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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: CEO is on the phone today for our first Date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Daisy.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, THEO, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Daisy?

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Speaker 3: Hey, you guys.

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Speaker 4: Uh, that's well, it's been about twelve days since I

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Speaker 4: texted her in the day after the date.

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Speaker 5: I haven't heard anything twelve days.

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Speaker 2: That this almost two weeks. Well, why don't you tell

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Speaker 2: us about the Daisy.

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Speaker 3: We can figure it out, Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 6: So I took Daisy uh to that indoor skydiving spot.

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Speaker 3: I flight through the door.

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Speaker 4: We'll look like a chipmunk with your little cheeks flapping

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Speaker 4: in the wind ship one.

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Speaker 3: And uh, I just kipps screaming and laughing and it

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Speaker 3: was adorable. I grab some gritas from this truck.

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Speaker 6: I never noticed that chick's like going to random like

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Speaker 6: food trucks like to think. So that was the wind

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Speaker 6: like that, and uh, you know, we just like started

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Speaker 6: talking about random stuff. We had a car picnic, like

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Speaker 6: you know, hung about bucke lists, future plans and you know,

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Speaker 6: things of that nature.

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Speaker 3: What we do if the world ended tomorrow?

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 2: Oh you guys got deep?

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Speaker 3: Huh yeah, man, got pretty.

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Speaker 5: Did you guys share any intimate moments?

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Speaker 3: Not any physical like like like physical.

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Speaker 4: Intimate moments, like not the ones that like you know,

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Speaker 4: count progressively, you know what I mean? But like you know,

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Speaker 4: like there was like some some vibes getting thrown that

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Speaker 4: like I was picking up on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I'm a little confused.

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Speaker 2: We have any idea why she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 7: Ah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean you know, two weeks go by, you

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Speaker 3: start you know, recap like kind of everything.

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Speaker 4: Uh. There was this one moment where like we're watching

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Speaker 4: this on a video for skydiving.

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Speaker 7: And.

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Speaker 5: What what did you say?

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Speaker 3: I looked her dead in the eyes and said, you

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Speaker 3: kind of remind me of my mom.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, why.

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Speaker 4: You know that the energy I meant like like giself

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Speaker 4: like my mom's like fearless energy and.

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Speaker 3: Or whatever.

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Speaker 4: And you know it must have came out so wrong though,

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Speaker 4: like thinking back, like it's kind of weird, like she's

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Speaker 4: probably thinking, Oh, what you like fantasize about your mom?

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Speaker 2: Like could she changed her mood after that?

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Speaker 3: Or I felt the vibe switch like I kind of

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Speaker 3: like sort of.

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Speaker 4: It in her eyes like went from like possible like

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Speaker 4: gonna go down later to like.

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Speaker 3: What is wrong with this guy? I could all be

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Speaker 3: in my head, dude, Like I don't.

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Speaker 5: Know, hopefully it is all in your head. But do

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Speaker 5: you think that she realized that it was a compliment?

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Speaker 5: Like did you mean it as a compliment?

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Speaker 3: I mean I did, of course, Yeah. Yeah, Like I

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Speaker 3: was just like, you know, she was showing that like,

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Speaker 3: you know, fearlessness that like my mom showed. Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: know my mom heavily, so.

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Speaker 8: Definitely you.

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Speaker 4: Know that should have You know, I really like my mom,

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Speaker 4: like respect her, like she's like admirable.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think I heard you. All right. THEO is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Daisy. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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Speaker 2: second date. But before we do that, THEO, why don't

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Speaker 2: you break down your situation again real quick for us?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 4: Guy, So when I was this chick when sky diving

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Speaker 4: the stakeskuydiving place was it was dope. I might have

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Speaker 4: said something super weird that like remind me of my mom

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Speaker 4: and uh, I don't know if that's what it was,

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Speaker 4: but she hasn't talked to me.

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Speaker 5: You get down the chicks like your mom.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna regret, all right? Are you ready for us

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Speaker 2: to call her?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, Man, speak to Daisy. Please.

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Speaker 2: This is she Daisy? How are you? This is the

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Speaker 2: Jubil Show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, Daisy, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubile. How are you.

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Speaker 8: I'm good?

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Speaker 2: Good. Have you ever listened to the show before? I have?

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Speaker 8: Yes, yes I have.

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Speaker 2: Sweet. Well, guess what, Daisy, we got an email about

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Speaker 2: you from somebody?

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Speaker 8: Mmm, okay, this is probably all right.

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Speaker 2: Yes it is. This is a first date follow up,

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Speaker 2: you know the segment if you go out on a

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Speaker 2: date with someone in the ghost them, they can email

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Speaker 2: us to give you a call and ask why you're ghosting,

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Speaker 2: and CEO email us about you.

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Speaker 7: Okay, all right, So while you I told me to

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Speaker 7: talk about that date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he wants to know why you're ghosting.

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Speaker 8: Him and so, okay, sure.

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Speaker 7: So the date was pretty fun. It was non conventional.

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Speaker 7: He took me to like one of those kids skydive

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Speaker 7: in place. I mean he probably told you that. And

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Speaker 7: then we grabbed burritos afterwards, which like I'm down burritos.

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Speaker 8: That's fine, and so like we had a great day

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Speaker 8: and we were.

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Speaker 7: Just like laughing and it was I don't know, it

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Speaker 7: just seems like click, it seems pretty great.

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Speaker 8: And then like his whole demeanor changes and he gets

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Speaker 8: like really serious. He's like, look, click, I.

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Speaker 7: Gotta before the night ends, like I gotta show you

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Speaker 7: something that like it's really personal, and I'm getting you know,

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Speaker 7: I'm like, oh, okay, Like you know, I don't know

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Speaker 7: if I'm prepared for like something serious like is your

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Speaker 7: mom guy orsay?

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Speaker 6: You do?

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Speaker 8: You know what I mean? Like are we gonna see

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Speaker 8: baby photos? Like are you gonna cry? Like I don't

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Speaker 8: know if I'm prepared for that. And so he what

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Speaker 8: he does. He pulls out his phone. I'm like, oh god,

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Speaker 8: like what's on here?

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Speaker 7: And then there's like a note tap and on the

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Speaker 7: note app there is something that is titled.

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Speaker 8: Future baby Names.

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Speaker 7: Okay, and he just starts like diving into it right,

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Speaker 7: And the first name on the list.

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Speaker 8: Was thrash her like for a boy, okay.

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Speaker 7: And then on your girl's names, the next one was

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Speaker 7: like Zeppelin, like like led Zeppelin, but like with two

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 8: And he was like he was like.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I pictures having twins and they're going to be

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Speaker 7: in matching flight suits just like us. And I was like,

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Speaker 7: oh wow, And I don't know, it's just it just

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Speaker 7: seems like really strange and like forward and if he

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Speaker 8: And then he's got this dog. I think his name

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Speaker 8: Spaghetti or something.

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Speaker 7: And wait, one problem was freaking out about the number one.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Daisy, that's the Oh he's actually on the phone.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was meant to be a part of this.

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Speaker 4: I made that note after a group to Joshua Tree,

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Speaker 4: we're drunk and naming kids the vibes.

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Speaker 8: What Okay? Well okay, but like why why did you

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Speaker 8: have it like prepped and ready? And you're like, hey,

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Speaker 8: now that we're eating burritos, like I'm gonna show this beer.

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Speaker 3: So you just think it was sweet.

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Speaker 1: No, like but like I I mean, like it is sweet,

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Speaker 1: but it doesn't really seem like a joke because like

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Speaker 1: you had like rankings of these names, and you also

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Speaker 1: Celestial was one.

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Speaker 8: Of them, which is cool, but it's like I don't know,

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, Celestial is a vibe.

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Speaker 4: And also I put in like almost two hours of

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Speaker 5: Date, like having the names.

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Speaker 6: Prepping for the date, like you know, so like setting

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Speaker 3: I want to you know, is it like so bad.

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Speaker 4: To you try to like you know, get ready for

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Speaker 7: Know, man, I mean it it is like very sweet,

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Speaker 8: Which is great.

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Speaker 7: I appreciate a man who doesn't plan, but it just

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Speaker 7: it just kind of seemed like a lot, and it

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Speaker 7: the fact that you were like talking about like what

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Speaker 7: And and then you know, you're like, we're.

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Speaker 8: Gonna have all these kids and they're gonna be named

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Speaker 8: like members of a CDC. And I don't know.

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Speaker 4: To do anything with the kid names right now. We

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Speaker 7: Understand we hung out one time, and you're saying like

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Speaker 7: we can come up with our own like we hung

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, you're the type of woman I

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Speaker 3: want to have babies with. And you know, I thought

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Speaker 3: you think it was cute.

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Speaker 7: Yah, that is very flattering, But I like, you don't

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Speaker 7: you don't even know me.

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Speaker 4: I know that you remind me of my mom and

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Speaker 4: she's the most amazing woman in the world.

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Speaker 5: Family is really important that we're getting here.

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Speaker 8: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I think you are very sweet, but maybe for somebody else, Well.

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Speaker 2: Daisy, would you like to go on another day with THEO?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 8: I appreciate it, but I'm gonna take things. I'm gonna

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Speaker 8: take things a little bit slower, so probably not.

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Speaker 5: Are you sure you guys could have a whole little

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Speaker 5: puppy that you can name together. Start slow, you know, okay?

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Speaker 7: All right, well, I thank you guys. This is awesome,

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Speaker 7: but I'm gonna go.

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Speaker 2: What would you guys pay for us to get a puppy, Like.

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Speaker 3: Let's get a puppy on our second day. You can

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Speaker 3: name it like to lift.

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Speaker 8: It can be like a shelter one too, that they

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Speaker 7: All right, this has been this a little too much,

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Speaker 7: but thank you for the entertainment, but I am I'm

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Speaker 7: going to respectfully decline.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, I just want you to know that, like,

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Speaker 4: I'm never going to use that baby nameless with anyone else.

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Speaker 3: And whenever it's when you're ready and.

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Speaker 4: You change your mind that looks is going to be

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Speaker 4: here in my hidden section on my phone.

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Speaker 3: Jubile's first day fallow Up