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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tfley Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and

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Speaker 1: the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back with

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Speaker 1: yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl jess hilarious

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Speaker 1: and my guy oh Ship and my girls saying, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna say my little guy Patrick, my little guy Patrick.

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Speaker 2: Too far?

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Speaker 3: Excuse me?

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Speaker 1: First of all, a clown. She's a clown. I look

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Speaker 1: like easy today because Yo, my gosh, I overslapp an

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Speaker 1: hands how to put my wig on. So I got

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Speaker 1: these little Jerry curls popping out the side of my feet,

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Speaker 1: just like Easy.

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Speaker 3: So guess it's just like I'm calling it. But don't

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Speaker 3: play with me because I'm still a bad bitch. Don't

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Speaker 3: fuck shot.

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Speaker 1: I look like cheezy, don't please man. All right, what

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Speaker 1: I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess. And we don't

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Speaker 1: have any voice notes this episode. We're gonna jump straight in.

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Speaker 1: Hello Jessica. First of all, I hate when people call

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Speaker 1: me Jessica and you don't know me, like, don't call me. Now,

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Speaker 1: I understand what Karsha was saying. She's like, y'all, don't

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Speaker 1: get to call me Karsha, don't don't call me that.

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Speaker 2: But not.

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Speaker 3: Everyone's calling me Miami, I.

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Speaker 1: Know, thanks to Santana, since Santana was the first one

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Speaker 1: to call her Karsha like that I actually heard it.

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Speaker 3: I don't like her name. You don't like Kresha. No, well,

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Speaker 3: this sounds like a creature.

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Speaker 2: That.

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Speaker 4: This reminds me of what was the girl?

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Speaker 3: What was her name? Yeah? Or what was her name

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Speaker 3: in Little Mermaid? I don't know. I don't even know

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Speaker 3: a Little Mermaid name. What's what's the little Murmaid? Who

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Speaker 3: was the villain? What was her name? Oh? Ursula? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: reminds me of Ursula and Karsha, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Just telling one of the girls at the shop who'll

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Speaker 1: be doing breeze and she got long as nails? Yes,

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Speaker 1: Like when I think of think of like should ain't

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Speaker 1: I like, it's just like one of those homegirls.

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Speaker 3: I don't like it, like you that girl hood you.

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Speaker 1: I was that courage to get my hair barded last night, right,

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Speaker 1: like like one of those Yeah I should.

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Speaker 3: Have done better. Oh my god, I don't care anyway.

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Speaker 3: I know you don't because you're pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Jesus, you don't spend nobody saying that about me when

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Speaker 1: I'm pregnant.

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Speaker 3: You can make fun of my name too, and yes

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Speaker 3: they might.

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Speaker 1: Make fun of the fucking Taylor, Like Taylor is just

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Speaker 1: as cookie cutter as it gets, and she is very universal.

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Speaker 1: It's it's for a woman or a man or a clown.

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Speaker 1: So let's just go straight out because I know a

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Speaker 1: clown named Taylor, real big white girl.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, Taylor Swift. Yes, oh my guss, Like now

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Speaker 3: I love Taylor stuff. I love that, but I do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I went to school with a high school. I

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Speaker 1: went to high school with this white girl named Taylor.

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Speaker 3: She's a clown. She was Yi is fun Shane thinks

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Speaker 3: she was.

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Speaker 1: But when anytime you say some ship like you're one

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Speaker 1: of the good ones, like I wish all black people

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Speaker 1: were like.

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Speaker 3: You, you're still fucking racist idiot.

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Speaker 1: Like I've never talked to that, bitch your dad to that,

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Speaker 1: Like tell me on one of the good ones, bitch,

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Speaker 1: excuse me, I look.

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Speaker 3: Like that's not funny as hell. Yeah, she had clown

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Speaker 3: out and she will ever be a clown.

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Speaker 4: For that's crazy. I remember coming to a white school

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Speaker 4: and you did. In elementary school. I remember the white

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Speaker 4: girls like what yo, Yeah, they wanted to like we

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Speaker 4: Like they wanted like a name, they wanted to be

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Speaker 3: Oh no, the white girls wanted ghetto names. What okay,

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Speaker 3: so you you're a high school, this is high.

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Speaker 4: School, middle school, this is elementary school and the elementary

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Speaker 4: and they wanted to be krisham.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 4: But you know what, I ain't shit either, because I

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Speaker 4: gave them like, all right, you're gonna beat, You're gonna

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Speaker 1: You gave them ghetto names, and they probably felt so

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Speaker 1: liberated they did Oh my god, why did I do that?

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Speaker 1: Imagine them going home to their parents like Mom, I'm

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Speaker 1: not kiddy, I'm Kenisha. I'm like I'm talking you out

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Speaker 1: of that school. Yeah, they were so happy about it.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: I bet they have all them born ass names over there,

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Speaker 1: and then their last names be stupid and ship. Some

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Speaker 1: of the white people got the craziest trench ball What

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Speaker 1: the fuck is up? Uh Zelenski or Romanski or like

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Speaker 1: I like Johnston Williams, Jackson Lewis, you know, mister Moore

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Speaker 1: not mister Copenhanger, you know what I'm saying, or mister

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Speaker 1: Meyer Village, Like why the fuck do we have these

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Speaker 1: Pepperich farm names for these fucking teachers.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but either.

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Speaker 1: Way, that ain't our problem. We got we got real

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Speaker 1: nice names. Yeah, I think black people even had better diseases.

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Speaker 1: But I think, yes, I think black people have better

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Speaker 3: Like, all right, you think this is right?

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Speaker 1: Do you know how white people have Alzheimer's Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then black people have dementia? Now listen, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: both of them. Okay, just listen, hear me out. Black

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Speaker 1: and brown people have dementia and white people have Alzheimer's.

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Speaker 3: Both of them helps you forget. I mean, you know it.

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Speaker 1: You forget, you get stuck in different time labs and

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Speaker 1: time zones or whatever of your life. Right, But one

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Speaker 1: thing about a black person with dementia, they forgot. But

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Speaker 1: him me a second. I hope, bitch, now I remember.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because the memory come back.

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Speaker 1: It's like I forgot, how the U they go there?

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Speaker 1: Go not remember, bitch on that ass. But with Alzheimer's,

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Speaker 3: Get done? Isn't that different levels of dementia? Don't they

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Speaker 3: be seeing stuff too? Though? Yeah? I'm talking about leading up.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, could your grandma had dementia, and my grandma

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Speaker 4: had saying yeah, she was talking to Obama and she.

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Speaker 1: Probably really was telepathically iceing. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: that's a superpower, gotcha.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 1: So that that's how I feel with allzheimerss and girl

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Speaker 1: liss and no white people will be like fuck all, y'all,

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Speaker 1: I forgot, don't touch me and I'm a little shaky.

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Speaker 3: So move yeah, like in the notebook, have Alzheimer's. Yes,

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Speaker 3: it's not time, it's zime.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's note I went to Alzheimer's.

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Speaker 1: Please don't it's all zimer from this day going forward,

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Speaker 1: A l z H E I M E R. This

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Speaker 1: is a posture, AZ. That's white people see dementia. Don't

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Speaker 1: dementia even sound like a bitch name. Don't don't sound

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Speaker 1: like we went to school with a dementia like min

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Speaker 1: she what's up?

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Speaker 3: Like you know what I'm saying? Yes, like or you

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Speaker 3: know you should do that with them or they or

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Speaker 3: I don't know how it's gonna work. Show.

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Speaker 4: I saw clar one time, these two guys naming like

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Speaker 4: things in a kitchen that sound like a name. Like

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Speaker 4: someone was like, y'all about to go grab a cabinet, but.

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Speaker 3: It's cabinet that had hold up. Hold up.

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Speaker 1: I know this shit getting good, but listen to just

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Speaker 1: a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me,

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Speaker 1: you'll listen, but if you think about it, I just

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Speaker 1: feel like dementia has swag and th has none. But

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to both communities if y'all get mad, but

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Speaker 1: y'all gonna.

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Speaker 3: Forget by tomorrow. Shut ups. Fine. So anyway, Hi.

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Speaker 1: Jess, So I put myself in a bad situation about

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Speaker 1: two weeks ago. I went to a party with one

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Speaker 1: I ended up running into an old guy friend and

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Speaker 1: we ended up partying all night. I ended up running

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Speaker 1: into an old guy friend, okay, because I don't like

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Speaker 1: the way I separated at But I'm trying to read

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Speaker 1: and I'm struggling because y'all don't know how to punctuate things.

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Speaker 1: A few drinks led to another and we slept together. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, cool, all right, that happens sometimes. Little one night, Stanzy, Jess,

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Speaker 1: I have a nigga. Oh why, shaking my head? I

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Speaker 1: and my nigga just got back in a great place

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Speaker 1: and this would set us back so far again. I

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Speaker 1: was gonna take it to the grave until yesterday when

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Speaker 1: a guy from the party started following me on Instagram

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Speaker 1: and liking all my pictures.

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Speaker 3: Oh shit.

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Speaker 1: I took this as a sign and I feel nothing

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Speaker 1: but absolute guilt.

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Speaker 3: So I plan on telling my boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how or have any specific plan on

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Speaker 1: how I'm gonna do that, because there's really no excuse

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Speaker 1: for cheating. He did not deserve this and doesn't deserve

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Speaker 1: to be with someone who just can't tell him the

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Speaker 1: truth no matter how hard it is. I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: to follow up after I tell him. So she wants

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Speaker 1: to tell her boyfriend that she cheated. It was a

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Speaker 1: drunken night, she went out to a bar, and and

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Speaker 1: the thing is, this ain't no change. It's one of

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Speaker 1: her old friends. So she with her boyfriend. Yeah, she

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Speaker 1: absolutely want to be word boyfriend, and they already had

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Speaker 1: problems and they was having turmoil because she said they're

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Speaker 1: and this will set them so far back again.

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Speaker 3: So bitch, what did you do before?

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Speaker 1: Because she said he don't even deserve this, So she's

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Speaker 1: the one that fucked up before too, got to read

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Speaker 1: the context. So what I'm telling him, don't tell them,

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Speaker 1: but she's telling us what if he listens? Fuck right,

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Speaker 1: he wouldn't, I mean, because yeah, I don't. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: know her name, she didn't say where they were from. Yeah, okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, so she wouldn't get caught. But fuck, that's crazy,

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Speaker 1: you know because even if she don't sell them, thought Taylor, man,

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Speaker 1: you're a little different. If she don't tell them that,

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Speaker 1: she's gonna eat her up.

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Speaker 3: And this, she's probably gonna dive guilt.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like, but it was a friend, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was an old friend. Yes, this is the person

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Speaker 1: ended up running into an old guy friend and we

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Speaker 1: ended up we ended up partying all night.

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Speaker 3: A few drinks led to other other things, and then

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Speaker 3: we slept together.

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Speaker 1: Oh ship, So you went to this nigga house or

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Speaker 1: we went to your house and we were just gonna

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Speaker 1: paint the picture, like you went home and.

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Speaker 4: Then your husband or my boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Out, Like where were you at? Right? Yeah, so what

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Speaker 3: did you tell them? Exactly on my phone died?

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Speaker 1: Or she's notorious for doing ship like this then because

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Speaker 1: they just got back, I'm not going past that. I'm

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Speaker 1: not getting past that part, like they just they had

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Speaker 1: other issues.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, of her.

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Speaker 1: I think she's just telling them because obviously she is

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Speaker 1: He's definitely gonna break up with her, and she should

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying he's gonna break up with you. This

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Speaker 3: I'll break up with you. Yeah, I will leave you too, bitch.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like and then just go be single because you

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Speaker 4: But what's it You're going on a See this is

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Speaker 3: Like if they got to know their type of girl with.

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Speaker 4: If you want the relationship broken up, don't tell him

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Speaker 3: If you don't, don't tell him. That's my advice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's feeling guilty, so it looks like she's gonna

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Speaker 3: Tell him, yeah, because that's like, then.

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Speaker 1: You're also teaching them who you're with too, you know

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Speaker 1: Now, stranger would honestly make it worse, but well, it

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Speaker 3: That you need. Maybe he's too much of a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like he gets walked all over. If

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Speaker 1: if she do tell him? Does she does she tell him?

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Speaker 3: Of her old friends?

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Speaker 5: That makes it worse, so you would say it was

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm eating? And she always gets like

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Speaker 3: all right because they don't want to hear it. But no,

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Speaker 4: If he's a guy that's like wanting details and details,

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Speaker 4: I guess, but I don't know, Like I just feel like.

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Speaker 3: Whatever if she tells.

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Speaker 4: Him she's gonna be single, m I don't think amaded

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's not want to say, oh, you're drunk,

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Speaker 1: Get that drunk when you're drunk, So I only want

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Speaker 1: you to drink. If I'm gonna be in this relationship

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Speaker 1: deserves it better. Yeah, he definitely deserves better. He don't, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he does. So I'm sorry, baby girl, but your is

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Speaker 3: I don't have sorry, I mean, I don't have sympathy

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Speaker 1: But have you ever gone through that before, got drunk

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, I mean, I don't know if that makes

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Speaker 3: I was was souber.

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Speaker 4: I never like when I cheated though, it wasn't a

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Speaker 4: fuck though, it was like I kissed her again, I

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Speaker 3: No, because you said you was gay. No, I didn't

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Speaker 3: say her. You did you say I kissed her? You

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Speaker 4: My I had a speech impediment and my hurt sometimes

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Speaker 1: It wasn't like that, Okay, First of all, a victim,

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Speaker 1: I have a speech impediment, So making fun of you

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Speaker 1: for that, like nobody making fun like all right, I

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: Well, if I did sit here I met him. But

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Speaker 4: what they cheated though? It was back in height, like

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Speaker 4: I haven't.

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Speaker 1: Yet you been like you never Yeah, okay, yeah you

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Speaker 1: But but what No, what's your model? You always say

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Speaker 1: if you're cheating, is cheating? Nothing is better than I

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Speaker 1: think it is. No, that's no, that was cheating.

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Speaker 3: What I did? I know, yeah, but like I would rather.

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Speaker 1: That level of cheating than for you to get drunk

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Speaker 4: Also when it comes to cheating too, is I feel

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Speaker 4: like it's a build up because yeah, I was emotionally

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Speaker 3: I was seventeen? Oh yeah, okay, so you're seventeen.

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Speaker 4: Yeah there was There was times when I was in

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Speaker 3: But I said, she's going to ask because cheating on me?

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Speaker 3: So many times? Have you been cheated on? It? Like

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Speaker 3: in every except this one?

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Speaker 1: Or was like what I don't know because you have

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Speaker 4: Since I moved to New York, I've been in four

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Speaker 4: five relationships, Okay.

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Speaker 2: But.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I only know that one time I

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Speaker 4: second time I didn't, like really no, but I'm sure

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Speaker 4: no he did. Were you able to prove it was agitation?

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Speaker 4: He was what a bitch ass HATI mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: Were you able to prove it? Or you just think

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Speaker 3: he did? Like you just know he did?

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Speaker 4: No I could tell because my pH was thrown off.

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Speaker 3: Oh I got you, I got you. I've been through

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Speaker 3: that too, for sure. For sure I've been through that

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Speaker 3: as well. Like no, nigga noo when I tell.

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Speaker 1: You, I'm only fucking you dumby and sorry, know what's

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Speaker 1: up now?

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Speaker 4: Like till this day, this is probably nine years ago. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: he was on fire too, just sip and watch period.

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Speaker 3: I have the.

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Speaker 4: Most hatred with him versus with any than any of

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Speaker 3: Different level.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I mean by levels, not saying that

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Speaker 1: there are certainly levels and that ship that'll make you

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Speaker 1: want to kill a nigga. Yeah, Like I wish nothing

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Speaker 1: know what the fuck you could have gave me. By

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Speaker 1: the grace of God, it was get rid ofable nigga,

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Speaker 1: but you fucking you could. That's how people people just yeah,

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Speaker 1: but that's a whole other thing with Haitians. Now, it's

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Speaker 3: Like because of that nigga.

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Speaker 2: That one nigga.

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Speaker 3: I don't like Haitian. Oh man, that sounds so bad.

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Speaker 4: Like is like, I just if I find out he's

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Speaker 1: I'm good, damn So what if? So what if?

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Speaker 3: Do you have the baby? Right? Shut up?

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Speaker 1: He's not happy, Like, no, I'm.

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Speaker 3: A little bit yea. Now, I didn't want to tell

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Speaker 1: But but yeah, dumb, but yes, what if he just

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I know I should have been told you, but I

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Speaker 1: just know what you've been through, and I was scared

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Speaker 3: Like, so, now what he's too I skinned to be?

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Speaker 2: What? Right?

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Speaker 3: What does that mean? I'm saying more so because he's

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Speaker 3: That's for Haitian.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, like, but no, he's he is whiting him

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Speaker 4: more than any other type of African.

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Speaker 3: Don't try sandwich. I don't want it.

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Speaker 1: I know you don't. And just like that, we've come

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Speaker 1: to the end of yet another uh carefully reckless podcast

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Speaker 1: with your girl Just Hilarious and your girl Tailor. Y'all

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Speaker 1: say bye to Tailor and Taylor say bye to them,

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Speaker 1: see you, and we're gonna see y'all next week.

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Speaker 2: Peace Ta.

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Speaker 3: Can't.

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