Speaker 1: Hey there are folks. A lady just calling herself F
Speaker 1: wrote to us asking for some relationship advice. She says,
Speaker 1: I am a successful black woman, so why aren't men
Speaker 1: into me? Robots initial thoughts, you're asking the wrong questions.
Speaker 1: My initial take, stop leading with your height and your weight,
Speaker 1: and welcome everybody to this edition of Amy and DJ
Speaker 1: based on the question that came into us in our
Speaker 1: weekly Yahoo column. And this was a hell of a
Speaker 1: question in a lot of ways robes and it was
Speaker 1: heartbreaking to some degree. But we'll let other people decide.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the initial thing.
Speaker 3: I remember you said right away when we saw the question,
Speaker 3: and we'll read the entire question for you, the listener.
Speaker 2: But your first response was I just want to give
Speaker 2: her a hug.
Speaker 3: And I think that's kind of where my head went first,
Speaker 3: because I get it. It's you're looking for a partner,
Speaker 3: looking for that love of your life, and you can't
Speaker 3: find him, and you're asking what is it about me
Speaker 3: that I can't find someone?
Speaker 2: And I my initial thought was it sounds so cheesy.
Speaker 3: But to love yourself, to date yourself, to actually put
Speaker 3: the work into finding who you are and what you want,
Speaker 3: not who wants me, who's looking at me? Why can't
Speaker 3: I attract someone? Find yourself attractive? And if you don't,
Speaker 3: if you aren't happy with who you are, or you
Speaker 3: don't feel good about who you are, then work on.
Speaker 2: That and work on friendships.
Speaker 3: I think that's such a great way as a social escape,
Speaker 3: instead of going out and hoping or wishing that you'd
Speaker 3: find or bump into that man and have that amazing
Speaker 3: meat cute that we all see in those ridiculous rom coms. Instead,
Speaker 3: I don't know, but that's just yeah, what they call
Speaker 3: them meat cute?
Speaker 1: Just figure that out about six months ago what that meant.
Speaker 3: And I think so many girls, and I'll be honest,
Speaker 3: have it in their head that that might happen to them,
Speaker 3: or that could happen, or maybe tonight's the.
Speaker 1: Night and read sure, the same cup at the Starbucks
Speaker 1: counter in your hands touched.
Speaker 3: Right, or you drop the popcorn and you both go
Speaker 3: down to get it and your and your hands touched
Speaker 3: and look up and say oh you hi? Yes, or
Speaker 3: even a car accident, a friendly thunder bender like these
Speaker 3: can all turn into romantic relationship.
Speaker 2: No they don't, yeah, exactly, that never happens.
Speaker 3: So I feel like, maybe if you can, if you
Speaker 3: maybe if you could focus on creating a really awesome
Speaker 3: friend group where you're just focused on enjoying yourself and
Speaker 3: others and not thinking about wanting or needing that romantic relationship.
Speaker 3: I know that's really easy to say and hard to do,
Speaker 3: but really to turn inward and to really what do
Speaker 3: I want to do, what fills me up, what brings
Speaker 3: me joy, and then go from there.
Speaker 1: I'm laughing and you're gonna know why. And because as
Speaker 1: you were saying all of that, I turned my head
Speaker 1: to my left. You turn yours to your right, and
Speaker 1: tell everybody what's paused on the.
Speaker 2: Screen right now, Love Island not just the.
Speaker 1: Show like just you just so happened to pause it
Speaker 1: where the logo is paused and we are looking at
Speaker 1: the screen and it says love Island. As we're you're
Speaker 1: telling people, yeah, I just love yourself, don't worry about it.
Speaker 3: Love Island USA. But see, that is like a fun
Speaker 3: it's a fun fantasy exactly. And I do think sometimes
Speaker 3: I can only speak for us girls. We get wrapped
Speaker 3: up in the idea of the relationship, the idea of
Speaker 3: the man, the idea of the marriage, the idea of
Speaker 3: the boyfriend, because we have so many things that we're
Speaker 3: watching and we think that's the way it should be.
Speaker 1: It is the way it should be, even sometimes it's
Speaker 1: not the way. Sometimes it's never that way. But yes,
Speaker 1: f is all she calls herself. But this is what
Speaker 1: she wrote to us Amy and Tej. I'm a forty
Speaker 1: two year old black female, one hundred and ninety five pounds,
Speaker 1: five foot eleven inches tall. I don't drink, I don't smoke.
Speaker 1: I have natural hair and a natural body type, educated
Speaker 1: and have a good career. I own my own home car,
Speaker 1: and play tennis, swim and do yoga. I travel and
Speaker 1: volunteer in my community. Yet now where I live in
Speaker 1: northern New Jersey, and previously in Pennsylvania, North Carolina, and
Speaker 1: in Westchester County, New York, it's the same. I'm ignored
Speaker 1: in the dating pool. I go to singles events and
Speaker 1: join groups to Northvale. I try dating apps, but no
Speaker 1: success there either. I choose not to be on social media.
Speaker 1: I don't have any close friends or family to make introductions.
Speaker 1: What else can I do? My question is robes. What
Speaker 1: is it that men are looking for? I'm interested in
Speaker 1: both of your perspectives, and so if you want to
Speaker 1: read our full perspectives that we it's a much longer
Speaker 1: explanation of our thoughts to her. It is on yahoo
Speaker 1: dot com. Just go to the life section and it'll
Speaker 1: be right there. But Robes, I got very hung up on,
Speaker 1: as you know, the fact that the first thing out
Speaker 1: of her mouth to describe herself was her height and
Speaker 1: her weight. I know that that's usually the last thing
Speaker 1: women want to lead with. The first thing is I
Speaker 1: am a one hundred and ninety five pounds is the
Speaker 1: first thing out of her mouth. So that already, I
Speaker 1: think puts us all anybody reading into a mindset of
Speaker 1: where her head is about what the dating situation is.
Speaker 1: She felt that was important information.
Speaker 3: She felt like that information might be the reason why
Speaker 3: she's having a hard time dating or finding a man,
Speaker 3: and so she's saying, hey, I'm putting it all out there.
Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you what I'm up against.
Speaker 3: So it kind of felt like and she was definitely
Speaker 3: went down the list of the things she has that
Speaker 3: she thinks are positive that are going for her, and
Speaker 3: she didn't say it was negative, but I think by
Speaker 3: putting it up first, it was maybe implied that it
Speaker 3: was okay?
Speaker 1: Can I ask that read her as in front of
Speaker 1: you there still yes? So just start reading about her
Speaker 1: in reverse? Right, start with I volunteer in my community,
Speaker 1: I travel. Why did we not go that direction about yoga?
Speaker 1: A good career body type, educated, home car tennis, and
Speaker 1: then end with right.
Speaker 3: She led with you, you're right, you know that's so
Speaker 3: interesting when you read it backwards. That's the way that
Speaker 3: she would have been putting, you know, all of the things.
Speaker 2: She loves about herself first, and not that she shouldn't
Speaker 2: or couldn't love all those.
Speaker 3: Other things about herself. But that is really interesting. And
Speaker 3: she asked a direct question, what is it that men
Speaker 3: are looking for?
Speaker 2: TJ. You're a man? What is it that men are
Speaker 2: looking for?
Speaker 1: I think that depends on truly where men are at
Speaker 1: certain periods of their own lives, not just sometimes a
Speaker 1: numbers game, just a twenty five year olds looking for
Speaker 1: this in the thirty eh. It depends on a twenty
Speaker 1: eight year old could be settled and comfortable, and what
Speaker 1: he wants and what he's looking for, and what's he
Speaker 1: wants to do, and where his career is headed and
Speaker 1: all kinds of it's just a matter of where there
Speaker 1: are in their lives at the time. But I don't
Speaker 1: know any point in anybody's life they want somebody putting on,
Speaker 1: putting on a good face, put pretending to be something
Speaker 1: that you actually think we want.
Speaker 2: That never works.
Speaker 1: It's gonna work because we're gonna see you in the morning, right,
Speaker 1: And that's that's just the way of putting. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: see you eventually, it's gonna come out. And then, oh god,
Speaker 1: we got a problem, because, as we always say, when
Speaker 1: you meet somebody, you're just meeting their representative. When you're
Speaker 1: on a date, just their rep you'll meet the person
Speaker 1: later on.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's hilarious.
Speaker 3: But but yes, of course, looks are important to a
Speaker 3: lot of men and women. But eventually, we know intellectually,
Speaker 3: looks fade.
Speaker 2: Everybody gets older.
Speaker 3: Nobody's gonna stay as hot as they are perhaps in
Speaker 3: that first interview with the person that you're potentially going
Speaker 3: to date. But what lasts I mean it's is confidence
Speaker 3: always sexy. I'm not talking over confidence, but true confidence
Speaker 3: is not always attractive and sexy.
Speaker 1: One hundred percent every single time. Confidence is one thing. Now,
Speaker 1: some guys aren't necessarily intimidated by confidence, They're intimidated by success,
Speaker 1: they're intimidated by alphas. That can be a case sometimes.
Speaker 1: But nobody wants a I say nobody. I'm just speaking generally,
Speaker 1: But any dude worth his salt is going to want
Speaker 1: a woman who has a confident way about her, who
Speaker 1: is not whimpering in some way, who is not needy
Speaker 1: in some way. Oh my goodness, yes, so walk in
Speaker 1: that My recommendation to her, walk embrace Walk in there
Speaker 1: with your five eleven hundred and ninety five pounds self.
Speaker 1: Nothing is wrong with you, You embrace it. If you're not,
Speaker 1: who the hell else is going to She's putting that
Speaker 1: out in the world, is what I was arguing. Ye
Speaker 1: stop if you got a problem with it. Of course
Speaker 1: somebody else is.
Speaker 3: It's so It's so true because she talks about going
Speaker 3: to singles events and joining groups to no avail. She
Speaker 3: says she's ignored and dating apps weren't successful either. But
Speaker 3: I feel like if she walked into those same rooms
Speaker 3: loving who she was, confident as hell, knowing that she
Speaker 3: has something of extreme value that she could offer another person.
Speaker 3: I think it might be the energy you walk into
Speaker 3: a room with, and she said she doesn't have any
Speaker 3: close friends or family to make introductions. I was curious
Speaker 3: if that means she actually does not have any close
Speaker 3: friends or family, or the one she has just don't
Speaker 3: know anyone.
Speaker 2: I didn't know which one she meant.
Speaker 3: By that, But if it is the former, if she
Speaker 3: doesn't have a lot of close friends, go find some,
Speaker 3: Go make some. Establish those relationships with folks who you
Speaker 3: are just friends and friendly with, and you can open
Speaker 3: up all sorts of new doors. I do believe that's
Speaker 3: oftentimes you even said this. The person who you might
Speaker 3: or could possibly have a relationship with, could be in
Speaker 3: your small circle, your ten blocks that you live, in,
Speaker 3: the grocery store you go to. It's a lot of
Speaker 3: times the energy you bring into a room.
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, if there a woman five foot eleven,
Speaker 1: one hundred ninety five pounds, it walks into a room, confidently,
Speaker 1: all of us are gonna turn our heads and take peak. Yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: and think what intrigued. Even if there's not some instant
Speaker 1: physical sexual attraction, even that you're still a presence in
Speaker 1: a room, own it be who you are. Knock yourself out.
Speaker 1: You'd be surprised if you give that off. The right
Speaker 1: dude is in the right radius, and it's going to
Speaker 1: give that back to you. She's chasing something that doesn't
Speaker 1: want her. If she stops doing that, it's going to
Speaker 1: start coming. And I don't that. They might be five eight,
Speaker 1: they might be six seven, I don't know, but they're coming,
Speaker 1: but they're coming. All right, we'll stay with us because Robes,
Speaker 1: you went through the comments with people riding back. I
Speaker 1: mean you're saying once again, it was a bunch of dudes.
Speaker 2: A lot of men, a lot of men.
Speaker 3: But I do have I do have well, well I
Speaker 3: can't tell some of them are gender neutral, but I
Speaker 3: do have at least one woman who has weighed in.
Speaker 1: Hey, she probably makes more sense than the rest of them.
Speaker 3: Uh, you know what, the menor I'm really impressed they
Speaker 3: are giving their honest assessments of what they think dudes
Speaker 3: are like out there. So it's been the comments were,
Speaker 3: as always very interesting.
Speaker 1: All right, stay here, I can't wait to hear.
Speaker 3: Welcome back everyone to this edition of Amy and TJ.
Speaker 3: This is the Ask Amy and TJ podcast, where we
Speaker 3: go a little deeper about our weekly Yahoo relationship advice
Speaker 3: at Colin and every week we get a new question.
Speaker 3: This week's question comes to us from f and she
Speaker 3: is asking what men are looking for. She is single,
Speaker 3: she's forty two years old. She gave us her height,
Speaker 3: she gave us her weight, she told us all the
Speaker 3: things she's great at, and yet still she says she
Speaker 3: cannot find a man and she wanted some advice. What
Speaker 3: are men looking for? That was her question to us,
Speaker 3: And we had several people write in, and among them.
Speaker 2: Finally a woman.
Speaker 3: We've been laughing because we have so many men writing
Speaker 3: in the comment section, and we love it. Men, keep
Speaker 3: on writing your comments, but women, we implore you to
Speaker 3: as well, because it's been fun to read them all.
Speaker 3: But our first comment comes from Alana.
Speaker 2: Do you see it there? Tj uh?
Speaker 1: Let me get it in front of me here. Okay, hell,
Speaker 1: you wanted me to. You saw you wanted me to
Speaker 1: read it. Y'all gonna understand why she wanted me to
Speaker 1: read it now? All right, Alana says Chip. The good
Speaker 1: ones are gone brainwashed to believe that everything that doesn't
Speaker 1: look like them is better. Unfortunately, you are a casualty
Speaker 1: of that societal nonsensical trap. Whereas art has imitated life,
Speaker 1: I'm in your same area, same issue. Try the Deep
Speaker 1: South or abroad.
Speaker 2: What do you think about that that?
Speaker 3: Maybe it might be the area is that she lives in.
Speaker 3: It might be where she is in the world.
Speaker 1: New Jersey, Pennsylvania, North Carolina, west Chester County.
Speaker 3: The northeast East Coast might have a slightly different I mean, look,
Speaker 3: we watch these shows ninety day Fiance and what do
Speaker 3: they always say to their relative who's now found love
Speaker 3: in some other country. Couldn't just find a nice girl
Speaker 3: or guy here at home?
Speaker 2: Why'd you have to go across the world?
Speaker 3: But sometimes people really feel like that is the only
Speaker 3: way to find someone who isn't stuck in some certain
Speaker 3: way of thinking about what they think they want or
Speaker 3: what this area or this society makes them think they want.
Speaker 1: Change her dating pool, she should change her options. Now.
Speaker 1: I didn't think about that because I yes, there are
Speaker 1: certain folks and certain parts of the country who are
Speaker 1: used to and don't mind at all. Yes, a woman
Speaker 1: with a certain height and girth to her.
Speaker 3: Yes, all that's true, and there are different That makes
Speaker 3: total sense. And she's saying, hey, I'm I'm do you
Speaker 3: believe the good ones are all gone?
Speaker 1: DJ of course not.
Speaker 2: I don't either. I've never believed that.
Speaker 1: Hell, some of the bad ones are gone, yes.
Speaker 3: So I I you know what, it's never a bad
Speaker 3: I don't think it's ever a bad thing to expand
Speaker 3: the dating pool that you're looking in.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's bad advice at all.
Speaker 3: All Right, So this one comes to us from J.
Speaker 3: And Jay doesn't necessarily have a gender attached to, so
Speaker 3: I can't say if it's a him or her.
Speaker 2: It's just the letter J. But Jay, in the.
Speaker 3: Comments section, wrote this, two hundred pounds is a bit
Speaker 3: of a problem. Looks do matter, not completely, but they
Speaker 3: do matter.
Speaker 1: Okay, a bit of a problem. What does that mean?
Speaker 3: I believe maybe what he's saying is that it might
Speaker 3: limit people who would be attracted to her. Some people
Speaker 3: want someone who is of a certain height or a
Speaker 3: certain weight, and if you weigh over a certain much
Speaker 3: they a certain point they may not consider you attractive.
Speaker 1: Okay. I hate like Okay, And again she put it
Speaker 1: out there, but I hate the idea that like weight
Speaker 1: is it so therefore that there's a certain weight involved.
Speaker 1: And it was almost like she's eliminated from being a
Speaker 1: part of an attractive pool. Of people.
Speaker 3: I would like to believe that there are enough people
Speaker 3: who don't care about that, there are enough people who
Speaker 3: understand that everybody looks different, is different, and.
Speaker 2: There are enough people out there who are all different.
Speaker 3: Shapes of sizes that you can find people you're attracted to.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Oh my god, Alana. She's from the
Speaker 1: rugby player US rugby mayor mayr.
Speaker 2: I am not going to get this one.
Speaker 1: Alana Mayer. You know who I'm talking about.
Speaker 2: No, I don't. Ah.
Speaker 1: She was a super star for USA, medaled in USA rugby.
Speaker 1: Alana's he's he's googling for it, and I apologize that
Speaker 1: I am Meyer Meyer.
Speaker 2: Alanna Meyer, Okay.
Speaker 1: Yes, you don't want to talk. You see your face now?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Height and weight Alana Meyer height. I have to find
Speaker 3: that now. I'm gonna have to google that.
Speaker 1: I remember if she's five ten around one hundred and
Speaker 1: ninety pounds.
Speaker 2: Five ten, one hundred and ninety eight pounds. Wow, that
Speaker 2: was good. Five to ten weight, one hundred and ninety
Speaker 2: eight pounds.
Speaker 1: She's an Olympic medallist, she's an athlete, she's a stud,
Speaker 1: she's a star. She's feminine, she's beautiful. She's strong, she's
Speaker 1: all those things right, and she is the almost exact
Speaker 1: same height.
Speaker 2: And wow, you nailed is that right? Yeah? I mean
Speaker 2: almost to a tee.
Speaker 1: But you remember how much she was hailed and talked
Speaker 1: about by talking about her body, by embracing her body,
Speaker 1: and how strong you remember all that?
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, it's all coming back to me now and
Speaker 3: the reality is yes, and enough women embrace that, lean
Speaker 3: into it, own it, walk and strut down the road
Speaker 3: carrying all of that gorgeousness.
Speaker 2: It's a game changer.
Speaker 3: I really do think how you feel about yourself has
Speaker 3: a huge impact on how.
Speaker 2: Other people feel about you, like no question.
Speaker 3: So, yes, that comment is tough, and I know that
Speaker 3: there may be some truth to that For some folks
Speaker 3: that it could be limiting and it's tough to see that.
Speaker 3: You know, she did put it out there and then
Speaker 3: people did write about it. But I guess Jay is
Speaker 3: trying to be honest from his perspective or her perspective.
Speaker 1: Was this from Valentino who wrote it? Was this?
Speaker 3: Uh? Valentino said this? This is what Valentino wanted to
Speaker 3: tell or impart too. F the law of probability needs
Speaker 3: to go into effect. Get more out there and do
Speaker 3: other things. Go to different states or countries and just
Speaker 3: engage with people, go to bookstores and gyms, and let
Speaker 3: the natural course of basic conversation happen. By chance, the
Speaker 3: universal law makes it happen.
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that.
Speaker 2: I am too okay with that. It's that whole What
Speaker 2: do they say about luck.
Speaker 3: It's when opportunity meets the right time in the right place.
Speaker 3: So you have to keep putting yourself out enough times
Speaker 3: for those things to intersect.
Speaker 2: They don't just happen.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's actually really good advice.
Speaker 3: And so that's really the second person who has suggested
Speaker 3: that maybe hey, you got to expand the dating pool.
Speaker 3: Maybe where you are, if it's a smaller town or
Speaker 3: a smaller area, or a smaller mindset, that maybe you
Speaker 3: do need to go out and go to other countries
Speaker 3: and travel abroad and see what else is out there.
Speaker 1: But there's also opportunity and the produce section at the
Speaker 1: grocery store. It's a matter of just being open. You
Speaker 1: and I have done this several times, like just test
Speaker 1: it ourselves, just being aware and open to something, and
Speaker 1: next thing, you know, on every other block, we're seeing
Speaker 1: that thing that we wouldn't have seen before because we
Speaker 1: would just open to something if he just opened to it.
Speaker 1: There's opportunity all over the place.
Speaker 2: Water Walker is the last Yeah, so again, manner of
Speaker 2: a woman. What do you think, water walker? I'm gonna
Speaker 2: think anyone who thinks they can walk on water is
Speaker 2: definitely to do.
Speaker 1: We will own.
Speaker 2: That, you know.
Speaker 3: And also, like we should say, these could be gender
Speaker 3: neutral folks, Like we're actually not trying to define. I'm
Speaker 3: just trying to get a sense of where some of
Speaker 3: this perspective is coming from male energy or females. That's
Speaker 3: a man. Yeah, that's hilarious, Like, yeah, Jesus mindset of course,
Speaker 3: why did I even wonders?
Speaker 2: So funny?
Speaker 1: Okay, so let me tell us what he said.
Speaker 2: He said, better stop worrying about looks.
Speaker 3: Tall, dark, and handsome means nothing if they don't have
Speaker 3: a good, loving heart. Many great men are out there
Speaker 3: looking for love but get passed over because of women's
Speaker 3: unrealistic expectations of what they consider the perfect man.
Speaker 1: Okay, obviously that's a dude.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he obviously had some experiences. He felt like he
Speaker 3: too was looked over or passed over.
Speaker 1: He hand me up to a point, passed over because
Speaker 1: of women's unrealistic expectations of what they consider to be
Speaker 1: the perfect man. Good guys are being passed over because
Speaker 1: of women's expectation.
Speaker 3: We've certainly heard that from for since the beginning of time,
Speaker 3: that women say they want the good guy and the
Speaker 3: sweet guy and the loving guy, but then they always
Speaker 3: go for the bad boy, the one who's breaking their hearts,
Speaker 3: the one that strings them along.
Speaker 1: Like so, this is something else, women's unrealistic expectations of
Speaker 1: what they consider the perfect man. What is that? I think,
Speaker 1: what unrealistic expectations.
Speaker 2: Let's go back to the rom com conversation.
Speaker 3: I think I think women, I will totally be honest
Speaker 3: with you.
Speaker 1: You want.
Speaker 3: You want a man who's funny and charming, who's sexy
Speaker 3: as hell, but who also is empathetic and caring and
Speaker 3: knows when to comfort you and then at the end
Speaker 3: of the night makes you feel safe and loved, And
Speaker 3: if you get mad at him and act unfairly, he'll
Speaker 3: chase after you and tell you I love you.
Speaker 2: Come back to me.
Speaker 1: Oh, I think.
Speaker 2: I think that's what water Walker is referring to.
Speaker 1: I could have never come up with that Oh, that.
Speaker 2: Was really easy for me. I could even go into
Speaker 2: more dtail to.
Speaker 1: Ask a man, what do you think a woman's perfect
Speaker 1: guy is?
Speaker 2: We will never.
Speaker 1: Come up with that.
Speaker 2: That's because you don't watch mom come.
Speaker 1: That was good. Okay, that was I'm gonna go back
Speaker 1: and listen to this episode because that was incredible.
Speaker 3: You know what, though, a couple of other men I
Speaker 3: saw just quick ones. You're like crying, you need to
Speaker 3: wipe tears from your eyes. Some of the other men
Speaker 3: who wrote into the comment section were also complaining that
Speaker 3: they're too short, that it's really hard for a short
Speaker 3: man to to find a woman, and.
Speaker 2: So, you know, it's it's I think it may be
Speaker 2: what we were hearing. What were what we were hearing?
Speaker 3: Excuse me from f struck a chord with a lot
Speaker 3: of folks who also feel similarly for different reasons. You know, men,
Speaker 3: height is a big issue, and wait's always a big
Speaker 3: issue for just about everybody. And so when people feel
Speaker 3: like that's holding them back or what could they do
Speaker 3: despite some of the physical attributes they were born with,
Speaker 3: or that they actually don't mind about themselves but feel
Speaker 3: like somehow create a harder.
Speaker 2: Or more difficult time for them to date.
Speaker 3: So this is I think this is an interesting conversation
Speaker 3: and one that I think a lot of people want
Speaker 3: to have and maybe don't know who to ask.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad that really it takes. I mean, I
Speaker 1: know it is anonymity to f but still to put
Speaker 1: yourself out there and to write that down and descend
Speaker 1: it in took a level of bravery. So we appreciate
Speaker 1: you writing into us, folks. Anytime you can do the
Speaker 1: same again. It's a Yahoo dot com in the life section,
Speaker 1: you'll see us right there. But for now, I'm TJ. Holmes.
Speaker 1: Have of my partner in your robot. We'll talk to Alsine.
Speaker 3: M m m