WEBVTT - Daisy & Theo: The Moment This First Date Went From Fun to Way Too Serious

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>CEO is on the phone today for our first Date

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<v Speaker 2>follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Daisy.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get him another date. But first, THEO, how long has

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<v Speaker 2>it been since you heard from Daisy?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, that's well, it's been about twelve days since I

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<v Speaker 4>texted her in the day after the date.

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't heard anything twelve days.

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<v Speaker 2>That this almost two weeks. Well, why don't you tell

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<v Speaker 2>us about the Daisy.

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<v Speaker 3>We can figure it out, Okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>So I took Daisy uh to that indoor skydiving spot.

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<v Speaker 3>I flight through the door.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll look like a chipmunk with your little cheeks flapping

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<v Speaker 4>in the wind ship one.

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<v Speaker 3>And uh, I just kipps screaming and laughing and it

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<v Speaker 3>was adorable. I grab some gritas from this truck.

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<v Speaker 6>I never noticed that chick's like going to random like

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<v Speaker 6>food trucks like to think. So that was the wind

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<v Speaker 6>like that, and uh, you know, we just like started

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<v Speaker 6>talking about random stuff. We had a car picnic, like

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<v Speaker 6>you know, hung about bucke lists, future plans and you know,

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<v Speaker 6>things of that nature.

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<v Speaker 3>What we do if the world ended tomorrow?

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you guys got deep?

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<v Speaker 3>Huh yeah, man, got pretty.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you guys share any intimate moments?

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<v Speaker 3>Not any physical like like like physical.

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<v Speaker 4>Intimate moments, like not the ones that like you know,

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<v Speaker 4>count progressively, you know what I mean? But like you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like there was like some some vibes getting thrown that

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<v Speaker 4>like I was picking up on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I'm a little confused.

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<v Speaker 2>We have any idea why she's ghosting you?

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<v Speaker 7>Ah?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I mean you know, two weeks go by, you

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<v Speaker 3>start you know, recap like kind of everything.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh. There was this one moment where like we're watching

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<v Speaker 4>this on a video for skydiving.

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<v Speaker 7>And.

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<v Speaker 5>What what did you say?

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<v Speaker 3>I looked her dead in the eyes and said, you

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<v Speaker 3>kind of remind me of my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, why.

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<v Speaker 4>You know that the energy I meant like like giself

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<v Speaker 4>like my mom's like fearless energy and.

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<v Speaker 3>Or whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know it must have came out so wrong though,

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<v Speaker 4>like thinking back, like it's kind of weird, like she's

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<v Speaker 4>probably thinking, Oh, what you like fantasize about your mom?

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<v Speaker 2>Like could she changed her mood after that?

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<v Speaker 3>Or I felt the vibe switch like I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like sort of.

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<v Speaker 4>It in her eyes like went from like possible like

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<v Speaker 4>gonna go down later to like.

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<v Speaker 3>What is wrong with this guy? I could all be

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<v Speaker 3>in my head, dude, Like I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, hopefully it is all in your head. But do

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<v Speaker 5>you think that she realized that it was a compliment?

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<v Speaker 5>Like did you mean it as a compliment?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I did, of course, Yeah. Yeah, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>was just like, you know, she was showing that like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, fearlessness that like my mom showed. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 3>know my mom heavily, so.

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<v Speaker 8>Definitely you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know that should have You know, I really like my mom,

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<v Speaker 4>like respect her, like she's like admirable.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think I heard you. All right. THEO is

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Daisy. So

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<v Speaker 2>we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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<v Speaker 2>second date. But before we do that, THEO, why don't

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<v Speaker 2>you break down your situation again real quick for us?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 4>Guy, So when I was this chick when sky diving

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<v Speaker 4>the stakeskuydiving place was it was dope. I might have

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<v Speaker 4>said something super weird that like remind me of my mom

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<v Speaker 4>and uh, I don't know if that's what it was,

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<v Speaker 4>but she hasn't talked to me.

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<v Speaker 5>You get down the chicks like your mom.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna regret, all right? Are you ready for us

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<v Speaker 2>to call her?

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<v Speaker 3>Man?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, Man, speak to Daisy. Please.

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<v Speaker 2>This is she Daisy? How are you? This is the

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<v Speaker 2>Jubil Show. It's a radio show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, Daisy, I'm Nina.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubile. How are you.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm good?

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<v Speaker 2>Good. Have you ever listened to the show before? I have?

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, yes I have.

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<v Speaker 2>Sweet. Well, guess what, Daisy, we got an email about

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<v Speaker 2>you from somebody?

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<v Speaker 8>Mmm, okay, this is probably all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes it is. This is a first date follow up,

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<v Speaker 2>you know the segment if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 2>date with someone in the ghost them, they can email

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<v Speaker 2>us to give you a call and ask why you're ghosting,

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<v Speaker 2>and CEO email us about you.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, all right, So while you I told me to

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<v Speaker 7>talk about that date.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he wants to know why you're ghosting.

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<v Speaker 8>Him and so, okay, sure.

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<v Speaker 7>So the date was pretty fun. It was non conventional.

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<v Speaker 7>He took me to like one of those kids skydive

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<v Speaker 7>in place. I mean he probably told you that. And

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<v Speaker 7>then we grabbed burritos afterwards, which like I'm down burritos.

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<v Speaker 8>That's fine, and so like we had a great day

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<v Speaker 8>and we were.

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<v Speaker 7>Just like laughing and it was I don't know, it

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<v Speaker 7>just seems like click, it seems pretty great.

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<v Speaker 8>And then like his whole demeanor changes and he gets

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<v Speaker 8>like really serious. He's like, look, click, I.

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<v Speaker 7>Gotta before the night ends, like I gotta show you

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<v Speaker 7>something that like it's really personal, and I'm getting you know,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm like, oh, okay, Like you know, I don't know

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<v Speaker 7>if I'm prepared for like something serious like is your

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<v Speaker 7>mom guy orsay?

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<v Speaker 6>You do?

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<v Speaker 8>You know what I mean? Like are we gonna see

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<v Speaker 8>baby photos? Like are you gonna cry? Like I don't

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<v Speaker 8>know if I'm prepared for that. And so he what

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<v Speaker 8>he does. He pulls out his phone. I'm like, oh god,

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<v Speaker 8>like what's on here?

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<v Speaker 7>And then there's like a note tap and on the

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<v Speaker 7>note app there is something that is titled.

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<v Speaker 8>Future baby Names.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, and he just starts like diving into it right,

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<v Speaker 7>And the first name on the list.

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<v Speaker 8>Was thrash her like for a boy, okay.

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<v Speaker 7>And then on your girl's names, the next one was

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<v Speaker 7>like Zeppelin, like like led Zeppelin, but like with two

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<v Speaker 7>ends and an e like a girl's name like Zeppelin.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 8>And he was like he was like.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I pictures having twins and they're going to be

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<v Speaker 7>in matching flight suits just like us. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 7>oh wow, And I don't know, it's just it just

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<v Speaker 7>seems like really strange and like forward and if he

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<v Speaker 7>just was just a very passionate about these names and

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<v Speaker 7>just like started talking about like all this future stuff.

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<v Speaker 8>And then he's got this dog. I think his name

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<v Speaker 8>Spaghetti or something.

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<v Speaker 7>And wait, one problem was freaking out about the number one.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Daisy, that's the Oh he's actually on the phone.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it was meant to be a part of this.

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<v Speaker 4>I made that note after a group to Joshua Tree,

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<v Speaker 4>we're drunk and naming kids the vibes.

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<v Speaker 8>What Okay? Well okay, but like why why did you

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<v Speaker 8>have it like prepped and ready? And you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 8>now that we're eating burritos, like I'm gonna show this beer.

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<v Speaker 3>So you just think it was sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>No, like but like I I mean, like it is sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>but it doesn't really seem like a joke because like

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<v Speaker 1>you had like rankings of these names, and you also

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<v Speaker 1>had like rankings of like middle names, like I think

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<v Speaker 1>Celestial was one.

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<v Speaker 8>Of them, which is cool, but it's like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 8>like it just seems like a lot to share with

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<v Speaker 8>me right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, Celestial is a vibe.

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<v Speaker 4>And also I put in like almost two hours of

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<v Speaker 4>work into that prepping for the.

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<v Speaker 5>Date, like having the names.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was just.

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<v Speaker 6>Prepping for the date, like you know, so like setting

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<v Speaker 6>it up, like you know, it's a mickey laugh and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to you know, is it like so bad.

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<v Speaker 4>To you try to like you know, get ready for

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<v Speaker 4>like a moment or something like, I don't.

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<v Speaker 7>Know, man, I mean it it is like very sweet,

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<v Speaker 7>but it's it was just a lot like.

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<v Speaker 3>It just it was just an our rat like I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't even know about.

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<v Speaker 8>Which is great.

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<v Speaker 7>I appreciate a man who doesn't plan, but it just

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<v Speaker 7>it just kind of seemed like a lot, and it

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<v Speaker 7>was like it was just a little too much. And

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<v Speaker 7>the fact that you were like talking about like what

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<v Speaker 7>we're gonna do with our kids, and like we haven't

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<v Speaker 7>even talked about how I feel about kids or just

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<v Speaker 7>like what my timeline is or anything. Like we had

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<v Speaker 7>just finished skydiving. It was super playful, it was whatever.

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<v Speaker 7>And and then you know, you're like, we're.

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<v Speaker 8>Gonna have all these kids and they're gonna be named

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<v Speaker 8>like members of a CDC. And I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>To do anything with the kid names right now. We

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<v Speaker 4>can come up with our own, and like we don't

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<v Speaker 4>need to use any on the list, Like there's no

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<v Speaker 4>you I.

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<v Speaker 7>Understand we hung out one time, and you're saying like

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<v Speaker 7>we can come up with our own like we hung

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<v Speaker 7>out one time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying, like, you're the type of woman I

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<v Speaker 3>want to have babies with. And you know, I thought

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<v Speaker 3>you think it was cute.

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<v Speaker 7>Yah, that is very flattering, But I like, you don't

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<v Speaker 7>you don't even know me.

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<v Speaker 4>I know that you remind me of my mom and

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<v Speaker 4>she's the most amazing woman in the world.

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<v Speaker 5>Family is really important that we're getting here.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>I think you are very sweet, but maybe for somebody else, Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Daisy, would you like to go on another day with THEO?

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<v Speaker 2>We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 8>I appreciate it, but I'm gonna take things. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 8>take things a little bit slower, so probably not.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you sure you guys could have a whole little

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<v Speaker 5>puppy that you can name together. Start slow, you know, okay?

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<v Speaker 7>All right, well, I thank you guys. This is awesome,

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<v Speaker 7>but I'm gonna go.

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<v Speaker 2>What would you guys pay for us to get a puppy, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's get a puppy on our second day. You can

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<v Speaker 3>name it like to lift.

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<v Speaker 8>It can be like a shelter one too, that they

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<v Speaker 8>picked up on the street that like.

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<v Speaker 7>All right, this has been this a little too much,

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<v Speaker 7>but thank you for the entertainment, but I am I'm

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<v Speaker 7>going to respectfully decline.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Well, I just want you to know that, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm never going to use that baby nameless with anyone else.

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<v Speaker 3>And whenever it's when you're ready and.

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<v Speaker 4>You change your mind that looks is going to be

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<v Speaker 4>here in my hidden section on my phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Jubile's first day fallow Up