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Speaker 1: not him. He should tell you. Yeah. So Annie's note says,

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Speaker 1: my best friend will call Amanda. Haw's a crush on

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Speaker 1: Amanda and myself have been friends for about seven years. Well,

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Speaker 1: we've only known Alex for a few months. Amanda constantly

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Speaker 1: And not her, even though I have repeatedly told her

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Speaker 1: I am in no way interested in him. He disclosed

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why wouldn't he want What would he not want

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Speaker 1: Maybe he just feels like pressure. He doesn't want the

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Speaker 1: Well let's see, let's see what he does, Okay. Amanda

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Speaker 2: Did you need a wardrobe for Starbucks?

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Speaker 1: Technically yes, But then I realized, actually, it's not an

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Speaker 1: So I just kind of started wearing whatever as long

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Speaker 1: you know, short sleeve at least, Yeah, it was ours

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Speaker 1: the makeup for about one thousand dollars, including makeup and

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Speaker 1: for makeup, which is about one thousand dollars. Wait, so

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Speaker 1: he's paying one thousand dollars for makeup and new clothes.

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Speaker 2: It was like, I pay all because I think.

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Speaker 1: She would not need a new, whole new wardrobe for

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Speaker 1: a chain coffee shop.

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Speaker 4: Wait.

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Speaker 2: of living, I guess was like six hundred bucks. So

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Speaker 1: New war so it's more like four hundred dollars.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I would have dogged someone so bad.

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Speaker 1: But like the fact that yeah, but actually he was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so former ads everyone document. What did you disagreed?

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Speaker 1: What did I agree to?

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Speaker 2: High risk, high reward to what?

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Speaker 1: I kind of just I didn't know what you meant.

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Speaker 1: I'm anti that unless you all are all in on that.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you're all just very influential what you said.

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Speaker 2: You said. If everyone agrees with you, you're the.

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Speaker 1: Three people involved, not including me, are all consenting adults,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want to be here, and then

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I get peer pressured.

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Speaker 2: I get pressured very easy.

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Speaker 1: It actually depends I have morals.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing if you, if you spend so much

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it seemed like my nerves might have given off

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes you like both people, but then they bond

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Speaker 2: M hmm, And that's how life goes ghost nice, But.

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Speaker 1: I want to know how this next story goes there.

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Speaker 1: Let's go am I the Ahle for refusing to break

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Speaker 1: up with my stepsister's crush. This is okay, I'll be

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Speaker 1: home to the craziest true stories on Earth. I'm Sophia

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Speaker 1: and Riley. If you or brother had a crush on someone,

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Speaker 1: would you date them and then not break up with them.

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Speaker 2: Just to make sure they're a good person? You know,

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Speaker 2: you would break up with them? No, yeah, just be

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Speaker 2: like yeah, she like cook, she has a great family,

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Speaker 2: So there you go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Wow, I don't know a good brother. Interesting, interesting,

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Speaker 1: so okay. Criticism thirteen thirty eight says, so I sixteen female,

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Speaker 1: And every confrontation we had, what do you mean basics?

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Speaker 2: Like like they would get her family and I only

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Speaker 2: get a hydroflow.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the basics implies she's just getting food

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, That's why I ended up moving with my mom,

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Speaker 1: back on her feet, and when she asked me to

437
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Speaker 1: go live with her full time, I didn't hesitate. She

438
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Speaker 1: eventually married to my stepdad, who was her high school boyfriend.

439
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, O crazy, and they had my little brother,

440
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 1: Benjamin four years ago. Oh that's okay, Jay, Benjay. Anyway,

441
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Speaker 1: ever since I moved to my mom's house, I refuse

442
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Speaker 1: to talk to my dad. Every meeting we had was

443
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,720
Speaker 1: completely against my will. And I actually have a much

444
00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 1: better relationship with Diego, who's the nicest guy I ever met.

445
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 1: My dad is an a hole and I won't even

446
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 1: bother to tell you why. I think you can figure

447
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Speaker 1: it out by the things I wrote already. Yeah, he

448
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 1: cheated on her mom. So I've been dating my boyfriend

449
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 1: Noel sixteen male for over ten months. Our relationship has

450
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Speaker 1: been amazing so far. He's just the sweetest and funniest

451
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Speaker 1: guy I know. We've been always. We've always been affectionate

452
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Speaker 1: with each other. On school, we're not making out in

453
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Speaker 1: front of everyone, but we're always hugging and all. Luciana

454
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Speaker 1: goes to the same school as I do, but we

455
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Speaker 1: have different classes or courses maybe so we have different courses,

456
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 1: different curses, greases, but we have different courses. And Noel,

457
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 1: our friends and I usually stay on the classroom during recess,

458
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Speaker 1: playing with cards and all. So I've never run into Luciana.

459
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Speaker 1: For what I know, she usually walks around the hall,

460
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Speaker 1: which is just like during lunch she's just.

461
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Speaker 2: Watching walking around the hall sounds like a ghost.

462
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Speaker 1: Anyway, in my country, we're in summer break and I

463
00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 1: haven't been to school in over two months. The thing is,

464
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Speaker 1: I went to my dad's house to pick something up

465
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Speaker 1: after work, and since it was late to go home walking,

466
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Speaker 1: I called Noel to pick me up. He showed up

467
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Speaker 1: a couple of minutes later. As always, I greeted him

468
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Speaker 1: with a kiss and got in his dad's car. Everything

469
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Speaker 1: went normal, but the next day and my dad asked

470
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Speaker 1: me to go to his house because he needed to

471
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Speaker 1: talk to me. I know where this is going the title,

472
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Speaker 1: but I see you in the comments. I went there

473
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 1: and both Luciana and him were sitting, and both Luciana

474
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Speaker 1: and him were sitting on the couch and they asked

475
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Speaker 1: me to sit. This is like an intervention. They're like,

476
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Speaker 1: we've invited you here today to talk about your recent relationship.

477
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 1: I asked what the hell was going on, and my

478
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: dad started to talk about how disrespectful it was to

479
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 1: date my stepsister's crush, much more to bring them here.

480
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Speaker 1: I stopped him right there. I told him that Noel

481
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Speaker 1: and I have been dating for almost a year and

482
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Speaker 1: that he doesn't even know about Luciana's existence. This hurt her.

483
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Speaker 1: She told me to shut up, but I replied that

484
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Speaker 1: that was the truth. My dad suggested I should break

485
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Speaker 1: up with him. What but I told him to shut

486
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Speaker 1: the f up that I wasn't going to break up

487
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Speaker 1: with my boyfriend because my delusional stepsister has a crush

488
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Speaker 1: on a guy she doesn't even know. Plus I told

489
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Speaker 1: her she was such a salute for trying to ruin

490
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Speaker 1: her stepsister's relationship and to get her eyes on a

491
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Speaker 1: boy that's not taken because my boyfriend is wow aggressive.

492
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Speaker 1: But you know fair, I left before they could argue. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know that Noel and I are teenagers and it

494
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Speaker 1: is hard for us to actually last. But I'm not

495
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Speaker 1: going to break up with him because my a whole

496
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Speaker 1: of a dad and broad of a sister say so. No,

497
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Speaker 1: definitely not. Am I the a whole.

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Speaker 2: You're not the a whole. Also, I don't think a

499
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Speaker 2: sixteen year old wrote this. Why, no sixteen year old

500
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Speaker 2: are going to be like, Yeah, I know that Nolan

501
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 2: and I are teenagers and we're probably not gonna last forever.

502
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Speaker 2: What kind of teenage that's.

503
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Speaker 1: You're gonna you're gonna last forever.

504
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 2: We're gonna get married to him and three kids. Yeah,

505
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Speaker 2: I don't believe this is written by a sixteen year old.

506
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Speaker 2: Ye fact checking update though, another thing, Luciana is just

507
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 2: the golden child.

508
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Speaker 1: Yeah, look to the dad at least, I feel like

509
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: he left his old like his original family, and he's

510
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: like this new family is the best new family. I

511
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 1: love my new family. Yeah, only according to Samuel, and

512
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 1: get one.

513
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Speaker 2: New family according to Samuel's honor.

514
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Speaker 1: Yeah. So updates. It's been about a month or so

515
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Speaker 1: since I posted about my stepsister Luciana and my father

516
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 1: demanding to break up with my boyfriend because she has

517
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Speaker 1: a crush on him. Mmmm. Here's a small update for

518
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Speaker 1: the few people that read the post. Well before everything,

519
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: I spoke with Noel about the situation and he told

520
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Speaker 1: me that he did know who Luciana was. He hasn't

521
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:26,920
Speaker 1: met her, but he confirmed to me that she sends

522
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: him a lot of dms on Instagram and that he

523
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: had to block her.

524
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Speaker 2: Why didn't he like tell her that?

525
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, well maybe he didn't like know. Well still, even

526
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,479
Speaker 1: if he didn't know Luciana was like related or you know, stepsister.

527
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 2: They talk. Yeah, why didn't you bring that up?

528
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: Yeah? Our friends confirmed it. Polo, one of my closest friends,

529
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: the one that introduced me to Noel in the first place,

530
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,879
Speaker 1: explained how he dated Mia, one of Luciana's closest friends,

531
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Speaker 1: and that she tried to convince him to go on

532
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: a double date with her Luciana and asked him to

533
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: bring Noel whole. Yeah. Pola refused and Mia insisted a

534
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:09,239
Speaker 1: lot about it, so they stopped dating. Basically, Luciana has

535
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 1: been having a crush on my boyfriend for months and

536
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 1: she did know we were dating, and that made her furious.

537
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: Noel said that Luciana's behavior makes him really uncomfortable and

538
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: asked me to try to stay away from my dad

539
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: and his family because he doesn't trust him. He thinks

540
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: they're not good people, and I agree with him. I

541
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 1: had decided already that I wasn't going to keep in

542
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,399
Speaker 1: contact with my dad anymore. Actually, I had it in

543
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: mind for years, but I didn't want to cause my

544
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: mom any legal problems, so I went along with it.

545
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: My mother and stepdad asked me about why I wasn't

546
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: going to visit my dad anymore, and I told them

547
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 1: that I would no longer be visiting them, and when

548
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 1: they asked, I was honest. I told them that I

549
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: never really liked him, and that I'm sixteen, and that

550
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 1: I'm sixteen and I can stop seeing him if I

551
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: want to. I also admitted that the final straw was

552
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 1: him asking me to break up with my boyfriend because

553
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: Luciana wanted to, and my stepdad went nuts. He called

554
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: my dad and called him a terrible parent and lots

555
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: of other things, like saying that just because his wife

556
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 1: is a home wrecker whoa, doesn't mean he has to

557
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,440
Speaker 1: raise his stepdaughter to follow her steps. Oh my god,

558
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: this stepdad is like coming for his throat. He's coming

559
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: for the dad's throat. Oh my god, what a clapback. Whoa.

560
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 1: My mom also berated him. My dad tried to call

561
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 1: me afterwards, but I blocked him and made the final

562
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: choice of cutting contact for good with him. It's been

563
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: a week. Ever since, it's been a week, and ever since,

564
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: it feels as if I had taken a dead weight

565
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 1: off of my shoulders. One would think that i'd feel

566
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: bad about it, but I've known my dad is a

567
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 1: pos ever since he cheated on my mom. It made

568
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 1: me feel bad back then, but I stopped caring a

569
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: while ago, and when my stepdad came into my life

570
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: and started treating me as his own child, it was

571
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: easier to let it go. I don't know, I don't

572
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: feel anything. To be honest, I knew something like this

573
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 1: could have happened, and it did, and I'm glad I

574
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: made the choice of cutting him out. I'm sadly, I

575
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 1: sadly still have his last name, but I will change

576
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 1: it to my mom's last name soon. Wow wow cutting

577
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: off TIESI wow? I mean like, I mean, he's with

578
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: his new family, hes like he's not a good dad.

579
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Speaker 2: So do what you need to do. I messed up

580
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:15,440
Speaker 2: with you.

581
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Speaker 1: I'm going to fix it with Yeah, I'm gonna I'm

582
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: gonna do whatever it takes for Luciana.

583
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

584
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:25,120
Speaker 1: But you know, w stepdad, Yeah he seems cool.

585
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 2: Dude, What a what a man?

586
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 1: He's like, just because you were in your relationship, don't

587
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 1: teach your daughter to do it to my daughter. Nice guy,

588
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: op guy. Yeah, I love it. Love to hear it,

589
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: love to hear it. Yeah.

590
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 2: Wow, that was a good, good little group of stories.

591
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Speaker 1: Thank you.

592
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: I was nice. I enjoyed those thoroughly. It reminds me

593
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 2: of my school days and school crushes. I dated every

594
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: single girl in elementary school.

595
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: Wow, you were that guy?

596
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 2: Was that guy?

597
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 1: Yeah? That was so cute.

598
00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 2: I couldn't not be my girlfriend. And then they and

599
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 2: then I'd be a.

600
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a guy in our school who who

601
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: did that? Or he would like basically be dating a

602
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,959
Speaker 1: new girl every two weeks. And he asked me out

603
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 1: and I said.

604
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Speaker 3: No, whoa.

605
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 2: But he still thinks about you.

606
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: He does. He still messages me the one.

607
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 2: He couldn't get. Mm hmm. It's all about the handkerchief. Yeah,

608
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: get a bit of handkerchief.

609
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: And I think he does that to multiple girls, has

610
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 1: some messaging multiply.

611
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I can't blame a guy for putting

612
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 2: a lot of hooks out there.

613
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: Putting the feelers out there. One will eventually bite.

614
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 2: It happens, you go, it's a numbers game. I guess

615
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 2: over time, one will buy and make you smile and

616
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 2: be really funny.

617
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you'll have a girlfriend like Riley officially.

618
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 2: Wow, it's kind of crazy. Yeah, I'm like, wow, a girlfriend, now,

619
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Speaker 2: that's really exciting. It is exciting. It's crazy crazy.

620
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Speaker 1: But that's all the stories we have for you. I

621
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Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed them. You have crushes in your life.

622
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Speaker 2: Sophie and I, we're gonna we're gonna start doing this

623
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Speaker 2: a little bit more.

624
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Speaker 1: We're gonna start doing the Yeah, we're gonna start doing live.

625
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Speaker 2: Streams just us Mondays and Fridays.

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Speaker 1: Mondays and Fridays. You're gonna start seeing us more often.

627
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Speaker 2: I have seen some comments that are like these are

628
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Speaker 2: my favorites.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, you guys like it.

630
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Speaker 2: We try, we try our hardest. A lot of hard

631
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Speaker 2: work comes into this, A lot. You have no idea.

632
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Speaker 1: A lot of hard work goes into this.

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Speaker 2: You have no idea how hard it is just to

634
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Speaker 2: sit across from Sophie and talk to her.

635
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Speaker 1: I have to look at Riley every morning, dude, Come on,

636
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Speaker 1: this is that's difficult work in our lives. Please, but

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Speaker 2: We Love You and Cinema.

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Speaker 2: Time for okop Relam.

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Speaker 5: I forced my family to stop drinking, but wasn't ready

642
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Speaker 5: for their reaction.

643
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Speaker 3: What was it just being sober doing crack? Yeah, stop drinking. Okay,

644
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 3: we're gonna start doing heroin.

645
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Speaker 5: Taketh we give it worse. My husband's family loves to

646
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 5: drink good, good, good at that my sister hates it.

647
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 5: Every holiday includes multiple bottles of wine slash cocktails. I

648
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 5: hate drinking. I never drank because my father was an

649
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 5: alcoholic understandable, and I think it's childish if you can't

650
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Speaker 5: have fun without drinking.

651
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Speaker 3: We're on the border there, We're on the border.

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Speaker 5: This year, I'm hosting Christmas for a change, and I

653
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Speaker 5: decided since it's at my house, no alcohol allowed, as

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Speaker 5: we are all getting older and it's time to grow up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's hard.

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Speaker 5: Because, like, at the end of the day, the alcohol

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Speaker 5: is like it's just a societal thing. Yeah it's not

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Speaker 5: really yeah, but yeah, but like that's also we could

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Speaker 5: do that, but just expect people like to not want

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Speaker 5: to go. That's true, you know, like that it's fine,

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Speaker 5: you can do whatever you want, but get ready for

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Speaker 5: the reaction.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the reaction one to come.

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Speaker 5: My husband's sister called to ask what she could bring.

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Speaker 5: She saw a recipe for a Christmas Martini that she

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Speaker 5: wanted to bring. I told her about the no alcohol rule.

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Speaker 5: She didn't say much, but must have told the rest

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Speaker 5: of the family, which I thought you had already told them. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: ready for there to be a rule, you have to

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Speaker 5: tell them. Some of them started texting me, asking me

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Speaker 5: if I was serious and saying that it's lame, but

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Speaker 5: I'm not budgeting.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, you might have like a coup going on

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Speaker 4: with this Christmas party. Someone else creates an alcohol Christmas party.

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Speaker 5: You know, this might be a Christmas for one this year.

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Speaker 5: Imagine imagine her husband is like.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like sicker.

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00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 5: I saw that martini recipe in.

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Speaker 3: That she is slashed.

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Speaker 4: So sorry.

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Speaker 5: Now it turns out my husband's sister is hosting an

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Speaker 5: alternate gathering for almost everyone that has chose to go

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Speaker 5: to it instead. It's so disrespectful because all they would

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Speaker 5: have to do is spend one day sober. My husband

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Speaker 5: told me that he talked to his sister and we

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Speaker 5: are invited to her cat and he said that we

687
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Speaker 5: should just go and stop causing issues, but I won't

688
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Speaker 5: because it's so rude. Now my husband is mad because

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Speaker 5: I'm making him stay home and spin Christmas.

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Speaker 3: With me at the wame party.

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Speaker 5: But it's mine turn to host, and I chose to

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Speaker 5: have no alcohol. And they could have just dealt with

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Speaker 5: it for one year, okay. I mean it's like, you

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Speaker 5: don't have to drink, right, you don't have to drink,

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Speaker 5: but you also you can't expect. You can't expect to

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Speaker 5: just control what everyone else is doing espetually on like

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Speaker 5: a like a Christmas holiday. I think OP should say like, look,

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Speaker 5: here's the situation. My father is alcoholic. I don't really

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Speaker 5: want to be surrounded by alcohol. And then the other

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Speaker 5: side of the family should be like, okay, like you

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Speaker 5: know what, maybe we either like I mean the most reason,

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Speaker 5: like I wouldn't care personally, but I guess maybe a

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Speaker 5: middle ground is like, okay, let's just like not be

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Speaker 5: like making Martinez and get like really, let's just like looky,

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Speaker 5: I don't know, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's not It's tough. I mean, like it's tough.

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Speaker 5: If someone has a lot of trauma around alcohol, then

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Speaker 5: that's that could.

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Speaker 2: Be a lot.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I under yeah, I understand that. Like I imagine

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Speaker 5: if uh op was a yeah it was an alcohol

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Speaker 5: you see that, and that's then like okay, like it

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Speaker 5: sucks for the rest of the family. But it's kind

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Speaker 5: of like, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, yeah, I feel like if that that was the case,

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Speaker 4: I would you have to explain the reason why, because

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Speaker 4: then you just sound just like, didn't just be like, oh,

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Speaker 4: you're just being lame.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly explain the reason and have like a conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't even sound like she like even gave them

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Speaker 4: a heads up on the rules either, which is.

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Speaker 5: Like if you have a like, if you have a rule,

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Speaker 5: what do you expect everyone's going to show up with

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Speaker 5: alcohol because you didn't tell them.

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Speaker 3: Ridiculous