WEBVTT - Very Vasectomy! 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:03.559 Okay, ready, here be my no wind down with Janet 0:00:03.640 --> 0:00:05.760 Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast. 0:00:07.160 --> 0:00:10.120 That was so weird. That was weird. I am dying 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:10.640 right now. 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:15.240 There's so much going on because we so Sarah Hi 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:17.560 Hi Hi guest host today. 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:19.840 Oh my god, it's like a girl's day and it is. 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:23.720 It is so pumped. Michael is not here. We will 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:27.920 explain later, but I just have to first talk about 0:00:27.960 --> 0:00:32.640 the fact that Access Live just like while we started 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:36.680 recording this was playing about like hiring the hot nanny. 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:38.520 That is you were everywhere. 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:41.320 Well it's funny because I got so we talked about, 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:43.839 like you know, obviously the nanny quit and we were 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:46.320 hiring a new nanny, and it's funny. Some of the 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:49.879 comments that I got were like, she's so insecure, and 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:52.959 I said, and to me, it's like Jana Kramer's so insecure, 0:00:53.280 --> 0:00:54.880 and I want to be like, it's not about being 0:00:54.880 --> 0:00:59.639 insecure again. I think any whether my husband's cheated or not, 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:03.480 I still think it's from like, don't let's look. 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:05.839 At it from a history point of view. Jude Law 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:10.080 cheated with the nanny, Ben Affleck ended up with the nanny, 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:12.880 so Vin Rasdell cheated on the you know, it's not 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:14.720 the craziest thing ever I have. 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:19.440 So you're human who was like a super hot chick 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:21.959 around all the time. 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:24.640 And like playing mommy And it's not And it's not 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:26.600 that I'm insecure about it at all. But it's funny 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:29.759 they showed that clip about from Sex and the City 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:31.880 when you know, Charlotte got that new nanny and she's 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:34.160 like bouncing with no bra her boobs like up and down. 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:37.039 I'm like, that's exactly what I'm talking about. Like, I again, 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:39.960 I am not in I have my insecure moments. I 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.000 won't say that I'm not insecure because I definitely have 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:45.640 those moments, but you know, I just think it's not 0:01:45.920 --> 0:01:47.080 smart to have that. 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:51.440 Happens so much too. It's sort of the ultimate cliche. 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:52.920 He left her for the name. 0:01:52.800 --> 0:01:55.560 But you're round this person twenty four to seven, which 0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:58.480 is kind of the point where people when you go 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:01.440 on set, I understand how people can fall for their 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:04.440 set partner because you are with them twenty four secs. 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:07.200 So as much as you love your spouse or you 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:10.360 love your husband, I can see how boundaries might blur. 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:13.120 So let's say I'm out of town again, whether the 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:16.919 infidelity was in our history or not. I can see 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:18.760 the boundaries blurring because you're around them. 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.640 Turn the tables, and once you reveal where Mike is, 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:25.760 we can ask him this later. What if Mike decides 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:29.799 to get a trainer and she is smoking hot Gazelle 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:33.120 single Gazelle, what are you feeling. 0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:34.560 I'm working out with him? 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:36.640 I mean, I'm not working out with Mike like I 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:38.519 mean if my man, I'm working out with him. 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:40.280 Is that what you'd say? 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:44.080 You'd be cool with Gizelle being cle Gazelle. 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:46.240 Our trainer together ours? 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:50.240 So this is tricky because there is that piece of 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:53.000 infidelity with ours. Yeah, I will say this is a 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:56.400 tricky part. But having said that, I will agree with 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:58.359 Sarah I would work out together. 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:01.760 Now, what if Mike asked you you to not have 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:06.680 that trainer? How do you feel about so? So Giselle? Okay, 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:08.880 so I'm gonna switch it. Okay, So if I had 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:12.800 the hot we have, I did it wrong. Oh my gosh, 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:14.280 I'm so dumb. I just did it again. 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:16.480 Okay, a the comments. 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:19.360 Yeah, Amy's an idiot. I get it. I'm an idiot. Okay, 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:21.919 Bradley Cooper, we have your trainer. 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:31.880 I I know my boundaries. I would that would not 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:32.400 be smart. 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:34.960 Ryan Reynolds is your trainer. 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:37.480 I'm I and what if you're down with it? 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:39.360 You're like, I'm cool with Ryan Reynolds being my trainer, 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:41.840 but Mike says, hey, I don't really want Ryan Reynolds 0:03:41.880 --> 0:03:42.600 to be your trainer? 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:46.120 Are you or are you okay? 0:03:46.880 --> 0:03:51.600 So I would I need to respect Michael does a 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:56.280 great job of respecting the boundaries that I have that 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:59.240 I said, what would make me feel safe? So it's 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:01.320 not about this is I think in the very beginning 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:03.880 with us is it's not about saying you can't do this, 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:06.680 you can't do this. It's more about saying this doesn't 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:08.880 make me feel safe when you do this, So can 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:12.120 you not do this? So, for example, I don't think that, 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:16.120 And I know that Mike would never want me to 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:21.279 train with Gleb. He's a you know, was my dance partner. 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:23.080 I was going to bring that up. 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:28.920 I just wanted to, so, you know, I don't think 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:32.840 that when it's someone that is, yes, are these people 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.000 attractive that were naming yes? 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:37.360 Yes, But you're also like you don't really sweat, you 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:39.360 don't really turn red like you're like very hot when 0:04:39.400 --> 0:04:41.240 you work out, Like I'm a sweaty monster. So like, 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:43.440 no trainer is going to be like, yeah, I'm done 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:43.720 with her. 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:46.839 So some of the weeds on it, she's like actually 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:49.480 on the treadmill, I'm like, I feel like, yeah you. 0:04:49.800 --> 0:04:52.320 But I would understand Mike saying I don't want you 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:55.200 working out one on one in those close patentis not 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:57.080 because he doesn't trust me, because I do think he 0:04:57.160 --> 0:05:00.200 trusts me. But I just think, again, it's your You're 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:02.120 playing with fire when you're that close. 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:02.960 No, what about that? 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:05.480 Which is why I have a female trainer, But not 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:07.280 saying that, I wouldn't like there's another guy that I 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:09.680 trained with in Nashville. He was great, you know, he 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:13.839 was big and whatever. But I again, I that's not 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:16.039 my thing. I don't really like the big body. 0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:17.400 I actually like woman. 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.479 There is a theory that like, Okay, so you go 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:22.160 to the trainer and he's all hot Bradley Cooper, Ryan Reynolds, 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:25.400 Ryan Gosling, whoever you like, and it kind of fires 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:28.039 you up. So then you come home and you're all, hey, Mike, 0:05:28.520 --> 0:05:29.240 I will say this. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:30.719 I mean there is something to be said. 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:36.080 There is something to be said about I. You know, 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:37.680 we like to show off when we work out, So 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:39.680 I work out better when I'm with Mike because I 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:41.520 want to show off. I want to look sexy. I 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:43.640 want to look like, yeah, Bay, look look how much 0:05:43.720 --> 0:05:45.240 I'm like, oh whatever, deadlifting? 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:46.359 Look at these mountain colon you. 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:48.760 Know, look at these badlifting. I don't even know if 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:49.240 that means. 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:51.920 I don't even think I said it right. So I 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:55.919 think that there's something to be said for that. But again, 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:58.240 I think it's just it is playing with fire. And 0:05:58.279 --> 0:05:59.960 even if I you know, you could say, all right, well, 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:01.440 what if you book a role and you're in close 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.400 vicinities with the people, because there's I'm really close with 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:06.000 one of the guys that's played my husband and two 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:08.640 of the movies, Kevin McGary, and actually he's friends with 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:11.960 Michael too. But you know, we we had boundaries. You know, 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:14.880 there's no reading lines in your hotel room, because yeah, 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:16.159 I did that when I was in my twenties and 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:16.960 it didn't turn out great. 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:21.600 Oh you know, ohay looks like you know, I'm Mary. 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:23.800 Now you have to set boundaries and boundaries and so 0:06:23.839 --> 0:06:25.680 that's the if it's you know, circle back to the 0:06:25.720 --> 0:06:26.360 hot trainer. 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:29.440 We would need to do it together. It's all about boundaries. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.240 But if you're attracted to someone, then there's obviously a problem. 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:34.000 Like I don't think you should be around anyone that 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:34.640 you're attracted to. 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:39.840 Well, this is I mean, like, actually you're what's the. 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:42.520 Everyone's actually attracted to one hundred people. 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:44.160 That doesn't mean they're gonna go well no. 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:47.080 But I mean every day, like like if you brought 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:49.280 someone that maybe you think is not attractive. Like let's 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:51.280 say you get a nanny and you don't think she's attractive, 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.840 but maybe Mike is like or not. Let's just say 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:56.280 a husband is like, oh, she's not. 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:56.359 Not. 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:58.880 Like I'm saying, if I feel like, if you're gonna 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.440 be around someone all day, every day or for a 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:03.760 certain amount of time, if there's even like a luteens 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:06.880 like I would maybe maybe not. 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:09.560 I mean, I love you, but that's just totally not possible. 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:11.240 I just have to just I don't know. 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:13.000 Well, And here's the thing too, Michael and I talk 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:15.840 about this. There's attractive people out there. 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:16.119 Everyone. 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:18.080 He's looking at the street, He's like, Oh she's an 0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:20.240 attractive person, or oh he's an attractive guy. 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:22.240 But it's not. Yeah, but she's not staying in your 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:24.040 house every night. Well that's my point. 0:07:24.200 --> 0:07:26.360 So that's that's where it's like we can say that 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:29.360 there's other attractive people. We're not gonna be blatant and 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:31.480 be that invite them in. Yeah, but it's about all 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.800 about being like you can't say I don't want you 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:35.920 to look at someone No, no, no, it's I think someone 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:38.680 else is pretty or of course, but no, yes I don't. 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:40.800 I don't want to necessarily invite them into the house. 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:43.120 But that doesn't make me insecure. To the to the 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:46.600 women that are saying that I'm insecure or you know, 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:48.400 I don't think I agree. 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:50.760 You human, I have like hot friends and I'm like, 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:53.080 how about you don't come for tonight? 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:53.920 Do you know what I mean? 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:55.440 You're like, oh, I mean that's so true. 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:57.200 I mean there's I got in the very beginning of 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:58.760 even the stuff with Mike, and I would be like, 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:00.960 can you cover up? But like it just was I 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.000 felt that was when I was in secure, you were 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:06.000 because I was just like I didn't feel secure. But 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.680 now I'm like, oh whatever, Like sometimes. 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:10.080 I use it to my advantage too, though, I'm like, 0:08:10.120 --> 0:08:11.360 bring all the hot girls. 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:12.680 Maybe he'll like it, do. 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:13.240 You know what I mean? 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:16.920 Like, I don't know, I mean, but ty though, I 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:19.800 feel like, would he want a hot nanny or what? 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:22.000 No, I mean but just everything, I mean, would you 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:23.080 do you get insecure? 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:23.720 No with Tie? 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:27.040 That is one thing I do have with him, as 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:28.880 I trust him one hundred percent. 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:31.920 I think he's too scared to do anything to be honest, and. 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.960 Yeah, exactly, like and honestly, he couldn't pull anything off, 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:40.480 like let's be honest, what month is it, by the way, comes? 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:43.320 But yeah, that's one thing that I don't that I'm 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:45.560 not concerned about. There are other things that you know 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:47.160 what I mean, Like everyone has their thing everyone. 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:48.200 What's your concern with him? 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:48.360 Then? 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:52.040 I mean obviously hello, oh besides the ring, I mean 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:54.800 that's a major concern, Like hello, I don't know where 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:56.920 we are right now, but like that's amazing. It needs 0:08:56.920 --> 0:09:01.000 to have him before Gina f or I don't even like, 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:03.520 I mean, I would have just screamed it right now. 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:05.880 But I'm so tired. You don't know what it went 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:07.960 through to get here. Okay, the traffic today was terrible. 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:09.360 It's like I felt like I was an episode of 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:10.000 Game of Thrones. 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:12.640 I don't know. I've never even seen Game of Thrones. 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:15.040 I just threw that out there. Oh my god, I 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:16.240 don't know. 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:18.240 I just but it has to have right by by 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:20.240 June because he leaves in June for a couple of months. 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:21.520 Not put a time on it. 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:24.680 No, there needs to be by Sarah's sake. 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:26.520 It's are we. 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:27.959 Allowed to talk about the other thing that happened in 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:31.120 Napa or I need to know so badly, she teased me. 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:33.840 I'm so confused what happened your fight with the I 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:36.520 know there was a fight. I heard about it, but 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:39.320 then what was so funny? I heard about it, But 0:09:39.360 --> 0:09:41.640 by the time I heard about it, you too were 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:44.480 thick as thieves. It's like the fight worked to your 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:47.880 advantage later because you became close you can totally. 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:50.000 Talk about I'm kind of scared though, I. 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:52.480 Was, you know, I'm like anything, I'm I feel like 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:55.559 it's a Housewives reunion, Like I'm not excited for anything, 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:57.200 and I'm so excited to hear this, like I need 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:57.520 to hear it. 0:09:57.600 --> 0:09:59.400 We do have a caller on the line, toy, will 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:01.640 you tell him where going to talk about one more thing? 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:02.319 And then we'll come back. 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:03.839 No, we can talk to him, all right, Let's talk 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:06.200 to him first and then we'll go back to my teasing. 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:07.520 We're choosing fight. 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:10.720 Okay, so much happen. 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:14.120 Okay, we're gonna, We're gonna, We're I'll go back to 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:17.079 this easton so I'll say, Okay, so I want to 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:19.000 talk about the fight because I kind of teased you 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:20.120 on the phone, Sarah, So I'm teasing you. 0:10:20.200 --> 0:10:20.400 Guys. 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:21.840 Right now, we will talk about it. 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Actually, but I have 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:35.640 been told that you have four kids, you do not 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:37.720 want to get a vasectomy. But you have a fun 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:39.199 story about some friends. 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:42.040 Yeah, so I actually have a couple of friends that 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:46.960 have done it, and probably one of the best stories. 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:50.200 So a friend of mine went in on a Wednesday 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:53.240 and he had to kind of, you know, shave up 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:57.640 and get all prepped up. And so we had the procedure, 0:11:57.640 --> 0:12:01.200 which he said was pretty simple, but the doctor had 0:12:01.240 --> 0:12:03.560 told him, he said, you know, you're going to have 0:12:03.600 --> 0:12:06.920 to ejaculate twelve times and then come back. 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:09.680 Yeah, he didn't come back no. 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:11.160 But he said, okay, I'll see you Friday. 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:16.320 Oh are you serious. 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:18.840 Yeah, but I think it's bit longer than that. I 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:23.079 think it was probably just as But anyway, that was 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:23.559 pretty good. 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:24.600 The doctor got a good laugh. 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:26.120 That's that's really cood. 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:31.880 But but yeah, the other friend of mine, he's about 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:36.760 fifty two now fifty three. I think his youngest is thirteen, 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:43.080 and had a bestectomy probably about twelve years ago, and anyway, 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:47.200 ended up just having a baby about a month ago. 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:50.160 Oh well, you know what it must have been meant 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:50.400 to be. 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:51.880 That's what I kind of look at it. 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:53.880 Sometimes it's not work. 0:12:53.960 --> 0:12:56.880 Well, I think they What I was told is that 0:12:57.520 --> 0:13:00.320 you have to go to the follow up. So after 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:04.280 you ejaculate so many times you have Sarah, you were 0:13:04.280 --> 0:13:06.280 a twelve year old girl, I say ejaculate and you. 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:10.280 Looked at me in the eye as you said it. 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:13.040 Once Michael ejaculates, however many times he's supposed to do before. 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:14.920 Then you have to go back to test the ferm. 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:17.520 So if you don't go back, there's a chance that 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:19.800 maybe it wasn't done right. So then it did, then 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:21.880 it didn't work, but you have to go back. 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:24.240 So I don't know if this is I think know this. 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:26.680 There's two different people. So the one guy did you 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:28.680 know he go back? But he went back, but the 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:32.480 other guy actually went back as well. But even after 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:34.000 twelve years, it. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:35.840 Maybe just kind of loosened. 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:37.679 It moved back into. 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:41.840 Position oh wow wow, which is unfortunate because you know, 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:44.720 he's when the youngest is thirteen and the others are 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:46.040 starting to get out of the house to get the 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.359 little Yeah, a little. 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:49.200 Stressing for sure. 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:52.920 Well, I'm definitely gonna mark that down to ask Michael 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:54.640 what the doctor said about that, because I have heard 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:56.640 that before and I'm interested to see if anyone else 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:58.600 have had that story. So email me at Jane Kramer 0:13:58.640 --> 0:13:59.800 at iHeartMedia dot com. 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:03.239 Like, should you get your tubes tied versus the vasectomy? 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:05.079 We did? 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:07.440 And he said, He's like, well, you're already down there 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:09.480 getting a C section, why don't you just tire tubes? 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:13.319 And I said, because that's that's final. And I don't 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:16.040 know if I'm one hundred percent final yet because I 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:19.720 up until last night I told Michael, do we really 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.080 want to do this? And I was like crying about it. 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:25.760 Oh my yeah, because this is a dumb question. So 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:29.080 the vaseectomy is you can reverse it. You can reverse it. 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:32.360 You can also take a needle and heel out or 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:33.800 suck out sperm. 0:14:34.560 --> 0:14:34.920 And then I. 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:39.240 Why don't you just put some in a couple jars 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:39.840 and save. 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:43.240 It later because it dies free them. Yeah, I mean 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:45.400 that's six And Doug, why didn't you do it? 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:49.160 Why did I do I didn't do it because I 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:53.760 just in case anything ever happened, uh to my wife 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:55.480 or the children or whatever. I just wanted to be 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:58.239 able to continue procreating. 0:14:58.520 --> 0:14:59.960 And how did your wife feel about that? 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:03.760 Well, she had her tooth tied, so. 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:08.360 Well, then yeah done if she if she had the 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:11.080 final That's the thing. I've talked to another girlfriend of mine. 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:13.520 If you are final about it and you know that, 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.120 then I think it's easier when you're down there getting 0:15:16.120 --> 0:15:18.080 the sea section. Yeah, tie the tubes. But I just 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:21.400 who knows. I just I don't want to just say 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:23.440 I don't know. It's like, yeah, I feel like I've 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:26.320 done enough too, you know. It's just I don't want 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:28.200 to take away the fact that I couldn't have kids. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:34.200 So yeah, and so oh yeah, well that's dangerous. I 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:37.400 mean a procedure after you know after it, like, are 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:38.520 you sure you want the tooth time? 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:40.280 I get yeah, for sure. 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:42.320 All right, Doug, you're the best. Thank you. I'm going 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:44.040 to call the husband and see what he says, so 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:44.840 I appreciate it. 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:48.440 All right, all right, mart. 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:50.520 I will say. 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:52.760 Michael said something really sweet to me last night. He goes, 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:58.120 you know, he said, it's nice to know that. He's like, 0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:00.480 when I've been in relationships before, I've all always kind 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:04.520 of thought about the next relationship. Oh, so he's like 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:06.280 with this, he's like, I don't think about like, oh 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:08.480 I if this doesn't work out, then I'm gonna have 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:09.280 kids with someone else. 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:11.400 I was like, that's that's good. Good, it's a good No, 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:12.440 That's what I was gonna say. 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:17.000 Is I think what my brother someone got a visect 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:19.160 me and now they're divorced, and so I was kind 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:21.480 of like, huh, well, now what is he going to 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:23.640 do because she made him get that, and now I'm 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:25.320 sure he's going to meet someone else, and I'm sure 0:16:25.720 --> 0:16:27.200 she might want to have kids because he's still young 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:27.720 enough to do it. 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:29.000 But I feel like that's kind of asw. 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:30.800 Many kids does he have too? Well, it's kind of 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:35.120 the same thing. So My brother has two kids and well, 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:37.560 actually him and his girlfriend just broke up. It's awful. 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:40.000 Hate this because she's like the most incredible thing ever. 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:41.960 But they were about to have well, you know, they 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:43.800 were thinking about their future. My brother was going to 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.960 reverse his oh for her, for her mark. Do you 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:47.720 have a visectomy? 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:50.600 I did. I'm a proud you guys. 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:52.760 I am like so clueless on this. I had no idea. 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:55.040 This was like a thing I'm to text my mom 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:57.200 and I was like, well, no, I know people do it, 0:16:57.240 --> 0:16:58.640 but I didn't know. Like my I'm like, does my 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:00.320 dad do it? He had five daughters. I mean he's 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:02.960 obviously fertile. Af Like, I'm sure he was like, let's 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:05.240 cut this. What did he have it? I don't know 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:07.520