1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: Hello the Internet, and welcome to this episode of the 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: Weekly Zeitgeist. Uh These are some of our favorite segments 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: from this week, all edited together into one NonStop infotainment 4 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: laugh stravaganza. Uh yeah. So, without further ado, here is 5 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: the Weekly Zeitgeist. Miles. We are thrilled to be joined 6 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: by a patient and brilliant filmmaker, writer, actor, comedian podcaster 7 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: who co founded with the A V Club called one 8 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: of the best podcast networks out there, Small Beans where 9 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: you can find he and a bunch of the most 10 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: talented people we worked with at Cracked hosting shows. He's 11 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: the hosting creator of One Upsmanship on this very network. 12 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: It's the brilliant and talented Michael Swam. Hey gangs, so 13 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: great to be here again. I am Michael swam A 14 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: k A. I remember when, I remember when, I remember 15 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: when I lost my my cool. There's something special about 16 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:13,479 Speaker 1: that's way. That's after several months of singing lessons, still 17 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: not good. But I just joined TikTok and I was 18 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: confronted with that run that's the new running up that hill? 19 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: Yeah wait it did they discover you? You're supposed to 20 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 1: stand have your fingers on the pulse guys. Yeah, no, no, no, no, 21 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: there's this person didn't a specifically incredible run of I 22 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: Lost my my and it likes that. But it's again, 23 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: it's she really did it, and everyone's getting impressed. That's all. 24 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: I got three c words for you. First, Cosmic Crisp, 25 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: the brand new apple. That's the best apple out there, 26 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: Cosmic Crisp. Cosmic Crisp was killing it. In fact, our 27 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: local grocery store is now constantly out of the Cosmic Crisp. 28 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: And it says there's a big sticker on it. You know, 29 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: this is how it got me. That says taste candy, 30 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: and boy, it sure does. I don't know what kind 31 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: of genetic monkey shines they got up to, Like, I'm 32 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 1: sure it's not healthy, but it's a great apple. And 33 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: then compote. You left that compote. There's Jelly, there's deal, 34 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: there's mash muddle um, but I'm a fan of the 35 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: compote like that. There's a crayon orange compote from Trader Joe's. 36 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: That's excellent. So what is it? What's the difference between 37 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: a compote jelly to log and relish. Well, I watch 38 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: a lot of competitive reality chef game shows, so I've 39 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: learned that very little. Like I've learned when you present 40 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: the dish. Part of it is bullshitting like you used 41 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: to on high school essays. Like I really think part 42 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: of it is being very good at calling it a 43 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: deal and staying up with the new trendy lingo like 44 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: a puree. And there's something else. I forget. You're like 45 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: it's and uh, I think it's just words. But I 46 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: would say there are broad categories, and they usually refer 47 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: to like the viscosity. Miles had it right. It's the 48 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: you see the meat of the nut or the chunk 49 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: of the meat or whatever, but to me implies multiple 50 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: it's cranberry and you've got some orange in there. Is 51 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: when you when you make a jelly, do you also 52 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 1: like boil it in like sugar water. I do know. 53 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: Jelly is like when like the can like solid and 54 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: then jam is when there's still yeah yeah. From my 55 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: time of watching those cooking shows too, I think it's 56 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: like when you have when you're like cooking the whole 57 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:43,119 Speaker 1: fruits down in like sweet water, and then from there 58 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: like you can. I don't know who gives a ship 59 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: this is. This is a terrible cooking short into the 60 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: Oxford English Dictionary. It's it has to be cooked in 61 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: syrup to be a compount. That's why tastes like candy. Yeah, exactly. 62 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: I think we're I think we're seeing a trend here. Yeah. 63 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: I just like that marketing now for fruit is like, maya, 64 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: fuck the fruit part of it. This ship tastes like 65 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: candy and it was great. Yeah. That Cosmic Crisp such 66 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: a such a choice with the name. I love it. Yeah. 67 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: The little circular sticker on it is a little galaxy, 68 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: purple galaxy. It's very hype for an apple. I guess 69 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: that's the only way cosmic. Yeah. It also like suggests 70 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: some like psychedelia mixed in there. I mean they have 71 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: a very specific vibe. Yeah, it's not. It's a cross 72 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: between the enterprise Apple and the Honey Crisp. So I 73 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:37,919 Speaker 1: think the enterprise is what's giving you the cosmic Is 74 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: that really? Is that right? Yeah? Yeah, Cosmic Crisp dot 75 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: com like the fucking lobbying site of the fruit itself. Wow. 76 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 1: I like to stand there at the Apple Iisle like 77 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: it's a weed dispensary and just you know, talk up 78 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 1: and down the various strains this apple gives me a 79 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: real body. I don't know what. Yeah, I truly can 80 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 1: talk to the The jazz really had a strong opening 81 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: and then hasn't really held on as much as I 82 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,919 Speaker 1: wanted used to be. In my stand by well you 83 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 1: funk with a gallon, I do, they don't retain their 84 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: crispness as quit as much as the Honey Crisp. Like 85 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: I I have had some mealy Gala before, whereas Honey 86 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: Crisp are like, you know, for a hundred you know, 87 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 1: they're they're almost always crispy, yeah, whereas Gala it's a 88 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: little bit more of a crap shoot. They're almost they're 89 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: almost always really good though. So I'm in a purple 90 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 1: train wreck apples right now? What's that? It's just a 91 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: wead strange. Yeah, I know, as you're like, wait, hold on, no, no, 92 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: what because I got my ears perked up, I was like, well, 93 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: hold on, well, you know, you smoked through a hollowed 94 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: at Apple. But people underestimate how important what kind of 95 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: apple and then go through and then you eat it 96 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:53,239 Speaker 1: after if you're a real fucking loser like we wouldn't. 97 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: I do feel like not Honey Crisp. Granny Smith would 98 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: be because it feels like it's the densest, hardest apple 99 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: with Granny Smith, the best apple to smoke out of, 100 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: and it already kind of that flavor I find is 101 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: adjacent to what lawn trimmings smell like. Anyway. Yeah, the 102 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: grass grass synergy going on? Interesting. Yeah you don't want 103 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 1: to Yeah, just it feels like a utility fruit, you 104 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yeah, it's not a great apple, 105 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: great pie apple, great pipe, great pipe, terrible fruit. Rowland 106 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: got to ask you, our guests, what is something from 107 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: your search history that is reveal something about who you are, 108 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 1: what you're currently searching. I guess you know. I actually 109 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: look back. I was like, what who am I? What 110 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: kind of town from my star? And what quickly was 111 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: revealed to me is that I have been checking the 112 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: snow report a whole. I live in Vermont, so I've 113 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: been checking the snow report a lot the past few 114 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: days because there's a great cross country ski place like 115 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: half an hour away from me, and like wind Or 116 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 1: just hit Vermont har out of nowhere, like a week ago. 117 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: Like I got back from a trip and there was 118 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 1: snow on the ground. I was like, I'm not ready. 119 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: But then after like, you know, a short batch of depression. 120 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: I was like, but snow. So then I started checking 121 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: ski report and uh yeah with this one ski place 122 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: just opened. So that's my Grener salvation. How's Stow looking 123 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: And they're they're open for sure down the down hell 124 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: places like stuff. They're they're going, yeah, gets to know that. 125 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying the one ski place I know him from. 126 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: You got in that area, so like I went there 127 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: once and I was like, yeah, don't know about Stoke, 128 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: but wait, so did you grow up in New England? Yeah? 129 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 1: I did invert. Wow. Okay, so that's very like the 130 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: way you just talk about It's like, yeah, the winner comes. 131 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: I'm from the San Fernando Valley in l A, where 132 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: we have no seasons. So whenever I hear like or 133 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: even you Joel or like Justin talked about Chicago and 134 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: like winter, I'm like, wow, your coat, they don't get 135 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: hot right when you're walking around. You don't get hot 136 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: in your jacket. You gotta take it off in the 137 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 1: little street. Cool cool, cool, sol. I love I love 138 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: hearing people be like actually, a twenty degrees can be 139 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: like a curry sand a blessing, you know, because it's 140 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: twenty degrees like the cold you can stand like it's 141 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: it's definitely cold. It's also coold. I want to die, 142 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 1: you know. But anything below that suddenly you're like, it's 143 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: okay if my body shuts down. We shouldn't have to 144 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: be faced with this level of brisk air hitting my skin. 145 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: Twenty degrees. Twenty degrees sounds like certain death for me. 146 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: But what ran where are you at? What's what's your 147 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: temperature scale? Like as a as a vermonter. Yeah, is 148 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: kind of like that magic tap where like if you're 149 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 1: out doing stuff in it, exercising, you're pretty warm, and 150 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:42,439 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, it's not so bad. Once it gets 151 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 1: down to the teens. Like even if you're you know, 152 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 1: working pretty hard, it's pretty freaking cold, right at all. 153 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: If you haven't done a winter before, remember to pop 154 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,559 Speaker 1: out your piercings before you go into the cold. My 155 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: roommate's head learned that the hard way. Also from California. Yes, 156 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: you're the metal will freeze. You're oh wow, yeah, dude, 157 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: we're just so laid back in California, man, Like, what 158 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: are you talking about? They're like two hoodies is like 159 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: a coat, right, No, yo, I even know that No. 160 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 1: Two hoodies is not. But yeah, and don't lick a 161 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: metal ladder. I did that once when I was a kid. Yeah. 162 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: Look that's California math for you, Rowan. What is something 163 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: you think is overrated? All right? So I'm gonna get 164 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: myself into trouble with this one. All right, go ahead. 165 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: I've started to think you and you're not like, so, 166 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a professional food writer. Right. I do 167 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,719 Speaker 1: a lot of tasting like closely, like thinking about oh 168 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: does this go with this? And so on. I'm starting 169 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 1: to think red wine is overrated and that. Yeah, go on, 170 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 1: tell me why. I mean, Like, admittedly, Rowan, I I know, 171 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,719 Speaker 1: I know, I know about wine, but I'm not like 172 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: my palette isn't that discerning? Like I know different varietals, 173 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: but I'm not out here. Look, most of the time 174 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, is it screw top or cork? Yeah? But 175 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: what what do you? What? Tell me? Like walk me 176 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: through so I can I can say something cool at 177 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving be like, oh, ye'll drink a red wine? Yeah? 178 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: I go for it, and I think you should. So. Yeah, 179 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 1: like red wines kind of considered like the ultimate drink, right, 180 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 1: It's really concentrated, intense flavor, a lot going on, and 181 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: you know, white wines kind of kind of considered, like 182 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: you know, for light weight. It's a little bit. Oh 183 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: like for like if you funk with wine, like you 184 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 1: want the reds because like there's so much you know, white, 185 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:29,959 Speaker 1: it's fine, but then you know, real flavor, you're going 186 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: for red. And like the really really really expensive bottles 187 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: are all red, like the super you know, like the 188 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: two thousand dollar bottles are all red. Oh yeah, that's true. 189 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: You never see someone like and here's my six thousand 190 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: dollar rose like exactly exactly, yeah, like Rose twenty bucks. 191 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: It's maxed out, right, So red wines supposed to be 192 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 1: super great. But like you know, like I do all 193 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: I spell all the time, like tasting stuff, like drinking 194 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: different things with different foods, and I'm just starting to think, like, man, 195 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: this red wine is kind of like overdone. It's like 196 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 1: some teaching taken the skins out before it got so red. 197 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 1: That feeling a flaw and like you know, beer and 198 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 1: white one and other things I think go better with food. 199 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: But that's a very controversial thing to say. Yeah, I 200 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: mean foodie world. Yeah, I'm sure because everyone's like, you 201 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:19,239 Speaker 1: gotta like red meat, you gotta have red wine exactly, 202 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: And I'm always like, all right, and I tried to 203 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: do that where people like, no, it really enhances the flavor. 204 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:25,839 Speaker 1: But I'm the kind of person who does not drink 205 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 1: liquids when they eat, Like I don't. I'm like an 206 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: end of the meal drinker, like nothing, like not even want, 207 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: I don't sit, I don't wash it down. I'm like, 208 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 1: I'm focused on the meal. That's just how That's how 209 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 1: I've gotten down since the beginning of times. But so 210 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: like when people always like you gotta try that with this, 211 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: I'm always like okay, and I'm like and then after like, 212 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: have this red one, I'm like, okay, Yeah, I mean 213 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: it's not like doesn't put a terrible taste in my mouth, 214 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 1: But that's also not like necessarily the culinary experience I 215 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: see all the time. Yeah, I'm a rose girl, and 216 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 1: if they offered a six dollar bottle of rose, I 217 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:58,959 Speaker 1: would be the kind of person to buy it and 218 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: be like, what's happened? Is it gold? It right? I 219 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: wonder if that's why like everybody drinks natural wines and 220 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: ship now, like I feel like that's become like a 221 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 1: real popular thing now, less so than like, you know, 222 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 1: drinking a full bodied Chianti or something. Is everyone's like, oh, 223 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: skin contact, natural wines, that's what I always see. Yeah, 224 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 1: for sure, for sure, that's that's happening. And it's sort 225 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 1: of it's starting to like undercut this whole, like this 226 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: myth that red wine the good red ones? Are these 227 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: super concentrated ones? Yeah? Good, I'm glad. I'm glad you 228 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: said that wrong, because whenever I tast those, I'm bro 229 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 1: what then it's hard for me to be like, oh, 230 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: my goodness, you're right. Is this were these like Spanish 231 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 1: oak catasis? Like I can't There's no way I could 232 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: do that just getting a beer. Yeah. At that point, 233 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, thank you so much, But I don't know 234 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: if I can pretend along with everyone like this. What 235 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: is something you think is overrated? It? Let's be honest. 236 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: Twitter m hm, oh go on, wow, hit him with it, Stephen, 237 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:11,079 Speaker 1: what's going on over there? Oh you want to hear 238 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: some realty? Yeah, between you and me and the wall. Uh, 239 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: it's not looking so great there, watched. By the time 240 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: this comes out, you might have actually killed I know, 241 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: like you've really, you're really flying close to the sun 242 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 1: right now. Man, y'all, if this comes out Monday and 243 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: you're getting the whale ship on your on your browser phone, Stephen, 244 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,680 Speaker 1: is there like a po box that can send you 245 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: veiled threats not just a tweety Okay, Okay, there you go. Yeah? 246 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: Are you? Are you looking at the like, how are 247 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: you experiencing the end of Twitter? Or like the Twitter 248 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: freakouts that are happening on the platform. You're just like watching? 249 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: Are you? Do you feel compelled to say things? Because 250 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 1: when I look at Twitter, it reminds me of like 251 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 1: having senior itis in high school, where I'm like, yeah, man, 252 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 1: a lot of these people are getting like sappy about 253 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 1: this ship. I'm ready to go, you know, and I'm 254 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,199 Speaker 1: high every day in class and because I don't give 255 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: a funk if the teacher's catch me this time. But 256 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: I do feel like it is sad though, because I'm like, well, 257 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 1: I don't want it to go away, but also I 258 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 1: don't have the energy to express any of it. Like 259 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 1: my Twitter feed is most times something happens, it is 260 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:27,119 Speaker 1: all just comedians doing their jokes about it and anything 261 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: I could possibly think of to say funny somebody on 262 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: the East coast A yeah, yeah, I'm like that would 263 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: have been goods grolling down like, oh that's funny. Yeah, 264 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: I mean that's not funny. One thought I had was like, 265 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 1: if it's really going down, just change my avatar and 266 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: just go mask off a o L chat room troll 267 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: like on ignorant people like when I used to have 268 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: that kind of energy. But I was like, I don't. 269 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 1: I don't need a dabble in that. But I just 270 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 1: see so I'm an old man. I'm an old man 271 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: now I've learned. You know, it's not it's not worth 272 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: what what what would you do with your I don't 273 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 1: even know, man, I don't know. Like I look at 274 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: my drafts and ship and I'm like wow, wow, yeah, 275 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: times I've withheld like fucking atomic blasts on on threads 276 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: and ship. But it's like, again, I think it's mostly 277 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 1: to do with the fact that the dangerous part for 278 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: me was getting too caught up in like it being 279 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 1: uh purely like for my ego expression on Twitter, and 280 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I like larking. I'll do that 281 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 1: healthier for me. Very larking. Yeah, very Larkin. What is 282 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 1: something you think is underrating scheduling sex. Speaking of freshing 283 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 1: middle age, Um, I think we Yeah, my partner and 284 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: I didn't have sex for some length of time that 285 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: I guess I'm not even willing to disclose because that's 286 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: so long. And we were like you also get in 287 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: your head equating it too expectations like oh no does 288 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 1: that and yeah, everything else in the relationship was like ideal. 289 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 1: It's like, what does that mean? Is the spark dead 290 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: or whatever we're supposed to be or have or do, 291 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: And we came to a place where no, it's like, uh, 292 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: that first initial it for us, it was like two 293 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: to three years, but that phase where sex just organically 294 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: happens constantly, always abates and then there's no shame. And like, 295 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 1: I'm very very busy doing a lot of ship, So 296 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: I want to tell people out there. I want to 297 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: spread the message that scheduled sex to keep the intimacy 298 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: connection there, super useful tool and don't get hung up 299 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: about like what does it mean that it's scheduled. So, 300 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 1: I mean, we're currently in disagreement about this a little bit. 301 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: So we've been doing phenomenally schedule precision. Second rain's always 302 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 1: running out time for some time now has been going great. 303 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 1: My partner last night was like it, that is good. 304 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: It's a useful tool. I think we should also start 305 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: mixing in sometimes what if it's a surprise or spontaneous. 306 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: And my first impulse, I gotta say it was I 307 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:06,479 Speaker 1: was like, no, like forty five minutes of build, twelve 308 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 1: minutes of like core work sixty seconds and two minutes 309 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: of refractory period the drill. I am super routine based 310 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 1: and I love it now. But we're so now we're 311 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 1: gonna try and be spontaneous again too. Have you ever 312 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 1: tried to be spontaneous? Like it's it's almost it doesn't 313 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,479 Speaker 1: work like that. Yeah, but look, I like I like 314 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 1: fun protocol, protocol, you know what I mean like it. 315 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 1: I think it's totally something that like even yeah, me 316 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 1: and being a long term relationship, like you always think 317 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: about those things. You're like, whoa, what the momentum of 318 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: like being younger and hornier with less responsibility, like is 319 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 1: something wrong with us? And you're like no, life is evolving. 320 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: And it's also about like you know, when you're in 321 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,679 Speaker 1: a relationship that's like meant to last. You look at 322 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: those things and you navigate them together, and you come 323 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: up with things to address them. So yeah, rather than 324 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: feeling guilty, it's like, no, you're trying to optimize things, 325 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 1: you know, shout a yeah for sure. Again, it's the 326 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:08,439 Speaker 1: hung up on plans I made, Like somewhere in the 327 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: midst of puberty, when I was constantly horny, I heard 328 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: people older than me saying that actually wears off eventually 329 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 1: life gets in the way, like, but it's fine, And 330 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 1: I thought, no, it's not fine. In my relationship, we 331 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 1: will bone every day forever because that's how we'll know 332 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 1: what's so in love more than those people. But that's 333 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:29,120 Speaker 1: a plan I made when I was horny, like sixteen 334 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: year old boy, why would that be a viable plan 335 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,200 Speaker 1: in your mid thirties? It makes sense. A lot of 336 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: couples therapists also like echo this is a great tool 337 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 1: to have. So if you're if you feel like because 338 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:45,200 Speaker 1: I also think that first of all, like the more 339 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 1: you know someone, the more you're like deep into adult life, 340 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 1: spending a lot of time, like you know, doing bills 341 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: and planning your lives together. It's an I don't know, 342 00:18:55,160 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: it's just like it becomes the momentum towards like that conversation. Shi, 343 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 1: it can be like awkward to like skip from this 344 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: like very you know, normal mundane to asking to have sex, 345 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: and then I feel like it can be a also 346 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: an awkward conversation to ask to plan it, but like 347 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: it's definitely worth it, and also if you need help 348 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 1: asking to plan it, like, there are plenty of resources 349 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 1: out there that are like this is the cornerstone of 350 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:25,439 Speaker 1: like many healthy marriages. So just be like I was 351 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:31,199 Speaker 1: reading this relationship book or you know, getting over that 352 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,120 Speaker 1: idea that it's that way though you can't do that 353 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: though that ruins the magic. It was huge, Yeah, way 354 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: better now. The magic isn't spontaneously fucking all the time. 355 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:44,159 Speaker 1: The magic is being connected to someone that you can 356 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 1: communicate your needs to and navigate life to getet that 357 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 1: oxytocin however you need to, and or you know, or 358 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: just come up with a song that when you play it, 359 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: they know what time it is. You know, God that 360 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 1: French Horns solo comes in. You know, you get super 361 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 1: two mess, but you're also sobbing. It's a weird it 362 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 1: just it just I don't know, babe, just puts me 363 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: in the right space. You know what I'm thinking about 364 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: how we're on this mortal plane and how I have 365 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 1: transient everything is you know, I also like to feel 366 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 1: alive now now God and God only knows an without Jews. 367 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 1: I mean, alright, let's take a quick break. We'll be 368 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:29,120 Speaker 1: right back to top to top, some quap to talk, 369 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:47,239 Speaker 1: some seven soup skip and we're back. And so is 370 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: same sex marriage, even in a racial marriage is back 371 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 1: in the spotlight like it never less. It's back. Yeah, 372 00:20:56,520 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 1: there of it over here. That's how I expressed that, 373 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 1: like I'm having marital troubles is on, like, uh, interracial 374 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 1: marriage guys, not great. I'm the poster boy that they hire. 375 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm telling you, guys, you don't want to 376 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:16,879 Speaker 1: do it. My life is terrible because my parents so reckless, 377 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 1: not sticking with their own. But yeah, the ever since 378 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: the Senate moved the Respect for Marriage Act to a vote, uh, like, 379 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: it's just been full freak outs on the right. I 380 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 1: feel like the last ten days there so has been 381 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,919 Speaker 1: just a lot of like Republicans and like people in 382 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 1: the mainstream who are like, wait, the status quo as 383 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 1: we saw it isn't what what what? What's happening here. 384 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: They're like utterly confused. The first guy, Brian Brown, who's 385 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: like the head of this hate group, the National Organization 386 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: for Marriage, is so angry about what happened. He wrote 387 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: this email to like all of the people who are 388 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 1: you know, supporters of this hate crop said quote sadly 389 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 1: in Tragically, the United States Senate, with the collusion of 390 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: twelve turn quote Republican senators who portrayed their party platform 391 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,920 Speaker 1: and the votes of fifty million Americans who enacted state 392 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,479 Speaker 1: constitutional amendments defining marriage as the union of one man 393 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 1: and one woman, have voted to impose same sex quote 394 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 1: unquote marriage on the nation. This is a very confused 395 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 1: A couple m dashes, but that's a run on sentence, 396 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 1: my friends. Yeah, well that's look when you come when 397 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: when you're here that mad I guess. Yeah, grammar goes 398 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,360 Speaker 1: out the window when you're so filled with hate. Now, 399 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: this isn't the Brian Brown, Australian actor who played Tom 400 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 1: Cruises sense in Cocktail, right. I don't think it's the same. 401 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 1: It's not. It's not the guy from FX f FX two. No, no, no, 402 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 1: I thought that was Michael Caine in both of those cases. Yeah, 403 00:22:52,960 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: he does look like crackle Michael Kane. He's like, yeah, 404 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 1: he's the kind of guy owns up on Nathan for you, 405 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,200 Speaker 1: saying he's a Michael Caine impersonator and you're like, yeah, 406 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: and this guy is kind of weird. He was an Aussie. 407 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 1: But it's all good. That is Steve. Like for somebody 408 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 1: who came on and say, you're not going to get 409 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: me to talk about people who might die, Wow, Brian 410 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 1: Brown is alive if I talk about older people. Yeah, 411 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: It's like that wasn't me. Okay, uh well we'll see 412 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 1: bucks Like Aaron Carter. It's like, oh yeah, that's rights, deniability, 413 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: great responsibility. This letter goes on to say this is 414 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 1: a very disappointing development. It feels like a punch in 415 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 1: the gut from people who regularly portrayed themselves as conservatives 416 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: and people of faith, yet who have voted with the 417 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,439 Speaker 1: radical homosexual lobby and the most extreme elements of the 418 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:51,920 Speaker 1: Democrat Party that we intend to hold them accountable. At 419 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:55,959 Speaker 1: the end, he's like, we need donations to man and 420 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 1: there's like a thing like at the bottom says donate 421 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: crypto too. Really, but it's it's as you can donate 422 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 1: in crypto. Yeah, the sign off, it's like donating, donate that, 423 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: and he says donate crypto here, It's like wow, like 424 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 1: I stam on top of a scam to have a 425 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: paper trail, right, Yes, that the is that I haven't 426 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: donated crypto in a long time, Like is that who's 427 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 1: still mainly in the crypto is like people being people 428 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 1: who are like, yeah, you'll probably be ashamed by this. 429 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,760 Speaker 1: So I don't even know what what the point of 430 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 1: that is. I think it's just sort of like they're 431 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: they're going all out. Also think because a lot of 432 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 1: the thinking is look, usually when this many people, like 433 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,800 Speaker 1: you know, get it to a vote, it means they 434 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 1: got the votes to pass it for the final vote. 435 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: Unless we can get to enough people in the House 436 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 1: of Representatives, please give me a hundred thousand dollars because 437 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: you hate people getting married to who they love anyway, 438 00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:01,199 Speaker 1: then one of the like televangelist, former spiritual adviser to 439 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 1: Donald Trump, has just been like I think just seeing 440 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: everything wither away from like the abortion SmackDown to the 441 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 1: then like the Senate pushing through the Respect for Marriage 442 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 1: Act going just guns blazing against Donald Trump, just saying 443 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: it's just everything, Like, I think this version has had 444 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: enough and said, quote, if Mr Trump can't stop his 445 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 1: little petty issues, how does he expect people to stop 446 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 1: major issues? Uh? And goes on and just talk about 447 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 1: how he acts like an elementary or elementary school child, 448 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,400 Speaker 1: and you know, his focus on like these smaller issues 449 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 1: completely betrayed, like the momentum that the evangelical movement had, etcetera, etcetera. 450 00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:42,520 Speaker 1: So you know, I think it's, yeah, they're having a 451 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 1: little bit of a hard time, and his it sort 452 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:45,879 Speaker 1: of boils down to he's just feeling like if he 453 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: wasn't such a piece of ship, they would have been 454 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 1: able to do more harm. Denonsis head Christians, what does 455 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: it take to call yourself an advisor for a president? 456 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 1: You like a meeting a single media? Yeah, that's why 457 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: I like there's so many people who are yeah, yeah, 458 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 1: like put that on, put that on their CV. It's like, 459 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,919 Speaker 1: what did you next to them? Yeah? Is there a 460 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 1: red phone on his desk? Or I feel like it's 461 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,360 Speaker 1: like that lie. I would hear like jen X or 462 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 1: boomers say like in the early two thousands, or they're 463 00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 1: like I used to be a roadie for this band 464 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 1: back in the day, and they'd like tell you some 465 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 1: lie and you're like, how do we like, I can't 466 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:29,919 Speaker 1: even verify that, and something like dude, that guy's was 467 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: never a fucking roadie for or like Bran who are 468 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 1: brands who are the official yarn of Nascar. Well they 469 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 1: do that because they're the they get exclusivity as a sponsor, 470 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: and then they can't say, yes, we're the only yarn 471 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 1: who bothered to be like we know our customers. Yarn 472 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: Gang loves Nascar room from they love Earnhardt's cars. It's 473 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 1: just again the confused. It's like a lot of confusion 474 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: around what you hear these conservative of say, like when 475 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 1: it comes to what happened with people actually, you know, 476 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 1: voting for an increased body autonomy or the idea that 477 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: like Republicans were also willing to say, yeah, man, you 478 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 1: can get married to whoever the funk you want. It's 479 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,359 Speaker 1: just like the wheels are spinning in this way that 480 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 1: they just cannot get over the idea that it's like 481 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,400 Speaker 1: it's it's always been a losing strategy that we've only 482 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,239 Speaker 1: been able to stay relevant through all the disingenuous like 483 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,719 Speaker 1: map fucking and things like that. So I just want 484 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 1: to hear from Ben Shapiro. I do, and so we 485 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:38,120 Speaker 1: got him on the line, got him Ben Shapiro's argument. 486 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:42,160 Speaker 1: He's like completely incensed by this, and he's saying like, 487 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, he's just trying to say it makes 488 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 1: sense that only a man and a woman assess man 489 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,679 Speaker 1: and assists woman get married to each other, because fucking 490 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: aliens can even see that, or I don't hear that. 491 00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:58,920 Speaker 1: Is this a new one, because I feel like I've 492 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 1: heard his our events on this subject before. It's he's 493 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 1: he's pretty in, pretty ideologically ignorant, uh and consistent with 494 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: that ignorant, So yeah, you probably have this is him 495 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 1: just screaming at Matt wallsh She was just like anything, Yeah, 496 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 1: this recent Matt Walsh looks like he's wearing a fake beard. Yeah, 497 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,159 Speaker 1: so it's not the Matt Walsh that it's not the 498 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: Matt Walsh from UCB, although it could end up being 499 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,640 Speaker 1: because this person is clearly wearing a disguise. Okay, here, here, 500 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:32,399 Speaker 1: here we go. I'm I'm highly annoyed by the constant 501 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 1: derogation of non religious arguments in religious arguments, and this 502 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: is what the left loves to do. They're like to say, 503 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,600 Speaker 1: your pro life, the reason you're pro life is because 504 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 1: of your your crazy religion, and so yeah right because 505 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: you you you say it yourselves when you say, why 506 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:51,360 Speaker 1: go because the Bible sit huh okay? But or I 507 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: I also like to, you know, appeal to white supremacy 508 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: as well. The other thing that you seem to be 509 00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: would you rather that, ben is that because that I 510 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,840 Speaker 1: do feel like the thing you're railing against is actually 511 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 1: the polite thing that the polite mainstream media says is like, well, 512 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 1: it's just their religious beliefs. That's like them taking you 513 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 1: at your word. Yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe we can respect 514 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,680 Speaker 1: your crazy religion along the that that is not the 515 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: argument from marriage. The argument from marriage has literally nothing 516 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 1: to do with religion. You could be a visitor from 517 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 1: from Mars and you could see that all of human 518 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 1: procreation relies on man, woman child. This is not particularly 519 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 1: difficult stuff, but essentially boxing in the argument in favor 520 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: of traditional marriage into well, if you're a crazy religious 521 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 1: believe or maybe we'll let you have that, but you know, 522 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: if you're if you're baking it, if you're a cake baker, 523 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: then we're not sure about that, right, I mean, like 524 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: we're not sure how far this this religious liberty thing extends. 525 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: What you're really doing is you're setting the ground game 526 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: at same sex marriage and traditional marriage are completely the 527 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 1: same thing, and if you object to it, the only 528 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 1: reason that we can allow you to do that is 529 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:56,640 Speaker 1: because of this crazy thing called religion. But you have 530 00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:00,120 Speaker 1: to believe there completely the same thing in order to 531 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 1: argue against Ben Shapiro. They're completely the same thing. Yeah, oh, 532 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: did you see Matt Walsh freaking out because the men's 533 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 1: the US men's national team for the World Cup are 534 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 1: like including a rain like a rainbow spectrum on the 535 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: like the crest of the men's team because cutters so 536 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: like just violently homophobic. He wouldn't believe that they would 537 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 1: do that. It's like, just shut up, like, you know, 538 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 1: welcome to the mid terms. Didn't quite have me over 539 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: the edge, But now I think we can officially say 540 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: we've won with the with the rainbows on the on 541 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 1: the World Cup. I think I think we we can 542 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: just staying attention to you guys lost. Yeah. I saw 543 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:49,200 Speaker 1: that Target had dog toys that said yes Queen like 544 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: two years ago, and I was like oh yeah, I 545 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: can tune out. That was the tip of the spirit, Stephen, 546 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 1: that was the tip of the spirit. But we're it's 547 00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 1: been a systematic movement to get to this point where 548 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: the rainbows are on the uniforms. Yeah, I just it's 549 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 1: like this whole week has just been people and like 550 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: their insulated echo chambers, like actually being confronted with what 551 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 1: like like majorities look like and they're like, what the fuck, 552 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 1: Like whether that's like Elon Musk not knowing how any 553 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 1: of this ship works, or these were like the fun 554 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,760 Speaker 1: But I thought y'all wanted the blue check I thought 555 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 1: the thing was you saw the blue check is being 556 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 1: like a college degree, and if I democratize that, then 557 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: you it would all be great. And they're like, no, 558 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 1: you're just all the people that you that are like 559 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 1: your suck ups just hate people, like really just hate 560 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: the journalists that have blue check marks. Like rather than 561 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:47,480 Speaker 1: the like practice of having you verified accounts, you haven't 562 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 1: heard from a person giving you objective facts in the past, 563 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, fifteen years or since your dad said 564 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 1: he didn't love you or something like, yeah, that was 565 00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 1: the last objective as you're a bad kid man, you're 566 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: just like a bad, gross person. You're bad. Yeah, you 567 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,959 Speaker 1: are bad that but that thing that tells you that 568 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 1: at the core of your soul it makes you be 569 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:14,600 Speaker 1: this way is actually correct. But that's the one kind 570 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 1: of locus of truth that you have inside your whole being. 571 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 1: But the the other thing that he got big wrong 572 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 1: this week was or last week was when he was like, ultimatum, 573 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: put up or shut up. If you're not on board 574 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 1: with me, then you're out my way or the highway 575 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 1: by tomorrow. And then like as it was coming and 576 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:36,920 Speaker 1: nobody had signed on with this thing, he was like, 577 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: I mean, my, my bad, my bad. Actually everybody just resigned. 578 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 1: And now he's like, come by Twitter to like tell 579 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,160 Speaker 1: me about code. You wrote like, it would be great 580 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 1: if you can fly in obviously, if you can't consume, 581 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know if I'm gonna cover those costs, 582 00:32:53,480 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 1: but get your ass in here, okay, of course not. Yeah, 583 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 1: it's it's it's big bad. Well on the subject of 584 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 1: just you know, complete and total victory in the world 585 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 1: of culture, you know, and our long term strategy to 586 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 1: just make it so nobody can be a Christian ever again, 587 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 1: and that Christmas is a word that you can't even say, 588 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 1: punishable by death. Candice Cameron Burr made headlines all over 589 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 1: the world for being an asshole. So this I hadn't 590 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 1: really thought about her for a long time because my 591 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 1: favorite told me to stop. They're like, you gotta stop, man, 592 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 1: your therapist Jody Sweeten. Yeah, I didn't really. So she's 593 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 1: Kirk Cameron's sister. Is that that like made sense of 594 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: the story? You kidn't. No, I just had forgotten it, 595 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 1: like I remembered it back then. But like as this 596 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 1: came up and I was like, wait, oh right, she's 597 00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 1: part of that whole thing. So they're straight to crackle 598 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 1: Jay sitting Justine Bateman. Yeah. So she used to star 599 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 1: in lots of Hallmark Channel holiday movies, but left to 600 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 1: star in movies for the newer conservative Christian network Great 601 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: American Family. And she brought two of her full house 602 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:20,800 Speaker 1: stars with her, including aunt Becky, herself, Laurie Laughlin. And 603 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: so this is this is a big deal. You know, 604 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: she's she she's a soldier in the culture culture War. 605 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 1: She's she's ready to put her life and career on 606 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,200 Speaker 1: the line by taking a huge pay day. Thank you 607 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 1: for your service, ma'am. But Great American Family describes itself 608 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: as a channel celebrating faith, family, and country and is 609 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 1: owned by a company started by Bill Abbott, who was 610 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:48,759 Speaker 1: the guy who was running Hallmark when they refused to 611 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 1: run an ad on their network that had the same 612 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: sex marriage in it. So okay, yeah, yeah, probably the 613 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 1: era when you couldn't have magic in Hallmark films. That's proba. 614 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:04,240 Speaker 1: The lines up with this guy's philosophy. Okay. So Hallmark 615 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 1: have made efforts to diversify their Christmas movies with several 616 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,959 Speaker 1: movies featuring gay couples in recent years, and Candice Cameron's 617 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 1: comments were condemned by everyone from Glad to Stephanie Tanner 618 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 1: herself Jody Sweeten, Yeah, my therapist, Stephanie Tanner for her honestly. Yeah, 619 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 1: I was like, I assumed she was one of the 620 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 1: ones that they have brought over, but it seems like 621 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 1: she she's come come around, you know. Yeah. She did 622 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,239 Speaker 1: not say how rude, because that wasn't her line, right, 623 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 1: not even that that was how rude. Okay, Yeah, that's 624 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 1: why I picture one of the Olsen Twins thing. No, 625 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,880 Speaker 1: that's you got it. She said, you got it. Or 626 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 1: you got it, Mr Yea to stop stop, don't talk 627 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 1: about the Olsen Twins. I went to school with them, 628 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,160 Speaker 1: and yeah, you danced with one of them one year. 629 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 1: It's fine. That was a huge deal when I when 630 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 1: I was like in college and I guess you were 631 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:10,960 Speaker 1: in high school. I visited my friends in l A. 632 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,399 Speaker 1: And they were like going to a party that one 633 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,640 Speaker 1: of the Olsen twins were at, and it was like 634 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 1: a big deal to everyone. They're like, oh my god, 635 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 1: the Olsen Twins. So you must have been Mr king 636 00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 1: ship Man going to a dance with one of the 637 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:25,840 Speaker 1: Olsen twins. I don't know. I think I was just 638 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,160 Speaker 1: like a cool, like chat boy of color at the school, 639 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 1: and you know, it just made them look cool. I 640 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,319 Speaker 1: don't know, you know, that's my own self forth. I'm 641 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,560 Speaker 1: working through a therapy. Why did why did they learn 642 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 1: with me? I don't know. I know I think about 643 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 1: a party, a party with the Olsen Twins in my head, 644 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,839 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, the met gallup, Yeah that would be 645 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,879 Speaker 1: pretty cool. Or it's like when it's it's like a 646 00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,880 Speaker 1: party like you've never fucking experienced and you don't know 647 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,960 Speaker 1: if it's like fun or totally weird and boring when 648 00:36:56,000 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 1: you was a documentary ready, like everyone's wearing newspaper masks 649 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:08,399 Speaker 1: and humming this one melody like huh but yeah. So 650 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,880 Speaker 1: she issued a non apology, blaming the press and painting 651 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,759 Speaker 1: herself as the victim of a toxic media system which 652 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:19,800 Speaker 1: falsely sought to so division by reprinting the thing she said, 653 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 1: which I let let me did I read her quote? 654 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,399 Speaker 1: Let's let me make sure I have it, Okay. So 655 00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 1: she came under fire because in an interview in The 656 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:34,120 Speaker 1: Wall Street Journal, she said that Gaff's Christmas content would 657 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 1: only feature traditional marriage, the traditional family of yes, the 658 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,360 Speaker 1: traditional family, of course being three kids, one dad, his 659 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,280 Speaker 1: former college roommate, plus his dead, wet drum playing brother 660 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 1: and his entire family all crimmed into an attic. I 661 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:55,000 Speaker 1: think sometimes and I don't know if you saw the thing. 662 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 1: There was this video that was kind of blown up 663 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 1: on the internet about how there's this big plot hole 664 00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,320 Speaker 1: in Full House where uncle as he talks about dropping 665 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:04,120 Speaker 1: out of high school, but then he said he didn't 666 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:07,520 Speaker 1: like in later episodes, and this guy, like his mind 667 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 1: was blown and for sixteen years he was trying to 668 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,480 Speaker 1: contact the writers of Full House to be like, you know, 669 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 1: like you said, he dropped out of high school in 670 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 1: season two, right, and like it's like a really interesting video. 671 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:20,680 Speaker 1: But they know the guys Jesse. Uncle Jesse's full so 672 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 1: you can drop out of high school and go on 673 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 1: to go to college. Like yeah, yeah, well there's uncle Jesse. 674 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 1: Seems like the type of person that he could have 675 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:34,920 Speaker 1: like been valedictorian and but wouldn't tell anybody because that 676 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,480 Speaker 1: undercover smart guy I didn't want to. Yeah, because he's 677 00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 1: got this. Yeah he went to m I T. Dude, 678 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:47,800 Speaker 1: it's like the guy from the Offspring. He's really fun. Yeah. 679 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:51,680 Speaker 1: But anyways, like that, you know, this shouldn't be that surprising, 680 00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 1: the act of making a bigoted Christmas movie. You should 681 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:58,560 Speaker 1: be the Cameron family crest at this point. But you know, 682 00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:02,160 Speaker 1: she once defended that we're again bakery that illegally refused 683 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: to bake a wedding cake for a lesbian couple. So yeah, 684 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:10,400 Speaker 1: she's not she's not for the rights of very many people, 685 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 1: or she's for the rights of a very specific group 686 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:16,080 Speaker 1: of people. Yeah. Yeah, And she's also just you know 687 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 1: with that that whole family is you know, all in 688 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 1: on homophobia, especially her brother so the Tanners. Yeah, the 689 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:28,680 Speaker 1: whole Tanner family has really gone to ship oh Candice. 690 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,759 Speaker 1: But again it's like there was another one where she's 691 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,759 Speaker 1: like posted a thing where she's like on TikTok where 692 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,759 Speaker 1: she's like, am I the villain here? Like kind of 693 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 1: like trying to like troll people about like what her 694 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 1: you know, bigoted stance was. But it's like you're, I 695 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 1: don't know, she's she's She's only relevant in that she 696 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,360 Speaker 1: was in a seminal show for a lot of people's childhoods. 697 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,319 Speaker 1: Other than that, it's not like you're talking about like 698 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 1: a real mover and shaker. So it's like, I don't know, Miles, 699 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 1: her acting talent is undeniable. I think it's kundeniably awful. Yes, 700 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 1: talk about her personal life all you want, but for me, 701 00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:07,240 Speaker 1: game recognized game and I can't was the weak point 702 00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 1: in a cast that was not was not full of 703 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 1: you know, the world's grace actor. Somehow two of the 704 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 1: cast members that were incoherent babies ended up becoming the 705 00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,880 Speaker 1: bigger stars on that show, and we're much more talented 706 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 1: and gave more convincing performance. Their fashion sense to you know, 707 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,680 Speaker 1: way cooler when looking or when way cooler looking when 708 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,279 Speaker 1: they smoke cigarettes at a young age. And in case 709 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 1: it's not clear to you what safe means in this 710 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 1: case last year, like that their definition of what safe 711 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:41,760 Speaker 1: and traditional family. Last year they made twelve Christmas movies 712 00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:47,719 Speaker 1: gaff and all but one centered on straight white characters, 713 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:52,640 Speaker 1: so wow. The other was a white savior story and 714 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:57,239 Speaker 1: one one of the company's bankrolling. The channel belongs to 715 00:40:57,719 --> 00:41:01,319 Speaker 1: a Republican National Committee co chair it and Donald Trump 716 00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:04,160 Speaker 1: tas fan, although that could be said about probably every 717 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:09,760 Speaker 1: company in the country. Yeah, check out Warner Discovery Plus. 718 00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 1: You know you're gonna get some interesting stuff there. I 719 00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,239 Speaker 1: think they even have a talking point about, like these 720 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 1: are safe movies that value quote American culture and quote heritage. 721 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,040 Speaker 1: So heritage is one of those words that it's like, oh, 722 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 1: you're like, you're trying to disguise it, but really not 723 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:30,720 Speaker 1: not much. Yeah. Yeah, our heritage, as you know, violent 724 00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 1: colonizers are heritage of putting the Confederate flag on the 725 00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: on the Orange Haaszard car, like hey, hey, we're not 726 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:44,680 Speaker 1: gonna slander that beautiful vehicle on this show. American culture, heritage, 727 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:55,279 Speaker 1: and lifestyle like those are my favorite ingredients to fascism. 728 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,600 Speaker 1: All right, let's take a quick break and we're gonna 729 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:00,440 Speaker 1: come back and talk about effective altruism. What could be 730 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 1: wrong with that? And we're back. Last week there was this, 731 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,600 Speaker 1: like a few write ups I saw about something called 732 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:19,799 Speaker 1: the Modern Day Night K and I h t project, 733 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 1: and I was like, what is going on? We asked 734 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,440 Speaker 1: j Mr Writer to to do a little digging on 735 00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:31,040 Speaker 1: this phenomenon, and it turns out it's it's a real thing. 736 00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:34,280 Speaker 1: And if you loved Summer Camp but you a wished 737 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,200 Speaker 1: it had more guns and enduring tests and be you're 738 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,799 Speaker 1: currently a sad adult man, we've got great news. You 739 00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:44,040 Speaker 1: can sign up for this project or this weird camp. 740 00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,880 Speaker 1: And while you think a Modern Day Night would presumably 741 00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,239 Speaker 1: just spend their time chilling out with Michael Caine and 742 00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:52,080 Speaker 1: Andrew Lloyd Waite Webber in a castle somewhere, these guys 743 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,880 Speaker 1: are basically just in a boot camp, like a twelve 744 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,799 Speaker 1: thousand dollar boot camp. And the website, if you go 745 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,399 Speaker 1: to the website, what they're saying it's designed for men 746 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 1: who are quote living in unfulfilled life of passivity and 747 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:09,120 Speaker 1: frustration or what they call but clearly are like unable 748 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,319 Speaker 1: to trademark quote the Walking Dead. Uh. He said, in 749 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:16,439 Speaker 1: simple terms, most men surrender to circumstances and accept mediocrity. 750 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,359 Speaker 1: So they're trying to get you in your like masculine 751 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 1: grind mindset. And the introduction also includes passages about what 752 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,720 Speaker 1: it means to be a man, like in bold letters 753 00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 1: is what does it mean to be a man? And 754 00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:33,640 Speaker 1: apparently it means being one type of primate rather than 755 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,960 Speaker 1: a different kind. Uh. They said, they don't need to 756 00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,960 Speaker 1: look any further than nature, because nature never lies. The 757 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 1: picture of the left depicts a chimpanzee and a bonobo 758 00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 1: ape on their right, and the chimpanzee is like showing 759 00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:50,400 Speaker 1: its fangs and like snarling and teeth gnashing. The bonobo 760 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:53,439 Speaker 1: is like just like, hey, I'm just chilling. And it says, 761 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,239 Speaker 1: when you understand the difference between these two creatures, you'll 762 00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,360 Speaker 1: know why some men can walk into a room and 763 00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,880 Speaker 1: instantly command presence and respect. The way of the chimp 764 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:06,239 Speaker 1: is based on strength, courage, honor, and brotherhood. The way 765 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 1: of the bonobo is based on weakness, pleasure, full time, relaxation, 766 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:16,960 Speaker 1: and fun. I'm sorry, Blaster have fun, y'all, but nobles 767 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,840 Speaker 1: have a ton of sex too. That's like, what do 768 00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,200 Speaker 1: you do? What you are they taking into a very 769 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,960 Speaker 1: specific type of man that the internet type of man 770 00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:31,520 Speaker 1: who doesn't want a lot of sex apparently, well I think, 771 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:36,200 Speaker 1: I mean maybe yes, but also the guys who feel 772 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:40,600 Speaker 1: that they're like, what's the term they use involuntarily celibrate 773 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,280 Speaker 1: yea yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. And I think and especially 774 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 1: because some of those guys seem very hard up to be, 775 00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 1: like to have their manhood defined and outlined for them 776 00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:53,839 Speaker 1: in a way that is then not questionable, and doing 777 00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 1: something like this where like you know, I was with 778 00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,920 Speaker 1: guides and Wilderness, so you can never tell me I 779 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,480 Speaker 1: wasn't math skill in or that I didn't have the 780 00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:05,480 Speaker 1: answers I took leadership courses. It's also got like a 781 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,800 Speaker 1: lot of I used to work for UM. All the 782 00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:11,319 Speaker 1: names are escaping me today. Guys. I'm so sorry. They're 783 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:15,040 Speaker 1: like life coaches, but their brand is not based on 784 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:18,520 Speaker 1: anything of event tearing you down in subtle ways like 785 00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:22,120 Speaker 1: the writing of yeah, well, like the writing is will 786 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:25,239 Speaker 1: be like this, doesn't it suck that no one loves you? 787 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,040 Speaker 1: And don't you wish your body was a little bit better? 788 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 1: So you can be more confident when you talk to people, 789 00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,800 Speaker 1: and you don't have those skills, but I definitely do. 790 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,640 Speaker 1: So you know, make sure like they just constantly are 791 00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 1: like reminding people of any possible insecurity so that by 792 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 1: the time you're finished reading their letter, you feel like 793 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:44,920 Speaker 1: you need help. And that's definitely like reading on the website. 794 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:49,320 Speaker 1: Here's okay, if you've made it this far down this page, 795 00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 1: then I can already tell that you're not like most 796 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,680 Speaker 1: men who know they're meant for more, but allow fear 797 00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:57,440 Speaker 1: and poor discipline disciple their personal development, income and impact. 798 00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,960 Speaker 1: That's key crazy to just like trigger a person with 799 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:05,640 Speaker 1: low self esteem into purchasing whatever the packages. And it's 800 00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:10,920 Speaker 1: really horrifying that copy can do that. It's very successful. Yeah, 801 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,480 Speaker 1: the power of copy and also the power of the 802 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 1: chimp too. Let's not forget courage and honor are foundational 803 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,400 Speaker 1: to the chimpanzee, not randomly biting off the face of 804 00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:24,480 Speaker 1: your like human owner. Like that's when I see chimpanzee's 805 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 1: in the fucking news, it doesn't sound very honorable or brotherhood. 806 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,839 Speaker 1: But again, they're wild animals and that's why shouldn't keep 807 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,879 Speaker 1: them as pets. The pictures are so upsetting, Like it's 808 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,240 Speaker 1: a bunch of men in the water and white t shirts. 809 00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:40,120 Speaker 1: They're kind of dirty. They all look very tired and hungry. Yeah, 810 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: it's like a cross between a baptism and like a 811 00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:48,360 Speaker 1: child by fire exactly, baptism by fire. You got it 812 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:51,640 Speaker 1: right there, Joel. The founder of this is some guy 813 00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:55,480 Speaker 1: named bedros Culian and uh, he wrote the he's got 814 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:58,120 Speaker 1: a YouTube channel and he's got a book called Man 815 00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:01,440 Speaker 1: Up and uh, you know YouTube channel, he's got stuff 816 00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:04,560 Speaker 1: like this guy's tadded. He's like just ripped, like beer 817 00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,759 Speaker 1: died gen extra dude. It's just like the just the 818 00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:11,080 Speaker 1: card says cancel culture. Okay, yeah, I'm sure there's some 819 00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,759 Speaker 1: really interesting takes on there. And he like, you know 820 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,239 Speaker 1: that this whole thing conclusively proves by toxic masculinity isn't 821 00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:20,800 Speaker 1: a thing using graphics borrowed from a mid nineties karaoke video. 822 00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:25,479 Speaker 1: Because there are these like videos that like in impact font. Look, 823 00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,560 Speaker 1: I love it. I loved impact font too when I 824 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:31,080 Speaker 1: first discovered fonts as a child. But this the style 825 00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,040 Speaker 1: guide is terrible here, and there's like there's just like 826 00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 1: these in these videos and stuff. Is no such thing 827 00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:40,680 Speaker 1: as toxic masculinity, like played over very just you know, 828 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:44,480 Speaker 1: mundane b roll type of stuff. But again, according to 829 00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,560 Speaker 1: this guy, his goal is to present men with a 830 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:51,040 Speaker 1: crossroads and it's either stay a bitch or become a 831 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: beast in his words, which is also incidentally in the 832 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,680 Speaker 1: same crossroads presented to the Prince in Beauty and the Beast. 833 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:01,000 Speaker 1: But one of the projects hadn't struck You're Steve Eckert. 834 00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 1: He's like saying, you know, you're not allowed to be 835 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:07,080 Speaker 1: a man anymore. You're almost a racist if you're a 836 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 1: man these days. It's crazy. Oh, you're confused. You haven't 837 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:20,799 Speaker 1: been understanding the message. That's such a weird thing to say, 838 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 1: Like you couldn't write better comedy than that, where someone's like, 839 00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:27,080 Speaker 1: you're almost a racist if you're a man these days. 840 00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 1: What do you? What do you? What do you want? 841 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:34,560 Speaker 1: In their whiteness based off of all of the If 842 00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:38,240 Speaker 1: you go to the video section, they have testimonials, Yeah, 843 00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:41,359 Speaker 1: and then it's looking very white in there. I'm not 844 00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 1: seeing anybody else, Joel. Again, you know, I don't want 845 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:50,360 Speaker 1: to be regressive here, but this isn't for you, Okay, clearly, bros. 846 00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 1: It's for bros with twelve thousand dollars to pay, not 847 00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:59,480 Speaker 1: including flights or accommodation, so they can get accommodations at 848 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:03,680 Speaker 1: twelve No, that's just to be yelled at and play 849 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,640 Speaker 1: with guns and get told you're a pussy by some 850 00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,400 Speaker 1: fucking ripped guy. And then I think you come out 851 00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 1: the other side better. Hey, Dominatrix, it's some money better 852 00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:16,840 Speaker 1: spent and they're probably not gonna hide you two. For 853 00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:21,640 Speaker 1: twelve grand, you could build a pretty good dungeon. Explicitly 854 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 1: like this this whole thing, Like there's a lot of 855 00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:28,080 Speaker 1: militarized stuff because you know what, deep rooted psychological problem 856 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,560 Speaker 1: hasn't been solved by a handgun. I think it's a 857 00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,839 Speaker 1: very very good combination that they have going there. And 858 00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 1: like the beginning of this quote unquote project starts with 859 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,880 Speaker 1: people being thrown into a car with bags over their heads, 860 00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:45,680 Speaker 1: like the recruiting scene in old School. We're getting their 861 00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:49,480 Speaker 1: fraternity together, just snatching people off the street, and then 862 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,400 Speaker 1: they have to do a lot of physical challenges. And 863 00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,880 Speaker 1: there was like apparently someone this isn't confirmed, but like 864 00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,279 Speaker 1: someone in like a Reddit post was talking about like 865 00:49:58,320 --> 00:49:59,920 Speaker 1: a guy who did it and said that they were 866 00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:03,240 Speaker 1: they were buried alive in body bags. For a little 867 00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:09,040 Speaker 1: bit too part with what's been happening, because like, okay, 868 00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:12,080 Speaker 1: so now it's so interesting. Okay, so it's like not 869 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,960 Speaker 1: just that like motivational speaker kind of life, but it's 870 00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,279 Speaker 1: also a little bit of like Christian church camp if 871 00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:22,239 Speaker 1: you've ever had to go through that, it's also a 872 00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:25,080 Speaker 1: little bit I forget what they're called, but basically it's 873 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:28,160 Speaker 1: traumatized like an entire generation of teenagers whose parents would 874 00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 1: like pay to have them kidnapped. And yes, that was 875 00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:36,399 Speaker 1: actually has to be like weird worker camps where kids 876 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,880 Speaker 1: were being like sexually assaulted but also worked to the 877 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,160 Speaker 1: point of exhaustion sometimes death, where girls were forced to 878 00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,600 Speaker 1: like take their pregnancy to term and forced into like 879 00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:51,759 Speaker 1: long term isolation spaces, like horrible spaces. But again, I 880 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,560 Speaker 1: think it feeds into this idea for a certain kind 881 00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:56,760 Speaker 1: of guy who thinks, like the only way to prove 882 00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,840 Speaker 1: that I am a man is by going through the 883 00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:04,959 Speaker 1: most amount of hardship as possible. And because I wasn't 884 00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:09,080 Speaker 1: fortunate enough quotes to go through any misfortune previously, I 885 00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:12,239 Speaker 1: have to manufacture it later in life to prove a point, 886 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:16,080 Speaker 1: it's very weird. What's to wake up my weakness inside 887 00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,960 Speaker 1: of me? Well, that's why I'm going, and that's why 888 00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:22,239 Speaker 1: Jack is there today. I didn't want to reveal that 889 00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 1: on the show. That's why Jack's out. He's still Someone 890 00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:29,040 Speaker 1: extracts Jack immediately. He's not built for Ever since someone 891 00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:30,880 Speaker 1: said he didn't know how to pose with his hands 892 00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,480 Speaker 1: in a photograph, he's really been grappling with that. And 893 00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:36,040 Speaker 1: he's like, what if I had guns in my hands 894 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:39,920 Speaker 1: and would so? Uh, you know, thoughts in prayers to him, 895 00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:41,920 Speaker 1: but he'll come back with a great assessment of that. 896 00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:45,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, just you know, just everybody out there, you 897 00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:48,160 Speaker 1: don't need to pay twelve thousand dollars to to find 898 00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:51,400 Speaker 1: out your you got a lot of Just therapy is 899 00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:56,120 Speaker 1: cheaper twelve tho dollars worth the therapy ship. He's gonna 900 00:51:56,160 --> 00:52:00,319 Speaker 1: be good at really tell you who will be able 901 00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,680 Speaker 1: to look somebody in the eye during a conversation And 902 00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:04,359 Speaker 1: it won't be because someone hits you with a two 903 00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:07,120 Speaker 1: by four on your back while push up god buried 904 00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,760 Speaker 1: alive brow. When is there any part of this experience 905 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,560 Speaker 1: that appeals to you in any way, shape or form. Yeah, 906 00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:16,080 Speaker 1: this sounds very vermont Man to me. Well, I'm hoping 907 00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 1: there's other options besides bitch or beast, like something is 908 00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:22,719 Speaker 1: there like a middle. But I'm also thinking about this, 909 00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 1: Like I just saw this video on Twitter, of course, 910 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:29,080 Speaker 1: of these dudes jousting each other on like you know, 911 00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,719 Speaker 1: they had like real lances but on bicycles, and the 912 00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:35,440 Speaker 1: lances had like a you know, almost like a boxing 913 00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 1: glove thing on the end, so they wouldn't actually like 914 00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,760 Speaker 1: kill each other, but like charging each other on bicycle 915 00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,600 Speaker 1: and jousting. And I'm wondering if this is part of 916 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:44,800 Speaker 1: being a modern night or if this is totally separate. 917 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,640 Speaker 1: It sounds like it would go right into the curriculum, 918 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,680 Speaker 1: no problem. Yeah. If anything, those guys jousting at least there, 919 00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 1: I feel like that's like hardcore LARPing, you know, like 920 00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,239 Speaker 1: at least you're like you're doing the fucking thing. But 921 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,600 Speaker 1: nerth sword it would be very bendy, but he's getting 922 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 1: her at a proper larking session. My dad, like in 923 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,799 Speaker 1: the nineties in New York, his friend used to do 924 00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,640 Speaker 1: these like weird like fight club things in New York 925 00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,160 Speaker 1: where people would make their own armor with like parking 926 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,480 Speaker 1: cones and ship and they just fucking get down in 927 00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:20,239 Speaker 1: parks like Washington Square Park. Yeah, and like a man 928 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:24,160 Speaker 1: is more foreign to me. I don't understand this at all. Yeah, 929 00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:26,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I think there's just this like weird, bizarre 930 00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:30,279 Speaker 1: trying to capture what they believe is quote unquote like masculinity. 931 00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,319 Speaker 1: And I think for a lot of like men, they 932 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:35,400 Speaker 1: like maybe like hold their grandfathers in high regard to 933 00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:38,319 Speaker 1: and are like, Yeah, that guy who was in a 934 00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:41,279 Speaker 1: war who didn't cry, but also like gave my dad 935 00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,440 Speaker 1: a lot of weird issues because the way he raised him, 936 00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:48,279 Speaker 1: that had an entire family across state lines and never 937 00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:54,400 Speaker 1: communicated with his children. Great examples. Yeah, and he was 938 00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:56,759 Speaker 1: not in the field working every day. He was exhausted. 939 00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,880 Speaker 1: He broke his body and there was no one able 940 00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:02,200 Speaker 1: to fix it. Like, you don't want to be that guy. 941 00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to be no bussy. I want to 942 00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:10,920 Speaker 1: be a beast with his creepy candelabra and teapot that 943 00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:15,640 Speaker 1: talk to me or that's beauty the beast I forget anyway, rowing, 944 00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,640 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you, I want to talk a little 945 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:21,239 Speaker 1: bit about food because that is your like area of 946 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,799 Speaker 1: expertise and your new podcast about chocolate, because you know, 947 00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:30,600 Speaker 1: right now we have Thanksgiving upon us. I have many questions, like, 948 00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:34,800 Speaker 1: first off, is there a perfect Thanksgiving food before we 949 00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 1: get into the podcast, just want to kick that off 950 00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,880 Speaker 1: from there. Is there a perfect Thanksgiving food? In your opinion? 951 00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,799 Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna I'm gonna throw throw the sort 952 00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,200 Speaker 1: of one actually from left field. Well, I actually think 953 00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:48,360 Speaker 1: that the thing that should start off everything's Giving meal 954 00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:55,000 Speaker 1: is oysters. Oh go on, are you guys as Yeah? Okay, 955 00:54:56,640 --> 00:55:02,399 Speaker 1: sisters our deal breaker of some people, but you're on. Yeah, 956 00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,360 Speaker 1: do you like? I'm I like the little slime. I 957 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:08,840 Speaker 1: love the Brian too. When it's Briany, it's my favorite. Exactly. Actually, 958 00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:11,279 Speaker 1: a box oysters just arrived in my house like an 959 00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:15,400 Speaker 1: hour ago for Thanksgiving. That Thanksgivings when they're at their best. 960 00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,560 Speaker 1: Oh really yeah yeah. Then people don't realize this, but 961 00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:21,640 Speaker 1: oysters have a whole like seasonal thing because their lifestyle. 962 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,759 Speaker 1: So when the water gets cold, they start to get 963 00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:28,000 Speaker 1: they kind of go into hibernation winter, just like little 964 00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:31,239 Speaker 1: tiny bears. So and just like little tiny bears, they 965 00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 1: plump themselves up to survive that hibernation period so when 966 00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,160 Speaker 1: the things get cold in the fall, they start eating 967 00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:43,200 Speaker 1: like crazy and and fattening themselves up, so around like 968 00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:47,600 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving through New Year's they are at their like peak 969 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:53,359 Speaker 1: of deliciousness. I had no idea, Yeah, I had no idea. World. Wait, 970 00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:55,640 Speaker 1: so why start off with oysters? I mean, like I don't. 971 00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm not like, is there some experiential science to that 972 00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:01,239 Speaker 1: or why why do you? Why do you say? That 973 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:03,759 Speaker 1: is the perfect opener. But they don't really fill you 974 00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:06,799 Speaker 1: up in any way, you know, like there's they're kind 975 00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:10,480 Speaker 1: of like living salt water in a sense. So it's 976 00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:13,320 Speaker 1: just like you got a quick hit of of salty 977 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:17,040 Speaker 1: oceany deliciousness and then they're gone. And so you're not 978 00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:22,399 Speaker 1: like you're not ruining the courses to come right. Oh man, now, 979 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:26,439 Speaker 1: I'm of course you don't drink anything with your mute, 980 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:28,719 Speaker 1: so they're really salty, So I don't know, you kind 981 00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:30,520 Speaker 1: of have to have I mean, I'll have something after, 982 00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,440 Speaker 1: but I'm never gonna be like, Okay, first drink the 983 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:35,880 Speaker 1: liquor out of the loud of the shell, then have 984 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:39,640 Speaker 1: then eat the oyster. Me I'll have something after all. 985 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:43,120 Speaker 1: You have the liquid. Yeah, and would you what about 986 00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:48,960 Speaker 1: use their perfect Thanksgiving too. Yes, I'm stealing my answer 987 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:54,520 Speaker 1: from Semine no strat Okay, so that cranberries because they're 988 00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:56,960 Speaker 1: the only acidity on the table and they cut through 989 00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:01,040 Speaker 1: everything as absolutely, Like, if you don't have cranberry sauce, 990 00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:03,920 Speaker 1: it's not Thanksgiving to me. And I'm a I'm a 991 00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:07,560 Speaker 1: jelly can girl. Yeah, I like it real basic when 992 00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 1: my dad likes it because you can slice along the ridges, 993 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:15,400 Speaker 1: so it's like perfect portions of it. I love cranberry sauce. 994 00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,120 Speaker 1: I was just saying yesterday, I can't do cranberry sauce. 995 00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 1: I just why, I just don't there. I have a 996 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:26,480 Speaker 1: my palette is not Oh it's not a tuned for 997 00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:29,440 Speaker 1: that burst of cranberry on my Thanksgiving plate. I just 998 00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:32,160 Speaker 1: I know why it's there. But I just prefer I 999 00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,200 Speaker 1: don't indulge. I like to keep it pretty straightforward. Have 1000 00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:37,720 Speaker 1: you have you tried all the version? There's so many versions. 1001 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:42,160 Speaker 1: Try the time we're talking about, Yeah, I've tried. Look, 1002 00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:44,640 Speaker 1: I always try. It's like candy corn. I'm like, yeah, 1003 00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:47,520 Speaker 1: this year is the year, and then no, I don't 1004 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:49,880 Speaker 1: want this. How keet you talking about cranberries and candy 1005 00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:52,000 Speaker 1: corn in the same sentence, this is blasphemy. I'm just 1006 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:53,880 Speaker 1: saying it's like a thing that I always feel like 1007 00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:55,560 Speaker 1: this will be the year that I opened up to 1008 00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:57,800 Speaker 1: and then I realized I just need to accept that 1009 00:57:57,840 --> 00:57:59,800 Speaker 1: it might not be from Okay, you know that's it, 1010 00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:03,560 Speaker 1: that's your truth. It's wrong, but I understand it. Okay. 1011 00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:08,400 Speaker 1: What about favorite dessert for Thanksgiving? Go Joel? Okay, probably 1012 00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:12,840 Speaker 1: chocolate peacampie. Is that I feel? For me. I don't 1013 00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:15,880 Speaker 1: like a pumpkin pie. I need my gourds cooked in 1014 00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:21,080 Speaker 1: breads or roasted like fire roasted where they're like almost caramelized. 1015 00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:23,520 Speaker 1: But a chocolate peacamp hie, especially if you can get 1016 00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:30,320 Speaker 1: one from like a South Carolina Georgia Texas area. Forget sensation. 1017 00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:34,040 Speaker 1: Actually Connecticut has really good one too. I'm glad you 1018 00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:40,360 Speaker 1: brought up I'm glad you brought up chocolate because Obsessions 1019 00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:45,280 Speaker 1: Wild Chocolate is your podcast, and there's chocolate is something 1020 00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 1: I love to eat and every time I see it, 1021 00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:55,200 Speaker 1: like harvested, I'm like, that's fucking chocolate? How that? How 1022 00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,680 Speaker 1: that turned a chocolate? Can you tell us a little 1023 00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:00,080 Speaker 1: bit about like your your podcast and like, you know, 1024 00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:02,160 Speaker 1: just it gives u us a little bit of an 1025 00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:04,960 Speaker 1: education like you did on red wine and oysters. So 1026 00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,560 Speaker 1: you're right, like yeah, Like, so chocolate is made from 1027 00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,480 Speaker 1: the seeds of this tree that grows in in the 1028 00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:14,400 Speaker 1: tropics called a cacouchry, and you open up these pods 1029 00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:17,960 Speaker 1: and it's just it looks like this white, slimy, maggoty 1030 00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,800 Speaker 1: pulp and you're like, that's definitely not chocolate. So it 1031 00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:24,400 Speaker 1: has to go through this whole process where they they 1032 00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:27,320 Speaker 1: scoop out the pulp and the seeds and fermented. It 1033 00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:30,080 Speaker 1: has to be fermented, yeah, it's it has to be 1034 00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:32,919 Speaker 1: fermented or it never tastes like chocolate. So and that's part. 1035 00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,960 Speaker 1: That's part that sometimes gets skipped in like crappy chocolate. 1036 00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:37,880 Speaker 1: But anyway, so they do that and then you dry 1037 00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:39,240 Speaker 1: it and then you have to roast it and then 1038 00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,960 Speaker 1: it starts to look almost like almonds, like these brown beans, 1039 00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:47,160 Speaker 1: and then those ground and mixed with sugar to make chocolate. Man, Okay, 1040 00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,959 Speaker 1: So I had no idea how to be fermented note 1041 00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 1: to sell, Yeah, so I'll never be able to them. 1042 00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:54,440 Speaker 1: And it smells almost like like chocolate wine when it's fermenting, 1043 00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:57,920 Speaker 1: Like you walk through an area where it's all being 1044 00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:03,000 Speaker 1: heaped up and fermented, and it's like feels alcoholic almost, Okay, 1045 01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,720 Speaker 1: I like that, Like what you know, what is it 1046 01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:09,680 Speaker 1: about chocolate that makes it? It's like one of these 1047 01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:13,000 Speaker 1: like coveted things throughout history, you know, and and even 1048 01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:16,640 Speaker 1: now like we like it's it's one of Joel's favorite deserves, 1049 01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,120 Speaker 1: like certainly my favorite kind of ice cream. And if 1050 01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:22,680 Speaker 1: anything has cholcoln, like yes, that like oysters. I guess 1051 01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:24,600 Speaker 1: people say it's an affrodisiac, but I don't know if 1052 01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:27,240 Speaker 1: that's what the science is behind that. But what what 1053 01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:29,400 Speaker 1: is it? Like, you know, like why is it? Why 1054 01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:31,800 Speaker 1: does it? Like? Why is it so? What is it? 1055 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,200 Speaker 1: Why is it so powerful in your estimation? Like in 1056 01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:36,880 Speaker 1: looking at how so many people like fight over it 1057 01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:40,800 Speaker 1: and it's like this just gigantic industry. And that's one 1058 01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:43,360 Speaker 1: thing that we keep trying to explore in the podcast 1059 01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:46,160 Speaker 1: is what why why do people go crazy for the stuff? 1060 01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,040 Speaker 1: Why do they go to such great length for it? 1061 01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:51,480 Speaker 1: And part of it is it's actually pretty good recreational substance. 1062 01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:54,800 Speaker 1: It's got a bunch of different psychoactive compounds in it, 1063 01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:57,200 Speaker 1: so they're not like they're not gonna hit you over 1064 01:00:57,240 --> 01:01:00,960 Speaker 1: the head like like Ayahuaska or anything. It's got a 1065 01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:03,919 Speaker 1: lot of compounds in it and make it feel good, 1066 01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:07,480 Speaker 1: you know, like that get the dopamine going so and 1067 01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:09,960 Speaker 1: that's why, you know the Maya and the Aztec, it was. 1068 01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:12,520 Speaker 1: Chocolate was like the heart of their rituals, like all 1069 01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,520 Speaker 1: their ceremonies they would be They always did it as 1070 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:17,880 Speaker 1: a drink, like basically like a hot chocolate, really thick 1071 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:20,560 Speaker 1: hot chocolate, and that was like their thing that they 1072 01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:24,280 Speaker 1: worshiped with because it made you feel really good. So 1073 01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:26,960 Speaker 1: it's got it's got some cannabinoids in it, it's got 1074 01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:29,400 Speaker 1: some things that sort of get your heart going a 1075 01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,520 Speaker 1: little bit, but then it's got other stuff that just 1076 01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:35,880 Speaker 1: you know, science wise, no one really knows why, but 1077 01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:39,920 Speaker 1: it you come away feeling like about the universe. No, 1078 01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm sure anybody who likes chocolate can think of a 1079 01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:46,480 Speaker 1: time they've they had a chocolate that they tried for 1080 01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:49,400 Speaker 1: the first time that was so good and like like 1081 01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,880 Speaker 1: you give a wave fucking washes over you. I don't 1082 01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:54,400 Speaker 1: know if I'm being hyperbolic, but sometimes I have that 1083 01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:58,480 Speaker 1: sensation like something really rich like chocolate. I'm like I 1084 01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:00,680 Speaker 1: feel like I'm going the hyper space on the Millennium 1085 01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:04,479 Speaker 1: falcon ship like lines, and I'm like, oh me too. 1086 01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:07,480 Speaker 1: In fact, I can't do it late at night or 1087 01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:10,480 Speaker 1: like I'm in a hyperspace and it's not sleeping, you know. Oh, 1088 01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,720 Speaker 1: Luckily I don't have that issue. I could I could eat, 1089 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,080 Speaker 1: I could eat. Yeah, I can drink espresso in bad 1090 01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:17,720 Speaker 1: and I'll be fine. But it's just not a good 1091 01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:22,120 Speaker 1: idea to just each other anyway. My wife doesn't like that. 1092 01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:25,120 Speaker 1: But what are you when I saw your face going 1093 01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:26,840 Speaker 1: in all kinds of places when you're talking about all 1094 01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:30,960 Speaker 1: the psychoactive chemicals. Because I believe it. I believe it. 1095 01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:33,560 Speaker 1: Like my mom growing up, she loved it, like a 1096 01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:36,560 Speaker 1: dove chocolate, so she will like have the in the 1097 01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:39,360 Speaker 1: kitchen little things and then they were like perfect, little 1098 01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,880 Speaker 1: bite sized like pick me up. You know. I think 1099 01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:46,640 Speaker 1: every major celebration in my life has had some form 1100 01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:50,360 Speaker 1: of chocolate nearby, you know, whether it's like a birthday 1101 01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:54,320 Speaker 1: cake or you know, and ice cream after like an 1102 01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:59,640 Speaker 1: an epic fail. It's always it's like a I don't know, 1103 01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:03,080 Speaker 1: I think chocolate, especially as an American, I'm not sure, 1104 01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:07,040 Speaker 1: Like globally. But it's like, but as an American, there's 1105 01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:09,800 Speaker 1: always some chocolate nearby if you need to pick me up, 1106 01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,800 Speaker 1: or if you need to celebrate, or if you need 1107 01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:16,360 Speaker 1: a random gift to hand off. This you're seeing somebody randomly, like, 1108 01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:18,720 Speaker 1: it's just it's available to us at all times in 1109 01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:21,160 Speaker 1: every ways, and I'm grateful for it, right and not 1110 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:22,960 Speaker 1: even like to your point where and it feels like 1111 01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,880 Speaker 1: that's like, it's weird that even a box of chocolate, 1112 01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:28,000 Speaker 1: like people like thank you for this gift, you know 1113 01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:31,360 Speaker 1: what I mean, Because any other like sweet like quote 1114 01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:33,360 Speaker 1: unquote candy, someone might be able to be like, oh 1115 01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:37,000 Speaker 1: this doesn't quite rise to the occasion. But chocolate, like 1116 01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:39,600 Speaker 1: we still like we hold it like that's still sacred 1117 01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:42,040 Speaker 1: ince on some level, especially if you get like one 1118 01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 1: of the fancy boxes. Not to be this person. I'm 1119 01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:46,880 Speaker 1: a name d of a little bit, so I Deshanelle 1120 01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:49,840 Speaker 1: when we wanted to her podcast sentos chocolates and I 1121 01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:52,560 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, that's kind of cute. But then I 1122 01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:54,480 Speaker 1: had them and I was like, oh, this is all 1123 01:03:54,600 --> 01:04:00,320 Speaker 1: level chocolate. Three of these a year. Wow. Next you 1124 01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:02,920 Speaker 1: notice that totally with like the really good stuff yeah, 1125 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,800 Speaker 1: the next level stuff. It's like you get more of 1126 01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:08,880 Speaker 1: that hit like slightly drug like hit, but it's not 1127 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,080 Speaker 1: too much drug. Like that's what that's what's so good 1128 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:14,360 Speaker 1: about it, you know, like little chocolate mid morning and 1129 01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:19,840 Speaker 1: it's it's just wait, okay, so explain this because there's 1130 01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:22,880 Speaker 1: levels to everything and like growing. I know you just 1131 01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:25,840 Speaker 1: said oh yeah the good stuff. What are like, i know, 1132 01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:28,560 Speaker 1: like your latest episode is talking about like like big 1133 01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:32,400 Speaker 1: chocolate you know, yeah, like and yeah those are the 1134 01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:35,640 Speaker 1: bad guys. Yeah, So first off, what's the difference between 1135 01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:38,560 Speaker 1: like a regular chocolate that we're like, oh, that's good 1136 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,280 Speaker 1: and one that like you're like, this is the this 1137 01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:44,600 Speaker 1: like what are the absolute heights of chocolate dump that 1138 01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:46,560 Speaker 1: I'm not aware of or like I'm want to be 1139 01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:49,120 Speaker 1: aware of. Yeah, so it kind of goes back to that, 1140 01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,440 Speaker 1: partly to that fermentation thing. So chocolate it's a huge industry. 1141 01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:56,400 Speaker 1: It's like a like multi bill hundred billion dollar industry, 1142 01:04:56,560 --> 01:05:01,760 Speaker 1: five million tons of cacao growing every year, mostly in Africa, 1143 01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:05,160 Speaker 1: and there's some real issues with forced labor. They're like 1144 01:05:05,400 --> 01:05:07,520 Speaker 1: there's a lot of child labor involved, and the chocolate 1145 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:10,520 Speaker 1: companies have had for like twenty years people that after 1146 01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:14,240 Speaker 1: them saying, y'all gotta figure this out, you know, and 1147 01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:16,400 Speaker 1: the prices they pay are really low, and that's why 1148 01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:18,960 Speaker 1: there ends up being this like child labor because the 1149 01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:22,560 Speaker 1: farmers in Africa end up haven't using children because they're 1150 01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:25,400 Speaker 1: being paid so little for their cacao and they also 1151 01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:28,960 Speaker 1: aren't paid enough to like treat to to like do 1152 01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:31,360 Speaker 1: all these quality steps that they need to do. But 1153 01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:34,320 Speaker 1: the chocolate companies, the big chocolate companies, they haven't really 1154 01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:35,720 Speaker 1: gone out of their way to try to fix that 1155 01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:37,840 Speaker 1: because they want to keep the prices low. Would be 1156 01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:40,600 Speaker 1: that they don't. They don't say that, but it's clear. 1157 01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:44,240 Speaker 1: But then so chocolate originated in the Amazon, in the 1158 01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:47,680 Speaker 1: America's and there's still like these old varieties there that 1159 01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:51,640 Speaker 1: have amazing flavor, usually just grown in these like tiny 1160 01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 1: farms in Latin America that have kind of been forgotten 1161 01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:58,320 Speaker 1: about by the industry and that and they are often 1162 01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:00,920 Speaker 1: going to all these steps to ferment it really well, 1163 01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:03,440 Speaker 1: to draw out those amazing flavors and those drug like 1164 01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:08,200 Speaker 1: effects more expensive. But and they're also not using flave labor, right, 1165 01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:12,439 Speaker 1: So the there's a shift. Now there's are like people 1166 01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:15,280 Speaker 1: are really pushing to like try to embrace these these 1167 01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:21,040 Speaker 1: more equitable, more sustainable forms of chocolate production from the 1168 01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:23,800 Speaker 1: America's and also to have that happen more in West 1169 01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:28,480 Speaker 1: Africa as well. Right, So that's the difference. It's it's 1170 01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:30,600 Speaker 1: like it's funny every industry. So I was like, yeah, 1171 01:06:30,720 --> 01:06:32,880 Speaker 1: and the conditions are so bad for the workers because 1172 01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:37,240 Speaker 1: the cost cutting measures like exactly what it is in 1173 01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:40,680 Speaker 1: chocolate if if the like, if you know farmers in 1174 01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:44,600 Speaker 1: like West Africa, we're paying workers in equitable wage, how 1175 01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:47,720 Speaker 1: much do you think chocolate would actually cost? Like what 1176 01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:50,720 Speaker 1: kind of like what's the cost thing? The savings that 1177 01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:52,960 Speaker 1: the like big chilcolate companies are so like being like, 1178 01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:54,960 Speaker 1: oh man, it's a difference between a five dollar and 1179 01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:58,760 Speaker 1: a fucking sixty dollar thing or like what how much different? 1180 01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:01,600 Speaker 1: It's not it's the between like a two dollar Hershey 1181 01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:05,080 Speaker 1: bar and a three dollar Hershey bar. And yeah, like 1182 01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:08,760 Speaker 1: so the governments and like Ivy Coast and Ghanta have 1183 01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:11,800 Speaker 1: like they just put a premium on their their chocolate, 1184 01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:14,320 Speaker 1: right the tocaw They're like, all right, we're gonna charge 1185 01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:16,840 Speaker 1: you an extra four hundred bucks of ton So that 1186 01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:20,600 Speaker 1: all the farmers can have a liv mobile wage and 1187 01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:25,760 Speaker 1: hershey immediately like went around that and bought like I 1188 01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:29,240 Speaker 1: forget thirty thousand tons of cacao on the futures market 1189 01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:31,919 Speaker 1: at a lower price to get around having to pay 1190 01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:36,120 Speaker 1: that like void premium. So the big, the big guys 1191 01:07:36,160 --> 01:07:40,160 Speaker 1: have been avoid trying to avoid higher prices at all costs, 1192 01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:43,120 Speaker 1: and they won't be able to for long. But yeah, 1193 01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:45,840 Speaker 1: it's not that much different. It's like everything would be 1194 01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:50,680 Speaker 1: a little more expensive. That's that's so wild and hersh huh. 1195 01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:52,600 Speaker 1: I mean it's like it's again, it's one of these 1196 01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:55,400 Speaker 1: things to you always see about like fair trade. There's 1197 01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:57,600 Speaker 1: always like every year there's a new fair trade thing, 1198 01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:01,200 Speaker 1: you know, because like our consciousness is now realizing Oh yeah, 1199 01:08:01,240 --> 01:08:04,240 Speaker 1: like we gotta look at our coffee like harvesting practices 1200 01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:06,440 Speaker 1: and you're like at this harvesting practice. And now with 1201 01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:10,680 Speaker 1: chocolate is it like so it is a burgeoning movement 1202 01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:13,160 Speaker 1: like it can where because I want to be able 1203 01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:15,600 Speaker 1: to now say I want this kind of chocolate because 1204 01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:17,880 Speaker 1: my main Rohan just put me on what is like 1205 01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:21,080 Speaker 1: what's what's what's like the rolls Royce of chocolates that 1206 01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:23,599 Speaker 1: we can put some of our listeners onto for who 1207 01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:27,360 Speaker 1: those who participate in the chocolate indulging experience. All right, 1208 01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:30,040 Speaker 1: So the real Rolls Royce for me right now is 1209 01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:33,479 Speaker 1: a woman I focused on the podcast named Louisa Abraham. 1210 01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:37,080 Speaker 1: She's a Brazilian woman. She came out of she quit 1211 01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:39,479 Speaker 1: culinary school like ten years ago when she was in 1212 01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:42,320 Speaker 1: her mid twenties and decided she just wanted to make 1213 01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:44,759 Speaker 1: chocolate out of the wild cacao growing in the Amazon. 1214 01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:48,479 Speaker 1: So she's been partnering with these different different indigenous groups 1215 01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:50,960 Speaker 1: and different parts of the Amazon to make a chocolate 1216 01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:53,800 Speaker 1: with each of their cocaos and basically to funnel that 1217 01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,559 Speaker 1: money back into their community to Basically, it's a way 1218 01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:59,439 Speaker 1: of because chocolate it grows as an understory in the 1219 01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:03,160 Speaker 1: rainform in the Amazon, like it's a little tree, So 1220 01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:05,959 Speaker 1: if you harvest the chocolate, you don't have to touch 1221 01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:08,560 Speaker 1: the forest, so you can sort of keep It's a 1222 01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:12,080 Speaker 1: way of create making money while keeping the forest alive. 1223 01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:14,759 Speaker 1: So she's partnering with these different groups in the Amazon 1224 01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:17,640 Speaker 1: to do that. And also each one of those cocos 1225 01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:21,120 Speaker 1: has a totally different flavor to it, right, so you 1226 01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:23,360 Speaker 1: can kind of like taste all these different flavors of 1227 01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:27,720 Speaker 1: the of the rainforest through your chocolates, probably fermented to 1228 01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:31,000 Speaker 1: right and beautifully fermented. That's one because and I was 1229 01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:33,759 Speaker 1: with her, like you go to these areas mill nowhere. 1230 01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:35,400 Speaker 1: You know, you're like sleeping in a hammock and I'm 1231 01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:38,240 Speaker 1: trying not to get eaten by a crocodile. And you're 1232 01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:41,200 Speaker 1: teaching these workshops about how to ferment the beans to 1233 01:09:41,360 --> 01:09:45,200 Speaker 1: make really good chocolate. Yeah. Wow, okay, we'll see now 1234 01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:48,960 Speaker 1: I can. Now I'm armed with some some good conversation 1235 01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,400 Speaker 1: for things. Can you drop your name again for listen? 1236 01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:57,040 Speaker 1: A B R A M And she has an awesome 1237 01:09:57,080 --> 01:10:01,519 Speaker 1: Instagram account, so where with amazing images of what she's doing. 1238 01:10:02,320 --> 01:10:05,120 Speaker 1: That's a good place for everyone to start. Okay, fantastic. 1239 01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:10,360 Speaker 1: All right, that's gonna do it for this week's weekly Zeite. Guys, 1240 01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:14,320 Speaker 1: please like and review the show. If you like the show, 1241 01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:19,320 Speaker 1: uh means the world to Miles. He needs your validation. Folks. 1242 01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:23,000 Speaker 1: I hope you're having a great weekend and I will 1243 01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:46,360 Speaker 1: talk to you Monday. By