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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome back.

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Speaker 2: Hope everybody had a wonderful holiday. Yes, if it wasn't

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Speaker 2: that great, I hope you just survived.

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Speaker 1: You know, you got through it at works.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes that's all you can do. We got a brand

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Speaker 2: new second date for you today. It's coming up in

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Speaker 2: this episode, but first a comment. What do you got? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Xavier said, The funniest thing I saw today was that

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Speaker 2: Spotify recommended second date updates under the relationship advice section.

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Speaker 1: It did you officially made it?

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Speaker 2: I hope that Spotify realizes this isn't good advice. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I say right, Clearly they didn't listen to the same Yeah, alright,

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Speaker 2: you ever.

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Speaker 1: Go judge for yourself?

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Speaker 2: Is this advice or not?

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Speaker 1: Your second date? Brand new episode starts right now.

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Speaker 3: The second date update Brooke.

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Speaker 4: Let me ask you something I've seen a quick yay

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Speaker 4: nay or hay? Neighbor okay. Underrated quality in the dating

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Speaker 4: world today self awareness?

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Speaker 2: Hey neighbor, Oh.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you wear the neighbor?

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Speaker 5: If you're talking to was it quite sure?

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Speaker 3: Why to respond that way?

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Speaker 2: It would be a yes, But it's more fun to say.

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Speaker 3: That, yeah it is.

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Speaker 1: You didn't need the sultry part of it. Though, like, neighbor,

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Speaker 1: is your wife out right?

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 4: Aware it's a little much, but yeah, self awareness. It

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Speaker 4: just it feels like kind of a rare thing nowadays.

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Speaker 2: Oh man. It doesn't exist on social media, that's for sure,

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Speaker 2: or on the show.

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Speaker 4: But one of our listeners, Leon has it because he

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Speaker 4: messaged us saying he believes he knows why he's being

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Speaker 4: blown off because he is an unabashed love bombers how

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Speaker 4: he rolls and maybe it's not for everybody, but it's

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Speaker 4: his preferred style.

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Speaker 1: So Leon, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 5: Hey, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, are you proud of being a love bomber?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I just think it's my natural style. I

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Speaker 8: like going over the top for girls, and Okay.

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Speaker 6: If we're being honest with each other, I'm not getting

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Speaker 6: a ton of matches out there, so the ones that

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Speaker 6: I am getting, I really want to go over the

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Speaker 6: top and really try to connect with them.

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Speaker 2: All right, Right, I'm excited to hear what he did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll get to the love bomb fest in just

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Speaker 4: a second.

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Speaker 1: But tell us first about this lady that you met.

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Where'd you meet her?

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Speaker 8: Her name is Angela and I just met her at

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Speaker 8: the grocery store the other day, and she.

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Speaker 2: Was so cute.

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Speaker 7: She had like auburn hair and green eyes.

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Speaker 8: She was really beautiful, interesting, but I worked up the

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Speaker 8: courage to ask her out.

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Speaker 2: Grocery store meetup is a love bomber's dream, right, what

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Speaker 2: do you mean? It's just like every rom com ever,

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Speaker 2: and love bombers love to live out the.

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Speaker 1: End up in my card, I think it is for

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Speaker 1: you exactly.

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Speaker 4: You're talking about a bag of flower I guess, yeah,

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Speaker 4: that is kind of romantic.

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Speaker 8: It was actually a bag of avocados.

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Speaker 1: Wow, twenty four hours, I know, just drop like a

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Speaker 1: stack of hundreds in front of her, don't you do?

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Bag of avocados You had

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Speaker 2: to squished before you found the perfect one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, already you've put a lot of effort in

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Speaker 4: more than most memoirs this roman.

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Speaker 1: Let's get to the actual day. What did you do

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Speaker 1: when you met up?

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Speaker 8: Well, we just got coffee and wasn't that long either,

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Speaker 8: We only had like twenty minutes.

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Speaker 7: She you know, she's high class.

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Speaker 5: She has a really good job.

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Speaker 7: I don't even understand her job.

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Speaker 8: She's clearly very smart.

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Speaker 1: How cool it is.

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Speaker 2: I have so many friends like that, where they probably

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Speaker 2: eight hundred times what they do.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I.

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Speaker 3: Have no idea, zero follow up questions.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, cool, all right, that's nicer dating a smart lady.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: In that time, I could just tell that we were vibing.

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Speaker 8: I was making her laugh. I don't know, she's like

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Speaker 8: sort of touching my hand a little bit.

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Speaker 3: That's good.

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Speaker 1: Wow, she touched your hand. That's really good, touching it

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Speaker 1: or swatting it away.

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Speaker 5: You're basically like strangers at this point.

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Speaker 2: You've never even talked, which is why I think twenty

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Speaker 2: you you know, it's like a screener.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, well give us the big like highlight moment

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Speaker 4: from the coffee date.

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Speaker 7: I don't know. We were talking about how booth of

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Speaker 7: our therapists also need therapy, but we both were talking.

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Speaker 8: About how much we believe in therapy overall.

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Speaker 7: She's very fashionable.

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Speaker 8: We were talking about our outfits and at the end

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Speaker 8: I didn't try to kiss there, but there was like

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Speaker 8: a long hug, okay, like where she.

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Speaker 2: Was also holding you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is where his love.

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Speaker 3: Bombing comes in.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and then I said I'd reach out and we

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Speaker 7: left it at that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so it doesn't sound like you keep saying

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Speaker 2: you love you're like into love bombing. But all of

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Speaker 2: this sounds really normal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm a little exaggerated.

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Speaker 7: Well, I did do a few things afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, what'd you do?

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Speaker 7: I don't know. Maybe she thought I overdid it, but

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Speaker 7: I'm not sorry. I posted the Instagram story of the

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Speaker 7: city skyline and I captioned it today felt different, and

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Speaker 7: I tagged her in it.

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Speaker 3: Oh do you think that's that bad?

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Speaker 5: He found her on instad and then tapped her and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but he didn't post a picture of her that

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Speaker 2: she didn't know was taken.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that doesn't sound too bad. What was there more?

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Speaker 8: I also created a Spotify playlist titled US, and I

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Speaker 8: texted it.

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Speaker 2: There, No, this is like what my angsty self did

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Speaker 2: at sixteen for boys that I like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can always come back from them being like

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Speaker 4: I met like us, like the USA United States.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm not weird and clinging. Yeah, Okay, he's.

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Speaker 2: Not apologetic, chef. He's not going to make excuses.

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Speaker 1: No, and you should.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm not sorry about it. I mean US means.

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Speaker 2: Us, okay, but there's no US yet when you've only

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Speaker 2: spent twenty minutes with someone, that's kind of the problem.

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 2: I think that a lot of people would appreciate what

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Speaker 2: you're doing once you're in a relationship together.

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Speaker 1: Okash, Was that the end of the love bombing or

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Speaker 1: is there any more?

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Speaker 7: I mean afterwards, I've been calling her and I spent

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Speaker 7: multiple text messages.

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Speaker 5: I was just not getting any feedback from her.

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Speaker 1: That's not bad.

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Speaker 4: Tax collectors do that to me, and I don't think

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Speaker 4: that's love bombing.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, I don't mean to be mean because

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Speaker 2: I think your heart is in the right place, but

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Speaker 2: you're kind of scaring her. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know what we'll find out from her if

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Speaker 4: she picks up the phone, Yeah, with to call Angela

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Speaker 4: and figure out if he crossed her line. Yeah, because

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Speaker 4: if she was reciprocating their love bombing back and forth,

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Speaker 4: it'd be a different story.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So, how long has it been since the coffee date?

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Speaker 5: That was two and a half weeks ago?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I think the better question is how long has it

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Speaker 2: been since the last voicemail you left her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: That was three hours ago.

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Speaker 1: Okay, no, it's the morning.

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Speaker 4: What the She's probably not up yet, that's why she

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Speaker 4: didn't answer. He had. Yes, this is a big misunderstanding.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure, Leon, and we're going to clear it all

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Speaker 4: up when we call Angela for your second date update

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Speaker 4: right after this hold.

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Speaker 3: On second date update.

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Speaker 4: If you're just joining us, our listener, Leon told us

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Speaker 4: that he is a self proclaimed love bomber.

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Speaker 1: Proudly yes.

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Speaker 4: What does that mean after his twenty minute coffee date

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Speaker 4: with Angela, Well, it means he left her multiple voicemails,

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Speaker 4: countless text messages, and even created a Spotify playlist titled

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Speaker 4: us and he is not sorry about it, because when

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Speaker 4: Leon feels it's right, he is going to go for

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Speaker 4: it full force and drop a love nuke right on you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, get nobody likes nuclear bombs. I mean that's a yeah.

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Speaker 4: Oppenheimer was kind of a But unfortunately we're not sure

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Speaker 4: Angela survived the love bombing because she stopped responding altogether.

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Speaker 4: It's not looking great, but in an exercise of optimism here,

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Speaker 4: there's always the chance she's building up her own romantic

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Speaker 4: arsenal to love bomb you right back.

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Speaker 1: Did you think about that, Leon, that is really optimistic.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I did not that would be great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean you got a lot to live up to,

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Speaker 1: so it could take some time.

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Speaker 2: Here's the question. If it was too much for her,

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Speaker 2: are you willing to tone it down until you're in

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Speaker 2: a actual relationship with the other person.

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Speaker 7: I yeah, yes, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You're asking him to change himself, to change himself. I'm

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Speaker 2: just asking him to like.

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Speaker 1: To be a different person. No, you're not a different person.

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Speaker 2: You can still be romantic. It's just maybe little doses

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Speaker 2: instead of all at Wan.

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Speaker 4: Tone down love bombers possible.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fortunately, it's just not very healthy.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to take advice from Brooks. She's been

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Speaker 4: stuck in a marriage for like fifteen Okay, don't try that. Okay,

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Speaker 4: let's just go. We're about to call her and brook

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Speaker 4: if she does answer, should we bring up the love

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Speaker 4: bombing to her? Because normally I would say no, let's

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Speaker 4: try to avoid this, but it's so out there, so frequent,

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Speaker 4: I don't think we can get around it.

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Speaker 2: After the playlist titled us, it's something we can't yeah,

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Speaker 2: shy away from. It'll feel better to know that he

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Speaker 2: is self aware of it. Honestly, like that. Yeah, that

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Speaker 2: might actually change her mind on the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: I'll just try not to use the term love bomb.

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Speaker 2: What are you going to say?

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Speaker 1: I know, well it's I'll just say some nice gestures.

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Speaker 1: We'll see how that goes on. Okay, let's see. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll see if she even answers. I'm a dollar number

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Speaker 1: right now. Let's do this.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Angela?

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Speaker 5: This is Angela who's calling.

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Speaker 1: We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the Morning.

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Speaker 8: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Oh.

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Speaker 2: God, I don't want to Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: We are very excited to get to talk to you

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Speaker 4: because we've we've actually heard a lot about you.

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Speaker 5: Hey, okay, he's in a good mood.

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Speaker 3: Guy.

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Speaker 4: Hopefully this keeps going because one of our listeners has

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Speaker 4: asked us to.

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Speaker 1: Get a hold of you. A guy you went on

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Speaker 1: a date with named Leon.

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Speaker 5: Oh God, that guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, he's a funny dude.

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Speaker 5: Huh, he's a lot I mean, he's a lot of something.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, okay, interesting character or what interesting is

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Speaker 4: a good word for it.

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Speaker 1: You are being very very polite, Angela.

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Speaker 2: That's great, that's great. I mean, honestly, I'm just glad

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Speaker 2: you're not scared.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, let's not start there with that word.

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Speaker 3: It worried, Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 1: We were curious. We were curious.

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Speaker 4: About what you think of Leon in the two and

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Speaker 4: a half weeks since your date ended, because we've heard

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Speaker 4: a lots happened.

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Speaker 5: I mean I pretty much knew. I mean we only

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Speaker 2: Oh oh no, Oh you didn't want to take it

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Speaker 5: No, And he has been calling and texting a lot.

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Speaker 4: Okay, don't take hints, by the way, totally, but if

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Speaker 4: what happened like on the date.

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Speaker 5: I mean it honestly, it started like right away, like

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Speaker 5: like he saw me pull in, you know, I got

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Speaker 5: one of those money spots right in front, and I

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Speaker 5: or whatever when I come in, and he was like, oh,

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Speaker 5: that's a nice car. How did you afford that? Are

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Speaker 5: you an only vans.

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Speaker 2: What Oh wow, that's what he said.

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Speaker 5: Was literally that was the greeting are you on only?

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Speaker 5: Like at one point I complimented his jacket and he said,

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Speaker 5: I don't usually dress up, but I have court today

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Speaker 5: and he's not a lawyer, and I was like, why

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Speaker 5: are you going to court? Because that's what you do

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Speaker 5: when somebody said that.

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Speaker 5: You know, you wouldn't tell me. He was like, no,

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Speaker 5: I don't want to talk about it. And I was like,

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Speaker 5: you said it, yes, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Why would you say the court part?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a lot well and then okay, well

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Speaker 5: So we're roles in therapy, which was open about that,

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Speaker 5: that his therapist told him that he needs to stop

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Speaker 5: proposing to girls on dates.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow.

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Speaker 5: As he's staring deeply into my eyes, so I start sweating,

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Speaker 5: like I'm thinking, oh my god, he's got a proposal.

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Speaker 1: Well, how is that a bad thing?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 5: Jeff?

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Speaker 1: It feels the attraction to you so strongly that he

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Speaker 1: Jeff is being sarcastic.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well this is clearly a lot. But you know

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Speaker 4: what's not crazy is a man who loves love and

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Speaker 4: while we have a conversation on the radio. That man

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Speaker 4: would be Leon, and he is here.

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Speaker 1: At the moment.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Angela, Oh Hi, that's not too much of a surprise, honestly,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it's uh, it's been a lot. The

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Speaker 5: texting and the calling is a lot. The Spotify playlist

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Speaker 5: labeled us now a lot.

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Speaker 7: I get it.

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Speaker 5: See the only fans thing is weird.

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Speaker 7: Okay, the only fan It was a lot.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh, he can explain it, he says, Okay, because

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Speaker 4: we need to go through these things that you said

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Speaker 4: to her on the date, Leon, They're they're pretty shocking.

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Speaker 7: I mean it was kind of a joke, but I

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Speaker 7: also just meant it as a compliment. I mean, the

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Speaker 2: Okay, Leoni, Now, we don't want to admit to someone

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Speaker 5: I read about it.

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Speaker 2: You recovery.

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Speaker 1: He's so, he's so versed.

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Speaker 2: Did we jump to the court?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, date?

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Speaker 1: What was going on? You said you had court that day?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Doesn't everybody have court? I mean, like what I.

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Speaker 1: Were you a juror?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: But what.

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Speaker 1: Well doesn't you can't play the theoretical game.

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Speaker 4: And we don't have a lot of time here, But

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Speaker 4: I do have to ask you about your therapist warning

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Speaker 4: you not to propose.

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Speaker 1: To women like on first dates. Is this is this

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Speaker 1: a thing you do.

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Speaker 7: On first dates?

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Speaker 8: It's happened on like third dates.

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Speaker 7: Jesus, you guys are making me sound weird or something.

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Speaker 7: I just myself and I love love.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is the point where we encourage you to

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I am listening to my therapists, and I feel

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Speaker 7: like she would want me to ask you, didn't you

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Speaker 5: I mean I felt nervous. I suppose.

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Speaker 7: That's totally fair. I told you that. I mean, of course,

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Speaker 7: you're entitled to feel however you want, because I'm feeling

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Speaker 5: Okay, But why then does me not responding to text

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Speaker 7: I appreciate when people are direct with me.

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Speaker 8: That's all.

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Speaker 5: For some reason, I have a hard time believing that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because despite what Leon's therapist suggests, I'm going to

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Speaker 4: propose that the two of you go out on another date.

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Speaker 2: Well said, just one more man who can't understand what

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Speaker 4: Angela, I'm legally obligated, not a court way, but I

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Speaker 1: Angela, it's up to you.

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Speaker 5: No, I don't want to do that.

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Speaker 1: I am absolutely shocked. I did not see this coming, Angela.

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Speaker 2: Leon did you hear her?

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Speaker 7: I heard her.

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Speaker 8: I respect it, and I don't want to dance with

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Speaker 1: That was a lyric from his Spotify playlist. I hope

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Speaker 1: she got there.

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: It's funny.

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Speaker 4: The love bombing part actually had nothing to do with

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Speaker 4: her saying no to another date.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he's starting just being rude.

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Speaker 4: She'd already said no in her mind before it to

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Speaker 4: be fair. But you know, if you're a romantic person

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Speaker 4: I think that's good. But on dates one through three

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Speaker 4: you really have to resist. And not just the proposing

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Speaker 1: You gotta hold back because it's too much, too soon. Yeah, society,

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Speaker 1: it's you can't do it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's never been good.

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Speaker 1: It's exactly, and it's healthy.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's healthy to develop a connection with someone

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good thought.

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Speaker 4: Ironically, the people who enjoy love bombing the most are

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Speaker 4: the ones working on only fans and apparently he just

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Speaker 4: read about it.

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Speaker 2: So.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, kind of doom from the start.

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Speaker 4: But look, if you want to go to Spotify and

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Speaker 4: check out our podcast or this new playlist I just

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Speaker 4: made called them for Leon and Angela, go find us,

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