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Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We gotta fun your

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Speaker 1: strawberry little Okay, subject here, subject, what should I do?

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Speaker 1: There's a situation going on with my relationship that I

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Speaker 1: need some help with a little while ago I met

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Speaker 1: would you listen to the letter please? A little while ago,

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Speaker 1: I met a wonderful woman. When I say wonderful, this

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Speaker 1: woman is great. She's very beautiful, has a great conversation,

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Speaker 1: has the whole package. We've been dating for six months now,

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Speaker 1: and I love her very much, and I trust when

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Speaker 1: someone from her past has come back into her life,

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Speaker 1: which has opened my eyes to a lot of things

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Speaker 1: I didn't know about her. One of the most shocking

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Speaker 1: things I found out about her is that she is bisexual.

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Speaker 1: And this person that has come back around is her

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Speaker 1: ex girlfriend. Yeah, we have your attention. Now, we have

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Speaker 1: your attention. When I found this out, I asked her

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Speaker 1: about her past. Seems like they had a very serious

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Speaker 1: She expressed to me that what they had is long

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Speaker 1: it go. Time passed by and things started changing between

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Speaker 1: me and my girl, Between my girlfriend and I. She

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Speaker 1: of daydreaming while being affectionate. It was like she was

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Speaker 1: the other day, I came home early from work and

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Speaker 1: the ex girlfriend was in my house with my girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: When I asked her about that, she told me they

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Speaker 1: weren't doing anything. They were just hanging out. I'm not

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Speaker 1: woman and everything, but it's that. But it's just that

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Speaker 1: doesn't seem right with this. Okay, what do you all think?

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Speaker 1: And what do you think I should do? Dear, what

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Speaker 1: do you think I should do? Tell me be quiet? Uh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got a problem. You do have a problem because

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Speaker 1: something is going on between your girl and her ex.

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Speaker 1: All the sons are there, Things are changing between the

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Speaker 1: two of you. She's coming home later than usual, the

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Speaker 1: girl is up in your house with your girl. Uh.

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Speaker 1: You sound like a really nice guy, but please don't

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Speaker 1: be stupid in this sense, uh, in this instant, you know,

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Speaker 1: what should you do? You should open your eyes and

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Speaker 1: see what's going on in front of your face. The

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Speaker 1: to your girl before she gets away? If it's not

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Speaker 1: too late, and it might be too late, twelve minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour, we will be back. Yeah, well yeah, okay, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, coming up next, here we go. We're coming

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Speaker 1: up right now, not next, it right now? Stephen Part

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Speaker 1: two of his response to the Strawberry letter. What should

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Speaker 1: I do? That situation going on in my with my

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Speaker 1: relationship that I need some help with a little while ago,

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Speaker 1: We have been dating for six months now, and I

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Speaker 1: you think I should do? Well? Brother, obviously you young.

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Speaker 1: because ain't a full grown man wrote no letter like

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Speaker 1: assuming that you this woman is so fine that you

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Speaker 1: now are blind. Shirley said it best. If this was

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Speaker 1: handling the exact same way. See if I come home

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Speaker 1: cracking at the crib for everybody at the crib? Can

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Speaker 1: you say, should night? I can't what somebody? I ain't

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Speaker 1: I ain't calling who somebody, just somebody though find of

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Speaker 1: can't say. But let's go over a couple of things.

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Speaker 1: You've been dating six months, and you love this woman

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Speaker 1: very much, and you trusted when she tells you that

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Speaker 1: came up. Well, now you have to find out that

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Speaker 1: your woman is bisexual. And the person that they came

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Speaker 1: Hold on, stop it did you miss when they were

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Speaker 1: having health class? Where was you doing health class? When

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Speaker 1: what they were sitting up talking about. They ain't fitting on.

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Speaker 1: They ain't planning on having no kids and making a

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Speaker 1: family together. Two women can't have no kids. Two women

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Speaker 1: can't make no family. I'm talking about biologic. So what

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Speaker 1: what day you what they told you will? They was

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Speaker 1: try to run it by the kids. Why the baby

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Speaker 1: really show one of them usually be a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: It happens, you know. So what they was gonna do

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Speaker 1: problem ain't her past. Your problem is her right now?

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Speaker 1: Now you say why y'all being affectionate together, she'd be

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Speaker 1: daydreaming a lot? What what? What do you think she'd

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Speaker 1: be thinking about? What was home girl doing that caused

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Speaker 1: me just say this Initially, when me and Tommy read

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Speaker 1: a letter like this, we like most men, we go

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Speaker 1: all right now, jack Pot, all right? But you in

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Speaker 1: love with this woman and it ain't Jackpott because they're

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Speaker 1: safe in to be no threes. I ain't being on

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Speaker 1: rather confusing going on. It's a lot going on with him.

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Speaker 1: So maybe you can help me out, because I know

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Speaker 1: you had a little while of life than your uncle

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Speaker 1: a lot going on. I ain't really quite show where.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to split the time. I don't

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Speaker 1: know who turned your kiss right there? All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we gotta go email or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today,

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter and my girls, Shirley, don't forget this Thursday.

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Speaker 1: Stick around for Facebook Live the After Show with the

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. I'll be there at one thirty p m.

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Speaker 1: Eastern Time this coming Thursday. We'll talk about the Letter. Well,

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Speaker 1: come on, come on, you're not gonna put out no, no,

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Speaker 1: get out of here with all that, but no, not

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Speaker 1: whatever you want to say. Thank you, Steve,