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Speaker 2: Good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm good, guys, how are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Great? Welcome to waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 1: So we're trying to figure out what happened with this

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Speaker 1: guy Patrick, and we got to have the backstory.

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Speaker 2: So how did you meet?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates you've been on and uh

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Speaker 1: and how those went and then where things are now?

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Speaker 4: Right? So, first I met Patrick at a Saint Patrick's

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Speaker 4: Day party, the irony there and we just we just

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Speaker 4: talked for like hours. We both have kids and we

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Speaker 4: bonded over that, like we're both single parents. You know,

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Speaker 4: just talking about like the funny stories that our that

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Speaker 4: clicked right away. It was like instant connection. Then we

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Speaker 4: like the more we talk, like he was asking, like,

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Speaker 4: a few days later it was a really nice day

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Speaker 4: and Patrick was like, hey, you know, like I'm going

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Speaker 4: pretty close to his, and like I said, we lived

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Speaker 4: pretty close, and he was like, hey, do you like

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Speaker 4: because it's like a big thing, like introducing your children

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Speaker 4: We tried a lot, the kids had a lot of

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's interesting because you guys, you did meet in

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't this guy call me again?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just very strange, Like I feel like

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's call this guy Patrick, see if we

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Speaker 1: or what's going on. Set you guys up on another date. Hey, Abby, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi Abby, Let's call Patrick. You guys met at the

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Speaker 1: and you want to know why exactly.

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Speaker 4: So I'm just kind of racking my brain. What's happening?

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Speaker 4: So I don't know, like at this point, I need

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Speaker 1: Look at mom multitasking over there. I got the kids

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Speaker 2: Hello? Hi is this Patrick? Yes, this is hey Patrick.

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Speaker 2: Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Is uh Is it coolf

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you for calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 1: woman who reached out to us. Her name is Abby.

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Speaker 1: I guess you guys met at a at a party

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I remember Abby?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, So what happened?

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Speaker 1: Because she we just talked to her a second ago

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Speaker 2: So what what happened?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Yeah, I was I was gonna.

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Speaker 5: Take my son out to a park and just called

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Speaker 5: her up to see if she wanted to join, you know,

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Speaker 5: nothing serious, but yeah, we met up.

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Speaker 7: She's she was great.

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Speaker 5: You know, Ay, she was really fun to be around. Honestly,

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Speaker 5: her her two kids were just paris.

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Speaker 7: That was kind of my opinion.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well just in the in the way that they

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Speaker 5: I understand how kids can be. But her her two

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Speaker 5: They they're biers. Both of her kids bite like one

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Speaker 1: Like what what does she just watching this and laughing?

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Speaker 1: Is she enabling it?

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Speaker 1: Is she trying to correct them? I mean, what's happening?

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Speaker 2: Well, no, she.

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Speaker 5: Wasn't trying to correct them I don't know that she

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Speaker 7: It was just a lot for me for an afternoon.

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Speaker 7: She never really told them to stop, and I didn't really.

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Speaker 5: I thought, I'll just remove myself from the situation. After

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like that much either. But let me

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Speaker 1: bring Abby in. I forgot to mention that Abby is here.

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Speaker 1: You didn't say so us that your kids were biting

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Speaker 4: Okay, so my two year old, because like we are

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Speaker 4: working on it. I told her to apologize. Like, first

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Speaker 4: of all, Terris is like really extreme and like I

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Speaker 4: really don't like that word, especially associated with my children.

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Speaker 4: So I really hate that, Like that's just for me,

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Speaker 4: Like if he's turned off by me, that's fine. Like

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Speaker 4: They're not They obviously were like a little more on

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Speaker 4: I did try to interject, there's just so much like

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Speaker 5: I'm absolutely not opposed to going out again if oh that.

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Speaker 7: Well, I don't think it's going to be that way.

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Speaker 2: You give me a vaccine?

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Speaker 2: It's run better than they sign. These are the radio.

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Speaker 1: Blogs on the Fread show like you're running in our

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Speaker 1: tire ee, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 2: We call them blogs.

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Speaker 1: Kiki, yeah nobody but you nobody, But you can have

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Speaker 1: a blog. Go ahead, take it away.

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Speaker 2: Well, dear blog, I mean gay, it happened so weird.

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Speaker 2: You're not single anymore?

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Speaker 8: No, what am I supposed to do with that?

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Speaker 2: After eight years with one man, you're not single anymore.

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Speaker 8: I'm not single anymore. I am officially technically engaged.

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Speaker 2: It feels so weird.

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Speaker 1: Now, can we talk about the fact that you got

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Speaker 1: engaged on Sunday. No, we don't have to talk about

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Speaker 1: And you came in here yesterday with no ring and zero,

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Speaker 1: zero indication that anything had happened in your life. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I found out about it from listeners reaching out to

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Speaker 1: me and friends of mine reaching out to me saying

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Speaker 1: yay for Kiki. I had to go like the rest

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Speaker 1: of the show. Watch it on Instagram.

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Speaker 8: Yes, it was a trauma response. I didn't believe it

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Speaker 8: was real. So I just said, I've got to go

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Speaker 8: on with my life like that did not happen yesterday

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Speaker 8: and figure out the right words and the right time

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Speaker 8: to say that that actually happened. I'm really still in

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Speaker 8: shock and the way that man pulled it off. I'm

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Speaker 8: really in shock because I thought, if it was to

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Speaker 8: evver in a million years happened, it was not going

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Speaker 8: to be like how it was on Sunday.

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Speaker 1: Well, and if you just said you gave the whole explanation,

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Speaker 1: it's on demand on the IHET radio app earlier, the

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Speaker 1: whole play by a play of how it went down. Yes,

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Speaker 1: but man, I can't wait to have major life events.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get married and have kids and not tell

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Speaker 1: you guys, you.

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Speaker 8: Didn't tell us that's the same thing that you bought

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Speaker 8: a new couch. We haven't seen it. You didn't act

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Speaker 8: to our opinions.

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Speaker 2: It's pretty close. Yeah, I would say it's a pretty

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Speaker 2: similar thing. I had to get my link back. I

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Speaker 2: love this. You just popped out with a whole fiance like.

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Speaker 8: I love this.

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Speaker 2: It's my favorite thing.

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Speaker 8: My favorite part too, of yesterday was Paulina calling me

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Speaker 8: in the middle of her podcast and facetiming me and

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Speaker 8: we're both just sitting there crying.

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Speaker 2: Like I was on my couch crying. She's crying. It

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Speaker 2: was a lot. I don't know what. It was like,

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Speaker 2: I have to get to the bottom of this. I

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Speaker 2: don't know what bottom of what. But I was like,

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Speaker 2: I told you, I'm sorry. Was I the one who

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Speaker 2: told you?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 9: I pulled it up on my on my phone when

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Speaker 9: I was doing my podcast. I was looking up something

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Speaker 9: and then I just saw a video of Kiki and

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Speaker 9: it was like produced and it was like this whole.

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Speaker 2: Thing and I didn't know what it was.

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Speaker 9: And then I was like, oh, she's engaged. You guys

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Speaker 9: stopped recording the whole thing. Everyone just looked at me

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Speaker 9: and I'm like, we're gonna call her right now. She's

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Speaker 9: not gonna answer though she's getting bombarded.

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Speaker 10: I told you, Jason, didn't I yes, you broke the

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Speaker 10: news to me because I was still working, not on Instagram,

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Speaker 10: and you called me, did you hear about Kiki?

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Speaker 2: I was like, what happened?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 10: I thought like something bad happened, because that's where my

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Speaker 10: brain goes, also in therapy for that reason.

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Speaker 2: And then he was like, she's engaged, and I literally

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Speaker 2: I opened Instagram. The first thing was this video.

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Speaker 1: Because I thought. I thought Jason was going to tell

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Speaker 1: me that everybody knew about me. Oh no, I was

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Speaker 1: gonna be so mad.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 8: None of our coworkers knew, none of our friends knew

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Speaker 8: until when I put the video out because I, for real,

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Speaker 8: for real, guys, was in shock, like shock, still shook,

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Speaker 8: cannot believe that I'm somebody's what do you call it?

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Speaker 2: Fiance? What do you call it? What you call it?

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Speaker 2: And she waves this diamond nothing, the ring, the ring.

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Speaker 8: I will say it was worth the way it's, in

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Speaker 8: my opinion, so gorgeous