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Speaker 1: the end of a decade. What a decade for first

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Speaker 1: for me, I think I lost my virginity to say,

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Speaker 1: but no, A bitch went to jail, got broke, ship

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Speaker 1: got broken up with and then there were amazing fucking

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Speaker 1: moments like moving to New York, buying New Tits, getting

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Speaker 1: horrible decisions on the map, and having you here. So

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Speaker 1: we have arrived at our top moments for two thousand nineteen.

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Speaker 1: Mandy and I have chosen our favorite moments of the

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Speaker 1: year and we are so excited to share it with

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Speaker 1: a bang, and as a bang, it would be ship.

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Speaker 1: The first eisode that we did I think of our

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Speaker 1: top moments in two thousand eighteen or seventeen was literally

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Speaker 1: one of the worst ship stories I think I've ever heard.

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Speaker 1: The second episode we did. If you guys remember, of

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Speaker 1: our top moments was how much me and Mandy would

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Speaker 1: get shipped on for. And luckily, this next clip you're

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Speaker 1: about to hear is not about us. It's from episode

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Speaker 1: one seventeen featuring the Dad Hats and bow Ties podcast,

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Speaker 1: who came on thinking that they were guys that liked

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Speaker 1: to be pegged, when really they just had a finger

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Speaker 1: listened to this crazy wild ship no pun intended, and enjoy.

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Speaker 1: Before we started the show, we did a little pre

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Speaker 1: production and I'm like, Hey, is there anything we need

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Speaker 1: And I'm like okay, but have you taken a strap

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Speaker 1: that is not pegging. Other question, did y'all got a

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Speaker 1: we have never done a fucking feature on any podcast

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Speaker 1: where they don't bring it up. Okay, literally, on the

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Speaker 1: N No, you're just basically telling me y'all just have

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Speaker 1: I listened to like snippets at Nippets. Okay, well, nig

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Speaker 1: you should have google pegging where you look. What happens

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Speaker 1: when you're google pegging things up is a goddamn animated

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Speaker 1: bens over Nigga taking a trap we're gonna run the

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Speaker 1: show along. So pegging actually is a sexual practice in

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Speaker 1: practice may also involve stimulating the male genitalia the neo logism. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's right, but the Neil organism.

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Speaker 1: But like I pictured everything that way, and like literally

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Speaker 1: there's been There's been times like where I've had anal

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Speaker 1: Okay and you look an I speak to you for

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Speaker 1: I forgive you, Like the last time pitched that ship

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Speaker 1: was so good and he's sitting there wiping the fucking

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Speaker 1: what we still a wait? Is he here? No? Okay,

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Speaker 1: one last time. He got a ring and you're watching

426
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 1: him with these little candy panties on the bed and

427
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, I can't wait to meet her. She

428
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: cancels this fucking trip on him. Bitch, never met her.

429
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 1: Then they start going through these clips and videos she

430
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: sent him. She's never even said his name. She just

431
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: records videos and she's like, I miss you, baby. Apparently

432
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: it's like this Russian scheme where they trapping niggas and

433
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,239
Speaker 1: just getting them all fucked up. So she's probably been

434
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 1: doing this to like five or ten different men, never

435
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 1: met her in five years. Like people are really dumb.

436
00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 1: I know, it's really dumb. Like it's really I don't

437
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,359
Speaker 1: know how they're still this dumb, Like we have the

438
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 1: Internet on our fingertips now, Like how are people this dumb? How?

439
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: I think it's people that never get pussy. No, bro, no,

440
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 1: not getting pissed pussy doesn't make you think about catfish.

441
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 1: No offense, but offense, Like they're not the most attractive bunch.

442
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: Ugly people have sex all the time, I know, but

443
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 1: like they'd be weird weird. This is they're ugly and

444
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,880
Speaker 1: bro am I saying something problematic. They're ugly and weird.

445
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: You don't think the ugly weird people have sexed ugly niggas.

446
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 1: And I have weird niggas, but I've never sucked an

447
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: ugly weird nigga. You gotta like, like one is, ugly

448
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 1: people do have sex. Weird people do have sex, like

449
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 1: you got both Like no, and that makes them dumb.

450
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 1: Though ugly niggas will either have money or they'll be

451
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: funny and then suddenly I'm like, all right, it's the truth.

452
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 1: If you're a good time, i'd belive if you're a

453
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 1: good time, I'll go past the looks, or I'll meet

454
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 1: really fine niggas that are bland or weird. But I'm

455
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I didn't did that. Yeah, I'll be

456
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 1: shallow as with he's fine niggas, but maybe they'd be weird,

457
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: but they'd be getting pussy because they're fine. Ugly niggas

458
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: get pussy too because they don't have money or be funny.

459
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 1: So at my point or that that's tall, so I

460
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,199
Speaker 1: ain't gonna hold you. You could be ugly as if

461
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: you like six foots you're gonna get you're gonna get pussy.

462
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: I used to nigger that had a lazy eye, and

463
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: he was like six eight, you tray some McGrady, no,

464
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 1: just like what I was gonna ask. Way, I was

465
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 1: actually really friend. Oh I ain't. We used to live

466
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: in Orlando, bitch. I don't know that's a fair point,

467
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: but oh um, he was white. But anyway, now, like

468
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: you sucked a white guy with a lazy eye, MANDI

469
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 1: he was six eight and he was you know, he

470
00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: probably tore the point. But anyway, I'm the point. Ugly

471
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 1: weirdos probably don't get fucked a lot. You see what

472
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying now, So catfish be ugly weirdos, and the

473
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: nigga was an ugly weirdo. So I feel like ugly

474
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: weirdos just have nothing to go off of. They could

475
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: like live off of that text message that's like I

476
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: love you from days ago. You could just hang onto it.

477
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: But like hot people don't go through that bullshit. They're

478
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,360
Speaker 1: gonna know about a catfish right because you're like more

479
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: hip to the ship. Could you be fucking more niggas?

480
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. That's just my gauge. I could

481
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 1: be wrong. You could be, and I probably am, but

482
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: you probably are. Okay, maybe any hudo, We're gonna go

483
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 1: ahead and set go out this bitch because a bit

484
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 1: got because I'm already like I have green Leaf, married

485
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: to medicine, Real Housewives of Potomac and Real Housewives of

486
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: Atlanta and inc Master Jersey or New York. Bitch, it's

487
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 1: in Maryland. I knew it was like it's d up

488
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,880
Speaker 1: here thing to up here things. No, I was said,

489
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 1: try state that is that considered try no, try state

490
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: ennectic Connecticut here and oh Jersey, how do wrote island

491
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: in that? Bitch? I know it's close though, the first

492
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,120
Speaker 1: time I saw the Real Housewives of the Stomic, I said,

493
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: what is Potomac? Also the boy, oh boy? Could I

494
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 1: never say Poughkeepsie? Wow, Poughkeepsie. I was like, po oh,

495
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: that's where I got, bitch, that's where the funk I

496
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 1: was when oh, when the date? When I went on

497
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: that date and the and the girlfriend showed up a bit,

498
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 1: and I told yeah, that's where we were, and that's

499
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 1: why I was like, oh, bitch, that uber was sixty dollars.

500
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: So that's why I didn't get it. He had to

501
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: take me home after the girlfriend showed up, and then

502
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm over it. That wasn't one of

503
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 1: the hardest you ever made me laugh. Dog. First off,

504
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 1: calm down, because I can't even remember you. Calm down.

505
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm serious because I remember your inflection when you said it.

506
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 1: You said this bit showed up and I was like, oh,

507
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: hell not. I looked at my uber and there's sixty dollars.

508
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: I said, well, let me see what happened, which I

509
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 1: was not. I was because bro that ship is looked

510
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: so fucking true. I mean, now I got to money,

511
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: I don't care a bitch. I don't even check my

512
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 1: receipts no more. But it's awful. But when I was poor,

513
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 1: bit that sixty dollars, I was like, oh no, The

514
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 1: choices that I made when I was poor were so

515
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 1: much more conscious, Like the convenience money I pay now

516
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: is ridiculous, which I paid a two hundred dollar bill

517
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: last night at fucking and panata Mama's how do we

518
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,239
Speaker 1: have twos worth of eponatus? You know why? Because when

519
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 1: I get drunk, I say shots and there were seven

520
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: of us. Are there? Look her there? Yeah, I guess.

521
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: One of the craziest episodes we had this year, of course,

522
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 1: came from episode one where we did our recap of

523
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: our week at Hedonism Resort in the Grilled Jamaica. I

524
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: had a wonderful time. Wheezy had a neutral experience. If

525
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 1: you haven't yet, we had the opportunity of being guests

526
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: at the Hedonism to Resort in the Girl Jamaica where

527
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: we got to kind of share our experience there at

528
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: the resort, and let's just say, I know, I was

529
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: scared to feed y'all. But in this clip, I share

530
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 1: my first experience of having a toe in my mouth.

531
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,959
Speaker 1: Not only that, I also share of some other crazy

532
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: things that I saw while at the resort. Again, this

533
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 1: was one of my favorite episodes UM that Wheezy and

534
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 1: I did without any guests, and I just really enjoyed

535
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: recapping a vacation that I had a great time at

536
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: with my home girls. Shout out Lex P from the

537
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 1: Poor Minds podcast, UM and my other home girls who

538
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: joined me. I had a great time. So now you're

539
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: gonna check out a clip from episode one five our

540
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: trip at Hedonism Resort. I will say, let me tell

541
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: y'all since y'all want to know we fuck, then, well

542
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: I already said I didn't, but I did experience some things.

543
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: So UM, at the proof side of the pool, let

544
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: me tell y'all what the funk I experienced. So this

545
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: was maybe my second or third night. We just got

546
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:15,320
Speaker 1: back from an excursion. Um. We went snorkeling, and Lex

547
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: and I went to the pool, and this guy the

548
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,239
Speaker 1: whole time, of course, and we've talked about a lot

549
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: of shows, was into my feet. So we're in the pool,

550
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: I'm twerking on yes, Oh my god, the nipple ring nigga. Mandy. Yes,

551
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: so let me tell y'all. So we're at the Prood

552
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: side pool. I'm drinking. We literally drink the whole goddamn time.

553
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 1: So he comes and he's like obsessed with my feet,

554
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: so he pulls my foot out of the water. I

555
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: sit on the side and I just start rubbing his

556
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: face with my foot and I'm loving it. This is

557
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: just fun for me. This nigga then starts putting each

558
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 1: of my toes in his mouth, and I'm just like

559
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: wiggling my toes in this nigga's mouth in front of everybody.

560
00:30:54,920 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: So flash forward to the nighttime. We had the goddamn jacuzzi,

561
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: and if anyone has been to hedonism, the Jacuzi on

562
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: the newde Side is where everything motherfucker happens. So we're stre,

563
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: we're here. That was something I did not want to see, Mandy, Bitch,

564
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 1: we're here at the Jacuzi, and there's a bitch to

565
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:19,479
Speaker 1: my right, sucking dick. There's another woman to my right

566
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: giving getting head. We're with a group, so I have

567
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 1: all my friends, Wheezy and the Jacuzi, Herd Nigga and

568
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: the Jacuzi. We're all just talking. We're drunk as fun

569
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: at this time. And finally the nigga who was eating

570
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: my toes he hops in. He's already to God Damn.

571
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: He's like, I just want to eat you out, and

572
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm just like, you know what, fine, So I hopped

573
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: my heats up on the side of the God Damn

574
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: Jacuzy and I just lift my leg like so and

575
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: just put his head and I'm just like, okay, you

576
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: know what. A lot of you like to make comments like, oh,

577
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: you guys are just like sisters, you fight like sisters.

578
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: Never more than that moment did it really actually feel real,

579
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: because I couldn't look at many well, my friends loved it.

580
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: They were like, b was putting on a show. I

581
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: could my body on my side. I'll just like, all right,

582
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: y'all know, I don't even like head, but I was like, bitch,

583
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: let me put on a show. Yeah, I started moaning.

584
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: I was like looking up at the stars. But when

585
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: else am I gonna get head looking? And I started

586
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 1: talking to everybody. I was like, this is fun. But

587
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 1: then the nigga like went to eat my ass and

588
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: I jumped. I was like, okay, nigga, now you're doing

589
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,720
Speaker 1: a lot um. I was so mad, but no, so

590
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: check this out. I was literally I don't know how

591
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: you can tell you how much in the mood I

592
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: was so then I hop up after that nigga was

593
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: eating my ass right, and my friends were like, oh, bitch,

594
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: so you just putting on a show. So I go

595
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: and I'm I slid over to my home girl and

596
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: I don't even know why. I don't know what I

597
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: was doing. I ain't never did this in my life.

598
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: I was drunk and just feeling in. I was like, show,

599
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: let me put on another show. I take her foot

600
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: out of the water and I start sucking on her

601
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: toes my home girl, and I'm like, I ain't ever

602
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: told in my life. But then I felt like, technically,

603
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 1: you only sucking clarine because bitch is in a pool.

604
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 1: So it's not like dirty feet, the feet that just

605
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: came out of a shoe. It's like sucking clor maren.

606
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: This is cool. It tastes just like skin. So I

607
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, this ain't too bad. I don't know

608
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 1: if I would suck a to again, but I was like,

609
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: you know, this is kind of not bad. And then

610
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 1: I realized how much into the foot fetishism I've got.

611
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 1: Well you checked mark to that box I did. It

612
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,239
Speaker 1: was pretty amazing. I'm not gonna lie. So so there

613
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: was just a lot, but you were able to envision

614
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: and then I think on my second to last day,

615
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 1: they're one of the best things that I saw outside

616
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: of a flogging section session. Shout out to Kingoir. So

617
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: there's beds all throughout that are outside um in canopy

618
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,239
Speaker 1: that you could technically stop and funck. And so there

619
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 1: was a flogging session that I saw, But I want

620
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 1: to explain to you, and I brought this up um

621
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: on our Patreon episode, but let me share with y'all

622
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: the most interesting thing. So I'm at the prood pool.

623
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: It's five o'clock in the goddamn afternoon, so I'm like, okay,

624
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: it's not dinner time yet. Well, we already ate lunch,

625
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 1: but we don't want to be in the room, so

626
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: let's just go laid by the pool. We're like, let's

627
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,239
Speaker 1: do the prude side because we're not trying to get

628
00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: turned at the nude side right now, wrong, bitch me

629
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: a leg. Go to the proof side. They're not playing

630
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: the torque music we were dancing to the day before.

631
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: They were playing R and B, and I guess that

632
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: this is what got people in the mood. So me

633
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 1: and Lex are just sitting here next thing, you know,

634
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm talking to her and this bitch is not responding,

635
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 1: so I'm looking. I'm trying to look at what she's

636
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: looking at. There's a woman laying on a float. There

637
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: is a woman behind her making sure her head stays afloat,

638
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,720
Speaker 1: two women on either side of her holding her legs open,

639
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: and her man at the end of the float fingering

640
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 1: her pussy while one of the girls also had a

641
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 1: toy on her clip. And all you see is this

642
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: woman moaning back in ecstasy as they're trying to make

643
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 1: her sport in the pool. And I'm just like watching

644
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: it and I'm just like at five o'clock in the afternoon.

645
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,919
Speaker 1: So I was like and my friend was just like, bitch,

646
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 1: you didn't brought me to this guy. Damn legs was

647
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: in awe at the things that we saw. But it

648
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 1: was just everyone's so free and fluid, and they were like, oh, bitch,

649
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: we're all gonna help you get an orgasm right here

650
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 1: in the pool. So I'm not gonna lie. We didn't

651
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: get into the pool at that very moment, we said,

652
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: let's go into the other pool, so by the dining area.

653
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: One of my other favorite episodes, and I think a

654
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,320
Speaker 1: staple thing that we always talked about on this podcast

655
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: is Mandy Science and fucking blueprints and that came from

656
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 1: an episode titled one oh seven Views from the cis

657
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: head Ho featuring Andrew Schultz. Shout out to our friend

658
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 1: of the show, Andrew Schultz, to just sign a great

659
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: deal and it's going to have an amazing stand up special.

660
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: Please make sure you guys check that out when it's out.

661
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: But for now, see where we get the science joke from.

662
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 1: See where it all came from, and enjoy some more

663
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: laughs with us. Check it out. Science is never wrong.

664
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Speaker 1: I just that's the thing, and we're not going to

665
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,399
Speaker 1: get into it. But to me, science is all given

666
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: by a man. Just say, I just told us. Damn it.

667
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: Fuck y'all, y'all want to see it, y'all man as well.

668
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: Believe everything in the Bible then written by same science

669
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 1: is told to us. Because why listen, we're not gonna

670
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: get it this week, because so y'all, if y'all want

671
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: to right into us. You guys, let me ask you

672
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: a question when when you look at the weather right

673
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 1: and it says it be wrong. If he's so snow,

674
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,240
Speaker 1: the wathern't be wrong. So can you ever really depend

675
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: on the weather when your phone says it's sixty out there?

676
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: Do you walk out and be like not breathing at

677
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: least sixty five? But it's around it, it's around. That's

678
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 1: why it's closed. Right, But my app been wrong? It

679
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: does said it's been a snow on Monday, and then

680
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: it don't snow. Do you think that like science with

681
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: like like patterns at least like the world hadn't taken

682
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: a trip three the same way I believe if a

683
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,280
Speaker 1: guy cheats once told cheat again? Like what about gravity?

684
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: What about gravity? Like? Look ready like gravity? There's a

685
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 1: reason no, no, no, yes, the grounds. It's gonna go

686
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 1: to the ground. Why is that? I get I'm talking

687
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 1: gravity science? Or that's not science? Yeah, man, I mean

688
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: that's we're on this earth. I don't know who made it.

689
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: I don't know if God. We just here, bro we

690
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: just here living. That's it. We just hear living, y'all.

691
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: So some science sciences, I mean, I can't I get it.

692
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: I can't explain like babies, babies, we know what comes

693
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: from the from that makes sense, yeah, not from the

694
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: steward we all get um. So this week's whole, Male,

695
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna miss the one. Do you take birth control?

696
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: I'm not on birth control you, I mean, I've taken

697
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:42,320
Speaker 1: Plan B pills, But the is Plan B science. So

698
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,360
Speaker 1: this is the thing to even Plan B it's not

699
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 1: even as it doesn't do everything that they say, how

700
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 1: is medicine not because there's things called placebo pills that

701
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,359
Speaker 1: aren't even that don't do anything that you can get

702
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 1: your period. Yeah. No, So this is the thing. That's

703
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: why I don't be leaving as it na bro, Like

704
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 1: even if you go somewhere like they do they do.

705
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:08,959
Speaker 1: What about a plane? Do you believe a plane flying? Yeah?

706
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: What do you think mechanically? Yeah? But with using what

707
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 1: to build it? Blueprints? You know, I gotta feel a

708
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: little bit y'all blue pre fucking blueprints, bro, that is

709
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 1: go up. I'm trying to read that what we what

710
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: we make the blueprints from? Let some blue ship probably

711
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: made out of blue. I mean, if you obviously, if

712
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 1: you've got some blue and you freak that ship. You

713
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: are blueprint and you can make a place you y'all

714
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: just if y'all want. Honestly, may I just did not

715
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: think what so so why you'll ask you questions? I

716
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,240
Speaker 1: want to get to the home. Man, I'm just curious,

717
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: like so if they're if they're ready to build like

718
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:17,320
Speaker 1: the skyscraper. Right, yeah, that's architecture. Okay, it is architecture,

719
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: you're right, right? And what do you think? Architecture is

720
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 1: based on geometry? That's math, right? And math is what mathematics.

721
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 1: I gotta answer for everything the same way scientists do,

722
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: which is why you can't believe you know, it's so funny.

723
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm listening to another I've been trying

724
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: to get to the home over the last five minutes.

725
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:50,839
Speaker 1: Crime bro Yo still talk about can? I just says,

726
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: I have you know my aunt tied recently. That was

727
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 1: the hardest life. Sometimes you need a good laugh. Thank you. Math,

728
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: It is mathematics, you're real talk like when you think

729
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: about it, that is method, Like you say, right, I

730
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:10,439
Speaker 1: know you don't do what I mean? Like you don't

731
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 1: at all? Like she said, what is that? Alright? What

732
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 1: is wood? Why are we still why are we still

733
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 1: going here? I'm just trying to understand, Like, how are

734
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: you trying to understand? I'm telling you, what is electricity?

735
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: What do you mean? What is electricity? What is it?

736
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: So certain things? We just can't explain what I mean,

737
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: how do they make the thing so electricity? Right? You

738
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: can't explain it because they put some ship together and

739
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 1: it creates light and ship. But those things like you're

740
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:45,959
Speaker 1: putting stuff together. No, I don't want to because y'all

741
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 1: like people who listen don't get what thenk I'm saying,

742
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: But y'all just don't. But it's all, it's all good.

743
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,360
Speaker 1: Do you think any science at all? Right? Okay, I

744
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,360
Speaker 1: feel like there is, Yes, there is some truth to

745
00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: some science, sure, because yeah it makes sense. But whatever.

746
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: But I feel like, for the most part, let's say,

747
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,399
Speaker 1: let's say God forbid like a friend of yours, Let's

748
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: say God forbid a friend of yours, right, a friend

749
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 1: of yours, friend of mine got a disease, right, and

750
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 1: they were like, I think I'm gonna go to the

751
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 1: doctor and get some science. Secure. Would you look at them,

752
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 1: be like, this's just get a blueprint. We're talking about

753
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: everything that's the thing too. There's a lot of holistic

754
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: people who believe that medicine is all like these chemicals

755
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: put together, that if you really just maybe get some

756
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 1: ship from the earth, it can cure the jobs. Tried that,

757
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: but that's well, let's not you know, I mean holistic.

758
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: It cannot work right sciences, I mean medicine is. But

759
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: I told you how even I feel about vaccines. Like

760
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: when I went to Africa. Like when I went to Africa,

761
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: I had to get the yellow paver shot. Do you

762
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 1: know what the yellow fever shot? Did? It just injected

763
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: yellow beaver in my Motherfucking why do you think they

764
00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 1: do that? See, that's what I'm saying. Who knows because

765
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 1: somebody said, well, let me inject a little bit in

766
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: you and then if you get hit again. That a

767
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 1: whole lot of you want to know what. Okay, vaccines

768
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 1: is the only thing, is the only thing I'll give you.

769
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: But I medicine. What is white privilege? All these kids

770
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: around the world, yes, dying from preventable diseases because they

771
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 1: can't get vaccinated, and white people in America is so

772
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: privileged They're like, I ain't going to vaccinate my kids.

773
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:31,439
Speaker 1: No vaccination. Ship is white privileged like a motherfucker. Yeah,

774
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: they do really, But but if you think about it, though,

775
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: they kind of forced it on us because there's so

776
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: many shots that I couldn't I couldn't even get it

777
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: to college until I showed my shot records. Shots have

778
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: to be had if you go to public school, you

779
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: have to have certain shots because of the spread of

780
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 1: it in the state. Yeah, I understood. I still think

781
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 1: it's get vaccinated. Yeah. No, I had to get the

782
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 1: yellow paper shot and if they wanted to let me

783
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: in the goddamn country, and I had to bring malaria

784
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 1: pills with me too, as malaria pills science, I get laria.

785
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,959
Speaker 1: I ain't saying them all. I left them. I really

786
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 1: enjoy the educational aspects of Horrible Decisions, And one of

787
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: my favorite episodes of the year actually comes from the

788
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: very first bonus episode of the year that I actually

789
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 1: dropped on the timeline, and it's called Surviving Society. It's

790
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: an episode that I decided to do um after watching

791
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: the Surviving R. Kelly documentary. To effectively have this conversation,

792
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 1: I had up three of my good friends in the

793
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: industry who I thought would be a great addition to

794
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,359
Speaker 1: having this conversation. So I had Jade from the Jada

795
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 1: Next podcast and also the Getting Grown podcast. I had

796
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 1: Michelle Hope, who has been on our podcast numerous times. UM.

797
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 1: She is a sex spurt and sex educator. And then

798
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: I luckily was able to have Jamila Lemieu on the show. Now,

799
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: Jemila has joined us on the Horrible Decisions podcast, but

800
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,839
Speaker 1: she was also a part of UM the R Kelly

801
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 1: documentary and to me, this year has definitely pushed forward

802
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 1: the agenda of the me Too movement and just opening

803
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 1: the conversations about consent, what is right from wrong, and

804
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 1: definitely getting these fucking creeps the funk out of here.

805
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: So what you're about to listen to now is a

806
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: clip from that episode, and I actually, oh my god,

807
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 1: we were in the studio for about an hour and

808
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: a half UM, just diving into the topics that were

809
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: brought forth with the R Kelly documentary. So although UM

810
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 1: we spoke a little bit to r Kelly, we talked

811
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 1: about just so many conversations. So check out this clip

812
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: now from the bonus episode. It was the first one

813
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: posted of the year surviving Society. Check it out. I

814
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: don't want much that to tak her virginity as a

815
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: delicate flower to be protected. I want her to think

816
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 1: about because I can't. I just guarded my virginity like

817
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: an ill fitting parachute. So I was like, just get

818
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: it out of the way. I barely remember the person,

819
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Because I want I was

820
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: curious about sex. I was ready to get started, and

821
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 1: just the virginity felt like a weight to me. And

822
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 1: even though I lost it at fifteen and didn't start,

823
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: I didn't become sexually active until eighteen. Like, I didn't

824
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: like the pressure that people like, who's going to be

825
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 1: the first, Who's good enough? Like enough? Like that? I

826
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 1: just felt like, but also there's still something to like

827
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 1: what when I talk to young people because I do

828
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: a bit of college speaking, and we talked about sexual

829
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: agency and consent and consent based the lack of consent

830
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 1: based education and how important that is for you know,

831
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: kids of all gender expressions and adults to learn or

832
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 1: relearn that you should be thinking about sex is something

833
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: that is an act between two consenting people who are eager,

834
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 1: you know, affirmative consent right desire that I respect you,

835
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: I am interested and invested in your pleasure. I want

836
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: to share this experience with you, whether we're in a serious,

837
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: committed relationship or in a casual sex experience. You know,

838
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: that's what's so radical about what you all do. Like

839
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: I hope I don't get emotional, but like there, I

840
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 1: was the sex positive feminist since I was a kid,

841
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 1: right like before I had the language to even describe it.

842
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:19,879
Speaker 1: Like I remember when my friends are like, I don't

843
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: think I've ever got sech dick like ever, you know,

844
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 1: or like I'm gonna I don't know how they become

845
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: valley girls wore from the I ain't sucking. Nobody did.

846
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 1: That's how they said, maybe you know, I might suck

847
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: like my husband's day. And I just remember just feeling

848
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 1: like and I wasn't out there yet, but I just

849
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: remember saying, I think it's gonna happen sooner than that.

850
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: You guys, you know, like you just seem like this

851
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 1: doesn't really suck. It just sounds like it's a part

852
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 1: of sex to me. And we're all really curious and

853
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: interested in receiving oral sex. So just stands the reason

854
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 1: that at some point we're good. This is going to

855
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,320
Speaker 1: be a trade off at the very easy you know,

856
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: it should be right. And that's something I always say, like,

857
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: don't go down on somebody wouldn't go down on you.

858
00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: I don't care if you're you know, eighteen, it to

859
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,320
Speaker 1: you unless you are like I don't desire and like

860
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 1: that or with that tonight, then you're not sleeping with

861
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: somebody who respects your sexual question. But we're not telling

862
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: you know. For boys, it's just kind of taken for

863
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: granted that they're going to because they're likely to ejaculate,

864
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 1: they experience. They don't have to think about whether the

865
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: girls broken cherry or what have you. Right, But I

866
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: mean even mythical things like even with what you were

867
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 1: saying though, like you're losing your virginity at fifteen. I

868
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 1: lost mine at sixteen. Um it was. It's also a

869
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: thing to where when you lose it at those ages,

870
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: older adults, your peers, other men, the reference to you

871
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 1: being fast, you being a home, you being I will

872
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 1: sit here and go back to me being twenty eight. Now.

873
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: The things that I know now and how I feel

874
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: now and how I respond now to sex, to partners,

875
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: to all of that is completely a one eight from

876
00:47:57,600 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: what I was doing at sixteen to say twenty one. Honestly, like,

877
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,319
Speaker 1: holy sh it. So the fact that we put these

878
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: mature adult responsibilities even on these young still children. I

879
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 1: was working as a child. I don't do a funk

880
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: with you like I was fucking as a child. And

881
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: knowing now with the podcast and with the research and

882
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 1: with friends like you and having conversations like this with

883
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 1: you too, I know now I can look back. I

884
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 1: was sucking pedophiles, I was, or I was sucking the

885
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 1: other words you say. I had to look it up

886
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 1: each sabophilia that I was dealing with men who were yeah,

887
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 1: you know, and so like to sit here and have

888
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: the platform that I do. That's why I thought this

889
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: conversation was so important, because we do sit here and say, well,

890
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,400
Speaker 1: have you been fucking since you was ten or eleven

891
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: or twelve? You get it, and it's like everything that

892
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 1: I did probably before. Honestly, Yeah, but I find very

893
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: interesting about that nerdy nerdy point. You guys are saying

894
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 1: your brain is not fully formed. That we now know

895
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:08,279
Speaker 1: until about five six that three that pre um from

896
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 1: the text is not fully formed. So you know, um,

897
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: I always tell when I'm doing lectures or college tours

898
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: or classroom work I'm like, listen, y'all out here, just

899
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: bumping uglies because it's sex you having right now, where

900
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 1: or how it's gonna be popping over when you have

901
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 1: it at all, when you've discovered who you are as

902
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 1: a person, when you finished college. And I'm not telling

903
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 1: you our shame on you for doing it. You gotta

904
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 1: hit your head against the wall a couple of times

905
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: in high school. But trust me, y'all ain't need to

906
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: be doing it that much. Y'all don't need to collect

907
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 1: so many notches on your belt. You don't need so

908
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: many numbers. Although I lost my number in nineteen, I

909
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: don't know my number to give you the right number

910
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: to save my life. But the girl told you of

911
00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:00,959
Speaker 1: the number is four. This is the number, full said,

912
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 1: go up or down? If you two niggers named Ryan,

913
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:06,840
Speaker 1: you fu one nigger name right. So here the number

914
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: because people don't believe that one hand. I like to

915
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 1: say nine nine because you're still the year. It's so

916
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:22,879
Speaker 1: stupid if you really do the math. I'm a grown woman.

917
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: I didn't pass thirty five, looking the whole hell of

918
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: a lot closer to forty than thirty. If you don't

919
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:31,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, and if I lost my virginity, Okay

920
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: at fifteen beach, we're looking at almost twenty years of

921
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:39,320
Speaker 1: fucking yeah, so we clearly know. Okay, my number is

922
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 1: twenty right? Right? Wait? Are we only talking man? Right? Hello?

923
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 1: There's that number? You like about that? There you go?

924
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: So I want to circle this back. I want to

925
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 1: I guess now I want to discuss more of the

926
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 1: general aspects that relate to this. We talked about accountability,

927
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 1: we did talk about us as children, but I wanted

928
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:10,359
Speaker 1: to get into a lot of men were questioning why

929
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 1: these women, why these victims chose to go on lifetime

930
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:19,280
Speaker 1: and share their story in that case, instead of taking

931
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:23,280
Speaker 1: this man to court, instead of letting the court system

932
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 1: find him guilty. And as you guys see, I believe

933
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 1: this was this was in part three and four. We

934
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 1: saw that the court system has already failed us once

935
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 1: just this predator um one of the twice Florida and

936
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 1: Florida and Chicago. One of the tweets that I saw

937
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 1: today that resonated with all of y'all and even the

938
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 1: parents on this last part that was saying, well he

939
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 1: wasn't found guilty. The tweet today that said George Zimmerman

940
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: wasn't found guilty. Would you let your black ass sons

941
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: hang around George Zimmerman. So for these parents and for

942
00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 1: all of these people to see here and try to

943
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:04,239
Speaker 1: use the court system to justify his innocence, it's it's

944
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 1: discussing a lot of these same people that would use

945
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: the court system to justify r. Kelly Is in a sense,

946
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 1: would look at Bill Cosmy being behind jail as a

947
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,840
Speaker 1: you know, behind bars as a travesty because trying to

948
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:19,479
Speaker 1: bring it out, which is. But then those are also

949
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 1: the same parents who will not allow their students to

950
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 1: sign up for a fifth grade sex said class because

951
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 1: you know what, my child don't need to know that.

952
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna teach him when they're ready. I got into

953
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: an argument on Thursday with the dude at a bar

954
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:34,320
Speaker 1: about this. He was like, I don't like how you

955
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:37,320
Speaker 1: support Amber Rose. She's not she's this that another I

956
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 1: was like, bro, she's talking about women equal sexuality. I

957
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 1: don't need to teach my son that oh years old

958
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,400
Speaker 1: and never had a conversation with him about sex. Thirteen

959
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 1: year old boy. That's a problem. Understand that um porn

960
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 1: versus onset of porn is nine here in the US

961
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 1: on average when you think about cell phones. So you're

962
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:10,879
Speaker 1: mad at the parents he wasn't found guilty, Like, why

963
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: did they have to be found guilty? I hate that

964
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,720
Speaker 1: so many of those parents not to mention abi sexual assault.

965
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,959
Speaker 1: Like when it comes to sexual assault, only about nine

966
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 1: of every one thousand cases see a district attorney's dead one.

967
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,879
Speaker 1: That doesn't even mean somebody gonna be found guilty. You've

968
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 1: had nine thousand reports and only nine get to see

969
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:34,399
Speaker 1: a district attorney a prosecutor's desk. Oh, but them other

970
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: that doesn't even mean there's a trial. Hello, That's what

971
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So how many actually get found guilty? Probably

972
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:44,359
Speaker 1: less than one. Listen, they're there. There are men. There

973
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: are people who are found guilty within the households by

974
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:52,280
Speaker 1: other people in the household nobody, and people still sweep

975
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 1: it under the rug where they still excuse it, or

976
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: they still say, oh, well, you know, we don't want

977
00:53:57,040 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 1: to we don't want to send him to jail, or

978
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: we don't want to keep doing this. That don Some

979
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: of you guys may have heard me say I am

980
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 1: not a fan of having celebrities or rappers on our

981
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: show because I really feel like it ruins the essence

982
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 1: of what horrible decisions was meant to be. Right. We

983
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 1: are show that do you stigmatizes kinks for the black community.

984
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to interview people about them smacking and

985
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:21,880
Speaker 1: choking bitches because I don't care. But god damn it,

986
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: it's Freddie gives a funny motherfucker. So I can pild

987
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,919
Speaker 1: some of my favorite clips from the episode we had

988
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: with him where he said I have Black lives matter

989
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:32,279
Speaker 1: pussy and I would actually really love to get a

990
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: T shirt that says that if you want to make it,

991
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: send it as your Christmas gift. Bitch, enjoy this clip.

992
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into our kink of the week now

993
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 1: and this is actually I like, um the word that

994
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 1: you use earlier? Um the did he say plumbtings? See?

995
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: And I don't really know if we wait, didn't we

996
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: come come after somebody for saying punish in the pussy? No,

997
00:54:56,040 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: because I'd be saying that because I want to get funny. Anyways.

998
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 1: They love being bad. I've been telling niggas I'm doing.

999
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: I'd be like, yo, man, niggas is talking to me.

1000
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,399
Speaker 1: And I've been flaring bade me, I'd be lying, I'll

1001
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 1: be at home. Watch well, you gotta make a nigga

1002
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:19,799
Speaker 1: jealous a little bit. The kink for this week, um,

1003
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 1: and I found out if you guys want to look,

1004
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:26,280
Speaker 1: it's actually from fantasy app dot com. Um. They actually

1005
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 1: talked about roughness as being a kink in the bedroom,

1006
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,439
Speaker 1: and I wanted to bring that up because what water

1007
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 1: is also wet? No, some people like gentle intimate sex,

1008
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: and I brought this up because this was a conversation

1009
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 1: I recently had one of my niggas who didn't like that.

1010
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:43,799
Speaker 1: I like, he refers to this porn star sex because

1011
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 1: I do like really rose sex. But I told you,

1012
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,399
Speaker 1: I just got sex so hard that I didn't want

1013
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 1: to have sex for the rest of the year. And

1014
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: I cried and I was like, damn, I know I

1015
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:54,360
Speaker 1: like ro sex, but I was literally after we got sex.

1016
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 1: You don't think I think, really, I think porn star

1017
00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 1: sex is. I think a lot of talking. I think

1018
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,759
Speaker 1: it's a lot of switching positions. It could be rough sex,

1019
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 1: but porns are sex feels like a lot of work

1020
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,879
Speaker 1: being rough all the time, you know, so so when

1021
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: I think of it, and I actually finished you for

1022
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 1: you thank god. It was one of the things that

1023
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: happened in the scene where he goes to choke her

1024
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 1: and he's like, what are you doing and he's like,

1025
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: I thought that that's what I was supposed to do.

1026
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: So I think that when you watch porn, a lot

1027
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,000
Speaker 1: of it is specifically. That's why I don't like straight

1028
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 1: They all be like, like, it don't look violence in

1029
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 1: porn is like top categories right, rough and rough, gang

1030
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 1: bang like that, whether it be like the stretching and

1031
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 1: the spank and the spitting, even the talking, it's like

1032
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 1: very violent. That's why interracial point is very hard for

1033
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: me to watch because like I've been on the cusp

1034
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 1: of coming and then I've heard like the interracial point

1035
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: hard for a while. Your parents need interractional well, these things.

1036
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:02,480
Speaker 1: I watch black a lot, and it is it's all interracial.

1037
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 1: It's all big. But I cannot hear the word like

1038
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 1: you're black. It just sucks me up. I mean it's

1039
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 1: just saying the color of it. It just bothers me. Black. No,

1040
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 1: I just can't hear like this black pussy, Like it's

1041
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: just I can't handle it. Bro. It's like it's kind poor.

1042
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 1: Do you watch it? Black lives matter? Why? That's why?

1043
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:31,959
Speaker 1: So when you watch black on black porn, I never black.

1044
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 1: That's a black old black ship. Do you never hear

1045
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: them referenced color when they're the same color? Because I

1046
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 1: feel like I still do. Yes, I feel like I have,

1047
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 1: And now I'm gonna have to search and find one

1048
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:56,360
Speaker 1: to send it where maybe it doesn't bother me. But

1049
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: I like gang bangs. Right, So they got a black

1050
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: girl's a lot of white dude, and then they start

1051
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: with that black post. I'll be like, I'm out, I

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Speaker 1: can't do this. Okay, I can see how that really

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00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 1: fucks me up. And then when it's like that's what

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00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 1: you think about it, it is kind of you. But

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00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 1: it's a game bang, So it's certain ship you just

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00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:20,479
Speaker 1: gotta throw out the window here you're already sucking. Okay.

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00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say my point is very specific. As you know.

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00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: I love buk COCKI It's like what I come to

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00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: on the regular. So if there's a bunch of like

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00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 1: she's already on the ground getting come on, and then

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Speaker 1: they're talking about her black face, I just can't do it.

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00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: They don't be saying black face, bro you're pretty little

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00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 1: black face. I heard that black faith like you nigger

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00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: a bitch? Do you hear about the white woman and

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00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 1: the dou Yes? So there I will say there there

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00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:47,440
Speaker 1: was a guy and I can't remember the name, but

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Speaker 1: there's a porn there's a porn star that is suing

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00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: his porn. Yeah, she called him. I think with the

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Speaker 1: E R. I don't even like saying give me that nigger? Come? Yeah?

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00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 1: Is it funny? When we're here, You're like, I don't

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00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,919
Speaker 1: like the e R. At the end those two ladders match.

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Speaker 1: So but she would have punished, would punished that you

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00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: called me a nigger with the hard R. Bitch about

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00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 1: to punish that. You're still gonna a woman if she

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00:59:19,760 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 1: calls you the N word and I'm in the middle

1076
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: of I'm in there, I ain't gonna stop. What is it?

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00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 1: It's the N word? Like the N word and that

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00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:33,960
Speaker 1: nigga was pissed to hurt my feelings. Ain't gonna stop

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00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 1: my dick from being hard. Now you calling me a nigga? Fake? Yeah? Wo,

1080
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:47,120
Speaker 1: I'm fake wok. I don't give a fuck. Took control?

1081
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 1: Got she just called us a nigger. Don't get bad.

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00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever heard your black dick from

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00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 1: a black girl in black porn, like that's a lot

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00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: of black house. I never heard of black dick a

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00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 1: black girl of black poor You know, I'm trying to think,

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01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: because I'll have y'all girl say give me this black dick,

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01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: give me that big black dick or something like that.

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01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 1: I think that's what I'm saying. Yeah, girls say that

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01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 1: to what you're talking about. That's what I'm saying. I've

1090
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:22,720
Speaker 1: heard black girls say that I'm searching cock. So that's

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01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 1: probably why I don't up. One of the episodes that

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01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: touched my heart before we even stopped hitting the record

1093
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: button was four short episode one Sex in the Church

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01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:45,960
Speaker 1: featuring pastor Corey L. Scott Um. This platform has meant

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01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 1: so much to me, and it more so means a

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01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 1: lot to me that we are connecting with the community

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01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 1: and having these open conversations and just literally opening dialogue

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01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: amongst your friends, your family, your peers, and your partners.

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Speaker 1: And in this episode we had i would say, a

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Speaker 1: non traditional member of the church. Corey is a gay

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Speaker 1: black mail who is actually a part of a congregation

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Speaker 1: in Chicago, and he came in guns a blazing, letting

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Speaker 1: us know why he still is a part of you know,

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Speaker 1: a place that wouldn't necessarily be as accepting of who

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Speaker 1: he is. And I thought that this was one of

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Speaker 1: my favorite episodes probably of all time. But I know

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01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: we haven't really dug into any homemail. He gave probably

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Speaker 1: the best homemale response of the year when it came

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01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 1: to conflict resolution. We've incorporated the homemale segment into our

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01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 1: live shows and you can find it literally in every episode.

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01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 1: I didn't think it would be right to do a

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Speaker 1: recap of the year without one of the most memorable

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01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 1: homemail moments. And to me, I literally had to listen

1114
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 1: back to his advice and write it down and have

1115
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 1: now implemented it into my personal life. So check out

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01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 1: now the homemail portion of our episode with pastor Corey L. Scott.

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01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 1: Check it out. Before we get out of here, we

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Speaker 1: are going to get into our homemail. If you guys

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01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 1: want to UM send us a homemail, please do so

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01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: in our email. It's our easiest way to keep up

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01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 1: with all of your letters. So that is horrible decisions

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Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. This one actually came UM, and

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01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: thank god it came to our email from a patron.

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Speaker 1: I'm super excited. This one is relationship tension. I recently

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Speaker 1: got into a very heated fight with my boyfriend. It

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01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 1: got very disrespectful, almost to the point of getting physical.

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01:02:51,120 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 1: That's very unlike us, and I'm really sad it got

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Speaker 1: to that point. During the argument, I said some really

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Speaker 1: hurtful things that I regretted as soon as I said them.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't the typical one word insults. It was things

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01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:03,240
Speaker 1: I had been sitting on for a while, and he

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01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:05,800
Speaker 1: could tell I know it really hurt him because it's

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01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: a touchy subject for him. I apologize multiple times, and

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01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 1: he apologized to me as well. We're okay at the moment,

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01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,120
Speaker 1: but I still feel the tension between us and feel

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01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 1: awful that I can't take back the things I said.

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Speaker 1: I want to emphasize that him and I have been

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01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 1: together for almost six years now and we have never

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01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 1: ever disrespected each other, even during fights. The guilt of

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01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:26,800
Speaker 1: hurting him is really eating at me, and I don't

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01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 1: ever want to do that again. How have you guys

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01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 1: gotten past anything like this in your relationships. I can't

1143
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 1: help but feel like I changed our dynamic, and I

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01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 1: don't know if we can come back from it. Um no,

1145
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: so so out. I'm also a life coach, and so

1146
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 1: here are for people in relationships. Here are three rules

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01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 1: that I have for conflict in relationship. One One, we

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01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 1: argue about what we're arguing about and nothing else. If

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01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 1: it's about the trash, it's about the trash. If it's

1150
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,720
Speaker 1: about the TV being left on, it's about the TV.

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01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,439
Speaker 1: Don't bring up the trash when we're talking about the TV.

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01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,400
Speaker 1: If I've had an issue with the TV, bring up

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01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 1: the TV at that time. We argue about what we're

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01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: arguing about, nothing else, and so, and it will force you.

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01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 1: It will force you to deal with stuff that you

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01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 1: got going on and not do what this right what

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01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,840
Speaker 1: this writer says that she did, which was it was

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01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: stuff that she bant harboring and stacking chips told water.

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01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 1: If you we argue about what we're arguing about, nothing else.

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01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 1: So so deal with the stuff that you got to

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01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 1: deal with at that time. Number Two, you don't get

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01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 1: to characterize or name called during an argument. Ain't none

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01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: of that. You You get to talk about how you feel,

1164
01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:57,400
Speaker 1: You get to talk about how something made you feel,

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01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:00,200
Speaker 1: You get to talk about how you interpret it. But

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01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 1: you don't get to call me names, you don't get

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01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 1: to characterize me. You can ask a couple of questions.

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01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 1: That's it, because because that is exactly why you're in

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01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 1: the position. You're in feeling guilty now because you said

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01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:18,480
Speaker 1: something that you knew would hit hard for somebody that

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01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: you love, and of course you would carry some guilt

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01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 1: about that. So that's just out. You gotta figure out

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01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:29,320
Speaker 1: another way to communicate and characterizing people like when you

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01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:31,760
Speaker 1: do that, like that, stuff never goes away for you

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01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 1: or them. So we argue about what we're arguing about,

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01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 1: no name calling, no characterized, And the last thing is

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Speaker 1: the time out. Like if we're in the argument and

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01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 1: it's getting too heated, either of us gets to call

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01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:46,959
Speaker 1: a time out, which means an hour I walk away

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01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: from you, you walk away from me, and in an

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01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 1: hour sixty minutes we come back and we have this conversation.

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01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 1: You gotta deal with whatever you gotta and not longer

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01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 1: than that. I like that. You gotta deal with whatever

1184
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 1: you If you need to symp if you need to

1185
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:09,000
Speaker 1: do some yoga or whatever it is, like no, because

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01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:11,400
Speaker 1: what tends to happen is if I can just call

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01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:13,520
Speaker 1: it indefinite time out. I can walk away from this

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01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 1: and we don't have to deal with whatever it is.

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01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 1: But the time out is only for an hour. Either

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01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 1: of us gets to call it when we do the

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01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 1: other stops. You don't get to make no more comments.

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01:06:22,800 --> 01:06:24,680
Speaker 1: We're gonna We're gonna hire you as as the coach

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01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: for this podcast here saying some ship that honestly like

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01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 1: like like we then I just got um, you know,

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01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 1: into just debate. There's a lot going on with the tour,

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Speaker 1: with building a team with with with just a lot,

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01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 1: I guess when you have a business, UM specifically one UM.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not going to talk about how much money

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Speaker 1: we brought in this year, but it was a whole

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Speaker 1: lot um. And so I know they say, you know money,

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01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 1: you know, more money, more problems. And the idea that

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01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 1: it does bring happiness has been one that I've found

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01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 1: now not to be true. UM. And so yeah, we've

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01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: been back and forth. It's with our communication and it's

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01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 1: really so I I have a certification and conflict resolution

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01:07:13,280 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 1: and mediation right, and so communicating in any relationship is

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01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 1: probably one of the most important gres and how you communicate,

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01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:25,479
Speaker 1: and so that's why I have those three established rules

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01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:29,919
Speaker 1: for relationships, especially romantic relationships, like I don't, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I just don't do that at all. I'm not calling

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Speaker 1: people names, like, I'm not characterizing, like I'm not bringing

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Speaker 1: up subterfuge from other arguments. And if you operate that way,

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01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:41,120
Speaker 1: you deal with whatever the issue in front of you

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01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 1: is and and then that's and that's it, right, And

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01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:48,920
Speaker 1: so the resolve for that is like, you're gonna feel guilty,

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01:07:49,040 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 1: and that should shape your actions. That's just shape how

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01:07:52,200 --> 01:07:54,480
Speaker 1: you reflect on the next time you get to that

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01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:57,800
Speaker 1: point where both of y'all are heat it and I'm

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01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 1: about to say something again that I know I'm gonna regret,

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01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:05,040
Speaker 1: and you have the immediate past regret to reflect on.

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01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 1: So you literally I'll have no no answers for you

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01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:15,720
Speaker 1: except that it affects how you move forward. My favorite

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Speaker 1: and final clip of the year that I have selected

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Speaker 1: is from a beautiful girl named Taylor McFly. It was

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Speaker 1: episode one called a t M Meetups Now shout out

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Speaker 1: to the doms fem doms we've had on this show before, um,

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Speaker 1: but Taylor in particular did a little bit of role

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Speaker 1: play with me about how exactly she gets money out

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Speaker 1: of these motherfucker's at the a t M and I

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Speaker 1: was in total shock, and I to this day I

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01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 1: always think about how she talked to me because I

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01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:49,719
Speaker 1: was scared and turned on at the same time. Let's

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Speaker 1: check it out. So, as I guess, we're gonna look

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Speaker 1: into financial domination. You said you don't have sex with them.

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Speaker 1: So when people contact you, what are the things that

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01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 1: you do as a financial dump. So basically the act

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01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 1: of finn doom is a fetish, just a kink of

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01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 1: controlling someone else's wallet. Right, So you have these men.

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01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:11,559
Speaker 1: Most of these men have high positions. They're in control

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01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 1: all day, so they need even it's just for an

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01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 1: hour two hours, they need that power stripped away from them.

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Speaker 1: That's why I will say a lot of my clients

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01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 1: are law street men because there used to be in

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01:09:19,439 --> 01:09:22,519
Speaker 1: in power all the time. So basically, like with financial domination,

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01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 1: they'll come to me and say, mistress, please drain my wallet. Mistress,

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01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:28,439
Speaker 1: I'm spending too much money. Please take it from me

1247
01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 1: like it's and they get off by you talking ship

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01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 1: to them. You're telling them, don't go spend your money,

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01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 1: you don't go do this. And then there's things like

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Speaker 1: a TM meets where I just meet a guy, tot

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Speaker 1: a t M, take his money, walk away, might talk, ship,

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01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:43,360
Speaker 1: might spit on him, he might kiss my feet in public, whatever,

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01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:45,160
Speaker 1: and he walks away. But that's how they get off.

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01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: And I'm like, who am I to judge how you

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01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:48,680
Speaker 1: get off when I'm making bread from it? And in

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01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:52,960
Speaker 1: a way, so a lot of women maybe like that's it.

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01:09:53,120 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 1: I could do it. So what are the things that

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Speaker 1: you would say you've done to become a prodom? So

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Speaker 1: where you know what to say? I'm sure you've looked

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01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:03,160
Speaker 1: up like how do I need to talk to these people?

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01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 1: Because we may think damn, I could do that, but

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01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:07,880
Speaker 1: it's actually a skill, which is what he took away

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01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 1: from THEE. What are the things that you've looked up?

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01:10:11,000 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 1: And maybe could you give some of the words that

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01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:16,080
Speaker 1: you might use. We're gonna get in a role planting. Okay,

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01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:20,680
Speaker 1: you pull up. We got a pocket fool. But she's

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01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:22,640
Speaker 1: gonna go to the A t M. This is this

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01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: is your John. What do you say as you guys,

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01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 1: as you're approaching the A t M with this man? Well,

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01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:28,800
Speaker 1: hold on, I want to ask you a question. Are

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01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:32,960
Speaker 1: they normally asking you to say something to them. They

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01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:35,839
Speaker 1: already happened me on this. They already have the assumption,

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01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:37,479
Speaker 1: and I'm going to do that. They when they when

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01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 1: they come into it, they they're expecting. I know she

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01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 1: does a service. I'm expecting. So basically, here we are.

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01:10:44,439 --> 01:10:49,080
Speaker 1: I'm in there. Okay, Hi, mistress. Why the funk are

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01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:51,600
Speaker 1: you talking to me? I'm so sorry, mistress. I just

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01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:53,280
Speaker 1: wanted to just get the money off the A T M. Talking.

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01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:54,920
Speaker 1: What do I put? What do I do? How much

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01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 1: do I take out? What amount you think is right?

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01:10:57,120 --> 01:11:02,000
Speaker 1: Saying amount hundred? Are you playing with me? I'm sorry, mistress, No,

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01:11:02,080 --> 01:11:03,800
Speaker 1: I'm not take out five hundred dollars right now. I

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01:11:03,880 --> 01:11:10,519
Speaker 1: only have six take out six hundred dollars. Word, and

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01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 1: then you take it out, And that's how it is.

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01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:14,960
Speaker 1: And the crazy thing is it's all about getting out

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01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:17,120
Speaker 1: of your own head because naturally, I'm from the South.

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01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm a Southern sweetheart, period, So I really got it. Yeah,

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01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 1: and I'm and I'm okay with see that as that like,

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01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 1: I'm okay with it. And a lot of women have

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01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 1: to get into character for it. But once you get

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01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:30,040
Speaker 1: into that, character becomes a part of you. And now

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01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:34,639
Speaker 1: I want to ask you, because um, you are beautiful

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01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 1: black queen. Do you feel like your clients come to

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01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: you because of your skin color at all? Definitely? They

1295
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:43,360
Speaker 1: hit me with that ebony goddess ship all the time.

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01:11:44,160 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 1: Ebony goddess. I want to worship your ebony goddess ass.

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01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:51,559
Speaker 1: Like you're okay with you're paying me, you're gonna you're

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01:11:51,560 --> 01:11:55,040
Speaker 1: gonna lick this ebony goddess ass talking about that, that's why.

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01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:57,639
Speaker 1: And some of them wants to be slaves to black

1300
01:11:57,680 --> 01:12:01,760
Speaker 1: women and you're that. We both said, that's a fank

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01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:05,679
Speaker 1: and you're okay with playing the slave master role type

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01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:10,760
Speaker 1: ship in reverse? Actually it is? Why not? Why? Okay?

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01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:13,640
Speaker 1: It's crazy that you say that because the other um

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01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 1: dominatrix that we've had, we've had the Lisa splifs in

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01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:18,320
Speaker 1: and we've had I believe got us unk. Both of

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01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 1: them were not into um that type of play. I

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01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 1: love it. Wait wait wait no, no, no, no, they

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01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:28,480
Speaker 1: weren't Lisa, she doesn't like it the other way. That's

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01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:30,840
Speaker 1: the way I think both of them were. I think

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Speaker 1: she didn't. Damn, I can't remember. There was something specific

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01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 1: about her. We gotta have her back. Yeah, um, but

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01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:39,640
Speaker 1: I I don't know if it was them acknowledging that

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01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:41,920
Speaker 1: she's black or what, but there was something specific about

1314
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:44,280
Speaker 1: one of them. And you love getting into those type

1315
01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:46,760
Speaker 1: of Yeah, I only have one sub right now. Sub

1316
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:49,439
Speaker 1: short for submissive. Only have one sub right now that's

1317
01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 1: into like ebony everything. What's the least bit of money

1318
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 1: you'll take from a man? Like, what's a waste of

1319
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:57,760
Speaker 1: your time? Honestly, I'm gonna say anything under twenty five

1320
01:12:57,760 --> 01:13:00,920
Speaker 1: because there's something I call it initial tribute where if

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01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 1: you at least pay twenty five dollars, I know you

1322
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 1: bout your ship because there's something that wish your time

1323
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:07,400
Speaker 1: all day. They won't even pay five dollars dollars just

1324
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:11,080
Speaker 1: online talk to me. That's a message me. That's just

1325
01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 1: a message send. They know what's up. If you message

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01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 1: me and you ain't paid, I'm not responding to anything

1327
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 1: you say. Well, I'm gonna start that. You're gonna be

1328
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 1: on red. You're gonna see that. I read it, but

1329
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:22,320
Speaker 1: I'm not RESSI as soon as they write you, you say,

1330
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 1: in order to continue this convo, send me even say

1331
01:13:25,240 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 1: that to them if this wasn't the goddamn ghetto. But now,

1332
01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:34,040
Speaker 1: let me stop. I'm I'm really loving that little clip

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Speaker 1: right now. But I want to thank you guys for

1334
01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:40,800
Speaker 1: making it through another fucking three hundred and sixty five

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Speaker 1: days with your favorite horse. I appreciate everyone in the

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Speaker 1: whore Hive. I appreciate everyone who's come out to our

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01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 1: live shows, but more so, I appreciate everyone who tunes

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Speaker 1: in every motherfucking Monday or Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday,

1339
01:13:57,360 --> 01:14:00,080
Speaker 1: whichever day you listen to us. Thank you guys so

1340
01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 1: much for rocking with us. Um. We are almost three

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01:14:03,280 --> 01:14:05,600
Speaker 1: years in and this has been a hell of a

1342
01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 1: roller coaster. I know that you guys have seen the

1343
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:15,880
Speaker 1: growth in us UM professionally, emotionally, UM mentally, ship me physically,

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01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 1: um I, and I just want to say thank you

1345
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:20,120
Speaker 1: from the bottom of my heart for all of the

1346
01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:22,840
Speaker 1: support that you guys have given. Specifically, want to shout

1347
01:14:22,880 --> 01:14:25,759
Speaker 1: out to our patrons who have held us down. Because

1348
01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:27,360
Speaker 1: of you guys, we were able to go on tour

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01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:31,519
Speaker 1: this year. Um we are now on another tour some niggas,

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01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:36,320
Speaker 1: it's motherfucking about to be January twenty twenty, So again,

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Speaker 1: January Detroit, we need you to cot the motherfucking tickets,

1352
01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 1: see you guys in Detroit. Of course, on January we

1353
01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:49,800
Speaker 1: will be in Chicago, shut down all of that, and

1354
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:54,240
Speaker 1: then New York City. We added a second show for

1355
01:14:54,360 --> 01:14:57,040
Speaker 1: you guys. You guys made us sell out Sony Hall

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01:14:57,240 --> 01:15:01,559
Speaker 1: in eight fucking days, so go ahead, fly out, come

1357
01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:04,840
Speaker 1: and see us. That's January. For those of you who

1358
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:07,639
Speaker 1: haven't looked ahead, I believe it's Martin Luther King weekend,

1359
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:10,320
Speaker 1: so most of y'all shouldn't have to work that motherfucking Monday.

1360
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:12,799
Speaker 1: Come out. I'm trying to set up some after parties.

1361
01:15:13,439 --> 01:15:15,000
Speaker 1: I want to make sure we turn up, turn the

1362
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:18,400
Speaker 1: funk out. I love our New York car hive, and

1363
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:21,639
Speaker 1: we're putting on two shows for y'all. They will be different,

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01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:23,640
Speaker 1: so ship if you like the first one, come to

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01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:27,400
Speaker 1: the second one. Um. Also, we're finally getting out there

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01:15:27,439 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 1: to Texas. Dallas, motherfucking Houston, y'all are showing hello love.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to do Dallas for the first time, and

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01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:38,559
Speaker 1: of course Houston will see you on February Holiday. Get

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01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 1: your tickets. That's horrible decisions dot Com. Thank you guys again.

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Speaker 1: It has been a hell of a year. This has

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01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 1: been a hell of a year for me and for

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Speaker 1: any of you guys who felt like nineteen may have

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01:15:50,120 --> 01:15:52,200
Speaker 1: not been your year. I am here to tell you

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01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:55,840
Speaker 1: that this is not about resolutions. This is not sitting

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01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:59,639
Speaker 1: here bringing any negativity into your new year. But make

1376
01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:02,960
Speaker 1: go goals, Make goals that you want to reach. Let's

1377
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:05,240
Speaker 1: not try to try to think of the negative and

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01:16:05,280 --> 01:16:07,560
Speaker 1: the things that happened this year that we would have

1379
01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:10,200
Speaker 1: changed or or that we want to go in. No, no, no, no,

1380
01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:15,679
Speaker 1: no no, We're going into manifesting, y'all. Hear it. That's

1381
01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:19,599
Speaker 1: my word. Manifesting greatness for all of you, for your

1382
01:16:19,640 --> 01:16:24,160
Speaker 1: sex lives, your relationships, your careers. Thank you guys. Once again,

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Speaker 1: this has been got another episode of horrible decisions. See

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Speaker 1: you in by