1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all all suit all giving them like the 3 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: milking things. And it's good Steve. Listen to Steve. I 4 00:00:38,760 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: want to join me. You turn turn to turn them out. Turn. 5 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: We got to turn them out to turn the water 6 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: to the water. Gove me come come on your back. 7 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: Uh huh I sure, well, good morning everybody. You're listening 8 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: to the voice, come on dig me now want and 9 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:14,839 Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey got a radio show, man on man 10 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: on man. I thank God for it. I thank God 11 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: for all he's done for me, for all the little 12 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 1: things that I oftentimes failed to thank him for that 13 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: I take for granted for you know, I was. I 14 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: was talking the other day to a buddy of mine. 15 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: We had gotten to this conversation about God and and 16 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: and in the conversation we had narrowed it down and 17 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 1: we were talking about changing the way we are as people. 18 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 1: You know that everybody has to change. You know, nothing 19 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: stays the same. Everybody changes, and a lot of these 20 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: changes can be for the good, and a lot of 21 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: them are just they just come with time. You know. 22 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: Sometimes it's aging that changes us. But no matter how 23 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 1: old you get, you still have the ability to improve 24 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: as a person. You may not have the foot speed 25 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: you used to have. You may not be as agile 26 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: as you used to be. Your energy level may not 27 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 1: be what it used to be. Your desire to do 28 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: some of the things that you used to do may 29 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: be gone. The thing that doesn't have to change and 30 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 1: will not change, is you. You have the ability to 31 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: continue to grow as a person, even when far the 32 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: time and nature has taken its course. We were talking 33 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: about everybody can change and everybody has the right to 34 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: reinvent themselves as they get older, and I equated it 35 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: to jumping out of an airplane. You know, there are 36 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 1: some people man who get to a certain point in 37 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:22,600 Speaker 1: their life and they and they jump from the airplane 38 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 1: is now almost a stunt of some kind. It's almost 39 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: like they life and got out of control. You ever 40 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: seen somebody jump out of airplane and the parachute don't 41 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:37,679 Speaker 1: open and they lifestart and it seems like they start 42 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,479 Speaker 1: spinning and tumbling and they can't get it together. And 43 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: I've seen some mid air rescues before. But then there 44 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: are times when you know when it hasn't worked. You know, 45 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: you jump out that airplane, and and and at first 46 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 1: it's fun. I've never skydived before, but I would imagine 47 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: when you first jump out of an airplane that they 48 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: people describe it as a a sense of being free. 49 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: And it's exhilarating when you first jump out the plane. 50 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: But if you pull that cord and nothing happens. I 51 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 1: never happened to me, but I can only imagine the 52 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: panic that's got to set in, because no matter how 53 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: fun it was a moment ago, the flying over to 54 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: one another, the holding hands in the air, the breeze, 55 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: the descent of the feeling of all of a sudden, 56 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: if you reach for that chord and it's not there, 57 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: you're suddenly spinning out of control. And that's what happens 58 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:42,679 Speaker 1: in a lot of people's lives. When you first start 59 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 1: your life, you jump out the plane. You're free, you're young, 60 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing to where about. But then you 61 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,840 Speaker 1: get to a certain point in your life when you go, okay, 62 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull the cord now. And pulling the cord 63 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: is an important thing, because here's the analogy my friend 64 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: gave me. He said, man, use your mind like a parachute. 65 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 1: It works better when it's open. Well, see what happens 66 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 1: with a lot of people is they in life? They 67 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 1: jump out the plane and and and they and they 68 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: having this free fall and it's fun for now. But 69 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: they get to a certain point in their life where 70 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: they got themselves in a situation or they've had a 71 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: little bit too much fun a little bit too long, 72 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: or you know, they wasn't open to nothing, and they 73 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 1: just did what they wanted to do, or they started 74 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: getting involved with drugs or drinking, or started running with 75 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: the wrong people. See you jump out the plane. The 76 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: first you're free falling. It's fun. But then after a minute, man, 77 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: something happens and they realize whoa and they reach for 78 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: the chord, and the chord don't work. Well, now you're 79 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: in a panic stricken situation. And my suggesting is what 80 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: I've learned from the analogy that my friends shared with me, 81 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: is that we all the sooner we can open our 82 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: mind to God, the sooner we could develop that relationship 83 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: with him. It's like pulling the cord and opening a parachute. 84 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: If you open up your mind to God, God is 85 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: like a parachute. You know, God can slow your descent 86 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 1: God can turn this out of control free fall into 87 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: a nice ride for you. See, that's what happened to me. 88 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: I was spinning out of control. I had gotten myself 89 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: into a point man while I wasn't doing real good. Oh, 90 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: y'all would look at me and think, man Stevie, man Nam, 91 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: I wasn't doing real good. I had spun out of control. 92 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: I was. I was in a free fall and I 93 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: reached for the court, but I was so far away 94 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: the chord didn't open. Then I went to him and 95 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: I pulled the cord. When I went to God, I 96 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: pulled the cord and open and he slowed my descent. 97 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: And this is what I just believe. I don't believe 98 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: now that I aged as fast as I was aging 99 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: because I got that parachute open. Now, you know, I 100 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: take better care of myself, eating, I work out more. 101 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: Now you know, I'm not out of control. I have 102 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: a direction now that when then got up under that 103 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: parachute a little bit, you know, and now I'm I'm 104 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm going you know, I'm still getting older, you know so, 105 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: but the descent is so slow. Now I'm able to 106 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: enjoy the ride. I'm guiding my parachute over Sometimes we 107 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 1: go over to to a vacation spot over here, we 108 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: float back over to it. But you know, I'm still 109 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: getting old. I'm still going down. But the descent because 110 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: I've opened my mind to God, the parachute has slowed 111 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: my descent. And now I'm rocking back and forth. But 112 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: I ain't spending out of control no more. You know, 113 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 1: I'm able to enjoy the view now. You know, when 114 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: you jump out that plane and you and you pull 115 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: that cording and it don't work, you ain't looking at 116 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: the view no more. You're thinking of only one thing, 117 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: How can I slow this down? Well, now I'm able 118 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: to enjoy the view. I'm able to see all the 119 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:19,719 Speaker 1: beautiful things on the horizon that God has for me. 120 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 1: I'm able to see all the beautiful things around me 121 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: that He's provided for me over these years. Because I've 122 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: slowed my descent. I used my mind like a parachute. 123 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: It works better when it's open. Open your mind to God, 124 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 1: and so you can see the view, So you can 125 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: slow the descent, so you can stop the out of 126 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: control freefall that you've been on, that you can get 127 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: your life together and see everything out on the horizon 128 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: that God has for you. You know, it turned out 129 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: to be a very true statement your mind. If you 130 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: use it like a parachute, it works better when it's open. Y'all, 131 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 1: you're listening, Ladies and gentlemen, May I have your attention please. 132 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: It's another day that God has given us. Something my 133 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 1: mother used to say when I walked out the door 134 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: every morning on the way to school. She said to 135 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: the boy, today is the day that the Lord has 136 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: made rejoice and be glad in it. I didn't really 137 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: understand all of that, you know, as a little boy, 138 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 1: but she never quits saying it. She said, you will 139 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: one day. And you know what, she was right, because 140 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: today I understand how valuable life is, how precious time 141 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 1: and health is, how good it is that God still 142 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: let us be here. Now. All of us have lost 143 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: some deal people in our life, but the fact remains, 144 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: God let you stay here. And the reason you're here 145 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: is because He ain't through with you here. He got 146 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: something else for you that he wants you to do, 147 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: and he got something else he wants you to receive. 148 00:10:56,480 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: I'm open for all that bring it. Please, let's do it. 149 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: Just make me smart enough to know what it is 150 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: you want me to do, and make sure that I 151 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: make sure that what I want to do is in 152 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: your wheels so I can stop doing some of the 153 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: ignorant stuff I was picking to do. Ladies and gentlemen, 154 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: we is hell Steve Harvey Morning Show. Yes, he said, 155 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: is Shirley Starberry. And let me just let it linger 156 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: on her name for a while because she can't take 157 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 1: the brand bad grin. It don't really bother the call 158 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: of that much. Shirley and Boogie and family. Who they 159 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: all that? All that that they barbeq? They grilling. They 160 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 1: got corn on it, asparagus, zucchini, slice it getting no 161 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: sam man, you know that's what they do and they 162 00:11:56,360 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 1: grilling like yeah, they that's what they have zally that 163 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 1: because anywhere. Welcome on Cali Rrell the mouth of the South, Mississippi. Monica, 164 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: my my young protege, don't go to the junior bang 165 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: kiss pre yeah, and the legend that is left you 166 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: tummy jun y'all don't want to trouble you today, but 167 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:30,559 Speaker 1: not your mind. I'll tell you exactly what I learned, No, 168 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 1: I learned it was I learned something last night. I 169 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: learned and it's a tip. I'm gonna keep man when 170 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: she come home from work. I needs to start talking first. 171 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:45,440 Speaker 1: I I can't sit through huck conversation when you get 172 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: in here, I needs to be talking first. Let me 173 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:51,839 Speaker 1: tell you what happened to me, because if I sit 174 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 1: there and let her talk first, I've been here from 175 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 1: six thirty VM to ten, ain't got a word in edgewise. Hero. 176 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 1: I know everybody down at the job. I know Berlinda away, 177 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 1: the fight with Tiffy. I know Tiffany want a new position. 178 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: I know that everybody isn't even the job. The patience 179 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:12,319 Speaker 1: ain't acting right. So I just started talking first. Did 180 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: you see Ohio State in Michigan last night? Did you 181 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: see did you see the show this morning? I got 182 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: to get money or you ain't gonna talk for four hours. 183 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: I realized I'm gonna keep that tip too. I'm gonna 184 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: keep Yeah, Yeah, I'm gonna do that. Why I didn't 185 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: tell him that part? What's so disgusted? When gott straight 186 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 1: into two? I was winning. I was winning coming up 187 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: the thirty two minute after the hour, we'll hear from 188 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: the deput as he ran back right after that. You're 189 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: listening morning show? It is time now for the nephew 190 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: to run that prank back. Nephew, what you got today? Well, 191 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: we got a little mistake down there at the catering 192 00:13:55,800 --> 00:14:02,199 Speaker 1: department and happen. Well, you know what have you eaten 193 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: that you just really would not want onkter? When have 194 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,079 Speaker 1: you have your head goat, have your head rap and 195 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: have your head squirrel, have your head raccoon, not have 196 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 1: your head dear at the house and not all that 197 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: at the house quill does. That's the only thing I 198 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: don't miss about my father opening his pot and you 199 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: cut the head off of this stuff, left the feet 200 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: on him. Now it's laying in the roaster like it's running, 201 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 1: gets in that pose like it's running. All you see 202 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: little teeth rames too. But that ain't that ain't I 203 00:14:55,200 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 1: can't I can't see teeth. I can't see. But you 204 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: hate it. This right here is the cater m mistake, 205 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: the cater mistake. Let's go hello, Hello, I'm trying to 206 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: reach Tammy. Please is hey Tammy? This is a dexter 207 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: over here catering. We catered your your aunt bridget Yeah, 208 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 1: that's right, that's right, that's right. How you doing, Dexter 209 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:24,479 Speaker 1: it's good to hear from you. Okay, good good. I'm 210 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: going through the paperwork here and I know we have 211 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 1: an invoice for you all. I wanted to reach out 212 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: to you. That's not a bad time, No, this is 213 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: a good time. Okay. So first of all, did everybody 214 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: enjoy everything that we put out for you guys? Yeah, 215 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: we had a good old time. My auntie Bridget she 216 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: was so happy. There was no better way to bring 217 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 1: in her sixtieth birthday party. We had a great time. 218 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: The food was delicious. We are so grateful, So thank 219 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 1: you so much. You and your team did the bomb job. Okay, 220 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: good deal, good deal. I was here when they loaded 221 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: up the van and everything, and I wanted to make sure. 222 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: I wanted to follow back up. But listen, I'm looking 223 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: at the paperwork and IM and we had a little mishap, 224 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 1: and I wanted to let you know that we're not 225 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: going to um, we're not gonna charge you guys for 226 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: the chicken. Uh, because they made a mistake and they 227 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: put the wrong pan on the van and they I 228 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 1: noticed that the chicken was actually still here. So we 229 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 1: want to take off take that off, and I won't 230 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: that won't be on the on the envoy, So I'm 231 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: taking all the entire cross the chicken will be completely 232 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: taken out. Okay, real quick, let's back up a bit, 233 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: because we had a lot of people at the party, 234 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 1: we definitely had chicken walking. Yeah, I know you had 235 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: you order some other chicken. But like I said, the 236 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 1: guy put the wrong pan on the on the van, 237 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: you know, and actually this mother chicken was actually still here, 238 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: uh you know, here here at the at the shop. 239 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: So you know, like I said, we made a mistake. 240 00:16:57,960 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take it off and that'll probably not your 241 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: you like a couple hundred dollars off off of you 242 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: alls price liked on deck third. So so what are 243 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: you saying? So what were we eating? If it was 244 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: this mother chicken? What was it? Well? I just standing me, 245 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 1: like I said that. You know, I got on this 246 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:16,639 Speaker 1: kid for making this mistake. You know, I got on 247 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 1: it real bad about it. But you know, putting the 248 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: wrong pan on there. But like I said, this, what 249 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: you guys had was it? That was a chicken? What 250 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: was it though? That's what I'm asking you. What was it? 251 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 1: That was actually what he put on there? By mistake? 252 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:35,199 Speaker 1: Just telling me that was that was rabid? What you 253 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:37,920 Speaker 1: can't be serious right now? Are you out of your 254 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: rabbits mine? Are you serious? Your tell me that your 255 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: team put the wrong trade on the trucks and then 256 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: served it to my family. And you're trying to call 257 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: me about two hundred dollars? Are you serious more than that? 258 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 1: You owe me more than that? You don't know who 259 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 1: the because allergic to that, and you're calling me about 260 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 1: two under dollars? Are you out of your well? I 261 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: wanted to credit you all that. You know what I'm saying? No, 262 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: and then there's gonna be no credit. There ain't gonna 263 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: be no credit. It ain't no credit? Do you mean credit? 264 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 1: Richard could have died, Monty could have died. U see us? 265 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 1: We got kids in there, don't know our dietary needs? 266 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:22,439 Speaker 1: Are you crazy? Well? I mean liked it though, it 267 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: don't matter if I like it, I can fall off 268 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 1: some knight. Stupid, I'm getting a toney. I'm done with this. 269 00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: This is stupid And who want to eat bugs? Bunny? 270 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 1: Does that right to you? H? Are you stupid? I'm 271 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: so annoyed right now? Seriously, So who ain't no woods people? 272 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: Weino country people go with you. Oh credit, what what? What? What? 273 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 1: Y'all liked it though? Right? No, but you're gonna like 274 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:50,199 Speaker 1: my foot up yo. So that's what you're gonna like. 275 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be there later because y'all so stupid, Yo, 276 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 1: so stupid. My fook's gonna be up yo, and y'all 277 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:58,159 Speaker 1: gonna be hopping around like a rabbit, the rabbit that 278 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 1: you serve me. Okay, okay, let me ask you this here, No, 279 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 1: abl A, miss Avery, is your mama right? What my 280 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:08,359 Speaker 1: mama got to do with this rabbit? What you gotta 281 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: do with this? Okay? See your mama you got me 282 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 1: to call you. This is nephew. Comment from the Steve 283 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: Harbin Morty Show. Baby, yell, I mean your mama answered 284 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 1: me to break you. I'm so sorry. Oh my god, 285 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: this is crazy. Oh my god, in morning, this is crazy. Crazy. 286 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 1: Are gonna get it? This is crazy? Oh man? All right, 287 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:55,640 Speaker 1: sam Me tell me this, baby, what is the baddest 288 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:58,440 Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the lane? 289 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: The Steve Yes, I'm just so glad I didn't have rabbit. 290 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 1: I'm so glad you have it. Have you had, Kyle Tone, 291 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 1: have you had I've had every part of animal. Well, 292 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: how are you cooking a tongue? What do you I 293 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 1: was just on the plate. What was I supposed to? 294 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: Student girl? I don't want that? What were you finna 295 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: get your ass backhanded on the table? I didn't have 296 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 1: some terrible tones? Lord, No, yeah, it tastes like it is, 297 00:20:56,720 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: asked the CLO our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. Listening show, 298 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:05,880 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan had one big request for the upcoming air 299 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:09,160 Speaker 1: movie and we'll tell you what it was. An unemployed 300 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,879 Speaker 1: journalist TJ. Holmes and Amy Roebok are pitching TV shows 301 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 1: to producers. Well, we'll see how that goes. And it's 302 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: time now to get back to work for them. But 303 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:22,359 Speaker 1: right now it's also time to ask the CLO. Our 304 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:25,959 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is here and he's ready. 305 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: Selena and Philly writes, I met a guy online and 306 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 1: we had sex in his car on our first date. 307 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 1: I got caught up in the moment and it just happened. 308 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 1: He says, he can't take me seriously since I gave 309 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: up the cookie so easily, how can he judge me 310 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: when he participated in it with me? Okay, okay, see 311 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: see you thinking he just judge in you. But he 312 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 1: participated so quickly because it's very simple. He's looking at 313 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 1: Let me tell you to mind set of a man. 314 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 1: If you don't let me do this first night, you 315 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 1: done this befault. So now you just out here online trick. 316 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 1: That's what a guy thinks. So now you have every 317 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 1: right as a woman to say, well, you're doing the 318 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: same thing. You out here online trick. Yeah, but you're 319 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:15,360 Speaker 1: the one that got tricked. See how it work. Because 320 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 1: we're in the world of double standards and Steve Harvedy peak. 321 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:22,400 Speaker 1: They create these double standards. Nobody on this show creating. 322 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: They've been around since the beginning of time. In the 323 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,439 Speaker 1: words of my father talking to my daughter, talking to 324 00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:32,919 Speaker 1: my sister, you can't do what I do and still 325 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 1: be a lady. My father used to say that all 326 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: the time. You can't do what I do and still 327 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: be a lady. Now, you can do what you want 328 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 1: to do, But if you do the same thing I'm 329 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: out here doing, you take yourself out the lady category. 330 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 1: And that's what happened to you. And now let that 331 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 1: be a lesson learned. Why don't you take better care 332 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: of yourself? Why don't you care about what you own? 333 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: Why don't you treat what you have more precious than that? 334 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: It's yeah, happy, Well I got caught up in the moment. 335 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 1: You're in the car. So that's you thought on the 336 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: first date. That's all okay, okay, yeah, okay. Now you're trying. 337 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,680 Speaker 1: You're trying to get him to share the blame. He ain't, 338 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 1: he's not couldn't could have been that good at that 339 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: cause that's comfortable. Yeah, really, Sincere, we're moving on. Sincere 340 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,640 Speaker 1: in Memphis says, I'm dandy a woman that yells at 341 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,479 Speaker 1: me like I'm her child. She yelled at me in public, 342 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 1: and I lost it and called her a be So 343 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,440 Speaker 1: she's threatening to move out. I'm tired of begging her 344 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: to stay. Should I let her lead or suggest that 345 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: we work it out in counseling? Hey, dog, how did 346 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 1: you move in with the woman talking to you like 347 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 1: you a child? Now you can resorted to the ultimate 348 00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: disgrace you up here? Now you're being verbally abused to 349 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: a voman and that ain't a response. No, you can't 350 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: do that, right he talking to you like a child. 351 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 1: Now you haven't snapped and called her a beat? That's 352 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 1: verbal abuse. But then you're suffering from verbal abuse because 353 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 1: she and you're talking to you like a child. Hey, 354 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 1: whyn't y'all break up? Yeah? Hey, y'all because this don't 355 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 1: sound like counseling to me. She talks to you like 356 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: a child, you calling her out her name. Now, before 357 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 1: this escalated into something else, y'all will be better off 358 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 1: going your separate way. That's right, all right? Moving on 359 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,960 Speaker 1: to Dedra and Charlotte, Dedra says, my husband has had 360 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 1: a girlfriend for two years, and I tolerate it because 361 00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 1: I have nowhere to go. I haven't worked in fifteen years, 362 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 1: and I wouldn't know where to start at my age. Also, 363 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: the kids don't want to leave this affluent lifestyle. What 364 00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: should I do? I don't know. You know, you sound 365 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 1: like you was making a pretty convincing case to stay, 366 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,879 Speaker 1: but then you asking me what to do. See, stop 367 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 1: convincing yourself to stay in something that's a mess because 368 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 1: of some things. The kid won't the fluid lifestyle. You've 369 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 1: accepted this, your husband having a girlfriend for two years 370 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 1: because you ain't got nowhere to go, and you think 371 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,439 Speaker 1: because of your age, you don't even know where to start. 372 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 1: Let me tell you what, I'm not fitting. I'm not 373 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 1: beening to sit somewhere in a relationship that's just due 374 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,120 Speaker 1: doing all over me. You're not gonna I'm not gonna 375 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 1: sit there in that man, because I go by myself 376 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: and be just as comfortable. You're not been to walk 377 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: in this house. Why in your name, all over this 378 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:54,240 Speaker 1: floor whenever you feel like it, And then you want 379 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 1: to be called a man at the house, and you 380 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 1: got another chick on the side. Man, you can miss 381 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,680 Speaker 1: me with all that right there. You ain't making that 382 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: much damn money. You can survive anything. You might not 383 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 1: know where to go, But if I was you, I 384 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,479 Speaker 1: would start looking into it because I tell you what 385 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: they're not gonna do. He's not gonna give up the 386 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 1: chick he didn't have for two years. And he's not 387 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: gonna let you come in here and make no rules 388 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 1: because you've already accepted the ultimate slap in the face. Yeah, 389 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: so he got a fluing lifestyle. You can get half 390 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 1: of that, caller for real, you better shut your mouth, 391 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 1: pellet hunter, damn truth. Why she gotta suffer her life 392 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 1: and you can get half of that? Do you know, right? 393 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,440 Speaker 1: Do you know someone I had somebody on my talk 394 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 1: show one time that says social media is in eighty 395 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 1: percent of all divorces today. That's texting included, that's credit 396 00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: card receipt that's pictuous, lady, color is right. And I 397 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 1: hadn't even gone that part. You you got half of that. 398 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: You got kids. They don't want to leave their fluid lifestyle. 399 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 1: But half of the fluid lifestyle is still a fluid. Hello. See, 400 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,879 Speaker 1: let me let me explain something to you about the 401 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: fluid lifestyle. When you get half of that, you still good? Yes, 402 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 1: thee half of pole is poor earth, that's what that is. 403 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 1: Half of a fluid is nah, you just good, nic 404 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 1: And then you will take that good money and get 405 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,479 Speaker 1: back to or fluid if that's what you want. But 406 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: this can't be the cost for a fluid collar for real? 407 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,360 Speaker 1: Is right? How do you sill it? You silly? You 408 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: might not know where to go, but you're gonna have 409 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 1: half his money. A matter of fact, you ain't got 410 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 1: to leave a house. You're gonna have the house. Yeah, 411 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:06,199 Speaker 1: the damn houses I lost. I want somebody else to 412 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: get a house. I want somebody else lose a house. Girl, please, 413 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 1: all right, that's right, get your stripped up. Where's your faith? Yeah, 414 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: she's she's too comfortable to you gonna help make him 415 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 1: who he is? Doll a sudden, he off doing his thing. 416 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:30,159 Speaker 1: Got a kick for two years and you let it playing? Please, 417 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 1: do you have any sisters? Apparently you got put on 418 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: game today? Though you got game today. Let's go this 419 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: game day, put your game place on. Put up with that. 420 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 1: Don't do it for fifteen more years, that's for sure. 421 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 1: While today immediately question, So that's what you should do. 422 00:28:55,720 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 1: That's your answer. All right, that's your answer today, right Carlin, 423 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: that's what you said. File two day. Get ah yeah, 424 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 1: girl life Yeah. Coming up at the top of the hour, 425 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you right after this. 426 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 1: You're listening well. Ben Affleck's newest movie, Air follows the 427 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 1: history of a shoe salesman and how he led Nike 428 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 1: in its pursuit of the greatest athlete in the history 429 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 1: of basketball, Michael Jordan. In a recent interview at south 430 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 1: By Southwest, Ben Affleck said he never would have made 431 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: Air without Michael Jordan's blessing and first asking him what 432 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 1: matters to you? Afflex said Michael Jordan had a few 433 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 1: things that he wanted to see included in the film, 434 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 1: but the only major request he had was that Viola 435 00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: Davis played the role of his mother, because he said 436 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 1: none of this would have ever happened without his mother. 437 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: Air stars apple Is, Spill Knight, Matt Damon, Viola Davis, 438 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:12,200 Speaker 1: Chris Tucker, Marlon Wayne's, Jason Bateman, and Chrismasina. Air will 439 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 1: be available on Prime Video beginning April fifth. It looks 440 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 1: good to us a Yeah, who playing Scotti? Who playing Scotti? 441 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: That's who you got to figuring that part at two Boys. 442 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 1: He was busy. He's not included in this man, Scott say, 443 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: you know good in hair Well that folk be my 444 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 1: shoe between that and his ex wife. What the Jordan boy, 445 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,440 Speaker 1: that's too a lot. That's a lot we need to 446 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: check on Scott Man. Yeah, especially you know man like 447 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 1: I like Scotti, Man, cool brother to me. Man. We 448 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 1: always hear good conversation. Donna might due to me. I 449 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 1: just you know, I felt some kind of way when 450 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: he said he that is it? Mike Authority, Yeah, yeah, 451 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 1: how did you How did you know? It's like somebody 452 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: had pulled the needle across across the album when he 453 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 1: said that. All right, So Steve, speaking of biopics, you're 454 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 1: bound to have one done on you one day. I mean, 455 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 1: I think that's inevitable. Who would you want to play? You? 456 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 1: Mike Gap? Yeah? And why Mike Gap? Because Mike got 457 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 1: the same kind of soul like guy don't want I 458 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: want God for you to do it. You don't go 459 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: to do it? You know, you know when I see 460 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 1: God front sucker, punch of it, come, I dead his 461 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:52,239 Speaker 1: damn y'all. And you know who else you could do it? 462 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 1: Your nephew. Yeah, Oh, you're here, good as zactly. We're 463 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:04,840 Speaker 1: gonna get him from shoes though shoes, shoes, elevator, elevator, 464 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:11,680 Speaker 1: he got platform shout, asked Steve Hark. What does he 465 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 1: find to do when he walking through the crowd? Where 466 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:20,840 Speaker 1: is he? Question? Yeah, we're gonna have to get a 467 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,320 Speaker 1: lot of little people in that mood to make him 468 00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,960 Speaker 1: look Ye, Tom, it's gonna be me. We're gonna have 469 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 1: to put a lot of little people. And he could 470 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 1: do it. He got he got the acting skill. Yeah, 471 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 1: but I just you know, I'm gonna be trouble. It's 472 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: gonna trouble me to see be coming through the crowd 473 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 1: at that height. We put as a young person because 474 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 1: Mike captives old the door. So who can play you? Young? Though? Kid? 475 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: Fat ass? He ever been that damn out of shape? 476 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 1: I don't look bad a couple times, you just know. 477 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: I don't damn what he do. When I was young, 478 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 1: I show was fit. I was never that he was. 479 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,680 Speaker 1: And he's slimming. Damn, what are you? I ain't gonna 480 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: play me when I was young, and he's gonna look 481 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 1: nothing like me. It was sound like me. I ain't 482 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: know Nickelodeon Funny, all that old Nickelodean green slime comedy. No, 483 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 1: we gonna get me younger. Let me ask you this, Okay, 484 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let that. Yeah, we're gonna move on. Yes, 485 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 1: please do Yeah, no, no, go ahead? And ohay, are 486 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 1: there any parts you know in your life that you 487 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 1: wouldn't want to hold, some parts that might be off 488 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: limits or that can't be exposed. Absolutely, I'm sure I 489 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 1: could marry that. That second marriage you gotta have. That's 490 00:33:53,760 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 1: all that why we got to skip all that, even 491 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 1: out how many I just want you to go from 492 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 1: my first wife to Marjorie and then go from there. 493 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 1: I just take it from that man. It just is 494 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 1: a gaping hole in now. Yeah, that's that's that's the 495 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 1: whole Kings of Comedy, run all that comedy story. Whatever 496 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,440 Speaker 1: whatever we can do you no, no, so you keep 497 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,239 Speaker 1: saying biold pick All were trying to make nin is 498 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 1: a peek about all that. Just let you make Steve 499 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 1: Harvey peek. Oh, don't need to be in that, not 500 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 1: the whole damn thing. So so so so Winton just 501 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 1: show up held play you. Yeah, now Win could be 502 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 1: a young lead. Yeah boy, he ain't gonna do say 503 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 1: the stuff to his mama though a problem. That's why 504 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 1: we got to stay out of it, because I can't 505 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,359 Speaker 1: do that in front of my kids. About this moment. 506 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 1: Oh man, we're moving on really, never mind. If we 507 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:25,880 Speaker 1: don't know you, we don't. We will never know, alright, 508 00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:31,879 Speaker 1: you rewinding the tape like we're missing something from the king. 509 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 1: We don't. We just put a piece of fighting crime. 510 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:41,520 Speaker 1: He just he just like he's just a detictive something. 511 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 1: Never mind, all right, coming up in twenty minutes after, 512 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:49,920 Speaker 1: we'll have an update on the Shenton. Let me start 513 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 1: that over, good serious, all right, coming up at twenty 514 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 1: minutes after, we're gonna switch gears here and have an 515 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 1: update on the Chanquella Robinson murder investigation. This comes from 516 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 1: months now after she was killed while vacationing in Mexico 517 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 1: with her so called friends. We'll talk about it right 518 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:12,840 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening what we've been watching this case 519 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,439 Speaker 1: and hopes that justice will be served for the death 520 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 1: of shan Quila Robinson, who died while on vacation with 521 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 1: six of her so called friends and Cabbo Mexico. This 522 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,920 Speaker 1: happened back in November of last year. A twenty six 523 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 1: year old woman, dejian A Jackson is reportedly wanted by 524 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 1: Mexican authorities for shan Quila's murder, and now attorney's been 525 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 1: Crump and Suanne Robinson have reached out to President Joe 526 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:39,799 Speaker 1: Biden to get dejian A extradited to Mexico. According to 527 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 1: The Charlotte Observer, Crump and Robinson sent a letter to 528 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,320 Speaker 1: the White House in March thirteenth to confirm dejian A 529 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 1: Jackson as a suspect for shan Quila's murder and asked 530 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:54,959 Speaker 1: US officials to act on appending extradition request or take 531 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 1: over the case and prosecute dejian a Jackson in the 532 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 1: United States. So that's where they are in the case 533 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 1: right now. Yeah. Really, do you know, I hardly ever 534 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:11,480 Speaker 1: hear of anybody asking for an American citizen to be 535 00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:18,480 Speaker 1: extradited to Mexico. Yeah, that's because the murder happened. That's no. 536 00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,719 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I mean, y'all understand, but you know, 537 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:24,800 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you often hear about people who 538 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 1: or like, like an American committed crime somewhere else and 539 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 1: they got him locked up and they try to get 540 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 1: him extradited back to the States. To hear. Boy, let 541 00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:39,440 Speaker 1: me tell you something. The Mexican prison it's different because, 542 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 1: first of all, it's tad you you don't you don't 543 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:50,880 Speaker 1: really speak Spanish. I'm assuming shan quila. No, what's on Spanish? 544 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 1: So who is who is the suspect Jackson? Deja Nate 545 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:08,000 Speaker 1: probably ain't really, you know, I mean, yeah, it's it's 546 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:12,439 Speaker 1: horrific the outcry. This this happened in November. These were 547 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,719 Speaker 1: her supposed to be Chanquo, also called friends, and this 548 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:19,720 Speaker 1: girl died. This girl was murdered in Mexico and nothing 549 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: has happened with the suspects or anything. Why are the 550 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,759 Speaker 1: Mexican officials. Why are they moving so slow on this? 551 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, now the attorney Ben Crump is involved. You 552 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:36,240 Speaker 1: know something's gonna come of it. Yeah, something charges something. 553 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 1: Let's start this process. Is different stories. So this story 554 00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,319 Speaker 1: and the other one with the cartel, this is two 555 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: different stories to happen in Mexico. Yes. Now the cartel 556 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 1: story was recently about the people killed at the border 557 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 1: over the tummy talk uh situation that it was four 558 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:59,439 Speaker 1: Americans that went to two killed. Yeah, this was back 559 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,280 Speaker 1: in November, and Combo and the cartel turned them in 560 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:07,920 Speaker 1: the case you're talking about Tommy. Yeah, yeah, so they 561 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 1: which was which? Which was decent? Though? You know what 562 00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:15,879 Speaker 1: I mean absolutely you've never heard that before ever. Deal 563 00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:21,920 Speaker 1: turn to somebody. Yeah, they keep our eyes on this 564 00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: story involving the death of Schankuela Robinson. And coming up 565 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,439 Speaker 1: at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll have more 566 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this you're 567 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:52,440 Speaker 1: listening to show. Came jes had As was messed up 568 00:39:54,480 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 1: broking by to d Buddy came and got me play 569 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:20,160 Speaker 1: gloriate GLORI rate. Okay, that's good. That's what I just 570 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: wanted to get that out the way. Good morning Sherley 571 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 1: calling Mississippi Junior and Thomas, Good Morningdale, and was going out, 572 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:35,080 Speaker 1: Oh what's going out today? Well, you know spring is here, 573 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:39,320 Speaker 1: Spring started already, and summer is coming. And the girls 574 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,240 Speaker 1: aren't the only ones that wear those short shorts anymore, 575 00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: you know, during the summertime when it's hot. The men 576 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 1: that will be wearing short shorts this summer too. And 577 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 1: you probably heard about this. They're calling them uccie daddy shorts. 578 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,640 Speaker 1: Houccie daddy shorts, that's what they call them on social 579 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:58,320 Speaker 1: media anyway. And I'm just trying to find out, sister, Odelle, 580 00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 1: will this be your next mission? And are you looking 581 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 1: to save the souls of these men that wear these 582 00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:07,400 Speaker 1: hoocie daddy's shorts because they need saving too. You know, 583 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,640 Speaker 1: it don't make no sister, to me. It just seems 584 00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:15,719 Speaker 1: like that, ain't that Mainly from my generation? My generation, 585 00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:21,439 Speaker 1: mes was messes and we dressed in men's West pants 586 00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:24,680 Speaker 1: and men's West swim trumps, and that's what it was. 587 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,959 Speaker 1: Now all is hit a new thing that everybody trying 588 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,359 Speaker 1: to do. Y'all on that on you don't drag sit 589 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,480 Speaker 1: the old deal in it because I ain't going to hell, 590 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 1: which that ain't what I'm doing now. I saw everybody 591 00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,839 Speaker 1: on the zoom looked a little strange, like you are 592 00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:43,239 Speaker 1: tightened up. But what you ask me fault. We have 593 00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 1: to get your opinion. The girl is here. I'm a 594 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,360 Speaker 1: hundred and fifteen years old. I ain't got no time 595 00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:53,640 Speaker 1: be seeing a pit of all this new stuff. Well, 596 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:58,439 Speaker 1: you don't look at no, I don't keep looking so young. 597 00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, having younger than a hundred and 598 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:07,200 Speaker 1: preservatives like like what kind like a nut? I put strawberry. 599 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:13,920 Speaker 1: I put strap erry jam on my face, and your 600 00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:18,520 Speaker 1: skin looks so nice. And zee see y'all too much 601 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,840 Speaker 1: to go head com So how does it work? You 602 00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:25,040 Speaker 1: just at night? You just puts strawberry? Chelly, get you 603 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:30,400 Speaker 1: some smuckers. Okay, it's gotta be smuckers. Muckle's top of 604 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 1: the nine to the smarkles. Baby. Yes, ma'am, I used 605 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:37,000 Speaker 1: to you just my mama's. But you know, God rest 606 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 1: her soul. She ain't here no more. My mama would 607 00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:48,279 Speaker 1: have been two hundred and eleven today biblical times. Not 608 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:55,080 Speaker 1: quite but almost almost. Yeah, because a long time, Yes, Lord, 609 00:42:55,160 --> 00:43:03,560 Speaker 1: I got relatives that was at Catholic right there right there. Hello, 610 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,479 Speaker 1: one thing bought it. You can't say they wasn't because 611 00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:12,880 Speaker 1: you show wasn't it, right? Yeah? So you know, and 612 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 1: then we've been doing stuff like forgetting makes your skins 613 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:22,239 Speaker 1: pretty and everything. Mud was another big one in the country. 614 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 1: Clay clay dirt, Mix it up and put it on 615 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:30,279 Speaker 1: your face. You know, none of this new stuff work. 616 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,120 Speaker 1: I know that little white girl got some new stuff out. 617 00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:37,120 Speaker 1: Kim Kardashing, Oh yes, man, yes, he got some stuff 618 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:48,080 Speaker 1: right well, that surgery innovative confuel. You have said it herself. 619 00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:55,480 Speaker 1: He talked about her surgeon all time. She's rutiful girl. Yes, yes, 620 00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 1: you can't be with Kanye one day and then boy 621 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,680 Speaker 1: stop the next and ain't gonna be Noka. Look all right, 622 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:06,040 Speaker 1: thank you, sister hotel. Coming up next, it is the nephew. 623 00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:16,319 Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening to morning show. Coming up 624 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,360 Speaker 1: at about four minutes after the hour is my strawberry 625 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 1: letter for today, and the subject is I'm about to 626 00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 1: catch another flight. Come on, Steve, Steve. Thank y'all wanted 627 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 1: me to do it. We live for it, all right. 628 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 1: We'll go ahead, dude, here, I'll go all right, The 629 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,640 Speaker 1: subject of the Strawberry letter for today is I'm about 630 00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:41,960 Speaker 1: to catch another flight. Steve abble Bottom, make me wonda fight. 631 00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,520 Speaker 1: We'll get into that and just a girl, you know. 632 00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:53,160 Speaker 1: Right now the nephew is on deck. Time for the 633 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,480 Speaker 1: frank phone, call for it today. What you got, nev 634 00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:15,319 Speaker 1: They moved Big Mama. Should I say, let's go catch down? 635 00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:21,440 Speaker 1: They move Big Mama Cleaning Services. I'm trying to Can 636 00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 1: I speak to the owner of the company. This is 637 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 1: he It's just Robert. The owner is Robert. It's this Robert. Yes, sir, 638 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 1: this is this is mister Robert. How can I help you? 639 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:37,799 Speaker 1: My name is Corrothers. Y'all, y'all clean, y'all clean my 640 00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:44,840 Speaker 1: uh my, my house last week? Okay. And when y'all 641 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 1: moved the furniture to clean the carpet, somebody somebody moved 642 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:55,160 Speaker 1: my grandmother off the coffee table. See not In't there 643 00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 1: no more hold on? Sir? Do you know what what 644 00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:02,879 Speaker 1: data we clean your house on? Sir? Last Wednesday? Y'all, 645 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 1: Queen mother, we came to your house on Wednesday of 646 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:10,560 Speaker 1: last week. What what's your address, sir? Ry Mama, it's 647 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:19,920 Speaker 1: it's a sir. Hello, you said your name is corrupted 648 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:21,800 Speaker 1: and we came to your house on Wednesday. If you 649 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:27,680 Speaker 1: don't mind, can I have your address? Please? Look, mama, 650 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:32,279 Speaker 1: very okay, mister caruct is listen. It's it's if we 651 00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 1: if your grandmother now, was your grandmother laying on the carpet. 652 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,920 Speaker 1: I mean, my guys don't move people, sir, uh, we 653 00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:44,200 Speaker 1: would not have grandmother, my grandma. She was on the 654 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:49,399 Speaker 1: shee was on the coffee table. Her urn was on 655 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:56,680 Speaker 1: the coffee table. Oh grand mother, pat y'all if somebody 656 00:46:56,800 --> 00:47:03,800 Speaker 1: moved it and now the base is still okay, okay, okay, 657 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:08,759 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. So you're saying that you're very well mister, 658 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:12,399 Speaker 1: mister crutt, I am so sorry. Um, I just long 659 00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,080 Speaker 1: my grandmother not too long ago, sir. I know how 660 00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:18,160 Speaker 1: you feel. Now, I'm now, I'm listening. My guys would 661 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,680 Speaker 1: not have knocked over a vase or something like that, 662 00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:23,839 Speaker 1: or they would have told me if they knocked over something. 663 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,160 Speaker 1: Are you sure that it was my cleaning service? I 664 00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:29,760 Speaker 1: have no nobody have no two different carbon cleanland services 665 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 1: to come by in the same week. Man, y'all the 666 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 1: only ones came by there, y'all the ones that did 667 00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 1: it y'all the one more my grandmama and I'm a grandmama. Go, 668 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 1: mister crum, I'm a girl man. Mister Carruthers, I'm sorry 669 00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,040 Speaker 1: about it, but if you would give me your address, 670 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,680 Speaker 1: I can confirm that that actually was my company that 671 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 1: came by you. I apologize, sir, uh trump sorry, uh oh, 672 00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,360 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, sir. Now, if can you please just 673 00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,640 Speaker 1: give me your address, sir, let me let me full 674 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,920 Speaker 1: some information up in my system and we can we 675 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,399 Speaker 1: can straighten all this house hold on for one second, please, 676 00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:13,040 Speaker 1: uh fab do do me fab go and ask Wayne 677 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:14,600 Speaker 1: and Robert you me to come in here for a second. 678 00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:15,920 Speaker 1: They have to be the ones to clean that man 679 00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:25,960 Speaker 1: carfet on last week hold his grandmamaarth keeping on that 680 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:33,759 Speaker 1: carfee table, on that coffee table. It's in my d 681 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,560 Speaker 1: mister brothers. I'm sorry. I'm trying to find out if 682 00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 1: when I give myself together, I'm gonna come down there 683 00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna kick some and damn place for your 684 00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,640 Speaker 1: Do you hear me? Listen, Carrubbs, and I'm now listen. 685 00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:52,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do everything that I can to help you. 686 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,840 Speaker 1: But now don't don't uh you're gonna prend me on 687 00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:59,600 Speaker 1: this phone. You move my grandmama, and I'm gonna move you. No, 688 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,840 Speaker 1: hear me, I'm gonna I promised. I'm gonna tell everybody 689 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,759 Speaker 1: not to use this damn carping cleaning service because y'all 690 00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:07,640 Speaker 1: don't know what the hell I don't know all the 691 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 1: hell on nowlet listen, Nah, Now, it took me a 692 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,440 Speaker 1: long time to get my services together. Certain we do 693 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 1: a real good job. Now you're not gonna threaten me. 694 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 1: Y'all ship for grandmama. That's what y'all do. You want 695 00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:23,080 Speaker 1: people's grandmama. We sir, we have never had this kind 696 00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 1: of infidence. A matter of fact, we haven't had any 697 00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:28,279 Speaker 1: incidents at all. So I'm gonna everything that I can. 698 00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:31,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry about your grandmother, Sir. I'm gonna get everything 699 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:34,000 Speaker 1: right away. Oh, I'm gonna get a man in the 700 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:40,000 Speaker 1: newspaper and tell everybody not to use this damn service. Problem. 701 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,439 Speaker 1: I just told you once. Now you're not gonna promple 702 00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:44,719 Speaker 1: me about my damn company no more. You understand me. Oh, 703 00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:46,880 Speaker 1: but putting no add in no newspaper and you're not 704 00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:48,640 Speaker 1: gonna ship there. Tell me what you're gonna do, how 705 00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,360 Speaker 1: to call my sons in here, how to call me 706 00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:51,960 Speaker 1: that you did that owner ones that clean that god, 707 00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:54,160 Speaker 1: the're gonna compit now. I'm gonna find out what happened, 708 00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:56,200 Speaker 1: but you're not gonna threaten my company. You understanding, That's 709 00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:57,600 Speaker 1: how I make my Listen now, I don't know how 710 00:49:57,640 --> 00:49:59,839 Speaker 1: you make y'll living, but that's how manna make y'all 711 00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:03,880 Speaker 1: about moving people. Grandmama's man, you move my grandma with 712 00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 1: my grandmama. Ain't on the coffee table no more, sir, sir, 713 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,080 Speaker 1: it's I'm sorry that you'll come out and not on 714 00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:12,680 Speaker 1: your coffee table no more. Look, I'll try to find 715 00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:14,560 Speaker 1: out what happens. We're gonna get this fix for you, 716 00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:17,560 Speaker 1: but you gotta work for me. Well, I'm coming down now, 717 00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:20,000 Speaker 1: riding out the dude damn office and start kicking some 718 00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:25,320 Speaker 1: r Now your boy, then, sta too. You should have 719 00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,239 Speaker 1: come down here, come up, bring you, come on down 720 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:29,200 Speaker 1: here right now. I'm not skidding you. Man. You look, 721 00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 1: I'm trying to help you, and you want to go 722 00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:32,919 Speaker 1: off on me like that. I don't give a letter fact. 723 00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:35,080 Speaker 1: Call down here right now. You don't get even your answer. 724 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:36,480 Speaker 1: I don't even know where you are, and I don't 725 00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:38,600 Speaker 1: even know if we're seeing. I'll promise you I'm whooping 726 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:42,680 Speaker 1: your boys, ain't it's out the more my grandma you 727 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:46,720 Speaker 1: move my grandmother? Man, something bro, Miss Caruthers. Don't threaten 728 00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 1: me or don't threaten me by my boss that that's 729 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 1: my son. I don't take that too lightly. I will 730 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,680 Speaker 1: come personally to your house right now, beat up and 731 00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:55,080 Speaker 1: then come back and clean your house for free. Do 732 00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:57,200 Speaker 1: you understand me? Don't you talk to my children and 733 00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:58,920 Speaker 1: don't get threaten me? Let me go my damn fun. 734 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,000 Speaker 1: I want more things I want to tell you. Man, 735 00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:05,399 Speaker 1: you listening? What is it? Man? Mathew taught me from 736 00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,839 Speaker 1: the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got plagued by 737 00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:26,080 Speaker 1: your wife's daughter. Hello, say so say man? Ever ever, um, 738 00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: don't anybody that that wasn't there wasn't nobody that timing man? 739 00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:33,120 Speaker 1: You ever right down? You right? You called me coming? 740 00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 1: Now you got myself into looking like like nation did 741 00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:38,880 Speaker 1: some bump to my fast head? Man, You wanta tell 742 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:40,319 Speaker 1: me what you go through my coming? Man? You know 743 00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:42,080 Speaker 1: how long he's been saying, Am I coming to claw 744 00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 1: to man? You're rough for that? Ro Man, Hey man, 745 00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 1: Robert I got one more thing, ask you, man, what 746 00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,000 Speaker 1: is what is the baddest And I'm talking about the 747 00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:54,239 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land, Steve Harby Morning Show 748 00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 1: playing man. Let listen to y'all every morning, man, y'all 749 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 1: every morning. Look here, why don't you tell Doc Steve Man, 750 00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,000 Speaker 1: y'all need to put a copper cleaning the war over 751 00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 1: in the hood Awards. We need cleaning. You mean a 752 00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 1: corp cleaning and the category corp cleaning category. Man, y'all 753 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:19,880 Speaker 1: need to go and put one in there. What outlet 754 00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:25,840 Speaker 1: do y'all have any urns in y'all's house? No, No, 755 00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 1: I'm just asking. Do you know we're you're putting in 756 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:38,680 Speaker 1: this hole in the ground falling off the man? Now 757 00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:43,920 Speaker 1: we got the vacuum stuff, we're not vacuum. Now we're 758 00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:46,840 Speaker 1: trying to tear the bag open and stall all over that. 759 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,480 Speaker 1: We didn't left your fingers up in there. Get all 760 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:56,160 Speaker 1: the out particular reason, you don't know. If you don't 761 00:52:56,200 --> 00:53:02,520 Speaker 1: get all the dust, you don't know what part of that. Boy. Yeah, 762 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:10,080 Speaker 1: that's why, Tommy, that ain't food. You're not you can 763 00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:22,279 Speaker 1: read your mind. Grandpa up here, we don't put on 764 00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:25,680 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letters. The subject is I'm about to catch 765 00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 1: another flash. Get it stom you're leaking. I want to think, 766 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,800 Speaker 1: I want to know what I heart. It is not 767 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:39,600 Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice 768 00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:43,600 Speaker 1: on relationships, work, work, guaranting a more place your Strawberry 769 00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:48,400 Speaker 1: Letters dot com and click and submit Strawberry Letter. We 770 00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,160 Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air. We're 771 00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,360 Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and 772 00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:58,720 Speaker 1: you never know nobody yours never no, never, no. Buckle 773 00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:02,840 Speaker 1: up and hoole on tight. We got it thinking a 774 00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 1: few subjects thirty minutes afterward. Steven Shirley. I'm thirty years 775 00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,640 Speaker 1: old and in a long distance relationship with the doctor. 776 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:14,600 Speaker 1: I work as a retail merchandiser, and I do a 777 00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:17,759 Speaker 1: lot of traveling for work. On top of all of 778 00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:20,480 Speaker 1: the traveling for my job, I try to see my 779 00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:23,400 Speaker 1: man at least twice a month. When we met, he 780 00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:26,520 Speaker 1: was finishing up his residency and he took a job 781 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,600 Speaker 1: in a rural area, so he'd got most of his 782 00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:31,800 Speaker 1: school loans forgiven. It's been a struggle to maintain the 783 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:35,080 Speaker 1: relationship because he's not making a lot of money right now. 784 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,239 Speaker 1: I'm the supportive girlfriend that flies in and out, and 785 00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:40,719 Speaker 1: I try to be understanding when he's too tired from 786 00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:43,759 Speaker 1: working to hang out with me. I put forth a 787 00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 1: lot of effort to keep things going strong, but I 788 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,200 Speaker 1: don't see any effort from him. He has asked me 789 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,919 Speaker 1: several times to live with him in that little small town, 790 00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:54,880 Speaker 1: but it would be impossible for me to work because 791 00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,520 Speaker 1: I have to drive almost an hour back and forth 792 00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:01,239 Speaker 1: to the airport in another city. I'm in love with him, 793 00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,359 Speaker 1: but I'm starting to wonder if he loves me. I've 794 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,399 Speaker 1: met his co workers that are mostly females and all 795 00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:11,080 Speaker 1: beautiful women. He calls me insecure if I ask him 796 00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:14,440 Speaker 1: anything about his co workers. When I visit him, we 797 00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:17,840 Speaker 1: order food or I cook. I've never been out or 798 00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,680 Speaker 1: invited to anything he has for work. He recently had 799 00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:26,160 Speaker 1: an awards ceremony and I told him I'd love to go, 800 00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:28,360 Speaker 1: but he said he didn't think he'd be able to 801 00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,840 Speaker 1: go because of his work schedule. Then at the last minute, 802 00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:35,919 Speaker 1: he went, it's all suspect to me. In his spare time, 803 00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:38,239 Speaker 1: he can't come see me, but he can fly to 804 00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:40,759 Speaker 1: Denver to hang out with his brother. I'm about to 805 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,640 Speaker 1: catch another flight and pop up on him. Should I 806 00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:46,160 Speaker 1: demand some answers or should I give it a little 807 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:51,040 Speaker 1: more time. Does it sound like he's stringing me along? Well, 808 00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:54,080 Speaker 1: you already know. I mean, you're doing everything in this 809 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:57,680 Speaker 1: relationship while he just sits back and reaps all the benefits. 810 00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,719 Speaker 1: I mean, people make time for for what they want 811 00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:03,200 Speaker 1: to make time for it for things that are important 812 00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:05,680 Speaker 1: to them. He did just that when he went to 813 00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:08,719 Speaker 1: the awards show at the last minute without you. That 814 00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:11,239 Speaker 1: should tell you all you need to know. You are 815 00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:15,000 Speaker 1: not a priority in his life. He's not doing anything 816 00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:18,200 Speaker 1: extra for you. Okay, Yes he's working hard, Yes he's 817 00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:20,839 Speaker 1: becoming a doctor and all of that. He has his residency, 818 00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:24,480 Speaker 1: but they do have some time off sometimes he's not 819 00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,880 Speaker 1: making it any better, calling you insecure, none of that 820 00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:31,120 Speaker 1: when you ask about his co workers, and don't allow 821 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:33,520 Speaker 1: him to do that to you. You can ask questions. 822 00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:36,600 Speaker 1: You're in a relationship, or so you think in your head. 823 00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:39,799 Speaker 1: But he does it to throw you off so you'll 824 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,160 Speaker 1: leave him alone. He also knows that it would be 825 00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,520 Speaker 1: too much on you to move in with him, all 826 00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:46,520 Speaker 1: the driving and everything you say you have to do. 827 00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:49,600 Speaker 1: That's why I said at the beginning. You already know. 828 00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:51,839 Speaker 1: I mean, look at the facts. You said. He won't 829 00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:54,120 Speaker 1: come and see you, but he will fly to Denver 830 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:58,279 Speaker 1: to see his brother. He doesn't take you out. You know, 831 00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,759 Speaker 1: you guys are always at home or cooking or your 832 00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:04,360 Speaker 1: order out. Clearly he's hiding something or he wants to 833 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:09,200 Speaker 1: hide you, because whether you know you're about to catch 834 00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:11,720 Speaker 1: a flight or not, he's still not going to change 835 00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:14,359 Speaker 1: and put you first in your life, in his life, 836 00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:23,439 Speaker 1: and that's what you want. Steve. I'm confused, I really am. 837 00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:28,880 Speaker 1: I don't understand. I mean, this letter is pretty complete 838 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:33,640 Speaker 1: and thorough. So I'm about to catch another flight, so 839 00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:37,120 Speaker 1: you're just gonna throw another ticket out the window. Let 840 00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:39,240 Speaker 1: me tell you what's wrong here. You're thirty years old, 841 00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,360 Speaker 1: you're the longest relationship with a doctor. You got a 842 00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:44,800 Speaker 1: good job on top of all the traveling with your job. 843 00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:48,400 Speaker 1: You try to see your man at least twice a month. 844 00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:53,000 Speaker 1: Here's the key to this whole letter. I try to 845 00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:57,960 Speaker 1: see my man at least twice a month. Let me 846 00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:02,600 Speaker 1: ask you a question, when do he try to see you? See? 847 00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:05,840 Speaker 1: I hear you talking. I try to see my man 848 00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:10,000 Speaker 1: at least twice a month. When does he try to 849 00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:15,320 Speaker 1: see you. That's the problem with this letter. When we met, 850 00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:17,880 Speaker 1: he was finishing up his residency, took a job in 851 00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:21,080 Speaker 1: a rural area so he could get his school loans forgiving. 852 00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:25,560 Speaker 1: It's been a struggle to maintain a relationship because he's 853 00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,520 Speaker 1: not making a lot of money right now. No, that's 854 00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:31,960 Speaker 1: not to be school. You don't need a lot of 855 00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:36,640 Speaker 1: money to maintain a relationship. There are a lot of 856 00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,280 Speaker 1: people who don't make a lot of money that maintain 857 00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:43,960 Speaker 1: wonderful relationship. My mom and daddy did. It's people to 858 00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:47,120 Speaker 1: date that don't make a lot of money. You ain't 859 00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:49,240 Speaker 1: got to be a doctor or high exact at a 860 00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:52,840 Speaker 1: retail agency to maintain a relationship. And you don't need 861 00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:57,040 Speaker 1: money to maintain one. Eat. You do need money to date, 862 00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,680 Speaker 1: surprise each other and stuff like that, but you don't 863 00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:02,960 Speaker 1: need one to make You don't need a lot of 864 00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:08,480 Speaker 1: money to maintain it. I'm the supportive girlfriend. It flies 865 00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:10,520 Speaker 1: in and out, and I try to be understanding when 866 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,720 Speaker 1: he's too tired from work to hang out with me. Now, 867 00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:16,440 Speaker 1: that's gonna be a question a little bit later on. 868 00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 1: Is he too tired to hang out with you, or 869 00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:25,440 Speaker 1: is that what he's telling you? In this small town, 870 00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:28,480 Speaker 1: I put forth a lot of effort to keep things 871 00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:30,760 Speaker 1: going strong, but I don't see any effort from him. 872 00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:33,920 Speaker 1: The reason you don't see none, it's because it ain't none. 873 00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:38,120 Speaker 1: It ain't nothing for you to see. See. You wrote 874 00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:40,920 Speaker 1: this letter so thorough that you don't even have an 875 00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:44,600 Speaker 1: out for yourself. He has asked me several times to 876 00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,800 Speaker 1: live with him in that little small town, but it 877 00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:49,440 Speaker 1: would be impossible for me to work because I have 878 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:51,720 Speaker 1: to drive almost an hour back and forth to the 879 00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:55,920 Speaker 1: airport to another city. And Shirley pointed this out. He 880 00:59:56,160 --> 01:00:01,720 Speaker 1: know that he know you can't. That's why he dangled 881 01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:05,000 Speaker 1: a bait. I want you to live with me. I'm 882 01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:07,160 Speaker 1: in love with him, but I'm starting to wonder if 883 01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:12,600 Speaker 1: he loves me. That's caused your intuition. Hang on, Steve, 884 01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:14,960 Speaker 1: I got to wonder for man love you. I'm gonna 885 01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:17,840 Speaker 1: tell you that right now. All right, hang on, we'll 886 01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:20,040 Speaker 1: have part two of your response coming up at twenty 887 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:24,080 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter subject. I'm 888 01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:26,760 Speaker 1: about to catch another flight. We'll get back into it 889 01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:32,480 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, Come on, 890 01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:35,760 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. And the subject is I'm 891 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:39,400 Speaker 1: about to catch another flight apple bottom make you want 892 01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:46,520 Speaker 1: to buy? Yeah, I'm sorry anyway. It started this young 893 01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:49,080 Speaker 1: girl and wrote this letter. She's got a great job, 894 01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:53,800 Speaker 1: travels as a distributed for some retail company. Thirty years old. 895 01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:58,720 Speaker 1: He's dating this man who's a doctor. That sounds good. 896 01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:02,360 Speaker 1: Don When we all met, they was finishing up his residence. 897 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,240 Speaker 1: He took a job in a rule area so he 898 01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:08,640 Speaker 1: could get a school loan forgiveness a small town, and 899 01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:12,000 Speaker 1: he's not making a lot of money right now. She says, 900 01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,840 Speaker 1: it's been a struggle to maintain the relationship because he's 901 01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:17,959 Speaker 1: not making a lot of money right now. It ain't hard. 902 01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:21,080 Speaker 1: People have relationships all the time that don't have a 903 01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,000 Speaker 1: lot of money. See you said he's not making a 904 01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:25,960 Speaker 1: lot of money right now. You don't need a lot 905 01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:31,200 Speaker 1: of money to maintain relationship. You don't because he's not 906 01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,680 Speaker 1: making a lot of money. Now. I'm the supportive girlfriend. 907 01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,360 Speaker 1: It flies in and out. I try to be understanding 908 01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:38,680 Speaker 1: when he's too tired from work to hang out with me, 909 01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:42,400 Speaker 1: he's too tired from work to hang out with you. 910 01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:46,840 Speaker 1: In a small town. That's gonna cut back to hunt 911 01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:49,280 Speaker 1: you in this letter, and I'll tell you why. I 912 01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,640 Speaker 1: put forth a lot of effort to keep things going, 913 01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:54,640 Speaker 1: but I don't see any effort from him. Ladies, if 914 01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:57,520 Speaker 1: you don't see an effort, because that's ain't listen to me. 915 01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:00,520 Speaker 1: If you can't see an effort, it's because there's nothing 916 01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:05,160 Speaker 1: for you to see. You all are really great perceptive people, 917 01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:07,360 Speaker 1: So if you don't see something, it's because it ain't there. 918 01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:10,480 Speaker 1: He has asked me several times to live with him 919 01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:13,280 Speaker 1: in that little small town, but it would be impossible 920 01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:14,840 Speaker 1: for me to get to work because I have to 921 01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:16,800 Speaker 1: drive an hour back and forth to the airport in 922 01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:20,840 Speaker 1: another city. And like Shirley pointed out, and I'm telling you, 923 01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,920 Speaker 1: he know that, he knows you can't do that. That's 924 01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:27,040 Speaker 1: why he asked you. That's dangling the character. I'm in 925 01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:28,960 Speaker 1: love with him, but I'm starting to wonder if he 926 01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:32,240 Speaker 1: loves me. Well, you've been you're starting to wonder that 927 01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:34,920 Speaker 1: for a reason. It's cause intuition. You should pay attention 928 01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:38,320 Speaker 1: to that. I have met most of his co workers 929 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:42,480 Speaker 1: that are mostly female, and all beautiful women. He calls 930 01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:45,480 Speaker 1: me insecure if I ask him anything about his co workers, 931 01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:50,120 Speaker 1: that's a deflection device. Oh so you are secure. He 932 01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:53,040 Speaker 1: don't answer the question about the women. He just tell 933 01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:56,320 Speaker 1: you you are insecure because he can't answer these questions 934 01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:59,520 Speaker 1: because the questions you ask it, they got answers to him. 935 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,640 Speaker 1: See it ain't no, that ain't nothing. It ain't nothing. 936 01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,520 Speaker 1: That ain't nothing. He ain't nothing. No, no, no, he 937 01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:09,920 Speaker 1: got answers to the east question. That's why he has 938 01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:13,280 Speaker 1: to de place. When I visited him, we are the 939 01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:16,520 Speaker 1: food or our cook I've never been out or invited 940 01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:18,520 Speaker 1: to anything he has for work. Because this is a 941 01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:25,400 Speaker 1: small town. They can't see you, girl, word gonna get back. 942 01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:28,600 Speaker 1: He recently had an award ceremony. I told him I 943 01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:30,560 Speaker 1: love to go, but he said he didn't think he'd 944 01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:34,640 Speaker 1: be able to go because of his work. Scharacule, lady 945 01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:37,480 Speaker 1: in a small town, How the hell they're gonna arrange 946 01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:40,800 Speaker 1: an awards ceremony and the people that the award ain't 947 01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:49,480 Speaker 1: allowed to come? What small ass town would do that? Girl? Please, 948 01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:54,000 Speaker 1: He didn't think he hadn't been go because of his work. Character. 949 01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:56,920 Speaker 1: Then at the last minute he went. He was going 950 01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:02,800 Speaker 1: the whole time. It's just some woman or women co 951 01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:06,240 Speaker 1: workers was gonna be there to sit at the table 952 01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:10,800 Speaker 1: he had and applaud for him and then congratulate him 953 01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:16,640 Speaker 1: after the awards show. That's why he told you he 954 01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:19,760 Speaker 1: wasn't going. Then at the last minute he changed his mind. 955 01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:22,200 Speaker 1: What happened to the work schedule? I thought he thought 956 01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:29,040 Speaker 1: he couldn't go. It's all suspect to me in his 957 01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,520 Speaker 1: bad time. He can't come see me, but he can 958 01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,360 Speaker 1: fly to Dinver to hang out with his brother. A 959 01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:38,040 Speaker 1: man do what he wanted. He want to go see 960 01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:40,360 Speaker 1: his brother. He ain't spending no money to go see 961 01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:44,080 Speaker 1: you because you're coming twice a month, and that's all 962 01:04:44,160 --> 01:04:46,880 Speaker 1: he needed. Twice a month, and all them other days 963 01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:49,800 Speaker 1: in between. One of them beautiful women co workers is 964 01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:54,520 Speaker 1: tightening him money. I'm about to catch another flight and 965 01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:57,720 Speaker 1: pop up on him for what you finished getting surprised 966 01:04:57,760 --> 01:05:01,200 Speaker 1: in your life. Well see, you're fit to find out 967 01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:04,200 Speaker 1: the answer to the questions that he won't ask because 968 01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:07,160 Speaker 1: he gonna have the Should I demand some answers or 969 01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:09,560 Speaker 1: just give it a little more time? Well let me 970 01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,640 Speaker 1: ask you. When you say get it a little more time? 971 01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:15,600 Speaker 1: You want to give it a little more time? For 972 01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:19,720 Speaker 1: for because all you're gonna get in some more time 973 01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:23,200 Speaker 1: with yourself to more. You're gonna get some more months 974 01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:26,200 Speaker 1: of flying in twice a month to keep your relationship working. 975 01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:28,480 Speaker 1: And he ain't doing nothing to make it work. You 976 01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:32,800 Speaker 1: and this by yourself. But you fine though, to be 977 01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,720 Speaker 1: coming through twice a month, right, all I gotta do 978 01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:38,440 Speaker 1: its work my schedule around the time he comes, because 979 01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:41,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell this girls that I'm going to Denver 980 01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,360 Speaker 1: to see my brother this weekend, because they know that's 981 01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:46,800 Speaker 1: what I do. And then when you come, I ain't 982 01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:49,760 Speaker 1: taking you out no where. We're gonna order in and cook. 983 01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:52,800 Speaker 1: See that way they don't. Don't nobody see me out 984 01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:55,200 Speaker 1: with you and go back to her and tell her 985 01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:58,040 Speaker 1: that I was out with you this weekend. But clearly 986 01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:00,360 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be in Denver with my brother, see 987 01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:03,360 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's why y'all stay in and all 988 01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:05,800 Speaker 1: all the time he cook, because he posted to be 989 01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:12,920 Speaker 1: in time. He posted being devil with his brother. And 990 01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:15,160 Speaker 1: then when he tells you that he going to Denver 991 01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:18,160 Speaker 1: to see his brother, that ain't way he coming, or 992 01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:20,280 Speaker 1: he could go to devil for somebody else on that 993 01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:26,280 Speaker 1: plane to them. Oh, Steve Hark, how do I know 994 01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:34,680 Speaker 1: this so elegantly? Why we out of time? Now? Look 995 01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:40,760 Speaker 1: at the time. Please onto Dave Letter on Instagram at 996 01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:46,200 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM and check out the now coming up next, 997 01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:49,880 Speaker 1: It is Junior and Sports Talk right now. I'm sitting 998 01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:56,720 Speaker 1: here waiting on you. You're listening show. It is time 999 01:06:56,760 --> 01:07:00,439 Speaker 1: now for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Junior? All, Tommy, 1000 01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,360 Speaker 1: tell them where we're gonna be atter April first time 1001 01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:06,000 Speaker 1: and that's all. Then let them know Texas trust. Okay, 1002 01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:08,280 Speaker 1: I'm telling how we were gonna roll righting the pair 1003 01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:12,480 Speaker 1: calm yesterday. We're gonna roll up in the doing that 1004 01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:15,880 Speaker 1: because we feel to kill him dog, because we can 1005 01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:23,560 Speaker 1: work you going in as it dead man, Here we go, Man, 1006 01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:26,480 Speaker 1: Le's get some sports news man. Cam Newton is going 1007 01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:30,960 Speaker 1: to throw at Arburs Pro Day. He's he's motivated. He 1008 01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:32,560 Speaker 1: going back to the pro day. He won't back in 1009 01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:34,880 Speaker 1: the league. He said, tell me how these randoms keep 1010 01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:37,400 Speaker 1: getting these jobs. But that's the right. He gonna prove wrong. 1011 01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,080 Speaker 1: I said, okay, Cam, So he gonna go down there 1012 01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:43,200 Speaker 1: throw an Albue Pro Day. Go ahead. I'm rooting for him. 1013 01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:46,640 Speaker 1: I'm really yeah, we're rooting for him. Man. Also, Man, tonight, Man, 1014 01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:48,920 Speaker 1: it's possible that John m Rant could play the night 1015 01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:51,760 Speaker 1: against the Houston Rockets. You can get back on this court. 1016 01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:54,800 Speaker 1: I know, I know he probably dropped fifty on the Rockets. 1017 01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 1: I mean, we may get straighted. That's what we do. 1018 01:07:57,480 --> 01:08:01,400 Speaker 1: We let everybody's go on us. It's just that's all 1019 01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:04,720 Speaker 1: we can. We put a seatbelt on his daddy though, 1020 01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:06,960 Speaker 1: and just sit him down and lock him in his 1021 01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:09,960 Speaker 1: chair where you know, uh, you know John Muran, Man, 1022 01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:11,760 Speaker 1: he did go he did go to counseling. He was 1023 01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:13,720 Speaker 1: down in Florida, it's where he was and did go 1024 01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:16,200 Speaker 1: to counseling. And you know, he came back to the 1025 01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:18,960 Speaker 1: facility and Dylan Brooks said he came and apologize to 1026 01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:23,400 Speaker 1: each player individually. So you know you yeah, that's where 1027 01:08:23,439 --> 01:08:26,880 Speaker 1: it is. Man, that's mature, you know. So I'm rooting 1028 01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:28,880 Speaker 1: for him. You know, I would see him get back 1029 01:08:28,880 --> 01:08:30,680 Speaker 1: out there because he's a talent. You got to see 1030 01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:35,040 Speaker 1: his brother players. Yeah, that boy can ball. That's what 1031 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:44,080 Speaker 1: you can't take that fun fly. I know, man, there's 1032 01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:47,519 Speaker 1: another interesting story I found out, man, that magic Johnson. Man, 1033 01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:51,240 Speaker 1: your partner Magic Johnson has joined a group bidding to 1034 01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:54,280 Speaker 1: buy the Washington Command This man, Magic gonna be in everything. 1035 01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:58,920 Speaker 1: Talk go to Starbucks. He all went out every throwing 1036 01:08:58,960 --> 01:09:03,640 Speaker 1: out all that is big. Also, man, sweet sixteen for 1037 01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:05,960 Speaker 1: the women to set. You know, we lost another number 1038 01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:08,760 Speaker 1: one the other day. Miami took down Indiana. That's two 1039 01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:11,160 Speaker 1: number ones that didn't make it into the Sweet sixteen. 1040 01:09:11,680 --> 01:09:14,960 Speaker 1: That's Stanford and Indiana. But you know, man, this is 1041 01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:19,599 Speaker 1: gonna be some good games. South Carolina. Yeah, them girls, Mimi, 1042 01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:25,160 Speaker 1: the girls last night, boy girl from Miami. Woman anna 1043 01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:28,120 Speaker 1: sit down when they get up there at Carolina. It's 1044 01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:31,120 Speaker 1: gonna be some games. Though. You got South Carolina, UCLA, 1045 01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:34,519 Speaker 1: then you got number one Notre Dame in Maryland. Then 1046 01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:38,160 Speaker 1: you got Old Miss in Louisville. Then we got Colorado 1047 01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:43,599 Speaker 1: on Iowa, then Miami and Villanova. Game goodness, whoa girl, 1048 01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:48,559 Speaker 1: But I'm watching women's basketball and I realized that all 1049 01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:57,840 Speaker 1: different white girls can beat me. That's depressed. Coming up 1050 01:09:57,880 --> 01:10:01,160 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, Steve, a female left 1051 01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:04,840 Speaker 1: a voicemail with the specific request for you. We'll find 1052 01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:07,960 Speaker 1: out what that's all about right after this. You're listening 1053 01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:13,439 Speaker 1: to try to give some advice to these men on 1054 01:10:13,760 --> 01:10:16,479 Speaker 1: how to be men, how to lead, and how to 1055 01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:20,400 Speaker 1: take care and provide for your family. Like that's a 1056 01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:23,280 Speaker 1: natural trait that I think that all men should have, 1057 01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,560 Speaker 1: and I know us women find that very very attractive. 1058 01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:29,479 Speaker 1: A lot of times everyone's always talking to women about 1059 01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:31,720 Speaker 1: what they should do and how they should be submissive. 1060 01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:34,400 Speaker 1: But the truth of the matter is it's the man 1061 01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,800 Speaker 1: leads properly. All of those things come natural to a woman. 1062 01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:40,479 Speaker 1: So I think there should be more advice getting to 1063 01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:42,599 Speaker 1: the men on how to be a stand up guy, 1064 01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:45,040 Speaker 1: how to be a faithful guy, you know, and so 1065 01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:49,479 Speaker 1: that women aren't all over the place trying to figure 1066 01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:52,040 Speaker 1: it out. Because I love your book Think like a 1067 01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:54,040 Speaker 1: man at like a woman, But the truth of the 1068 01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:56,000 Speaker 1: matter is we don't think like men. I don't know 1069 01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:58,560 Speaker 1: what men are thinking because I'm not a man. So 1070 01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:01,599 Speaker 1: I just want men to just say what they're thinking 1071 01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:05,080 Speaker 1: to do write thy women to put more families back together, 1072 01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:08,680 Speaker 1: because we don't. We don't need advice on how to 1073 01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:12,080 Speaker 1: be submissive. We're submissive when the man can properly lead. 1074 01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:15,479 Speaker 1: So let's give these men advice or how to properly 1075 01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:20,080 Speaker 1: lead nurture, care for, and attend to their women. All right, 1076 01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:23,240 Speaker 1: thank you. Well, you know she said she want to 1077 01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:26,880 Speaker 1: know what a man thinking. Did she say that, Yeah, 1078 01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:31,120 Speaker 1: she does, But she also said, we don't know what mennything. 1079 01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:39,799 Speaker 1: That's really I agree with what she's saying. I've often 1080 01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:42,200 Speaker 1: tried to think of a way to best score about 1081 01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:44,599 Speaker 1: this because it's not a book. It's not a book 1082 01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:48,280 Speaker 1: me and don't read enough, so it's not a book, 1083 01:11:49,280 --> 01:11:55,080 Speaker 1: but more like a public form seminar maybe, you know, 1084 01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:59,080 Speaker 1: something like that just was all men only, I don't know. 1085 01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:01,240 Speaker 1: You know, it's a lot of good brothers out there, 1086 01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:03,760 Speaker 1: old man, it really is. And I could get a 1087 01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:06,000 Speaker 1: lot of help with this because it ain't just me. 1088 01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:09,080 Speaker 1: It's a whole lot of men that's taking care of 1089 01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:12,320 Speaker 1: their families. It's a whole lot of men that's trying 1090 01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:14,880 Speaker 1: to do it right, man, And I applaud them too, 1091 01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:17,680 Speaker 1: So it ain't just me. I know all of the 1092 01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:20,320 Speaker 1: cats right there. I just go, I'm famous. That's the 1093 01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:25,160 Speaker 1: only different difference between the difference, the only difference between 1094 01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:27,560 Speaker 1: me and the average man and I'm on TV. And 1095 01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:32,560 Speaker 1: they ain't other than that, we the same though, we 1096 01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:38,439 Speaker 1: the same and so I'll take that in consideration. Oh 1097 01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:43,439 Speaker 1: right now, all right, okay, well, I'm sure she'll be 1098 01:12:43,520 --> 01:12:46,920 Speaker 1: happy to hear that. Now. See this came from Steve 1099 01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:51,400 Speaker 1: RVFM r D and Columbia, South Carolina. Says, Hey, Stephen Crewe, 1100 01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:54,519 Speaker 1: I walked in on my wife of three years kissing 1101 01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:58,160 Speaker 1: my uncle. She said it was just a kiss, and 1102 01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:01,400 Speaker 1: it only happened because they were There's no telling what 1103 01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:03,720 Speaker 1: might have happened if I didn't walk in when I did. 1104 01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:13,760 Speaker 1: Should I divorce her? God Charles and Uncle Charles. As 1105 01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:20,160 Speaker 1: we got to I'm stuck. I'm sucker punching Uncle Charles 1106 01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:25,400 Speaker 1: on site. He getting hit, he get he gett't sucker 1107 01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:31,639 Speaker 1: punch for kissing his wife. Yeah, my wife, And then 1108 01:13:31,680 --> 01:13:33,920 Speaker 1: you can with Uncle Charles. And I'm gonna tell you 1109 01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:35,240 Speaker 1: right here, you need to go over there and take 1110 01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:39,439 Speaker 1: a look at on charles house because he still got 1111 01:13:39,880 --> 01:13:44,040 Speaker 1: uh fish and chicken grease in the coffee cat on 1112 01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:48,600 Speaker 1: his stove. And that's where you fit the steak. Go 1113 01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:52,559 Speaker 1: right on over there with uncles like him so much. 1114 01:13:54,040 --> 01:13:56,519 Speaker 1: And he just got that bed that raised up and 1115 01:13:56,680 --> 01:14:00,840 Speaker 1: let down him. He'd been save it up for that. 1116 01:14:00,960 --> 01:14:07,200 Speaker 1: He just got that bed fit to get that, you 1117 01:14:07,320 --> 01:14:09,920 Speaker 1: fit to find out the thing. Yeah, yeah you yeah, 1118 01:14:09,960 --> 01:14:14,559 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to bathe all uncle child times because 1119 01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:20,080 Speaker 1: child got a foul problem. You don't know that, Charles. 1120 01:14:20,840 --> 01:14:23,760 Speaker 1: All right? All that, all right, we're moving on to 1121 01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:26,920 Speaker 1: coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have 1122 01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:31,040 Speaker 1: more of this crazy show right after this. You're listening, 1123 01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:38,280 Speaker 1: all right. So this question is from baller Alert. Guys, 1124 01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:41,280 Speaker 1: if you could hear what someone is thinking for one day, 1125 01:14:42,320 --> 01:14:47,000 Speaker 1: who would you choose? Just one person, Steve, I'll let 1126 01:14:47,080 --> 01:14:49,439 Speaker 1: you go last, Junior. I'd like to know what my 1127 01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:51,439 Speaker 1: wife thinking. That's what I would want to know for 1128 01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:54,880 Speaker 1: a day. That's that's what I need to know. Huh, 1129 01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:59,560 Speaker 1: just her any particular reason. Oh bunch of them. I 1130 01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:01,360 Speaker 1: can't even get the answers to. That's why I need 1131 01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:08,280 Speaker 1: to know figure out what she's thinking. Yeah, we're complicated, 1132 01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:13,920 Speaker 1: we are, Tommy. I already know my wife thinking already. 1133 01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:18,400 Speaker 1: I ain't got to figure that out. Yeah, here here's 1134 01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:20,519 Speaker 1: worth the fans he is again? Come on, what what 1135 01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:23,200 Speaker 1: what is he doing? Now? I want something else? Yeah, 1136 01:15:23,400 --> 01:15:25,719 Speaker 1: I already know what's running through her head. I already 1137 01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,280 Speaker 1: know he wanted me to come here and cook somebody 1138 01:15:27,320 --> 01:15:30,000 Speaker 1: his ass. Steve, here we go with him again. It's 1139 01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:33,000 Speaker 1: all about him. N't ask me if I wanted him 1140 01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:34,840 Speaker 1: to cook me a damn thing. I know what my 1141 01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:38,559 Speaker 1: wife thinking over there. I ain't got to say nothing. Yeah, Steve, 1142 01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:41,320 Speaker 1: I want to think. I want to know what I 1143 01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:43,720 Speaker 1: heard thinking. Make sure I got a job tomorrow. That's 1144 01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:45,920 Speaker 1: what I want. I want to know what, head lady, 1145 01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:48,680 Speaker 1: I heart is. I'm working next week. That's all I 1146 01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:51,000 Speaker 1: need is when I sit down next week with them 1147 01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:55,880 Speaker 1: people that own family, few there know exactly what they're thinking. 1148 01:15:55,960 --> 01:16:00,360 Speaker 1: I just need number that guy in the head. I 1149 01:16:00,479 --> 01:16:03,679 Speaker 1: just knew that nobody was had. That's the noball one. 1150 01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:07,640 Speaker 1: All right, we'll have more, Thank you, guys. We'll have 1151 01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:10,200 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up in 1152 01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:12,400 Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after we'll play a round of would 1153 01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:18,280 Speaker 1: you rather? Right after this, you're listening morning show? All right, 1154 01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:21,639 Speaker 1: it is time now for a round of would you rather? Guys? 1155 01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:25,400 Speaker 1: Would you rather get a full body waxing, your whole 1156 01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,639 Speaker 1: body waxed, or would you rather wear a gold grill 1157 01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,559 Speaker 1: in your in your mouth just for a month? Full 1158 01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:34,439 Speaker 1: body wax or a gold grill for a month. I 1159 01:16:34,560 --> 01:16:37,320 Speaker 1: need I need my facial hair. I need my facial 1160 01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:40,000 Speaker 1: I gotta get this grill. We're gonna go on put 1161 01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:41,880 Speaker 1: up little wraps on together, three of us because I 1162 01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:43,280 Speaker 1: know we all have been to put the grill on. 1163 01:16:43,439 --> 01:16:49,080 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, there's no way to hit this. Must my 1164 01:16:49,200 --> 01:16:54,760 Speaker 1: whole career, everything going to take this mustade pubic half 1165 01:16:55,120 --> 01:17:02,320 Speaker 1: signature signature. Take the pubic hat too. You wax my 1166 01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:07,400 Speaker 1: butt now you can snatch that tape whatever that is, 1167 01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:14,960 Speaker 1: put it in and see what happened. Hold still, take me, 1168 01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:19,960 Speaker 1: take me slow? All right? All right? Um? Would you 1169 01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:23,559 Speaker 1: rather tattoos your wife's name on your neck? Or would 1170 01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:33,000 Speaker 1: you rather pierce your bottom lip? This? No, we ain't 1171 01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:40,599 Speaker 1: good answer, pis my father. You're gonna have to get 1172 01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:46,639 Speaker 1: a tie holding, that's what's going or time holding? Yeah, 1173 01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:58,280 Speaker 1: because the rain ain't gonna fit. Yeah, you GWe holding? Right? Okay? 1174 01:17:59,080 --> 01:18:02,800 Speaker 1: Or whatnot? I tattoo your name, wife's name on your neck, 1175 01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:07,760 Speaker 1: on your neck? This is that much thinking? Nah? I 1176 01:18:07,760 --> 01:18:10,200 Speaker 1: don't because we were for life. You can do it. 1177 01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:14,600 Speaker 1: You can do it. I couldn't tell you what the hesitation? 1178 01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:20,120 Speaker 1: All right enough for me, Steve, I'm not doing nothing 1179 01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:26,439 Speaker 1: else with my damn nick. I'm not matter of fact, 1180 01:18:26,479 --> 01:18:31,240 Speaker 1: I recommize get that hoop put in your neck. You 1181 01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:33,559 Speaker 1: don't need nobody messing around with your nick at all. 1182 01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:37,880 Speaker 1: Would you rather have sex on a bed of hay 1183 01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:40,599 Speaker 1: or would you rather have sex in a mud pit? 1184 01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:48,800 Speaker 1: Which one? What? What? What you were mumbling? What you 1185 01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:52,400 Speaker 1: realize I'm gonna get you. I'm gonna get in this. 1186 01:18:52,720 --> 01:18:54,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get in this mud. I'm not that hay 1187 01:18:54,920 --> 01:18:56,920 Speaker 1: gonna stick everything. So I'm gonna tell you right now 1188 01:18:57,200 --> 01:19:00,599 Speaker 1: that ain't what you want to do. Really, Yeah, get 1189 01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:06,639 Speaker 1: your hands in that, hey, dog? So what's caused? Boy? 1190 01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:12,439 Speaker 1: You better than laying on a bed? Hey, you're not 1191 01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:17,280 Speaker 1: much sticking that il Okay? Okay? So you just want 1192 01:19:17,400 --> 01:19:23,439 Speaker 1: mud everywhere? Well, I don't want it. He's about a 1193 01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:26,760 Speaker 1: stupid something. You better get this, hey, and take the 1194 01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:37,240 Speaker 1: needles in your ass. Day's round rather coming up next 1195 01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:39,360 Speaker 1: to our last break of the day, and of course 1196 01:19:39,400 --> 01:19:41,880 Speaker 1: we'll have some closing remarks from the one and only 1197 01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:48,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening, all right, guys? 1198 01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:52,439 Speaker 1: Here we are our last break of the day, and Steve, 1199 01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:55,439 Speaker 1: you had some closing We did a story earlier that 1200 01:19:55,600 --> 01:19:58,880 Speaker 1: we've been paying attention to. Uh, it happened back in 1201 01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:01,439 Speaker 1: November of last year. Year. We've been watching this case 1202 01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:04,200 Speaker 1: and hopes that justice is served for the death of 1203 01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:08,719 Speaker 1: shan Quella Robinson. Remember, shan Quella died while on vacation 1204 01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:12,040 Speaker 1: with six of her so called friends in Cobble, Mexico. 1205 01:20:12,920 --> 01:20:15,839 Speaker 1: Twenty six year old woman dejan A Jackson is reportedly 1206 01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:20,560 Speaker 1: wanted by Mexican authorities for Shanquela's murder, and now attorney's 1207 01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:24,200 Speaker 1: been Crump and Suanne Robinson have reached out to President 1208 01:20:24,320 --> 01:20:28,960 Speaker 1: Joe Biden to get dejan A extradited to Mexico. Now. 1209 01:20:29,040 --> 01:20:32,600 Speaker 1: According to the Charlotte Observer, Crump and Robinson sent a 1210 01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:36,280 Speaker 1: letter to the White House on March thirteenth to confirm 1211 01:20:36,640 --> 01:20:40,200 Speaker 1: dejan A Jackson as the suspect for shan Quella's murder 1212 01:20:40,400 --> 01:20:44,120 Speaker 1: and asked the US officials to act on appending extradition 1213 01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:48,880 Speaker 1: request to take over the case and prosecute dejan A 1214 01:20:49,080 --> 01:20:52,040 Speaker 1: Jackson here in the United States. So that's where we 1215 01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:54,599 Speaker 1: are with the case right now. You know, that's really 1216 01:20:54,720 --> 01:20:58,839 Speaker 1: crazy because you very rarely hear of an American cities 1217 01:20:59,320 --> 01:21:05,120 Speaker 1: being extradited to another country right now, I'm not sure 1218 01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:09,799 Speaker 1: if that's because and what crumping them is asking, biding 1219 01:21:09,840 --> 01:21:13,479 Speaker 1: them is to take up the charges, which could probably happen, 1220 01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:17,160 Speaker 1: but I thought it was I'm thinking it was, to 1221 01:21:17,280 --> 01:21:20,160 Speaker 1: my understanding, they want to get her extradited to Mexico 1222 01:21:20,560 --> 01:21:23,280 Speaker 1: so they can put charges on her, right since the 1223 01:21:23,400 --> 01:21:26,880 Speaker 1: murder happened, right because right now, ain't nobody got no 1224 01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:31,200 Speaker 1: charges old and until you get extradited to appear before 1225 01:21:31,479 --> 01:21:36,080 Speaker 1: a judiciary, you can't have charges. Now that puts us 1226 01:21:36,200 --> 01:21:41,280 Speaker 1: in a horrible position because these people went on vacation together. 1227 01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:45,360 Speaker 1: And I saw the video of the victim of Chanquila 1228 01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:49,160 Speaker 1: being beat up by this girl dejan Nae. I'm looking 1229 01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:53,639 Speaker 1: at the dude that video, this whole thing, yeah, supposed 1230 01:21:53,640 --> 01:21:57,479 Speaker 1: to be her friends. It just made me sick. Man. 1231 01:21:58,160 --> 01:22:01,280 Speaker 1: And then for these people to get on a plane 1232 01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:06,120 Speaker 1: and come back without her and tell her parents, family 1233 01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:09,200 Speaker 1: and friends they don't know what they left her that no, man, 1234 01:22:09,240 --> 01:22:11,559 Speaker 1: what do you mean you left? How to have? Who 1235 01:22:11,760 --> 01:22:16,760 Speaker 1: does that? And then I'm understanding somebody told me they 1236 01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:19,559 Speaker 1: they live in their best life back in Charlotte, because 1237 01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:22,759 Speaker 1: you know, they're just going around because nothing has happened. 1238 01:22:22,800 --> 01:22:27,679 Speaker 1: So they're free, free, and the girl is on tape 1239 01:22:27,720 --> 01:22:34,000 Speaker 1: beating the girl, yes, hardly any clothes on. Yeah, and 1240 01:22:34,160 --> 01:22:38,160 Speaker 1: so something has to happen here, man, So what what 1241 01:22:38,439 --> 01:22:42,400 Speaker 1: is Krunk wanting to happen? He wants Biden to take 1242 01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:45,720 Speaker 1: up Yeah, he wants The request was for the US 1243 01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:50,000 Speaker 1: officials to act on the pending extradition request to take 1244 01:22:50,160 --> 01:22:53,240 Speaker 1: over the case and then prosecute dejan A Jackson here 1245 01:22:53,360 --> 01:22:57,080 Speaker 1: in the United States. That's what they want if if 1246 01:22:57,160 --> 01:23:03,519 Speaker 1: they're wanting her extradited to Mexico, this Dejaney girl, it's 1247 01:23:03,600 --> 01:23:06,320 Speaker 1: so that the case can get started because right now 1248 01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:09,400 Speaker 1: if the don't nobody nobody's brought a case right now 1249 01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:13,000 Speaker 1: in the case, if you get her extradited to Mexico, 1250 01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:15,640 Speaker 1: they can start the case. I think what Trump, what 1251 01:23:15,880 --> 01:23:19,280 Speaker 1: Crump now is asking if Biden Hill would just take 1252 01:23:19,479 --> 01:23:23,840 Speaker 1: over the case so they can get the case balked here. 1253 01:23:24,880 --> 01:23:31,400 Speaker 1: But the case occurred, the crime occurred in Mexico, and 1254 01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:35,360 Speaker 1: that's out of United States jurisdiction, right out of the 1255 01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:39,639 Speaker 1: United States jurisdiction. But you had two Americans. The victim 1256 01:23:39,760 --> 01:23:43,400 Speaker 1: is an American, and the people that caused her death. 1257 01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:47,839 Speaker 1: Are Americans, and so I think to what Benjamin Crump's 1258 01:23:48,120 --> 01:23:50,439 Speaker 1: what they want is not for the administration. You know 1259 01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:52,760 Speaker 1: how sometimes they say, well, we didn't know about this case, 1260 01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:55,960 Speaker 1: we didn't have the information, so they don't intervene, they 1261 01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:59,840 Speaker 1: don't get involved enough. So I think this is smart 1262 01:24:00,400 --> 01:24:03,400 Speaker 1: what Attorney Benjamin Crumpington are doing to try to let 1263 01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:07,440 Speaker 1: the administration know what is going on and let and intervene. 1264 01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:11,080 Speaker 1: You have to intervene in this investigation so we can 1265 01:24:11,120 --> 01:24:15,880 Speaker 1: get charges frought against this This ain't right, yeah, because 1266 01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:18,400 Speaker 1: see the part, the part of this ain't right. You know, 1267 01:24:18,439 --> 01:24:22,240 Speaker 1: I watch enough forty eight hours forensic foules, all these hime. 1268 01:24:22,920 --> 01:24:27,439 Speaker 1: If you are in the car and an crime or 1269 01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:30,880 Speaker 1: a murder is committed and you are in the car, 1270 01:24:31,320 --> 01:24:38,240 Speaker 1: you are construed here in the United Lates. Right, Yeah, sure, 1271 01:24:38,680 --> 01:24:41,680 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. But see the guy sitting up 1272 01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:46,679 Speaker 1: that video on this whippen. See it. Obviously the beating 1273 01:24:46,760 --> 01:24:51,439 Speaker 1: didn't stop right there. That's something else happened for this 1274 01:24:51,640 --> 01:24:55,200 Speaker 1: girl to be gone from him. Well, he told her 1275 01:24:55,280 --> 01:24:57,160 Speaker 1: the one film in the video, Remember he told her 1276 01:24:57,200 --> 01:25:00,439 Speaker 1: parents that she died from alcohol points. Remember they said 1277 01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:03,200 Speaker 1: that at first, that's what they told her family. He 1278 01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:07,519 Speaker 1: said nothing. Man, let me tell you first. In America, 1279 01:25:07,560 --> 01:25:09,599 Speaker 1: this is what they're gonna do. They're gonna round. Everybody 1280 01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:11,679 Speaker 1: will put them in a separate rule. Now they don't 1281 01:25:11,720 --> 01:25:14,680 Speaker 1: had time to get their story together, of course, but 1282 01:25:14,880 --> 01:25:18,519 Speaker 1: now we're gonna do some Okay, now you are right 1283 01:25:18,640 --> 01:25:24,880 Speaker 1: now or conspirative, you are right now and and and accomplished. 1284 01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:29,320 Speaker 1: And then now you going down to now unless you 1285 01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:32,080 Speaker 1: tell us what really happened. That's all they're gonna do. 1286 01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:35,519 Speaker 1: And somebody gonna get this and the whole damn truth 1287 01:25:35,600 --> 01:25:39,080 Speaker 1: gonna come up. Do you think that it has something 1288 01:25:39,120 --> 01:25:41,680 Speaker 1: to do with race too? Because she's black? They're not 1289 01:25:42,000 --> 01:25:46,240 Speaker 1: on it like they would be. Um, you know black, don't. 1290 01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:49,479 Speaker 1: I don't want to say that, but we gotta. Yeah, 1291 01:25:50,000 --> 01:25:52,800 Speaker 1: but the truth. Yeah, I mean I kind of feel that, 1292 01:25:53,120 --> 01:25:56,479 Speaker 1: you know, they don't care about a black woman being right. Yeah, 1293 01:25:57,560 --> 01:26:00,519 Speaker 1: it makes you feel that way because this has gone 1294 01:26:00,560 --> 01:26:04,200 Speaker 1: on too long with nothing. Yeah, it's been November. Look, 1295 01:26:04,200 --> 01:26:06,400 Speaker 1: could this have possibly been about that you went over 1296 01:26:06,479 --> 01:26:08,679 Speaker 1: there and took somebody out? And y'all will be praying, 1297 01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:13,599 Speaker 1: what could this fight help? Hate? And bully and jealousy. Hey, 1298 01:26:13,840 --> 01:26:17,080 Speaker 1: that's it today, y'all. Listen. Talk to God today, y'all. 1299 01:26:17,680 --> 01:26:20,240 Speaker 1: He would absolutely love to hear it. And these days 1300 01:26:20,280 --> 01:26:23,240 Speaker 1: and times we need God more than ever former relationship 1301 01:26:23,320 --> 01:26:35,479 Speaker 1: with him because he needs y'all for all. Steve Harvey 1302 01:26:35,560 --> 01:26:39,000 Speaker 1: contests No purchase necessary, avoid where prohibited. 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