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Speaker 1: Jules Second date Update. A listener named Rick is on

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Speaker 1: the phone to do a second date update today, and

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Speaker 1: he already knows that the girl he wants to call

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Speaker 1: is not interested in going out with him romantically ever again.

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Speaker 1: Oh so this is going to end? Well, yeah, why

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Speaker 1: are we doing because she texted in that and let

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Speaker 1: him know that she doesn't want to go out, but

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Speaker 1: he still wants to do a second date update. We'll

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Speaker 1: get to what she texted in just a second. But Rick,

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Speaker 1: why not just give up the fight? Man? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like there was some I don't know, just

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Speaker 1: some unfortunate things that happened on the first date that

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Speaker 1: really aren't an indicator of whether or not we should

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Speaker 1: be together. Okay, listen, some people can't take a hint

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Speaker 1: that's not a hint, that is very direct. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: I need a second chance. I want to convince his

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Speaker 1: girl that she should go out with me. We had

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Speaker 1: a nice time and she was really, really hot, so

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to see her again. I love that.

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Speaker 1: That's always the first thing that guy says. Well, I

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Speaker 1: mean that's you know, we didn't spend that much time together.

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Speaker 1: You know, I didn't get to know her that well,

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Speaker 1: all right, Well, tell us a little bit about her.

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name's Kelly, Kelly, and where did

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Speaker 1: you meet Kelly? We met online? Okay, She's really beautiful

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Speaker 1: and it seemed like from her profile, as far as

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Speaker 1: about a week and a half just texting each other,

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Speaker 1: and we decided to meet up. We got some drinks

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Speaker 1: and she said that it was her first time meeting

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Speaker 1: up with somebody from online, which I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: kind of didn't buy. Oh you think she's lying about it? Well, no,

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Speaker 1: I just think that that's something that everybody says when

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Speaker 1: likes to admit that they're online dating. Like, man, I've

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Speaker 1: can't make anything work. Yeah, all right, So she told

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Speaker 1: go with you two? Like? Why do you think she

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to go out with you again? Well, I

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Speaker 1: don't know. There were just a couple of moments that

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Speaker 1: were just kind of unfortunate. Like I made it a

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Speaker 1: I have a pretty right sense of humor. And wait,

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Speaker 1: she didn't get the joke or she didn't like the joke.

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Speaker 1: Those are two different things. She didn't get the joke. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what was the joke. We were having a great conversation,

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Speaker 1: We were laughing, going back and forth, and I just said, God,

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Speaker 1: make it official. Don't you Oh really dead pan? That's

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Speaker 1: not very funny. Yeah, so she didn't laugh at that joke. Huh. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: she didn't think it was very funny. And I told

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Speaker 1: it off. And oh my god, she probably thinks you're

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Speaker 1: lying about the joking line, and you think that she's

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Speaker 1: a couple of liars were made. Yeah, surprises didn't work out.

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Speaker 1: Did you recover from that joke or was it awkward

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Speaker 1: the rest of the night after you said that? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I paid the bill and she said, this is kind

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Speaker 1: of embarrassing, but she said, She's like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you know this, but your shirts inside out and

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Speaker 1: that's awesome. She was. She was right. My shirt was

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Speaker 1: be fair, was it a T shirt or a button up?

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Speaker 1: It was a T shirt, so you had your shirt

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Speaker 1: into your date. Yeah. So this is why I'm saying

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Speaker 1: I think I deserve another chance, because there were a

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Speaker 1: come on, I just don't think that those two things

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Speaker 1: she just said let's be friends? Well I responded saying, really,

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Speaker 1: And she didn't respond to that, so, well, that's not

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Speaker 1: hold on Rock and jubil in the morning. All right,

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Speaker 1: if you're just tuning in for today's second date update.

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Speaker 1: Rick is on the phone and he wants to call

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Speaker 1: a girl named Kelly. We talked to him about his

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Speaker 1: first date and it sounded kind of like a disaster.

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Speaker 1: But Rick, I think, actually you got something way better

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Speaker 1: than getting another date with this girl. What's that You

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Speaker 1: made a friend? That's right, Rick made himself a friend.

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Speaker 1: Because after their date, they were texting back and forth

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Speaker 1: know what, I think we're better off his friends. And

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Speaker 1: I think you should just rejoice in that. Rick, I

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Speaker 1: excited for some reason. Yeah, I got plenty of friends, really,

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Speaker 1: just like a second date. Okay, And were you really

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Speaker 1: type of situations? No, she's great. I really would like

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Speaker 1: So that's another reason that he thinks she doesn't want

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Speaker 1: about to dollar phone number. Here we go. Okay, thank you. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I was looking for Kelly. Yeah, Hi, this is Kelly. Hey, Kelly,

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Speaker 1: how are you. This is jew Bil from Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. Hi. Are you familiar with the show?

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Speaker 1: The show? Oh you sounded like you knew who it was,

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 1: This is the radio show. Yeah. I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: who you thought was calling. No. The reason that I'm

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Speaker 1: calling you is because one of our listeners actually emailed

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Speaker 1: his name is Rick, Rick, and Rick's kind of a

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Speaker 1: the second date update. It's where if somebody goes out

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Speaker 1: he emails you, guys. Yeah, and he's curious why you

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Speaker 1: told him we could be friends. I don't Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, And you know that friend thing was

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Speaker 1: a lie because, according to him, you haven't texted him

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Speaker 1: again after wanting to be friends. Well, yeah, so can

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Speaker 1: you tell us why you don't want to go out

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Speaker 1: Did he lie about his profile? Is that what you're

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Speaker 1: getting to. Yeah, he is a liar. WHOA what did

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Speaker 1: pretty sexy profile. I'm not gonna lie. I would be

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Speaker 1: the basic thing to say, right, I love hiking, I

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Speaker 1: hey Kelly, Hey, Um wow, big misunderstanding here. Um yeah,

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Speaker 1: there you go, Rick, I'm passionate about watching snowboarding on YouTube.

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