Speaker 1: Kick it off of your week with a brand new
Speaker 1: second date up day. It just makes everything better. Hey,
Speaker 1: welcome to the podcast. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: And I'm just gonna say today, imagine being on a
Speaker 1: date and having a waiter point out the one thing
Speaker 1: you're most insecure about to handsome.
Speaker 2: Oh is that what it is?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: It's exactly what happened to one of our poor listeners
Speaker 1: and that's why we have them on the phone today.
Speaker 1: We're going to help them try to recover from it. Dude.
Speaker 1: But before we get to the podcast, let's go over
Speaker 1: some of these comments that we got from our wonderful,
Speaker 1: wonderful listeners. Yes, I saw one from someone named Even.
Speaker 1: It's spelled Even. Okay, we'll go with you even Know.
Speaker 1: But it says love from Norway, Love you guys, Brooke.
Speaker 1: Pay them more. I need more content, apparently. I like
Speaker 1: that they think I'm that much of a boss. I do,
Speaker 1: and that's all we need. Well, more money, we'll just
Speaker 1: get more second day. We stay here all day. I
Speaker 1: got two bucks in my wallet. Hey, I'll follow about
Speaker 1: what I really will. All right, Hey, thanks for being here,
Speaker 1: and again, keep the comments coming, and like subscribe and
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Speaker 2: Second Date Update, Brooke, what's that filter that you like
Speaker 2: to use on Instagram to make yourself look like fifteen
Speaker 2: years younger?
Speaker 1: There's no filter, sweetheart, it's just life.
Speaker 2: It's the FaceTime filter that you pay extra for because
Speaker 2: the live filtering on the videos that costs a lot more.
Speaker 1: Don't use a filter, Jeff, Sure, yeah, FaceTime? You mean
Speaker 1: face two is actually what you mean?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Whatever, It's morning the old man behind the mic over there.
Speaker 2: But I only bring it up because in today's Second
Speaker 2: Date Update, age was at the forefront of the conversation,
Speaker 2: at least in the email that I just read from
Speaker 2: our listener, Phil and I learn from experience, and people
Speaker 2: get a little spicy when you talk about age. Jeff
Speaker 2: a little bit, but apparently I don't know. He is
Speaker 2: worried that it may have been a factor during his date.
Speaker 2: So let's talk to him, Phil, Phil, welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Can you hear me talking to the bottom part of
Speaker 2: the phone.
Speaker 4: Hi, can you hear me?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I can't hear you.
Speaker 2: Phil. What time is it where you are?
Speaker 1: I'm surprised you didn't go instantly the weather. Phil we're
Speaker 1: making fun of your age.
Speaker 3: I'm not okay, So here's what happened.
Speaker 2: Okay, we haven't asked you that question yet. You're gonna
Speaker 2: look quick.
Speaker 1: Can you take us off? Speaker?
Speaker 3: Phil? Here we go? Is that better?
Speaker 2: That's way better?
Speaker 1: Good job, man, You can't teach old dogs new trick.
Speaker 2: All right, man, officially, welcome to the show. How you
Speaker 2: doing today?
Speaker 3: Doing good? Doing good?
Speaker 2: Are you doing all of that? You still like us
Speaker 2: and you even sound off speaking, So let's go straight
Speaker 2: to your date.
Speaker 3: Here.
Speaker 2: Tell us about the girl that you met recently? What's
Speaker 2: her name?
Speaker 1: Man?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, good?
Speaker 1: And I'm guessing you didn't meet Mandy on that app?
Speaker 3: I did meet?
Speaker 2: Was it the app? Coffee meets Metamucila's long? That's too low?
Speaker 3: It was tender.
Speaker 1: That I like? Phil spicy? That's good? Like it?
Speaker 2: Okay? So walk us through the meeting and the meetup
Speaker 2: with Mandy.
Speaker 3: Yes, so I met Mandy on one of the apps,
Speaker 3: and we set up a date.
Speaker 2: You tell tell us about go to the date. What
Speaker 2: happened on your day? Where'd you go?
Speaker 3: We went to this really great seafood spot.
Speaker 1: It's a dinner date. And what were you feeling before
Speaker 1: Henry nervous excited.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, recently divorced. It's been a long time
Speaker 3: since I had a first date, so I'm a little nervous.
Speaker 1: Congratulations like getting back out there.
Speaker 3: Thank you. Yeah, okay, nice to hear something nicely.
Speaker 2: We become kind.
Speaker 1: We actually got your back, Phil, We got your back.
Speaker 2: That's good. So you go to the seafood restaurant where
Speaker 2: food is easy to chew, and how did it go?
Speaker 3: The conversation's good. There is some talk about social media. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I thought it was really interesting. She really liked the TikTok.
Speaker 3: I'm more of a Facebook guy. Yeah, I actually downloaded it.
Speaker 3: She got me, you know, interested in seeing how it's
Speaker 3: a little bit different.
Speaker 1: Dude. Old people go viral on that thing all the time,
Speaker 1: and now you're losing so many hours of your life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my dad sends me dog videos from TikTok.
Speaker 1: All day long. Watches really cute.
Speaker 2: It is pretty cool.
Speaker 4: Huh Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no matter what, I'm gonna thank Mandy for that.
Speaker 1: Were you guys able to connect over other things?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, we talked about a lot of stuff.
Speaker 3: It goes really good. We talked about like our first concerts.
Speaker 1: Oh, but that was a difference.
Speaker 3: Mine was Aerosmith and a nine when rock was.
Speaker 1: Real okay, okay, and.
Speaker 3: Hers was in fact ariana grande.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, a little bit. But hey, like we said,
Speaker 1: you were honest. You knew what she was getting into.
Speaker 2: That's good and the fact that you're connecting is a
Speaker 2: great sign. No matter what it is you're talking about,
Speaker 2: as long as the conversation is going smoothly, that's perfect.
Speaker 2: So take us to the end of the day. How
Speaker 2: did you wrap it up?
Speaker 3: So that was where it got a little embarrassing. Okay,
Speaker 3: how it happened a little embarrassing. The waiter came to
Speaker 3: give us our bill, and and then he said, we
Speaker 3: hope you and your daughter have enjoyed this mealed.
Speaker 2: So now you're in a tough position because you can
Speaker 2: either a let it slide and just brush it off,
Speaker 2: or be off. You confront the situation head on.
Speaker 1: And tell you just start making out. And I like
Speaker 1: that when I do this.
Speaker 2: What how did you handle it?
Speaker 3: Phil? You know, sometimes you just have to take it
Speaker 3: on the chin. Yeah, okay, I said, that's not my daughter.
Speaker 1: Did you get any read on her reaction to that? Moment.
Speaker 3: Not really, I was a little taken aback. I was
Speaker 3: a little embarrassed myself.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, do you think when you're out some when older,
Speaker 1: you expected like everybody plays that game where you see
Speaker 1: a couple like that out and you're like, you think
Speaker 1: they're a couple, or just yeah, you see people in line.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's fun to play that game.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's a gold situation.
Speaker 2: Yead.
Speaker 1: So okay, okay, have you reached out to her since.
Speaker 3: The date I have? I just haven't heard back, and
Speaker 3: I don't want to be one of those people that
Speaker 3: over text.
Speaker 2: You know, what are you doing? Are you just doing
Speaker 2: straight phone calls?
Speaker 3: I can text?
Speaker 1: Oh really, we're acting like he's eighty five years You've
Speaker 1: got to be in like your fifties or something, right,
Speaker 1: your sixties?
Speaker 3: No comment?
Speaker 2: No, okay, all right, I mean, well a lot of
Speaker 2: times ago, way to like reach people now is through DMS.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he has a number. He called a radio station.
Speaker 1: He's cool enough to listen to our show. We're gonna
Speaker 1: call it.
Speaker 2: It's just because we're calling from a random number. She
Speaker 2: might not pick up when we dial her, but maybe
Speaker 2: she will. Maybe she'll give us a chance and we
Speaker 2: can talk to her and hopefully get an answer for
Speaker 2: why she hasn't called you back to hang out again.
Speaker 2: Because you sound like a great guy.
Speaker 3: Well thanks for that. It's once again nice to hear
Speaker 3: a second nice thing.
Speaker 1: Well maybe by the end of this you'll have your
Speaker 1: whole finger. Yeah, you're accounting for brother.
Speaker 2: We're gonna think of lots of compliments to give to
Speaker 2: you and about you when we called Mandy and get
Speaker 2: you your second date update right after this. Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: all right, man, hold on second date update. Playing a
Speaker 2: little Aerosmith for our listener. Phil. Yeah, really in honor
Speaker 2: of the very first concert that he ever went to
Speaker 2: back in nineteen eighty nine. And I bet he never
Speaker 2: thought back then that he'd be on a hot date
Speaker 2: today with a cute girl named Mandy whose first concert
Speaker 2: was Ariana Grande. A little bit of an age difference there,
Speaker 2: which only came to light when their waiter dropped off
Speaker 2: the bill at their table and said, we hope you
Speaker 2: and your daughter enjoyed your time here. Kind of an
Speaker 2: awkward moment, but hey, Phil rolled with it. Unfortunately, though,
Speaker 2: he's not getting a response back from Mandy afterwards, and
Speaker 2: that's where we come in trying to help Phil. Every
Speaker 2: word she is hitting him up, but it's on TikTok, and.
Speaker 1: Guy, stop it. He is not that old. I mean
Speaker 1: he's rusty because he was divorced and this is his right.
Speaker 1: I mean. The one thing you may not understand is
Speaker 1: that there's a lot of like ghosting in dating now,
Speaker 1: like it's pretty normal and some people just like to
Speaker 1: go out for a dinner.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a point.
Speaker 4: Phil.
Speaker 2: Did you know that?
Speaker 3: Did I know that the thing happened to me happens?
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it happens all the time.
Speaker 1: It's not and you shouldn't take it personally because it's
Speaker 1: not a reflection of who you are or what you
Speaker 1: can offer in a relationship like that was a little spicy.
Speaker 2: And Bill, if we can get her, I'm not going
Speaker 2: to bring up the age thing at all to her
Speaker 2: unless she says it first. Is that good? Is that
Speaker 2: cool with you? Yeah? Well, because if it's not about
Speaker 2: the age, and why even bring it up.
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be because she again, when you meet on
Speaker 1: a dating app, you're forgetting.
Speaker 2: It's not like surprised.
Speaker 3: I was completely truthful about it.
Speaker 2: Okay, good, all right? So I'd love to hear what
Speaker 2: excuse she has for not calling a great guy like
Speaker 2: you back. Let's figure it out. I'm going to dial
Speaker 2: her number right now. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 2: we're going to talk with Mandy. This is a radio
Speaker 2: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Good morning, Hi, Hey,
Speaker 2: is it okay if we chat with you for a bit?
Speaker 4: I guess I don't have a lot of time, but okay, okay.
Speaker 2: Well this shouldn't take long because we're doing something called
Speaker 2: a second date update and we're trying to help out
Speaker 2: one of our listeners that you went out with the
Speaker 2: other night and we heard it was actually pretty.
Speaker 1: Fun, fancy seafood date.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, good conversation. Well, TikTok action with a guy
Speaker 2: named Phil.
Speaker 4: Oh no, not Phil.
Speaker 5: Yes, you mean oh yes philow Like I know, Phil's
Speaker 5: a little bit bummed because you guys haven't arranged a
Speaker 5: second meetup.
Speaker 2: And if you don't want to, that's up to you,
Speaker 2: but it would really help him out if you could
Speaker 2: give an explanation for why.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, remember, this is a guy who's back
Speaker 1: in the dating world. These lord and some new things.
Speaker 2: You have to admit He's a really nice guy, right,
Speaker 2: I guess.
Speaker 1: Guess wasn't he nice on the date?
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm into dating older guys. But Bill's picture
Speaker 4: it was a lot younger than what he made it out.
Speaker 1: Okay, so he was older than you would normally date basically. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, so it's like he's like forty or fifty
Speaker 1: in the picture, and then you showed up and he
Speaker 1: was He wouldn't tell us his age, so we really
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was off. It was not close.
Speaker 1: A lie on the app too.
Speaker 4: Well, I think his age was correct.
Speaker 3: Is this? It was a whole photo thing.
Speaker 2: Okay, So maybe he chose an older photo of himself
Speaker 2: because he liked how he looked however many years ago,
Speaker 2: which I think a lot of people do. But yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean we spoke to him and like his personality
Speaker 2: seemed very vibrant and young. Really yeah, remember Brock like
Speaker 2: photos aside, he's on TikTok.
Speaker 3: Now, yeah, he.
Speaker 2: Was like he sounds cool.
Speaker 4: Well, here's the weird thing. I was showing him how
Speaker 4: to how to. We were in the middle of the
Speaker 4: restaurant ordering and I was showing him how to do
Speaker 4: the TikTok and he basically ordered a glass of milk
Speaker 4: from that's such an old guy, and he apologize for
Speaker 4: the battery being too low, and he pulls out a
Speaker 4: full fanny pack and pack from the fanny pack and
Speaker 4: it was a super pack, not just like a tiny one.
Speaker 4: It was a super pack and the fanny pack.
Speaker 2: Everything.
Speaker 1: So he ordered milk and had a man fanny pack.
Speaker 4: And then on top of all the all that, the
Speaker 4: waiter he made a comment like a weird comet that
Speaker 4: was that.
Speaker 1: Was really embarrassing for him.
Speaker 4: If I was waiting on that table, I would think
Speaker 4: the same thing.
Speaker 1: Not a good response in his back pocket.
Speaker 2: Old guys, we keep a cook like a tube of
Speaker 2: grease to do your He's not a grandfather, is he.
Speaker 4: Well I don't know, but look well he did start
Speaker 4: talking about my credit score and my IRA.
Speaker 2: That's important.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're probably really good for my future. But you
Speaker 4: know that's not romantic.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well he's just a little too.
Speaker 2: It's good that you're sharing this with us, because Phil
Speaker 2: really did need to hear I think some of those things,
Speaker 2: because you might not know he is on the other
Speaker 2: line right now listening to this phone call.
Speaker 4: Many Oh my gosh, not Phil, Yeah, No.
Speaker 2: It's it's a good thing because he really did need
Speaker 2: to hear some of this stuff.
Speaker 1: He's old. Why to hear that, Jeb.
Speaker 2: He's new to online dating. He needs to learn like
Speaker 2: what to do and what not to do as he
Speaker 2: goes forward in age brackets is going forward? Phil, talk
Speaker 2: to Mandy. She's on the phone right now. You can
Speaker 2: have a conversation. Go ahead.
Speaker 3: So you're making fun of a fanny pack on the radio, it's.
Speaker 4: Not about that. It was a big charger and I.
Speaker 3: Feel like I like you, but a charger a lot
Speaker 3: can fit in that fanny Pat, do you have it
Speaker 3: on right?
Speaker 2: Boks getting turned on?
Speaker 1: You got in your fanie peck food.
Speaker 2: Okay, Phil, how did you feel hearing Mandy say all
Speaker 2: that just a moment ago.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. It hurt a little bit. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and some of that sounds a little unfair.
Speaker 1: Really?
Speaker 2: What part was the glass of milk cold or was
Speaker 2: it warm?
Speaker 1: And it's a good gas intestinal system if you can
Speaker 1: still process in his age cultured yogurt.
Speaker 3: One glass of milk before seafood. It helps with the gut.
Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't mean for you to okay it, Phil,
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, we got it. We got it,
Speaker 2: We got it. Phil. It just sounds like maybe between
Speaker 2: you and Mandy, there wasn't so much romantic feelings going on.
Speaker 2: It was more like a father figure wanting to help
Speaker 2: a younger person out. That was the vibe that she
Speaker 2: was getting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so what do you want? Many? How do How
Speaker 3: do I be more romantic towards You?
Speaker 2: Just have to think about it differently, Mandy. He's not
Speaker 2: an older guy. He's just classic.
Speaker 1: He's the most interesting man in the world.
Speaker 5: Yeah, sexy.
Speaker 2: No, you gotta look at it in a positive way,
Speaker 2: like you will never get a two am hey you
Speaker 2: up text from Phil. Yeah, they'll come at five thirty.
Speaker 2: But that's fine.
Speaker 3: You guys are supposed to be helping me, help me
Speaker 3: get a date with it.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're trying. So we're just gonna ask Mandy. Phil
Speaker 2: seems like a really cool, nice guy, and you admit
Speaker 2: yourself that you like older men. Yeah, not that old. Well,
Speaker 2: we still don't know what that number is, and we
Speaker 2: would like to offer to send you out on another
Speaker 2: date with Phil that we pay for one more chance.
Speaker 4: You know what, sign me up? I can get an
Speaker 4: a ARP discount.
Speaker 1: You can't do that, actually, Mandy.
Speaker 2: As long as you're rich, though, you get the benefits
Speaker 2: off of it. Special baby.
Speaker 3: If you're if your heart's not in it, just say no,
Speaker 3: it's fun.
Speaker 2: See well, he wants that genuine connection, Mandy, so give
Speaker 2: it to him straight. Do you really want to meet
Speaker 2: up again as a wingwoman?
Speaker 4: Not any romance, No.
Speaker 1: Need that right now. Listen, if you surround yourself with
Speaker 1: friends that are young, you look younger.
Speaker 2: Yeah, brook notes from experience, So there you go. Yeah,
Speaker 2: she hangs out with us all the time, Brookie. Jeffrey
Speaker 2: in the morning. A couple of texts coming in at
Speaker 2: seventy five nine to two that are saying we were
Speaker 2: kind of tough on Phil there, but.
Speaker 1: You were brutal.
Speaker 2: There's too many, you know. It's it was like Jose said,
Speaker 2: when you agree to be on a second date update
Speaker 2: with us, you have to be willing to hear the
Speaker 2: truth and get poked fun at a little bit.
Speaker 3: You guys.
Speaker 2: Listen, I think you went a little bit over the
Speaker 2: line during the the rest of us Alexis Jose me,
Speaker 2: good job. Yeah, we just skirted that line.
Speaker 1: Pats pots all around. I controlled myself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So jeff At the end of the day, let's
Speaker 2: admit we didn't get a second date. We failed on
Speaker 2: that front, but he did not. Here's the good news.
Speaker 2: Now that Phil has TikTok, he can follow our show.
Speaker 2: Hey we go viral.
Speaker 1: It'll only take him two days to find it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then he can listen to our second date
Speaker 2: updates every now and again. Wherever you get your podcast,
Speaker 2: Phil hear himself and be like, wait, I am getting old.
Speaker 2: What's going on? Go check it out, Phil, and all
Speaker 2: of you wherever you get your podcasts at Brook
Speaker 1: And Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.