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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl lex P and it's

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Speaker 2: The Cold And this is not wind Down Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: So, as y'all know, we announced on the wind On

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Speaker 1: Wednesday episode last week that we're gonna start doing some

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Speaker 1: bonus content for y'all.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes topics pop up that.

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Speaker 1: We just feel like we need to go a little

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Speaker 1: we're not gonna do it a specific day. It's just

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Speaker 2: Of be, you know, some bonus. It's gonna be bonus cunting.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we are gonna try to give y'all something

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Speaker 1: possibly weekly, right, but you know, it's not gonna be

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Speaker 2: So we don't want y'all to expect us to drop

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Speaker 2: it on a certain day. But it's just like.

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Speaker 1: Whenever she pop in our heads that we want to talk,

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Speaker 1: we want to talk about it. We're gonna get on

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Speaker 1: here and we gonna fucking talk about it, right, And

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Speaker 1: then another thing sometimes when we get on wind Down Wednesday,

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Speaker 1: we'll be talking about a topic and it'll get kind

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Speaker 1: of well, the conversation will get kind of long, so

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Speaker 1: we'll kind of have to chop the conversation and go

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Speaker 1: to the next topic. So when that happens, we'll release

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Speaker 1: the rest of the conversation on a bonus episode.

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Speaker 2: Right, So, Drea, what's the long less? I was on

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Speaker 1: So I was on the phone with my cousin earlier

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Speaker 1: and she crazy as hell. She actually listened to the show.

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Speaker 1: So we was on the phone earlier and me a hug.

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Speaker 1: We just always be talking about the craziest sheet, and

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Speaker 1: she was just like I think.

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Speaker 2: And I told her about.

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Speaker 1: A conversation that me and LyX had with somebody a

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Speaker 1: few weeks ago, and she was like, well, I think

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Speaker 1: conversation was basically about, you know, what do you think

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Speaker 1: is better when you're dealing with somebody, somebody that's a

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Speaker 1: because When I say that.

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Speaker 2: I mean a good disclaimer, because when I.

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Speaker 1: Say that, I basically just mean, like, what's better fucking

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Speaker 1: with somebody who lets you know from the jump, Hey,

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Speaker 1: these are my intentions, whether they may be good or bad,

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Speaker 1: Versus somebody who tries to like tiptoe around what they

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Speaker 1: really he'll fall and what they really trying to do,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and try to portray themselves

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Speaker 1: out that they really Okay, so right, okay, So but

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Speaker 1: when you say hocuse, this thing could go two ways.

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Speaker 1: First of all, because when I think of a whole,

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Speaker 1: I just think somebody. Think of somebody who's probably you know,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So if somebody if like,

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Speaker 1: that I'm a whole. I'm not a whole hole. It's

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Speaker 1: a it's a level of wholeness. I feel like I've done. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like we've done. I've done a whole shit. I've had

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Speaker 2: So wa way, So let me ask you this.

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Speaker 1: So when we're talking about hoes, are we talking about like,

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Speaker 1: when I meet somebody, I'm not gonna tell them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when I was twenty three years old, I used to

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Speaker 2: So is that what you mean? Not being straight up

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Speaker 1: Because what if I want to be with you, I

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Speaker 2: Nine times out of ten find out some shit about

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Speaker 1: But honestly, you know, but when I say holes, I

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Speaker 2: No, I mean some people like fantasies. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, some people be

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Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, I also just

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Speaker 2: Fucking with them.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna know what I expect from you now. So

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not right unless it's one of your pods, unless

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Speaker 2: I fucked on the other and right, And that's one

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like my past is gonna be a

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Speaker 1: But see, I wish that I did it because I

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Speaker 1: But I also felt like this, I do feel like

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Speaker 2: They're really not. Like I feel like I agree.

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Speaker 2: That typically does things like that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, if you fucking with a nigga who

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Speaker 1: and he be buying you pursies and you know, buying

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Speaker 1: But if this is typically the type of nigga who

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Speaker 1: Like that from a nigga who don't do that for

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Speaker 1: A word, no, it's not okay, but this is generosity.

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Speaker 1: and they're finessing game because they get on social media

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Speaker 2: Come to find out, oh, you just like everybody else.

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Speaker 1: So I feel like that's one of the things that's

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Speaker 2: And I just feel like, when it.

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Speaker 1: Comes down to it, somebody who's open.

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Speaker 1: Now, it's not everybody's business, no, but I hate when

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Speaker 1: you're above something that you're doing. Either way, it goes there.

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Speaker 1: I see people all the time talking down on sex workers.

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Speaker 1: Oh you selling pussy, Oh you stripping, Oh you this

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Speaker 1: So it ain't like you're doing a straight up transaction

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Speaker 2: You're always asking for us.

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Speaker 1: And I hope that I'm not offending nobody, But if

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Speaker 1: Like when is it? When is it gonna be like okay,

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Speaker 1: you don't spend this on me. You don't get this

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Speaker 1: Like, get some nig I hate and when I'm talking

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Speaker 1: But I just, first of all, I'm the type of

435
00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:55,399
Speaker 1: person I don't believe everybody deserves to get all of me,

436
00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:59,240
Speaker 1: like or to know everything about my personality or just

437
00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,480
Speaker 1: know how I am when I first meet you.

438
00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:06,600
Speaker 2: You gotta earn it. So I'm just it's all I'm

439
00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:07,080
Speaker 2: not at all.

440
00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:08,879
Speaker 1: And they might have something to do with my sign

441
00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:13,000
Speaker 1: because like taurisis, we are very very like not secretive,

442
00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:14,919
Speaker 1: but it's just like I really gotta fuck with you

443
00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:18,960
Speaker 1: for you to know and to know things about me,

444
00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:22,359
Speaker 1: I really gotta fuck with you versus Leo's. We love

445
00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,000
Speaker 1: to be the center of attention, the life of the party.

446
00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,119
Speaker 2: That's just who we are. We love to be the

447
00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:28,000
Speaker 2: center of attention too.

448
00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:31,680
Speaker 1: But one thing about Tauruses, we're very mysterious. Like most

449
00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:34,320
Speaker 1: touruses that I know, they be just kind of mysterious

450
00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,960
Speaker 1: people because you never really know what a lot of

451
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,840
Speaker 1: things about it life like, because that's just how we are.

452
00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:41,600
Speaker 1: So I feel like when I meet people, that's how

453
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:43,439
Speaker 1: I am. But I also feel like that's why niggas

454
00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,040
Speaker 1: be loving me because I'm very mysterious, like they never

455
00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:48,760
Speaker 1: feel like they really just know me. Right, and you

456
00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,240
Speaker 1: not gonna never really know me unless I really fuck

457
00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,320
Speaker 1: with you. I don't feel like no nigga that I've

458
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:55,840
Speaker 1: ever really fucked we just really truly knew me one

459
00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,280
Speaker 1: hundred percent, because I'm not gonna give you that unless

460
00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:00,240
Speaker 1: I feel like you feel it and nobody have ever

461
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,280
Speaker 1: deserves it. So do you feel like that goes in? Like,

462
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,919
Speaker 1: but I feel like that's being manipulative. I just feel like,

463
00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:08,320
Speaker 1: you know, but but no, but that's not being manipulated.

464
00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,560
Speaker 1: I'm talking about girls who acts like something that they're not.

465
00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:15,960
Speaker 1: You're not being You're just keeping yourself in. You're being guarded.

466
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,879
Speaker 1: Being guarded is not being manipulative. I'm talking about the

467
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,520
Speaker 1: girls that are like like say, not just the girls,

468
00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,720
Speaker 1: just men too, the men who approach these women acting like, man,

469
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,639
Speaker 1: I just I love. I'm a one woman man. I

470
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 1: don't like juggling multiple women. I'm ready to settle down.

471
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,479
Speaker 1: And as soon as y'all get later onto the relationship,

472
00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,639
Speaker 1: you realize he ah, and he got four side bitches

473
00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:38,880
Speaker 1: or for a woman, you approaching the man acting like, nah,

474
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm very independent.

475
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,440
Speaker 2: I don't need a man, and blah blah blah.

476
00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:43,560
Speaker 1: And you trying to make it seem like you're this

477
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:46,640
Speaker 1: strong woman and then like five six months down the road,

478
00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 1: you trying to trap this nigga so you can get

479
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 1: a paycheck. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So that's

480
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 1: what That's what I mean. When I start talking to somebody,

481
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 1: I'm never pretending to be something I'm not. Yes, I'm

482
00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 1: an open person and you're gonna know my person it

483
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,480
Speaker 1: because everybody who fucking me, everybody knows, Oh, Lex gone,

484
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,320
Speaker 1: this is how Lex is, and this is how everybody

485
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 1: that's friends with me, enemies that all can say the

486
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,119
Speaker 1: same shit about me. Cain't nothing is gonna waiver. And

487
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 1: I'll say the same thing for you too, because you said, yeah,

488
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:17,960
Speaker 1: you're more stand office, you know, and you're guarded.

489
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:19,600
Speaker 2: But that's not being manipulative.

490
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 1: There's people straight up acting like a completely different person.

491
00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 2: I'm not niggas who I be fucking with. They know.

492
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 1: First of all, niggas know when you start fucking with

493
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,440
Speaker 1: a nigga, it ain't no nigga that I do unfucked

494
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 1: with who I feel like didn't know that if they

495
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 1: was wasn't who they was or like or the type

496
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,439
Speaker 1: of person that they are. I wouldn't probably be fucking

497
00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,360
Speaker 1: with him for their reason, because you just be a parent.

498
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,159
Speaker 1: There's certain girls like certain type of niggas. Let's just

499
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,199
Speaker 1: keep it one honey. You know what I mean. And

500
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 1: I never try to be I never try to hide it.

501
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:52,919
Speaker 1: I have a preference when it comes to Hawaii. I

502
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 1: like certain type of guys, but I also feel like

503
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 1: the same goal for them niggas, Like a niggas could

504
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, you're trying to be manipulative and you're

505
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 1: trying to use them, but you like certain type of beaches.

506
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 1: I might like you because you are you a certain

507
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 1: type of guy and you have acquired certain things, but

508
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,159
Speaker 1: you want to fuck with me because you think I'm fine.

509
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 1: If I wasn't a bad bitch, you would be trying

510
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 1: to fuck with me neigther. So it's like we both

511
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,400
Speaker 1: fucking with each other for our own motives in the beginning,

512
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: but it's a problem when later down the line he's

513
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: still motives and intentions involved. Like in the beginning, everybody

514
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 1: fucks with people for their own personal reasons or your

515
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 1: own maybe a little bit of personal gain. People fuck

516
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 1: with people for their own Yeah, a personal game. In

517
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 1: the beginning in my opinion, and I feel like later

518
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 1: down the line, you know what I mean, when you

519
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 1: start having feelings or it don't have to be that

520
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 1: far down the line.

521
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:40,199
Speaker 2: It could be a few weeks.

522
00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 1: Once you have feelings for that person and you really

523
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 1: fucking with them, then it's kind of like with them.

524
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 1: I was fucking with the niggas because he was fine,

525
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 1: or I was fucking with him because he had their check.

526
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 2: But now I love him.

527
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,399
Speaker 1: And usually with me, that's kind of how I go,

528
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 1: Like I be liking niggas in the I be thinking

529
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 1: they be kuted or whatever, all he got a bag,

530
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 1: but then I started really liking can you and it

531
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: really do be genuine yeah.

532
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 2: And it don't hurt.

533
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: But what I mean, but it's the same thing, like

534
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: you said, with men, because the men would be like

535
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 1: looking at like, oh she fine, I just want to

536
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 1: and then they end up really fucking personality. Yeah, so

537
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 1: I agree with that, But that's why I said, I

538
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 1: just I respect guys that are straight up with me

539
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 1: in the beginning with their intentions like and and no no, no,

540
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 1: no no, because honestly, but that's what that's all I

541
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 1: was about to take is people just like they say,

542
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 1: that's a slippery soul.

543
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 2: But if you just but I'm.

544
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 1: Not gonna don't be like, oh, I'm just trying to fuck,

545
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 1: you ain't gotta be like that. But what I'm saying is,

546
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 1: you know, if we hang out, you just let it.

547
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 1: Me know, Yeah, I'm not looking for something nothing serious

548
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 1: right now, I'm dating. Like I've had guys say that before,

549
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,719
Speaker 1: because right now, I feel like that's the state I'm in.

550
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 1: I'm not looking for anything serious right right now, like

551
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 1: because I'm not even dating at the moment, Like I'm

552
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: just focusing on my career and getting my shit together, you.

553
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying.

554
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 1: So when I meet guys like yeah, we can be friends,

555
00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 1: we can hang out and be cool, but I'm just like,

556
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 1: you know, my intentions aren't to be relationship. There's not

557
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 1: to have sex. So if you're looking for somebody to fuck,

558
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: it's not gonna be me. And I don't mind letting

559
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 1: that be known, you know what I'm saying. So I

560
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: feel like for men, you can be clear without being disrespectful,

561
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:12,679
Speaker 1: like you ain't gotta be like, well, shit, I'm just

562
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:16,120
Speaker 1: trying to fuck. You can just be like I I'm

563
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 1: just you know, I'm just out here for a good time,

564
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 1: not alone, right exactly. It's about what you say, you

565
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:24,919
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I feel like everybody I

566
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 1: feel like dating dating. We had this conversation on Wanda

567
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 1: on Wednesday last week. Dating is different now, and it's

568
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 1: a lot harder now. Yeah, but I feel like it

569
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,880
Speaker 1: would help if people would just be transparent about their

570
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: intentions from the get go, because there's so many times

571
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 1: that I see stories coming out about people and I'd

572
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: be so shocked.

573
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn you like that. I ain't think you

574
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 2: was like that.

575
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 1: I can agree with that, but the only reason that

576
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of like, I don't know, things could

577
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 1: get messy because at the end of the day, I

578
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: mean not messy, but it's just kind of like, But

579
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: I understand why sometimes people might not be honest about

580
00:24:58,160 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: what they want from the beginning because they probably.

581
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,920
Speaker 2: Feel like with child, he wants some pussy, ain't gonna

582
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 2: never get no pussy. But that's why I said, it's

583
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 2: not about it about how you say.

584
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: It don't matter, and that's fine that way til them

585
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,919
Speaker 1: ain't gonna give you. But well, you know, trying to

586
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: finess you I feel and it's and it's so crazy,

587
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,440
Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, I can't finiss

588
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 1: me on my drum.

589
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:20,680
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying at the end of the day,

590
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 2: be honest. And it's like, if you get the pussy,

591
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 2: you get it.

592
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 1: If you don't, you don't like. Pussy is not exclusive

593
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: to one woman. It's a lot of out here. It's

594
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 1: a lot of bad bitches. It's not okay, that's fine,

595
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, I ain't mean

596
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: you ain't. I'm not you and you're not me, right,

597
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,719
Speaker 1: but like, okay, So it does not matter if he's

598
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: telling bad beachies.

599
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 2: I like to think that we're both bad bechies.

600
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 1: However, if a nigga wont you and he don't want me,

601
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 1: it does not matter if if I'm still bad too,

602
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,919
Speaker 1: because yo, pussy is your pussy and mine is in

603
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: mini's mind, so vice versus. If a nigga wont me,

604
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: it don't matter that you're fine too he don't want you,

605
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 1: and vice versa.

606
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 2: So I get what you're saying.

607
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: But that's how niggas are wired so different from us

608
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: that a lot of time when they be having one

609
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 1: bitch in mine and they be like, man, I want

610
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: the beach, this is who I want just.

611
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 2: And I know, cause niggas will chase you down.

612
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: Bro, just like Buddy y'all got off the phone with

613
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Niggas will chase you. Niggas will

614
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: chase you down for a long Assimon. That doesn't mean

615
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: that he not gonna steal. This is what you're not

616
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 1: what you're feeling. Oh, I know, but nigga's gonna steal. Yeah,

617
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 1: she throughout that period of time that they try to

618
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: pursue you, and not only that, a nigga will pursue

619
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: you for years and years and years. Then you like

620
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,679
Speaker 1: say you finally give him a pussy, he's just probably

621
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 1: still gonna just wander off and go do his own

622
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: thing because he finally.

623
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 2: Got what he wanted.

624
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm just like, if I don't want

625
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: to fuck with you, I'm not gonna fuck with you.

626
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: Like and you can know, it's like I don't know,

627
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: like I said, it's like to me, it's just it's

628
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: just all about what that man wants from you.

629
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 2: That's what it just goes back to. Because a nigga

630
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 2: could be honey.

631
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: But I feel like at the beginning, you know, nigga

632
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: goes and hits on a girl because it's like, man,

633
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: you know what, this is gonna be my wife or

634
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: my next girlfriend.

635
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 2: I feel like that very rarely happens.

636
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 1: I feel like eight out of ten men when they're

637
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: hitting on the girl they thinking about pussy.

638
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: I feel like it rarely happens.

639
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: But I do feel like you have some situations where

640
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: me and meet on woman and they go on like

641
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: one or two days with them and they be like, no, no, no,

642
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be my wife, right. No, But you're talking

643
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 1: about you're talking about after dates. I'm talking about that

644
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: initial conversation. The initial. Yeah, the initial when you ye

645
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: had a nigga, Like if a nigga approaches you in

646
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 1: especially in the club or some type of shit like that,

647
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 1: he was looking at that ass and like, man, let

648
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 1: me go right, That's what I'm saying. I'm talking about

649
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: the initial Like I mean, you do have some guy's

650
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 1: a park, hey looking at how you lick the pops? Yeah,

651
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: like it be certain, it be certain, like guys like

652
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: they'll they'll be like they might they might be looking

653
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: for a girlfriend or looking for a wife. So when

654
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 1: they see a pretty girl, they might be like, you

655
00:27:58,480 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: know what, she's pretty.

656
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 2: She it's like my type.

657
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: Let me go see what she's talking about. But that's

658
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 1: very rare. Most of guys on that initial conversation, they're like,

659
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: I just want to hear.

660
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 2: I just want to hear. Yeah.

661
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I do feel like I feel like that's true,

662
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: and I feel like, but that's the problem. Niggas want

663
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 1: to use us for pussy. Why can't we use them?

664
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: You know, we got a little bills to pay something.

665
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,920
Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I That's always been my mamo.

666
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 1: But that's why I feel like, if I'm fucking with you,

667
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: this is the thing. If I'm fucking with a nigga

668
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: and me and my mama was just talking about this earlier,

669
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 1: because we was on the phone earlier too, and I

670
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: we were just talking and I was like, I be

671
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 1: damned if I'm fucking a nigga, and I gotta ask

672
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: my mama for some she for real. If I'm fucking

673
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: with a nigga, tough and we fucking and I'm laid

674
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: up at your house all the time and I weet

675
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: you all the time, I be damned if I got

676
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: to ask somebody else for some she other than you,

677
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: because you you ain't.

678
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 2: A frad to ask me for no pussy when you

679
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 2: want something.

680
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: Why do men feel so comfortable opening their mouth and

681
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: asking for something? Ask you for some pussy, ask you

682
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: for some head. But it's like as soon as like

683
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 1: if we need a little help on something, it's like,

684
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: oh you asking me for this, will you.

685
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 2: Just ask me for my body? Money?

686
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: Let me give it away, but giving it out and

687
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: you don't want to ask for la.

688
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 2: But this is the thing. Though money can be replaced, lady,

689
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:26,600
Speaker 2: set the tone. Money can be replaced. Money comes and goes.

690
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 1: Money is whatever to me, asking for some pussy, you're

691
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: asking about something that's on a woman's body, like this

692
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: is our temple.

693
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 2: So to me, no, I'm serious. How so we carrying

694
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter.

695
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: But to ask somebody for their body, to me, is

696
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: way more serious than asking for some money.

697
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 2: Money.

698
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: Like I said, money comes and goes, You get one body,

699
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: you get one pussy.

700
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 2: Howes be treating a pussy like the community pool.

701
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. So but for men, I'm

702
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: talking about for the men's point, of view. So if

703
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: a girl gives you some sex, even though men feel like,

704
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: oh that's pussy whatever, I can get pussy anywhere, I mean,

705
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: just like girls can get money from anywhere. But my

706
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,959
Speaker 1: thing is, it's just like true what women can't get

707
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: money from anywhere. It's I mean, I'm talking about like

708
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: as a young woman, you get as a young beautiful woman,

709
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: it's easy to get money from guys. You can get

710
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 1: money from anywhere. You can go bartend somewhere and be

711
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 1: making rats. Seriously, for a beautiful young women, it's easy.

712
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 1: Money is easily attainable.

713
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 2: I understand. I do agree with you.

714
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: However, I feel like if that was so true, it

715
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't be so many beautiful young bro cos I know

716
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: plenty of girls that's pretty, that's fine, that don't be

717
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 1: having all money. I don't feel like it's that easy.

718
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 2: I really don't know. I feel like that. And that's that,

719
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 2: again goes back to what we were talking about earlier.

720
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: It's not necessarily about finessing, but it's definitely a science

721
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: to being able to get certain shit out a niggase.

722
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 2: Some girls got it. But I also feel like this,

723
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 2: and it's nothing. I feel like the climate throw.

724
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: But I also feel like the climate throw it has

725
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 1: gotten to a lot of women to where they don't

726
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: even wanna do.

727
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: Nothing, Like they're literally out here just looking for a

728
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 2: baby daddy. Ain't nothing wrong with looking for baby daddy,

729
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 2: if that's what you want.

730
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, But I feel like, when are everybody

731
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: like I feel like now, like we have businesses we

732
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: want to start, we have things that we want to do.

733
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 1: We have million dollars on our mind that we're gonna

734
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: make on our own. I do not want to be, Oh,

735
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: let me go find this nigga so I can have

736
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: a com because I don't got shit going. A lot

737
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: of people out here don't have shit going on, and

738
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: that's what their plan is, and I think that's corny

739
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: as fuck.

740
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 2: Well I'm gonna say this. I feel like, if as

741
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 2: a woman, you don't have no money of your own,

742
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 2: like at all, and.

743
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: You just be kind of I don't know, like you

744
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: don't have no money on your own and you just

745
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: want a nigga to swoop on it and save you.

746
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: You crazy crazy, But that's what I'm saying. But it's

747
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:50,479
Speaker 1: a lot of women out here. But if you got

748
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 1: a nigga that you fucking well.

749
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 2: Like.

750
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: It's different if you're making your own bread and you

751
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 1: got a nigga that you fucking weed and he kind

752
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: of come in and just take over and handle your ship, right,

753
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

754
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: That's cool, that's different. That situation kind of.

755
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: Unexpected and you are you are sitting around bumming, like

756
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: got your own place, ain't got your own car, ain't

757
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: got shipped. For a nigga to want like in order

758
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: you got ladies, you have to also realizing order for

759
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 1: a nigga to want to do ship for you and

760
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: to want to help you, he gotta feel like you

761
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: be trying to help yourself.

762
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 2: Got something bad. But then again, I won't lie. You know,

763
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 2: we do have.

764
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 1: Certain situations where niggas will swoop on in and save post.

765
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: So I can't always say I blame bitches for having

766
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: that type of mentality, because you do got these some

767
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: of these simple ass niggas out here who got money,

768
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: who will literally like get you a place and get

769
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: you a car and do it you You ain't have nothing,

770
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 1: but probably like ten dollars to your name, your making

771
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: car probably was in the negative, and this nigga just

772
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: come in your life.

773
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: And save you.

774
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 1: You got niggas like this, so you can't always, especially

775
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: with social media and everything kind of being put on

776
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: front Street and girls getting on social media and seeing

777
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: certain things happen to other girls. You know what I mean,

778
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 1: you can't help, but sometimes get on there and be like, well, damn,

779
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: I think I can too. So I just ain't gonna

780
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: do nothing. But I feel like I feel like there's

781
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with wanting a successful man. There's nothing wrong

782
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: with that, but to be chasing that because you need it,

783
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: because you have nothing going on and you have nothing

784
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: for yourself and you have no drive. But like I said,

785
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 1: men do this too. There's a lot of men out

786
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: there that are hooking up with you know. People always

787
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: say that like the fat quote unquote fat white girls

788
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 1: you know in the hood. They'd be like, you know

789
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:45,239
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, yeah, because they be tricking off on them.

790
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: That is corny to me. And my cousin help baby daddy.

791
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: He ended up when they broke up. He got with

792
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: a white girl. And maybe it's give the longest time. Yeah,

793
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: Like my exist brother is dating like a big white girl.

794
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: She'd be taking care of him. But he used to pimp,

795
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: but my's the PIMPU. Then they got to Yeah, that

796
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: was the crazy thing about it, right. But my thing is,

797
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: I just think it's corny when you are dating somebody

798
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: and using somebody that you probably really don't like or

799
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: attracted to, just because you try.

800
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 2: To get a bag like that.

801
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: That is extreme and because you also don't have nothing

802
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: going on and that's your plan in life, that's corny.

803
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 2: If that's your plan in life.

804
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: Sometimes well no, okay, if that's your plan in life,

805
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:23,280
Speaker 1: then it is corny. But I don't feel like nothing

806
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: is wrong with dating somebody that you're not attracted to

807
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: it first, because it's a lot of the times where

808
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: you'll be dating somebody and then they become attractive to you. No,

809
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 1: but that's what I'm saying. I've met somebody and I

810
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: was not attracted to him at all, but I got

811
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: to know him and I was like, Okay, I do

812
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 1: like this dude. It had nothing to do with his money,

813
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 1: because it's so many people that approach me with money. Well,

814
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: you're ugly, and I'm gonna talk to you in the beginning.

815
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: It's always about the meaning.

816
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. But it's so many gonna

817
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 2: start liking you.

818
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,399
Speaker 1: It's so many men that I talk, it's so many

819
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: men that approach me, and they aren't.

820
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 2: I don't find them attractive.

821
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: I don't feel like a personality class and may be

822
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: having money, but the money to me personally, it's just

823
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:01,719
Speaker 1: not enough.

824
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 2: Money is just not enough. Like the only way the

825
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 2: money gonna be enough.

826
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: If you got like some Jeff what's his name, Jeff Bezos,

827
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 1: the Amazon nigga, Like, if you got money like that,

828
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: then okay, I'll give I'll give Jeff a little pussy.

829
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: I don't feel I don't know. I feel like money.

830
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,760
Speaker 1: Money is not never enough. That's why, like I said,

831
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: like in the beginning, if I meet a guy and

832
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: he's not attractive and he's trying to talk to me

833
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: or trying to pursue me, if I actually give you

834
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: a chance and you're not attractive, he's.

835
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:32,720
Speaker 2: Probably because of the money.

836
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: But if I date you for a long period of time,

837
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:39,919
Speaker 1: it's definitely because I like you, because money is never

838
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 1: enough for me neither. Like if I date you and

839
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 1: you ugly, I'm probably just trying to see what I

840
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: could get. Some of the corniest men on earth be

841
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: the ones that got the most money if you want

842
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: to keep it one hundred.

843
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 2: Like a lame in the world and the most insecured.

844
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm telling you out of probably like m

845
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: Let's say I was like five guys I dated that

846
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,479
Speaker 1: were had were well off.

847
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 2: One of them was probably the coolest fuck one mm

848
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 2: like for real, for real.

849
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: I mean I feel like niggas when niggas with money

850
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: that I've dated, they all be coolest, but they just

851
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:23,959
Speaker 1: be They just be lame.

852
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: But that's because money changed niggas. Money change bitches.

853
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,919
Speaker 1: To people always try to say, oh, when I get

854
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: successful or when I start getting money, I promise I

855
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: ain't gonna never let this.

856
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 2: She changed me. Trust me. That's a mother fucking live.

857
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 1: That's why I would never say this she because I

858
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: know I change when I get moany, but I'm gonna change.

859
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 2: But ay gonna make you.

860
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: And I hate when people say that because you don't

861
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: know how you're gonna act to you see all them

862
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:48,959
Speaker 1: comedy bank accounts, So shut shut.

863
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 2: The hell of money gonna make you different. So back

864
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 2: to the main. Look, we always getting on. So that's

865
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 2: the main.

866
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Speaker 1: Like I said, I feel like it's very I feel

867
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Speaker 1: like when women and men do that. As far as

868
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Speaker 1: hiding the whole their hoosh ways or their gold digging

869
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:08,320
Speaker 1: ways or whatever your intentions are, I feel like hiding

870
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: your intentions in the beginning and trying to make it

871
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 1: seem like you have Like if my intentions are A

872
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 1: and I'm pretending like my intentions are B, that is

873
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: very manipulative. And I don't think that shit is cool

874
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: at all. I think that is the lowest of the

875
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: low and dating. And like I said, it'd be some

876
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 1: people I'd be finding things out about them and I'll

877
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: be like, wow, I didn't think you were like that.

878
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 2: And I'm shocking to sustill with lick.

879
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, the way that

880
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 1: I be feeling about life and dating, it ain't no

881
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 1: fucking cold to this sheep, honey, it's real. You could,

882
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 1: I mean the nast fine, you could be real. So

883
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 1: I mean that's good being real, But some people ain't real.

884
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, it just is

885
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 1: what it is. It ain't no cold to dating and

886
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: being real ain't gonna always get you in the best situations,

887
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 1: neither to be just like being fake ain' It's like

888
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 1: it's fucked up. Dating is fucked up because you never

889
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: can really you could be real as fuck with a

890
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: person and still would do you dirty.

891
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, It does not matter. It's like,

892
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 2: that's cool, that's good that you have your moral conscience,

893
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 2: but everybody ain't got morals. And I just feel like

894
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:14,399
Speaker 2: when it comes to dating in the real world, it's

895
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 2: like a doggy dog world and you just gotta look

896
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 2: out for yourself. That's how I'll be looking at it.

897
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Speaker 1: However you be with me, that's I'm gonna be with

898
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 1: you right exactly. And I mean it sound fucked up,

899
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 1: but it's like, yeah, cause I'll go I feel like

900
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 1: when I start dating people, I try to always go

901
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:31,840
Speaker 1: into situations being a genuine person. But at the end

902
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: of the day, if I start peeping at it some

903
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: fuck sheet going on, or that you a fuck nigga

904
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 1: and you not being real with me with hell, why I.

905
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 2: Gotta still be real with you right now?

906
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: When I get to that point, I'm not even gonna

907
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: really entertain the situation no more now.

908
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 2: And that's that's me.

909
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,879
Speaker 1: Slowly, like, once I peep something that I really don't

910
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: fuck with, I'm slowly gonna start detaching myself honestly, you

911
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, that's when you gotta just

912
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:57,720
Speaker 1: eliminate people from your life, you know. But like I said,

913
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 1: I feel like, at the end of the day, and

914
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you right now, I feel

915
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: like most, if not all, women want a man to

916
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 1: do for them. So anytime I see a woman being like.

917
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 2: Oh, you hoes be begging. You hos only fuck with

918
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 2: niggas like this.

919
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: You you you you are that way too, okay, But

920
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: there is I will say this, there is something wrong

921
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: with begging.

922
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 2: Let's just no.

923
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: I hate no, But there's gonna be there's gonna be

924
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 1: women who watch this or listen to this podcast that

925
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: I know you and I know you don't be begging,

926
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 1: but they can be like, oh, if you're insinuating, you

927
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: a begging ass bitch. Because I've seen people that people

928
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 1: really feel that way. So what I'm saying is there's

929
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,919
Speaker 1: women out here who will this. Women like us, because

930
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: we expect a man to do something, they'll be like, oh,

931
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 1: y'all just some begging bitches. But at the end of

932
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: the day, I feel like most women and women should

933
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:52,720
Speaker 1: want a man to take.

934
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Speaker 2: Care of his house.

935
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 1: All say so, stop pretending like y'all don't like that

936
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,320
Speaker 1: when y'all are, because y'all thinking that y'all gonna attract

937
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 1: a man that's gonna be like, oh, you know what,

938
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Speaker 1: she don't ask for nothing, so I'm gonna give her everything.

939
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Speaker 1: That's a stupid ass mentality to have. And let me

940
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 1: also say this, people could listen to to what I

941
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: say or you know what I mean, listen to the

942
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,919
Speaker 1: show and feel like, oh if you and singe away,

943
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 1: then it's big and No, first.

944
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Speaker 2: Of all, I'm got to beg a nigga for sheit because.

945
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something, everything I got is in

946
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:25,840
Speaker 1: my name, mine right, and I be paying for it,

947
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: So can't nobody like I don't gotta beg no nigga

948
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: for sit. But at the end of the day, if

949
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 1: you want to be in my life and you trying

950
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: to fuck with me, I ain't about to be paying

951
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 1: it for everything by my goddamn self, because if I'm

952
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: gonna pay for it by myself, I'm gonna sleep in

953
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 1: the bed by my mother fucking selves everybody. That's just

954
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 1: all it is. It's not about begging, because what I'm

955
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: asking you to do for me. Trust and believe I'm

956
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: already doing for myself when I asking you what I

957
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 1: expect for you to do for me, I'm already handling

958
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 1: it on my own. I'm already paying my rent on

959
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: my own. I'm already paying my partner on my own.

960
00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm already paying.

961
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 2: Other shit on my own. I don't need you to

962
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 2: pay it.

963
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 1: But if you think you're about to lay up in

964
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 1: my bed and be getting this pussy, this pisty, No,

965
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 1: for real, If you think you're about to lay up

966
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: in my bed and be getting this pussy, or you

967
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 1: think I'm about to spend the night at your house

968
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 1: every night and be keeping you company, nigga, you got me.

969
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,320
Speaker 2: You about to pay some other fucking bills. I definitely

970
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 2: feel you on that.

971
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 1: So let us know what y'all think, because, like I said,

972
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Speaker 1: I didn't, I don't ain't nothing in life free.

973
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:30,720
Speaker 2: I'm fucking this especially. No, you don't want to getting

974
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 2: laid tonight but get paid to.

975
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: No, let me know how y'all feel about like people

976
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 1: not being as transparent in the beginning about their intentions

977
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: and what they want out of a person. Do you

978
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 1: want your girl to kind of cover up her past

979
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: and who she was and not even her past, just

980
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: who she is, or do you want her to just

981
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: be straight up and be like, Okay, I want.

982
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 2: This and not expect this. Like how do y'all feel

983
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 2: about that? Keep it one honey?

984
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: I just say keeping one honey, because at the end

985
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 1: of the day, if you keep it one honey, the

986
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: nigga can't be mad about she And that's what I

987
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 1: feel like cost in breakups. That's what comes divorce is

988
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 1: in breakups because people don't be keeping it real and

989
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: then lay it down the line the real you come

990
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 1: out and that ain't who they really want.

991
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:13,760
Speaker 2: So you know what I mean, You just gotta.

992
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 1: Keep it one honey when with the flickies and you

993
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 1: will not have a issue when I fuck with you know.

994
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 2: You gotta do this and you gotta do that or

995
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 2: these works. All right, y'all.

996
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,919
Speaker 1: This has been our first episode bonus episode of One

997
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Speaker 1: Down Wednesday. Like I said, comment let us know and

998
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,319
Speaker 1: y'all can send us topics for the bonus episodes. Like

999
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 1: I said, we're keeping it open. Y'all can send us

1000
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 1: topics if y'all have questions dating relationship advice, anything, friendship advice,

1001
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: anything that y'all want to know about, we're gonna talk

1002
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: about it. If we're gonna do one topic per bonus episode,

1003
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Speaker 1: So whatever y'all gotta say, what other questions y'all have

1004
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 1: to ask, just let us. We're gonna try to do

1005
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: one topic per bonus episode because y'all don't know we like,

1006
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: we will get off because we totally started talking about

1007
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 1: like asking niggas.

1008
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 2: So anyways, yeah, we're gonna try to stay on topics.

1009
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Speaker 2: So it's your girl lixs pee an Easter Girls drive

1010
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 2: in the car and we'll see y'all on Wednesday. Bye yea,

1011
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 2: bye y'all.

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Speaker 1: MH.