1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: Point five looking jubiles Second dat update. The email that 2 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: we got in for today's second date update makes me 3 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: really angry at the Internet. Since the Internet came about, 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: it has made it impossible for cheaters. It really has 5 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 1: like it is just ruined cheating. You know, you log 6 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: on the Facebook and they see your relationship status. Even 7 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: Ashley Madison, which is a website designed for cheaters, will 8 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: get your information out at some point. Can't there just 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: be one honest website for cheaters out there? It's just ridiculous. 10 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: Explain why I say that in just a second. But 11 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,520 Speaker 1: first let's introduce you to today's second dater. Her name 12 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: is Aaron. Aaron, how are you? I'm okay, how are 13 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: you good? Thank you for your email. We'll get into 14 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: the whole cheating thing in just a second. But you 15 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 1: want to call a guy named Adam? Yeah? Okay? And 16 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: how did you meet Adam? We actually met at a party. 17 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: I was just chatting with some friends and he actually 18 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: ended up coming up and he hadn't striped up a 19 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 1: conversation and right in front of your friends. That's that's 20 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: pretty ballsy movie. Yeah. I was pretty impressed. I thought, Okay, 21 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: did you like elbow your friends out of the way, like, hey, 22 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: it's time now my conversation, not yours. She's mine. No, no, no, 23 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: he was really like fun about it. He was like, 24 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 1: excuse me, ladies, this is a beautiful girl. I would 25 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: love to chat with her, like steal her away for 26 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: a second. That's really I know. I was really impressed. 27 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, okay, had you been eyeing him 28 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: all night too? No? No, I actually didn't see him 29 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: prior to that, but once I did, I was like, oh, yeah, 30 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:46,839 Speaker 1: he's cute. So what did you guys talk about? Um, 31 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: we just chatted about like what we do for living. 32 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: So your email said that you guys went out for dinner. 33 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: How did that go? We again, had wonderful conversation, no laws, 34 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: no awk moments. It was a Wednesday night, so we 35 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: both have worked the next morning, so there's no like sleepover. 36 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: And I'm not that kind of girl. I read your email. 37 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so you obviously know why this guy's not 38 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: calling you back. Yes I do. Unfortunately I let my 39 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: emotions get the best of me, that's for sure. So 40 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: I looked him up online and I come across his 41 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: Facebook page and I see on his profile his profile 42 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 1: picture is like him and a girl and he's like 43 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,519 Speaker 1: whispering into the girl's ear and they're like both laughing, 44 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: and they look like to me, it looked like he 45 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: had a girlfriend, and I was immediately suspicious. Well yeah, yeah, 46 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: And so I was really mad because I have a 47 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: history of people cheating on me. Plus, how dare he 48 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: like go and have a date with somebody else when 49 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: he might be with this girl, you know, like I 50 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: felt bad for the girl. So I called him up 51 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: immediately and freaked out because I was like, how dare 52 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: you invite me on a date? And so you called 53 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: him up and yelled at him? Oh yes, did you 54 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,519 Speaker 1: cuss at him and stuff like that? Ah? Yeah, I 55 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: was just mad. It was just so angry. I really 56 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: let him have it. What did he say when you 57 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: were yelling at him? Though? I mean, you guys went 58 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: out on one date? Because I was yelling so much, 59 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,119 Speaker 1: I didn't even let him get a word in. That's 60 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: how angry I was. So did you ever ask him 61 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: like do you have a girlfriend? To make sure that 62 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: he actually did? No? Because I was just like how 63 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: I just was freaking out? So you just called him up? 64 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: As for the phone he was like hello, and you're 65 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: like you cheating after Yeah, kind of, I just freaked out, 66 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: and I'm really trust me. I am really mad at 67 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: myself for it because I actually like him, and I 68 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: didn't give him a chance to explain, and now now 69 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 1: he won't pick up my call. Do you know that 70 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: that girl in the picture wasn't his girlfriend or something? 71 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: Or you still don't? You still have no idea who 72 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: that is? I have no idea. With the world of Facebook, 73 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: everything else is private except that picture. I really don't 74 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: know because his sister. It could have been a girlfriend, 75 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 1: it could have been a friend. I don't know. I 76 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,359 Speaker 1: just feel really bad that I yelled at him instead 77 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: of giving him a chance and listening to what he 78 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:26,919 Speaker 1: had to say to Yeah, that probably would have been 79 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: a better option to at least go hey, question for 80 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 1: you to have a girlfriend? Not as soon as the answers. 81 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: Just call him a cheater and a liar. And have 82 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: you tried to apologize since? Yeah? Oh of course, I mean, 83 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: you know, those lengthy texts and I tried to call, 84 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: but no answer. And I am really really mad at 85 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: myself for letting my emotions get the best to me. 86 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 1: You know how you seem though, right, like you seem 87 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:55,359 Speaker 1: crazy crazy because you guys went on one day. Okay, 88 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: but you know and you can't really, I mean, how 89 00:04:58,360 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: are you going to come back from that? If he 90 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 1: in fact single? I don't know, but I think I 91 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: can apologize and leave him in the driver position in 92 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: terms of if we could get a second date, and 93 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 1: maybe you can explain to him that you've been cheated 94 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: on before. And so you jump the gun exactly like, 95 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: let's let's both has this out because I'm so sorry 96 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 1: I reached out. But all right, well we'll play a song, 97 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: come back, call him and get your second date update. 98 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: All right, thank you, hang on looking cubile. In the morning, 99 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: Aaron is on the phone with us today to do 100 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: a second date update. She wants to call a dude 101 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 1: named Adam that she met at a party. Aaron, I 102 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: have to ask you real quick before we get into this. 103 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:48,919 Speaker 1: Did you notice if Adam is a strong man? Like 104 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 1: is he strong? Does he look like he's got like, 105 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: you know, muscles, and I mean he was lean? Okay, Well, 106 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: I'm just wondering because I'm assuming if he does go 107 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: out with you again, he's gonna need to be able 108 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: to carry a lot of baggage. Okay, I'm not crazy one, 109 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: I just okay. If you're just tuning in for the 110 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 1: second date update, Aaron is on the phone because she 111 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: went out on a date with Adam, but after the date, 112 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: she stocked his Facebook and there was a picture of 113 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: him with another girl. It looked like it could have 114 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: been his girlfriend. She freaked out, called him, yelled at him, 115 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: called him a cheater, then hung up on him, didn't 116 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 1: even get to hear his side of the story. And 117 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: that's the last she's ever talked to him. So we're 118 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: gonna call him the day one, find out if that 119 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 1: was his girlfriend, to let you try to apologize if 120 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 1: it wasn't his girlfriend, and three somehow see if we 121 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: can get another date for you. Thank you. All right, Well, 122 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial the phone of him right now and 123 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: see what he says. Try not to yell at him 124 00:06:46,800 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: before we get the information out. All right, Hi, can 125 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: I speak to Adam? Please? Yeah? Adam, how are you? 126 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Um, 127 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: from what Brooke and Jewil in the Morning The radio show? 128 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: Yeah a radio show? Yeah? Did I wake you up? Oh? Yeah, 129 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. I can't do a radio show. You 130 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: can't do a radio No, I don't want you to 131 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: do a radio show. I want to just I'm calling 132 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: from a radio show and I just want to talk 133 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: to you for a second. I don't know, man, smart, 134 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: I don't think I haven't. What did you say? Are 135 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 1: you you're a radio show? Yes? I mean somebody send 136 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: us an email about you and asked if we could 137 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: get you on the phone and talk to you for 138 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: a few minutes about something. Okay, wait, what is it? 139 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: What we do on our show called the second Date Update. Basically, 140 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: if you go out on a date with somebody and 141 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: then end up not calling them back after that date, 142 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: they have us see if we can get you on 143 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: the phone and ask what went wrong? Oh, okay, the 144 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: girl that wanted me to call you today knows what 145 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 1: went wrong after the date, but she wanted me to 146 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: see if we can get you on the phone and 147 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: kind of smooth things over. And what girls Her name 148 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: is Aaron. You probably remember because she recently yelled at 149 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: you and called you a cheater and then hung up 150 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:36,199 Speaker 1: on it. Man, I don't I don't think I can 151 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: deal with that. You just talked to us for a 152 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: few minutes about the date, because it's got to be weird. 153 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: I'm just curious, from like a guy's perspective, how weird 154 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 1: that is. You got on a date with a girl 155 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 1: one time and then she gets home and starts yelling 156 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 1: at you and calling you a cheater. I don't even 157 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: know what happened there, like she I mean, she called 158 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: up and then she just started screaming at me. Did 159 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: she explain why she thought you were a cheater? It 160 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: was pretty hard to tell. There was a lot of 161 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: there's a lot of cuss work going at race. I'll 162 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: tell you why she did that. She said, after the date, 163 00:09:08,679 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: she went to your Facebook page and saw a picture 164 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: of you, like cut it up with some girl, and 165 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: then she just flipped out and thought that you must 166 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:15,959 Speaker 1: be cheating on that girl or trying to get a 167 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:17,599 Speaker 1: date with her when you were in a relationship. Is 168 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: that true? Don't I don't know what. I don't know 169 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 1: what that girls deal was, man't. So I'm assuming that's 170 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 1: why you don't want to go out with her again, 171 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 1: because she says she's tried to apologize to you. I mean, well, 172 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: what's what's the point man? If that's if that's what's 173 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: going to happen. I don't want to That's understandable. If 174 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: a girl called me up after a first date and 175 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: yelled at me for being a cheater when she didn't 176 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 1: even know the story, I would be a little bit 177 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: apprehensive about dating her. Yeah, I'm not. I'm just I'm 178 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: not in the mood to be going out with girls 179 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: right now. I'm just take a little break, I think. 180 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 1: Wouldn't you want to just like hear what she has 181 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: to say, though, let her apologize. Maybe. I mean, I 182 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 1: guess it's just not really perfect. Oh, it's good that 183 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 1: it's good that you say that, because she's actually on 184 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: the other line listening. What Yeah, yeah, Adam, Yeah, I'm 185 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: really sorry. I can't believe I overacted like that. Wait, wait, hold, 186 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, you're on the other line, Like, 187 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: what's what's going on? Oh? I was trying to get 188 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: a hold of you, and this seemed to be the 189 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: only way I could get a hold of you. And 190 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 1: I wanted to just explain myself, and have you explained yourself, 191 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: because I obviously wasn't listening the other night, and I 192 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 1: really wanted to apologize for that. Oh my God, So 193 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: what do you have to say to her? Apology? Adam? 194 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: I mean you don't. You don't have to apologize, you know. 195 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: I mean, you're right, I am. I am a cheater, 196 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: but I mean I have cheated. I didn't cheat on you. 197 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: I mean after one date? What is that? But okay, 198 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: well then who's that picture with on your Facebook? The 199 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 1: picture that's just some goal? Oh okay, I didn't whatever 200 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 1: that means after one date. But I have cheated on 201 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 1: a number of girls before, like a lot of girls. 202 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: So I'm confused. What are you confused about? I cheat? 203 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:32,839 Speaker 1: I get bored, like I get bored with one girl 204 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 1: in white cheat. So that was your girlfriend and you 205 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: were cheating? No, I wasn't, but I would after that call, 206 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: I probably would have cheated on you, but it wouldn't 207 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 1: have mattered, Like I would have found a season, I 208 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:47,240 Speaker 1: would have found another girl. You're right to not would 209 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: date me. It's okay, I get it. Why can't you 210 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: just tell me this? Why couldn't you just pick up 211 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: the phone or enter my text and just be like, hey, 212 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: actually I'm not into this. No, I mean I was. 213 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: I was into you, but i'm and I still kind 214 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: of am but I think I would eventually cheat on you, 215 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: so at least you're being honest, Adam. I'm so confused 216 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 1: that you haven't cheated on her, but you know you 217 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: will in the future, and that's why you can't go 218 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: out on another date with her. Yeah, definitely not that, 219 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: Not that I really want you anyways, because it seems 220 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:30,479 Speaker 1: like that's how you see and treat women, and that's disgusting. 221 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 1: So look, I have cheated over thirty times with different girls, 222 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: and it's just I get bored and I hook up 223 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: with some random girl at a bar, and then you know, 224 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 1: I know I'm going to do it again. So so 225 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: you sort of preemptively not calling her back because you 226 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: know that you would date her and then end up 227 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: cheating on her. That's actually kind of nice of you, 228 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: in a very weird and immature way, it really is. 229 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: I mean, at least he's telling you now so that 230 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: you don't get cheated on, especially if you've been cheated 231 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 1: on before. Aaron, Yeah, yeah, yeah, glad, I wrote a 232 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 1: whole email and took the time to call you. But Adam, 233 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 1: why not just go on dates then and hang out 234 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 1: with girls and have a good time and just be 235 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: honest that you can't be in a relationship with them. 236 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I think I just have 237 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: a problem. It's probably just more fun and exciting when 238 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 1: you're in the relationship to Oh my god, I don't know. 239 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: So are you proud of the cheating? Because you don't 240 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: necessarily sound proud of it. It's just a part of 241 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 1: who I am. I don't know. I get bored. You 242 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: don't also sound remorseful either, like you're in this matter 243 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: of fact way, this is it? Yeah, I mean, what 244 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: do you want me to do? I'm just a cheater 245 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: and I guess she called me out on it before 246 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: I had a chance to cheat on her. So all right, 247 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: at this point, I would love to ask, if you 248 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 1: will go out on another date with Aaron, we'll pay 249 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 1: for it. Well, I don't know how it works, like 250 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: do you give a gift card or like some sort 251 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: of like some sort of trip or something. But because 252 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm gonna take her, I might 253 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: take someone else. Just pay for your date with somebody 254 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 1: at random. I'm just being honest, man, Like that's how 255 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: this that's how this goes. Oh my god, I cannot 256 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: leave this right now. Basally aaron I. Guess it goes 257 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 1: to show you just trust your gut the next time. Yeah, 258 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 1: we're all ripping on you for calling him up and 259 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: just assuming that he was cheating and yelling at him. 260 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 1: But from now on, any guy you date feel free 261 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: to yell at him whenever you want, because you are correct. 262 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 1: Broken jewel in the morning,