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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. So I think, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't think. I know I have issues with liquids,

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Speaker 1: and this is going like a lifetime back. First of all,

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Speaker 1: I say I don't drink water, I don't drink water.

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Speaker 1: Like how I'm still living. No one knows. I'm like

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Speaker 1: a CACTI like just water me once in a while,

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Speaker 2: But I have an aversion into it.

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Speaker 1: But this is the reason I decided to talk about

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Speaker 1: liquids today, is because everyone knows I'm going through a divorced,

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Speaker 1: single mom of five now co parenting very well with

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Speaker 1: my ex Dean, which I got to say is super challenging.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone has gone through this, but

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Speaker 1: I've never called him dean.

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Speaker 2: I've called him babe for twenty years.

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Speaker 1: So it is super hard to remind myself that like, oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, babe, And I'm thinking to myself, is

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Speaker 1: that okay? I just called him babe and he's cool

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Speaker 1: a great relationship, and I'm just like, oh, old to

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Speaker 1: get you anything before I go? I said, oh, can

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Speaker 1: you grab me a drink? And he said, uh sure.

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Speaker 1: I said coconut water because I'm trying this new thing.

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Speaker 1: enjoy the taste of coconut water. And I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: maybe that'll help. You know, that's hydrating. And he said, oh,

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Speaker 1: there's no coconut water left. And I said, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I love a good ginger Ale. Another thing you should

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Speaker 1: know about me is there's two sodas I like. They're

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Speaker 1: ginger Ale and Diet Doctor Pepper. They're my jam And

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Speaker 1: at any given time, if you see me, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm going through because if I am with a

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Speaker 1: Diet Doctor Pepper, I'm thriving, Like things are going and

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Speaker 1: I'm just kicking butt. If I have a ginger Ale

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Speaker 1: in hand, Yeah, things are stressful. Yeah. Like my reality

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Speaker 1: show True Torri, which kind of kind of it chronicled

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Speaker 2: Which we did at the time, but I was going

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Speaker 1: I was so stressed and I just, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I was going through it anyway, had in Migrain. So

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Speaker 1: he said there's ginger ale I said, okay, oh that

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Speaker 2: He was down there for a long time.

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Speaker 2: We're like, go, oh, go. But he finally comes in.

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Speaker 1: He brings me the cup and he said, oh, it's

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Speaker 1: You guys know that, and I would never say anything mean,

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Speaker 1: but I was just like joking, like but not joking.

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Speaker 1: And then he stopped and he goes, why do you

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Speaker 1: I see all these true crime stories and I was like,

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Speaker 2: And I said, well, keyword there.

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Speaker 1: Yet I was convinced he poisoned you too when you

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Speaker 1: Well it's beautiful, but creatives are crazy anyway.

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Speaker 3: Why why do you both think? I don't understand why

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Speaker 3: My thought was literally like, oh, one of the kids

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Speaker 2: It's not deemed specific. I think that's important to know.

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Speaker 1: It's like, anybody who took that long we would assume

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Speaker 3: Is it poisoning? Off the bat? I understand how we

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Speaker 1: drama Rama Storytelling. Hello. Yeah, of course I go there.

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Speaker 1: My mind goes there. But this has been a lifelong thing.

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Speaker 1: Just to finish up the dean part, he said, he said,

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Speaker 1: Like you know this is my thing? And he's like,

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Speaker 1: my children. Why would I want to poison you? And

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Speaker 1: Again it's not personal. I don't know where it comes from.

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Speaker 1: Grody to the Max? That was such like an eighties saying, huh, anyway,

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Speaker 1: he never threatened your life. So in reality, never this man.

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Speaker 1: You know, he's sober now, so he had a temper

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Speaker 1: which he's really worked on. In no way, shape or

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Speaker 1: form did I ever feel physically threatened by Dean. Ever,

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Speaker 1: so this has nothing to do with it. So I

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Speaker 1: said you first, and he was like oh. He kind

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Speaker 1: So then I took it. So as he was leaving

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Speaker 1: did like the cheers to him, and I started guzzling it,

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Speaker 1: And I've told you I've never had bodily odor. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: I think this might all somehow be connected. Like it's

430
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Speaker 1: really weird that I mean now like going through like

431
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,880
Speaker 1: monopas and shit, like I've had the sweats and stuff.

432
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:25,199
Speaker 1: But before that, I'm telling you I i'd run a

433
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Speaker 1: marathon like I ever did that.

434
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 2: If you were totally dehydrated from.

435
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: Not drinking, and I would not break a sweat. People

436
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,679
Speaker 1: would be like, oh my gosh, like my makeup, Like

437
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 1: I'd be in scenes in human weather and all the

438
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,159
Speaker 1: other actors they had to put powder and they were like,

439
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, because they're sweating through their makeup, and

440
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: makeup artists would come and be like your makeup staying

441
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 1: flawlessly on your skin, like you're not even you know,

442
00:24:52,680 --> 00:25:00,200
Speaker 1: I'm a Jewish girl, schitzing. One might glowing, but yeah, nothing, nothing,

443
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:04,479
Speaker 1: And then if I ever, I never use deodorant, and

444
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:07,439
Speaker 1: like to this day, like I don't have to use deodorant,

445
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I do it to be cool because

446
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 1: I want to fit in, but I actually, you know what,

447
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:17,919
Speaker 1: I use old spice because it reminds me it's my

448
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: husband used old spice, and it's a particular one and

449
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 1: I really enjoy the smell of it, and even though

450
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: we're not together anymore, just like that smell, like it

451
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: brings back good memories and like it's yeah, so I

452
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: still use it, and I know that's not the kind

453
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: you're supposed to use. And my kids, my girls use

454
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 1: like you know, the natural ones and the rock crystal,

455
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 1: oh god, all all that stuff great, which I totally support,

456
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: but I'm just og and and I don't ever use it. Basically,

457
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: it kind of just like my water just sits on

458
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 1: the shelf. But yeah, the only time, and I've said

459
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 1: this before, I think the only time I ever got

460
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 1: body odor was when I was pregnant, and it would

461
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: only be my left pit, and not that I like

462
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: smell my armpits, but you know, if you're ever sweating,

463
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: even though I never sweat, never had smell, never had

464
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 1: bo you know, you are so conditioned to see people

465
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 1: being like, oh, checking to see if they smell because

466
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 1: they've been sweating.

467
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 2: So I would just do it just again to fit in.

468
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,360
Speaker 1: And I remember the first time I like smelled him,

469
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, whoa. It was so exciting. I was like,

470
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 1: what's the smell? And I actually liked the smell of it.

471
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: It wasn't like terrible, it was just like that's new,

472
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 1: and yeah, it turned out I was pregnant and it

473
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: would go away. It would only be like the first

474
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: month of pregnancy, but and only the left pit, and

475
00:26:53,480 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: it was always right when I got pregnant, back to water.

476
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 1: So I have said that I've self diagnosed myself that

477
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:13,479
Speaker 1: it's a control thing that I'm like, well, sometimes maybe

478
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:17,360
Speaker 1: being dramatic, my life feels so out of control. It's

479
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: the only thing that I can control is hydrating myself.

480
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: So maybe maybe mister miss missus, miss therapist, maybe that's it.

481
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: I've self diagnosed myself. It's a control factor and I

482
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:41,439
Speaker 1: just am sabotaging myself to not be hydrated. Don't know

483
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 1: that a thing.

484
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 3: I think it's a thing. You're clearly doing it, so

485
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:49,399
Speaker 3: it's a thing you can do. You're probably not the

486
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 3: first you can really.

487
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: I mean, people say they hate water. I've heard a

488
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: lot of people because I'm always like, I hate water.

489
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 1: Because I'm the type of person I have to call

490
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: it out. So if I'm a you know, a restaurant

491
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: or getting drinks with people, and I have to say, oh,

492
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: I hate water when the way or a waitress us,

493
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 1: would you like water? I even have to tell them

494
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 1: I hate water and they're like, I don't care. Sparkler's

495
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:16,679
Speaker 1: still And I'm like, which one are you bitches in

496
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,159
Speaker 1: this group is gonna say tap? I'm gonna be pissed anyway, But.

497
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 3: How do you feel about like gatorade or like liquid

498
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 3: IV in your water, our emergency in your water, or

499
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 3: like what is that vitamin water? Like are any of

500
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 3: those okay? Or no? Because the word water's on it

501
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 3: is it the word water too.

502
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: No, I just I just am not a fan of

503
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: liquids in general. I'm never thirsty. What's the animal that

504
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:40,959
Speaker 1: doesn't get thirsty? Camel?

505
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh, but they store their liquid in their pumps.

506
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 3: Oh you're not storing liquid anywhere.

507
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: I don't think, so I'm pretty sure for you, like

508
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: wringed me out, like nothing will come out. Luke Perry

509
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: used to call me Camel because he said I had

510
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: the longest eyelashes. I was super young, so I was like, wait, Camel,

511
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 1: is that a bad thing? He's like, no, they have

512
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: the most beautiful eyes, the most beautiful eyelashes. So I

513
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: think funly about Camel's never written one, always wanted to.

514
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, they just store water, so I guess that's

515
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: me and oh my gosh. And then if I do

516
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: drink liquids, I have repee because my body's like what

517
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: did you just do?

518
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 2: What's happening?

519
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: And my body's like get it out now, Like yeah,

520
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 1: but I never used to have to pee, like I

521
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 1: would go hours and hours and hours and just not

522
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: peak because I wasn't drinking water. But I'd like to

523
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 1: solve it because I feel like, you know, I'm fifty

524
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: one like at some point it's going to catch up

525
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 1: with me, like I got to get used to it.

526
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: And but no, but liquids are not a thing. Like

527
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: I just will take a sip, even my diet doctor

528
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,479
Speaker 1: pepper that I love, which I'm kind of weird off of.

529
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: Now I'll take a sip and put a can down,

530
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: which is so wasteful. So I start getting those mini cans,

531
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: which costs more, which is not effective on the economy.

532
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 2: But like it's just like.

533
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: I don't know one I'm a one sip wonder. Basically,

534
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: anything you give me, I'm going to take one sip of.

535
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: Except oddly enough, if I'm socially out and we're having alcohol,

536
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: I will drink it. But I think that comes from

537
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: more of a social aspect and like talking and you're

538
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: having a meal, so great wine as part of the conversation.

539
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: And also, you know, you feel like gives you liquid courage,

540
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: like you know, you have a drink and you feel,

541
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: you know, a little not as anxious socially. And I'm

542
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: kind of that person, I guess. But yeah, if I'm

543
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: home alone, like I'm not even alcohol Like I'm not

544
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: drinking anything, not thirsty.

545
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 2: Shoot, I said that now I'm thirsty. Wait, I've red bull.

546
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: I'm okay. So what do you think about all this?

547
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 3: I think you've talked yourself into this. Yeah. Do any

548
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 3: of your kids share the same fear? Are they recognized

549
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 3: it in you?

550
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: Nope, I think because I didn't, because it's not really

551
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: a fear. It's just like I'm like, I don't like it,

552
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: like an aversion, aversion, it's an aversion. I have an

553
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 1: aversion to water. I have an aversion to liquids.

554
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 3: Like, if you're on a vacation with the kids, are

555
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 3: you going in the ocean?

556
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: She doesn't go to the beach, Chrissy, Oh.

557
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 3: That's another thing.

558
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, stop stop, Like I'm never going to find a

559
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: man after this, Like, oh my gosh.

560
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 2: I'm not an outdoorsy girl, but I'll try anything. I'm

561
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: always gay.

562
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I will go in the pool. I

563
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: will go in the ocean. On my honeymoon with Dean,

564
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: I went in the ocean. We were in Fiji and

565
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: he was big into scuba diving, and I was like,

566
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: oh my god. At the time, very fear of trying

567
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 1: anything and not sports oriented. And I was like, okay,

568
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 1: but I'm this is the new me. So I thought

569
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 1: back then, and you know, I'm going into this marriage

570
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,959
Speaker 1: and I'm going to try things and go out there

571
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: and live my life. So you know, they train you

572
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: in the pool first and then they take you into

573
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: the ocean. And I went down the very first time

574
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: you took me down. I couldn't equalize, and I got

575
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 1: the worst ear infection and spent the rest of my

576
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: honeymoon there like horrible ear infection. I mean, couldn't fly home.

577
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: We were in paradise though, so we weren't mad. But yeah,

578
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: so I'm not scared of the water.

579
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 3: But your like new Bubble dating profile, it's going to

580
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 3: be like likes long walks on the pathway looking at

581
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 3: the ocean, like long walks on the beach. You're like

582
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 3: long walks in the neighborhood.

583
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: No, no, no, you lost me at long walks, Like I

584
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 1: don't want to go. I don't fuck the beach. I

585
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: don't want to go on a pathway. I don't want

586
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: to go in the neighborhood. I don't want to walk.

587
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 3: You one of those people who thinks, because I think

588
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 3: running on purpose is ridiculous, Like why would you run

589
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 3: on purpose? I don't understand it.

590
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: And that's brilliant. Oh my god, that's a T shirt there.

591
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: Why would you run on purpose?

592
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 3: I hurt? Everything hurts. I'm like, where am I going?

593
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 3: Like what do you do? Why are you run? Why

594
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 3: are you running on purpose at the gym? Why are

595
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 3: you running on purpose in place? Like just running on

596
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 3: purpose in general? It's just a little.

597
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. I mean I don't run, I don't walk.

598
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: I'm the girl that pulls into a target parking lot

599
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: and I'm not taking the first space available. I will

600
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: go around in circles you until someone comes out and

601
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: moves a car that's literally parched right in front of

602
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: the store. And my kids know this and they're like, oh,

603
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: here we go. It's gonna be another thirty minutes before

604
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: we go in. But I'm I'm really good and I

605
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: oh my my ex. He would always he's he's that

606
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: person that as soon as he pulls into any you know,

607
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 1: perking structure a lot, takes the first spot, doesn't matter

608
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 1: how far away it is. And I'm like, oh my god.

609
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: And then it used to be a thing because he'd

610
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: be like, I know, he's like, ugh, you want me

611
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: to pull up to the front. We won't get a spot.

612
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: We'll have to drive around for twenty minutes. Someone comes out.

613
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 1: I was like, yes, please, and then or I do

614
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: like no, be okay, but yeah, so so he would

615
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,760
Speaker 1: do it. But I'm just like I don't get those people.

616
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you mean, like, be clever about this,

617
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 1: And especially if you're going into shop and I you know,

618
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: if I want a mission and I'm stucking up, you know,

619
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: at the grocery store for the kids for the week,

620
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 1: or I'm out like school shopping for them and I

621
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,880
Speaker 1: have a lot of bags, why would I want to

622
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: just randomly take the spot that's like a football field away.

623
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: I'm carry all the bags out and walk all that

624
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 1: way when I can get right to my car. I'm

625
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: trying to rationalize this because I'm lazy as fuck. But

626
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: but the thing is now, I'm very good at being

627
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: like no, no, no, you guys, we're not gonna just

628
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 1: sit here and wait for someone to come out, like no, no, no, no.

629
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: I do wait for someone to come out, but I

630
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,919
Speaker 1: like to kind of look at people and know and

631
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: like once in a while you'll still see people be

632
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: like no, they put their hand up like sorry, I'm not.

633
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: I'm just going to the car. I'm I'm going back in.

634
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not moving my car. But I'm good

635
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 1: at like do they have a bag in hand? Do

636
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,320
Speaker 1: they look like, oh god, I can't take it anymore.

637
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: I've just like spent an hour and target with all

638
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 1: my kids, and I'm getting the fuck out of here.

639
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: I like to read the room or read the lot,

640
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:51,279
Speaker 1: and I read faces. I see what they're caring, and

641
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, let's follow that person. So I'm good at

642
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,399
Speaker 1: following people because I'm also the type that if I'm

643
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:02,439
Speaker 1: waiting for a spot pace waiting and someone comes up

644
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,880
Speaker 1: and wants to take it, I'm gonna let it go

645
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be super upset and bummed and talk

646
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: to myself about it in the car and ransom rave.

647
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 1: But I'll be like, Okay, poor me, they took my spot.

648
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 1: Wompomp Hong Kong. Nope.

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00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: So I'm not putting on a dating profile. Long walks

651
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: on the beach. I mean I would like to say like, Hi,

652
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: I'm Tori. I'm a tourist and I enjoy long walks

653
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,760
Speaker 1: on the beach, But you should say Hi, I'm Toy.

654
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:32,879
Speaker 1: I enjoy short walks in a parking lot.

655
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a funny one. Also, can I make a

656
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 3: park lot suggestion for you? Yeah, park near the cart returns.

657
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 2: Why so you can put your cart right there?

658
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 3: Yes, then you just have to like then because like

659
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 3: I find it annoying to have to walk the cart

660
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:49,439
Speaker 3: somewhere after.

661
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:53,240
Speaker 1: Oh that's smart, that's smart, Jimor for a while a

662
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: Duma they were like reporting it was like which celebrities

663
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 1: didn't put their carts back at grocery store. That was

664
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:05,800
Speaker 1: like a thing. Yeah, I'd like to go on record

665
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: and say way before that, like I'm that carmra girl.

666
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 1: I always put my cart back and you know what

667
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: it's an I always say like people are like, oh,

668
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 1: I'm putting the cart back, Like I'm not just leaving

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00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,720
Speaker 1: in here. But they put in like an open space

670
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 1: next to a tree or next to the park. What

671
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 1: is the cement parking thing? I don't know.

672
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:25,879
Speaker 2: I usually hit them, but like.

673
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 3: The stops you oh yeah, they put the two front

674
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 3: wheels over the top of that and somehow that's going

675
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 3: to keep it safe.

676
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 1: Or if you put pull your car in there, you

677
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 1: can't fit your car in. I drive an SUV and

678
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: it's like there's a cart right there, it can't go

679
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 1: all the way in. But you know, I know there's

680
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: like designated spots to return your carts like a target, yes,

681
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 1: like you're talking about, but at grocery stores you actually

682
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: typically have to walk it all the way back to

683
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: the store. I always do it, always have my whole

684
00:37:55,280 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: entire life. I'm good like that. So see I for

685
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 1: a purpose for others, that's.

686
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 3: Also good for your profile. So like short walks and

687
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 3: parking lots or walking for a purpose, just not like

688
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 3: a five k charity.

689
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 1: Wait, but then I'm am I gonna then I'm no,

690
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: I'd rather just donate we can, And then am I

691
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 1: gonna track like dating down?

692
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 2: Like people are like, oh parking lotch she does?

693
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: She's not like can we say like short walks? Not

694
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 1: themal short walks. I mean the fact of the matter

695
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 1: is when and if I ever date again, I'm gonna

696
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: have to suck it up. I'm gonna have.

697
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 2: To be that girl at least for the first like good.

698
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: Six months where I'm gonna have to like throw myself

699
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: into it and do walks And oh god.

700
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 3: Why why do you do that? Why can't you just

701
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 3: be like, this is who I am, so like be like, listen,

702
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,359
Speaker 3: I like to park towards the front of I don't

703
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 3: want to go for a long walk right now tonight.

704
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 3: I would rather sit at home and cook a steak.

705
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 3: That's what I would rather do. And also, I don't

706
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 3: want to drink the water you just brought me from

707
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 3: a fresh rivers war. I would rather have a tiny

708
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 3: diet Doctor Pepper and just be yourself off the bat

709
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 3: instead of trying to be something they want you to be.

710
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: Wow, bad something I ever thought about. That's a whole

711
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:25,760
Speaker 1: new approach on life.

712
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, if they don't like diet doctor Pepper tory, then

713
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:29,359
Speaker 3: they gotta go.

714
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm such a people pleaser, which I'm working on. Everyone

715
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:36,800
Speaker 1: knows that I'm baby steps, baby steps. Oh you know

716
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: what I do? Like I like a kimbucha? Okay, terful,

717
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 1: I love that sound. Keep doing it again. My daughter

718
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 1: Sella has a thing and we all mess with her

719
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: all the time that she can't be around puke. She

720
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: can't be And a lot of people have this, like

721
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 1: people can't be around puke. It's a thing. Like my

722
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 1: mom was like that, she like if I was puking,

723
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 1: like she couldn't or my brother, like my dad or

724
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,360
Speaker 1: nanny like and she felt really bad about it, but

725
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: she was like, it makes me I have to start

726
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: throwing up if I hear it or yeah, And I

727
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 1: really thought I I kind of developed it like a fear,

728
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 1: like you take on your parents' fears, so I kind

729
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 1: of developed it until like, but I was always good

730
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: at like holding my friend's hair back when they puked,

731
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: because you gotta do what you gotta do, like when

732
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 1: they were like in their twenties late teens, Bartles and

733
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: James bringing it back again. But my daughter Stella is

734
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: since birth and I've never told her like with kids now,

735
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 1: like when they puke up. I totally got over it,

736
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, you gotta do what you gotta do.

737
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: I'm in it to win it. But she if she

738
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: hears even people and people make jokes like ooh like

739
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 1: that sound, she will literally start gagging immediately and like

740
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: have to run out of the room. She's like, stop stopping,

741
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: you guys, I'm gonna literally throw up. And that's like

742
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: a thing people have an aversion in a version. There's

743
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,359
Speaker 1: so many a versions today to like the sound of

744
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 1: like that. So when we want to rile stell up.

745
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 1: We just go.

746
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 3: That. Yeah, that's an awesome sound for podcasting.

747
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: Okay, So true story, Like I get a lot of freebies,

748
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:24,720
Speaker 1: a lot of swag. People want to send me stuff,

749
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: and when Deane and I were together, he would always

750
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh, it's so great. And he one day

751
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: he was like, this company wants to send me stuff

752
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 1: and I can post for them and get free product.

753
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 2: I was like, that's great, and it was Liquid.

754
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: Death and then he's like you should try it, and

755
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,359
Speaker 1: I was like it was like a double entendra Like

756
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: it wasn't just like he was handing me a liquid

757
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:49,840
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, he's gonna kill me.

758
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: But he was handing me a liquid literally called Liquid Death,

759
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 1: and I was like it's going to be me, you know,

760
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 1: Like yeah, so with Death. I actually have drink it

761
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: and I'm a big fan. It's actually really really it's

762
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 1: really good, and my kids like it too.

763
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 3: I'll make a call.

764
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: Great sixty minutes ever get back to you.

765
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 3: We're playing phone tech.

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00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 1: Yeah,