WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Cheater Freak Out

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<v Speaker 1>Point five looking jubiles Second dat update. The email that

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<v Speaker 1>we got in for today's second date update makes me

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<v Speaker 1>really angry at the Internet. Since the Internet came about,

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<v Speaker 1>it has made it impossible for cheaters. It really has

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<v Speaker 1>like it is just ruined cheating. You know, you log

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<v Speaker 1>on the Facebook and they see your relationship status. Even

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley Madison, which is a website designed for cheaters, will

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<v Speaker 1>get your information out at some point. Can't there just

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<v Speaker 1>be one honest website for cheaters out there? It's just ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>Explain why I say that in just a second. But

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<v Speaker 1>first let's introduce you to today's second dater. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Aaron. Aaron, how are you? I'm okay, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you good? Thank you for your email. We'll get into

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<v Speaker 1>the whole cheating thing in just a second. But you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call a guy named Adam? Yeah? Okay? And

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<v Speaker 1>how did you meet Adam? We actually met at a party.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just chatting with some friends and he actually

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<v Speaker 1>ended up coming up and he hadn't striped up a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and right in front of your friends. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty ballsy movie. Yeah. I was pretty impressed. I thought, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you like elbow your friends out of the way, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>it's time now my conversation, not yours. She's mine. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>he was really like fun about it. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>excuse me, ladies, this is a beautiful girl. I would

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<v Speaker 1>love to chat with her, like steal her away for

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<v Speaker 1>a second. That's really I know. I was really impressed.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, okay, had you been eyeing him

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<v Speaker 1>all night too? No? No, I actually didn't see him

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<v Speaker 1>prior to that, but once I did, I was like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's cute. So what did you guys talk about? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we just chatted about like what we do for living.

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<v Speaker 1>So your email said that you guys went out for dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>How did that go? We again, had wonderful conversation, no laws,

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<v Speaker 1>no awk moments. It was a Wednesday night, so we

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<v Speaker 1>both have worked the next morning, so there's no like sleepover.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not that kind of girl. I read your email.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, so you obviously know why this guy's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. Yes I do. Unfortunately I let my

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<v Speaker 1>emotions get the best of me, that's for sure. So

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<v Speaker 1>I looked him up online and I come across his

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook page and I see on his profile his profile

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<v Speaker 1>picture is like him and a girl and he's like

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<v Speaker 1>whispering into the girl's ear and they're like both laughing,

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<v Speaker 1>and they look like to me, it looked like he

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<v Speaker 1>had a girlfriend, and I was immediately suspicious. Well yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And so I was really mad because I have a

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<v Speaker 1>history of people cheating on me. Plus, how dare he

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<v Speaker 1>like go and have a date with somebody else when

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<v Speaker 1>he might be with this girl, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 1>felt bad for the girl. So I called him up

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<v Speaker 1>immediately and freaked out because I was like, how dare

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<v Speaker 1>you invite me on a date? And so you called

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<v Speaker 1>him up and yelled at him? Oh yes, did you

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<v Speaker 1>cuss at him and stuff like that? Ah? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was just mad. It was just so angry. I really

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<v Speaker 1>let him have it. What did he say when you

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<v Speaker 1>were yelling at him? Though? I mean, you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>out on one date? Because I was yelling so much,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even let him get a word in. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how angry I was. So did you ever ask him

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<v Speaker 1>like do you have a girlfriend? To make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>he actually did? No? Because I was just like how

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<v Speaker 1>I just was freaking out? So you just called him up?

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<v Speaker 1>As for the phone he was like hello, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>like you cheating after Yeah, kind of, I just freaked out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm really trust me. I am really mad at

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<v Speaker 1>myself for it because I actually like him, and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't give him a chance to explain, and now now

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<v Speaker 1>he won't pick up my call. Do you know that

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<v Speaker 1>that girl in the picture wasn't his girlfriend or something?

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<v Speaker 1>Or you still don't? You still have no idea who

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<v Speaker 1>that is? I have no idea. With the world of Facebook,

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<v Speaker 1>everything else is private except that picture. I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>know because his sister. It could have been a girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>it could have been a friend. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel really bad that I yelled at him instead

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<v Speaker 1>of giving him a chance and listening to what he

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<v Speaker 1>had to say to Yeah, that probably would have been

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<v Speaker 1>a better option to at least go hey, question for

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<v Speaker 1>you to have a girlfriend? Not as soon as the answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Just call him a cheater and a liar. And have

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<v Speaker 1>you tried to apologize since? Yeah? Oh of course, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, those lengthy texts and I tried to call,

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<v Speaker 1>but no answer. And I am really really mad at

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<v Speaker 1>myself for letting my emotions get the best to me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how you seem though, right, like you seem

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<v Speaker 1>crazy crazy because you guys went on one day. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know and you can't really, I mean, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to come back from that? If he

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<v Speaker 1>in fact single? I don't know, but I think I

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<v Speaker 1>can apologize and leave him in the driver position in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of if we could get a second date, and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you can explain to him that you've been cheated

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<v Speaker 1>on before. And so you jump the gun exactly like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's both has this out because I'm so sorry

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<v Speaker 1>I reached out. But all right, well we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call him and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thank you, hang on looking cubile. In the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron is on the phone with us today to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update. She wants to call a dude

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<v Speaker 1>named Adam that she met at a party. Aaron, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to ask you real quick before we get into this.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you notice if Adam is a strong man? Like

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<v Speaker 1>is he strong? Does he look like he's got like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, muscles, and I mean he was lean? Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just wondering because I'm assuming if he does go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you again, he's gonna need to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to carry a lot of baggage. Okay, I'm not crazy one,

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<v Speaker 1>I just okay. If you're just tuning in for the

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, Aaron is on the phone because she

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date with Adam, but after the date,

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<v Speaker 1>she stocked his Facebook and there was a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>him with another girl. It looked like it could have

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<v Speaker 1>been his girlfriend. She freaked out, called him, yelled at him,

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<v Speaker 1>called him a cheater, then hung up on him, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even get to hear his side of the story. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's the last she's ever talked to him. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call him the day one, find out if that

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<v Speaker 1>was his girlfriend, to let you try to apologize if

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't his girlfriend, and three somehow see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can get another date for you. Thank you. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial the phone of him right now and

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<v Speaker 1>see what he says. Try not to yell at him

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<v Speaker 1>before we get the information out. All right, Hi, can

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to Adam? Please? Yeah? Adam, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>from what Brooke and Jewil in the Morning The radio show?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah a radio show? Yeah? Did I wake you up? Oh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I can't do a radio show. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't do a radio No, I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>do a radio show. I want to just I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>from a radio show and I just want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you for a second. I don't know, man, smart,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I haven't. What did you say? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you you're a radio show? Yes? I mean somebody send

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<v Speaker 1>us an email about you and asked if we could

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone and talk to you for

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<v Speaker 1>a few minutes about something. Okay, wait, what is it?

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<v Speaker 1>What we do on our show called the second Date Update. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out on a date with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>then end up not calling them back after that date,

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<v Speaker 1>they have us see if we can get you on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and ask what went wrong? Oh, okay, the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that wanted me to call you today knows what

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<v Speaker 1>went wrong after the date, but she wanted me to

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can get you on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>kind of smooth things over. And what girls Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Aaron. You probably remember because she recently yelled at

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<v Speaker 1>you and called you a cheater and then hung up

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<v Speaker 1>on it. Man, I don't I don't think I can

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<v Speaker 1>deal with that. You just talked to us for a

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<v Speaker 1>few minutes about the date, because it's got to be weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just curious, from like a guy's perspective, how weird

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<v Speaker 1>that is. You got on a date with a girl

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<v Speaker 1>one time and then she gets home and starts yelling

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<v Speaker 1>at you and calling you a cheater. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know what happened there, like she I mean, she called

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<v Speaker 1>up and then she just started screaming at me. Did

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<v Speaker 1>she explain why she thought you were a cheater? It

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty hard to tell. There was a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of cuss work going at race. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you why she did that. She said, after the date,

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<v Speaker 1>she went to your Facebook page and saw a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of you, like cut it up with some girl, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she just flipped out and thought that you must

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<v Speaker 1>be cheating on that girl or trying to get a

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<v Speaker 1>date with her when you were in a relationship. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that true? Don't I don't know what. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what that girls deal was, man't. So I'm assuming that's

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<v Speaker 1>why you don't want to go out with her again,

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<v Speaker 1>because she says she's tried to apologize to you. I mean, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what's what's the point man? If that's if that's what's

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<v Speaker 1>going to happen. I don't want to That's understandable. If

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<v Speaker 1>a girl called me up after a first date and

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<v Speaker 1>yelled at me for being a cheater when she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know the story, I would be a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>apprehensive about dating her. Yeah, I'm not. I'm just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not in the mood to be going out with girls

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I'm just take a little break, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't you want to just like hear what she has

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<v Speaker 1>to say, though, let her apologize. Maybe. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it's just not really perfect. Oh, it's good that

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<v Speaker 1>it's good that you say that, because she's actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening. What Yeah, yeah, Adam, Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really sorry. I can't believe I overacted like that. Wait, wait, hold,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, hold on, you're on the other line, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's what's going on? Oh? I was trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you, and this seemed to be the

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<v Speaker 1>only way I could get a hold of you. And

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to just explain myself, and have you explained yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>because I obviously wasn't listening the other night, and I

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<v Speaker 1>really wanted to apologize for that. Oh my God, So

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<v Speaker 1>what do you have to say to her? Apology? Adam?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you don't. You don't have to apologize, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're right, I am. I am a cheater,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean I have cheated. I didn't cheat on you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean after one date? What is that? But okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well then who's that picture with on your Facebook? The

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<v Speaker 1>picture that's just some goal? Oh okay, I didn't whatever

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<v Speaker 1>that means after one date. But I have cheated on

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<v Speaker 1>a number of girls before, like a lot of girls.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm confused. What are you confused about? I cheat?

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<v Speaker 1>I get bored, like I get bored with one girl

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<v Speaker 1>in white cheat. So that was your girlfriend and you

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<v Speaker 1>were cheating? No, I wasn't, but I would after that call,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably would have cheated on you, but it wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have mattered, Like I would have found a season, I

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<v Speaker 1>would have found another girl. You're right to not would

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<v Speaker 1>date me. It's okay, I get it. Why can't you

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<v Speaker 1>just tell me this? Why couldn't you just pick up

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<v Speaker 1>the phone or enter my text and just be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>actually I'm not into this. No, I mean I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was into you, but i'm and I still kind

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<v Speaker 1>of am but I think I would eventually cheat on you,

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<v Speaker 1>so at least you're being honest, Adam. I'm so confused

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<v Speaker 1>that you haven't cheated on her, but you know you

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<v Speaker 1>will in the future, and that's why you can't go

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date with her. Yeah, definitely not that,

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<v Speaker 1>Not that I really want you anyways, because it seems

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<v Speaker 1>like that's how you see and treat women, and that's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>So look, I have cheated over thirty times with different girls,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just I get bored and I hook up

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<v Speaker 1>with some random girl at a bar, and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm going to do it again. So so

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<v Speaker 1>you sort of preemptively not calling her back because you

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<v Speaker 1>know that you would date her and then end up

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<v Speaker 1>cheating on her. That's actually kind of nice of you,

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<v Speaker 1>in a very weird and immature way, it really is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, at least he's telling you now so that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't get cheated on, especially if you've been cheated

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<v Speaker 1>on before. Aaron, Yeah, yeah, yeah, glad, I wrote a

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<v Speaker 1>whole email and took the time to call you. But Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>why not just go on dates then and hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with girls and have a good time and just be

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<v Speaker 1>honest that you can't be in a relationship with them.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think I think I just have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem. It's probably just more fun and exciting when

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<v Speaker 1>you're in the relationship to Oh my god, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you proud of the cheating? Because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily sound proud of it. It's just a part of

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<v Speaker 1>who I am. I don't know. I get bored. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't also sound remorseful either, like you're in this matter

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<v Speaker 1>of fact way, this is it? Yeah, I mean, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you want me to do? I'm just a cheater

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess she called me out on it before

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<v Speaker 1>I had a chance to cheat on her. So all right,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, I would love to ask, if you

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<v Speaker 1>will go out on another date with Aaron, we'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Well, I don't know how it works, like

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<v Speaker 1>do you give a gift card or like some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of like some sort of trip or something. But because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I'm gonna take her, I might

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<v Speaker 1>take someone else. Just pay for your date with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>at random. I'm just being honest, man, Like that's how

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<v Speaker 1>this that's how this goes. Oh my god, I cannot

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<v Speaker 1>leave this right now. Basally aaron I. Guess it goes

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<v Speaker 1>to show you just trust your gut the next time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're all ripping on you for calling him up and

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<v Speaker 1>just assuming that he was cheating and yelling at him.

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<v Speaker 1>But from now on, any guy you date feel free

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<v Speaker 1>to yell at him whenever you want, because you are correct.

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<v Speaker 1>Broken jewel in the morning,