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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for wanting to divorce my

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Speaker 1: husband for demanding a DNA test after giving birth to

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Speaker 1: our twin.

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Speaker 2: One of the kids is mine, the other one isn't. Baha,

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Speaker 2: because the twins gotcha. It was funnier the first time

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Speaker 2: I said it. Top Coup.

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Speaker 1: This comes from playing Top sixty five eighty two, who

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Speaker 1: says my husband thirty three male and I twenty three female.

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Speaker 1: Ten year age gap, which is a big gap, big

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Speaker 1: gap have been It's fine, maybe they met a year ago.

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Speaker 1: Well I've been together for almost seven years.

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Speaker 2: That is uh, that's a worries something.

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Speaker 1: And he is slash was the love of my life.

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Speaker 1: We met when I was sixteen.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you haven't had much life so far, like

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Speaker 2: a little more. Yeah, you know, a forty year old

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Speaker 2: saying it's the love of my life that that'll think about,

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Speaker 2: But I don't. You don't know shit at sixteen, nor

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Speaker 2: should you in this situation.

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Speaker 1: Let's live our lives alrighty b. We met when I

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Speaker 1: was sixteen, fresh out of high school going to college.

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Speaker 1: He met my family when I was eighteen. I was

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Speaker 1: a virgin and we couldn't be intimate without getting married.

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Speaker 1: We're Muslim by the way. He proposed when I was

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Speaker 1: right after graduating from grad school.

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Speaker 2: Ope, he's finishing everything super early. See speed running a

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Speaker 2: life dude on Yeah actually yeah, speed writing life to that,

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Speaker 2: I must hit all the goals.

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Speaker 1: No, I never wanted to be a stay at home

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Speaker 1: mom or wife before we even began to date. He

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Speaker 1: was aware of my expectations. From twenty seventeen to the

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Speaker 1: end of twenty twenty four, my husband was loving, caring,

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Speaker 1: supportive and handsome. He was my best friend, my mentor.

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Speaker 1: He is an engineer and I work at finance. We

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Speaker 1: mostly him, built a house from the ground up. Together.

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Speaker 1: We have a garden where we don't have to buy

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Speaker 1: fruits or veggies. Awesome, we need to on that Actually.

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Speaker 2: A whole garden that provides all of your.

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Speaker 1: Meals, all their fruits and veggies.

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Speaker 2: That's well, that's basically all the that's everything you can grow. True,

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Speaker 2: what else can you grow?

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Speaker 1: Chicken rootsay cock? But cock? I was his princess. What

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Speaker 1: a transition. On November twenty twenty three, I saw my

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Speaker 1: face was getting swollen and my belly became longer than usual.

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Speaker 1: I didn't really pay attention because I was but that

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Speaker 1: did that is in a period a period there we go.

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Speaker 1: That makes that makes That's why I thought it was.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, I hadn't heard it said that

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Speaker 1: way before. Six days later, I ended up in the

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Speaker 1: hospital because I wasn't feeling normal. The doctor told me

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Speaker 1: that I was pregnant. My husband was so happy. I

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Speaker 1: didn't know how to feel it because I was happy

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Speaker 1: just because he was. He took great care of me.

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Speaker 1: He went above and beyond to make sure I was happy,

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Speaker 1: especially when he found out that I was carrying a

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Speaker 1: pair of babies, and I was grateful for that. That's

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Speaker 2: Twins.

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Speaker 1: Op is such a funny way of like revealing things

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Speaker 2: Pair of babies, I have a blooded encounter.

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Speaker 1: Oh that you're thinking of that, but or like I

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Speaker 2: I think it is because OP is talking in English,

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Speaker 2: which is a second language. That's what I'm gonna could be.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm gonna think could be.

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Speaker 1: This relationship was not perfect, but we always find a

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Speaker 1: solution or a way to make things work. Between us

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Speaker 1: until February of twenty twenty four. A few months ago,

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Speaker 1: out of nowhere, my husband started to give me an

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Speaker 1: ultimatum to choose between my career or my family. And

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Speaker 1: he also started commenting and complaining about my look, the

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Speaker 1: length of my belly, and he was and he spent

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Speaker 1: an entire week making nasty comments about my body, and

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Speaker 1: he kept saying, how my belly oke? You pied more

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Speaker 2: Dude, she has two people in her.

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Speaker 1: Sir, what do you expect? Do you also? Do you

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Speaker 1: want children or not? Hey? I love that you're pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Oh stop being pregnant, sir. Your belly if.

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Speaker 2: You give it a shot, Yeah, yeah, yeah, put this

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna put a uterus in you. I'm gonna feature

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Speaker 1: fertilize the eggs. I'm gonna have you carry the babies

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Speaker 2: You're like you.

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Speaker 1: That's right, I put That's right. But you know who

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Speaker 1: else puts the U in uterus? Chris Tinfoil Hatch starting

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Speaker 1: Nicole and for the five bucks on the tip link. Yes,

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Speaker 1: my favorites, John and Sam. You guys keep to stress

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Speaker 1: away love from Barcelona, basils. What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Also, we're missing another gifted chat up there.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Oh fair Wolf seven to one three

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Speaker 2: can become a member.

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Speaker 1: Those are the ones I love. I love, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: love the gift that is correct, But you know what

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Speaker 1: else keeps on giving?

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Speaker 2: Radish says, I love that you're pregnant, but not like that.

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Speaker 1: Right, It's like listen to Radish. Uh, And after delivering

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Speaker 1: the baby, my next stop should be the gym instead

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Speaker 1: of home because I looked funny.

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Speaker 2: I love a little like cute things that couples say

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Speaker 1: Little pet names like you're fat, adorable, yeah, I little sweet.

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Speaker 1: So so you know, this is this is textbook perfect husband.

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Speaker 1: I know, he sounds great, textbook you know, And it's

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Speaker 1: sixteen year olds is probably Suld of the Earth. Top

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Speaker 1: top Tier, top tier, top tier, top tier gentleman straight

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Speaker 1: off the shelf. Now those comments hurt me still now.

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Speaker 1: And he could see the pain in my eyes. Imagine

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Speaker 1: he didn't want to go to work or outside and

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Speaker 2: I mean, how about like dating a sixteen year old?

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Speaker 2: Does that not make you look bad?

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Speaker 1: Sir? When you are the one that's making yourself look bad,

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Speaker 2: I also feel like we've been reading a lot of

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Speaker 2: it's like, I think you're doing a great job of

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Speaker 1: What is this? There's a new like week long theme

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Speaker 1: if you're making me look bad, but they're making themselves

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Speaker 2: You're telling on yourself.

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Speaker 1: It's peeving me off. Okay, I'm peeing, I'm poeing.

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Speaker 2: You're peeing just like Riley in the backyard.

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Speaker 3: Hey, according to sixty four percent of our audience.

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Speaker 2: No, they are to pull again, have to live with

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Speaker 2: you lie again the lie. Yeah, and they don't have

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Speaker 2: to live with you those sixty to live with your urine.

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Speaker 2: Guess what one hundred percent of our house says. One

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Speaker 2: hundred percent of our house said, well, I guess Christian

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Speaker 3: And Chip Chip agrees with me.

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Speaker 1: He's a dog anyways, go on, he's a dog. I'm

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Speaker 2: It unless it's like because you're watching up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it got up every day.

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Speaker 2: I cried. I haven't cried from a movie ever. Ever,

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Speaker 3: Whenever you go on plane rides, you growund you cry

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Speaker 2: I don't think I said that.

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Speaker 2: Well if i'm if I'm driving in the car watching

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Speaker 1: That literally all three of us. Yeah, that was a

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Speaker 2: That was a good day.

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Speaker 2: Out to that concert.

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Speaker 1: Huzz inside jokes. We'll tell you, We'll tell you guys later,

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Speaker 1: maybe a little little okay story time. So he told me.

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Speaker 1: My husband told me that in order for him to

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Speaker 1: sign the birth certificate a DNA test is required. The babies,

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Speaker 1: I haven't even been born yet. The babies are unborn.

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Speaker 1: Innocent looking girls are always the biggest oars. And proceeded

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Speaker 1: to tell me, who knows you might be Uh, you

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Speaker 2: This is actual husband saying that.

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Speaker 1: Yes and literally literally out of nowhere, unprompted of nowhere.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, here we go, here we go. Yep, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: yeah right. Much like when I watched up in theaters

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Speaker 1: That was good. Definitely top three of this week. That

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Speaker 1: was phenomenal.

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Speaker 2: Wow, like that one. John John isn't about it, But no.

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Speaker 1: I think I think I know what you're saying. But

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Speaker 1: I'm like, were you like, oh no, That's what I

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Speaker 1: was confused about. He's projecting, Yeah, what the movie was projecting?

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Speaker 1: I wasn't sure. I wasn't sure if you, well, under

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Speaker 1: what pretenses you were watching the timelines? I was like, well,

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Speaker 1: am I getting is right? Now? We got it? Now?

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Speaker 1: We can't mention any movie with him anyway.

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Speaker 2: He's like the man has never been close to a

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Speaker 1: I'm alert rejector. I was so hurt, exhausted and mad.

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Speaker 1: The only one that came the only word that came

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Speaker 2: Get wrecked and too late, too late.

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Speaker 1: I would I would. I would love to be like, uh,

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Speaker 1: I know, dude, it's sometimes it's it's it's it's hard

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Speaker 1: Know you're right, I need a little bit. I needed

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Speaker 2: Oh he is awesome. Op is just able to get

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Speaker 1: Basically Batman. Yeah, bro, yeah, op is BATMANA is Batman?

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Speaker 1: Dude with twins? Wow, yeah the bat twins. I don't

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Speaker 2: A batmobile inside her body exactly running co pilot. Oh

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Speaker 2: my gosh, bad woman. Yeah, that's crazy. Is OpEd? No?

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Speaker 1: No? No? Oh dude, these people like the husband and

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Speaker 2: Just I'm really curious if this is in the US,

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Speaker 1: Purely on the sixteen thing. Yeah, because I think different

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Speaker 2: Where sixteen may be Like I know, like I think

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Speaker 3: I'm on it.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's like the age age of consent I think

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Speaker 1: Well there's is there a difference between age consent and.

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Speaker 2: Which like the age consent is the Yeah, in California

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Speaker 2: it's eighteen, but I'm pretty sure uh oh sixteen, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: thirty age of consent is sixteen. So yeah, I think

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Speaker 2: that what that means is you could get married at sixteen.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure, but comments correct me if I'm wrong.

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Speaker 1: Let us know.

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Speaker 2: Also, Riley is Riley's search history looking susst know what's

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Speaker 2: the lowest age of consent your search history?

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Speaker 1: Real quick? Got him?

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Speaker 3: We behol video breakdown of my search history, and I

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Speaker 1: It would be bad. It would be very bad.

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Speaker 2: What do I What did the comments say? I want to.

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Speaker 1: Do?

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Speaker 2: They have uber in other countries? Yeah, yeah, they have Uber.

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Speaker 2: We've been to other countries and they have Uber. Also

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Speaker 2: grab is some missus filer says age of consent is

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Speaker 2: sixteen in many states, and is fourteen as low as

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Speaker 2: twelve in some southern states. What what No, No, not anymore?

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Speaker 2: That's crazy, No way, quebec is sixteen, but no more

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Speaker 2: but like sixteen in America and like a lot of states,

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Speaker 2: thirty states, I guess is okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy?

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Speaker 2: Pretty sure age of consent is for physical contact, not marriage.

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Speaker 2: But I could be wrong.

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Speaker 1: I think it's maybe both. I imagine it would be

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Speaker 2: Carol Castle says sixteen for spicy sleep in Australia, but

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Speaker 2: I think you need to be eighteen to marry. Yeah, yes, Kitchen,

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Speaker 2: parental consent. Ah freaking weird wants to get dude. I

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Speaker 2: being married to one dude, which I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if you can barely imagine it a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit god mannered. The tool looks for the one sixty

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Speaker 1: nine tip. I've been to donated a sixt can have

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Speaker 1: another long stream today, me too, dude. Stop The only

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Speaker 1: long stream againing is Riley ping outside.

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Speaker 2: That is like for the five buck tips. Stay rad, guys,

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Speaker 2: all right, I don't know if we can stay rab

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Speaker 2: who can at least say rat ish uncle Daddy Jesse,

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Speaker 2: thank you for the twenty buck tip. We appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think we got some members celebrating some milestones.

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Speaker 1: We freaking do Christy Steele, if you're able to pop

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Speaker 1: open that window a little bit for me. Riley celebrating

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Speaker 1: one month of membership. YouTube just started working. Uh it did.

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Speaker 1: As for your comment, Tarah Bautof celebrating three month membership,

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Speaker 1: let's go, I am using his support Riley. Except the roses. Man,

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Speaker 1: Come on, Uh it is outside. Uh it is outside.

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Speaker 1: It rains. He only does, I hope when you guys

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think he pees on the roses.

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Speaker 2: I don't think we have any roads.

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Speaker 1: He did at his girlfriend's house.

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Speaker 2: You peed on your girlfriend's roses.

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Speaker 1: Yep, it was her mom's, her moms and then.

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Speaker 2: Your current girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: Yes, current girlfriend, you peed on this.

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Speaker 1: Literally go to her mom.

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Speaker 3: Not in front of her mom. She okay, so this

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Speaker 3: is what happened. Okay, sorry time for recent?

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Speaker 2: How recent?

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Speaker 3: I mean a few weeks within like the last two weeks.

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Speaker 3: Whenever I went to her house last okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, tell me what happened.

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Speaker 3: Okay, time I had to use the bathroom, I could.

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Speaker 3: I did not want to go inside to her house

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Speaker 2: It would be rude to pee in someone's house. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because they were on it. So it was like the

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Speaker 2: it was like midnight. Okay, So I drop her off,

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Speaker 2: I walk.

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Speaker 3: Boom boom boom boom oh ude the way that she describes,

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Speaker 1: I see you walk.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, there he goes.

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Speaker 1: And then you stop turned towards the house.

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Speaker 3: And just stand there and I'm like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: no way, he's peeing in the bush right now.

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Speaker 1: And this is why we have to stop you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why we have to beined. You're like a dog that

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Speaker 1: like peas wherever it goes. Yes, be trained.

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Speaker 3: I just like ping outside. I don't know why. Like

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Speaker 2: Of all, I'm like every other guy. I like peede

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Speaker 2: outside too, which is the next guy? Yeah, I like

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Speaker 2: peeing as much as the next guy. Let me be clear,

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Speaker 2: But as a civilized man, I pee in the toilet

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Speaker 2: when one is a fail bowl. There wasn't one available, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: Also so I think I think Riley he abused. So see,

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Speaker 2: some of us are very small bladders, right, Yeah. If

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Speaker 2: anyone should be able to pee outside, it should be John.

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Speaker 2: But guess who doesn't at the cost of his own bladder.

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Speaker 1: Exactly. It's just quicker that way. You can literally go

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Speaker 1: to like drive right outside, like I think, I think

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Speaker 2: Truly, John, when I was driving with John Ones and

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Speaker 2: he needed to pee for at least an hour, and

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Speaker 2: we went to go find a pee place. Yes, he

442
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Speaker 2: walked twenty minutes to find find a place to pee

443
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Speaker 2: because I was like getting gasers.

444
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Speaker 1: Because what happened was, so we were at a gas station.

445
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Speaker 2: When he could appeed behind a garbage can, why didn't you?

446
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Speaker 1: Here's the thing that that.

447
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Speaker 2: Was an example. It wasn't a house, and.

448
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Speaker 1: That was that one. That one I totally could have

449
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Speaker 1: peed outside. But what happened was I like waltked to

450
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Speaker 1: the first gas station. We were like literally a ten

451
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Speaker 1: second walk away from like, oh, no bathroom. I was like, okay, whatever,

452
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Speaker 1: I'll go. There's one right across the street. I go

453
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Speaker 1: to that one, no bathroom. I go to this one,

454
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Speaker 1: no bathroom. So every single one they each kept not

455
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Speaker 1: having a bathroom. Yeah, and then finally I was like.

456
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Speaker 2: It was like Joseph and Mary Yeah, and then sorry,

457
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Speaker 2: no vacancy. Yeah, I'm making jokes really targeted.

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Speaker 3: But like, like I way back from my girlfriend last night,

459
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Speaker 3: I just stopped by the side of the road, took

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Speaker 3: a piece, and then kept driving. You know how much

461
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Speaker 3: would be able to find somewhere to go peet.

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Speaker 1: Side of the road.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm down for that's but not someone's house.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't It was not even on their house. It

465
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Speaker 3: was like on the street. Do you want our house

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Speaker 3: to smell like venice? No, I'm yeah, yeah, there is.

467
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Speaker 2: There is a Boogain filia right next to where I

468
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Speaker 2: parked a surf and it perfectly has this overhang. It

469
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Speaker 2: would be a beautiful place to stay out of the shade.

470
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Speaker 2: But you know what, people pee there and it smells

471
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Speaker 2: like pee, and now I can't enjoy the shade.

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Speaker 1: Dude. I just like people like you.

473
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Speaker 2: People, Yes, people people like you.

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Speaker 3: When I was five, I would go outside and I

475
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Speaker 3: had a pretty long stream. Like you guys said, I'd

476
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Speaker 3: bet on top of the roof of the house.

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Speaker 2: You've told me that story before. I don't believe that

478
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Speaker 2: for a second.

479
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Speaker 1: Tell tell them.

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Speaker 2: There's no way I did pee on top of a roof.

481
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Speaker 2: I did it was a one story house on top

482
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Speaker 2: of the roof.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Mom, pat miss Patsy Wilson, there's no way, Yes

484
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Speaker 3: it happened. That's that is untrue. One that's strong. Thank goodness, Mom,

485
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Speaker 3: Tell them, tell them what's up?

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Speaker 2: What numbers are you doing? Now?

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't do that anymore.

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Speaker 2: You seem to be able to will It was five.

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Speaker 2: You were saying, you have a straw. I'm just seeing

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Speaker 2: that five than you have now.

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Speaker 1: She said.

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Speaker 2: You also said he also be on his own face,

494
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Speaker 2: probably because he's been.

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Speaker 3: He's been rooms.

496
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Speaker 1: Yes, he did pee on the roof. It happened.

497
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Speaker 3: Yes, there you go, Yes, he did pee on the roof.

498
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Speaker 1: It happened. There you go.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: See, this is this is what happens when you pee everywhere.

501
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:35,239
Speaker 2: Just just let me pee. No, no, just find a

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Speaker 2: better place. Yeah, do not pee the neighbor's he already yes,

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Speaker 2: literally literally no, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: If it is that much of an emergency, go, you know,

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Speaker 1: outside of the neighbors, like.

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Speaker 3: There's I do go outside of the name thirty.

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Speaker 1: To sixty seconds. No, no, no, no, not in any other

508
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Speaker 1: regular scenario, you are allowed, like okay, what's what's a

509
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Speaker 1: golden rule, but for I know gold on average, like

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Speaker 1: how often do you have to be outside, like like

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Speaker 1: more than once a month.

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Speaker 2: I think if you're in the wilderness, you are expected

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Speaker 2: to be outside. Of course, if you outside, that would

514
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Speaker 2: be weird. I'm saying in like everyday life where we

515
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Speaker 2: have like act, actually we have we have two people

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Speaker 2: here that are opposite ends of the peace spectrum. The

517
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Speaker 2: opposite were.

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Speaker 3: Like in the country, you can just see wherever outside

519
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Speaker 3: and it was totally fun.

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Speaker 4: It was your own mother said this is not the

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Speaker 4: way you mean.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, she's in the chat right now, Sophia, she says, no, man,

523
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Speaker 2: but we're trying. We're gonna get into this story. But

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Speaker 2: Martika Waterman, thanks for the three bucks. Hello, how are

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Speaker 2: you guys doing mentally? I think pretty good. I hope

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Speaker 2: you guys are doing okay. I'm about to eat some

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Speaker 2: chicken from what a Burger and then also take care

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Speaker 2: of my daughter who has heat exhaustion because it's hot

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Speaker 2: here in Florida. It's about ninety two in the northwest

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Speaker 2: Florida today. That is, yes, if he gets heat exhaustion

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Speaker 2: all the time. Casey, thanks for the twenty five buck tip. First,

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Speaker 2: I have to say, you guys are amazing. All hail

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Speaker 2: worm queen. It sounds like you're just hailing the worm queen. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: been watching your streams for months now. It's helped me

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Speaker 2: study for my business courses. I again, we don't understand.

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Speaker 2: But also I have a crazy ex fiance story that

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Speaker 2: I've been meaning to share. Like, seriously, it's insane. Why

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Speaker 2: don't you go to arslash o kop sha and submit it? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: tip Riley. Getting shanked and cutting your leg with a

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Speaker 2: saw aren't the same thing. What are you going to

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Speaker 2: do if you have internal bleeding?

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Speaker 3: That's where or everyone has, That's where it's.

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Speaker 2: The blood stays in. That's good, right, mindful worm bres

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Speaker 2: thanks to the five thirty one, super Chad and Chris

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Speaker 2: Tinfoil Hat. Another thirty minutes thanks to the five bucks

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Speaker 1: Wow wow, why did it come through?

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Speaker 2: I didn't see it.

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Speaker 1: It already counted in the bar in weird whoa, whoa, whoa.

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Speaker 1: Here's some more.

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Speaker 2: We got a lot more coming way, Alan app thanks

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Speaker 2: for the five bucks, six people, one bathroom. When I

555
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Speaker 2: grew up, seventy five percent of the time is peeing

556
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Speaker 2: outside in the backyard. I understand. And who's this from?

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Speaker 2: Why can't we see it?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Why can't we see it?

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Speaker 1: Is it? Make it?

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Speaker 2: Make it, make it up, strider, stretch it, stretch it out.

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Speaker 2: Stretch it out, Stretch it out, stretch it Outstone twenty one.

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Speaker 2: Have we seen Reefstone before?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, Reef Stone. Thanks for the fifty bucks and

566
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Speaker 2: the You're amazing sticker. We appreciate you. I've actually been

567
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 2: showering outside recently because Sophia always takes a shower for years.

568
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 1: Shower yes, yes, yes, yes, that's right. You're welcome to

569
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: shower outside all you want. Let me be butt ass

570
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: naked outside.

571
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Speaker 3: We have a shower, the curtains, yes, I have a curtain,

572
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 3: but I'm concealed whenever I pee, I don't pean the shower.

573
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: You are. You are exposing your your nakedness more peeing

574
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 1: than you are in that shower.

575
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 2: Can we do a poll? Should Riley use a toilet

576
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Speaker 2: or should he be free rein wherever he wants?

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00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: Go ahead and do the poll. We did a poll

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Speaker 1: last time. Yep, they encouraged him. But we'll do it again. Guys,

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Speaker 1: Riley's mom disapproves outside toilet. No, no, that's a biased pole.

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Speaker 2: The pole the bias celebrates one month the membership. Didn't

581
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Speaker 2: realize it's already been one month already in Artika, Waterman,

582
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 2: three months of membership in Alaska. My dad peede in

583
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Speaker 2: the snow. And also I teach my son how to pee.

584
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 2: Two so the pee in the snow in South Dakota.

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Speaker 1: Two.

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Speaker 2: So it's funny. Everyone's pe and Monique.

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Speaker 5: Esparros esparaza, esperaz esparaza thanks to time buck tip Yes,

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Speaker 5: Coo the live silver lining to laying in bed wils

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Speaker 5: shedding my uterine lining.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for the laughs.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome.

592
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 2: You're welcome, Alan Foster, you want to.

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Speaker 1: Read, yes and then uh. Firebird Folio's book says, having

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Speaker 1: the worst day, need of the stream sending love to

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Speaker 1: the pigeon Nord. That's it. Oh wait, setting love to

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Speaker 1: a pigeon. Lord. I bet the worm queen is watching Bridgeston.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right, it comes it.

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Speaker 6: I watched it this morning. I watched it all. I

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Speaker 6: was up at like six point fifteen.

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Speaker 1: You are joking it was only.

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Speaker 6: Four episodes because it's half a season.

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Speaker 1: It's so good, dude, As as people who create content

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Speaker 1: for women, just what a what a engineered for women?

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Speaker 1: My god, that show. I've watched every episode, by the way.

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Speaker 2: You've watched every episode.

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Speaker 1: I've watched every single episode of Bridger Jack.

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Speaker 2: Kansas. Thanks for the three one hundred dollars and fifty

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Speaker 2: three cents tip. Appreciate all make the workdays go quick

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Speaker 2: making this donation to support Riley as my only toilet

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Speaker 2: is upstairs and I'm down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 4: That counts as one hundred votes right there. That's one

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Speaker 4: hundred votes right there. Oh my gosh, thank you. Wow,

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Speaker 4: oh my god, another thirty minutes, let's go.

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Speaker 1: You know what.

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Speaker 3: That gives me time to go pee outside.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. NIFIA, can you produce a report?

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's no way you're going to go outside right now?

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Speaker 1: Watch me?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'll go on the route.

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Speaker 1: No be on the root, no please? No?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 6: What's that raid?

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Speaker 2: All right? Lola, Lita? Thanks for the two bucks, Lolada.

625
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Speaker 2: We've been seeing your comments. Mister Seinfeld, Sam John walking

626
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Speaker 2: so long to find a place to pee for so long.

627
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 2: Like the episode they can't find a car and Jerry

628
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Speaker 2: gets arrested for public are nation John didn't want You're

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Speaker 2: a miss a tiss poising poisoning? Is that a thing

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Speaker 2: you're or is that a joke? You want uri ury?

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Speaker 2: You're a miss tis poison Is that a thing?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: We can get that fixed, right, I think we can.

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Speaker 1: We can. I think we can figure out to fix that.

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Speaker 2: Kams Is Uh, yes, yeah, kams Is. If you if

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Speaker 2: that was an accident, let us know.

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Speaker 1: Reach out to us on discord message Riley, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Message message, We'll get that fixed for you. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: that's so bad a right, I'm gonna should I fix that, like.

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Speaker 1: If you know, how.

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Speaker 3: Should I make it say five rather than three hundred?

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Speaker 1: If that was a mistake, yeah, okay on the thing

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Speaker 1: and then yeah, you can correspond with art with our pal.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, Kamsas, go to go to discords your PayPal. Yeah, yes,

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Speaker 3: there we go. Yeah, if it was a mistake, let

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Speaker 3: us know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, we got you. No worries, you're good, you're

648
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Speaker 1: going good, all good?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my goodness, I love bubbles.

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Speaker 1: Five gifted memberships. Let's freaking go shout out to you,

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Speaker 1: love bubbles, We love you all right, read this the

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Speaker 1: next door. Let's get into it. Let's freaking do you, sammy?

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Speaker 2: Literally, do not worry.

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Speaker 1: We got you. We got you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we got you. Another amazing reason that you

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Speaker 2: should join the Yes.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, let me fix that.

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Speaker 2: Yes? Oh wait, is there a way to do it

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Speaker 2: through YouTube?

660
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:06,720
Speaker 1: Yeah? Maybe yeah, maybe see that.

661
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 3: Let me I'm gonna just gonna fix everything. You guys,

662
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 3: do you want? Do you want Sophia to produce? So

663
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 3: you know I still gotta I gotta do it on here?

664
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: Got you?

665
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 2: I am I v a hole for helping my boss

666
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 2: hide his multiple affairs from his wife. Uh kind of well,

667
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 2: this comes from somewhere and my boss, and they say

668
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:36,359
Speaker 2: my boss is having multiple affairs. I am his assistant,

669
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 2: so I know about all his visitors and his schedule.

670
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 2: He is married, but he often has visits from two

671
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 2: different women, and he outright told me to never tell

672
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 2: his wife about them.

673
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:48,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

674
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 2: When either of them visits, he locks his doors and

675
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 2: tells me he is not to be disturbed. This happens

676
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 2: almost weekly.

677
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: Oh.

678
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 2: He sometimes asked me to book local hotel rooms for

679
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:07,280
Speaker 2: an hour or an afternoon, but he sometimes buys jewelry

680
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 2: and flowers for the two women he sees regularly.

681
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: He's just doing a meeting. He's just me a meeting,

682
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: needs a private meeting. Yeah, and you know what, like

683
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,280
Speaker 1: it sounds like he's really busy. He needs an assistant

684
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: for all of these different dates. You know, makes sense.

685
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: This isn't called delegation, called delegation capital d.

686
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 2: He never does anything like this for his wife. One

687
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 2: of the women just had a baby who was named

688
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 2: after my boss and has his surname. One of the

689
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 2: women has a baby.

690
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 1: With literally his like first and last name.

691
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no way that's not coming out. Yes, fifty

692
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 2: one percent of people said outside Riley.

693
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 3: Fifty one left no outside. They said for me to

694
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 3: be outside, you get eft.

695
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 1: That's a lot less than yesterday though. Yeah, but it

696
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: really is. I win. Everyone's just stirring the pot.

697
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 2: Everyone the polls over doesn't want her backyard to smell good.

698
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: It won't. It doesn't.

699
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 3: My peace smells fine. I don't eat my store. No,

700
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 3: I don't want to smell your pee. All right, we're

701
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 3: going back to the shop.

702
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,880
Speaker 2: Yes, one time his wife showed up for a surprise

703
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,240
Speaker 2: visit to take him out to lunch, and he directed

704
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 2: me to lie that the woman who was in his

705
00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 2: office was there for a job interview. He also submits

706
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 2: expenses from his business trips where he has traveled alone

707
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 2: and have to recalculate everything because he has upgraded the company,

708
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 2: provided a hotel room to a better one on his

709
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 2: personal credit card, and bought breakfast for more than one

710
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 2: person the next morning. When this happens, he tells me

711
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 2: he had company for the company. There was also an

712
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 2: incident where he came to work panicked because he said

713
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 2: he accidentally used his company credit card at a strip club.

714
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 2: He sent me to retrieve it and pays tab with cash.

715
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 2: But the address he sent me to was actually a

716
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 2: massage parlor.

717
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: Oh man, is he's not even trying to hide it's

718
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 1: I mean from his assistant.

719
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, definitely. I mean he needs a co conspirator

720
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 2: in this, bro This is his assistant needs, like unless

721
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 2: he's if he's not there. Yeah, normally, I honestly don't

722
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 2: care what people do in their own private lives, but

723
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 2: I hate that I'm part of his lies to his wife.

724
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 2: She is a nice person and she is dealing with

725
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 2: a heart condition that just required surgery. I know they

726
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 2: don't have an open relationship because my boss lies to

727
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 2: her and also directs me to lie to her about

728
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 2: his actions. He says, she can never know. I get

729
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 2: sick whenever I think about what he is doing. I

730
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 2: know a way I can get I know a way

731
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 2: I can out him to his wife. And honestly, do

732
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 2: you think I should let her know? Or is this

733
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 2: none of my business and I need to stay out

734
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 2: of it? And there is an updates? But John Riley, Sophia,

735
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 2: what do you think should op say something?

736
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean the fact that she has a way

737
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: of saying it with like without repercussions, it seems do it?

738
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 1: Why not? Why not? I was going to say before

739
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 1: that if if that was not the case, which seems

740
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 1: pretty rare, that they have like a way of being

741
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: without hiding it, if that was not an option, then

742
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: maybe like try to find a new job, because like,

743
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 1: who want to work for someone who's like you're basically

744
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: hired to like help him I cheat, cheat.

745
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's like I feel like it's the same.

746
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: I mean it's like almost it's like if you're working

747
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 2: for a company that just doesn't align.

748
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: With your values.

749
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: Yes, like exactly would be draining and to do work

750
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:59,720
Speaker 2: that literally is enabling someone to be a terrible person. Yes,

751
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 2: like I would, I would hate that job. So I mean,

752
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 2: at the very least you should stop working for him.

753
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 2: But you could also I don't know, like say, I mean,

754
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 2: couldn't you say I'm uncomfortable helping you cheat on your wife?

755
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 1: Right?

756
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,760
Speaker 2: Maybe not? Maybe not when you get fired.

757
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: And but but like I would say, like go try

758
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: to find another job, and like hope hopefully it would

759
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: be that you could find a new job.

760
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, quickly get a job lined up, and then yes,

761
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:34,279
Speaker 2: then just like light a match and throw it on

762
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 2: the fire behind.

763
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 1: It and hopefully hopefully you're able to like in a

764
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,399
Speaker 1: few like like let's say a few weeks, so it's like, hey,

765
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: that's not too long, and then you're able to on

766
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 1: your way out the door, let the wife know.

767
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, shyl Little Rider says, going straight to the wife

768
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 2: can create difficulties up for me, please can create difficulty

769
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 2: wife may not believe OP, and boss may find a

770
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 2: reason to fire OP by telling HR he's put you

771
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 2: in a and in uncomfortable positions. Could be the way

772
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 2: to get him that actually, if it's a big enough

773
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 2: company H that has HR, I feel like, I mean,

774
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,479
Speaker 2: there's definitely some kind of case that you could build.

775
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: I think totally. And I and I might have been

776
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: incorrectly assuming this subconsciously, but I thought it was almost

777
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: like a independent like he's like does his own stuff

778
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 1: and just has his own like personal assistant. But I'm

779
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: that is probably not correct.

780
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 2: I think, well, I mean he he remember he like

781
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 2: left his card at the card if yeah.

782
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, working for somewhere yeah yeah, and.

783
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 2: He was worried like, oh my god, I'm gonna get

784
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 2: in trouble. So I think, uh, I think it it's

785
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 2: probably a big enough company that going to HR actually

786
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 2: would be good. That's yeah, that's the move get him fired. Yeah,

787
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 2: So I think or he can do anything. I think

788
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 2: let's let's uh, let's let's go to HR.

789
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: Yes, I agree, I think that's a move.

790
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 2: Get a cop Samantha Elsa's get a copy of the

791
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 2: receipt and get it to the wife with the note

792
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 2: yeah Kitschen, which says, I would assume in this case

793
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 2: scenario there is no HR. So let's say there's no HR,

794
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:09,840
Speaker 2: what should happen.

795
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:14,280
Speaker 1: Well, honestly, OPI said, they have a way of exposing

796
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: it without him finding out. That's probably.

797
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 2: I still you want to work for this guy?

798
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: I still would suggest that. But what that does is

799
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: it exposes it as fast as possible, and Op can

800
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: still get paid and work there for now while she

801
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: finds because you know, who knows. Maybe maybe it's like

802
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: extremely hard who finds another position.

803
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:42,720
Speaker 2: We don't know, but let's get in to the update,

804
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 2: because there's two juicy updates. So two days after you

805
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 2: published my letter, my boss was served with divorce papers

806
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 2: here at work. His wife publicly outed his affairs, and

807
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 2: she sent copies of emails and texts said between him

808
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,439
Speaker 2: and the two women he was having affairs with, as

809
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,280
Speaker 2: well as one of the escorts he was seeing regularly,

810
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 2: to some people here at the office, including me, his relatives,

811
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 2: and some of their friends.

812
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:19,280
Speaker 1: Whoa who fire exposed exposed dude.

813
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 2: She also sent these to the two women in the

814
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 2: X and the escort, and some of their relatives and

815
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 2: colleagues at work. The texts and emails proved that all

816
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 2: three of them not only knew he was married, but

817
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 2: that he was seeing other women besides each one of them.

818
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 2: They also include his acknowledgment he followed a child outside

819
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 2: of his marriage, and evidence he used funds from the

820
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 2: joint account and his wife's pay to spend money on them,

821
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 2: as well as for the random women he cheated with

822
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 2: when he was out of town on business. His wife

823
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 2: has filed alienation of affection lawsuits against the two women

824
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: what does that mean? And the escort he was cheating

825
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 2: with regularly. All three of them kept calling and coming

826
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 2: to see him here at work to confront him after

827
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 2: they were outed to people and served with lawsuit papers.

828
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: And I heard them talking sometimes yelling about it each time,

829
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 2: and him saying his wife moved out the day he

830
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:16,720
Speaker 2: was served the divorce papers and he has no way

831
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 2: to contact except through her lawyer. They have no children,

832
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 2: and apparently she has cut all contact.

833
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: Wow, honestly shout out to the wife. Figured out how

834
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: to like pull all the levers to have it all

835
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,399
Speaker 1: come crashing down in a fee like even the even

836
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: the mistresses are coming back and be like, your wife's

837
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: blowing all my life. He's like, I literally can do

838
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: nothing to stop it. And they're and they're I think

839
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 1: they're assuming him too, right.

840
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 2: No, no, no, they're being served by the wife.

841
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: By the wife. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, and they're like

842
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: ooh no good yeah, great revenge.

843
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 2: Kimberly Fine says, all of a sudden, Op's boss doesn't

844
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 2: like ladies pulling the sheet off Scooby Doo style to

845
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 2: expose him. It wasn't for these meddling kids. But exactly, I

846
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 2: played dumb the entire time, and no one, including his wife,

847
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,399
Speaker 2: has accused me of knowing anything or asked me if

848
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 2: I did oh before all this happened. After reading your

849
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 2: response and response to the comments, I decided to seriously

850
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 2: start looking for another job, which is what we said.

851
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 1: There we go.

852
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: You don't want to work for an asshole, Yes, a butthole,

853
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 2: a booty hole. The same week my letter was published,

854
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 2: there was an opening inside my company for a receptionist

855
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:31,800
Speaker 2: in a different division. The company usually posts jobs internally

856
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 2: before they look externally, and since I'm classified as admin

857
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: and the posting is for an administrative position, I didn't

858
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 2: have to apply and could just put in for a

859
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 2: transfer and they gave it to me. And I've been

860
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 2: in my new job for two weeks now. I love

861
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 2: it so far. I spend all day on the phone

862
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 2: with people or tallecting with people who have come in

863
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 2: to see or meet with my colleagues. The division has

864
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 2: over one hundred people. So while I have a screen

865
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:03,240
Speaker 2: where I can search for things by name and received

866
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 2: memos and things to email, I don't have a computer

867
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 2: that I am stuck staring at for hours a day.

868
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 2: It's definitely not for everyone, but I love dealing with

869
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 2: people all day and having no other responsibilities or a

870
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:16,240
Speaker 2: mountain of tasks or paperwork to do. My new colleagues

871
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,840
Speaker 2: have been welcoming, and while everyone is talking about what

872
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 2: is going on with my boss, no one has brought

873
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,760
Speaker 2: me into the drama and it only gets talked about

874
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,760
Speaker 2: around me the same as it would any other person.

875
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: Though OPI doesn't really is not catching any heat, But

876
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 2: I do imagine if the wife found out, she would

877
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 2: be super mad at Opie ooh, because Opie knew and

878
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 2: didn't say anything. Yeah, it's kind of like if everyone

879
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 2: has seen Ted Lasso. Basically, Rebecca was getting cheated on

880
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 2: by her husband the whole time, and then her husband's assistant,

881
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 2: who is now her assistant, basically covered everything up for

882
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 2: like years, and she's like, how could you. I thought

883
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 2: we were friends and like I could see that happening here.

884
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 1: When is that revealed?

885
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:05,280
Speaker 2: Like at the beginning?

886
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: Oh, I forgot about that.

887
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 6: That's a good show.

888
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 2: Such a good show.

889
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:09,479
Speaker 1: That's great.

890
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 2: Anyway, I don't engage in any gossip, and I certainly

891
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:15,319
Speaker 2: don't talk about what I know, even though no one

892
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 2: is asked. I now have set hours, don't ever have

893
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 2: to work outside of those hours, no overtime or weekends

894
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 2: or holidays, and no company cell phone. Since all my

895
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 2: work involves dealing with people during working hours at work,

896
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 2: I couldn't do work at home even if I wanted to.

897
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 2: Work is now separate from home, and overall I am

898
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 2: much more relaxed because I have a clear line between

899
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,799
Speaker 2: working and not working, and I don't have to deal

900
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,879
Speaker 2: with my boss and his drama anymore, which I imagine,

901
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 2: like getting caught up in his web of lies, would

902
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 2: be mentally exhausting and morally exhausting.

903
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: Absolutely I would hate that.

904
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 2: Thank you for your response to my question and to

905
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 2: all the people who were supportive in the comments. I

906
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 2: feel better knowing my feelings were valid and I wasn't

907
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 2: overreacting or wrong to be upset. Also, there was some

908
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 2: speculation in the comments about whether my boss could be

909
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 2: engaging in some kind of embezzlement or falsifying because he

910
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 2: had me separating expenses. There was nothing like that going on.

911
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 2: The company has a policy where they will reimburse business

912
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 2: expenses but put on personal debit or credit cards. Non

913
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 2: work expenses are not allowed to be on company cards.

914
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 2: So if the company paid for a hotel room when

915
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 2: my boss traveled on business and he upgraded to a

916
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 2: better room, the company would only reimburse or pay the

917
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 2: original room price and he would have to pay the

918
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 2: rest of the upgrade. I would separate personal and work

919
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 2: expenses before submitting them. This is in line with the

920
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 2: company handbook and everyone always does it this way, so

921
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 2: he at least was a good employee ish ish there

922
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 2: were no issues with him or me because of it.

923
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 2: As for him using the company credit card at the

924
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 2: massage parlor, they are legal where we are, and since

925
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 2: he had the charges reversed the same day in some

926
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,399
Speaker 2: proof of the reversal of the company, never had any

927
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 2: issues because he followed policy and hadn't used the card

928
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:09,840
Speaker 2: for anything illegal. But there is a final update and

929
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 2: I don't know if the guy has been.

930
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,240
Speaker 1: Fired yet, good point.

931
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, everything has just come out in the open, and

932
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 2: Opie was wanting a transfer. But yeah, we don't know

933
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 2: if any if there's been any firing.

934
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: And it seemed that OPI did have a transfer, right, Yeah,

935
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 1: no is in the new job now.

936
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, angel Lebado says, but does Opie have a friendship

937
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 2: with the wife? I don't think so so yeah, but

938
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 2: still like I would be mad. Oh if an assistant

939
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 2: do that?

940
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 1: Did that?

941
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 2: Absolutely, But let's get into the update. And this is

942
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:49,280
Speaker 2: the final update. So my form of us was fired.

943
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 2: His wife outed a fourth woman for sleeping with him

944
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:58,279
Speaker 2: sims the other she works here, having an affair with

945
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 2: a subordinate, and the multiple yelling matches with the other

946
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 2: three women here at the office was enough to get

947
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 2: him fired. The fourth woman was married, unlike the other three,

948
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 2: and her husband filed for divorce after she was added.

949
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 2: She took a job somewhere else, but left amicably and

950
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,960
Speaker 2: was not fired like my former boss was. At least

951
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 2: two of the women his wife was suing are settling

952
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 2: with her to avoid it going to trial. The yelling

953
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 2: matches he was having made it clear she wasn't using

954
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 2: the lawsuits as a bargaining chip and would not drop

955
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,720
Speaker 2: them in exchange for stuff from him. Now that both

956
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:35,280
Speaker 2: he and the women from here that he was having

957
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 2: an affair with are gone, things have calmed down, which

958
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:42,880
Speaker 2: I guess is good. Yes, Also, how does he manage

959
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 2: it all? He must have a good assistant to be

960
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:50,240
Speaker 2: managing all that. A full time job and four girlfriends

961
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 2: and a kid and a wife.

962
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 1: Did you imagine? Wait, didn't they not have a kid?

963
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 2: He had a kid with one of the other woes.

964
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 1: Oh right, right right, and his wife didn't have a kid. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh,

965
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: or you had you had a kid with your mistress

966
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: before your wife.

967
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. This guy a lot of terrible qualities, but one

968
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 2: of his better qualities is time in TI TI man

969
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 2: plus plus time king. But yeah, he is a stinky

970
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 2: stinky man.

971
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:24,399
Speaker 1: Think.

972
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 2: Also, there's a little bit of a PostScript. No one

973
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 2: has mentioned the affair in weeks, and everything here is boring.

974
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: Again.

975
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 2: I don't mind the lack of gossip, and I'm still

976
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 2: enjoying my new job and great colleagues. I got a

977
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 2: small bonus at my yearly review because my boss was

978
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 2: so happy with my work. I love my new colleagues,

979
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:44,720
Speaker 2: and they have been nothing but welcoming to me. Also

980
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 2: the respeculation of the commons in my first update about

981
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 2: whether his wife out of the escort for her affair

982
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 2: or for being an escort. The answer is both. I

983
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 2: don't agree with their actions, but I empathize with how

984
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 2: much pain the affairs have caused her.

985
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: I get it. That sucks, Yeah, sucks. And what like,

986
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 1: all the wife did was expose what was happening, like

987
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 1: expose the truth of what was going on.

988
00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 2: And all these women knew too. It's like it's like

989
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 2: a different case. If one of the women it was like, oh,

990
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 2: I've been hoodwink, but they all knew and we're all

991
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 2: dancing around. The wife had the proof, the proof, Samantha says.

992
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 2: Most likely, he's likely overcompensating for his lack of masculinity,

993
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 2: probably immature, and using a spicy sleep addiction as a

994
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 2: way to cover up the deep hole inside his hearts.

995
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 2: But thanks for the five gifted memberships to cover my

996
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 2: hole in my heart, love Bubbles. We appreciate you dearly,

997
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 2: and I'm not going to pass off John for the

998
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 2: rest of these because there's a.

999
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 1: Bunch yes, and thanks out Michelle Michael Michelle Lozano for

1000
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 1: the ten buck tip on the dono link, and to

1001
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 1: MATD Hatter Gal four four five for the ten gifted donations.

1002
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:01,320
Speaker 1: Mad Hatter is back at it again, Lord of Madness.

1003
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 1: I think I remembered it from last time. Correct me

1004
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 1: if I am wrong. And then Nixter thanks for a

1005
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: five buck tip on the donor link. Thanks for always

1006
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,800
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1007
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:18,800
Speaker 1: they're celebrating a month membership The Emily D. Baker knows

1008
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 1: how to contact YouTube to find the wrong chicks, to

1009
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 1: fix sorry to fix wrong super chatsheah.

1010
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 2: We're working on it now.

1011
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 1: We're working on it as we speak. Actually, so thank

1012
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 1: you Wolf Kiara, Uncle Daddy, Jesse, our favorite brother bother

1013
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 1: uncle Daddy, Uncle Daddy. Thanks for the five gifted donations.

1014
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 1: We love to see it. And Kelly C. For the

1015
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 1: five buck tip on the donal link. So happy to

1016
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: catch a live Finally, we're so happy you're here.

1017
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 2: We are happy and there we are. But you know

1018
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 2: what else we're happy about? What the fact that you

1019
00:53:57,040 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 2: probably have liked the stream. Right, There's no haven't because

1020
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 2: that would be rude.

1021
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: It would be and there's three hundred likes on the

1022
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 1: stream when there are how many people, Sophia, you can

1023
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:14,799
Speaker 1: check the YouTube more than three hundred, I bet you

1024
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:17,799
Speaker 1: right now, go to the YouTube. You can go, you

1025
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: can go in another tub. But guys, we know you

1026
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: know what. I don't even need Sophia to tell me,

1027
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 1: although I'll ask if you tell us. Yeah, oh yeah,

1028
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 1: let us know. Let us know in the comments below,

1029
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: let us know.

1030
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 2: Six hundred and thirteen.

1031
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:40,320
Speaker 1: Six hundred and thirteen. Now we're pointing at ourselves. But guys,

1032
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 1: we can literally instantaneously like the five hundred and then

1033
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,760
Speaker 1: we can spin the wheel and have a grand old time.

1034
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we haven't spin the wheel in a long time.

1035
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:54,240
Speaker 1: We haven't. Oh, guys, help us, help us, help.

1036
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 2: You and Twisted Queen twenty four thanks for a twenty

1037
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 2: dollars tip through the donation link. No less, yes again.

1038
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 2: Remember YouTube takes thirty percent, so this is true. Don't

1039
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 2: let them do that.

1040
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 1: That's right.

1041
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 2: I've been watching you guys since the beginning, since the beginning,

1042
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 2: since cringeyr Sam and John. Is that true? And listen

1043
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:16,800
Speaker 2: every day? It really helps me get through all the

1044
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 2: stress of my life. At the moment, and study sessions. Again,

1045
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 2: I just don't understand. I love you very much and

1046
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 2: appreciate you so much. Party parrot.

1047
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: Let's go. Thanks y'all, and you know what else we've

1048
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: got for you?

1049
00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 2: Another story I never start?

1050
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 1: Yeah? Are we still are still in the same episode,

1051
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 1: aren't we?

1052
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 6: You're here?

1053
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 1: Yeah we are?

1054
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 2: Also first time chat on our twitch. Actual Birch says,

1055
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 2: what's on Sam's mike worms?

1056
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 1: Worms even even were part of the worm army.

1057
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:54,760
Speaker 2: Thanks actual Birch.

1058
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 1: That's right. It is cute.

1059
00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 2: They're giving each other a little hugs.

1060
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:03,280
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know how Sam's worm configuration is impressive.

1061
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 1: I've been struggling, but I'm good now I've got my

1062
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:06,359
Speaker 1: little guide.

1063
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:10,879
Speaker 2: I don't think anyone heard that.

1064
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: Ah, sorry Riley. All right, let's get into this next story.

1065
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for asking my wife not

1066
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,320
Speaker 1: to hang out with her friend who has a different

1067
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: lifestyle than us? Yeah?

1068
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 2: His lifestyle includes cheating on his wife with my wife.

1069
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 1: It just might. This comes from a specialist sor At

1070
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,839
Speaker 1: forty two forty eight, who says, my thirty seven male

1071
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: and my wife thirty five female, has been married for

1072
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:42,760
Speaker 1: fourteen years. Congrats, we met when we were both in college.

1073
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:46,319
Speaker 1: She studied literature, I studied engineering and was getting into tech.

1074
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 1: We were dating for two years when she got pregnant

1075
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 1: and we decided to get married and start a family cute.

1076
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 1: We decided together that I would work and she would

1077
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: be a stay at home mom, because it would be

1078
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: difficult for her to find a well paying job with

1079
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: her major, and I was already starting to earn quite well.

1080
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,280
Speaker 6: Get a well paying job with a lip major.

1081
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 2: Go ahead, yeah, talk about it via.

1082
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 6: I got a well paying job, and I've got a

1083
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 6: lip major.

1084
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 2: All you need is hell brother job.

1085
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 1: I've also always had a fairly conservative approach to family life,

1086
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 1: and I was happy to be a sole provider. She's

1087
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: always wanted to be a mom and was looking forward

1088
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 1: to being a stay at home mom right now. Our

1089
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 1: children are fourteen and twelve years old. I have a

1090
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: good job and my wife stays home taking care of

1091
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: the house. Their arrangement has always suited her, but recently

1092
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 1: she has begun to mention that she feels a bit

1093
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: lonely and lacks friends, especially now that the children are

1094
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 1: older and she has more time to herself. Indeed, our

1095
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 1: social life mostly consisted of meetings with my work colleagues

1096
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 1: and their wives, whom my wife can hardly call friend. Ah.

1097
00:57:56,320 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 2: Yes, you know, thriving social life is really going and

1098
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 2: when your social activities are meetings with yours.

1099
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 1: Oh, Bob's wife, Hello, stands wife, Hello, Kevin's wife.

1100
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 2: Not even saying hanging out meeting?

1101
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, we had a meeting. We had a meeting. Hello, everyone,

1102
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 1: are we ready to confer on our Buffalo wild wings?

1103
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 2: Order to be fair, though, I do send call invites

1104
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 2: to all of my friends.

1105
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 1: This is true. But that's a hangout with a reminder.

1106
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually do say it's a meeting. It says

1107
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 2: surf slash slash Henry Sam.

1108
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. See that's that's not a meeting, that's surfing.

1109
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 6: That's a fanfic wreck.

1110
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:35,280
Speaker 2: Is that what?

1111
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 6: Okay, that was a joke, but you guys didn't get it.

1112
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: I don't get it.

1113
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 6: It was really funny, Okay.

1114
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: Anyways, that's why I was happy at first when my

1115
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: wife ran into her best friend from college let's call

1116
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: her Anna. According to my wife, they got along so

1117
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: well as if they didn't almost have a fourteen year

1118
00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 1: break in contact. My wife got pregnant, she drifted apart

1119
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: from her college friends. They started meeting for They started

1120
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 1: meeting for coffee quite often. When my wife returned from

1121
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 1: these meetings, she was overjoyed and excited and told me

1122
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 1: a lot about Anna. It was then that I began

1123
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 1: to worry. My wife has friends, She's having too much fun.

1124
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:21,439
Speaker 1: How dare you have a life? How dare you?

1125
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 2: When I come away from my social meetings, I'm more drained,

1126
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 2: But somehow she's excited.

1127
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:31,080
Speaker 1: Elatea's how it works. How dare you?

1128
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 2: How dare you have pep in your step?

1129
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 1: Be sad like me? During the time my wife had

1130
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 1: no contact with her, Anna got her PhD in literature,

1131
00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:46,120
Speaker 1: started teaching at the university, and became the editor of

1132
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 1: one of the most important cultural magazines in our country.

1133
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: My husband is an award winning writer, apparently very well recognized.

1134
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 1: It's hard for me to say anything about this, as

1135
00:59:56,840 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 1: I have no idea about literature. Wait, so he was

1136
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:03,960
Speaker 1: a lip major. I thought he went into tech. Yeah

1137
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 1: he did, But now he's her friend is also a

1138
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: lit major. Right, her friend is also a lip major.

1139
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 2: And so they're getting to talk about it, and he's like, oh,

1140
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 2: I feel like I can't keep up.

1141
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 1: But oh, her husband I'm sorry, I was thinking this

1142
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 1: is opiece, doesn't Her husband is an award winning writer,

1143
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 1: apparently very well recognized. It's hard for me to say

1144
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 1: anything about this. I have no idea about literature. They

1145
01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: earn well, do not have and do not want children,

1146
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 1: and basically lead a care free lifestyle completely different from ours.

1147
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 2: They're happy, oh ouch.

1148
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: They have lots of friends from their literary academic circle.

1149
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 1: Consider these friends family quote unquote, and go several times

1150
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 1: a week to various author meetings, gala's gallery openings, and

1151
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: god knows what else. This So, this sounds so dope.

1152
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm imagining like their apartment is like all exposed brick

1153
01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 1: and they just have like like cool little coffee tables.

1154
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 2: It sounds amazing. Yeah pipes, I was cutting half. Yeah,

1155
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 2: they sound like that.

1156
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 1: Wait, it almost works from what I've gathered. They also

1157
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 1: are much more progressive and liberal than I am. For example,

1158
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: they divide all of their chores and bills fifty to fifty. Whoa,

1159
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 1: whoa slow your is? This is this communism? Guys? What

1160
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 1: what are we doing over here? What is what is

1161
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: going on? Fun? And they're letting women do things the vote.

1162
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: That's a Russian communist guy right.

1163
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 2: From John Carl Marx. Yeah, parks in that territory from.

1164
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:58,320
Speaker 1: What I've gathered, and they have a mixed gender group

1165
01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 1: of friends whoa friends with women who you can be.

1166
01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 6: Friends with at agenda communist.

1167
01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh my god, I have to share my wife

1168
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:25,880
Speaker 1: with everyone they get to talk. What is this communism?

1169
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 6: I live in a conservative stage.

1170
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:36,000
Speaker 1: My wife is my wife, no one else's Oh my god,

1171
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 1: Anna is friends with Anna is friends with men and

1172
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: her husband with women, which I always considered inappropriate in

1173
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 1: a serious relationship. My wife, my wife invited Anna and

1174
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:55,240
Speaker 1: her husband for dinner. For a second, a split second,

1175
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 1: I thought I forgot that this was from uh that

1176
01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 1: OPI was husband's perspective. My goodness. My wife invited Anna

1177
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:06,240
Speaker 1: and her husband for dinner because she really wanted me

1178
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: to meet them. She hoped we would both start going

1179
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 1: to all of these cultural events with them. They were

1180
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:14,160
Speaker 1: very polite and respectful and didn't comment in any way

1181
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:16,920
Speaker 1: on the differences in our lifestyles, Like.

1182
01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, they didn't say your life seems hell boric.

1183
01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 8: Like.

1184
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 6: They were respectful.

1185
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 4: Thanks Obama, Socrates, what damn she got it up before me.

1186
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:33,360
Speaker 1: I love that I didn't see you comment.

1187
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:34,479
Speaker 6: I thought of that on my own.

1188
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 2: Maybe you planted the idea socrate, she saw it in

1189
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 2: her field of view.

1190
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but dinner was nevertheless quite tiresome for me, as

1191
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 1: I don't have any common topics with them. My wife

1192
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:52,320
Speaker 1: knows that I don't share her passion for literature, just

1193
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:56,240
Speaker 1: as she doesn't share my interest in technology. I can't

1194
01:03:56,320 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: read what is this next thing? We're reading the Communist manifesto?

1195
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 1: But this has never been an issue in our marriage.

1196
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 1: We traveled together, like to the grocery store. Actually that

1197
01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 1: was her.

1198
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 2: Never to Russia. Don't want to set foot.

1199
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, siree, Bobby. We went on bike trips,

1200
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 1: went to our favorite restaurants and movies, et cetera, et cetera.

1201
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 1: I didn't understand why she suddenly wants this change.

1202
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 2: Well, maybe she wants to be intellectually stimulated. Yeah, in

1203
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,120
Speaker 2: a way that you just can't provide.

1204
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 1: No, whoa, that's some stimulation that, sorry, Bob. We need

1205
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 1: more than just your stimulating faculties. If you catch my draft.

1206
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 2: I don't get it.

1207
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:50,480
Speaker 1: Don't we lay it out? Yeah? I feel like it works,

1208
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 1: you know, like you were thinking it was an artistic statement.

1209
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:57,760
Speaker 6: Yes, it's like it's like there's only so many buttons

1210
01:04:57,800 --> 01:04:57,960
Speaker 6: like you.

1211
01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: Here we go, here we go. Yeah. Uh. The husband

1212
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: is not giving fifty to fifty, not giving half, not giving.

1213
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 6: Half whenever, whenever, John's like having a.

1214
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 1: Moment boom boom. It just symbolizes how I feel and

1215
01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:16,640
Speaker 1: cut up. Yeah you know, I'm just cut. I'm cut

1216
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 1: up for Opie's wife to his quick cut to it,

1217
01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 1: to cut to my core exactly. Anna started talking to

1218
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 1: my wife, or to start. Anna started taking my wife

1219
01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: to some of the literary events organized by her magazine,

1220
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 1: and also invited her to write a couple of reviews

1221
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 1: for a column she is running.

1222
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:36,960
Speaker 2: She sounds so cool. It's so cool, I want to Anna.

1223
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:40,440
Speaker 1: She apparently sees great potential in my wife and appreciates

1224
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: her insights. Whoa, whoa appreciating my wife's insights in her work.

1225
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, slow insights. The only insight is the

1226
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:55,480
Speaker 1: only inside I'm one looking for is once for dinner tonight, babe.

1227
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:58,640
Speaker 1: That's the only insights I'm trying to get someone cut

1228
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 1: that you so excited. I want you to incite.

1229
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 2: Me, Sophia to do We need to call missus daughter.

1230
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:22,560
Speaker 1: Dow we needed to call Sam's mos another Oh my Gosh,

1231
01:06:22,800 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 1: which my wife accepted with great joy. I was torn.

1232
01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 1: On one hand, I was happy that my wife didn't

1233
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 1: feel alone and she had something to do when the

1234
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 1: kids are at school with her friends. On the other hand,

1235
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 1: my wife was working. Just kidding you on the other king,

1236
01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:42,280
Speaker 1: On the other hand, I was afraid that I was

1237
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:45,120
Speaker 1: losing my wife, that she would turn into someone else

1238
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 1: under Anna's influence.

1239
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:49,280
Speaker 2: What actualized woman?

1240
01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 1: Yes, someone who actually does things that interest her and

1241
01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:56,480
Speaker 1: has friends outside of the people she gave birth to

1242
01:06:56,920 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 1: and married. Disgusting, insane. I was also afraid that the

1243
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 1: other men will hit on her at the events and

1244
01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 1: advice her to insecure, insecure, even though maybe if you

1245
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:15,400
Speaker 1: were a little more stimulating, she would. I mean, she's already,

1246
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 1: she already has showed literally no signs of anything. This

1247
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:21,640
Speaker 1: is all on you, bro, Maybe be better, be better.

1248
01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 1: Even though my wife repeats that all of Anna's friends

1249
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:26,840
Speaker 1: know that she is married and a mother, they never

1250
01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 1: cross any boundaries and always speak of her family with respect.

1251
01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 1: I finally told my wife that I was uncomfortable with

1252
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 1: her friendship with Anna Wow, that I was afraid their

1253
01:07:39,080 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 1: relationship would change her for the worst and that she

1254
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:46,760
Speaker 1: would no longer care about our marriage and children. I

1255
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 1: said that I can't forbid her to do anything, but

1256
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:52,920
Speaker 1: I can forbid her to do anything now, but that

1257
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:55,040
Speaker 1: I would feel so much better if she didn't go

1258
01:07:55,160 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 1: to all these events with Anna, and if she didn't

1259
01:07:58,080 --> 01:08:01,160
Speaker 1: accept an offer to write reviews for her magazine. Why

1260
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:06,040
Speaker 1: he's literally keeping her down absolutely like you have got

1261
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,440
Speaker 1: you've gotten to have a whole career, and you're like

1262
01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 1: you're from everything we've read. Op like likes his career

1263
01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 1: and it is interested and got to go down this route.

1264
01:08:14,920 --> 01:08:17,639
Speaker 1: Oh Pi is interested in literature and has not had

1265
01:08:17,680 --> 01:08:18,559
Speaker 1: the chance has.

1266
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:21,840
Speaker 2: To impressed herself. She has been for a while raising.

1267
01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 1: Big wife. Yeah yes, yeah, Like should she not like

1268
01:08:29,840 --> 01:08:33,000
Speaker 1: you you are? He's so close to saying like, we

1269
01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 1: don't have a.

1270
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 2: Like what it sounds like. What it sounds like is

1271
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 2: they don't have an intellectual connection.

1272
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:42,720
Speaker 1: They don't have an inte connection. They don't have an

1273
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:46,599
Speaker 1: intellectual connection. And I think he's like barring her.

1274
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 2: From developing it and like and he's he's basically like,

1275
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:53,840
Speaker 2: they don't she I feel like what my read on

1276
01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:58,240
Speaker 2: what's happened is she hasn't she doesn't have an intellectual

1277
01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:02,519
Speaker 2: connection with her husband, and she hasn't been able to

1278
01:09:02,600 --> 01:09:08,160
Speaker 2: fulfill that intellectual connection since being with her husband. Yes,

1279
01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:11,599
Speaker 2: and now she finally has this friend Anna to which

1280
01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:15,400
Speaker 2: that she feels isn't like maybe an intellect not an

1281
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:19,240
Speaker 2: intellectual equal necessarily, but like a uh, someone that that

1282
01:09:19,320 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 2: she has an intellectual connection with. And the husband is

1283
01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 2: insecure because he's never been able to fulfill that. That's

1284
01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 2: I think what's happening here.

1285
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:29,840
Speaker 1: Absolutely, And now he's trying to block her from all

1286
01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:30,479
Speaker 1: these things.

1287
01:09:30,520 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 2: Just like what if this is like, this is good?

1288
01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 2: What if this this improves your marriage so like something

1289
01:09:36,320 --> 01:09:39,360
Speaker 2: that you can't provide, she's getting somewhere else, and I

1290
01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 2: think that's okay.

1291
01:09:40,200 --> 01:09:43,639
Speaker 1: And like if if any of our partners like got

1292
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:45,800
Speaker 1: got this opportunity and it was like, oh, all these

1293
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 1: things were happening, we would be like.

1294
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:49,680
Speaker 2: This is amazing, awesome, amazing.

1295
01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:51,840
Speaker 1: So great, like we would be happy and celebrate.

1296
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 2: But lasts or communists, that's for communists, and we never

1297
01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:57,120
Speaker 2: celebrate rats.

1298
01:09:57,400 --> 01:10:00,000
Speaker 1: No, we always celebrate you know what I mean?

1299
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know what you mean? What do

1300
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:04,080
Speaker 2: you mean, I don't get it.

1301
01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:09,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean. My wife said that

1302
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: the friendship with Anna is very important to her, that

1303
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:13,880
Speaker 1: she has been feeling depressed lately, spending most of the

1304
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 1: day at home alone, and that contact with people with

1305
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:19,600
Speaker 1: whom she can talk about things she's passionate about, like

1306
01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:23,880
Speaker 1: Sam said, has made her feel significantly better. I promised

1307
01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:26,080
Speaker 1: that I will work less and I will spend more

1308
01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 1: time with her. Babe.

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01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:31,599
Speaker 2: I'm all the intellectual stimulation you need.

1310
01:10:31,680 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 1: Look at this big noggin. Oh yeah, let's talk about

1311
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 1: tech stuff that which brains in my crainy.

1312
01:10:38,160 --> 01:10:41,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, I have your favorite bedtime story.

1313
01:10:41,920 --> 01:10:44,879
Speaker 2: We could talk about it. The history of the theirto

1314
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 2: existing society is the history of class struggles, freeman and slave,

1315
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 2: patrician andvian, Lord and serf.

1316
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 1: SAME's future wife. That's what you got to. That's her

1317
01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:57,320
Speaker 1: intellectual stimulation.

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01:10:57,560 --> 01:11:03,599
Speaker 2: That was the beginning of the communist manifest I guy, dude, give.

1319
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 1: Me a genius here. I also repeated that I cannot

1320
01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:09,519
Speaker 1: forbid her to see Anna and her friends, but that

1321
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 1: her friendship makes me really uncomfortable. I feel like he's

1322
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:19,519
Speaker 1: like like sub The subtext is I don't want you to.

1323
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 2: I don't want you to be with Anna or a

1324
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 2: hangout like or else.

1325
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:28,320
Speaker 1: Blag alert A very correct.

1326
01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:37,800
Speaker 2: Let's go, but impress Sophieiel.

1327
01:11:36,840 --> 01:11:41,320
Speaker 1: And there we go, and there we go. I also

1328
01:11:41,400 --> 01:11:45,720
Speaker 1: repeated already said that she was sad but understood me

1329
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:48,679
Speaker 1: and said that she will stop spending time with Anna.

1330
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 2: No one should understand this man.

1331
01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:56,800
Speaker 1: No, I could understand that he needs.

1332
01:11:57,479 --> 01:12:01,160
Speaker 2: Orse honestly, Uh, can we get a poll?

1333
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:08,599
Speaker 1: Divorce or no divorce or not divorce or not? Yesterday

1334
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 1: I talked to my older brother, whose advice I always

1335
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:14,800
Speaker 1: appreciate about this situation. He said that me and my

1336
01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:17,840
Speaker 1: wife married really young, and that it's understandable that she

1337
01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:20,400
Speaker 1: might feel like she's missing out on things outside of

1338
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 1: family life. He also said, the only way to make

1339
01:12:23,479 --> 01:12:26,320
Speaker 1: sure my wife is with me because she really loves me,

1340
01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:28,920
Speaker 1: and not because she's stuck with me and has no

1341
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: other options, is to give her freedom to spend time

1342
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:36,799
Speaker 1: with other people, even though it makes me uncomfortable. Opie's

1343
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:40,880
Speaker 1: brother coming in clutch, coming in clutch, and we're getting

1344
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:50,840
Speaker 1: so far, bell bell, it's getting high, So take off

1345
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:55,400
Speaker 1: all your clothes. Shot out besch batouch beat out, bout

1346
01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:59,880
Speaker 1: bat out. Yeah, you know we could do we could

1347
01:12:59,920 --> 01:13:02,800
Speaker 1: I could sit in sam seat and keep reading.

1348
01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:04,680
Speaker 2: Oh you think you can sit in my seat? You

1349
01:13:05,000 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 2: just take my seat like that?

1350
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think I can.

1351
01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 6: You just do that?

1352
01:13:09,920 --> 01:13:20,880
Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, ah mmmm that's better. Oh well, this dude,

1353
01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 1: this dude, how do you sit? Like? Like this is

1354
01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 1: how the chair and everything is right, this is happen

1355
01:13:33,640 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 1: like okay, So so the the pillows like are making

1356
01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:40,400
Speaker 1: me slope back like this and like talking to the mic,

1357
01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:42,880
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm I guess the MIC's like right there.

1358
01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:45,160
Speaker 1: It felt like I was. The mic is like pointing

1359
01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 1: away from me. I was, but then it like feels

1360
01:13:48,080 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 1: like it feels so awkward. Anyways, anyways, let's get back.

1361
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:55,640
Speaker 1: So I really don't want to be a person who

1362
01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:59,120
Speaker 1: limits my wife's freedoms. But I also don't want to

1363
01:13:59,160 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 1: be tempting fake in order to see if she really

1364
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:04,519
Speaker 1: loves me. It would break my heart to lose her,

1365
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:07,160
Speaker 1: and maybe deep inside I feel like she would leave

1366
01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 1: me if she had any other options. So right, so

1367
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:16,280
Speaker 1: I don't want her to have these options. Oh I

1368
01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:21,080
Speaker 1: feel like crap, am I the ahole ladies and gentlemen

1369
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 1: So our vote right now is eighty three eighty four

1370
01:14:25,040 --> 01:14:29,000
Speaker 1: for saying saying stay together, yes divorce. How many what's

1371
01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 1: the percentage on that? Sixteen percent? Sixteen or yeah, yeah,

1372
01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:36,880
Speaker 1: sixteen percent are saying to say stay together. So let's

1373
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:39,479
Speaker 1: talk about this. I mean, I think he's like he's

1374
01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:43,799
Speaker 1: really bad and really slow, but maybe he's like finally

1375
01:14:43,920 --> 01:14:47,640
Speaker 1: realizing like okay, this is like he hasn't called it

1376
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:48,599
Speaker 1: an insecurity yet.

1377
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:50,960
Speaker 6: Well he's saying, He's like, I don't want her to

1378
01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:55,240
Speaker 6: leave because because if I let her, you know, realize

1379
01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 6: that she can have friends, she won't stay with me.

1380
01:14:57,320 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 1: That's exactly. It's very very bad. And yeah, I think that. Uh.

1381
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 1: And the thing is this has been going on. This

1382
01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:08,760
Speaker 1: didn't just like happen overnight. This has been going on

1383
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:13,639
Speaker 1: for fourteen years. They've had children together, they're they're oldest

1384
01:15:13,680 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 1: kid is fourteen years old.

1385
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:17,599
Speaker 6: Is this is why she doesn't have any other friend

1386
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:18,400
Speaker 6: until now?

1387
01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 1: Yes, because because she left her job. They were both

1388
01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:29,719
Speaker 1: working and then they got pregnant pretty young. I believe.

1389
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 1: And she did this. She did it, I do believe.

1390
01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:38,080
Speaker 1: And this is what Opie says, that she did decide

1391
01:15:38,080 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 1: to be a stay at home mom at first, but

1392
01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 1: I think like fourteen years she's like, Okay, that's a

1393
01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:51,080
Speaker 1: long time to not be able to pursue your anthing

1394
01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:56,960
Speaker 1: that you want. Yeah, yeah, absolutely, yeah, very bad. I

1395
01:15:58,000 --> 01:16:02,200
Speaker 1: think I think divorce because he I mean yeah, and

1396
01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:04,639
Speaker 1: you know we always say, you know, go to therapy first.

1397
01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:07,680
Speaker 1: But like overall, I feel like I don't know that

1398
01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:12,519
Speaker 1: he's going to change. I just I don't feel like

1399
01:16:12,560 --> 01:16:17,679
Speaker 1: it's going to happen. Tiana uh says he wants someone

1400
01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:20,920
Speaker 1: he can control that won't outshine him. Great point. Yeah,

1401
01:16:20,960 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 1: also being outshined because yeah, Crystal says he's going to

1402
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:29,320
Speaker 1: make her depression worse. Absolutely, like she has told him

1403
01:16:29,439 --> 01:16:32,680
Speaker 1: I am depressed and then she told him I am

1404
01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:35,000
Speaker 1: feeling so much better after spending time with Anna.

1405
01:16:35,479 --> 01:16:38,799
Speaker 6: Yeah, and he said, I don't want you to feel better. Literally,

1406
01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 6: only talk to.

1407
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:43,599
Speaker 1: Me the solution you you're telling me you don't want

1408
01:16:43,640 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 1: your wife to get out of depression, like, because he's controlling.

1409
01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:52,760
Speaker 1: He is so controlling, so controlling. Alan Foster says he

1410
01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:57,400
Speaker 1: is showing promise for change, but I mean I feel

1411
01:16:57,640 --> 01:16:59,880
Speaker 1: I think the only thing you could give him is

1412
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:03,240
Speaker 1: he's like he has not reached that point yet at all.

1413
01:17:03,280 --> 01:17:05,040
Speaker 1: I don't I believe, But I think he's he's like

1414
01:17:05,320 --> 01:17:10,400
Speaker 1: inching closer to realizing that this is his own insecurities

1415
01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:15,360
Speaker 1: and that you know, maybe his wife that his wife

1416
01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:19,000
Speaker 1: would like basically isn't leading a fully fulfilled life and

1417
01:17:19,120 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 1: probably would have a more fulfilled life out not being

1418
01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:26,599
Speaker 1: married to him. But I don't think he's there yet,

1419
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 1: I would say, Alan Lucy Smith, he's insecure that she'll

1420
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:34,120
Speaker 1: find someone who treats her right absolutely, who lets her

1421
01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 1: literally like these are all great things. It's not like

1422
01:17:37,200 --> 01:17:40,360
Speaker 1: she's going out and like hanging out with a guy

1423
01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:42,720
Speaker 1: and like you know, staying till three am at his

1424
01:17:42,800 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 1: house and stuff like that, like and others like this.

1425
01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:51,240
Speaker 1: This is not the case in the slightest, absolutely not,

1426
01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:55,400
Speaker 1: absolutely not, Scooter Kid says, So he's insecure. He doesn't

1427
01:17:55,479 --> 01:17:59,160
Speaker 1: care if someone else if being alone home alone hurts

1428
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:02,080
Speaker 1: his wife. Yeah, absolutely, And it's like you taking time

1429
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:04,160
Speaker 1: off work is not going to solve the issue, Like

1430
01:18:04,320 --> 01:18:07,320
Speaker 1: she's you guys have been spending time together fourteen years,

1431
01:18:07,400 --> 01:18:10,040
Speaker 1: Like okay, great, Like spending more time with your partner amazing,

1432
01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:13,879
Speaker 1: But like it's it's okay to want to have friends.

1433
01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:17,680
Speaker 1: This is not a crazy concept.

1434
01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:19,679
Speaker 3: Guys wouldn't let me have friends for like the first

1435
01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 3: few months I was here. What do you mean, I

1436
01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:24,080
Speaker 3: just couldn't leave. I had so much work to do.

1437
01:18:24,520 --> 01:18:26,479
Speaker 1: That's true. We were we were, we were grinding. But

1438
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:30,040
Speaker 1: but you you, but you grew your friends. You just

1439
01:18:30,160 --> 01:18:32,720
Speaker 1: told us today you were like, dude, I came here

1440
01:18:32,760 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 1: and I wasn't sure, and then like boom, all of

1441
01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 1: a sudden, I'm walking down the street and I'm like, oh, hey,

1442
01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:40,240
Speaker 1: what's up, like just running into friends on the street.

1443
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:42,920
Speaker 3: It's yeah, that is true, now right. It took a while.

1444
01:18:43,160 --> 01:18:43,880
Speaker 3: Took a while, It.

1445
01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 1: Took se I mean, six months is pretty good. I

1446
01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:49,800
Speaker 1: would say you were able to get some friends at

1447
01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:53,479
Speaker 1: pretty good at a pretty decent pace. Jac says, this

1448
01:18:53,600 --> 01:18:57,200
Speaker 1: guy is giving major PTSD for my ex would get

1449
01:18:57,240 --> 01:18:59,559
Speaker 1: mad anytime I would even hang out with my friends,

1450
01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 1: and that was like three times in a year occurrence

1451
01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:06,600
Speaker 1: because he would get so upset. Wow, that is crazy.

1452
01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:08,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just got to cut it at that point.

1453
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:12,719
Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah. Glad, glad, glad you divorced from that, Jac

1454
01:19:12,840 --> 01:19:16,160
Speaker 1: one hundred. By the way, how's our other camera doing.

1455
01:19:16,280 --> 01:19:21,479
Speaker 1: It's good, It's good. To go switch. Whoa. Let's see

1456
01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:27,200
Speaker 1: I like sing, uh, it's hot in here. When it

1457
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:33,960
Speaker 1: gets too hot in here, I've noticed camera barrel. Oh yeah,

1458
01:19:34,080 --> 01:19:40,360
Speaker 1: oh yeah, it's getting cody here. No windows open now

1459
01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:51,960
Speaker 1: heck yeah, relevant comments? No, I refuse, I refuse. I'm

1460
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:52,360
Speaker 1: just kidding.

1461
01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:53,400
Speaker 6: We finished that story.

1462
01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:55,880
Speaker 1: I was just being a booty.

1463
01:19:56,600 --> 01:19:58,160
Speaker 6: I see. I think you meant like the comments from the.

1464
01:19:58,280 --> 01:20:02,599
Speaker 1: Jet we got with which, by the way, thanks pos comments, guys, great,

1465
01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:05,519
Speaker 1: great comments, great discussion. Let's get into these relevant comments

1466
01:20:05,680 --> 01:20:08,960
Speaker 1: in the story snow Hesitations nine one says, I fail

1467
01:20:09,040 --> 01:20:11,519
Speaker 1: to see what your wife is doing wrong. It doesn't

1468
01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:15,479
Speaker 1: sound like she's doing anything inappropriate or damaging your relationship. Agreed.

1469
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:19,439
Speaker 1: She even she even chose to accept what I find

1470
01:20:19,520 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 1: to be an unreasonable request in order to keep you comfortable.

1471
01:20:23,040 --> 01:20:25,560
Speaker 1: Most people need a community they can relate to. It

1472
01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:28,240
Speaker 1: doesn't devalue your relationship for her to have friends that

1473
01:20:28,360 --> 01:20:31,400
Speaker 1: share her interests. Not gonna lie. You sound really insecure

1474
01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:37,400
Speaker 1: and pathetic here, you're that a whole. Oh which, by

1475
01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:39,920
Speaker 1: the way, we haven't explicitly said this. And Riley would

1476
01:20:39,920 --> 01:20:42,240
Speaker 1: love to get a poll up. Is op the a hole?

1477
01:20:42,320 --> 01:20:46,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, everyone said yes, yes, easy, it was not easy.

1478
01:20:46,960 --> 01:20:51,479
Speaker 1: Yes. If you're done, you're done. You're done.

1479
01:20:52,280 --> 01:20:56,360
Speaker 6: Work again in this towel, you never work again in

1480
01:20:56,479 --> 01:20:56,920
Speaker 6: this town.

1481
01:20:57,840 --> 01:21:02,400
Speaker 1: Betteration of Penguins says, you're the ahole. Hard you're the ahole.

1482
01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:05,160
Speaker 1: But I'm not going to be mean to you because

1483
01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:07,719
Speaker 1: you sound like you legitimately don't know what you're doing.

1484
01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 1: You only see your wife in relation to you. You

1485
01:21:11,960 --> 01:21:16,000
Speaker 1: do not care about her once desires or needs. She

1486
01:21:16,160 --> 01:21:18,720
Speaker 1: is finally a little bit happy and you're going to

1487
01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:21,200
Speaker 1: have and you're going to have to take that from

1488
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:24,000
Speaker 1: her because you're worried about how it affects you. Do

1489
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:25,439
Speaker 1: you even love your wife?

1490
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:31,400
Speaker 6: No, he's obsessed with his wife. He doesn't feel like

1491
01:21:31,479 --> 01:21:33,479
Speaker 6: he has an obsession, and he doesn't want anyone to

1492
01:21:33,560 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 6: steal her from That is true.

1493
01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 1: He covets, he covets, He smothers and hides and weight

1494
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 1: not proceless.

1495
01:21:42,160 --> 01:21:45,040
Speaker 6: I was about to say that, Yeah, he gollems his wife.

1496
01:21:45,120 --> 01:21:46,439
Speaker 1: He gollems his wife.

1497
01:21:46,560 --> 01:21:47,439
Speaker 6: Don't call him your wife.

1498
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:53,160
Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do that. Then how could you

1499
01:21:53,439 --> 01:21:56,759
Speaker 1: look at her happy and content? Saying this might affect

1500
01:21:56,840 --> 01:22:00,519
Speaker 1: me someday, So I need to take it from exactly.

1501
01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:04,599
Speaker 1: Jamaican me cry ten twenty three says that's because she's

1502
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:08,920
Speaker 1: not a person to him. God forbid, she gets all

1503
01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 1: upty and wanting to finish her education, cultivate interests that

1504
01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 1: aren't about him or the kids or even who gosp

1505
01:22:17,200 --> 01:22:22,439
Speaker 1: ask him to pitch in around the house to doo

1506
01:22:22,600 --> 01:22:28,280
Speaker 1: liberal And that's it. Wow, that is literally the end.

1507
01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:31,200
Speaker 6: You screamed, and he fell splat on the floor.

1508
01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:34,919
Speaker 1: Yep, to the end of the story. Yeah, he sucks

1509
01:22:35,520 --> 01:22:40,560
Speaker 1: bro sucks booty so much, boody, so much booty in

1510
01:22:40,760 --> 01:22:45,639
Speaker 1: a terrible way. This is bad. Yeah, yuk yuk, yuck, yuck, yuck. Yeah,

1511
01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:49,080
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it seems like to me the thing

1512
01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:51,240
Speaker 1: is And of course we always say like, or at

1513
01:22:51,280 --> 01:22:53,599
Speaker 1: least I always say, like, good to go to counseling,

1514
01:22:53,640 --> 01:22:54,439
Speaker 1: all the all these things.

1515
01:22:54,840 --> 01:22:57,439
Speaker 6: But he needs to go to some therapy for himself.

1516
01:22:57,640 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. Overall, I believe Eve and guess that he will not,

1517
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:11,040
Speaker 1: like ultimately changes actions. Because we have fourteen years, anything's possible.

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01:23:11,080 --> 01:23:14,519
Speaker 1: But I would guess, I would guess that he's going

1519
01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:19,280
Speaker 1: to continue to try to control you. And you've spent fourteen, fourteen,

1520
01:23:19,360 --> 01:23:22,840
Speaker 1: fifteen years on this. I think that you deserve to

1521
01:23:23,120 --> 01:23:25,680
Speaker 1: go out, and I think, like she probably just got

1522
01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:27,360
Speaker 1: used to it. And then her like her world is

1523
01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:29,320
Speaker 1: just lighting up again, which like she's got.

1524
01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:31,720
Speaker 6: It's so fun. Yeah right, And he's like no, and

1525
01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:33,240
Speaker 6: she's like, okay, and.

1526
01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:36,439
Speaker 1: How amazing of this friend Anna to like come back,

1527
01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:37,760
Speaker 1: give her these opportunities.

1528
01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:41,120
Speaker 6: And she literally turns up to Anna, she goes, kid,

1529
01:23:41,720 --> 01:23:42,760
Speaker 6: you got potential.

1530
01:23:43,040 --> 01:23:46,400
Speaker 1: Honestly, if this was me, I would be crying tears

1531
01:23:46,439 --> 01:23:51,640
Speaker 1: of joy. Yeah, my wife, that's right amazing. But you

1532
01:23:51,720 --> 01:23:55,160
Speaker 1: know what else is so amazing? The field? What these

1533
01:23:55,560 --> 01:24:02,760
Speaker 1: donators got. You freaking gotcha, Linda with the five gifted memberships.

1534
01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:06,640
Speaker 1: Let's freak go Mac. Thanks for celebrating you too much.

1535
01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:09,000
Speaker 1: Membership love y'all love you back. Why do you use

1536
01:24:09,040 --> 01:24:11,920
Speaker 1: this to thank the community for the good luck you

1537
01:24:12,040 --> 01:24:15,320
Speaker 1: all sent me? I lost both my jobs last week

1538
01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:17,200
Speaker 1: and got a new one three days later.

1539
01:24:18,120 --> 01:24:20,439
Speaker 6: Amazing. I was got to be very sad for you,

1540
01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:21,479
Speaker 6: but now I'm happy for you.

1541
01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:25,439
Speaker 1: This is the power of our community. We rally together

1542
01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:30,000
Speaker 1: and we say, hey, you got this. I freaking love it.

1543
01:24:30,800 --> 01:24:34,320
Speaker 1: Yelly gives celebrating one month. Oh I already read that.

1544
01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:37,400
Speaker 1: Oh did I no, I didn't love you. Guys. I

1545
01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:40,240
Speaker 1: was gifted my first membership and decided I couldn't give

1546
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:43,439
Speaker 1: it up. It's too good, Yelly. We are excited to

1547
01:24:43,479 --> 01:24:45,640
Speaker 1: have you in and by the way, I think to

1548
01:24:45,760 --> 01:24:48,879
Speaker 1: keep you Monday.

1549
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:49,639
Speaker 6: Monday.

1550
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:53,400
Speaker 1: We have a little announcement on Monday. WHOA, and I

1551
01:24:53,560 --> 01:24:58,679
Speaker 1: would advise if you like your memberships, keep them coming

1552
01:24:58,880 --> 01:25:02,240
Speaker 1: because we have some We have some fun stuff. That's

1553
01:25:02,240 --> 01:25:05,280
Speaker 1: all I say. From the horizon, Sophia, I won't say

1554
01:25:05,320 --> 01:25:07,960
Speaker 1: anything more. Okay, you could twist my arm and I

1555
01:25:07,960 --> 01:25:11,479
Speaker 1: would say no, I am say it not no more.

1556
01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:20,439
Speaker 1: I won't twist your arm. Oh wait wait wait, oh no,

1557
01:25:20,680 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 1: I won't do it.

1558
01:25:21,760 --> 01:25:22,240
Speaker 7: Oh I.

1559
01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:26,400
Speaker 1: Won't Wow. So if you really twisted my arm, guys,

1560
01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:28,360
Speaker 1: that was that was Actually I twisted my own arm

1561
01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:33,280
Speaker 1: a little grassfully. Thanks Secret Citizen for the five buck

1562
01:25:33,400 --> 01:25:36,559
Speaker 1: tip on the donal link. Listening while cleaning my art

1563
01:25:36,600 --> 01:25:39,840
Speaker 1: studio and need an extra hour? Also, what's going on?

1564
01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:44,880
Speaker 1: What story are we listening to? We just finished where

1565
01:25:44,960 --> 01:25:47,519
Speaker 1: oh we actually have an old TLDR detroys that. But uh,

1566
01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:50,000
Speaker 1: the tld R of the story that we just did

1567
01:25:50,760 --> 01:25:57,040
Speaker 1: was Opie did not let his wife basically do anything.

1568
01:25:57,280 --> 01:26:00,839
Speaker 6: Yeah, and Op sucked and didn't want to have friends.

1569
01:26:00,800 --> 01:26:04,160
Speaker 1: Exactly, and that's where we're at. That's where we're at.

1570
01:26:04,479 --> 01:26:09,320
Speaker 1: And also sleepless nights celebrating a three month membership our fave.

1571
01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:12,960
Speaker 1: What's going on? Oh dang, I've been here for too long?

1572
01:26:13,240 --> 01:26:20,800
Speaker 1: Love you guys, however forever, let's go all right, and.

1573
01:26:20,880 --> 01:26:24,560
Speaker 6: Now, yes, I think it's that time, that time of

1574
01:26:24,760 --> 01:26:25,639
Speaker 6: the year.

1575
01:26:26,960 --> 01:26:31,120
Speaker 1: Yes, to read to start, So it's going the same

1576
01:26:31,160 --> 01:26:34,160
Speaker 1: time in the month, and I'll switch to I love

1577
01:26:34,240 --> 01:26:37,360
Speaker 1: how you said year instead of day like it's that

1578
01:26:37,560 --> 01:26:40,280
Speaker 1: one time, the one time of year that we read

1579
01:26:40,320 --> 01:26:42,479
Speaker 1: a story for you guys on live, not like we

1580
01:26:42,640 --> 01:26:46,479
Speaker 1: literally go live like dang there every day and you guys,

1581
01:26:46,640 --> 01:26:53,760
Speaker 1: yeah you got me, you got got alrighty, let's do it.

1582
01:26:54,280 --> 01:26:56,840
Speaker 6: Am I the a hole for limiting my relationship with

1583
01:26:56,920 --> 01:27:02,240
Speaker 6: my daughter after she ignored her ill mother. Mmmm so

1584
01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:07,719
Speaker 6: thro a philosopher one says, my daughter is nineteen, still

1585
01:27:07,840 --> 01:27:10,439
Speaker 6: very young, but old enough to know what she did wrong.

1586
01:27:11,040 --> 01:27:14,240
Speaker 6: Five years ago, my wife, her biological mother, began to

1587
01:27:14,360 --> 01:27:18,760
Speaker 6: exhibit very strange behavior. She would say weird things, make

1588
01:27:18,840 --> 01:27:22,040
Speaker 6: impulsive decisions, and act strange. She and my daughter would

1589
01:27:22,080 --> 01:27:25,439
Speaker 6: clash often. Now my daughter always what Now, my daughter

1590
01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:28,160
Speaker 6: was a daddy's girl, but she was still close with

1591
01:27:28,240 --> 01:27:31,120
Speaker 6: her mother. I honestly thought my wife was going through

1592
01:27:31,120 --> 01:27:33,599
Speaker 6: a midlife crisis and dealing with the pressures of working

1593
01:27:33,640 --> 01:27:36,840
Speaker 6: while raising a teen and we had a come to

1594
01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:42,479
Speaker 6: Jesus talk. About six months after the start of the behavior,

1595
01:27:42,640 --> 01:27:45,639
Speaker 6: my wife ended up in a really bad accident. When

1596
01:27:45,680 --> 01:27:48,799
Speaker 6: they were performing emergency surgery, they found a ball sized

1597
01:27:48,840 --> 01:27:52,479
Speaker 6: tumor pressing her brain, which was the cause of her

1598
01:27:52,560 --> 01:27:57,679
Speaker 6: initial behavior. That's crazy that it took a car accident

1599
01:27:58,439 --> 01:28:01,000
Speaker 6: to go get this checked out, and we had it

1600
01:28:01,120 --> 01:28:02,439
Speaker 6: just happened to come up.

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01:28:02,640 --> 01:28:06,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, and we had a story before where the

1602
01:28:06,840 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 1: op in that story like started having all these strange behaviors.

1603
01:28:10,439 --> 01:28:13,080
Speaker 1: And they also realized it was like a growth or

1604
01:28:13,160 --> 01:28:15,080
Speaker 1: some sort of thing that was.

1605
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:16,840
Speaker 6: Whose wife divorced him.

1606
01:28:17,360 --> 01:28:21,040
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, insane, Thank god, thank god they

1607
01:28:21,080 --> 01:28:21,439
Speaker 1: found it.

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01:28:21,640 --> 01:28:25,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, absolutely before it got worse. My wife ended up

1609
01:28:25,880 --> 01:28:29,519
Speaker 6: having to relearn everything from walking to talking. She was

1610
01:28:29,560 --> 01:28:31,720
Speaker 6: still reeling from the effects of the accident and the

1611
01:28:31,760 --> 01:28:35,479
Speaker 6: brain tumor and was mentally and physically disabled.

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01:28:35,080 --> 01:28:35,639
Speaker 2: For a while.

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01:28:36,439 --> 01:28:40,280
Speaker 6: Our daughter refused to be seen in public with my wife.

1614
01:28:40,600 --> 01:28:43,240
Speaker 6: She hated the mess of the wheelchair and her mother's condition.

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01:28:43,800 --> 01:28:45,760
Speaker 6: She would also just ignore her mother and speak to

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01:28:45,840 --> 01:28:49,840
Speaker 6: me all the time, sometimes even about her. She saw

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01:28:49,960 --> 01:28:52,200
Speaker 6: my wife as a burden and would complain to people

1618
01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:56,759
Speaker 6: to the point where the school called me. The schools

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01:28:57,560 --> 01:29:01,880
Speaker 6: at that point, you know she's been talking. If it

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01:29:01,960 --> 01:29:05,720
Speaker 6: gets to the point where the school has to call you, Yeah,

1621
01:29:05,880 --> 01:29:09,120
Speaker 6: what is she saying. At the time, I was just

1622
01:29:09,160 --> 01:29:11,840
Speaker 6: struggling to get by and I couldn't alienate my daughter.

1623
01:29:12,400 --> 01:29:14,599
Speaker 6: My wife needed a lot of care, and my daughter

1624
01:29:14,720 --> 01:29:16,439
Speaker 6: was in a difficult stage of her life that I

1625
01:29:16,479 --> 01:29:19,839
Speaker 6: couldn't abandon her in When my daughter went off to college,

1626
01:29:19,920 --> 01:29:24,360
Speaker 6: I was sad, but also somehow relieved. My wife still

1627
01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:27,400
Speaker 6: needs a wheelchair sometimes and she has difficulty with some things,

1628
01:29:27,479 --> 01:29:31,480
Speaker 6: but she has honestly improved so much. It really solidified

1629
01:29:31,520 --> 01:29:33,839
Speaker 6: our love for each other and our belief in our marriage.

1630
01:29:34,400 --> 01:29:37,760
Speaker 6: My daughter is coming for summer break after exams. I

1631
01:29:37,880 --> 01:29:41,439
Speaker 6: don't know why, but I feel uncomfortable with her staying

1632
01:29:41,520 --> 01:29:44,160
Speaker 6: for this long. I feel like the sense of closeness

1633
01:29:44,280 --> 01:29:47,679
Speaker 6: I had with her evaporated when she treated her own

1634
01:29:47,760 --> 01:29:51,280
Speaker 6: mother callously I don't know what to do. My wife

1635
01:29:51,400 --> 01:29:53,680
Speaker 6: is very excited to have our daughter come, but I

1636
01:29:53,760 --> 01:29:56,840
Speaker 6: don't want to see her heart broken. I've tried getting

1637
01:29:56,880 --> 01:29:59,040
Speaker 6: over it and talking with my therapist, but I just

1638
01:29:59,160 --> 01:30:01,920
Speaker 6: can't feel emotion only close with my daughter. And I'm

1639
01:30:02,000 --> 01:30:06,800
Speaker 6: sure she'll notice. Am I the ahole? And there is

1640
01:30:06,880 --> 01:30:08,519
Speaker 6: an edit and an update?

1641
01:30:10,400 --> 01:30:17,160
Speaker 1: Well, this daughter, yeah, is a piece of work. She's

1642
01:30:17,160 --> 01:30:17,679
Speaker 1: a teenager.

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01:30:17,880 --> 01:30:20,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, well now she's in college. Now she's she just

1644
01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:27,320
Speaker 6: started college. Yeah dude, yeah, what just to just to

1645
01:30:27,479 --> 01:30:29,559
Speaker 6: talk that badly about your parent?

1646
01:30:29,680 --> 01:30:30,040
Speaker 1: Who is.

1647
01:30:31,640 --> 01:30:37,240
Speaker 6: You know, going through an extremely difficult time, Yes, at

1648
01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:40,840
Speaker 6: school in front of other classmates and apparently.

1649
01:30:40,520 --> 01:30:42,560
Speaker 1: Teachers so much so.

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01:30:42,720 --> 01:30:46,439
Speaker 6: And also university like that that well no, this was

1651
01:30:46,680 --> 01:30:48,439
Speaker 6: prior to when she was in high school and now

1652
01:30:48,520 --> 01:30:49,720
Speaker 6: she is at university right right.

1653
01:30:49,760 --> 01:30:52,880
Speaker 1: But even still like if the school is like, yo,

1654
01:30:53,080 --> 01:30:56,439
Speaker 1: she's your daughter is trashing her mom like way too much.

1655
01:30:56,520 --> 01:31:01,000
Speaker 1: It's like a problem. Yeah, yeah, what the heck? I

1656
01:31:01,120 --> 01:31:02,920
Speaker 1: think do we think OPI is a hole?

1657
01:31:03,680 --> 01:31:03,720
Speaker 7: No?

1658
01:31:04,000 --> 01:31:04,599
Speaker 1: I don't think.

1659
01:31:04,680 --> 01:31:07,400
Speaker 6: Opie is the ahile. I do think he needs to

1660
01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:11,080
Speaker 6: get his daughter in some kind of therapy though, yeah,

1661
01:31:11,680 --> 01:31:15,320
Speaker 6: because it seems like she's taking this really hard, and

1662
01:31:15,439 --> 01:31:18,880
Speaker 6: she's like lashing out in a way that's not acceptable. Yes,

1663
01:31:19,160 --> 01:31:21,639
Speaker 6: and I think that, Yeah, they need to send those daughter.

1664
01:31:21,680 --> 01:31:25,479
Speaker 1: Do you think it's like it's like she's maybe like scared,

1665
01:31:25,520 --> 01:31:26,519
Speaker 1: traumatized or something of it.

1666
01:31:26,720 --> 01:31:27,040
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1667
01:31:27,760 --> 01:31:28,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be.

1668
01:31:28,760 --> 01:31:30,439
Speaker 6: It could be she just sucks, or it could be

1669
01:31:30,560 --> 01:31:34,439
Speaker 6: she's you know, dealing with a really horrible situation in

1670
01:31:34,560 --> 01:31:35,400
Speaker 6: a really horrible way.

1671
01:31:35,600 --> 01:31:37,840
Speaker 1: This is true, but we got to get to the

1672
01:31:37,880 --> 01:31:40,320
Speaker 1: bottom of it. Yeah, there in an update.

1673
01:31:40,439 --> 01:31:44,080
Speaker 6: Oh edit, I don't know where any of your assumptions

1674
01:31:44,080 --> 01:31:46,479
Speaker 6: about my wife are coming from. Her mother was never

1675
01:31:46,680 --> 01:31:50,360
Speaker 6: abusive in any way, including mentally or emotionally. When I

1676
01:31:50,439 --> 01:31:53,720
Speaker 6: said my wife did or said strange things, she had

1677
01:31:53,760 --> 01:31:56,920
Speaker 6: regressed in some ways to a child, which was exacerbated

1678
01:31:57,000 --> 01:31:59,360
Speaker 6: by the accident. For example, she would go on and

1679
01:31:59,400 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 6: on about a shit she watched. She couldn't tell a story.

1680
01:32:02,280 --> 01:32:04,120
Speaker 6: She would spit out food if she didn't like it.

1681
01:32:04,640 --> 01:32:07,599
Speaker 6: My daughter would never have been been put in an

1682
01:32:07,800 --> 01:32:08,879
Speaker 6: abusive situation.

1683
01:32:09,680 --> 01:32:12,479
Speaker 1: Is an up date, So basically saying like they were like, hey,

1684
01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:13,600
Speaker 1: when there's.

1685
01:32:13,360 --> 01:32:17,960
Speaker 6: No reason her like what. She wasn't wronged in any way.

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01:32:18,040 --> 01:32:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not like that when yeah, when the

1687
01:32:20,320 --> 01:32:24,960
Speaker 1: mom before the mom was able to uh get get

1688
01:32:25,000 --> 01:32:27,559
Speaker 1: the get the surgery and go into in recovery. Yeah,

1689
01:32:27,640 --> 01:32:30,000
Speaker 1: she was like obviously acting very different and like had

1690
01:32:30,040 --> 01:32:33,160
Speaker 1: this childlike tendencies, but it was anything violent or anything

1691
01:32:33,240 --> 01:32:36,479
Speaker 1: that would warrant this type of response from nothing aggressive,

1692
01:32:36,680 --> 01:32:37,400
Speaker 1: nothing aggressive.

1693
01:32:37,479 --> 01:32:39,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, there's an update.

1694
01:32:39,880 --> 01:32:40,760
Speaker 1: Oh, let's get into it.

1695
01:32:41,200 --> 01:32:44,600
Speaker 6: Mother's day was terrible. I don't know why I'm updating this.

1696
01:32:44,840 --> 01:32:47,600
Speaker 6: Maybe it's for the few people who can sympathize. A

1697
01:32:47,680 --> 01:32:50,800
Speaker 6: lot of the prior comments made were untrue. Oh made

1698
01:32:50,920 --> 01:32:55,200
Speaker 6: untrue horrible accusations about my wife. Again, Ohpi says my

1699
01:32:55,280 --> 01:32:58,160
Speaker 6: wife was never abusive or even me, not in any state,

1700
01:32:58,280 --> 01:33:00,360
Speaker 6: and makes it so much harder to understand and why

1701
01:33:00,439 --> 01:33:04,000
Speaker 6: our daughter would be so cold to her mother, my

1702
01:33:04,080 --> 01:33:07,439
Speaker 6: wife's mental state before the accident, accident, and then they

1703
01:33:07,520 --> 01:33:10,800
Speaker 6: kind of repeat. My wife would spit food out back

1704
01:33:10,840 --> 01:33:13,759
Speaker 6: into her plate, bluntly say it tasted bad, and wipe

1705
01:33:13,760 --> 01:33:16,519
Speaker 6: her nose with her sleeve like a child. I made

1706
01:33:16,560 --> 01:33:18,799
Speaker 6: the air of thinking she was having a midlike crisis

1707
01:33:18,920 --> 01:33:21,599
Speaker 6: because she bought an expensive dress because of it was soft.

1708
01:33:22,080 --> 01:33:25,400
Speaker 6: She would forget to do things her responsibilities and mother

1709
01:33:25,520 --> 01:33:28,040
Speaker 6: and daughter clash because she would tell stories with no

1710
01:33:28,160 --> 01:33:31,080
Speaker 6: beginning and end, just rambling. She would ask the same

1711
01:33:31,200 --> 01:33:33,559
Speaker 6: questions over and over. She would promise to pick her

1712
01:33:33,640 --> 01:33:36,840
Speaker 6: up or bring something, and forget things that would annoy

1713
01:33:37,000 --> 01:33:40,760
Speaker 6: a teenage girl. The tumor was concentrated in the back

1714
01:33:40,800 --> 01:33:43,320
Speaker 6: of the head when she got into the car accident.

1715
01:33:43,520 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 6: It made everything worse. She needed to relearn everything. She

1716
01:33:48,280 --> 01:33:51,960
Speaker 6: is still disabled. We had high expectations for our daughter,

1717
01:33:52,080 --> 01:33:54,320
Speaker 6: but she sent them high for herself. She had a

1718
01:33:54,400 --> 01:33:56,719
Speaker 6: dream school when she wanted to go where she wanted

1719
01:33:56,760 --> 01:33:59,320
Speaker 6: to go since she was twelve. It meant that I

1720
01:33:59,360 --> 01:34:02,679
Speaker 6: had to chauffeur to so many activities throughout high school

1721
01:34:02,720 --> 01:34:05,240
Speaker 6: and sacrifice a lot to make sure she got the

1722
01:34:05,320 --> 01:34:09,240
Speaker 6: opportunities she wanted. It meant leaving my disabled wife in

1723
01:34:09,280 --> 01:34:12,840
Speaker 6: a long term care facility to hopefully recover. It was COVID,

1724
01:34:12,880 --> 01:34:14,920
Speaker 6: so there were long stretches where we didn't visit her.

1725
01:34:15,240 --> 01:34:17,360
Speaker 6: She was there for too long. I never should have

1726
01:34:17,439 --> 01:34:17,920
Speaker 6: left her there.

1727
01:34:18,800 --> 01:34:23,200
Speaker 1: Oh that's so, that is so sad, so sad. Oh

1728
01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:26,720
Speaker 1: to so, I'm so.

1729
01:34:26,840 --> 01:34:29,920
Speaker 6: I guess During COVID they he was saying that he

1730
01:34:30,000 --> 01:34:32,600
Speaker 6: didn't have he wasn't capable of taking care of his

1731
01:34:32,680 --> 01:34:34,160
Speaker 6: wife or giving her the proper care.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: My understanding is he's like, hey, I I realized I

1734
01:34:38,840 --> 01:34:41,760
Speaker 1: needed like professionals. Yeah, and so he like brings her

1735
01:34:41,840 --> 01:34:44,360
Speaker 1: to the care facility. But then there was like kind

1736
01:34:44,400 --> 01:34:46,400
Speaker 1: of a backfiring where it was like I left her

1737
01:34:46,479 --> 01:34:48,439
Speaker 1: there too long without interaction.

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01:34:48,640 --> 01:34:51,599
Speaker 6: Yeah, probably couldn't see her as much as he wanted

1739
01:34:51,640 --> 01:34:52,400
Speaker 6: to because.

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01:34:52,120 --> 01:34:55,639
Speaker 1: Of COVID, which I'm sure that is a very important

1741
01:34:55,680 --> 01:34:58,960
Speaker 1: part of their like development, relearning, etc. It's like, oh, hey,

1742
01:34:59,040 --> 01:35:03,080
Speaker 1: here's my husband maybe triggering old memories routine like all

1743
01:35:03,160 --> 01:35:04,960
Speaker 1: of those things. I'm no expert, let me know in

1744
01:35:05,000 --> 01:35:08,479
Speaker 1: the comments, but I would imagine that that's an important part,

1745
01:35:08,560 --> 01:35:11,880
Speaker 1: the same way that having a professional who can help

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01:35:11,920 --> 01:35:14,759
Speaker 1: with like maybe medications or other like technical medical stuff

1747
01:35:15,200 --> 01:35:18,880
Speaker 1: is important. But it's like to like not being able

1748
01:35:18,920 --> 01:35:22,200
Speaker 1: to see her family for months at a stretch. I'm

1749
01:35:22,240 --> 01:35:25,200
Speaker 1: sure that would probably be very very damaging for the process.

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01:35:25,320 --> 01:35:27,080
Speaker 1: And also like during COVID.

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01:35:26,840 --> 01:35:29,960
Speaker 6: Like just like, yeah, COVID was already hard, but to

1752
01:35:30,120 --> 01:35:36,280
Speaker 6: like have to go have to be in a have

1753
01:35:36,439 --> 01:35:41,160
Speaker 6: to have to be in a care facility, already isolated.

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01:35:42,400 --> 01:35:45,280
Speaker 6: Probably it's more so isolated in that care facility, but

1755
01:35:45,320 --> 01:35:46,479
Speaker 6: also isolated from your family.

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01:35:46,520 --> 01:35:49,760
Speaker 1: It's just very difficult, very tough. Yeah, very tough.

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01:35:50,680 --> 01:35:53,800
Speaker 6: When she came home, my wife was still largely nonverbal

1758
01:35:53,960 --> 01:35:57,240
Speaker 6: and wheelchair bound. She needed help with everything from eating

1759
01:35:57,439 --> 01:35:59,760
Speaker 6: to go into the bathroom. I earned a little as

1760
01:35:59,800 --> 01:36:02,160
Speaker 6: a ca CA hair garver on top of my regular job.

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01:36:02,800 --> 01:36:05,519
Speaker 6: My daughter was so cruel and cold to her mother

1762
01:36:05,560 --> 01:36:07,719
Speaker 6: at that time. She wasn't a young kid or even

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01:36:07,720 --> 01:36:10,840
Speaker 6: a young teen anymore. She was never expected and never

1764
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:14,519
Speaker 6: did take care of her mother, so it wasn't caregiver burnout.

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01:36:14,760 --> 01:36:16,880
Speaker 6: She would hate if her mother came outside with her,

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01:36:17,400 --> 01:36:19,680
Speaker 6: and would later blame it on the wheelchair, saying it

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01:36:19,760 --> 01:36:23,160
Speaker 6: was bulky and attracted attention. She would ignore her mother

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01:36:23,280 --> 01:36:27,559
Speaker 6: and moved away to distance herself physically. I ended up

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01:36:27,560 --> 01:36:30,280
Speaker 6: getting a call from the school because the classmate had

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01:36:30,360 --> 01:36:33,240
Speaker 6: overheard what she said about her mother and reported it

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01:36:33,560 --> 01:36:34,400
Speaker 6: as ableism.

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01:36:34,720 --> 01:36:38,679
Speaker 1: Reported able for talking about her own mom.

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01:36:39,240 --> 01:36:43,960
Speaker 6: Wow, bro, Yeah, I don't know what she said. All

1774
01:36:44,120 --> 01:36:46,519
Speaker 6: I know is that she was very cruel to her mother.

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01:36:47,080 --> 01:36:51,000
Speaker 6: I had her in individual therapy, Okay, so he did,

1776
01:36:51,120 --> 01:36:52,880
Speaker 6: because I was saying I think he should send her.

1777
01:36:52,960 --> 01:36:54,200
Speaker 6: You should have sent her, but he did.

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01:36:54,520 --> 01:36:59,519
Speaker 1: It sounds like op is like really trying, really trying,

1779
01:36:59,640 --> 01:37:03,080
Speaker 1: really try. Yeah. Yes, and and even recognizing where they

1780
01:37:03,120 --> 01:37:03,719
Speaker 1: made mistakes.

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01:37:03,840 --> 01:37:07,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, and we did therapy as father and daughter. It

1782
01:37:07,400 --> 01:37:11,240
Speaker 6: was her choice to stop. Okay. So it seems like, oh,

1783
01:37:11,320 --> 01:37:15,920
Speaker 6: he is doing everything that he can, yes, for both

1784
01:37:16,000 --> 01:37:18,960
Speaker 6: his wife and daughter, and it's not working, which is

1785
01:37:19,040 --> 01:37:21,400
Speaker 6: so hard because it's already out of his Like everything

1786
01:37:21,439 --> 01:37:23,960
Speaker 6: seems like out of his control.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, absolutely, by the way, Riley, could we are are

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Speaker 1: what's the ones that we missed? The donations? I just

1789
01:37:31,880 --> 01:37:34,120
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure there was a donation that we got.

1790
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Speaker 1: I don't know if it was a ticket. Tony Q ten,

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Speaker 1: freaking go.

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Speaker 6: But thank you everyone, say hi.

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Speaker 1: I took Tony.

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01:37:45,720 --> 01:37:49,120
Speaker 6: My daughter ended up getting into her dream college an

1796
01:37:49,200 --> 01:37:52,679
Speaker 6: accepted students weekend, and she demanded that her mother stay home,

1797
01:37:53,560 --> 01:37:56,800
Speaker 6: even though parents were invited. By that time, my wife

1798
01:37:56,960 --> 01:37:59,880
Speaker 6: had made leaps and bounds in progress and was disappointed

1799
01:38:00,080 --> 01:38:02,880
Speaker 6: to stay home. I went and tried to be a

1800
01:38:02,920 --> 01:38:06,240
Speaker 6: proud father. At least she let her mother go to graduation.

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01:38:07,439 --> 01:38:07,679
Speaker 1: Wow.

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01:38:08,280 --> 01:38:09,839
Speaker 6: Wait, okay, high school graduation.

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01:38:10,120 --> 01:38:10,719
Speaker 1: I guess.

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01:38:12,360 --> 01:38:14,960
Speaker 6: My daughter came home a few days ago. Her exams

1805
01:38:15,000 --> 01:38:17,759
Speaker 6: were earlier. She informed us that she earned a research

1806
01:38:17,800 --> 01:38:20,640
Speaker 6: position with a professor for the summer. My wife was

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01:38:20,800 --> 01:38:23,639
Speaker 6: overjoyed writing a card all on her own about how

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01:38:23,720 --> 01:38:26,040
Speaker 6: proud she was and she wished she saw her daughter

1809
01:38:26,120 --> 01:38:30,240
Speaker 6: grow into an accomplished young woman. How proud she was

1810
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:33,559
Speaker 6: to share this moment. My daughter looked sick with guilt.

1811
01:38:33,960 --> 01:38:36,360
Speaker 6: I know what that looked like. That looks like.

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01:38:37,520 --> 01:38:37,760
Speaker 1: Wow.

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01:38:38,160 --> 01:38:40,400
Speaker 6: On Mother's Day I made a comment that she couldn't

1814
01:38:40,439 --> 01:38:43,439
Speaker 6: ignore her mother. Today she told me to stop saying that.

1815
01:38:43,800 --> 01:38:46,040
Speaker 6: I made another comment about how proud her mother was

1816
01:38:46,080 --> 01:38:48,439
Speaker 6: of her and how much she loved her. I was

1817
01:38:48,520 --> 01:38:51,479
Speaker 6: doing it on purpose. It ended up with her saying

1818
01:38:51,640 --> 01:38:55,800
Speaker 6: she regretted what she did. I always had my suspicions.

1819
01:38:56,280 --> 01:38:59,519
Speaker 6: I interrogated her until she tearfully admitted she hated what

1820
01:38:59,640 --> 01:39:02,639
Speaker 6: her mother turned into. And she hit her mother once.

1821
01:39:03,880 --> 01:39:08,200
Speaker 6: And she hit her mother once. Yes, wow, And she

1822
01:39:08,360 --> 01:39:11,240
Speaker 6: was ashamed to be around her because of what people thought.

1823
01:39:12,040 --> 01:39:14,479
Speaker 6: We got into a shouting match and she yelled at

1824
01:39:14,560 --> 01:39:17,759
Speaker 6: me that I was so focused on everyone else's behavior

1825
01:39:17,840 --> 01:39:21,559
Speaker 6: because I've regretted my own. It's true in a lot

1826
01:39:21,600 --> 01:39:24,799
Speaker 6: of ways. Because of COVID, there were limited visiting hours,

1827
01:39:24,960 --> 01:39:26,880
Speaker 6: but I still didn't visit as much as I should have.

1828
01:39:27,400 --> 01:39:29,479
Speaker 6: I left my wife in a facility to focus on

1829
01:39:29,560 --> 01:39:32,200
Speaker 6: our daughter, but also so that it would be easier

1830
01:39:32,400 --> 01:39:35,599
Speaker 6: for me. There are no siblings, no grandparents to help.

1831
01:39:36,080 --> 01:39:38,240
Speaker 6: I didn't visit as much as I should have because

1832
01:39:38,280 --> 01:39:41,640
Speaker 6: I hated how much my wife would sob when I

1833
01:39:41,720 --> 01:39:45,400
Speaker 6: had to leave. OH. I started feeling guiltier when I

1834
01:39:45,439 --> 01:39:47,760
Speaker 6: read a news article about a nurse being sentenced for

1835
01:39:47,840 --> 01:39:51,160
Speaker 6: assaulting a woman in a coma. I thought about my wife.

1836
01:39:51,520 --> 01:39:55,320
Speaker 6: She was nonverbal, had limited short term memory, and wheelchair bound.

1837
01:39:55,720 --> 01:39:58,599
Speaker 6: I wouldn't know what would happen. I tried to convince

1838
01:39:58,680 --> 01:40:01,280
Speaker 6: myself that it was fine, but all I did was

1839
01:40:01,320 --> 01:40:04,360
Speaker 6: find more and more news articles about abuse at care facilities.

1840
01:40:04,520 --> 01:40:07,800
Speaker 6: I would have nightmares. I pulled my wife out, I

1841
01:40:07,840 --> 01:40:10,640
Speaker 6: took months off work. I finally got her home. She

1842
01:40:10,800 --> 01:40:12,680
Speaker 6: was taken care of, but not like I would have.

1843
01:40:13,640 --> 01:40:16,280
Speaker 6: There were a few knots in her hair, bruising sores,

1844
01:40:16,640 --> 01:40:17,839
Speaker 6: presumably like bedswords.

1845
01:40:17,880 --> 01:40:19,800
Speaker 1: Bed sores, right right, right, I won't lie.

1846
01:40:20,040 --> 01:40:20,960
Speaker 2: The care was brutal.

1847
01:40:21,360 --> 01:40:23,280
Speaker 6: Now I had to juggle taking care of my wife

1848
01:40:23,439 --> 01:40:25,960
Speaker 6: and making sure my daughter was supported and able to

1849
01:40:26,040 --> 01:40:28,840
Speaker 6: reach her dreams. And it was hard seeing my wife

1850
01:40:28,960 --> 01:40:32,439
Speaker 6: like that. She was accomplished and intelligent and now couldn't

1851
01:40:32,439 --> 01:40:34,479
Speaker 6: do a puzzle, or eat on her own or go

1852
01:40:34,560 --> 01:40:37,960
Speaker 6: to the bathroom by yourself. There was a huge learning curve,

1853
01:40:38,040 --> 01:40:39,920
Speaker 6: and they assigned a nurse to come see my wife

1854
01:40:40,080 --> 01:40:43,479
Speaker 6: every few days. My wife is so sweet. I attended

1855
01:40:43,520 --> 01:40:46,640
Speaker 6: a caregiver's support group, and I feel guilty because my

1856
01:40:46,720 --> 01:40:48,800
Speaker 6: wife doesn't have the fits of temper, or the rage

1857
01:40:48,920 --> 01:40:51,519
Speaker 6: or the depression that others did. I felt guilty for

1858
01:40:51,600 --> 01:40:54,840
Speaker 6: being tired. Some had a lot harder than I did.

1859
01:40:55,520 --> 01:40:57,400
Speaker 6: She got better, and over time it was like she

1860
01:40:57,520 --> 01:41:00,200
Speaker 6: was almost back to her old self, and she ever

1861
01:41:00,400 --> 01:41:03,960
Speaker 6: lost love for either of us. It hurts that she

1862
01:41:04,080 --> 01:41:07,000
Speaker 6: blames herself for how our daughter treated her. Maybe I

1863
01:41:07,040 --> 01:41:09,639
Speaker 6: shouldn't have let my daughter focus on prestige and appearance

1864
01:41:09,720 --> 01:41:12,679
Speaker 6: so much. Maybe I should have realized the signs early

1865
01:41:12,800 --> 01:41:16,120
Speaker 6: on and exposed her to others. My daughter and I

1866
01:41:16,400 --> 01:41:20,160
Speaker 6: aren't speaking. My wife just wants a happy family. I'm

1867
01:41:20,200 --> 01:41:22,559
Speaker 6: looking for therapy. For us as a family.

1868
01:41:23,000 --> 01:41:25,719
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Oh so sad.

1869
01:41:26,080 --> 01:41:28,400
Speaker 3: Truly to a point, you as a parent, you can't

1870
01:41:28,920 --> 01:41:32,000
Speaker 3: blame yourself for that because you have raised your kid

1871
01:41:32,080 --> 01:41:34,200
Speaker 3: to make their own choices, and those are the choices

1872
01:41:34,439 --> 01:41:35,360
Speaker 3: they've decided to make.

1873
01:41:35,600 --> 01:41:38,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, like she like his child is an adult now,

1874
01:41:39,120 --> 01:41:41,880
Speaker 1: so it's like okay at the end of the day,

1875
01:41:42,080 --> 01:41:46,320
Speaker 1: Like if you become and decided to become a crappy person, like, yeah,

1876
01:41:46,320 --> 01:41:50,519
Speaker 1: there there is only so much you can do. Yeah,

1877
01:41:51,640 --> 01:41:55,800
Speaker 1: it does reach a point. How do you feel, like,

1878
01:41:56,120 --> 01:41:58,760
Speaker 1: like you know, OP did did say like you know

1879
01:41:58,840 --> 01:42:00,840
Speaker 1: I did, I did visit her less? Do you think

1880
01:42:00,920 --> 01:42:03,400
Speaker 1: do you think Op made the right decisions and did

1881
01:42:03,479 --> 01:42:04,200
Speaker 1: the right things?

1882
01:42:04,960 --> 01:42:08,639
Speaker 6: I think when you're going through something that difficult, yeah,

1883
01:42:08,760 --> 01:42:11,120
Speaker 6: you're always going to regrets about how you meeddled it

1884
01:42:11,640 --> 01:42:15,040
Speaker 6: because you're a human and you're watching your the like

1885
01:42:15,479 --> 01:42:19,360
Speaker 6: a person you cared very deeply about go through something unimaginable.

1886
01:42:19,560 --> 01:42:22,479
Speaker 1: Yes, and it's hard to watch that totally. Like when

1887
01:42:22,520 --> 01:42:26,960
Speaker 1: he said, my like he felt so terrible when she

1888
01:42:27,000 --> 01:42:29,120
Speaker 1: would like be sobbing when he was leaving, and that

1889
01:42:29,320 --> 01:42:31,479
Speaker 1: was like one he realized, like that was one of

1890
01:42:31,560 --> 01:42:35,680
Speaker 1: the reasons why I didn't go back often Like I

1891
01:42:35,920 --> 01:42:38,599
Speaker 1: I can empathize with that, you know, like I could

1892
01:42:38,640 --> 01:42:42,160
Speaker 1: totally see being in that scenario. And then and he

1893
01:42:42,320 --> 01:42:44,240
Speaker 1: was he was he was honest about himself. He's like, hey,

1894
01:42:44,320 --> 01:42:47,320
Speaker 1: other people had it worse, so he's I don't think

1895
01:42:47,360 --> 01:42:51,880
Speaker 1: he's like deflecting responsibility. I think he's like, yeah, I

1896
01:42:51,960 --> 01:42:54,360
Speaker 1: could have done better. And I think he you know,

1897
01:42:55,640 --> 01:42:58,479
Speaker 1: tried his best, yeah, to make the decisions that at

1898
01:42:58,560 --> 01:43:01,760
Speaker 1: the time seemed like the best solutions, and also, like

1899
01:43:01,840 --> 01:43:04,240
Speaker 1: he said, trying to raise his daughter as well. Yeah,

1900
01:43:05,200 --> 01:43:07,519
Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean the one thing I will say

1901
01:43:07,640 --> 01:43:09,559
Speaker 1: is like, yeah, it kind of like what to Riley's

1902
01:43:09,600 --> 01:43:14,040
Speaker 1: point of like you can't always like change how your

1903
01:43:14,120 --> 01:43:17,280
Speaker 1: kids are. There's also a point of like the type

1904
01:43:17,320 --> 01:43:21,280
Speaker 1: of person. Like obviously people want to see their children

1905
01:43:21,400 --> 01:43:23,720
Speaker 1: like have success and do and do great things, but

1906
01:43:23,920 --> 01:43:26,400
Speaker 1: like not if that comes at the cost of them

1907
01:43:26,520 --> 01:43:29,880
Speaker 1: being like a terrible a terrible person. So I think,

1908
01:43:30,320 --> 01:43:31,960
Speaker 1: you know, op, he was trying to trying to balance

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01:43:32,000 --> 01:43:33,639
Speaker 1: at all, but the daughter wasn't giving anything.

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01:43:33,960 --> 01:43:37,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, because I quick Goka story time. One

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Speaker 3: of my uncles had two kids, and one of the kids,

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01:43:40,600 --> 01:43:43,320
Speaker 3: like spill a bunch of money from him and like

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01:43:43,560 --> 01:43:46,240
Speaker 3: a lot of other family members, and he was taking

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01:43:46,280 --> 01:43:47,960
Speaker 3: it really hard himself. And I asked the brother. I

1915
01:43:48,120 --> 01:43:50,880
Speaker 3: was like, why you not like taking it as hard

1916
01:43:50,920 --> 01:43:53,360
Speaker 3: as your dad? And he was like, well, like exactly

1917
01:43:53,439 --> 01:43:56,519
Speaker 3: what I said. Dad raised him to make his own person,

1918
01:43:56,600 --> 01:43:59,360
Speaker 3: make his own choices, and he made those. There's nothing

1919
01:44:00,040 --> 01:44:02,360
Speaker 3: I could have done to make him a better person.

1920
01:44:02,400 --> 01:44:05,200
Speaker 3: It's just what at the end of the day, people

1921
01:44:05,240 --> 01:44:07,880
Speaker 3: have thrown free will and they could choose what they

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01:44:07,920 --> 01:44:08,160
Speaker 3: want to.

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Speaker 7: Do with it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is so crazy, how like you can have

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01:44:13,280 --> 01:44:15,640
Speaker 1: a human come from you, but then they could like

1926
01:44:16,000 --> 01:44:16,799
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Speaker 6: Amandy, and thank you for the ten buck tip. I

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01:45:34,360 --> 01:45:37,200
Speaker 6: can't imagine a day without watching your show. Hopefully we'll

1946
01:45:37,200 --> 01:45:41,200
Speaker 6: get the stream to last longer tonight. Thank you for watching.

1947
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Speaker 6: We can't imagine a day.

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Speaker 1: Not doing a period.

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01:45:48,640 --> 01:45:52,120
Speaker 6: I can't imagine today. Christy Steele, thank you for the

1950
01:45:52,160 --> 01:45:55,120
Speaker 6: two bucks. Can you call Sleepless and Blondest please.

1951
01:45:56,680 --> 01:46:02,360
Speaker 1: For why I got the discord on the discord burguring out.

1952
01:46:02,400 --> 01:46:03,559
Speaker 1: We haven't do this many calls.

1953
01:46:03,360 --> 01:46:06,400
Speaker 6: But and Tony c thank you again for your five bucks.

1954
01:46:07,520 --> 01:46:11,599
Speaker 1: Let's go first time live yep a, we gotta, we gotta.

1955
01:46:11,800 --> 01:46:14,880
Speaker 1: We've got a wheel spin here, guys, we got a

1956
01:46:14,920 --> 01:46:18,519
Speaker 1: wheel spin. You guys ready for a will spin. Let's go, baby,

1957
01:46:19,280 --> 01:46:22,600
Speaker 1: come on, shepardy, let's get it.

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01:46:29,640 --> 01:46:33,560
Speaker 6: We did that one already. Oh well, John could do

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01:46:33,640 --> 01:46:33,880
Speaker 6: it now?

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01:46:35,760 --> 01:46:36,320
Speaker 1: Apology.

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01:46:37,439 --> 01:46:40,200
Speaker 3: Okay, here's the concept, John, do you have it like

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01:46:40,400 --> 01:46:44,120
Speaker 3: twice on there. Yeah, because to increase the chances of

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01:46:44,160 --> 01:46:48,600
Speaker 3: it happening. So you have to call someone random in

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01:46:48,720 --> 01:46:54,920
Speaker 3: your phone and apologize, but you don't tell them what

1965
01:46:54,960 --> 01:46:59,080
Speaker 3: you're apologizing is for, and they have to basically come

1966
01:46:59,160 --> 01:47:01,200
Speaker 3: up with like, oh, are you sorry for this thing?

1967
01:47:02,400 --> 01:47:03,920
Speaker 3: And just be like, oh no, I'm just sorry, and

1968
01:47:03,960 --> 01:47:05,680
Speaker 3: then they have to come up with an excuse for you.

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01:47:06,439 --> 01:47:06,879
Speaker 1: Interesting.

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01:47:07,200 --> 01:47:09,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, you can tell them you're on Opie though, okay.

1971
01:47:09,760 --> 01:47:12,720
Speaker 2: Or you can prank call someone a big business and

1972
01:47:12,880 --> 01:47:16,080
Speaker 2: try to get to another John within that business.

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01:47:16,240 --> 01:47:20,920
Speaker 1: Dude, I'm not gonna lie. The prank call is just

1974
01:47:21,040 --> 01:47:23,200
Speaker 1: calling me lurking puppy.

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01:47:23,200 --> 01:47:24,920
Speaker 6: Thank you for the five bucks. I can relate to

1976
01:47:25,000 --> 01:47:27,240
Speaker 6: op I don't visit my grandma in the nursing home

1977
01:47:27,280 --> 01:47:29,920
Speaker 6: because she is schizophrenia and seeing the way she acts

1978
01:47:30,040 --> 01:47:32,240
Speaker 6: hurts me so much. Yeah, I'm so sorry about that.

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01:47:32,880 --> 01:47:35,320
Speaker 6: It can be very hard to visit friends and family

1980
01:47:35,439 --> 01:47:41,280
Speaker 6: who are going through those things. Sorry, John, let's get

1981
01:47:41,280 --> 01:47:41,800
Speaker 6: back to John.

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01:47:42,000 --> 01:47:45,040
Speaker 1: It's all good, all good, All right, here we go.

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Speaker 1: I can call him the baby Oh true, true true.

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01:47:49,240 --> 01:47:51,040
Speaker 3: Sure everyone can experience.

1985
01:47:50,640 --> 01:47:55,960
Speaker 1: That was smart a company all John Santa Monica Swim

1986
01:47:56,040 --> 01:48:02,000
Speaker 1: Center is better than I'm now, But let me about

1987
01:48:02,000 --> 01:48:03,920
Speaker 1: that thing real quick. Yep, here's this.

1988
01:48:06,600 --> 01:48:07,639
Speaker 3: Oh we get another donu?

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01:48:10,640 --> 01:48:12,640
Speaker 1: Okay, ready, yeah you got you got the I got

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01:48:12,680 --> 01:48:20,120
Speaker 1: the number. Boom, Yeah, I almost everything. Which one? Did

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01:48:20,160 --> 01:48:20,479
Speaker 1: you read it?

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Speaker 7: So?

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Speaker 1: I did? Yeah, so if you read it, there we go.

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Speaker 1: Thanks Lurk and Poppy shout out again.

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Speaker 3: Loading is that Sam's I we're pulling it up.

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01:48:32,240 --> 01:48:35,240
Speaker 6: Socrates says, Cali California is a two party state.

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Speaker 3: Don't forget ah darn too. What if we okay, what

1998
01:48:39,720 --> 01:48:42,479
Speaker 3: if we call another state that's only a one party state?

1999
01:48:42,720 --> 01:48:45,880
Speaker 3: That account two party state means you have to like

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01:48:45,960 --> 01:48:46,759
Speaker 3: tell them your record.

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01:48:47,960 --> 01:48:53,960
Speaker 1: Oh sure, where you go?

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01:48:54,200 --> 01:48:56,600
Speaker 6: Hi, I'm recording for quality purposes?

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01:49:01,600 --> 01:49:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, true, Yeah. I found that Olivia Garcia is the

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01:49:16,240 --> 01:49:22,280
Speaker 1: most common name in California, according to chat gipt. So

2005
01:49:22,760 --> 01:49:25,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see if I can find an Olivia Garcia.

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01:49:26,520 --> 01:49:28,559
Speaker 1: I asked for the most common first name and then

2007
01:49:28,600 --> 01:49:31,840
Speaker 1: the most common last name, and then I put that together. Oh,

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01:49:32,080 --> 01:49:36,400
Speaker 1: Maria Garcia. That's what it was, Maria Garcia. Matt Hatter,

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01:49:36,560 --> 01:49:39,479
Speaker 1: thanks for the ten gifted memberships.

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01:49:40,200 --> 01:49:42,160
Speaker 6: Your mom says, it has to be like we have

2011
01:49:42,320 --> 01:49:43,599
Speaker 6: to be in a one party state.

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01:49:50,080 --> 01:50:09,080
Speaker 1: A golf, A golf, We're getting there. Mmm. My deepest

2013
01:50:09,160 --> 01:50:18,960
Speaker 1: childhood memory, Oh wow, I remember discovering one of my

2014
01:50:19,200 --> 01:50:24,799
Speaker 1: original favorite artists. I was listening to a jazz radio

2015
01:50:25,000 --> 01:50:28,800
Speaker 1: on Pandora and then this song from Common came on

2016
01:50:29,120 --> 01:50:33,479
Speaker 1: and I was like, that's interesting. I've never heard hip

2017
01:50:33,479 --> 01:50:36,000
Speaker 1: hop like this before in my life. It was the

2018
01:50:36,040 --> 01:50:39,439
Speaker 1: People by Common. I remember the specific song, and then

2019
01:50:39,479 --> 01:50:42,640
Speaker 1: I started going down a rabbit hole and researching, and

2020
01:50:43,160 --> 01:50:44,880
Speaker 1: that's how I fell in love with hip hop. We're

2021
01:50:44,880 --> 01:50:46,599
Speaker 1: good now, there you go. I feel like we should

2022
01:50:46,720 --> 01:50:47,599
Speaker 1: check and we're back.

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01:50:48,360 --> 01:50:51,400
Speaker 6: We should check this before we're okay.

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01:50:52,120 --> 01:50:58,000
Speaker 1: I started seven so ready.

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01:50:59,439 --> 01:51:01,880
Speaker 6: I think you say that you're recording for quality purpose.

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01:51:01,960 --> 01:51:03,840
Speaker 1: Maria Garcia Swim Center.

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Speaker 7: Swim Center is located on the Santa Monica College campus

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01:51:07,280 --> 01:51:10,240
Speaker 7: at two two two five sixteenth Street, nine zero four

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01:51:10,320 --> 01:51:14,200
Speaker 7: zero five. For hours of operation plus one. To make

2030
01:51:14,240 --> 01:51:17,840
Speaker 7: a reservation, receive information about Swim Center memberships, or to

2031
01:51:17,920 --> 01:51:21,719
Speaker 7: speak with a guest service assistant, press two the class register.

2032
01:51:21,880 --> 01:51:24,280
Speaker 7: Please note the swim Center will be open on an

2033
01:51:24,320 --> 01:51:28,599
Speaker 7: abbreviated schedule for Memorial Day on Monday, May twenty seventh

2034
01:51:28,920 --> 01:51:29,879
Speaker 7: from ten am.

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01:51:29,800 --> 01:51:30,519
Speaker 2: To two pm.

2036
01:51:30,800 --> 01:51:34,200
Speaker 7: Nice Reservations for lap swimming may be made online or

2037
01:51:34,280 --> 01:51:38,080
Speaker 7: over the phone. Please visit smgov dot net slash reserve

2038
01:51:38,439 --> 01:51:42,200
Speaker 7: to make your online reservation today using your swim Center membership.

2039
01:51:42,840 --> 01:51:45,320
Speaker 7: Phone reservations may only be made on the day of

2040
01:51:45,520 --> 01:51:48,599
Speaker 7: only between the hours of eight fifteen am and ten

2041
01:51:48,680 --> 01:51:52,519
Speaker 7: am Monday through Friday. Cancelations must be made twenty four

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01:51:52,560 --> 01:51:53,360
Speaker 7: hours in advance.

2043
01:51:53,439 --> 01:52:03,559
Speaker 1: To let me find Maria, No Maria, all that stuff?

2044
01:52:07,280 --> 01:52:08,160
Speaker 1: We were so close?

2045
01:52:08,400 --> 01:52:12,400
Speaker 6: Why didn't we do with Jeopardy? What if we did Jeopardy?

2046
01:52:16,360 --> 01:52:23,320
Speaker 7: Nona Swim Center. Swim Center is located on the Santa

2047
01:52:23,360 --> 01:52:26,680
Speaker 7: Monica College campus. Please note the swim Center will be

2048
01:52:26,840 --> 01:52:30,920
Speaker 7: open on an abbreviated schedule for Memorial Day on Monday.

2049
01:52:37,280 --> 01:52:37,880
Speaker 1: What are we listening?

2050
01:52:37,920 --> 01:52:47,759
Speaker 7: To make confervation today using your swimsoner remembrance resume Jeopardy.

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01:52:48,680 --> 01:52:51,880
Speaker 7: That's only between the hours of a m and ten

2052
01:52:51,960 --> 01:52:56,200
Speaker 7: am Mondays. Cancelations must be made twenty four hours in

2053
01:52:56,320 --> 01:52:59,960
Speaker 7: advance to avoid a deduction from your membership. CenTra can't

2054
01:53:00,040 --> 01:53:04,040
Speaker 7: relation via email to aquatics dot mail boy at Centemonica

2055
01:53:04,120 --> 01:53:09,280
Speaker 7: dot GOVO Guest Services assistant to be a good day

2056
01:53:09,320 --> 01:53:12,240
Speaker 7: on the line, and I guess will be right with.

2057
01:53:12,320 --> 01:53:17,560
Speaker 1: You Maria Garcia and they can hear me.

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01:53:21,240 --> 01:53:22,559
Speaker 8: Santa Monica Swim Center, How.

2059
01:53:22,479 --> 01:53:22,920
Speaker 2: Can I help you?

2060
01:53:23,160 --> 01:53:26,600
Speaker 1: Hello, I'm just recording for quality purposes. But I was

2061
01:53:26,680 --> 01:53:30,400
Speaker 1: looking to get in touch with Maria. But a swim appointment.

2062
01:53:32,560 --> 01:53:34,960
Speaker 8: Maria, there's no Maria that works here.

2063
01:53:35,960 --> 01:53:39,520
Speaker 1: I think it was it was Maria Garcia.

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01:53:41,160 --> 01:53:46,439
Speaker 8: Issue with a swim group. Okay, So the swim group people,

2065
01:53:46,560 --> 01:53:50,240
Speaker 8: they don't work here. They rent out lanes from us

2066
01:53:51,000 --> 01:53:53,160
Speaker 8: and they swim in the water, so they don't they're

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01:53:53,240 --> 01:53:54,360
Speaker 8: not they're not in the office.

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01:53:55,280 --> 01:53:58,000
Speaker 1: How could could I leave a message for Maria Garcia?

2069
01:53:59,760 --> 01:54:01,720
Speaker 8: No, if she's not one of our employees, there's no

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01:54:01,840 --> 01:54:03,800
Speaker 8: way for us to get her a message. We don't

2071
01:54:04,560 --> 01:54:08,200
Speaker 8: other than contracts, we don't really uh talk.

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01:54:08,080 --> 01:54:11,720
Speaker 2: To the to the coaches. Mm hmm.

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01:54:17,160 --> 01:54:20,040
Speaker 1: Sorry, so sorry about that. Okay, what's the best what's

2074
01:54:20,080 --> 01:54:21,400
Speaker 1: the best thing I could do to get in touch

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01:54:21,439 --> 01:54:21,840
Speaker 1: with Maria?

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01:54:23,240 --> 01:54:26,280
Speaker 8: So if you know the group that they're with, if it's.

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01:54:26,880 --> 01:54:33,800
Speaker 1: H try Grandpa, it's all good.

2078
01:54:35,600 --> 01:54:38,360
Speaker 8: I would I would contact the swim group that they

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01:54:38,480 --> 01:54:39,320
Speaker 8: are affiliated with.

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01:54:39,760 --> 01:54:43,480
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll contact the swim group. Thank you all. Right, Grandpa.

2081
01:54:43,840 --> 01:54:46,720
Speaker 1: That's enough out of you. That's enough out of you, Grandpa.

2082
01:54:47,240 --> 01:54:51,360
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I'll see you next time. Jeez

2083
01:54:52,720 --> 01:54:57,560
Speaker 1: mm hmm. I hated that we are not ever doing

2084
01:54:57,640 --> 01:54:58,080
Speaker 1: that again.

2085
01:54:58,720 --> 01:55:01,320
Speaker 3: Sophia left the room, and when you were screaming, I

2086
01:55:01,440 --> 01:55:03,440
Speaker 3: thought I was doing I thought I was doing okay.

2087
01:55:03,560 --> 01:55:05,360
Speaker 3: So I was doing great in the disc I'm like

2088
01:55:05,520 --> 01:55:07,800
Speaker 3: over here holding them back from the microphone.

2089
01:55:07,880 --> 01:55:08,760
Speaker 6: It was horrible.

2090
01:55:09,680 --> 01:55:12,400
Speaker 1: That was no, you did that wrong. It was horrible.

2091
01:55:12,640 --> 01:55:15,000
Speaker 1: I was so confused. There would have been nothing would

2092
01:55:15,000 --> 01:55:16,560
Speaker 1: have happened otherwise.

2093
01:55:19,480 --> 01:55:22,760
Speaker 6: That was horrible that that made me secondhand, that made

2094
01:55:22,760 --> 01:55:25,960
Speaker 6: me first hand cringe. I had to leave.

2095
01:55:27,440 --> 01:55:31,200
Speaker 1: We made it pretty long though, Seam. I'm surprised.

2096
01:55:31,640 --> 01:55:32,520
Speaker 6: Can we do jeopardy?

2097
01:55:33,440 --> 01:55:33,720
Speaker 2: Okay?

2098
01:55:34,280 --> 01:55:36,800
Speaker 3: Riley is so disappointed. We'll give him another one. We're

2099
01:55:36,840 --> 01:55:38,840
Speaker 3: not doing jeopardy. We're getting into another story.

2100
01:55:39,160 --> 01:55:43,920
Speaker 1: Oh snap, yeah, wow, I'm gonna do a.

2101
01:55:43,960 --> 01:55:45,360
Speaker 3: Poll if we should point call again.

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01:55:45,680 --> 01:55:47,680
Speaker 6: Never again. I didn't even want to do it the

2103
01:55:47,720 --> 01:55:48,360
Speaker 6: first time.

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01:55:48,520 --> 01:55:51,160
Speaker 3: Like for future times. All right, we got some doughnuts,

2105
01:55:51,320 --> 01:55:52,120
Speaker 3: Mad hatterr.

2106
01:55:52,200 --> 01:55:54,320
Speaker 1: Hey, matd hat Her. I don't know if I already

2107
01:55:54,320 --> 01:55:57,240
Speaker 1: read that, but Matt had her again. Thank you so much.

2108
01:55:57,560 --> 01:55:59,880
Speaker 1: Big shout out for the ten to Gifting memberships. We lips.

2109
01:56:00,000 --> 01:56:03,840
Speaker 1: We're loving seeing the Gifted membership. It's it's been pretty fire.

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01:56:04,760 --> 01:56:07,640
Speaker 1: Tony Q ten thanks for the one buck tip on

2111
01:56:07,760 --> 01:56:09,480
Speaker 1: the donal link. I'm going to be in La from

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01:56:09,680 --> 01:56:13,440
Speaker 1: the twenty six to the second. What restaurants would you

2113
01:56:13,520 --> 01:56:17,160
Speaker 1: recommend to Madrid to Madre there you go go to

2114
01:56:17,240 --> 01:56:20,880
Speaker 1: Portos if you're in If you're in the valley, go

2115
01:56:21,040 --> 01:56:22,160
Speaker 1: to Gondo style.

2116
01:56:22,360 --> 01:56:24,760
Speaker 6: Gorilla Tacos in downtown La is pretty good.

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01:56:24,840 --> 01:56:28,440
Speaker 3: Go to Gorilla Tacos in Koreatown for unlimited Korean barbecue.

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01:56:28,880 --> 01:56:32,480
Speaker 6: Whoa wait, Gorilla Tacos is an ingreand what I.

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01:56:32,600 --> 01:56:36,360
Speaker 3: Said, Gondam style it's another restaurant I know.

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01:56:37,880 --> 01:56:40,800
Speaker 1: Those of my suggestions. And then the Crow Queen, thanks

2121
01:56:40,840 --> 01:56:43,480
Speaker 1: for the three thirty three buck tip. I appreciate you

2122
01:56:43,640 --> 01:56:47,640
Speaker 1: helping me get through pilates instructor training. All the anatomy

2123
01:56:47,800 --> 01:56:51,440
Speaker 1: is so dry and daunting, but you guys make it bearable.

2124
01:56:51,480 --> 01:56:54,280
Speaker 1: The Crow Queen, we got you, got.

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01:56:54,200 --> 01:56:57,360
Speaker 6: You, Ali Fini. It was hard to be in the

2126
01:56:57,440 --> 01:57:02,640
Speaker 6: room Frankly mhm, but you know it's not hard to

2127
01:57:02,720 --> 01:57:03,320
Speaker 6: be in the room for.

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01:57:04,040 --> 01:57:09,040
Speaker 1: What this next story. Let's get it because it means you.

2129
01:57:09,160 --> 01:57:09,440
Speaker 2: It's you.

2130
01:57:09,600 --> 01:57:10,040
Speaker 1: Here we go.

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01:57:10,160 --> 01:57:11,800
Speaker 6: I read the Sad one oh

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Speaker 1: Five oh five Ists by