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Speaker 1: So he's sticking the entire zozo. And why you have

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Speaker 1: Why are you sticking yours so far? In me? I'm

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Speaker 1: seeing it come out of my mouth. Come on. Text

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Speaker 1: put that's it, that's it, No take it out. You

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Speaker 1: feel that, Yes, I feel that, my heart feel that,

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Speaker 1: come on, you don't have to prove nothing to me.

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Speaker 1: Text some of those as all out share Frank, you

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to be able to do that. Text

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Speaker 1: some of tho zozo out. Hey, everybody working, horrible decision ends.

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Speaker 1: I'm wheezy, and today we are going to be joined

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Speaker 1: by the lovely and late Jesse Wou and Sam Whiteout,

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Speaker 1: who are filling in from Mandy B. Today. I am

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Speaker 1: Podcast Studio at one hundred Church Street. It's an awesome

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Speaker 1: we'll meet you here. Thanks for joining me, Sam, Thanks

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Speaker 1: like college train running. You're like, oh, but not me, No, No,

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Everbody should just go listen to episode

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Speaker 1: dating dudes, dating don't. Jesse's episode was called why man

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Speaker 1: a Ship? And so basically I'm like you know what

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Speaker 1: great energy. Let's just make it all about things you

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Speaker 1: want and dating dudes. Let's manifest some good sex. We'll

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Speaker 1: we're waiting for Jesse, because it's crazy. Okay, this is

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Speaker 1: seriously insane. So I've been dating this guy named Jeeves.

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Speaker 1: We had a threesome with this girl. Wait time out,

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Speaker 1: you have a new man. Okay, it's been like a year, bro,

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Speaker 1: calm the funk down. I just hey, it look back

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Speaker 1: And you know what, to be fair, I said the

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Speaker 1: help this podcast grow, I need to be a hoe,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, I can't just keep

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Speaker 1: there for material. So this is just content couchie at

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Speaker 1: this point. Content couchie. That's a hashtag right there. Put

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Speaker 1: that crazy. So we have a threesome with this girl

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Speaker 1: and meet on this app called Field. Wait time out.

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine, Like I'm trying to envision, like a

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Speaker 1: a sign the India frankly, like, I feel like this

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna is she gonna talk about it? So they're

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Speaker 1: That would be great. She'll be like, hey, fuck you,

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Speaker 1: what's your name again? What is it wise with? All right?

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Speaker 1: after Dark right asked Sam nasty questions and we went

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Speaker 1: easy on you. So I'm going to start this off

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Speaker 1: with a bang no pun. Okay, the first episode was

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Speaker 1: it and whatever, Dad Ship was hilarious. I looked like

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Speaker 1: stuck on a girl? And if so, did you offer

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Speaker 1: I definitely think it's happened more than once. Really, yeah, um,

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Speaker 1: We were like seeing each other pretty frequently, so you were, Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're going elbow deep to get it out. No, No,

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Speaker 1: I think she was embarrassed. I was like, oh Ship,

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Speaker 1: Jesse who my sisters talking? Have you ever had a

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Speaker 1: condom stock in your puzzy Jessie? Why do you know?

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Speaker 1: we didn't do that. I just kind of figured everybody

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Speaker 1: just tell the people who you're white black as is? Yeah? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So what's up, y'all? I'm Sam White Out. I talk

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Speaker 1: But I'm a host for BT and I do like

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Speaker 1: in the works. You drink a lot of dwinks. I

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Speaker 1: but I drink dwinks. You don't what what? I don't

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Speaker 1: Haitian food. Yeah, maybe tastes my peak leaves. The sperm

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Speaker 1: sort of like weird, but just sort of were you like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she was like, don't you ever ask me no dumb

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Speaker 1: sh it like that again? And I put your dick

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Speaker 1: she goes yo. I was sucking this dude's dick and

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Speaker 1: during sex before, but really this is where my ex

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Speaker 1: But he was polite. He politely placed the back on

421
00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,080
Speaker 1: and then he kept his hand on it while he

422
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,200
Speaker 1: he was just so polite. Do you think he needed

423
00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:51,600
Speaker 1: the wig to finish? Like he was confused, because it's

424
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 1: like when the wig fell off. I was like, I

425
00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:55,120
Speaker 1: kind of like you know how the baby is about

426
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 1: to pen the baby falls and they're about to cry

427
00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:00,199
Speaker 1: and you look at them. Yes, it was like that,

428
00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,879
Speaker 1: Like I almost had that moment. He was like he

429
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 1: put it back on me, and he was like, removed

430
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,439
Speaker 1: the head, but let me just see how he He

431
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:12,479
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think I didn't take it all

432
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,520
Speaker 1: the way off, but like I was pulling her hair

433
00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 1: and her ship was not secure. Oh you supposed no,

434
00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 1: Like she caught it. It was like it was like,

435
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:23,360
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying that if her hairline

436
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,679
Speaker 1: was it was like back here when she caught it

437
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 1: and kind of pushed it back, you know, better than

438
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:31,679
Speaker 1: to be grabbing the girls. I thought wings were secure,

439
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:38,959
Speaker 1: and then my that was a read that was a

440
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:48,240
Speaker 1: sister secure, especially doing sex out loud. You know, I've

441
00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 1: been doing that recently. So I've been like, so I

442
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 1: wear like clipping. Sometimes I wear trying to wear my

443
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 1: own hair, so like I'll do the clips for volume

444
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:58,200
Speaker 1: and sometimes they come out. And so what my favorite

445
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,639
Speaker 1: thing to do is I take the band anna and

446
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 1: I firmly secure right what clips be clip just because

447
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 1: you're not gonna grab that exactly, I don't see exactly.

448
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 1: I've actually taken a piece that had fell out and

449
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 1: just like talk it right under the pillow. Uh, So

450
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 1: let's stop talking about wig sliding. Moving on, So we

451
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:20,640
Speaker 1: do a kink in the week. Both of you all

452
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 1: know this, but I wanted to do past kinks and

453
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: see if y'all could guess what they mean. Okay, one

454
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 1: that I mentioned today, I feel like Sam knows. But

455
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 1: number one Boukocki. Do you know what that is? Jesse Bokocky,

456
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 1: You don't know what Boukocki is? Is that like doo

457
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:40,160
Speaker 1: doo in cock? No, I feel like as a as

458
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 1: like a growing up in like a white town and

459
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: like prepubescent like middle like you know, no, but I

460
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 1: mean like I feel like straight, young white suburban kids

461
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 1: are the grossest people alive. That's true. That's probably why them. Now,

462
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 1: I mean nothing, nothing, nothing, I mean they fine, it's fine, okay,

463
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 1: but yes, I know boukaki is alright. So actually my

464
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 1: mom just learned what bokkies. We were playing cards against

465
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: Humanity and she had no idea what the card was.

466
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 1: So I googled Urban Dictionary and I gave it you

467
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:08,880
Speaker 1: and I said, please don't say anything, like just read

468
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 1: this and say nothing what it is. It's when like, uh,

469
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 1: at least two so like two or more guys are

470
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 1: coming on a shorty space usually her face awhere, but

471
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 1: that's against my religion. So like like the classic Boukocki

472
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: video is like a little Asian girl getting netted on

473
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,360
Speaker 1: by like oh you know what, I've seen those type

474
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 1: of porns maybe cartoon though, like ye, do you be searching. Yeah,

475
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 1: I'll be looking at the cartoon. I thought you. I

476
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:43,360
Speaker 1: guess you're watching Marge and Homer. Yes, I do. I've

477
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 1: been seeing family the best. Yes, that's what I wanted.

478
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: Crazy that I like it, but people are into it,

479
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 1: actually I do. That was like into um animated. Yeah,

480
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 1: I like that photos he liked like fawns and like

481
00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: medieval ship. Yeah. It was like kind of scaring me.

482
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 1: But the dick was really good, and I think I

483
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 1: was like always in fear for my life. But next

484
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 1: that's the half white part of you. Okay, uh number two.

485
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 1: I feel like we can do some context clues here. Aquaphelia,

486
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 1: aquaphilia okay, so aqua water being super turned on by

487
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: the idea of being drowned or submerged in water. Holy,

488
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: that was not I thought it was gonna be like

489
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 1: enjoyed in the water, enjoyed being drowned. There are people

490
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 1: like that, though. I had a guy who asked me

491
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,119
Speaker 1: to choke him till he passed out. That was my

492
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 1: next one. I was about to say, like I was

493
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: with you, I was with you until they passed out,

494
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 1: he asked me. So that's called That was my number three.

495
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,439
Speaker 1: That's a strong hand. Its fixation and look at me,

496
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 1: I'm looking at a smart well. I can't choke you negative.

497
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,439
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Like all black women are

498
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 1: capable of choking. Well, I gotta be angry, like I'm

499
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 1: not going to do that while I'm my pussy with Yeah,

500
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: tell the nut on your funnel and then okay, so

501
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: next time, yeah, not on my for We like, do

502
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: one for me, one from you. The last one actually

503
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: the third one was aspixiation, which is being choked out.

504
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 1: The last one is called bro middraphilia, bro mid drift philia.

505
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 1: Some about a mid drift and somebody brother bro middriff.

506
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: It wasn't close, but I doesn't want to hear. I

507
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:18,959
Speaker 1: feel like you said it deliberately like that to make

508
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: us think bro midriff. But if it's like, okay, maybe

509
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 1: bro middriphilia. But it's the attraction to body odor. Oh

510
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: hell no. So all are saying that. But me and

511
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,880
Speaker 1: Mandy had an email recently where someone wanted to pay

512
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 1: us four for our panties and socks. Should have said

513
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 1: you got to do well. The thing is panties don't

514
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,959
Speaker 1: smell bad. Though. Good for you, Jesse, because there are

515
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 1: women out here that probably cannot say the same. Okay,

516
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 1: are we talking about pussy? Oder were talking about body order,

517
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: right talking? Yeah, Well, I think any kind of bo

518
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 1: like I mean, I mean, there's there's a very distinct

519
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: smell difference between like somebody's fucking armpits and so here's

520
00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: the weird thing. I've had. A guy asked me for

521
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 1: my panties too before though that that's on a hot

522
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: It depends like gross panties or like what if I

523
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: was like, hey, why don't you go work out and

524
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: let me smell it? You're the under arms of your

525
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: that's weird. Well, see, hold on, I'm gonna so. I

526
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 1: used to have this thing with this man I used

527
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: to live with where when he went to the gym,

528
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 1: I just liked the scent of his shirts. It wasn't

529
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: like stink, no, no, no, yeah, it's like musk some dudes.

530
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: Yeah like this, you know the smell of you know,

531
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: I've lost a couple of shirts that way smells good.

532
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to kind of smell him after the show. Hey,

533
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 1: I shout out to Dasha Polanco. I remember when I

534
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 1: first met her, she was like, she has this little hashtag.

535
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: She goes and I smell good too, or something like that.

536
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: She told me I smelled good. I was like, you know,

537
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 1: I stay ready, so I gotta get ready. So okay, okay,

538
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: shout out to Dasha and smelling good. Put the pan on,

539
00:26:56,680 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: burning up. We were worried about the sound, you guys,

540
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: but we're really trying to do good with audio. But

541
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,400
Speaker 1: I'm sorry we got turned his air on because ship

542
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: my tracks a lot. All right, horrible decision for this week. Okay,

543
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: you came on, Jesse and we did um nicka saying

544
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: ship and you came on, we did dating don't. So

545
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: I want to spread some positivity and manifest some good

546
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 1: stuff for people. I keep getting in letters about what

547
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: to do on first dates? Do I spend money? What

548
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 1: should I do? I do this? So I want to

549
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 1: talk about dating dudes. All right, So the first one

550
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: I have is paying for the first date. Just sucking.

551
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 1: Do it, man, just do it. That's not even up

552
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 1: for discussion. I will say this, what I pay for

553
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: the first date. I think I think you can't get

554
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: away with not paying the first date. But I think

555
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 1: it's fucking dumb. It's like an arbitrary bullshit. It's annoying,

556
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 1: but I do it anyway. Don't all lord me like

557
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 1: I do it. But I'm just saying it's it's dumb.

558
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 1: It's supposed to paid. That's it. There s I mean

559
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: to be fair to right, I didn't. I didn't say that.

560
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: I don't do it. I'm just saying I think it's dumb.

561
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: Why I feel like if I pay for the first day,

562
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 1: it's because I want Dick and I don't want nothing

563
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 1: else from you. Really, see when I paid for the

564
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: first day, when I offered to split the bill or something,

565
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 1: it's because I don't want to see you again. That's

566
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: how that's the thing. I'm paying for the first day.

567
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see the Dick tonight. Why why wouldn't

568
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: you tell me? Because find Dick. I'm paying for Dick,

569
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 1: and I'm done. I appreciate the straightforward. I think there's

570
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: a there's a lot of things that are more important

571
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: than this. But if if somehow like the world were

572
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 1: to get simplified enough where like we can have a

573
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: conversation about it. I think it's kind of silly, but

574
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: I'm going to do it. I get it. It's a

575
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: social standard. I get it folk, Sam, but not pay

576
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: for dinner. You know lethal lips is y'all wan't be

577
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: knowing how to cook. I had them motherfucker breaking on Instagram.

578
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: Bro we see them cookies, Brooklyn Nigga talk about something.

579
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't do pay for dick.

580
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: I just want to cook phone. So I come over.

581
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, I'm gonna get a meal. Why you make

582
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:07,959
Speaker 1: him sound like he got as he was sorry he

583
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: cooked me and asthma ass meal? What was it? Some

584
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 1: damn noodles and he put like he put like parmesan

585
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: on it? Did he made you pasta alfred with chicken?

586
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: It wasn't and pasta was pasta. It was noodles, put

587
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: a little Pomesan on it, and then he had a

588
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: nerd to put parsley leaves on. You know what, you

589
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: don't take that day. So he's like, you know what,

590
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 1: let me get them things, let me get the grass

591
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: on the Yeah, it's it's really romantic to like cook

592
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 1: dinner with somebody, though, Yes, but not for the first date. No,

593
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: not for the first day. I feel like a first

594
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: date should be now. Now, I want to say this

595
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: before you walked in, before we even started recording. Sam

596
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 1: was saying, you know, I'm not really going on dates

597
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: with people that I haven't met yet. I'm going on

598
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: dates with someone I know, which I feel like no,

599
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 1: like no, no, but I mean like I don't know, yeah,

600
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: like maybe we're acquaintances or something like that. So that

601
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: don't happen to me. I swipe right or I meet

602
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: you in a bar. That's how I'm not on dating apps. Okay,

603
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: I kind of like that, though I don't feel I

604
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: feel like that's how I date, but it's not how

605
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: like it's not what I set out to do, but

606
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: I feel like that's how I've dated. Really, yeah, a

607
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: couple of times when it has been something I just met,

608
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: Like the dude who took me to Noodles. He was

609
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: a guy met at the bar. Not that there's anything

610
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: wrong with meeting anybody at a bar club, but like

611
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: it's just not where I usually find that I'm in

612
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: like the most relaxed context and meeting people. So like

613
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 1: I'll meet people through friends or some ship or whatever

614
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: you mean, people on Instagram. It's happened, but it's not

615
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: like it's usually like you're easy, don't You're very you're verified.

616
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 1: What maybe maybe there's like skating with the verifications and ship.

617
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: Now you've been verified for a minute, so you've pus

618
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: that way. That is false. I'm not the only place

619
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: I'm verified as Facebook, And who gives a funk about Facebook? Besides,

620
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: like middle aged people game pussy that blue check beginning

621
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: some pussy, you know he's verified. I don't, because y'all

622
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: have more than a quarter million followers. So well, so

623
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 1: number two, my dating dude, this is a really important

624
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: one for me, and it is asking questions, slash, keeping

625
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: your ego and check and open ended text. Now let

626
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: me explain, and then I want you all to degress. Okay,

627
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,239
Speaker 1: so what are you going to get to the kinky part? Okay? Well,

628
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: you talked about coming in hair. Can we give it

629
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: a fucking second saying damn, don't put your dick out

630
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 1: just because I'm sitting here you getting excited. Hold on

631
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 1: a second. First of all, y're not going to tell

632
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: me that y'all. I do not need to hear no

633
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: more bullshit about how y'all went easy on me. So

634
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: I gotta make sure that this episode. You know, I'm saying, pops,

635
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: I literally just asked you if you were tasting. It's like, females,

636
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: I'm just making sure. What more do you want me

637
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: to do? Do you eat? Ask Sam? No, but I've

638
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 1: got my ass eat? Wait, you don't eat ass? Well? No,

639
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: I haven't eaten ass. It's not like a thing. Why

640
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: are you not eating ass? Maybe I just haven't found

641
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: the right ask to eat? What are you talking about?

642
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 1: Right about the pussy? I'm saying I've I've gotten like

643
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 1: a little bit of ass on the way up on

644
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: one of those like long licks. You know what I'm saying,

645
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 1: Just like some eat my ass. And I'm still trying

646
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: to figure out if I liked it. I definitely. It's

647
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 1: probably like the first time we all try in my

648
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: high But you were you like it? You did not

649
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: like it? I'm with Tank. Tank talked about it interview.

650
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: He was like, we need to unshame men getting their ass,

651
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm with We know you talked

652
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: about yours. You like it, I don't ask for it.

653
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: But if you're gonna go down there, ain't gonna stop.

654
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 1: Are you eating booty? Hey? No, these niggers don't know

655
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: how to white right. Next thing you know, I'm down

656
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: there eating meatballs and ship that should be stuck in

657
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: the hands. You got hair, you get the hairs out

658
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 1: of the inside of your ass. I can't do. You

659
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: mean the inside are shaving your booty hole? I mean,

660
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: like as close to it as ye, Well, don't you

661
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: shave your boy carefully? That's how you don't. Okay, I

662
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: get what I'm with that chemical ship. I'm gonna start

663
00:32:55,960 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: getting wax as though, because like it's pretty it is. Honestly,

664
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 1: every time I get waxed, it takes like two niggas

665
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: off my pussy, honestly, Like I haven't gotten the West

666
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 1: in a while. It just looks like new pussy every time.

667
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 1: And honestly, it's so baby fresh. You know, somebody comes

668
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 1: off course is wide. I haven't gotten wax in the

669
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 1: years by then when I used to get them back

670
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: in college, like I used to send like five niggas

671
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: like Yo, what's up? What's fresh? Po pussy? What's going on?

672
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 1: What you're doing to night? I want to you back

673
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: to open ended text nasty people like damn keep going

674
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: um So I want to leave the open end of

675
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: texting because I feel like I've dated so many men

676
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 1: that have been so confused why I didn't think they

677
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 1: were into me because they text very vague. You have

678
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: to have open ended texts, not like what's up, good morning,

679
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: good morning, beautiful, good morning, beautiful, good morning, beautiful, good morning, beautiful,

680
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: good morning. What you doing, what you're doing, what you're doing,

681
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 1: watch you're doing, watch you doing? O lord, it's too vague.

682
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: It's like, what is this? I feel like you have

683
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: to volley the conversation back and forth, and if you don't,

684
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be back and forth. I don't

685
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: like texting, so I might do you like a phone call?

686
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: Put you prefer phone calls? Yeah? I mean, like, I

687
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: think there are certain people where like the text conversation

688
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 1: like flows really nicely and whatever, and it works, but

689
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: it's so easy for schedules to get in the way

690
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 1: that like if I'm busy or if you're busy in it,

691
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: it just can get disjointed and then all of a sudden,

692
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: it's like waiting, like you know, five six hours in

693
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 1: between text messages, and it's difficult to create a conversation

694
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 1: that way. And if if I recognize that that's the dynamic,

695
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: you'd be on Instagram. Now. Well, if I'm on. If

696
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm my Instagram or Twitter, it means I'm not texting you.

697
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 1: You saint it. You say that you let you heard that,

698
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,840
Speaker 1: but maybe I don't you know what. Anyways, the point

699
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: is I'll just call even the ones just so ask

700
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 1: questions and keep your egoing and check. This is a

701
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: big one for me. I've been on a lot of

702
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 1: dates where I feel like men are putting themselves on

703
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: the table too quick with like how great they are

704
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: and if you turn off, and I feel like we

705
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: have to start remembering to ask people their interests. I

706
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 1: am a victim of this. On my own show, I

707
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: will invite someone on and then just be like, let

708
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: me tell you about the dick I got, But really

709
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 1: I should be asking Jesse about the dick she just got. Well,

710
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 1: I ain't been getting no dick, so you ain't got

711
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: no been like three months, let's see who's had sex.

712
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: I got cobwebs in my pussy, Nacha three months clean?

713
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: Those that have no problem walks them right out. Um no,

714
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: but you're right though, a lot of a lot of

715
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 1: guys are like that. Yeah, shut then up, let me

716
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 1: ask me, asked me how my day went, bitch, what

717
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: the fuck, I'm here to ship. I think I think

718
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 1: that's the case. But I also think that part of

719
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 1: it is like a young professionals, everybody so busybody he's

720
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 1: talking about themselves and and I think that people are

721
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,439
Speaker 1: really comfortable. Now, somebody must have told you don't shut

722
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:50,919
Speaker 1: then up over here to know, I don't. I don't.

723
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: I don't like talking about myself on dates because I don't.

724
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just like I get the same questions,

725
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: and I want to ask both of you. As someone

726
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:04,240
Speaker 1: that's popping in you know, black Twitter, Instagram and whatever

727
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: in your community, do you find that you go on

728
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 1: dates for people trying to ask you about that. I

729
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: try and avoid going on on dates with the types

730
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: of people who are going to eat by that. Like

731
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: I have a very clear radar about trying to avoid

732
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 1: those coins of environments, which is why I don't usually

733
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: meet people at the bar. And not that's anything wrong

734
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: with that, because it's not a problem if if they

735
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: know me. It's a it's a problem of if they

736
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,359
Speaker 1: know me, and why are they interested? Like what are

737
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,720
Speaker 1: you do you just want me to like talk about

738
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: like I don't know, Instagram and Twitter and ask you

739
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 1: a question on some reverse racism right here, reverse racism

740
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 1: doesn't exist, thank you, Sam, definitely doesn't because white people

741
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: stuck away. White people can't be racist. Racism requires power,

742
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: thank you. Black people can be prejudicial or discriminatory or whatever.

743
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: It's just like gay people can be discriminatory, but like

744
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,320
Speaker 1: gay people can't be Like, there's no such thing is

745
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: like heterophobic, right, there's no such thing as reverse racism.

746
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: Like why do you hate straight people? I'm a sucking pig.

747
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: Like it's so hard to be a white man. Okay,

748
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: it doesn't do you feel when people want you to

749
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: be their first white boy? That was my question for you. Uh,

750
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: do you feel fetishized? Fetishized would probably be the wrong

751
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: word because it's so rare. It's actually a joke, But

752
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,919
Speaker 1: I mean saying that it doesn't make you feel uncomfortable though, Yeah,

753
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 1: I know, we're definitely. Yeah, you have to be so

754
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,959
Speaker 1: fine at that point, like otherwise I'm just like I'm good,

755
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: Like if it was worth it, I ain't gonna lot

756
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 1: like I've wanted to try, you know, pink penis um,

757
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: But them Gray movies kind of skipped me because y'all,

758
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: y'all be time, people laughing ship that's what I like.

759
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 1: But that's if you want me to basket. You know

760
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: you haven't missed some like decent like boys crowd. I

761
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: want two hands unless you want me to. Lord. This

762
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: is the first time ever in the studio where like

763
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: I wasn't the one trying to suck the guests. Honestly,

764
00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: it's just constantly me throwing content and you know, just

765
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: the thing is my parole right now, but that's my

766
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: are you saving it for? Like, how do you feel

767
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: about sex with an X? Well? The thing it's like

768
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 1: me and my ex, because even the last time I

769
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 1: came out was with my ex. Yeah, so I don't know.

770
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: I just like we broke up three months ago. We

771
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 1: haven't done anything, and I just feel like I can't

772
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 1: like have sex with somebody else right now. It's like,

773
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 1: what the fun? Let's not even get too deep on

774
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 1: number four. Oh, I'm sorry number three. Be honest. If

775
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: you didn't enjoy the date and you're not feeling it,

776
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: instead of going ghosts, just tell the truth. Amen. I

777
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: hate when people go ghost so fucking much. It's disrespectful.

778
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: Be a fucking grown ass person, be an adult. You

779
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 1: can tell me that you you don't want to chill anymore,

780
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 1: like you can do it in a way that's polite.

781
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 1: I have had people thank me for saying that I

782
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: wasn't interested. I have had men do the same for me,

783
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: and um, I really appreciate it. As much as it's

784
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: considered more brutally honest, it's actually but still it feels

785
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 1: brutal because you're the one who's interested, right, But it

786
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: is better than just getting ghosted. At least you're an answer.

787
00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: I have to work on that because I'm good for

788
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: blocking my mother sucker after a bad day. Really, yes,

789
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: I blocked you on everything that's wild, But that's because

790
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: it's hard. It's hard for her to be upfront because

791
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 1: you're probably worried you feelings don't care about you're feeling

792
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: the guilt of like feeling like, oh funk, I gotta

793
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 1: tell this motherfucker' I don't believe that. I just I

794
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: don't be caring. You're telling me that you don't. Dude,

795
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 1: do it all the time to us. So why I

796
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: gotta why I gotta be the one? So why I

797
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: gotta be the bigger person? No block? But I don't know.

798
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 1: I had a situation where I hit short because I

799
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: thought things went well and then she was essentially got ghosted,

800
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:45,439
Speaker 1: and then she hit me up like a week later,

801
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: and she was like, I was wondering whether or I

802
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 1: should tell you, but I just didn't feel like we

803
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:49,839
Speaker 1: vied very much, and so like I'm kind of good

804
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 1: on hanging out. And I was like, okay, like you

805
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 1: could have just said that, like it's no problem, but

806
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: thanks for you know, let me know whatever. You know

807
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,439
Speaker 1: that just blocked you good just black, but you too old,

808
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: I think. But I think I think the thing is

809
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: if if y'all was like, if it was one date,

810
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:05,439
Speaker 1: I feel like I can get behind what you're saying,

811
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 1: like I went on a date with a couple of

812
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: dates with this girl and then I'm not I'm not.

813
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at all because she didn't. She actually

814
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: texted me. She was like, hey, I've really enjoyed our dates.

815
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: I just don't see this going any further, and like

816
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: I just wanted to be straight up, you know, with you,

817
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, I appreciate that. That is

818
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:28,320
Speaker 1: different talking about first I was talking about both. I

819
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 1: still think you're old dead on the first day, but

820
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 1: here nor there this one. I feel like it's the

821
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: most important one and it is set your standards now.

822
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 1: I feel like in my lifetime, especially with lover Boy,

823
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 1: because I was very confused on the blurred lines and

824
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: if you've been a listener of horrible decisions and you know,

825
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 1: I was like, my wofefrien anything. Now my boyfriend blah blah,

826
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 1: were talking about who I think we're talking about? Okay,

827
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: sure the last one you remember? Okay, when I was

828
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 1: when I interview you. When I interviewed you did have

829
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: a boom. It's still that okay, But like, ok, I

830
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: am talking about lover Boy, who was trash, and he

831
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I don't know if we're gonna be

832
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 1: when it come back, you know, then we're gonna be

833
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,399
Speaker 1: the route. And I was not clear that I had.

834
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 1: We're not clear at all. I told you, I literally

835
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 1: told this to your face. I'm gonna tell you more later. Vision.

836
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: So basically, I feel like I didn't set the standards

837
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: from from jump, and I think that women should be

838
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 1: saving theirselves from these situation ships by being honest when

839
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 1: the nigs like oh yeah, yeah, I'm just trying to

840
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 1: kick it. If you don't want to just kick it.

841
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: I don't kick ship around me. We ain't kicking ship.

842
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: We're not homeboys. It's really uncomfortable because you know, we

843
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 1: want a Dick. But at the same time, like if

844
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 1: you want more about committed zig, I want every day Zig.

845
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: I want Monday through Sunday appointment. I want the appointment Z.

846
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: I want boyfriend Zick. You know what I'm saying. I

847
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: want exclusive Dick, Exclusive Dick. What's exclusive Dick the boyfriend

848
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:01,439
Speaker 1: or just your Dick? You my you, my boyfriend, Dick.

849
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 1: You might might be my husband, Dick. You might call

850
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: me my mama, Dick. You might we go on a

851
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: Sunday church service together, Dick. That's what I want. You're

852
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 1: such a church you bring up the Sunday right there.

853
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 1: I used to be trying to get banged by the

854
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: worship leaders like, oh, you know what I'm saying, you're

855
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: just so gifted by God. Let me, Oh, my Lord,

856
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: who that boy? Someone doing it the way he was?

857
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 1: By the way, jose Jesse told a great story about

858
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: a pastor being gay and wanting to suck her to yes. Uh.

859
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 1: Number five is very simple. It is put your phone away.

860
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,719
Speaker 1: I feel like too many people are obsessed with their phone.

861
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: Stop checking your phone. Being in the moment, breathe present.

862
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: I feel like that is the biggest fucking turn off,

863
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:58,919
Speaker 1: you know what. I feel like. I feel like when

864
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: somebody does that, they're not that into you. When I'm

865
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,760
Speaker 1: out with somebody and I really feel like we're connecting,

866
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 1: I'm not checking on my phone because I'm focused on

867
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 1: what we're doing. A bad date, I still give the

868
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: person a decency of not texting Jesse, you ain't ship

869
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 1: you blocking niggas texting other niggas like out with that.

870
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 1: But there's a difference between like why it's bad. Is

871
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 1: it bad because the person is being a douche bag

872
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 1: because they're being a have had that? Then then I

873
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 1: feel like you sacrifice. You lose sort of the right

874
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 1: to expect someone to be sort of courteous. But if

875
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 1: it's a bad date just because y'all don't click, but

876
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 1: it's still like courteous and sort of like, you know, nice,

877
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 1: then you don't want to be a dickhead. My last

878
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:45,280
Speaker 1: one is tell me how you feel, slash compliment, slash

879
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 1: ask me for the second date, all right after the

880
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 1: first date. I feel like when I am on an

881
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: amazing date and it's going good. Right after we're leaving

882
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 1: each other, right before he's like, hey, I want to

883
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:00,399
Speaker 1: see you again. Absolutely, And I feel like and someone

884
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 1: doesn't do that, they're not very clear to where it's

885
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 1: off putting for me, and I'm low key just like

886
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 1: completely uninterested by the end of the day. I agree.

887
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: What about women, do you think that we should be

888
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 1: saying that, yes, thank you, ah, you know what, saying

889
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: like I'm having a good time with you. You're not complimenting.

890
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 1: And but you said, should we be the ones that

891
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: asked for a second day? Can we say like I

892
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: had a really good I don't, But should you be

893
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: giving indicators that you want to see the given? And

894
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 1: here's here's my indicators as well. You know, I'm giving

895
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: line indicators and shoulders. I'm putting my titties on a

896
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: table like I mean, I need that when I'm meant

897
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: to it. But I also feel like they might just

898
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: think that's me. I don't know, So I do this

899
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: thing that I appreciate that recently I've been starting I

900
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: start saying, like in the middle of the day, like

901
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 1: I'm having a really good time with you, Like I like,

902
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 1: I love that ship. That is great. You know, She's like,

903
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: I have never complimented a man. I've been like, I

904
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 1: hate all the see that would make me think you

905
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 1: were ansto me. Yeah, that would honestly compliments. And I

906
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: feel like that also translates like gas her up, like

907
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 1: you don't, don't be hesitant to be kind, Like, don't

908
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 1: don't think that being kind is being thirsty. You can

909
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 1: There's a difference between being kind of being thirsty, like

910
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: if you are like if the only pictures you ever

911
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: respond her Instagram story are the ones where she's in

912
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: a bikini during the summer. Okay, you're sucking up, but

913
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 1: if but you shouldn't hesitate to like compliment her like

914
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: a complement my friends too. It's not just a romantic

915
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 1: thing like gas your people up. Guess your friends up,

916
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: guess your home girls up, your homeboys, guess everybody. And

917
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 1: if you're sucking somebody, why would you not want to

918
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: guess them up even more? Each white boy? Please? All right,

919
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: I want to get to the homemail. We got to

920
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: get out of here, and I'm asking this question, uh,

921
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:04,439
Speaker 1: because I feel like I don't know you're both good

922
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: for it. The subject is was I a fucking colorist. Okay, ladies,

923
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: love the podcast and energy you both bring listening to

924
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 1: your show. Is any highlights my Monday. I'm in college

925
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 1: working towards the end of my freshman year, and I

926
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: started working with an African. I don't know, hold on,

927
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: let me look at her name, but yeah, oh signed

928
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 1: molka shot. Okay, I'm in college. Let's started finding one African? Okay.

929
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: I knew we both didn't want to be in a

930
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,840
Speaker 1: committed relationship, so our relationship was based off sex. The

931
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 1: sex was capital letters, great, consistent, and came with the

932
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 1: occasional cuddling. However, we fell off and when he got

933
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 1: a girlfriend, he continued to hit me up for sex.

934
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,720
Speaker 1: I declined when we started up again when he was single.

935
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: He's now in another relationship. It looks exactly like his

936
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 1: ex light skinned, Spanish looking but they're still pretty. I

937
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 1: this has made me start questioning or not whether I

938
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 1: was dealing with a nigger who could fuck medium to

939
00:46:57,880 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: dark skinned black girls but only wanted to wipe up

940
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: lighter tone Spanish girls. I want to know if I'm

941
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 1: tripping and has this happened he all before. I'm not

942
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: offended by being pursued emotionally by him. But this is

943
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: low key sucking me up since I've never experienced something

944
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: like this. Sincerely, Mochas Shorty and uh, I want to

945
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 1: read this because me and Mandy can't speak on this.

946
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: Me and Mandy are both lights and girls. What are

947
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: we supposed to say? Oh, Nigga's we already know that.

948
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 1: I mean, there's a prejudice towards black skinned women sometimes

949
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 1: darker skinning sometimes excuse me, And I want to know,

950
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: has that ever happened to you? What explained that? Like,

951
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,359
Speaker 1: what's what's happened to you? You You like, you've you've sucked

952
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 1: a dude and then all of the girls that he

953
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 1: was serious with with lighter skin or um, Well for me,

954
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:40,760
Speaker 1: thank goodness, we didn't get that far. But I've had

955
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 1: gone on a date, gone on several dates with somebody,

956
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: and I realized, like by like I think it was

957
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: like the second date that I was the only black

958
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 1: girl he had dated, and he was black, and he

959
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 1: was just making these type of comments to me, like

960
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, bitch, Like he would make comments

961
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: about my hair or make comments about the things that

962
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: I wore or the music that I listened to or

963
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 1: you know, like and then it's like he tried to

964
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 1: flirt with me following up with that, and it's like, bitch,

965
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: I don't want you can say things to me that

966
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 1: are trying on the opposite end. Um, Like, they'll say

967
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 1: things to me like, oh, you know, yeah you black,

968
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: like you're not as blah blah blah, or your hair

969
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: isn't as or you ain't as loud, and I'm like, oh, yeah, Well,

970
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: I think it ultimately comes down to the fact that

971
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 1: on either end of the spectrum, people are trying to

972
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 1: define black womanhood by one thing and that's not okay, right.

973
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 1: And so whether it's um, you know, light skinned folks

974
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:43,360
Speaker 1: or biracial folks or multiracial folks getting sort of criticized

975
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 1: and told that they're not black enough or they're not

976
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,359
Speaker 1: white enough and they don't belong in either community, right,

977
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,880
Speaker 1: Whether it's that or dark skinned women being held to

978
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 1: ridiculous standards and being told that they're not pretty from

979
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 1: the time that they're six right discussed, it's fucking gross

980
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:57,359
Speaker 1: on both ends. And I think I think you see

981
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: that it's something that that spans both, Like white men

982
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: do this, black men do this, like men do this

983
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: right in terms of trying to define for women and

984
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: for themselves, like what what kind of women are they

985
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 1: allowed to be? Right? And if we see these images

986
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 1: all the time where like lighters go, I mean even

987
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 1: down to music, when music videos were popping, right, it's

988
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: like always the lights popular, It's like there's experience with

989
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 1: wild and now you know what I mean. Like even

990
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,760
Speaker 1: when I was a while not girl, it was like

991
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: I was told like I was not exotic. You know,

992
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 1: I didn't get any shine, any any And I just say,

993
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to jesse, you are so well. I

994
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: didn't feel in that moment on the video with you.

995
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 1: People are like Damne, first of all, I mean, we

996
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: all know you're not that, but I in those moments

997
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 1: I felt ugly. But you know what, what I've realized

998
00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 1: is it's always these things are all started out by

999
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: some dumbass men. Like it's always founded in some dumbass

1000
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: dude who can't even fit the bill of what ideally

1001
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: we want a guy to look like. You know what

1002
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, I remember when I was, um, I

1003
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 1: think in middle school, I had a guy telling me, oh,

1004
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 1: you're pretty, but you know, dark girls aren't in right now, Like,

1005
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 1: I'll never forget that. But I think you see, it

1006
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,720
Speaker 1: comes from I mean it comes from men period, attractive

1007
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: attractive menst anybody else. And I think you know, part

1008
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 1: of the problem is that when women come forward and

1009
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: try and talk about these issues, their lambastad on both sides, right.

1010
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: So who was the There was the afric Latina woman

1011
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 1: she was on like the reality show she's got like

1012
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: the big fro what's her name anyway, the girl from

1013
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 1: love Hip of the Spanish one I'm not a negra,

1014
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:54,840
Speaker 1: the one that wears abuse supply. So like when she

1015
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 1: came forward and started talking about coloris and she received

1016
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,440
Speaker 1: this tremendous feedback, I mean a pushback, right, and it

1017
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 1: was ridiculous because she was saying something that was so

1018
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 1: fucking obvious, and I was to what you mean? But

1019
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,239
Speaker 1: then on the other side, on the side, you still

1020
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 1: have you have Like Kruchi just talked about an interview

1021
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 1: how she for a long time had body issues because

1022
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:21,440
Speaker 1: she felt like she was supposed to have big Here's

1023
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,960
Speaker 1: the thing. People people came at her and said, oh, well,

1024
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 1: you're I hate bitches who complain, pretty bitches who complain

1025
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: about being pretty, like you don't have it hard. But

1026
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 1: it's like, wait a minute. The whole point here is

1027
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:33,359
Speaker 1: that girls, for as long as they are aware of

1028
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:37,320
Speaker 1: themselves as girls, are told not just what they're supposed

1029
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: to look like, but that they don't look like that.

1030
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 1: But whatever, there's you can find any woman can you

1031
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 1: can find any man can find a way to tell

1032
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 1: a woman that she's ugly. And that's part of the problem, right,

1033
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: And that's why I think that there's whether it's the

1034
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: whatever permutation it is, whether it's a black man doing

1035
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 1: this because you know your situation, like he doesn't normally

1036
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,400
Speaker 1: date black girls, or a white guy who's doing this

1037
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: and fetish sizing you and saying, well, you're not really

1038
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: black like you. Basically all that that ship ultimately comes

1039
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: down to the fact that men are so uncomfortable talking

1040
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 1: about women, and really a lot of the guys just

1041
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 1: don't like women. I believe that, right, what they like

1042
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 1: is they like pussy, yeah, right, And the problem is

1043
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 1: that I think that it comes from it comes from homophobias,

1044
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 1: and honestly, life is so much better when you just

1045
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: don't try and tell other people how they're SUPs with

1046
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 1: their life. And you know what I will never understand too,

1047
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 1: going back to my thing as a black man, how

1048
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: are you gonna sit here and tell me? You know so?

1049
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 1: How do you keep up with that thing? You know

1050
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying in reference to my hair? You know

1051
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,720
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like you're downplaying me when I'm looking

1052
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:43,959
Speaker 1: through your Facebook and your mama got the little Beauty

1053
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:48,919
Speaker 1: Supply wigs for ninety nine, the synthetic ones. Don't come

1054
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 1: at me like that, you know what I mean? Like,

1055
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 1: don't come at me like you came out of a

1056
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: black pussy. You know what I feel like? It's it's

1057
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: a very condom that comes from what are you gonna

1058
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:58,839
Speaker 1: do with your hair? When we're in the what are

1059
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 1: you gonna do? It's gonna get bitch, that's what it's

1060
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 1: gonna get. Wet pussy getting a bit on a level

1061
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 1: where I don't mean it like I do mean it

1062
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:11,359
Speaker 1: like this. Look at you, Jesse, right, are you going

1063
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: to assume that my hair is the kind that can't

1064
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 1: get wet? Seriously? You think I'm not going to be

1065
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 1: paying Come on now, I think it's interesting though that unfortunately,

1066
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 1: and I understand why I'm not saying that it's a

1067
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,399
Speaker 1: problem that we're having this conversation. I'm saying that it's

1068
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 1: interesting to me that white people still managed to sort

1069
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,440
Speaker 1: of get skirted to the side in this whole conversation

1070
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 1: because this that that issue would not that issue sort

1071
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 1: of internal to the black community, would not be an

1072
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:38,480
Speaker 1: issue if it was not for the way that white

1073
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 1: culture has has degraded black people and black women, And

1074
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: so for to this girl, um Mocha Shatti, I'll be

1075
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: honest with you, it would really offend me to know

1076
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: I have been in your place as far as men

1077
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 1: leaving me for white girls. And I didn't want to

1078
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: speak on this with Mandy. I really wanted to find

1079
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 1: um or even if we did, I really wanted to

1080
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: find a darker skinned woman to speak on this because

1081
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: I feel like when it happens to me, I don't

1082
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 1: even necessarily think it's me being black. Sometimes I'll say

1083
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 1: I'm too hood, I'm too loud, I'm too ratchet. That's

1084
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 1: what I started thinking. I like, they don't want to

1085
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 1: be with me because that they don't want to be

1086
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: with me because of my tattoos. Like I started making

1087
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 1: it other ship and I couldn't imagine being with a

1088
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:21,520
Speaker 1: black man that went for somebody else. This has only

1089
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 1: happened to me with my white men, which is why

1090
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,440
Speaker 1: I can't really say with white guys, they're going for

1091
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,280
Speaker 1: their own kind. With me. To Moka Shorty, I would say,

1092
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 1: like that is not a healthy person to be involved with.

1093
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 1: Get rid of that. And I would also think that,

1094
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 1: like especially in college, where you know, I'm saying around,

1095
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 1: do whatever you want to have a good time, like

1096
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: there's there's far too many there's far too many great

1097
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 1: guys that she could be messed around now. But I'm

1098
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: gonna leave you with that that that that Zozo must

1099
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 1: be big in African bitch, not the African miss They

1100
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 1: do have big Zozo's and the thing that Zozo will

1101
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 1: touch your heart, that's how big it is. That's the

1102
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: video that we played in the beginning. Really stay away

1103
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: from them, not probably Nigerian. That's a girl. Stay away

1104
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 1: from Nigerian. Dud is up your service. And I had

1105
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:09,839
Speaker 1: sex with a Nigerian nigga last summer and I still

1106
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: think his dick is inside me. I don't remember my body.

1107
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: So you have that DV. That's what I asked you

1108
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 1: on the last that it was double vaginal. Anybody else

1109
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: it was? It was the way that dick was. It

1110
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:26,799
Speaker 1: was double vaginal. Child. Well, do we have another minute

1111
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 1: for a question or no? Alright, quick question because we

1112
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 1: have a man in the room, and uh yeah, this

1113
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 1: question is for Adam, says, Hey, Weezi and Mandy. I'm

1114
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 1: twenty two years old from New York, and I enjoy

1115
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 1: using male toys such as flesh lights while masturbating. I

1116
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: enjoy using fleshlights so much that I really want my

1117
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 1: partners to use them on me. But I feel that

1118
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 1: male sex toys turn a woman off. How do y'all

1119
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 1: think I should go about this? And would you ever?

1120
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 1: Would you guys ever use a flesh toy flash light

1121
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: with your sex partner? So I have can I understand better?

1122
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 1: She's so Jeeves calls it a sleeve? And do you you

1123
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: not know what a fleshlight is. It's like it's like

1124
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 1: a synthetic pussy basically, So it's like a little tube

1125
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 1: and you fuck it and it's got like it's I

1126
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 1: you're supposed to feel like puss. They make ones that

1127
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: are supposed to feel like ask and it has an opening.

1128
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: I thought it was a real flashlight. No, no, flesh

1129
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 1: fleshlight as and it looks like a flashlight, but it's

1130
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 1: a flesh flashlight. I put lights in that day and okay,

1131
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 1: so go ahead. I'm sorry, I'm looking for the video.

1132
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:35,399
Speaker 1: I mean I would say, well, I have never used

1133
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 1: a fleshlight. I don't necessarily see the appeal, but but

1134
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 1: go for him. I think that at the end of

1135
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:43,800
Speaker 1: the day, though, if you are if you are sexually

1136
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: intimate with someone who you do not feel comfortable being

1137
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: open about what you do and don't want to do,

1138
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:50,919
Speaker 1: then you should not be sexually intimate with that person.

1139
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I think it really is.

1140
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 1: I think that we associate sex toys with women and

1141
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:58,400
Speaker 1: that you are a little bit insecure because you're like,

1142
00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,720
Speaker 1: is she gonna think, um, you know, not me, Elena,

1143
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 1: because I have these toys and blah blah blah, And

1144
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: it's this internal fucking things. Yeah, I agree at the

1145
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: end of the day, like you're weird. My thing is

1146
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 1: that before we even get to this, it's like, if

1147
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,600
Speaker 1: you don't feel comfortable talking to like anybody that you're fucking,

1148
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:15,359
Speaker 1: you should be comfortable talking to about thing like this.

1149
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: And if you're not. Maybe that's not the healthiest you know,

1150
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: sexual relationship to be having. Absolutely, you're right. I have

1151
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: used one. Um, I really enjoyed it so like, um,

1152
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 1: it's the sleeve and there's like a pussy opening, so

1153
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 1: like I put it on top of him and like

1154
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:30,800
Speaker 1: we have to find a fixture. Her face is hilarious.

1155
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: You know, I've never I've never used sex toys. Waiting

1156
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 1: on yourself? Why is there a silence in here? I've

1157
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: never used sexy. I'm trying to think of I had.

1158
00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 1: But do you never used like a vibrator anything? What

1159
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: shout out to you? You know what I'm bringing to

1160
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 1: your brunch Sunday? That big he's fuckings although I can

1161
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: find it does please? Are you freaking serious? I'm so serious?

1162
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 1: Why is it? You know what it is? When I

1163
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: was younger, Okay, when I was like when I was

1164
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: I didn't have sex to the college. When I was

1165
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 1: in middle Squai used to get fingered right and like

1166
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: this guy he used to like finger me, and I

1167
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 1: used to go home like yo, let me try this

1168
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: on myself. And I just could never give myself that

1169
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: feeling that he gave me. I can't finger myself like

1170
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: men finger me, but I can definitely, well, I can't. No,

1171
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 1: I just told you, like, holy shit, you haven't had

1172
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: an orgasm in three months? Yeah, Like, if I don't

1173
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 1: know for three days, I'm sorry to come help. Jesse,

1174
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 1: who doesn't masturbate, who hasn't came in three months, he's

1175
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 1: never owned a sex to it? Help? Oh my goodness,

1176
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,360
Speaker 1: three months yo. I legitimately feel like you know what Jesse.

1177
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're doing after, but I'm so

1178
00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: asked me if you want to get some, not even

1179
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 1: you can get and this is ridiculous. Yeah, I've never,

1180
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 1: I've never. I don't know how to please myself. Well,

1181
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 1: I think this is actually a great should be so

1182
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 1: stigmatized for women to masturbate? Why not? It's so relaxing,

1183
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm saying it shouldn't be stigmatized. You use

1184
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 1: a very big word. I don't know. I mean, I

1185
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 1: hear you, and honestly, I think that we may not

1186
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 1: even have enough Like you, she had just mentioned earlier,

1187
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 1: there's not enough porn for her out there, and two

1188
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 1: women to your point, that are enjoying a softer kind

1189
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 1: of porn, isn't fucking out there you click on a

1190
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,360
Speaker 1: horn hose like and that's what my sis said. I

1191
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 1: don't like that. Beat the pussy up. I don't like that.

1192
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 1: I like this stuff before quick question, do you orgasm? Orgasm?

1193
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: Any fingers you are hold on? I want to stop

1194
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,439
Speaker 1: for a second because I think the question is about

1195
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 1: to happen. Have you ever had an orgasm? I had

1196
00:59:54,240 --> 01:00:01,439
Speaker 1: it once? What is this? No? No? Wait, this is great?

1197
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: Can I be a nerd for half a second? Please?

1198
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 1: This is such a great example of like you are

1199
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 1: someone who everybody you know, You've got it going on,

1200
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: You've got this amazing career, you're beautiful, all this other

1201
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 1: stuff like at the end of the day, the fact

1202
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: that female organized orgasms are not a priority or not

1203
01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 1: a given insects the way that they are for men

1204
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: is crazy and this is proof of it. Matt, feel

1205
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: free to cut us off whenever we need to be

1206
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 1: cut off. So, Jesse, we did this, ain't we didn't stop?

1207
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:24,480
Speaker 1: How did you feel about You're not coming? Did you

1208
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: feel like it was his fault? Well? He we like

1209
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: one night like he did he eat you out? Yeah?

1210
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 1: One night? He like that's that was like the goal

1211
01:00:34,440 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: was like to make me do it, and so like

1212
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 1: we we just did all this stuff and you know,

1213
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 1: I don't want to go into detail about what we did,

1214
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 1: but I did do it. Do you think it's because

1215
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: you haven't had enough for play before? I don't know

1216
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 1: if it's that I think that. Do you think that

1217
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 1: someone's always never really paid attention to you like they

1218
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 1: did that night? No, I feel like sex for me

1219
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: is something that's like, you know, I talked about it

1220
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:05,640
Speaker 1: so much, but I have a very bad experience with sex,

1221
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 1: Like I was introduced to sex really really badly, Like

1222
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 1: I was molested as a child, and then like I

1223
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 1: got raped when I was older. So it's like for me,

1224
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:20,440
Speaker 1: I didn't think I've never like you know, it's like

1225
01:01:20,560 --> 01:01:23,200
Speaker 1: something in my mind. It's like when when when it happens,

1226
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,440
Speaker 1: Like my mind is like somewhere else, you know. I

1227
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 1: want to just this opportunity to say that men um

1228
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:32,440
Speaker 1: have said that. So I talked a story about how

1229
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 1: I have been sexually assaulted and um, how the guy

1230
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 1: told me he wanted to see me cry, and people

1231
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,440
Speaker 1: were leaving comments under like this makes no sense. She's

1232
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 1: like saying this one minute and talking about how dirty

1233
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 1: she likes singings in the next and you have the

1234
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 1: same thing you happened to Jesse now has issues with it.

1235
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: Some people can just move on and some people can't.

1236
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 1: My assault didn't make me nasty, and hers didn't make

1237
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 1: her like you know, it's just now. Well, first of all,

1238
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:57,440
Speaker 1: thank you for sharing that. I've shared it before. I

1239
01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:01,000
Speaker 1: actually said, like i've I'm not a podcast. I just

1240
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 1: wanted to. I just wanted to verbalize that. But I

1241
01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 1: think that, um, the the idea that someone's experience of

1242
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 1: trauma or abuse to find them is false, right, And

1243
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:15,320
Speaker 1: so I think that this is a perfect example and

1244
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: and one that demonstrates there are so many ways in

1245
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 1: which I think sex can be incredibly positive. And that's

1246
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 1: part of what this podcast does. It's why it was

1247
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 1: attractive to me in the first place. Like, it wasn't

1248
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:26,840
Speaker 1: just about funny ship. It was that y'all approach sex

1249
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 1: in a way that was respectful of that people have

1250
01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:31,520
Speaker 1: sex in a lot of different ways, right, Um. And

1251
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Speaker 1: it should be positive, it should be affirming. It should

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01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 1: make you feel better about yourself. It should make you

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Speaker 1: feel good about yourself about your ability to make somebody

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Speaker 1: else happy as well. Right. Um, So I'm sorry that

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Speaker 1: that happened, and I hope that that you can be

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Speaker 1: in relationships where your your orgasms, your pleasure, your your

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01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: joy is prioritized just as much as anything. I want

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Speaker 1: to get you up with someone. I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: interviewing you guys will probably hear that interview first with

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Speaker 1: Amelia Ortiz, who does you know who that is? She's

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Speaker 1: so dope. She's like, isn't she a comedy right? No,

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Speaker 1: she's like the She's a Latina chick who's like a bruha.

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Speaker 1: She does like okay, okay ye, But I want to

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Speaker 1: link you up with her because she does wreckie healing,

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Speaker 1: and that I think she does. I'm sorry, but recky

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Speaker 1: healing is when you can clear the energies and your

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Speaker 1: chakras and like really trying to let go and enjoy

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Speaker 1: in the moment because that mental blocks. Orgasms are people

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Speaker 1: are having orgasms without being touched. I was watching I

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Speaker 1: was watching Jada Pinkett the other day say like she

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Speaker 1: had to put a stop to it. She was giving

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Speaker 1: herself like five orgasms, and I was like, that's just

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01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 1: like rich people talking about how they don't know where

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01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 1: to put all their money. They can't the banks can't

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Speaker 1: hold it. I think that's real. I think that that

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Speaker 1: the ways in which somebody's sort of psychological take on

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Speaker 1: sex can impact that the physicality is like the whole point,

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Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And that's why I feel like I

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Speaker 1: still have a connection with Sugar, because he was just

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Speaker 1: that one person who was like, we're going to do

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Speaker 1: this taste. Sometimes you need to take time apart to

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Speaker 1: get back together again, probably, And I wish you all

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Speaker 1: the orgasms from that. Speaking of uh, I've had to

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Speaker 1: speaking of dicks worked close to the end. But I've

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Speaker 1: had a situation where, um, I was with a girl

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Speaker 1: and we were about to have sex, and like I

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Speaker 1: touched her in a way that all of a sudden

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Speaker 1: like sort of legitimately triggers him, and she was like,

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden, her whole demeanor change. I was like, you,

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Speaker 1: are you okay? And she tried to play it all

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Speaker 1: at first. I was like, no, no, wait, are you

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Speaker 1: are you good? Having sexual trauma episode soon? And I

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01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:30,040
Speaker 1: want to bring a doctor on to talk about how

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Speaker 1: this and I'm pointing to my brain and this my

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Speaker 1: post are connected. Yeah, And and we stopped and I

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01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 1: was like, look, like we don't work like where everything's fine.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, like we can just you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: like it's okay, it's you don't have to tell me

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Speaker 1: what happened. You don't have to tell me what any

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Speaker 1: you don't have tell me ship right, just like let's

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Speaker 1: make sure that you're good and we shouldn't be afraid

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Speaker 1: of those kinds of moments and sex. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for sharing the story, and Sam for being so empathetic,

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Speaker 1: especially to have a man in the room and something

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Speaker 1: like that so personal and Alex, can you really the

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Speaker 1: one who brought that up? They're supposed to be coming up? Um, Sam,

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Speaker 1: can you tell people where to find you? Or do

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Speaker 1: you have any projects coming up? Yeah, we got some

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Speaker 1: dope stuff coming up. I'm really excited, especially going into

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Speaker 1: the school year to work with more students on the

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Speaker 1: undergraduate in the high school level. Um, so stay tuned

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Speaker 1: on that. You guys can find me on all the

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Speaker 1: social media's at Sam white out, you can text me

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Speaker 1: three O eight um. And I'm excited. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: saying we might have t shirts coming out soon. I'm

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Speaker 1: seeing and as always be would be great. I want

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Speaker 1: to free one and Jesse, what about you? And now

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Speaker 1: this whon't air in time for brunch for me and

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Speaker 1: you would have had a dope time already. We are

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Speaker 1: going to be at brunch this Sunday for Sister Talk Live.

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Speaker 1: Do you have any more coming up? Yeah? And definitely

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely gonna Doe in Atlanta and I'm definitely gonna

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Speaker 1: start doing like Sister Socials because a lot of guys

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Speaker 1: are like, you don't do anything for guys. So I

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Speaker 1: have a lot of fun stuff coming. Might come. I

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Speaker 1: think it'll be fine for you to come to Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: Our fucking Atlanta show was so it was late. Huh right,

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Speaker 1: it was so Alex came. It was so all the

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Speaker 1: guys was like, oh bitch, you need help with home. Man,

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Speaker 1: you don't know what to do with that as don't listen.

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Speaker 1: I just love Okay. Sorry, yeah, sorry, where do they

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Speaker 1: find you? Oh? Jesse woo that's j E s s

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Speaker 1: I E w o O Underscore on all platforms. Thank

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Speaker 1: you guys for coming. It's another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: They've been on for the second time and hopefully we

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Speaker 1: can have another threesome again. Yes, by everybody,