WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Passion Partners

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<v Speaker 1>Jules Second date Update. A listener named Rick is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone to do a second date update today, and

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<v Speaker 1>he already knows that the girl he wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>is not interested in going out with him romantically ever again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so this is going to end? Well, yeah, why

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<v Speaker 1>are we doing because she texted in that and let

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<v Speaker 1>him know that she doesn't want to go out, but

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<v Speaker 1>he still wants to do a second date update. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>get to what she texted in just a second. But Rick,

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<v Speaker 1>why not just give up the fight? Man? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there was some I don't know, just

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<v Speaker 1>some unfortunate things that happened on the first date that

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<v Speaker 1>really aren't an indicator of whether or not we should

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<v Speaker 1>be together. Okay, listen, some people can't take a hint

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a hint, that is very direct. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I need a second chance. I want to convince his

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<v Speaker 1>girl that she should go out with me. We had

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<v Speaker 1>a nice time and she was really, really hot, so

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to see her again. I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's always the first thing that guy says. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's you know, we didn't spend that much time together.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I didn't get to know her that well,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Well, tell us a little bit about her.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name's Kelly, Kelly, and where did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet Kelly? We met online? Okay, She's really beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>and it seemed like from her profile, as far as

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<v Speaker 1>I could tell, she was a really social girl, had

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<v Speaker 1>lots of friends. And we went back and forth for

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<v Speaker 1>about a week and a half just texting each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and we decided to meet up. We got some drinks

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<v Speaker 1>and she said that it was her first time meeting

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<v Speaker 1>up with somebody from online, which I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of didn't buy. Oh you think she's lying about it? Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that that's something that everybody says when

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<v Speaker 1>they're meeting up with someone for the first time. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>likes to admit that they're online dating. Like, man, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on this site for three years now, I still

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<v Speaker 1>can't make anything work. Yeah, all right, So she told

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<v Speaker 1>you was her first time dating. But how did everything

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<v Speaker 1>go with you two? Like? Why do you think she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to go out with you again? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. There were just a couple of moments that

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<v Speaker 1>were just kind of unfortunate. Like I made it a

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<v Speaker 1>joke that she did not get and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a pretty right sense of humor. And wait,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't get the joke or she didn't like the joke.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are two different things. She didn't get the joke. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what was the joke. We were having a great conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>We were laughing, going back and forth, and I just said, God,

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<v Speaker 1>this is great. I think we should go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>make it official. Don't you Oh really dead pan? That's

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<v Speaker 1>not very funny. Yeah, so she didn't laugh at that joke. Huh. Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't think it was very funny. And I told

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<v Speaker 1>her that I was joking, and she kind of laughed

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<v Speaker 1>it off. And oh my god, she probably thinks you're

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<v Speaker 1>lying about the joking line, and you think that she's

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<v Speaker 1>lying about never online dating. You guys, are really or

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of liars were made. Yeah, surprises didn't work out.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you recover from that joke or was it awkward

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of the night after you said that? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she she kind of chuckled after I said

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<v Speaker 1>I was joking, and she shrugged it off, and we

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<v Speaker 1>continue to have an okay evening, and then she went

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom and Yeah, we were kind of getting

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<v Speaker 1>ready to say good night, and she came back and

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<v Speaker 1>I paid the bill and she said, this is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of embarrassing, but she said, She's like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if you know this, but your shirts inside out and

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome. She was. She was right. My shirt was

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<v Speaker 1>totally inside out. I don't know how no, wait, to

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<v Speaker 1>be fair, was it a T shirt or a button up?

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<v Speaker 1>It was a T shirt, so you had your shirt

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<v Speaker 1>inside out the whole time, and then you made an

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<v Speaker 1>awkward joke about YouTube making things official like thirty minutes

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<v Speaker 1>into your date. Yeah. So this is why I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>I think I deserve another chance, because there were a

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<v Speaker 1>few hiccups that could have been avoided. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, I just don't think that those two things

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<v Speaker 1>weren't a I never want to see you again text message. Well, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't say out right that she didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see me again. Like, you know, we second night that night,

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<v Speaker 1>and we text back and forth for about a week,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, I just felt like she was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of keeping me at arm's length, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't really giving me an opening to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>ask her out again. And then I finally did just outright,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, you know, I think maybe we'd be

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<v Speaker 1>better off as just friends, like a real nail in

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<v Speaker 1>the cop. Have you guys talked since that text where

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<v Speaker 1>she just said let's be friends? Well I responded saying, really,

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<v Speaker 1>you know why, let's let's just let's grab some dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>And she didn't respond to that, so, well, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>a good friendly. I always feel like when people send

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<v Speaker 1>that text message, it usually means that they're just not

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to you in that way. Then maybe everything else

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<v Speaker 1>is great about you, but they just have no sexual

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<v Speaker 1>attraction towards you. Yeah. Maybe I mean someone who's gutsy

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<v Speaker 1>enough to tell me my shirts inside out, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. She could have left that slide. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have to tell me that. Yeah, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>think she'd give you just a straight up answer on

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<v Speaker 1>what's wrong with you? Yeah, exactly, which is nothing. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I like that? All right, Yeah, well we'll see if

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. We'll play a song, come back, call her

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update. Okay, all right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on Rock and jubil in the morning. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just tuning in for today's second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Rick is on the phone and he wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named Kelly. We talked to him about his

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<v Speaker 1>first date and it sounded kind of like a disaster.

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<v Speaker 1>But Rick, I think, actually you got something way better

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<v Speaker 1>than getting another date with this girl. What's that You

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<v Speaker 1>made a friend? That's right, Rick made himself a friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Because after their date, they were texting back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit and one of her texts said, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I think we're better off his friends. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's the last time she's talked to him. So she's

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<v Speaker 1>not really a good friend that you keep in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with a lot. But she is a new friend, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should just rejoice in that. Rick, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's a no from Recca. I don't think he's

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<v Speaker 1>excited for some reason. Yeah, I got plenty of friends, really,

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<v Speaker 1>just like a second date. Okay, And were you really

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<v Speaker 1>into her at the end of your first day or

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<v Speaker 1>is this one of those want what you can't have

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<v Speaker 1>type of situations? No, she's great. I really would like

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<v Speaker 1>to see her again. Okay, that's the truth. Okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>just to recap, there was an awkward moment on the

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<v Speaker 1>date when he made a joke that they should make

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<v Speaker 1>things official. She didn't get the joke, so he thinks

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<v Speaker 1>that could be a reason number one why she just

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be friends with him. And then he also

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<v Speaker 1>was wearing his shirt inside out the whole time, and

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<v Speaker 1>she waited until the date was over to tell him that,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's another reason that he thinks she doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with him again. All right, Rick, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about to dollar phone number. Here we go. Okay, thank you. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for Kelly. Yeah, Hi, this is Kelly. Hey, Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you. This is jew Bil from Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. Hi. Are you familiar with the show?

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<v Speaker 1>The show? Oh you sounded like you knew who it was,

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the radio show. Yeah. I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>who you thought was calling. No. The reason that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling you is because one of our listeners actually emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us and asked if we could get you on the phone. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Rick, Rick, and Rick's kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of yours, like a new friend. You guys went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date together. Oh my god, Rick, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my god. We do a segment on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update. It's where if somebody goes out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with somebody and then gets blown off,

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<v Speaker 1>they email us to see if we can get that

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<v Speaker 1>person on the phone and ask what went wrong. So Rick,

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<v Speaker 1>he emails you, guys. Yeah, and he's curious why you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out with him again. I already

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<v Speaker 1>told him we could be friends. I don't Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>did tell us that, but he's curious why he's being

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<v Speaker 1>put in the friend zone right away, because he would

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<v Speaker 1>love to go out on an actual date with you again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, And you know that friend thing was

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<v Speaker 1>a lie because, according to him, you haven't texted him

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<v Speaker 1>again after wanting to be friends. Well, yeah, so can

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us why you don't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again? You know, I was so hesitant to

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<v Speaker 1>do online dating because one I liked meeting people the

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<v Speaker 1>old fashioned way. But my friends were like, no, it's

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<v Speaker 1>so much fun, you have to do it. But they

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<v Speaker 1>all had horror stories of how everybody lied on their profile. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never heard anyone say it's so much fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you gave in and did it and you met Rick.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he lie about his profile? Is that what you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting to. Yeah, he is a liar. WHOA what did

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<v Speaker 1>he lie about? Did he look different? No, he looked

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<v Speaker 1>exactly like his photos. That look nice, he looked he

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<v Speaker 1>represented himself the same in the those Okay, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like everything else in the profile kind of seems like

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<v Speaker 1>a lie. So was he like an entrepreneur? But it

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<v Speaker 1>turns out he lives in his mom's basement or something

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<v Speaker 1>kind of similar. I'm a very active person. And what

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<v Speaker 1>really drew me to his profile was his interests. He

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<v Speaker 1>said he loved hiking, he loves rock climbing, snowboarding, and photography,

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<v Speaker 1>and these are all things I am very passionate about.

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<v Speaker 1>I was hoping to meet somebody where we had similar interests,

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<v Speaker 1>that we could do these things together. Right, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty sexy profile. I'm not gonna lie. I would be

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<v Speaker 1>turned on by those things too. Yeah. And when the

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<v Speaker 1>conversation happened and I would bring up, like I talked

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<v Speaker 1>about going snowboarding once you hear with my family and

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<v Speaker 1>something I look forward to every year, and I take

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<v Speaker 1>my snowboarding very seriously. And he had nothing to say

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<v Speaker 1>about snowboarding. Well, maybe he just didn't have anything to

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<v Speaker 1>add into the conversation. That doesn't mean he doesn't board.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I brought up hiking because his profile says

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<v Speaker 1>I love hiking all caps, I love hiking, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, hey, when's the last time you went hiking?

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<v Speaker 1>And he just threw up his hands in the air

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<v Speaker 1>and shrugged his shoulders and said, I don't know. And

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<v Speaker 1>you said it was in all caps on his profile

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<v Speaker 1>that he loves psychic caps aclamation point, all right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>such a weird thing to lie about. Well, that's like

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<v Speaker 1>the basic thing to say, right, I love hiking, I

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<v Speaker 1>love outdoors. Yeah, if you want to seem like an

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<v Speaker 1>outdoorsy type of person and just say you like to hike. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>It was just so strange. He had nothing to add

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<v Speaker 1>about this, so I kept asking more questions about the

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<v Speaker 1>rock climbing and mountains he liked, and he would just

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<v Speaker 1>stare at me with like a blank stare. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I talked about photography and asked him what's his favorite camera.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I don't know. I just used my phone

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<v Speaker 1>super passionate obviously. Yeah, So I have no idea what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on with his profile If he just copied somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else's or or if he thought it was good date

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<v Speaker 1>to get women to respond to his profile. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like adventure dude. Yeah, I don't know. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just so bizarre, like such a weird thing to lie about. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be a good experience for you too,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's actually on the other line listening, and we'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to talk to you about his interests. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line. He's on the other line. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hey Kelly, Hey, Um wow, big misunderstanding here. Um yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it's one white word it So you've heard everything

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<v Speaker 1>everything I said was true? Right? Can you playing why

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<v Speaker 1>you put all those things on your profile? Well? I

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<v Speaker 1>put them on my profile because I'm interested in them.

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<v Speaker 1>But it doesn't sound like you do any of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Well no, I mean not as much as I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to. But you know, I worked sixty hours a week.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm you know, I don't I worked really hard. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the last time I went hiking was well over a

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<v Speaker 1>year ago with some friends and I had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't, you know, I don't have the opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to go with them every time that they go. Ri

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<v Speaker 1>You said you never went snowboarding, and then your profile

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<v Speaker 1>said it's a passion of yours. I mean, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>passion is a little strongly worded, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's really cool. You know, watched YouTube videos

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<v Speaker 1>and so there you go, Kelly, he is passionate about it.

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<v Speaker 1>He's watching YouTube videos of snowboarding. See what I mean

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<v Speaker 1>this is it's a liar, I mean, Rick, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe that this is the first time this has been

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<v Speaker 1>an issue for you in all of your online dating experience. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>no one else has brought up the fact that you

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<v Speaker 1>say you love snowboarding, and I've never actually gone well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>because most girls are just interested in talking about themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Rick, I'm not like that. I enjoyed talking

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<v Speaker 1>to the other person. I enjoy getting to know somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think you owe it to other women you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to be dating to represent yourself accurately. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you should change your profile that you like Netflix. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there you go, Rick, I'm passionate about watching snowboarding on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be a better way to put it, But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to change my profile. I said that

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<v Speaker 1>I love snowboarding because I love snowboarding and I love hiking. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't go every day or every week, but every time,

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<v Speaker 1>every time I've done it, I really enjoy it. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's an interest. I'm gonna I'm not going to say

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<v Speaker 1>on my profile that I'm interested in out your bra

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<v Speaker 1>which is what I do every day. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think you're not giving people a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>get to know the real Rick. I mean, I understand

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<v Speaker 1>that there's a lot of pressure when you fill out

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<v Speaker 1>those dating profiles to sound like a really cool person,

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes when you put yourself on paper, you realize

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<v Speaker 1>how boring you are. But there's got to be something

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<v Speaker 1>that you're passionate about that other people are passionate about too.

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<v Speaker 1>But does being passionate about something mean that you have

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<v Speaker 1>to do it, like, well, yes, I think yeah, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>at all, Like, at least you should try it once.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're passionate about it, you can't say you're passionate

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<v Speaker 1>about it and have never done it. Okay, Okay, come

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<v Speaker 1>off liars, Okay, Kelly, I think Okay, I get what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying, but I think that calling me a liar

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<v Speaker 1>is a little harsh, don't you think. I mean, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I do need to try something before I say

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm passionate about it. I mean, maybe you could

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<v Speaker 1>take me snowboarding. I would love that. Hey, there you go, Kelly,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with We will pay for it, not the snowboarding, it's expensive,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, we'll pay for you guys to go out

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe set up a snowboarding date. You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little hesitant because he lied, but I'm also very

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<v Speaker 1>interested to see him on a snowboard. All right, So

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<v Speaker 1>is that a yes? You will take Rick to experience

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<v Speaker 1>his passion for the first time ever, and you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are paying for this. We'll talk about the snowboard anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, we'll get you out there. In that case,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be honored. Oh my god, Rick is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hate it. The first day of snowboarding is like the

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<v Speaker 1>worst day of your life. You will ever have a

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<v Speaker 1>more hurt but ever, No, that's gonna be awesome. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really looking forward to getting out there and discovering more

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<v Speaker 1>about my passion. I think everybody who does online dating

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<v Speaker 1>learned a very valuable lesson today from the second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is lie on your profile as much as

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<v Speaker 1>you want because it doesn't matter. You'll get another date anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>you missed it. Rick wanted to call a girl named Kelly.

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<v Speaker 1>They went out on a date they met online. It

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<v Speaker 1>turns out that the reason she didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again was because all of the things

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<v Speaker 1>that he listed as interests on his profile he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know anything about, not at all. He said that snowboarding

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<v Speaker 1>was a passion of his and he's never even been snowboarding.

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<v Speaker 1>He's just seen videos on YouTube and thought he could

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<v Speaker 1>list that as a passion. So she's like, he lied

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<v Speaker 1>about everything, and I like when we called him, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean when she had confronted him, he stuck to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like he didn't just say, you're right, I made it

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<v Speaker 1>up to meet chicks. He said, no, it's still a passionate. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just to watch it and enjoy it. Anyway, they did

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<v Speaker 1>decide to go out again, and maybe she can take

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<v Speaker 1>him snowboarding some day. Yeah, we'll see how that one goes. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second day up, they'll

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<v Speaker 1>have to do his email the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back.