Speaker 1: You know what I can stand. I can't send what
Speaker 1: your motherfucker has a big zozo and he knows he
Speaker 1: has a big zozo. But he wants you to know that.
Speaker 1: He knows that you know he has a big zozo.
Speaker 1: So he's sticking the entire zozo. And why you have
Speaker 1: to do that? Just put that sip in that set.
Speaker 1: I know you have a big zozo. You know you
Speaker 1: have a big zozo. My throat don't need to know that.
Speaker 1: Why are you sticking yours so far? In me? I'm
Speaker 1: seeing it come out of my mouth. Come on. Text
Speaker 1: some of those was allowed text some of it out
Speaker 1: put that's it, that's it, No take it out. You
Speaker 1: feel that, Yes, I feel that, my heart feel that,
Speaker 1: my thought feel that. Share my Thompsons feel it. But
Speaker 1: the funk man take Some of those was allowed? Man,
Speaker 1: come on, you don't have to prove nothing to me.
Speaker 1: Text some of those as all out share Frank, you
Speaker 1: don't have to use my insertions else. I want to
Speaker 1: have children one day, but if you're breaking me like that,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be able to do that. Text
Speaker 1: some of tho zozo out. Hey, everybody working, horrible decision ends.
Speaker 1: I'm wheezy, and today we are going to be joined
Speaker 1: by the lovely and late Jesse Wou and Sam Whiteout,
Speaker 1: who are filling in from Mandy B. Today. I am
Speaker 1: so excited to be here. We are at the Gotham
Speaker 1: Podcast Studio at one hundred Church Street. It's an awesome
Speaker 1: place to record your podcast. They have two rooms. They
Speaker 1: offer video as well, So if you're ever in New
Speaker 1: York and you want to invite us on your pod,
Speaker 1: we'll meet you here. Thanks for joining me, Sam, Thanks
Speaker 1: for having me. It's been a while, dude. So I
Speaker 1: just want to say I'm so excited to have you
Speaker 1: back because your episode at the time was like so
Speaker 1: highly rated and it was very vanilla. It was it
Speaker 1: wasn't that vanilla. It was okay, alright, you talked about
Speaker 1: like college train running. You're like, oh, but not me, No, No,
Speaker 1: that's that is not how that went down. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Everbody should just go listen to episode
Speaker 1: twenty one and then they can be you know, their
Speaker 1: own judge. And compared to this, Sam's episode was about
Speaker 1: dating dudes, dating don't. Jesse's episode was called why man
Speaker 1: a Ship? And so basically I'm like you know what
Speaker 1: to turn the table as you guys both have really
Speaker 1: great energy. Let's just make it all about things you
Speaker 1: want and dating dudes. Let's manifest some good sex. We'll
Speaker 1: put it out good vibes, speak it into existence. So
Speaker 1: I want to tell a story actually really quick while
Speaker 1: we're waiting for Jesse, because it's crazy. Okay, this is
Speaker 1: seriously insane. So I've been dating this guy named Jeeves.
Speaker 1: We had a threesome with this girl. Wait time out,
Speaker 1: you have a new man. Okay, it's been like a year, bro,
Speaker 1: calm the funk down. I just hey, it look back
Speaker 1: like oh, but I mean come on now, let's I
Speaker 1: don't think you want to bark up that trip. Okay,
Speaker 1: And you know what, to be fair, I said the
Speaker 1: other day, Um, I need to in order to have
Speaker 1: help this podcast grow, I need to be a hoe,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, I can't just keep
Speaker 1: my pussy to myself. I have to throw it out
Speaker 1: there for material. So this is just content couchie at
Speaker 1: this point. Content couchie. That's a hashtag right there. Put
Speaker 1: that crazy. So we have a threesome with this girl
Speaker 1: and meet on this app called Field. Wait time out.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine, Like I'm trying to envision, like a
Speaker 1: girl's wearing a pair of panties and it says hashtag
Speaker 1: content couchie on the front like Twitter, and I'm right, wait, wait, wait,
Speaker 1: wait what am I getting myself into? Sign the NDI
Speaker 1: a sign the India frankly, like, I feel like this
Speaker 1: is now a fetish for any new men that I
Speaker 1: will meet. They're like, oh, yeah, it's content Couchie. Like cool,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna is she gonna talk about it? So they're
Speaker 1: gonna put an extra work. Um, so here's what happens.
Speaker 1: Have this threesome like a month or so ago. So
Speaker 1: I go downstairs. I looked like ship. It was the
Speaker 1: rough day of work. And I went to my favorite
Speaker 1: plea to place. It's called Sauce NELLI. Yes, check it out.
Speaker 1: It's really good and I always get the classic. So
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there and I'm looking at someone sitting at
Speaker 1: the table, a group of two friends, and you know
Speaker 1: when you're looking at someone but you're like where do
Speaker 1: I know them from? So the girls smiling at me
Speaker 1: and she's, um, you just wait. Let me give a
Speaker 1: little background. It was an okay threesome one out of ten.
Speaker 1: I'll give it a six point five seven. I didn't
Speaker 1: even get the dick beau. The didn't want it. She whatever,
Speaker 1: it was fine, interesting, I'm really into being a boyor
Speaker 1: so she's looking at me. I'm looking at her, and
Speaker 1: this girl smiling at me, and then she's talking to
Speaker 1: her friend, and then the friend looks at me. I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: they're not black, so they must not know horrible decisions. Honestly,
Speaker 1: is your demographic that skewed towards black? Yeah, we have
Speaker 1: thirteen white people that listen, and they always right in
Speaker 1: and they'll say, hey, I'm two out of thirteen, three
Speaker 1: out of thirteen. Now that we've been on really an idiots,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna push it up to maybe twenty six. But
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't even count bro. Black people send
Speaker 1: you to ship and you out here. Black lives matter
Speaker 1: all days, so we can't even count you in the
Speaker 1: thirteen comments. So anyway, the girl, I'm getting the pizza.
Speaker 1: I'm waiting for it, and the girl comes over to
Speaker 1: me and she's like, oh my god, hi, and I'm
Speaker 1: like hey, and she's like, are you kidding me? I said,
Speaker 1: hold on and she's like, you're a bit and she
Speaker 1: laughs and then like hugs me, and I'm like what.
Speaker 1: And I don't know if the smell of her reminded
Speaker 1: me of her, not in a bad way, I know,
Speaker 1: but I'm still well, but I think her scent reminded
Speaker 1: me that it was her, and I'm like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: And I didn't know her name, so I was like,
Speaker 1: why do you even try? So then I just say like, girl,
Speaker 1: are you felt bad? Right? Because she's sitting there now.
Speaker 1: She's like, damn, you don't even remember me, bl blah
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. So I'm still at the window right
Speaker 1: and I'm so fucking embarrassed that i don't know her.
Speaker 1: I just want to get my pizza and leave now.
Speaker 1: For anybody that knows me well, they know I have
Speaker 1: an egg gallergy and this is what made me feel worse.
Speaker 1: The guy's like, miss, miss, we ran out of the pizza,
Speaker 1: but we have the bacon ranch pizza if you want that,
Speaker 1: and she says she can't eat that she's allergic to eggs.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you remember my allergy and I don't remember
Speaker 1: your pussy r face. This is terrible, bro. So I'm
Speaker 1: sitting there trying to like overcompensate, right, I'm just telling her.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, it's been such a long day.
Speaker 1: Like it's been I just like, so, dude, I felt
Speaker 1: so bad. He's like, do you want the pizza? Like no,
Speaker 1: So I start running down the street. He's like, you
Speaker 1: forgot your money. He's holding three dollars over the fucking window.
Speaker 1: Like it's fine, It's fine. I felt so bad, Sam,
Speaker 1: you should because I only bring us up to ask
Speaker 1: have you ever forgot No? But I now have the
Speaker 1: greatest excuse for forgetting people's names because I get to say,
Speaker 1: at least, it's not like we had sex and I
Speaker 1: forgot your name because I'm to you. So I actually
Speaker 1: want to say thank you, because I get in trouble
Speaker 1: all the time. I meet a lot of people, and
Speaker 1: I love meeting people, but I forget people's names. I'll
Speaker 1: remember somebody what they were like wearing, and what we
Speaker 1: talked about, and what we were eating, what the weather
Speaker 1: was like. She was naked. I would have remembered her
Speaker 1: bush because that was honestly the most memorable thing about her.
Speaker 1: And I just want to say I was It was
Speaker 1: a very jarring bush. Okay, So I don't mind a bush,
Speaker 1: but like if it's around like the whole of the pussy,
Speaker 1: which is like the actual vagina, right, Like I had
Speaker 1: to eat your vagina with hair in it, I don't
Speaker 1: want to pull it on that teeth, you know, having
Speaker 1: stems in the blunt. I already got big teeth, they
Speaker 1: already in the way. I don't need the hair too.
Speaker 1: So when I remember the bush. So it's funny because
Speaker 1: when I she took off her panties, I was like,
Speaker 1: oh no, and then she opened her legs. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's not where I thought it was. But like, have
Speaker 1: you seen the movie Waiting with Ryan Reynolds, Why, there's
Speaker 1: like a there's like a bush scene where this like
Speaker 1: crazy waitress stands on a table and like like pulls
Speaker 1: her pants down and it's like this crazy bush. And
Speaker 1: she's like, that's okay. It wasn't that bad. It wasn't
Speaker 1: that bad. She was very clean, she smelled fine, tasted fine.
Speaker 1: It's just like I haven't seen a full bush like
Speaker 1: that in a long time. And I just want to
Speaker 1: say I kind of felt like it was coming. So
Speaker 1: she kept talking about how much of a feminist she was,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I love equal rights. I ride
Speaker 1: for my sisters all day, every day. But I'll be
Speaker 1: wax so because it's your right to wax or to
Speaker 1: not wax. Thank you, So here we go, seriously, no
Speaker 1: thank you, because that story is now recorded, so on record.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have this saved so that I can literally
Speaker 1: anytime I get shipped for not remember somebody's name, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna play this. Appreciate this. I don't appreciate this.
Speaker 1: I don't appreciate this. I'll appreciate this at all because
Speaker 1: you'd be a real shady I grateful, all right. I
Speaker 1: already feel bad about it. Honestly, I'm praying to God
Speaker 1: she doesn't know my Instagram or anything, because this would
Speaker 1: be even worse. But like I said, you tasted great,
Speaker 1: just better. It's going to get better. If she knows
Speaker 1: your instagram. Why would it get better because there would
Speaker 1: be more to the story, which maybe she'll come on.
Speaker 1: That would be great. She'll be like, hey, fuck you,
Speaker 1: what's your name again? What is it wise with? All right?
Speaker 1: So I wanted to do Vanilla ship, but I thought
Speaker 1: maybe we could skip that because you're already kind of
Speaker 1: the Vanilla Ship of the show. Well, it's like, um,
Speaker 1: but people, you came on and everybody wanted me to
Speaker 1: ask you something that you do want to Twitter Sam
Speaker 1: after Dark right asked Sam nasty questions and we went
Speaker 1: easy on you. So I'm going to start this off
Speaker 1: with a bang no pun. Okay, the first episode was
Speaker 1: the one that you heard about the missing condom that
Speaker 1: you talked about on a few platforms, that you enjoyed
Speaker 1: it and whatever, Dad Ship was hilarious. I looked like
Speaker 1: a crazy person walking down the street. I was laughing. So,
Speaker 1: speaking of crazy people, have you ever got a condom
Speaker 1: stuck on a girl? And if so, did you offer
Speaker 1: to help get it out? What happened? Tell us that
Speaker 1: I definitely think it's happened more than once. Really, yeah, um,
Speaker 1: I know it happened with like this girl I was
Speaker 1: seeing in college for like and it's like not it
Speaker 1: wasn't just like a casual one or two time thing.
Speaker 1: We were like seeing each other pretty frequently, so you were, Okay,
Speaker 1: we're going elbow deep to get it out. No, No,
Speaker 1: I think she was embarrassed. I was like, oh Ship,
Speaker 1: like my bad, and then she just went to the
Speaker 1: bathroom and took care of it. Wait, you didn't help
Speaker 1: her get the condom out offered. You just walked into
Speaker 1: Jesse who my sisters talking? Have you ever had a
Speaker 1: condom stock in your puzzy Jessie? Why do you know?
Speaker 1: What a question to walk into? She knew? What do
Speaker 1: you know? I've had a condom stuck there by the way.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever met Sam, I don't
Speaker 1: really met. It's nice to me. You like che I
Speaker 1: like beautiful women. Have you ever been with a white woman? Yes?
Speaker 1: You you know. When I interviewed you last time, you said, no,
Speaker 1: that's not true. Yes you did. Nope, that's that's a lie.
Speaker 1: You've been with aitian O. My head found this is getting.
Speaker 1: This is like me. It's just like me fucking white
Speaker 1: boys and then finding out from my frayed hairs that
Speaker 1: I'm black. I'm like, whoa, that is a not I
Speaker 1: definitely didn't write to you. I definitely have head sex
Speaker 1: with a white girl, like and before the podcast it
Speaker 1: was in college. I feel like you told us to know,
Speaker 1: but I'll go for it. I've never dated a white woman.
Speaker 1: That's what the question was, and that is still true.
Speaker 1: Why is that is it the food child. I don't
Speaker 1: often find myself in like social situations with white women.
Speaker 1: I saw Van le Thin post a peanut butter sandwich. Van,
Speaker 1: by the way, right, what you heard me? What in
Speaker 1: the white buck? And so he then posted a caption
Speaker 1: as to tag someone who would enjoy this, and I wrote, frankly,
Speaker 1: I have so many white friends at tag, but I
Speaker 1: think they're only friends with me. For the food. I
Speaker 1: would tag a rope or something, maybe a maggot that
Speaker 1: is disgust make is eating peanut butter and mayo. That's
Speaker 1: white people put mayo on just too much. They really
Speaker 1: do that. I ain't gonna like I'm all with like
Speaker 1: a Chipotle mao. Yes, because it's a season male, right right?
Speaker 1: All right, you're walking into Lord, you know, okay, this
Speaker 1: is neither of your first times around. It's not. Let's
Speaker 1: get speaking of that. We already played the clip of
Speaker 1: you talking about zozos. Alright, So if someone squirts this
Speaker 1: is Sam, are you licking it up? Or are you
Speaker 1: freaking out if it gets on you or your face? Uh? Neither.
Speaker 1: I'm certainly not going to freak out. There's not much
Speaker 1: that can be me freak out. I mean, you have
Speaker 1: a beard, a K flavor saver and so shout out
Speaker 1: to recognizing so you do when it's soaked up like
Speaker 1: and it's dripping, do you not like kiss with the
Speaker 1: taste and stuff? Oh? Sure, But I'm saying like I
Speaker 1: was just meaning to say that, like, there is not
Speaker 1: much it could go down that would make me freak out,
Speaker 1: especially because I feel like it's freaking out during sex
Speaker 1: just makes the other person feel embarrassed. If it was
Speaker 1: a squirting stream of piss, how do you feel about that?
Speaker 1: That would not be okay? But what squirting is from
Speaker 1: urine in there, So I mean it's like a little bit,
Speaker 1: but like I feel like it tastes different. It's tangy,
Speaker 1: got a little tang to it. Have you ever squirted drinks?
Speaker 1: I've never squirted me neither. Maybe it's something wrong with
Speaker 1: me a girl. Maybe we should practice with saying m
Speaker 1: Maybe we should after the show? What do you think
Speaker 1: that's you? Have you ever seen pins? Also? You know
Speaker 1: I've seen pins also before, and you know I'm just
Speaker 1: not I mean, here's the thing, right, my mom's an
Speaker 1: armand and she told me not all white men's half
Speaker 1: pink Zuzukay, that's said that some white man's got brown zuzu?
Speaker 1: Is that true? I mean not not like not like brown,
Speaker 1: like like like a little Indians getting like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, a little yeah, like a little you know,
Speaker 1: some little Indian, a little Native and marriage, so just
Speaker 1: like not pink like yeah, and then there's a tone, right.
Speaker 1: And I was watching the show called Housewives of Potomac.
Speaker 1: One of the black girls up there, she dates a
Speaker 1: white man and she was like, you know his my
Speaker 1: my husband, Penis is half black half white. Because it's
Speaker 1: being on she was like, the shaft is white, but
Speaker 1: the balls is brown. So I don't know. It's like,
Speaker 1: you know what he really he talks to her like
Speaker 1: a black dude. So I'm like, well, maybe that's something
Speaker 1: to it, maybe a little brown or whatever. It's like
Speaker 1: it's yeah, you know it like maybe maybe it's right.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I haven't seen enough white guy dicks to
Speaker 1: really make a judgment. True, Yeah, I wouldn't know. When
Speaker 1: you watch porn, are you watching inter racial morn? You watching?
Speaker 1: Do you have to watch black nick porn? What? Because
Speaker 1: it's not like it makes him feel, it makes me
Speaker 1: feel what it makes him feel the way. I'm just
Speaker 1: I mean no, I just I can't like place myself,
Speaker 1: like I can't place myself. So is that what you're
Speaker 1: doing in porn? You're placing your Okay, got it, I
Speaker 1: would imagine. So I don't do that. I just appreciate
Speaker 1: the boy for what it is. I don't know. For me,
Speaker 1: porn is always nice to they start having sex, like
Speaker 1: you appreciate the plot. I'd be liking it and I
Speaker 1: want to be you know, like talking to each other
Speaker 1: and stuff. And then when they're like when the dicks
Speaker 1: starts slamming into the pussy, I did, I'm done? But wait,
Speaker 1: what part do you come to? I don't come to
Speaker 1: any Okay, So why so I feel like you and
Speaker 1: I take very different approaches to porn because I watch
Speaker 1: porn to get a nut so that I can go
Speaker 1: to sleep because I'm tired and stressed. I'll be watching
Speaker 1: porn to like get ideas and stuff. But then it's like,
Speaker 1: so you watch porn for research? Yeah, okay, I didn't know.
Speaker 1: I've watched enough. I feel like I've watched enough porn
Speaker 1: though that the research is just like a side factor,
Speaker 1: like I watched like I like to watch like the
Speaker 1: romantic porn be like, oh yeah, I like the romantic
Speaker 1: It's like, but that's like sometimes like they've just be
Speaker 1: jamming the zozo in there. It's like, don't be jamming
Speaker 1: my ship up, Like no, it's a weird traffics do
Speaker 1: you pay for? Like where are you finding this? Like
Speaker 1: high quality? They have a lot of Actually, um, there's
Speaker 1: a woman named Erica Lust Jeeves told me about. So
Speaker 1: she's a girl chat femaleographer that has people submit their
Speaker 1: stories in and then she reenacts them with actors and
Speaker 1: it's made for women. It's like you really typing this hand?
Speaker 1: I mean made for women porn is usually better. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know it's like you know, the wind be blowing
Speaker 1: in your hair and ship and basically there's more like
Speaker 1: production value. Yeah yeah, it don't take much of me.
Speaker 1: So I'm a dude at heart, like I like it
Speaker 1: to be disgusting, honey, I don't want to, but I
Speaker 1: see and then like they'd be like coming on ahead,
Speaker 1: like don't be coming on my pair, don't do that.
Speaker 1: That does suck me up. Don't be coming on my
Speaker 1: frontal wig, Like this is a week, don't don't come here,
Speaker 1: you know, try to come you know, somewhere over here.
Speaker 1: Don't come up here over here because and it's like
Speaker 1: I gotta take the come out, and you know it's
Speaker 1: mixed with the hair glue and nobody got time. Exactly
Speaker 1: are you black girls? You'll be old on what's going
Speaker 1: on with Actually, you know what, let's start off with
Speaker 1: this because we're a little confused, Sam, can you just
Speaker 1: we didn't do that. I just kind of figured everybody
Speaker 1: new because this is both your second episode. Can you
Speaker 1: just tell the people who you're white black as is? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: So what's up, y'all? I'm Sam White Out. I talk
Speaker 1: about race and politics, sencific engagement at schools and colleges
Speaker 1: across the country, and I'm blessed to you know, partner
Speaker 1: with a lot of amazing activists across the country and
Speaker 1: try and make this clusterfuck of a world a little
Speaker 1: bit of a better place. Didn't you work for the
Speaker 1: Obama admin? No, I didn't. I worked for Corey Booker,
Speaker 1: who is a senator from my home state of New Jersey.
Speaker 1: Corey is an amazing person. He's a good friend, he's
Speaker 1: he's one of the good politicians out there. Is actually
Speaker 1: trying to help people. Um so I interned for him
Speaker 1: rap Befres from school and we stayed in touch, and
Speaker 1: so I work on stuff like that and then I
Speaker 1: do kinky ship like this because I think that people
Speaker 1: should realize that you can care about politics and you
Speaker 1: can care about other people's lives. And someday one of
Speaker 1: people say, you said you could be a social justice
Speaker 1: person at a home. Yeah you can. You can be.
Speaker 1: Everybody should be. You should be for social justice period,
Speaker 1: whether you're a hoe or a doctor or a lawyer
Speaker 1: or a doctor who or whatever the case. And Jesse,
Speaker 1: who are you? Well, you know I'm still trying to
Speaker 1: foule I am. But you know I'm just a little
Speaker 1: Haitian girl from Miami who talks a lot about securing
Speaker 1: your pay league and you know, Zozo appointment, so whatnot.
Speaker 1: But I'm a host for BT and I do like
Speaker 1: stand up comedy and I have a lot of stuff
Speaker 1: in the works. You drink a lot of dwinks. I
Speaker 1: drink a lot of dwinks. I don't. I don't drink spam,
Speaker 1: but I drink dwinks. You don't what what? I don't
Speaker 1: drink spell? You know this? A half white en us, Sam,
Speaker 1: What wait, I'm supposed to swallow it? I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: just you never, I'm not gonna say supposed to. You
Speaker 1: should do every you like. You taste like a little salty. Well,
Speaker 1: then you're working with the wrong dudes. You know, you
Speaker 1: need to fix their type of niggers. I'll be there
Speaker 1: and maybe eating a lot of steak and ship and
Speaker 1: so like they should be. They should be tasting like
Speaker 1: Haitian food. Yeah, maybe tastes my peak leaves. The sperm
Speaker 1: he tastes like peak leaves. Now, I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: swaddle that. Sorry. I remember, So I had gotten into it.
Speaker 1: I had had there was a I just canna move on.
Speaker 1: There was there was a girl who I was and
Speaker 1: like I had kind of assumed. I had always kind
Speaker 1: of assumed that like if you're giving me head, that
Speaker 1: gonna come in your mouth, right and then hold up,
Speaker 1: hold up and something. And so I got I got
Speaker 1: sort of you know, checked on that because Shorty was like,
Speaker 1: you know, she wasn't mad, but she was like, you
Speaker 1: should have said something. You should have asked me, like
Speaker 1: where do you want me to come? And then if
Speaker 1: I wanted you to come in my mouth, I would
Speaker 1: have said, so, okay, cool, but here's the thing. So
Speaker 1: for the next like a couple of months, whenever that
Speaker 1: sort of situation would arise, I would ask, right now,
Speaker 1: try and do it in a way that was not
Speaker 1: sort of like weird, but just sort of were you like, yeah,
Speaker 1: no blow jobs? And then I had one girl afterwards
Speaker 1: she was like, don't you ever ask me no dumb
Speaker 1: sh it like that again? And I put your dick
Speaker 1: in my mouth. I will fucking swallow like I ain't,
Speaker 1: no bitch. I was like, I was like, girl, thank you,
Speaker 1: I'm back, you know, I just I don't know. It's
Speaker 1: just something about having people's children just swimming my mouth.
Speaker 1: I'm just I don't know like I thought, you know,
Speaker 1: first it was the taste. Now it's like I'm killing kids.
Speaker 1: Listen anywhere anywhere? What where you think they should anywhere
Speaker 1: where God in the Bible things they should be. I'll
Speaker 1: take it anywhere. I'd rather have a wig. I don't
Speaker 1: put on my wig that I will be upset. Don't
Speaker 1: put on. So I saw some on Twitter where there's
Speaker 1: like a tweek going around like what's the wildest ship
Speaker 1: you've ever seen? On this app? Right? And people will
Speaker 1: quote it with some crazy ship and one girl goes,
Speaker 1: she goes yo. I was sucking this dude's dick and
Speaker 1: my hair kept getting in the way, and so he
Speaker 1: pulled off my wig and put it next to him
Speaker 1: and said, if you're gonna do this ship sucking right,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. First of all, I
Speaker 1: could not fathom having enough confidence to take a short
Speaker 1: these wig. You can't see my wig doune came off
Speaker 1: during sex before, but really this is where my ex
Speaker 1: But he was polite. He politely placed the back on
Speaker 1: and then he kept his hand on it while he
Speaker 1: he was just so polite. Do you think he needed
Speaker 1: the wig to finish? Like he was confused, because it's
Speaker 1: like when the wig fell off. I was like, I
Speaker 1: kind of like you know how the baby is about
Speaker 1: to pen the baby falls and they're about to cry
Speaker 1: and you look at them. Yes, it was like that,
Speaker 1: Like I almost had that moment. He was like he
Speaker 1: put it back on me, and he was like, removed
Speaker 1: the head, but let me just see how he He
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think I didn't take it all
Speaker 1: the way off, but like I was pulling her hair
Speaker 1: and her ship was not secure. Oh you supposed no,
Speaker 1: Like she caught it. It was like it was like,
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying that if her hairline
Speaker 1: was it was like back here when she caught it
Speaker 1: and kind of pushed it back, you know, better than
Speaker 1: to be grabbing the girls. I thought wings were secure,
Speaker 1: and then my that was a read that was a
Speaker 1: sister secure, especially doing sex out loud. You know, I've
Speaker 1: been doing that recently. So I've been like, so I
Speaker 1: wear like clipping. Sometimes I wear trying to wear my
Speaker 1: own hair, so like I'll do the clips for volume
Speaker 1: and sometimes they come out. And so what my favorite
Speaker 1: thing to do is I take the band anna and
Speaker 1: I firmly secure right what clips be clip just because
Speaker 1: you're not gonna grab that exactly, I don't see exactly.
Speaker 1: I've actually taken a piece that had fell out and
Speaker 1: just like talk it right under the pillow. Uh, So
Speaker 1: let's stop talking about wig sliding. Moving on, So we
Speaker 1: do a kink in the week. Both of you all
Speaker 1: know this, but I wanted to do past kinks and
Speaker 1: see if y'all could guess what they mean. Okay, one
Speaker 1: that I mentioned today, I feel like Sam knows. But
Speaker 1: number one Boukocki. Do you know what that is? Jesse Bokocky,
Speaker 1: You don't know what Boukocki is? Is that like doo
Speaker 1: doo in cock? No, I feel like as a as
Speaker 1: like a growing up in like a white town and
Speaker 1: like prepubescent like middle like you know, no, but I
Speaker 1: mean like I feel like straight, young white suburban kids
Speaker 1: are the grossest people alive. That's true. That's probably why them. Now,
Speaker 1: I mean nothing, nothing, nothing, I mean they fine, it's fine, okay,
Speaker 1: but yes, I know boukaki is alright. So actually my
Speaker 1: mom just learned what bokkies. We were playing cards against
Speaker 1: Humanity and she had no idea what the card was.
Speaker 1: So I googled Urban Dictionary and I gave it you
Speaker 1: and I said, please don't say anything, like just read
Speaker 1: this and say nothing what it is. It's when like, uh,
Speaker 1: at least two so like two or more guys are
Speaker 1: coming on a shorty space usually her face awhere, but
Speaker 1: that's against my religion. So like like the classic Boukocki
Speaker 1: video is like a little Asian girl getting netted on
Speaker 1: by like oh you know what, I've seen those type
Speaker 1: of porns maybe cartoon though, like ye, do you be searching. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll be looking at the cartoon. I thought you. I
Speaker 1: guess you're watching Marge and Homer. Yes, I do. I've
Speaker 1: been seeing family the best. Yes, that's what I wanted.
Speaker 1: Crazy that I like it, but people are into it,
Speaker 1: actually I do. That was like into um animated. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like that photos he liked like fawns and like
Speaker 1: medieval ship. Yeah. It was like kind of scaring me.
Speaker 1: But the dick was really good, and I think I
Speaker 1: was like always in fear for my life. But next
Speaker 1: that's the half white part of you. Okay, uh number two.
Speaker 1: I feel like we can do some context clues here. Aquaphelia,
Speaker 1: aquaphilia okay, so aqua water being super turned on by
Speaker 1: the idea of being drowned or submerged in water. Holy,
Speaker 1: that was not I thought it was gonna be like
Speaker 1: enjoyed in the water, enjoyed being drowned. There are people
Speaker 1: like that, though. I had a guy who asked me
Speaker 1: to choke him till he passed out. That was my
Speaker 1: next one. I was about to say, like I was
Speaker 1: with you, I was with you until they passed out,
Speaker 1: he asked me. So that's called That was my number three.
Speaker 1: That's a strong hand. Its fixation and look at me,
Speaker 1: I'm looking at a smart well. I can't choke you negative.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Like all black women are
Speaker 1: capable of choking. Well, I gotta be angry, like I'm
Speaker 1: not going to do that while I'm my pussy with Yeah,
Speaker 1: tell the nut on your funnel and then okay, so
Speaker 1: next time, yeah, not on my for We like, do
Speaker 1: one for me, one from you. The last one actually
Speaker 1: the third one was aspixiation, which is being choked out.
Speaker 1: The last one is called bro middraphilia, bro mid drift philia.
Speaker 1: Some about a mid drift and somebody brother bro middriff.
Speaker 1: It wasn't close, but I doesn't want to hear. I
Speaker 1: feel like you said it deliberately like that to make
Speaker 1: us think bro midriff. But if it's like, okay, maybe
Speaker 1: bro middriphilia. But it's the attraction to body odor. Oh
Speaker 1: hell no. So all are saying that. But me and
Speaker 1: Mandy had an email recently where someone wanted to pay
Speaker 1: us four for our panties and socks. Should have said
Speaker 1: you got to do well. The thing is panties don't
Speaker 1: smell bad. Though. Good for you, Jesse, because there are
Speaker 1: women out here that probably cannot say the same. Okay,
Speaker 1: are we talking about pussy? Oder were talking about body order,
Speaker 1: right talking? Yeah, Well, I think any kind of bo
Speaker 1: like I mean, I mean, there's there's a very distinct
Speaker 1: smell difference between like somebody's fucking armpits and so here's
Speaker 1: the weird thing. I've had. A guy asked me for
Speaker 1: my panties too before though that that's on a hot
Speaker 1: It depends like gross panties or like what if I
Speaker 1: was like, hey, why don't you go work out and
Speaker 1: let me smell it? You're the under arms of your
Speaker 1: that's weird. Well, see, hold on, I'm gonna so. I
Speaker 1: used to have this thing with this man I used
Speaker 1: to live with where when he went to the gym,
Speaker 1: I just liked the scent of his shirts. It wasn't
Speaker 1: like stink, no, no, no, yeah, it's like musk some dudes.
Speaker 1: Yeah like this, you know the smell of you know,
Speaker 1: I've lost a couple of shirts that way smells good.
Speaker 1: I don't want to kind of smell him after the show. Hey,
Speaker 1: I shout out to Dasha Polanco. I remember when I
Speaker 1: first met her, she was like, she has this little hashtag.
Speaker 1: She goes and I smell good too, or something like that.
Speaker 1: She told me I smelled good. I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: I stay ready, so I gotta get ready. So okay, okay,
Speaker 1: shout out to Dasha and smelling good. Put the pan on,
Speaker 1: burning up. We were worried about the sound, you guys,
Speaker 1: but we're really trying to do good with audio. But
Speaker 1: I'm sorry we got turned his air on because ship
Speaker 1: my tracks a lot. All right, horrible decision for this week. Okay,
Speaker 1: you came on, Jesse and we did um nicka saying
Speaker 1: ship and you came on, we did dating don't. So
Speaker 1: I want to spread some positivity and manifest some good
Speaker 1: stuff for people. I keep getting in letters about what
Speaker 1: to do on first dates? Do I spend money? What
Speaker 1: should I do? I do this? So I want to
Speaker 1: talk about dating dudes. All right, So the first one
Speaker 1: I have is paying for the first date. Just sucking.
Speaker 1: Do it, man, just do it. That's not even up
Speaker 1: for discussion. I will say this, what I pay for
Speaker 1: the first date. I think I think you can't get
Speaker 1: away with not paying the first date. But I think
Speaker 1: it's fucking dumb. It's like an arbitrary bullshit. It's annoying,
Speaker 1: but I do it anyway. Don't all lord me like
Speaker 1: I do it. But I'm just saying it's it's dumb.
Speaker 1: It's supposed to paid. That's it. There s I mean
Speaker 1: to be fair to right, I didn't. I didn't say that.
Speaker 1: I don't do it. I'm just saying I think it's dumb.
Speaker 1: Why I feel like if I pay for the first day,
Speaker 1: it's because I want Dick and I don't want nothing
Speaker 1: else from you. Really, see when I paid for the
Speaker 1: first day, when I offered to split the bill or something,
Speaker 1: it's because I don't want to see you again. That's
Speaker 1: how that's the thing. I'm paying for the first day.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see the Dick tonight. Why why wouldn't
Speaker 1: you tell me? Because find Dick. I'm paying for Dick,
Speaker 1: and I'm done. I appreciate the straightforward. I think there's
Speaker 1: a there's a lot of things that are more important
Speaker 1: than this. But if if somehow like the world were
Speaker 1: to get simplified enough where like we can have a
Speaker 1: conversation about it. I think it's kind of silly, but
Speaker 1: I'm going to do it. I get it. It's a
Speaker 1: social standard. I get it folk, Sam, but not pay
Speaker 1: for dinner. You know lethal lips is y'all wan't be
Speaker 1: knowing how to cook. I had them motherfucker breaking on Instagram.
Speaker 1: Bro we see them cookies, Brooklyn Nigga talk about something.
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't do pay for dick.
Speaker 1: I just want to cook phone. So I come over.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, I'm gonna get a meal. Why you make
Speaker 1: him sound like he got as he was sorry he
Speaker 1: cooked me and asthma ass meal? What was it? Some
Speaker 1: damn noodles and he put like he put like parmesan
Speaker 1: on it? Did he made you pasta alfred with chicken?
Speaker 1: It wasn't and pasta was pasta. It was noodles, put
Speaker 1: a little Pomesan on it, and then he had a
Speaker 1: nerd to put parsley leaves on. You know what, you
Speaker 1: don't take that day. So he's like, you know what,
Speaker 1: let me get them things, let me get the grass
Speaker 1: on the Yeah, it's it's really romantic to like cook
Speaker 1: dinner with somebody, though, Yes, but not for the first date. No,
Speaker 1: not for the first day. I feel like a first
Speaker 1: date should be now. Now, I want to say this
Speaker 1: before you walked in, before we even started recording. Sam
Speaker 1: was saying, you know, I'm not really going on dates
Speaker 1: with people that I haven't met yet. I'm going on
Speaker 1: dates with someone I know, which I feel like no,
Speaker 1: like no, no, but I mean like I don't know, yeah,
Speaker 1: like maybe we're acquaintances or something like that. So that
Speaker 1: don't happen to me. I swipe right or I meet
Speaker 1: you in a bar. That's how I'm not on dating apps. Okay,
Speaker 1: I kind of like that, though I don't feel I
Speaker 1: feel like that's how I date, but it's not how
Speaker 1: like it's not what I set out to do, but
Speaker 1: I feel like that's how I've dated. Really, yeah, a
Speaker 1: couple of times when it has been something I just met,
Speaker 1: Like the dude who took me to Noodles. He was
Speaker 1: a guy met at the bar. Not that there's anything
Speaker 1: wrong with meeting anybody at a bar club, but like
Speaker 1: it's just not where I usually find that I'm in
Speaker 1: like the most relaxed context and meeting people. So like
Speaker 1: I'll meet people through friends or some ship or whatever
Speaker 1: you mean, people on Instagram. It's happened, but it's not
Speaker 1: like it's usually like you're easy, don't You're very you're verified.
Speaker 1: What maybe maybe there's like skating with the verifications and ship.
Speaker 1: Now you've been verified for a minute, so you've pus
Speaker 1: that way. That is false. I'm not the only place
Speaker 1: I'm verified as Facebook, And who gives a funk about Facebook? Besides,
Speaker 1: like middle aged people game pussy that blue check beginning
Speaker 1: some pussy, you know he's verified. I don't, because y'all
Speaker 1: have more than a quarter million followers. So well, so
Speaker 1: number two, my dating dude, this is a really important
Speaker 1: one for me, and it is asking questions, slash, keeping
Speaker 1: your ego and check and open ended text. Now let
Speaker 1: me explain, and then I want you all to degress. Okay,
Speaker 1: so what are you going to get to the kinky part? Okay? Well,
Speaker 1: you talked about coming in hair. Can we give it
Speaker 1: a fucking second saying damn, don't put your dick out
Speaker 1: just because I'm sitting here you getting excited. Hold on
Speaker 1: a second. First of all, y're not going to tell
Speaker 1: me that y'all. I do not need to hear no
Speaker 1: more bullshit about how y'all went easy on me. So
Speaker 1: I gotta make sure that this episode. You know, I'm saying, pops,
Speaker 1: I literally just asked you if you were tasting. It's like, females,
Speaker 1: I'm just making sure. What more do you want me
Speaker 1: to do? Do you eat? Ask Sam? No, but I've
Speaker 1: got my ass eat? Wait, you don't eat ass? Well? No,
Speaker 1: I haven't eaten ass. It's not like a thing. Why
Speaker 1: are you not eating ass? Maybe I just haven't found
Speaker 1: the right ask to eat? What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Right about the pussy? I'm saying I've I've gotten like
Speaker 1: a little bit of ass on the way up on
Speaker 1: one of those like long licks. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Just like some eat my ass. And I'm still trying
Speaker 1: to figure out if I liked it. I definitely. It's
Speaker 1: probably like the first time we all try in my
Speaker 1: high But you were you like it? You did not
Speaker 1: like it? I'm with Tank. Tank talked about it interview.
Speaker 1: He was like, we need to unshame men getting their ass,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm with We know you talked
Speaker 1: about yours. You like it, I don't ask for it.
Speaker 1: But if you're gonna go down there, ain't gonna stop.
Speaker 1: Are you eating booty? Hey? No, these niggers don't know
Speaker 1: how to white right. Next thing you know, I'm down
Speaker 1: there eating meatballs and ship that should be stuck in
Speaker 1: the hands. You got hair, you get the hairs out
Speaker 1: of the inside of your ass. I can't do. You
Speaker 1: mean the inside are shaving your booty hole? I mean,
Speaker 1: like as close to it as ye, Well, don't you
Speaker 1: shave your boy carefully? That's how you don't. Okay, I
Speaker 1: get what I'm with that chemical ship. I'm gonna start
Speaker 1: getting wax as though, because like it's pretty it is. Honestly,
Speaker 1: every time I get waxed, it takes like two niggas
Speaker 1: off my pussy, honestly, Like I haven't gotten the West
Speaker 1: in a while. It just looks like new pussy every time.
Speaker 1: And honestly, it's so baby fresh. You know, somebody comes
Speaker 1: off course is wide. I haven't gotten wax in the
Speaker 1: years by then when I used to get them back
Speaker 1: in college, like I used to send like five niggas
Speaker 1: like Yo, what's up? What's fresh? Po pussy? What's going on?
Speaker 1: What you're doing to night? I want to you back
Speaker 1: to open ended text nasty people like damn keep going
Speaker 1: um So I want to leave the open end of
Speaker 1: texting because I feel like I've dated so many men
Speaker 1: that have been so confused why I didn't think they
Speaker 1: were into me because they text very vague. You have
Speaker 1: to have open ended texts, not like what's up, good morning,
Speaker 1: good morning, beautiful, good morning, beautiful, good morning, beautiful, good morning, beautiful,
Speaker 1: good morning. What you doing, what you're doing, what you're doing,
Speaker 1: watch you're doing, watch you doing? O lord, it's too vague.
Speaker 1: It's like, what is this? I feel like you have
Speaker 1: to volley the conversation back and forth, and if you don't,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be back and forth. I don't
Speaker 1: like texting, so I might do you like a phone call?
Speaker 1: Put you prefer phone calls? Yeah? I mean, like, I
Speaker 1: think there are certain people where like the text conversation
Speaker 1: like flows really nicely and whatever, and it works, but
Speaker 1: it's so easy for schedules to get in the way
Speaker 1: that like if I'm busy or if you're busy in it,
Speaker 1: it just can get disjointed and then all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: it's like waiting, like you know, five six hours in
Speaker 1: between text messages, and it's difficult to create a conversation
Speaker 1: that way. And if if I recognize that that's the dynamic,
Speaker 1: you'd be on Instagram. Now. Well, if I'm on. If
Speaker 1: I'm my Instagram or Twitter, it means I'm not texting you.
Speaker 1: You saint it. You say that you let you heard that,
Speaker 1: but maybe I don't you know what. Anyways, the point
Speaker 1: is I'll just call even the ones just so ask
Speaker 1: questions and keep your egoing and check. This is a
Speaker 1: big one for me. I've been on a lot of
Speaker 1: dates where I feel like men are putting themselves on
Speaker 1: the table too quick with like how great they are
Speaker 1: and if you turn off, and I feel like we
Speaker 1: have to start remembering to ask people their interests. I
Speaker 1: am a victim of this. On my own show, I
Speaker 1: will invite someone on and then just be like, let
Speaker 1: me tell you about the dick I got, But really
Speaker 1: I should be asking Jesse about the dick she just got. Well,
Speaker 1: I ain't been getting no dick, so you ain't got
Speaker 1: no been like three months, let's see who's had sex.
Speaker 1: I got cobwebs in my pussy, Nacha three months clean?
Speaker 1: Those that have no problem walks them right out. Um no,
Speaker 1: but you're right though, a lot of a lot of
Speaker 1: guys are like that. Yeah, shut then up, let me
Speaker 1: ask me, asked me how my day went, bitch, what
Speaker 1: the fuck, I'm here to ship. I think I think
Speaker 1: that's the case. But I also think that part of
Speaker 1: it is like a young professionals, everybody so busybody he's
Speaker 1: talking about themselves and and I think that people are
Speaker 1: really comfortable. Now, somebody must have told you don't shut
Speaker 1: then up over here to know, I don't. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't like talking about myself on dates because I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just like I get the same questions,
Speaker 1: and I want to ask both of you. As someone
Speaker 1: that's popping in you know, black Twitter, Instagram and whatever
Speaker 1: in your community, do you find that you go on
Speaker 1: dates for people trying to ask you about that. I
Speaker 1: try and avoid going on on dates with the types
Speaker 1: of people who are going to eat by that. Like
Speaker 1: I have a very clear radar about trying to avoid
Speaker 1: those coins of environments, which is why I don't usually
Speaker 1: meet people at the bar. And not that's anything wrong
Speaker 1: with that, because it's not a problem if if they
Speaker 1: know me. It's a it's a problem of if they
Speaker 1: know me, and why are they interested? Like what are
Speaker 1: you do you just want me to like talk about
Speaker 1: like I don't know, Instagram and Twitter and ask you
Speaker 1: a question on some reverse racism right here, reverse racism
Speaker 1: doesn't exist, thank you, Sam, definitely doesn't because white people
Speaker 1: stuck away. White people can't be racist. Racism requires power,
Speaker 1: thank you. Black people can be prejudicial or discriminatory or whatever.
Speaker 1: It's just like gay people can be discriminatory, but like
Speaker 1: gay people can't be Like, there's no such thing is
Speaker 1: like heterophobic, right, there's no such thing as reverse racism.
Speaker 1: Like why do you hate straight people? I'm a sucking pig.
Speaker 1: Like it's so hard to be a white man. Okay,
Speaker 1: it doesn't do you feel when people want you to
Speaker 1: be their first white boy? That was my question for you. Uh,
Speaker 1: do you feel fetishized? Fetishized would probably be the wrong
Speaker 1: word because it's so rare. It's actually a joke, But
Speaker 1: I mean saying that it doesn't make you feel uncomfortable though, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, we're definitely. Yeah, you have to be so
Speaker 1: fine at that point, like otherwise I'm just like I'm good,
Speaker 1: Like if it was worth it, I ain't gonna lot
Speaker 1: like I've wanted to try, you know, pink penis um,
Speaker 1: But them Gray movies kind of skipped me because y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all be time, people laughing ship that's what I like.
Speaker 1: But that's if you want me to basket. You know
Speaker 1: you haven't missed some like decent like boys crowd. I
Speaker 1: want two hands unless you want me to. Lord. This
Speaker 1: is the first time ever in the studio where like
Speaker 1: I wasn't the one trying to suck the guests. Honestly,
Speaker 1: it's just constantly me throwing content and you know, just
Speaker 1: the thing is my parole right now, but that's my
Speaker 1: are you saving it for? Like, how do you feel
Speaker 1: about sex with an X? Well? The thing it's like
Speaker 1: me and my ex, because even the last time I
Speaker 1: came out was with my ex. Yeah, so I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just like we broke up three months ago. We
Speaker 1: haven't done anything, and I just feel like I can't
Speaker 1: like have sex with somebody else right now. It's like,
Speaker 1: what the fun? Let's not even get too deep on
Speaker 1: number four. Oh, I'm sorry number three. Be honest. If
Speaker 1: you didn't enjoy the date and you're not feeling it,
Speaker 1: instead of going ghosts, just tell the truth. Amen. I
Speaker 1: hate when people go ghost so fucking much. It's disrespectful.
Speaker 1: Be a fucking grown ass person, be an adult. You
Speaker 1: can tell me that you you don't want to chill anymore,
Speaker 1: like you can do it in a way that's polite.
Speaker 1: I have had people thank me for saying that I
Speaker 1: wasn't interested. I have had men do the same for me,
Speaker 1: and um, I really appreciate it. As much as it's
Speaker 1: considered more brutally honest, it's actually but still it feels
Speaker 1: brutal because you're the one who's interested, right, But it
Speaker 1: is better than just getting ghosted. At least you're an answer.
Speaker 1: I have to work on that because I'm good for
Speaker 1: blocking my mother sucker after a bad day. Really, yes,
Speaker 1: I blocked you on everything that's wild, But that's because
Speaker 1: it's hard. It's hard for her to be upfront because
Speaker 1: you're probably worried you feelings don't care about you're feeling
Speaker 1: the guilt of like feeling like, oh funk, I gotta
Speaker 1: tell this motherfucker' I don't believe that. I just I
Speaker 1: don't be caring. You're telling me that you don't. Dude,
Speaker 1: do it all the time to us. So why I
Speaker 1: gotta why I gotta be the one? So why I
Speaker 1: gotta be the bigger person? No block? But I don't know.
Speaker 1: I had a situation where I hit short because I
Speaker 1: thought things went well and then she was essentially got ghosted,
Speaker 1: and then she hit me up like a week later,
Speaker 1: and she was like, I was wondering whether or I
Speaker 1: should tell you, but I just didn't feel like we
Speaker 1: vied very much, and so like I'm kind of good
Speaker 1: on hanging out. And I was like, okay, like you
Speaker 1: could have just said that, like it's no problem, but
Speaker 1: thanks for you know, let me know whatever. You know
Speaker 1: that just blocked you good just black, but you too old,
Speaker 1: I think. But I think I think the thing is
Speaker 1: if if y'all was like, if it was one date,
Speaker 1: I feel like I can get behind what you're saying,
Speaker 1: like I went on a date with a couple of
Speaker 1: dates with this girl and then I'm not I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at all because she didn't. She actually
Speaker 1: texted me. She was like, hey, I've really enjoyed our dates.
Speaker 1: I just don't see this going any further, and like
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be straight up, you know, with you,
Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, I appreciate that. That is
Speaker 1: different talking about first I was talking about both. I
Speaker 1: still think you're old dead on the first day, but
Speaker 1: here nor there this one. I feel like it's the
Speaker 1: most important one and it is set your standards now.
Speaker 1: I feel like in my lifetime, especially with lover Boy,
Speaker 1: because I was very confused on the blurred lines and
Speaker 1: if you've been a listener of horrible decisions and you know,
Speaker 1: I was like, my wofefrien anything. Now my boyfriend blah blah,
Speaker 1: were talking about who I think we're talking about? Okay,
Speaker 1: sure the last one you remember? Okay, when I was
Speaker 1: when I interview you. When I interviewed you did have
Speaker 1: a boom. It's still that okay, But like, ok, I
Speaker 1: am talking about lover Boy, who was trash, and he
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I don't know if we're gonna be
Speaker 1: when it come back, you know, then we're gonna be
Speaker 1: the route. And I was not clear that I had.
Speaker 1: We're not clear at all. I told you, I literally
Speaker 1: told this to your face. I'm gonna tell you more later. Vision.
Speaker 1: So basically, I feel like I didn't set the standards
Speaker 1: from from jump, and I think that women should be
Speaker 1: saving theirselves from these situation ships by being honest when
Speaker 1: the nigs like oh yeah, yeah, I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: kick it. If you don't want to just kick it.
Speaker 1: I don't kick ship around me. We ain't kicking ship.
Speaker 1: We're not homeboys. It's really uncomfortable because you know, we
Speaker 1: want a Dick. But at the same time, like if
Speaker 1: you want more about committed zig, I want every day Zig.
Speaker 1: I want Monday through Sunday appointment. I want the appointment Z.
Speaker 1: I want boyfriend Zick. You know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: want exclusive Dick, Exclusive Dick. What's exclusive Dick the boyfriend
Speaker 1: or just your Dick? You my you, my boyfriend, Dick.
Speaker 1: You might might be my husband, Dick. You might call
Speaker 1: me my mama, Dick. You might we go on a
Speaker 1: Sunday church service together, Dick. That's what I want. You're
Speaker 1: such a church you bring up the Sunday right there.
Speaker 1: I used to be trying to get banged by the
Speaker 1: worship leaders like, oh, you know what I'm saying, you're
Speaker 1: just so gifted by God. Let me, Oh, my Lord,
Speaker 1: who that boy? Someone doing it the way he was?
Speaker 1: By the way, jose Jesse told a great story about
Speaker 1: a pastor being gay and wanting to suck her to yes. Uh.
Speaker 1: Number five is very simple. It is put your phone away.
Speaker 1: I feel like too many people are obsessed with their phone.
Speaker 1: Stop checking your phone. Being in the moment, breathe present.
Speaker 1: I feel like that is the biggest fucking turn off,
Speaker 1: you know what. I feel like. I feel like when
Speaker 1: somebody does that, they're not that into you. When I'm
Speaker 1: out with somebody and I really feel like we're connecting,
Speaker 1: I'm not checking on my phone because I'm focused on
Speaker 1: what we're doing. A bad date, I still give the
Speaker 1: person a decency of not texting Jesse, you ain't ship
Speaker 1: you blocking niggas texting other niggas like out with that.
Speaker 1: But there's a difference between like why it's bad. Is
Speaker 1: it bad because the person is being a douche bag
Speaker 1: because they're being a have had that? Then then I
Speaker 1: feel like you sacrifice. You lose sort of the right
Speaker 1: to expect someone to be sort of courteous. But if
Speaker 1: it's a bad date just because y'all don't click, but
Speaker 1: it's still like courteous and sort of like, you know, nice,
Speaker 1: then you don't want to be a dickhead. My last
Speaker 1: one is tell me how you feel, slash compliment, slash
Speaker 1: ask me for the second date, all right after the
Speaker 1: first date. I feel like when I am on an
Speaker 1: amazing date and it's going good. Right after we're leaving
Speaker 1: each other, right before he's like, hey, I want to
Speaker 1: see you again. Absolutely, And I feel like and someone
Speaker 1: doesn't do that, they're not very clear to where it's
Speaker 1: off putting for me, and I'm low key just like
Speaker 1: completely uninterested by the end of the day. I agree.
Speaker 1: What about women, do you think that we should be
Speaker 1: saying that, yes, thank you, ah, you know what, saying
Speaker 1: like I'm having a good time with you. You're not complimenting.
Speaker 1: And but you said, should we be the ones that
Speaker 1: asked for a second day? Can we say like I
Speaker 1: had a really good I don't, But should you be
Speaker 1: giving indicators that you want to see the given? And
Speaker 1: here's here's my indicators as well. You know, I'm giving
Speaker 1: line indicators and shoulders. I'm putting my titties on a
Speaker 1: table like I mean, I need that when I'm meant
Speaker 1: to it. But I also feel like they might just
Speaker 1: think that's me. I don't know, So I do this
Speaker 1: thing that I appreciate that recently I've been starting I
Speaker 1: start saying, like in the middle of the day, like
Speaker 1: I'm having a really good time with you, Like I like,
Speaker 1: I love that ship. That is great. You know, She's like,
Speaker 1: I have never complimented a man. I've been like, I
Speaker 1: hate all the see that would make me think you
Speaker 1: were ansto me. Yeah, that would honestly compliments. And I
Speaker 1: feel like that also translates like gas her up, like
Speaker 1: you don't, don't be hesitant to be kind, Like, don't
Speaker 1: don't think that being kind is being thirsty. You can
Speaker 1: There's a difference between being kind of being thirsty, like
Speaker 1: if you are like if the only pictures you ever
Speaker 1: respond her Instagram story are the ones where she's in
Speaker 1: a bikini during the summer. Okay, you're sucking up, but
Speaker 1: if but you shouldn't hesitate to like compliment her like
Speaker 1: a complement my friends too. It's not just a romantic
Speaker 1: thing like gas your people up. Guess your friends up,
Speaker 1: guess your home girls up, your homeboys, guess everybody. And
Speaker 1: if you're sucking somebody, why would you not want to
Speaker 1: guess them up even more? Each white boy? Please? All right,
Speaker 1: I want to get to the homemail. We got to
Speaker 1: get out of here, and I'm asking this question, uh,
Speaker 1: because I feel like I don't know you're both good
Speaker 1: for it. The subject is was I a fucking colorist. Okay, ladies,
Speaker 1: love the podcast and energy you both bring listening to
Speaker 1: your show. Is any highlights my Monday. I'm in college
Speaker 1: working towards the end of my freshman year, and I
Speaker 1: started working with an African. I don't know, hold on,
Speaker 1: let me look at her name, but yeah, oh signed
Speaker 1: molka shot. Okay, I'm in college. Let's started finding one African? Okay.
Speaker 1: I knew we both didn't want to be in a
Speaker 1: committed relationship, so our relationship was based off sex. The
Speaker 1: sex was capital letters, great, consistent, and came with the
Speaker 1: occasional cuddling. However, we fell off and when he got
Speaker 1: a girlfriend, he continued to hit me up for sex.
Speaker 1: I declined when we started up again when he was single.
Speaker 1: He's now in another relationship. It looks exactly like his
Speaker 1: ex light skinned, Spanish looking but they're still pretty. I
Speaker 1: this has made me start questioning or not whether I
Speaker 1: was dealing with a nigger who could fuck medium to
Speaker 1: dark skinned black girls but only wanted to wipe up
Speaker 1: lighter tone Spanish girls. I want to know if I'm
Speaker 1: tripping and has this happened he all before. I'm not
Speaker 1: offended by being pursued emotionally by him. But this is
Speaker 1: low key sucking me up since I've never experienced something
Speaker 1: like this. Sincerely, Mochas Shorty and uh, I want to
Speaker 1: read this because me and Mandy can't speak on this.
Speaker 1: Me and Mandy are both lights and girls. What are
Speaker 1: we supposed to say? Oh, Nigga's we already know that.
Speaker 1: I mean, there's a prejudice towards black skinned women sometimes
Speaker 1: darker skinning sometimes excuse me, And I want to know,
Speaker 1: has that ever happened to you? What explained that? Like,
Speaker 1: what's what's happened to you? You You like, you've you've sucked
Speaker 1: a dude and then all of the girls that he
Speaker 1: was serious with with lighter skin or um, Well for me,
Speaker 1: thank goodness, we didn't get that far. But I've had
Speaker 1: gone on a date, gone on several dates with somebody,
Speaker 1: and I realized, like by like I think it was
Speaker 1: like the second date that I was the only black
Speaker 1: girl he had dated, and he was black, and he
Speaker 1: was just making these type of comments to me, like
Speaker 1: and I was like, bitch, Like he would make comments
Speaker 1: about my hair or make comments about the things that
Speaker 1: I wore or the music that I listened to or
Speaker 1: you know, like and then it's like he tried to
Speaker 1: flirt with me following up with that, and it's like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I don't want you can say things to me that
Speaker 1: are trying on the opposite end. Um, Like, they'll say
Speaker 1: things to me like, oh, you know, yeah you black,
Speaker 1: like you're not as blah blah blah, or your hair
Speaker 1: isn't as or you ain't as loud, and I'm like, oh, yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: I think it ultimately comes down to the fact that
Speaker 1: on either end of the spectrum, people are trying to
Speaker 1: define black womanhood by one thing and that's not okay, right.
Speaker 1: And so whether it's um, you know, light skinned folks
Speaker 1: or biracial folks or multiracial folks getting sort of criticized
Speaker 1: and told that they're not black enough or they're not
Speaker 1: white enough and they don't belong in either community, right,
Speaker 1: Whether it's that or dark skinned women being held to
Speaker 1: ridiculous standards and being told that they're not pretty from
Speaker 1: the time that they're six right discussed, it's fucking gross
Speaker 1: on both ends. And I think I think you see
Speaker 1: that it's something that that spans both, Like white men
Speaker 1: do this, black men do this, like men do this
Speaker 1: right in terms of trying to define for women and
Speaker 1: for themselves, like what what kind of women are they
Speaker 1: allowed to be? Right? And if we see these images
Speaker 1: all the time where like lighters go, I mean even
Speaker 1: down to music, when music videos were popping, right, it's
Speaker 1: like always the lights popular, It's like there's experience with
Speaker 1: wild and now you know what I mean. Like even
Speaker 1: when I was a while not girl, it was like
Speaker 1: I was told like I was not exotic. You know,
Speaker 1: I didn't get any shine, any any And I just say,
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to jesse, you are so well. I
Speaker 1: didn't feel in that moment on the video with you.
Speaker 1: People are like Damne, first of all, I mean, we
Speaker 1: all know you're not that, but I in those moments
Speaker 1: I felt ugly. But you know what, what I've realized
Speaker 1: is it's always these things are all started out by
Speaker 1: some dumbass men. Like it's always founded in some dumbass
Speaker 1: dude who can't even fit the bill of what ideally
Speaker 1: we want a guy to look like. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, I remember when I was, um, I
Speaker 1: think in middle school, I had a guy telling me, oh,
Speaker 1: you're pretty, but you know, dark girls aren't in right now, Like,
Speaker 1: I'll never forget that. But I think you see, it
Speaker 1: comes from I mean it comes from men period, attractive
Speaker 1: attractive menst anybody else. And I think you know, part
Speaker 1: of the problem is that when women come forward and
Speaker 1: try and talk about these issues, their lambastad on both sides, right.
Speaker 1: So who was the There was the afric Latina woman
Speaker 1: she was on like the reality show she's got like
Speaker 1: the big fro what's her name anyway, the girl from
Speaker 1: love Hip of the Spanish one I'm not a negra,
Speaker 1: the one that wears abuse supply. So like when she
Speaker 1: came forward and started talking about coloris and she received
Speaker 1: this tremendous feedback, I mean a pushback, right, and it
Speaker 1: was ridiculous because she was saying something that was so
Speaker 1: fucking obvious, and I was to what you mean? But
Speaker 1: then on the other side, on the side, you still
Speaker 1: have you have Like Kruchi just talked about an interview
Speaker 1: how she for a long time had body issues because
Speaker 1: she felt like she was supposed to have big Here's
Speaker 1: the thing. People people came at her and said, oh, well,
Speaker 1: you're I hate bitches who complain, pretty bitches who complain
Speaker 1: about being pretty, like you don't have it hard. But
Speaker 1: it's like, wait a minute. The whole point here is
Speaker 1: that girls, for as long as they are aware of
Speaker 1: themselves as girls, are told not just what they're supposed
Speaker 1: to look like, but that they don't look like that.
Speaker 1: But whatever, there's you can find any woman can you
Speaker 1: can find any man can find a way to tell
Speaker 1: a woman that she's ugly. And that's part of the problem, right,
Speaker 1: And that's why I think that there's whether it's the
Speaker 1: whatever permutation it is, whether it's a black man doing
Speaker 1: this because you know your situation, like he doesn't normally
Speaker 1: date black girls, or a white guy who's doing this
Speaker 1: and fetish sizing you and saying, well, you're not really
Speaker 1: black like you. Basically all that that ship ultimately comes
Speaker 1: down to the fact that men are so uncomfortable talking
Speaker 1: about women, and really a lot of the guys just
Speaker 1: don't like women. I believe that, right, what they like
Speaker 1: is they like pussy, yeah, right, And the problem is
Speaker 1: that I think that it comes from it comes from homophobias,
Speaker 1: and honestly, life is so much better when you just
Speaker 1: don't try and tell other people how they're SUPs with
Speaker 1: their life. And you know what I will never understand too,
Speaker 1: going back to my thing as a black man, how
Speaker 1: are you gonna sit here and tell me? You know so?
Speaker 1: How do you keep up with that thing? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying in reference to my hair? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like you're downplaying me when I'm looking
Speaker 1: through your Facebook and your mama got the little Beauty
Speaker 1: Supply wigs for ninety nine, the synthetic ones. Don't come
Speaker 1: at me like that, you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 1: don't come at me like you came out of a
Speaker 1: black pussy. You know what I feel like? It's it's
Speaker 1: a very condom that comes from what are you gonna
Speaker 1: do with your hair? When we're in the what are
Speaker 1: you gonna do? It's gonna get bitch, that's what it's
Speaker 1: gonna get. Wet pussy getting a bit on a level
Speaker 1: where I don't mean it like I do mean it
Speaker 1: like this. Look at you, Jesse, right, are you going
Speaker 1: to assume that my hair is the kind that can't
Speaker 1: get wet? Seriously? You think I'm not going to be
Speaker 1: paying Come on now, I think it's interesting though that unfortunately,
Speaker 1: and I understand why I'm not saying that it's a
Speaker 1: problem that we're having this conversation. I'm saying that it's
Speaker 1: interesting to me that white people still managed to sort
Speaker 1: of get skirted to the side in this whole conversation
Speaker 1: because this that that issue would not that issue sort
Speaker 1: of internal to the black community, would not be an
Speaker 1: issue if it was not for the way that white
Speaker 1: culture has has degraded black people and black women, And
Speaker 1: so for to this girl, um Mocha Shatti, I'll be
Speaker 1: honest with you, it would really offend me to know
Speaker 1: I have been in your place as far as men
Speaker 1: leaving me for white girls. And I didn't want to
Speaker 1: speak on this with Mandy. I really wanted to find
Speaker 1: um or even if we did, I really wanted to
Speaker 1: find a darker skinned woman to speak on this because
Speaker 1: I feel like when it happens to me, I don't
Speaker 1: even necessarily think it's me being black. Sometimes I'll say
Speaker 1: I'm too hood, I'm too loud, I'm too ratchet. That's
Speaker 1: what I started thinking. I like, they don't want to
Speaker 1: be with me because that they don't want to be
Speaker 1: with me because of my tattoos. Like I started making
Speaker 1: it other ship and I couldn't imagine being with a
Speaker 1: black man that went for somebody else. This has only
Speaker 1: happened to me with my white men, which is why
Speaker 1: I can't really say with white guys, they're going for
Speaker 1: their own kind. With me. To Moka Shorty, I would say,
Speaker 1: like that is not a healthy person to be involved with.
Speaker 1: Get rid of that. And I would also think that,
Speaker 1: like especially in college, where you know, I'm saying around,
Speaker 1: do whatever you want to have a good time, like
Speaker 1: there's there's far too many there's far too many great
Speaker 1: guys that she could be messed around now. But I'm
Speaker 1: gonna leave you with that that that that Zozo must
Speaker 1: be big in African bitch, not the African miss They
Speaker 1: do have big Zozo's and the thing that Zozo will
Speaker 1: touch your heart, that's how big it is. That's the
Speaker 1: video that we played in the beginning. Really stay away
Speaker 1: from them, not probably Nigerian. That's a girl. Stay away
Speaker 1: from Nigerian. Dud is up your service. And I had
Speaker 1: sex with a Nigerian nigga last summer and I still
Speaker 1: think his dick is inside me. I don't remember my body.
Speaker 1: So you have that DV. That's what I asked you
Speaker 1: on the last that it was double vaginal. Anybody else
Speaker 1: it was? It was the way that dick was. It
Speaker 1: was double vaginal. Child. Well, do we have another minute
Speaker 1: for a question or no? Alright, quick question because we
Speaker 1: have a man in the room, and uh yeah, this
Speaker 1: question is for Adam, says, Hey, Weezi and Mandy. I'm
Speaker 1: twenty two years old from New York, and I enjoy
Speaker 1: using male toys such as flesh lights while masturbating. I
Speaker 1: enjoy using fleshlights so much that I really want my
Speaker 1: partners to use them on me. But I feel that
Speaker 1: male sex toys turn a woman off. How do y'all
Speaker 1: think I should go about this? And would you ever?
Speaker 1: Would you guys ever use a flesh toy flash light
Speaker 1: with your sex partner? So I have can I understand better?
Speaker 1: She's so Jeeves calls it a sleeve? And do you you
Speaker 1: not know what a fleshlight is. It's like it's like
Speaker 1: a synthetic pussy basically, So it's like a little tube
Speaker 1: and you fuck it and it's got like it's I
Speaker 1: you're supposed to feel like puss. They make ones that
Speaker 1: are supposed to feel like ask and it has an opening.
Speaker 1: I thought it was a real flashlight. No, no, flesh
Speaker 1: fleshlight as and it looks like a flashlight, but it's
Speaker 1: a flesh flashlight. I put lights in that day and okay,
Speaker 1: so go ahead. I'm sorry, I'm looking for the video.
Speaker 1: I mean I would say, well, I have never used
Speaker 1: a fleshlight. I don't necessarily see the appeal, but but
Speaker 1: go for him. I think that at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, though, if you are if you are sexually
Speaker 1: intimate with someone who you do not feel comfortable being
Speaker 1: open about what you do and don't want to do,
Speaker 1: then you should not be sexually intimate with that person.
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I think it really is.
Speaker 1: I think that we associate sex toys with women and
Speaker 1: that you are a little bit insecure because you're like,
Speaker 1: is she gonna think, um, you know, not me, Elena,
Speaker 1: because I have these toys and blah blah blah, And
Speaker 1: it's this internal fucking things. Yeah, I agree at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, like you're weird. My thing is
Speaker 1: that before we even get to this, it's like, if
Speaker 1: you don't feel comfortable talking to like anybody that you're fucking,
Speaker 1: you should be comfortable talking to about thing like this.
Speaker 1: And if you're not. Maybe that's not the healthiest you know,
Speaker 1: sexual relationship to be having. Absolutely, you're right. I have
Speaker 1: used one. Um, I really enjoyed it so like, um,
Speaker 1: it's the sleeve and there's like a pussy opening, so
Speaker 1: like I put it on top of him and like
Speaker 1: we have to find a fixture. Her face is hilarious.
Speaker 1: You know, I've never I've never used sex toys. Waiting
Speaker 1: on yourself? Why is there a silence in here? I've
Speaker 1: never used sexy. I'm trying to think of I had.
Speaker 1: But do you never used like a vibrator anything? What
Speaker 1: shout out to you? You know what I'm bringing to
Speaker 1: your brunch Sunday? That big he's fuckings although I can
Speaker 1: find it does please? Are you freaking serious? I'm so serious?
Speaker 1: Why is it? You know what it is? When I
Speaker 1: was younger, Okay, when I was like when I was
Speaker 1: I didn't have sex to the college. When I was
Speaker 1: in middle Squai used to get fingered right and like
Speaker 1: this guy he used to like finger me, and I
Speaker 1: used to go home like yo, let me try this
Speaker 1: on myself. And I just could never give myself that
Speaker 1: feeling that he gave me. I can't finger myself like
Speaker 1: men finger me, but I can definitely, well, I can't. No,
Speaker 1: I just told you, like, holy shit, you haven't had
Speaker 1: an orgasm in three months? Yeah, Like, if I don't
Speaker 1: know for three days, I'm sorry to come help. Jesse,
Speaker 1: who doesn't masturbate, who hasn't came in three months, he's
Speaker 1: never owned a sex to it? Help? Oh my goodness,
Speaker 1: three months yo. I legitimately feel like you know what Jesse.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing after, but I'm so
Speaker 1: asked me if you want to get some, not even
Speaker 1: you can get and this is ridiculous. Yeah, I've never,
Speaker 1: I've never. I don't know how to please myself. Well,
Speaker 1: I think this is actually a great should be so
Speaker 1: stigmatized for women to masturbate? Why not? It's so relaxing,
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm saying it shouldn't be stigmatized. You use
Speaker 1: a very big word. I don't know. I mean, I
Speaker 1: hear you, and honestly, I think that we may not
Speaker 1: even have enough Like you, she had just mentioned earlier,
Speaker 1: there's not enough porn for her out there, and two
Speaker 1: women to your point, that are enjoying a softer kind
Speaker 1: of porn, isn't fucking out there you click on a
Speaker 1: horn hose like and that's what my sis said. I
Speaker 1: don't like that. Beat the pussy up. I don't like that.
Speaker 1: I like this stuff before quick question, do you orgasm? Orgasm?
Speaker 1: Any fingers you are hold on? I want to stop
Speaker 1: for a second because I think the question is about
Speaker 1: to happen. Have you ever had an orgasm? I had
Speaker 1: it once? What is this? No? No? Wait, this is great?
Speaker 1: Can I be a nerd for half a second? Please?
Speaker 1: This is such a great example of like you are
Speaker 1: someone who everybody you know, You've got it going on,
Speaker 1: You've got this amazing career, you're beautiful, all this other
Speaker 1: stuff like at the end of the day, the fact
Speaker 1: that female organized orgasms are not a priority or not
Speaker 1: a given insects the way that they are for men
Speaker 1: is crazy and this is proof of it. Matt, feel
Speaker 1: free to cut us off whenever we need to be
Speaker 1: cut off. So, Jesse, we did this, ain't we didn't stop?
Speaker 1: How did you feel about You're not coming? Did you
Speaker 1: feel like it was his fault? Well? He we like
Speaker 1: one night like he did he eat you out? Yeah?
Speaker 1: One night? He like that's that was like the goal
Speaker 1: was like to make me do it, and so like
Speaker 1: we we just did all this stuff and you know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to go into detail about what we did,
Speaker 1: but I did do it. Do you think it's because
Speaker 1: you haven't had enough for play before? I don't know
Speaker 1: if it's that I think that. Do you think that
Speaker 1: someone's always never really paid attention to you like they
Speaker 1: did that night? No, I feel like sex for me
Speaker 1: is something that's like, you know, I talked about it
Speaker 1: so much, but I have a very bad experience with sex,
Speaker 1: Like I was introduced to sex really really badly, Like
Speaker 1: I was molested as a child, and then like I
Speaker 1: got raped when I was older. So it's like for me,
Speaker 1: I didn't think I've never like you know, it's like
Speaker 1: something in my mind. It's like when when when it happens,
Speaker 1: Like my mind is like somewhere else, you know. I
Speaker 1: want to just this opportunity to say that men um
Speaker 1: have said that. So I talked a story about how
Speaker 1: I have been sexually assaulted and um, how the guy
Speaker 1: told me he wanted to see me cry, and people
Speaker 1: were leaving comments under like this makes no sense. She's
Speaker 1: like saying this one minute and talking about how dirty
Speaker 1: she likes singings in the next and you have the
Speaker 1: same thing you happened to Jesse now has issues with it.
Speaker 1: Some people can just move on and some people can't.
Speaker 1: My assault didn't make me nasty, and hers didn't make
Speaker 1: her like you know, it's just now. Well, first of all,
Speaker 1: thank you for sharing that. I've shared it before. I
Speaker 1: actually said, like i've I'm not a podcast. I just
Speaker 1: wanted to. I just wanted to verbalize that. But I
Speaker 1: think that, um, the the idea that someone's experience of
Speaker 1: trauma or abuse to find them is false, right, And
Speaker 1: so I think that this is a perfect example and
Speaker 1: and one that demonstrates there are so many ways in
Speaker 1: which I think sex can be incredibly positive. And that's
Speaker 1: part of what this podcast does. It's why it was
Speaker 1: attractive to me in the first place. Like, it wasn't
Speaker 1: just about funny ship. It was that y'all approach sex
Speaker 1: in a way that was respectful of that people have
Speaker 1: sex in a lot of different ways, right, Um. And
Speaker 1: it should be positive, it should be affirming. It should
Speaker 1: make you feel better about yourself. It should make you
Speaker 1: feel good about yourself about your ability to make somebody
Speaker 1: else happy as well. Right. Um, So I'm sorry that
Speaker 1: that happened, and I hope that that you can be
Speaker 1: in relationships where your your orgasms, your pleasure, your your
Speaker 1: joy is prioritized just as much as anything. I want
Speaker 1: to get you up with someone. I'm going to be
Speaker 1: interviewing you guys will probably hear that interview first with
Speaker 1: Amelia Ortiz, who does you know who that is? She's
Speaker 1: so dope. She's like, isn't she a comedy right? No,
Speaker 1: she's like the She's a Latina chick who's like a bruha.
Speaker 1: She does like okay, okay ye, But I want to
Speaker 1: link you up with her because she does wreckie healing,
Speaker 1: and that I think she does. I'm sorry, but recky
Speaker 1: healing is when you can clear the energies and your
Speaker 1: chakras and like really trying to let go and enjoy
Speaker 1: in the moment because that mental blocks. Orgasms are people
Speaker 1: are having orgasms without being touched. I was watching I
Speaker 1: was watching Jada Pinkett the other day say like she
Speaker 1: had to put a stop to it. She was giving
Speaker 1: herself like five orgasms, and I was like, that's just
Speaker 1: like rich people talking about how they don't know where
Speaker 1: to put all their money. They can't the banks can't
Speaker 1: hold it. I think that's real. I think that that
Speaker 1: the ways in which somebody's sort of psychological take on
Speaker 1: sex can impact that the physicality is like the whole point,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And that's why I feel like I
Speaker 1: still have a connection with Sugar, because he was just
Speaker 1: that one person who was like, we're going to do
Speaker 1: this taste. Sometimes you need to take time apart to
Speaker 1: get back together again, probably, And I wish you all
Speaker 1: the orgasms from that. Speaking of uh, I've had to
Speaker 1: speaking of dicks worked close to the end. But I've
Speaker 1: had a situation where, um, I was with a girl
Speaker 1: and we were about to have sex, and like I
Speaker 1: touched her in a way that all of a sudden
Speaker 1: like sort of legitimately triggers him, and she was like,
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, her whole demeanor change. I was like, you,
Speaker 1: are you okay? And she tried to play it all
Speaker 1: at first. I was like, no, no, wait, are you
Speaker 1: are you good? Having sexual trauma episode soon? And I
Speaker 1: want to bring a doctor on to talk about how
Speaker 1: this and I'm pointing to my brain and this my
Speaker 1: post are connected. Yeah, And and we stopped and I
Speaker 1: was like, look, like we don't work like where everything's fine.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like we can just you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like it's okay, it's you don't have to tell me
Speaker 1: what happened. You don't have to tell me what any
Speaker 1: you don't have tell me ship right, just like let's
Speaker 1: make sure that you're good and we shouldn't be afraid
Speaker 1: of those kinds of moments and sex. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much for sharing the story, and Sam for being so empathetic,
Speaker 1: especially to have a man in the room and something
Speaker 1: like that so personal and Alex, can you really the
Speaker 1: one who brought that up? They're supposed to be coming up? Um, Sam,
Speaker 1: can you tell people where to find you? Or do
Speaker 1: you have any projects coming up? Yeah, we got some
Speaker 1: dope stuff coming up. I'm really excited, especially going into
Speaker 1: the school year to work with more students on the
Speaker 1: undergraduate in the high school level. Um, so stay tuned
Speaker 1: on that. You guys can find me on all the
Speaker 1: social media's at Sam white out, you can text me
Speaker 1: three O eight um. And I'm excited. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: saying we might have t shirts coming out soon. I'm
Speaker 1: seeing and as always be would be great. I want
Speaker 1: to free one and Jesse, what about you? And now
Speaker 1: this whon't air in time for brunch for me and
Speaker 1: you would have had a dope time already. We are
Speaker 1: going to be at brunch this Sunday for Sister Talk Live.
Speaker 1: Do you have any more coming up? Yeah? And definitely
Speaker 1: I'm definitely gonna Doe in Atlanta and I'm definitely gonna
Speaker 1: start doing like Sister Socials because a lot of guys
Speaker 1: are like, you don't do anything for guys. So I
Speaker 1: have a lot of fun stuff coming. Might come. I
Speaker 1: think it'll be fine for you to come to Atlanta.
Speaker 1: Our fucking Atlanta show was so it was late. Huh right,
Speaker 1: it was so Alex came. It was so all the
Speaker 1: guys was like, oh bitch, you need help with home. Man,
Speaker 1: you don't know what to do with that as don't listen.
Speaker 1: I just love Okay. Sorry, yeah, sorry, where do they
Speaker 1: find you? Oh? Jesse woo that's j E s s
Speaker 1: I E w o O Underscore on all platforms. Thank
Speaker 1: you guys for coming. It's another episode of Horrible Decisions.
Speaker 1: They've been on for the second time and hopefully we
Speaker 1: can have another threesome again. Yes, by everybody,