1 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: All right, This is from Leandra in Little Rock. Leandre says, 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. I 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: had an outpatient procedure recently of a feminine nature, so 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: I wasn't able to have sex for three weeks. During 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: those three weeks, my boyfriend started pleasuring himself while he 6 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 1: was lying next to me. I was mortified. Yeah, I 7 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: was mortified, but I acted like I was asleep every time. 8 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: It's been a month and we still haven't talked about it. 9 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: I think he should have told me he was going 10 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 1: to do that before he started doing it. At least 11 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: prepare me for it, right. I'm also worried that he 12 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: couldn't go three weeks without sex. Is this normal for 13 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:46,559 Speaker 1: most men? Should I talk to him about it or not? 14 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: Well, now, let's be honest. You you had a procedure. 15 00:00:54,840 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: Well he didn't, but you well in capacity tate it 16 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: or out of it for three weeks. Yeah, he wasn't. 17 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 2: He didn't. The doctor didn't tell him that. 18 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: But it's only three weeks, though, what's the big deal? 19 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's and and depending on how old you are, Yeah, 20 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 2: that's it's only three weeks. It's just three weeks. And 21 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 2: you're young. Yeah, like three weeks for me right now? 22 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 2: Nothing easy. Hey, hey see you in March, all right, 23 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, but you know, if you're young man, 24 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: three weeks is a long time. 25 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're young. 26 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you still over there, you still fine, you know, 27 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 2: so you know it's not the three weeks is a 28 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 2: long time. And I think you're being a bit hard 29 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 2: on yourself and him because at least he was home. 30 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: Silver lining. 31 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, he wasn't not there in them streets. I think 32 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 2: that's a good thing. You got a man that at 33 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 2: least stay with you. 34 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,239 Speaker 1: Well, I mean they could communicate, they can talk about it, 35 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: they can talk about the intimacy issue, and that she. 36 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 2: Was under well. 37 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 3: I don't know. 38 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: Physically. 39 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 2: We're not cutting for three weeks. 40 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: To talk to the door. 41 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 2: We talked to the doctor. 42 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: Why is it three weeks? Because it is she is 43 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 1: to heal, heal with her what's wrong with her. Yeah, 44 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,959 Speaker 1: she had a procedure of a feminine nature. 45 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, understand that. And you can't do that. So I 46 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 2: understand that, and you got to respect that. But then 47 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: me get the young ladies out there a couple of tips. 48 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 2: If you're don't have a medical procedure. You're gonna have 49 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: to start wearing medical procedure clothes. 50 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: To be oh gosh, no, se. 51 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, come up in there with them super thick thermalt 52 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: gamas and a rope. Yeah, them thick socks. Y'all. Well, 53 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 2: you know, wrap your head up, look like you got 54 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 2: to come to bed looking like you had done had 55 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 2: a medical procedure. That's what I'm saying. 56 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: Every day for three. 57 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: Weeks and you know, wear a mask and everything you have, 58 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 2: put that little Q cup of masks on your face 59 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 2: where you. 60 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 3: Just show your eyes, go to bed looking like that. 61 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh, or just stay at the hospital for 62 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 2: three weeks and then and. 63 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: Got that kind of money. 64 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 2: Ain't gonna see some dragging all that home. 65 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,119 Speaker 1: Just stay at the hospital. We don't have healthcare as 66 00:03:55,160 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: it is. It's crazy at wrong And sir, don't let 67 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: Tommy say nothing else. Get your nephew, Steve. Get your nephew. 68 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: So you're probably quiet. 69 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 3: No, I'm not. I don't. I don't want to participate 70 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 3: in this because I'm telling you right now three weeks 71 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 3: is just to stay at the time for over here. 72 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,280 Speaker 3: When you get mad, I can come to number. I 73 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 3: don't even want to talk about this. That'll come the 74 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 3: number when you get mad. As soon as I said 75 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 3: I do, I didn't know it was gonna be three weeks. 76 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: I did not pardon. 77 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 2: Plus Junior ain't gotten nohing to say because he's the 78 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 2: one always in the. 79 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 1: Un I gotta coming over the coming up in twenty 80 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we will have more of this 81 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:44,799 Speaker 1: ignorant show. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 82 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.