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Speaker 1: Big Bang. You don't be on nothing, I be on okay,

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Speaker 1: So let me ask bring you big big facts.

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Speaker 2: Visit the new website today, Big factspad dot com co live.

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Speaker 3: From the coaching Lab in Atlanta. It's time for that

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Speaker 3: big Facts, Big Bang.

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Speaker 1: What up, Baby Jay?

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Speaker 4: What up?

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Speaker 1: DJ scream?

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Speaker 3: I'm here today away on welcoming the Queen of Dance Hall,

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Speaker 3: the one and only Spice a big Bang.

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Speaker 1: So what's what's up? What what's up? Welcome to Big Facts.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, thank.

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Speaker 1: You for full of up.

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Speaker 3: I feel like there's gonna be a very unique conversation.

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Speaker 3: We know that you're a person that speaks your mind.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna say what's on your mind. You're not gonna

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Speaker 3: hold back, So please please don't water it down for

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Speaker 3: us today. This is big Facts.

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Speaker 4: Can you promise us that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So I want to start with that Queen of dance

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Speaker 3: Hall thing, like I'm a person that has followed, like

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Speaker 3: you know, dance hall music for some time. And this

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Speaker 3: is not a self proclaimed thing, like they actually brought

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Speaker 3: you on stage in Jamaica.

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Speaker 4: And saying gave you like your own proclamation.

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Speaker 1: This is the Queen.

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Speaker 4: Sure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was crowing at the sub fest that big culture.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure that we have there a big festiveloped like

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Speaker 2: a concert. So I was growing at some facet.

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Speaker 3: So how does that feel like coming from you know,

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Speaker 3: obviously coming up in Jamaica and the humble beginners and

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Speaker 3: everything to actually going around the world and doing your

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Speaker 3: thing and charting and making music and becoming the celebrity.

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Speaker 4: For me, it feels good.

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Speaker 2: It feels like, you know, I've planted the seeds because

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Speaker 2: I'm celebrating twenty five years.

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Speaker 4: So I've been doing this for twenty five years.

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Speaker 2: I started in nineteen ninety nine, so mounting it's a

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Speaker 2: big thing for me, you know, coming as from humble

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Speaker 2: beginnings as I get a girl, coming out to the

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Speaker 2: struggles walking around giving out my songs in t CDs,

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Speaker 2: to hearing them now being played, to coming to America

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Speaker 2: to chase my dreams and making it big here, It's like,

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Speaker 2: you know, I just feel like I'm proud of myself

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Speaker 2: and not giving up right right.

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Speaker 5: So when you were so, when you were younger and

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Speaker 5: you were growing up, there was a period of time

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Speaker 5: that you actually live with your grandparents in London.

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Speaker 4: Correct, Yeah, I was. How was how was that for you?

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Speaker 4: Like leaving home and going over there to like the

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Speaker 4: different cultures.

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Speaker 2: It was hard because you know, in a Jamaica coming

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Speaker 2: it's so cold, and you know, in Jamaica we see

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Speaker 2: the dog and does a walk around plan the street

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Speaker 2: and you're probably showing them look for food and everybody.

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Speaker 2: You know, you go to England and the dog is

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Speaker 2: in the bed and you're looking like what. It was

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Speaker 2: a culture shock for me. So I remember like walking

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Speaker 2: just playing as a little girl in the streets barefooted

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Speaker 2: with your friends. You couldn't do that in England. Now

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Speaker 2: your grandfather is like, you gotta sit up, you gotta

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Speaker 2: be more posh, you gotta sick the tea, you got

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Speaker 4: It was very different from me. As I get a girl,

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Speaker 4: I was like, wait, what a different world. So it

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Speaker 4: was a culture shock when I moved to England. But

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Speaker 5: Helped you to be able to understand the differences and the.

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Speaker 2: Way people live absolutely stuff Like I feel like that

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Speaker 4: I feel like it kind of molded me into kind

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Speaker 2: The different the different you know, the different people, the

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Speaker 1: Some things you just couldn't get with, like when you

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Speaker 4: Like something that I couldn't get with.

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Speaker 2: I remember when I move, I love and here, but

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Speaker 2: of people don't know that there's this beach where I

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Speaker 2: don't know if I can say it here, but they

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Speaker 4: But in a Jamaica we don't play that, like.

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Speaker 2: You know, if you call somebody a bit like disrespectful,

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Speaker 2: But for me, it was like a disrespect It was

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Speaker 2: But now I find myself doing it, like saying it

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Speaker 4: But when I just came here.

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Speaker 2: It was a fight, like no carving a bitch because

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Speaker 1: You know what's some other sits. You had adapt to

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Speaker 2: Of things, the language, the language barrier, because I remember

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Speaker 2: like that also was a problem when I was on

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Speaker 2: Love and Hip Hop. It was like I had to

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Speaker 2: speak so that they could understand, because the castmate, if

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Speaker 4: So I have to adapt to a language change as well.

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Speaker 2: And that was difficult for me because you know me

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Speaker 2: and Jamaican, so sometimes you just want to chat with

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Speaker 2: your friend and me and now I'm a Jamaican.

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Speaker 4: But I had to adapt the language change.

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Speaker 1: So how you balanced that the music and feeling that.

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Speaker 4: Show the love of hip hop films for like ten

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Speaker 4: ten months.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people don't know that, so by the

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Speaker 2: time you get to watch it, I probably already already

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Speaker 2: filmed it. For me, it's hard because me as an

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Speaker 2: artists way man, all there is that traveling always a tour,

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Speaker 2: so I just have to kind of delegate my time

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Speaker 1: You know what percentage of it is real?

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Speaker 3: Me?

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Speaker 2: And I said more Scitan Huh, that's what I would

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Speaker 2: say when you were said cutting up. I'm like, wait,

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Speaker 2: trying to figure out. Yeah, most of it, you know,

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Speaker 2: it's real. It's our real life story. Well for me,

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Speaker 2: I can speak for myself. I don't know about the

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Speaker 2: other girls. If they make their stories up, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: but all of my shit is always real.

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Speaker 5: And then another thing that I wanted to ask you

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Speaker 5: to since we're talking about the Jamaican culture and the

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Speaker 5: dance hall and all of that, I know that you

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Speaker 5: and Vibes are extremely close and you guys have created

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Speaker 5: some masterpieces together, absolutely, and you.

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Speaker 4: Guys have a lot of love for each other.

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Speaker 5: So how does it feel great to have the World

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Speaker 5: Boss back on the term?

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Speaker 4: I'm excited. I'm excited. I mean I've been chanting.

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Speaker 2: Free World Boys for the past thirteen years when he

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Speaker 2: was incacerated, So I mean, I remember the day when

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Speaker 2: him come. I lost my advice because I was just

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Speaker 2: running and screaming in the airport because I landed to

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Speaker 2: the news.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, I feel good. I'm happy to see

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Speaker 4: him out with his kids.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy to see him smiling and in a place

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Speaker 2: where look at and smile and just feel that.

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Speaker 4: Jove and say, yeah, the Master, Yeah, I feel good.

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Speaker 4: I feel good. I'm excited.

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Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, the day before it starts, okay, absolutely, yeah,

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Speaker 2: thirty first Freedom Streets, I feel like the whole world.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's going to be there.

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Speaker 2: I should come there a witness, Yes, concert.

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Speaker 3: Less up less, the vast cartel. So I know you're

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Speaker 3: trying to talk about this, but Big Facts is a

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Speaker 3: great place to talk about it.

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Speaker 1: One more time.

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Speaker 3: I want to understand when you were saying that when

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Speaker 3: when someone masturbates, when someone masturbates, they are having six

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Speaker 3: with us a spirit demon, and that spirit demon can

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Speaker 3: actually affect your actual relationship.

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Speaker 1: Is that the right quote? And if it's not, you

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Speaker 4: When you're talking about a succubus. Yes see, but you

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Speaker 4: know you looks like I'm the only one that knew

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Speaker 4: that or talk about that.

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Speaker 1: Crazy. We just want to get to the bottom, honde.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, well, according to what I read, okay,

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Speaker 2: and I've heard a pastor say it before, I had

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Speaker 2: posted it on my page when the pastor did it,

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Speaker 2: because I'm like, y'all are making it look like I'm crazy,

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Speaker 2: because yes, I did talk about this before, and everybody

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Speaker 2: was telling a girl, what, so when you masturbate, there's

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Speaker 2: actually a spirit that you call onto yourself.

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Speaker 4: That is called incubus and zucabus.

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Speaker 2: There's a male sex it's like an energy course. Yes,

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Speaker 2: there's a male sex demon a female one. So when

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Speaker 2: you masturbate, you're actually, you know, calling on spirits onto yourself.

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Speaker 2: So you're basically having sex with spirits. It's called in

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Speaker 2: and how you call by masturbating, you started come out

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Speaker 2: by pleasing yourself.

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Speaker 1: So you do a lot of hat.

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Speaker 4: Why would you need to do that though?

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Speaker 6: I do it in front of my woman, You said, Well,

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Speaker 6: I said, I do it in front of my woman too.

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Speaker 4: Really, why not.

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Speaker 1: Live that ship? What? What?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 1: What the spirit's supposed to do to you when you

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Speaker 1: call it? She said, you can.

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Speaker 3: I wanted just the part where they were like, the

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Speaker 3: spirit can fall in love with you and interfere.

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Speaker 2: With your cor Okay, So yeah, let me let me

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Speaker 2: say something about that.

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Speaker 4: I've read. No, I've read I'm not confirming nor.

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Speaker 5: Denying, but I've read in magazines where like there have

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Speaker 5: been people allegedly that have pleasured themselves and you know,

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Speaker 5: had these spirit energy forces.

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Speaker 2: Husband, Yeah, fall in love with them to the point

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Speaker 2: where when I give mine comes along, yeah, spirit husband

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Speaker 2: fights them off and damaged they or.

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Speaker 5: Like like, let's just say, let's just say I'm a

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Speaker 5: I'm a I'm a female and masturbating myself and I've

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Speaker 5: just been like fucking niggas I can please myself.

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Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 4: Let's say I get married and have a husband.

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Speaker 5: And get pregnant that there have been reported stories allegedly

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Speaker 5: that those spirits and energies have interfered with the pregnancy

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Speaker 5: and terminated the pregnancies early.

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Speaker 4: Like type ship and damaged your relationship too. It was, yeah,

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Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, Like because.

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Speaker 5: When have published cases and published reports of those things

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Speaker 5: allegedly happening.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, saying I got an energy, female energy that's

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Speaker 6: in the way.

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Speaker 5: She's got allegedly so used to pleasing you and so

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Speaker 5: personal with you.

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Speaker 1: Then you got, huh, how often you gotta masturbate for

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Speaker 1: the again?

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Speaker 2: Once you do it one time, that's you haven't the

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Speaker 1: Everybody though, right, not me your life.

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Speaker 2: I don't masturbate because of that, but you have. I've

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's on you.

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Speaker 2: But that's why I say acknowledge though, So once I know,

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Speaker 2: That's why I say you got to read upon it,

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Speaker 2: truth in it, maybe you're gonna stop it you feel it, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's deep.

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Speaker 4: I'm not.

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Speaker 5: No like when you're doing it to yourself and you

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Speaker 4: Have you ever heard let me see, that's all gonna say.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever heard like women say it's more intense

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Speaker 4: That's blacks off energy that they're early. You know a

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Speaker 2: With the machine though, right, rolls and all that, But

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Speaker 4: If you're alone, I'm telling you.

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Speaker 1: That ship, that ship breaking the ship too. The rolls

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Speaker 2: But that you know about the roads, about the road

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Speaker 6: If a woman using road, it'll burn her click out.

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Speaker 6: It can you so many.

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Speaker 1: Girls that ship too much?

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Speaker 3: Speak up now, shot, don't get shot, desensitized, break the

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It.

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Speaker 4: That's all I'm gonna say.

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Speaker 1: What's the difference between the men from Jamaica and the

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Speaker 4: The man from Jamaica and the man over here? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Somebody just asking that question on the carpet, and I

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Speaker 2: that for me.

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Speaker 4: See, I gotta be careful.

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Speaker 1: You're not supposed to water down today down today.

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Speaker 2: I think they're more what would I say, more street?

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Speaker 2: I would feel like my Jamaica men are more street

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Speaker 4: You think they're more aggressive?

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Speaker 2: If that's also a part of like being more street

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Speaker 2: in terms of more militis or how would we say more?

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Speaker 1: Are you trying to say? No? Do you think that

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Speaker 3: Okay, don't water down to day on big Fast. Please

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Speaker 3: don't do that.

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 7: Power he's down to camera cousting, like, guys, what you doing?

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Speaker 4: What he just said?

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Speaker 1: That the truth? All we want to put on lotion

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Speaker 2: I'm not into that feminine like for me, I mean,

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Speaker 2: you want your niggas crusty, more manly and more you know,

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Speaker 2: street like you know, it's like okay me and go

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Speaker 2: tell you are goal. You're looking at the mirror more

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Speaker 2: than me and I do all of that unnecessary you

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Speaker 2: know soft.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you're telling the truth though.

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Speaker 4: I think they're also more straightforward to and more.

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Speaker 1: I think all Caribbean women women And.

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Speaker 4: He's not feeling it.

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Speaker 2: He's like, what she talking about?

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Speaker 4: You?

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Speaker 6: Nah, I get what she's saying. But yeah, I got it.

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Speaker 6: She's a woman, so she knows you get over here.

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Speaker 6: These niggas approach different. They approach different.

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Speaker 1: They're approaching like kind of scared, timid like most most Well,

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Speaker 1: she's speaking of the niggas straight.

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Speaker 2: Like like yeah, and I feel like even our jama

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Speaker 2: like that the Americans go talk and explain themselves and

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Speaker 4: Start up and look you get where safe?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like like yeah, like.

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Speaker 4: Because my life even with my personal experience like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you know what that's it?

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Speaker 4: Like my personal.

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Speaker 5: Experience like with Jamaican men and Haitian man like it is.

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Speaker 5: It's like two different worlds.

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Speaker 4: It is it is.

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Speaker 5: It's they make you understand that there are rules that

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Speaker 5: offense to my American men because it's a lot of

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Speaker 5: American men to put their foot down too. But with them,

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Speaker 5: that's like them all the way across the board with

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Speaker 1: That thing contradiction. The contradiction from and then we ain't

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Speaker 1: gonna turn into no relationship. The contradiction from American.

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Speaker 6: Black women and with men is if you act like

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Speaker 6: what y'all saying, y'all want being your controller.

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Speaker 1: But if you, if you become, if you become, you

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Speaker 1: heard what I said and I ain't through talking.

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Speaker 6: About and you sassy hold on if you, if you,

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Speaker 6: if you come, if you act like what she.

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Speaker 1: Just said, like Brady, is what it is your controlling.

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Speaker 6: But if you, if you, if you want them nigga

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Speaker 6: that go back and forth, try to explain yourself, then

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Speaker 6: you're sassine.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, not necessarily.

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Speaker 6: How you're going back and forth, if you're going back

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Speaker 6: and forth with your bitch, your bitch, if you, if you,

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Speaker 6: if you if you just let it be what it

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Speaker 6: is you you attached from your emotion.

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Speaker 5: I disagree because it depends on how you're going back

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Speaker 5: and forth.

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Speaker 4: If you're going back, yes, you're a bitch. Yes, understand.

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Speaker 6: When you're going back and forth, you're gonna eventually see

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Speaker 6: how just got out right?

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Speaker 1: You see.

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Speaker 6: I'm saying, when you're going back and forth trying to

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Speaker 6: make your part, you're gonna eventually speed it up. So

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Speaker 6: niggas like to be like you got it, babe, they're

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Speaker 6: that's a problem.

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Speaker 2: No, what I'm saying is if you're if you were

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Speaker 2: you're going back and forth to come to a mutual

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Speaker 2: understanding and having a discussionssion you're saying, But.

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Speaker 4: Let me saying what I feel.

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's a type of going back and

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Speaker 2: I'm going back and forth with a man or whatever,

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Speaker 2: and he's giving me like a too much of a

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Speaker 2: sassic conversation, like you're trying to downplay me or disrespect

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Speaker 2: me or whatever taught me taught me, or like you

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, I'm going to give you that

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Speaker 2: type of attitude to shut you down, to remind you

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Speaker 2: that I'm the woman. What you're doing, I should be

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Speaker 2: doing it. But if you give me like if you

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Speaker 2: give me like you know, grace, we're not going to

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Speaker 2: do that. I'm not on that right now. When you

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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying and give me a little two

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Speaker 2: little words and then you stop talking, I get it.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna more respect you. But if you're going back

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Speaker 2: and forth, going back and forth, tit for tack, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna give you the tit for tat. I remind you

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Speaker 2: that I got to do what.

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Speaker 1: We're saying the same thing. But so you put yourself

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Speaker 1: in a bitch position. To me, it's not it's deliverance.

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Speaker 6: To me, there's no way to deliver something when you're

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Speaker 6: in your feelings, in your feelings, but.

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Speaker 4: You can be in your feeling but deliver it. Like.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I say a cover are speaking on a conversation

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Speaker 6: or an argument, I'm speaking on argument either one.

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Speaker 2: Even if you're having an argument.

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Speaker 1: Whether you're speaking on a conversation or an argument, I'm

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Speaker 1: speaking on argument.

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Speaker 4: We just said it back and forth.

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Speaker 2: We didn't specify an argument a conversation.

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Speaker 6: No, But most of the time when you're having a

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Speaker 6: heated conversation. That's basically an art argument. Yeah for sure, but.

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Speaker 2: You still can deliver yourself in a respectful way so

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Speaker 2: the heats of the argument, she'll get it that this

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Speaker 2: is my man.

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Speaker 4: I'm not even gonna do that with him.

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Speaker 1: Some women, but.

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Speaker 2: Man, man, they like to give you that energy, so

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Speaker 2: you try to give back that energy naturally because you

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Speaker 2: are the girl.

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Speaker 1: They say anything else about big.

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Speaker 6: I'm just speaking to me what I've seen in witness.

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Speaker 6: I've seen dudes that be like I've heard women tell

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Speaker 6: me like he is like you don't care because he

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Speaker 6: don't want to argue. Right, you can't restrict he like

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Speaker 6: you don't care because he don't want to argue when

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Speaker 6: he argue. I don't heard women say he always got something, but.

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Speaker 1: See that.

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Speaker 2: It is a contradiction. But that also goes into comfort compassibility.

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Speaker 2: You gotta know your partner because for me, I will

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Speaker 2: tell you to stop. That don't mean I want you

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Speaker 2: to stop. See, you gotta understand there's a language within women.

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Speaker 2: Just like if we having sex and I'm like stop,

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Speaker 2: I don't mean I want to go harder. That's true,

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Speaker 2: you can like, no, you gotta understand you're a woman.

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Speaker 4: So it's like.

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Speaker 1: You no, no, keep on no.

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Speaker 4: You gotta understand her. It's a farm.

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Speaker 2: Of just so even if there's an argument, you gotta

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Speaker 2: know the type of girl you're with. Does she like

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Speaker 2: when you don't talk or does she like when you,

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Speaker 2: you know, communicate that.

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Speaker 4: I have a problem with this.

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Speaker 1: I have a real problem with people that's not their

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Speaker 1: self me to what I do. But it's so many

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Speaker 1: women that's not their self right. They would women would

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Speaker 1: act like they want you to be one way, right

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Speaker 1: as soon as you turn that way. It's just something

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Speaker 1: I lost from him.

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Speaker 6: Yes, like if I did everything my wife wanted me

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Speaker 6: to do, she would look at me as a whole

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Speaker 6: ass nigga.

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Speaker 1: Yes, straight straight up, because I know you a whole gangster.

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Speaker 6: So if I turned into the nigga you tell me

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Speaker 6: that I need to be, I'm not gonna be even

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Speaker 6: appealing to you.

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Speaker 1: I know this.

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Speaker 2: I'm telling you. That's facts the guy that I go

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Speaker 2: crazy for. That's the type of relationship we have, Like

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Speaker 2: tell him what to do. I can't tell him what

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Speaker 2: to do, but I like that.

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Speaker 1: But she tried, but we.

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Speaker 4: Will try try.

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Speaker 1: We will try if you.

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Speaker 2: But if you fall into that everything, I do think

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Speaker 2: we're gonna have you like a punk.

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Speaker 4: Like that too.

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Speaker 5: But I also like that same nigga that won't allow

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Speaker 5: me to tell him what to do well every now

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Speaker 5: and then make an adjustment to do some ship that

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Speaker 5: I like to do because he's heard what I've said.

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Speaker 1: Now what you like to do, I'm here to.

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Speaker 2: Do just like being with that gangsters like you tweak

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Speaker 2: a little bit, you gotta week, you gotta go week.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about.

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Speaker 4: Yourself.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying, tweak a little bit, like fucking, fucking,

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Speaker 5: fucking I don't know what I'm saying.

451
00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:15,880
Speaker 2: Now I know what you're saying, little bit, because you

452
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 2: can be with a hood figure like against the.

453
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,679
Speaker 4: Guy he's very against a very mad man masculine.

454
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,120
Speaker 2: But if I like when before I go in the car,

455
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,920
Speaker 2: you open my door, then you gotta be that gentleman

456
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:27,360
Speaker 2: now and.

457
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 4: Open my door. And if I say to you, you know,

458
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:30,719
Speaker 4: I like roses.

459
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:32,160
Speaker 2: You probably don't want to go to the road shop

460
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 2: every minute to pick up the road I like that,

461
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 2: So now you got to.

462
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:37,159
Speaker 1: We're gonna do all that.

463
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:38,640
Speaker 6: I'm gonna be here I'm talking about when it comes

464
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 6: down to me and my character traits. You know, if

465
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,640
Speaker 6: like if a woman just saying your mama tell you

466
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 6: just with some some hypothetically this is not for me,

467
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 6: Like I don't like you play.

468
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:50,400
Speaker 1: Golf too much.

469
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:52,920
Speaker 4: I'm change that.

470
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:56,159
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play more. No that don't do nothing too

471
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 1: much that I want to do, because I'm still gonna

472
00:21:58,359 --> 00:21:58,680
Speaker 1: make time.

473
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,120
Speaker 4: No, no, you gotta make time.

474
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,120
Speaker 2: Because if she's saying no, but if she's telling you

475
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 2: you do it too much, that means she wants more

476
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:06,600
Speaker 2: at that time.

477
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,439
Speaker 4: And a relationship is too personal.

478
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 2: You can't let me finish because you can't be in

479
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 2: a relationship. But like a single man, they might as

480
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:18,399
Speaker 2: well you're gonna be with yourself because you can't be

481
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 2: in a relationship with me. And I'm coming to you

482
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 2: and telling you, you know, I'm uncomfortable with this, or I

483
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 2: want you to change, or can we have more time?

484
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,399
Speaker 4: And you're like, no, you're gonna do more golf.

485
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 1: No what I'm saying, you're just telling me this. Don't

486
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 1: this don't.

487
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 6: Affect your time. You just saying I do something for

488
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 6: me too much. I play golf when you're at work.

489
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 3: He's saying, he's saying, he's saying from you know, he's

490
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Speaker 3: saying from a control control.

491
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Speaker 5: And if she's saying, if she's saying that you play

492
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 5: golf too much or whatever, would you ever entertain.

493
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Speaker 4: The idea of inviting her to come along one day? Yeah,

494
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:53,360
Speaker 4: I learn.

495
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 6: I'm saying, I will, I will. You're gonna be a

496
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 6: part of anything I do. What I'm saying is I

497
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 6: just use that as a as a point. I'm saying,

498
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,720
Speaker 6: like just a woman and say anything that that that's

499
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 6: within you. You smoke too many cigarettes and I don't

500
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 6: smoke cigarettes. How the fuck you're gonna tell me what

501
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 6: I do to me.

502
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 1: Is too much?

503
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:16,119
Speaker 2: Because I feel he gave me a thing like a problem,

504
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,199
Speaker 2: one of the traits of a problem that I have

505
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,880
Speaker 2: with most men, because I like a matra man. Men

506
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 2: don't like women telling them to change their characteristic because

507
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 2: men are egotistical. But they feel like if we say

508
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 2: something to change anything or to make them themselves better,

509
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 2: we're trying to control them or ruling them. We can

510
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 2: love you and say baby or smoking too much.

511
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 4: We can love you.

512
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 6: If you just send me, if you just keep sending

513
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 6: on Instagram, how smoking causes cancer.

514
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 1: Let me make up my mind what I want to do.

515
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: You can't make up.

516
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,400
Speaker 4: We're a partner. We're a partner.

517
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:56,439
Speaker 1: You can't make my mind up.

518
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 4: But we are a partner.

519
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 2: So if we go to buy a house and you

520
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 2: can't make up your mind wish house, I can't tell

521
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: you which house I want you to ain't.

522
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 6: That's that's those are those are those are decisions for

523
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 6: a couple.

524
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Speaker 3: I'm talking about something with me off person. It's like

525
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 3: if your man. If your man say he don't, I

526
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 3: don't want you to wear your hair that way? Talk

527
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 3: about like you do you for men?

528
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 4: Who I Okay, So I have two persona.

529
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 2: I wear blue hair when I'm spiced, but when I'm

530
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 2: my normal self at home, I wear black hair.

531
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: If my massage don't want you wear blue period?

532
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 2: If I might say that, then as Grace Hamilton, I

533
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 2: can wear different colors.

534
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 4: I'm going to compromise.

535
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: Want you well, no colors.

536
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 6: I want you to cut your color all head. That's

537
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,400
Speaker 6: what I want to wear my ball hat cut about.

538
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying?

539
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 6: Like women, they set their boundaries, but you don't supposed

540
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 6: to never have boundaries.

541
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: You don't supposed to have everything. You should be negotiable.

542
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 4: I feel like it's a couple of things. That's where

543
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 4: you got to understand your part.

544
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: No, I woke up the day and felt like a fact,

545
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: I don't want you doing a dance. She don't want you.

546
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 2: Sure, Now you're having a different conversation. Now you're telling

547
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 2: me to give up my dreams and my career for

548
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 2: whatever reason. See that happened to me, you know that

549
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 2: happened relationship.

550
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 1: A dream to smoke. I don't think being in the

551
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: clubs in all this stuff trying, I don't think it's safe.

552
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: No, in my previous relationship, In my previous relationship, point

553
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 2: I was you know, everybody know I was talking to.

554
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 2: He had a problem with how I dance on stage

555
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 2: as the Queen of Dan Song. So he used to say.

556
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 2: He used to say, I need to start whining on

557
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,199
Speaker 2: niggas or stop doing certain things. And I had a

558
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 2: problem with that because at the end of the day,

559
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 2: that's my career, that's my job. Now you're interfering with

560
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 2: me as an artist and my life, my livelihood. You know,

561
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 2: I couldn't give up my dreams that I've been fighting

562
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 2: for for twenty five years for a man. A man

563
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 2: will walk anytime you can break up with a man.

564
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 2: What I built for myself as my brand, that will

565
00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 2: never leave me. That's who I am. So I had

566
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 2: a problem with that.

567
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 5: That's just like a nigga, mean the bitch that works

568
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 5: in the strip club and fucking trying to tell her

569
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,959
Speaker 5: that he doesn't want her to strip anymore, but not

570
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 5: offering her an alternative about to stop.

571
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 6: How gonna all this ship that you want a nigga

572
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 6: to switch up with no alternative?

573
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: Please understand what I'm saying. We get that, and a nigga.

574
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 6: Gonna don't gonna say it one time and adjust either.

575
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,439
Speaker 6: If not, nigga say it one time like what they

576
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 6: I don't really like when you do that. If I

577
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 6: see that what she continued to do, you might not

578
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 6: never hear me say that none other. But again, if

579
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 6: I stay or it's a deal breaker. A woman gonna

580
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 6: keep nagging you about some ship that she just want

581
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 6: to see if you're gonna change, but she's been it

582
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 6: probably don't even want you to change it.

583
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 1: I just want to see if you're if you'll go

584
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,360
Speaker 1: for it. That's true now, but you do.

585
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 2: Have a point, though you do, we do do that.

586
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:55,360
Speaker 2: We try, y'all, but that's her job.

587
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 1: And more so than our job. Is I can't this

588
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 1: thing with one's in the trites ain't going for nothing

589
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: like a motherfucker. You tell me some ship, that's absolutely right.

590
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,199
Speaker 1: I still be like, I don't hear that ship and

591
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: applied though, I ain't gonna tell you I applied it.

592
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 1: But over use your ship.

593
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, I can't let you know you just changed my man.

594
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 6: Want a motherfucker know they could change your mind? Bro,

595
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 6: I can make you do anything.

596
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 3: Damn, why why why? And we won't turn into a relationship.

597
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,360
Speaker 3: Why does it have to be yeah, for sure? Why

598
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 3: does it have to be that complicated? It just seems

599
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 3: real complicated. Like women are saying.

600
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 1: They've received a child, well woman. When a woman receive

601
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 1: a man in a relationship, they feel like they're taking

602
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: on a motherly role.

603
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 2: But when a man received a woman, he feels like

604
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 2: he took on like a maid or something or his mother.

605
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 1: Get what, women expect me to sacrifice their happiness for

606
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: their family. They will sacrifice their family for their happiness.

607
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 1: Put that on the shirt. Just women feel like a

608
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: man is supposed to sacrifice his happiness for his family

609
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: the whole.

610
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:22,120
Speaker 4: Wow.

611
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: A woman can't wait to sacrifice her family for her happiness.

612
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: You know, need to.

613
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 6: Tellt on your ass to be happy because she's unhappy.

614
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 6: A nigga, stay and be unhappy for you to be happy.

615
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 4: Woman in a relationship unhappy to police man. Although you're saying.

616
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: That women stay in the relationship unhappy, but.

617
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 2: Into you started to get into because there's a lot

618
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 2: of women that I know right now that is in

619
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 2: a relationship and they're not happy, but it is doing

620
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 2: it for the ground and they stay in that ship

621
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 2: even to even to please them, like make another girl

622
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 2: feel like, oh yeah, I got the man and you're

623
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 2: not getting it, and she's not happy with that man.

624
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 1: But there's a lot of women. A woman ever happened

625
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: with a man? Is she content? Is she's she's in

626
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: secure place?

627
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 2: No listen, but she's staying I happy relationship regardless, just

628
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 2: for the money, just for fame, just for anything.

629
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: Most women, once women, they off of off of potential

630
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 1: money and fame. That's what they coming in for. A

631
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 1: man coming in this shit.

632
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 6: Most women, man, when they meet you, you're gonna have

633
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 6: to have something motion man a going to get no

634
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,479
Speaker 6: bomb ass nigga. How these nigga going to get these

635
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 6: bomb ass holes and love them?

636
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 4: So how is this broadcast? Nigga still fucking?

637
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 1: They fucking but the ain't no bitch fucking with them.

638
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: You ain't on my face.

639
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 6: What you're not on, You're not might do a nigga,

640
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 6: go get a Brokenn Beach and make her this is

641
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 6: my baby, change.

642
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 4: Your turn off a lot.

643
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 6: I see a lot a woman ain't finna turn the

644
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,959
Speaker 6: Yeah that nigga, you know, broke nigga gonna fuck your back.

645
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: It's all I got, baby, I gotta, I gotta you

646
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 1: what I got.

647
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 6: If nigga finished standing that shit two hours, ain't finish

648
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 6: with the man.

649
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 5: But listen all got Going back to your quote where

650
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 5: you said that a man will sacrifice his happiness for

651
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 5: his family, but a woman will sacrifice her family for happiness.

652
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 5: I don't understand that because my thing is you're basically.

653
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 4: You just said that. It was like it's easier for

654
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 4: a woman to tear out.

655
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 2: But I disagree because at the end of the day,

656
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 2: the woman is the one who holds the family together.

657
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 2: The woman is the one who takes care of the kids,

658
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 2: who runs the household, who guts.

659
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,479
Speaker 4: Cleans, does everything. She can't just up and leave from

660
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 4: that shit.

661
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 2: A nigga can go where out the fuck and start

662
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 2: a new family start.

663
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: And that's not the family is not the kids. What

664
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying is the family consists of the kids. Like

665
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: just say, for this.

666
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 6: Instance, right, this happened more than often. You can see

667
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 6: a couple, a happily married couple, they've been together twenty

668
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 6: fifteen years. Yeah, she gets unhere, happy or whatever. She

669
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 6: meet a guy that's willing to take her long and

670
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 6: take her the kids. She will break that family up

671
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 6: right then and there because she's unhappy.

672
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: But statistics shows that it's quicker for a man to

673
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 2: walk away from his family because it's easier for him.

674
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 2: He don't have the baggage off the kids and the whole.

675
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:20,959
Speaker 2: He can push this the kids family easier.

676
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 1: But it's really some men sacrifice that though y'all don't

677
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: know an I don't agree, Okay, we gotta agree to

678
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: disagree because it ain't no man happy. What do you mean,

679
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 1: I ain't happen?

680
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 4: Bro Listen to this, he said, ain't no man happy.

681
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 6: I could be happy with you, but you're not because

682
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 6: you're not waking up doing what you want to do.

683
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: It's in our nation to want to be do something

684
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: different every day.

685
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 6: Ain't even speaking on women, just something different outside of

686
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 6: compromising for a relationship.

687
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 2: So you're saying all men every day they wake up

688
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 2: just to want to do something different.

689
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 4: Yes, so that's why y'all cheat.

690
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 6: Yes too, But I ain't speaking on that. I'm just saying, like, bro,

691
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 6: it has to be you really got a po a

692
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 6: probation officer, demny, you just ain't piercing you own curfew.

693
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 4: So you don't think women feel time way?

694
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: How?

695
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 5: But I don't know you that's why you, but most

696
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 5: niggas do. But hold on, I don't think most niggas

697
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 5: are willing. Most niggas are willing to go the extra

698
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 5: distance to nut the fuck up if they feel like

699
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 5: anything is off while they're out doing whatever the fuck

700
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 5: they do.

701
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 2: For me, my take is for him to say, oh,

702
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: you're on curfew. That's why I always tell people, you

703
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 2: can't change a man. A man gotta want to change,

704
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 2: and you can't make a man want you. A man

705
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 2: gotta really want you, so that respect comes from you,

706
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 2: not really our curfew. But if you respect your household

707
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 2: and your woman enough, you know, oh you can't see,

708
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 2: oh I got.

709
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 4: To go home because you know, why.

710
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 2: Would you want to be out at three four am?

711
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 2: Knowing that your woman is at home leaves by herself.

712
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 2: That's when she's gonna want to get a next man

713
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 2: to make her happy.

714
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 6: Yea, what you're saying, you're saying the same every time

715
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 6: I say so, you're saying the same thing I'm saying

716
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 6: in a different way, and you just don't even know it.

717
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is.

718
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 6: I'm gonna come in your house and respect you.

719
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 4: You don't want to go home so you don't feel

720
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 4: like you're on a nurse.

721
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes I may not want to come home at me.

722
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 2: You don't want the woman and the relationship man to

723
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 2: always want to come home.

724
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: You can't say that. I may want to go to

725
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 1: Jamaica and chi hid for three days with my parliament a.

726
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 4: Relationship, though, would you want to leave if a woman.

727
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 6: Where I'm okay, people like okay, if you was in

728
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 6: a relationship, if you.

729
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: Don't, if you if you if you was in a.

730
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 6: Relationship, right, uh huh, your job calls for you to

731
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 6: sleep out sometimes.

732
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 2: But that's different, is different yet because I'm not purposely

733
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 2: just going to somewhere for pleasure.

734
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 4: Oh babe, I'll be back in three days. No, I'm

735
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 4: going to work. It's a difference.

736
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 1: So if you work working on my mental as you

737
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 1: talking about you at telling man, this is weird to me. Bro, No,

738
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: I'm working on.

739
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 2: My my I tried to work on that same piece

740
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 2: and take that same.

741
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 4: No, that's gonna be a problem, you know what.

742
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 1: Hurry up and go. How many girls and there are? Man, girl,

743
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm married. I'll be on my way thirty years, thirty years.

744
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 4: He's a different breed. We just we can't even use

745
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 4: him as an example.

746
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 3: What he's saying, what he's saying, what he's said, what

747
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 3: he's saying, be spot on, is just really the world,

748
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 3: the world even so real ship. He's what he's saying,

749
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 3: and he's saying it from a place of actually shot

750
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 3: the perspectives. Check out bank perspectives. Well, it's a place

751
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,720
Speaker 3: of healing that and we can get to these conversations.

752
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be honest with me and my wife. We

753
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 3: had to have a conversation about we make each other happy.

754
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 3: We had to have a real conversation about each other's happiness.

755
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 4: I'm like that, that's cool.

756
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 3: I love to work. I love music like I love

757
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 3: this ship before I loved you. I love music to

758
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 3: the point of emotion like I love this ship. So

759
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 3: she was like, sometimes you just need to go out

760
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 3: and do music. I don't care about that ship, you know.

761
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 3: For her, She's like, sometimes I need to go out

762
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 3: and be by some water. I have to for my

763
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 3: mental health. Me I'm cool on it. I don't need

764
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 3: how to swim. So I'll be like, all right, go

765
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,760
Speaker 3: with your mama, go be by some water for your happiness.

766
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 3: I think that people is not supporting, but thank you.

767
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 4: That's all that. What you're saying is that.

768
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 5: But what I'm saying to you is if Jessica came

769
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 5: to you today and said, hey man, tomorrow, I'm going

770
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 5: to Jamaica for three years old, that I can fucking

771
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 5: clear my mind with my homegirls or whoever the funk

772
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 5: else that I'm going with.

773
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 4: You are not going for that. You're not Finna tell

774
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 4: me that you are.

775
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: I don't like it. You're not. Guess what if you're not?

776
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 3: If it if it comes down to it, When I

777
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 3: told her when I should tell her I'm finna go

778
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 3: on tour for four five, six months and I might

779
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 3: not be able to call every three minutes and pick up.

780
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 3: It is work, but it's a lot of ship that

781
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 3: can go on with that tour. She trusted me and

782
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 3: hell it then didn't give me no smoke.

783
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 4: That's what I got to respect that, bro that's two

784
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 4: different things.

785
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: Everything different, man, It's like man, y'all remix everything, man, everything.

786
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: They're gonna find a way that.

787
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 6: Just I'm speaking on women, broat, don't get in your finish, queen.

788
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 6: I'm talking about women. That's what all women do. They're

789
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 6: gonna find a way that that's different. Everything she did

790
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 6: she did, just say she did this same that. That's

791
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 6: part of their job. That's women. That's the part of

792
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 6: the what women. Women are going to.

793
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: Here's the thing.

794
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 3: I'm gonna just be honest about it. Women complicate ship

795
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 3: and we complicate ship too. Sure, for sure, that's part

796
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 3: of it, part of it. That's part of like I'll

797
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 3: be like I tell my own wife, that was very complicated.

798
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 3: You could have just said this, but they can't do

799
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 3: it that way. No, I wanted to show and talk

800
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 3: about the ifs and the age and the beas and

801
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 3: the season, the dis to get to the point of

802
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 3: you could have just said this and I would have

803
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 3: said yes or no. That's what That's the nature of

804
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 3: a lot of women. And we complicated ship too, just

805
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 3: keeping it real. It's fucking complicated. Why does it have

806
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 3: to be this complicated? That's the real question. This ship

807
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 3: is just complicated.

808
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,959
Speaker 6: I just don't understand, Like, like, like you just said,

809
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 6: I'll be talking to women and I just all women

810
00:37:55,520 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 6: think the same. No, not at their core, at their core.

811
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: Not some of them.

812
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 6: The women that donet gave up on a nigga, like,

813
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 6: fuck these niggas and fuck little all the hopeless romantic

814
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 6: women think the same, all the whole thing the same.

815
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, they all think the same.

816
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 4: I don't agree with you, So I don't know why

817
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 4: you're looking at me.

818
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 1: They do know they do. They portray they think the same.

819
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 6: Because you could be my homegirl, right, you could tell

820
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 6: me every day how to be.

821
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 1: Don't You shouldn't do it like that.

822
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 6: You shouldn't do it like that and agree with me

823
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:31,760
Speaker 6: on certain ship as soon as you get a relationship.

824
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 6: You wouldn't do that with your dude, and you know

825
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:35,959
Speaker 6: that this is what he's supposed to be doing because

826
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 6: it's in his nature. You understand my nature of being

827
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 6: my home boy, but you wanta understand your due nature

828
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 6: in a relationship.

829
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 4: That happens sometimes all the time.

830
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: So, and that's another thing they do. They can't totally

831
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 1: agree with you either. You know what I'm saying.

832
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 3: You know what happens when when there's an agreement or

833
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 3: disagree Now it's final. A woman on life final, They

834
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 3: want I don't want to talk about this ship no more.

835
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,439
Speaker 3: After the day, we're gonna stop talking about this ship.

836
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 3: A woman wants to know we might have to revisit.

837
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 2: It because they're not comfortable to move on. Men like

838
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 2: to do stuff and just jump over it and move on.

839
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 2: We like to get past it, work it out, talk

840
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: about it. Why did it offect me, This is why

841
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: you offended me, and then when we feel comfortable, then

842
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 2: we move on. Y'all want to just push it under

843
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 2: the rug and move on.

844
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 4: But I've learned that in a lot of cases, men

845
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 4: like to.

846
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 5: Finalize it and not talk about it because it's over.

847
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 4: They're avoiding natural it is not because you feel like

848
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 4: it's okay, a lot of a lot.

849
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 2: Of times in a relationship. Not because you feel like

850
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 2: it's okay. That means we've moved on past it.

851
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: We still hurt you feel.

852
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 6: However you feel. No, I say, I'm gonna make you

853
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 6: feel worse by lying or whatever. You what is he

854
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 6: gonna get by keep on dragging out? You keep ragging out,

855
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 6: I'm gonna start calling you. I'm gonna start calling out

856
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 6: your name. Get upset because I'm already wrong.

857
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: What you're saying. Apologize by the fun were talking about

858
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: this ship for six weeks?

859
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,720
Speaker 2: Because for six weeks, what are you gonna What answer

860
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 2: are you gonna get? Because for six weeks we're still hurting?

861
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 1: Okay, so what am I go see a counselor so

862
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: let me ask you, no, No, let.

863
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 4: Met a relationship together.

864
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: For a reason. So let me no see what you're

865
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,280
Speaker 1: trying to do. You're trying to create chaos.

866
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 4: Let me let me ask you a question.

867
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: No, let me ask you a question the topic whatever.

868
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 5: The topic is that you guys are trying to cut

869
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:39,320
Speaker 5: off or not speak on again. Okay, let's say we

870
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 5: we do what you say and we cut out on

871
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 5: it again, and then you saying, Okay, you understood where

872
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 5: I'm heard at. You understood this this blah blah blah,

873
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 5: bah blah whatever. But then the ship comes back up

874
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 5: again and you do the same ship and how do

875
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 5: you propose we handle it?

876
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:56,720
Speaker 1: Then then what you're supposed to do is make a decision.

877
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 1: This is what type of nigga dise is? Can I

878
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 1: deal with him? I can't. I can't change nobody. That's

879
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 1: what that that's comes.

880
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 4: I feel like you're being two faced.

881
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:11,799
Speaker 6: I'm a gemini, but I'm not being to.

882
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 2: Because you just told me that you were married for

883
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 2: thirty years. But now you're not giving off for energy

884
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 2: to me like you know my sense I got you.

885
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you something real it's giving me. Oh

886
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:27,439
Speaker 2: this is wow, this is our How do you maintain your.

887
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 4: Thirty year relationship? That don't sound like like it's not.

888
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: No, that ain't two face, That ain't two faith. I

889
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: maintained it.

890
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 6: But it's problems. Niggas will sacrifice their happenings through their problems.

891
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 6: What I'm speaking of, this is a problem. This, this

892
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 6: is a problem. If me and you, if if we

893
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 6: have if we have an argument, how we're gonna get fastive.

894
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,360
Speaker 2: All I gotta do is, like you have an argument,

895
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 2: you just do it talking about it.

896
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:57,280
Speaker 1: You know I have to do six weeks.

897
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,919
Speaker 2: That's why I says two face, because I know there's

898
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,439
Speaker 2: nowhere your wife would just talk.

899
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,319
Speaker 1: About move on. I did just say that's what I

900
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: inspire to do. That's not what I do. That's why

901
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: I'm frustrated by talking about it. I have to talk

902
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:12,240
Speaker 1: about the same ship.

903
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 4: But as a woman.

904
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 2: Now I'm telling you, yes, you will have to talk

905
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,240
Speaker 2: about the same ship for six weeks until we're comfortable

906
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 2: and feel like, okay, we're over it now, okay.

907
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 6: But then when we're talking about it for six weeks,

908
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 6: do you know what that six weeks do to me?

909
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,360
Speaker 1: That six weeks scars me. That's what.

910
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 6: Let me tell you something, how this ship go? Please listen, listen,

911
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 6: Please listen to this. If a woman out there, please

912
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 6: listen to this. Once you dragging on, you're basically in

913
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 6: a man's mind telling me how you see me. I

914
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 6: don't want to feel that you see me as a

915
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 6: fuck nigger because I'm gonna go extra.

916
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: But if you fucked up, we're gonna taunderstand up.

917
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 6: But if you're giving me grace, give me grace and

918
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 6: not move on because you dragged me on.

919
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: Tell me hold up, let me this please, and you're

920
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: gonna just hear me. See, women, when they got a

921
00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 1: point in the head, they can't even hear you. They

922
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: can't even hear you. Spring she can't even hear me

923
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,360
Speaker 1: because she already stuck on what you're stuck on.

924
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 2: Because I'm stuck on the point that you made that

925
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 2: I'm not comfortable with. So I'm gonna address it.

926
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 4: You said, you said, this is exactly what was right, exactly.

927
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: But yes, every time I talk, you said, we say

928
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 2: the same thing. That means you're not hearing me either.

929
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: No, I'm hearing you, you're not. You didn't hear me

930
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,919
Speaker 1: the first time you corrected me and saying what I said,

931
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: because you didn't hear me.

932
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,200
Speaker 3: So the point, the big, the big, the big, the

933
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 3: big point, big point, the big point of this is

934
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 3: the great point of this is this is this is

935
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 3: I love this because this.

936
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: Is healthy, this is very healthy. I love it. I

937
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: love it so healthy, it's so healthy.

938
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 6: They said anything else about what.

939
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 2: I got, big fang, the six months things, this is

940
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:02,880
Speaker 2: not my song ex boyfriend, y'all got to listen to

941
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 2: my song called ex Boyfriend. It just reminds me of

942
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,319
Speaker 2: it so much because in the song, I started it

943
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 2: by saying, why do men give us this feeling? I'm

944
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 2: so unsure? They say they want love, but they do

945
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 2: the things that make us insecure. That's how I started

946
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 2: the song, because the truth is, men will do things

947
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 2: to you, and then they will do the action and

948
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 2: don't like the reaction. And I just get this vibe

949
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 2: from even the conversation because y'all want to.

950
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:32,919
Speaker 4: Do the thing and then act like, oh okay, in.

951
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 3: Your prior in your prior situations, you're saying, for sure,

952
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 3: I'm sure that the men, the men fucked up sometimes

953
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 3: right in your pride situations.

954
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 4: Like men will do things.

955
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 1: Let me ask this one thing.

956
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 3: Is there accountability for the things that you did in

957
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 3: those priore situations too? Because we know you're not perfect.

958
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 3: That person wasn't perfect, and you're not portraying to be perfect.

959
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 3: But there's their accountability for the things that you may

960
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 3: have done to Maybe you potentially caused those things in

961
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 3: back and forth stream that bad?

962
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 6: You never heard that that wasn't even that bad? Have

963
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 6: you ever said that at your mouth? To a niggas

964
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 6: when a nigga telling you something and saying like, well, babe, this,

965
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,360
Speaker 6: well you did this, and he'd be like, well that

966
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 6: ain't even that that like because it don't equal up

967
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 6: to how you felt, how you felt he felt. You

968
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 6: get what I'm saying, Woman feel like they hurt different

969
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 6: than men just because you express it differentated don't get it.

970
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: Quiet now you talk.

971
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 4: Because he said about listening.

972
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: You heard that. That's why you forgot you heard it.

973
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: You heard it.

974
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,959
Speaker 4: But we do take things a little bit deeper than man.

975
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 6: How you know you expressed that you take things deeper

976
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,800
Speaker 6: than me. How you know how men take things?

977
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 4: I feel like we do.

978
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 6: You expressed you wish hold up, but you expressed if

979
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 6: your dude lose all him out of gambling and come

980
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:55,919
Speaker 6: in the house, he's gonna You're gonna know some wrong,

981
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 6: but you're not gonna be able tell that that's what

982
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,800
Speaker 6: happened because he's a man. He's gonna hold horrid it.

983
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 6: I don't want my queen the world. I'm finna go

984
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 6: handle my business. So if I'm hurt, I don't want

985
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 6: you to see me hurt because I don't want to

986
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 6: be too vulnerable.

987
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: I want you to know she's hurting and how she's hurting.

988
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 2: Okay, but we're in a relationship and I hurt you.

989
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 2: How are you gonna express yourself? You're not gonna cry

990
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 2: and snob, No, I'm gonna because we express ourself differently,

991
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 2: we're more emotional.

992
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: We should do better and expressing ourselves.

993
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 6: You're saying the same thing, but that don't mean I'm

994
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 6: not internally hurt the same way.

995
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: That don't mean I'm not internally hurt the same.

996
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 4: Way, but you don't express it though happens.

997
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 1: She's saying, how and that's fair. I've been through that.

998
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: How am I gonna know? If you don't say shit? Y'all?

999
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: Don't say I'm saying. I say something, but I don't

1000
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 1: drag it out.

1001
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 6: What I'm saying is, okay, Listen, if you do something

1002
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 6: to me that I don't like right and I be like,

1003
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 6: they don't do that that makes me feel like this,

1004
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:50,439
Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you how it make me feel.

1005
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 1: It makes me feel like this. I don't like that.

1006
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 1: Please don't do that. You know what I'm saying.

1007
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 6: I express that that to you, so you don't do it.

1008
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 6: But I'm hurting a woman. Could you could do the

1009
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 6: same thing to be hurt the same exact way. She's

1010
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 6: gonna come to you cry, I can't believe you did this.

1011
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 6: I understand that. I understand that, and.

1012
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: You're right you you you got able to It's I

1013
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 1: agree with that.

1014
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 6: But what I'm saying is you can't say because you're

1015
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 6: crying not and I'm being quiet and I'm not as hurt. Yeah,

1016
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,959
Speaker 6: that's all I'm saying. So because I'm trying to steer

1017
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 6: protect you.

1018
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 2: At the same time, that's true, because I don't want

1019
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 2: to see you crying and often like me to express yourself,

1020
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 2: that goes back.

1021
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:31,839
Speaker 6: You don't hurt, you'll be like that one that bad

1022
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 6: because I didn't show those emotions. No, so you don't

1023
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 6: know that you hurt me the same way I hurt

1024
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 6: you because I didn't express I expressed it the way

1025
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 6: I know how, but I didn't do all that well.

1026
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 2: So now you gotta let men know that they need

1027
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 2: to learn how to express them.

1028
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 1: No, women need to know. If a man tell you,

1029
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: if a women need to know, if a man tell you, hey,

1030
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: they I don't like that, don't do that. That means

1031
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: he's hurt about that. He don't like it. Take that,

1032
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: I wanna take that camera.

1033
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 4: Stop talking about fat yeah, stop for.

1034
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,959
Speaker 2: All the men behind the camera, stop talking about facts

1035
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 2: and stop picking up for him.

1036
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 4: Man don't know how to express themselves.

1037
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 1: We can.

1038
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 4: I don't know how to express We can we can?

1039
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 1: First of all.

1040
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 4: First of all, first gag.

1041
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 2: Or the cad gag me. First of all, young men

1042
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 2: don't know how to express yourself. Something will happen, y'all

1043
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 2: keep it inside. But as soon as we come and say, oh,

1044
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 2: why did you do that?

1045
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:33,839
Speaker 4: But remember last week and six months ago?

1046
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 6: Perfect baby, No, you ain't perfect.

1047
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 4: So we can know because when some time we talk about.

1048
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: It, we gonna come pray. We can Why you bringing

1049
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 1: up something? When I bring up something? This al no

1050
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 1: hold of my almo. I go through ship too well.

1051
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 2: First of all, first of all, if I bring the

1052
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 2: stuff into a competition thing, no heart, that's where's the

1053
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:04,839
Speaker 2: whole ship just goes all the.

1054
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 4: Let me say this real quick.

1055
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:08,880
Speaker 2: If I'm in a relationship, because I if I'm in

1056
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,399
Speaker 2: a relationship, but I expressed myself that you know this

1057
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 2: is I feel some kind of way about this. The

1058
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 2: moment you tell me that three weeks ago, I did something. Bitch,

1059
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 2: is a problem. We're gonna fight because you're a hypocrite.

1060
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: You've been with me.

1061
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 2: In my bed, sleeping with me like it was like

1062
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 2: I'm sleeping with an enemy, and you never expressed to

1063
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 2: me that you had me up.

1064
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 4: For something three weeks ago.

1065
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 8: That's curly, I feel like that that's.

1066
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 4: Enemy.

1067
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: That's not like sleeping with an enemy. That's like hippocrite.

1068
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 6: I ain't finna walk away while am I finna make

1069
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 6: it something until she makes some ship something.

1070
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: I'm just telling what. No, but if it was something,

1071
00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: I ain't change up. She ain't do ship. I just

1072
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: tell you what it was.

1073
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 4: That's what.

1074
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 1: Quick and then that's how she is for a woman,

1075
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: and never take you. That's how.

1076
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 5: But see, the thing is for you to for you

1077
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 5: to say that you're going to hold onto it until

1078
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 5: she brings something back up. That's also lessening what she's

1079
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 5: going through because it's like you're trying to bring up

1080
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 5: some ship that you should have been brought up when

1081
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 5: it happened.

1082
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: Bitch, shut up this, shut up.

1083
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:26,359
Speaker 2: No, No, he's taking No, he's just the same trick.

1084
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:27,440
Speaker 1: That's truth.

1085
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 4: No, it's not the truth. How can you say.

1086
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:35,720
Speaker 9: About you and it could be valid. Like I said earlier,

1087
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:38,840
Speaker 9: she she I like her because she bringing back my points.

1088
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 9: Like I said earlier, that ain't that bad because you

1089
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 9: should have brought it up then I did, but I

1090
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 9: just didn't want to be bitchy and bitch the moant

1091
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 9: to now because.

1092
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 4: You never want to bitch you that, but you want.

1093
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 6: To bitch now because it could be like, hey, why

1094
00:50:58,280 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 6: is you changing them old with that energy?

1095
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 1: And we good energy? But when you break when you

1096
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 1: brain energy. All right, well let's put it out here.

1097
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: This is what it is. Man over there, Like.

1098
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 7: The other side, I'm not out of times.

1099
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 5: Like when you when you when you do that, when

1100
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 5: you try to bring up something old, when something that

1101
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 5: you've done is being brought to your attention, it seems

1102
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:32,760
Speaker 5: like you're trying to deflect off.

1103
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 4: Of the ship that you did.

1104
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: I understand that. I understand that totally. So so so

1105
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 1: so so.

1106
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, compromise, okay, just sit

1107
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 2: there and compromise.

1108
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,839
Speaker 1: Communications to me, I just like to let people know.

1109
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 1: Just like let people know, dude, I just I got it,

1110
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 1: I said. Unto others as they have them to do.

1111
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: Unto you man, right, that's the problem. Do unto others

1112
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: if you having to do unto you. So basically what

1113
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:09,919
Speaker 1: I'm saying is.

1114
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 4: Stop cheating on us, because we're gonna cheat back.

1115
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: We know that. But women try to say you made

1116
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 1: me a cheatah, you been a hope. No, it ain't.

1117
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 6: No mean that can make you beatinghe I can't make

1118
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 6: you gonna say puss it for me.

1119
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: I can't make you do ship. I can't talk into doing.

1120
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 1: I can't do none of this. So what I can't

1121
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: talk to being.

1122
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 4: I don't agree.

1123
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:35,879
Speaker 8: I don't agree with.

1124
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:42,919
Speaker 4: No, I don't agree at all.

1125
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 1: I know you're not. You don't supposed to because that's

1126
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 1: a girl code. You're supposed to agree.

1127
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 4: I don't agree.

1128
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 2: But it can make I feel like you cannot be

1129
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:54,879
Speaker 2: a cheetah.

1130
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:56,800
Speaker 4: You can be a girl and not be a cheetah.

1131
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 2: But the man just pushed you, push your TV, your life,

1132
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 2: fuck that and then you just you know, God, you

1133
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 2: got that man?

1134
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 4: Why women cheat? Though? You have to understand why.

1135
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: I know.

1136
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 2: I can't tell you this for facts I've been. Let

1137
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 2: me say this. I can tell you this for facts

1138
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 2: I've been with my kid's father. I never cheated on him,

1139
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 2: That nigga cheated on me, bitch, I gona funk by somebody.

1140
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 2: And then he got a problem talking about, oh I cheated,

1141
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 2: Yeah I did. The problem is when he cheated, he

1142
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 2: was hiding doing it and on a secret.

1143
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 4: When I cheat, he asked me, Yeah I did? Yeah,

1144
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 4: are you I cheated? Yeah? But that needna make me

1145
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,240
Speaker 4: a whole. No, I was said, of your ass.

1146
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 1: So that I get it.

1147
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:36,719
Speaker 4: I get that cheat a cheat by.

1148
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: But in a nigga mind, you already need it anyway.

1149
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 1: If you know I'm doing, you already doing anyway to

1150
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:44,399
Speaker 1: get it.

1151
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 2: I wasn't doing it, That's what I'm telling you.

1152
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: But that's the thing I was giving y'all.

1153
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 6: If you you're so hurt about the ship that I've

1154
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 6: been doing, you're doing something you're just.

1155
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 1: No I did.

1156
00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 2: That's a man bunfootball and right troul.

1157
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: If you.

1158
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:15,879
Speaker 10: Huh like you brought some in there, you just ship

1159
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 10: on work, no work?

1160
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: What I was saying, man, what else? Just saying like, yeah,

1161
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 1: she ain't even hit me?

1162
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 2: What what I was just saying you was talking about?

1163
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 2: And if we cheat were a whole we wanted to

1164
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 2: not Did I say that am, I said, cheat long time.

1165
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: Certain ship just ain't in certain women. But you just

1166
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 1: read them, you can't.

1167
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,880
Speaker 6: They would walk away and be by themself before they

1168
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:49,439
Speaker 6: do something to their self.

1169
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 7: Room.

1170
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: Certain women ain't. It just ain't him.

1171
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:55,760
Speaker 6: So baby, if that was in you, it was already

1172
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 6: in you, just like a nigga who going and tail.

1173
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,360
Speaker 6: You were already a nigga that would tell believe that.

1174
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: Yeah mm hmmm, I believe that if a niggle go

1175
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:06,879
Speaker 1: to chain the fun out his assh was already.

1176
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 6: Nigga gonna suck out your ass, bro, Yeah, he said,

1177
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 6: needed excuse, I'm locked up now.

1178
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:16,359
Speaker 4: They ain'tnna put here. Yeah, but I know, but I

1179
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 4: I but I want to I want to disagree with

1180
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 4: that just for a second, because.

1181
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 5: I have seen people that, like I know personally that

1182
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 5: never would have thought about doing anything like that, but

1183
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 5: they got their heart broken to the point where yeah,

1184
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 5: like it's it's it's some unbelievable ship going on.

1185
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 4: They had enough.

1186
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 1: The watch.

1187
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 4: Coming from the cheater of the cheater girl, Bru.

1188
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 1: Women are.

1189
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:53,440
Speaker 4: No.

1190
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 2: You can have a certain loyalty as a woman when

1191
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 2: you're in a relationship, sir.

1192
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 4: There they're coming at you.

1193
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 2: But because you're so loyalty your nigga, you're not even

1194
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 2: giving them a time.

1195
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:05,920
Speaker 1: Nobody else.

1196
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 2: Right, you don't see nobody else but the moment that

1197
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 2: man feel like you gotta sorry to connect the numbers.

1198
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: Bro, look at me. I don't agree.

1199
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 7: Why are you saying you can't say my ship to me?

1200
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:27,319
Speaker 1: Back to me?

1201
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 3: I found a question on that on that ship for

1202
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 3: the women is.

1203
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,959
Speaker 1: Is it is there any world where?

1204
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:46,919
Speaker 3: And he mentioned this where just leaving and getting away

1205
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 3: from the nigga that you feel like it's cheating and

1206
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 3: doing the wrong ship can be just as gratifying as return.

1207
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 1: Because return the.

1208
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 4: Favor doesn't return the favor because all is gonna do.

1209
00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:04,799
Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you, scream dyning ain't not that but

1210
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 6: the same ship. Somebody would go through with the same nigga,

1211
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:09,839
Speaker 6: act hurt and get get.

1212
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 1: The fun back. Wow.

1213
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 6: But I just feel like when it's gonna go through

1214
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 6: the same ship with another nigga besides screen they told.

1215
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 4: Me Ika just that what it ain't that only three?

1216
00:57:26,120 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: Yes, we we wanted the only people.

1217
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 5: What's the point if you're gonna stay with the nigga,

1218
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:34,280
Speaker 5: what's the point of cheating?

1219
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:37,760
Speaker 1: Just so she can feel like I feel.

1220
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 4: Who wants? Who cares about having the one up? If

1221
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 4: you're gonna stay with the nigga I do now we

1222
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 4: even you shoote Okay, so what we're saying now.

1223
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: With squits, Now that's.

1224
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:01,120
Speaker 4: I don't for me.

1225
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 2: If a man cheat on me, I can't even move

1226
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 2: on though, that's just how I do. I just can't

1227
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 2: because what a sense whether I always have things, say

1228
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 2: you have a cheat, and then you build up all

1229
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 2: these things inside of me, and then the relationship become

1230
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 2: toxic because every time you leave, I'm gonna feel like

1231
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 2: you're gonna cheat, So then might as well I move on.

1232
00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 1: Damn.

1233
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 3: You think you ever see yourself like making a relationship

1234
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 3: like a final relationship?

1235
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 1: You think you might get there like every time.

1236
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 2: So I haven't had a lot of relationship. I'm not

1237
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 2: professional in that field. I've had about my virginity, my kids, father,

1238
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 2: this maybe like every time I go in a relationship,

1239
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 2: A relationship is a relationship for a few years and

1240
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 2: whatever until they fuck up. I never ever step out

1241
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:47,920
Speaker 2: of a relationship or whatever. They do something and then

1242
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 2: that's it for me.

1243
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 1: Mhm.

1244
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 2: I feel like my problem is I don't know how

1245
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 2: to work shit out. So I'll do some things and

1246
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 2: I'll say to friends and they'll be like, you could

1247
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 2: have stayed with him, Oh that's nothing, But for me

1248
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:00,120
Speaker 2: it's a big thing.

1249
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 4: So it's the little thing that matters to me.

1250
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 3: But ain't ain't in every situation relationship, business, relationship, friendship, family,

1251
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 3: Ain't it gonna come with some ship that you gotta work.

1252
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 2: That's why I've lost so much people because even if

1253
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 2: we have a friendship and you do something like I

1254
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 2: just move on.

1255
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 1: Curious, Leo, why are you talking about?

1256
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 4: I knew you didn't like me. I could have tell

1257
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 4: you had a problem with me. Leo's are lawyer. We're

1258
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 4: very loyal and we just expect that same. We're very

1259
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 4: loyal and the problem.

1260
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 2: Is a lot of people come around us and they

1261
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 2: don't give us that same and we can't understand the

1262
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 2: explanation because we want to do that to you.

1263
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 1: Are bullshit? No, no, my problem. The first friend I.

1264
00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 4: Ever had, he's a Leo, Yes, lawyer.

1265
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: He's the most loyal, and then he did something to you.

1266
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 1: He never did. Why you say.

1267
00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:58,720
Speaker 4: You say he's some bullshit?

1268
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:01,439
Speaker 1: We say some bullshit. Is a nigga that I pulled

1269
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 1: some bullshit. The ship you said, bullshit.

1270
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 2: Noyth, what do to you for to eye for an

1271
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 2: eye and a two.

1272
01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 4: For a two?

1273
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 1: That would make him that.

1274
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:25,040
Speaker 4: Is are a real lawyer.

1275
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: But y'all be stuck way.

1276
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:28,400
Speaker 4: We're very stuck in our ways.

1277
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 2: We're very we don't understand other people because y'all want

1278
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 2: to do some ship and just expect it to blow over.

1279
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 2: We hold that ship like I would never do that

1280
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 2: to you. So we're hard to forgive as well. Because

1281
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 2: of our we're very hard to forgive. And that's just

1282
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 2: one thing I pray about for myself because I know

1283
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 2: it's not right. We got to learn to forgive and

1284
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 2: let go. But the moment you do some ship with me,

1285
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 2: it's over.

1286
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, But all the type of nigga, it's hard to forgive.

1287
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 6: But I could just adapt to our new I'm a mirror.

1288
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 6: Why you do something to me, I might not doing

1289
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 6: that back to you, but I just know the energy

1290
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 6: now I ain't finishes.

1291
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 2: I'm just we categorize the friendship, so you do something,

1292
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 2: we just put you in where we know you exactly,

1293
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:10,919
Speaker 2: and then a lot.

1294
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 1: Of people it's just I can't put that right.

1295
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:15,440
Speaker 4: Then A lot of people. For me.

1296
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 2: I'll be in a relationship and I'll tell you all

1297
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 2: I love you and it's been five years and you

1298
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 2: probably do something drink my juice, and you shouldn't drink

1299
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:24,479
Speaker 2: my juice.

1300
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 4: It's over and I'm just gone.

1301
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: That's the.

1302
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 2: Very petty like I just cut you off. I like

1303
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 2: I cut people out very easily and just move on

1304
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 2: to bro like I don't know, I ain't yeah, and

1305
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:45,560
Speaker 2: that's it. And once we say we'll be laughing and

1306
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 2: I'll be like, no, I'm done with him, and you

1307
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 2: don't take it serious, but I'm done.

1308
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 4: That just that one sentence, So not.

1309
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 3: One final question, like what on Mirror twenty five is project?

1310
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 3: How much of all these topics are embodied in most

1311
01:01:57,560 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 3: of it?

1312
01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 2: Most of it because so twenty five songs that's on

1313
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:03,280
Speaker 2: my album. It's called Mirror twenty five because of my

1314
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 2: twenty five years.

1315
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:06,200
Speaker 4: But most of the songs are like diary.

1316
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 2: So I have a song called ex Boyfriend, which is

1317
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 2: what I brought up in the conversation because I was

1318
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 2: talking about because I have an ex boyfriend, I'm looking

1319
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 2: for a next boyfriend. And in that song, I'm just

1320
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:17,920
Speaker 2: telling girls like listen I just can't understand men and

1321
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 2: how they think.

1322
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:20,919
Speaker 6: So you just said, I'm gonna cut you. I'm gonna

1323
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 6: cut you. Cut your ass off. So you can take

1324
01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 6: this back. We said your ex boyfriend boyfriend.

1325
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 1: I have an ex boy you just said on him.

1326
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: You think the nigga of any what.

1327
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Speaker 6: You said, Well, all the ship that you just said

1328
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 6: on him. Every man in hell agree with me?

1329
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:40,919
Speaker 1: Crazy that man with me? But you just say man.

1330
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Speaker 2: No, I said, I'm looking for a next boyfriend that's

1331
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 2: a man, because of course, so I'm not settling for less.

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Speaker 6: Okay, if you go get a man, this ship is.

1333
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 6: That's what I'm totally disagree with me.

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Speaker 4: And no, not all men thinks like how you think,

1335
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Speaker 4: what the ones you like?

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Speaker 1: That's what I want a problem. That's how I got a.

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Speaker 7: Problem with y'all ass because I like real man. That's

1338
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:07,760
Speaker 7: why I always got a problem.

1339
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Speaker 8: The

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Speaker 1: Street exactly, it's big facts, No captain, bitch