 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:05,559 Speaker 1: in law's relationship. 194 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, and they have done the work to actually move 195 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 3: through it. 196 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:11,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's an important because you know, you could also 197 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: say that, but then someone's in a relationship where someone's 198 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 1: like serially cheating and doesn't care at all, and then 199 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:19,839 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, well it's their relationship. Well that would 200 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: be good to like be hey, friend a friend, you 201 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: should get out of this relationship. But they really have 202 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 1: done the work in this in this instance, so yeah, 203 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 1: well what can you do? 204 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 3: Keep going? And you know, if you want to make 205 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 3: that relationship a little bit stronger, you know what you 206 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 3: can do? Cheat again. I I never said that. You 207 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 3: guys said you know what you can do and you 208 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 3: went to this wild place to cheat again. I was 209 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 3: gonna say, you know, you could do more therapy, more love, 210 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 3: more cagization. 211 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: Could you do me a favor and clip every single 212 00:10:56,760 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: time Sam has mentioned a golden rule with zero cons 213 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: just I. 214 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,439 Speaker 3: Was just saying, you know what you can do, and 215 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 3: it was it was love, empathy, care. I can't believe 216 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 3: your mind went instantly cheat again, that's crazy. 217 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:13,559 Speaker 1: I can't believe your minds what's constantly saying, just cheating, 218 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: it'll make. 219 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 3: The relationship perfect. 220 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: I don't think I ever said, oh yeah, you didn't 221 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 1: say that at all. 222 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 3: Dude. Yeah, dude, we're. 223 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 2: Gonna have to give dude Sam's wife future wife. 224 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 3: This is gonna be crazy, the complation at it is 225 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 3: gonna be a little It's gonna be a little bit. Honestly, 226 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 3: my coat was played every terrible clip of my podcast 227 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 3: for my speech is Sam's wedding. 228 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 2: She broke up with me on this, but if she doesn't, 229 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 2: it makes it stronger. 230 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 3: True. I know my life's gonna know everything about me 231 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 3: what I I do. Not keep secrets about my life. 232 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 3: You know that's true, doesn't it. 233 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 2: Sam and I have talked about this this weekend. 234 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 3: It's all on record. Do we talk about secrets? 235 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 2: No, we talked about the black box. 236 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 3: Oh, we talked about black box. 237 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, Sam doesn't have one. 238 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 3: We were talking about this idea of like some people 239 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 3: have black boxes in their lives where it's like don't 240 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 3: touch this and like don't ask questions about it. We're 241 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 3: talking about like is it necessary to have a black box? 242 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 3: Good question? 243 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, But do we have a call in signal imagination? 244 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 3: Can you hear us? 245 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 4: Oh? 246 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, hello, hello, hello signal? So, uh, you have a 247 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:37,199 Speaker 3: toxic family member story kind of related to the Cistern 248 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 3: Laws story where cistern Allows going wild trying to rummage 249 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 3: through the past and blow up Opie's life. You said 250 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 3: you have a toxic family member story where your brother 251 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 3: wrung up nine hundred dollars in overage fees on a 252 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 3: cell bill and then attacked you with a bat When 253 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 3: you close the line, what happened? 254 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 4: Okay, So at the time, my uh, my mother said 255 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 4: she couldn't afford our cellular devices and I was looking 256 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 4: so I decided to take on both my cell phone 257 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 4: as well as my brother star phone bill every month. 258 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 4: And this is really nice. Yeah, I think that was 259 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 4: a gesture. I was trying to be nice with my 260 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 4: brother because he was he was three years younger than me, 261 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 4: he was fourteen seventeen, trying to look out her right. 262 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 3: Yeah. 263 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 4: So, I don't know if you remember when they used 264 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 4: the charging for texting. 265 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 3: I do, I do, And now they charge you for data. 266 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 3: It's like it's like five bucks for ten gigs or 267 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 3: five bucks for five gigs or something like that. 268 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 4: So my brother rung up the first month three hundred 269 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 4: dollars for texting. Yes, so I told him, like, I 270 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 4: paid the bill. I said, please, don't do this. I 271 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 4: can't afford or. 272 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 3: You hate it. 273 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 4: Yes, I paid it. 274 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I warned it. 275 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 4: I said, look, don't do this again because I can't 276 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 4: forde to pay. 277 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 3: Three hundred dollars. 278 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. So what does my brother do, Well, he doesn't care. 279 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 4: So he decides to run up another three hundred dollars 280 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 4: the next month. 281 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: Who is he texting? How many texts do you have 282 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: to send for three hundred dollars? 283 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 4: He he sent Like, according to the bill, he sent 284 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 4: over wild count text within a month to all of 285 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 4: his friends. He wasn't calling them, he's texting them. 286 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 1: Is twelve hundred a lot or a little? I don't 287 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 1: know how many. I guess back in the day, how 288 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: much how much. 289 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 3: Do you text? 290 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 4: Like? 291 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 3: How much do you think? How many sent messages. Do 292 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 3: you think you text for a day forty a day? Yeah? 293 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, but like again early two thousands. 294 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 3: Right, yeah, yeah, texting was expensive. 295 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 4: Yeah. So the second time, I said, you do this again, 296 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 4: I'm gonna shut your line off, and he said, you know, bet, 297 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 4: I bet you're not going to do that, right, Like, 298 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 4: who are you to shut my phone off? But I'm like, 299 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 4: but I'm paying the bill. 300 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I am the one who can do this. 301 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 4: I am. So my mother decides to suddenly, as he 302 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 4: said before, all right, she said before that she couldn't 303 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 4: afford the cell bill, instead goes on a trip to 304 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 4: Spain without telling anyone. On the third month. 305 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 3: Wait, wait, your mom or your brother goes on a 306 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 3: trip to Spain. Your mom who's like, I can't afford 307 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 3: this phone baill y, so let me go to Spain. 308 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 3: So well, I heard the phone bills are cheaper in Spain. 309 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 4: Though, Oh, you have no idea how pissed I was, 310 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 4: because here I am thinking that I've been duped. Yeah, 311 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 4: and he does it again a third time. 312 00:15:57,720 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 3: Yes, can't you put like a limit on this kid? 313 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 1: Right? 314 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 4: I tried. I tried, but because at the time I 315 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 4: was seventeen, I wasn't the person on like authorized to 316 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 4: make changes. It was my mother. Oh, so when I called, 317 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 4: I just pretended to be my mom and said, shut 318 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 4: it off. I'm not paying for the bells. Shut off 319 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 4: his line. So when I come home, like I drive home, 320 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 4: I'm about to get out of my car, and there's 321 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 4: my brother and he has his like I guess little league, 322 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 4: not little League like that he was on the baseball team. 323 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 4: He has his metal bat outside and he's like doing 324 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 4: this whole intimidation. 325 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 3: He's like, how old is he. 326 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 4: Was fourteen and he's streaming at me back on in 327 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 4: the middle of like this in our neighborhood. And so 328 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 4: there's people like looking out of their condo windows, like 329 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 4: what's going on? Because you know in New York everybody's nauseat. Yeah, 330 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 4: And I am not getting on my card because he's crazy. 331 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 4: I had to end up. I ended up calling my father, 332 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 4: who had to drive from New Jersey to New York 333 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 4: to calm him down in a sense and to get 334 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 4: him to back off. Well, my mother comes back from 335 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 4: her trip and the first thing she does is tell me, 336 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 4: why didn't you pay the bill? That's all on you. You 337 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 4: should pay the bill. 338 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: Is not on you to pay a three Like phone 339 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 1: bills are like fifty bucks a month, max. 340 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 3: Three hundred is at seventy. 341 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, like twenty crazy crazy expectation wage was seven dollars. 342 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:47,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's so like you could imagine like it was crazy. 343 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 4: So yeah, that's my toxic Like short story, I like 344 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:58,400 Speaker 4: this day never been paid back. In fact, when my 345 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 4: mother attempted and I put that quote attempted to make 346 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 4: him pay me back because he had a summer job, 347 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 4: he realized she was taking like fifty dollars out of 348 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 4: his paycheck to pay me back the nine hundred that 349 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,439 Speaker 4: he forced me to spend. So he just put his 350 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 4: job and stopped working. 351 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 3: So has your brother not like, like what is he 352 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 3: up to? Now? 353 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:26,359 Speaker 4: I don't want a docs? 354 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 3: Okay, fair enough, but wait, I have one last question 355 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 3: for you. What do you have any idea who your 356 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 3: brother was texting that he was so angry that you 357 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 3: shut off the phone phone line. 358 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 4: Turns out he was he had a girlfriend. Classic, classic, Yeah, 359 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 4: he had a girlfriend. She was texting him and it 360 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 4: led to a lot of like you know that really 361 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 4: bad influence girlfriend. Yeah, she convinced him to steal my 362 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 4: little brothers so our younger brother brothers p S three 363 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 4: and sell it so she can so he can take 364 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 4: her out on a date. 365 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 3: Wait, you're the you said PS three p S three. 366 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 3: I thought you said steal your little brother. 367 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 4: That's what. 368 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 3: PS three. Yeah. Okay, yes, so terrible, so terrible. She's 369 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 3: just trying to stoke a budding entrepreneur. Yeah no, that's terrible. 370 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:36,640 Speaker 3: She sounds whack. Oh my gosh. 371 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. So yeah, that's my toxic family story. Got plenty 372 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 4: of those. 373 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, thank you so much for sharing signal. We 374 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 3: always see you in the chat so it's nice to 375 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 3: talk like to you again. 376 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,680 Speaker 4: Yeah awesome, I'm glad. 377 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 3: Have a good one. Thank you bye. Wow. Also, I 378 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 3: so called that it was a girlfriend. No long it's 379 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 3: that mad. I should should have said it. And it's 380 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 3: not for love. Yeah we should have said it. We 381 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 3: should have said it. And as like, dude, you're in 382 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 3: like whatever, like middle school, high school? Yeah, high school, dude, 383 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:10,919 Speaker 3: that's everything a girl likes you. That's like all your 384 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:11,640 Speaker 3: self confidence. 385 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 1: And twelve hundred text really isn't that much. Riley figured 386 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: it's forty texts a day, which I mean that is 387 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:16,360 Speaker 1: a lot. 388 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 3: But dude, dude, when I was when I was texting, 389 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 3: when I was texting girls back and like like my girlfriend, 390 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 3: h I had a long distance girlfriend. I was texting 391 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 3: like probably hundreds yeah, yeah, bite some texts yeah, or 392 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 3: because of the picture. 393 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, alright, there we go, there we go videos. Well, 394 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 1: I think that's the end of that episode. If you 395 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: love us, make sure to subscribe. 396 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:49,719 Speaker 3: We love you and see you tomorrow. This is an 397 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 3: episode from Deep within the Archives. Time for okop rewlam. 398 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 3: My girlfriend wants to bow and Harry Style. Should I 399 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 3: letter continue this fantasy? OKOPI as long as it's a 400 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 3: threesome Harry and your girl. Yeah. I never thought I 401 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 3: would be in this position. I never thought I would 402 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 3: want to break out with my girlfriend because she's in 403 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 3: love with the celebrity. But here I am. It all 404 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 3: started when I, twenty two male, brought my girlfriend twenty 405 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,480 Speaker 3: two females to see Harry Styles in concert. I thought 406 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 3: it would be a great gift to bring her since 407 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,959 Speaker 3: we were both big fans of him. I was excited 408 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 3: to see him perform, but my girlfriend was over the moon. 409 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 3: She had been a huge fan of his for years 410 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 3: and she couldn't wait to see him live. As we 411 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,199 Speaker 3: watched the concert. I could see the pure joy and 412 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,400 Speaker 3: excitement on her face. She was singing along to every song, 413 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 3: dancing on her seat, grinning from ear to ear. I 414 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,400 Speaker 3: couldn't help but feel a little envious of the connection 415 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 3: she had with him. Oh after the concert, went back 416 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 3: to her hotel room, and she couldn't stop talking about Harry. 417 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 3: She talked about how amazing he was, how talented he was, 418 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 3: and how she was in love with him. I didn't 419 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 3: know what to say, and the week's have followed, she 420 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 3: started with draw from me. She spent all of her 421 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,919 Speaker 3: time watching Harry's interviews, listening to his music, and reading 422 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,959 Speaker 3: fan theories about him online. She even started to dress 423 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 3: like him and adopt his mannerisms. I tried to talk 424 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 3: to her about it, but she didn't want to listen. 425 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 3: She said that Harry was her true love and she 426 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 3: couldn't be with someone who didn't understand her passion for him. 427 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,439 Speaker 3: I don't know what to do. I love my girlfriend, 428 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 3: but I can't possibly compete with Harry styles. I mean, 429 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 3: if we can try, and who can? And I don't 430 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 3: want to be with someone who is more in love 431 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 3: with a celebrity than with me. I'm at a loss. 432 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 3: I don't know if I should try to fight for 433 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,399 Speaker 3: my relationship or if I should just let her go. 434 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 3: All I know is I need advice, and I hope 435 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 3: someone on Reddit can help me. 436 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: Well, you just lucked out because you have two experts 437 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 1: on everything on planet Earth sitting right here. 438 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 3: What should we do? Sam? I mean, it seems like 439 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 3: she's like serious. Oh yeah, that's deep. Deep, Yeah I 440 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 3: would I would say this is kind of weird. I 441 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 3: don't think I would be down. 442 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's a lot, but I mean there is 443 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:03,120 Speaker 1: always the option. You know, he can go and get 444 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: complete plastic surgery. Yes, yes, I was hairy things and 445 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: boomy your Harry Style styles. 446 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,399 Speaker 3: Just make sure that you know, just like start singing 447 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 3: a little bit. There we go, dude, You'll win your 448 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,120 Speaker 3: girl back in no time. That's right, Get it done, 449 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:18,440 Speaker 3: Opie updates. After a lot of thought and contemplation, I've 450 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 3: decided to have a serious conversation with my girlfriend about 451 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 3: a relationship and her obsession with Harry Styles. I am nervous, 452 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 3: but I know that it will be necessary for us 453 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 3: to be honest with each other and discuss our concerns openly. 454 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,439 Speaker 3: Update two. After a lot of thought and discussion, my 455 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 3: girlfriend and I decided to break up. It was a 456 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 3: difficult decision but we both but we both agreed it 457 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 3: was for the best. Does she think that she's gonna 458 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 3: be like I was free from her and she was 459 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 3: free to pursue Harry styles? Is that? Does she think 460 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,480 Speaker 3: it's gonna happen? I mean she seems a little loopy. 461 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 3: So we have grown apart and our relationship is no 462 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 3: longer healthy or fulfilling for either of us. You're fucking me? 463 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 3: Did you do this on purpose? 464 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 4: No? 465 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 3: Final update. This post is a social experiment. Thank you 466 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 3: all for participating. With all the word going around about 467 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 3: AI being indistinguishable from humans, and decided to test it 468 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 3: for myself. I had an AI generate this text and 469 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 3: only made a couple of small edits to make it 470 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,920 Speaker 3: sound more Reddit like. As expected, many of you caught on, 471 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 3: but many of you believe the story. I'll leave it 472 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 3: up to you decide if this being so believable is 473 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 3: good or bad. Thank you for the support everyone. It's AI. Okay, okay, okay, 474 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,879 Speaker 3: So this one I actually this is the one I 475 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 3: mentioned earlier. I thought I thought he said he edited 476 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 3: it with AI. No, you trust me, I didn't. 477 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 1: I literally, I literally bro thought that he wrote the 478 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 1: story and he said he edited it. 479 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 3: With Remember when I said that, Yeah, before the session started. 480 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 3: Damn bro chat GPT. Okay, if you have a story 481 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 3: like this and you want to submit it, go to 482 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,879 Speaker 3: our slash okop show. It's about your story there, drop 483 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 3: it Okayop, this is Okayop. I'm Samuel Donner and we 484 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 3: tell the funniest stories on the Internet. And John, I 485 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 3: have a juicy juice juice. 486 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:04,160 Speaker 1: Or ooh for you here set juicy. Yeah. 487 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,680 Speaker 3: I want to just do with it, just all over 488 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 3: your body. 489 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. 490 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 3: Today I fed up by accidentally implying that we wanted 491 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,160 Speaker 3: to hook up with our babysitter. 492 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,919 Speaker 1: Not only is that something you don't want to accidentally imply, 493 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: you also don't want to intentionally imply. 494 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 3: That unless you're trying to have a threesome with your 495 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 3: babysitting that is true. If that is the case, then 496 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 3: you do want to intentionally imply that. For reference, my 497 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,640 Speaker 3: husband and I are in our mid to late thirties 498 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 3: and our sitter is in her early twenties. We have 499 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 3: two young kids, five and three, and through the pandemic. 500 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,440 Speaker 3: My husband and I have both been working from home 501 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 3: for a while. We were taking shifts trying to watch 502 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 3: the kids while the other had meetings, but eventually we 503 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 3: resorted to hiring a sitter sometimes during the day to 504 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 3: watch them, to keep them occupied so we could work. 505 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 3: On the surface, it's like, oh, we'll both be home, 506 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 3: it'll be great. 507 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 1: But then it's like you're in meetings, you know this stuff, 508 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,479 Speaker 1: and they come in like, okayhi, my poopy. 509 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,120 Speaker 3: Like Also, it's like the kids aren't in school either, 510 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 3: so usually school is like a day care for those kids, 511 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,639 Speaker 3: but during COVID, all the kids were at home, so 512 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,640 Speaker 3: you had to care for them. Where's the teachers usually 513 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 3: would be doing that, I get your parents. Yeah, smart move. 514 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 3: We'd gone through a couple of sitters before landing on 515 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 3: her current one. She has been absolutely fantastic, a dream 516 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,439 Speaker 3: with the kids, and has been working for us for 517 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,399 Speaker 3: several months now. It has been a godsend for us 518 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 3: to hide away and our offices on our laptops, undisturbed 519 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,439 Speaker 3: through our work day, knowing someone is taking care of 520 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 3: things on the other side of the door. Everything changed 521 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:31,879 Speaker 3: one day, Oh God, the f up happened yesterday, and 522 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 3: we decided we wanted to take a night to ourselves 523 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,359 Speaker 3: now that restaurants were opening up again in our area. 524 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,679 Speaker 3: We had the sitter come over and went out for 525 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 3: a night of food and drink, our first date night 526 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 3: out at a restaurant in almost two years due to 527 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 3: the pandemic. Our dinner was glorious, drinking and flirting and 528 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 3: being adults outside in the real world, feeling like people 529 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:57,439 Speaker 3: and not just parents trapped and worked in our home. 530 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 3: We felt very energized, and we knew how we wanted 531 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:06,400 Speaker 3: to spend that energy. Oh yeah, yeah, but having young 532 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 3: kids makes that alone time a little bit more difficult. 533 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 3: You don't want to have any imagine, yeah, makes it 534 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:19,479 Speaker 3: more difficult. Our kids are fussy sleepers. Sometimes you're clapping 535 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 3: your cheeks that anyone's a fussy sleeper. We were joking 536 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 3: to each other that we should ask the sitter to 537 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 3: stay later and watch the kids so he and I 538 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 3: could have some private time uninterrupted. When we hired our 539 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 3: first sitter, we took advantage of the fact that the 540 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 3: kids were occupied by having a few sneaky quickies during 541 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 3: the day while we were locked away working. But we 542 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 3: hadn't done that in a while, and now the idea 543 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 3: of hooking up this evening without a risk of a 544 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 3: bargain was very appealing. When we got home, I was 545 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 3: a little tipsy. The kids had been put to bed, 546 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 3: but weren't really settled asleep yet, so my husband went 547 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 3: to check on them. I stayed and thanked our sitter 548 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 3: for helping us have a wonderful night out. She was 549 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 3: very friendly as always and assured us it was no problem. 550 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 3: She'd help us out whenever we need it. And here's 551 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 3: where I aft up. Uh oh, My tipsy brain thought 552 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 3: it would be cute to slyly joke about having her 553 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,199 Speaker 3: stay and watch the kids a little longer so my 554 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 3: husband and I could have some frisky alone time together. 555 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 3: Woo and one of those as a joke, but testing 556 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 3: the waters things which already is crossing the line. But 557 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,160 Speaker 3: what makes it worse is how I phrased it. She said, 558 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 3: you look so happy and rejuvenated, and said we must 559 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 3: have had a great time out. I agreed and said 560 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 3: it was so amazing, and thanked her so much for 561 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 3: letting us escape as man and wife for a night 562 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 3: to have some fun. She says something like no worries 563 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 3: at all. Anytime you need me, I'm happy to help 564 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 3: with anything, anything to anything, anything, to which I say 565 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 3: with a rise smile. Well, we had been thinking about 566 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 3: asking you if you wanted to stay a little longer 567 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 3: we could hook up, which in my mind, I was 568 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 3: trying to suggest she stay longer to watch the kids 569 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 3: so my husband and I can hook up. But that 570 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 3: is not how it came out. I understand now what 571 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 3: was clearly implied by my phrasing. Her eyes went wide 572 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,479 Speaker 3: and her voice became hushed and serious, and she's like, 573 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 3: are you serious, and me not understanding my f up 574 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 3: yet laughed and said I was just teasing, but we'd 575 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 3: certainly enjoy it. We'd done it with other sinners in 576 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:29,040 Speaker 3: the past, but we didn't want to make her too uncomfortable, 577 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 3: and it was completely fine if she wasn't comfortable with it. Wow, 578 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 3: I think I'm treating the subject delicately because I think 579 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 3: I'm talking about a completely understandably weird ask that you 580 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 3: do to your babysitters about our kids while we wanted 581 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 3: to hook up in another room. And she's responded like 582 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,959 Speaker 3: she's shocked I'm asking, but is super cool about it. 583 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 3: She stammers a bit and says she'd love to, but 584 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 3: she can't tonight. And I try to drop it, saying 585 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 3: it's no big deal, thinking that we're just gonna go 586 00:29:56,360 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 3: hook up anyway, but she keeps insisting she would she can't, 587 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 3: and she keeps stressing she can't, and I'm starting to 588 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 3: get that she's implying that it's her time of the month, 589 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 3: and I'm tipsy and I don't really know what that 590 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 3: has to do with things, or I should be offering 591 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 3: her anything, but I just keep assuring her it's no 592 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 3: problem at all, and at this point, I just wanted 593 00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 3: to leave so I can jump on my husband. She 594 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 3: continues to be apologetic and says she would love to 595 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 3: any other time. She thinks we're amazing, and it's such 596 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 3: a huge fantasy for her. Bad bad, And that's when 597 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,320 Speaker 3: it clicks in my brain and I get what we're 598 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 3: talking about. I start to panic a bit and backpedal, saying, 599 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 3: forget I ever asked. But she doesn't want me to 600 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 3: feel like she's blowing me off or making excuses, and 601 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 3: I'm trying to get out of it, but I feel 602 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 3: like I'm into deep and there's a misunderstanding because she's 603 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 3: so into it and supportive, and eventually we awkwardly hug 604 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 3: and she leaves. Oh my god, I freak out and 605 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 3: run into our bedroom to my husband and spill out 606 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,280 Speaker 3: the story of what just happens, and he starts howling 607 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 3: with laughter. And I'm just stressing out. He's been making 608 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 3: fun of me ever since, calling us swingers. Now he's 609 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 3: been telling me everything will be fine. Just tell her 610 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 3: it was an honest mix up. But this girl is 611 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 3: great with our kids, and it has been a dream 612 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 3: for us helping out. I don't want to lose a sitter, 613 00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 3: and I'm afraid I just efed it all up. I 614 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 3: have no idea what to do now, and as I 615 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 3: see it, I have these options. A pretend like I 616 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 3: don't even remember asking, was too drunk, and have no 617 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 3: idea what she's talking about when she tries to bring 618 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 3: it up. That's the coward's option, potentially mean and childish, 619 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 3: but theoretically sparing us of embarrassment. B explain truthfully what happened, 620 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,480 Speaker 3: that it was a misunderstanding, and risk making her feel 621 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 3: completely embarrassed for being enthusiastically game and making a relationship 622 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,520 Speaker 3: with this amazing sitter, very awkward, or she might just 623 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 3: have a big laugh and be over with it. The 624 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 3: adult option, own your mistakes and clear the air, see 625 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 3: ghost her, sell our home and move and change our names. 626 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,959 Speaker 3: The vacuum cleaner repairment option. D just roll with it 627 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 3: and have a three way hook up with this girl. 628 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 3: The heroic option. I'm definitely going with the heroic option. Yeah, 629 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 3: that seems like the best you know, turn these lemons 630 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 3: into lemonade. 631 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 1: You know, Wow, that's so that's so wild that like, 632 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 1: what are the odds that all of these misinterpretations would 633 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: happen and that the she's down like that is just 634 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 1: too incredible. 635 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 3: That's some content that's ready for the hub. You know, 636 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 3: it really is some hot fresh content, some hot fresh 637 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 3: content for the hub. Baby shout out to good luck 638 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 3: with that one, dude. The babysitter fantasy, it's real. It's 639 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 3: also what would you do if you're in that situation? 640 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: Like would you just like try to tell the babysitter, like, hey, 641 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 1: this is what happened? 642 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 3: No, I mean, how old is this babysitter? Does she 643 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 3: have parents? Like, well most people have Yeah that's true, 644 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 3: but like, you know, is she living with her parents, 645 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 3: because I feel like like the babysitter job is usually 646 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 3: maybe when you're living with your parents, unless you're like 647 00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 3: a professional O pair right right right, and I feel 648 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 3: like that might be a little weird. 649 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, or at a minimum, just clearing there being like, hey, 650 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 1: you know, I was drunk. 651 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 3: It was a total accident. I did not mean to 652 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 3: imply this, like. 653 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 1: But now that I have, but now I have, let's go, 654 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: let's go. That was definitely a very solid one.