WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Love Bombs Away 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:00.840 Hey, welcome back. 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:04.800 Hope everybody had a wonderful holiday. Yes, if it wasn't 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:06.199 that great, I hope you just survived. 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:08.280 You know, you got through it at works. 0:00:08.320 --> 0:00:10.879 Sometimes that's all you can do. We got a brand 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:13.360 new second date for you today. It's coming up in 0:00:13.440 --> 0:00:15.840 this episode, but first a comment. What do you got? Yeah, 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:18.560 Xavier said, The funniest thing I saw today was that 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:22.240 Spotify recommended second date updates under the relationship advice section. 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:24.200 It did you officially made it? 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:29.120 I hope that Spotify realizes this isn't good advice. Yeah, 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:36.800 I say right, Clearly they didn't listen to the same Yeah, alright, 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:38.160 you ever. 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:39.239 Go judge for yourself? 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:40.440 Is this advice or not? 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.440 Your second date? Brand new episode starts right now. 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:47.360 The second date update Brooke. 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:50.040 Let me ask you something I've seen a quick yay 0:00:50.200 --> 0:00:54.600 nay or hay? Neighbor okay. Underrated quality in the dating 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:56.880 world today self awareness? 0:00:57.400 --> 0:01:00.880 Hey neighbor, Oh. 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:01.360 Why don't you wear the neighbor? 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:03.160 If you're talking to was it quite sure? 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:05.280 Why to respond that way? 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:07.600 It would be a yes, But it's more fun to say. 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:08.440 That, yeah it is. 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:12.640 You didn't need the sultry part of it. Though, like, neighbor, 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:15.280 is your wife out right? 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:15.440 Now? 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:22.120 Aware it's a little much, but yeah, self awareness. It 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:24.760 just it feels like kind of a rare thing nowadays. 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:27.360 Oh man. It doesn't exist on social media, that's for sure, 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:28.200 or on the show. 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:31.520 But one of our listeners, Leon has it because he 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:34.600 messaged us saying he believes he knows why he's being 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:40.440 blown off because he is an unabashed love bombers how 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:43.280 he rolls and maybe it's not for everybody, but it's 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:44.800 his preferred style. 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:46.880 So Leon, welcome to the show. 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:47.160 Man. 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:49.040 Hey, thanks for having me. 0:01:49.240 --> 0:01:51.200 Okay, are you proud of being a love bomber? 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:53.080 Yeah, definitely. 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:56.960 I mean, I just think it's my natural style. I 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:00.000 like going over the top for girls, and Okay. 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:03.240 If we're being honest with each other, I'm not getting 0:02:03.280 --> 0:02:06.120 a ton of matches out there, so the ones that 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:10.080 I am getting, I really want to go over the 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:11.880 top and really try to connect with them. 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:14.560 All right, Right, I'm excited to hear what he did. 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:18.000 Yeah, we'll get to the love bomb fest in just 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:18.520 a second. 0:02:18.520 --> 0:02:20.720 But tell us first about this lady that you met. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.000 What's her name? Where'd you meet her? 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:26.080 Her name is Angela and I just met her at 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:28.320 the grocery store the other day, and she. 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:29.239 Was so cute. 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:31.440 She had like auburn hair and green eyes. 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:34.840 She was really beautiful, interesting, but I worked up the 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:36.400 courage to ask her out. 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:41.160 Grocery store meetup is a love bomber's dream, right, what 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:44.280 do you mean? It's just like every rom com ever, 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:46.440 and love bombers love to live out the. 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:49.919 End up in my card, I think it is for 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:50.880 you exactly. 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.680 You're talking about a bag of flower I guess, yeah, 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:55.840 that is kind of romantic. 0:02:56.919 --> 0:02:59.400 It was actually a bag of avocados. 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:05.040 Wow, twenty four hours, I know, just drop like a 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:07.480 stack of hundreds in front of her, don't you do? 0:03:07.560 --> 0:03:09.320 You know what I mean? Bag of avocados You had 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:11.120 to squished before you found the perfect one. 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:15.239 Yeah, yeah, already you've put a lot of effort in 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:17.360 more than most memoirs this roman. 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:19.960 Let's get to the actual day. What did you do 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:20.720 when you met up? 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:25.280 Well, we just got coffee and wasn't that long either, 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:26.800 We only had like twenty minutes. 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:28.400 She you know, she's high class. 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:29.760 She has a really good job. 0:03:30.040 --> 0:03:31.520 I don't even understand her job. 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:32.800 She's clearly very smart. 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:34.040 How cool it is. 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:35.880 I have so many friends like that, where they probably 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:37.200 eight hundred times what they do. 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:38.480 And I'm like, I. 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:41.520 Have no idea, zero follow up questions. 0:03:41.640 --> 0:03:45.880 Yeah, cool, all right, that's nicer dating a smart lady. 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:46.800 Yeah. 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.640 In that time, I could just tell that we were vibing. 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.440 I was making her laugh. I don't know, she's like 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:54.320 sort of touching my hand a little bit. 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:56.200 That's good. 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:59.000 Wow, she touched your hand. That's really good, touching it 0:03:59.080 --> 0:03:59.920 or swatting it away. 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:03.280 You're basically like strangers at this point. 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:06.440 You've never even talked, which is why I think twenty 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:08.440 minutes is okay. It's almost like a pre date that 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:10.520 you you know, it's like a screener. 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:13.440 Yeah, yeah, well give us the big like highlight moment 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:14.480 from the coffee date. 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:17.599 I don't know. We were talking about how booth of 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:24.320 our therapists also need therapy, but we both were talking. 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:26.600 About how much we believe in therapy overall. 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:28.200 She's very fashionable. 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:32.000 We were talking about our outfits and at the end 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:34.279 I didn't try to kiss there, but there was like 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:37.600 a long hug, okay, like where she. 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:38.680 Was also holding you. 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.680 Yeah, this is where his love. 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:42.160 Bombing comes in. 0:04:44.200 --> 0:04:47.800 Yeah, and then I said I'd reach out and we 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:48.480 left it at that. 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:51.640 Okay, Okay, so it doesn't sound like you keep saying 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:54.159 you love you're like into love bombing. But all of 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:55.320 this sounds really normal. 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:56.840 Yeah, so I'm a little exaggerated. 0:04:57.400 --> 0:04:59.560 Well, I did do a few things afterwards. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.120 Okay, okay, okay, what'd you do? 0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:05.159 I don't know. Maybe she thought I overdid it, but 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:09.280 I'm not sorry. I posted the Instagram story of the 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:12.640 city skyline and I captioned it today felt different, and 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:13.600 I tagged her in it. 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:17.520 Oh do you think that's that bad? 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:20.400 He found her on instad and then tapped her and stuff. 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:22.640 Yeah, but he didn't post a picture of her that 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:23.680 she didn't know was taken. 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:27.880 I mean, that doesn't sound too bad. What was there more? 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:32.120 I also created a Spotify playlist titled US, and I 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:32.720 texted it. 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:35.920 There, No, this is like what my angsty self did 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:37.640 at sixteen for boys that I like. 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:39.719 Yeah, you can always come back from them being like 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:43.120 I met like us, like the USA United States. 0:05:43.240 --> 0:05:48.560 Yes, I'm not weird and clinging. Yeah, Okay, he's. 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:50.760 Not apologetic, chef. He's not going to make excuses. 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:51.640 No, and you should. 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.560 Yeah, I'm not sorry about it. I mean US means. 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:57.360 Us, okay, but there's no US yet when you've only 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.719 spent twenty minutes with someone, that's kind of the problem. 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:00.000 I think. 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:01.920 I think that a lot of people would appreciate what 0:06:01.960 --> 0:06:05.119 you're doing once you're in a relationship together. 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:07.320 Okash, Was that the end of the love bombing or 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:08.360 is there any more? 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:13.960 I mean afterwards, I've been calling her and I spent 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:15.640 multiple text messages. 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:18.320 I was just not getting any feedback from her. 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:19.360 That's not bad. 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:21.560 Tax collectors do that to me, and I don't think 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:22.520 that's love bombing. 0:06:22.600 --> 0:06:25.119 So I mean, I don't mean to be mean because 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:27.080 I think your heart is in the right place, but 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:29.279 you're kind of scaring her. Yeah. 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:31.800 Well, you know what we'll find out from her if 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:34.400 she picks up the phone, Yeah, with to call Angela 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:36.560 and figure out if he crossed her line. Yeah, because 0:06:36.600 --> 0:06:38.960 if she was reciprocating their love bombing back and forth, 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:39.960 it'd be a different story. 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:43.000 Yes, So, how long has it been since the coffee date? 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:45.520 That was two and a half weeks ago? 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:46.080 Oh? 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:48.000 I think the better question is how long has it 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:49.760 been since the last voicemail you left her? 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:51.080 Yeah? 0:06:51.240 --> 0:06:52.360 That was three hours ago. 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:55.359 Okay, no, it's the morning. 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:58.800 What the She's probably not up yet, that's why she 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:05.119 didn't answer. He had. Yes, this is a big misunderstanding. 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:07.000 I'm sure, Leon, and we're going to clear it all 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.040 up when we call Angela for your second date update 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:11.480 right after this hold. 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:14.320 On second date update. 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:19.280 If you're just joining us, our listener, Leon told us 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:22.160 that he is a self proclaimed love bomber. 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:24.720 Proudly yes. 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:28.720 What does that mean after his twenty minute coffee date 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:32.560 with Angela, Well, it means he left her multiple voicemails, 0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:37.800 countless text messages, and even created a Spotify playlist titled 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:43.040 us and he is not sorry about it, because when 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:46.040 Leon feels it's right, he is going to go for 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:49.920 it full force and drop a love nuke right on you. 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:58.440 Yeah, get nobody likes nuclear bombs. I mean that's a yeah. 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:03.440 Oppenheimer was kind of a But unfortunately we're not sure 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:08.200 Angela survived the love bombing because she stopped responding altogether. 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:12.440 It's not looking great, but in an exercise of optimism here, 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:15.440 there's always the chance she's building up her own romantic 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:18.240 arsenal to love bomb you right back. 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:21.320 Did you think about that, Leon, that is really optimistic. 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:24.040 Yeah, I did not that would be great. 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:25.280 Yeah. 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:26.880 I mean you got a lot to live up to, 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:28.160 so it could take some time. 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:31.560 Here's the question. If it was too much for her, 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:34.360 are you willing to tone it down until you're in 0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:37.040 a actual relationship with the other person. 0:08:38.400 --> 0:08:42.240 I yeah, yes, I don't know. 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:47.040 You're asking him to change himself, to change himself. I'm 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:48.439 just asking him to like. 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:51.680 To be a different person. No, you're not a different person. 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:55.160 You can still be romantic. It's just maybe little doses 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:56.480 instead of all at Wan. 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:58.559 Tone down love bombers possible. 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:02.640 Yeah, fortunately, it's just not very healthy. 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:04.679 You don't have to take advice from Brooks. She's been 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:11.120 stuck in a marriage for like fifteen Okay, don't try that. Okay, 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:13.360 let's just go. We're about to call her and brook 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:16.360 if she does answer, should we bring up the love 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:19.320 bombing to her? Because normally I would say no, let's 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:22.400 try to avoid this, but it's so out there, so frequent, 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:23.720 I don't think we can get around it. 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:28.240 After the playlist titled us, it's something we can't yeah, 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:31.760 shy away from. It'll feel better to know that he 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:35.920 is self aware of it. Honestly, like that. Yeah, that 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:38.120 might actually change her mind on the whole thing. 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:40.240 I'll just try not to use the term love bomb. 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:41.479 What are you going to say? 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:46.560 I know, well it's I'll just say some nice gestures. 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:49.080 We'll see how that goes on. Okay, let's see. Yeah, 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:51.200 we'll see if she even answers. I'm a dollar number 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:52.079 right now. Let's do this. 0:09:57.880 --> 0:09:58.160 Hello. 0:09:59.040 --> 0:09:59.880 Hi is this Angela? 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:03.680 This is Angela who's calling. 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:06.440 We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:06.840 the Morning. 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:07.400 Hi. 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:08.880 Good morning, Oh. 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:13.200 God, I don't want to Hi, good morning. 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:13.880 Yeah. 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:16.480 We are very excited to get to talk to you 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:19.040 because we've we've actually heard a lot about you. 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:21.880 Hey, okay, he's in a good mood. 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:22.800 Guy. 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:26.439 Hopefully this keeps going because one of our listeners has 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:27.199 asked us to. 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:29.120 Get a hold of you. A guy you went on 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:30.880 a date with named Leon. 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:33.439 Oh God, that guy. 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:38.400 Yeah, okay, he's a funny dude. 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:42.720 Huh, he's a lot I mean, he's a lot of something. 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:49.240 Okay, all right, okay, interesting character or what interesting is 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:50.679 a good word for it. 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:53.679 You are being very very polite, Angela. 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:57.120 That's great, that's great. I mean, honestly, I'm just glad 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:58.439 you're not scared. 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:01.840 Yeah, well, let's not start there with that word. 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:03.319 It worried, Yeah, it was. 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:07.000 We were curious. We were curious. 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:10.280 About what you think of Leon in the two and 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:12.800 a half weeks since your date ended, because we've heard 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:13.640 a lots happened. 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.640 I mean I pretty much knew. I mean we only 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:19.120 met for like maybe thirty minutes our date, but like 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:21.600 I mean, I knew during the date that it wasn't 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:22.800 gonna work out. 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:25.960 Oh oh no, Oh you didn't want to take it 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:28.839 any further then, huh. 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:30.360 No, And he has been calling and texting a lot. 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:34.600 Okay, don't take hints, by the way, totally, but if 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:36.839 you don't mind me asking, Angela, can you tell us 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:38.800 what happened like on the date. 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:42.800 I mean it honestly, it started like right away, like 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:44.800 you know, we were meeting for coffee, and he got 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:46.560 there early to get us a seat or whatever. So 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:48.440 like he saw me pull in, you know, I got 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:51.320 one of those money spots right in front, and I 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:52.839 get out, and you know, he gives me a hug 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:54.800 or whatever when I come in, and he was like, oh, 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:57.120 that's a nice car. How did you afford that? Are 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:58.000 you an only vans. 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:02.480 What Oh wow, that's what he said. 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:06.240 Was literally that was the greeting are you on only? 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:10.880 Like at one point I complimented his jacket and he said, 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:13.320 I don't usually dress up, but I have court today 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:17.440 and he's not a lawyer, and I was like, why 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:18.880 are you going to court? Because that's what you do 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:20.120 when somebody said that. 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:22.120 I know, and You're just like loaded question. 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:24.720 You know, you wouldn't tell me. He was like, no, 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:26.120 I don't want to talk about it. And I was like, 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:29.600 you said it, yes, yeah. 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:30.920 Why would you say the court part? 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:35.480 Yeah, things are to become a little more clear. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:38.640 Yeah, it was a lot well and then okay, well 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:39.800 and then like the kicker for. 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:42.360 Me was there more Okay, okay. 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:45.280 So we're roles in therapy, which was open about that, 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:48.280 and so like that's good. Yeah, Like he told me 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:52.560 that his therapist told him that he needs to stop 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:54.840 proposing to girls on dates. 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:56.400 Oh wow. 0:12:57.080 --> 0:13:00.840 As he's staring deeply into my eyes, so I start sweating, 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:03.360 like I'm thinking, oh my god, he's got a proposal. 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:07.080 Well, how is that a bad thing? 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:07.440 What? 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:09.480 Jeff? 0:13:09.520 --> 0:13:12.800 It feels the attraction to you so strongly that he 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:14.600 wants to get down on a knee. It's like a 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:16.719 Jeff is being sarcastic. 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:19.559 Okay, that's crazy. 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:22.400 Okay, well this is clearly a lot. But you know 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:27.680 what's not crazy is a man who loves love and 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:30.600 a man who loves listening on the other phone line 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:33.360 while we have a conversation on the radio. That man 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:35.160 would be Leon, and he is here. 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:35.520 At the moment. 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:44.960 Hi, Angela, Oh Hi, that's not too much of a surprise, honestly, 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:45.880 this guy. 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:49.120 Yeah, I mean it's uh, it's been a lot. The 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:52.679 texting and the calling is a lot. The Spotify playlist 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:55.000 labeled us now a lot. 0:13:57.120 --> 0:13:57.760 I get it. 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:01.760 See the only fans thing is weird. 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:05.320 Okay, the only fan It was a lot. 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:07.840 Yeah, Oh, he can explain it, he says, Okay, because 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:10.079 we need to go through these things that you said 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:13.160 to her on the date, Leon, They're they're pretty shocking. 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:15.320 I mean it was kind of a joke, but I 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:17.240 also just meant it as a compliment. I mean, the 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:19.440 girls in there are like gorgeous millionaires. 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:24.800 Okay, Leoni, Now, we don't want to admit to someone 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:26.800 we're dating that we spend a lot of time. 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:30.320 I read about it. 0:14:29.480 --> 0:14:32.680 You recovery. 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:33.920 He's so, he's so versed. 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:35.280 Did we jump to the court? 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:36.000 Yeah? 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:36.400 Yeah, date? 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:38.800 What was going on? You said you had court that day? 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:39.400 Yeah? 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:44.080 Doesn't everybody have court? I mean, like what I. 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:46.280 Were you a juror? 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:47.440 No? 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:48.360 But what. 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:52.720 Well doesn't you can't play the theoretical game. 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:54.600 And we don't have a lot of time here, But 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:57.000 I do have to ask you about your therapist warning 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:58.200 you not to propose. 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:00.400 To women like on first dates. Is this is this 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:01.400 a thing you do. 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:03.040 On first dates? 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:06.360 It's happened on like third dates. 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:10.600 Jesus, you guys are making me sound weird or something. 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:12.880 I just myself and I love love. 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:16.200 Okay, this is the point where we encourage you to 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:17.560 listen to your therapist. 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:20.680 Yeah, I am listening to my therapists, and I feel 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:23.360 like she would want me to ask you, didn't you 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:25.880 feel anything when we were together? Weren't you having a 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:26.400 good time? 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:30.760 I mean I felt nervous. I suppose. 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:35.400 That's totally fair. I told you that. I mean, of course, 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:38.080 you're entitled to feel however you want, because I'm feeling 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:38.920 however I want. 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:44.160 Okay, But why then does me not responding to text 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:46.560 and call not let you know how I feel. 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:49.160 I appreciate when people are direct with me. 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:50.160 That's all. 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:53.360 For some reason, I have a hard time believing that 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:58.160 that would actually work with you. But correctly, I'm saying 0:15:58.640 --> 0:15:59.320 not into it. 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:04.440 Yeah, because despite what Leon's therapist suggests, I'm going to 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:07.560 propose that the two of you go out on another date. 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:10.320 Well said, just one more man who can't understand what 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:11.120 you're trying to say. 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:15.320 Angela, I'm legally obligated, not a court way, but I 0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:17.480 am obligated to ask you if you'd like to see 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:19.320 each other one more time, and we'd pay for it. 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:21.040 Angela, it's up to you. 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:23.640 No, I don't want to do that. 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:29.920 I am absolutely shocked. I did not see this coming, Angela. 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:33.600 Leon did you hear her? 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:34.640 I heard her. 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:37.280 I respect it, and I don't want to dance with 0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:38.960 somebody who doesn't want to dance with me. 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:48.800 That was a lyric from his Spotify playlist. I hope 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:54.840 she got there. 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:53.920 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:54.920 It's funny. 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:57.960 The love bombing part actually had nothing to do with 0:16:58.040 --> 0:16:59.840 her saying no to another date. 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:03.520 I mean, he's starting just being rude. 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:06.480 She'd already said no in her mind before it to 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:09.119 be fair. But you know, if you're a romantic person 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:12.000 at heart and you like doing things for other people, 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:15.600 I think that's good. But on dates one through three 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:20.240 you really have to resist. And not just the proposing 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:22.480 like Leon loves to do, I mean on all of it. 0:17:22.560 --> 0:17:26.080 You gotta hold back because it's too much, too soon. Yeah, society, 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:27.000 it's you can't do it. 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:28.080 Oh, it's never been good. 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:32.600 It's exactly, and it's healthy. 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:35.639 You know, it's healthy to develop a connection with someone 0:17:35.720 --> 0:17:38.720 before you drop down on one knee and a coffee shop. 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:39.800 Yeah, that's good thought. 0:17:40.119 --> 0:17:43.160 Ironically, the people who enjoy love bombing the most are 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:47.399 the ones working on only fans and apparently he just 0:17:47.440 --> 0:17:51.760 read about it. 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:48.199 So. 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:51.960